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CMVfuckGuilt/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:56 AM
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Question For MenfuckGuilt/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 08:48 PM
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Woe is me is allowed LOLfuckGuilt/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:08 PM
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Go away grandma Your top post/comment is this: taking women off your mind and going your own way sounds like a great idea. Checking out also doesn't have to be permanent. And it's not even bad, I'd upvote that. My top comment is on bitch management, and my second top comment is on the years I spent tapping a hot young bitch. But do go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:20 AM
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stop taking Reddit so serious Stop taking dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:10 AM
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My little brother and I have a joke about Dad having 2 rules: Don't ride the clutch, and don't lie. You're calling me a liar, this whole sub is calling me a liar, so I reiterate: FUCK RIGHT OFF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:01 PM
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Fuck right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:44 PM
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Exactly what I mean with the post. Most of this subreddit is just trolls and satire. I upvoted the comment because he was, in all likelihood, right. Then I looked up your top posts/comments of all time, and near the top is your first try at Tinder, where some creep wanted to be reincarnated as your kid in order to breastfeed (BTW, that was beta simp bullshit, but I digress.) Reading a bit further, it's clear you're a woman, and hey, your post would have been removed if you said that, so you are …
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:39 PM
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They literally lose eyefuck control and you have to hold in the chuckles. Man, you got a chuckle out of me. Thanks for sharing. Life is fucking good.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:16 PM
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Right....I don't know where we are on the thread, but again, I'm not "swole" by that definition. I was mostly venting about "crabs in a bucket" mentality from a dude I was trying to help. Here's the thing....I'm a twerp compared to many powerlifters and bodybuilders, and it doesn't matter. I'm not competing against them. Women have minimum intelligence thresholds, often because they are smart themselves or at least they value intelligence. That's the first cut. After that cut everything changes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:09 PM
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This is FUCKING AWESOME. What a time to be alive. Lift like your life depends on it.....no wonder awesome dudes get away with soft harems.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 03:45 PM
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FWIW I've shot blanks my whole life but my biggest woman problem has always been subpar bitch management.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 03:36 PM
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lot of these guys are shooting themselves in the dick with that thought blocking their progress toward the poon. I'd be as slayer if I could get past this. In the past week I had a very fuckable woman assuring me the guy she was at the bar with is not her boyfriend, laughing at statistics jokes, and initiating kino, kept touching my shoulder and back. I've pissed of more women by not hitting on them, than by hitting on them. I'm one of those experts at stepping on his own dick, even though these…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 03:31 PM
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No idea.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:27 PM
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The furthest I would ever go towards "Red Pilling" someone is either getting them to watch Patrice O'neal's Elephant in the Room or reading Kaufman's translation of Nietzsche's Genealogy of Morals.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 02:32 PM
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Good one. The basic idea here is while men were off hunting mammoths, the women were banded together in the village/camp, keeping an eye on the children and/or gathering in the local forest. Because of the focus on children and interpersonal relationships, women remained in an emotional place, rather than growing out of that phase in order to kill. Not an idea I particularly ascribe to. I'm out for a week, but will pick back up if you're interested. It's good to explore things honestly...after a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:29 PM
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Yep. And still.....it's way more than most. For lifter's, it's nothing....for the 95% of people who don't lift, that's a hell of a lot of weight to push overhead on a standing press.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:22 PM
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natty. I'm also naturally good looking, so I admit lifting just put me over the top. I easily meet most even very smart women's intelligence threshold. After that cut, I'm a slab of meat. It's the nerds I'm competing with, if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:21 PM
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Seriously coming in an escort board This is not an escort board. Surprised no one has slapped you down for that. This is asktrp, where questions are asked about the male sexual strategy outlined in the Red Pill. Paying for it is frowned upon.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 02:20 PM
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Out for the week, not bringing my personal computer on this business trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:17 PM
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It's an ex. When we got together, I was 39, she was 19. We had a 4.5 year run, but we knew we were breaking up because I'm an old dude who can't have kids, and she has child bearing hips. We're still close, in TRP terms I'm an "orbiter" but what I get from her is a charge, a reminder that I'm kick ass enough to have had a young and brilliant smokeshow on my arm for years. She let me to TRP....well, inadvertently, since I'm no longer feminist enough for her LOL. Reasonable people could disagree t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:16 PM
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Yep. Will respond. Crashing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:28 AM
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I just had a conversation go sideways because I'm a bit drunk. With someone I love, was with, and continue to orbit. We're all allowed one. In her current social circumstance, I'd have hard time not AMOGing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:00 AM
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In different news, 1 in 2.5 men have AIDS
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:20 AM
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Health, men respect me, women eye fuck me.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:17 AM
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I earned a degree. I established a career. I got comfortable talking to people. etc. And lifting helped more than all of that, and it's not even close.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:07 AM
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I had a smokeshow of a girlfriend for a while, and her view of daygame is the dudes who hit on her were not the dudes who she wanted to hit on her.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:06 AM
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What the fuck is wrong with you? TRP is male sexual strategy, and if you have to pay for it, you might as well jerk off.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:02 AM
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Lifting, and it's not even close. I've never been ugly....in fact, I've always been good looking. I'm guessing you were born years after the first time I married, in '95. And I'm telling you, I never drew more attention than I do now, except perhaps in my senior year of high school when my hair nearly reached my waist (pro tip: don't have long hair unless you're very, very masculine)
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:01 AM
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If you don't take it seriously, and if you don't know how to separate the wheat from the chaff, it is trivially easy to find total insanity. If you want a good interpretation of any particular concept, feel free to ask me. Directly, on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:52 AM
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Thanks for your well thought out input.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:30 AM
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Most of them have very little contact with women, so what notes can there be? That's what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:29 AM
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So.....I think it's about owning it. I posted a comment about 5 minutes ago over at TRP, it's worth your time to read it. I was angry when I posted the original post, and I've posted my numbers and pic somewhere on this thread. I am not "swole" by the general definition. I'm well built, but not swole. However, I'm smart, and I look smart, so I leverage that (again, see my recent comment). You think that having a childish face is a big hindrance, and that might be the hindrance. One thing that ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 11:12 PM
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N = 1 for me was '86. Overall, only about 35, but....I've seen a thing or two. I got enough karma and time to post here at PPD, which is built on the straw man of the average man. I will say this....I kind of miss the accountability threads. I found TRP in '16 after a wonderful breakup with a smokeshow 20 years younger than me. After 4.5 years together, she got into grad school....I drove her out there, moved her in, backpacked the coast, one last night in a cottage overlooking the ocean, and go…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:03 PM
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This is in analogy to Pareto's original observation that 80% of the land in Italy belonged to 20% of the population. I often sort people's comments by top of all time, and it's absolutely Pareto distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 10:29 PM
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OK, my view has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 10:28 PM
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Look, man, I'm trying to not put you down or encourage woe is me. I'm good looking because my good looking parents fucked. It makes TRP easier to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 10:14 PM
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As I see it, many of the problems that men face today are because of *insufficient* realization of masculinity. This is my experience. I was raised my a man hating single mother who adored androgynous people. I never was, but the more masculine face I've put on, the happier I've been. I've said this in feminist places, and they say "You're just being rewarded by the Patriarchy." SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 10:00 PM
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Please. Don't nitpick. You know what sub you're on, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:54 PM
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My shit is very together. All of it. My apartment is clean, well organized, and comfortable. I have a solid career. I lift and have had good results. I am smart and funny. I am The Prize. So.....see what you did here? You focused on a particular little "gotcha" although I said that keeping one's place clean is but one element of the lifestyle of a "high status" man. All the ladies at PPD do this, hellenic lady most spectacularly. Yeah, if you focus on average schlubs, well, of course they're goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:49 PM
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Looking through your top posts....this, right here, is the problem with PPD. The whole point of TRP is to be a "high status" man, and you're not high status if you're living in a pigsty. The women of PPD never acknowledge this.....that actually, men are being told to take care of their shit. Admittedly, most guys couldn't pull off a true TRP life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:39 PM
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So your life goal is to what? Spin plates? See....my life goals do not revolve around women. I have career goals, personal finance goals, I'm working to become a good dancer, I spend as much time as I can with Dad since he's getting up there in years, and I love backpacking into the mountains. I have already intersected with women on my life's path, and now that I know how to do it better, there surely will be many more. However, now I can do it without the heart ache and angst I (and they) felt…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:31 PM
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No idea....perhaps you're just kind of ugly, no offense. I admit that I'm lucky as hell, good face structure, blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:25 PM
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What happens at 65+? I find a rich, well preserved widow with a big, loving family and follow the advice of grandparents everywhere, by starting with grandchildren. BTW, yes, it is shaming language, even if you didn't mean it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:23 PM
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Good luck when you're old and alone. Shaming language. I'm 47. I'm also very fit and good looking. I also have a STEM degree and a great career. Life is good. The "lonely old man" is a shaming myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:16 PM
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Try to be a male teacher/nurse to see the result. A guy getting his first job as an RN asked for advice over at asktrp. I told him to lift like your life depends on it....he's automatically one of the strongest people in the ward, and will be stuck doing the heavy lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:47 PM
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She got everyone triggered, I'm sure she's happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:46 PM
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Being a plaything is eros! It's all just a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:45 PM
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And you call TRP the fascists lol LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:40 PM
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I've reported her in the past for marking CMV when her views are not flexible in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:40 PM
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choosing I wouldn't be so sure that it's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:33 PM
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I value my complete independence. Women are playthings to me, but to be fair, I am playthings to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:31 PM
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I have never seen you at TRP. I assure you that "hypergamy" in the TRP sense has more to do with "branch swinging" than it does with "women marrying up."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:26 PM
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Get it now? Back off with the condescension. When TRP guys talk about hypergamy, they are generally talking about the propensity of women to branch swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:17 PM
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Sigh. It's possible to "buy in" to TRP without going to every extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:14 PM
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How does that change anything? Different people are incentivized by different things. Different sexes are incentivized differently. The world record holder for women is something like 50 children. The world record holder for men is over 800 or something crazy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:13 PM
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My argument is that if you read TRP and you buy into it, you're not a "normal guy." "Keep an open mind but don't let your brain fall out."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:07 PM
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Sigh. Always remember that TRP redefined hypergamy, so it's apples and oranges. The end of hypergamy as traditionally found could result in an increase of hypergamy in the TRP sense, in that women could very well be more willing and able to branch swing, since they holding their own financially. An older study. The money shot: Marriages where each spouse earns 40-60% of the total income are more divorce prone than marriages where the wife earns less (based on results from the U.S.) - in line wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 08:06 PM
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No, you don't understand. This is OUR time. This is when things are best. We get more sex with more women with less responsibility. We don't want things to go back the way they were. We just understand things don't last forever, so enjoy it while you can. There's no chance at all that she will concede this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 07:39 PM
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Women are marrying men of lower status than themselves and these marriages show no higher risk of divorce than marriages where the man earns more. I'm pretty sure this is false, but I'm really tired of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 07:30 PM
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No. You can't change thousands of years of evolution like that. What women are attracted to will hardly ever change. You're right, but.....remember what 'Texas' Bix Bender said in his book of cowboy wisdom, Don't Squat With 'yer Spurs On: There are two ways to argue with a woman. Neither work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 07:28 PM
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Whatever. I'm out. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 07:06 PM
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What you need your buddy to take me on? LOL Just pointing out how you define things the way that works for you. This sub is such a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 07:01 PM
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dval92 check this out. Here we have poppy defining hypergamy as women marrying up, the traditional definition. I pointed out in manosphere terms, it really means branch swinging more than anything, to which she says "have you read the sidebar?" So I pasted in the literal definition from the sidebar that concludes: This will enable her to jump to the next male with ease and little remorse. I ask for a mea culpa, to which she replies: No you wont becase that's not what is says. That's who you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 06:49 PM
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This will enable her to jump to the next male with ease and little remorse. How is that not "branch swinging"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 06:42 PM
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JC have you even read the sidebar? Posted from the sidebar, the literal definition. I'm guessing I won't get a mea culpa from you, though, I think it's against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 06:35 PM
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dismissive-avoidant is the way to go to get laid. Even if you have to fake it. This is the best explanation I've seen for "only text for logistics" or "only see any particular once per week, or twice within a rolling 10 day period" it's literally faking dismissive-avoidant for guys who aren't.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 06:31 PM
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That was one particularly bad stretch. It's more like 2 in 3 men didn't reproduce, which is still a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 06:13 PM
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You have to keep in mind that TRP is a very niched group compared to the rest of the male population. So what? This is "Purple Pill Debate" which would not exist without TRP. RP caters to men who have abnormally high sex drives and abnormally low emotional intelligence. Those are "natural alphas" who do not need TRP. TRP was designed for normal guys like me who never had a problem getting girlfriends but didn't manage things all that well. Most of us do not want to leave wreckage behind us. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 06:03 PM
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So why post it? There is plenty to criticize in TRP. Yet....almost no one criticizes TRP directly, and instead use proxies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:55 PM
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It's more about how to treat women in order to get the outcomes you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:52 PM
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The instinctual urge for women to seek out the best alpha available. This is marked by maximizing rejection (therefore women are the selective gender). A woman will vet her alpha through various shit tests to ensure his "health" on the alpha scale. She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male. Shit tests allow her to prepare herself for eventually leaving when a new higher status male is found…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:50 PM
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the redpill tools have been tested, they work This is specifically what detractors refuse to understand. They characterize TRP as basically a cult that people are brainwashed into rather than guys sharing notes. When I say things like "I was in 3 LTR's over almost 20 years and TRP helped me make sense of so many things" I'm totally ignored.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:46 PM
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Guys sharing notes. I would deny that it's a "philosophy" because everyone denies the empirical, guys sharing notes nature of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:39 PM
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a lot of men just avoid women in the workplace like the plague. Yes, women have been complaining about it. If you think that the paranoia is overstated, perhaps competitive advantage could be gained by actually being willing to engage with and mentor bright female colleagues. At any rate, I wouldn't be surprised if every third guy is actually using it as an excuse to just be a sexist asshole. There is such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:38 PM
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Be flippant about it if you want, many women report that the "Pence Rule" has hurt their careers because they are being denied mentorship and squeezed out of after work activities where much networking takes place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:32 PM
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That’s what hypergamy means, marrying up. Not in a manospherian sense, and you know that. It's branch swinging. How many guys had it coming, though, is a fair question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:27 PM
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stop looking at "men" and "women" as hiveminds. It's not so much hiveminds as differing incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:19 PM
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TRP calmed me down because I began to understand the lay of the land. I had 3 LTR's and one shorter LTR (about 3 months) with a single mother, the other 3 women didn't have kids at the time, and ranged from a hot girl who was lightning in a bottle to a frumpy girl I had to scrape off like a barnacle. So many things made so much sense in the light of TRP, and yes, I began lifting like my life depends on it, because I intend to never be in a normal monogamous LTR ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:18 PM
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Firstly, TRP teaches men about how low value men *think* women actually are. It's one subjective perspective. I know it's hard to believe, but it's guys sharing notes. TRP is way more empirical than anyone here is willing to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:14 PM
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Why are you linking to youtube? If you talking about what TRP teaches, you should be linking to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:12 PM
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Eggs are only expensive because you have to have literal surgery to extract them LMFAO No. I am not talking about that at all. Peacocks strut around with 6 foot tails that make them easier prey exactly because it makes the easier prey which makes it a great fitness indicator.....because eggs are expensive. This doesn’t mean eggs are morally valued more. LOL which is why it's women & children first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 05:07 PM
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I bet u can’t even do 50 pounds on the smith machine like I can LOL funny, bro. I press 85 overhead, standing. At 165. When you can do that in your late 40's, we'll chat. Edit: LOL was for the smith machine....serious, LMFAO
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:51 AM
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If you saw the mixture of grilled chicken thighs and carrots/peppers/onions that's coming off the grill in the next few minutes....let's just say, thanks for the boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 11:40 PM
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LOL so here's my thing, here's my game. I'm a smart guy, and women have certain levels of intelligence they won't go below. So my idea is lift like a fiend but own the smart stuff, because most smart guys aren't meatheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:54 PM
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Stories, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:53 PM
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Also English isn't my native language and don't think my writing is good enough to post there. Damn bro, kind of appreciate that. Most there, however native they are, don't have the experience to do so. Yeah, this is about a good enough place for posting, I guess I do have more fun here on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:46 PM
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nah, I'm not a cheater, but as a man, you can't just rub it in a woman's face, like a woman can say "you know, I'm not looking for exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:45 PM
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I kind of smirked. Look, I met her the week she got to the states from Israel. She was an F-15 mechanic, and I have a little F-15 replica, like a matchbox car. She saw it and was blown away. That was like 8 years ago. We fucked on and off. She also knew that I met and dated a much younger JAP....Jewish American Princess (I mean atheist mathematician). I was head over heels for her, for about 4.5 years....sent her to grad school with love 3 years ago.....incidently, I talked to today about landin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:33 PM
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K, only 10 years lol you're doing good work, good luck. And screen those bitches harder. You're coming off as some sort of provider.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:19 PM
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Rough. Thanks for sharing, sorry for picking a scab....was worried about that after I hit enter. I'll tell you what....your story did give me some comfort. I run under the assumption that most even moderately attractive woman have a constellation of bf's/ex's/orbiters yet have very good incentives to keep any dalliances with me on the down low as long as I present myself right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:18 PM
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Not bad, bro. Too high bodyfat, to be sure, but not bad. You probably need slightly better screening. Edit: that ain't 12% bf, but at least you fucking lift. Edit 2: I prolly got 20 years on you, not pulling in the love handles lol guess my bodyfat is about 18%
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:07 PM
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No, was looking for shared stories. Anyone who has spun a plate has a similar story. Ive had guys I was dating find evidence of other guys, and it wasn't pretty lol Happy to hear stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:03 PM
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Girl came over. Found another girls bracelet. Freaked out. I smirked. Girl chilled out, put bracelet on, admired it, put it down. Fucked me better than ever that night. Came back at least another half dozen times. This is "spinning plates." It's not about lying or manipulating women. It's about being a fun sexy guy that girls will come back to even when they know you're nothing but a fun sexy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:00 PM
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Bench. Fuck the bench, more interested in OHP.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:37 PM
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Pic. Scrub the face. Back pic is fine.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:36 PM
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Do you even lift, bro? I'm dead serious, give me some numbers.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:17 PM
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Um, this is PPD, where we're supposed to debate the Red Pill....right? Yeah, I could see how boring it is. I'm kind of annoyed right now, because I put up a post about the time some gal came over to my place and found another gals bracelet. I'm not an asshole, I was cheating on no one, but this is a "Red Pilled" moment. I was hoping to generate some conversation, to no avail. I know at least some dudes there have had similar experiences. Instead, some fucking crybaby posted a link to "Where Are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 09:16 PM
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What's you're motivation for interacting with this sub? I was just getting enough karma to post to TRP, and continue to post from almost inertia.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 08:59 PM
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Like a Mr. Nice Guy that was never really nice, just a pussy. But maybe that's just some lost in translation thing for me. Nothing lost, we are in agreement for sure.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 08:47 PM
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I've been under the barbell for just over a year, as an old dude no less..... My jokes got funnier, my stories more compelling. IOI's went through the roof. Yes, it matters. Women want you, men want to be you.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:26 PM
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I'll tell you what, I tried a bit. I put up two posts recently, neither took off, which is fine, I need to do better. But to see low effort shit take some sort of root is annoying.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 08:17 PM
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No, I'm an aging metalhead.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:16 PM
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AMFALT "All Mountain Folk Are Like That."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 08:12 PM
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men fuck sheep Leave Wyoming out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 08:03 PM
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I am not good with that. The venerable GLO berated and mocked me into investing in an Olympic barbell set. 9 months later I was getting constant IOI's, felt much better, etc. Men fuck with each other. That's what we do. But it is very often to a good end. I don't trust niceness, on some level....you learn more from disagreement. Iron sharpens iron, etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 07:59 PM
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I got everything I needed from TRP, I'm just here for the good company these days.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 07:31 PM
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Yeah problem is that most women have kids. The dating landscape is hard enough without disqualifying 80% of women. Just be hot and fun, and never meet their kids. Simples.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 05:46 PM
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Also...learn SQL. Actual programming languages wouldn't hurt, but SQL is a must. SQL is not a language, it is a standard, based on a paper from the early 70's by a guy named, I think, Dodd. SQL is essentially set theory. Also..... No Starch Press has a splendid book on The Linux Command Line. System and database administrators will love, and more importantly, trust you for speaking their language. Here's the basic idea: if you are only getting a bachelor's level math degree, you are not going to…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:43 PM
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Dicier game, IMO. But then again, I'm an old fuck and I no longer want any feminine influence on my household. Come over for dinner & drinks, fuck, sleep over, I kind of like it, but then get the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:31 PM
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Source:not my idea I don't take credit. I tried to get a conversation going on this in the main sub, but it didn't take. I'd love to hear some stories.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:18 PM
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If we want WAATGM content, we can go to that sub.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 05:17 PM
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You have it generally right, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:02 PM
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I know a lot of RP dudes say you shouldn't do it, but I think it's one of the weakest RP rules or whatever. You can't soft next a bitch you lives with you. Outside of maintaining attraction, this is the bottom line. We can no longer slap around hysterical bitches, by law, all we can do is walk away, and fuck some other woman. Bitch management 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:01 PM
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I just said it, to keep them in line. Dread works like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:56 PM
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I thought I met a fellow competing powerlifter so sorry for my enthusiasm. Sorry to let you down LOL I respect what you guys do, it's all very impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:54 PM
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It's a little more subtle than "we're not equal as people." We fill different roles in life. We have different incentives. I don't think in terms of male superiority, and reject female superiority as well. We do deserve equal opportunity, but if a woman really wants to be a roughneck oil pipeline worker, hey, more power (and money) to her, but good luck standing up to the physical demands of the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:53 PM
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LOL hey, that's great. I live in the city and lift to remain sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:48 PM
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Cast a wide net, and make sure you have some practical math.....read, probability & statistics. If you can fit it in, a technical writing class would be a very good idea. Coming out with my math degree, when I took my job as a renewable energy analyst, I also had strong leads from a law firm who wanted a data analyst....it was a firm that represented employers, so I might have had to shower in Clorox. I also had a line on a journalistic type of job analyzing natural gas flows. Anyway, cast a ver…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 04:46 PM
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vegan LOL no chance, I prefer not to be malnourished.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:44 PM
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Males have to be robust and agile Agree wholeheartedly. I think cardio and some sort of outdoor hobby is good, like backpacking. which comes down mostly to the skeletal proportions I don't worry about shit I can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:43 PM
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Surprised it took this long for this to be posted. It's good to be king.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 11:46 PM
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She'll marry better than him.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 11:26 PM
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My RP coming out party was the day that a woman was visiting me, found another woman's bracelet, pitched a fit for a few minutes, put the bracelet on, admired it, put it back down, fucked me better than ever, and came back for a few more rounds. I've never seen a good headline post on this, or I can't remember one. It might make a good asktrp post, but it would be better over here....perhaps as a "Red Pill Example" this is my experience, let's hear some stories.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 11:03 PM
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Great post, and the main reason I avoid the label.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:54 PM
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Good for him....but not hard to predict, if you're following my logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:52 PM
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It's not a man or woman thing. It really, really is. An example from "speed dating" every time, say they have 10 men and 10 women, each man would select like 5-6 women, and every woman would select 1-2 guys. This is where people get tripped up regarding TRP. This isn't because women are nasty, vile creatures or anything like that. Human females are genetically programmed to choose worthy mates. And that's fine. TRP teaches ways to turn that to your advantage ("Lift like your life depends on it" …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:51 PM
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I’m a solid 7/10 so what could be holding me back? Food for thought.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:36 PM
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What are your stats and weight?? Trivial. 5'9", 165#'s, 47 y/o. DL/squat/OHP 215/135/95. 3X5. I throw in some dead rows, 3X5 chin ups, and facepulls. Body fat is basically a flat stomach area. Horrid pic shows back development, but makes the "love handles" much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:26 PM
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None of this is automatic. But.....think it about it: I bet he treats her like gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 09:51 PM
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The rewards are immense, bro. Whatever it takes to get the fat off. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 09:42 PM
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That's exactly what I just described. Don't get hung up on the terms. However....to have casual relationships, you have to bring what women want from casual relationships: fun. You have to show them a good time. That's why we say lift like your life depends on it.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:25 PM
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Good luck.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:23 PM
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it is just a hobby. It's more than a hobby, it's big medicine. Let me flip this around on you....something the nerds don't get is that smart women do select for intelligence. So, if you're a smart guy, you get that much more bang for your buck by getting swole. There really aren't that many muscular guys who talk talk about everything under the sun and crack good jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 09:23 PM
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FerallyRed had it right....rock out with your cock out, it's your only chance!
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:16 PM
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She's not a plate unless you're fucking her and other women. There's no way in hell a dude who doesn't know how to sing got himself into karaoke with a "HB9." All of your top rated posts are in nofap and poker. I don't believe you for a microsecond.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:11 PM
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Plating an HB9. k...... This will seal the deal. Then you're not plating her. Jesus.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:51 PM
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This is basically a religious question. My 2 cents....I'm MGTOW because I live on my own and plan to never again commit to or live with a woman. At the same time, there is a cock hungry woman pinging me about is it quitting time yet because she wants the dick. You should strive to raise your value, for yourself. Women are a lagging indicator of success. But you should do it for yourself. You know how video games have "levels" and you get to "level up"? That's exactly the same thing that happens …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:44 PM
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I rode out the Great Recession in college. I told a buddy, "I'm thinking about majoring in philosophy." He said, "That's great, that way you'll KNOW why you don't have a job!" Majored in mathematics. Dated a hot younger women. Now 6 years into a satisfying career as an analyst. However....I don't qualify for income based repayment on my student loans. First world problems.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:36 PM
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Quite the opposite. The hot girl had guys hitting on her constantly. It was all I could do to hold on. The other girl will never, ever, do as well as me.....which is why she allows me to treat her the way "you go girl" types would never allow....at least what they say, you'd be surprised what a good looking, smart and well built man can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 08:27 PM
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I've had both experiences, punching well over and well under my weight. The one well under my weight, bright brown eyes and cute face, but unfortunately she ballooned to 200 pounds (at 5'0"). She lost 100 of those pounds, but....yeah. She's now back up to about 130 pounds, not terrible, but....she's just not hugely attractive, but still quite smart. The one well over my weight, she was a 19 y/o virgin from a conservative Jewish cult. I was 39. She frankly used me to enter the mainstream, 10/10 w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 08:14 PM
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I also like the ones who look good with long hair into their 30s and 40s. Some do. LOL funny you say that, I'm growing mine out one more time....47 and streaked with gray, what the fuck ever. Yet my glasses attest to my nerddom, and I attend the Iron Church regularly. Smart girls do have a lower limit of intelligence they are willing to tolerate...so when you can crack that level and have a v-taper, let's just say life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 07:18 PM
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Problem is, younger women have more time to waste, and know it. I landed a 19 y/o girlfriend at 39....now that we're 27 & 47, I'd stand no chance, she's already on her Alpha Provider hunt (good luck, it is what it is).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 07:14 PM
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Bear with me here...lift like your life depends on it. You're already going to be one of the strongest RNs on the ICU floor, so you're going to do more than your share of heavy lifting. Protect yourself by preparing your body for the rigors and keeping it that way. It won't be often, but at times it will be intense. Be careful about shitting where you eat. Nurses have a reputation as notorious sluts, and who can blame them? Sex is escapism at its best, and most nurses have seen some shit. All th…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:53 PM
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OP first! She needs it the most!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:45 PM
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good relationship is usually better than being single. For many women, being a "plate" (read: being in a long term non-monogamous relationship with a player) is better than being single, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:43 PM
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I think there is, incel content is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:41 PM
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I was when I wrote the OP. I really was trying to help the dude out and ended up wasting at least half an hour on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:37 PM
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She's jealous. You're lifting, in law school.....I'm guessing you're a catch. She wants to keep you busy so you don't download Tinder and get your dick wet. Which is probably what you should do.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:34 PM
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Nah, I'm a happy guy with a quick smile for strangers!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:26 PM
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For men who are physically and economically attractive it’s GREAT. Can confirm. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:17 PM
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LOL she never reads anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:09 PM
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Incels visiting TRP is like vegans visiting a steakhouse. I just don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:08 PM
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I can't say I view TRP as valid in any way Yet you say.... I believe he could do much better, given her mediocrity. TRP preaches women date across and up, men date across and down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:04 PM
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Women can be responsible for their own unfounded fears and concerns, Oh, it's worse than that. Which would you rather have, a chill mother or a neurotic one that checks on you 5 times a night to make sure you're still breathing? I'm so glad to have a Y chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:00 PM
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Yeah....I lift for longevity, to feel good in the moment, and for aesthetics. All are equally important. I know I'm losing gainz and I'm fine with it, this is a lifelong pursuit, and I'm not going to let anything go pop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:53 PM
