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It might be? Maybe psychologically she associates hiking with hunting. Cave-ladies would have wanted that in a man— a rugged, physical, outdoorsy male that can survive outside for days or weeks at a time and bring back food :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 10:12 AM
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Super fishy. It would be a hard no from me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 08:02 PM
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Just never communicate ever? That sounds like an awful relationship. A good man can handle the truth if properly delivered, no?
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 10:15 AM
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What do you look like? Do you take care of your appearance and body? Are you hygienic, do you wear make up, do you do your hair, are you healthy/slim, do you exercise? Do you have a scowl on your face or are you warm and approachable? Do you wear clothes that flatter your figure? Looks get your foot in the door, personality keeps it there.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 06:14 PM
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Probably actually skinny. Like none of this “thicc” stuff. A BMI under 21. No one these days seems to actually know what skinny means. People who are healthy and slim are called underweight, people who are obese are considered average.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 10:58 AM
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This. Talking for two months and only a single date? He is not serious.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 08:49 AM
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Very much this. I statements are great. Talk about how things make you feel and leave it at that. “When I see you looking at girl so-and-so’s instagram, it makes me feel yucky and sort of sad. I’ve always wanted a deep and committed relationship where those kinds of things just don’t happen. It feels yucky and takes the wind out of my sails for you.” Give him the problem and let him offer up the solution. If he tries to make some excuse, shrug and tell him that’s just how you feel about it. If h…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 08:47 AM
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This, absolutely. I will tell you OP, please listen well… this is not something all men do. So if you’re not okay with it, you can communicate that with him or you can let him go and find another man who does not have this behaviour. My partner doesn’t do that and if I did those things he would have something to say about it. That’s just not the kind of relationship either of us are interested in having. If you don’t like it, tell him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 10:43 AM
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My best friend was dealing with something similar. Her bf was not a HVM though… he was very childish. I think it’s a childish thing and it’s a turn off for me personally. I wouldn’t be okay with it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 11:21 AM
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You hit the nail on the head here. My partner has strong moral character and that’s what makes him a good partner. Being desired by women and having sex with them are not the same. My partner has a low n-count not because he couldn’t get many women, but because he desired a real long term commitment. His father cheated on his mother when him and his brother were four and five years old and he saw how it devastated his mother. People called him a “heartbreaker” growing up and he hated it. It’s th…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 11:45 AM
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I’m objectively pretty ugly but I wear makeup every day and try to dress nice. I have a very large forehead and deep set eyes, and a long face. I’ve dated objectively good looking men in the past and never really understood why they were attracted to me. My current partner is a cutie pie and thinks I’m beautiful, but he thinks everyone is beautiful. It’s something that used to devastate me a lot, and at times I wanted to commit suicide over it. But I decided to commit to life, even though I perc…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 03:51 PM
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Men find underweight women attractive. Sad fact. My 5’1” friend never got more attention at the bar than when she was 85lbs.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 03:45 PM
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Right?! Girl you are so cute! Honestly, you are not ugly. Don’t be so hard on yourself and try to lighten up just a little <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:07 AM
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I’m sorry if I’m coming across as harsh, it is just a simple fact that often gets glossed over so as to avoid hurting feelings. Beautiful people get the most attention. Take this from a non-beautiful person :) it sucks! But it is better to be aware of it and not fool yourself by making excuses. Men will always go for the women they find the most attractive, right off the bat at least. Obviously personality matters but not if you don’t even make the first cut.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/23 09:51 PM
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This. You failed to mention if your friends are just genuinely much better looking in terms of face or body. I’ve had some friends that were always approached over me because they were hotter. Unfortunately men go for looks first.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 10:32 AM
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I honestly hate being naked too. Will follow for advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 05:11 PM
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Is this guy really husband material though? No offence but he sounds like a child.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:28 AM
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Yup. Men like to be left alone when they’re upset. Women need support when they’re upset. Most women assume men are like women, and most men assume women are like men. I would talk to him and let him know that women are wired biologically very differently from men, and that they need to vent/get lots of hugs/however you need to be treated to feel better when you’re upset.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/23 12:04 PM
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I also got stuck on this point. I think women are far more able to cooperate/collaborate than men. We hold and bring communities together.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 04:37 PM
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Savage 😝
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 10:53 AM
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I found my guy at 32 and he was 29. It is never too late.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 11:06 AM
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I was 33 (am 36 now) with no car when I met mine and he didn’t care at all. Moved me in within three weeks. Many men will not care that you don’t have a car... they may even enjoy helping you with errands 🙃
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/22 10:46 AM
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I work at a cafe/bakery and I love it. I make little more than minimum wage but it makes me so happy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 06:16 PM
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Apologize for what?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 09:53 PM
