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| 78 | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop it | fuckmefuckmefuckmef | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 12:42 PM | |
| 8 | (26M) First time single since age 17. (UPDATE) | fuckmefuckmefuckmef | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 01:06 PM | |
| 2 | Have a date but I´m broke | fuckmefuckmefuckmef | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 09:55 AM | |
| 1 | 26, just out of 8+ years relationship, help | fuckmefuckmefuckmef | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 10:43 PM | |
| 1 | How to close this one? | fuckmefuckmefuckmef | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 04:03 PM | |
| 0 | Video games (especially online multiplayer) | fuckmefuckmefuckmef | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 10:35 AM |
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| – | [30 day challenge] day 0I would like to encourage you to stick to it. There are so many threads like this that stop posting after a few days. I don´t know why, but I want to have faith in you that you will complete the challenge. You can only gain from this, please stick to it as it will be very good for your self-esteem to be able to look back and say "I did exactly what I said I was going to do and finished the challenge". Then you can combine that good self-esteem with the experiences you will have during the challe… | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 12:15 PM |
| – | Your must-read books on self-esteem and self-improvement?Models. I have studied seduction on here and watched alot of videos. But finally, last week I read Models by Mark Manson and its the best material so far. If you have studied seduction at all, he puts alot of those ideas into perspective and shines a light on the important aspects and what to dismiss. | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 02:39 PM |
| – | Field Report : Met A Girl At A bar & [F-Closed]As a male who had a great run cumming inside around 10-15 total strangers last year without a condom I agree. That trip to the hospital to get an abortion with a total stranger tends to have an effect on your feelings. I haven´t been able to hook up with anybody since then because the shock was so great that I lost all interest in sex with random strangers. I´m waiting for that interest to come back, but whenever I am thinking about taking a stranger home, I just remember that feeling of "Holy s… | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 04:02 PM |
| 6 | Never had a girlfriend before at 23 and I am still a virgin. How can I change my lifestyle and outlook to be successful with women?"Fuck a prostitute." "One year later I have still have only fucked that prostitute, but.." Heh heh heh :P | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 01:00 PM |
| 8 | Will having random sex with lots of men help make women more attracted to me?Yes, that´s the golden answer. Don´t work on your conversational skills, escalation or any of that bullshit. Just go fuck a lot of guys, that´ll teach you how to pick up women. That way you don´t have to put any effort into bettering yourself. Okay sorry for the sarcasm. When you bang alot of (hot) women, you give off the vibe that you have many options, and women are attracted to that. I don´t know how that works if you are always banging guys though, maybe they´ll start seeing you as one of th… | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | the tinder effect"I get about 1 match per 400 swipes!!" I´m guessing you have totally normal and boring pics of yourself looking at the camera. My main pic is me barechested holding 4 bottles of liquor. I´m not ripped at all, I´m skinny. I´d say I was average looking. I get shit lots of matches, they don´t give a fuck if I´m ripped or not (except for a very few shallow ones). What they give a fuck about is me not giving a fuck about how I look, instead I look like a guy who can lay back and have fun. But it´s ju… | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 10:38 PM |
| – | Advice on expressing sexuality, being forward and flirty without being creepy?My rule of thumb is that I act like whatever I say is totally within the limits, just because I think it is. Chicks pick up on that. Ive gotten away with saying insane shit to girls because I was laughing and not giving a fuck when I said it. Other times I have been told to fuck off for saying much more innocent things because I was not in state and the girl sensed that I was a little nervous and they probably thought I was putting up a mask and not being relaxed around hot girls. Its all about … | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 04:13 PM |
| – | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itThank you. This is all very good advice. This is kinda what I´ve been doing, I´m very glad that I haven´t been crying about this to my friends. Asking seddit was the right idea. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:29 PM |
| 2 | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itGood point. That´s the correct way to use the information. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 11:38 PM |
| – | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itThere is a reason I don´t look at TRP. Seddit has gotten me laid and given me my sense of self worth. TRP makes me laugh and actually makes me feel good about what I am doing because its just sob stories from middle aged bitter men who will never get as many girls as me. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 11:31 PM |
| 8 | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itI did not think that anyone would answer. Just typing this out made me feel a lot better instantly, but your comments have made me feel wonderful. There is so much truth in what most of you have said. I will be revisiting this thread every time I start to think too much about this again. For now, I think I´ll go and see that blonde at work who has been sending me tittie snapchats all week. And I am going to enjoy it. Because I deserve it. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 09:54 PM |
| 12 | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itNo but really I just play the numbers game. I swipe right on every girl on tinder, get lots of matches and pick out the hot ones and talk to them. Also when I see a hot girl in real life I follow the 3 second rule and immediately go and say high. Behind these 10 lays are ALOT of other girls who said no. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 01:52 PM |
| – | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itI play drums :D | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Taking it to the next levelDat gay best friend who stays hidden and tells you what to say using a hidden earpiece and microphone. | /r/seduction | 25/05/16 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Taking it to the next levelLunch = Friends Clear intentions, confidence, Kino and ESCALATION = Possibly sex | /r/seduction | 24/05/16 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Have a date but I´m brokeYeah you´re right. I´ll scrape together some cash for 2-3 drinks. She´s a university graduate from New York with some class so I think it should be a fun challenge. I´ll do a field report on it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Have a date but I´m brokeThanks for the reply. I´m not sure if I can use your solution though. There were 2 girls, and my friend was hitting on the other. We are probably going to meet all 4 for a double date so splitting the girls up so I can take "my" girl to the park is probably not going to work. I think I´ll just focus on lifting and meditating for the rest of the month and just skip this one date for the next one. I hate being broke and it rarely happens, but this month I was finishing a huge project with my band … | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 10:33 AM |
| 2 | A woman flirting without eye contactYea good point I went a bit ahead of myself | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 08:40 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who were ugly ducklings that grew into your looks, how did you improve your self-esteem and inner game?Do you have any non-girl related hobbies? Any passions? | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | A woman flirting without eye contactAs opposed to how I explained it. By fantasizing about her and analyzing the situation when there was never a chance to fuck her unless you were A. A pro player and B. A heartless bastard (she has a BF. There are billions of women out there. Why be a dick?) In the end, you never made a move anyways. Don´t waste your precious time. Next girl. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 11:44 PM |
| 4 | A woman flirting without eye contactAren´t you overthinking this? I think this is one of those "moments" that you look at with the view "fuck yea I´m awesome, of course this woman thinks I´m hot" and then not think about it at all after that. Just one of those moments to enforce your mindset that you are the shit. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Attracting girls through snapchat?I am a radio tower climber and put pics of me hanging on a tower at 330 feet in my snapchat story. I also am a drummer and put pics from concerts and tours and festivals that I play on. Almost every girl I date has a lot of questions about the shit they have seen me post on there, like "how do you manage the fear of heights up there" or "I always wanted to learn to play the drums". So I think it is all about the content. Use snapchat to spread the fun you are having in your life, not to bombard … | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Spending money on a first date?Saw a quote here once that I always keep in mind. "Only trade your D for the P. Not money". Out of the last 5 successful dates that I went on and ended with sex, only once did I buy the girl a drink. The other times I usually showed up like 10 mins. late and they already bought themself a drink. Just focus on having a good conversation and a good time. If a girl gives you a vibe that you owe her a drink for going on a date with you, she should be next'd. | /r/seduction | 18/05/16 04:01 PM |
| 21 | Every single girl I date falls in love. Am I setting my standards too low? Dating the wrong women?Are you being clear about your intentions? Sounds like you lead them and yourself on in the beginning of meeting these girls, then you "loose interest" as you said. Maybe you should write down what traits you are looking for in a girl to help you know when you meet someone that might be worth keeping around. | /r/seduction | 18/05/16 12:18 AM |
| 1 | (26M) First time single since age 17. (UPDATE)What I´m trying to say is that you already have more experience than many. Focus on the good stuff and make it boost your ego :) | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 10:25 PM |
| 4 | She asked for my number!Congratulations man! You seem to be doing this right. Focusing on radiating your own happiness and not on results. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | (26M) First time single since age 17. (UPDATE)Maybe I am not the one you should be comparing yourself with. I did not mention that I am an extremely good drummer (sorry about bragging but its the truth) and have already been on international tours and put out several full length albums with my band. That being said, there is a fairly big pool of girls that have seen me live multiple times while I was in a relationship, and girls really get wet for a guy with passion for his hobbies in life. The ones that you SHOULD be comparing yourself to … | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | (26M) First time single since age 17. (UPDATE)The fact that you are on this subreddit means you are doing the right thing, which is wanting to get better, not bitter. Like you most likely thought, I thought my ex was the "one". I am now starting to realize she was only one of endless dating options. Don´t try to force that thought, it will happen naturally as you gain more confidence and start to realize your full potential. The fact that your relationship lasted for so long means that you actually have good communication skills and more, a… | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 05:14 PM |
| 1 | 26, just out of 8+ years relationship, helpAlso want to say that I got a fucking good wingman. Reconnected with an old friend and we went out tonight, also going to go out next weekend. He is a really fit and handsome guy and good with girls so I think we´ll be a good team. He is a black guy in a country where there are really not many of them so the girls are super fucking interested in him. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 12:08 AM |
| 1 | 26, just out of 8+ years relationship, helpThanks so fucking much for this serious reply! I´m going to break it down. "because it looks like so much of you was wrapped up in being with her. " Yes. I realised pretty soon after that I was counting on her for my happiness. I even had said it to her multiple times that she was the "source of my happiness". Thought it was romantic then. Want to puke now when I think about it. "What do you like to do? Do you exercise? Ride bikes? What kind of music do you really like (not what kind she would t… | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 12:02 AM |
| 2 | 26, just out of 8+ years relationship, helpWoke up this morning and just said fuck it. Approached two gorgeus girls out on the street in my lunchbreak. 2 rejections (they had boyfriends) but i could tell they loved being asked out and didn't think it was creepy. Its actually fucking fun! Constantly scanning for the next target. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | 26, just out of 8+ years relationship, helpWorking on it. My friends have become lazy at getting girls or are in steady relationships | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 11:17 PM |
| 1 | 26, just out of 8+ years relationship, helpWhat is is a virus? Dont really know, buddy | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 11:15 PM |
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