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Because I have more options now. This is exactly where these conversations go off the rails. Most men don't know what it's like to have options.....and most women don't know what it's like to not have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:43 PM
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Are you one of those dudes that always felt they couldn’t be a dickhead before but because they’re hot now they have a right to? I do have clearer boundaries, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:36 PM
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One quick example, I don't have time for back & forth. "I started generating more interest from women once I developed a nice v-taper." "Congrats, you lost weight. That's all that matters." "No....I had already lost weight, it was from increasing muscle mass." "No it wasn't, you can't add more than an inch on your delts anyway." That sort of debbie downer bullshit. It's....exactly the opposite of guys egging each other on to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:25 PM
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I hate to say it sounds like she needs to get laid.....but it sounds like she needs to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I hear that, but it is understated how functional barbell training actually is. It's more that guys inflate the fuck out of their numbers online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:18 PM
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Men are bad at sex. I have at least one counter example.....me. I assure you I'm not bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:15 PM
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Don't argue with the woman who can only think in averages and lacks contact with the real world "There are two ways of arguing with a woman. Neither work." 'Texas' Bix Bender, from his book on cowboy wisdom Don't Squat with 'yer Spurs On.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:11 PM
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This particular OP has an ax to grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:10 PM
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Did you even read anything I said? LOL no, she didn't. She's just grinding her ax.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:09 PM
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We need to fulfill the alpha excitement side or were useless. Which is why the Iron Church is non-negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:07 PM
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She never gives an inch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:05 PM
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Data shows that single men are generally worse of than single women. Those of us who are not are in high demand. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:05 PM
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I want them to tell me objectively what women gain by being in relationships with men. They have failed so far. Most women are sexual creatures, who....you know....enjoy the company of men, as well as the resulting sex. I get the distinct impression you are not one of those women, which is why you are not satisfied with any of the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:03 PM
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men are way less concerned about women's sexual pleasure than women are about men's Incorrect. If, as you say, we no longer are providers, then we have to be good at sex, not least to keep them coming back. To answer your question directly, hard bodies and nice dicks. Woe to the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:00 PM
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Is calling gym "chicken coop" banter or shaming in your ears? Emphatically not! Banter pushing one another and all that jazz is actually building one another up, challenging one another. Camaraderie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:46 PM
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If I could pin this to the top I would. You put it better than I did, I was kind of ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:41 PM
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That’s not necessarily stronger = better though I hold stronger is better, and do only powerlifting style sets and reps. No accessory work at all. My theory is that by avoiding the obvious bro shit and sticking to athletic, functional training, I avoid the "OMG he's so vain" alarms the ladies in this sub bang on about. My forearms are as big around as my upper arms, and harder. It sounds odd, but it's a fine look. Forearms are a major cue for overall strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:40 PM
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just want to be able to get 225 for reps because that’s not that crazy of a strength standard I get that. I'm sure you're familiar with Jeff Cavalier/AthleanX? Some shit in his shoulder is permanently fucked over one bad bench rep. I think that the bench is not a natural human movement pattern. We no longer run around on all fours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:36 PM
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Personally I'd be more annoyed at all that time spent at the gym You're picturing a bodybuilder in there for 2 hours. You can get a great physique with 45 minute powerlifting sessions. that could be devoted to some more productive activity. Barbell training is amongst the most productive of activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:33 PM
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And gym jokes are not really shaming. They are banters. Totally. Not what I was talking about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:25 PM
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Feminism is the idea of men and women being equal as people. We're not. But it's also not a hierarchy. We're just different. Eggs are expensive. Sperm (and men) is cheap. Men are expendable, women and children first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:11 PM
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The confidence is a plus Here's the thing....the random internet dude that set off my rant, that's what he said, "You're just more confident." I won't deny a positive feedback loop, but it's not true that it's just confidence. Men are visible or invisible to women, and having developed a decent v-taper, I am visible to more women than I ever have been, as evidenced in their behaviors, up to and including opening me. That never happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:07 PM
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Reassure them. LOL no. Especially if it's someone you're sexually involved with. Let them be nervous. It helps keep them in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:04 PM
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I had a female friend/classmate in college whose boyfriend started lifting and it worried her. She was right and he left her soon after. Yep. I lost a bunch of weight with my last LTR, and so did she, because the deal was we were breaking up when she got to grad school. After that, I started lifting. I've had an easier time keeping the weight off, not least because you can add 20 pounds to her frame and she's still cute as hell. Add 20 pounds of fat to my frame, and I'm invisible once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:02 PM
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Try being a little more humble. Humble has gotten me jack shit in life. I'm sick and tired of being humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:59 PM
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I would add though, in the theme of the overall thread jealous people do hide their arguments behind veils that make it seem more reasonable - at the same time there is a legitimate argument for health concerns when maxing in this area. Wouldn't deny that for a microsecond.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:58 PM
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If you are working out strictly to maximize your appeal to the widest range of women, you can overdo it. Oh, agreed entirely. I lift for strength because I want to be a tough old son of a bitch who refuses to die. I also think dudes focus way too much on what they see in the mirror. I'm actually new to lifting, not much more than a year in, and have had really nice results, and got lots more feminine attention than I ever did. I've also done, like, 5 curls. Curls are stupid. I stick with the big…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:57 PM
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Um.....yeah, not even talking about extremes here. I just mean the college athlete's physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:52 PM
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Eh, fuck benching lol. I stick to DL, OHP, dead rows, chin-ups, and face-pulls. It works fine. I think guys with super developed pecs look weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:52 PM
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I find many guys underestimate how thirsty girls are for LEAN muscular bodies. More men need to be told to maximize their looks they need to lose weight. I find it interesting that men's fashion, most notable suits, explicitly go for a v-taper. "Slim the waist" plus shoulder pads? Nah bro, I'll slap on a tight t-shirt and get the same effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:50 PM
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LOL true! I used to think "Do you even lift?" was the most retarded bro shit...now I hear it as "Do you do the bare minimum to be a successful man in current society?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:48 PM
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Very relevant, thanks for sharing. Red Pill 101. I've never seen a happy marriage lacking Dread. Curious, what’s the argument from other men on why its “shameful”? The shaming behavior that triggered this was more like "Oh, you have a v-taper? Congrats on losing weight" and totally ignoring it when I pointed out that my waist band hasn't changed, my upper body has....or "What woman has ever told you backs are sexy, this is homo erotic fan fiction" and even "it's medically impossible for you to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:46 PM
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Feminists aren't man-hating - that goes right against the ideal of equality and the idea of men being people just like women. Your mother was something else entirely. Not all, to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 06:03 AM
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a lot of strength that wasn’t very functional I feel this. I like dead rows exactly because that's how we used to drag critters home to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:31 AM
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You need genes, time, and money for that shit to work. My biggest gripe with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:27 AM
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Maybe one in ten or twenty posts involves a guy who does well in a believable way. I discourage friends for exactly this reason. Then I show them Patrice O'neals Elephant in the Room which is the sidebar on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:13 AM
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there's been no shortage of threads by women who say they prefer skinny artsy skater guitar boi's over super swole dudes Aren't they lying? This is swoleshaming with a different motivation. Yep, but every man should be the best he can be (yes, I've seen the Men Who Stared at Goats....if you haven't, do). I would say just like everywhere else the people posting this shit are a bunch of silly bitches who couldn't tell a squat rack from a treadmill if their lives depended on it +1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:10 AM
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I'm very interested. I think that I'm not all that far from being able to transition to bodyweight....with at least 45 pound plates to pull for carries and all that. Where's that line? I've had my weights for about a year, and I do wonder about the end game. I'm not done yet, but I am curious. Seems to me that you can't get there with bodyweight, but you can keep a good place with bodyweight, along with two 45 pound plates which had better always represent well over half my bodyweight when pulle…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:07 AM
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The woman who want you will be the ones who like Instagram, so that's a positive right? I'm a "nerd" (or whatever smart dudes who are socially calibrated are called these days) and you know it. I also lift and dance. I'm crack to smart girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:59 AM
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I have a 12 stone weight limit. And excellent style.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:53 AM
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backpacking, it’s not the same but I mean it doesn’t matter, girls can tell that you’re fit, you can do fit people stuff, it’s fine. Backpacking is great, esp in the mountains. Good shit man, and I agree. Lifting has transcended being sexy, and it's annoying. I could hold here for a while and it won't move another woman. It's now about long term health.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:52 AM
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listening to heavy metal and drinking IPA Shit, you're class of '90 too? UP THE IRONS!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:50 AM
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I got a practical math degree. My last hardcore LTR got a theoretical math degree. I feel you. Don't underestimate how thirsty smart girls are for hard bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:49 AM
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Shit, it was some damned asktrp post, all those kids are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:46 AM
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Allow women to be feminine. Preaching to the choir. I'm a powerlifter, an old one with shitty numbers who gets IOI's every time he walks out the door. An intense body focus is very feminine behavior. Agreed, but once you get the feedback that you're hot....it's addicting. I do feel you on this point. Be fit and focused, there's a lot more to life than the gym, or lifting, climbing, or whatever way a man chooses to be active to be alive. I think we're very close on this.....but to say there's mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:46 AM
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Women have a whole range of incentives that deserve to be thought about. I had my most consistent hot LTR when I wasn't in this shape. Partly random, partly....her calculation. All good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:42 AM
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Anyone who is trying to shame you cause you are muscular is just jealous. Yep, agreed. Love your handle, by the way. Once you buy the logic of the opportunity cost, life changes. Every time you get under the barbell (or whatever weight) or pull it off the ground, you realize you could be drinking beer and playing video games. To dwell on the next best thing you can do at any particular moment is quite Red Pilled, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:40 AM
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No, the secret is to train for strength....because....wait for it....women have been selecting for strength for 200,000 years, and know it when the see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:34 AM
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Fair enough, but they all lie so much. Some dude on asktrp said he could pull 400#'s off the floor but not carry a 150# woman over his shoulder for a full minute. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:33 AM
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Define swole with pics if possible. Swimmer body vs bodybuilder? Because I'm also an Excitable Boy.....I'll answer. Doesn't much matter. Visibly muscular is more than enough. The harder you work for a living and the younger you are, the stronger you need to be. An old ass desk jockey like me needs shockingly little.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:21 AM
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If you are doing so great why do you care? To quote Bill Maher: I'm like an escaped slave. I bring news of news of freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:15 AM
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If you're going to criticism my advide here, As said elsewhere on this thread, when it's not a fucking date. Simples. "If you're going to take measure of a man, be sure to take the full measure." -'Texas' Bix Bender. If you're going to criticism my advice here, let's just say you're beating on the easiest thing I've said here.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 02:57 AM
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Whether you or I lift or not does not impact what women like, don't try to change the subject buddy Didn't think so. Where did you get this mentally ill Die painfully. Blocked your loser ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 08:43 PM
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There's dudes who never hit the gym who get way more desirable women than you ever will I have zero control over that, don't care. LMAO at thinking women like back muscle... just LOL. Do you even lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 08:16 PM
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Why do you project these borderline homoerotic thoughts of yours on others? I guess you're just hamstering away your poor physique. That's all I can figure. TRP is male sexual strategy. Keen attention to what women find desirable is relevant. I have no idea why you think the front is the important one. Both are important. Everything I do hits the back in one way or another, by design. So I've been being honest and you love the gotchas. I guess that's your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 07:18 PM
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frontal Sigh. No, a strong back is a turn on for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 06:35 PM
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I guess I really don't understand your resistance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 05:29 PM
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Typo, I never knew the number, just that there was one. Naw man, I lost a shit ton of weight, with my last LTR, long walks and vicious calorie counting. That alone did not do the trick. Visible traps, wider lats, and bigger delts made the different. The waist didn't change, I was skinny fat. I'm not denying bone structure matters, but laying on muscle helped. By the way, cured bad rotator cuff problems, too. Facepulls and farmers carries, along with the stuff above. Yes, it makes me look more co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 05:25 PM
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I think it just improved your confidence more than anything. I'm telling you, once I passed a certain shoulder/waist proportion, I started getting vastly more attention. It's all about the v-taper. This is not my imagination, nor is it a function of confidence. Just like men universally like a 0.7 hip/waist ratio, women universally like something like a 0.9 shoulder/waist ratio. I mean hell, in the past year, I had one (young and hot) woman see me sit down at the bar at Pete's....she picked up h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 04:40 PM
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Ah, wording....I transformed both my body and my life under the barbell. As I became more muscular, my jokes became funnier, my stories more compelling. I even cured my previously flat feet. My life has vastly improved since I started barbell training.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 04:12 PM
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I wouldn't have a bloody red tag if I didn't agree. Serious, you might be interested in the piece I linked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:52 PM
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None of it really matters. This labeling shit....it really doesn't matter. I'm smart, good looking, and socially calibrated. I prefer documentaries to anything in pop culture. I swing dance. Those last two at least used to be "nerdy" but I seriously don't care. I don't really care about what I'm called.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:49 PM
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Keep in mind that TRP was born from the PUA "movement" which itself leaned heavily on evolutionary psychology. The old books are worth a read, just don't buy everything you read. *The Red Queen*, *Mating Minds*, etc. I've heard *Sex at Dawn* has been "debunked" but the problem with debunking evolutionary psychology is the same as believing in it too strongly....we'll never really know. This is a seminal piece of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:26 PM
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a hot face at 25 will still be hot at 40 or 50. If, and only if, weight is kept under control. And there is still fading. I have a good looking face for 47, but still look 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:15 PM
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is that science? LOL I said it was speculative. Something like 2/3's of women who ever existed bred, but only something like 1/3 of the men have. This game has never been particularly egalitarian, so I think what I said has merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:12 PM
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There are also pinhead "nerds" (or whatever, I don't care) with mathematics degrees who transformed their bodies and their lives under a barbell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:09 PM
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Yeah, but she was probably defensive due to the recent fighting we've been doing the past 2 weeks, do you think it's impossible to regain frame? Here's the thing...red pilled advice isn't going to help you. There is a saying around here, "don't use red pill tactics to achieve blue pill goals." What I will say is this: focus on yourself. Go for radical self improvement. Lift. Make sure your fashion is on point. Kill it in your career. Etc. And remember.... "There are two ways of arguing with a wo…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:07 PM
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But if they think you're a catch and don't want to mess it up with you, why would they make you pay $300 on 2 dinners? In a nutshell, I was using that as a bit of a proxy....it's the whole damned thing, not just money, but time invested, etc. Girls just wanna have fun. Women my age tend to be far more serious...unless you're a jacked young loser, then they are girls again.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:02 PM
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Also, if the female does not want to have the kid she can simply get an abortion (Honestly, go read up the law- a man has no say in this whatsoever. I've agreed with this repeatedly, unsure why you're banging on it. Men, on the other hand do not have a choice. Even if a female rapes you or commits paternity fraud the man still has to pay child support. I've agreed with this repeatedly, unsure why you're banging on it. As it once was. Our brains still operate an that basis hence the problem. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:58 PM
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Who do you feel pressure from, exactly? My stepmother vocalized her disappointment. My father is resigned to it, but he is 72 and happy that I am on a good path. As a follower of Paul, he also understands mgtow (I usually don't identify with mgtow because of the incel angle, and I'm anything but incel). Subtle pop culture reminders. One night in a bar, a direct attack. Two women opened me enthusiastically, and when I scoffed at dating a single mother, the knives came out. Evidently I'm the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:50 PM
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OP's young. It's good to make mistakes. "Good judgement comes from experience.....which often comes from bad judgement" - 'Texas' Bix Bender, from his book of cowboy wisdom Don't Squat With 'yer Spurs On.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:33 PM
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I don't think you believe that. It would be silly to, even going off of just this thread. No, I think you're just trying to piss me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:32 PM
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No, for fuck's sake. It's men who can't opt out of fatherhood. Women have the unilateral choice of whether or not to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:23 PM
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​ all attractive men get red pilled by life itself. I don't know if I'd be red pilled otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 06:21 AM
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I was known as a bit of an alcoholic beforehand I went sober and these gains. Worth mentioning? No, for fuck's sake. Don't disqualify yourself.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:59 AM
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back shot Always
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:59 AM
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Nah....I see it like I see elections. You can steal close ones, which matters a less. You can't steal landslides, or superior teams. Like ones lead by Br*dy and Billicheat. But the Broncos have had their number for a while. Hell, the Broncos fucked up Andrew Luck. He was never the same after a game against the '15 Broncos, nor was Cam Newton. The circuses part of this doesn't need to pick winners, they just need to keep us distracted.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:58 AM
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I mean you sound like a jobless chart boy who didn't make the cut for high finance lol You are a bitch. I'm now convinced. Men fuck with each other, but bitches cut one another down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 05:54 AM
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A healthy LTR girl who goes for lunch with a friend can just do that nonchalantly and mention it after-the-fact. Bingo.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:53 AM
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Fuck the Patriots. Hardly, because the Broncos have spanked them well recently. How do you make a girl a “plate” . You don't. You make multiple girls plates. You're apparently showing too much value. Which is shocking, for a Patriots fan.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:51 AM
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In NO WAY is it 'manning up' to take on a single mother and her children. Again, this is "invalidating" language, in that I have felt exactly that pressure. Doesn't make you less of a man because you don't want to date single mothers. Here's the thing....although I pay the fuck out of my taxes, I'm good with more taxes for the purpose of proper child, elder, and mental health care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 04:23 AM
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It’s been 4 days since the date. We haven’t texted since that night as well. Congrats. You're doing it right. Meet up again, and try. You need to get your reps in. Good luck!
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:15 AM
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all marching in line because that’s either what’s someone told them they must do or they told themselves Or because we saddled ourselves with massive debt....esp. the student kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 04:09 AM
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You're probably already too late. "You're not real? Jesus told me something else." "Much love? You couldn't handle it." "Glad to meet an expert cock tease." etc.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:50 AM
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Jesus kids these days don't know how to flirt. She wasn't talking shit, she wanted the D. Dipshit.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:41 AM
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use your brain. Back off on the fucking insults. It's remnants of evolutionary psychology. Which is way, way deeper than you, and especially the females here, will accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:37 AM
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Pay attention boys, by the two-year mark, you should be shopping as well. If you wanna find out how to never be cheated on again, go read Caleb Jones work at BlackDragon. It's always good seeing BD getting some love here, but I don't know how fair this is. Under BD's system, you can't be cheated on, because you refuse monogamy and cannot expect monogamy from the women you're with, although there are limits, like OLTR's aren't to have anything other than FB's....which works in a man's advantage, …
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:31 AM
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A date her "controlling" boyfriend isn't letting her go on because he's insecure, or at least that's what she is telling herself and that's what her friends will tell her. Yep.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:22 AM
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A good LTR isn't gonna even think about going on a one on one date with another man. That's a fact. Just so this isn't a total circle jerk (not that OP is paying attention anymore) it's totally feasible for a LTR going out to lunch with an old friend/new colleague. It would just have a totally different flavor. It was OP's LTR's defensiveness that set all this off. Because as you said.... Would you be posting about your good LTR on TRP? Exactly.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:21 AM
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You're not hearing me. Almost everybody gets The Wall wrong. It's not declining looks so much as increasing pickiness. Women who would fuck you on the first date would make me spend $300 on 2 dinners. Capiche?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:21 AM
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Long distance anal only plate.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:18 AM
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Dude, you are lecturing a 47 y/o man with his shit very together about semantics. I mean...when I brought up the comparison between geeks, nerds, and dorks, I basically gave up the point. Do you get it yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:17 AM
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You're young. Enjoy it while you can. When you're my age, 47, MILFs are a royal pain in the ass. They don't want to mess it up with me, I'm a catch. You're not. Have fun.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:06 AM
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Are you a bitch? You're acting like a bitch. Literally, you're trying to cut another man down because you have a clue he might have his shit together. That's bitch behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:50 AM
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Strength does not always equal size. We're actually on the same page here. And I still don't believe that physique put up those numbers.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:27 AM
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Blue Pill advice. Literally. I literally told him he might be better off Blue Pilled.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:25 AM
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Get your facts straight dude. My facts are totally straight. Men have been known to become contractors, or even bums, to avoid child support. Men have NO SAY in this matter. I've said the same thing at least a dozen times in this thread. That doesn't mean they take on more risk. More nights flopping out the booby to feed the kid. More wiping of nasty shitty asses. More days wondering if baby daddy leaves them high and dry. Think of it this way.....if women didn't take on more risk, TRP falls rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:23 AM
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I'm not the one splitting hairs here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:17 AM
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LOL really? I just got off my job doing technical analysis, commuted from my bedroom to my living room to lift my barbell, and might or might not go out on the prowl tonight. Last time I went out I was making statistics jokes to a cute Asian woman who was straight up feeling me up. But no, splitting hairs between geeks, nerds, and dorks, vs. normally adapted smart dudes....yeah, that's worth my time! ROTFLMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 12:17 AM
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Split those hairs! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:52 PM
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Im saying you're over-estimating evolutionary factors. OK, fair enough. I think almost everyone vastly underestimates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:37 PM
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Whatever, Daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:22 PM
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Yeah, he changed it up halfway through, it's a short term LDR with 6 week projects or some such thing.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:21 PM
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I said for the next few days. I didn't know it was a LDR, which is a whole different matter.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:09 PM
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One more time. Had either of those girls not wanted an abortion, then you would not have access to abortion, and you would be Daddy. Men don't have access to abortion, at least not directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 10:39 PM
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Yes, abs are generally attractive to women, but different types of women like different types of guys. Abs are attractive to men. V-tapers are attractive to women. Anyway...you are poisoning the well with words like "TRP oversimplifies everything" even when I was talking evolution. I take a hell of a lot of issue with that. You're completely ignoring my larger point, which is that behaviors aren't nearly as malleable as people think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 10:37 PM
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She just called and said that she is sorry and won't do it.. You may not have wanted to post here. You may want to forget all of this and go back to where you were before. This thing isn't over. Not by a longshot. In all honesty, good luck, you seem like a decent dude.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:18 PM
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Yes, it would go up in smokes Probably our most fundamental disagreement. TRP teaches to lift like your life depends on it, exactly because it's a Tingle generator....and those tingles are going on in the female lizard brain. This stuff is way too deep to turn in a generation....or 10.....or even 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 10:15 PM
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5'9" 165#'s....at 47 I'm pulling 215 off the floor and pressing 95 overhead. Not impressive numbers, but I'm not exactly a slouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 10:13 PM
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She might not even know she’s shopping, but that’s how it works- Yep.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:02 PM
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We have paternity tests, now. And so 200,000 years of evolutionary inspired behavior just go up in smoke? I don't think so. Americans are fat fucks because for even longer than we've been human, fat, sugar and salt have been hard to come by. All are now abundant, but we don't have an "off switch" because the selection pressure has gone towards consuming that stuff. We are not blank slates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:59 PM
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Hate to say it, but you're the one missing the point. Sure, women who want an abortion, it is easy for them to get one, in most places. But if she doesn't want one, get ready to be called Daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:48 PM
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You know you're not going to like the answer.....get your ass on Tinder and fuck another woman. You are coming from a place of extreme scarcity.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:47 PM
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The point is that abortion is easily accessible for most people if they want it ABORTION IS COMPLETELY UP TO THE WOMAN AND UNAVAILABLE TO MEN Sorry I had to yell, but you have a red flair and should get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:39 PM
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Dude, in Red Pilled terms you "broke Frame" with her sensing you were upset. It's even worse if you weren't actually upset....then it would be pure projection on her part. She should be soft nexted for a few days, not because she's going to lunch, but because of all the drama she gave you.....but I'm guessing you live with her, so....good luck soft nexting her. Coming here with this question is like going to a statistician after you got your experiment results. We can tell you where you fucked u…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:38 PM
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A male partner who fathers children with another woman is almost certainly going to divert scarce resources towards the children produced by this infidelity, decreasing his original partner's offspring's probability of survival. I see this as totally differently, and yes, it is speculative. I think that women's brothers were really, really important to them. Again, they know they are spawn of the same woman, and uncles are usually pretty keen towards nieces and nephews, as well as the well being…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:12 PM
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Oddly enough the one most willing to try new things was a virgin girl who wanted to be shown the ropes, she was cool I trained in a virgin, too. She chose well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 08:57 PM
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EZ Only 'cause they went for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 08:20 PM
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It's called "leading up the command chain" LOL! Good luck!
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:19 PM
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Dad is 72 and I've begged him to lift. He does to yoga.....I mean, he has a stretching routine LOL he's too conservative to get better trained up in yoga, but I'm working on it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:12 PM
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The main difference I'd argue is that women (and a larger proportion of blue-pill men) will be more ok with moderate n-count partners. The main difference is maternity is assured and paternity is not. It's not about the past. It's about the current and the future. This isn't culture, this is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 08:08 PM
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Why do you think that? It's well known and used as a proxy in public health circles. There are many correlates between grip strength and health outcomes. I completely agree. Strength training has changed my life. I'm putting up crap numbers, 215/135/95 DL/squat/OHP 3X5 plus 135# dead rows to exhaustion, and 3X5 chin ups, at 165 pounds....and 47 years old, not letting anything go pop is my largest goal (outside of being a tough old son of a bitch...as Rip says, strong people are harder to kill an…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:59 PM
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You're not remotely important enough to draw a harassment allegation (play dumb if you do). The "Good Looking Loser" has this goofy but apparently effective 8 week course of higher and higher challenges.....spergie, but might be a good structure for you. You may want to look him up. Good luck!
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:49 PM
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Men fantasize about having exclusive access to the bodies of women. Because maternity is assured and paternity is not. Let's not pretend this is some cultural thing. It's way deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 07:14 PM
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It's when any one woman doesn't have control of 100% of your pussy supply.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:01 PM
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I've worked full time remote for 6 years. I don't know that I'd do it again. Your personality matters a lot. I'm fairly social and the isolation has been getting to me, although I recently got trained up on doing some site visits which helps me from going out of my mind. It can also be hard to stay on task.....IT can be fire drills which keep you focused, but also plenty of drift.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:57 PM
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The unilateral female option to abort shortcircuits that connection Bam. Also...women take on the lion's share of the risk. A guy might be saddled with payments, but can tap out of actually caring for the little fucker. A woman can't/won't opt out (for the most part....my folks, desperate to adopt at the time, got fucked over by supporting a young woman who decided she wanted to keep her baby after all).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:57 PM
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spare me the “what if she says she’s on BC?” OK, so... Let’s discuss. . What if she says she's on birth control? Also....consider, women take on the vast majority of the risk and responsibility of pregnancy and childbirth/rearing....have a wide array of birth control......and ultimate discretion over getting an abortion. Can't wait to see the circle jerking in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:55 PM
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bad bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:49 PM
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smart guy That's the secret sauce, bro. I'll not dox myself by putting up a pic, but if you can look like me, a bit of a nerd, but then get under the barbell....oh yeah, women have standards when it comes to brains, and when you mix that with even a mediocre level of brawn, life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:48 PM
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No, looksmaxxing is not the game. I just told you it makes everything easier with women. I also gave you an alternative definition of game. I don't know what motivates you here....seems like you just like to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:40 PM
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You're so shallow and obsessed with lineage, you're an asshole for caring. This is literally the worst for me. The fact is that men have anti-cuckold instincts, and for good goddamned reason. That's why women and society are so strident.....we're not all that far removed from infanticide. Quick story....I was in denial about my infertility the first 5 years of marriage...after another 4 years of drama, my ex wife, living on her own, got knocked up. I tried to "do the right thing" and took her ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:40 PM
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charm, romance, scene-setting The most important sexual organ is between the ears, not between the legs. But it's important, to me, ethically, to not leave damage behind me. I think we were just on different pages. We're on completely different pages. I'm an infertile man in his mid 40's who wants nothing to do with children and owes more student debt than has in retirement, although I do have a career. I'm also handsome and well built. I'm a good looking loser. That's the persona I've been deve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:30 PM
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The study. Whoops....that's a good one, but down the rabbit hole I went. Another one. The money shot: We measured hand‐grip strength, as a measure of overall physical strength, in a sample of 32 male students, and recorded age, body weight, and height. Seventy‐nine women rated facial images of these men for dominance, masculinity, and attractiveness. After controlling for age and body weight, hand‐grip strength was found to correlate significantly positively with all three measures. I need to ge…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:23 PM
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This is not the game at all. If it doesn't work for you, it doesn't work for you. My interactions with women improved across the board since getting under the barbell. I will say this.....I'm with the Good Looking Loser.... Game == Killer Instinct, no more, no less. It doesn't matter how many women you talk to, it only matters how many of them you try to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:12 PM
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most men don't want to raise another guy's kid I think this is the biggest break between the manosphere and everyone else. As an infertile dude in his mid 40's with his shit tightly bound together, I have totally felt societal and familial pressure to "man up" and take care of someone else's fuck trophy. This is one place the women in here tend to not give a single inch on. Gravel's attitude is actually typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:10 PM
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Turn her into a plate. Anal only.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:57 AM
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What's poppin fellas, Your mom.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:56 AM
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It's literally about men's sexual strategy. So, no.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:55 AM
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Your eyes are still on her, not on your own goals.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:52 AM
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You did go right back to "her", bro.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:49 AM
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> this one girl LMFAO
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:38 AM
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So......I feel what you're saying here. Even worse, EC's and other dudes who have been around a while get really, really bored with this shit. From another of your posts... > Avoid them here’s why, im 17 I appreciate what you're saying here, kid, with all due respect. It is getting old. It's long been old.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:27 AM
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All proper answers. Your posting history does give some semblance of credence. they know what I’m here for with them Underrated. Dark Triad doesn't work for anyone. But that requires solid Frame. Still...I had a woman hanging on my arm last night and didn't get her digits, never mind fuck her. I think she'd have gone for it. And I've never felt the need to ask red pilled Christians what they think. If I had to make a bet, you're asking about a girlfriend, not a plate. No offense.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:02 AM
2

