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| 1 | People seriously underestimate the value of “settling down” — sometimes it's actually a smart move.^ Typical jealous monolingual seething over superior bilinguals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsOnly because modern society is broken. If you look at the Amish, the healthy adults absolutely do look after the elderly. They don't even pay into Social Security. The Amish also don't fit your definitions of left or right. Mothers are tremendously supported by the community. That's how they can average seven kids without going mad. While the average liberal mom is driving her only child to ten extra curricular activities so he can get into the Ivy League, the Amish mom is just letting her seven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsKids also were working and therefore a source of income Yes it's the incentives. Also without Social Security, kids are who looks after you in retirement. By socializing retirement, we create free riders who expect to be looked after by other people's kids while producing none of their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 01:38 AM |
| 7 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsLess individualist society. And yet, Japan's birth rate is crashing even harder than America's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsPeople were incredibly kind, helpful, and just generally sweet and friendly towards my children when I was in Mexico and Italy. Less individualist society. And yet, Italy's birth rate is crashing even harder than America's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 01:17 AM |
| 3 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.https://www.fda.gov/about-fda/fda-history-exhibits/frances-oldham-kelsey-medical-reviewer-famous-averting-public-health-tragedy researchers in Germany and Australia linked thalidomide to clusters of rare, severe birth defects—hands and feet projecting directly from the shoulders and hips—that eventually were shown to involve thousands of babies. The drug was never marketed in the U. S. The drug was never approved in the US because they saw it causing defects in Germany and Australia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:57 PM |
| 3 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.Why do you think the FDA didn't approve thalidomide? Because they saw it causing defects in Europe. Americans benefited from testing on Europeans first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.what else is there to care about? Lots of things. I support equal drug testing, but I think equal Selective Service is more important. Because it's fair, safe, and makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:43 PM |
| 3 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.The US benefited from testing on pregnant European women, which caused birth defects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:41 PM |
| 6 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.That's not at all what I was saying. I'm saying that feminism would be more popular if it admitted that there's also a lot of gender discrimination against men and had a stated goal of fighting all gender discrimination. Instead it downplays all sexism against men and says only sexism against women should be fought. And then when that turns off potential supporters, instead of reconsidering its approach, it doubles down on calling those potential supporters "misogynist". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.Equal legal rights Good idea, I support making Selective Service gender neutral. equal representation Good idea, I support 50% quotas for men in universities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:24 PM |
| 5 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.You’re fucking infuriating Stress will shorten your lifespan. Do you need a nap? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:21 PM |
| 5 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.You want more drugs tested on women because you think testing drugs on men is misogyny. I want more drugs tested on women because I think testing drugs on men is misandry. We are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:20 PM |
| 4 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.You want more drugs tested on women because you think testing drugs on men is misogyny. I want more drugs tested on women because I think testing drugs on men is misandry. We are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:20 PM |
| 4 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022347664806260 Thalidomide was administered to pregnant rats by various routes without significantly interfering with embryonic development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:18 PM |
| 2 | "Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality.Right, sexism is just believing that men and women should be treated differently. Most men and most women have some degree of sexism. Misogyny is specifically hatred of women. Saying that all sexism is misogyny is a fallacy, because a lot of it is motivated by hatred of men as much as of women. For example all the "men in women's bathrooms" trans scares are clearly rooted in fear of men, because there's no equivalent "women in men's bathrooms" scare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 05:56 AM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseMADE THE CLOTHES on the man’s back as he tilled Must have been painful if she stuck the sewing needle into him while he was tilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:07 AM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseSo if the person you want to be with says "no" you'd rather burn society down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:03 AM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapsemen would most likely to gain chance at procreation by impressing the women through impressive achievements such as hunting big game or winning a battle. So even in matriarchal societies, men faced "patriarchal pressures" to hunt and fight. Funny considering a lot of feminists claim "men invented gender roles" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 11:56 PM |
| – | CMV: It's fine to subsidize your lifestyle and splurge with child support moneythe kids are provided for and there's money left That just implies the ordered child support is too high and should be reduced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.It's not real, it's low effort trolling by an AI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:21 AM |
| 0 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.not one of those weird dipshits is on a poster in a teenaged girl's room Why would you want to be on a poster in a teen's room? Sounds like something only a pedo would want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.Men can't raise children? That's a very sexist thing to say. Men can easily raise children if their wives man up and provide the money to fund the household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.Autistic women seem to like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.Young men today don't even have deep voices. You sure? Maybe your voice is just too low and masculine for you to see the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Women are the superior gender for modern society.You get extra responsibility because you're physically stronger, the same way women get more responsibility for pregnancy/child birth. So you're saying the equivalent of drafting men to fight is drafting women to carry babies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:52 AM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdIf you're happy with non existence, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 08:04 PM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdFour low fertility countries that are gonna disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Why is it so rare for "HVM" to be childfree?The societal Norm is having children. Only in societies that last more than one generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion.For biological fathers, as long as you go through the paternity determination process, you are guaranteed to be on that birth certificate regardless of what the mother wants. Not really if the mom just has the baby in another state and leaves you off the certificate it would be very hard to track her down and assert your rights. She could even put the baby up for adoption without your consent. Utah is well known for facilitating that. Go onto a sub like TwoX and say "I'm pregnant and want to giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 06:26 PM |
| 4 | The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion.men have the additional right of not being automatically listed on birth certificates That's not really the man's "right" lol it's mostly the woman's decision whether a man is listed or not. "Men have the right for their baby mama not to list them on the birth certificate" That would be like making abortion legal but the husband decides whether or not his wife has one. And calling that a woman's "right". "You have the right for your husband to let you have an abortion" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.Men who like a woman will ask her out No there are many reasons to not ask someone out. Fear of ruining the friendship. Fear of being seen as creepy. Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.shy/introverted/socially awkward This is considered much more socially acceptable in women for some reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:44 PM |
| 5 | The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion.Women already have this option, it's called Safe Haven laws. You can just leave the father off the birth certificate and legally abandon the baby to the hospital, no questions asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:39 PM |
| 3 | The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion.A man should not be able to financially "abort" a woman who has no means to get an abortion. If both parents financially abort that's just equivalent to giving the baby up for adoption. Which is already allowed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:37 PM |
| 6 | The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion.both genders have the right to “financially abort Women already have this right, it's called Safe Haven laws. They can just leave the father off the birth certificate and legally abandon the baby to the hospital, no questions asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?You don't care about men, but you feel entitled to men caring about women. Why? Must be the "women are wonderful" effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:29 PM |
| 14 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?If it's the same rights in blue states, it's also the same rights in red states. Red states disallow both men and women from having abortions. Totally equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:22 PM |
| -2 | What's wrong with taking care of your kid?I guess you'll never have empathy until your son is raped and forced to pay child support to his rapist. Maybe not even then! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 05:53 AM |
| -5 | What's wrong with taking care of your kid?You're just so used to privilege that equality feels like oppression. Why would I hate myself lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:40 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with taking care of your kid?What's worse, stealing or killing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:28 AM |
| 12 | What's wrong with taking care of your kid?Okay but if a woman has to give birth in a red state (let's assume from sex she willingly consented to) and then feels bitter about having to raise a kid she didn't want, would you blame her? Would you tell her she's not allowed to feel that way and should just step up and parent? If she wants to give the kid up for adoption would you call her a deadbeat? If your reaction to women not wanting kids is different to men not wanting kids, you're probably biased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity"If she's not that's Toxic Femininity! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 11:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerousI'm just pointing out your hypocrisy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 06:52 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerousI think your entire outlook is insensitive and ignorant. You're only looking at it from the perspective of how it's only going to benefit a man But the OP does the same thing, looking only at how not working hurts women. While ignoring how it puts a huge burden on the man to do all the work while his girlfriend goofs around at yoga. Jesus, imagine if there was a TikTok trend about men quitting their jobs to "go to Starbucks" while supported by their girlfriends. Feminists would have a fit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 06:10 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerousAnd if you're being paid to be pretty you're just a sugar baby, aren't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | How did or would you react if your partner said he was born without testicles?Sperm donation is still an option. For example if you have a brother and conceive using the brother's sperm, your "kids" would be your nephews/nieces so still closely related to you by blood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How did or would you react if your partner said he was born without testicles?Sperm donation is still an option. For example if OP has a brother and they conceived using the brother's sperm, OP's "kids" would be his nephews/nieces so still related to him by blood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 12:07 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidAre you going to try persuade your niece and nephews how cool it is to be child free? If you manage to convert them too, you'll have removed your entire family from the gene pool! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:14 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidStats show that while married men live longer and experience better mental and physical heath than single men, it's the opposite for women. Wrong: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7452000/ Results Between 65 and 85 years, married men and women had a longer TLE [Total Life Expectancy] and ALE [Active Life Expectancy] than unmarried men and women. For example, at 65 years, TLE for married men was 18.6 years, 2.2 years longer than unmarried men, and ALE for married men was 12.3 years, 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:56 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidI did get sterilized Than you for your service. More space for other people's kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:55 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidYeah but in the wrong direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:53 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidTurns out even women find the male gender role oppressive when they're forced into it by other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:50 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidIt just takes one pregnancy to kill us. It's not worth it That's just your opinion. You're welcome to sterilize yourself. You're probably a disappointment to all your female ancestors though, considering you only exist because every single one of them took the risk of having babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 05:52 PM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidBlue states are already losing electoral college votes due to shrinking populations and these people just want to accelerate the process lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USWhen men manage women, feminists say men are oppressing women by ordering them around. When women order men around, feminists say men are still oppressing women by making them do the ordering! These cannot both be true. Please feminists, pick a lane! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:55 AM |
| 5 | Let's say you are put in charge of writing the Democrats' agenda for winning the male voteFamous last words of a German leftist who died in a concentration camp: "after Hitler, our turn!" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 07:27 PM |
| 2 | push mens issues into the dem partyRegardless of whether you live in a blue state or red state, it never hurts to call your congressional representatives and ask them what they're doing to fix (insert men's issues you care about). And tell your friends to do the same. The more people who do that, the more awareness politicians will have that it matters. Complaining online does nothing. Calling representatives is actual political action. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | push mens issues into the dem partyDems have no incentive to compete on men's issues if the GOP doesn't compete on men's issues. Make the GOP compete on men's issues and the dems will follow. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | push mens issues into the dem partyThe problem is right now, neither party supports men. GOP is in power the next four years. We should concentrate on getting Trump (and people who can get Trump's attention: Elon Musk, Joe Rogan, etc) talking about men's issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 05:30 PM |
| 14 | push mens issues into the dem partyWow damn. She thinks conscription doesn't exist because it doesn't happen to women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?So you've never heard feminists say stuff like "ACKSHUALLY homophobia is caused by misogyny, society only hates gay men because gay men act feminine and society hates femininity"? what society deems "feminine" is mocked and ridiculed in male spaces Female spaces like TwoX constantly mock everything masculine, so this sounds kinda like projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?I call this "Trickle Down Feminism" where we focus entirely on women's problems but claim it will somehow (vaguely) solve men's problems too. Very similar to "Trickle Down Economics" where we make the rich richer and claim it helps the poor too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?Also the OP's claims that women built support networks entirely themselves is completely false. Look at RAINN the best known resource for rape victims in the US. Started by a man. Look at VAWA the laws to protect women from domestic violence. Written and passed by male lawmakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Question for the men, who do you think is going to start men advocacy centers and fight on behalf of men?Progressives/feminists are concerned about women's safety, not protecting the platonic ideal of femininity. I've definitely seen feminists say stuff like "society undervalues feminine things", sounds a lot like they think femininity should be valued more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetBut a lot of people go to therapy weekly and still seem worse off than people who don't go to therapy at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetExactly, a therapist isn't actually incentivized to fix your problems, because then you'd stop paying them. It's like a TV serial, they want to give you a cliffhanger so you always come back next week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetThat's a trick used by all salespeople. You think your therapist cares about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Men are now the most exploited class of people on the internetIn the same way that smokers are idiots for smoking. Alcoholics are idiots for drinking. Obese people are idiots for overeating. Probably starts off as a choice, then turns into an addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:50 PM |
| -1 | Would you go on a second date with this man?Lol classic story, this sub is just terminally online and hates everybody, meanwhile in real life this guy is doing fine and has a woman who loves him. This sub is so far from real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 02:21 AM |
| -1 | Would you go on a second date with this man?If I split the bill, I assume the guy isn’t interested So you're not a feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.That's what being terminally online does. Truly traditional lifestyle is very evolutionarily successful. Lots of kids. But it's not what you'd call "trad wife". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Being a trad wife also means adhering to Christian principles. So other religions don't have traditions? A traditionally Muslim wife is also a traditional wife. A traditional Jewish wife. A traditional Hindu wife. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.That sounds terminally online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.People who want genetic success. Having more kids = more genetically successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:52 AM |
| 20 | An admission that feminism is not for everyoneThe green student union in Austria has a 100% women’s quota for leadership positions Seems like only a self hating man would vote for such a female supremacist party. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/24 11:41 PM |
| 18 | An admission that feminism is not for everyoneI debated about posting to r/ everydaymisandry You can always do both | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/24 11:37 PM |
| 33 | An admission that feminism is not for everyoneIt's called a Motte and Bailey argument. They want to force men to help women while women do nothing in exchange. When they want men to help women ("performing emotional labor for the opposite sex") they say "feminism helps men too. So men must be feminists and help women" When they don't want women to help men ("performing emotional labor for the opposite sex") they say "feminism is for women. So feminists don't need to help men" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?Have you tried asking for advice on r/custody? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?If you think you're likely to change your mind then you're just "childless". "Childfree" implies a strong desire to exit the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 2 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?If you ever want to hear about misandry in the queer community - ask a trans man. The exact same people who used to support them when they were a gender non-conforming woman - and claimed to support their choice to transition, will immediately turn around and hate them for identifying as an iCky mAN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexist^ proof that misandry hurts women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 03:16 AM |
| 17 | What was a time that you, as a man, experienced sexism or misandry?in her defense she told us at the beginning of the year that she was sexist That's not a defense that's an admission of guilt lol. Literally the opposite of a defense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/24 02:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The "Mike Pence Rule" is sexistRight now I view you as a brain in a vat. Heck for all I know you're just a large language model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:52 AM |
| 0 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?I served in the army, too. Drafted or volunteered? I don’t think the draft should exist for anyone, though How do you think Ukraine would be doing right now if they followed your advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:25 AM |
| 2 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?That has nothing to do with equal rights though. It's not like men can get abortions and women can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:11 AM |
| 2 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?So men, on the whole, must largely be ok with it. Are you a man? Are you okay with being drafted based purely on which genitals you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:10 AM |
| 3 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?I’m talking about actual feminism where women strive for equality Speaking of equality, what are your thoughts on: Men only conscription (Ukraine, South Korea, etc) Rape being defined to exclude male victims (CDC, UK, India, etc) Hermesmann v. Seyer Underrepresentation of men in NIH clinical trials. The gender lifespan gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:06 AM |
| 1 | (CW: SA) What are your thoughts on how the NISVS treats male SA victims - especially male victims of women?Look up Mary Koss on Wikipedia, then click on the "talk" page for the article. Extensively documented including recording of her own words. It's censored from her Wikipedia page but they can't censor the discussion of her Wikipedia page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | (CW: SA) What are your thoughts on how the NISVS treats male SA victims - especially male victims of women?If you posted the question somewhere more sane like the Ask-A-Liberal sub you'd get more agreement. PPD is just full of radical weirdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Princess treatment is just patriarchy in disguiseThen why are there so many special programs to encourage women into STEM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Princess treatment is just patriarchy in disguiseLook up Maternal Gatekeeping, there are studies showing many women feel that parenting is "the woman's domain" so they must control everything 100% which obviously sabotages their husband's ability to parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:19 PM |
| 3 | (CW: SA) What are your thoughts on how the NISVS treats male SA victims - especially male victims of women?Lol it's not that tricky, non consensual sex is always rape. Only sexists argue otherwise, in order to perpetuate rape culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:55 AM |
| 0 | (CW: SA) What are your thoughts on how the NISVS treats male SA victims - especially male victims of women?Mary Koss was very influential in studying rape statistics and she deliberately excluded male victims because she realized there were way more than people thought and she wanted to keep the focus on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?The raw wage gap is calculated from annual income, not hourly wage. If a stay at home mom works 2 hours/week part time on her passion project, her annual income will be compared to her husband's annual income from full time work in the raw wage gap, and used by feminists to say that women are oppressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?If a woman is doing the childcare it’s not like the man is paying for her and it’s some privilege - she’s working as well. But it's still counted in the wage gap (he's earning a wage, she isn't) and used as proof that women are "oppressed". If you're counting single income households in the "wage gap" then it's only fair to also count the "transfer gap" where breadwinner men are transferring money to their stay at home wives, to get a more complete picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?No, earning money is just one path to your goals, not a goal in itself. If your goal is: live a long life, have kids. Guess what, more women do those things than men. So that's female privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?Around 58% of households are dual income, that means 42% are not dual income. 42% is still very common and if you call 42% of the population "abnormal" you're deluding yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?Like to pay her bills? I don’t think that’s a normal relationship... Around 58% of households are dual income, that means 42% are not dual income. 42% is still very common and if you call 42% of the population "abnormal" you're deluding yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?Most households are dual income Around 58% are dual income, that means 42% are not dual income. 42% is still very common and if you call 42% of the population "abnormal" you're deluding yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?"pretty please spend your money so I can eat" That's just how the free market works. When people stop buying coal, coal miners also lose their ability to earn money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap?There must be plenty of rich ugly women though. Everyone gets ugly with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Well feminist admit in nowYou mean cradle of humanity. Cradles of civilization are Mesopotamia, Indus Valley etc. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 04:55 AM |
| 2 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedInternalized misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | If men could get pregnant abortion would be outlawedHow would a single man have a baby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.Well given that women live longer than men on average, I think any attempt to argue that life is "more dangerous" for women than for men is clearly wrong, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.What statistic makes you believe "the world is dangerous for women"? Is it the fact that women live longer than men on average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.I think a man killing an abusive woman would definitely be added to the "femicide" statistic. The statistic includes every woman's death regardless of whether she was an abuser, doesn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.So if a woman murders her abuser that's fine, but if a man murders his abuser suddenly he's "committing gender violence" and "the world isn't safe for women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.Yeah the rotten part of that study is they deliberately didn't ask women the same question. It's well known that with leading questions on surveys you can spin data to say almost anything. I wouldn't be surprised if their initial results also found that “1/3 of women would rape if they could get away with it”, so they threw away the women respondents lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.With p-hacking and publication bias you can add a veneer of "science" to any myth. TwoX believes that: Married women are miserable compared to single women (Dolan study, debunked) Men are more likely to leave sick wives than vice versa (also debunked, with a study on multiple sclerosis showing the opposite) Maternal death rates in the US have suddenly gotten worse (they didn't, we just started counting every death occurring during or after pregnancy as "maternal death" even if it's a woman who d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 01:27 AM |
| 12 | Study finds that no, its not all men, actuallyThe biggest rape myth is that men are never raped by women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/09/24 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Study finds that no, its not all men, actuallyAlso just need way more men doing gender studies research. The overly female demographics cause a lot of bias. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/09/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross?There are certainly cases where a cop/prison guard rapes a prisoner, someone tried to prosecute said cop/guard, and their cop buddies intervene to get them off with little or no punishment. It's the same dynamic, and happens on a huge scale. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Why don't we see Paper Abortion posts in this sub?And that's something else where the majority of voters support us, the laws are just out of date. If we started by campaigning strictly on things where the majority of voters support us, we'd get a lot further. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross?American prisoners are also raped by prison guards so no I don't think it's that different. You call them "felons" to dehumanize them and minimize their rape but of course statistically even some felons are innocent of the crime they were imprisoned for. That's no different than calling the Palestinian rape victim a "Hamas terrorist" to dehumanize him. If a "terrorist" doesn't deserve rape then surely "felons" don't either. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 06:19 PM |
| 41 | Why don't we see Paper Abortion posts in this sub?There is a politically winnable fight regarding paper abortion, but it is limited to this: Rape victims should be allowed paper abortions so they're not forced to pay child support to their rapists. Focus on this message and this message only, and we're could make a lot of progress. Most people agree with it, but the law hasn't caught up yet. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 01:48 AM |
| -3 | Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross?You know that thousands of prisoners are also raped in American prisons every year? Of course rape of prisoners is bad, but it's not like America is on any morally higher ground here. Realistically, most of the world is probably just as bad as Israel at this. (But if someone gets raped by Qatari prison guards, Al Jazeera sure isn't going to report on it, being funded as they are by the Qatari government...) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 01:26 AM |
| 14 | Myth: women are underrepresented in clinical trials. Reality: men are underrepresented in clinical trials. Source: Report of the NIH Advisory Committee on Research on Women's Health, 2021-2022Sorry for the double post, the first time I accidentally uploaded a lower resolution version | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?What's funny is there are similar pyramid scams targeting "boss babe" feminist women but nobody calls those women morally deficient for falling for the scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Well there you go, just pay a surrogate and take testosterone and you can be a dad, just like you always wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 01:15 AM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?I have no complaints about that, probably because I'm not half stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Or if you think men have it easy just do what gay men do, save $200 thousand for a surrogate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you support government programs for men ?Most domestic violence against men is by women but sure, either way men deserve protection by the law and resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:45 PM |
| -4 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Yeah just squeeze sperm into your vagina and wait 9 months. Then take testosterone to become a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:40 PM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Damn it must suck for half your genes to be stupid. Glad I'm not you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:13 PM |
| -4 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Just have a baby and then take testosterone. Boom you're a dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:11 PM |
| -6 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Just have a baby and then take testosterone. Boom you're a dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:10 PM |
| -9 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?if i could sign up to be a dad Easy peasy, just have a baby and then take testosterone. Boom you're a dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:09 PM |
