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I understand. I'm looking at it in a close minded way. This reminds me of the path to enlightenment. With the last step being to let go of everything if I remember correctly. Even if they died it still ended. I'll remember that
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:59 AM
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What about people like my aunt and uncle who've been married since 20? Couldn't he argue that she is his? I'm not trying to sound bp or anything. I'm just honestly asking.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:27 AM
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HUH?!
/r/askTRP17/11/17 02:04 AM
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It's hard to describe. I think I did a poor job explaining it. It's whatever though
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:40 AM
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Yup I told her. It was surprising that she was so rude about something so small
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:38 AM
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Because I jumped up outta bed and started wiping sweat off me because it was scorching. It's about her violating and my reaction to it.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:37 AM
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Exactly what I'm saying. Idc how dangerous this city is either. You leave on your own accord.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:25 PM
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You're absolutely right. I lost no sleep over it lol. That meeting sounds good. I'm letting her know why I'm cutting her for good.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:24 PM
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Done and done. Thank you
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:23 PM
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There's definitely culture in games. Sure, people say that they are a waste of time. But, I disagree. Playing a game for 2 hours and watching a 2 hour movie is no different result wise. Just don't overdue it and be balanced. If you're passionate about making video games. That's great! Go for it
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:32 PM
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You don't bring and to the beach?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:14 PM
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I didn't think about holding her hand longer. That sounds good it makes them more comfortable.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 04:29 PM
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That's what I'm saying. I feeling going for a hug in the daytime where the time isn't set for that is extra
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:05 PM
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Never thought about that. I never go out of my way to hug anyone I cold approach. Seems a little too extra. Maybe if we met online or sometime before yeah
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:04 PM
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What if they offer to shake their hand first? Do you ignore that and hug them?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 12:00 PM
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Right, that sounds good. I'm definitely not trying to LTR her. I'll just escalate and stay low.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 07:20 PM
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I'm meeting a woman I've been talking to for a bit. But, I found out checking her IG that she has a boyfriend. She just never mentioned him to me. Should I try to f-close and not even worry about it?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 03:42 PM
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Great job. You found TRP at a great time. I wasn't that lucky lol. Idk the context of your decision. But, I wish you the best
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:40 PM
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Good advice in the comments so far. I'd say you're in a great position. You don't have to go all out revealing yourself. Just tell her something she could do. Or do more of. That'll make her happy.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:19 PM
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By being emotional u mean like crying?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:24 AM
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It was interesting to me because I had plan Bs all over. One was from South America and came up here and ended up being my LTR for a few years. After that was ending she had a clear plan b and I did as well locally. But she somehow got in contact with her and messed that up lol. But if I kept up with my other plan Bs I think I'd did better. That's true though because I had a plan B at mind that I envisioned so perfect that I was ready to leave my LTR at the time. Only because I knew nothing abou…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:10 AM
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Could you elaborate on the last lines? I should just have plan Bs in different countries?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 08:23 PM
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Ok that's good to know then thanks
/r/askTRP06/11/17 12:40 AM
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Alright my bad
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:24 PM
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Yeah I guess some people just truly are toxic and need to be treated as such. It sucks man because even being faithful isn't enough. They'll always find something to justify their actions. I legit just need to stay single and spin plates
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:54 PM
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That's true. I was trying to "fight" and "save" the relationship. So I even got her a promise ring (which was something she begged months for). You wanna know what she said when I did that? No. There's someone else. She then blames me for everything because I talked to another woman. If you'd have told me this a year ago i wouldn't believe you. She acted that well for so long. That I couldn't even envision her being this way. Quite disappointing.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:50 PM
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I guess you're right. It was only natural for me to react that way. I'd say I was in both 1 and 2? I was in 1 until I found out she was using me. So I did the same. Only difference is she tried to use it against me. I'll admit I did want a woman like that. At one point that's how this one was. Her actions seemed to line up with it too. That's why this has been so confusing. But, it's whatever. On to better things.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 10:51 AM
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Bro I am so glad I found trp when I did. I wish I found it years ago. And definitely true about the gut feeling. I never checked her phone. Until this one time. Turns out my gut was right and I found a lot. It's funny because I even asked her if she ever talked to another man. Just the night before. She straight lied to my face. It's even crazier that I was 100% faithful not even thinking about other women. While she's possibly cheating. Fuck this bro I'm done
/r/askTRP02/11/17 06:27 AM
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Working on it. Just wanted someone's opinion I guess..