"Lift like your life depends on it" is nothing but bringing men up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:40 AM
2

Appreciate the levity :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:34 AM
1

How do you keep the other 2 in the air? What are they like? Are they cool with being plates?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:30 AM
2

Do you even lift, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:26 AM
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It's kind of why I feel silly participating here. How can this be "Purple Pill Debate" when 90% of the guys who post here are so dense as to not pick up on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:24 AM
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Oh, I do....and 95% of the time guys are talking about plates, they're actually talking about girlfriends.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:22 AM
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No. Lift like your life depends on it. Women don't need beta providers any more.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:08 AM
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Good fucking lord yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:07 AM
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Weak lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:07 AM
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Dudes around here don't seem to get it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:06 AM
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Hope so, plenty more lovelies to tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:05 AM
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Dinner at his place, or your place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:56 AM
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This word, plate, I do not think it means what you think it means.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:55 AM
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Why in God’s name do so many people think a person with a username about sunflowers is a man? ROTFLMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:53 AM
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Somehow. I'll never know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:52 AM
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The point is that paying for a woman’s meal doesn’t flip her attraction on or off. Disagree, it turns it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:50 AM
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Yeah -- I had a FWB who would call me to pick her up outside fancy San Francisco after some chump bought her a $200 dinner. She'd tell her date that her brother was giving her a ride home. You win the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:49 AM
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uh what no lol. second dates are almost always dinner dates in my experience His place or yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:48 AM
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Although as a line cook professionally, I find that inviting a woman over for dinner and cooking for her to be far more effective. As an analyst/programmer, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:48 AM
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Believe me, guys simps are still buying dinners.... FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:47 AM
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Why would a guy fight about it? You mean why do guys post on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:45 AM
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avoid anyplace expensive without her being able to notice. Spit good enough game and she won't, yo. Seriously. Lift like your life depends on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:45 AM
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Now I'm legitimately confused. Your original comment was "hot bastards are so cheap". Ah. So....actually, my point was that hot bastards can get away with being cheap. when I think of a guy who's acting "cheap", who I would describe as "cheap" I'm not thinking of the guy who spent all afternoon cooking to give me a romantic dinner, even if that is technically less money spent than just taking me to a restaurant. In my experience, those romantic dinners are freaking awesome. Yes, it's less money.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:36 AM
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How is that low-effort though if they're...still spending a fair bit of money on these women? Not spending money. If you're here in good faith, drop it. Because originally this was about cheapness/effort, not about commitment level. No, it was actually about cheapness. "Paying" for a woman. It's literally in the title of the post. Look, Internet stranger who'll I'll never fuck, I've invested a good 20 minutes into you for no other reason than trying to articulate how guys like me can actually ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:09 AM
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string a non-relationship along Exactly, but without lies. this meme of the "u up" guy is just not a thing I see. One thing you're right about is that it's a bit more than just that. Generosity other than monetary is actually really helpful. It's not just "let's fuck", it's, you know, actual charisma. in the wild I'm just not seeing it. Yes, you are....stringing "non-relationships" along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:52 AM
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if causation comes into play, the whole house of cards falls down. Which is your goal. Who said "good-looking"? "Hot" is a different thing. This is not at all what incels talk about because they don't believe in charisma. Splitting hairs. attractive guys can be low-effort and women won't mind. They actually hate it but keep coming back....until they don't, because some simp will offer exclusivity, but there are always other women available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:37 AM
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At an n-count of 17 (all from Tinder), only two of them were not fatties. Congrats, you're doing it right. Nothing says you'll ever do better.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:14 AM
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Kaufman's translations of Nietzsche. Especially the Genealogy of Morals.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:00 AM
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Except I thought you said they were cheapasses who didn't pay for shit, let alone do romantic gestures or whatever? Or is this just Magical Chadding? Sigh. Just another "gotcha." A sympathetic reading of what I've said on this thread, and you wouldn't be saying this. I think the saddest thing about this exchange is that it really doesn't help anyone. Good looking, charismatic guys can get away with not spending money. Good looking, charismatic guys can get away with spending money. This is what …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:55 AM
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You have that exactly right. Most guys never get there at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:14 AM
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In fact, the hottest guys tend to be the MOST inclined to generosity IME, but idk if that's correlation or causation. Hot guys can afford to be generous without feeling like simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:13 AM
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You're invalidating me!!!! I'm actually dead serious, I'm relating my experience with life, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:03 AM
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LOL I'll tell you what, when you're a hot dude who gets away with paying for jack shit, report back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:00 AM
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Women won't admit to it, to be sure. Follow the logic.....if you're hot, you can afford to be cheap. They keep coming back for....other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:50 AM
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If you like your carts before your horses, sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:48 AM
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There are girls that hit higher and look feminine as shit (pull sumo/better leverage and shit). Right, and more CNS activation, and less testosterone. I dunno....the bodybuilding thing really bugs me. There is a recent paper that made its rounds that correlated male strength with male bodily attractiveness, and they used an objective measure: grip strength. Then again, it's also splitting hairs, powerlifting vs. bodybuilding.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:47 AM
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before he has even met the woman irl It's almost ego protection. I suffer from it too. Just last night, I had a woman very clearly into me, laughing her ass off at goofy statistics jokes and touching my arms/shoulders....they say lift like your life depends on it for a reason. Still, I bounced and didn't even get her digits, I should have invited her home for a nightcap. Another ego protection technique I use is to not keep my place totally up to snuff. Now......I'm not useless like the OP is, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:41 AM
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His name is Jimmy Pop LOL perfect flair, OP. No, it's not about being a **bad** boy/man, we're being incentivized to being **fun** boys/men. Women no longer need/want beta providers, so get under the barbell then put on your dancing shoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:34 AM
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Cheap bastards are so hot. Got that backwards, hot bastards are so cheap. Edit: Hot bastards can get away with being cheap. But they don't....stupidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:20 AM
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Damned, right, only simps pay for dinner or in any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:19 AM
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I was referring to the "85th percentile" from the comment above mine. If he is in the top 15%, it would be at least very impressive. I also disagree that he wouldn't be jacked with those numbers. Look at the skinny fucker. A dude his size pulling 315 would absolutely have traps visible from the front. I'm calling bullshit, there's no way that physique is putting up those numbers, none.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:16 AM
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Seems like you should have more muscle based on your somewhat impressive numbers for your body weight...that squat number is in the 85th percentile for your weight. Top 15% numbers are very, very impressive....OP would be jacked if he was hitting those numbers.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 10:42 PM
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TRP is a sub for male, not female, sexual strategy. Depending on your Frame, they can make splendid plates. You just have to be able to enforce your boundaries.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 10:16 PM
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i know where you live Reported. Weirdo.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:23 PM
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Reported. Weirdo.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:19 PM
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Do you think men would be equally willing to sign a form saying they acknowledge a baby might result from sex before a woman sleeps with him? Absolutely. Men want children. Look, I've never had a woman admit that because they have way more options when it comes to birth control, and take on a disproportionate amount of the risk, they should take way more responsibility. i don't expect you to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:46 PM
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Trust and the rhythm method are probably the worst options. So...women are less than trustworthy, then? If they choose not to explore those options, it creates a child that both parents should technically take responsibility for. Because women have so many more options, including the absolute right to an abortion (and not aborting!), they should have written consent before becoming pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:26 PM
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It's really messed up to keep pushing this idea that male virginity is some kind of defect. It is. It means that no other woman chose him. I guess this offends your sensibilities.....but notice what's going on here. It's women who get to choose who has sex and who doesn't. This is female choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:23 PM
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more kids need to take sex ed, it covers the whole "cause and effect" shit of sex Men can use condoms (which women don't like), get sterilized, or trust women. Women can force condom usage, be on the pill, have an IUD, get her tubes tied, trust the rhythm method, and abort....or not...at their sole discretion....if any of the above fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:49 PM
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Fuck that noise. I'm going to follow the advice of grandparents everywhere, and start with grandchildren!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:44 PM
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yay, it was removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:30 PM
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Please, get a grip. She's a woman. Women never evolved anti-cuckolding mechanisms, like men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:27 PM
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A mother can’t legally block you from seeing your child for no reason. It's not your child. This is a thread about single mothers, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:08 PM
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You’re moving the goalposts again. That's because she's not here to have her view changed, or even see things even a little bit from the male point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:49 PM
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Seeming more interested in arguing or convincing others than understanding opposing views; Reported the post based on this. OP has an ax to grind, and her views are not open to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:40 PM
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It seems irresponsible and cruel to the kid to behave like a parent then abandon them for nothing they can control. Obviously, but it you don't have parental rights, the mother can block you from seeing them.....and smear your name into the dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:17 PM
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How does The State see it? The State sees a man providing for a child and and compels him to continue to do so even if the relationship with the mother has ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:57 PM
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What I'm driving at is even if I did want to be involved in a kid's life, I would want it to be provisional, but that's not how the State sees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:24 PM
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I could probably have taken her home. I didn't even get her number. Yes, I regret it, and I need to remember that regret next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:21 PM
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I never met the kid and mom and I enjoyed one another’s company. This right here. As a matter of fact, many single mothers would prefer this arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:18 PM
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You freaks who are obsessed with not wanting to "raise another man's child" Would this be considered "invalidating?" Also....a big part of the problem is allowing the State to get involved. If you provide for the kids, you can be on the hook for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:16 PM
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It's a sign he's a loser. Women don't like to hook up with losers. It's the same principle that Dread works on. Other women desiring your man lets you know that your man is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:44 PM
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In this model, men are a luxury, not a necessity. That's why we lift like our lives depend on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:39 PM
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Marry a rich widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:26 PM
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Yes. I was also influenced by the best Red Pill article ever, "How to talk to everyone you see." I'm convinced being fit helps, though. It's a positive feedback loop. I added to a long list of regrets last night...I had a cute Asian woman laughing her ass off, and initiating kino, using statistics jokes of all things. Fish in a barrel.....but I can't seem to pull the damned trigger. The "Good Looking Loser" says that Game == Killer Instinct, nothing more, nothing less. I think he's right. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:24 PM
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i'd say you should have an abundance of plates, not just an abundance "mentality". if you're only fucking one girl ofc you'll catch oneitis Right, had to scroll to the bottom to find the right answer. Abundance mentality can only be faked so long, the goal is to actually live in abundance.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 02:49 PM
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It's none of her business if he's a virgin. It's precisely her business. She is vetting a potential sexual partner. A guy being a virgin, esp. after 20, is a massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:30 PM
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He volunteered unflattering personal info for no reason at all. It's worse than that. He volunteered deal breaking personal info for no reason at all. I get the impression that OP is over 20.....telling women that no other woman found him attractive enough to date is a terrible way to get a date!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:27 PM
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Why did you make this a question for women? You learn to fish from fishermen, not from fish. Telling her that you never dated is exactly the same thing as telling her that no other woman has ever found you attractive enough to date. In other words, an absolute dealbreaker. This will be the same for every woman. The older you are, the more pronounced this will be. Making it about you never dating makes it seem like you are using her as an object. TRP teaches to get fucking busy, not just fake it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:19 PM
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I would have used that to berate This is why I hate this sub. I've learned way more from dudes berating me than by anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:30 PM
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And yet when I was running with Thing 1 to get him ready for his black belt qualification, he complained more bitterly than I have ever heard anybody complain in all my life. you joking, bro? not sure we're on the opposite sides of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:21 PM
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his money. No. He presented her with an opportunity cost. Forfeit your career, I'll take care of you. She's entitled to half. I'm red as blood, and she's entitled to half.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:20 PM
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I run long and hard There was a Japanese Judo champion who cross trained by doing this...and only this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:08 PM
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God damn inspirational. +1 But get on your goddamned sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:07 PM
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V-Neck tank tops That's all I fucking wear. Male fashion is exactly slimming the waist and accentuating the shoulders. Nah, I'm good, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:06 PM
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AARP sent you a job offer, not a birthday card.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:05 PM
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When a bitch woman gives up her career to raise your kids, she's entitled to the money. I get all the abuses, I really, really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:02 PM
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When a bitch woman gives up her career to raise your kids, she's entitled to the money. I get all the abuses, I really, really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:54 PM
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I don't think you take my point. We are taught to "respect everyone's beliefs" and yet....people believe really retarded shit. In fact, I do not respect the beliefs of someone who thinks the world is flat, because every ship that has ever come across the horizon did so mast first. Valuing the beliefs and ideas of others (who are not experts in the subject at hand) is literally plugged in thinking. It virtually defines what it is to be plugged in. This might make good fodder for a headline post, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 08:20 PM
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Nietzsche Came here to plug Nietzsche, reading him right now.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 08:12 PM
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I don't have to agree to jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 07:55 PM
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Like I said, you could believe whatever you want. What's funny about this is, actually, I don't believe whatever I want. Humans are not "wired" for life long monogamy. As you said, after the initial spark, things become mundane. So the man retreats into porn.....because things are mundane. Porn wasn't the cause, it was the effect. Ill believe my own experiences (and possibly studies or articles on the subject) before I take the word of a Reddit alpha. You don't have to take my word, but you may …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 07:34 PM
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He takes the pill, and then just replaces the term "girlfriend" (in the BP sense) by "plate" Over and over and over again.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:23 PM
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How many plates do you have in the air? If you have at least 2, go for it. If you have just 1.....you don't have plates, you have a girlfriend. Better 0 than 1. I've noticed dudes haven't been using the word "plate" all that effectively recently.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:13 PM
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I’m not even fat. Is that all there is to it? No, you need a good v-taper. Deadlifts, rows, and overhead pressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 07:07 PM
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Forreal man there's like an inflection point where the attention floodgates swing open. This right here. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't pass it myself. It's something about flipping past a certain shoulder/waist ratio, not just lower bodyfat (which certainly helps)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 07:03 PM
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My jokes got funnier, my stories more compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:58 PM
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Most philosophy is dense bullshit. Keep in mind, for a long time, you had to wrap your philosophy in religious terms or risk being burned at the stake. Plato was fairly clear. Aristotle is a grind. From there to Adam Smith is all religious mumbo jumbo. Mumbo jumbo that Nietzsche brilliantly dissects.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:33 PM
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Look, we're on "PPD" which is supposed to be a debate sub related to the Red Pill. When I see links like the one you provided, I think along the lines of "beta simps are tapping out of the sexual marketplace because they cannot succeed, and are using porn to cope." I almost see porn as a type of "metabolic syndrome" you know, diabetes, heart disease, and obesity, all presenting as a cluster? Same with porn, video games, and social media. Everything a man needs, sex, leveling up, and friends. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:25 PM
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To me, TRP is basically Nietzsche lite. Get yourself a Kauffman translation of the basic writings of Nietzsche, esp. the Genealogy of Morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:17 PM
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You don't "soft next" a bitch you aren't banging. she 'missed red flags that presented themselves 6 or more months into a relationship'. She knows all about the Alpha tingles and sees you as a Beta simp.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:15 PM
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IME, it is often mutual dread, tho. I honestly disagree. Women are wired to move on if need be, in a way that men aren't. Especially in LTR's when the tingles have faded, other females being attracted to your man is the strongest signal possible signal that you should hang around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:11 PM
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Engineering certs are a big deal, to be sure....look, man, I love it when people from around the world come and help build my country, but I did have a girlfriend from Israel and her green card woes were real. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:08 PM
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Men shouldn't get frustrated when they don't have their shit together and can't attract anybody, though. Yes they fucking should. Otherwise we'd never get off our asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:06 PM
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You want to put yourself into a positive feedback loop. +1 it's all about momentum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:05 PM
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Most of my issues come from the believe that I HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER ANYBODY. THat is why I want a therapist. Here's the thing....you might be right. It might just be pragmatic truth. I'd never counsel against therapy, but.....if you don't have enough to offer, then as is being said to death on this thread, get that which is enough to offer. As someone in his own head far too much, let me also say this: It's not up to you, it's up to them. I step on my own dick constantly, I get it. At the end o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:04 PM
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No need to avoid women. Just don't let them know the details of your life. Problem solved. Counts just as much for those of us with our shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:59 PM
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Environmental Engineer graduate (nothing else) I don't know if you're in the States, but the wind industry is going completely fucking nuts right now. You can look at technical advisors like DNV-GL as a good way to learn the business, or at turbine manufacturers like GE or Vestas, or even construction companies like RES, Blattner and Mortenson. It's a gold rush through the end of next year, when the production tax credits start to roll off. You'd probably have to travel, though. You are young, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:58 PM
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I love my dad no matter what others say. I love my father as well. It was a hard road to get to the great relationship we now have. I would never take dating advice from him. I will say this....his great marriage is proof positive of Red Pilled Dread. His wife is lucky to have him, and knows it, has said it out loud in a few different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:54 PM
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I'm not trolling, bro. This is literally terrible advice. He's basically pawning you off on some bitch woman so you'll be her problem, not his. ETA: then your issue will be settled Think of the complete lack of agency involved here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:57 PM
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My father told me you should get the woman first and then your issue will be settled? LOLOLOLOLOL LMFAO HAHAHAHAHA WOOOO! ROTFLMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:49 PM
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You can't next a bitch you live with. How do I make clear to her that I prefer to live by myself unless we get a child Translation: how do I get her to forget her birth control. Also....note, you're talking about "her" in the singular, it appears. A commitment to live by yourself transcends any one woman.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:45 PM
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People love in their own ways. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:33 PM
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I think women initiate 70% of divorces. Maybe that would be a better metric to evaluate. Scrolled all the way down to find someone correcting the OP on this point...and it's the OP correcting the OP on this point. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:32 PM
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I'd be trophy wife hunting and she knows it. I don't know of any happy marriages that lack some element of Dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:30 PM
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When you bring in $100 a month selling erotic novels on amazon while your husband brings in $9k a month as an accountant, the money is ostensibly his. Not if she's not working in order to raise your kids, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:27 PM
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Actually evolution selected but these traits in opposite, women needed to light switch in order to accept when their tribe was conquered by new men, those who didn't died in battle had to scroll nearly to the bottom to find this. smh
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:07 PM
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Like Ive said before I've known of hetero relationships that fell apart because after the initial spark of excitement faded away and sex became mundane the man retreated back to porn and stopped paying attention to his partner. I don't buy it. I literally don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 03:54 PM
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CVT transmissions are gay Guess you missed the part about "proper manual transmission." It is a proper 6 speed manual transmission, three pedals and everything. Anyway.....CVT's are cool from an engineering standpoint but have been ruined by marketers. The put in fake gear shifts because people are used to gears shifting. I think it's....Mazda that put out a blended CVT, basically a CVT with a first gear. This really helps acceleration off the line.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 03:52 PM
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I like you, Poppy. Tell Mr. Poppy. You add more to this sub than most. I am a straight up geek, renewable energy analyst who knows the business, R, and SQL, with a recently (6 years ago) degree in mathematics. Although I am old. And I press 95#s over my head. Here's another Red Pill.....I'm basically a gymcel because I'm about to go to another swing dancing class, but will always be deferential to the ladies. To live in a world where idiots get laid is bad enough. To live in a world where I outl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:31 PM
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I can confirm similar antics on the part of everyone else in the room prior to him getting his ass ejected. User name checks out. Having been ejected from the 2 best bars around here, once for good reason, the other....OK, Red Pill time, the other for good reason too. I think....OK, here's what I think. This sub is fucked because to really debate, you need to be a top 20 man, or a top 80 woman. Speed dating verifies this. But anyone is allowed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:18 PM
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He seemed genuinely nice, but people were so deferential to him it was pathetic. Thanks for this point. Dude did look my way a couple times. He seemed genuinely appreciative that not only I approached him directly, I then left him alone. I heard him on the radio recently. He referenced how he moved to my neighborhood. The fact that I only saw him once, although I was a regular at that bar.... He found better places to party, and I don't blame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:12 PM
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You seem young. Here's the thing....LTR's are TRP on hard mode, and you're probably too young to deal with that. All I infer about you is that you're young. I don't know if you have a mission in life, I don't know if you lift, I don't know if you have friends, all that jazz. Coming from the right place, what a woman does when she's not with you is none of your damned business. Does she behave well when with you, or not? If not, next. If so, who the fuck cares? TRP is not for everyone, and might …
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:33 PM
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With American woman maybe I hear you on this. I have buddies who were much better at bitch management than I've ever been. Best to live alone, to me. You can't next a woman who lives with you.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 08:18 PM