| 28 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?If you don't want kids you definitely shouldn't have them. Everyone contributes differently to humanity, some by having kids, some by not having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Do you support government programs for men ?Probably similar percentage to egalitarian women. Non-egalitarian women don't deserve egalitarian men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Do you support government programs for men ?There are plenty of egalitarian men. But when you're used to female privileges, equality often feels like oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when datingNah I'm not into being pegged. I'll let you off this time with a warning but if you bring it up again I'll have to write you up for sexual harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 05:13 PM |
| 3 | A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when datingIt's pronounced "better male" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you support government programs for men ?So if we changed it to the "Violence Against Men Act" and only helped men and children, you'd be fine with that because "some children are also girls"? Come on, use your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you support government programs for men ?Lol you think those are the two genders, Women and Children. Says a lot about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 07:53 AM |
| 5 | A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when datingI like your style, can I bang your wife and you'll raise my kids for me? I'll tell you it makes you a real man if you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 06:29 AM |
| 2 | A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when datingA real woman would pay the whole bill herself. That shows she's a capable provider which is what real men are looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Do you support government programs for men ?Studies show that teachers (overwhelmingly female) grade boys lower than girls for the same work. Whatever you've "caught yourself" in is colored by your personal biases, you're actively checking yourself for misogyny so you'll find that, but you're not actively checking yourself for misandry so you'll miss it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you support government programs for men ?The "Violence Against Women Act" has a billion dollar annual budget. That's taxpayer money, it should help all genders, not just one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Do you support government programs for men ?Where do you think the billion dollars per year of funding authorized by the "Violence Against Women Act" goes? That's taxpayer money, it should help all genders, not just one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you support government programs for men ?No, hypergamy is when all the women chase the guy who's way hotter than them but treats them terribly. Instead you should find yourself a husband with average looks (since you're probably average yourself) but who will treat you like an equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 05:26 AM |
| 4 | CMV: chores outside of the home are easier than inside choresMen die five years younger than women and everyone thinks it's "normal". If women died five years younger than men feminists would be screaming about it from the rooftops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Then what do women need men for? If you think men's sole purpose in life is "give you orgasm" then please do stick to sex toys, men are probably better off without you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.You figure it out. Just saying if you put 0 effort into sex, it's hypocritical to complain about men's effort, when they're already putting in more effort than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 08:18 PM |
| 6 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Of course, Redditors are crazy, I know most real people are nothing like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.If your choices are: ugly man who's fantastic at sex, makes every woman he's with orgasm hot man who doesn't care about making women orgasm because there's an endless line of women waiting to bang him anyway If you pick 2 then you're literally choosing your own "orgasm gap". Why blame anyone but yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Then maybe women should expend some energy instead of expecting men to do women's labor for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.They don't want a "solution" lol they just want an excuse to hate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 07:52 PM |
| – | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenSame places you hear men whining, I hear women whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 05:17 PM |
| – | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenI hear lots of women whining about men excluding women for their weight, but I don’t actually see it in real life. Plenty of average women do fine and plenty of super skinny women are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Who here doesn’t want kids?The concept of "nuclear family" did more to depress fertility than pretty much anything else. Also the fact that people are having kids older doesn't help. Old parents mean even older grandparents and everyone just has less energy. And more people having "one and done" means fewer uncles and aunts and cousins to help out. It feels like a death spiral where the more fertility drops the more the "clan" shrinks which makes fertility drop even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Who here doesn’t want kids?Sitting on the fence long enough will make you fall off on the childless side by default. How much time you have to decide depends on how old you are of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:33 AM |
| – | Have you noticed that financial status and career status has very little importance now compared to the past?No I wouldn't put money as more important than everything else. But it's definitely a factor. I would rather have a 7/10 looks girl with a salary close to mine than a 9/10 looks girl who's broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:21 AM |
| – | Have you noticed that financial status and career status has very little importance now compared to the past?I’m pretty sure that a woman can have money and still get child support or in the case of divorce money. It varies by state but many states use income based formulas. So whoever earns more, pays. If you earn more than your ex, you have to pay. If she earns more, she has to pay. Divorce sucks but if it has to happen, much sweeter deal to be the one who gets paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:12 AM |
| – | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenA lot of women only want the tallest 20% of men (over 6 ft), makes as much sense for some men to only want the skinniest 20% of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:06 AM |
| – | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenThe harder people settle, the more they complain the "bar is too low". But they're the ones who put the bar there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:02 AM |
| – | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenThat's what maximum evolutionarily success looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:00 AM |
| – | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenDark triad traits help with reproduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 05:58 AM |
| – | Have you noticed that financial status and career status has very little importance now compared to the past?Men don’t care about women’s money still. Speak for yourself, marrying a poor woman is a big risk, if she divorces you could pay alimony out the wazoo. If you marry a rich woman, in the case of divorce you get alimony. That's much better for the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 05:57 AM |
| 4 | If love, relationships, companionship, attention and affection of women isnt a reward for men's good behavior, then how come the deprivation of all of those things is some sort of punishment for morally broken behavior?It's interesting to watch people debate on Facebook and start dragging in information from each other's profiles like education, their job, their relatives, etc. It's kind of unsettling. Which is why you'd have to be insane to air any kind of controversial opinion on FB. Anything you put out in public under your real name will come back to haunt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 05:50 AM |
| 0 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.If the stay at home parent dies that's also hugely difficult. To replace them you have to pay for child care and cooking and cleaning. They definitely need life insurance too so you can pay for those if they die. The fact you think it's worse if the breadwinner dies just means you overvalue paid labor over home labor, which is something feminists are fighting to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.Even visiting British Diplomats and statesmen, no strangers to booze themselves, were shocked how phenomenally drunk Americans were. Which means all the complaints about "tradition" are really specific to American culture. Places like Europe, India, China, Africa don't have such heavy drinking but still had "traditional marriage" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.Apparently sexual abuse of Amnish children is a problem Sexual abuse of children is a problem everywhere. Unless you can show the Amish are worse than the baseline level it doesn't mean anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 10:07 PM |
| 0 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.he might die A wife can also die? I don't see how that makes traditional marriage any more risky than modern marriage. People also die in modern marriages. Just buy life insurance lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.One major downside among a lot of “traditional” marriage proponents is that traditional marriage meant the woman had to be an obedient servant to her husband. Maybe that was true in Anglo tradition but it's not universal. I'd say the constant in traditional marriage is that both wife and husband are servants of the family and of their community. People are responsible to others. In modern hyper individualist culture, nobody wants to be responsible to anyone else, beyond what they're legally forc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 10:00 PM |
| -1 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.The Amish for example are extremely traditional, and outsiders are often shocked by how happy they are. [citation needed] Are you saying Amish are not happy, or they're happy but it's not surprising? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 09:57 PM |
| -1 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.In traditional communities there's much more social pressure to not "dump" people. So fewer people will act like "Chad". And in a community that encourages marriage, you're less likely to have casual sex with "Chad" in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.Straight white men don't go to work camps sweaty, those are for the out groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.parents are competing with how to make their child have the most clothes/technologies/toys/extra curricular activities. Most of that is unnecessary for the child though. It's just status signaling for the parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:57 PM |
| -3 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.In any relationship a woman can also leave you abuse you cheat on you die end up disabled That's just how relationships work. You can reduce risks for poverty after a spouse dies by buying life insurance, disability insurance etc. You can reduce risk of being cheated on by doing a paternity test. You can reduce risk from then leaving you by signing a prenup. You can reduce risk from then abusing you by having a supportive social network. Life is all about risk management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooI never said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Getting "called a creep" is an excuse why men aren't approaching anymoreCultivating and building a social circle takes courage and effort. Only if you move. If you stay in your hometown you basically get a social circle "for free" via your family and school friends. That's why in cultures with a stronger sense of community and less moving around in search of ever more money, there are much fewer incels. Incels are a phenomenon of American individualism and capitalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooI guess if Ozempic fails there is gastric sleeve surgery. I've seen very heavy people get very slim after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 10:06 PM |
| – | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityI've never seen an adult call a kid "weird" for having glasses, but of course different places have different cultures. Did you grow up in a jungle tribe or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooWhere did I "cite being overweight"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)But when a woman says "I dress how I want", "Men don't get to dictate what I look like!" people call that feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:25 AM |
| 1 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?According to research the top factor in divorce is "Lack of family support" Are you assuming that dead bedrooms are always caused by the women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:21 AM |
| 0 | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityAnti male prejudice among women seems just as common as anti female prejudice among men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityKids are mean, news at 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?So you assume divorce is always the man's fault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 06:55 AM |
| 2 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?A lady on the streets, a freak in the spreadsheets? They say 99% of people regret not making better spreadsheets on their deathbed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 06:50 AM |
| 1 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooThey just need a man who wants to be a father and can afford to be one. No, those are necessary but not everything. They still prefer more attractive/smarter/healthier men because they don't want ugly/dumb/sick children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 06:03 AM |
| 1 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooLol you think it's impossible to tell if your sibling is conventionally attractive or not? If you had two brothers, one tall fit handsome with great hair, one short dumpy ugly and balding, you'd be like "THEY BOTH LOOK THE SAME TO ME, THEY'RE MY BROTHERS, I HAVE NO IDEA IF ONE IS MORE CONVENTIONALLY ATTRACTIVE THAN THE OTHER"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:55 AM |
| 2 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooPut her on Ozempic lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:57 AM |
| 2 | The male sexuality catch 22No plenty of beautiful males make it big in Hollywood or modeling or something. There's research saying that more attractive people get promoted more easily etc. If you manage to fail as an attractive person that's probably more despite being attractive than due to being attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:47 AM |
| 3 | The male sexuality catch 22Even on easy mode you can mess up and lose the game. But it's much easier to lose the game on hard mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The male sexuality catch 22Personality matters, but even then hot with personality will always win over mid with personality. You've heard of "white privilege", this is the same but "hot privilege". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:38 AM |
| 2 | The male sexuality catch 22Your wife? No comrade, our wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Menslib being menslibSomeone should publish a paper on that lol. Misandrist bias in relationship advice communities. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/08/24 04:32 AM |
| 22 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?That's a terribly bad faith response, the OP is talking about kissing and you jump to "cum dumpster"? Did you actually read his post or did you only read the title and immediately scramble to disagree in the hope of internet points? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 05:28 PM |
| 5 | The way feminism wants men to act/feel about gender issues feels very religious/catholic to meWell the Calvinists say the same for Christianity! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 06:17 AM |
| 6 | The way feminism wants men to act/feel about gender issues feels very religious/catholic to meWar and patriarchy and feminism are just masks worn by the true driving force of everything - natural selection. Patriarchal culture spread because, like every successful organism, it's good at propagating itself. Is feminism also good at propagating itself? Its ideas maybe. But it seems population levels plummet in feminist societies because it teaches that having children is "demeaning" compared to other pursuits. Societies that don't value children, like the Shakers, don't typically last very… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 02:56 AM |
| 33 | The way feminism wants men to act/feel about gender issues feels very religious/catholic to meThe closest equivalent is transition. You should see how much they hate trans men for "choosing privilege" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Say you were married to a cute woman 40 years your juniour. You return from a business trip to find her....why that woman is even with the guy in this example Money or green card? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?I'm super romantic, but it fizzles out if it's not reciprocated. In every relationship, I'd plan dates, get gifts, hide little love notes, etc, but it's NEVER been reciprocated. I also love texts throughout the day, letting me know he's thinking of me, especially if I'm having a bad day/hard time. Naturally, this has never happened for me. I think modern society has drilled into men that this much attention is "smothering" and you never want to do that. You just live in the wrong century. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 12:45 AM |
| 16 | Menslib being menslibAwful that happened to you, but very lucky you had evidence backing you up. I think even a sub like menslib would be supportive, but you would have to tell your story in reverse order. I.e. never lead with "I'm a victim of false accusation", because that immediately puts them on the defensive, instead lead with "I'm a victim of rape, and the rapist tried to accuse me as a form of DARVO" (Deny And Reverse Victim/Offender, therapy speak, they love that stuff). That way they either have to show you… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Friendships are inadequate substitutes for romantic inclinationsmen use social proof, not women and some men decided to project that onto women No I'm pretty sure men believe that women use social proof, because most men have the experience of getting more female attention when they're dating a woman. After a break up? Less attention from women. Dating a woman again? Suddenly more attention from women. Kind of annoying because of course you'd prefer the opposite, more attention when you're single. But it lines up very strongly with the social proof hypothesi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Friendships are inadequate substitutes for romantic inclinationsThere is a massive difference between feeling lonely (which can be in the company of others) Are you sure you aren't just depressed? Do you get enough sleep and exercise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:44 PM |
| 2 | The best move a single man can make is work on being happy alone.Most people's "interests and values" are fed to them by social media algorithms. Humans didn't evolve to be solitary. Culture and collaboration is literally what sets us apart from animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:39 PM |
| 13 | The best move a single man can make is work on being happy alone.I think you're going too far with this "alone" and "solitude" stuff. Humans evolved to live in a community. You don't "need sex" but you definitely need friends and community to live a mentally healthy life (and no online friends don't count). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?I think any of that cancels out the fact that guards have tremendous power over prisoners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?How did you get from provided male rape victims also have a right to nullify any parenthood forced on them To men can trick a woman into birthing a child just to later walk away scot free Cause I really don't understand your train of thought here. You think male rape victims are tricking ... their rapists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?Sure you can condition support, people do it all the time. Do you support the right to vote? I assume yes. In a non democratic country, would you support a law granting the right to vote for men only? I assume no. That means you believe men have the right to vote ... But only IF women do too! That's conditional support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?So funding and definitions that exclude men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?If it's already covered by state laws then why did feminists push for the federal Violence Against Women Act? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?What? Prisoners are forced to do unpaid labor, they're basically modern slaves. The guards are paid by the prison industrial complex of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 06:03 AM |
| 7 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?I have never seen a R/BP or MRA concede to any feminist point. Ever. Really? I'm pretty sure that most MRAs agree that women should be allowed to vote. Also I think most MRAs agree that female rape victims have a right to abortion, provided male rape victims also have a right to nullify any parenthood forced on them, so they don't have to pay child support to their rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 05:58 AM |
| 13 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?In America the law is literally called the Violence Against Women Act. Imagine something like OSHA were called the Men's Occupational Safety and Health Act. Feminists would be livid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything you agree with MRAs on ?If you count prisoner-guard sex as rape by the guard (due to the power dynamics) then a lot of male prisoners are raped by female guards. It might even be the majority of prison rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 05:51 AM |
| 3 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?Isn't it also just a contingency for abuse or divorce? If there's never abuse nor divorce, why would they need a separate bank account? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:45 AM |
| 6 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?What if they want a separate bank account? If you have 100% trust you should only need joint bank accounts right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:37 AM |
| 4 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?If a woman keeps a "go bag" in case of abuse would you say she chose badly too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?How does your ex feel about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Echo chambers breed illogical conclusions.I worked with grad students on a project which mined internet spaces for hate speech So how much hate speech did your study find in TwoX? Since you said yourself it's a mirror of the MRA sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 07:47 AM |
| 12 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to menThis is called the Motte and Bailey argument. It's also a bait and switch. They use the "feminism is for everyone" to pull men into the movement, then the "actually feminism is just for raising up women" to make those men do women's labor for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 06:06 AM |
| – | Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices?I find it interesting how a lot of MRAs and manosphere folks harp on the low birth rate. Fuck yes the birth rate is low because most of the work falls on us and if given a choice, we want to be fully integrated humans with the jobs and careers we like. I would also say that yes, culturally, motherhood is too downplayed at the expense of our reproductive window. Being a mother is one of the most amazing things a woman can do but there is no support culturally or financially and sometimes lacking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:09 AM |
| – | Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices?If I ever found out that I was treated differently at work based on the assumption that I'd someday take maternity leave, I'd be livid. But I bet you treat men and women differently all the time, based on assumptions about "average men" vs "average women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?Fun fact: medical bankruptcy only happens to people who make too much money to qualify for Medicaid. Nobody on Medicaid has to worry about medical bankruptcy, the most common cause of bankruptcy in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?There are people managing to raise multiple kids that way so it's obviously possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:57 AM |
| 0 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?Yeah but now the state can do all of that if you're a single mom so nobody values it. If you're poor enough you can get Section 8 housing and Medicaid on the taxpayer's dime with nothing asked in return, so who needs a "provider" anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?My dad parented via cash and now that I'm an adult who makes her own money, he's irrelevant to me. So hypothetically if your dad had wanted to be a full time stay at home parent, would your mom have let him? Did she make enough money to support you all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?The longer people wait to try have kids the more common it gets. Someone who realizes they're infertile at 35 could well have been fertile at 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?And why do you think that social conditioning evolved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Start raising "normie" sonsMods are people who used to be normal until they traded having a life for the ability to wield power over internet weirdos. Of course, still a better deal than just being an internet weirdo with no life and no power. Mods are at least, king of the dungheap. Regular posters are just flies on the dungheap. But either way, you're still living in a dungheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:31 AM |
| 0 | Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids?Haven't used apps for years but I remember Match definitely had more "relationship minded" people than Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids?Muslim women wouldn't marry an unbeliever though, you'd have to convert. And as a new convert you'd probably have lower social standing than most of the other men in the community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.If I sell you poisoned coffee, do you have to prove you didn't know the coffee was poisoned to sue me? "Your honor, this women clearly suspected the coffee was poisoned and wanted to commit suicide, I'm not at fault" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 10 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.I've even heard of grandmothers or aunts stepping in That's still a genetic connection. Raising your relatives is completely different to raising your spouse's affair baby that's not only you're not related to, but is a result of a personal betrayal. I imagine raising a child that resulted from an affair from her husband would be pretty rare though Exactly, and if the law held women financially liable for any affair babies their husband had during marriage, feminists would rightly call that miso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 5 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.That's completely backwards, the cheater should be the one who proves that she notified the victim she cheated. So preferably in writing. If she can't prove that, then regardless of the victim's suspicions there's a lot of social pressure for him not to say anything because it's considered terrible to make a false accusation of cheating. So he's still the victim here because he never affirmatively consented to adopt a kid he 100% knew wasn't his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 04:48 PM |
| 9 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.good men out there Probably a lot more than good women. How often do you hear about women voluntarily raising kids that aren't theirs? Almost never unless they adopt or become a stepmom. How often do women raise their cheating husband's kids? Much more common for men to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.Unofficial test is step one. If the kid is yours then no need for further action. If not yours, use the unofficial test to get a confession from the cheater, divorce the cheater, and ask the court for an official test to establish non paternity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 04:38 PM |
| 7 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.Sure and by strict definitions most people become orphans at 50 when their parents die lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 04:35 PM |
| 7 | As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one.Lol nobody calls themselves a "single mom" if they're 70, their kids are 40, and their husband died of old age. Single mom implies young kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.Okay don't ask them, just assume they wanted kids. It'll still give you a different percentage vs only looking at childless women. E.g. suppose 10 women have kids, 20 don't have but want, and 10 don't want. Looking at all women, 75% have/want kids. But looking only at childless women, only 66% want kids. Different numbers see? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.Just compare all women to all men duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.I’m in a relationship Sounds like you don't enjoy it much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.Lol that's a skewed study because it only looks at childless women. Selection bias. Plenty of women want kids and already have them, and they aren't included in the study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have to pay for a woman's meal on a date and the means to put a swift end to this culture is very easy.So you believe in good old fashioned gender roles? The men serve their country by bearing arms. The women serve their country by bearing children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Lucky your parents had that money then. I assume they would have done the same for an unattractive son? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.That might be relevant if I cared about your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?How much effort did it take to glow up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?When you say "look unfortunate" how much do you think is immutable, vs something that could be fixed with exercise or makeup? Even things like recessed chins are routinely fixed by orthodontists, although they might require surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?I don’t get male attention irl Meaning you get attention via online dating? extremely shy and socially awkward Modern men have had it drummed into them that it's "misogyny" to approach a girl if she doesn't show obvious signs of interest. Which seems you don't. So you're "benefiting" from that new gender role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.Sorry but the eugenicists lost, you can't prevent people breeding just because you don't like them anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: You have 5 points. Build your dream dateDo you find yourself saying that a lot in life? Maybe you need Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?That would be more a comedy sketch than a porn fantasy. But if it bothers you that much I recommend deleting your account and creating one with a less "porn" name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: You have 5 points. Build your dream dateLooking at your list my partner has all the positive attributes and none of the negative ones. So either your list is overly pessimistic or I'm like, a super chad to attract such a unicorn. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Maybe it's your werevulvi putting them off. Most guys don't want to deal with even one vulva that howls and grows fangs every full moon, let alone multiple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Makes sense it would correlate with high standards though. The high standards are likely why they're still a virgin. Or maybe they're really closeted asexuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?That is the commonly held belief of men in this forum that if men don’t commit then the women were shooting out of their league. If you define "league" as "who you can attract and keep" then it's tautological. If you can't keep them, they're not in your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:03 PM |
| – | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?unless contested Yeah and a negative paternity test counts as a contest which allows the husband to void that presumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:00 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women prefer (Benevolent) Sexism over Equality in DatingThat just means you're incompatible with those men. There are men who are happy to split, you just need to find those men (hint try liberal areas in blue states). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?No because that would be a stupid law just like the one you're proposing, it's an analogy not a recommendation geez. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?No in a lot of cases in the US the bio parents are only released from their responsibilities (e.g. paying child support) once someone else agrees to adopt. So the whole situation is entirely enabled by the adoptive parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?Thank goodness I don't live in Georgia, imagine voting for laws that reward and incentivize lying lol what a meme state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:25 AM |
