friedpaco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Are shit tests conscious or do they come from the subconscious		friedpaco	/r/seduction	26/02/20 02:34 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to transition from texting about school work to sex? Stop texting	/r/seduction	17/02/22 02:00 PM
2	[Question] How to deal with "White Knights"? Be friendly and outgoing. Buy a round of shots for everyone. Finish up and ask the girl to check out another spot with you.	/r/seduction	15/02/22 04:07 AM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Self improvement, confidence and not giving a fukk	/r/seduction	19/10/21 12:54 PM
0	Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakey Move on. She’s probably busy with work or bouncing around with some other dudes. Talk to more girls and if she hits you up, you can take it from there or pass on her. But for now, move on	/r/seduction	18/10/21 02:57 AM
1	Is online dating a waste of time for guys? I use irl and old. I’m much better in person so when I match on an app, I send a few witty messages and get em off the app and onto the phone or in person as quickly and in as few messages as possible.	/r/seduction	03/08/21 01:00 PM
1	How many of you have actually been out here getting lots of dates during this pandemic? I mostly did OLD. Been doing some more day game where possible. Had few dates and meet ups for walks or drinks outside and took it from there. Even had a few come straight over for burgers on my new grill during the lockdown. The girls going out are the fun ones. If they aren’t move on.	/r/seduction	21/12/20 01:21 AM
4	She is going home for a few weeks after our first date, should I keep texting her? She has your number. Let her reach out. In the meantime go out and talk to/meet other girls. If you don’t hear from her until January reach out with a plan for date #2 or just move on.	/r/seduction	21/12/20 01:19 AM
0	Dating feels exactly like sales. Some sales tactics will only work on specific types of people, and if you decide to engage with your customer in a way that lacks ethics and principles, then you will only attract people who are either vulnerable, or who lack ethics and principles themselves. I 100% agree. Interestingly enough I’ve employed some seduction tactics to sales which have also paid off, like push pull, etc	/r/seduction	22/11/20 04:14 PM
6	Decided to call to set up a date instead of text, I feel like it made a big difference! Has anyone else tried calling instead of texting? I use hinge. Like a photo, send some funny/relevant emojis with the like. Get a match/reply. Offer a witty comment. Gauge interest on the response. Ask for a number to setup plans and call to arrange. Usually no more than 5-7 messages and no more than 5 mins on the phone. Has worked pretty well thus far.	/r/seduction	06/11/20 06:36 AM
3	How do you keep an abundance mentality in a relationship? Just knowing that if this one doesn’t work out, you can get another girl should give you the confidence and abundance mentality.	/r/seduction	07/10/20 04:01 AM
3	Why almost having sex with a woman on a first time generally means no second time I've had this a few times. I recently got around it. Girl came over during Rona on the first date. We talked and hung out. Made it up to the bedroom and after about 30 mins she left. I reached out 2 days later and got a half reply. Waited a week and messaged again. She texted that she was "really drunk" and not to expect that again. I told her I thought she was cool and to let me know when she's free. We hung out later that week and went on for a bit.	/r/seduction	06/10/20 12:39 AM
2	What are needy guys in fear of? It comes from the fear that you cannot find/meet another girl, so you need this one. That missing confidence and that need to keep her makes you needy. Develop confidence and know there's someone else you'll connect with will make you not needy.	/r/seduction	17/09/20 12:34 PM
1	Help? I'd let her reach out and attempt to arrange something with you	/r/seduction	10/08/20 12:20 AM
1	Help? I went through something similar with one girl while being casual with another. I ended up losing the one I liked last week. Onto the next. Anyway looking back I note 2 things. 1. If a girl wants to be around you, she'll make it easy, reach out and be available. 2. Pullback and let her chase. If you chase or push too hard you'll drive her away. Normally I'd suggest being with other girls but that didnt help me here. Lesson learned.	/r/seduction	09/08/20 10:21 PM
1	Need help texting a girl from hinge Ask her to meet you outside your favorite bar and grab some drinks from a convince store near by and go for a walk. I probably did that 5+ times during all this and it’s worked wonderfully. One girl was awful so I called it early and brought home 4 beers from the sixer. Good trade. Maybe stop n grab an ice cream if there’s something in the area. If she’s cool and you’re into her make your move. Invite her over or set up the next date at the end of your walk.	/r/seduction	28/07/20 01:43 AM
1	"I'm down" Sounds very positive and “fuck yes” to me	/r/seduction	12/07/20 09:57 PM
1	I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person. Changed up my OLD profile and opening approach recently. A few fun and adventurous pics. A witty line about breaking rules. Open (hinge) with a few random emojis. A few playful messages. Grab a number, give her a call. One meetup and I can usually tell the girl is into me. But its not the same as cold approach. Cannot wait to get back to normal and do some cold approaches. But for now, this will do.	/r/seduction	08/07/20 02:49 AM
2	Should I use emoticons while texting? I use them sparingly for girls i already know, have a number or have been out with. I use them often (and randomly/funnily) in the first few messages in OLD as it seems to get some attention.	/r/seduction	05/07/20 01:42 PM
2	Date Ideas during COVID? Walks. To go drinks. Picnic with sandwiches. Invite over for cooking. There are endless possibilities. Curfew is probably not seriously enforced if you have a car. If she gives hesitation do a quick 5-10 min phone date then invite over.	/r/seduction	03/07/20 03:36 AM
3	How to separate yourself? Basically this is the book to follow right here in my experience. Well said!	/r/seduction	29/06/20 02:32 AM
