I currently am talking to a HVM who treats me completely right, brings me flowers, takes me out on dates, etc

However, one physical quality that I need from a HVM is athleticism. He is not athletic. He works out, he’s not unfit, but I’m faster than him and stronger, and I literally can’t be attracted to him (sexually) and will always second Guess the relationship if we start to have one unless he bulks. I told him this after I met up with him in person for the first time, and he was disappointed but understood.

However, he is a HVM and treats me right so I’m not sure whether I should have ended it.

Advice? Tips?