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| 14 | No this isn’t fucking funny- it’s an example of how LVM behavior is perpetuated within familiesThis is so sad. I got my little brother AirPods for Christmas, I thought I did pretty well but he outdid me by gifting me a Nintendo Switch + a game. Pay attention to how men treat the women in their life, this loser is definitely not husband material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:12 AM |
| 82 | Just an LVM doing LVM things“Done with whatever we have” yea I don’t think he realizes he’s her boyfriend. That’s why you need to find someone intentional that’s proud to call you his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 14 | Birth control?Condoms aren’t 100% effective, neither is any contraceptive method. It is best to pair contraceptive methods together, so condom + birth control. If you use both methods correctly there’s a virtually 0% chance you will get pregnant (or “abort with birth control”, as he describes it). You are your own person with your own beliefs and choices. Do NOT let anyone impose on that, this is an unhealthy precedent and I agree with the other posts here. Edit: just saw OP also posts to red pill women, FDS … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 07:02 PM |
| 49 | Understand the consequencesYea.. it’s one thing to raise a child with a mental illness when you have a loving, supportive partner and access to the necessary resources. It’s another to do it alone. I obviously wish her the best, but this is going to be very difficult for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:37 PM |
| 45 | After a long day at work, I come home to flowers and a book about empowered women. A HVM is rare to find, but they are out there.How thoughtful! Love seeing women get what they deserve 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 115 | Is there a reason for women to get married - set me straightFrom my understanding, if you’re not married to a man then you walk away with nothing. This is problematic particularly if you are in a situation where you’re a SAHM and have put your career on the back burner for your family. In a marriage, both people are investing in creating a life together. Marriage is an insurance policy to ensure both people walk away with a share of the investments in the event that the marriage dissolves. I think only you can decide if marriage is worthwhile a second ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:28 AM |
| 15 | My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai treePranks aren’t harmful, and by the end both people should be laughing. He’s not stupid, this was intentionally mean. He has known you for four years and lived with you, so he KNOWS what your plants mean to you and how much work you put into caring for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Nothing like bragging about your proposal with a $76 ring while playing video games to the freaking New York Times.Where I’m from in the US it’s standard to spend around 8k USD on an engagement ring, these are middle class people. It wouldn’t make sense to spend less than 2-3k USD on an engagement ring, even if you went with a diamond alternative (it should still be a quality gemstone in terms of color and clarity, a decent size and set in gold or platinum). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:24 PM |
| 59 | Nothing like bragging about your proposal with a $76 ring while playing video games to the freaking New York Times.Right? There are so many beautiful, quality gemstones that he could have picked as an alternative, what a lousy choice. But his pickmeisha insisted a $100 budget, so.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:46 PM |
| 69 | Great article on the problem with men today... emotionally distant fathers who are not teaching their sons how to be menThe blame always falls on women. My ex’s mom was an absolute nightmare, and while it could have been due to a personality disorder I really believe it was most likely the fact that she had to raise 3 kids basically by herself and had no say in the relationship. Her husband made her move to America with 2 small kids away from their support system and refused to move back to their home country for 17 years, and then she also had to work as an engineer while doing all the cooking/cleaning/childcare… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 152 | Had no idea how common this wasSo he destroys an entire load of laundry and the consequence is.. never being responsible for laundry again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:40 PM |
| 42 | Woman who doesn't realize that she's in a potentially emotionally abusive situation receives the advice that it's not okay to ghost. Why do we always have to be courteous to men, even when they blatantly violate clearly set boundaries? GHOST HIM.Yep, women need to be taught that basic respect is granted only for those that give it to you. This man demands she spend all of her free time driving around in his car, so she can give him free therapy sessions! On top of that, this isn’t a case where they’re just not compatible and she can call him up to be like, “hey, this isn’t working out.” He’s going to have a melt down and try to go back and forth with her. We should never feel bad about avoiding emotionally taxing drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:38 AM |
| 108 | Woman who doesn't realize that she's in a potentially emotionally abusive situation receives the advice that it's not okay to ghost. Why do we always have to be courteous to men, even when they blatantly violate clearly set boundaries? GHOST HIM.This is why every woman needs FDS in her life. You shouldn’t need the opinions or validation of strangers on the internet to should cut someone you barely know out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Never give men your passwords & always change them after a breakup. NVM will go to any lengths to get revenge. What can we do to help keep women safe?Yea, a really angry and unhinged women would destroy some property at the very most. A temporary monetary inconvenience. Men will kill you, post your intimate photos to public forums and apparently close the door on huge, life-changing opportunities for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:35 AM |
| 17 | A guy I’m talking opened up that he was sexually abused as a child by his uncleI know you are trying to wrap your head around why he is using his trauma to manipulate you.. but listen. This isn’t uncommon. There is a certain type of man that uses vulnerability early on to create a false sense of intimacy. He’s going to try to ramp things up and make your relationship go at lighting speed, all because “he opened himself up to you”. You deserve better, sis. I can guarantee the manipulation tactics don’t end here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:34 AM |
| 6 | A Must-Watch Shallon Video!Yep, some guy in a band. She was in her late 20s/early 30s at the time too.. she has since graduated to college aged men which I don’t think is much better. I have no idea what a 40 year old woman and a guy who left his parent’s house 3 years ago have to talk about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:51 PM |