1	Very powerful post about the lockdowns, a must read for every guy right now. This was me to a T. My lockdown wasn’t so bad. Worked hard from home, used the hours wisely on self improvement and reading. Then used the apps to meet some new girls made it not so lonely. It’s certainly not pre-lockdown but it was a very positive experience for me. I had a post in another thread where everyone called me out - whiners.	/r/seduction	27/06/20 05:27 AM
35	Being Single During COViD It’s been great for me. The adventurous girls are going out. Plus there’s not much to do so I use the apps. A few silly messages, ask for a number, call and setup a date at my place for some grilling, wine & a movie. It’s worked a bunch.	/r/seduction	24/06/20 04:36 AM
1	Which songs have lyrics that have the right mentality when it comes to seduction? Young MC - bust a move	/r/seduction	20/06/20 10:44 AM
1	How do you break the Ice on Tinder? They work to open but after a few uses you gotta shake it up. Plus you have to take it from there and setup a date or get digits pronto	/r/seduction	19/06/20 12:48 PM
1	How do you guys deal with ghosters or girls who aren't straight up with you? Woof. See u/bwar23 answer	/r/seduction	18/06/20 02:22 PM
1	How do you start tinder conversations I’ve just been sending random strings of 2-3 emojis and seeing how they respond. The fun ones will go a few rounds before you do a pizza/movie/wine emoji combo. Then you send a calendar & phone emoji. When she gives you the number... call!	/r/seduction	30/04/20 02:52 AM
1	Are shit tests conscious or do they come from the subconscious Got the callback. Wasn’t concerned about it. Just curious about where it came from because it was out of nowhere and very incongruous behavior for her.	/r/seduction	28/02/20 03:36 AM
1	First date fucked but not interested? I actually had a similar thing where I hooked u with this chick a few times but the last time she got pretty sore. Next morning her vibe was kinda weird. Drove her home and haven’t hooked again since. Can’t really figure it out because she definitely had a good time and a pleasurable experience a few times. Since then, she pulled back a lot and I haven’t really pushed it. See her often out and about. Sometimes she’s flirty and other times she’s really distant. I’m just doing my thing and seeing …	/r/seduction	19/02/20 01:32 PM
1	Anyone else have a past of missing a ton of super easy opportunities out of fear? Just keep moving forward and getting better everyday.	/r/seduction	02/01/20 01:41 PM
2	Even as an average guy Tinder is NOT a waste of time This is the post everyone complaining about apps needs to see	/r/seduction	22/12/19 09:22 PM
5	How I get over the fear of going out alone? I started going out alone when traveling for work. Just talk to everyone, be confident, and have fun. Eventually you will meet some ladies and have a good time. For a while I wasn’t going out at at home alone but as I’ve gotten older (and my friends have) it’s getting tougher to have buds to go out with consistently. So my advice is above: Do it, go out alone. Be confident, have no expectations, have fun and talk to everyone.	/r/seduction	14/12/19 03:38 PM
2	Is it bad that I'm not aiming for the hot girls? Sounds like your female colleagues are jealous. Keep doing you and improving.	/r/seduction	14/12/19 03:35 PM
1	[FR] First date pull turned into getting ghosted, and that's okay. You’ll probably hear from her later this week. Wait til Thursday afternoon and hit her up to hang out again this weekend.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 03:14 PM
2	Good conversation starters Polarize and say something outlandish that she has to respond to. Then let her talk and explain.	/r/seduction	06/12/19 05:09 AM
1	How to game in a country with a different language? This	/r/seduction	26/11/19 03:15 AM
5	Guys that go to bars alone, have you ever had success? I started doing it when traveling for work. Just talk to everyone, be confident, and have fun. Eventually you will meet some ladies and have a good time. For a while I wasn’t going out at at home alone but as I’ve gotten older (and my friends have) it’s getting tougher to have buds to go out with consistently. So my advice is above: Do it, go out alone. Be confident, have no expectations, have fun and talk to everyone.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 12:06 AM
4	How can I (23M) improve how I talk to girls outside a club? I opened a girl at a bar last week by literally saying “I had tacos for dinner”. It’s not about what you say, it’s how confident you are when you say it.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 04:07 PM
2	Do women have to prove they're not "crazy"? If you have to ask you’ll never know -RHCP	/r/seduction	12/11/19 04:21 AM
2	Those of you who go to bars/clubs alone, what’s your experience been like? Worthwhile? Challenging? Much success? I travel for work alone, often to Las Vegas or overseas. I go out, talk to everyone and just have fun. Talk and dance with everyone. Meet interesting people, learn about them and you’ll eventually meet some girls who want to give you their number or more because you are just there to have fun. It took me a while to figure it out, I’d just go to a restaurant or grab a drink and sit on my phone. Eventually i realized i needed to talk to people. So that’s what i did. It’s helped me so much, not jus…	/r/seduction	11/10/19 03:14 AM
1	In between the friend zone? That article is banana land	/r/seduction	09/10/19 01:25 AM
1	Advice is appreciated This is the right advice. Have fun with everybody.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 05:42 AM
7	Actively Work on your Inner Game I travel alone for work often. At first going to dinner, a nightclub or something adventurous alone was scary and painful. I realized I needed to embrace it. It’s helped me tremendously, both when traveling by myself and also at home. Last Friday I was in another country and went out to a club by myself. I got 9 numbers, met a bunch of interesting people, got some local recommendations and eventually met up with one of the girls the next night. She complimented my confidence and ability to enter…	/r/seduction	18/09/19 05:25 PM