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CR-Z. 2016 was the last model year. Here's the thing....it's not like most hybrids where you can drive around on electric power. The motor/generator is bolted directly to the engine, upstream of the clutch. Basically, it's a free revving Honda engine with an electric motor assist. Most 1500 cc engines don't hit peak torque so low in the power band. Charging is done with engine braking. The brakes are normal, etc...again, the generator is bolted to the engine, so recharging is the engine braking …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 08:17 PM
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Says who? It happens all day, every day I applaud you for this topic, to be honest. The fact that this is not discussed really speaks to the bias of this sub. It almost seems like incel debate, to be quite honest. TRP teaches men how to "spin plates" and the idea that you can spin plates without considerable female thirst is ludicrous. The problem is that 95% of the men who post here likely couldn't spin plates if their lives depended on it. Nor do they lift like their lives depend on it, so don…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 08:09 PM
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I never said porn was a problem. Kind of the opposite actually. I think it would be a good thing for men in general to become more independent of women LMFAO I live alone, lift, have a great career, and funny jokes. I sent a girl away this morning because I had work to do before jumping in the pool. You don't become independent of women by watching other men fuck women you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 08:02 PM
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Wow, Poppy, great fucking comment all around. Love this part: I’ve seen the way girls act around college level athletes with pro prospects and you’ll never see a thirstier bunch. I met an NFL lineman in a bar once. I approached him directly, shook his hand, and wished him good luck during the coming season. I then sat back and watched the entire fucking bar whore themselves out for his attention. Good looking, not so good looking, male, female, didn't matter. Everyone was a dancing monkey that n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 07:55 PM
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That is why you live alone, spin plates, lift, have hobbies and don't give shit about the other sex opinion, since it's 100% backed up by their momentary mood. Having been in LTR's for most of my adult life.... Ah, this is life on easy mode, man. It is annoying that if I don't do it, it doesn't get done...but I'd rather scrub the fucking toilet than ever negotiate again. When I decided to give away my dining room table (yes, straight gave it away, it was all in about $400 from Ikea, not worth my…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 07:37 PM
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You have zero obligation to be honest with her. Ever heard of "Don't stick your dick in crazy?" Lying makes bitches crazy. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:23 PM
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I didn't notice anything special. Which is what lead to TRP. TRP teaches to be high value, while PUA teaches to feign high value. "Women are a lagging indicator of success" means nothing more than what I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:20 PM
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I am interested in it, actually. I've struggled with it. Politically, I'm so liberal I'm a conservative, if that makes any sense. I also think it's a red herring. I think women are vastly misinterpreting the actual danger to them, and this thread continues that trend. The Red Pill teaches men to soft next bitches giving them drama, and get away with it by being jacked and funny and the best version of themselves. This is actually a danger to the position of women, far more than any alt right fan…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:13 PM
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Awalt is bogus. Here's the thing about AWALT. It goes beyond human females. Females of a vast variety of critters take on a disproportionate amount of the risk and effort when it comes to reproduction. This sets up a certain set of incentives. AWALT doesn't mean that every woman is going to react to the same incentive the same way, every time. On some level, it's more an exploration of those incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:08 PM
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You do realize this is an Internet forum, correct? Are you a teacher or a cop, or something like that? Trying to maintain control? Internet forums are, by nature, freewheeling. And I don't blame you for dodging the idea that for all the women on this forum who love banging on about how TRP & the manosphere wants to take away their broad issue rights, in reality TRP teaches men to take pussy off the pedestal which limits the personal control women can have over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:55 PM
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Read this sub. That's clearly the only thing that matters What's your agenda?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 08:38 PM
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Muscles are not important. Do you even lift, bro?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 08:38 PM
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What does his have to do with anything? It is a specific rebuttal to the claim that the danger of the Red Pill to women has to do with broader cultural issues, such as the right to vote, rather than narrower personal issues, which is where the actual danger to women lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:15 PM
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You are not entitled to a woman. Women are people, not property. LOL This is exactly where TRP is mixed in with the broader manosphere. Incels might complain about being "entitled" to a woman. Red Pillers care about bitch management.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:08 PM
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Op is making the argument that redpill ideas and the radicalization they result in does threaten the loss of certain rights, such as the right to vote. Oh, it's far more insidious than that. What women are losing is control over men. Lift like your life depends on it. Be the best version of you. Because spinning plates is a rational response to open hypergamy. You don't like what I'm doing? Fine. Next. This is all about a loss of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:07 PM
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Feminism has improved the lives of women Women of certain classes, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:03 PM
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feminism causing destruction So.... I won't deny that there are a lot of Anger Phase guys bitching about feminism. Still...."Spinning plates is a rational response to open hypergamy." Women end relationships more often than men do. Divorce is now no-fault. I'm not arguing that women are better off after divorce, that's a different matter, but women are now permitted to do whatever the fuck they want. Fine. I'm going to do whatever the fuck I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:01 PM
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whats in it for them to "admit" it? Incentives, after all, matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 07:55 PM
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If you have one, then by default she's not a plate. Had to scroll all the way down to see this. SMH.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:47 PM
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Buddy she’s a plate not your girlfriend fuck her Respectfully....nonsense. OP said: she’s the only plate I’m sleeping with right now OP has a girlfriend, not a plate.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:46 PM
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Exactly. That said, I was trying to emphasize was that she was bored and unchallenged. We're programmed to make our women feel safe and happy, yet....I've yet to see a successful long term marriage that doesn't have some element of Dread. That's how it is with Dad, 2 months after he married my stepmother, she got a call from some woman sniffing around, having heard Dad was single. Freaked her out from that day to this. Three decades of Dread. And she's better off for it. Doesn't hurt that Dad ha…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 07:37 PM
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create competition anxiety. An uncomfortable Red Pill truth. I once had a girlfriend who was entirely out of my league. 20 years younger, lovely face, big tits, child bearing hips, a brilliant programmer & mathematician to boot. Plus, she loved to cook. It was all I could do to hold on to her as long as I did. I also had a girlfriend who, well....I was entirely out of her league. I had to scrape her off like a barnacle. It's hard to play off anxiety, but the first girl obviously never had any at…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 07:24 PM
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Women tend to be more anxious than men. Your explanation on this is spot on....additionally, I'd rather have a neurotic mother than a chill one. Just in case, you know, something is wrong with me and I need help.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 12:04 AM
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I can understand their inclination though, it takes dedication, hard work and conscious effort to look good. On the other hand game principles can be learnt over a weekend munching on dorito's. LMFAO yep. In social circles, get "approved" by the men. The women rarely do the appraisal. I have 2 primary sayings from TRP: "Women don't care about the struggle, they wait around at the finish line to fuck the winners." Now, I disagree, in a way....women love the struggle, because it's drama. Otherwise…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 10:38 PM
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Making a new friend is kind of like spinning a new plate, in that you need some reps at first being together to kind of "burn in" the friendship. Also, tackling things together is a great way to quickly deepen friendships, take on some task for the sake of doing it, climbing a mountain, turning a wrench, or whatever.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:21 PM
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So to them the loser life it is for me. Yeah...my stepmother was really disappointed when she noticed my car doesn't have back seats, and commented that there's not a woman in the world who wouldn't notice that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:59 PM
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canned "Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?" "Wanna go behind that rock and get a little bolder?" or the best... "If this place is a meat market, you must be the prime rib!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:57 PM
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That or....wait for it....I don't believe the story.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:50 PM
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You're the one whose girlfriend has been in contact with an ex, but whatever, you do you.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:45 PM
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Overall, their moves are super easy to detect and so formulaic that they’re boring. So....I once watched a PUA and an obvious paying pupil in a bar once, doing their thing. It was so easy to open the girl that they were talking to....LMFAO, we had a hoot laughing at those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:43 PM
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It's really not that hard to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:42 PM
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Again and 100 times over, it depends on the guy. A guy like me living alone who is actively avoiding LTR's but could easily get them is not a loser nor seen as a loser.....but is seen as selfish. A guy who can't get a date to save his life is seen as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:37 PM
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So she doesn't know how to block? SMH.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:32 PM
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after years of no contact or.... I guess he harassed her for a long time after they broke up about these videos Which is it?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:11 PM
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No so much....in TRP terms, PUA's were faking high value rather than trying to be high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:06 PM
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don't disappoint her by failing to escalate This deserves to be amplified. I've disappointed more women by not hitting on them/escalating than I ever have by actually going for it.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:09 PM
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Put that pussy on that pedestal. Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 03:07 PM
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Maybe this is just me but I don’t think apologizing for something when you actually fucked up is a sign of weakness but a sign of strength. This isn't just you. This is Blue Pill programming at its finest.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 03:05 PM
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No wonder you're infertile you filthy high estrogen cunt (beer has a stronger estrogenic effect than even soy) I was infertile well before I drank, and....infertility destroyed my first marriage, so thanks for that. man boobs LMFAO sure. You do realize that fat comes off in the reverse order it went on, right? "Love handles" are the last vestiges of fat. My stomach area is flat, basically a one pack. My gut doesn't hang out, never mind "man boobs." What you got to show off, by the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:28 PM
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Jeff's right lol. Credit where credit's due.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:08 AM
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It’s fine if there ISNT an equivalent. 'tis fine, I'm on PPD and trying to diplomatic. Even though not a single woman here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:35 AM
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A good man with solid boundaries can make a woman feel understood, cared for and even loved without going full beta. It take really solid boundaries, though, and a centered sense of self....and at least one other plate in the air at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 10:55 PM
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Keep yourself firewalled away from the kids entirely, or limit contact and bonding to a degree that will feel ruthless. Good advice. People think I'm joking when I say I'll start with grandchildren. I'm not, at all, joking. There's a reason I bought a 2 seater CR-Z rather than a minivan with a MILFHNTR license plate. As my stepmother ruefully observed, no woman will not notice the lack of back seats.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:51 PM
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Face pulls help. I know you lift, and that's great. Face pulls really help rounded shoulder, prevent rotator cuff injuries, and help you walk around confidently. Good luck!
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:46 PM
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When she keeps coming back despite no provision of resources and no promise or even hint of any type of future.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 10:17 PM
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Quality single women over 35 without custodial children are vanishingly rare. To put it crudely, bitches are meant to breed, and when they don't they go even crazier than they would have. Question, though. I'm an older dude with no kids who is laboring under the delusion he can still land younger women, not least because I have a good track record of doing so (my LTR's of 9, 6, and 5 years were 2, 10, and 20 years younger than me, respectively). I'm also good looking, smart and well built, yadda…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:25 PM
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Long walks and calorie restriction worked for me. I wish I would have started with the barbell. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:44 PM
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Or at least one of us who divorced over his own infertility, stupidly married again, divorced because why be tied down if you don't have kids, dated a smokeshow much younger than him for a few years, found TRP which helped him understand his fucked up crazy life, and bought a barbell even though he still drinks too much beer to get rid of the damned love handles.....but is otherwise happier than he ever has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 07:14 PM
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Oh yeah, all the women who can’t cum from PIV just need your “Enthusiastic railing” lmao Not necessarily mine....using the tongue first helps, etc. Playboy called it decades ago, hockey players are the best lovers, because of how they use their hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 07:10 PM
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Nerdy wins my bread, Mine too. Nerdy + yoked works really well. Surprisingly so. I feel you on too many calories, mine are usually liquid. Fucking love handles but I love my beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 07:00 PM
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Because "Women & Children First"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:58 PM
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And often ignored. More broadly, though, you do often conflate TRP and the manosphere in general. Then again, everyone here does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:51 PM
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it is due to physiology and how tight the skin is around the clit This is a major factor, but I assure you from experience, every time a woman has cum from PIV with me it was always an enthusiastic railing she was getting at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:50 PM
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I'm nerdy, ugly and out of shape The only deal breaker there is one you can do something about, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:48 PM
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Married men are happier and healthier than single men. Consider the selection bias. I'm not married because I don't want to be, not because I can't be. The only way to say this fairly is to split single men into those two groups, those of us who could easily marry, and those who could not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:25 PM
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You could throw social media in general in there too. I'd probably argue it's even worse than video games. This is an and, not or, IMO. Between games, social media, and porn, a man has all he needs....level ups, friends, and sex. Of course, he's also a eunuch at that point.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 06:02 PM
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If you're here in good faith, you tell me. Take a look over this thread, and please tell me what I'm getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:26 PM
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Questioning someone's ability is a great way to get them to do something. It's also a great way of undermining their self worth. I can't put my point any clearer than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:10 PM
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I don't think aiming your ad campaign at the adventurous type undermines masculinity. It's not aiming at the adventurous types, though. It's questioning if we even are adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:58 PM
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LOL I said it's one of a million examples. Are you male? Have you never heard commercials/advertisements that seem to undermine masculinity? Make you feel like you're not enough, you need some damned widget to compete?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:30 PM
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Of course traditionally masculine men dream of (and engage in) adventures, even if it's climbing a bolted 5.7 route off the highway. What I was getting at was more the needling.....find out if you are too implying you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:23 PM
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The fact that video games use techniques honed by Vegas should be better known.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 04:10 PM
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Bodily health becomes harder to maintain, but if you manage that, then your SMV can really only improve. Fuck maintaining, I'm improving....well, not over the summer, but it's time to get busy again. 215/135/135/95 deadlift/dead row/squat/OHP. Plus, 3, 2.5 mile runs per week. 5'9", 170#'s.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:00 PM
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Wouldn’t it make more sense that we live in a much safer world, so men don’t need to be the macho, tough guy in order to protect their families anymore? This is a huge contributor, to be sure, although again I did use quotes on purpose and "man the creator" is denigrated in consumer society. It's not really a conspiracy, it's elites competing with one another. The way to adapt to it, though, as a man, is to lift like your life depends on it. There is no doubt most people are becoming weaker (wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:52 PM
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I appreciate your engagement, and this post has been a good kick for me...I know I personalized it some, but I'm in a different place on my Red Pill journey than these kids. It's funny...I work in an "independent engineering" firm, and was talking to one of the engineers about how I worry that we're not independent enough. As I told him, it's like finding a girlfriend....if all say yes, or if all say no, you're aiming too low or too high. You want to find the layer where some say yes, then you'r…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 03:43 PM
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Biggest energy vampire for young men now is video games. Would you agree that porn is a close second? Also....sometimes I think that subs line gonewild are even worse than porn in a way, at least with porn it's fap and move on....orbiting girls on gonewild and/or Insta or whatever, just seems almost as bad, or even worse. Edit: All masculin activities that give the feels but dont add the value. Its fucking fake, like PUA and RSDNation. Its not real. Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 03:26 PM
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Although I would agree that if a man is able to make her orgasm it increases the likelihood she comes back for more. A well known fact. Here's a funny thing, though....while orgasms are "learned" in that women need to get the brain/clit connection going, it is funny when they say "I can't cum from PIV." Not every woman has been railed by a true stud. Yeah, of course it's hard to cum from PIV with your overweight hubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:14 PM
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It's funny you seem to think women don't also have strategies for getting herself in front of a man she's interested in or finds ways to be alone with him. Just the opposite. And what's funny is after about 6 months under my barbell, I got a nice v-taper going, and yes, more women are doing those little dances to get my attention. That's why TRP preaches to lift like your life depends on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:10 PM
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But it's true. I mean, RedPill is largely about looking at reality. It's saying that women like attractive, high value, accomplished me. I'm trying to say that once you become that, it's better to polarize early and let her make a decision. For me, it was also about having some real self-respect and self esteem. Learning to behave like a high value male. And that's not fucking arrogance, or ego, or 'better than'. It's more taking the power back. Prize mentality. I had a conversation with a dude …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 03:07 PM
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And they roll over and die rather than fight to even define something that might be important for them. Who gives a fuck that women might love differently than that "Unconcerned, mocking, violent - thus wisdom wants us; she is a woman and always loves only a warrior. Thus spoke Zarathustra"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:55 PM
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not exercising their agency. Note my bloody red flair. Yes, I reserve a kick for the simps who fall so completely into a woman's frame. Men who don't are not victims of the female imperative, they are victims of their own inability to say "No". +1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:46 PM
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IF you're a high value guy, and believe it, you can be that direct. It's attractive. We're on the same page, bro. 100% Asking a girl out for drinks that night after 3-4 minutes of chit-chat is direct as fuck. Very few want to put in the work to experience it. About 9 months ago, I passed some magical threshold of shoulder/waist ratio and started getting way more attention. I felt like a 15 y/o girl with her first pair of tits, it was actually kind of strange. Anyone who posts over at asktrp sayi…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:41 PM
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he demonizes women like most guys in manosphere do. Not including guys who have truly ingested the Red Pill. Again, the Anger Phase guys and old posts written harshly get all the attention, but the parable of the scorpion and the frog is (or at least used to be) often told. Hating women for being women is like hating water for being wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:32 PM
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Yeah I would not mistake some of the ideas around here as being attributable to "men" as a whole though. +1 also, Hellenic Lady seems to make zero distinction between TRP and the manosphere as a whole....that actually happens a lot around here, but she does it spectacularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:28 PM
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never mind they have just as much freedom to also be selective Nonsense on stilts. The female of virtually every sexually reproducing critter, at least terrestrial ones, is more selective. It's biology, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:24 PM
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That's too much damned money. I'm careful with the drink. We normal dudes worry too much about "pound me too" and FRA's, but still.....it's not no means no, it's hell yes or no, translating to a BAC of no more than about 0.6%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:22 PM
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The productive qualifier makes it hard. It doesn't matter what it is, if you're building skill, you need to do it on a regular basis, at least weekly.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 02:20 PM
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In TRP speak, you have to give her Hamster plenty of Hamster Chow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:17 PM
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This is very close to the Good Looking Loser's Guide for Busy Guys who want to Get Laid. Chat up one girl per day, ask if she wants a drink that night, or if already at the bar, if she wants a nightcap at your place. Forget everything else. In a month you'll have hit on more women than most men ever have. Solid points....good post, although a bit more tightening of the format would be helpful. This also goes to a point I just made elsewhere: the Pavlovian Approach. You have 3 seconds of eye cont…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:16 PM
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Both men and women enjoy sex Look, all of this is pretty subtle. There is something called the "Pavlovian Approach." You have about 3 seconds to approach a woman who is holding eye contact with you, or you are immediately downgraded to coward and will never get the keys to the kingdom. So....who is seeking sex in this scenario (the primary way humans have found copulation partners since humans have been finding copulation partners)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:52 PM
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Any competent seducer knows this and plays it up, but below the level of being a manipulative asshole. Overt "wanna bang?" doesn't often work, no matter how badly she wants to bang. No, a guy needs to set up and environment where "It just happened." Here I am, giving out secrets LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:45 PM
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Yeah, "otherwise fulfilled" being the keywords there This is actually a huge deal to me. To whatever degree men are being "feminized" I don't think it's the Jews trying to control us or feminism run amok. No, I think it's hard to market to "man the creator" so if they can change him into "man the consumer" it's easier to prey on on his weaknesses. I have been hearing, on sports radio, a commercial run by the Wyoming tourism board that basically says "A Wyoming road trip is full of adventure. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:29 PM
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AF/BB. Classic, almost cartoonish AF/BB. Edit: On the other hand, the millionaire is playing hard to get, while the bike mechanic probably proposed by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:24 PM
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Women value virility, which is less dependant on age, and certainly does not decline for a man rapidly in his 30s-early 40s. Since we're saying the same thing, rather than editing again I'll just shamelessly hijack your higher rated comment to say this: Many young women over not only evolutionary history but living history have been (essentially) carried off by warlords, many of them aging. Older women....were often not even worth putting to the sword.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:58 AM
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It's not like women are the only ones trying to find meaning and purpose in their lives by getting laid. Since this is, supposedly, the "Purple Pill Debate," I've got to say that women being playthings as part of an otherwise fulfilled life is TRP 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:14 AM
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This is good.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:01 AM
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turning us all into pansexual pussies. I don't fucking think so. Please tell me you also lift. Understand there is a major thirst for masculinity these days. From women, but also in general. Embrace the polarity. Reap the rewards. Please tell me...you do lift, right?
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:58 AM
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> This girl is purely a plate so nothing too serious besides from building comfort. She's not a plate unless you're fucking her and at least one other woman. That said, no one here can really answer, we don't know the variables. You sound inexperienced enough that you might as well pick her up, as long as it's only a couple hour's drive at most. You have a lot of time to fuck up.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:55 AM
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If you were funny once, you'll be funny again. Being funny is nothing much more than calibration. That said....George Carlin is on in the background LOL
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:53 AM
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many young people just take it as a pseudo-science and apply them without real understanding You're actually knocking it out of the park here. Here's the thing: I was probably married when you were born (married the first time in '95). TRP was never science. TRP to me is purely observational. TRP to me is entirely empirical. It's just guys sharing notes. I'd be surprised if any EC is younger than 28 or so. Or even 38. We draw pretty heavily off of things like game theory and evolutionary biology…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:48 AM
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Makes good sense. I only run 7.5 miles per week, around a really wonderful park. I wouldn't do it otherwise.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:42 AM
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If a woman realizes that taking care of herself extends her attractiveness, that attitude carries over into her having an honest evaluation of herself. Right on, thanks boss. I'll be honest, I had a much younger girlfriend from my age 39 to 45, and I've been kind of hiding out since. 47 now, but it's been 3 years now and I'm getting very impatient. It's been a strange game of beating down my RMV while improving SMV, if that makes any sense. But I'm probably fooling myself if I think I can beat d…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:39 AM
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Thanks, this is helping me to internalize a lot better. +1 The other realization is solid. That's Game Theory 101. You have to know yourself, your "opponent", and the lay of the land. This is the Way of victory. Sun-Tzu. Your opponent can even be an ally, such as coworkers or even your boss, where your incentives are more or less aligned. But understanding the incentives is critical. Glad you seemed to come in with an open mind rather than just looking for validation.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:33 AM
1

