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17

Yes this! And yes, sadly, also speaking from experience. When this happened to me I was fortunate enough to realize where it was headed before I got too invested. The thought of some boring, complacent lump not just going along with whatever I planned but expecting me to MAKE all those plans was a big no from me. He also talked big game about things he'd do in the future ("I'm gonna make you dinner one of these days") but took absolutely no steps to achieve anything TODAY (and obviously never ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:33 AM
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Fellas, is it gay to shower?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:13 AM
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I just looooove when men mansplain the video game we're playing to me, especially when I have at least twice the hours in the game they do. But yes, Kevin, please explain the fundamentals of the game to me, preferably in a slow and deliberate way because I'm just a simple woman with a simple lady brain and therefore should be talked down to like a child. Maybe if you spent more time killing and less time running your mouth just to hear yourself talk you'd have a better K/D. Fuck outta here, scru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:28 PM
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I used to sell sex toys and can't tell you how many guys would roll up to the counter with some comically oversized rubber cock and balls gleefully exclaiming "it's for my wife!" Always, ALWAYS it wasn't just a dildo, it was like some gross flesh-colored realistic dildo with balls. Because ya know wow do the balls do it for us, am I right ladies? 🙄 No matter how many times I tried politely suggesting their wife might better enjoy a bullet or hell even a rabbit, they'd insist on this ugly rubber …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:33 AM
14

I wore a ski mask into the grocery store yesterday. A full head, can only see my eyes ski mask lol. It's a wild timeline we're living in that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:18 AM
3

The first time this happened to me I was TWELVE. I'd just moved and was registering at a new middle school, an older boy overheard my mom giving our number to the school and proceeded to blow up our phone being an awkward creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:26 AM
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I'm turning 40 this year and my God is it peaceful not getting constantly pestered by random men. They honestly believe "once you hit the wall, we'll leave you alone!" is some kind of threat. Like hell yes, please leave us alone. I wish I could have hit the wall 20 years ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:01 AM
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Man up and learn to use punctuation, champ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:53 PM
8

I mean, if it was me I'd just reread this post every time I had a weak moment, you listed out quite a few reasons A) you guys aren't compatible and B) how he not only doesn't add value to your life but actually takes away from it. You already know he's no good for you, hold that feeling close if you're ever feeling weak and repeat to yourself that you deserve better. Visualize the future you want, the kind of partner you want, the life you're building for yourself -- and then remind yourself tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:15 PM
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"This isn't working out, best of luck to you." And then block him everywhere. Don't leave the door open, don't let him try to explain or promise to change, you already know from your previous efforts that won't happen. You don't owe him an explanation. Then go live your best life! Your parents must be so proud, you deserve a partner who will highlight all the hard work you're putting in to better yourself, not some lazy couch creature who can't even bring dick to the table. Let him enjoy his moo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:19 PM
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Same for feminist. Show, don't tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:28 AM
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If a woman is rejected, she asks "what's wrong with ME that he didn't want to be with me?" When a man is rejected, he does shit like this and asks himself "what's wrong with HER that she doesn't want ME?" The Y chromosome is defective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:46 PM
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He's serious about me and wants us to move together to a bigger place his mom will rent us Read between the lines, sis. His mom is just pawning him off on you so she doesn't have to be the one to cook his tendies and scrub the skid marks out of his drawers any more. Unless your goal in life is being bangmaid to a resentful scrote who can't even make himself a bowl of cereal, get out of there and don't look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:17 PM
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Whenever you feel weak, read the handbook. Instead of giving in, do something indulgent for yourself like a bubble bath or a movie and popcorn in your comfiest jammies, whatever is your jam when you want to treat yourself. You'll find that the more you focus on leveling up, the less you'll linger in the trash heap where you found this guy. Good luck and good job, stay strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:42 AM
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I guarantee you the birthday girl's boyfriend can still remember the cheat code to make NPCs in GTA San Andreas wear gimp suits tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:10 PM
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This is OLD? By the pic I would have thought it was the sex offender registry. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:58 PM
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You're getting a lot of good advice but I want to emphasize that the short and sweet approach before you block and delete is best here. A guy like this will manipulate the shit out of you if you try to "be the better person" and explain why you're breaking up with him. Don't bother, for your sake. Not like it would make a lick of difference anyway. "This isn't working out, best of luck to you" boom, done, then block him everywhere. Try not to overthink it, just rip that bandaid off and go live y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:56 PM
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She was also a terrible, self-centered friend. Every time the other girls brought up something they were dealing with, she'd be like "yeah but what about my petty issue that is entirely my fault because I'm too busy trying to get laid instead of getting my ass into therapy?" And then when her friends finally had it with her bullshit and told her to stop using them for emotional labor and go find a shrink, what does she do but find some loser to sleep with. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:48 AM
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I don't know which crusty scrote needs to hear this but here goes: "I'd fuck you" is not a compliment, you mouth-breathing piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:09 AM
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Proved her wrong and pitched in = picked up his crusty underwear off the bathroom floor for once Wow, you really showed her, Kevin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:04 PM
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And lesbians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:21 AM
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I meeeeean... The 20-30 year old guys broke their dicks from watching too much internet porn so it's not like younger guys can keep up (pun intended) with women their own age either. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:11 AM
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At least he acknowledged most men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:30 PM
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Where and how did you find the motivation, inspiration, discipline, and gumption to finally stop giving your time to your toxic ex? We block them like the handbook says to do. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:29 AM
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Anything less than kowtowing to their USDA Grade F dicks is considered hate. Men are used to being centered and praised for doing the bare minimum if that so yeah, a bunch of women with standards are a threat because we actually call them on their shit and expect more. They're also mad because we don't even allow them to speak here, oh the humanity! Reddit is a male-dominated website and you'll be hard-pressed to find any corner that isn't infected by pornsick LVMs and their Pickme cheerleaders.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:31 PM
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I love how LVM think being a useless, oxygen-wasting meatbag is cute to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:31 PM
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MFers out here on OLD sounding like perps from To Catch a Predator running game on 13 year old decoys, good Lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:27 AM
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Well thankfully pornsickness is helping us get back to that stat since it breaks most of their dicks. Can't propagate those genes if you can't even get it up... Only the guys who don't sit around all day pulling the pud to violence will be left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:45 PM
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Don't. If you absolutely need to get it out, write him a letter, burn it, and consider the matter over. There is no scenario in which you telling him off makes him realize he sucks or changes him in any positive way. If anything, he'll just get off on knowing he still rents space in your head. Keep your power, absolute silence is your best weapon with people like that. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:35 PM
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OK so putting all that aside (not that "can you support yourself?" isn't a reasonable thing to ask a potential partner), asking what someone does for a living is like top 5 of the "getting to know you" questions everyone asks ANYONE. Not only does this guy not have a job -- which can kinda be forgiven in the current economic environment -- but he apparently has never had nor does he desire a career. I had an unfortunately long stint of unemployment years back, I still had an answer when people a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:59 PM
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Ding ding ding. For whatever reason he won't outright say he doesn't want a baby, so instead he's hoping if he's gross enough she'll forget about it (and probably was already a little gross to begin with). This will end in disaster for all involved. She might as well go to a sperm bank if she wants a baby so bad, she's clearly gonna be on her own with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:49 PM
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I thought by the thread title this was gonna be about PUAs teaching men to be decent people in order to attract high quality women rather than teaching them "tricks" to get laid. That should be a thing, too. Shhhh don't tell men the big secret that they can get women just by being decent human beings, it'll blow their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:20 PM
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What about YOU, sis? Pick up a hobby, volunteer, take an online class... work on YOU. If nothing else it will distract you, but more likely it will also benefit you and make you a better person. It sounds like you need to learn to trust your gut and work on your confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:18 PM
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If your first paragraph starts with "I think this guy I just met is HVM but..." read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:40 PM
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Because this is what men do. They are mistakenly led to believe that their opinions have value and should be distributed at all times in all circumstances. There used to be an entire sub dedicated to comments made by men in woman-centered subs on everything from dating to -- I shit you not -- periods, tampons, and IUDs. Why the fuck do we care what some man thinks about tampon brands?? It's just how they're socialized I guess. I am curious how other women (and you, OP!) deal with these. Maybe I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:01 AM
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Other LVM probably see this and think we're all lined up to get near him just because he's tall. Like no, call Waste Management and please have them bring a big ass truck to pick all of you up cuz you're trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:31 PM
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He's not actually attached to you (not in the way you think anyway), more like he's latched onto you because you're a warm body giving him a chance. So don't make yourself responsible for his feelings because he doesn't have any. Avoid whatever place you found this guy at. Read the handbook, learn to spot the flags so you don't even give emotional vampires like this a second glance, then you won't find yourself in this situation with one again. This is why vetting is so important in FDS, codepen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:28 PM
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You know how sometimes when you watch too much TV you find yourself craving something out of nowhere? Like wow, I haven't thought of Reese's in forever but that sounds so good right now. And then you realize it's because you saw repeated commercials for it? I think guys like this watch so much porn that it just turns into advertising but for dicks to them. They've been beating it so much that instead of McDonald's or a cold beer all they can think about is big hard dick. My theory 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:07 PM
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Why do they always say LOL after saying the stupidest, not at all funny shit. The only thing funny about this is this scrub thinking his sub-par baby batter is good for anything other than staining his undoubtedly crusty old bed sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:18 PM
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If it helps, write the letter you want to send him and then destroy it. That way you get the thoughts and feelings out without giving him the satisfaction of any sort of response. The biggest and best message you can send him is silence. Stay strong, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:33 PM
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Hahaha yeah, your lack of a cleft chin (wtf) is the problem, Chris. Try again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:56 PM
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Sis why you letting 10 year olds text you, tell him to hit you up when he finishes 5th grade English and then block his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:48 PM
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Who would want to pleasure A STRANGE MAN and then get ABSOLUTELY NOTHING in return?? Other men. He obviously meant to post this to Grindr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:32 AM
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She's seeking a Sex and the City scriptwriter to tie up this disaster of a storyline into a compact one-hour episode in which she learns absolutely nothing but somehow has fun doing the same bullshit she's done for the past two seasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:01 AM
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Do men really care about age and weight? I think not really, not if they were really attracted to women. They’re attracted to the feeling of power. Power over women. “Sorry but you’ll also age.” Her confidence threatens him. This tho. I wonder sometimes if these men even like women at all considering how so many of them think vulvas are ugly, demand zero body hair, basically only like highly-edited facsimiles of actual women. I'm bisexual and find women just absolutely amazing, especially confid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:44 AM
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Yeah, because the problem is chocolates. I can smell OP's unwashed balls from all the way over here just reading this post, which was undoubtedly written from the comfort and safety of his mother's basement surrounded by his rich inheritance of empty Cheeto bags and used Kleenex. Try harder next time, champ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:53 PM
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Haha I love how men like this -- and yes, male lurkers, it is always men -- will write a damn dissertation on any topic and then add "but I'm no expert." Ok? You seem to have strong opinions for someone who don't know shit, sir. Women do not do this. We're gaslit into questioning ourselves, our thoughts, even our own experiences. Meanwhile men have no problem telling us how uteruses work and literally everything else they know nothing about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:12 PM
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"Sorry to disturb you but not really because if I was actually sorry I wouldn't." Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:12 PM
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Once again thankful I put 0 effort into my appearance 99.99% of the time and never get hit on. Sis I wish this were the case. I'm a t-shirt and leggings kinda gal, I swear the most busted ass men come at me with such audacity when I'm working out in an old t-shirt and covered in sweat. I've had guys literally chase me down the street "just trying to have a conversation" when I'm clearly just trying to exercise, like how dare I be a woman, existing in the world and NOT want to be entertained by s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:11 PM
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I think they sincerely believe that women are impressed, as if we'd see this and go "well look, another woman clearly likes him, he must be a catch." That or the Y chromosome is on some wild shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:56 PM
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The trash can was right there all the time, telling you to smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:01 PM
6

