Hey reddit, I’ve been following this reddit for awhile and I’ve seemed some super powerful helpful tips here so I thought I’d share some helpful knowledge that I’ve worked on/mastered and that is indifference with girls!

Just a little back ground I grew up a chubby kid and my confidence didn’t start soaring till junior year in high school, but I’ve been dating/hooking up pretty successfully since then, I’m 21 now. (Not trying to boast but basically trying to say I wasn’t always like this, it took time and a shit ton of rejection 😂😂 )

So let’s get to it. Indifference is basically acting the opposite of a dude whose trying to chase a woman. 9/10 most guys are chasing the woman, very usually the other way around. Indifference can communicate two things: 1, you don’t care about rejection, you will still be 100% alright at the end of the day if she says no/ throws a curve.

What this does to girls is that they sense that you’re confident enough in yourself to walk up to her, yet you don’t really care if she says yes or no, it communicates to her that she’s just a 1 in a dozen of other woman you’ve talked too. (And what do woman want? What other women have!)

Just a story where I use indifference to successfully bring this girl home at a bar.

We were at a bar, I saw her on another side and made eye contact, she did and we both smiled. I walked over there and said, “you’re an interesting looking girl, she laughed/smile

Long story short we began chatting and she was showing me signs of hook up potential. But her friends and my friends were there and I constantly saw her chatting w other dudes.

Indifference tip 101: start talking to other girls/friends. She wants you to try and get her attention back to yourself, which she expects. You shrugging it off and talking to other females indicates two things:(You Dont give a shit if she’s talking to other men, you’re still gonna have fun and flirt. Also, you’re not desperate/needy for her. You’ve got to pull off the poker face that you’re completely fine with her leaving you, (this will drive her crazy)

Once we got back to our inner friend circle at the pool table she walked over and talked to us. I sent flirting some signs to her (touching her hair, making eye contact) but she was still fighting me on it., (wasn’t giving me it back)

What I decided to do then was key to bagging this pretty light skin girl: I acted for 5 minutes like she wasn’t there. I made zero eye contact, talked to my friends and made jokes the entire time, and she couldn’t handle it longer than that. Sooner she was all over me , touching me, grabbing my pants she couldn’t wait to gather my attention again , all for herself! We then went on and got out of the bar and had a fun night at her house ;)

I’m sorry for the long 2page essay MLA format I just posted but I tried to be as detailed as possible 😂😂 Just a quick rehash, girls love attention and being chased, 9/10 guys will fall into this. BE THE OPPOSITE. You not going for that shit makes her want you even more! It presents you as mysterious and confident, (why isn’t he chasing me?) (why does he not care if we talk)

Indifference is a powerful key in helping you with relationships/dating/hooking up! Use it well😂😂