| 6 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?That logic only applies if she knows that her lover is the father. She could in good faith wrongly assume that her husband fathered the child and that's not allowing him to sign it deceptively. So if a man realizes he confused the sugar with the rat poison, he can still in good faith give his wife coffee without telling her anything if he assumes it's sugar he put in. If he turns out to be wrong and she dies, that's not his fault because he made the assumption in good faith, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?There have to be adopting parents for the adoption to do through. So by volunteering to adopt you are enabling the abandonment by the birth parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?Wrong In Loughrin v. Superior Court courts ruled that not disclosing defects which are not visible, even when the property is sold as is holds the sellers liable. You are not permitted to contract your way out of this duty to disclose. In fact the Supreme Court has ruled on this exact same issue. Same logic here, if the woman fails to disclose her infidelity that makes her husband's signature on the birth certificate (obtained through deception) invalid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:25 PM |
| 9 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?So if you sign to buy a house and then the house collapses and it turns out the previous owner knew it would collapse but failed to disclose that fact to you - tough shit because you already signed? A signature obtained through deception is invalid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?Those subs are full of misandrists though lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?Funny you say that since you also said you might adopt kids. That's exactly how adoption works. If you adopt a kid you'll be the "replacement mom" for the mom who abandoned them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for?So if a boy is diagnosed his mom will say "oh he has trouble fitting into society, because he's disabled not because of his gender" But if an autistic girl isn't diagnosed her mom will say "oh she has trouble fitting in with society, and she's not diagnosed as disabled, so it must be because society oppresses women" Confirmation bias at work. Women's problems are always "because society oppresses women", men's problems are always "this man is just defective". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:43 PM |
| 2 | If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for?Boys are 4 times more likely to have autism than girls, but sure, you can tell yourself it has "nothing to do with his gender" if that helps you sleep at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:28 PM |
| 6 | If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for?That just sounds like cognitive dissonance. You admit that in current society girls have a greater chance of success in life. But you're unwilling to view that as a female privilege because you've spent your life battered by propaganda that privileges are something only boys can have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:06 PM |
| 2 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Plenty of threads in places like menslib, askmen etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:39 PM |
| 3 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Because men are disproportionately more willing to become homeless. Oh so being homeless is just a lifestyle choice. Well that clears my conscience. No need to donate to the homeless shelter today! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:35 PM |
| 3 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.And plenty of mental health professionals are biased against men. It's a very female dominated field. It doesn't help to provide men "mental health resources" that actually hurt them when used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:20 PM |
| 5 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Well then I guess the wage gap is women's fault too. Highly paid oil rig jobs are easily accessible, women just refuse to take them. This isn't a case where there's a lack of availability, it's a case of lack of desire to utilize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.No one ever said “women need to make up 50% of the army! If it's a conscription army, women absolutely should make up 50% otherwise they're dodging their duties as an equal citizen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:09 PM |
| 0 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.43,000 women are there in Ukraine fighting So out of Ukraines 2.2 million military personnel, women make up less than 2%. Wow such equality. Much feminism. Hecking big girl power! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:49 PM |
| 3 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.men access mental health care less often and thus kill themselves more often, that's is absolutely true, but it's not because anyone has oppressed men into this, this is a choice they are making That is a terribly bad faith argument. You know that if women were accessing mental services less, feminists wouldn't say "oh it's just a choice we women are making, our fault, nothing society can do!" No, feminists would point at society and say society is wrong for not making services more accessible t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:31 PM |
| -1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.I'm a shelter counselor and I work with homeless populations You ever notice homeless people are disproportionately men? Why do you think that is, if society cares about men so much? If society supposedly hates women, wouldn't it be women living on the streets instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.most feminists are anti-war in general Suppose you're a Ukrainian feminist, how do you "anti war"? Tap your Ruby slipper heels and say "there's no place like I wish Putin were dead" in the hope that Putin suddenly dies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:15 PM |
| 6 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Nobody. Societies evolve gradually over time, Rome wasn't "set up" in a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsWell they're wrong. It's actually by a mixture, female prison guards also often abuse their power to coerce sex from inmates. Which is rape by coercion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:31 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicIf dating apps are mostly men, searching for women online is like fishing in a cup of water in your living room. You should fish where the fish are, not fish from your armchair just because it's more comfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsWhat do you think happens when a man hits someone if there's no law against domestic violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsHow is that relevant? Are you insinuating if they're raped by women it "doesn't count"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:29 PM |
| -2 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsThat doesn't really justify sexist laws though. Black people have it hard in the USA, should we change the law to say that only black people can be raped? So if a white person is raped, that's not illegal, and you not allowed to complain about it because "black people have it worse"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:44 PM |
| -2 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsTypical mental gymnastics for a sexist to support sexist laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsYou think laws that treat women as first class citizens and men as second class citizens will make men like women more? I guess men raped by women will just have to murder their rapists since the justice system refuses to help them. Then feminists will parade the murdered rapists around as examples of "femicide" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsYeah obviously with sexist laws like these. Making the laws gender neutral is how you make a country more gender neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsYou're literally saying that women need special treatment because children need special treatment. You're comparing women to children. You clearly don't believe in gender equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsReally, how can a gender neutral anti-rape law be "abused"? Do tell. Do you think the gender neutral laws in - most of the world, really - are being "abused" right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsIndia duh, a woman who rapes or abuses can't be accused of rape or abuse under the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsThere is a reason we treat rape of a child much differently than we treat rape of an adult. A similar reason as to why we should treat rape of a man as different to rape of a woman So you're saying society ought to treat women the same as we treat children? Fewer responsibilities, more protections, more restrictions for their own good? You people really only want "equality" where it benefits you, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:34 PM |
| -1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsrape male victims by females is a problem Are you really saying if a man is raped, that's fine, that's not a problem, just because he's a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawshttps://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms "Put simply: unlike in existing law where the accused is male, the Committee recommendations if enacted into a proposed new Bill, will make it possible for women to be charged with these offences. This is wholly unacceptable,” she said. Indian feminists are angry that under a gender neutral law, women could be charged with rape exactly the same as men can. They're so used to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsPeople frequently get raped in prison. I think it's completely rational to say that decades of imprisonment and likely being raped in prison, can be much worse than just being raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsEspecially because people frequently get raped in prison. It's not like choosing prison means you won't get raped, in fact the opposite, it increases the chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsYou realize a lot more people get raped outside of jail than in jail, right? No I'm pretty sure your chance of getting raped is much higher in jail than outside. You need to look at rapes per capita, not just total numbers, because there are fewer people in jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsA fully gender neutral law was proposed but Indian feminists opposed it because they said allowing women to be accused of rape would be unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsYou realize a lot of people also get raped in jail though? So by picking jail "instead of" rape, you might actually get jail and rape. Jail and multiple rapes, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.Cats are cute and all, I'd just never value them above actual people. That seems weirdly misanthropic. Do you feel like you dislike humans in general? Were you bullied as a kid or something? Therapy might help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:18 AM |
| -1 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.No one would care if Albert Einstein or Marie Curie didn’t have kids But what's really going to bake your noodle later on is, what if Einstein or Curie's parents didn't have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:01 AM |
| 0 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.No one would care if Albert Einstein or Marie Curie didn’t have kids But what's really going to bake your noodle later on is, what if Einstein or Curie's parents didn't have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Do Childfree HVM exist?Lol, so that's your deepest darkest fantasy? Being rawdog gangbanged by a bunch of mushroom penii while ovulating? Ahahaha. That's hilarious. I certainly ain't gonna stop you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Do Childfree HVM exist?Why do you think instincts are bad? Are you one of those religious fundies who thinks sex is sinful so you're going to dedicate your life to Christ instead? Join a nunnery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do Childfree HVM exist?Why do people care so much about their genes dying out? Did you attend one of those religious fundie schools where they don't teach evolution? Because evolutionary theory clearly explains why individuals take actions that lead to reproduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Divorce is ContagiousIsn't it basic social science that our current society views cheating as worse in women than in men? Therefore women who do cheat are less likely to admit it. In a matriarchy, women would feel more empowered to admit cheating without judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 07:30 PM |
| -2 | Divorce is ContagiousWere any of those studies in matriarchal societies? No? Then why would you expect any difference in women's willingness to admit cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:47 PM |
| -5 | Divorce is ContagiousYou'd have to find some way to correct for socialization. Assuming women are taught that cheating is more shameful, they're less likely to admit to it. That's just basic social science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:28 PM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?I'm right about the definition they actually used, which is what matters. The definition they claim to use would be correct, but they don't use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 05:11 PM |
| -7 | Divorce is ContagiousThat's self report data, all it shows is men claim to cheat more. Doesn't mean they do, unless you believe everyone answers 100% honestly when asked if they cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 05:10 PM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?Theoretically yes but they fucked up. CDC Sharply Overestimates Maternal Death Rate, New Study Finds Maternal death rates in the United States may be sharply overstated as a result of faulty surveillance techniques, according to an analysis by researchers at Rutgers Health and other universities. Estimates of maternal death rates began to rise in 2003 when a pregnancy checkbox first appeared on U.S. death certificates. Nearly any death certificate with a positive pregnancy checkbox added to mate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less soIf you can get it in writing, document, document, document, get as many coworkers as possible on your side also documenting it, and take it to HR. If HR doesn't listen find a labor lawyer and go to town on her. Unlike reddit, Federal labor non discrimination law is truly gender neutral, men are protected just the same as women. HR can give her some warnings to stop the misandry before firing her, but if HR doesn't listen to you then the company becomes liable to a huge discrimination lawsuit. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:08 PM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?"100% of people die, women most affected" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:00 PM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?if this number affected men it would be a epidemic No it wouldn't. Men already die younger than women on average and nobody cares about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:58 PM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?The CDC definition of maternal mortality isn't just dying in childbirth, it's any death while pregnant. If you work as a cop while pregnant and a robber shoots you, that counts as a "maternal mortality". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Women, has anyone in your circle of friends or aquaintances died giving birth?Sure, seems fair to assign that one death to pregnancy assuming she was fit and healthy beforehand, no preexisting conditions. What's the ratio compared to other causes, though? How many people do you know who died in other ways? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Why do people get personally offended if they aren’t someone’s physical type?Dress up a ratty homeless person in a nice suit and suddenly they'll get treated with more decency too. Turns out looks matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Women's standards aren't high the average man has nothing of value to offer.That's good, some people are better off having kids, and some are better off not having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:48 AM |
| 5 | Do Childfree HVM exist?Yeah different measures of success. The woman with three money and no kids, has money success. The woman with three kids and no money, has evolutionary success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:07 AM |
| -4 | Do Childfree HVM exist?Regardless of if you have kids or not, you will die. But if you don't have kids, your genes will die too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themThat's called gender roles my male. Many women are literally raised to say "why don't you ask me out?" instead of "will you go out with me?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 05:12 AM |
| 13 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themThis sub is basically designed to turn you bitter. If you value your mental health I recommend unsubscribing. I mostly stopped commenting here a while back and feel much better for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themThis sub is basically designed to turn you bitter. If you value your mental health I recommend unsubscribing. I mostly stopped commenting here a while back and feel much better for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 04:51 AM |
| 0 | "I am trans and hate the online demonization of masculinity" | The Michigan Daily OP-EDRacism has many components. Talking specifically about the component of "being seen as threatening by white women", I think that's affected by multiple factors e.g being black, male, and tall, can all have an affect. On other factors eg lower earnings, being short is probably worse, given the height earnings gap. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/24 02:18 AM |
| 1 | "I am trans and hate the online demonization of masculinity" | The Michigan Daily OP-EDwith clothes on, passing trans men are practically indistinguishable from cis men I think if you have a group of trans men standing next to a group of cis men, you'll see that the trans group is noticeably shorter on average. Shorter black men are probably seen as less threatening. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Refuting "by other men"Both men's and women's pain is dismissed in different ways. Men's pain is dismissed by, instead of treating the root causes, simply overprescribing opioids, the result being that majority of opioid epidemic deaths are men. Just because doctors are handing out opioids to men like candy, this doesn't mean men have better health outcomes than women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/24 01:19 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone noticed that pick-me women are always single? Why is that?except boy moms are some of the biggest pick mes of all time I think you mean, having boys makes some people less misandrist since they have empathy for a family member. Just like having girls makes some people less misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Denmark to start conscripting women for military servicewomen without children If you tell childless women they're about to be drafted they'd probably scramble to get pregnant lol. Might be a good way for countries with below replacement birth rate to fix that actually... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/24 06:05 AM |
| 8 | How is life for young men in Nordic Countries?But the welfare policies mostly predate that immigration don't they? Norway was famously social democratic long before Poland joined the EU. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/24 05:43 AM |
| 9 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsWell that's misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:15 PM |
| 7 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsWhichever number the parents give them. If one parent is not working, probably that one. Since the other one is at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 10:46 PM |
| 4 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipscritical, judgmental and dissatisfied with them But aren't you also critical, judgmental and dissatisfied with men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | When dating, why do people claim to speak a foreign language?Correct, you owe me reparations! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerEh the former are just hypocrites because if a woman had five kids by herself they'd support her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerRich people typically marry other rich people. That avoids the problem of gold diggers and also prevents just one person's wealth from being divided among many kids. The main downsides of your plan are, compared to marrying someone else with equal wealth, your kids end up with half the money. And without a mom around, your kids could end up with a lack of good female role models. Imagine being a boy raised by a single mom but no dad. That's how your daughters would feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:45 AM |
| 8 | Biden Proposed the Opposite of Equality for Men's Health SupportDon't get me wrong, I prefer dems over the GOP in general. I'm just saying we need to push dems harder, especially in local elections and in primaries, to address men's issues with the same seriousness they address women's issues. The fact that male rape victims still have to pay child support to their rapists and no legislators think that's worth changing is outrageous. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/24 12:20 AM |
| 8 | Biden Proposed the Opposite of Equality for Men's Health SupportSchrödinger's misogyny: If you test drugs on men that's misogyny "because you don't know if they work on women". But if you test drugs on women that's misogyny "because you're treating women like animal test subjects". They will always call it misogyny no matter what. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/24 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Biden Proposed the Opposite of Equality for Men's Health SupportNone of those are for men/boys only though, they just incidentally benefit men and boys. The health stuff isn't increased funding for everyone's health, it's only for women's health, which given women already live longer than men, is very tone deaf, since it's trying to enlarge the gender lifespan gap instead of closing it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/24 10:32 PM |
| 9 | Tired of everything being "against" womenWe were in a group chat and she said she could never use tampons because "what happens if [she] needs to pee?" "Never interrupt your enemy when she is making a mistake." - Napoleon Bonaparte Just laugh at her and change the subject. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | It's true: only men pay tax (NZ)How does this graph handle married couples? If a couple decides to follow a traditional division of labor where the father works and the mother stays home to look after the kids, do you think her work is worthless just because it isn't directly taxed (even if it enables the father to work more hours, earn more, and pay more taxes)? That's just punishing families who choose traditional gender roles. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | It's true: only men pay tax (NZ)And it shows over a lifetime everyone ends up negative, even men, so the system is only sustainable as a pyramid scheme with a continually growing population. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | It's true: only men pay tax (NZ)Your graph is misleading though. How does it handle married couples? If a couple decides to follow a traditional division of labor where the father works and the mother stays home to look after the kids, do you think her work is worthless just because it isn't directly taxed? That's just punishing families who choose traditional gender roles. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/24 05:45 PM |
| 20 | Tired of everything being "against" womenThen it turned out she made more than me So you're going to ask for a raise right? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/24 05:36 PM |
| 26 | Tired of everything being "against" womenI don't know what to say Whenever a woman says something condescending, berate her for "femsplaining" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/24 05:34 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseThe difference is, men's one sided complaints get ignored. Women's one sided complaints are the Democrat party platform. They campaign on things like the average wage gap (which is mostly an "hours worked" gap). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageWhen sufficiently horny, anything can be porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Society is finished, terminal stageHuman fertility rate dropping sure is convenient for our future robot overlords. Funny how it happened the same time social media got big. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:36 AM |
| 5 | Society is finished, terminal stageIf they have nowhere else to go, the passport bros can always live rent free in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:32 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’Lol a liberal group focusing on men's issues is an oxymoron. Liberals are pre programmed to believe that men oppress women, whites oppress blacks, cis oppress trans etc. So if you rock up as a black trans lesbian and say how oppressed you are, liberals will bend over backwards to show how much they support you. But you show up as a man and say you feel oppressed by society liberals will just laugh at you and say women have it worse. A liberal group focusing on men's issues is an oxymoron. If it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’Traditional women are just more evolutionarily successful because they have more kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 05:54 AM |
| 18 | Female medical research is not underfunded.It's basically impossible to "overfund" men's health as long as men die younger. Spending equal amounts isn't equitable. Since men die younger, spending more on men wouldn't be "overfunding" it would be more equitable funding. As long as the gender lifespan gap persists, we should spend more on men's health. Of course, I believe in equality: we can start spending more on women if the lifespan gap ever reverses and women are dying younger instead. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/24 02:57 AM |
| 12 | It is sad when showing affection to your male children is treated as something inappropriate. This is also a reason why solution to male problems cannot come from the right wingA lot of right wing Arab countries actually. One theory is that in places where homosexuality is still illegal, straight men can hold hands without people mis-orienting them (assuming they're gay). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?They definitely have more time to spend with the dog since they're not putting time into holding down a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:46 PM |
| 5 | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?At the playground: "Which is your kid?" "Oh, I'm still deciding!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:07 AM |
| 1 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.a super young hot girl hanging out with an old rich fart, she's being paid to be there If she plays her cards right, one day she'll be an old rich fart too. If she plays them wrong, she'll just be an old poor fart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:48 AM |
| 3 | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?Borrow a niece or nephew Won't be many of those in future with how many people are only having one kid. Only children can't have nephews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:41 AM |
| 7 | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?Coincidentally, rates of depression are skyrocketing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:39 AM |
| 6 | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?Which is funny because there's literally no vetting to get a dog. Even broke homeless people can have dogs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: Why is the % of men/women who have ever had a biological child so low and delayed? Is this a reflection of the changing dating market and sexual behaviour of people in USA?Speedrunning having kids when you're old and tired instead of gradually having them while you're younger and energetic. The ultimate procrastination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 08:03 AM |
| 1 | What’s the social fertility window?Ice cream sales are correlated with forest fires. Is it risky to buy ice cream? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:05 AM |
| 0 | What’s the social fertility window?You didn't prove that being old causes 5 times the risk, you just said being old is correlated with 5 times risk. Not the same thing. Even if causation was proven, it's super easy for men to freeze sperm when young and use it later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What’s the social fertility window?5 times a small probability is still a small probability. Also correlation isn't always causation. It could be that autistic men tend to have kids older, and also tend to have more autistic kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 02:28 AM |
| 15 | Do you feel like the sexual revolution benefits men more than women?Yes I've seen photos, back then all sex with starfish, also the world was gray because color hadn't been invented yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 10:43 PM |
| -1 | What’s the social fertility window?It's not like the probability of health issues goes from 0% to 100% with age. It goes from like 2% to 4%. So most kids will still be healthy even with older parents. And some kids will be unhealthy even with young parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 10:38 PM |
| 5 | End Are We Dating the Same Guy (AWDTSG) Groups on FacebookI bet if female MPs' sons were slandered on there they'd spring into mother bear mode and get those groups shutdown right quick lol. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/24 09:37 PM |
| 8 | End Are We Dating the Same Guy (AWDTSG) Groups on FacebookYou can't sue if you aren't aware you are being slated behind your back. You would have to join the group as fake woman and actively police it daily for your pictures. Doesn't have to be you suing. Just find some men being libeled and contact them to see if they're interested in a lawsuit. Libel lawyers should actually be monitoring those groups as a source of potential business. MPs don't care enough to bother They'll care when someone starts posting about them or their families! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/24 09:04 PM |
| 6 | End Are We Dating the Same Guy (AWDTSG) Groups on FacebookThe UK has strong libel laws doesn't it? Time to slap these groups (and the platforms hosting them) with some expensive lawsuits. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?If you don't care about evolutionarily successful then it doesn't matter. You can be ugly, a drug addict, all those things that reduce your evolutionary success but if you don't care, it won't matter to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?Average is way below 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?3 kids families are much more likely to be from conservative parents than liberal ones. Vast majority of liberal couples have 1, 2 or 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?A lot of liberals just give up on having kids because child free life is more "fun". Evolutionary fitness: 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?Doesn't matter, evolution cares about spreading genes, not ideas. If future liberals carry past conservatives' genes, that's still evolutionary success for past conservatives. Ever noticed how even most liberals have conservative ancestors? Liberals just aren't very good at reproducing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?Doesn't matter, evolution cares about spreading genes, not ideas. If future liberals carry past conservatives' genes, that's still evolutionary success for past conservatives. Ever noticed how even most liberals have conservative ancestors? Liberals just aren't very good at reproducing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?Higher evolutionary fitness. They tend to have more kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 03:03 AM |
| 11 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?1920 where rape and beating your wife was legal and normalised That sounds like a myth. Wife beaters have always been socially looked down on (much more than husband beaters). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Women suffer from oneitis at least as much as men in my experienceIt's genes. Not too closely related, but not too far either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 11:24 PM |
| 13 | Double standard with “bum partners”?I did much more work around the house than she did and it felt really great to be able to dismiss her “complaints” as just not being founded in reality The sad thing is there's an entire online femosphere dedicated to reassuring her that, because she's a woman, she is - as an article of faith - always doing more than you, regardless of any facts to the contrary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Society is irrelevant Doubt, different societies have noticeably different suicide rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Yeah, yeah, men who commit murder suicide also think society is torturing them. Nobody would commit suicide if they thought society was any good, would they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?If i cannot escape jail I'll just off myself too. And people think women are less violent than men lol. "Give me what I demand or I'll commit a murder suicide" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Then it won't be an issue to remove it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Personally I think divorce should be easy but we should also get rid of things like alimony that makes divorces have a "winner". Removing monetary incentive to divorce will reduce divorce on its own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Women used to do it all the time You mean before forensics was developed? The same strategy doesn't work with modern technology sweaty. The spouse is always the first suspect in a death. They'd just subpoena your Reddit posts, see you asking how to kill your husband but make it look like an accident, and you'd be toast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 10:26 PM |
| 9 | Revisiting the feminist situation in South KoreaYeah you can't say Korean men have "unearned" male privilege when they're being drafted into military service. They totally deserve extra male privileges to compensate for their extra male responsibilities. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/12/23 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Want to do something concrete to help men? Let's create a 2024 voting guide for men's issues!Exactly, this is why we need hard data instead of defaulting to prejudices. A data driven, non partisan voting guide would help a lot of people make more informed votes. And posing the questions to candidates in the first place would make them think about passing bills they otherwise might have not. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/23 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Marriage was never about depending upon the man as much as it was about ensuring a stable future for you and your children, no matter which gender you were. Sounds like a healthy culture. Unlike the west which seems to be trying to gender war its way into extinction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Want to do something concrete to help men? Let's create a 2024 voting guide for men's issues!Of course, but the concept still works for other democracies, doesn't it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Want to do something concrete to help men? Let's create a 2024 voting guide for men's issues!Men need to come together as a voting unit first And the best way to do that is to make a voting guide for men. If you can easily share a guide with all your male friends of who does and doesn't support ending sexism in the draft etc, then it's easier for men to start voting as a bloc. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/23 04:15 PM |