Well thankfully they're all breaking their dicks by jerking off to porn all day so congrats, Mother Earth, you may be rid of the scourge of humanity after all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:40 PM
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That's the funniest part. Like yo, you want a FWB and aren't even bringing the B! Straight into the dumpster with you, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:31 PM
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So basically they want to drive all the women away and be left alone with their dicks in their hands? Seems kinda gay but whatever, you do you, manchildren of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:36 PM
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Was that the one they said was totally fine because it was "role-playing"? I might be mixing it up with some other degenerate jerk-off material, it's so hard to keep track of all the disgusting shit men use this website for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:45 PM
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We're also over on spinster.xyz and saidit, come on over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:22 PM
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"were" Just because the obvious CP subs were nuked doesn't mean the 8 million remaining porn subs are CP-free. Oh, but I'm sure it's just an innocent and totally not weird "teen" fetish involving definitely legal, consenting adults 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:19 PM
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Men: "y'all women are gold diggers! Pay for your own dinner!" Women: organize, level up, and have standards Men: NO NOT LIKE THAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:00 PM
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I think it's safe to assume any sub that doesn't center men and/or their dicks at all times is on the chopping block. They've made it clear they don't like women assembling amongst themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:45 AM
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So let's call misandry our kink, then they have to allow it /s Meanwhile they have 100s of highly specialized porn subs featuring everything from women depersonalizing during sex to cartoon animals getting fucked by cars but God forbid women be allowed a space to discuss how they can protect themselves and each other. Nope, a step too far!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:53 PM
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Wow. So if there was any doubt about the intent of this banwave, there it is. They just want their vidya, memes, and porn and for the womenfolk to get ourselves back in the kitchen. Does this come as a surprise to anyone? Reddit has always been predominantly male. Of course it caters to a particular demographic. We were never welcome. We were temporarily allowed to hang out here, so long as we didn't step too far out of line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:09 PM
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Friendly reminder that men stick their dicks in coconuts, couch cushions, goats, and literally just random holes in walls. Let's not pretend like this philosophy of his has a single thing to do with "standards" or whatever judgment he's making about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:42 PM
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It's so weird how some men seem to believe we emerge from the womb with a Swiffer in one hand and a dishcloth in the other. Cleaning has never been something I'm particularly good at, nor enthusiastic to do but I suck it up and do it because I like having a nice space. I follow cleaning subreddits for tips and purchase items that will make things easier (steam mop is a game changer, ladies!). Because, you know, I'm a functional adult. These men just shrug and go "well cleaning doesn't come natur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:43 AM
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Maybe 30 years ago a guy could say he's against violence against women and NOT consume violent porn but nowadays literally everyone who consumes porn is inundated with abuse, violence, etc. There is no way a porn consumer can possibly browse their favorite site and not make the connection. This ain't your dad's blurry late night Cinemax softcore. Not to say the porn of yore was great either, but users really had to go out of their way to find the violent stuff. Now it's to the point where 13 yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:31 PM
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Yep. He's keeping her on the bench just in case Plan A (and perhaps Plans B, C, and D) don't work out or don't give him everything he's looking for. This ain't the NBA, sis, you aren't pulling a decent salary just for sitting around hoping coach will put you in for 30 seconds once the starting lineup gets tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:19 PM
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What you just said is literally a small plotline in a Sex and the City episode... So, like 20 years ago. They were talking about this guy Miranda hooked up with who ate her ass and they were all like "is this a thing now? Some woman somewhere liked it once and the guy ran and told all the other guys." Seems pretty gay for a guy to proudly exclaim "I eat ass!" as if that's something women like. Like that's nice, Tom, but can you find a clitoris on a map??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:48 PM
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I'm not feeling it at all There's your answer, sis. Doesn't matter what we say, your gut already knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:45 PM
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No one wants to see your dick, Bobby, no matter what the vodka tells you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:14 PM
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Honestly no answer is a good answer IMHO. Most men have a hard time understanding that not every single thing requires their input/response/unique perspective as a man (eyeroll to that last one).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:08 PM
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How is "send me a photo of you I can jerk off to" nice? I'd hate to see what his idea of a "bad way" is if that's his idea of a nice one. He's backtracking. I'm surprised he didn't pull the ole "haha it was a JOKE" when you shot that down. Stand your ground. Even if he's good in other ways, it's a bit concerning that he's jumping to requesting jerk-off material at this (or frankly any) stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:28 PM
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Jesus Christ for the last time it's YOU'RE. And use apostrophes, is he seriously too lazy to press an extra button on his phone to get to one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:45 PM
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"we'd fuck you" is to them a big "ego" booster Exactly, because to their small heads someone willing to fuck you is the highest honor. Where women tend to try to see things from the other side, men are like "I don't get it, you should be fLaTteReD!!" They simply can't imagine our reality, wherein we want to be left the fuck alone and not constantly accosted by every drunk homeless guy and construction worker who believes just because we committed the sin of being a woman out in public we deserve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:33 PM
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Women are too emotional yet tens of millions of men since the dawn of civilization have fought and died in wars over imaginary lines they drew on land and all-seeing beings in the sky ruling over us. Some of us maybe get emotional for a few days out of the month, meanwhile men can snap at any moment over a chicken nugget. Nevermind that women overwhelmingly face inward and beat our own selves up rather than lash out like men when it comes to emotional turmoil. But sure, we're the ones with the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:20 PM
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I mean, men of Reddit have admitted to sticking their dicks in everything from couch cushions to rancid coconuts, "We'd fuck you" isn't exactly the highest of compliments there champ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:54 AM
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A bit off topic but I was in cat rescue for many years. Feel free to reach out if you have questions about finding good homes and/or would like to borrow my adoption application. Happy to help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:37 PM
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To think of all the ingenuity and evolutionary advantages that went into apes first walking upright and then, against all odds, leading to the evolution of the most powerful, intelligent species the Earth has ever known only to end up with... this. What a waste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:36 AM
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God just reading those messages gave me a headache and I don't even know this guy. People who manage to make the most mundane activity into some drama-filled escapade are exhausting. Just buy your damn printer and go fuck off to the Island of Useless Men, Chaz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:33 PM
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Sometimes they don't even like you, they just get mad because like you said, it's all about access and they don't like getting cut off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:20 AM
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Something tells me if Fleshlights had even a hint of sentience they wouldn't want anything to do with his grimy ass either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:59 PM
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So buy a Fleshlight, then. It'll get you off and never ask you to commit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:24 PM
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Makes me think of this agegap post I saw today. 46 yo scrote somehow manages to bag a 22 yo out of his league, scares her away by being whiny and possessive over some random guy in her life and now he's sad because she got smart and dumped him. https://np.reddit.com/r/AgeGap/comments/gxuagh/feeling_broken_46m_after_breakup_22_f/ Yeah... He knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:12 AM
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I've stayed at shitty, roach-infested roadside motels in Podunk, Nebraska that treated me better than this. To the trash can with you, young man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:02 AM
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He seems interested to be around you and he's willing to do what you're doing to hang out with you. Then he should have planned a date, not texted her at the last minute and tried to tag along on her errands like a lost puppy. I've done grocery store dates before. With someone I was engaged to, who planned it out a week in advance so we could shop for a nice dinner we'd make together. This ain't it, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:18 PM
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Has she tried CoMmuNiCAtiNG?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:08 PM
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LBM - low bar man. Reminding us the bar is so low it's in Hell, just because a dude isn't limboing under it doesn't make him HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:49 PM
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They are forced to deal with women in every single aspect of their lives Uhh, "ma'am" your incel is showing. You might want to try harder next time you go digital larping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:29 PM
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Dating me will look like... Constantly cleaning up after me because I can't even throw my empties in the recycling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:53 AM
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5'11" in OLD inches is 5'7" at most and even that is generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:51 AM
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Ugh where does this audacity come from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:49 AM
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Even then Pickmes would get on to try and harass women for threesomes with their scrote boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:48 AM
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Or let another guy fuck him in the ass since apparently it's such a "little thing" to jam dicks up your poop chute according to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:24 PM
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Dismantle the system lmao lazy manchild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:28 PM
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"Buddy"? Dodged a bullet there, sis. Can only imagine what his shriveled little drunk brain was thinking after midnight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:34 PM
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I think he means his PlayStation trophies. He must have a male heir to inherit the platinums duh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:05 PM
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Only because he was so shyyyyyy when the waitress brought the bill. He's introverted ya know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:37 PM
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We have notoriously miniscule attention spans and tend to be distracted by shiny things. That said, we can also be fiercely loyal. Just, you know, gotta get past the flighty part first. Keep a Sag on their toes and you're good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:20 PM
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Lived in SF both with and without car. Can unequivocally state that if you have a car in San Francisco you're gonna have a bad time. UNLESS you have a garage, which very few do. Very few of my friends/coworkers had cars, and this was before Uber was a thing. There's Zipcar for day trips, everything else is NBD to get to on Muni. LA on the other hand... definitely need a car. Also lived in DC (both in the city itself and the metro area)... Metro is fantastic but a car is a good idea. You can get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:30 PM
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I agree with what everyone else has told you. I actually lost a VERY good friend of mine over the scrote she was seeing and if I could have done it differently, I would have butted the hell out after the first time she told me to stay out of it. She wasn't going to listen. Ever. And it ruined our friendship because rather than seeing the light, she saw me as trying to break up her "wonderful" relationship. We all have to learn these lessons in our own time. It's hard to stand by and see someone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 12:40 AM
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The only reason women are catty to each other is because MEN managed to convince us that dick is scarce, meaning we fight over it like stray dogs over a steak. Good thing at least some of us wised up to their little scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:29 PM
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Ah yes, I'm sure he was such a worldly, enlightened 20-year-old when he taught her about the universe. Fuck does that even mean, he browses r/science and took DMT once? Be gone with you, Scrotestradamus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:26 PM
5

