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Get In shape make good money fall in love with hard work
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:01 AM
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That style of content has been around since the Connor Murphy days of YouTube 2012-2013. It’ll always be a popular niche to go after. The question was is cold approach still valid in 2025. I’d say yes but there’s easier and more effective ways of dating and getting with women. Cold approach is a time investment , a lot of effort put into going out , going to bars paying for drinks, approaching women with their friends near by, other men in the vicinity, loud music dark rooms. It’s like veteran d…
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:31 PM
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Use to have a YouTube channel on the street style interviews approaching women at night life events , over 3k subs 100+ videos doing that for years. Not saying that to brag but I think post pandemic the way people interact with each other is weird now. Gen Z is really on their phone a lot. I’d say dating apps + Instagram is #1. Comes down to looks, attractiveness, and status you can emit thru your page.
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:21 PM
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Just focus on yourself man it’s not hard leave the chasing of women to simps
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:32 PM
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The answer is simple: have more than one partner! Dont develop shestheoneitis an date multiple people at once, before finding the one you like best It’ll reflect in how much you text her/what you say to her
/r/seduction14/09/20 06:07 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/idgk7v/how_to_never_run_out_of_things_to_say_on_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf here you go homie
/r/seduction08/09/20 01:47 PM
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No problem #ifitainttoxicandbadformyhealthidontwantit
/r/seduction07/09/20 12:07 AM
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Red flags look like Six flags when you’re horny
/r/seduction06/09/20 06:44 PM
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Weed made me paranoid and I believe a lot of the weed out today has GMO in it and artificial substances that’s lowering people’s vibrations and making men lazy
/r/seduction06/09/20 06:42 PM
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You just gotta do it bro, anyone that tells you anything except just you going out and doing it is doing you a disservice. Yes you can learn all the tactics and game in the world but you’re not gonna get good at free throws unless you shoot free throws
/r/seduction04/09/20 05:27 PM
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you should've called her and asked her out, never ask a girl out over text bro they can ignore it. If you can't get her to pick up one call or a FT from you then you probably have your answer if she likes you or not , but. if you ask her to hang out and she Says yes, you're good Says no but offers a valid legit excuse=maybe (leaning more no than yes) Says no but offers another time to hang=leaning yes Says no and offers no other time to hang =no ​ you can put her on the back burner and try anoth…
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:59 AM
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It's probably like picking up any girl dawg just be smooth confident and friendly, but lemme ask you why your type is women w kids ?
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:49 AM
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Bro because I’m not obligated to answer that question, it’s principle I don’t have to tell I just met that
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:37 AM
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I don’t really care lol I just didn’t like how early we were in the talking phase for her to ask , I wouldn’t Ask a girl I just met if she cheated on her man b4
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:33 AM
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What is manipulative about him holding off on telling her how he feels and letting her guess
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:52 PM
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I think you’re on the right path! Mark Cuban said it’s easier to find the one once you’ve found yourself. It’s way easier to date imo once you’ve Established yourself as own car own place own source of income screams. That scratches off a bunch of check marks in girls heads
/r/seduction02/09/20 05:42 AM
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Shhh stop bro 😫
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:35 PM
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bro where you there? are you in our messages rn? go b salty somewhere else dawg
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:14 AM
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calm down bro lol she thought the picture was funny and it was a great way to open up our text convo
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:03 AM
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H Town throw it up! lol yea man I'm in Dallas tx but I love Houston
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:01 AM
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If you like the Cowboys well b homies lol Preciate that bro
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:46 AM
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dude I love you
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:45 AM
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Facts lol they b saying it’s bullshit lol but watch what they do not what they say
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:44 AM
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Love you bro ❤️
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:43 AM
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Play the game bro
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:37 AM
18

Increased armor points
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:32 AM
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bro straight up tbh I didn't really give af what she was going to say I just said it with confidence and a smile lol. Girls don't necessarily care what you say but they pick up on ques like how is he saying it? or is he saying it with confidence? does he seem calm and comfortable talking to me ? these matter a lot over talking to a girl
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:23 AM
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this is a solid question, bro I use to be that one guy who would stand in the middle of Walmart and try and get strangers to sign up for cable services lol! So I'd talk to like 150-200 people a day on the regular and did that for two years, so I pretty much had zero fucking approach anxiety. Then Covid happened I lost my license for my job, stayed inside for a couple of months and the masks and social distancing didn't make it a free flowing people meeting people environment I was so accustomed …
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:20 AM
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wdym?