| 16 | Want to do something concrete to help men? Let's create a 2024 voting guide for men's issues!I think a lot of legislators actually do support things like a gender neutral draft because it has been written into bills several times, just not passed so far due to congressional gridlock. At the very least it would be nice to raise some awareness of these issues and get data on which legislators do support these changes. Even for legislators who don't care personally, if they want to get elected and enough constituents ask about it, then they'll start caring professionally. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/23 04:55 AM |
| 0 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.Yeah having to cover your tits is so much worse than being drafted, women are definitely more oppressed than men. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 11:05 PM |
| 6 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.Women's issues: men are expected to be allies and help solve them otherwise they're "misogynist" Men's issues: men are expected to solve them 100% by themselves. Asking women (half the voting population) for any support is "misogynist" Not a very reciprocal ally ship, is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.That's mostly propaganda. If not voting makes someone a 2nd class citizen, then historically 99% of everyone have been 2nd class citizens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.The reason feminism falls flat in South Korea is that you can't tell men they have "unearned privilege" when they're literally drafted into the army just for having a penis. Korean men don't have "unearned privilege", they have earned extra privilege by taking on extra responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 10:22 PM |
| 17 | Is it evil to want to have your own children?To say that even the very notion of a man caring about his offspring is harmful Lol horseshoe theory confirmed, they went so radical feminist that they wrapped around the other side and agree with ultra conservatives that the responsibility for raising children is 100% on women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/12/23 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]it’s honestly offensive Lol people will get offended at anything these days. If a woman is raped, abortion stops the rapist from forcing parenthood on her. If a man is raped, financial abortion stops the rapist from forcing parenthood on him. That's why they're analogous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]Just give both parents the option to financially abort then. If both do it, the baby gets adopted. Equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]Excellent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]Responsibly took himself right out of the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]There are also underage male rape victims who've been forced to pay child support to their rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]Let pregnant woman in the HOV lane I support this for the lulz because it will make child free women so mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:37 AM |
| 13 | On the topic of military draftNot active war: "why are you complaining about a sexist draft when there's no draft right now?" Active war: "why are you complaining about a sexist draft when there's a war going? This is an emergency! There's no time to change society now!" Men just can't win with feminists. We have to mobilize and demand an end to the sexist draft right now regardless of whether there's a war or not. I'm no Trump fan but if Trump promised to end the sexist draft and Biden didn't, I'd vote for Trump. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/12/23 12:18 AM |
| 17 | On the topic of military draftits just, in a realpolitik way that opposition will never have enough weight behind it to do much due to paragraph 1 Feminist "opposition" to the draft has exactly the same effect as Republican "thoughts and prayers" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/23 08:21 PM |
| 31 | On the topic of military draftMenslib just locked a thread on the Ukraine draft. According to their mod u/VladWard acceptable opinions are: male only draft is fine in an emergency, or any draft is bad, even in an emergency But it's unacceptable to say why not just make the draft gender neutral? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/23 08:09 PM |
| 17 | When have women ever been the gender more expected to do emotional labor?"The enemy is both strong and weak" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/12/23 02:30 AM |
| 4 | Is surrogacy the answer to battling the courts, having more influence over your children as a man/father?Ukraine is literally a war zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Is surrogacy the answer to battling the courts, having more influence over your children as a man/father?You can reduce the likelihood of divorce by being educated, being religious etc and picking a spouse with a similar background. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:00 PM |
| 10 | Is surrogacy the answer to battling the courts, having more influence over your children as a man/father?That's the male equivalent of being a single mom by choice. Extremely tough to raise a child as just one person. I think that's a last resort for someone who literally can't cooperate with a partner long enough to form a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.Lol there have always been asshole women. The myth that "women are wonderful" is just that, a myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 04:19 PM |
| 6 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.How is it medical malpractice? Why do parents deserve compensation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 04:41 AM |
| 7 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.You don't think it's odd when these switches are discovered months and years later, the parents keep the baby they've had? So obviously there's no problem, the parents deserve no compensation from the hospital, and the hospital should be free to do it again unpunished, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 04:33 AM |
| 10 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.If you think genes don't matter, then why do people get so mad when hospitals swap babies? If babies are all interchangeable, it should be perfectly acceptable for hospitals to shuffle them around, shouldn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 04:12 AM |
| 11 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.The problem is, victims of paternity fraud did trust their partner, and they were rewarded for that trust with having their time and money stolen by a lie. Society should at least compensate them for their stolen time and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 03:27 AM |
| 16 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.People like to say that paternity fraud is super rare, but the fact is that regardless of rarity, people who do fall victim are severely screwed over. Victims are persuaded to part with huge amounts of time and money because of a lie. Victims of paternity fraud should at least be paid back for all the time and money taken fraudulently from them. So all money paid to support the child that wasn't theirs, and also an hourly nanny rate for all time spent looking after that child. If paternity fraud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.Then congrats to Billie on breaking the Glass Asshole and showing those non-believers that women can be assholes too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them?See section "5. Female perpetration & underreporting": https://webshare.law.ucla.edu/Faculty/bibs/stemple/Stemple-SexualVictimizationPerpetratedFinal.pdf First, the widespread perception of women as nonthreatening complicates the way abuse is confronted by victims who experienced harm (Sandler & Freeman, 2009). Tellingly, researchers have found that victims who experience childhood sexual abuse at the hands of both women and men are more reluctant to disclose the victimization perpetrated by wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.Probably, every asshole thinks they're the hero(ine) inside their own head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 04:05 PM |
| 13 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.The female equivalent is "saggy boob energy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them?how would you feel if your wife secretly installed a camera or some other recording device on your child while you were alone with them to make sure you weren't being sexually inappropriate with them? Honestly I'd be impressed at her ingenuity. So long as we can use the same system to monitor nannies, herself etc seems like a fine idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them?The problem is there are victims of paternity fraud who did trust their spouse. Let's say it's society's responsibility to make those victims whole. Instead of paternity tests, the government just gives $1 million to any man found to be a victim of paternity fraud. Does that sound better to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:15 AM |
| 0 | Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them?I am skeptical that statistic is the full story because there is research showing that even children known to be molested by women will sometimes say "a man" molested them, because of pervasive societal bias. E.g. people may ask them leading questions assuming "a man" did it, or the child may intuit that they'll be taken less seriously if they admit the perpetrator is a woman, so they may feel pressured to pretend it was a male perpetrator to be taken seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | "Progressive" women falling short?I don't think that's specific to men. Every ugly person wishes they could date a hot person. Most of them can't. But you can't stop them wishing, can you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:01 PM |
| 0 | "Progressive" women falling short?You call dying in battle privilege? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | "Progressive" women falling short?Men are not a monolith. It's not hypocrisy for one man to want traditional marriage, and another man to want to split all responsibilities 50/50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:59 PM |
| 0 | "Progressive" women falling short?She literally has radfem in her flair, of course she will argue in favor of special privileges for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:55 PM |
| 0 | "Progressive" women falling short?Is the pompous man you? You don't have to talk about yourself in the third person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:58 PM |
| 0 | "Progressive" women falling short?You can tell they're oppressed and marginalized from all the diamond rings they wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:02 PM |
| 2 | "Progressive" women falling short?If a woman says she supports gender equality but expects an engagement ring without intending to also give an engagement ring... She doesn't really support gender equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:00 PM |
| 8 | "Progressive" women falling short?That's why it's called virtue signaling, not actual virtue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:42 PM |
| 8 | "Progressive" women falling short?There's no way you can spin "boyfriend must give girlfriend diamond" as gender equality. It's just as explicitly gendered an expectation as "wife must stay in the kitchen". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:40 PM |
| 5 | College educated women, would you ever consider settling for a man without a college degreeInteresting the data shows the rates for women marrying "down" education wise have remained relatively steady, while the rates for men have dropped over time. Basically as more women got degrees, it got easier for educated men to marry educated peers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:22 PM |
| 3 | College educated women, would you ever consider settling for a man without a college degreecollege education provides graduates with significantly higher income potential On average yes but not in every case. A college grad teacher will typically earn less than a non college grad in a good union trade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV: the real problem in NYC isn't gender ratio, it's that everyone is marriedLol maybe if you want kids don't wait until 35 to start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:42 PM |
| 5 | CMV: the real problem in NYC isn't gender ratio, it's that everyone is marriedWell wouldn't it be proof that she can have kids Majority of women can have kids though? It's not like it's so rare that men are fighting over a small handful of fertile women while the majority of barren women watches jealously lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:05 PM |
| – | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Yeah living without kids is life on tutorial mode, super easy unless you're disabled in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:00 PM |
| – | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Which is why women will not see casual sex with men as appealing. Good, casual sex is bad for society anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:27 PM |
| – | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Exactly lol. Women say they want all that but then the ones who are into casual sex repeatedly sleep with the dudes with tons of options who don't care about them at all. Revealed preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?So easy to teach then. And yet, even if you had diplomas signed by certified lesbians, I doubt women would be lining up to fuck those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:43 AM |
| -2 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeIn the history of human culture, the advent of effective birth control is relatively new. Exactly, we haven't had a chance to evolve resistance to birth control yet. But we will, because resistance to birth control increases evolutionary fitness tremendously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Yeah I see that you're saying every woman is different therefore it's harder to please one in a one night stand where you don't know them well. But you also say lesbians are better at pleasing women even in one night stands, so clearly there are skills, that are learnable, that facilitate this. You could literally have a course taught by lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?So you believe it's impossible to learn to be better at pleasuring women, and that lesbians are simply born with women pleasuring skills that men can never possess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Haha I'm sure that's true, gay male hookups are so much less effort and easier to come by I'm sure most bi men have more of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Evopsych explains this. Heterosexual sex is serious business with serious consequences AKA making babies. Homosexual sex is play by comparison, good for social bonding but no chance of babies. Of course people are more willing to play casually than to make serious decisions casually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Women know that casual sex with a ransom man isn't probably gonna make them orgasm. I doubt that's the main factor. Thought experiment: Imagine someone taught a course for men in how to pleasure women. Having a diploma from this course guarantees that a man knows how to tongue, finger and fuck any woman to completion. Would women line up to have sex with men who took the course? No! I bet most would consider it creepy and actively avoid those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Who do you think cares more about gender roles when it comes to romantic connection: men or women?So would you say that physically, only a minority of men and women achieve the "masculine" or "feminine" look, while the majority of men and women fail at it? Like obviously only half of men are above average height. And many women are obese rather than thin. Once you add in the other criteria you mention, surely only a minority manage to match them all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:20 AM |
| 6 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Progressives mostly think women can do whatever they want but men still have to be "Real Men". They're very misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 03:51 AM |
| 5 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?How long did it take to pay down your med school debt? That and the crazy residency hours seem like the main downside of being a doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?If you don't want it, then you should be happy it doesn't exist. I don't go around asking why movements I don't want don't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?Yeah I think if a man tried to start a TradHusband movement he'd just be called sexist by the media. u/Windmill_flowers if you want a TradHusband movement why don't you start one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menThat's not really gendered though, men also like "a lady in the streets but an open minded girl in the sheets". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menGrade C asswipe Public restroom toilet paper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:50 PM |
| 6 | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.If you go on r/askfeminists right now and ask them if they think society ought to change to find fat women more attractive, you'd get a non trivial number saying "yes". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:50 AM |
| 6 | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.Why not, plenty of women are rapists too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:46 AM |
| 3 | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.Don't gaslight me, I've seen plenty of feminists argue that "fat women used to be considered attractive" therefore "society should change to consider fat women attractive again". They're basically saying that not being attracted to fat women is morally wrong and needs correction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:41 AM |
| 8 | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.it's about how they treat and speak about women who aren't those things. Yeah feminists call it sexist when men don't treat those women as attractive. Fat women complain about "being invisible". Guess what, unattractive men are invisible too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.We also have guns now, so women can learn to use firearms to protect themselves. Tell that to Ukraine, it's about time they treated men and women equally when it comes to conscription. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:33 AM |
| 18 | We raised a generation of progressive men and traditional women.Gender equality, liberalism, progressivism, feminism, etc. have never ever ever ever said "you must be attracted to ______." Nah, feminists are pretty quick to call men sexist if they prefer to marry a more traditional woman who will stay home with the kids etc. And call men sexist for not wanting to date fat women. And call men sexist for not wanting to date high n count women. It's only when men say "wait a second, expecting men to pay for the date seems kinda sexist" that the uno reverse card… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?A big part of the reason people tone it down IRL is that a lot of the stuff that gets upvoted on "progressive" subs would straight up get them fired for creating a hostile work environment for men, if they said it in the workplace and left an undeniable paper trail. An employer literally can't let wokies run around telling their male coworkers they hate them, that would be illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially?On this topic I agree with the feminists (so long as it's applied equally - if the guy's too drunk he can't consent either). I don't know if OP calls herself a feminist, I'm just pointing out that her opinions inherently contradict feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do anti-feminist arguments usually fall flat? (and what are some that don't?)Academic publishing has a observable skew towards men, allowing me to acquire more co-authoring credit and increased tenure prospects at around a 10% higher margin then comparable women. Would you rather have 10% more academic output, or live 5 years longer on average be able to choose whether or not you become a parent with a particular partner face shorter sentences for the same crime not be conscripted Etc? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/10/23 06:39 AM |
| 4 | what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially?If you need a guy to be drunk so he'll sleep with you, you might be a rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially?It's funny that feminists have literally spent decades arguing that drunk sex is problematic, and then u/-Shes-A-Carnival is like "no, hitting on drunk chicks is fine, but wanting to meet sober women, that's creepy!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially?People with friends at church hang out with them, people with friends who go to the mall go there to hang out with them, people go to clubs and do activities with their friends, people do cook outs and potlucks with friends and do all sorts of other activities with friends as well. So if people are only allowed to hang out with pre-existing friends, when someone moves for a job and has no friends in their new location, they should do what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:18 PM |
| 4 | what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially?Also it's funny that feminists have spent decades arguing that drunk sex is problematic, and then OP is like "no, wanting to meet sober women, that's creepy!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 08:59 PM |
| 3 | what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially?Yeah and the fact that most secular 3rd spaces are dying shows that western secular society is sick. People with a more robust sense of community, like Mormons or Amish, of course still have 3rd places, and are having way more kids than secular Americans are. So naturally, the sick secular society will shrink away and be replaced with a healthier Mormon/Amish society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?Yeah but all her future earnings should be garnished to pay for the affair baby too, if you want it to be comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?Her husband is the legal parent. She should be too, if you want to claim they're the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 05:03 AM |
| 13 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?It would be the same if: when the mistress gets pregnant, the wife is named the baby's legal parent even if the wife divorces her cheating husband she owes 18 years of child support to her husband's affair baby. If those aren't happening - it's not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 11:59 PM |
| 27 | Are women really that disgusted by inexperienced/virgin men?That's exactly what "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." means. Sounds like your friend's village embraced him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.How do you define a grifter? Was Anita Sarkeesian a grifter for crowd funding videos about sexism in Marvel superhero movies? Was Earl Silverman a grifter for opening a domestic violence shelter for men in Canada using his own money, because the state refused to fund one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Most young men struggle with dating because they were raised to be passive and afraid of everything.https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women%27s_fear_of_crime studies consistently find that women around the world tend to have much higher levels of fear of crime than men, despite the fact that in many places, and for most offenses, men's actual victimization rates are higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Most young men struggle with dating because they were raised to be passive and afraid of everything.As a group who takes more risks, men or women? You're criticizing some men for having the same level of caution most women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Yes, divorce can happen to literally anyoneDon't underestimate the evolutionary benefits of religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:37 AM |
| 2 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)I know someone who got gastric sleeve surgery and the rapid change in appearance is truly surprising. But reading about the procedure made me sick. They have to take special vitamins for the rest of their life because they've lost the stomach area to absorb them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)If you can't grow thinner, you can still reduce your BMI by growing taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 03:14 AM |
| 1 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)I don't think it's ever been "any woman", more that top 70% of women can get casual sex with top 30% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 03:03 AM |
| 3 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)I assume she means, when they're both fat, the women usually stands on the left? So in order from left to right, its fat woman with fat man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Most young men struggle with dating because they were raised to be passive and afraid of everything.Men are constantly told they should be more like women. "Femininity better than masculinity". And women are generally more afraid than men are. So more like women means, among other things, more afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Most young men struggle with dating because they were raised to be passive and afraid of everything.Their parents tried to get them to go out there That's a huge assumption. Some parents are scaredy-cats themselves. Some parents are just too busy just getting by to be their kid's guidance counselor on top of everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:52 AM |
| 8 | Most young men struggle with dating because they were raised to be passive and afraid of everything.But when they have difficulty dating they think it's still men's fault. The hot men ignoring them should approach them. The ugly men approaching them should be hotter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:43 AM |
| 6 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.leadership, independence, competence, dominance, competitiveness, success, winning, etc — are selfish. So you'd prefer a selfless society of *checks notes* leaderless, dependence, incompetence, submissiveness, monopolies, failure, losing, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 06:50 AM |
| 8 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.No, femininity is about selfless obedient service — nurturing, caring, submissiveness, sweetness, niceness, prettiness, pleasantness, harmony Lol it's not selfless. Read about the evolution of altruism. It makes evolutionary sense to cooperate with your close kin - because it helps your genes, not because it's selfless. Nurturing your kids or other relatives isn't selfless, it's competition against your non-relatives. Prettiness etc also selfish - pretty women attract better mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 06:40 AM |
| 11 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.So your community sucks at raising men? That sounds more like a you problem than a me problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:34 AM |
| 8 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.Lol sure, and you fantasize about murdering the president. Should I tell the CIA? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:30 AM |
| 8 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.You're acting awful entitled. Won't get far in life with that attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:23 AM |
| 11 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.Statistically women are more likely to view slapping men as acceptable than the other way around, on account of them not being taught not to hit boys. So you really should aim your investigation at women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:16 AM |
| 12 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.That's a very sexist question. Do you go around asking women if they want to hit a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why not many women-only communities?Fair enough, provided we do the same in reverse: I've seen posters in TwoX call men children a lot too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Attractiveness gets you more in life than just casual sex. Attractive people get better treatment from strangers. Better grades. Higher pay. Lesser jail sentences. Partners less likely to cheat. Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherOf course lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.And that's why there are few deadbeat moms. Moms who don't want kids just abort them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Being a dad True it's hard to be a dad as a woman. But equally hard to be a mom as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?That was literally the only thing in your comment before you edited it lol. "Telling" - only on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:57 PM |
| 14 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Sleeping around Hahaha! Try creating a Tinder account with an average male profile (that's 5'9, not 6') and see exactly how much "sleeping around" you'd get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.I'm talking about normal families where the dad works. But to answer your question about broken families, that's mostly because of premarital sex. But if men were allowed to have unwanted kids aborted, there wouldn't be any deadbeat dads either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:27 PM |
| 20 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.Lol dozens, you people date a few dozen losers and instead of realizing the common factor is you, decide it's actually the 4 billion members of the opposite sex that are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:23 PM |
| 29 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.Lol it's always so much arrogance with you people, splaining to men how men are raised. As if the person with lived experience knows less than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.Ironically if men were really "socialised to always put themselves and their needs first" that would involve reading that book lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.Are you asking why there are fewer stay at home dads? For a start there are far fewer women willing to support a stay at home dad than there are men willing to support a stay at home mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:05 PM |
| 36 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.Men are socialised to always put themselves and their needs first. Lol rubbish. "Never hit a girl" but not "never hit a boy". Men are socialized to put women first in many situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why not many women-only communities?I’d argue that there are actually more female-centered spaces than male ones Lol I wonder why. It's not like feminists called male-centered groups "sexist" and systematically set out to dismantle them. Oh wait, that's exactly what they did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Do you think you would exist if your parents had to endure modern dating?Religion is basically a vaccine against modern dating culture. Not a lot of single impoverished moms in Amish villages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherSure but when we're talking about pedophiles in the pathological sense, we mostly mean people attracted to 12 year olds who think 18 year olds are gross because they're "too old". Not people who think 18 year olds look attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 07:52 PM |
| 9 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherUnfortunately many victims of paternity fraud were too trusting to use the test. That's why we need to make testing a default regardless of trust. I guess you missed all the other issues women discuss No, but actual legislation speaks louder than "discussion" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each other"I didn't intend to hurt men worse, I just intended to protect women more!" "I didn't intend to hurt black people worse, I just intended to protect white people more!" Very telling that you only think one of these is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherLol police shooting victims are 95% men vs like 30% black and you think black is the more important factor? I don't know where you learned math but you should ask for a refund. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherLol no, I just pointed out the hypocrisy. You're the one who got triggered over the thought that 17.99 year olds might appear attractive to some people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherSo you admit that most victims are men, and also admit that misandry is so prevalent that you would be socially punished for mentioning that most victims are men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:30 PM |
| 10 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherLol feminists pass laws to save women from paying sales tax on tampons. Talk about trivial problems. Paternity fraud costs men way more than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherThen what are you getting your panties in a bunch over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:21 PM |
| 10 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherIt's not illegal to find a 17.99 year old attractive. It's illegal to have sex with them. Do you have so little self control, that in your mind there is no difference between perceiving attractiveness and having sex? It is nuts how easy it is to get y'all to tell on yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:12 PM |
| 13 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherIs "women are trash" misogynistic or not? It's not saying all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherThe best example is Black Lives Matter. Police keep killing black people so BLM draws attention to this problem That's actually a great example of misandry. 95% of victims shot by police are men. Black Men's Lives Matter - is what it should have been called. All Black Lives Matter, Say Her Name etc divert too much focus to women who are only 5% of victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherI thought all the women on this sub like to go on about how you can't control who you find attractive, therefore shaming someone over who they find attractive is unfair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:41 PM |