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Thank you for this. I’m so happy to know I’m not alone. With drinking and vomiting, it’s a fear of having my freedom/autonomy taken away from me. I have less of a fear of vomiting and more of a fear of being stuck somewhere with someone who is vomiting. Like I can’t get away from something that terrifies me. If I can get away it’s not as much of a big deal. With my boyfriend, because he is harsh when I am crying, I am all of a sudden completely alone. I’m not sure if that’s a classical “fear of …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 09:50 PM
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I would love it if he could do that (and sometimes he DOES, he DOES have two glasses of wine and stops, or two shots of vodka and stops), but often once he starts he loses all desire for restraint.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:28 PM
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He does tell me all the time that when he drinks I should just go to sleep, it’s fine, mind my own business, I don’t need to look after him. But he doesn’t stop once he starts and sometimes gets blackout drunk. He has also done several dangerous things while drunk. He said he knows he has to earn back my trust for said things, but still drinks to excess. When he’s like that I can’t just go to sleep. My anxiety kicks in and I stay awake until he stumbles to bed and sometimes I sleep on the couch …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:25 PM
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But what if I’m not feminine enough? What if I’m not compassionate or gentle, do I still deserve that gentlemanly treatment? At what point does a woman just annoy her man constantly with her neurosis about everything he’s just not willing to compromise anymore...? He tells me all the time I need to be a strong woman and control my emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:14 PM
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It’s mostly when he drinks. On occasion he is verbally nasty but not drunk.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:11 PM
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Is my fear of his drinking irrational? He shouldn’t drink just because I don’t like it? That seems extreme. :/ I’m just so confused I don’t know anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:11 PM
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A little of both. When I lived by myself people drinking never bothered me as long as I had an exit. Now we live together and I can’t leave if I get anxious. But he it was a happy drunk I would probably be far less anxious.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:07 PM
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Unfortunately I think we’re both know-it-alls. I never really picked up on this until now. I’ve been looking to drop that way of being so maybe now I have my chance. Thanks for your response. Not giving my opinion might actually be physically painful LOL but these fights are far more damaging.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 10:38 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 01:58 AM
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Thank you for that, I appreciate it. They’re honestly both just subjective viewpoints, which I think are silly to argue about anyway! Neither are right nor wrong per se.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 01:58 AM
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Honestly the last heated thing we talked about was yesterday. He said the bond you share with your blood family is very special and no matter what you do you you are always connected to them. I grew up feeling very “black sheep”ish and alienated in my family. Last year I finally cut my father off because our relationship became too much for me emotionally to bear anymore. I couldn’t care less if I ever see him again. My boyfriend insisted we would always be connected, but I’m like “how? In what …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 07:31 PM
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I’ll try harder on this. I’m not a playful woman by nature (I’m very serious and a little neurotic, sensitive). It’s something I’m very insecure about. I do try but it doesn’t come naturally to me at all and when we’re arguing I get so stressed being playful just becomes so difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 07:26 PM
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I will try this, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 07:25 PM
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He actually used to be a massive fan of Jordan Peterson, though despises him lately (like I said, very opinionated). To be fair though, I doubt he listened to any of his marriage content.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 02:25 PM
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It’s not being manipulative. You’re stating a boundary. He is free to do as he wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 10:49 AM
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They are not harmless. I’m not saying don’t give them to your kid. But they’re not without consequence.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/22 05:39 PM
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It’s not really that subjective for women. If a woman feels she is not heard, validated, safe and supported in her relationship her estrogen actually plummets. Women destress and release tension by talking about their feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 11:04 AM
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It is healthy for him, if we tell him what we need and he can provide it for us. And afterward we make sure to say “thanks for doing that for me, that really helped me a lot!” It makes him feel like he’s just saved me, which is true
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 11:01 AM
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I would add, as long as it’s not about him, it can be intensely healthy for a woman to vent to her man about her problems, as long as he knows he’s not to solve them. Having her partner listen while she shares her emotions about her frustrations (that are not about him) raises her estrogen/oxytocin and helps her bond to her partner. When I need my partner to listen to me about a frustration, I say “hey, can I talk at you for two minutes? I just need to talk. You don’t need to say a single word.”…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 11:20 AM
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If you guys are planning for marriage he shouldn’t be speaking to her. When I started dating my boyfriend I still had many male friends who loved to talk to me....... and probably wanted to have sex with me, and would have if I would have asked them to. I cut it off with all of them. My boyfriend has no female friends. We do that out of respect for each other. We don’t believe it’s conducive to a healthy long term relationship. Your beliefs may be different. But in general I don’t believe that m…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/22 04:13 PM
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This is such a beautiful response
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 01:01 PM
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Take it from someone older and (maybe only slightly) wiser A relationship is like a house. To stand the tests of time you need to build it on a good, solid foundation. This ain’t it, honey.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/22 11:35 AM
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If he said that when you say you will do a task, to actually do it, that’s what he means. So just do that. Don’t overwhelm yourself with other changes.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 07:20 PM
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Then why doesn’t he pay for a room for the both of you? This makes no sense
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 04:10 PM