| 22 | A Must-Watch Shallon Video!She makes good points but I have such a hard time watching her.. she is inconsistent and I don’t want my romantic life to look anything like hers. She’s 40 and fixates on early 20s men, can’t stay single for even a matter of weeks, and, “likes to watch her boyfriend make out with strippers when they go to strip clubs together”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:44 PM |
| 10 | Resources for a friend who's considering having a baby with a LVM?Yea unfortunately I don’t see this ending well for her friend.. she has learned to live with this LVM for however long, and the urge for her to have children will most likely override all the red flags. This story is all too common and a lot of women feel this path to motherhood is their only option (because men will be men). It’s one thing to accept LV behavior, but it makes zero sense to bring a child into the world that will also have to live with a LVM as a father and a stressed out mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 09:37 PM |
| 16 | Okay ladies, I need to talk. Incoming LVM ex rant...He didn’t consider your feelings when he hopped into another relationship before you guys even physically separated. I know that was a long tome ago and you’ve probably moved past it, but I can guarantee he’s the same man he was almost 5 years ago. Instead of being single and working on himself like you did, he found another woman to distract him and tolerate his shitty behavior. You should feel good about the progress you’ve made, now you need to finally close this chapter of your life by block… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 61 | Should I leave him or can we work it out?Stopped reading at the part where he says he is happy in the relationship, so you’re responsible for your unhappiness. That is some next level gaslighting! Do you think for yourself or do you just believe everything this man feeds you? I’m not even going to explain why you need to leave this man. You wrote a book on every good reason you have to leave him, now go read the handbook and level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:25 PM |
| 11 | Or maybe don’t go having kids all over the place when you only have $800 a month to support them?? Why is that so difficult?It’s pathetic, and the worst part is he is getting praise for this. If you are a father of 5 kids and don’t have custody arrangements for any of them, you better find a way to financially support them with all of the free time you get being a deadbeat. That means you’re either working 12 hour days 6 days a week to provide for them, or working while going to school full time so you have higher income potential. But instead this man chooses to spend his time searching for the next woman to bear ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:24 PM |
| 48 | Or maybe don’t go having kids all over the place when you only have $800 a month to support them?? Why is that so difficult?I didn’t point out the obvious because everyone here is clearly responsible for piss-poor family planning, but he is taking 0 accountability and wants a pat on the back for a measly $150 a month. He even said this in the comments (to one of the few women criticizing him for having multiple kids he can’t afford): “Or don’t have kids with a men you know got multiple already .” This man completely refuses to acknowledge he is a BUM. The women have to be there to pick up the slack regardless, while … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 90 | Or maybe don’t go having kids all over the place when you only have $800 a month to support them?? Why is that so difficult?A majority of the 200+ comments on the post are congratulating him for “providing what he can”. The normalization of this is why so many kids grow up with the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:21 PM |
| 41 | MGTOW on Tinder lolYa “men going their own way” unfortunately doesn’t mean “leaving women alone”. It just means being more intentional about harming women. The whole idea is built on the hatred of women, and self improvement with the end goal of attracting more women to take advantage of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 75 | MGTOW on Tinder lolSome desperate tradcon to do the pickme song and dance for him. I wish more men were open about their misogynistic beliefs so the rest of us can swipe left in half a second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 83 | Shower thought: why men end relationships vs why women end themMen also leave when you are no longer convenient to them. So if you get sick, have to do LD for a period of time, have another huge responsibility that takes up a chunk of your time.. expect your relationship to end or significantly deteriorate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 17 | The first time a guy chooses gaming over you, RUNI feel like there’s a line between a hobby and something that just seems to be a time suck. I view a hobby as something that adds value to your life in some way.. for example hiking, or learning something new like piano or a second language. If a guy has dedicated timeslots for stuff like that, I completely respect it and would work around his schedule accordingly (and he should do the same for me as well). Video games and TV/Netflix are in a different category for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:03 AM |
| 27 | The first time a guy chooses gaming over you, RUNCan this be applied to watching sports because... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:52 AM |
| 25 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!Yea the comments on the original post are skewing negative after seeing her profile. I can’t imagine putting my entire FAMILY at risk over random Tinder hookups. She is beyond FDS saving, girl needs professional help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 152 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!This is next level desperate. She obviously can’t take a hint- this guy did NOT want to take her on a date. This isn’t a date. Omg. Edit: her post history is a nightmare. that girl is a train wreck and I’m not surprised she thinks talking in her car for 2+ hours while a guy does his laundry is a date.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 74 | Ended things with a guy it’d been dating for like 2 months because of horrific communication issues and he had the audacity to ask I NOT be on dating anyone or on dating sites while he works on his communication issuesYup, a park date should have never happened. This guy could have been avoided all together. Pretty sure everywhere has some form of limited capacity dining, he could have booked a patio reservation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 99 | Ended things with a guy it’d been dating for like 2 months because of horrific communication issues and he had the audacity to ask I NOT be on dating anyone or on dating sites while he works on his communication issuesOmg the absolute gall. You know he really means... “can you stay off dating apps so I can try to find your replacement in the meantime, and when I fail to do so I can come crawling back under the premise of changed behavior?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:08 AM |