I know it's super silly ... I know it's super dumb I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess she brought her fears up to a partner and he put the above ideas in her head. "Stop being silly!" The fact she feels compelled to repeat it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:00 PM
65

Choice comment from the AITA thread: Im sad to see this in "controversial". I think people associate r/pussypassdenied with women haters or something when in reality its pushing for more equality Uh huh. Ladies, this is what your "male feminists" think when they talk about equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:37 AM
20

Sooo when did men get together and decide "I'm a dumbass and don't pay attention lol!" to be an attractive trait for them to advertise? I swear men didn't used to be so obvious about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:16 PM
12

Someone here commented yesterday that the couch creatures have gotten bored, they probably reached the end of Netflix/Pornhub since quarantine started so now they're migrating to OLD. Makes sense. And would explain why the new profiles are so busted, it's the absolute bottom of the barrel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:14 PM
17

Lmao he only works 4 hours a day she said. The rest of the time is spent gaming. Sometimes up to 11 hours a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:59 PM
4

Name doesn't check out. Please hear what we're trying to tell you and spend more time with the handbook. No one wants to wade in the swamp that is the dating pool, that's not what FDS is about. And stop telling us about all this stuff he bought for you. HE LIVES WITH HIS DAD. If anything it just demonstrates that his priorities are screwed up and he's trying to string you along with gifts he can't afford. That. Is. Not. High. Value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:37 PM
14

With all due respect: Are those the excuses you tell yourself or the ones he tells you? Come toward the light... A man who wants a life with you will move mountains to make it happen. Couldn't even afford rent? Sis what is you doin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:23 PM
22

Sis, you already know the answer. If he wanted it, debt or not, your "life together" would have already started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:15 PM
61

She also wrote: Then he wants to play video games so she sleeps, he wears these noise canceling headphones so when she wakes back up it's me until whenever he gets off. It's usually 4 hours more if my dad and brothers gets on too. So all the men in her life are shit. She's probably used to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:12 PM
104

This additional information from OP is important for context: Yeah with the pandemic his hours have been shortened to 5 hours 4 days of the week. And he does he gets home plays with her for an hour and then he'll lay her down so he can play a video game. He'll play from 2-9 most days playing with her during a 15 minute break. Most of the time like before i need to cook dinner she and I hang out in my room I've found out she absolutely loves both Incredible movie and a Despicable Me movie (i plan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:56 PM
33

this grown ass man Press X to doubt. Sounds like you're shacked up with a preschooler, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:01 AM
23

Someone here said something recently that made me think... Men just cannot fathom that we don't spend every waking moment pining after them and wishing we could get laid like they do. They don't understand that even the most busted among us could just walk outside at any hour of the day and have sex if she wanted. It might not be good sex but it's still available, on demand, 24/7. Men simply can't understand that we're perfectly happy to be alone. That's why the scrotes hate FDS, because it teac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:37 PM
17

We're perfectly capable of watching Netflix at home with our vibrators and surely will have a better time without putting ourselves at risk. Do better, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:27 PM
3

I don't even want to know based on the rest of that demented ass comment he made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:45 PM
45

Oh and I just got a love note from a pedo apologist who said I'm "literally disgusting" for posting this because shaming pedos makes them not seek help which in turn hurts more kids. FUCK YOU THIS IS NOT MY FAULT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:35 PM
7

Sorry, titles can't be edited. I marked NSFW though, didn't realize the screenshots would show in preview. I'm sorry if this upset you, absolutely not my intention 😞 thanks for bringing it to my attention, I know not everyone wants to see this kind of stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:51 PM
23

There were multiple mentions of using drawings, anime, and that loli shit to "satisfy" the urge. Yo. Imagine being a grown-ass man openly discussing how you get off to drawings of children like it's nothing. These men are fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:47 PM
1

There were multiple mentions of using drawings, anime, and that loli shit to "satisfy" the urge. Yo. Imagine being a grown-ass man openly discussing how you get off to drawings of children like it's nothing. These men are fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:47 PM
17

That's kinda why I shared it. This wasn't some obscure corner of the Internet where creeps hide, Reddit is what like the 4th most popular website in the U.S.? And these guys are just openly admitting to pedophilia and fantasies of torturing women! What the hell is even happening?! We need to be fully aware of what we're up against. I didn't bother to look at post histories, there were just SO many comments in that thread. I can only imagine many of the guys in that thread probably seem otherwise…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:38 PM
13

I think it was deleted, I should have archived it so future anthropologists can study the absolute depravity of the 21st century early Internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:31 PM
17

Yeah sorry, I should maybe put a warning or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:23 PM
130

"It's easy and effective" Easy for you to say when it's not YOUR body, Tom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:41 AM
39

You probably have a better crib than him, don't you? He sounds like a Stage 5 Clinger, perform an exorcism immediately to remove the offending spirit from your space. Block him and then sage after. Seriously, nothing you described sounds like high value. If you insist on trying to salvage the relationship, you two need to have a serious talk about boundaries. I predict he might go along with it temporarily but will be right back to invading your space in no time. I don't think there's any saving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:29 PM
27

"I have a personality disorder that I refuse to work on, aren't I cute!!" Why haven't you just blocked his ass, sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:28 PM
120

"Unlike other reviews I never had a problem with this ring turning my finger green" GOD DAMN I stole better jewelry from this from Claire's at the mall when I was 12, what is y'all doin?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:25 PM
80

What planet does this guy live on where men lack the confidence to approach women!? I've been accosted by every trash can, homeless drunk, grandpa, and Big Ed stunt double from California to New York since the age of 12. These motherfuckers DO. NOT. NEED. CONFIDENCE lmao please God no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:55 AM
114

I am shocked by the number of people who barely knew each other and said "hey, let's move in together!" because the world started falling apart. "Fuck it why not" is terrible reasoning in the face of a total global shutdown. Expect to see even more stories like this and worse in the coming weeks. It's been just long enough that most of the fake HVMs have run out of the energy to keep pretending, the dam is breaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:47 AM
6

He's a gamer on Reddit bragging about all the sex he has. Sure it's possible but this ain't it, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:13 PM
18

None of the advice here is benefical to shit men and they can't bear the thought. Which is hella funny to think about because if any of them were actually interested in graduating to HVM status we have the requirements clearly laid out for all to see. They could, I dunno, put in a little effort just by studying what's considered high value here and maybe come out the other side as a semi-valuable partner who actually has something to offer women. But nah, rather than doing better they choose to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:09 PM
131

That whole thread reeks of thathappened territory to me. Very few 20 year old dudes can manage regular sex with a basketball team's worth of women. Maybe in their dreams, sure, but as we all know the real world doesn't work that way. And they allllll think he's such a nice guy? Sure, Jon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:27 PM
66

I have a rule: I don't fuck anything that doesn't know which "their" to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:23 AM
10