| 16 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherIt's an openly expressed view on many female-majority subreddits. TwoX, teachers, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Despite living in a "patriarchy", women are doing much better academically than men.Do these people not see their own hypocrisy? They're taught that "it's impossible to be sexist against men" to help them actively ignore their hypocrisy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/10/23 10:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.So she doesn't trust every single person in a relationship ever and is happy that those who get unlucky can get help. Okay and from statistics we know that some people commit abuse in the form of paternity fraud, so we shouldn't trust every single person in a relationship ever to not commit paternity fraud abuse. Therefore preventing paternity fraud abuse at a societal level would be a good thing, the same way that having domestic violence shelters at a societal level is a good thing. I'm guessi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:52 PM |
| 22 | Despite living in a "patriarchy", women are doing much better academically than men."Patriarchy" means whatever they want it to mean. Usually one of: government is mostly men. They use this definition to claim that "obviously the patriarchy exists, just look at the government!" all gender roles. They use this definition to claim that "fighting patriarchy" means fighting all gender roles. Which is obviously a lie since they don't fight gender roles that disadvantage men, only ones that disadvantage women. Also they will use gender roles as proof of "patriarchy" no matter what th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/10/23 04:39 PM |
| 5 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.I think that she appreciates they exist if needed So she doesn't trust her husband 100%. we don't mandate any medical testing or home checks for abuse or anything. Actually women are screened for possible signs of abuse at their doctor checkups. There's nothing "authoritarian" about using science to screen for a different kind of abuse at the hospital before registering baby births. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.Only if you think the government has no interest in reducing abuse of its citizens. That's like saying "why do we spend all this money on domestic violence shelters?" Domestic violence shelters don't make the government profit. But people lobbied for them and now we have them. People just need to lobby for the law to take paternity fraud seriously, consider it a form of abuse (it is), and use the obvious, cheap method of DNA screening before registering a birth certificate to eliminate this form… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?For one thing, dating within your own ethnicity is often just easier. A lot of white people just think most non white people are ugly ... it's just in group bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?At least you said your parents are willing to help. "Arranged marriage" is really just arranged dating, never hurts to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?Everyone is single until they aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?Yeah people complain that kids are expensive but statistically poor people have the most kids. Half of American kids are born on Medicaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?It's called long term planning. Once Japan's population shrinks enough, we can take over their land! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?Have you looked at photos of them young though? Maybe they were hot before they got married, but later got fat/bald. Older people are rarely hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.Let's do some math. According to Google the average cost of raising a child is $237,482. So let's consider that the financial damage of paternity fraud abuse - the man is defrauded into spending $237,482 on a child that's not actually his. So even a 1% chance of paternity fraud per child would mean $2,374 lost to abuse on average, per birth. A paternity test on the other hand costs like $100 and reduces the expected cost of paternity fraud abuse to 0. Mathematically, it's a no brainer for the go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.How couples choose to manage their finances is up to them, not you Yeah but he has a point, couples with separate finances probably trust each other less than 100%. Maybe only 99%. If they trusted each other 100%, separate finances would be pointless overhead. Joint finances are simpler. Point is, marriage can function fine with only 99% trust. The idea it has to be 100% or you have to divorce is silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:29 AM |
| 7 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.Is it a false equivalency? Both are unlikely but both happen. And society does its best to minimize the chance of murder, when a woman sees the doctor for a checkup they will screen for signs of abuse that could increase the chance of her being murdered. Similarly society should do its best to minimize the chance of paternity fraud. Luckily this is very easy, simply screen the baby's DNA together with its parents before registering baby's birth certificate, this has 100% success rate of preventi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:50 AM |
| 16 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.That's why the law should be changed to define paternity fraud as a form of financial abuse. Men's rights are human rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:45 AM |
| 13 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.Also society has domestic violence shelters because, on a societal level, some people need them. If a woman says she appreciates the existence of domestic violence shelters, does that mean she doesn't trust her husband? Similarly society should have paternity testing by default, because on a societal level, some people need it, and by its nature many of the people who need it don't know they need it, so you shouldn't rely on their having to choose it individually. Just do it collectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.No the rate for people who suspect is 30%. The 1-10% estimate is for the general population. Every case of paternity fraud involves a woman who knew the baby may not be the man's, but didn't say anything so he wouldn't test, thereby making him pay time and money for the baby that he wouldn't have if he'd known. That's abuse. Actually there is "mandatory reporting" for many abuse related scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reasonAlso things like paternity fraud aren't even prosecuted as a crime despite being effectively the same as stealing hundreds of thousands of dollars. Sure helps make women look better when society defines their crimes as "not crimes". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.1% is way too high Actually studies put the range at 1-10%, I was being conservative. someone is going to have to pay that Making the wrong person pay is financial abuse. Society has a vested interest in preventing abuse, that's why we have things like domestic violence shelters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reasonalmost all sexual crime (98%) That's largely self perpetuating social bias. CDC stats show that 1 in 9 men has been "made to penetrate" without his consent, mostly by women, but almost none of those women rapists get arrested because society doesn't take female perpetrated sex crimes seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.why would the government care if the man paid for it under the mistaken Are you asking why the government should prevent abuse? Because human rights are good, actually. That's like asking "why should the government waste money on domestic violence shelters for women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.Let's do some math. According to Google the average cost of raising a child is $237,482. So let's consider that the financial damage of paternity fraud abuse - spending $237,482 on a child that's not actually yours. So even a 1% chance of paternity fraud would mean $2,374 lost to abuse per man per child on average. A paternity test on the other hand costs like $100 and reduces the expected cost of paternity fraud abuse to 0. Mathematically, it's a no brainer for the government to spend $100 per … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.Luckily, DNA testing is already super cheap and scalable. The cost of full genome sequencing has gone from billions to $600 for an entire human genome, and paternity testing only requires a fraction of the genome, so is easily under $100. Isn't science amazing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.what does "mandatory" mean Simple. To add a dad to the birth certificate, the dad must either sign an adoption form if he knows the kid isn't his, or do a paternity test if he thinks it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.Computers used to take up entire rooms and cost a small fortune. Now everyone has one in their pocket and they're cheaper than ever. Economy of scale makes things cheaper, not more expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:30 PM |
| 8 | Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby.let's do some math. According to Google the average cost of raising a child is $237,482. So let's consider that the financial damage of paternity fraud abuse - spending $237,482 on a child that's not actually yours. So even a 1% chance of paternity fraud would mean $2,374 lost to abuse per man on average. A paternity test on the other hand costs like $100 and reduces the expected cost of paternity fraud abuse to 0. Mathematically, it's a no brainer for the government to spend $100 per paternity … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:19 PM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearReproductive market value at 45 is basically 0 though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:16 AM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearA 40 year old isn't "old enough to be the dad" of a 25 year old unless he was statutorily raped at 14. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:15 AM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearThese days anyone who really wants to be a woman can just transition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:03 AM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearMost men are balding before they hit the age of 25 All the men in my family have full heads of hair into old age, so I guess I must have those great hair genes that women lust over so much ;-) I'd better filter my women by asking them if their dads went bald. Wouldn't want to sully my great hair genes with a bald gene carrier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:00 AM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearIf you want a woman to carry babies, knock up a poor chick. More than half of children born in the US are to moms on Medicaid. Rich women are too busy for kids lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:57 AM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearWhy don't you join a church or something. Boom, instant social opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:52 AM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearI’m in my 20s A lot of women my age don’t want children which takes away the “biological clock” imperative When people say women become more likely to get baby crazy at a certain age due to their biological clock, they're not talking about 20 year olds lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:49 AM |
| 5 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsTrue, I know a few people who got tats young and then spent a lot of money, time and pain getting them lasered off when they got older lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsJust like The Sneetches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:58 AM |
| 0 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsShave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:58 AM |
| 5 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsThe Internet says only 1/4 men have tattoos. Maybe it's more common in redneck areas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:54 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone here had plastic surgery? After my surgery I realized all the advice woman give for dating is 100% nonsensewomen should be out of the work force. Only an idiot would phrase it judgmentally like that. But if you say "I'd like to date a woman who loves children and dreams of being a stay at home mom to give them the attention they need, and I will support her in that" a lot of women will think that's sweet. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/23 01:40 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Sure, like lots of men have internalized misandry. Like judges who give men longer sentences for the exact same crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV : if you do not maximise your looks potential close to the limit you should not complain about datingDon't steroids shrink your testicles so even if you have a relationship you might not be able to have kids? Doesn't seem worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:29 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I guess those men and women were raised badly by their parents and teachers then. Whichever gender spends more time raising and teaching kids must be doing a pretty bad job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:21 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I've never met a city boy who doesn't know what toilet paper is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:11 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I assume most of the women complaining that men can't wipe their own ass are rural redneck women dating their male cousins lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:01 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.The good ones are mostly taken already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:53 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Then the average woman must be pretty stupid to marry the average man. And the average man must be pretty stupid to marry such a stupid woman. So in the end, they deserve each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:51 AM |
| – | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitYeah I know the reasoning I'm just saying that reduced tolerance for cheating is a consequence of that risk. Like if your state passed a law today saying that if your husband gets anyone pregnant then you are financially responsible for the baby, I'm sure that would affect your paranoia regarding cheating too. You'd probably have different thoughts on whether a high n count man is good marriage material in that scenario too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:56 AM |
| 2 | So, what is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to?Look, if a woman chooses to date a man who can't wipe himself, either she's an idiot, or he has money, or looks, or something else she desires enough to put up with the weird behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 14 | Unfaithful Ex Trying to Steal Man's KidsWe do not know why she is seeking to minimize this time further. Are you in a "dollars for days" state where the more custody days you have the more child support money you get? She probably likes money. The fact that even a stay at home dad can't get custody shows just how biased the courts are. I'd say post this to menslib just to see how quickly they delete it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/23 08:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: No matter how educated, on top of their career or wealthy a woman is, if she is physically unattractive, society never considers her as a subject of envy.Oprah is almost 70, literally nobody is still hot at that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitIf a lesbian gets pregnant while married to a woman In that case the non pregnant lesbian can be 100% sure it's not her baby and she can just get divorced. There's no risk of paternity fraud. I'm saying that if when a straight woman's husband cheated, she suddenly had legal obligations to his affair baby, then she would probably be a lot more paranoid about cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitWell if a man's wife cheats, in many places he's legally obligated to raise her affair baby. If women/gay men were legally obligated to raise their husbands' affair babies, they would be more paranoid about cheating too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 11 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitMen aren't that mentally different to women, they're just physically stronger. Being stronger is on its own enough to explain the difference in DV injury rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Older women (30+ so called cougars) chase young college aged boys more than 30+ men chasing college aged girlsI doubt there's data showing exact equality but I do know female predators are significantly underreported due to serious, systematic bias. A lot of commonly repeated stats like "99% of rapists are men" rely on defining rape in ways that exclude most female perpetrators, e.g. "rape is penetration of the victim" which erases most men raped by women. Those stats are almost certainly false if we apply a gender neutral definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:24 AM |
| 17 | CMV : Older women (30+ so called cougars) chase young college aged boys more than 30+ men chasing college aged girls"The brain isn't fully developed until 25, she's basically a pedophile" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they doThat's a myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingSo you agree that teaching your daughter to bake is a "chore" while teaching your daughter to pay baseball is "leisure"? Because then given the American obesity epidemic, you really should all be doing more "leisure" that makes you fit and less "chores" that make you fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingThe American Time Use Survey data is very coarse. It was never intended to be twisted into "men bad" by gender wars keyboard warriors. Yet here we are. https://www.bls.gov/news.release/atus.tn.htm Household activities. Household activities are activities done by individuals to maintain their households. These include housework; cooking; lawn and garden care; pet care; vehicle maintenance and repair; home maintenance, repair, decoration, and renovation; and household management and organizational… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingWhen we compare working hours + chores + childcare, men do less than women. Biased stats. Typical female bonding activities like a woman teaching her daughter how to make a cake count as "chores", but a man teaching his son how to play baseball counts as "leisure" despite being just as challenging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:56 AM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingStudies written by feminists ... totally unbiased! Like the studies that define rape as "penetration of the victim" so they can ignore most of the data on male rape victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesThey will once they learn about the height wage gap. You know why Hillary lost the presidency? Too short! Height commands respect and a lot of women want that as much as men. Of course, there are downsides. Taller people die younger. But most men would rather have a slightly shorter life filled with true love than be a long lived virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesHow's his love life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesIntersection of height and culture. But today's culture has increasingly unrealistic standards when it comes to male height. Women seem to think 6' is "average" when that's really just the tallest 20% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesMy dad’s 5’9 at best 5'9 is average American male height. And even then you say your mom left him for a taller man? Oof. And you're like "My dad just never let being short get him down" when he's just average height. Lol. Women's perception of normal height is so skewed it's crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:24 AM |
| 0 | The only men who truly benefit from modern dating culture are the tip top percentile of menMaybe when Caleb meets a woman worthy of a relationship he'll make her wait for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesAverage male height in the US is 5'9 so 5'7 is actually closer to average than 6' is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:29 AM |
| 7 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesMaybe tall dictators just get assassinated sooner because their heads stick out more in a crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Being short it s a huge problem in males"I'm 6' tall when I lie down, babe!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesI'm already too tall for my wife. Well obviously your wife will use Height Pumper first. It'll be the new "I want a man taller than me in heels ... after I've used Height Pumper." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:16 AM |
| – | How would you react to female versions of Peter Griffin, Randy Marsh, Stan Smith or Homer Simpson?When you're used to privilege, being treated like a man feels like oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Women will always die aloneI heard cats like to eat their dead owners. Yum! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Women will always die aloneYeah western society is sick. But there is little an individual westerner can do to fix it. Probably the best way out for individual westerners is to marry into a more communal culture and be "adopted" by their spouse's extended family and thereby integrate into the culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?Maybe deep male friendships and "old boy networks" are correlated with male power, and the west, in search of equality, made the trade of dismantling many of the spaces where deep male friendships are formed in order to reduce male power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 04:52 AM |
| 2 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Lol you need to read more theory. It's okay to admit you have no clue what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?This whole "male loneliness" thing seems to be mostly a Western phenomenon. Arab and Indian men seem to have deeper friendships and less fear of being seen holding male friends' hands etc. Yet those are famously more "patriarchal" cultures than the west. How do you explain that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?Maybe, consider the related problem of lesbians having difficulty initiating romantically as discussed in the poem Lesbian Sheep. I learned to be an initiator because I moved far from my hometown and realized I had to be more active to build a social network. Being the initiator is pretty tiring and I used to wonder if people just don't like me if they never initiate back. But then I realized that they're still hanging out with me anyway, they're just uncomfortable with initiating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?It’s sad to see but if anyone recommends that they be vulnerable with each other they’re told to stop feminizing men. It’s a real catch 22. "Be vulnerable" is putting the cart before the horse and often just makes people look needy instead of vulnerable. You first need to create an environment where vulnerability is accepted and reciprocated. Otherwise vulnerability in the wrong environment is just exposing your softt underbelly to predators who will happily tear into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?But not football, unless you want them to be brain damaged, which may also make them violent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Are “parallel play” friendships exacerbating male loneliness?But it’s because my aunts (I call them my aunts) are the ones who call first and gets the convo rolling. I think in most friendships there's the initiator and the follower. Men have to do most of the initiating in romantic relations so sometimes it's nice to sit back and be the follower in other relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:26 AM |
| 2 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"You're overthinking it, cuddling your date while watching a movie is "kino" and plenty of women enjoy that. Of course some women are autistic and hate being touched by anyone, but who wants to date that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:51 AM |
| 3 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"But progressives and feminists typically say hierarchies are oppressive and should be torn down. Saying you should climb the hierarchy is standard conservative advice lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?"Good looking" and "conventionally attractive" are synonyms lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingI see the mistake you're making - you're thinking that 10 million humans and growing is the same population structure as 10 million humans and shrinking. It's not, the ratio of old people to young people is completely different. Growing population: more young people. Shrinking population: more old people. The burden of caring for the old people falls on young people, and is much worse in a shrinking population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:16 PM |
| 4 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Your should socialize with the kind of people you want to be. If you don't want to be a virgin geek, then socializing only with virgin geeks won't help much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"So you're a disciple of Jordan "climb the male hierarchy" Peterson? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:08 PM |
| -1 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"If you're bad at reading the room, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Do men's options really go up with age and women's options drop ? I don't know if that's true.Women only see a steep decline only if they stop taking care of themselves. Some things are just biology. For guys who want kids, the closer women get to menopause the less interested the guy will be for obvious reasons. Of course if you're child free or gay no need to follow those rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:53 AM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesMany people get both at the same time MD/PhD. MD/PhDs are only like 3% of MDs. It requires several extra years in school and only really makes sense if you want to conduct medical research. Definitely not for every MD. a) the area of study matters a great amount when it comes to earning potential Of course, that's why there's still a wage gap even though more women go to college. Men tend to pick higher paying majors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:46 AM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesLol no Medical Doctors are MDs. PhD is research/academia track. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:40 AM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesActually PhDs usually make you poorer. Masters degrees are where the money is. But a PhD takes many more years than a masters, years where you could be climbing the corporate ladder instead of being paid slave wages by a university. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:18 AM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesDefinitely, I want a woman so rich she has to pay me alimony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:15 AM |
| – | Women Are Happier With Less Attractive Partners, Study SaysImproving in just one aspect is never a cure all but it can still increase your chances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Happier With Less Attractive Partners, Study SaysThat's not entirely true, exercise makes men more handsome in many ways : broader back, leaner face etc. And if you really want to increase your height leg lengthening surgery is a thing. But obviously if you can land a woman without that you wouldn't bother. A society that surgically lengthens half their sons legs just to make them marriageable would be a pretty sick society IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Do average men have situationships?Is that what people call FWBs these days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Happier With Less Attractive Partners, Study SaysThis works for both genders, citation: If you want to be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he married her and then she starts To do the things that will break his heart But if you make an ugly woman your wife Ah you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ugly woman cooks meals on time She'll always give you pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Women Are Happier With Less Attractive Partners, Study SaysFunny, on this sub I constantly see people saying that frumpy guys marry hot girls but never the reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.And if having a career is so rotten, do you think the same of men, that men who focus on careers when they’re young have “watched the most important aspect in life pass them by”? Or is marriage and a relationship only important for women? Men focusing too much on careers and missing out on having a family is the subject of hundreds of Christmas movies, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.I'm grateful to child free people for leaving more room on the planet for other people's kids. Them quitting the game only makes the game easier and less competitive for the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Beethoven's parents had 8 kids, and one of them was the famous Beethoven. It's a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Because once they find their hot expert Latin euphonium jazz player they have to put up with him shitting on the floor because they know there are no other hot expert Latin euphonium jazz players out there. So the bar is on the floor ... but only if you've already cleared the bar of being a hot expert Latin euphonium jazz player. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 07:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...these guys online as well, where they want not just affection, but also praise and empathy, yet they offer none of those to others ever. And how do you think those guys were raised? My guess is their moms showed attention to their sisters' every boo-boo while telling them to "man up and stop crying" in the same situation. There are studies where they show parents the same baby crying in different clothes, and in girl clothes they're like "oh the baby must be hungry" but in boy clothes they're "t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceDo you think people don't want friends? Human nature hasn't changed, what's changed is the social environment. Economic pressures pulling people away from their hometown social networks for jobs. Car centric suburbs making people live far apart from their friends. Social media dragging people into parasocial relationships that suck energy out of real relationships. Society is sick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceIn most traditional cultures men do care about other men. It's western, liberal men that have been conditioned to hate other men because "men are bad, women are good". They're very self hating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceI've definitely seen discussions where people say "it must be his/her personality" instead of admitting it could be physical attractiveness. I think it stems from a kind of Just World Fallacy where people tell themselves if someone is lonely, it must be because they have a shitty personality, because that explanation makes them feel better about the world than admitting that some people with great personalities are lonely because they're ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | It seems dating is not for ugly people anymore, but it wasNot much point in shotgun weddings once no fault divorce is available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:21 PM |
| 3 | It seems dating is not for ugly people anymore, but it wasNow if I have a date I'm damn sure thoroughly scrubbing every part of my body with 8 different cleaning products targeting a specific zone, trimming all body hair, brushing, flossing, deodorant, brush tongue and depending on who I have a date with perhaps a quick anal douche. *wipes away a single tear* god bless America's marketing departments, keeping our economy going by selling people crap they don't need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:00 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Muscle is cheap, and in 2023 women value genuinely rare immutable traits, such as height and facethey feel safe Ironic that the more capable someone becomes of inflicting serious physical abuse, the safer people feel with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:40 PM |
| -1 | The best self-improvement for a man is finding a girlfriendNah historically the majority of men who wanted to have reproduced. Of course it's not binary, people who have just one kid are still only 1/7th as evolutionarily successful as Amish people with seven kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:53 PM |
| 2 | The best self-improvement for a man is finding a girlfriendIt's true that therapy is too female dominated. Universities need more scholarships for male therapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 0 | The best self-improvement for a man is finding a girlfriendIf you make a lot of money and have 0 kids your evolutionary fitness is 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.In retrospect it's pretty obvious that carrying my own bodyweight on my back with squats was risky. Not if you work up to it gradually with good form? People mostly get injured by increasing weight too fast with poor form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateAre you trying to control what men can and can't do? I'm just saying I'd generally assume that a woman giving out a fake number in a non threatening situation is either autistic or psychopathic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateMost women seem fine politely declining and don't get murdered but if you're autistic you are allowed to always give out fake numbers if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:49 PM |
| -1 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateDo you think everyone who cheats (or in this case, is merely suspected of cheating) deserves to be murdered? Or only men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateWhat's the context? Is someone pointing a gun at her demanding her number? Sure, give a fake number. Is a friend of a friend she's been talking to for an hour at a party politely asking if he could have her number? Would be pretty shitty to give a fake number instead of just politely declining. That's not getting out of danger, that's just lacking the social skills to politely assert yourself. Maybe excusable if she's autistic I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateThat's a non sequitur to this news story. Giving out a fake number wouldn't have prevented her death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:26 PM |