| 49 | I saw this today and wanted to share. It’s NEVER too late to level up ❤️This must have been over a 15+ year period, used Maseratis are around 30-50k and a home like that in the south is definitely attainable on an early career lawyer’s salary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:57 AM |
| 35 | my LVM narc ex whos an abusive cheater left me in may ..after i finally went no contact two weeks ago and stopped being a pick me begging for him back he hits me up today... i prefer ‘Devil’You have to b l o c k him. Any interaction with him is giving narcissistic supply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:05 PM |
| 27 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?As a biracial black woman, I can tell you that you’re lucky colorist men avoid you altogether. Colorist men are LVM, and they typically date lighter skin black women/women because they think we’re “more submissive”. There are videos floating around of several black man admitting this. They see us as doormats. I believe another reason is that they see being with white women in particular as a status thing.. but as a woman, do you want to be in a relationship with a man that is using you to ostens… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:09 PM |
| 21 | Don't ever move for a manNever make a decision that involves a man if you wouldn’t do it single. For example, if my partner moved to Seattle I would be willing to move there, because it’s a cool city and something I could see myself doing as a single woman. I also wouldn’t feel bad if we broke up in that situation, because it was a choice authentic to myself. On the other hand, if my partner moved to Mobile Alabama, I would absolutely not go after him. I have no interest in living in Alabama, and I’m not going to comple… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:57 PM |
| 9 | Pick-me Sh*tshowYea unfortunately I’ve found that tattoos are LVM magnets, well done or not. LVM can’t differentiate in their simple minds. I’m pretty sure there is a whole rule about targeting women with tattoos because of their low self esteem on TRP. They are ALWAYS drawing conclusions based on appearance that don’t make sense. From the way your hair is cut, to your makeup or lack of it, etc Just something to watch out for and another reason to vet thoroughly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 65 | What sort of touching do you think is acceptable on a first date?All you have to do is listen to your gut. I believe there’s a level of physical contact pretty much every woman is uncomfortable with on a first date, but instead of listening to their feminine intuition they brush it off as “oh, he just realllly likes me.” Anything that feels excessive, inappropriate or over-familiar is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:25 PM |
| 33 | Only a real date ends in a relationship.Yea I don’t know why I’m only just making the connection with this post, but the biggest fbois I dated took me out for coffee. Only 1 of them paid. With another one, I arranged the date location because he was “new in town”. Of course not all of the real dates I went on lead to relationships, but all of the low-effort ones amounted to nothing good. Therefore I will never, ever, ever go on another walk, hike or coffee date with a man I don’t know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Men wanted children with his partner, now he is upset she planned it, but he didn’t mind finishing inside.Big yikes. I feel so sorry for that child if this is true. He did the right thing by trying to end things when he realized they didn’t want the same out of life. The fact they were together for 3 years with no pregnancies tells me that she was on some form of BC, and then likely went off it without telling him. No matter how you look at it, that’s wrong. Tbh this doesn’t seen real though, it sounds like a made up scenario in order to make women look bad and stir up the incels on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 21 | Spotted in a community helping Facebook group. No words.This man is looking at legal trouble. I can almost guarantee he gets regular paychecks for being her PCA. Disgusting. I hope someone reports him for exploitation/neglect of a vulnerable adult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 45 | Breaking up with the best boyfriend I've ever hadYea he clearly thinks if you buy a woman dinner, you’re entitled to sex after. Gross. So proud of you for not brushing this off 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 49 | Pickmeisha talking about the "normalization of abuse towards men" like men don't do worse things like rape, beat, torture, and murder women.I just did some research on this girl, she makes 10k a month on Patreon and has a merch line. No wonder she is going so hard to fight imaginary male oppression | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 33 | How long should I date him before moving on?All this. Time to re-read the handbook, sis. No way you should be 7 months deep with a 42 year old man that can’t even call you his girlfriend. A man that values you would neveerr let you sit in a “gray area” for 7 months, he’s just not that into you.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 51 | Call Her Daddy normalizing getting blood vessels broken from choking during sex...I had a friend try to get me into that podcast and I couldn’t even finish an episode. They’re so simple minded and vulgar. Can’t believe women take any of their advice seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:50 AM |
| 64 | Women like that shock me and deserve every single bit of misery they get. I might have been too rude in comments but it's nothing compared to treatment she accepts from menShe’s in college, she’s probably like 20. Most of us were peak pick-me around that age. I feel like the disgust/frustration is misdirected here.. we can help women discover their self worth and introduce them to FDS without insulting them. These concepts aren’t easy to digest immediately, especially after growing up in a society that encourages us to accept the bare-minimum from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:45 AM |
| 0 | After exchanging hello’s/pleasantries, this is the first message I received from the guy (technically his second message)..Am I overly sensitive in finding it a sign of a LVM?I wouldn’t personally write him off. If you like switching up your hair/makeup/outfits, it’s nice that he notices the effort. I don’t think it would hurt to exchange a few more messages just to see what he’s about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Pay attention to the relationship his parent’s have, and the relationship he has with his parents.of course! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 9 | Pay attention to the relationship his parent’s have, and the relationship he has with his parents.Sounds like he did the work to stop the cycle, which is why I pointed out that there is a difference between men who are aware and learning vs. completely oblivious to how their upbringing can affect their relationships. If they talk about their family issues with little to no emotion or reflection on them, dump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:43 PM |