Have you ever tried AA OP? It's not for everyone, but maybe just go and check out a meeting (online meetings are a thing during the pandemic). If it resonates with you, great! Work your steps, get yourself a FEMALE sponsor, and focus on yourself. But beware of predatory men who think the rooms are a meat market. In the meantime, get a quality vibrator. Boom, sex is sorted. I have somewhat been in your shoes, and I know I made terrible choices when I was dragging around my baggage and using alcoh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:56 PM
10

So funny, I got one of these from my LVM too. Almost the exact same thing, "this Corona stuff is weird huh!" Um... I blocked you everywhere, why the hell are you emailing me? And yeah, I had to block him on PlayStation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:52 PM
72

Said it before will say it again: these men can remember the helicopter spawn cheat code from GTA San Andreas that came out 15 years ago, surely they can remember holidays/birthdays. Women have always been expected to and have done this for them, that's why they never learned how. I dunno about y'all but I have a stack of cards given to me when I was a kid from grandparents, cousins, etc. If you look closely, literally every single one was written by the woman of the household. Historically men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:23 AM
1

I mean, I was watching YouPorn in my 20s (10+ years ago), definitely saw some depraved shit on there. And it's only gotten worse since then. I would imagine many women who watch porn are more than aware of the demented shit these guys like to watch. Having once been one myself, I believe many Cool Girls™ know all about the shit their boyfriends are watching (at least the stuff they admit to), they defend it because PoRn iS HEaLthY or some such crap they have to tell themselves. Btw I'm not tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:53 PM
37

Oh yep I just re-read it, you're right! He definitely 100% knew and got off on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:27 PM
22

Love isn’t the end-all be-all, and you deserve more. Say it one more time for the people in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:38 PM
6

I mean, to be fair most mainstream "lesbian" porn is hetero porn insomuch as it's made by men for consumption by men. I get your point though, OP. Ain't none of us out here watching "Step Sis Gets Throat Banged"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:33 PM
123

How do you "accidentally" do this on a video conference with just six people? When I do video conferences I can see all participants including myself in tiny windows, not to mention the giant glowing ass blue light on my webcam that tells me it's on and feeding video. How much you want to bet he got off on "secretly" masturbating on a video call and is only seeking advice because he got called out for it. ETA: Yep, called it. OP made a follow-up comment: Even if it is likely just one person (onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:29 PM
25

I like how his ability to type words out degraded as soon as he got mad. Seething with so much anger he couldn't even manage a few extra letters, sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:59 PM
252

Wow, the daughter is one month old and already expected to do work for lazy ass men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:03 AM
3

I have nothing constructive to say other than: please review the handbook and then block his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:02 AM
150

Imagine if we colonized prostate cancer boards en masse saying "well, as a woman here's what I think..." Men have 99.9% of Reddit practically to themselves. It's not enough, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:07 AM
7

God yes! I had this acquaintance who played League, he literally never left the house. He lied to his parents about attending college so they'd pay his rent in this fancy downtown loft which never made sense to me, why not just live in a shithole if you're going to be parked in front of your computer 20 hours a day? Eventually they found out and made him move back home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:49 PM
12

I mean, it's a free country do what you want but engaging with these scrotes is not the FDS way. Block and delete. It's a waste of your time and we're supposed to be better than that. The core of this sub is not "let's mess with scrotes" but rather "let's level up together and not give these losers the time of day." Your way is the antithesis of what we're doing here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:44 PM
17

But he informs you about it. That’s good. Respectfully but strongly disagree. It sounds like he's trying to make her jealous, why even bring it up at all? And on a FaceTime call at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:18 PM
10

For being straight, these guys sure are obsessed with dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:25 PM
70

He's probably a wallstreetbets user who plans to do some dumb shit he doesn't understand just for a meme and easy karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:22 AM
7

It's even grimier because he tried to act like he gives a shit about your health and wants y'all to quit smoking. "But first, let me tell you all about what gets my dick hard." Fuck outta here, weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:48 PM
9

I just want to be around to provide my opinion Of course you do, sir. Please take several seats NO ONE CARES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:43 PM
49

Why did he post this in socialskills? Demanding constant and unconditional free emotional labor from others rather than taking proactive steps to improve yourself (such as mindfulness or I dunno SEEING A FUCKING THERAPIST) is like the exact opposite of social skills. I'm so sick of hearing men complain about how hard they have it because of expectations. As if literally everyone doesn't fight with society to be their own, whole person. Grow up and get help from someone whose job it is to help th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:18 PM
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Unfortunately it's striking them younger and younger due to kung-fu jerkoff grip and pornsickness. Other than rare medical cases, there's no reason 20 year olds shouldn't be able to get it up. Its fucked up. An entire generation has let their porn addiction take a huge swath of themselves out of the gene pool unless they turn off PornHub and learn how to get off the way humans have since the dawn of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:52 AM
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The best part is how she said the puppy doesn't even need the puppy pads anymore because unlike the boyfriend, the dog is fully trained. So actually she's insinuating he's worse than an animal since the animal is capable of being civilized and not spraying piss everywhere 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:22 PM
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I love how Ed thought he could just hobble his human thumb ass to the Philippines and pick himself up a subservient young wife who would bow at his feet for the chance at a life in the U.S. It just goes to show how ignorant these sex tourists are when it comes to the culture of the country they're poaching partners from. Good for her, she and Prince deserve so much better than that sweaty little troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:25 PM
9

In my experience the ones who definitely won't change (which is most of them let's be real) very clearly signal you to this reality. They will say with their own mouths "when x happens, I'll do y." Meaning they aren't motivated, rather they're holding out for some set of conditions that may or may not ever be met. Because in their mind saying "one day I'll do this" is just as good as putting in the actual effort. My last experience with an LVM he had this on full display at all times. When we mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:52 PM
14

Hahaha when I clicked on the article I got an ad for Dulcolax. Even my browser can see this guy is full of shit and needs help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:47 PM
31

What's funny is a good portion of the overly-graphic stuff on subs like that "by women" is actually dudes role-playing for wank material. So the gross dudes are DMing other gross dudes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:47 PM
13

Yeah she means the 8 minutes between matches while he's queueing for a new game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:01 AM
20

Deadbedrooms complains about this pretty regularly as well. Hmm it's almost as if men simply can't control themselves and have to ruin everything by waving their dicks around. Shocking, I tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:56 AM
19

"Dear Penthouse..." fap fap fap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:20 AM
22

Yeah, the casual attitude is way more concerning than the ring IMHO. As usual, I doubt we're getting the full picture. Homeboy probably got her a QVC CZ and "proposed" just to get her off his back for stringing her along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:57 PM
16

It makes me cringe deep in my soul thinking about the boyfriend bathrooms I accepted in my Pickmeisha days. In my mid-20s I lived with my best friend and remember one time joking about how we lived like bachelors because we had a fun apartment with a PlayStation and shitty but comfy furniture I think her dad bought us. But looking back on it now I am like hell no we were not grimy dudes, we always had TP, the good paper towels, nice soap and 10 different kinds of hair product, not to mention ent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:07 AM
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LOL! Because like most of us I dated that guy repeatedly before FDS. The worst is how they always had that naked ass toilet paper roll with like half a sheet left on it. Every. Single. Time. Did you not know I was coming over, bro? You literally texted me that morning asking me to come over and couldn't grab a roll of TP after I said sure? Jesus Lord I can't just shake it off like you do buddy, give me something more than 3 inches of 1-ply that you probably stole from work and some watered-down …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:56 PM
10

I've worked hard to get where I am, and am at a senior point in my career which comes with the perk of not having to grind as hard. These fools who barely scraped through high school and have been fired from GameStop will be like "I wish I could get a job like yours." Well maybe you could if you turned off the PlayStation, opened a book every now and then, somehow cultivated a personality, and then invested 10 years of your life in working your ass off. Like wtf, do they think fulfilling careers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:17 PM
17

It's funny you say this because I have a decent core group of guys I game with and we all actually talk about things other than gaming. Work, our goals, our feelings, it's been nice supporting each other through the Rona stuff. It's not surprising that everyone in the group has an SO, a job, and hobbies that don't include gaming. We have fun together because we're actually well-rounded humans and not just slobs parked on the couch for 12 hours a day brainlessly pushing buttons in silence. I've g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:58 PM
40

This is an important detail!! He's going for woke points, fuck that. He probably also claims to be a feminist and thinks camwork is empowering. LMAO this grungy fool is really using a $10 box of Kotex to get in someone's pants, these men are too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:47 PM
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Does he also have non-feminine hygiene items that female visitors might need? Tweezers, decent lotion, soap other than the same diluted ass Dial pump he's had for three years? Because I'd be highly suspect of a guy who stocks pads but never has toilet paper (ahem, in normal times anyway) or actual soap. A big ole box of pads but only dish soap for hand soap and a single bottle of Suave 3-in-1 in the shower would be hella suspect to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:45 PM
6

Can't remember their mom's birthday but remember every cheat code from Grand Theft Auto San Andreas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:32 PM
16

Soooo... He's blocked now, right? Stop following his social media and move on, sis. You're being self-destructive ruminating in this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:04 PM
43

Anal, at that. Like bro, this isn't Grindr, that kind of language ain't gonna get ya anywhere with us ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:27 PM
24

"This woman had the audacity to turn me down when I asked did she want to fuck on our McDonald's date, she must be FDS!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:25 PM
60

I love him and think he’s a great person The Cockholm Syndrome is strong in this one. Throw the whole man away, quality control should have rejected this one before he even left the factory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:58 PM
28