Yes. A 23yo is more fun, less troublesome, less realistic, more trusting, has smoother skin... I didn't say a damned thing about any of that. a 33yo thinking about buying our first home. This right here. I think the Wall is largely defined by the society It's more a collision between biology and society. Again, a 33 y/o woman who doesn't have her shit lined up is kind of fucked.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:30 AM
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I push others on this, boss. I think the Wall can't be understood without acknowledging that women's incentives are far different at 33 than at 23. Are they less hot? Meh. A few more lines, a bit more saggy, sure....but as a Provider Hunter target, the different attitude is more important than admittedly declining looks.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:19 AM
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Male beauty is based on virility. Female beauty is based on fertility. One of these things is easier to maintain than the other. ETA: TRP detractors refuse to understand that we get that aging like wine is the opposite of inevitable. Life is an escalator going down. You have to climb to keep above ground, and it gets nothing but harder. However....the vast majority of women within 5 years of my age (47) have egg cemeteries, not ovaries. The rest of the plumbing actually can still work, but the o…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:10 AM
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Brown belt in judo (sankyu). Lifting really, really helped my judo. But getting old....I just lift, I'm too old to take throws. ETA: switched to swing dancing instead. Surprisingly similar, move your body through space, make moves to get reactions, etc....but you also get to put your hands on a woman. A good hobby. But if you're young and can recover from injury, grappling is great. As is old school boxing. But lifting and running are fundamental. Ask any NFL player.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:37 AM
3

I’m just scared of a coffee date But you're inviting bitches to your house LMFAO wow!
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:30 PM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:04 PM
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They very often do. So....one thing I've noticed about this sub is there seems to be very little distinction made between TRP specifically, and the manoshere in general. His point about the first year students needs to be understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:03 PM
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Men's historical inability to feed themselves has made them dependent and thereby controlled by women. Dad was literally told by his current wife that he can't keep coming over for dinner without going official with her. They've now been married 30 years.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 08:00 PM
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Yes. Treat them like children and then cry when they don’t know better. Dafuq? That sounds an awful lot like moralizing language. Also....yeah, the article is gay as fuck, a nothing but wistful tradcon hallucinations. And yet it's 85% upvoted, while me and the other dude saying "fuck that, take care of your own shit" are being downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 07:32 PM
3

A dear old recently deceased slut of an aunt. Her n-count was well into the hundreds...."All they knew was my first name and the kind of car I drove." Hippy chick, single mother of 3 kids. She raised her kids on her own, and was simply down to fuck then be on her way. My last LTR is pretty calibrated right now....she has a rotation of at least 2. One is a jacked bike mechanic with a big dick, the other is an overweight millionaire that, I think this weekend, is flying her & him out to Berlin for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:32 PM
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I'd rather count my calories properly and cook it myself and look incredible as a result. Funny how we're being downvoted, right? I mean, not that it matters, but talk about putting pussy on the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 05:26 PM
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No value in a woman who can cook for me... at all. I don't care about delicious calorie filled food. Food is fuel for bodybuilding. I'd rather count my calories properly and cook it myself and look incredible as a result. Now, that is male sexual strategy (although I prefer powerlifting to bodybuilding). How the OP isn't a Rule Zero violation, I'll never know. Seems like tradcon reminiscing masturbation to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:35 PM
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Here's the thing....I'm tapping right the fuck out of normal LTR's. Part of the logic of spinning plates is that women give you less drama when they know they are fungible. Another part of the logic of spinning plates is one woman doesn't have 100% of your pussy supply. Lastly, seduction skills erode, and I'll admit I've been lazy, or you'd be seeing headline posts by me.....I need to get on the ball, since the holidays suck for seduction....point is, I've been under the barbell for a year, need…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:14 PM
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ban tester, just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:51 PM
1

I see RP dudes like Rollo Tomassi on twitter I finally figured it out. For you, TRP == manosphere and it's all the same. For you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:13 PM
2

Imaginary internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:07 PM
2

Why would TRP care about rape or sexual assault though? They care about being able to bang. One of the problems is TRP has kind of folded into the broader manosphere. Probably 90% of posts these days are Rule Zero violations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:06 PM
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And stop marrying single moms. There's a reason babydaddy left the scene. This needed to be said? Yikes. I mean, who fucking cares about babydaddy, don't cuck yourself.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 02:50 PM
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Red Pillers are anything but "blank slatists" Nor do we deny male sexual aggression. The fact is that female violence on males usually takes the form, one way or another, of "Let's you and him fight." Sometimes him is the state. Most men have little to fear from most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:41 PM
1

How about being sexually harassed or groped by a big, fit poofter? My whole point is men are scarier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:25 PM
1

Dare I touch on the irony of using a slur while pretending to be "woke"? LMFAO made my morning!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:24 PM
1

Been known to happen. Recently lazy, though.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:24 PM
1

Just turned 47.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:06 AM
1

Yes. You have abundance, or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:31 AM
2

Yeah of course. I will say things have been a bit more gynocentric than you're imagining. There's a reason that Patrice O'Neil is being pushed by an EC right now. And I'm enjoying some old school Andrew Dice Clay now. "I dream of Jeanie? You look close enough, you can see bush."
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 05:25 AM
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One more fucking thing, Youtube fed me Andrew Dice Clay and holy shit, no one in the audience is fat. ETA: well, the lights came on, but still not as fat as today.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 05:13 AM
3

So here's the thing....I'm really good at talking to everyone I see (thanks to a TRP post of the same name) but....not necessarily bringing the fuckable ones home. You're in a great place. No pressure in meat space. Just have fun, meet people for any reason at all, and bang from Tinder.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:54 AM
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the main character is some working class guy This is all pretty close to a rule violation, but.... From what I understand and am too lazy to verify, Homer Simpson was actually depicted as a good guy a bit out of his depth, at least in the series premier, and even in the first season or even two, before becoming the bumbling idiot every straight white dude has been depicted as ever since. That said, we're getting to racial equality....it sure seems our darker brothers are starting to be depicted …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:40 AM
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That's OK to say in the men's room. I've told the story at least 100 times in meat space....no one has ever heard it. My best friend's brother was walking out of the men's room talking to friends, about eating doughnuts. One said "I can't believe you fit the whole thing in your mouth." Another said "And swallowed!" Don't say that in the men's room. It's more useful than "That's what she said."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:21 AM
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I get that a lot Don't say that in the men's room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:07 AM
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I'll put out once a month and she'll have to deal with it lol lol homely women are desperate for cock, not telling you what to do bro, just be more or less wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:03 AM
2

Short answer: Don't waste your college years, for fuck's sake.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:02 AM
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"There Will Be Blood" is by far the best on your list. Talk about a Dark Fucking Triad. I'll tell you what, man. I saw "Conan the Barbarian" when it came out in theaters, having been sneaked in by my cousin when I was 10 years old. I would have much rather have had access to the TRP sidebar than any fucking movie.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:01 AM
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the choice made for me Not so sure the lack of boners is a good thing when choosing a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:52 AM
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Keep in mind this was the decade of the 80's when you could get away with that stuff. User name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:51 AM
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They want me to marry a women from the old country bc they think an American girl is just going to divorce me and take half my shit lol. My experience is you don't want a hot wife. I dunno....every happy marriage I've seen, the man has the upper hand. Dread is amazing. I'm not talking TRP theory, I'm talking TRP analysis into marriages of people I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:39 AM
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TRP does not apply to gay men. Personally, if I was even slightly attracted to men, I'd go for it. But gross. No. I was raised in a very pro gay household and....gross. No.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:16 AM
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I was raised by a man hating feminist and that baggage isn't entirely gone. Also, I've been able to coast on looks, but it's getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:11 AM
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Dad insists that Bix Bender is actually Will Rogers. Not strenuously, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:09 AM
1

I'll admit, I've overdone "Monk Mode" badly. In my experience, if I even hit the ball, it's a home run. That's not good, I'm not nearly well calibrated enough. That's what drives me nuts about the OP. Good guys like me really ought to be pushing it, while these abusive assholes are doing it instead. So stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:55 AM
1

Not surprising that it's some salt old bastard who recognizes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:49 AM
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LOL that's right, but it is still a "hack" to be in good enough shape to trigger the primal lust in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:48 AM
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made it abundantly clear. Yep. Was really hard at first because I wasn't used to it. Not there myself, and time is short.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:46 AM
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act dominant and sexy My other problem with TRP is people ignore the basic advice of lifting. Consider a suit. It slims through the waist, yet has shoulder pads. Some of us get to do that by putting on a tight t-shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:43 AM
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We were making this work for hundreds of thousands of years even without evidence of language. I'm taken by the idea that language is basically "spitting game." The human brain does have some elements of runaway sexual evolution. Great exchange, man!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:35 AM
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Women want the best possible man for them, their status, and to make best babies. The lack of appreciation of female incentives is my biggest gripe about the manosphere. I say it over and over again, The Wall is less about declining looks and more about changing incentives. I had a much younger girlfriend for a while. I was riding out the Great Recession in college, and hooked up with a classmate, basically (much longer story than that). She was 19, I was 39. We ran almost 5 years. Let me be cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:29 AM
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See how well benign sexism works? It's a mystery more don't try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:16 AM
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Is it the same way with any woman? Keep in mind that it's dependent on where she is in life, and where you might fit in it. But you're not calibrated until you've been with women you can't keep hold of. (not advocating mono LTR's, don't sperg out)
/r/askTRP28/08/19 02:15 AM
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Some of us can roll with the punches, cutie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:11 AM
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I was at the local college bar, was there early and had a seat at the bar, and a girl straight up sat on my lap and bought her own drink. I didn't even feel her up. I was at the same bar and stepped off the dance floor, and a girl unseen grabbed me and started making out with me. I got kicked out of that bar. I drink too much. But it was never for hitting on girls who were straight throwing it at me. This is something that a lot of people don't really consider...not all men drawn to TRP are lose…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:10 AM
2

Don't say that in the men's room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:04 AM
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Plot twist, you're the warden and provided the lube in the same manner that mamma birds feed their chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:02 AM
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LOL I actually think the mods here do a decent job, no homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:59 AM
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That’s a very good point and probably even the most significant point in a discussion of this topic. Prolly should have boosted it better, haven't seen the point made elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:57 AM
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Actually 6 LOL I'll just report next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:56 AM
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Shut up and pass the lube LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:54 AM
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They want a man to be assertive and make a move but not the wrong man. Oh, I know. I've been far too timid most of my life. I've pissed more women off by not hitting on them, than by hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:53 AM
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Fair, should have just reported it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:52 AM
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Could be the case, that much scarier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:50 AM
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Fuck right off with your anti-Antisemitism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:58 AM
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The issue is, some most women love being pursued aggressively. A guy who is shy and acts meek and hangs around for too long because he won't make a move is going to repulse women. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:56 AM
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Really? Some anti-Semitic asshole claims Jews changed the definition of sexual assault, and you just roll with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:55 AM
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they will never be able to empathize. I put myself in a position to be date raped by a man. Didn't know the dude, went to his place to smoke some pot....he was really concerned that I took such a deep rip, and when things got really funky really quickly, I went out to my car and locked myself in. I regret to this day not immediately contacting the authorities as soon as I came to and arranging a toxicology test. I've smoked a lot of pot, and that has never happened, before or since.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:52 AM
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I love your handle, by the way. It reminds me of the book of cowboy wisdom by 'Texas' Bix Bender, called Don't Squat With 'yer Spurs On. My participation in this sub breaks one of his primary observations: There are two ways to argue with a woman. Neither work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:46 AM
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they cant imagine unwelcome sexual attention from the opposite sex LOL not true. The difference is that it's not scary, because very few women could best me in single combat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:34 AM
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Yes. One of the most important dances in seduction is making sure she feels safe, while maintaining attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:29 AM
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So if an older dude has his Facebook age set at 20 years younger, pays for Tinder Gold, hides his age but not the lines in his face....what's the likelihood of "official" action against him? (think a calibrated dude....'just looking for swing dancing buddies, if there's a spark from there great, if not let's just dance' that sort of thing)
/r/askTRP27/08/19 09:51 PM
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Sexual competition drives humanity, +1, they burned the wrong one of Darwin's books.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:34 PM
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The old joke used to be "are those your legs, or are you riding a chicken?" Dude, I've cleared up my flat feet. I actually have spring in them now....getting out of the pool, I don't just leave blobs on the ground, they look like actual footprints. Also, a judo sensei saw the same, and commented on it..."Wow, you're really springing into those forward rolling breakfalls" I used to think DYEL was retarded, now all I hear is "Do you do the bare minimum to take care of yourself?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:26 PM
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LOL no just pants size! See the pic on this thread, I'm in good shape but far from a meathead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:14 PM
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Up to about 42, I was around 185#'s although was up to 200#'s...I was wearing 36 X 30's at one point, and I'd be damned if I went up to 38 X 30's....ended up with a girlfriend who was going to grad school, she counted calories and we went on daily long walks. Got down to about 160#'s, at 5'9". Back up to about 170#'s right now, 30 X 30's and slim fit H&M v-neck t-shirts are my uniform. My #'s are embarrassing....I "only" deadlift 215, squat 135, OHP 95, and can do 3 sets of 5 chin ups (really, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:09 PM
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but I regret of all the lost opportunities due to being insecure. See my user name. Fuck guilt. Fuck regret. We all have them, and fuck it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:04 PM
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Maybe cut down on the beers there bud. LOL yep, really ought to. In meat space with a shirt on, though....I'm not looking bad at all. It's not about the abs, it's about the v-taper.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:03 PM
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I go to the gym, but I'm not taking it seriously being honest. Then your celibacy is voluntary. It's fun being in better shape than dudes half my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:55 PM
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I'm one of those young celibate men. Do you even lift, bro? ETA: You guys sure do love downvoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:39 PM
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Stay healthy bro. Appreciate it, man and likewise.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:31 PM
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Me. And not for money, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:26 PM
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You look great, no doubt about it. I love my short runs. 2.5 miles, 3 times a week, around a local park. I also have a a barbell & squat rack in my small apartment. At this point, I care more about looking and being strong than anything else. Been at it a little over a year so I'm not exactly a schlub. Still, I focus on big compound movements, do zero bodybuilding sets/reps, isolate only my rotator cuffs, and drink too much to be perfectly lean lol.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:23 PM
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No way, but I'm probably older than you are. I'm not running on these knees any more than I have to. None of this is relevant, though, to the OP who is fat. I will admit, I lost weight with long walks and an obsessively calorie counting girlfriend, but I think weight training is by far more effective, unless you have ample time on your hands.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:07 PM
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Don't be scared of dietary fat or complex carbs. Sugar is the devil. Cardio for weight loss is silly, but baseline cardio for health is a great idea. It's all about TDEE - 500 or so. Otherwise, lift and build muscles. Source: 47 y/o dude who was fat until I hit 42.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:58 PM
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Walter Kaufman's translation of the basic writings of Nietzsche. Specifically, Beyond Good & Evil and The Genealogy of Morals.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 04:00 PM
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So how do you explain 30-40 year long marriages ? They started.....30 to 40 years ago, and I'll explain them in TRP terms for you: Dread, Dread, buckets and buckets of Dread. Show me a long term happy marriage, I'll show you a well behaved wife lucky to have that good of a husband. Don't ask for Red Pilled advice if you don't want it.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:49 PM
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Systematic desensitization and be aware of the Jonah Complex.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:43 PM
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They aren’t as attractive as they were when I first met them I still think this is incomplete. The Wall is defined as much by changing incentives as by changing looks. Women over 30 who are not married know damn well that they have a razor thin margin for error. That's why they shit test so fiercely.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 03:40 PM
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Buy her flowers and say you're sorry Chocolates, too.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:24 PM
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So BD’s system of “dating” a woman once a week for months on end (MLTR) selects for low-quality, damaged women with attachment issues. He's also the one dude in the manosphere with zero problems dating single moms....guess we're saying the same thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:01 PM
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Know your situation, be cool with it and accept that some women won’t be ok with that. That's what I was trying to tell this cat below. Young ripped dudes can slay with older women. He dodges the lifting question like, I'm guessing, he avoids the barbell.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:57 PM
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"Wear this and get laid" or "Buy this and get respect"..... yeah The Wyoming Tourism Board is running a radio commercial here in Colorado that says, essentially...."A Wyoming road trip is full of adventure.....are you?" Picking at that scab, IMO. Let's be clear, Wyoming has us beat in terms of actual adventures, as in Wyoming you can go further off the grid, worry about grizzlies, etc., but....road trips, by definition, are not adventurous. I take that back, a white dude like me driving through …
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:53 PM
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And how little when they are uninterested. FANTASTIC point.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:44 PM
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good bot
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:19 PM
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my theory is confirmed LOLOLOL that ain't your theory, kid. And I'm the one with issues. SMH.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:14 PM
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she is really into you, she won't mind spending money to see you. It's actually pretty shocking how far they will go/what they will do, etc. when they're really into you.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:12 PM
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Im a linear thinker You start with fucking lifting and not downvoting dudes on Red Pilled related sites who are trying to help you out. I'll give you your answer, though: I was on vacation with a LTR and was hanging with her family....it was decided that we'd go somewhere, the beach or whatever, but we had to wait for some cousins boyfriend to get off of work, because he didn't have a car. I said "Let me get this straight....we're waiting 2 hours during a vacation because a 21 year old can't rid…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:09 PM
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I gave you an answer. Well preserved women in their late 30's/early 40's can be very fuckable. They're just a pain in the ass to guys like me, but are surprisingly open to being railed by young studs. Make them feel young again, and all that. This is TRP, man. Check your ego, take stock of where you are in life, and calibrate. You do lift, right?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:01 PM
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Are you young and ripped? Take aim at the cougars that would give me the "I don't have sex before the 6th dinner date blah blah blah" while you're still a loser. You do lift, right?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:56 PM
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It's actually great for alphas: women pay for their own lives and we don't have to marry them! You had mentioned the "golden age of the alpha male" and it's a great concept, but perhaps could be branded differently. Anyway, all the stuff you're talking about is bang on...I'd like to add, that getting men to be more feminine you have the same sorts of upside. Confident, sexually successful men are harder to sell to. We don't have the same vulnerabilities to exploit. About every commercial aimed a…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:51 PM
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Absolutely! I was thoroughly whipped for a very long time, but now I play without fear.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:18 PM
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In short, RP technique works to get the girl in the short term, not the long-term. TRP isn't meant to get the girl for the long term....it's to be consistently happy over time as no single woman controls 100% of your pussy supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:06 PM
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Nah, there's consensus as to who is hot and who is not. One thing I hate most about PPD is the denial on this. Hourglass shape for women (or at least a good hip/waist ratio) and v-taper for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:05 PM
1

If you maintained a rotation of plates instead of an LTR, this wouldn’t bother you. Might as well just copy/paste this into every question here.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:52 PM
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You realize this is asktrp, correct? You are completely in your gf's frame, and there's little here that can help you. And what is the correct way to act when she’s all angry and butthurt? Soft next and fuck someone else.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:50 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:33 PM
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clueless about fitness In that case, they're not Red Pilled and this is just a circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:07 PM
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/s Sad fucking day when GLO has to add /s
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 08:34 PM
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Never pay for something you won't own. If it flies, floats, or fucks, rent it, I think is the old saying.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 08:16 PM
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this new plate is breaking early so if I can save it I'm all ears. You know the answer bro, spin more plates.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:11 PM
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I'm 32, decent smv, lift, read, go outside. K, but how many plates do you have in the air? A year ago you said this: I spun her as a plate for something like 4 months. All the others dropped off cuz they were annoying compared to her. I told her she needs to lose weight. So she did. She lost like 70 pounds. She's still chubby, but cooks every meal, cleans everything, bjs and anal on demand. It's been like this for over a year while she's been living with me. So, are you asking about girlfriends,…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:53 PM
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I think there is merit in this post, but it could probably be better formatted and tied more explicitly to Red Pill concepts.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 07:44 PM
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Some follow TRP Giving you the benefit of the doubt (with effort) remember, TRP is guys sharing notes, OK? I know you might mean "follow" by "watch" rather than "follow the directives" but I just want it to be clear. TRP purports to know some truths about the state of gender relations and is more right than wrong. But remember...for most of us, esp. the older dudes, it's more like "whoa, all this shit I have never understood now makes sense." It might be different for you. EDIT: I meant to say m…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:08 PM
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a lot less trouble. And there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:54 PM
1

You are not here in good faith, and you know it, punk.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:53 PM
1

chill the fuck out lmao Know your fucking place, you asked the fucking question.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:47 PM
1

If you don't fuck, don't give advice on this sub, K?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:42 PM
2

Sure, but I know of multiple guys here who have been following some form of trp for years and are still very clearly bitter and upset. I'll tell you what....if you're a guy like me, who put up a pic on photofeeler comparing myself to dudes 10 years younger than me and getting top 10% ratings, it's easy to get past the bitterness. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:41 PM
5

You can't go wrong with boxing. Came to say this.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:35 PM
3

Um....yeah, but a guy's minimum fuckability standard is typically way lower than a woman's. Which is great for guys like me, but whatevs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:32 PM
1

Wow. Very, very few men can get away with being this blunt.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:31 PM
3

I think beta cucks love looking at explicit pictures....don't see the question here, but it's easy to read between the lines.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:30 PM
1

Just ask her if she wants to fuck You mean ask her if she wants to see your widget collection and/or to Neflix & chill.....right?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:23 PM
3

That's a bit pedantic. Absolutely a slut. I actually didn't like that part of it, "All the Kindergarten Cop money laying around the bedroom." actually, she might have just wanted the dick. Still a great line, though, about the double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:22 PM
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Find girls that don’t fuck and manipulate people to get ahead. So.... NAWALT?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:17 PM
1

unless I see a reason to abandon my values in the future, This is literally the worst thing about this sub. The way you worded this, you seem to think that TRP is an ideology. It is not. It is just men sharing notes. TRP helped me understand Dad. His wife is excellent for him and has behaved well for over 3 decades.....not least because, 2 months into their relationship, another woman had heard Dad was single and called, sniffing around. Three decades of Dread. Like it or not, it has kept her un…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:16 PM
3

It would not be a foregone conclusion to assume that most men are okay with starfish sex, but would prefer there to be enthusiastic consent. What the fuck are you talking about, enthusiastic consent? We're talking straight up enthusiasm, which many women have for the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:11 PM
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Arnold Schwarzenegger was fucking that ugly maid "Why did everyone call her the maid? No one called her a whore! Took care of his kids, first name basis with his wife, fucked him in his goddamned bed, that right down the checklist, first ballot hall of fame whore!" -Bill Burr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:09 PM
0

Online porn has a snowballing affect that.......well, in porn, snowballing is actually kind of tame, but porn goes from vanilla sex into all kinds of fucked up places. Also, you're watching another man fuck a desirable woman. That's cuckoldry. My biggest porno like moment is I was fucking my girl, she was on her back and I was laying like perpendicular, which gave room for the girl who seduced us to lick my girls pussy while I fucked her. I pulled out of my girl, slid into the other girl's mouth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:03 PM
0

As a hardcore TERPer and a good looking and kind dude, contrast my last two LTR's (because TRP is men sharing notes, never forget that.) One was about 10 years younger, cute if you squint, bright brown eyes but not a great body....she had lost a lot of weight, which takes a real toll. The other was 20 years younger and a brilliant smokeshow to boot. Guess who had an easier time handling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:54 PM
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After all, sex is only one part of a relationship. Not to me. Also, what is the issue with not hitting on women who just want your dick? You don't get to fuck them. Keeping yourself satiated sexually will help you choose better people to be with for relationships Keeping yourself satiated sexually keep you under control. No, not the Jew or anything simplistic like that. But make no mistake, it is part of a system of mind control. Why the fuck do you think they call the Red Pill, the Red Pill? It…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:45 PM
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I found out she had sex with two teachers just to get good grades, and yesterday she showed me her tits. Now I understand that she does this just to mess with me, so that I run after her. For a couple days now she steers the conversation to a sexual subject and keeps on provoking me. Tap that slut, you fucking coward!
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:40 PM
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my assumption is that 98% of heterosexual women would hate to have sex with an extremely beautiful man who was extremely lacking in desire and enthusiasm. You don't fuck a woman's body, you fuck a woman's brain, her imagination, her desire, her fear...I'm guessing you have no idea what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:38 PM
1