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:16 AM
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predicate that man!
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:09 AM
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I appreciate that! <3
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:44 AM
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we working on it, even if I don't who cares I'm just happy I got over my rusty cold approach lol
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:40 AM
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bet bro this was in lewisville, we right across the metroplex from each other lol
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:39 AM
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My brotha, no luka slander will be tolerated on my feed. You in Dallas ?
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:35 AM
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It’s how you deliver the joke, I’m great at tonality so it came across as jokey/flirty. There’s a million different ways to say, “fuck you” depending how you say it
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:30 AM
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Had to let y’all know it really happened lmao
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:09 AM
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what's scaring you
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:57 AM
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Thanks brodie!
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:14 AM
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Preciate that
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:55 AM
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Got you brotha
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:18 AM
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always
/r/seduction01/09/20 12:47 AM
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I just went to my local Walmart to pick up some Apple Cider Vinegar and a new whiteboard and when I was leaving back into the parking lot to get to my car I saw her cute ass walking out too, and I had about 15 feet between us. I had saw that there was a car parked terribly holding two spots and instantly I said, "Please telll me that wasn't you" she looked at me then look at the car and started laughing and said, "uhh uhh that wasn't me I'm over here." I then proceeded to went over taking off my…
/r/seduction01/09/20 12:39 AM
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im glad you feel that way bro, and yeah you're 100% right none of this info matters if you don't go out there and apply it. Just fuck up 100 times :) the next 1,000 will be as smooth as butter
/r/seduction21/08/20 05:59 PM
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Hey guys so this is my video just for starters, but I wanted to provide the community with some value in helping understand girl language in what they say vs what they really mean. If you're new to the dating game or female nature you'd know a lot of women are naturally not the most confrontational sex, so they've become really good at using words and sayings to get the desired result they want! In this video I break down 10 of the most popular phrases I've seen and collected, HOPE THIS HELPS!
/r/seduction21/08/20 05:26 PM
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Ahhh you caught me lol, I couldn’t think of a better analogy but yes Von’s great for spirituality
/r/seduction21/08/20 04:18 PM
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Alright then give her a piece not the whole meal. Like a Wendy’s 4for4 give her the frys on the first date , not the whole drink nuggets and burger
/r/seduction21/08/20 04:12 PM
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Wow I appreciate that thank you ❤️
/r/seduction21/08/20 04:11 PM
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Pm me bro I got you
/r/seduction21/08/20 06:06 AM
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This is it king, well said couldn’t agree more
/r/seduction21/08/20 06:05 AM
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Just have confidence bro. Game is game and it’s like water it can take the shape of whatever user is doing for strategy. Just be confident dawg, that shit goes a long way over any pick up tactics/dating methods
/r/seduction21/08/20 05:03 AM
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What’s up bro ! That’s an interesting struggle to have lol. I would first go in mind with what I want to achieve from this relationship. Am I trying to date? Cool I’ll tone down all my info I’m giving her about myself . Am I trying to make a friend? Cool I’ll give a piece to share a piece. Ultimately what makes people cool and connect is similar interests friends wise and if they connect well on a deeper level romance wise, hope this helps !!
/r/seduction21/08/20 04:12 AM
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Dude I’m actually really happy you feel that way :)! Brings a tear to my eye.