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:21 AM
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What's OODA, I never thought of that.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:52 AM
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Ok, so one I do care. But, I know he's not trying to really do anything. Also I'd GLADLY entertain the ugly friend for my boys. Which I've done numerous times. This approach was about me yes. Because I was interested. He was not. What's wrong with that?
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:33 AM
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Literally all my friends fail me as wing men. It's better to just do it myself tbh. Just yesterday I told my wingman that we're going to talk to two women I saw. He distracts and entertains the friend while I close with the one I want. I told him you don't even gotta be seriously trying to get her. Use it as practice. He was all for it, but when the time came he left me alone. The uglier friend just grabbed the one I wanted and moved her away. He simply said "I didn't see you walk over there". I…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 12:00 AM
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What if you don't drink alcohol?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:52 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't just let my wife if I had one run around with her friends. Especially with me and 2 kids around there's no reason for you to go out and mess around.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:49 PM
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I guess uncomfortable? I just kept it moving. At that time she was alone so I should've done that. I had literally nothing to lose so you're right. Next time
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:10 PM
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Thank you very much! I really love music but I was always a visual art person. So, I'm going to try to become more musically inclined lol no computers. I just repaired an old broken guitar I had.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:48 PM
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I'll do just that. Luckily I have friends who skate. I know I'm not looking for it to improve my SMV it's just something I want to do. Women will come regardless
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:47 PM
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I know it's very unsafe. That's partially why I want to do it. To overcome a fear
/r/askTRP25/10/17 09:56 PM
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Could you expand on this?
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:59 AM
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Yeah man I fucked up. Either lie to the grave or tell the truth from the door. I won't break next time.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:34 PM
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Yeah I honestly should've just owned it. I only entertained this woman because just 2 weeks before I caught my ex LTR texting an old coworker. They were even talking about me. But whenever I did she just would try to flip the script. I just did the hardest next.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:34 PM
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I guess I valued her too much? Sure there is plenty of fish in the sea. But at the time I guess I didn't see that.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:55 AM
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You have all to gain and nothing to lose when you approach. Just do it. A woman can laugh in your face and honestly it wouldn't do anything to you. Except hurt your ego. Actually go out with the intention of approaching and getting rejected 5 times. Out of these 5 times you may get 3 numbers or even 1.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:53 AM
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I'll see where this goes then
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:31 PM
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I wonder if she even means meet up. But I'll hit her up and see then.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:31 PM
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Through instagram?
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:30 PM
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So the fact I didn't get a number shows disinterest?
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:22 AM
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I won't. I swear it.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:59 PM
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I read that rollo law too before doing this. So I take full responsibility for my stupidity. I didn't fully understand it. But even private messaging where no one but us sees it. I still feel highly embarrassed. Very dirty. But never again.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:59 PM
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Thank you sir. I started Rollo's blog and it's very enlightening. I'll check the others out. I never got with an ex before. But, I thought I'd try with this one. VERY BAD idea. Never again. I guess you're right. That person who I fell in love with is truly gone. No use trying. She's dead.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:59 PM
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I'm very angry. I haven't been this angry in a long time. I truly messed up allowing myself to become weak like this over a bitch that doesn't matter. I deleted and blocked her. I will never allow this to happen again. No woman is worth me losing my self respect. I'm starting at a dojo soon, I'm going to go to the gym more often, read as much as possible, and doing as much as I can. For me. I deserve it. Thanks a lot man. I appreciate it. No one will invest in me. I gotta do it. That's exactly w…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:57 PM
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Yeah man never again will I break like that. I definitely made myself vulnerable. That's something I'd never have done in the past. But, I thought maybe she'd at least respect my efforts of humbling myself that much. That's true though. Before I was the one who was willing to leave but I'd say the roles reversed. Thanks bro I'll be doing everything you suggested.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:50 PM
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