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Why mention being homophobic? Not sure what that contributes to the conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 01:13 PM
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A woman working a full time job and handling all work of the home life is not a red pill philosophy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 07:39 PM
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I look better for myself and my man reaps the benefits. I try not to do things out of fear (gives off a bad vibe), but eat healthy and move because I love myself and appreciate my body.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 12:46 AM
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No advice, just commiseration. I don’t want children (never have, actually) and it makes me feel like a messed up, less-than-woman. It also makes me worry about what I really bring to my relationship and if my relationship will be as strong without kids. You’re not alone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 12:58 AM
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Same experience here! I’m 36 and met him when I was 33
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 06:12 PM
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She was just being honest.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 11:49 AM
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Why don’t you not give up on all men, and just give up on this one? Status is not everything. Find someone closer to you. Long-distance rarely works.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 02:20 PM
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This is so opposite to my personality I think I could keep it up for a whole five minutes before I get exhausted :/
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/21 09:01 PM
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I appreciate this perspective, thank you for your reply
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 02:50 AM
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Very serious. I expect to be with him lifelong. Neither of us want children so it will be just us two.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 02:48 AM
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We live together in a one bedroom apartment, and I absolutely do not have aspergers. If he really wants me to do my makeup elsewhere he has to communicate with me and let me know. The only time he has complained is when he perceives I’m being “careless” by loudly throwing on the light and traipsing into the bedroom like he’s not there, neither of which I do. I’m very careful when I come in so as not to disturb him, and if he doesn’t like it, like I said, he only needs to sit me down and have a s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 12:33 AM
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Then why couldn’t he just ask me like a normal person to please do my makeup elsewhere and that it was important to him? I’m not a mind reader; like subtlety is not my strong suit. I would never ever ever intentionally go out of my way to be vindictive or harmful to ANYONE, let alone my significant other.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/21 11:48 PM
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Last night he got nasty with me. We work opposite shifts (I work 8am, he works til 3:30 am). So by the time he gets to bed, I’m usually getting ready to go to work. I do my makeup in the bedroom because I like to sit and drink my coffee, and the bedroom has a good mirror. I do it with the light on obviously, and sometimes he’s been in bed an hour or two before I flick on the light. He has mentioned before that sometimes I’m careless and throw on the light and act like I don’t care I’m waking him…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/21 11:25 PM
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Would he consider having his testosterone checked? T-levels have plummeted in men in the last few decades.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 09:29 PM
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Same lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 05:45 PM
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Moreso I am envious of the fact that she ticks all the boxes of a normal feminine woman whereas I feel like a damaged broken one. I believe any healthy feminine woman would want children. So I believe there is something wrong with me that I don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 05:11 PM
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I do intermittent fasting, low(ish) carb, and three meals a day (no snacks). This combination allows my blood sugar to stay stable and I rarely get cravings, and maintain my weight. I don’t obsess over food like I used to and don’t get as “hangry”.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 08:18 PM
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Thank you kind stranger!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 06:46 PM
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I really appreciate this insight, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 06:46 PM
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I work a minimum wage job that does not have any kind of medical or dental benefit. I’m in Ontario Canada.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 11:07 AM
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Is that wrong? If I’m very plain and my friend is beautiful, is it wrong to be sad about it?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 10:34 PM
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He’s 32. Before me he was in a seven year long relationship with a woman who strung him along, saying she wanted children, and then left him for another woman. He’s only had two previous relationships besides me, both very long term. I feel keenly that I can’t be a young mother for him. I also compare myself to my coworker a lot and wish I was the kind of woman she is. I see the light shine in her boyfriend’s eyes when he looks at her and talks about her. I am no such dream girl in my own boyfri…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 07:49 PM
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Thank you for your kind reply. I have talked to him about it. He says we are too old, he loves me, and it doesn’t matter if he wants kids or not because it’s too late. He believes he was not meant to have children, even though he wanted them. I just feel like he’s settling now for a life he’s not really excited about because he waited too long and got me. He talks about our life together as if it chose him, not that he chose me, if that makes sense. It feels to me like he’s settling. I’ve brough…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 07:44 PM
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It isn’t that I can’t physically have children, my boyfriend just doesn’t believe in having them later in life. For him it was in his twenties or not at all. He thinks ideally for the health of the child and the mother, younger is best.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 07:41 PM
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My boyfriend says he wanted kids in his 20s, but he says he is too old for kids now. My sister also told me I am too old to have a baby.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 05:31 PM
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I have stretch marks all over my tits, thighs, hips, butt, calves and under my arms. I’ve never had a single man say anything about them, literally no one has noticed. They will fade with time. Get in shape if you’re not already or stay in shape if you are. If you’re in good shape and look put together, ninety eight percent of men will not give a single fuck about your stretch marks.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 06:30 PM
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