Why should we give up the quality of our nut just because of the fact that women don't like it? I'm 47 and have been nutting since I was about 13, so 34 years? Say every third day on average, that's at least 4,000 times. I can tell you, without a doubt, that nutting with a woman is much better. It's much lower quality nuts when you're jacking off to porn, porn sets false expectations, and the satisfaction from nutting from porn makes you less likely to hit on the woman who just might want your d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:33 PM
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Not only that.....no mention anywhere of age. A 23 y/o asking for exclusivity is totally different than a 33 y/o asking for exclusivity. This sure doesn't seem like an honest attempt on the OP's part.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:19 PM
3

Deadlifts and squats. Honestly. It helps to be good and strong.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:58 PM
1

lol, you know you hit a guys ego when he sanitizes his anonymous account over the shame LMFAO came back to check and yep.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:52 PM
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My theory is that women do have a sex drive it's just that birth control absolutely kills it. There's something to this. My first wife went on birth control and there was a definite change in her sex drive. After all, the whole point of the pill is mimicking pregnancy.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 04:46 PM
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Not denying it, but you don't hear from the guys who "get it", get past it, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:30 PM
1

And you are right, blatant honesty is a turn off even if I'm not looking for something serious. Psychologically something in my brain turns off when guy is too wishy washy or brutally honest, I can't help it. And that's not shirking responsibility, for the next red who wants to respond to this comment as "it's never women's fault" /s It's just a change in attraction that doesn't make much sense and i've accepted in myself. Don't worry, I think this thread will be far enough buried that no one wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:13 PM
0

Fair enough...I jerked it to the Sears catalog LOL I'm glad I wasn't exposed to online porn until after I had fucked a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:05 PM
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As a former radfem let me answer from the radfem perspective: Yes. All pornography is inherently harmful and misogynistic. It's also misandrist, though. I think it harms women, and I absolutely get the embedded practice angle....guys watch porn, then do that stuff to with the women that their with. Still....porn directly affects way more men than women, since way more men consume porn than women perform in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:58 PM
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porn is degrading and harmful to all of humanity; misanthropic if you like. i'll say it's worst for those that consume it regularly - it's most harmful to men. This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:55 PM
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You're just going to get a bunch of men defending their precious here Ain't nothing precious about porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:55 PM
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I double negatived for nothing lol. I like the company of women, but I have no intention of ever cohabitating again. So I have to manage myself accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:54 PM
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No, he just needs more attention. I think his relationship management systems are better than "how to handle your bitches" on the TRP sidebar. At the end of the day, the point is to not leave a woman with the impression that I'm not looking for more than what I'm looking for. At the same time, you can't just bludgeon a woman with "Hey, I really love being single, you can visit me, or not" right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:43 PM
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Not the first time OP's frame cracked, now is it?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:32 PM
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She fucked a very competent man on that trip. He fucked her good, better than you. Teachable moment, for this. Yeah, the other stuff in the post indicates cheating, but you picked up on the big deal....OP needs to up his game.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:31 PM
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There's precious little arguing. There is some enlightening of the purple guys, but that's about it. This sub is straw man after straw man, but....I guess it's about the only vector for reaching people, since the main sub is quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:25 PM
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This sub is nothing but nagging!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:15 PM
1

Preference. I'm an insanely good guy, and not leaving emotional wreckage behind me is a primary life goal. That's what brought me to TRP and, more importantly, to Blackdragon. And yes, I have had some success, following basic rules....see women once per week, don't do boyfriend shit, make sure they have a good time, don't ask questions, etc. These rules were never available to me before, I wish I knew when I was younger, I'd have hurt fewer women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:15 PM
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OMFG you win today's interwebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:02 PM
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LOL I've never had a one night stand, outside of once, on the road. Bitches love me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:02 PM
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But that's men's wiring, not mine. As you know men have a tendency to lose interest if they conquest too quickly. Interesting take, and definitely an example of men & women talking right past one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:51 PM
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OK, I flipped through some comments and didn't find what I find critical to understanding this. Consider speed dating. Consistently, men would choose about half the women they met, and the women would choose 1 or 2 of the men. To be one of those 1 or 2 men requires personality and looks. Women are remarkably consistent in what they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:45 PM
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Recognize that maternity is guaranteed in all sexual encounters, Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:41 PM
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No, I vet guys for casual too. You're being pedantic. Basic safety requires this. Ive casualed with older guys. Good looking ones with solid careers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:33 PM
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They read the material, and it just clicks. It fills in the blank spaces in their minds, and everything they read perfectly matches their observations, their experiences, and what they've been feeling. If some random blue pill guy were to read The Red Pill material, it would seem like silly nonsense to him. I had 20 years of experience, primarily with three women, before I found TRP and it clicked like a motherfucker. People on this sub, and in general, bang on about TRP being an ideology, and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:30 PM
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I am aware you are, but you are highly irregular among TRP land. TRP as a whole is rather conservative, imo. This is Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:19 PM
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I mean so much of engaging with trp is just marinating in hatred of others We're not all in the "anger phase."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:19 PM
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Generally speaking I dislike things that nag at me. Then why the fuck do you post here LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:13 PM
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The guy was really a catch too I don't doubt it, but....the whole point is you weren't vetting him at all. I'd fuck a hot 47 year old one night stand type in my car or whatevs in a similar scenario. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:10 PM
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Probably could fuck in my hatchback, doubt they'd want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:04 PM
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"Amateur porn" is largely a bullshit end-run It's also often revenge porn. Amateur porn is the best porn because the people making it actually like each other, but then....it's either, as you say, an end run or it's some vengeful ex. My favorite piece of porn ever was an ex giving me an expert blowjob. I'd never share that with anyone (esp. now that it's lost lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:59 PM
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Blackdragon points this out constantly when talking about older women. The Wall is changing incentives/expectations, not declining looks. At 47, it doesn't matter how well built I am, a 40 y/o woman isn't going to fuck me in a car any time soon. I'm too much of a catch. Jacked young dudes should spend more time focusing on women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:53 PM
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At a certain point you gotta decide not to have car sex anymore. The sexier the car, the less fun it is to have sex in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:45 PM
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I think this post broke the bloops on PPD. I built up enough karma to post over here by posting at PPD. They, and I think that this extends to pretty much everyone who is TRP aware but detracts from it, simply will not acknowledge the guys sharing notes flavor of TRP. All they talk about is ideology. When I would say "You know, I had pretty deep experience with women when I found TRP, and all of a sudden things clicked" they would ignore it entirely and just say I'm an angry man blinded by ideol…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 01:32 PM
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When you’re pushing 70 you’re going to be happy for that core and quad strength more than anything else +10000 Same with Buzz Aldrin knocking out that little cuck bitch.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 10:32 PM
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No but it is useful to teach men that empathy is generally not a useful trait unless you're trying to get taken advantage of. I don't think we're all that far off. One angle of empathy is understanding its limits. It's one thing to be empathetic, it's another to allow yourself to be taken advantage of for it. In other words, Frame, but I really do agree with you here. Hell, I feel what you're saying!!!!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 10:06 PM
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TRP in a nutshell: "Know that girls like drug dealers and it bothers you? Go out there and start sellin, pussy. Otherwise stop complaining." I think this encapsulates TRP's position quite well. Good Lord, no it doesn't. That's from a Twitter feed, not TRP. TRP is making an empirical observation, asking the same question as that song from Tom Hanks Bachelor Party 30 fucking years ago "why do good girls like bad boys?" See my comment on the same fucking thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:17 PM
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So....here's the thing. It is not useful to tell men to become bullies and psychopaths. It's just not in most of us. Often, however, we normal guys can get by with being good guys, but not nice guys, and for fuck's sake, not even pretending that we're down for a committed LTR. Spin a plate until she breaks (i.e. goes exclusive with an orbiter) and you'll see what I mean. She'll be back (IMO, respinning a plate != taking back a LTR from BP days, but I'd be singing a different tune at asktrp). Or …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 07:11 PM
1

Facepulls (and hanging) have saved my shoulders. Same here. Also, carries are great too. I've neglected them for a while, but they helped. I'm a little middle aged dude (5'9", 170#'s, 47 today) and I was up to a full minute carrying around 2 45# plates. Between all three, hangs, pulls, and carries, plus of course overhead pressing, my shoulders are in awesome shape.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 06:44 PM
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Lifting works better than it should because we live in a super safe environment. This can't be over-emphasized. Lifting is a cheat code into the female psyche, which is why they deny that they are turned on by well built dudes.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 06:33 PM
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TLDR: the most often repeated advice on the Red Pill is exactly the advice beta fags don't follow. As a former beta fag who you, yourself, shamed into investing in a barbell, can confirm. Something about bodyweight fitness what your girlfriend did as a warm up, IIRC. Nothing is more efficient at developing the ideal masculine form (read: v-taper) as barbells. Even for an old dude like me.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 06:30 PM
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Yes, I watch Jeff regularly. Facepulls are my biggest takeaway from Jeff, and they are really helpful.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 06:18 PM
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And you also get the side benefit of being more attractive and increased vitality even into old age. Came to say this. Turned 47 today. It's not just vitality, it's looks, I rock a better v-taper than many dudes half my age.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 06:06 PM
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You’re right. You should change every fiber of your being in the hopes of appealing to another human being. That’s sexy af. You’re gonna get all the bitches bro. This is literally the worst reading of what I was trying to convey as is possible. Are you on the rag?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:56 PM
1

Yep....and the way "alpha" is talked about in most places bears little resemblance to how it's talked about at TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:45 PM
1

Doubtless. Virtually every advertisement plays on our feelings. It's critically important to be really aware of them. But the idea that feelings can be turned on or off is, to me, absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:32 PM
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She's testing for manosphere affiliation. I've wondered about this....either what you said, or "Yeah, I read some and it's mostly guys just posturing"
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:30 PM
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Well, if you love every guy/girl you fuck then you're going to run into a world of hurt. No down voting. If you really think you can turn feelings on and off....you're going to run into a world of hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:17 PM
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You know when to turn your feelings on and off. um.....I don't think that's how feelings work. You can act on feelings, or not act on them....but turning them on and off? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:13 PM
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My wife has told me that her desire for sex is more about the intimacy of the bonding experience than the sex itself. Get thee to the Iron Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:11 PM
2

Fair enough....I'm guessing men and women are talking right past each other in this thread....which is par for the course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:59 PM
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LMFAO! I mean, I actually did chuckle, thanks for that. squatting 500 lb calves Progressive overload FTW
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 08:58 PM
3

She says that she respects keeping stuff casual, but got me to agree to stay exclusive ROTFLMFAO
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:54 PM
2

My wife has said the same thing. I suppose the grass is green where you water it. I don't believe it for a microsecond.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:51 PM
1

It was 'rated' strength. Iirc the study says the rated strength predicted actual tested strength fairly accurately. I don't know what's so mysterious about this.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:48 PM
2

You might like my response below.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:42 PM
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Everyone's experience on this earth is different I disagree emphatically with this statement. Have you never experienced this? Not even when I was dating a smokeshow well out of my league. If you have desires for others when presenting yourself as being in a commited monogamous relationship, Desire/attraction cannot be negotiated. What you're talking about here is thought crime. As long as a monogamous partner doesn't act on desire, it's all good. But expecting them to not have desire is....just…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:40 PM
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Done, as it's a point that needs to be made, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:27 PM
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I think posting it here was the best at first. I don't blame you, but I am suggesting that you'll get answers that will surprise you. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:25 PM
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In my relationship, my partner and I only have desire for sexual intamicy with eachother Monogamy != lack of desire for others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:07 PM
1

Fucking Boomers all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:55 PM
1

I doubt it.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:49 PM
1

I'd suggest posting this to asktrp. I think you'd be surprised by the answers.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:43 PM
1

Someone could do an image search and find you. It's a bit paranoid, but.....people have been doxxed over at the main TRP subreddit and had massive problems as a result.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:35 PM
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Blackdragon covers it well.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:29 PM
1

squat, deadlift, and overhead press Oddly enough, that plus chin-ups and face pulls is all I do. Is that all ICF is?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:26 PM
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I currently have 3 plates. In that case, congrats! You're doing it right. Remember, as long as you're not making promises you won't keep or doing boyfriend shit with her, it's fine to spin her as long as you can. Women have agency too. If you're being deceptive, you're putting your dick in crazy (I might make a headline post about this), but if you're enforcing boundaries, it's her call.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:19 PM
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Hey, man, if it's stupid and it works, it's not stupid. Good luck!
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:14 PM
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"Get upstairs, Susan, warm my bed up, warm my bed and feed my babies with your giant white titties while I go look your husband in the face and decide whether or not to sell him. You know your wife's upstairs, warming up my bed, don't you...Phillip?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:11 PM
6

You're killing me! No one fucks by "being myself"
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:08 PM
2

LOL I'm not offended, but I fuck. Again, I really recommend that "How to talk to everyone you see" it has really, really helped me. And I agree, delete the post and photo.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:07 PM
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If you scored with "foids" you're not, by definition, an incel.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:02 PM
1

But with me, she saw me as safe, secure, and had my head on straight. The opposite of danger. LMFAO! How's your closing game? Do you have any plates in the air? Sounds to me that you're coming off beta as fuck.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:59 PM
2

Are you just trying to trigger the incels? You're a good looking dude. Go over to TRP, sort by highest rated ever, and look for "How to Talk to Everyone You See."
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:56 PM
8

Patrice O'neal A red pilled god was a big black man. I don't "red pill" people but I have turned them on to Elephant in the Room.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:46 PM
2

Lexus LS400 Last girlfriends first car was a fucking SC400. Lots of fun, bone stock. Lucky I only got 2 speeding tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:44 PM
2

This isn't a personal question, hopefully I don't get in trouble for participating... The problem with male exotic dancers is that they are putting themselves in a subservient position, which is far from sexy. Now.....leading partner dances, from swing to salsa to two step....now you're talking.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:34 PM
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Here's my take: as men become more feminized, women are not being properly fucked and resorting to BDSM. If you are muscular and athletic, you can give a woman a proper railing and not have to resort to tricks.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:16 PM
2

Are you the same Heathcliff that became Chad, Destroyer of Pussys? Epic level shit, there. I've hit some of the milestones, and had very similar results. Is it me, or is this thread mostly fucking hamstering?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:51 PM
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My 6 pack does that. It's probably your v-taper, not abs.....but congrats on doing it right.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:48 PM
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And based on your submission statement he didn’t say anything groundbreaking at all. Worse, based on his mugshot.....if he's getting action, he's paying for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 05:43 PM
1

Lying makes bitches crazy. Don't stick your dick in crazy. Deflect, A&A, but don't fucking lie.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:37 PM
1

Changing yourself for women is redpill? Yes. Men (at least used to) come to TRP because they were not having sexual success. Always, they had to change themselves to find success. I didn't lack in success, but I lacked Frame, and my life has improved since I have strengthened it. This whole thread reeks of "you're fine the way you are" nonsense. It's kind of like nature vs. nurture....it's both. Absolutely improve yourself for yourself, but if you found TRP, you probably needed to change yoursel…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:34 PM
1

Girl keeps asked why I don’t like her posts on twitter and Instagram Congrats, you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:20 PM
0

You can't soft next a bitch you're not fucking. Jesus.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:17 PM
2

cause your competition nosedived Yes, but you must remain muscular and lean.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 05:01 PM
5

Barbell training as medicine.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:59 PM
1

But there is a subgroup of women who prefer men who are older, including sometimes much older. Trust me, boss, I know. I had a smokeshow 20 years younger than me on my arm for almost 5 years. We calculated the day that she was exactly half my age and fucked to celebrate. As I've said many times.... Younger women had no problem with it Put together younger men had no problem with it Older women and loser young men hated it, eye daggers galore Older men loved it, would shoot me smiles and the occa…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:49 PM
2

I'm one year in and turning 47 in 2 days. I'm agreeing with you here.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:45 PM
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Be as strong as possible while not being fat to maximize pussy tingles. Had to scroll to the bottom to find some truth. So much hamstering in this thread.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:42 PM
1

depends on the girl, but i think most women like bulkier guys, but you shouldn't workout mainly to impress women because that's shallow as fuck. This is shaming language.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:41 PM
1

This perspective deserves some upvotes. It really, really doesn't. Working on your physique with attractiveness being one of your goals is a fine idea. Eye contact -> Pavlovian Approach. Makes life so much better.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:39 PM
1

As for physique, different women like different things. I hate to push back on you, boss, but I think you're wrong here. Women universally like low bodyfat and a nice v-taper, just like men universally like a 70% hip/waist ratio. Never understimate the ability of the Hamster As evidenced by this thread. "Just be yourself" is the antithesis of the Red Pill.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:37 PM
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If you just want bitches then being lean is much better imo than being bulky. But this only counts if when lean you’re still big enough +1 So much hamstering in this thread.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:32 PM
2

Just do you and accept what comes. Good fucking lord, no. What is wrong with you people? This is exactly the opposite of Red Pill advice.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:31 PM
1

The instant you start worrying about what a woman likes/doesn’t like, you’ve lost. The Red Pill regards male sexual strategy. To get sex, you need to be attractive. To be attractive, generally, you need to have relatively low bodyfat and muscles. You're being upvoted by spergs because you are giving them permission to be slobs.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:29 PM
1

I'd have to be poaching other guys wives/gfs mostly. Nothing wrong with that. Every remotely attractive woman has some constellation of LTR's, exes, and orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:26 PM
1

I have seen that advocated for plenty of times on here. It’s actively encouraged a lot. “Make her think you will commit when she’s just a plate” and shit like that. BULLSHIT The advice is to deflect but not to fucking lie. Lying makes women crazy, and no one should stick their dick in crazy. The advice is that women are naturally red pilled and very aware of relationship dynamics. Meet them no more than once per week, have sex every time, make them cum every time, don't do boyfriend shit or talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:23 PM
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I currently lift for two hours a day but I'm considering giving up my job to focus on lifting. That's retarded. You can lift heavy 2 hours a week and develop a physique attractive to women. Lifting 2 hours a day develops a physique attractive to men.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:16 PM
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Like your life depends on it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:13 PM
1

Yeah, OP isn't considering the fact that people who need to crowd source dating advice from the internet are very socially awkward. There's dating advice, then there's relationship advice. With regards to dating, looks are king, and I've never had a problem getting with women. However, when it comes to actually managing the relationship, I've always gone full beta retard and wondered why things don't work out the way I want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:11 PM
17

Women taken by the attackers had to comply or be killed. In modern times, this is manifested by women "getting over" break ups much more quickly than men.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:03 PM
1

7 handles later, and you're still my hero around here, lol. The best advice I ever got from you is how good looking women don't mind being appraised by a masculine man. I've been a devotee of the Iron Church since GLO berated me so soundly, and have decent results for a dude turning 47 on Sunday. And it's all so true, not only I get IOI's constantly, my gaze is more welcome than it ever has been. Of course, you're bang on right, here. One of my girls has permission to seek me out if we're hit wi…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:34 PM
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That pick in the white shirt would be fuckig fantastic with more beef under that shirt so it hangs better. I'm so gay. hahaha fucking awesome and the first part is bang on.....then second part, 0/10, would not bang.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:25 PM
1

LMFAO right?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:25 PM
1

You're a good looking cat, I don't see 18% BF in those pics. BF% is very important, a nice v-taper even more so. Deadlifts, rows, chin-ups, and overhead presses, and you're good to go.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:24 PM
1

She's the only one I'm fucking, You have a girlfriend, not a plate.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:03 PM
1

Lats, traps, delts....for her to hold on to, yes? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:03 PM
4

Great question what’s the answer Be sexy. If you can. Women no longer need us. But good lord, they want us.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:53 AM
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lol why do you think I exclusively date athletic men? It's less about how they look and more about how they fuck. +1 for honesty. I [https://imgur.com/a/YBAAGQA](lift like a fiend for that reason.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:52 AM
1

Says the guy who responded to the automoderator rather than the post LOL j/k, j/k.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:26 PM
1

My old one, I guess. There's a certain effeminate flavor to the pic, which, to be fair, could be an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:22 PM
17

A better question is how can you structure your life to take advantage of it?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:20 PM
6

*g slot? No, clit. When a woman is on top, she can really get a good angle on it. Keep in mind, clits are fucking huge. We just see the tip.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:11 PM
1

I'm not sure the title matches the content. No, but the content matches the OP himself perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:49 PM
-3

When this sub gets shut down for good maybe it will be clearer. When this sub is shut down for good, it will no longer matter. As it is, the Red Pill I know and love requires effort when posting, in order to provide some sort of value. There is no value in this post. None.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 10:45 PM
1

Is this considered woe is me shitposting? Sure seems like it! Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:39 PM
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So why is he talking? I'm more curious as to why the post is allowed to remain up. I see zero value here. Nothing. Nothing actionable, no loopholes to exploit, nothing. Not even a personal anecdote. Perhaps a rule update is in order, although this is a borderline Rule 0 violation, what average schlubs are facing has nothing to do with how to get your dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 10:37 PM
1

But the point of the post is to consider what the average man is facing in the West. Why? Have you cleared the hurdle yourself yet? We must confront these realities. Again, why? What's the plight of an average man to me?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 10:33 PM
2

LOL good to see you have your priorities. I'm.....upper middle class, so I can't just rely on cocksmanship (I know this is a thing, my last gf told me one of her fuck buddies is lazy in the sack because he has such a nice, and big, dick). That said, the stuff that looks good on a man, the stuff that helps develop the v-taper, helps in the sack. I now give the most....vigorous performances since I was a teenager, and that's been, oh shit, 28 years on Sunday!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:26 PM
2

Doubtless.....but we're on a sub that could easily be called "screaming past each other."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:16 PM
2

I know what it feels like to want to have a child with the person you love but can’t. My heart really does go out to you. My heart goes out to my ex wife. I put her through hell and should have let her go. Again, a big part of what drew me into TRP was leaning how to draw bright boundaries. I hate hurting people...keep in mind "Beta Bux" isn't just money, I am kind and long suffering and those are, doubtless, bux. I am glad you didn’t bash her brains out as well. I loved her before she was born.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:02 PM
5

The guy on the left is beautiful No doubt about it. TRP was made for average dudes, not gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:39 PM
1

Flair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:21 PM
3

Feature. The Internet thrives on controversy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:21 PM
1

If you want to help/take over the business/become a caretaker, go for it, but absolutely do not do it out of guilt. Can confirm. 0/10, would not recommend.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:20 PM
1

It is a very narrow definition. Narrow in the waist, but wide shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:17 PM
1

Very few women approach men just for the sake of fucking. Most want something more than that. And will keep coming back for a good railing if you show them a good enough time. But I'm arguing with a woman, and you know what "Texas" Bix Bender (in Don't Squat with 'yer Spurs On) says about arguing with women: There are two ways to argue with a woman. Neither work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:16 PM
1

do you ever actually write anythign that about anything the red pill actually says? LOL that's funny. I've never read a single kind word from a woman here about TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:13 PM
1

Are you fucking kidding? Neither! Guy on the left would have a better time, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:11 PM
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I hear what you're saying, and hell, it might even be true for some of the more excitable boys. But I have to emphasize, I've been in 3 LTR's of over 4 years, and many other relationships to boot. I'm coming from meat space, not cyberspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:09 PM
1

To be fair to him maybe he has a condition or he's just naturally scrawny. Yeah, that's pretty fair, but naturally scrawny dudes can still look good. I'm a little dude, 5'9" & 170#'s, but wear the douche uniform....tight H&M v-neck & jeans, and it looks great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:05 PM
1

You were very personal and compelling. Let me tell you a quick story. I cucked myself. I shot blanks into my first wife for 5 years before we figured out it was me, and 4 more until her biological clock was a kettle drum. She was living on her own when she got pregnant, but we got back together. I wanted to do the right thing. My name went on the birth certificate. And the only feeling I had was infanticidal rage. I could have smashed that infant to bits, and in other days, I would have. She is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:51 PM
1

They’re mostly in pain and hurt people, hurt people. They don’t have an understanding that they are the ones causing their own suffering by attaching to ideas/beliefs/states of being. I was with you, sympathetic and impressed (honestly!), until this. Let me preface this by saying I'm more influenced by https://blackdragonblog.com/2013/06/07/love-women/ (who is also a cuck) than by TRP....TRP, for me, is just kind of blowing off steam in a space without misandry. I have been learning ways to love…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:40 PM
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Almost always they are skipping mind day like the skip leg day. LOL yep. I actually skip arm day. Day one is OHP, squat, facepull....Day two is deadlift, dead row, chin-up's, and facepull. It works better than it sounds. I do miss the "men sharing notes" phase of TRP.....the closing of the incels subreddit was as disastrous as the quarantine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:13 PM
1