| 12 | Found out I’m pregnant last nightSo happy for you! Pregnancy isn’t easy and that’s why a supportive, involved father is so necessary. Wishing you guys the best on your journey to parenthood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Pay attention to the relationship his parent’s have, and the relationship he has with his parents.Agree that’s why I didn’t bring it up in my post. I think it is best to evaluate his family dynamic as a whole. While there can definitely be a correlation, a man can adore his mom and still treat you bad. Maybe he only treats her well because there are no boundaries, and she still babies him. So when you set up boundaries and expect him to be a man, he’s going to be uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 52 | I was disgusted when I saw this, not gonna lie 🤢Pick-me’s will do anything to get a ring! Even if that means going into debt over a LVM 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 48 | I was disgusted when I saw this, not gonna lie 🤢This pick-me is so far gone that the worst part is they probably reconciled and he got the gifts anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 25 | Older men (late 30s+) claiming they "never met the right one"I think you’re being overly cautious.. he could have spent his 20’s building a foundation before seriously dating, or maybe he’s a bad judge of character (we have all been there.. hence the existence of this sub), or maybe it took him some time to really figure out what is important to him in a partner. I’m more suspicious of men that latch onto the first woman that gives them attention, or the ones that just settle into a relationship/marriage because of the benefits. Edit: just noticed the cla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 3 | It workedAll of this. OP I understand you were trying your best to implement FDS but on top of canceling your own plans for this loser, you did not read between the lines. Interview anxiety? It’s one thing to need some preparation the night before, but he had interview anxiety that debilitated him a whole 24 hours to the point he couldn’t meet you for an hour or two? He can’t hang out because he’s hungover? You think a guy would cancel a date with Natalie Portman because he’s hungover? I promise an alcoh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 45 | this feeds into the notion that women change their appearance in order to please men. this has nothing to do with a mans 'ability' to be a good husband but rather a woman acting like and independent person and not like a reflection of her husbands opinions of her.Exactly, this is sweet in theory and a man should ALWAYS adore his woman. However, a woman’s self esteem should never be dependent on outside sources, even her husband. Positive or negative. Women go through so much, childbirth does a number on our bodies and if cosmetic surgeries give us a boost of confidence we shouldn’t feel bad about that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 24 | Hurt people hurt people. Stop the cycle or sink the scrote?Block and delete both. This is such an unhealthy dynamic. There is no reason you should be in contact with his current girlfriend! It is clear that these ties are getting in the way of you healing and becoming the HVW that you know you can be. Do not bother telling her about last weekend. She has all the information she needs about him if he has been unfaithful in the past. She knows the type of man he is and has decided to stay. Only she will know when enough is enough, this will not be the las… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:03 AM |
| 2 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedBest of luck ❤️ Get back to us if there is any way the women on this sub can help/support you. I know someone here mentioned GoFundMe- if you have to go this route, I would suggest getting a prepaid debit card (in case he has access/visibility to your current bank account). You can get something like a Bluebird card by Amex online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 9 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedYou say a DV shelter in a larger city is an option- contact your friend to arrange transportation to the shelter. That could mean picking you up and driving you there, sending a cab, getting a public transportation ticket.. I know it seems like a lot to ask for, but I have a feeling she would be more than willing to help. If a friend contacted me and said she needs me to drive her to a women’s shelter, I would do it in a heart beat even if it meant driving 4+ hours of the way. I know plenty of w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 185 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedThis breaks my heart. Babe you’re not a Pickmeisha, you’re in a highly toxic and abusive relationship. I am so sorry that he has backed you into a corner that has made it nearly impossible for you to leave. There are state benefits that will allow you to support yourself and your child, and go to school as well. My mom did it alone with 3 kids. Do you have any friends or family that can support you? That is going to really important right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:34 AM |
| 47 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?You block and delete, like you should have done 2 weeks ago. This is why it is so important. So you don’t get sucked in by this B.S. Some girl he was chasing after probably rejected him. Or he’s feeling lonely because he’s not getting action/attention since breaking up with you. He doesn’t genuinely care about you, because if he did he would have made an effort the FIRST time around. He wouldn’t have let you go. Men don’t let women they care about walk away- they correct their behavior, and do t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:27 AM |
| 47 | Block and move on!It’s obviously something that bothered her- not every girl wants a guy that’s working nights, 60 hour weeks, etc and that’s ok! That’s her standard. It sounds like she would prefer to be with someone who has a more predictable work schedule. Not his fault if that’s the case, but it sounds like they aren’t compatible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 35 | How long to wait to tell him I’m divorced?This isn’t relevant information in the early stages of dating. I would only disclose this information after you guys have an established connection and have properly vetted him. I would bring it up once you get to the point where you see commitment on the horizon, and you both begin opening up about all of those things in your past that make you who you are today (while the marriage itself might not a big deal, it says something about the relationship with your parents which is the larger issue … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:43 PM |