| – | We often talk about how modern culture discards masculinity, but we hardly touch on how it discards femininitywomen rarely insult other women by calling them masculine. Would you be flattered or insulted if someone said: you look like a man you have a deep man voice you have a manly mustache you have man hands you're as tall as a man you clean your home like a man you cook like a man you dress your kid like a man you dress yourself like a man you have the emotional intelligence of a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:12 AM |
| – | We often talk about how modern culture discards masculinity, but we hardly touch on how it discards femininityIt's a classic Motte and Bailey. "The patriarchy" is sometimes used to mean all gender roles, to support the claim that "defeating the patriarchy" would eliminate all gender discrimination. But then why call it "the patriarchy" instead of just "gender roles"? So then they switch to the other definition which is "the patriarchy just means most leaders are men". Okay, but then it no longer follows that "fighting the patriarchy" solves gender equality. Putting women in charge is only fighting one g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadChild prostitute means rape victim so the same rules don't apply. Like most people are gung ho about making men pay child support but most would make an exception for a boy raped by an older woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:52 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslySource? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyThen I guess all the men who want kids that way will realize they're actually non-binary. And since non-binary people are marginalized, it would be illegal to discriminate against them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslySure raising kids is a lot of work. But paying $150000 for surrogacy and raising kids is even more work. Basic economics tells you that as the price goes down, more people will take advantage of it. Maybe they won't do it as a single dad, maybe two guy friends will get together and make babies together. It's not gay if you're using science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyRich single women? Or you mean rich women with rich husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyStopping women from what, paying for surrogates? I've literally never heard of women paying for surrogates on their own. If it's a married couple and the man earns more, arguably he's footing most of the surrogacy bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslystatistically a pedophile is way more likely to be a man. Have you heard the phrase lies, damn lies and statistics? Studies show that because society downplays the possibility of predatory women so much, even children known to be victimized by women will often describe the perpetrator as "a man". You can't make serious inferences from the statistics without correcting for this bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:48 PM |
| 17 | Effective strategiesNational Coalition for Men has accomplished a few things by suing the government under equal rights laws. But this has limits, eg the Supreme Court simply refused to accept the case on conscription. I think a better approach is to encourage people to call their legislators and actually get laws changed. Legislators pay attention to people who contact them. Look at how the League of Women Voters works, and copy their strategies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/09/23 06:57 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyFrom what I've heard, when lesbian couples split up, the kids mostly go with their bio moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:50 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyBecause their partners aren't inseminating them, and are providing free child care for babies that aren't genetically theirs? It would be a totally different situation if the partner could actually provide sperm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:42 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyLesbians don't think the men donating sperm are oppressors? Women do all the work of raising the baby while the biological father doesn't have to be involved or even pay child support. Truly, lesbian donor babies are the epitome of patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:25 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating is heavily genetically determinedWho else posts on Reddit all day? That's not neurotypical behavior! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslysaying how artificial bone marrow sperm will make men obsolete If lesbians become able to impregnate other lesbians, they'll just start labeling the lesbian that isn't carrying the baby the "oppressor" for not going through the difficulty of pregnancy themselves, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:06 AM |
| 17 | As a woman why should I get married?So then you admit I'm correct that you couldn't land a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:59 AM |
| 15 | As a woman why should I get married?Then that explains why your opinions of dating are so ignorant, you literally have no experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:52 AM |
| 17 | As a woman why should I get married?She's probably right that she can't land a good partner, because she's not one either lol. You get what you give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:45 AM |
| 4 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?Exactly, putting pussy on a pedestal is the source of many problems in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:32 AM |
| 5 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?The bar for women is even lower than for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps?It's a dumb argument. Plenty of women don't want to date blue collar workers, but use the things blue collar workers produce. Are they hypocrites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:58 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseBut as a man do you really want to hate yourself? That just doesn't sound mentally healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:15 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityBy "absent" you mean "a breadwinner". So you agree that a breadwinner (the gender role pushed on men) is never going to get sole custody, even though earlier you were laughing at men (quote: "Pah ha ha ha") for not seeking sole custody. Are you sure you don't just hate men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:39 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityYes I'm sure the reason he doesn't have sole custody is because he's too poor to afford a good lawyer, and not because there's no way in hell the courts are going to take custody away from the mom without her being a proven danger (abuser, drug addict, etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:07 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityIt varies a lot by state. If you're interested, the free online book Real World Divorce illustrates the differing policies. It was written by interviewing family lawyers in every state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:55 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityOr he can sue for full custody and raise them himself. That would be much cheaper for him, he could pay 24 hour nannies much less than what he's paying in child support. Pah ha ha ha Who are we kidding? Men don't do that. Yeah because any family lawyer would tell him it wouldn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:52 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseIt was all pointless. That sounds like depression. You might benefit from therapy. Maybe you're really gay and all this internalized misandry is just your way of suppressing your attraction to other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Radical feminists complain the most about toxic masculinity but are the most attracted to itOf course, men/women aren't toxic, it's the gender roles enforced on men/women that are toxic. Saying men have to be tall is "toxic masculinity" in the same sense that saying women have to be virgins is "toxic femininity". | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Radical feminists complain the most about toxic masculinity but are the most attracted to itThe same way it's a toxic gender role to pressure women to be virgins. Being a virgin/tall/etc isn't what's toxic, the pressure is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Radical feminists complain the most about toxic masculinity but are the most attracted to itThe pressure on men to be tall or have a sharp jawline definitely is a toxic gender role, which is usually what people mean by "toxic masculinity" | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 07:03 PM |
| 3 | We're going full circle, conservative sexual morality will become the norm again for heterosexualsAnd those ones are probably more sexually guarded like straight people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.I mean you personally, which category do you think you fall into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:27 PM |
| 4 | We're going full circle, conservative sexual morality will become the norm again for heterosexualsWell they don't worry about pregnancy and now with PrEP I don't know if they even worry about AIDS anymore so seems like there's nothing to hold back the horniness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:55 PM |
| 4 | We're going full circle, conservative sexual morality will become the norm again for heterosexualsSo in how many cases do they actually end up banging the girl? That would support the "sneaky bisexual" theory of gay evolution lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.If secular society is full of rotten apples maybe it deserves to die off and be replaced by Amish society where the women and men are very hardworking and seem to be happy to marry each other and raise families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.So if you're single you're either not great or not healthy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.The juice is just not worth the squeeze The grapes you can't reach are always sour, aren't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.Do married women take more drugs than married men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:06 AM |
| 0 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.And it's universally agreed that unmarried women have longer life expectancies Lol universally agreed in circle jerks like TwoX maybe. Good luck finding real research to support that view though. You're probably just seeing that the women with longest lives outlive their husbands so are "no longer married" when they die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?Funny, you'd think plenty of gold diggers would be interested in rich women, at least put up with them long enough to qualify for alimony before quitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?Broke musician is a well known trope. "What do you call a musician without a girlfriend? Homeless!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:52 PM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?Too busy, but hopefully the next time someone conducts the experiment they won't be so biased in a sexist fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:12 PM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?social experiment where a guy To be a properly controlled experiment they should also have had a woman slip something into a man's drink and see if other women warned him about it. What do you think would happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:14 PM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?because how else are you gonna met women Through mutual friends, duh. Trying to be a hero in random violent situations is not a way to meet women, lol. You've been watching too many Hollywood romances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:12 PM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?4th wave feminists need to make up their mind No, don't let them dictate your life. Make up your own mind and ignore the 4th wave feminists because they blatantly hate men and anything you let them decide for you is only going to hurt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:10 PM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?But calling 991 might summon cops and cops might kill a random innocent person so actually calling 911 is the worst option /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not?Women who call men "males" give me the ick. "Maaaaales" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 04:10 AM |
| 4 | Lyft's upcoming 'Women+Connect' featureSome people might feel safer with white drivers but imagine the richly deserved backlash if Lyft released a White+Connect feature that tries to match you preferentially with whites and Asians. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/09/23 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areBi is a spectrum, you are just more attracted to women than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 8 | I don't understand how some people can think men being good people or even decent people is a rare or strange phenomenon.There must be in-groups whom the law protects but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/09/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it?Wow you sure like listening to yourself talk. Society dismisses women in some ways and men in other ways. You wouldn't be any happier as a man, trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:07 PM |
| 2 | If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it?You may know that choking is a big sign that the guy will murder you although it is pretty common in porn too Just a guess, probably the more popular it becomes from porn, the weaker the correlation with murdering actually becomes. Unless the act is itself so risky that it's easy to accidentally kill someone that way (but that would be manslaughter, not murder). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it?I think plenty of women feel happy and validated in life. But they're not the type of woman posting long ass adhd rants online. So, selection bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:28 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?This is why a good business owner always throws away a randomly selected 90% of resumes. Wouldn't want to hire someone who's unlucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.liberal culture is actually charming for young people across the globe and I think it's unlikely that people will stop seeking to pursue it. Always has been. Here's a quote from two thousand years ago: "The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it." Sounds familiar? It's always been easier to not follow rules, even if following the rules makes you more evolutionar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:38 AM |
| – | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.everyone becomes good looking Will never happen, because good looking is relative. If the average man is 6', women will still prefer the man who is 6'5". Also fashion changes over time and place. People selected to be "good looking" in their culture can easily be considered ugly if they ever move. Just consider Asian immigrants in the US. Most of them are perfectly average in their home countries but considered ugly in US culture which favors white features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Shut up rings exist, but what about shut up marriages?OP specifically said engagement ring, then they can still break off the engagement later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:29 AM |
| 19 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areThat's just the "women are wonderful" bias at play. Women are valued just for themselves, while men have to work for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areDefinitely true in liberal areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:21 AM |
| 15 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areAlso most women would run screaming from a dude with makeup and hair weave lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:19 AM |
| 3 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceI have not met a women that was worth paying people thousands of dollars to stab me in the head. If you're Asian American you should probably consider the "passport bro" approach - in quotes because it's not really that if you're going somewhere closer to your ancestral culture. Somewhere in the world, there are probably cute women who will value you without you having to get stabbed in the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:38 AM |
| 11 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceI'm guessing his issue is heightism more than racism. 5'3 is shorter than most women even and very few women are willing to date a man shorter than them because it makes them feel "less feminine" aka the gender reverse of emasculation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:25 AM |
| – | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceMy bf wears clothes from 10 years ago that barely fit him, I dont get it lmao So you think he needs to work harder to attract a better woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Men are NOT protectorsYour anecdote supports the idea that brain damaged footballers have less impulse control. Thanks for agreeing with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)?Presidents have only gotten even taller on average since women got the vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)?Feminism prioritizes changing the gender roles that hurt women. MRA prioritizes changing the gender roles that hurt men. They both want to challenge gender roles but they have different priorities. If you go to a meeting of feminists and say "I want to change this gender role because it hurts men" they will accuse you of derailing and kick you out. That's why MRA is needed as a movement to prioritize men's issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)?I think patriarchy is factual just by looking at where power is concerntrated That's just heightism, people prefer tall leaders and most women are super short. If you want more women leaders you first need to dismantle heightism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)?It's a classic Motte and Bailey. "The patriarchy" is sometimes used to mean all gender roles, to support the claim that "defeating the patriarchy" would eliminate all gender discrimination. But then why call it "the patriarchy" instead of just "gender roles"? So then they switch to the other definition which is "the patriarchy just means most leaders are men". Okay, but then it no longer follows that "fighting the patriarchy" solves gender equality. Putting women in charge is only fighting one g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 05:59 AM |
| 6 | Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)?I think the vast majority of men support "men's rights" in a loose sense. As in, they care about their rights and think they should be considered equal humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Men are NOT protectorsWho do you think puts murderers in jail then? Janitors? Or are you claiming that putting murderers in jail is "not protection"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Men are NOT protectorsYou say law enforcement isn't necessary but you're unwilling to live in a society without law enforcement. Revealed preferences beat stated preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Men are NOT protectorsSo you'd be happier if they fired all the cops and prison guards and let all the convicted murderers and rapists out of prison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Men are NOT protectorsYou want to live somewhere with no police like CHAZ/CHOP lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Men are NOT protectorsCops and military and footballers all have high rates of head injury which damages their executive function and causes lack of impulse control. Not surprising they all have higher rates of domestic violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:05 AM |
| 11 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.about 1 in 26 men have experienced completed or attempted rape That's one of the trash statistics that comes from defining rape as "penetration of the victim". So if a woman forces herself on a man that's not counted as rape in that statistic. The actual number of male victims including "made to penetrate" cases is much higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.It seems common for incels to wish they were gay too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.Human men have WAY bigger penises than any other primate, both in absolute and relative size Of course, what sets humans apart from apes is the size of our heads. Our second heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:15 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?I'm sure plenty of Indian women find him attractive. Many people just prefer to date within their ethnicity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?Hollywood ugly: hot but wears braces and a hair tie. Later in the movie removes these for the "omg why didn't we realize she was hot" transformation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?I’m sure a lot of the marvel actors /other superhero actors had to train for months go on dehydration diets to get the figures they have in films I've heard they're all using steroids. Their physique is literally impossible to achieve naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?all of these average men wanted a woman who worked similar to them. Best way to avoid being screwed in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.I understand why the biological reality makes men sad. I’d be sad if I couldn’t find a mate. That’s a normal reaction. But here we are: Males compete and females select. That means a lot of males don’t get selected. Just facts. That has negative consequences for women too. Suppose men without college degrees are much less likely to reproduce, but women without college degrees do fine. You have a son and a daughter and can only pay for college for one of them. Which one do you pay for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.His second wife was abusive though. Maybe she just wanted a paralyzed dude to exercise power over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:41 AM |
| 1 | If monogamy is unnatural why is there a 1:1 sex ratio?Pity chimps are much rapier. Ironic that both feminists and "the patriarchy" think we should be more like gibbons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:31 AM |
| 1 | If monogamy is unnatural why is there a 1:1 sex ratio?But modern humans don't physically fight much, instead we compete for resources and mates in a society. So the human equivalent is "the higher earning/funnier/more educated/prettier etc. gender (not always male) will be competing with other members of its own gender" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:16 AM |
| 6 | If monogamy is unnatural why is there a 1:1 sex ratio?Lol what they settle for is what they deserve. Only the top 10% of women deserve a top 10% man and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Rethinking Benevolent Sexism - Aporia Magazinehttps://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1471-6402.1999.tb00379.x For those of us without journal access, r/scihub is always useful. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/23 03:41 AM |
| 94 | Are there people from the Nordic countries in this sub? What is it like for a man to live in the countries that have a reputation of egalitarian and "feminist" societies?Finland conscripts men (in contravention of Protocol 12 of the European Declaration of Human Rights, which Finland signed and ratified) so fails at egalitarianism in my book. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/23 12:25 AM |
| 2 | What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals?Well in the past there was less good entertainment available so women had an easier time getting men's attention. But now modern men have more options so women need to try harder. To get a relationship now you have to be more interesting than a video game. It's not hard to be more interesting than a video game but some women just can't seem to muster the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:22 AM |
| 33 | Rethinking Benevolent Sexism - Aporia MagazineWhat's interesting is that the people who developed the idea of ambivalent sexism (separating out hostile vs benevolent sexism) also did a study on ambivalent sexism towards men. They found that men have more benevolent sexism towards other men, while women have more hostile sexism towards men. Funny how feminists never mention that study. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/09/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Older childfree women are rarely miserableMonks benefit even more from the lifestyle. The gender lifespan gap between monks and nuns is smaller than between men and women in the general population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Cooperation for reproduction only?If you think it's normal, why aren't you volunteering to raise and pay for your female friends' babies? Are all your female friendships just too shallow, too lacking in trust? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Cooperation for reproduction only?So you do admit it's weird to volunteer to pay child support for a "friend's" child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Cooperation for reproduction only?child support is for the wellbeing of the kid, not some form of punishment for the parent. Imagine I'm your friend and I'm planning to have a baby. Would you agree to pay 18 years of child support for my baby, since the baby needs it, and after all you're my friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Cooperation for reproduction only?But they're not gay, they're just "friends"? Sounds like gays in denial lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 10:08 PM |
| 76 | Are “incels” bad?It's the usual Motte and Bailey. Motte: incels are only people who hate women, that's why they're bad. Bailey: literally every man who disagrees with me online about something is an incel. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Cooperation for reproduction only?Nah they also have to learn to be tall. The Dutch have had a social safety net longer than other countries and they're also the tallest people because a social safety net means short men don't reproduce as much. It's simple sexual selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Cooperation for reproduction only?Yeah but the child is only biologically related to one of them. The other one is basically volunteering to be cucked and raise some other man's seed as their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Cooperation for reproduction only?Sounds like her friend is volunteering to be a female betabuxx lol. Great deal for her, not sure what's in it for the friend who is basically signing herself up to be cucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Cooperation for reproduction only?And according to feminists that's oppression lol. They want a nanny state that provides so they can be single moms who don't work and don't rely on no man (but rely on men's tax dollars). Then only women get to be picky as feminism intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Cooperation for reproduction only?I have a female coworket that, unless Chad Prince Charming appears on the doorstep, is going to have a kid with her best friend (female too). Makes sense since she has a very stable relationship with her friend. So she's going to carry the baby but put her friend as the other legal parent on the birth certificate? If so, that's an amazing friend, to sign up for 18 years of child support lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:40 PM |
| 11 | The number of sexual activities with orgasm in long-term relationships for heterosexual and lesbian womenYeah you could equally compare gay men having more and hotter sex than straight men and say it proves straight women are lazy and don't care about men's pleasure. There was a Reddit post I saw about a woman who had a mmf threesome with her boyfriend and another gay/bi guy and she felt so bad because she said the other guy made her bf "come like a freight train" which she had never been able to do. Surprise, men know male anatomy better than women do. It's the same with women knowing female anato… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 2 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Toxic masculinity is the fragile ego flying off the handle at the slightest insult thing... not attractive at all. That's really just toxic behavior regardless of gender. Not attractive for women to fly off the handle easily either. Who wants to do the emotional labor to manage that in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:17 AM |
| 82 | Why do people get so offended if you even acknowledge misandry is real?Because they don't want to admit they have biases against men. It's called denial. "I can't be biased against men, I love my husband!" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?Lol you've just drunk too much anti-MRA propaganda. If you support men's equal rights (which obvious you should, opposing your own rights would make you a sad doormat) then congrats, you're an MRA. You can be an MRA and a feminist simultaneously, although many would just call themselves egalitarian instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?Go to r/mensrights and ask if they'd be happy with a society having both abortion and paper abortion widely available. They'll say yes. Go to r/askfeminists and ask exactly the same thing. They'll say it's oppressive to women. Some of them won't even support a rape exception so raped men don't have to pay child support. You would fit in much better with MRAs than feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?the end goal in a truly equal society That sounds nice and vague. And half of presidents being women can also be an end goal in a truly equal society. Happy now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?But yes, the outcry about women getting a 60-40 representation of college graduates among men should really function as a way for you to extend that empathy to women What empathy are women extending to men who don't get into college? I don't see many feminists motivating for colleges to be 50/50. hard power, from the top If you want a woman president you need to run taller candidates. Hillary was a midget, no wonder she lost to Trump. It's well known that voters like tall presidents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?individualism on a global scale That's just collectivism lol. Individualism is by definition about individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?Anyone who commands an army knows the virtue of collectivism. If the Romans said "fuck fighting for Rome, I'm going to do my own thing!" there wouldn't have been an army for Caesar to command. Of course later Caesar got too high huffing his own farts and believing he was above social consequences, which is why he got stabbed to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?Collectivism aligns with femininity, not masculinity. That's a weird stereotype. If you look at most of the institutions of successful societies, they were built through men's collectivism. What great society was created by a bunch of individualists? Ayn Rand is just a meme, not a serious philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?So you support collectivism, but only for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?But women hold most college degrees so we also need meninism to correct that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Men who are outspoken women's movement defenders: Are you rewarded with hot sex for it?I want right to free abortion for women, but I also want the right for paper abortion for men. That's an MRA policy not a feminist one lol. Majority of feminists strongly oppose the concept of paper abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:25 AM |
| 5 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?I think the world will manage fine without you, there are literally billions of vaginas out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:07 PM |
| 3 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Step one: be attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:04 PM |
| 22 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?And then they complain that they have no grandkids lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Hey friends! I have a question in the matter of EQ and the male homeless/education problemsIt's funny how these people simultaneously think Men have no social intelligence and can't form bonds with other men Men's bonds let them build groups like "Old Boy Clubs" to give them an unfair networking advantage that lets them build an entire "Patriarchy" to oppress women. "The enemy is both strong and weak" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/23 06:16 PM |
| 3 | If women want high status rich men, then why do poor people often have the highest birth rates?Yeah but some people have zero kids and there's no way you can explain that with k selection. 0 kids is evolutionarily unfit in any strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:57 PM |
| 7 | If women want high status rich men, then why do poor people often have the highest birth rates?If education decreases evolutionary fitness that doesn't bode well for the future of education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually?Why would it never happen to us? Because the researchers studying this kind of thing are largely biased and assume it only happens to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | why do women want marriage more than men?welfare for single moms. Welfare is paid for by men's taxes lol. You're still relying on men to provide just indirectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:21 PM |
| 2 | why do women want marriage more than men?Also You hear about these studies that say married women are less happy than single women u/tripp_hi_mary This was debunked. The person claiming that married women are miserable misread the data. Married people of all genders are happier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 02:15 AM |
| 18 | This article is full of great resources for debate & thought/self growth.If you define rape as "penetration of the victim" and completely ignore "made to penetrate" then it looks like most perpetrators are men. Because that's a sexist definition in the first place. Unfortunately, it's one a lot of rape researchers actually use. The field is terribly biased. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/23 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Men should choose better womenWomen are even shorter and poorer than men though. Y'all like broke hobbits out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:50 AM |