I just responded to an asktrp question where a guy was like "I'm doing everything right but I don't feel like I'm there yet, made all these gains but.....I've never benched more than 100 pounds" SMH If I can do this as an old dude, someone who "found TRP 5 years ago at 19" has zero excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:00 PM
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the fact I am not living in the UNited States. LOL guess I didn't read enough....there's always some sector, somewhere that is hot. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:57 PM
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The most I have ever benched is 100 pounds. I was going to commiserate until I saw this. Lift like your life depends on it. (that said, I despise the bench press) I am a Red Pill success story (bad pic, it's all I got) and once the v-taper developed, IOI's went way higher. Still, Imposture Syndrome and Jonah Complex are both places to look....after the gym!
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:55 PM
2

Q4W - Show me your cards Women - what are you talking about? I don't even play poker?! LMFAO exactly. A year under the barbell has drawn me more attention than I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:46 PM
3

It's why peacocks have huge, colorful tails even though these hinder them from escaping from predators. They burned the wrong one of Darwin's books.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:40 PM
1

With a new girl.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:23 PM
0

It more just about being a decent empathetic human being. Your pain is stopping you from being one. No one who knows me would agree with this assessment. The Internet is where subtly goes to die. My husband is the best person I have ever and will ever met. He is has a loyalty few have out side the military and as a veteran we tend to long for that after we leave. I imagine! I tutored math in college, and I've thought about heading down to campus to run like a free math tutoring hour for vets. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:19 PM
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Dude, most girls like it because they can hit their clits in a certain way.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:03 PM
0

What a devastating loss! I'm sorry to hear that, truly. My husband is far from a “cuck” He willingly took care of another man's child. His choice, to be sure. My best friend is a cuck. He helped his wife finish raising 3 sons, and now they have a baby girl together (with his wife's younger sister's eggs, as all of us are 40+ lol). I'm very happy for him. a better man than you will ever be. If you define that as useful to a woman, doubtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:46 PM
1

How many plates do you have in the air right now?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:43 PM
1

When I meet my husband I was a single mother with an infant So you married a cuck. Did you have kids with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:19 PM
4

Girls just wanna have fun. Baby rabies are the worst.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:44 PM
1

How do you even date a 19 year old fresh out if HS as a 39 year old? It was a fluke....I was riding out the Great Recession in college, and met her there. Here's the thing....she came to the math lab I was tutoring at (she needed no help, earned a 4.0 in her core theoretical mathematics classes) to visit me, visit the crew (we had a great vibe), and do homework. People were like dude, ask her out...I never did, but i walked her to the bus station almost every time. At the end of the semester, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:24 PM
3

I hate you, salty bastard, because I can't get on of my favorite songs out of my fucking head when I see your tag line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:57 AM
2

How about you write up a nice definition of AWALT for us?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:51 AM
-1

I was faced with that. Her being 19 and me being 39....surprisingly not so different as people pretend. But we talked a lot about it, and me being 69 while she was 49 would be totally untenable. Now, a widowed or divorced woman with that age gap, when I'm in my late 60's, is not impossible to see. It's easy to say "I don't wanna be a nurse" but if I don't have to spend my retirement savings to survive..... Not my current problem, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:26 AM
1

Show it, yo LOL Not I'm all that, just not pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:22 AM
2

Much obliged, but I'm far from all that. By the way, if you're still interested in environmental stuff, and you're as young as I think you are, it might make sense to look at a renewable energy EPC contractor like RES Americas or Mortenson, and get out on a project and work for a while. It's a gold rush right through the end of 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:15 AM
1

But, if a girl doesn't complain about seeing you every 2 weeks, it means she doesn't really care, and therefore my game is not good enough yet... no? It's always hard to say. If she's like 2 points lower on the 10 scale, perhaps not. If she's 1 point lower...more pressure. If she's 1 point higher....shit tests galore. Also, you seem young, and I'm a bit older. Some women, once you get them trained in, are grateful to have regular dick, even if they are sharing, as long as you don't give them dra…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:12 AM
2

I told them I would be embarrassed to date someone who looked like they would have to pay to be with me. This is fairly honest. I kind of resent the whole "sugar daddy" thing these days....I had a much younger girlfriend for a while, at the poorest time of my adult life, and I still felt that as the (few) years went by, people looked at us more and more sideways. I think by being a well enough built older guy, that sort of thing is tamped down at least a bit....I also dress down, partly to show …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:47 AM
0

big age-gap relationships rarely work. Depends on what you mean by "work." If you don't have illusions that you'll be together forever, they can work just fine. Just let go gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:43 AM
0

Just for enough, for most of us men, this very low body fat and extreme beautiful muscles tend to fade quite soon and without steroids, I have some bad news. dafuq? Me at 46, bad pic, but still. Total natty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:41 AM
2

Fair enough, but I'm drinking beer, listening to Sam Harris, cleaning my apartment, getting ready for a possible job change after 6 years in this position and facing a major change, and going dancing tomorrow night. I'm distracted. I don't mock incels, but incels going into TRP is like a frustrated vegan going into a steakhouse.....with the major caveat that of the 400k subscribers to TRP, perhaps 40k are actually pulling off a true red pilled life. Nah, I'm not saying feel bad for them, but per…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:12 AM
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is it really inceltears causing it? The zeitgeist behind inceltears contributes. But the loser men deserve no affection. Don't get me wrong, they can be gross as fuck, and every time I get a new Reddit handle I get myself banned from gonewild mocking all the incels for slobbering over women they'll never get to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:53 AM
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What do you think that says about me? One of those poor fuckers killed himself. I'm no friend of incels, and I think they should be banned on sight over TRP, but....mocking them helps nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:41 AM
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I drove her out to the coast, moved her into her new place, backpacked along the ocean, spent a last night in a hotel overlooking the Pacific, and got dropped off at the airport to fly home alone. Of course......she broke up with me, 2.5 years earlier. We knew we'd break up when she got to grad school. It was glorious. No stupid games, we were honest with each other and just drank in each other's presence, knowing that we'd not be in it for the long term. That's what brought me to TRP. I never i…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:34 AM
2

Again? Hell yeah. 10/10, would recommend. Lets say you see a girl or a lady that is really your type. Only problem is she is a lot younger tha you Um....why do you think she's my fucking type? Also, would your age affect how will you be recieved. Marriage is off the table. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:29 AM
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Women are less selfish than men, and are far more likely to support their children (tell me its women fault, I dare you, we'll have some fun). Can't quite assign fault, but....women do, you know, actually bear the children, feed them via boobies, etc. Plus, paternity is always questionable, even when it's not (I'm a spitting image of my father). To be clear, one of the failures of modern masculinity is the lack of focus on nurturing. In fact, I'll add to that and say that TRP at least teaches me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:25 AM
1

No woman ever says I'm too young. I'm 47 on Sunday. Wait, I take that back. I danced hard and made out with one chick in a club, and she said "I'm a widow, you don't want anything to do with me." I was about 38 at the time, she was probably 50? Here's the thing....not a year later, I had a smokeshow 20 years younger than me on my arm. What I'm trying to drive home is this: to women over, say, 33, I can be an absolute knight. Good looking, charismatic, intelligent, stable.....all these things are…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:13 AM
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Don't you agree? I don't. It sounds like she knows her place in your life. She will probably eventually hook up with someone else, though, and ghost you. It's a feature, not a bug, to this game.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:05 PM
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> She never initiates now, but she still replies to me in 5-10 minutes when I do. Congrats, you're doing it right. No need to next a girl who's giving 0 drama. FFS.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 04:55 PM
1

Female beauty is based on fertility. Male beauty is based on virility. It's easier to remain virile as you age as a man, than it is to remain fertile as you age as a woman. Never forget that The Wall is driven as much by women's changing incentives as declining looks. A 35 y/o woman, esp. if she wants kids, has a razor thin margin for error.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:47 PM
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They are discouraged from mentioning they are females just like men are on RPW. They are banned for mentioning they are females....or at least they used to be. All three of your points are spot on, to be sure!
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:38 PM
2

most 20 y.o who date 17 y.o are also betas who can't get a girl their age I didn't know I stumbled onto double X chromosomes. As for those that go far up to 10-20 years differences, I can just tell you - daddy issues. Bullshit. I mean, I know it's an anecdote, but I had a girl 20 years younger than me on my arm for a few years, and her father was great! We ended up friends.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:27 PM
1

If I'm right (and I have no idea) play up the good looking loser angle. Be a fuck toy. But you have to be good looking to pull it off.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:12 PM
-1

Free speech is no longer free. Women are banned on sight at TRP.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:55 PM
1

Yeah man, what's easy for you is hard for me. Again, enjoy them while you can. Take it from this old guy. Shit, they kind of need it. Old Ben Franklin has a great piece on choosing older mistresses, one of them being that they are so damned grateful. It's worth your time to search for.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:05 AM
1

I'm in my mid 40's with my shit together. Women over 33 are a real pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 04:42 AM
1

I know you can be hot enough for ideology to be irrelevant, but that is a high threshold to pass. I have seen attractive men get ejected ruthlessly (and IMHO unfairly) when anti-SJW views are shared. meh. It's less being anti-SJW and more just being masculine and not fucking worrying about it.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 04:32 AM
1

I dunno....I'm not all that keen on commitment these days. It would be hard to convince me to do so....even if she was "worth" it, hell, that makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:19 AM
1

Keep his belly full and balls empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:13 AM
1

I hate defending woman but their hormone profile scientifically makes it harder for them to be lean. I've come across an interesting idea that basically says that weight gain is part of what triggers earlier "menarche" (a woman's first period). The woman's body detects that it has enough calories to carry a child to term so they kick over into fertility.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:36 AM
1

Enjoy it while you can! Older women like you because you're likely a good looking loser.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:24 AM
1

That's ok, I'm fucking other people too. I have a hard time believing this. That said, when you treat a woman like a girlfriend, you get a girlfriend, like others here have said.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:13 AM
3

You probably slobber.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:08 AM
1

Let's get to the real point. It's not a girl shit testing you, it's a woman shit testing you. Enjoy older women while you can. You think she's shit testing you? You should see what she'd do to me.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:06 AM
1

Face pulls for the rotator cuffs. Literally the only targeting I do.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:51 AM
2

Deadlifts don't work your lats like pull-ups and rows, they'll hit your traps but that's about it when it comes to your upper back. Yep, we're on the same page. The traps are upper back, but I'm being pedantic.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:36 AM
2

The funny thing is, this all begins with attitude. Point taken. My attitude has not kept pace with my gains.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 02:34 AM
2

Pretty sure deadlifts hit the upper back too, although not so much the lats, which is why the combo of pull-ups and deadlifts is, well, fucking amazing.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:14 AM
1

Lack of interest from them or from you? From me. I've never heard it put this way, but I do actually agree with this. Nice! It's something almost everyone gets wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:04 PM
23

Worse. Eating ass is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:05 PM
7

Solid post. As a special event, I bucked up for a $150 meal for two.....what a mistake. I turn out better food on a regular basis. If you're a good enough cook with a nice enough pad (and defined enough muscles), plates will happily come over for food and sex. I am adamantly opposed to dinner dates. Full stop. Never. Happy hour or coffee is fine.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 06:46 PM
1

Get fucked in the knees and see how easy it is. Yeah, if you're talking about skipping leg day in a TRP related sub, it's best to lead off with the fact that your knees are fucked. I'm thinking of switching over to split squats or at least adding them in, just to try to bulletproof my knees as far as is possible. Knee injuries suck.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:38 PM
1

I personally prefer the wider shoulders, I guess. Of course you do. It's a universal sign of male strength. I definitely would choose the strong dad bod outlier with a big beard and tattoos to rail me over and over lmao Of course you would. That dude is likely stronger than the preppy boys with washboard abs. Some men get their strength from the manual labor they do at their job. That’s hotter to me than someone who spends a ton of time at the gym. There's something to this. I am a fan of liftin…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:02 PM
2

You're in great shape. back pic, don't have front pic now and I'm 47 on Sunday, and mostly concerned with not letting anything go pop. I've had a barbell for a little over a year. Bodyfat is probably closer to 16% for me. I have a one-pack, basically....my stomach area is flat but the abs aren't defined. I don't care enough to eat exactly right. All I care about is the hallowed v-taper, and I swear about 6 months after I started lifting I got way, way more attention than I ever did, even at my o…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:48 PM
3

Dude, no, I'm in good shape.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:13 PM
1

I probably need my right leg to get fixed. If you can.....I mean, it doesn't get any easier as you age.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:28 PM
3

I’m sure some of you guys prefer huge tits over small tits with a fat ass, or a thinner body over a thicker one, and vice versa. Universally, men prefer a specific hip/waist ratio, I think 70%? Maybe your idea of alpha is washboard abs ONLY but there are always going to be plenty of women like me who disagree! Universally, women prefer a specific shoulder/waist ratio, I think 90%? I do agree that the focus on abs is kind of stupid. Focus on arms is also stupid. My forearms are as big around and …
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:22 PM
3