| 65 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Yes. Men who compare animal/primal dynamics to humans are mentally stunted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 201 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!You are so smart to have scoped that out early! I found my ex’s subscription list on YouTube, which included a Red Pill account with popular videos such as, “how to read and manipulate people”, “how to lie, and “how to become an alpha”. I actually confronted him about it, and his defense was that he was in sales. Unlike you, I bought it. Shouldn’t have came to my surprise when he was lying, manipulating and referring to himself as an “alpha”. F-ing cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:45 PM |
| 34 | Why we don’t go to multiple locations on the first date.Yep. Went on a 2nd date with a guy pre-FDS that started out as brunch, and we didn’t part ways until 2am. Mostly because he kept suggesting activities and I didn’t know how to get out of it once I told him my day was open. By the end of the night he insisted on coming to my place- I refused to let him into my apartment and we just ended up on my rooftop until he finally realized he wasn’t getting laid and left. Now I always have an excuse in my pocket to get out of a date after the planned activ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 26 | 3 Weeks Post Dump: LVM is in my emailWhat a loser. Basically he wants you to call and soothe his ego so he doesn’t feel like the asshole he is. Hope he has plenty of time to ruminate on how poorly he treated you when he realizes you’re not going to respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 8 | How to implement FDS within a LTRYou found this sub for a reason. I know divorce is the LAST option a woman resorts to.. but please listen to the messages the ladies on this sub are giving you. You are simply a doormat, a punching bag for this man. This has been his plan the whole time. He kept the mask on just long enough for you to make a lifetime commitment in front of all of your friends and family. He knew how difficult it would be for you to leave after. Muster up any strength you have to get your ducks in a row and leave… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 14 | When did you have your FDS epiphany?My last boyfriend was a narcissist. I know I’m not a doctor so I can’t diagnose someone (narcissists typically don’t seek treatment anyways), but he was textbook. I spent so much time after the breakup trying to understand his behavior, and how I could avoid dating someone like him moving forward. I found this sub around this time.. and I’m glad I did, because it made me realize there are so many men like him, and worse. While it wasn’t my fault he was a shitty person, if I had followed FDS then… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 8 | Have HVM had forever girlfriends?I only see it as an issue if it’s a pattern. If he has a history of multiple 3+ year relationships, I’m going to assume that he is not a marriage-minded guy or he doesn’t know what we wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Who pays on the first date?You’re not even worth a $5 coffee or $15 lunch to this man. Let that sink in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:09 PM |
| 21 | How many dates in should you expect him to stop seeing other people?After a certain point he should be pursuing you hard. I’d say after 4-6 dates he is going to know if he wants to commit to you. You should be his only focus around that time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 28 | Boyfriend of 2 years checking out other women & lying about it.Gross. I know how difficult it is to leave a relationship when you’re X years deep and so interconnected, but this is the point that you decide whether you’re really a HVW worthy of a HVM, or not. I always feel so bad for the gf when I can feel her boyfriend checking me out. Yea, he may naturally WANT to look, but if he respected you then he wouldn’t. It’s one thing to do it on a guy’s night out, but in your presence? Dump him. It’s only going to get worse from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 18 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?Oh absolutely. Have you seen 90 day fiancé? I don’t think you understand how far a pick-me will go for a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:11 PM |
| 22 | Did I mess up??Yes I felt icky after reading this. He saw she was in a vulnerable place, and took that as an opportunity to have sex. Reads extremely low value to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 33 | After reading the handbook and scrolling through this sub I have come to the realisation that I have MARRIED a LVM. What to do now?The ideal route for you will be a divorce. You haven’t been married long and thank god there aren’t kids in this situation. I understand divorce isn’t an easy choice. If you really want to give him another chance to get his shit together, you need to separate. Move out. If he cares about you that will be a shock to his system. See if he is willing to put forth a consistent effort to repair your marriage. If he is still showing you low value behavior (which will most likely be the case) divorce h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:28 PM |
| 10 | Should you offer to split and block him if he agrees or should you not offer to split and see what he does?Don’t offer to split. If he suggests you split, pay your portion and then block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:30 AM |
| 11 | Nvm spends his savings plus his fiancé’s savings, for their wedding to buy a new game,Lmao so many comments suggesting she needs to move out and then maybe he will “save the relationship”. The only mistake bigger than getting engaged to this loser would be to give him another chance. I hope she completely removes herself from this relationship and never looks back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Let’s discuss ladies: Man pays his wife for blow jobs because he wants them more than she wants to naturally give it. Based or Nah? 🤔Whatever works for their relationship I guess. It sounds like they’re both happy with this arrangement. Personally, I’m not doing any sexual favors I don’t feel like even if there is a monetary incentive. Especially for my husband- I’d feel so gross if he was dangling $200 in my face for anal. Maybe if he used that money to do sweet, romantic things for her she’d feel more inclined to do sexual favors for him. I wouldn’t want to be in a marriage that is transactional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:30 AM |
| 27 | Little reminder from my ex to change my amazon prime password lmaoThe audacity.. definitely getting pornsick leech vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 57 | What behaviors do you think a man "unlocks" from you, or "earns" when you go from his girlfriend to his fiancée, and from fiancée to wife? Looking for general and specific advice on giving too much too soon in a relationshipDon’t give too much in a relationship, period. Whether you’re dating, engaged, married. Your husband can take you for granted and treat you like shit just like a boyfriend. I’m generally of the belief you shouldn’t play mommy to your boyfriend, which it sounds like you have a tendency to do. If a man is taking care of you financially 100%, then, sure, you can do his laundry. You shouldn’t be doing unpaid labor. While acts of service may be your love language, you should always ask yourself what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Ladies don’t feel obligated to put your life at risk for male violence. This is their fight.I don’t think he short a pregnant women. He held a gun to a pregnant woman’s stomach while he was robbing her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 04:35 PM |