| 17 | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manparents of boys need to start to Take responsibility and pay attention and actually care about school. It's not like "parents of boys" is a separate group to "parents of girls". It's literally the same people. Why do you think parents care about their daughters' education but not their sons'? Sounds like the parents are just being misandrist to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:48 AM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateSo you're against the child tax credit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 11:14 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hatePeople taking non biological kids, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 09:19 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateHave you ever heard about abused fostered kids? Yes, studies show that non biological kids are much more likely to be abused than biological kids. That's evolution for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 09:14 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateThat's why I specifically said no subsidies if the dad is a minor at time of conception. If a man conceives kids at 17, 19, 21, only the last two would be eligible for subsidies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:38 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateIt's a meme, Google it. Realistically, just have easily accessible abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:40 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateI already changed the OP so subsidies are only blocked if the dad is raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:23 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateNo, we're just not incentivizing women raping the dad. Remember only the first two kids per dad can get subsidies. If you rape the dad to try to get one of their first two kids, that's abusing the system, so we don't want to encourage that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:02 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateSee, people respond to incentives! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:00 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateThe Chad Chad vs the Virgin The Virgin Islands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:56 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateA rabidly child free person won't have children just for money. If someone on the fence is nudged towards having kids by subsidies, then that increases overall fertility which is the goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:55 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateThere are none. Then tell all your feminists male friends that if they do it, it will increase their chances of getting laid. Get the ball rolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:40 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateThere must be at least some feminist men out there who put pictures of themselves vacuuming on their dating profiles. Your job as women who want men to vacuum, is to swoon over those men so that other men want to be like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:32 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateGood point, I was trying to be gender neutral, but you persuaded me to modify it so only the dad being raped makes the child ineligible for subsidies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:29 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateWhat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:28 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateTeenagers can fuck all they want but why should we incentivize teenage pregnancy with subsidies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:26 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateMy proposal includes abortion vending machines on every corner. But if you prefer I can modify it so only the dad being raped makes the child ineligible for subsidies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:20 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateOnly if they want more than 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:12 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateYou don't see how giving money for rape babies incentivizes rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:11 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateShe can just abort lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:10 PM |
| – | How to use child subsidies to end the fertility crisis AND smash the gender roles people hateIf you want a dude who vacuums, make him vacuum your house before you have sex with him, simple. Only date dudes who put pictures of themselves vacuuming on their dating profile. When a guy vacuums well, tell all your girlfriends so they want to date him too. If you make vacuuming a status symbol instead of dumb criteria like "being tall" then you'll get men who vacuum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?If men have to spend extra time laboring to make women orgasm, seems only fair that women spend extra time doing something in return, like making a nice sandwich after sex, doesn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?When have men had to advocate for their orgasms? The whole study of seduction is men advocating for their own orgasms lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?When we form at a foetal stage we start of with the same basic set of coding for genitalia Yeah but it turns out hormones make a huge difference. Trans men repeatedly say they started orgasming way easier and stronger after taking testosterone. You want easy strong orgasms? Inject testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?It's funny how some women gloat about how they can have multiple orgasms while others complain about having none. I'm not sure if women actually have less orgasms on average or if they're just unfairly distributed. Maybe women actually have more orgasms in total than men, but these orgasms are being hoarded by a subset of women who are multi orgasmic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?Obviously lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?Attractiveness is caused by sex drive, not the other way around. Ask any man if the porn star still looks attractive immediately after jerking off. Post nut clarity, majority of women don't look attractive either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:07 AM |
| – | Final Solution for a declining populationYeah! 👍🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:33 AM |
| – | Final Solution for a declining populationDefinitions are just social constructs too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:11 AM |
| – | Final Solution for a declining populationBut how can you morally justify Morals are a social construct that societies make up to make societies function better. If you chase after "fair" morals but it leads to societal collapse (population or otherwise) then you're not moralling properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:33 AM |
| – | Final Solution for a declining populationNah, because men die younger there's a gender imbalance among geriatrics that makes it super easy for old dudes to get laid. All an old man has to do is find an equally old sugar momma and he's set for the rest of his old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:27 AM |
| – | Final Solution for a declining populationThe main issue with your solution is that all the old people won't vote for it When voting fails people turn to revolutions. Who controls revolutions? Young people. Who's going to defend a bunch of childless old people from the revolution? Not their children that they don't have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.I believe you mean with breadwinner work the amount of money each person earns The time use survey is about time, not money. If you only count money then obviously women contribute less on average. Counting time puts women in a better light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:55 AM |
| 6 | Why marriage is deadAnd you're lucky you didn't get sucked into "femisphere" subs like TwoX or FDS which are full of bitter women convinced that women always lose in marriage. They're basically the gender flipped version of the "manosphere" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Lol so obviously not all the subcategories are listed, they just break out the most interesting ones. The subcategories that are listed are still part of the total category though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.I can tell you didn't read the article I linked because if you did you'd see that Caring for and helping household children Is actually a subcategory of Caring for and helping household members So is already counted as part of women's 0.64 hours per day in that category. Try reading the article before saying I forgot to include things I already included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.https://www.bls.gov/news.release/pdf/atus.pdf Table 1 Men's hours per day: Household activities: 1.51 Caring for household members: 0.31 Working and related activities: 4.12 Total: 5.94 Women's hours per day: Household activities: 2.26 Caring for household members: 0.64 Working and related activities: 2.90 Total: 5.8 Conclusion: when you add up breadwinning and housework, men spend slightly more time per day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Somebody correct me if I’m wrong, but in 2023 both men AND woman are working and paying their own bills You're wrong if you assume all couples are like this, there is a significant percentage of stay at home wives especially in cheaper parts of the US like the Midwest where this is more affordable. Obviously less common in HCL areas. According to the American Time Use Survey, on average men and women do the same total work (breadwinner work plus household work). If there are women doing more wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 08:09 PM |
| 0 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenLol I know it's hard work but like I said, so is everything worthwhile in life. Of course if it's too tough for you, don't have kids yourself. Humanity will continue on fine either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:33 PM |
| 2 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenDo you like progress in science, technology, medicine? Because more people means more scientists and engineers and research hospitals, means more and faster breakthroughs. It's no coincidence that 9 billion humans can discover things faster than when we only had 1 million humans. It's massively parallel processing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenDisabled men don't kill anyone. Almost like physical strength matters... Women who do kill are typically like those serial killer nurses who target babies or the elderly. They have to go after weak helpless victims who can't fight back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Describe your perfect partnerBlue anime hair, to show she's the main character in the story Purple anime eyes, to show her Royal descent 7 ft obviously Amazonian build Royals don't need to earn money. They have money Must be queen, at least by the end of the game 0, because she was locked in a tower the whole time God queen of her own religion, of course Me-sexual Eternal youth, it's a perk of being God queen. I guess being queen makes you a monarchist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:10 AM |
| 6 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenWe obviously screwed up by exchanging extended family structures for atomized loneliness. A society that incentivizes not having kids is unlikely to be a long lived society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI don't have the power to fix that. I lot of people seem to think nothing matters except voting for president, but writing to your legislators and voting in local elections can make a lot more difference. Like most of these custody and child support laws are set by the state, and it's easier to influence state politics than national. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenYeah but all those chances of death are tiny. Women can pop out five kids and still have higher life expectancy than the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:14 AM |
| 1 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenYeah but why do you think the urge to bang evolved? The reason you don't orgasm from rubbing your nose is that rubbing your nose doesn't perpetuate your genes lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:06 AM |
| 2 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenLimiting our choices sounds like eugenics lol. I'd rather encourage genetic diversity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:02 AM |
| 2 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenYeah it's definitely a self fulfilling prophecy. If people expect kids to make them miserable then they probably focus on the negatives instead of the positives and that makes them more miserable lol. I don't know how much this negativity is just a niche Internet phenomenon or whether it's spilled into the real world too. Sometimes I think the Amish have the right idea about staying away from the Internet ;-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:01 AM |
| 1 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenEvolution favors those who show up. If you're child free you're not even showing up lol. When I was a teenager I also thought having kids was dumb, but then I grew up and realized it's awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:41 AM |
| 2 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenPlenty of great scientists come from ordinary ancestors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:18 AM |
| 5 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenIt's funny how these child free evangelists forget they were also helpless babies once. Of course raising kids is hard work ... but so is everything worthwhile in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:10 AM |
| 4 | As women earn higher income, they want an equal or higher earning partner. But as men earn higher, they want a more attractive partner. This will make women more and more single overtime.Lol Singapore is where genes go to die, it's a population shredder whose fertility rate is in the basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 4 | As women earn higher income, they want an equal or higher earning partner. But as men earn higher, they want a more attractive partner. This will make women more and more single overtime.men are actually more likely to be unpartnered What's the explanation for this gender discrepancy, lesbians? Polygamists? It obviously doesn't come from monogamous straight pairings which by definition partner exactly the same number of men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:03 PM |
| 13 | As women earn higher income, they want an equal or higher earning partner. But as men earn higher, they want a more attractive partner. This will make women more and more single overtime.dating is a zero sum game Is it? If all Americans exercised and became more attractive, wouldn't that make Americans on average, more satisfied with themselves, their partners, and their relationships, than before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI'm fascinated that you think this idea mostly discriminates against men, because I'm sure if you proposed it on AskFeminists they'd accuse you of being a women hating misogynist who just wanted to hurt women. But I do honestly think this idea has some advantages, mainly encouraging people to be more intentional about having kids and requiring the consent of both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI'm not saying this is a standard men's rights position or anything, it's just one possibility which is relatively simple to explain. I would not be surprised if marriage rates tanked under this change of law. It guarantees that a woman is never at risk of a loss of legal claim on a child, no legal obligation for joint custody it’s a slam dunk. The only cost is potentially risking a fortnightly payment 10 years down the track. Am I reading this wrong? Why would a man want kids with a woman who d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentI agree there are many men who have this brand of internalized misandry. But there are men who've told female friends/relatives about being raped and just been laughed at. So a lot of women have regular misandry too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentYes, correct for the unmarried case. People who are serious about wanting kids would obviously have strong incentive to get married under such a system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentRape is very clearly a specific case to which nobody should be subjected to carry or finance a child against their will. I don't see any rape exception in child support law so seems it's not that clear to lawmakers. Its your fellow gender and their ideas around sex why male rape is not taken seriously. Go sort that out then come to me. Plenty of women don't take rape of men seriously either, but your attempt to blame it exclusively on men is again pretty sexist NGL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentYes without marriage they are by default treated the same as a sperm donor. If both parents want, the dad can voluntarily adopt/legitimate the child later but this requires both parent's consent (or after the child is 18, the child's and father's consent). But basically the idea would be to encourage communication about children, and marriage if both members of the couple desire children. Hopefully reduce the number of accidental children to unmarried mothers, since without support they would ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentYou mean you forgot to consider rape because you assume men can't be raped? That's pretty sexist NGL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentThat's not what happens though see Hermesmann vs Seyer, statutory rapist was awarded child support from her victim. If that shocks you, write your congressperson and tell them to change the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentThe easiest way is to make child support conditional on marriage. If both parents want children, get married, this acts as an official agreement that both want children. If either doesn't want children, don't get married, this implies no support, if the woman gets pregnant she is free to abort or adopt if she's not rich enough to raise it alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentSo the female version of Nick Cannon is entitled to have endless babies and make the taxpayer pay for their welfare? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentSuppose you (or if you're a woman, your brother/son/cousin) is raped and the rapist gets pregnant, should the victim have to pay the rapist child support? Is it "sociopathic" to not want anything to do with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinentAbstinence doesn't stop you from being raped. Vasectomy is often irreversible, just because you don't want to pay child support to a rapist doesn't imply that you never want children with someone you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:09 AM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Just ignore the misanthropes who hate all human interaction, there's no helping them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:57 AM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Because there's a (very loud) part of the Internet that's a never ending shriek of how some introverted woman hated being talked to therefore nobody is allowed to talk to anyone ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:54 AM |
| 2 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveHappy to help! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:15 AM |
| 2 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveIt just sounded like your friends and family are desperate because nobody wants to reproduce with them. Maybe some incels only care about sex but I think a lot actually want families, they just see being sexually desirable as the prerequisite for that which is why they're hung up on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:12 AM |
| – | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractivePersonally I'd consider a severely disabled baby to be a worse outcome than infant mortality. In terms of lifelong consequences for the baby and parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractivewhen you look at stats about how men are more likely to leave a sick partner than vice versa Lol that's a misandrist myth. The study was retracted because they analyzed the data wrong but because it flatters the biases of subs like TwoX it still gets repeated a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveaging women with baby rabies. I’ve cut off friends and family because it made them unpleasant and depressing to be around So they're basically the female version of incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveDepends how rich someone is. For a poor man a wife is much cheaper than a surrogate. For a billionaire man, a surrogate is much cheaper than risking a divorce with a poorer woman who could take half his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?Skinny men aren't considered attractive either. Fit is better than skinny for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesWe have a massive gender pay gap, even in suburban New York. Well if men have to provide for their families it's only fair they're paid more, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:28 PM |
| 0 | What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like?Just because both are ideologies you dislike doesn't make them the same. All those religions oppose premarital sex which makes them incompatible with red pillers who seek premarital sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Most guys struggle with modern dating because they struggle to adapt to modern society itselfI mean we already have prisons for people who commit violent crimes. But there's this thing called presumption of innocence where you don't imprison people who haven't committed crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:02 AM |
| 3 | The women at sex parties are better looking than menWhat do you think the red pill model of attraction is, and how does your model differ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 04:25 AM |
| 0 | What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like?So you're saying the Quran is an ancient red pill manual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Yeah makes sense "straight for pay" would exist same as "gay for pay". But surely you agree it's a harder ask for a lesbian to fuck guys than for a straight woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:26 AM |
| -1 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Lol the "it ain't gay if you're receiving"? That's like saying it's not straight sex if a lesbian takes a dick because it feels the same as a dildo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 03:06 AM |
| -5 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Then you're probably not entirely straight. Nothing wrong with that, but don't assume your tastes are universal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:37 AM |
| -3 | Women shouldn’t be demonized for doing sex work but they should understand why guys are jealous and bitter about it.Going against your born sexual orientation sounds a lot worse than just fucking ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:13 AM |
| 1 | "just be skinny" doesn't workIf he's your fetish then that's all that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:08 AM |
| 2 | The women at sex parties are better looking than menI imagine the majority of women would find a dude wearing lipstick an immediate turnoff, so it would be pretty difficult to market lipstick to straight men, outside of niche sub cultures like goths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:04 AM |
| 2 | The women at sex parties are better looking than menWhy would Stacy ever shack up with the fat unattractive dude who doesn't even shower for a sex party? That sounds like a good question, why don't you ask them since you're attending the same parties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Most guys struggle with modern dating because they struggle to adapt to modern society itselfNo but saying the solution is to stick men in camps is definitely misandry lol. Imagine sticking women in camps to make them conform to society's expectations. That would definitely be misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Most guys struggle with modern dating because they struggle to adapt to modern society itselfWell that just makes it sadder. Internalized misandry truly is the problem of our times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Most guys struggle with modern dating because they struggle to adapt to modern society itselfA truely twisted woman is so rare that it's headlines whenever one is found. Congrats on beating the odds I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | What is an "below average" man ? how do these men differ from average men?nerdy I'm fascinated by the idea that nerdy is a look. Are we talking like those square black rimmed glasses that the nerds always wear in old movies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 04:55 AM |
| 4 | "just be skinny" doesn't workAmish women are more evolutionarily successful than you'll likely ever be... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:54 AM |
| 3 | "just be skinny" doesn't workIt pays to aim high occasionally, maybe you'll meet a really hot guy/girl whose fetish is you. But in the end most people will end up with someone roughly equally attractive and that's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:51 AM |
| 33 | "just be skinny" doesn't workLol the third isn't "ugly" she's just Asian and there are plenty of men into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:47 AM |
| – | Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad?What if he's rich enough that it's not that stupid for him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:25 AM |
| – | Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad?What if he paid off her student loans while dating her, but he won't do the same for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad?I’m not a 19 year old Instagram model, and I don’t expect to be treated like one. How would you feel if your boyfriend let slip that he used to date a hot Instagram model and he bought her way more expensive things, took her to fancier restaurants etc than he does you, just because she was hotter? Wouldn't that make you feel second-choiced? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not designed for womenNo if they break up they stop being good. Only good when taken :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | The “shy good guy” in practice is actually just a bore and that’s why women aren’t attracted to himWell it goes without saying that redditors are awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 06:07 AM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsSo what, some women find it creepy when men step outside their role too. Any particular woman isn't obligated to date a man who wears lipstick if that creeps them out, and any particular man isn't obligated to date a woman who approaches if that creeps him out. If you want to break gender roles you limit your options to those who don't mind you breaking those gender roles, and that's true for all genders. As repeated constantly on this sub, nobody is entitled to a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 05:31 AM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsMaybe but the biology part is what you can't change even if you switch gender roles. A man can wear a dress and makeup but can't get pregnant. A woman can wear cowboy boots and swagger but that won't give her a natural strength enhancing steroid (testosterone). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsHey it's not my fault if you find the math too hard to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:31 PM |
| 3 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?Wasn't astrology invented by men? Women doing astrology is cultural appropriation /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsTo be fair being a forever stay at home parent just doesn't make practical sense anymore. If you don't pop out a new kid every year or so, you have no reasons not to work - kids grow up and chores don't take as much time as they used to. You don't have spend all day doing the laundry by boiling the clothes and soaking it with chemicals. You just load the washing machine. You don't have to bring the water from the well to clean the floors, you grad you one-use mop and clean it. Exactly! Large par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsNah it's mostly biology. To get pregnant requires a male orgasm so men who can't orgasm easily just wouldn't pass on their genes. The same isn't true for women. And obviously violence is a bad strategy if you're weaker. Men in wheelchairs are even less violent than women, because they're even weaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:10 PM |
| 0 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsSo you think men should force themselves to date someone they're no longer attracted to? If he's turned off then he's turned off, he can't force himself to feel attraction again and there's no point in him wasting time trying to settle for someone he's not attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsNah you're probably just not their type. If they're really put off by the action itself that means you're doing it in an awkward or creepy way. Learn not to be awkward or creepy. Just like men have had to learn during all of human history lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsLife expectancy has everything to do with the topic of who "statistically" has higher risk of dying. That's literally what life expectancy aggregates. Women's risk of dying is lower than men's across the board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 2 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsAnd way more would love things to change so it didn't put men off. You mean women who ask just need to learn to handle rejection lol. Handling rejection is an integral part of the asking-out role. Just because you ask doesn't mean you're entitled to a yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Where does the idea of "men are the gatekeepers of commitment" come from?Cost of living is to some degree a choice. If you move to the city you raise your cost of living, if you move to the country you lower it. I think there's research showing that cities have been population sinks (low birthrates) for most of human history. Probably no coincidence that the US population becoming increasingly urban coincides with more complaints about cost of living and lower birth rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsI'm talking statistically. Statistically, women have longer life expectancy than men. The whole "woe is women" thing is really overblown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Where does the idea of "men are the gatekeepers of commitment" come from?Except poor people have more kids than rich people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 09:14 PM |
| 2 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsMost aren't too thrilled with those roles. Lol really, how often do you see women asking men on dates? Most women seem pretty happy to be the gender to be asked out instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | “don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them”Of course it depends on context, you shouldn't just go around petting strange dogs or people without saying anything first lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | “don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them”Sure, but it's a feedback loop - the more attention you get, the more confident you become, which means you get even more attention. Pick Up Artistry just consists of tricks to kickstart that loop more quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:55 PM |
| 3 | “don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them”Even girls who are into you will generally wait for you to demonstrate interest with physical affection and yeah I'm pretty sure it applies at all ages. Pick Up Artists call it "kino" but that's just them trying to sound fancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | “don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them”Hit the gym, delete Facebook, and when you take a girl on a date to the movies, put your arm over her shoulders so she can cuddle you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | “don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them”More like "don't ask a random reader how to write a bestselling novel" or "don't ask a random person in an art museum how to paint a masterpiece". If you wrote a novel based on what random readers said they want, you'd end up with some lowest common denominator crap. Writers/filmmakers etc don't learn their craft by surveying their audience. They learn from other writers/filmmakers, and by actually writing and making films, and then observing the reception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:30 PM |
| 0 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsyou're less likely to orgasm during sex Biology you have higher risks of getting severely physically abused Biology Changing gender roles wouldn't really change the biological parts. Women are just physically weaker so abusive women deal less damage and abused women take more damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:47 AM |
| 2 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsOr the male gender role is just more useful to society (especially capitalist society). Capitalist society looks at a household with one breadwinner and one homemaker and thinks "if there were two breadwinners we could collect twice as much taxes". Meanwhile two homemakers would be a net money sink, they'd basically need welfare just to survive. That's why women were encouraged to become breadwinners but men aren't encouraged to become homemakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:37 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)They're just the male equivalent of a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:32 AM |
| 2 | PPD BAN META MEGATHREADWow really you can make money from armpits? I should try that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:27 AM |