/r/seduction21/08/20 12:55 AM
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I’ve thought this a number of times, and I think it matters depending on which playing field you’re on. If it’s over tinder or online, I’d move on quicker than I would in person. If you can get a girl in person and her experience what y’all would be like together, than I think you have a MUCH better attempt at rekindling that relationship as opposed to matching online
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:53 PM
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You’ve got to learn to get more options bro, that way you can prevent yourself from becoming emotionally invested. Always make sure you’re talking to 1-3 girls at a time if getting 1 is hard enough start talking to girls in public
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:51 PM
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I’m glad you found this helpful :))
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:23 PM
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I promise you it's not me overthinking this lol it's just meant for a lot of people who find themselves running out of things to say or have an issue keeping a convo going on dates, if the shoe doesn't fit then don't worry about it my guy
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:18 PM
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Preciate that bro glad you found some value from it !
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:01 PM
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What do you mean
/r/seduction20/08/20 10:45 PM
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Ooo this is nice Chief ima steal this !
/r/seduction20/08/20 10:18 PM
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Why do you care how much she texts back or if y’all don’t work out? The less you care the more she’ll like you lol
/r/seduction18/08/20 01:26 AM
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You spit better game when you don’t care. Work on those 5/6s to get that 7/8s
/r/seduction13/08/20 01:56 AM
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Gonna have to disagree with you chief , you need to be talking to atleast 3-4 females at once so you don’t develop “she’s the one itis” and that you don’t come off as desperate. Women can sense when they’re the only option in your life and ALOT will not like that energy or they’ll just use you/bitch you around knowing they’re all you have lol
/r/seduction08/08/20 12:43 PM
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We agree pretty much you just don’t like how I worded it lol but I see ur point
/r/seduction08/08/20 06:12 AM
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Thanks for giving me dis ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I was actually just looking for this 🤣
/r/seduction08/08/20 05:35 AM
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Truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:26 AM
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🤣🤣 right. They make not like it externally but internally I’d bet money girls do ;)
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:25 AM
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Lol how come
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:13 AM
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Thats the point lol, what if it doesn't go that far? what if there aren't a first couple of dates? That's why you don't put all your eggs into one basket in the dating game, if things start to mesh then yeah we can make it exclusive but if not a lot of men should wisely keep their options open
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:13 AM
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Respectfully agree to disagree
/r/seduction08/08/20 02:38 AM
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This is it king, well said. Proud of your growth and progress !
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:50 AM
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This is it king, well said.
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:37 AM
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I think a lot of women especially in today’s times have a lot more options in their phone than most guys do , especially pretty girls are going to be bombarded on snap/IG/Tinder , how come is it bad for a man to Keephis options open?
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:31 AM
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Wouldn’t call it gangster talk lol, however I do not call women hoes but I did wanna add it to the title to get some spicyness in there, sorry if it offended !
/r/seduction07/08/20 11:03 PM
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I can see your POV. However, if you’re in the dating stages like on the first one or two dates , you’re not going to feel some type of way or some type of speculation if you’re the only girl interested in him? He has no other women in his life who view him as date worthy? Can’t you see how some women would view that and interpret it as red flags ?
/r/seduction07/08/20 11:02 PM
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:) I appreciate you king
/r/seduction07/08/20 10:59 PM
1

of course! and true you'd be a fool to assume you're the only dude she's talking too especially if she's fine
/r/seduction07/08/20 08:06 PM
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Amen bro couldn’t agree more
/r/seduction07/08/20 06:10 PM
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This is it king, nice work.
/r/seduction21/07/20 04:39 AM
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I understand , just don’t get lost in the sauce bro. Make whatever goals you have your priority in bettering yourself and the women will follow naturally. That being said tho it wouldn’t hurt to get your ass out and play the field and see what works / what doesn’t works as you’re entering your badass prime
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:19 AM
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A man of culture I see
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:27 AM
2

Yeah you might have to slide that who keeps a knife on a windowsill 🤣🤣 it’s pretty cool tho you’re banging a mom that’s a feat
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:23 PM
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Where the hell did she find the knife ? Lmaoo
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:19 PM
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For sure bro you’ll get an fat amount of chances to score, plus it’ll help you get your text game skills up
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:18 PM
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What kind of bad ass? like James Bond badass or Sasuke badass?