| 11 | Blocked him a few months ago after I broke it off with him but apparently I still receive msgs on my laptopA good reminder to block everywhere!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 8 | Ladies don’t feel obligated to put your life at risk for male violence. This is their fight.I wish this wasn’t such a taboo stance, it seems impossible to meet like-minded women. It is the norm for Black women to always be on the front-lines.. as if we don’t already do enough for our communities. Who is protecting us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 07:01 PM |
| 96 | She says she felt weird about the first meet up, turns out he hit her car on purpose after months of planning and stalking so he could manipulate her into a relationship. Trust yourself! See it as a survival skill if nothing else D:He had a whole stalker drawer! I would have been to afraid to even confront him about that, could have gone VERY badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 06:05 AM |
| 26 | My (26M) girlfriend (26F) drunkenly told me she was starving herself to be more attractive to me. I’m devastated and don’t know what to do.This is why it is so important to have rock-solid self esteem before getting involved with men. You should NEVER feel driven to starve yourself for the approval of a man. The healthy response would have been to dump his porn-sick ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 06:00 AM |
| 8 | How to know quickly if he’s a 50/50 guy?Exactly, that’s why you have to open up the conversation about their upbringing. You most likely want to find a man that had a healthy childhood with a SAHM. Men with single moms and moms that overextended themselves because of their lazy, misogynistic husbands will automatically have the expectation that YOU will pull off the workhorse role, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:17 AM |
| 23 | “When you know, you know” and other poor excuses to rush a relationship.Yes. Too many women are just glad they got “picked” and happily accept getting love bombed, the whole time missing HUGE red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:58 PM |
| 23 | How to know quickly if he’s a 50/50 guy?I think the biggest factor is finding a man that has the ability to provide for you 100%, and someone that understands the value of a stay at home mom. I agree that after marriage you guys will essentially “share” your earnings if you’re both working, logistically that just makes the most sense. You will make decisions about how your money will be spent/saved together. However, once you stop working to be a SAHM then the financial responsibility is going to fall on him. It’s not an absurd sugges… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:31 PM |
| 193 | This is why you need to have a secret saving account. What a messHe’s lucky she even mentioned it to him. I hope that after seeing his reaction she doesn’t marry this guy. Wanting to have a sense of security in the case he tries to financially abuse her doesn’t make her a bad person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:10 PM |
| 4 | I love my boyfriend so much but he has never been in a good financial position and it's taking it's toll.Sometimes you outgrow your partner, and that’s what it sounds like in this situation. You said you’re 30, which probably means you are ready for the next phase of your life. You have to think about how much longer you’re willing to wait for him to improve his situation. If he can barely support himself, you have to ask how he will be able to support a family. Do you want to be pressured to go back to work with a 3 month old just to pay the bills? These issues are only going to mount. I would giv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 12 | Do you think women are more likely to be pickmes than men, and that women care more about male validation than men care about female validation?Agree, being a pick-me isn’t about being genuinely in love with men. It’s all about ego, men and women have their own ways of serving the ego. Men through sex, women through keeping a man around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:59 PM |
| 31 | Do you think women are more likely to be pickmes than men, and that women care more about male validation than men care about female validation?Sex IS validation to men. If a man can’t get a woman to have sex with him, he’s by definition sterile and won’t be able to carry out his genes. Women on the other hand seek out stability at all costs because theoretically if a man were to leave her with a child she would be very vulnerable and worse off (often times this is not the case in modern day because a lot of men have little to offer, but back in a time when men were the primary providers/protectors). This breeds pick-me behavior. It’s a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 60 | Do you think women are more likely to be pickmes than men, and that women care more about male validation than men care about female validation?Men are the original pick-me’s. They do everything for the validation and affection of women. They spend their lives chasing money, status and show off with things like cars and watches that cost a mortgage just to get our attention. MGTOW men fail to do this and have to go their own way.. not by choice but because they have failed to offer anything of value to a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:25 PM |
| 10 | I love my boyfriend so much but he has never been in a good financial position and it's taking it's toll.I remember you posting this in another sub, and you said that you also aren’t really attracted to him. People were telling you that you should have communicated your needs better, but I think you KNOW the women here aren’t going to encourage you to stay with him and you’re looking for more validation to leave. You don’t need our stamp of approve girl. I think you need to move on. You don’t feel 100% in this relationship and that’s not something you should feel guilty for. It sounds like you are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 19 | Ladies... I couldn’t even finish reading it. Here is full link https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/gr084j/my_23f_husband_29m_convinced_me_to_try_more/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfPosts like these seem increasingly common. I remember when BDSM was taboo. Since when did brutalizing your spouse for sexual pleasure become mainstream? It’s like they’re getting a pass for abuse because it’s ~kinky~. This is why you should never even open the door to this kind of sexual behavior, and run away from a man that gets off on your pain. They are insatiable and don’t have a limit, these men WILL keep crossing boundaries until they kill you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:11 PM |