My friend tested positive for Corona (she's doing well, thank goodness!), she has a blurb about it on her OLD profile as an icebreaker. You would not believe how many men are like "so, wanna hang out? I'm so bored in quarantine." BRO. She literally said SHE HAS CORONAVIRUS. One guy said "sounds fun, I like to keep things spicy." Another kept insisting on meeting up but suggested a social distancing picnic "for safety" as if that's any better. They're out here willing to DIE just for the possibil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:22 PM
19

"This wouldn't have happened if she tried CoMmuNiCAtiNG"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:47 PM
15

Nothing dries me up faster than the wrong form of your (or you're). Were all these losers habitual truants in 2nd grade or what? It's not difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:46 PM
2

And here we have another one who looks like he got hit upside the head with a frying pan lmao what even is that bruise on his fivehead?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:44 PM
48

His oddly-shaped head makes it look like he got hit with a frying pan. Which would explain why he's dumb enough to think this will work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:49 AM
36

"It's not all about sex but allow me to tell you how I'm not getting any cuz I can't find a woman to do all the work and pursue me..." Yuck. Crawl back into whatever basement you came from, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:22 PM
39

So choosingbeggars is now basically whereareallthegoodmen? Aka yet another place to dump on women with standards? I hate how sad little men leak their insecurity all over Reddit. I don't understand how expecting men to pay for dates when they have no problem throwing cash at camgirls is choosingbeggars territory. These men don't understand economics, dick is abundant and low value. We can afford to be choosy. They're just mad we wouldn't choose them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:25 PM
57

If a thumb was a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:25 PM
4

In my experience "gamer guys" say they want a woman like this because they think she's gonna be just like him and be content sitting around in her own filth for days on end in front of the vidya. In other words, they expect she won't nag when he's on his 8th straight hour of Clash of the Whatevers and hasn't washed his ass in three days. Tread carefully with guys who say they're looking for a gamer girl. Believe me when I say you'll spend less time gaming and more time cleaning up after your man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:24 PM
24

Oh my God, actual children can learn how to use soap and a washcloth by themselves. Is she... proud of this? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:16 PM
88

I literally cannot think of anything more unattractive than some pathetic man whining to a woman he barely knows about how terrible his life is. Some of them are genuinely just broken people but the majority are just emotional leeches hoping to activate the Female Nuture™ power. "Awww I'm sorry that happened to you, you're such a good guy..." Fuck that. Get therapy, you manipulative little shit. If only these men had any idea the mounds of shit women deal with practically from birth. You don't s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:31 PM
66

One of the most attractive qualities anyone can possess is confidence. The kind of confidence that comes from knowing who you are and living your most honest life. All that to say, shoving yourself into a box of "traditional femininity" will not do you any favors. It will be obvious you don't fit there. Trust me, I tried it, it doesn't work. The type of men you'll attract are not guaranteed to be HV and if anything the LV sharks who feed off of women's insecurities will be drawn to you like moth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:22 PM
39

Trailer Trash Tammy is hilarious! It appears as though in real life she has a solid relationship with her dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:31 PM
19

You're taking this as a personal attack. I rolled my eyes at the audacity of men. They don't learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:29 PM
40

Again though, you're framing all of this as if he doesn't do this to literally every woman he comes in contact with. The small smidgeon of hope that this knuckle-dragging creep might take an ego hit isn't worth OP sacrificing her time and energy shutting him down. She's better than that. Block and delete. He gleaned nothing from this interaction, as proven by his repeated inappropriate comments and audacity to say "add me on Snap" after she gently tried to shoo it off. Men like this are beyond h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:42 PM
15

I like the 3rd grade grammar to go with his immature way of speaking to a woman. What a winner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:54 AM
56

While I'm inclined to agree, I also feel that would teach him how to pretend with the next woman. Hahahahaha yeah, sure, he learned a lesson. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:52 AM
12

It sounds to me like quarantine has given you the time and space to really think about your situation and relationship. This may sound harsh but reading your post made me sense that you've settled for this man simply because he's there and he doesn't cheat. That's great and all but clearly there's a lack of effort there that you're realizing is an issue. Maybe you've known this all along but didn't follow your gut and/or gave him a pass because he checked other boxes for you. Four years is a lon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:52 PM
161

"It's my body my choice" Ummm... Tell that to the many women in those videos you're using to pull your pud who have been trafficked or forced into porn because they have literally no other option. I like how he got all defensive over his dick. Jerk off all you want, my guy, just leave porn out of it. Oh wait, bet ya can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:24 PM
25

Quarantine got the /r/FDSSuperFans bored and extra mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:40 PM
28

What in the tarnation is this trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:07 PM
23

Do you really need a poll for this, sis. The guy has more red flags than the marching army of the People's Republic of China.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:06 PM
32

LMAO this is really all that needs to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:04 PM
9

Exactly. I feel like "Pickme" is a descriptor not all that different from "narcissist" or "enabler." If someone is these things and there's a behavior pattern associated with it, should we not talk about it? No. Plus I imagine nearly everyone if not literally everyone here can relate to Pickme behavior to some extent. I've been one. It's helpful for me to identify Pickme behavior so I can not do that shit. It's not an attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:49 PM
65

It's funny that many men don't know how to compliment a woman without tearing down other women in the process, meanwhile we are CONSTANTLY comparing ourselves to other women wishing we had her beautiful shiny hair or her flawless skin. And they have the nerve to call US catty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:58 PM
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Yepppp! They loooooove to keep us divided, it keeps the attention off the depraved shit they're doing if we're too occupied tearing each other down. Eating up that "you're not like other girls" crap is major Pickme behavior. Spoiler to Pickme lurkers: that is not a compliment! He's saying that he recognizes he doesn't have to put in as much effort with you because you're just going to accept his bullshit. But "wow, you're a doormat" doesn't have the same ring to it. As you said, we are stronger …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:45 PM
30

"I've been busy with work, my bad."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:47 AM
45

Your post title is straight up poetry, I can't stop laughing @ the sunken city of clowntopia 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:49 PM
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I just wanted you to know how heavy this weighs upon me. Of all the word salad he barged in and vomited all over your inbox, I find this bit the most telling. Note the language. "I just wanted you to know" He's desperately seeking absolution with no regard whatsoever for how this search of his might make you feel. In fact, he simply doesn't care how it would make you feel, it's all about him and his half-assed attempt at an apology. He's passing the burden to you in saying that he wants YOU to k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:33 PM
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I think we all have, sis, we all have. So glad I see right through it now. "Oh for real? That sucks, maybe you should see a therapist about that. Peace!" I'm an extrovert and a carer, like I'm the one my friends come to when they're having a bad day and need a come-to-Jesus hoo-rah motivational speech to snap them out of their mood. All my life men I'm not even interested in have abused this for free therapy and emotional labor. I no longer do it but if I were going to, I'd send his ass a bill f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:31 PM
31

Random food delivery people who are still working through this pandemic aren't even knocking on your door and are leaving your food outside yet this guy honestly thinks some random woman is going to COME OVER and chill all up in his vicinity? I guarantee you his house is as gross as usual and he doesn't have a single can of Lysol. She should report his ass. My state is on lockdown and our mayor has said that only housemates/families should be fraternizing right now (because presumably households…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:25 PM
9

It would be the hottest PvP game of the summer. Pick your LVM and battle it out to score a spot on the couch with that girl you flirted with once 5 years ago! Use creative weapons like piss jugs, Axe body spray bombs, and exploding Hot Pockets to defeat other LVMs! Indulge in the texting minigame and see how many girls you can get to respond to your "I miss you" texts as the clock ticks down! I can just picture it now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:18 PM
7

Girl, HE'S telling her he's gay. No straight guy is going to make that big a deal out of being called gay to a woman they only recently met. I mean you're right about her gut, too, but let's be honest here, her gut isn't the one loudly declaring that this guy is gay. I feel bad for him as it sounds like he's so far in the closet he should be a mothball but yeah, not her problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:13 PM
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He later told me he has to go to a lot of professional events with all of his coworkers who always bring their wives and girlfriends and hes worried about his public appearance. He wants to bring me. He literally told you you'd be his beard, why would you even entertain the idea of a "real" relationship with this man? The writing on the wall seems pretty clear here to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:21 AM
78

Meanwhile all the LVMs that still live their moms are kicking back chillin since they already have a host to feed off of, and no doubt their host has plenty of TP and clean sheets for them because that's what moms do. These "men" shall emerge from this crisis well-fed and coddled, while the couch-surfing LVMs fight over scraps in the streets, desperately tapping out "wyd" to every woman, girl, and Instagram model they can think of in hopes of finding a doorway to darken. It'll be like Survivor: …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:50 PM
20

And the original post they're referring to was written by a teenager. Apparently having standards makes you a whore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:18 PM
3

That photo is like a veritable Where's Waldo of red flags. See if you can find them all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:15 PM
37

Hey baby, let me take your breath away... with the highly contagious respiratory disease I'm trying to spread all over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:33 PM
37

Yes. I was seeing a guy who was obvious LVM in hindsight (no life goals, minimal experience even at 30, video game addict, lazy) but it wasn't until I really started reading the handbook and posts here that I shook off my "love-drunk" stupor. It was weird too because it was like instantaneous. I went from thinking "well, maybe he can change that with the right support" to alarms screaming in my head saying "dump him, dump him NOW." It was like I was suddenly disgusted with him and for myself in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:18 PM
8