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:05 PM
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this is some wise sage elder advice my guy. Couldn't have said it better
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:00 PM
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LOAs. Law of averages baby, if she's not interested cool on to the next I'm here to find the people that ARE interested in me
/r/seduction20/07/20 10:04 PM
1

Damn well have to just keep trying 🥴
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:11 PM
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Aye that’s wild let’s freaking goo!! Don’t get kidnapped tho brodie 🤣 any specific reason she like went on the date for her and not the Korean girl?
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:01 PM
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If he goes out of way to talk to you/text you/tries to set plans with you...that simple
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:44 AM
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Short answer: Yes Long answer: Fuck yes lolol
/r/seduction11/07/20 08:58 PM
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what are you looking for? If you're not looking to Long distance than are you looking for friendship? hook ups? Depending on what you want from her is how you should approach her.
/r/seduction11/07/20 06:04 PM
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look at the nose instead of their eyes, it looks like you're making direct eye contact yet you're not having that awkward tension you feel with direct E2E
/r/seduction10/07/20 02:49 AM
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social proof yourself! talk to other women, talk to other groups of friends! A needy/attention requiring dude will become a hoverer and follow her around the party! Just be yourself have fun talk to as many people as you can and if/when you see her with some friends introduce yourself, give her a compliment and smile/eye contact!
/r/seduction08/07/20 08:30 PM
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lololol bro
/r/seduction07/07/20 05:08 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/seduction07/07/20 04:51 PM
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You can ! While ultimately that is the direction you want to head to, it’s still entirely possible to regain her interest back with the correct engagement. But if you’re getting zero effort on her side than safe to say deuces ✌🏽
/r/seduction07/07/20 04:29 PM
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For me It’s just knowing that regardless of what happens, you know that you’re going to be okay and that anyone or anything can’t deter or alter your opinion of yourself . A great way to instantly boost your confidence in less than 5 minutes is to write 5 things you’re great at and write how you can better yourself on those subjects, people tend to like/enjoy what their good at and that usually is a confidence booster in itself! Hope this helps :)
/r/seduction01/07/20 01:42 AM
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Send her a video of yourself. Or voice message, if the girls fine she’ll probably have a dozen of dudes messaging her so sending a video you’re already standing out in the crowd. A girl can think you’re fine enough to give you her text/snap but she looks for social QUES in your voice how you word things if she’s going to commit to hanging out. How do you say no? How do you say yes? That’ll boost you to the top of her list
/r/seduction23/05/20 06:16 PM
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The more you give a fuck the more hesitant you become the less confident you get. If you wanted my honest opinion don’t care as Much as what you send her. Is she replying to you? Ok than you have some magic to work with. Send her something tomorrow that’ll get her to illicit emotion and think wow I have to respond . If you want a simpler text on the safe side just send a “hey you.” With an iPhone game pulled up The less you care the better it will come off. Worst game she doesn’t respond okay co…
/r/seduction23/05/20 03:54 AM
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Of course man but it’s texting you don’t want to take it to serious, if she does than she does you have to be okay with rejection🙇🏽‍♂️If you just text her about class/work she’ll just consider you a texting buddy /friend which is I’m assuming you like her a waste of efforts and time. Use texts that creates attraction and shows togetherness
/r/seduction23/05/20 03:38 AM
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You can use the fords as small talk over face time or actually hanging out with her, that’s where it shines. However i feel as texting is the perfect tool for creating attraction /getting her to hang out with you in the first place so I’d stick to just me you conversation. Just text her tomorrow something funny like , “just got us tickets to Hawaii 🤪”or “will you go to prom with me😩” The way I’m setting the convo up is inherently flirty and it’s going to either designate a goofy laugh response w…
/r/seduction23/05/20 03:06 AM
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Fords. Me you conversation. Small talk is important because it’s how a girl gages if you’re a match or not , like can you make her laugh/keep her interested. So Me you conversation is pretty just making the nature of the convo about y’all which is inherently flirty and sets up the convo to be fun. EX: ( are you ready to let me love you?) (let’s go on our Netflix date I have the tub of ice cream for us ready 😏) That and fords. Acronym for family/occupation/relationships/dreams/dog /sports . Any o…
/r/seduction23/05/20 02:57 AM
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