| 26 | OLD low effort date guy update, he unmatchedAccepting a date with someone that begrudgingly asks you out for dinner after asking you to join him for a walk on the street is a desperate move IMO. He didn’t meet you with any enthusiasm after you declined his original date. His responses read as sarcastic, passive-aggressive, and they smelled like a shit test. You probably read it differently because of the “sparks” you had with someone you exchanged a few messages with. That’s the kind of guy that will agree to take you out to a restaurant … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:57 PM |
| 21 | OLD low effort date guy update, he unmatchedYou were desperate to go on a date with him (you indicated how interested you are in this one guy you haven’t met and have made 2 posts about it) and jumped at the chance when he offered dinner. You can next guys that don’t offer real dates from the start.. you CAN suggest something different, but if he doesn’t seem enthusiastic about the change of plans you’re dealing with a guy that just wants to put in the least amount of effort. He seemed rather sarcastic and put off by the suggestion of an … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:36 PM |
| 50 | Advice needed - how to exert queen energy via text? How to deal when men get defensive?In the beginning I give some grace. LVM weed themselves out sooner than later. With that being said, I wouldn’t go out with a guy that cancelled a date because he’s painting his porch. That tells me he really isn’t very interested in meeting me. He could have done that any day of the week but chose to do it on the night he scheduled a date with you. You messed up by even giving him the opportunity to reschedule. If there is a more valid excuse and it’s not a pattern (career or family priority, s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:44 AM |
| 29 | What do you think of traveling to meet you boyfriend ?For every 3-4 times he visits me I MIGHT visit him once, if my flight and accommodations are covered and it’s a city I’m interested in visiting. Traveling is exhausting, expensive and you probably end up taking off days from work. A high value woman doesn’t go through all of that for a man she’s just dating, because she will have options in her area. If he wants to see you, he’ll go out of his way to visit you in your city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:18 AM |
| 31 | On oral sexIt’s small but it is important to you. We are allowed to have sexual dealbreakers. Personally I lose attraction to anyone that doesn’t give me adequate foreplay (oral is an essential part of foreplay for me). You shouldn’t have to beg for someone to sexually satisfy you, he should be asking questions and trying to get to know your body. I would make it clear one more time that oral is a big turn on for you, but I wouldn’t expect too much.. some guys are just selfish, lazy, not into it etc and I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:11 AM |
| 48 | Guidance pleaseMove on and find someone you’re attracted to. Being bulky and fit isn’t something this man authentically gravitates to at this point in his life. It would be shitty if a guy met you and told you that you needed to slim down in order for him to be attracted to you, and this is no different. Even worse if he said that with the expectation of you losing weight just to appease him. I hope you left it vague with something like “there wasn’t a spark there for me”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:57 AM |
| 16 | Anyone else find this true.The one thing they had in common was that they are all men.. a large percentage of the male population is misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:48 PM |
| 59 | What do you think of Mrs Midwest’s advices?I’m not interested in being the stay at home wife of a below-average looking police officer in the middle of nowhere, so I don’t think much of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:40 AM |
| 58 | How to get him to spoil you?!Make it clear you treat yourself & the people close to you well. I always try to do something fun for my friends on their birthdays, and I treat myself to things like spa days and go out to nice restaurants. On my birthday my boyfriend took me out for brunch at one of my favorite French cafes and booked a couples massage, in addition to a few other small but meaningful gifts. I was honestly surprised because this is a guy that has told me he’s “awful at gifts”- but he likes me, knows I live my l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 16 | If you’re seeing a guy...how do you ask if he has a teen fetish?I agree with this. Also, pay attention to how he treats you in general. Does he respect you? Is he condescending? Does he try to get to know you as a person, or do the conversations lean sexual? In general, if a man is fetishizing you in any way the answer to these questions are a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 196 | If you’re seeing a guy...how do you ask if he has a teen fetish?You left high school 2 years ago, can’t legally drink (assuming you’re in the US), and this guy has had time to get 2 degrees, buy a house and start a family. The fact that he is comfortable dating a 20 year old is a RED FLAG. I would advise you remove yourself from this situation, at your age I wouldn’t date anyone more than 4-5 years older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 05:25 AM |
| 27 | How to accept that your man doesn’t care for you?7-8 months is nearly half your relationship girl! This is who he IS. Once you stop holding on to who you thought he was or driving yourself crazy because you think that you did something wrong.. you will see that you have no choice but to move on. Don’t waste any more time on someone so self-centered and careless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:15 PM |
| 74 | The moment you show interest in return, they don’t want you. What’s the psychology behind this? I’m so done.Hon you can’t let these LVM bother you this much. If a man pulls away after you show interest, he wasn’t actually interested to begin with. Maybe he just wanted the validation. Maybe he’s still chatting with his ex. Maybe he’s too lazy and broke to pursue you in any real way. There are a bunch of reasons- but it’s not your job to decode them. Simply move on, eventually you will find a man that openly and happily accepts your warmth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 06:07 AM |
| 61 | The moment you show interest in return, they don’t want you. What’s the psychology behind this? I’m so done.What do you mean by “showing interest”? If a man shows interest by going from 0 to 100, don’t be afraid to put the brakes on. You don’t have to be a passenger to their games. These types of men want one thing from you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 06:00 AM |