Absolutely not. I'm not a clean freak by any means but imho cleaning the toilet is like bare minimum cleaning standard. It only takes like 5 minutes, there's no excuse. It would be different if you were like "his baseboards are so dusty!" or something. Even then, you're allowed to have standards of what you consider "clean" and compatibility in that area is a big deal in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:15 PM
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Sure, he technically can. But it isn't your responsibility to ensure he does. If he cared, he would already do it. It's a basic adult skill. It's not like it's some secret cleaning tip that only militant housekeepers know, everyone knows you're supposed to scrub the toilet at least every once in a while. He knows, sis, he just doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:17 PM
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They keep forgetting that "you'll be single for the rest of your life" isn't a threat nowadays. I'd rather be alone with my cats until my dying day than put up with 1/10th of the nonsense we see women talking about their LVMs doing in dating and relationship subs. Note to male lurkers: men are quickly becoming irrelevant, step it up. We. Don't. Need. You. You're going to have to bring more to the table than a beating heart and your dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:09 PM
13

I got gaslit by one of these too. He actually used his "sensitivity" against me, telling me he was incapable of manipulating me because he was such a sensitive, shy guy. He implied that because he isn't an aggressive, macho guy then somehow that meant he couldn't lie or manipulate me? This is after I caught him in an obvious lie. When confronted about the gaslighting he said "I don't even know what gaslighting is, how can I be doing it?" I was like woooow either you're incredibly stupid or think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:31 PM
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I've been quarantined for two weeks. It started voluntary as I didn't want to expose myself to anything then I got sick. They think I have it but I can't get tested unless my symptoms get worse. It is what it is. Read that again: I haven't left the house in two weeks. I have been forced to entertain myself with binge TV, checking up on friends, work, and sometimes just sitting in the silence. I'm an outdoorsy person, it's killing me not to be able to jump on my bike and go for a ride but because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:22 PM
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Have y'all seen the meme of guys trying to hit on a painting of a nude woman? They're posting their phone numbers and talking about "so beautiful, baby." To. A. Painting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:10 PM
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Why do these women keep procreating with these literal trash men?! Kick them out of the gene pool, good Lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:08 PM
10

He's already blocked everywhere. I'm sure he would love to slide in my DMs and ask how I'm holding up, right before asking if he can stay with me because he has no toilet paper. Not today, Satan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 12:34 AM
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THIS. I broke it off with a LVM just like this who loved to talk about all the things he would or could do some day. Meanwhile he was 30, living with his mom, and did nothing but game all day (this was pre-FDS, forgive my stupidity). Like what the fuck are you waiting for, dude? I gave him the benefit of the doubt at first (again, and I must emphasize this, I was pre-FDS) and thought well maybe he just hasn't had the right encouragement and inspiration in his life! Pickme shit, I know. Thankfull…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:07 PM
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Haha I'm so glad you posted this, I saw it last night and swear I audibly groaned. I couldn't believe how many people upvoted it, too. I shouldn't be surprised so much of Reddit can relate to being a worthless turd who can't even feed himself. Har har look at me I'm sooooo useless lol DAE only eat Hot Pockets har har My only hope is that FDS spreads and manchildren like these are banished from the gene pool. It's the only way humanity stands a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:53 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:26 PM
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I dunno, I feel like even most Pickmes would be pretty grossed out by that. Any Pickme who did jump on it (no pun) must be elected Supreme Queen of Pickme Kingdom for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:24 PM
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Show of hands, how many of you fine ladies would respond positively if some random dude on your FB friends list posted "horny, anyone wanna fuck?" in the middle of a global virus pandemic? Or at any time really? Does he honestly think that will work?? I mean my God. Women will NEVER be that desperate you fool, we're safe and cozy with our piles of toilet paper and vibrators, both of which are far more useful to us than you could ever be. Get thee behind me, Satan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:11 PM
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Men who actually make six figures definitely aren't on Reddit talking about it. Add to that, "6 figures" on its own doesn't mean shit. You can make $100,001 in San Francisco and still need a roommate. Let's see a bank statement or shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:07 PM
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Pornsick dudes on Reddit are the new "Dear Penthouse." Yeah, maybe some desperate Pickme went along with it because she was afraid to lose his worthless ass but everyone here knows there is zero chance she was into it and even less chance she begged for it. Delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:39 PM
33

😂😂😂 facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:21 PM
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slight kink factor FOR REAL, sis!? Who ya foolin?? Show me one woman who gets off on having the taste of her own shit in her mouth. Porn doesn't count. I'll wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:51 PM
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I would love to look through some of those commenters' profiles, I bet we'd find some real gems. I'm guessing RP, porn, hentai, a little deadbedrooms just to round things out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:09 PM
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Anecdotal but I have a single experience to share, keep in mind this was pre-FDS. I too have always dated older guys, but met a dude ten years my junior who I became interested in. The age gap didn't seem like that big of a deal, however I found the fundamental differences between where we were in life was a huge issue. NOW, that said, it's worth mentioning that he was also pretty immature as far as life experience goes. As in, he lived a sheltered life and at 30 hadn't achieved anything. He had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:04 PM
25

One time a guy I was talking to asked me my number and I played coy. So he guessed. The number he threw out? 40! I was like what in the actual fuck, dude. Oh and he was a virgin. But failed to tell me that until after the deed was done (as if the fact he had no idea what to do or where anything was wasn't a dead giveaway).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:31 AM
53

I can smell this picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:41 PM
46

Between this and GameStop closing due to Coronavirus, prepare for extra-mad scrotes on Reddit today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:43 PM
46

"Entrepreneur" 😂😂😂 Of course you are, Pops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:38 PM
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Isn't it funny how FDS changes the lens through which you listen to songs you used to jam to? I was cooking the other day jamming to some 90s alternative which I used to LOVE and Hey Jealousy by the Gin Blossoms came on. Listening carefully to the lyrics thought to myself holy shit this guy is just a LVM scrub begging to get back into someone's life. Tell me do you think it'd be all right If I could just crash here tonight You can see I'm in no shape for driving And anyway I've got no place to g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:35 PM
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Nah I imagine if his ex-wife saw this she'd be like "hahaha yeah good luck with that! No young women want your busted ass!" and thank her lucky stars she no longer has to put up with his generic 50 Shades attempts at "kink" he learned from watching too much porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:30 PM
13

I honestly feel texting etiquette isn't all that different from normal conversation in many circumstances (mind you I'm older, late 30s so while I came up in the tech boom of the late 90s/early 2000s, those things weren't omnipresent in my youth). That said, I've always been a big texter, once I started doing it in my early 20s anyway. So if the texts are low effort and no different from someone IRL showing disinterest in having a conversation, no I'm not going to go out of my way to respond. Mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:26 PM
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Who the hell tweets this? Like idgaf what you prefer to do in bed, that's your business. But imagine being so thirsty for male attention you'd tweet something like this? Please tell me she's a camgirl or something at least and trying to drum up business. Something tells me nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:57 AM
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This is the kind of LVM who will go out of his way to make you feel stupid even if you have a Master's and are an expert in your field because he read Nietzsche once in community college. I bet he also treats service workers like garbage, these type of people almost always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 09:01 PM
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It's not you, it's the audacity of men. LVM are "taking their shot" because if they message 100 women and 1 Pickme with low self esteem goes for it then the effort was worth it in the LVM's mind. They're just carpet-bombing every woman they're vaguely interested in, you're the 100th woman to get a message from that loser that day probably. If you want to meet HVM professionals, then you need to be where they are. They are not on online dating. Maybe one or two are because they're too busy to mee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:54 PM
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Because Hollywood teaches them that absolute bumbling idiots who can't make their beds or even hold a job can score the hot cheerleader. They look up to LVMs as role models because the script is telling them "hey look, even a dipshit like you can score a girl way out of your league, just be your nasty, useless, ingratiating self!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:10 AM
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Right? "Oh how cute, a man-sized toddler who I have to do literally everything for in exchange for absolutely nothing!" What an odd thing to look for in a relationship. I swear these women would save themselves so much time and trouble if they just got a dog instead. You still have someone to clean up after and care for but you don't have to suck his dick and he's actually capable of showing affection. Kick that scrote out and get thee to the shelter, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:09 PM
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Upgrade now Don't mind if I do deletes app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:22 PM
7