she might continue the affair primarily because the sex is better than at home. Underrated idea here. I have one woman in my life I was never able to get off. We actually had a threesome with a lesbian who said she only n-counts straight women, who was also frustrated about not being able to get her off. Fast forward to current times, after a year under the barbell, and I was able to get her off with dick alone......because it's not dick, it's hip flexors and glutes. Playboy called it years ago,…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:14 PM
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Never skip leg day. Frighting amount of that in this thread. SMH.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:06 PM
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maintain it Still curious on that. I've been somewhat lazy this summer but 1-2 times a week seems to preserve my gains.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:06 PM
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I’d want a mix of lean and fast guys and slower and more jacked guys You want to be a mixture of lean, fast, and jacked. All at once. Again, the college athlete. More yoked than jacked, honestly. Big compound lifts get a lot of love around here, for good reason...but consider, a deadlift is a very natural human movement pattern. A few years back (not the more recent, pathetic example) a guy in Colorado scrapped with a mountain lion and ended the fight by pressing a large rock overhead and bashin…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:04 PM
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It's irrelevant because no natty guy is ever going to cross the line into what they consider "too jacked", let alone do so by accident. Pin this to the top and call it a day. Hell, I thought the "college athlete physique" was common knowledge by now.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:53 PM
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I pushed myself to the very limit when it comes to my upper body but my legs held me a bit back. I will never understand this. How's your back? How can you hit your back and not your legs? I guess if you go to a gym you can hit your back with specific machines, but all I have is a barbell and pull up bar, so deadlifts and chin ups are key. I remain befuddled. Who skips leg day these days?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:51 PM
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you're not going to have pull value for casual sex for much longer. With women under 30? Yeah, that window is closing. The general rule is that women who are open to dating/sleeping with older guys still have a cut off at their father's age. But.....women from 40 to about 60 are horny as all get out. Yeah, it's harder to set things up, but to think that I can't keep this up indefinitely is as silly as the male revenge fantasy of the Wall. The only thing in my way is lack of interest. The Wall is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:43 PM
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Lol. I’m too lazy to spoon feed you. That's rather condescending. It should take 2-3 minutes to give a 10,000 foot overview, but you'd rather send me into a 2 hour rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:34 PM
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+1 patriarchy This one boils my blood. If women want to be thrown to the wolves, well....I guess that's about what's been happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:31 PM
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That statement is a crude simplification Acknowledged in the post itself. ideology Just guys comparing notes. Everybody knows women break up with men more often than men break up with women (even if it leaves the woman worse off). Everybody knows men take break ups harder. Everybody knows that women are doing quite well financially. Everybody knows men take longer to get into new relationships, if they ever do. In other words, spinning plates is a rational response to open hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:29 PM
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I'd prefer a synopsis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:16 AM
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I basically handed him a gun, got into a barrel, and turned into a fish. I love you LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:20 AM
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Hell, it's not even rocket surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:19 AM
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We shoot sexy energy daggers across the room. That's hyperbolic but not untrue. Thanks for keeping me around a bit. If I catch a guys eye from across the room and there is attraction, my instinctual reaction is very different than when I catch a non-man. WOW
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:18 AM
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and its RP 101 again 001 Pre-school FML
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:16 AM
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This is fair. A number bandied about is that 80% of females have bred, but only 40% of men have. I should find the data, but it sure passes the sniff test. Again, this is a place where theory falls apart, because we are in a weird place. Women are doing just fine in this economy. They don't need to fuck for utilitarian purposes, they can fuck for fun. And they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:15 AM
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And he's an outlier. As a rule, a man will be lucky to have twice half the average number of children a woman has. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:48 AM
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some older mgtow content producers have pretty good data supporting TRP principles just that the conclusions drawn are not appealing to PUAs. I'm intrigued. Anything more to say on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:38 AM
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Go fuck a plate. The important things are easy. The easy things are hard. Or something. +1.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:19 AM
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But it is after all an anecdote and not data. I hear that loud and clear. It's not well enough understood that TRP is just guys comparing notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:28 AM
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female vocalisation One warm summer night, with folks partying out in the pool area, I "let my fingers do the walking" with my girlfriend at the time, and brought her to a rocking orgasm. I always wonder if she heard the appreciative chuckling coming from the courtyard. I don't think so, she probably would have been mortified. TRP isn't theory for some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:23 PM
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Someone’s been reading Sex at Dawn Note that I didn't mention that book!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:55 PM
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Being a lifelong bachelor that has sex is the goal, not marrying Seriously, this. The whole fucking point of TRP is tapping out of the marriage market while still getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:54 PM
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Do men have a wall No, but they may go MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:33 PM
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were considered manly Exactly. Masculinity may change over time, but it's always something.....often enforced on men by men, such as killing your first mammoth or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:32 PM
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Would you want to fuck him if you couldn’t tell anyone about it, ever? Indeed, this is the standard!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:24 PM
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Also, women are not attracted to working-class men. Don't believe this nonsense. Agreed....I wonder if it's a mistake, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:24 PM
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"Masculinity" did not fall from the sky; it's largely a cultural construct Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:07 PM
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Yep. Plus, most of the food worth eating in the supermarket is around the perimeter.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:20 PM
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So the wall is a woman developing self-preservation? Another way of putting it is she has less room for error. So men do take advantage of a woman's naïvete, then? Women are independent agents with their own decisions to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:13 PM
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Women become far more guarded about this in their later years This is the fucking Wall. It's what no woman here will ever admit to. They say "Oh, I'm in my early 40's and get lots of attention" and I don't even doubt that it's true. But the Wall cannot be understood without this becoming more guarded, hard stop. It's even more changing tastes than declining looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:11 PM
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I really don't get why yall try to put him down. Appreciate it. I think it's a fair deal. If I want to spend time with women without offering any kind of commitment, it's on me to be sure they have a lovely time. It's not exactly rocket surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:45 PM
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Women become far more guarded about this in their later years This is the fucking Wall. It's what no woman here will ever admit to. They say "Oh, I'm in my early 40's and get lots of attention" and I don't even doubt that it's true. But the Wall cannot be understood without this becoming more guarded, hard stop. It's even more changing tastes than declining looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:43 PM
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I really don't get why yall try to put him down. Appreciate it. I think it's a fair deal. If I want to spend time with women without offering any kind of commitment, it's on me to be sure they have a lovely time. It's not exactly rocket surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:33 PM
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I really don't get why yall try to put him down. Appreciate it. I think it's a fair deal. If I want to spend time with women without offering any kind of commitment, it's on me to be sure they have a lovely time. It's not exactly rocket surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:33 PM
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Basically I think you're selling yourself short. I wouldn't let TRP brainwash you into thinking that you're not worth committing to, or that you can't find love. No matter your circumstances. Here's the thing, though: I like being single. The fact remains that it is much harder for men to enter non-exclusive relationships. It's not so much that I'm not worth committing to, or can't find love. No, it's more like holy shit, I have the secret sauce and can have sex without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:06 PM
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I wasn’t hating” I was “teasing.” :) all good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:58 PM
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I have also talked with girls about cooking to break the ice before. Turns out, they love it when they can exchange cooking ideas and tricks. Absolutely. It's also a chance to display skill, and personality. Also....it's an excuse to come back to my place without it being an overt "let's bang."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:57 PM
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In fact, while being animals, we still are. Are there any other animal species who have travelled the space without help from other species? 100%!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:44 PM
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There are way more men with those qualities who aren't douchebags, and who want commitment, than he's estimating. Actually a lot of guys want that Disney dream. a good person who respects women on top of it. I am a good person who respects women. I'm just useless to them. I'm in my mid 40's, no kids, no desire for kids, and more college debt than retirement savings. I'm a good looking loser. TRP taught me how to deal with women without leaving a trail of emotional damage behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:23 PM
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Yikes. Midwitticism nailed it Whatever. It works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:45 PM
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it's REALLY not hard to find a guy who can do all of what you listed Sure. However.....you're not looking at this from a male point of view. You don't see the invisible dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:43 PM
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I disagree both are equally important to reproduction and sperm is technically where life "begins". The world record for number of children by a man is something north of 900. The world record for number of children from a woman is 69 (supposedly).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:31 PM
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No, this whole thread is one big advertisement for gynocentrism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:24 PM
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generic advice that all men are already encouraged to follow I don't fucking think so. We are trained to be useful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:23 PM
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Reddit hates evolutionary psychology, mostly because the left hates it as it makes many of their ideas fall flat, especially socialism. True. I was raised by a literal man hating feminist. I was exposed to "non gender binary" from well before it was popular. David Bowie was her absolute favorite. A gay man would have been lucky to be her son, but I am not a gay man. I have never been exactly soft but have hardened over time and been rewarded for it. I embrace the polarity these days. I have a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:21 PM
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plural If you have one plate, you have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:13 PM
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So I'm (stupidly) arguing with /u/planejane about this elsewhere on this thread......human looks are really important. We aren't gorillas or elk. Human females absolutely have choices in mate selection and for the most part have for a very long time. That's not to say rape has no place in it, but women love sex and seek out sex, preferably with handsome men. That's why the first commandment is to lift like your life depends on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:01 PM
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Rape is pretty common in the animal kingdom, especially in species with a clear but not extreme size discrepancy. I mean yeah, of course. Consider elk. A bull elk collects a harem and runs off other bulls. Tripping over the semantics of "rape" for non-human animals is easy, but the cow elk aren't exhibiting much choice. IIRC women date THEIR OWN equal or up. Um....of course it's relative to themselves!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:57 PM
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You’d cook for a girl? Fuck yeah. Do it all the time. Come over, have a nice meal, maybe play a game (board or video), watch something silly, drink, and off to bed....done this multiple times with multiple women, good times for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:55 PM
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Ya it’s always hard to get something for nothing. What do you mean, nothing? I'm handsome, well built, a great cook, and fuck like a stud. Not every guy can do it, no doubt. Incels should be banned on sight over at TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:49 PM
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What's your take on social skills, flirting, sexual esculation and seduction in terms of evolutionary biology? Absolutely critical. That's the point of The Mating Mind and it is conjectured that the human brain has some of the hallmarks of runaway sexual selection. Kind of like a peacocks tail....it's an honest signal because it actually lowers the birds chances for survival. Would you want to be a 10 pound bird with a 6 foot tail? It's fucking stupid, but it's the only way to get laid. People b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:45 PM
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More rape than AFBB, also early betas probably had big dicks. I've had too much sex with too many women to not know how much women love sex. This is a place I break pretty hard from the manosphere, women love sex and seek sex. I really, really doubt that this is evolutionarily novel, in any way. I'm not denying that there has been a lot of rape, but the idea that most conception from rape is far fetched. cannot really be verified. I admitted as much. Still, our drives are far more biological tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:41 PM
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Frame: This is just retarded. Teaching men to have thought out and enforced boundaries is the opposite of retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:34 PM
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Spinning plates has to go You know....the whole point behind the saying is "gee, it's really not easy to have multiple, non-committed relationships going." It's not treating women like crockery, it's acknowledging that it's hard to get to sex while playing exactly 0 beta game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:32 PM
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TRP audience are mostly low IQ. That's rather pretentious of you. If that's your point of view, why do you fucking care? You don't want to improve the Red Pill, you want to destroy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:29 PM
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Like how do you even know that about Gorillas? Weird. Evo-Psyche 101. It's a famous example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:25 PM
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And that leap is why many people are skeptical of using such crude bio truths to prop up surface level CULTURAL phenomena. I do see this point.....although I did admit that it's "crudely put but not entirely incorrect" which is fairly guarded language.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:58 PM
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In almost every mammalian species the male courts the female, males compete with each other, females select the sexiest, most dominant alpha while the lesser males get discarded. Not necessarily most dominant, though. Female chimps have been known to trade food for sex, grooming for sex, etc. Elk, on the other hand, simply beat the shit out of each other, and the females have little choice. You did answer the question, though: people (more especially blie pill society) don't like to be compared …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:53 PM
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Of course you have no idea what I'm talking about, you spoke your talking points with no understanding of nuance or why your point is nothing but pseudoscience. FUCK YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 01:01 AM
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On a more personal level, you ok with killing people you misdiagnose? Sexual strategy may be immoral, but you knocked it out of the park here.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 08:23 PM
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The only orientation a toilet seat should be is down. A surprising number of us appear to be the spawn of feminists. It's not particularly surprising. We've seen things others have not seen. Dirt poor. This is one of the hardest things about TRP. Abundance Mentality is so fucking hard when you were raised up poor. New rules. I am the prize. TRP 501. This is graduate level shit, from my undergrad level position. So easy to say, so hard to be. I go dark much more rapidly and deeply than I'd like. …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 08:19 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about. I mean, obviously fewer men and kids are dying, and the nuclear threat has kept war at bay. And of course fatherless kids are a menace to society, but also to themselves. What does that have to do with eggs being expensive and sperm being cheap? Are you going to challenge my statement, or just smear it with "pseudoscience?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 06:33 PM
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you broke frame, read the sidebar. This place is infested with incels. Nothing on the sidebar about that.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:43 PM
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Shouldn't be so fucking controversial. When I was a newb here they were way rougher than I was.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:42 PM
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[https://teachmeanatomy.info/upper-limb/muscles/hand](Little tiny ones, of no concern to lifters.)
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:40 PM
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Sorry that the truth hurts. Wait, not sorry, it's reality and not one I created.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 03:39 PM
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Cry me a fucking river. Bitch.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:05 PM
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Eggs are expensive. Sperm is cheap. You think we say AWALT for nothing?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:57 PM
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Is asking if she's free today considered chasing? Is sucking your own dick gay? Usually ill wait for her to initiate a text then set something up. Sigh. Is it considered chasing if I text her "you free today? Thinking of stopping by your place"? "Text only for logistics" but hey, fuck logic. Edit: formatting, no words
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:54 PM
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And if so are there any women who aren't like that for instance religious girls or something? Beware using Red Pill tactics for Blue Pill goals.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:50 PM
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Any tips? Stay the course. This takes time. Your question is excellent but....we're all in different places. I'm a professional in his mid 40's who is prime beta bux material. I have my set of incentives. Not getting sucked into being Beta Bux is crucial. You have a different set of incentives, primary of which is **studying something that will make you money, and doing it well.**
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:41 PM
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i built a home gym. i use that shit way more often than i used the actual gym. best decision i made this year. Same here. I celebrated the year of the woman by getting a barbell and putting on more muscle mass than most women could.....in my mid 40's.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:13 PM
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Eggs. Sperm. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 09:49 PM
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Because women don't fuck a look. They fuck an idea. They fuck a story. Another home run. This would be excellent fodder for a headline post. It wouldn't be totally novel, but the Internet moves fast and the sidebar......hasn't been updated in a bit.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:48 PM
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You're not asking a personal question in anything like an honest manner. But do take note of what CainPrice said below.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:41 PM
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You have almost 300 karma but no posts. You must have deleted them. This is the epitome of woe is me shitposting, and I hope I don't draw a 3 day ban for participating.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:29 PM
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I think you miss the subtly of the OP's question. I mean, anyone with "throwaway" in their name is obviously either jacked, rich, or both, and wonders what it's like for us peons.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:24 PM
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You're trying really hard to not understand me, aren't you? I said that all else equal, the stronger one wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 09:19 PM
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Always look upstream. Your hands don't have muscles. Your forearms control your fingers. Your upper arms control your forearms. Your shoulders and back control your arms. You want your back (the biggest part of you) to get bigger. That said, I'm a big fan of focusing on the forearms. Any good compound movement helps. Additionally, farmer's carries are great for both grip strength and shoulders.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:49 PM
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LMFAO you win
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:47 PM
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It is well known that all else equal, the stronger one wins. That's why men & women are in different categories.....and why there are weight classes.....and differing ranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:35 PM
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If your strength is 14 and mine is 7, you can use 7.1 to defeat me, and save the rest of your strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:30 PM
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Seeing this girl a couple months. In person this girl cant keep her hands off me. But have noticed she has never initiated a text not even once.Its starting to make me think there must be something about her I'm missing here? Congrats, you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:22 PM
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Don't believe everything she tells you either. She may say she wants to get away from him, move in with you, etc. but that rarely ever stays that way. +1
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:58 PM
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I can never tell if they’re IOIs or just midwestern culture, but I know exactly what you mean. The roughest thing I ever read on TRP is "If it looks like she's terrified you're going to rape her, that's the greenest light you can have!" I mean...not real fear, you know what I mean. It was like the baby screaming behind me on the red eye flight...you could tell when she was fussy, and when she was in legit pain because her parents didn't listen to every adult around her and give her something to …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 04:54 PM
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If you were a trader, which companies would you go long and short on? Or is the industry too unpredictable to make those calls? Sounds like you’ve got super in-depth knowledge. I input data from lender financial models into a database, and would never say anything that isn't publically known, often even to clients, at least directly. The wind industry is supported by "tax equity" at least for a little while longer. A typical 100 MW wind farm will generate something like $700K in taxes, and $7m i…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 04:25 PM
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I hear that, but lying is bad. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:12 PM
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can entice her into thinking he will commit to LTR and go through the motions of a committed relationship in order to get sex No, not at all. I do not advocate lying. I mean actually being a good beta provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:51 PM
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I wouldn’t really know because I’ve never been fat. I was never obese but was fat. I married young, 24 or so, so a southern girl who cooked southern girl things. She was a "keep his stomach full and balls empty" type and it was pleasant while it lasted....at least until the very end when it all fell apart (over my infertility). That's what strange about seeing young anger phase guys. Around the time they were being bored, I was in my late 20's/early 30's in the end game of a good marriage gone b…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 03:33 PM
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You're saying I was misrepresenting things by saying those are great results? Misrepresent is far too strong! I think he was a slightly above average guy who would do decently well on Tinder or whatever, but he's giving no one alpha tingles.... Hate to say it, anything below 90% on Photofeeler is a bad result. Keep in mind who is using it. When I set "who rates me" to "women under 30" the time it took like quadrupled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:16 PM
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It's bad Form to muscle women? What exactly does that mean? Because I get the impression that you are not allowed to actually resist a woman the same way you would a man Judo is a finesse sport that purports to allow the weaker to overcome the stronger by gaining advantages. It's bad form to muscle anyone, really. Here's the idea...if you have a strength of 10 and I have a strength of 7, I cannot defeat you. However, if I put you in a position that your strength is now 3 (read: off balance) I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:13 PM
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A variation of this happens outside the gym, too. I was recently explaining this to a contractor I work for. Lacking male upper body strength, women use other factors like tools and leverage to make up for a lack of brute force. I'd guess far more men hurt themselves on the job because of this lack of finesse. Work smarter, not harder! I'd agree, although risk tolerance plays a major factor too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:04 PM
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You said the beta provider doesn't have leverage. I'm suggesting that a "red pill aware" beta provider just might. But it's not talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:57 PM
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What does? Lifting? Kind of. It's a hack. I get all the benefit of a robust life, in the exact right doses. Great for me, fucked up for a lot of guys who need morphine to get to work. Heard a story of a dude who fell like 40 feet in one of those wind turbine towers, broke both hips and both knees, and is back to work with....pharmaceutical help. I strongly, strongly agree with this. I do about half strength training and half hypertrophy training, and look AND FEEL about 10x better than I did whe…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 04:22 AM
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Thanks for being chill tonight. 👊 Shit man, this week I flew to LA, drove out to a project site (in the famous wind energy area of Tehachapi Pass), back down to LA, flew out to KC, drove up to another project in the mud in northern MO, then flew back home....it's been a long 4 days. I'm beat. I'm not used to not being able to take care of my body, so the last hour is stupid shit on the TV while foam rolling, digging into my soft tissue with a racquet ball, and the pain cane (goofy as fuck but I …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 03:28 AM
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Gotcha. So a dude could have a decent v-taper without a low bodyfat % (I mean, not high but not low) while the shoulder/waist is really delts + low bodyfat % (strong core in both).
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:36 AM
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As someone who has recently lifted his way to the red side of things (along with other adjustments) I do feel I'm welcome in a club I always wanted to join....which, of course, has it's own set of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:27 AM
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It is rare to go home without a girl. I'm probably older and need to avoid a creep reputation like the plague....I'm loving swing dance, but follows in my regular spots, esp. in classes, are training partners. That's my mindset.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:25 AM
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I was also so surprised at how dancing is so dependent on the man. You literally “lead” them the entire dance. And the girls really enjoy dancing once you know just a bit. Like I said , im 2 months in from knowing nothing A year into swing dancing all I know is I'm hooked. There's little better Red Pill training than putting your hands on women and moving them where you want them.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:23 AM
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It is about the v-taper but it’s also about the shoulder-to-waist ratio. Aren't they the same thing?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:21 AM
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Judo helped immensely with coordination, and when I decided it was too risky, I switched to swing dancing which is even better as I get to put my hands on bitches.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:20 AM
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He's not a beast but he's more masculine than 70 or 80 percent of the male population. It's not that he's not a beast, he's virtually a twink....but I did just get back from a couple job sites. I mean...really? He doesn't seem all that masculine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:13 AM
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men betas are blind to masculinity FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:06 AM
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Shameless hijacking of top post....those results aren't "great" Good enough looking kid, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:02 AM
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The entirety of society is not rage-inducing. The majority of the Internet is! Which is why OP is getting good advice here, including yours.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:59 AM
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we live in the gayest moment of the history in the world I have had more and more great moments meeting other well built dudes who seem to "get it." Without a shred of TRP jargon, plenty of dudes completely agree with this.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:58 AM
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Professionals were picked from Judo and Handball because of their high development of grip strength. sankyu in judo checking in.....got my ass handed to me by women on a regular basis, because they often had absolutely impeccable technique *to make up for their lack of strength.* It was considered bad form to muscle women, and a good judo club has an enforcer who understands that (it was never me lol) I'm sick of arguing with women on this sub, but looking at the OP, it's not surprising that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:47 AM
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I was going to respond to "lmao cringe" but clicked on your name first.... The beta provider doesnt have as much leverage anymore. Here's the thing. I have long said that since TRP is about male sexual strategy, beta provider is a sexual strategy. No one wants to engage on it, as if "normies" is a actually beta provider strategy, but I'd say that instead it's inertia. I never really have seen a good "Red Pilled Beta Provider" type strategy, outside of perhaps Married Red Pill. Then again....not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:38 AM
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First, never argue with a woman. "There are two ways of arguing with a woman. Neither work." 'Texas' Bix Bender
/r/askTRP11/08/19 06:44 PM
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Since trp hates being beta bucks so much, it's ironic that they also want the relationship most likely to be beta bucks. TRP is about male sexual strategy, and I do break some from the pack when I think BB is a strategy to explore. The stats of age gaps in marriages and the OK Cupid study support my argument. The fact that I had a smokeshow 20 years young than me on my arm for 4.5 years supports my side of the argument. Here's the thing, 2 years in, she said she'd date others in grad school, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:27 PM
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At 27 and feeling like I have wasted much (not all at least) of my time in my 20s, I'm as close to 50 as you are to 30. Count your blessings, bro. Obligatory plug, I'll post a fitness post soon, at 170#'s I just pulled 215#'s off the floor for 5 reps. Either absolutely nothing or damn, nice pull. Such is life.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 10:05 PM
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A welcome post, in the spirit of TRP. I'm sure (hope) somewhere in the comments is the admonition to not use this as an excuse, and it would not be wrong. Still, the time it takes for a man to change his life is entirely inconsistent with Internet time. +1
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 10:00 PM
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Back in from the sun to say this: One of BD's points that I've listened to too much is "focus on one source of game". There's nothing wrong with swiping and still talking to at least one meat space girl per day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:28 PM
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weird Rollo-esque “this is what I want so you too must want this” tone. This is a good point. What I will say is this....there is no perfection in the manosphere, but I kind of like it like that. Uncle V was almost as influential to me as Blackdragon, and it was the venerable GayLubeOil who talked me into lifting. It's all a glorious mess. Even having access to this stuff is amazing, though. I really didn't when I was a kid. I'd have killed for this stuff. Glad you love face pulls lol. I went 45…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:17 PM
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Right? Between BD for relationship management and the Good Looking Loser for actual pick up advice, TRP, to me, is more an escape from misandry than anything else. And yes....I vacillate badly between trying Tinder again and just following GLL's advice....I mean, I get IOI's all the fucking time. I had a young cutie once see me over the bar at Illegal Pete's...she picked up her drink, walked over, sat down next to me, and we chatted for a good long while, # close but nothing came of it. The next…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:27 PM
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+1!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:01 PM
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Isn’t the worst case scenario multiple girls becoming possessive about you simultaneously and doing crazy girl drama? I've 46 going on 47 and focusing on women under 30. That's the best case scenario!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:59 PM
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do you find blackdragon superior to TRP? Yes. His post on loving women is excellent. His system of FB/MLTR/OLTR is superior to "spinning plates." His tone is matter of fact and devoid of the angst over at TRP....I told a friend to avoid TRP because it takes a fair bit of work to separate the wheat from the chaff over there, and again...fucking Incels and anger phase guys, it gets really old. That said....Blackdragon has moved on. He now has a wife and gets his FB's from SA. I have no problem wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:54 PM
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I really appreciate this response, you sound so level headed and chill Much obliged. The Spergies give TRP a bad name. I'm going to start posting over there, starting with a fitness post, as I have a really neat physical transformation story. Still, without plates in the air, there's only so much I can say. I do miss the pre quarantine, pre Incel days of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:48 PM
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Are you familiar with Blackdragon's work? Avoiding boyfriend behaviors has been helpful, although as I admitted elsewhere, I've not reached the top of the mountain yet. Facebook thinks I'm 25. Last time I was on Tinder, I got a lot of matches, but normal game doesn't work. I need to go back on Tinder with the "just looking for dancing/climbing" partners angle. I use honest pics and hide my age....which is damned close to not lying, I have streaks of silver in a full head of hair. It's actually h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:46 PM
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I guess the last devils advocate question I’ll ask is, if you only have one FWB, isn’t that just like having a girlfriend with low self esteem? It's unfair to her. She even joked about how I "love my harem" (which I totally did). Still, we see each other once a week, no promises, no commitment, nothing. It's entirely up to her to come over when invited, but yes....it's very unfair that I don't have at least 2....MLTR's, to use Blackdragon's terminology. I need to get better. hopped on SA post-di…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:39 PM
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It’s a really serious question. I just told you that I cook dinner, have drinks, let them spend the night....it's fairly intimate. You said elsewhere: Dudes without souls get the most pussy of all. So this is your bias. But I am not that dude. I'm the opposite of that dude. Many women have fallen totally in love with me. It sucks when it doesn't "work out" so by keeping a certain distance, every heart is safer. Part of what drew me to TRP (and even more, Blackdragon) was learning about how to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:22 PM
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Why not just visit sex workers or masturbate if you’re not even gonna bother to get to know them? Really, dude? I'm actually OK with letting them spend the night. I have a sweet pad conveniently located. I have a kitchen many housewives would salivate over. I like to have a few drinks. Even at once a week, my experience is I get to know women just fine at this rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:49 PM
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Then why do you insist that women don’t go at it with Non-alphas when alphas aren’t around? I must have been misunderstood at some point. I do not insist this. At all. Not even a little. Going back to your point about time, it's very time effective to have your women dealing with betas, up to and including fucking them. They get all the drama. I'm a mix of high and low value. I'm a good looking loser. I have more student loan debt than retirement savings, in my mid 40's. I do have a solid career…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:47 PM
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Plus once she's your girl she'll just start to absorb all your ideas and beliefs anyway. This is one of the hardest things about TRP, in a way. I struggled so hard against it, but it's so fucking true. I have one FWB just railing against feminism these days. It's kind of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:33 PM
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I can further my optimizing hypergammy This girl has optimized the fuck out of her hypergamy. She has a rotation of at least 2 right now....a jacked bike mechanic and a fat rich dude who is taking her to Berlin to see a symphony.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:32 PM
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all the couples I've known, only two had large age gaps. Of my three primary LTR's, one was 2 years younger, one was 10 years younger, and one was 20 years younger. I have been advised to stop arguing with women, and it's good advice. You're making an AWALT argument, in case you didn't notice. Just because you never found older guys attractive, it doesn't mean no women do. Also, when you're thinking older guys, you're almost certainly not thinking of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:29 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:27 PM
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Stop arguing with women. Fantastic advice. I haven't gotten a single woman to budge a single goddamned inch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:25 PM
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what do you mean by super charged hamster of smart chicks. Smart women are still women. I actually have a pretty high opinion of smart women, but there's still the emotional element, and when they're really smart, the rationalization stuff can go through the roof.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 06:25 PM
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“I don’t see any particular woman more than once a week.” WTF? The benefit here is that it keeps the excitement up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:23 PM
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Everyone pays. Pay to play typically refers to cash money, which I do not spend, save a bit extra food or alcohol....at home. I don't buy drinks, and never buy dinner. Now, am I paying under the barbell? Kind of, but the health benefits even things out. Am I paying because I could be in a dual income household? Sure, but I'm holding my own and treasure my complete freedom. We both know this is true not false dude. It's a feature, not a bug, that women hook up with betas. Who the fuck cares? Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:22 PM
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Just pee on her. get back to not fapping, bro. I got to go. Bitch is here.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:37 PM
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That is not a put down to you, Not taken that way at all. if enough attractive people and celebrities started drinking their piss on TV and advertising it for good health, with not explanation, im sure a LOT of women out there would struggle not to want to at least try it. LMFAO yeah, I hear you on that. Here's the thing....I built up the time and karma to post over to TRP and asktrp fucking around over at PPD. It's amazing, I mean amazing, the level of cognitive dissonance going on with women. …
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:34 PM
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I hear you. This is a debate sub, obvs, so....I guess we all just blather on. There's very little daylight between us, to be quite honest. The "men sharing notes" aspect of the manosphere could be rekindled, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:26 PM
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I'm going to cut across the grain here and say I have had good luck having fairly deep conversations with women. Here's the deal: by saying controversial things, you can get them to shit test you, then swat down those tests with your superior Frame. That's right. Your superior Frame, not logic. It's not about logic. Hell they never even want a solution, just affirmation or in the event that what they seeked isn't suitable or what they hoped for, some back patting about how its ok. never a soluti…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:23 PM
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There is a huge are many holes for real masculine men that few to fill How's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:10 PM
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Someone is going to have to supply a reason for me to care. So....young guys are leaving bangs on the table because they aren't taking advantage of this. That's really all. It is eye opening to me, thinking about the women I have to jump through hoops for giving it up easily to young, good looking losers. The only problem I have with it is not having taken more advantage of it when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 10:56 PM
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Fucking a hooker doesnt give much purpose, these men want love and families on top of sex. The Incels have been bloody clear on this. I mean....not even love and families, just to actually be desired. And honestly, being desired by a woman is one of the greatest feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 10:23 PM
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I'm attracted to my fiancee, and not to middle-aged men. He's 25. You must not be one of the majority of younger women who are not at all attracted to older guys. There are some who are meh, and there are actually some who like older guys. He's hot, fit, firm, So am I. I am in fantastic shape. he doesn't have any wrinkles, he's not bald or gray Well, I do have wrinkles and some gray! Because you have your preferences, you will probably not understand why any younger woman would either be open to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:55 PM
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How necessary are the weights for a good crust, anyways? If you're parbaking they are actually really helpful. You can also use dried beans, but yeah....if you don't tamp the crust down, it expands way too much. I actually have a fantastic kitchen. I have a small apartment, but it works really well....I can touch my stove, sink, fridge, and dishwasher without even moving. Plus, I got a big rack that I put a table oven, microwave, and all my stainless steel appliances on. My kitchen is Alpha as f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:45 PM
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Repressed issues Turns out he's a manwhore who fucked half of Seattle. She still with him, though. He's a stud, she's way post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:27 PM
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guys here have the humor and reading comprehension of a flea LMFAO that is so gendered! I can talk food, now. I'm the guy who just today mentioned walking into Bed Bath and Beyond wearing my black leather jacket, looking for pie weights because savory pies are awesome cold weather food. It's probably the only time a straight white single guy has ever done that!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:24 PM
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% of men who are considered 'desirable' keeps shrinking Not my problem. Hence, don't worry about the losers!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:15 PM
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I went through 2 gut wrenching divorces, although not only I was not "divorce raped", my first wife had me over the coals and let me go (I had cucked myself, literally, and she protected me...long story). My second divorce was just as wrenching. Then, I dated a girl 20 years younger than me. About 2 years in, she said she was going to move on when she got to grad school. Well, she blew the GRE and ended up with me for a gap year....4.5 years total, 2.5 of which were on borrowed time. It was abso…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:12 PM
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each and every of those women eventually back out of the harem in favor of someone who scales better in attention economy - if they have a choice to do so. Of course they do! Everyone is responsible for their own happiness and to pursue their own goals. It's up to me to be hot enough and skilled enough to keep their attention. FWB arrangements are entirely materialistic I don't know what you mean by this. I do not pay to play, and genuinely like/love the girls I play with. enforce Nope. I can ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:05 PM
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I'll do better next time! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:49 PM
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How the fuck should I know? It was a decade ago! LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:12 PM
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this is crisis of love. I am more influenced by Blackdragon than TRP. It is possible to love women while not playing along with society's rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:11 PM
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Exactly! It's the lefties I get in trouble with when I play around some with race. I'm sure you've seen Patrice O'neal's "Elephant in the Room" and if not, drop everything and do so! It's basically one big red pill and hilarious as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:42 PM
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Love it. I've tried talking to random women for the first time in my life My favorite Red Pill Post ever. I'll just play to the masculinity afforded to me as a 6'4" black man lol It's also fun to take some fucking chances. I was at Office Depot, and a dude helped me choose a printer. I carried it out front, and the clerk asked me who helped me find it. The guy happened to be walking by, so I said "I got the Brother from the brother!" Made that fucker's day, he came over and shook my hand, laughi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:34 PM
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shift/push I see is definitely towards genderlessness and transgenderism Yep, see my answer to you just above. I celebrated the "Year of the Woman" by getting a barbell set and packing on more muscle mass than most women even can. I've also been doing swing dancing, to force myself to literally lead women. Everyone is zigging, so it's time to zag! Embrace the polarity!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:26 PM
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Anyone else noticing this? Yes. Part of masculinity is building shit. Part of femininity is consuming shit. Human males aren't so damned different than bower birds who build nests and attract mates though their nests. Human males also aren't so damned different than peacocks. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bux. But....the powers that be (not Jews) want more consumers, and that's what they're getting. I listen to sports radio sometimes, and every single fucking commercial plays on male insecurities. I'm sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:23 PM
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statistically, those things are extremely rare but get an insane amount of media coverage and political circle jerking Yep. I think they get the coverage that they get because the demographics of mass shootings look a lot more like society as a whole. Most shootings are indeed drug/gang related bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:11 PM
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No clue! It was decent, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:06 PM
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If you want the last word, take it. LOL good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:59 PM
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Okay that’s nice if you’re trying to achieve nirvana or something, but frankly I’ve READ a lot of zen buddhism and honestly the fuckers arguably should have just been jerking off more. Thanks for the chuckle, internet stranger. That was pretty fucking funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:43 PM
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which version won? It was actually pretty funny, I snapped at them "I don't care, just feed me!" and it kind brought them to awareness of what was going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:40 PM
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Massive opportunity for desirable men. Be desirable. Don't worry about the losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:04 PM
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I provided you a link to a mainstream publication talking exactly about the tie between fertility and beauty in human females. You simply ignored it. Women, in general, are highly motivated to deny the biological nature of beauty and push the agenda of it being societal. Enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:48 PM
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You appear to not be debating in anything like good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:44 PM
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You gave one hell of an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:42 PM
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At least human females are more complex LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:41 PM
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In Japan, some women are "Christmas Cakes" because no one wants them after the 25th.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:34 PM
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They literally do in France I’m not speculating there’s even a phrase for it. The exception does not prove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:32 PM
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I was visiting a cousin & his wife....it was decided that we were going to have chicken salad for dinner. One was thinking mayo and celery style, the other Caesar salad style. This developed into one of the most hideous proxy wars I've ever seen. I don't know what they were fighting about, but damned sure wasn't over chicken salad!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:32 PM
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looks though not fertility looks == fertility if it was cool to like older women then guys would do it Nope. But in USA culture it’s especially uncool and youth is fetishized more than occurs naturally. True enough. We'll probably not agree on this, but it's largely biological, not societal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:23 PM
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Or it would be universal. It’s not. Mainstream psychology begs to differ. When it comes to female beauty, the real buttons getting pushed in male brains are the ones signaling that a woman is of the right age and in good enough health to conceive and successfully bear children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:13 PM
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So yes it’s largely societal. It really, really isn't. Female beauty is tied to youth worldwide. It's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:03 PM
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True story, I was hanging out with my first wife and some dude in the social circle looked at us and said "I bet you two have good looking sex!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:55 PM
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Yes, because were punished far worse for aging than men are. You really don't want to hear this, do you? This isn't society. This is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:54 PM
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In the immortal words of Jimmy Pop: Just independent like NOFX smart like Janeane Garafolo She'd use big words to make fun of me so that i would never know Bestow upon me all her wisdom of the Dewey Decimal System gee You know what I really want in a girl? Me
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:52 PM
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