| 12 | Imagine giving someone your love, dedication, youth, sex, beauty, companionship and oh, cooking for them — and they charge you for the privilege nightly.So she’s supposed to pay her own rent AND 20% of his? This post makes my blood boil! I hope she dumps him and never looks back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts?Yes that’s the same relationship!! And in the beginning she even said he was talking about getting back with an ex while he was dating Shallon. I’m glad she’s out of it now because I still wish her well, but it’s hard for me to take her seriously now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 45 | Thoughts?I like a lot of Shallon’s advice but I take all of it with a grain of salt. Her views on porn, sex work, etc don’t align with this subreddit. Her boyfriend forgot to make proper dinner reservations on Valentine’s Day and instead brought her to a strip club. She thought it was so great, but that relationship eventually ended because he cheated on her. However, she makes a good point about asking yourself, “other than this one thing, is my relationship perfect?” Because 10/10 times the answer is N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:58 PM |
| 12 | Who should bring up “the talk”? Is there any way to salvage this situation (months of separation for work, sex pre-FDS discovery)?If he wants to date you seriously, he will make that very clear. Right now he probably just sees you as someone to casually hook up with when you’re in the same city. If he suggests reconnecting (which he likely will), I would let him know that you are looking for a meaningful relationship and you just don’t see how that can work when his home base is another city. If he is interested in the same thing, he will lead the discussion about how a relationship would realistically work moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:26 PM |
| 37 | I'm so sad right nowFor me personally it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker as long as he knows how to use his hands and mouth like an expert. I also think passion, chemistry and enthusiasm go a long way. I think it’s still possible to have a fulfilling sex life. There’s a lot that goes into great sex besides size. However, I’m someone that can’t get off from penetration alone anyways. If you’re different and you know that you need a certain length/girth to orgasm, don’t feel like you have to stay in this relationship! In t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:43 PM |
| 16 | What? Just no. Dont do it.I wish someone could send her to this sub to save her, but she’s probably too far gone.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:03 PM |
| 16 | Any way to fix what I messed up?I can’t imagine a HVM would want to be bf/gf after 3 dates. Think about it. He’s going to want to really get to know you beyond a superficial level before making a commitment. His response tells me this guy is probably a desperate LVM or he’s just telling you what he thinks you want to hear so he can get into your pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 8 | 20 dark psychological tactics undercover LVM will use to manipulate you into thinking they’re seriousHe’s Dominican American. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 49 | (22F) Use to be a LVW dating a HVM got dumped and now i regret itI don’t think you like this guy, you only like how he treats you. I feel like the male equivalent of this post would be: “I love that she’s great in bed, listens to all my problems, cooks for me, makes me feel special.” Notice how there is no mention of an interest in a PERSON. Only what that person provides. When you did mention this guy’s personality, all you had to say was that he isn’t funny. Ask yourself if you genuinely like this guy at the core of his being. It’s not fair of you to go run… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 11 | HVM deal breaker?LSA had that information for a while, in this video she admits it: https://youtu.be/1M1kOTBanEA Her channel is good if you want to strictly gold dig. If you are looking for a HVM, I’d take advice from someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 27 | HVM deal breaker?Take her advice with a grain of salt. Her husband is a LVM by all accounts. She was his side chick for years. Eventually he left his family for her and now she spends time trying to convince us that he’s some sort of prize just because he can pay some bills (which is the BARE MINIMUM). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 44 | Sis was wondering why she got ghosted by a guy that seemed really interested; this was her follow-up to the first date.I hope she gets some guidance! He honestly sounded like a LVM anyways but she needs to do some internal work so she doesn’t push a HVM away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:54 AM |
| 11 | Girlfriends just do not get it!Preach!! It is so much better to be single than stuck in an unhappy marriage or divorced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:07 AM |
| 12 | Does anyone else have a pickme mom?Yes. She had kids by 2 LVM that made the choice not to be in their children’s lives in any capacity. Then she spent 14 years with a man that was a dark cloud on my family and refused to marry her (one day he went out and got another woman pregnant, and that was the end of it. I do not think my mom would have left otherwise). Right now she is supporting and housing a drug addict. As an adult I can say that I love her and I try to sympathize because I know this stems from low self esteem and a bad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 140 | Boyfriend of 2 years said he doesn't love meThis should read “ex” boyfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 01:24 AM |
| 15 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?Oh girl you can do SO much better! I hope you find it in you to to demand more from your current husband or go find happiness elsewhere. Life is too short to stay with someone who doesn't contribute positively to your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:26 PM |
| 39 | What was your biggest Pickmeisha moment?I used to Uber myself over to this guy's place for sex basically. We NEVER went out. The sex was terrible. I was so frustrated with the situation and couldn't understand why he didn't want more! I'd suggest places for us to go out, I baked him cookies.. nothing from his end. One time after we had sex, he invited a friend to go workout with him and made me leave. This was after I came over from across town with his favorite coffee. This makes me cringe so much but it was 4 years ago and I'll neve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Wasn't able to contact him for 9 days.. noticed he updated his dating profile?I dated him for 3 months but the past 9 days I couldn't contact him. If he messaged me (which I am sure he did, he has been consistent with his communication) I would have never seen it. I only hoped that we would pick up where we left off, but it looks like instead he took it as an opportunity to date other people. But to be fair if he left the country and I didn't hear from him for over a week I would have done the exact same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 01:24 AM |
| 29 | Third time not a charmYou were responsive and told him your availability. Your job is done. Sounds like he isn't interested and I would make other plans for tomorrow since you haven't heard from him all week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:44 PM |
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