I read "but I can't with walls of textes" as "but I can't with walls of testes" and legitimately LOLd so hard I scared my cat. It fits somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:49 PM
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I’ll never understand the LVM mentality that they don’t have to put in effort to improve their lives. Well many of them have women to do it for them, so why bother? They go straight from mommy to a Pickme g/f or wife who thinks it's her job to wipe his ass. This is why FDS is so important, it is not only helping us to avoid this fate but hopefully also inspiring these men to step up. Oh hahahaha who am I kidding, they don't learn anything. But maybe at least a few of them will be denied access t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:01 PM
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That's nice, for the first year. But eventually that passes and you realize that unless you do something, this is your life now. No one will pop into your life and improve it. No one will seek you out and try to make friends with you. If you fail to do anything, you will continue on the same path until you die. That's... That's literally how the world works. Do these men honestly believe that we just float through life never putting in effort and everything is magically handed to us? What a wort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:52 AM
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I found myself doing this with my ex-LVM. He'd present some issue, I'd throw on my cape and suggest solutions, conversations would go exactly like your post. He was really big on the IFs and WHENs, paraphrasing here but the general idea was like "well, sure, I'll do that at some imaginary point in the future when some idealistic perfect conditions I made up in my mind are met but not right now." So basically never, got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:52 PM
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This! We women generally do just fine when left to our own devices and form groups with other women to take care of each other. Meanwhile men are fighting each other over a square of TP because they didn't think ahead. I also recommend brushing up on your skill set now so you have it if you need it later. Google has a ton of resources on SEO, the Analytics certification is free and good for 18 months. SEO is a pretty in-demand skill. Keep up your professional certifications and keep your eyes op…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:35 PM
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Well clearly BJs are really the only thing he's motivated by. Even with incentives he's like nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:22 PM
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I have a similar story! It's disgusting how adults make aggressive, boundaryless little boys into a joke and think little girls are just supposed to put up with it. It's almost as if they're trying to condition us to put up with a lifetime of this crap. No ma'am, not me. Thankfully my mother was always insistent on me standing up for myself. But she was a no nonsense woman who took absolutely no shit from anyone, especially men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:21 PM
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I used to be such a pathetic Pickme in game chat I'm embarrassed to say. I haven't really experienced too much direct harassment but realized in hindsight putting up with dick jokes IS harassment. I no longer abide these men. It's the grown ones you have to look out for, in my experience the actual 12 year olds are usually pretty respectful. But 40 year old couch creatures? Literal trash. And what's with gamer men trying to unload their emotional baggage on you? Like bro, this is Overwatch, not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:22 AM
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Haha I just blocked mine, too. Is audacity a symptom of Coronavirus? Because I swear to God these men are crazy infected with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:04 PM
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Hahahaha I knew it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:34 PM
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I will. He's on some crazy gaslighting bullshit. And I finally blocked his ass. So now he's desperate and messaging a mutual friend trying to get to get to me. The audacity knows no bounds with these men I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:29 PM
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Good idea! I have a few LVMs on my friend list off the top of my head that should have been Konmari'd long ago for not sparking joy. Now is a great time to ditch them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:58 PM
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LOL yup. Expect mad wyd texts in the next few weeks as reality hits these trash men and they start panicking. They know we have all the toilet paper, they're gonna start getting desperate. Stay safe, sis 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:31 AM
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They're getting lonely and desperate. I hope you blocked him after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:20 PM
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I wrote this cuz my ex LVM is all up in my shit talking about "I heard Corona is in your city, stay safe" and on the other hand typing out entire paragraphs about what a dipshit he was when I dated him and how he didn't know how to man up for me. I'm only letting him go on so I can screenshot the audacity for the FDS museum. Block and delete, girls, block and delete. These men are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:33 PM
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LOL they have no plans, guard your shit closely, scrotes be coming for our toilet paper ladies 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:27 PM
11

They just want some toilet paper 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:25 PM
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Lmao. They are coming out of the woodwork like I said. These low value men haven't planned for this shit. Meanwhile us queens have food, TP, soap, and clean sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:23 PM
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I totally should but I'm just laughing at his justifications and screenshotting his bullshit for laughs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:19 PM
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Oh shit. Scrotes be out here trying to figure out their backup plans. Deny that shit 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:12 PM
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Stay strong, queen ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:21 PM
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They know. And if they don't, it's because they're a 30-something year old video game addicted virgin who has never so much as touched a woman and has no fucking clue what to do (ask me how I know). How is it men who you don't like think you're into them if you simply smile at them on the street yet guys who you actually know suddenly act dumb when you're putting out actual signals? It's bullshit. Cut his ass off. These men need to stop being rewarded for being lazy and put in the damn work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:07 PM
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Yep. They think just because they're OK with living in filth therefore technically not demanding their gf/wife clean up after them that they're somehow superior to the older generation that expected their wives to clean. Um... This is progress how exactly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:13 AM
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How old is he? Maybe he has zero experience. Back in my day even the inexperienced guys in school kinda knew how to make moves but young dudes these days are weird, holing up in their rooms wanking it to Internet porn and playing video games. They just seem so ridiculously clueless, and yeah it's a massive turn-off for the reasons you mentioned. Listen to your instincts. I wish I had when I had similar thoughts about a guy I was talking to (pre-FDS, which is the only reason I wasted my time in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:37 AM
25

That same guy messaged me. He's got a weird humiliation fetish going by his post history, he just wants you to shame him for his small dick. Men are so fucking weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:20 PM
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I think it could be possible for an LVM to outgrow his ways, but like others have said if he's "grown" (by calendar measurements, anyway) then certain behaviors are pretty much set. Where does LVM behavior start? I imagine like many behaviors it's a nature/nuture thing, he lacked proper male role models growing up so he mistreats women, for example. It's possible to work through those issues (therapy, for one) but is someone low value who makes little effort in their life going to put in that wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:36 AM
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"But our situationship is absolutely perfect except for these 34 things no sane woman or even a stray dog would put up with. Except for that, perfect!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:29 PM
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told me to get whatever I want Uh, red flag. Damn right you should get whatever you want, no one should be taking you to a place they can't afford. The fact he said it is... cringy. I'm getting weird nice guy vibes from this dude. I mean the fact that he even mentioned not trying to pressure you into sex is a glaring red flag. Show, don't tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:59 PM
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I looked at him, and he looked at me, and I realized then that I was going to be the one paying. At that moment I would have excused myself from the counter and gone for the biggest prostate massager/anal beads/butt plug in the joint. "Doesn't this look like fun? For you I mean. I'm a giver, after all."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:19 PM
9

He probably gets off on the demented power dynamic. In the same way my stupid but dominant cat refuses to cover his shit in the litter box because he thinks it's beneath him and wants to make sure the other cats know it. He specifically leaves his steaming shit out because he knows the cat further down the hierarchy will come cover it up. And this worthless scrote knows he can get away with it because instead of leaving him yesterday like she should have done, she's asking Reddit what to do. Ima…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:16 PM
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we've been dating for 5 years 22F Does math So she was 17 and he was 20 when they started "dating"? Eww. Girl, get the hint. Either you are Chick #6294 or he's just not that into you. Sounds to me like a little bit of both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:52 PM
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I bet the dick isn't even that good and she just doesn't have that much experience. Who here can honestly say they've ever had dick so good it would make you this desperate for it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:31 PM
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What is confusing about this? As others have said, it's pretty clear you're the side chick/unicorn/third wheel. And he doesn't even respect you enough to try and make it look like he gives a shit. But why should he? He's clearly got you wrapped around his dick. Block, delete, delete every OLD profile you have, lock yourself in a room and read every single resource in the handbook. And then read it again. Have some self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:28 PM
13

I will be buying a PS5 for me and me alone on launch day. Because I deserve it 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:09 PM
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I've seen this comment around here a few times now and I think you're on to something. I mean, they can't even get their dicks hard, so how are they going to procreate? Since Pickmeishas keep having multiple children with these useless men (the ones who can manage to "perform the natural obligations" as it were and yes I totally just referenced a meme haha), it's really our only hope for getting them out of the gene pool. I'm sure economists and politicians aren't thrilled at the idea of taking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:59 PM
23

Sounds like Chris needs to delete Tinder and find himself a snake with a degree in psychology to work out his massive horde of issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:50 AM
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And of course the males of Reddit are eating this up and reposting it everywhere. Meanwhile, a heavily downvoted comment on this post elsewhere: No, black women are just used to treating their boyfriends like sons. This is the type of shit your mom does for you. This is not cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:47 AM
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Obviously his reaction was stupid, so no defending him here, but I think you could also have reacted a lot better. Just saying "no thank you" is a bit harsh in my opinion - you could at least have answered with something like "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested". Until his last message, he didn't do anything wrong as far as I can tell, so I think "because I said no" is a really rude answer. You obviously don't "owe" him an explanation, but you could at least be polite. What in tarnation is this t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:08 AM
8

By "most women" he means "guys I know tell each other this about women."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:00 AM
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most women I've known acknowledge that guys get better looking as they age So why aren't you dating THEM instead of creeping on this 19 year old woman who already told you to take your saggy balls and fuck off, Tom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 11:01 PM
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The issue is that these men should be dating women their age. So why are they going after college students? A) because you're willing and B) because they know they can "impress" younger women in ways their age-appropriate female peers wouldn't give a crap about. Us older women are used to a certain standard that takes effort, it's a lot easier for these guys to impress women your age because you're used to the broke guys your own age being unable to provide the minimum like a nice night out. Eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:22 PM
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I am embarrassed to say I dated #8, we met gaming which should have been the tip off. He tried real hard to make my house the next stop after mommy's. I shouldn't have even been entertaining him at all, I know. Anyway, I said live on your own for a year and let's see how that goes. Cue the whining "a year is such a looooong time though" and talking about not wanting to wait to start our life together. Our life? Last I checked the lease and the bills only have one name on them, mine. I was then s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:14 PM
7

Sounds like a guy I used to game with. Morbidly obese, 5 foot tall neckbeard who had the absolute audacity to go through my Instagram and say I wasn't hot. As if I care what this literal couch gnome thinks of me! I'm sure he still jerked it to me anyway, the pig. Oh and he was pushing 30 with no hope of losing his virginity. But yes, you greasy little scrote, please tell me all about how you don't want to fuck me. Please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:47 PM
164

From an OP comment: His money is for him basically. I work at home from 8-6, full time, M-F, while raising a child. He gets to go to happy hour, out to fancy lunches, and has a very comfortable job. He has a big inheritance and doesn’t really care much about his savings as much as he cares about being able to be apart of a country club and pay for whatever he wants when he wants. I feel like I am drowning. And he wants me to raise our children (he wants another child by the way), so he prefers I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:53 PM
6

You're underestimating the audacity of men. Just because he can afford it doesn't mean he won't think you owe him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:49 PM
4

Get your own. Why would you want to owe this man for "free" stuff? What happens when he hits you up one night to come over and makes a move on you thinking you owe him because you've been using his streaming? Not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:07 PM
5