| 7 | Spending $200k for sexTechnically tipping a waiter is paying someone to pretend to like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Spending $200k for sexAssuming you're a straight man, you'd let a gay dude raw dog your butt for enough money? Take your chance with STDs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesYou're paying more taxes filing separately than filing jointly lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesSeems pretty biased to add the 30% egalitarian to "women provide" group instead of to "men provide" group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commithypothetical scenario where a victoria's secret model throws herself at him and asks him to commit immediately Elsa: "you can't marry someone you just met!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 08:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsRights are a social construct and are often conditional. You have the right to not be imprisoned but if you commit a crime you lose that right. There's no reason we have to grant a rapist the right to keep a baby especially when the consequences infringes other people's rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?You're arguing the breadwinner can get some custody. That's not full custody. And those questions are stupid because a homemaker planning to divorce can deliberately withhold that information from the breadwinner to strengthen their case. If anything those details should be required to be provided to the breadwinner as part of the divorce settlement. All the breadwinner has to do is add "Little Susie's Dr" to their smartphone contacts and they'll be perfectly capable of calling their number or d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?No to a kiss is a rejection. Just not a terminal one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:02 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsSome places execute rapists. That would definitely restore the rape victim's right to not have a baby with the rapist. Only executing the rape-fetus would just be a more merciful version of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:33 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsSo you're saying the only way to restore his reproductive rights (to not have children with the rapist) is to make the rapist abort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 06:28 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsSo you're saying it would only be reproductive rights if society forced the rapist to have an abortion? That seems like an extreme position, I think letting the rapist have the baby but not have any child support is a reasonable compromise. (In addition to whatever prison sentence they get for the rape, of course.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 06:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsYes it's true, see Hermesmann v. Seyer. They're related insofar as one of the most common arguments for abortion rights is "what about rape?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Nah there's more than one yes/no. E.g. you can say yes to a date but no to kissing on the first date. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Does her desperation reduce her attractiveness? Is she willing to take "no" for an answer? Because if not, yeah that's a huge turnoff. She might try to baby trap you or otherwise abuse you to stop you from leaving. If she's happy to take "no" for an answer, then of course it's flattering and if there is compatibility could even lead somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:36 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsReproductive rights are a social construct. States can allow our disallow abortion. They can enforce or not enforce child support in different situations. Currently the US forces raped men to pay child support to their rapist, but that's entirely a social choice, there is nothing that biologically forces it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:04 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsSo you agree that men deserve the right to financial abortions in at least some cases, e.g. rape. (A right which raped men currently don't have in the US) Just like most people think women deserve the right to abortions in the case of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:50 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsRight so you agree that men deserve the right to financial abortions in at least some cases, e.g. rape. (A right which raped men currently don't have in the US) Just like most people think women deserve the right to abortions in the case of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:47 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsThey're related, a common argument for abortion is to appeal to the example of a raped woman, why should she have to carry the baby if she had no choice? But by the same logic if a woman rapes a man why should he pay for any resulting child? He didn't have any choice either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:39 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?If you work and have a stay at home partner there's literally no way you're getting full custody lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:09 AM |
| 3 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itLol no, that's just the lie feminists came up with to sell the sexual revolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itFor casual sex, some men and women will bang hot idiots. For marriage, nobody wants to marry an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 03:06 PM |
| 3 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itMajority of US women are also overweight/obese…not fair/right to force men to be attracted to that Maybe I live in a more outdoorsy city but I haven't encountered that. It's definitely a symptom of problems with society if it's true though. And whether they like it or not I think most people will ultimately settle for what's available - ever heard of "military goggles"? What I don't really understand though is short women obsessed with height. Isn't that self hating? Kids get height genes equall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:41 AM |
| 2 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itThat's not true. Imagine a woman who is a mentally disabled but hot and young. Do you think men would rush to date her? No, so clearly intelligence does matter. However if you want kids, a young wife who loves kids first is likely a better partner than an old wife who loves her career first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:43 AM |
| 12 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itI think it's mostly a thing in online dating just because it's a round number. It's dumb because it's only like 20% of men though. If men filtered for the skinniest 20% of women, feminists would be all over that being an "unrealistic standard" but if women filter for the tallest 20% of men feminists are just like "the heart wants what it wants". It's a blatant double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:32 AM |
| 8 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itBut when feminists don't like men's preferences, they demand that men/society change. Prefer to marry a traditional stay at home wife? That's sexist! Not attracted to fat women? That's fatphobic! Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:24 AM |
| 17 | People should admit that women are just as shallow as men , just better at rationalizing itWomen produce stories about men characters being romantic to women characters these stories are consumed by women readers Step 2 is what they mean by men being the producers of romance. They mean the expectation of romantic actions mostly falls on men. Romance is basically a seduction skill and men are usually the ones expected to do the seducing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:21 AM |
| 32 | Reddit Will Side Against Men In ANY SituationGood time to raise your hand and ask "Okay I understand if two drunk straight people have sex, the man is the rapist. But what if two drunk gay people have sex? How can I tell which one is the rapist? Is it the more butch lesbian?" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/08/23 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women doSure if you're the kind of person who goes to a restaurant just to Instagram your meal then dating apps are perfect for you lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women do100% dating apps are all about marketing yourself The question is, is ability to market oneself really the most important quality you look for in a mate? If no - then you probably shouldn't look for a mate on apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:49 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Obviously it can't, I'm just saying it temporarily suppresses the sex drive. You can be asexual and get companionship from friends etc. But of course for many people real relationships are more fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidI'm not saying accept defeat, I'm saying find better hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?DINK marriages are statistically the happiest ones. That's because a DINK marriage is tutorial mode lol. That's like saying "among college students, trust fund babies who coast through party schools are the happiest". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:51 PM |
| 12 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?And women enjoy sex, but don’t have the same high sex drive men do, we manage just fine without it. So I opted out. Men can easily opt out too, it's called porn. Just a quick 10 minute wank every day mostly kills the sex drive. Now, that pressure for marriage and kids is gone I think the society that doesn't have kids will just shrivel and die and eventually be replaced by one that values kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidNot useful advice for the majority, it's impossible for everyone to be a leader. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.So it's hypocritical to judge men who wear dresses if you wear dresses yourself. It's hypocritical to judge men who wear makeup if you wear makeup yourself. It's hypocritical to judge men who fuck men if you fuck men yourself. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 02:19 AM |
| – | Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all?I'm sure there are non white guys near you who feel the same way you do, i.e. they're bitter that women prefer white men, you're bitter that men prefer white women. You should find one of those guys and hook up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Question for passport bro'sNYC has excess single women and not enough men for them. Silicon Valley is the opposite. Lots of hardworking highly paid engineers ready to start a family but not enough women for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture?You can serve god or mammon (worldly wealth), and most people choose mammon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidThe odds are not in men's favor in nerd groups. Much easier to pick a gender balanced community, or even a female skewed one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:51 PM |
| 5 | Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all?Then maybe you have to "settle" for an equally indigenous looking guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.It is the majority, you are misinformed if you think otherwise: https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/bisexual-men-dating-women-stigma-lgbt-b2200069.html This is backed up by studies finding that 63 per cent of women wouldn’t date a man who has had sex with another man, and only 19 per cent of women would date a bisexual person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.Well yeah I agree you shouldn't minimize divorce over everything else. E.g. a fat ugly quadriplegic is less likely to divorce you just because they're desperate, but only chubby-quadriplegic chasers would consider that a net positive. But I think if you want to be evolutionarily successful, being religious is a net positive. Religious groups certainly have higher overall fertility than non religious groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.I'm not a red puller but even the extremely doormat menslib sub agrees that bi men suffer tons of biphobia from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.I'm glad you agree that women who don't want to date bi men are hypocrites. But that's a majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.Is it messed up for a short woman to prefer a tall man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.By that logic it's misandrist and hypocritical that women look down on men who fuck men, yet fuck men themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.That's why women have hidden ovulation. Fuck the best genes while ovulating, fuck the best providers while not ovulating so they give you stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:43 AM |
| 15 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.not all instincts are beneficial Picking a mate who's less likely to divorce you seems pretty beneficial regardless of the underlying explanation for it. Divorce is generally a negative outcome unless it's the only way you can escape an abuser or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:41 AM |
| 7 | Evolutionary Biologist David P. Barash Ph.D. theory on how preferentially-polygamous humans became monogamousSome feminists seem to think that women are entitled to a "marriage to the state" that provides the best of both worlds: women can screw and have kids with only the hottest men, but all the less attractive chumps without kids still have to pay to raise the single mothers' kids via a socialist welfare state with heavy taxes. Compared to that, monogamy does seem like a raw deal where less attractive women have to "settle" for equally unattractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 03:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidI think working out in your youth is pretty wise. It increases your chances of enjoying an active old age. It also makes you smarter because more blood flow to the brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 10:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidLearning also fades eventually. Should you not study, just because one day you'll get dementia and forget it all? Should a bird not preen, just because one day its feathers will fall out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 10:05 PM |
| 10 | What is this subreddit's opinion on a land value tax?Land Value Tax encourages density over sprawl. Because you only pay tax on the land, not the building, it makes more financial sense to build up than to sprawl. Since sprawl is what paves paradise for parking lots, and LVT fights sprawl, LVT helps maintain paradise (outside of a dense core). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/23 09:11 PM |
| 7 | What is this subreddit's opinion on a land value tax?Eat the NIMBYs! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/23 09:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidlearning to get gratification from other things just makes you actually not thirsty. Except too far in that direction is even worse. Plenty of undateable neckbeards do get gratification from their hobbies of collecting Japanese Katanas or whatever. So much gratification, that they feel no need for social validation, which is why they're undateable neckbeards. Until one day they wake up and realize they're terribly lonely. A lot of the people "working out to get laid" are doing that because they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:56 PM |
| 11 | CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laidYeah but if you just "do what you're passionate about" you might just end up playing WoW (or whatever today's equivalent online drug is, I'm old). Picking "getting fit" as a goal because it helps you get laid, and then getting passionate about it after the fact, probably still leads to better outcomes than some aimless "do whatever you want" philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:48 PM |
| 3 | If you had a son and he asked you how he can become a man, what advice would you give him ?That's not bad advice but it seems like a very passive-aggressive way of framing it. Like, this is your son you're talking to. You have years to teach him how to cook and clean and take care of himself. If you fail to do that and raise a man baby, giving him a speech about how women don't want a man-baby is too little too late. You've already failed as a parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:12 PM |
| 11 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?"When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'Exactly, some women just assume they're entitled to relationships because of toxic femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'Studies show that about 10% of women and men report reproductive coercion from partners. So women do it to men just as often as the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'Those are two different groups of men. You're talking to the wrong group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:23 PM |
| 10 | Why would women orgasm more in a socialist society?There was absolutely nothing redeemable about the USSR I give them credit for helping defeat the Nazis but yeah after that it was pretty much downhill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?Yeah, you could just as well say that if those Filipinas were high value enough, they wouldn't be in poverty. There are at least some rich women in the Philippines. "Just bootstrap yourself to higher value" isn't actionable advice for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:26 PM |
| 2 | James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys"socializing them with other types of wizards That's what I mean though, disband it as a separate house and mix them all into the other houses. Rather than segregating them into House Evil with all the other Evil Kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:18 PM |
| 3 | James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys"Lol if Slythers are all evil, doesn't that make Dumble evil for not disbanding the house? He was headmaster, he could've just told the Sporting Hat "No more Slythers" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: for maximum evolutionary success, both men/women should Amish-max.NoFap exists, you could argue religion is just a more comprehensive version of that and comes with a more gender balanced community which increases the chance of finding a mate even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no senseA lot of men don’t realize how being a professional woman can definitely open the door to dating professional men. So a Mrs Degree ... very feminist. Not! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV: for maximum evolutionary success, both men/women should Amish-max.But most scientists have religious ancestors if you go back a few generations. Religious communities are the population growth engine of humanity. Without them, there wouldn't be any people to study science in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:45 AM |
| – | Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no senseLol if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:31 AM |
| – | Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no senseSo you can dish it out but you can't take it huh? Typical white collar weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:57 AM |
| – | Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no senseI have two Master’s So you couldn't hack a PhD huh? That's like getting two silver medals instead of going for gold. I agree that blue collar women are more physically fit and attractive, but that's basically agreeing with the OP that blue collar is better (or at least not worse)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Knowing the Vocabulary -- Hostile vs Benevolent SexismThat's obviously a female-centric definition. From a man's perspective, you could argue it's really sexism that benefits men that is the "benevolent" kind while sexism that hurts men is the "hostile" one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 01:50 AM |
| 0 | CMV: for maximum evolutionary success, both men/women should Amish-max.I'll have an extra 4-6 kids and put them up for adoption just for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:26 AM |
| – | If you want happiness, marry a mid. Many high profile men, like Jim Caviezel do it. Jason Momoa did itReally surprising he doesn't have kids. Just goes to show that financial success is no guarantee of evolutionary success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:30 PM |
| 7 | CMV: This Medium Article from a middle-aged female author asking 'Where are all the good men' perfectly explains men's dating complaintsbut truly it is them being their own enemies. That's the way American individualism sees it. But I would say the culture that raised them failed them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Something I've noticedIt goes without saying that any feminist who shames a man by calling him a virgin is perpetuating what they claim to despise - "toxic masculinity". Oh yeah feminists "uphold the patriarchy" all the time. E.g. the mockery around "male tears". The claim that feminism helps men too because it "fights the patriarchy" is just marketing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/23 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Something I've noticedMost of the USA is only nominally religious. In a more committed group like the Amish I'm sure promiscuous men are frowned upon. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/23 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Something I've noticedSex inflation is the worst! You used to be able to get 3 sandwiches for one sex, but now you need 3 sexes for just one sandwich! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/23 06:26 AM |
| 5 | anyone else noticed it’s overwhelmingly women who commit false accusations?Yeah able bodied people also commit more murder than people in wheelchairs. Clearly the real problem is "toxic able bodied ness" /s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/23 06:24 AM |
| 3 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?No I assume they mean stop paying. You can still ask out but not pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:55 AM |
| 0 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?You should ask for receipts, subtract how much you spent preparing from how much she spent, and choose a venue accordingly. "Your makeup and boob job minus my suit and pussy magnet car payments equals ... a free ice cream for you!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:40 AM |
| -1 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyFor one night stands maybe, for marriage and kids you'd better contribute financially or forget about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 4 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyAnd men will say "we don't want women who act like bitches" and some women will step in and say "that's misogynist!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyWhy would a man want to be with a woman below his socioeconomic status? All your reasoning applies to him too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:23 PM |
| 4 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyWomen also get triggered if you call them misandristic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:15 PM |
| – | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month."Above average" just means you're better than the bottom 50% of women. It sounds like you want a dude who's better than 99% of men. Are you better than 99% of women? Be realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:26 PM |
| – | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Are you yourself handsome, tall, funny, good job? If not, why do you think you deserve someone who is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.Do you date geriatric men just because you'll be old yourself one day? I didn't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence Matters A Lot More Than People RealizeIf intelligence were evolutionarily useful we would be way smarter than our ancestors. The fact that we aren't shows there's a limit to how much intelligence helps you reproduce. At some point, being too smart actually hinders reproduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.And some fit women loathe men who chase them for their looks. Doesn't mean they don't benefit from being fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Intelligence Matters A Lot More Than People RealizeOften things that appear to be a genetic benefit can have a hidden cost. Imagine you don't need any sleep and can work/play 24 hours a day. Awesome right? Your genes should dominate the world right? But wait, imagine you're a baby with this mutation and your parents don't have it. You're crying 24/7 for attention while they're still trying to sleep like normal humans. That's a nightmare! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.Your whole assumption is false. "Women want men who don't care if they're fat." False, fit women benefit from men ruling out fat women because it means they get more options. "Men want women who don't care if they're poor." False, rich men benefit from women ruling out poor men because it means they get more options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence Matters A Lot More Than People RealizeYou understand that the principles of math and engineering is the difference between dudes fighting with wooden sticks and a bronze sword right? But that benefits the group more than the individual. You want to live in same tribe as the smart guy who invents iron but can't get laid. You don't want to be the smart guy who invents iron but can't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:13 AM |
| 3 | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.Men want women who don’t care about money "Women want men who don't care if they're fat. Guess what kind of man is cool with fat women? Fat men. Chubby chasers. Neckbeards who play video games in their mom's basement" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 7 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.The bar is so low, it's a speakeasy in hades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 03:56 AM |
| 3 | q4w what is your opinion on "femcel" women?And 90% of women are undesirable - to me, because I'm picky. But people still end up matched somehow. Almost like different people have different preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?Staying with someone she didn't love (because she couldn't bear to be by herself) and spending her life snapping at you was also pretty fragile behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Girls who participate in online dating are not to be taken seriously because they don't take guys seriously.Only if you're terminally online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?You can just get a prenup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:04 AM |
| 5 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?Lol, women who are controlling about the dishwasher just have such fragile femininity, that they're threatened by the idea that men can dishwasher as well as them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:02 AM |
| 0 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?Average men have way more sex in relationships than outside relationships. Get a girl hooked on those relationship goggles and bam, she's horny for your otherwise average ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:00 AM |
| 2 | The Sexual Revolution is ultimately driven by capitalism/consumerism.I think the "enforcement" the op was talking about was very strict and harsh punishments for women that weren't monogamous for life when that same enforcement wasn't applied to men. Well logically the consequences are different. A cheating dude might expose his partner to an STD. A cheating women might expose her partner to wasting 18 years raising a kid that isn't his. Makes sense to me to punish the latter more because it's a bigger crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 07:02 AM |
| 2 | For almost all of us here it is simply delusional to expect to be your partner's perfect spouse lookswise.Not as hot as my big tiddy goth bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:59 AM |
| 2 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Is that typical of female surgeons? I would think most would have a below average number of kids, because you're pretty old by the time you finish residency. Did she start having kids while still in med school? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Do average female surgeons have more or fewer kids than average women? I imagine it would be hard to have more given how old you are by the time you finish med school and residency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:37 AM |
| 17 | There is no hook up cultureHollywood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:23 AM |
| 2 | The Sexual Revolution is ultimately driven by capitalism/consumerism.If you think monogamy is only something men "enforce", then why do most women also get jealous if their boyfriend has sex with other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?Yawn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:54 AM |
| 2 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?Ma'am, if you just voluntarily spent your whole day off arguing with strangers on Reddit, clearly nothing I can say will hurt you more than you've been hurt already. I hope someday you find a more fulfilling life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?Lol, the person who's already posted on Reddit like 100 times today thinks I have no job, that's rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:45 PM |
| 3 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?Yes it is, if you were an employee and announced to your workplace that you believe women make better leaders, you've basically told men that you're biased against them, and they can't expect to be treated fairly by you. In effect you've created a hostile work environment and the best way to fix that would be firing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?Anyone who holds sexist biases like you definitely can't be a good leader. I don't know about Canada, but in the US you'd get fired for that kind of discrimination on the basis of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?toddlers are small because if they were big they’d kill you for a cookie. That's about as provable as most eco-psych speculation. It's vaguely plausible, but probably toddlers are small just because growing to adult size in just 2 years is suboptimal for a variety of reasons. Women are also typically smaller than men, why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?"Feels like I'm wearing nothing at all! Nothing at all! Nothing at all!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?Or maybe you'll find a new hobby you like doing. You have to weigh the pros and cons beyond the short term. Yes video games make you feel good in the short term. So do drugs. If you look at people with long term life satisfaction, they get it through being involved in their community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 09:51 PM |
| 2 | The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored.Not surprising, I think people overestimate differences between genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:48 PM |
| 0 | The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored.Either way, 75% of women rated themselves either average or above, and only 50% can be, so at least 25% overrated themselves. Arguably a better survey question would be whether people are in the bottom/middle/top third, since that does actually have room for a middle which it seems many identify as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored.By definition, 50% of people are above average and 50% are below average. So the 25% of women rating themselves "average" are also likely below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:29 PM |
| 12 | The reason the group "Are we dating the same guy" is still upDon't worry about it, askfeminists has always been full of bigoted assholes, but most people aren't like that in real life. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/23 09:06 PM |
| 18 | The reason the group "Are we dating the same guy" is still upAnd lastly it would get banned immediately You have to sell it right. Call it "Are we dating the same folx?" and say all genders are allowed just to be more LGBT inclusive. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/23 08:30 PM |
| 17 | Destiny On Disaffected Men And The ManosphereIf men got pregnant many feminists would get really mad at the idea of women owing men child support lol. They'd probably try label it "punishing women for having sex". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/23 09:47 PM |
| 12 | Destiny On Disaffected Men And The ManosphereSo the only side, that adresses these dynamics is the red pill ,but the red pill,while having valid points overgeneralizes and is toxic.It basically indoctrinates you to hate women, which can be very attractive if you just had a traumatic experience,because it takes all this burden and your responsibility away and puts it on women.It also offers easy solutions.Its really not that complicated. The gender flipped version of this is ... the whole progressive gender movement. Your relationship went … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/23 09:08 PM |
| 0 | The "Gender Wage Gap" is why I was (formerly) a feministYet the income is all that matters, supposedly. From the government's perspective, maximizing income maximizes the tax revenue they can collect. The government can't tax your happiness, your health, or your long life (in fact living too long costs them more in social security). To the government, the ideal citizen is one who earns a ton of taxable income, but dies the moment they're eligible to collect retirement benefits. That's why the government wants more women to be like men, not men to be … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/03/23 02:04 AM |
| 2 | The "Gender Wage Gap" is why I was (formerly) a feministYeah but how often do you buy Tylenol? Once every five years? Maybe the name brand is better because the generic is made with some additives that gives 50% of people stomach aches. I could spend an hour researching it online, or I could decide the extra $1 every five years isn't worth an hour of my time and just buy the trusted name brand. That could be a rational decision to spend money to save time. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/03/23 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Opinion | The Men — and Boys — Are Not Alright (Richard Reeves on the Ezra Klein Show)Imagine someone said "our goal is to help women. Not because we like women, but to make feminists look crazy." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/23 10:57 PM |
| 19 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!If your area doesn’t have such a group, you could start one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 11:43 PM |
| 97 | Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!Obviously, men need a similar group to warn other men about abusive women like Lady A who won’t let you have a platonic conversation with another woman. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/23 11:35 PM |
| 11 | Is pornography degrading to women? Or does society just have a problem being open about male sexuality?Yeah basically https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivorship_bias | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/01/23 03:29 AM |
| 5 | What are men's rights?And even in countries where it is legal, the man needs the woman’s consent to perform it, so it still isn’t really his “right”. Depends on the type of test. Before birth, it requires her blood so obviously that needs her consent. After birth, it just requires a cheek swab from the baby, so no consent needed from the mother for an over the counter test. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/23 06:20 PM |
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