Here's my process (if you or anyone else needs inspiration or ideas). First I sat down and did an inventory of everything I know that needs organizing. So, shower caddy, nightstands, laundry supplies etc. I tried to break it down as much as I could without being too tedious, so "cleaning supplies -- kitchen" was sufficient since it's just one cabinet but for clothes, I broke each line down further such as underwear drawer, business attire, etc. Another example is jewelry, I don't wear many neckl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:17 AM
24

😂😂🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:09 AM
8

Haha I was just thinking it could be that too, he pretty much opened with "ask me about the woman who broke my heart." Oh God no, get your ass to the therapist and talk about it there, young man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:06 AM
28

Tackling organization and decluttering for 2020! My space is a reflection of me, and I have so many things just crammed in closets and drawers (oh boy, a therapist would have a field day with that). So I'm working on clearing out all the things that don't serve me or spark joy to make room in my life for the people and things that do. It's a big undertaking and I'll have to face some demons I've been hiding from for years stuffed in all those boxes at the back of my closet but at the end of it I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:05 AM
52

That entire open book sentence is code for "I'm boring and expect you to carry every conversation."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:29 AM
48

Have some balls and just say you want an affair, good Lord. He beat around the bush so many times there are no branches left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 08:21 PM
17

Keep your frogs, sis. The odds of kissing one and him turning into a prince are higher than the likelihood that this man would ever support your passion. At first I was kinda outraged but tbf (ugh, and trust I hate defending men) he did make it clear he's not an animal person. That's a major incompatibility and that's OK. Make a clean break and focus on what fills you with joy, someone who complements your already full life will come along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 08:19 PM
13

This. Before I became GC I was of the libertarian mindset that it's not hurting anyone so why not? After all, it's simply a transaction, right? As long as both parties are agreeable then no issue. Then I came to realize that commoditization of women's bodies does hurt women, personal choice aside. I mean, it's right there in my original view: it's simply a transaction. Problem being women's bodies are not a commodity to be bought and sold as you said. Not to mention the issues with "personal cho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:11 PM
22

Keto diet has wildly reduced my tolerance level. I used to be able to put down a 12-pack of craft IPAs, now two vodka sodas and I'm reaching for my phone to send texts I'll regret in the morning (I've gotten good at avoiding this, just saying that's my "hey you're too drunk" signal). Tolerance can be a funny thing and quite different for everyone. "Accidental anal" on the other hand is always bullshit and pure male depravity every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:33 AM
48

Men who claim to be feminists. Protip gents: consuming camgirl content and kicking down $5 a month to e-girls on Twitch does not, in fact, make one a feminist. IMHO men cannot be feminists, they can only be allies. Regardless, any man who feels compelled to tell rather than show in this regard is to be avoided with a ten foot pole. I especially find it hilarious bc the ones who claim to be feminist are almost always the absolute worst about talking over women and mansplaining. It's like one guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:05 PM
44

The trash took itself out, that's what happened. I can just picture him scrolling your post history like a creep looking for some tidbit to bring up to show he "cares" and "pays attention" only to see you're on FDS thinking to himself "fuck! She's got standards! I'm outta here."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:47 AM
4

He is slandering his exes to distract you from the fact that he's LVM, come on. Stop worrying about her status and focus on the value (or rather lack thereof) of the individual you are dating and obviously smitten with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:42 AM
91

Tried this once. He was interested. He was also incapable of making decisions, dates, choices, and of putting in even minimal effort in his own life. Oh and had never been in a relationship (!) so there was a whole fun grab bag of other things he simply couldn't manage I don't need to elaborate on. DO NOT DO IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:36 AM
24

The guy I'm seeing is in his 50s. He works out 5x a week and regularly goes to the barber. Like yeah, there are some things that can't be helped as we age, he and I are both a little thicker and greyer than we were when we met. But he looks damn good for his age because he makes the effort. For all scrotes talk about women hitting the wall, it's hella funny when you see a pic of them and they're a 25 year old forest gnome who clearly never picked up a wash cloth. Effort, boys, effort. Grab a twe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:49 PM
62

My height. I'm 5 freaking 8, that's not even that tall for an American woman. Not to mention I have absolutely no control over how long my DNA decided my bones should be. On that note, my hands. I have long, slender fingers. Personally I love them and have never been ashamed of them because I'm creative and these hands have written novels, played guitar, painted art that's hung in galleries. But yeah, for some reason shallow guys are really put off by a woman with larger hands. Hella insecure. C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:26 PM
13

It was funny how irritated I was by his lack of effort. Pick Me me would have been like "aww how nice, he's letting me take the lead." FDS me was like "what in the tarnation is this lazy no effort bullshit? Goodbye."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:06 PM
32

without him, but with the kittens If this ain't a whole damn mood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:13 PM
20

The LVM I recently cut it off with acted like he had no clue I would have wanted him to plan anything. I think he thought he was being "agreeable" by letting me plan a day but it was aggravating for sure. Laziness, I guess. He was shocked when I called him out for it. Like it's that weird for me to expect him to pick a place I might like. I mean, it's not like it's that difficult to Google a place. It's about making the effort, you know? He got dumped pretty quick after that. I shouldn't have to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:53 PM
15

Haha you just made me realize I totally Konmari'd the LVM I was seeing. "You don't spark joy, bye."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:33 PM
8

I need him for emotional support Get a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:21 PM
18

They honestly believe we come out of the womb with a Swiffer in one hand. Like NO. We learned how to do it, just like you should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:19 PM
26

Oh, trust us, we know what we're missing. That's why we aren't lining up to get tied up by your discount Adam & Eve fetish gear in your mom's basement, buddy. Look at the water cooler, my God the thing hasn't been cleaned since 1992.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 07:50 PM
41

By all means, take your sexbot and both of you go fuck yourselves. As if women would get offended. Oh no, another pornsick limp dick socially awkward coomer taken out of the gene pool, how ever will we propagate the species without his superior seed! Fuck outta here with that, we don't care. It's funny though, as a woman I use AI to make my life more convenient, such as maintaining a grocery list on my kitchen Alexa and using it to automate lights in my condo. Meanwhile men are like... "Can we f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:44 PM
44

I bet he's cleaner than 90% of manbaby scrotes, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:29 PM
36

And then post on deadbedrooms about how his frigid bitch of a wife rejects his advances and doesn't give a crap about his boner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:45 PM
16

The irony of a man who flunked 1st grade grammar saying "grow up"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:44 PM
53

They want a mommy because prostitutes don't do your laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:03 PM
107

These are the same men who complain about "there are no good women left these days." What they mean by that is that at some point, women wised up and decided we weren't going to do this shit any more. They don't want a wife, they want a babysitter, a maid, a personal assistant, a chef, and of course an on-demand porn star. And then are shocked that they don't have hundreds of women eager to do this for them lining up at their (er, their mommy's) door. Anyone think it's interesting that Millennia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:48 PM
17

I'm willing to bet (given her brag about being good at it) that overall she doesn't mind giving head but is turned off by doing it for him in particular. I'm guessing it's his hygiene and/or every time she gives in, he goes straight for the porny shit and aggressively facefucks her. Spoiler alert, male lurkers: most women do not like that, regardless of how porn may make it appear. Who wants to bet he's one of those creeps who just shoves her head in that direction 30 minutes into Netflix and ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:11 PM
23

I married a guy who was shorter than me. He ended up being LVM in a multitude of ways and we parted ways long ago but that's beside the point. You know what I liked? That he never discouraged me from wearing heels, in fact he exuded obvious confidence and pride in his tall wife. That's attractive! Men are so damn fragile. Get over yourselves. Chances are your height is the least of your problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:21 PM
49

Snap out of it, sis! What on Earth makes you think he'd admit to anything other than the best of intentions? Especially via text! If you insist on taking this route, then at a minimum video chat with him so you can read his facial expressions. Listen to the advice you're being given here. This whole situation has alarms going off in all of our heads for a reason. This does not sound safe. Entitled men can be dangerous. He isn't doing all this because he's such a nice guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:42 PM
87

And Carrie's entire career was based solely on men. Remember when she hit a dry spell and had literally nothing to write about? Like my God woman, you call yourself a journalist yet can't pound out a few hundred words on sex other than the sex you're having with trash men? Come on. I think Miranda's story came closest to actually looking at how difficult it is to get ahead as a strong, intelligent woman in a man's world. And even then it was totally an afterthought. She went to Harvard Law and m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:45 PM
83

Oh I'd completely forgotten about the movie! You're right you're right. Now that I think about it, Miranda's whole arc ended up being exactly what she feared the most (settling), packaged up in a feel-good story about "love" and selflessness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:17 PM
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Mr. Big was the perfect example of money alone not making a man HV. Meanwhile I think Steve most certainly was (besides hooking up with Miranda that first night they met) despite being broke as hell in the beginning. And Harry... Well Harry was the best guy on the show (fight me, Aidan fans). At the end of the day, the takeaway here is that the women on the show were obsessed with men and never seemed that interested in their own personal development, unless you count the random trendy fitness c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:39 PM
92

Hahaha this is glorious. Maybe don't wait until the last minute and assume she's waiting patiently for ya next time, bro. You snooze you lose. I hope she has a fabulous time with her date and leaves Mr. Waffle on eternal read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:40 PM
19

I told him people usually go out for a nice dinner or something, but that a majority of restaurants are going to be booked up by now. There are still a few nice options though. You shouldn't have to explain how Valentine's Day works to a grown man. He knows. Even if he's never been with someone for V-Day, it's literally everywhere in TV, movies, and other media. Unless you found this man in a remote tribe that has never had contact with the outside world, there's no reason he wouldn't have at le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:42 PM
11

Isn't it amazing that someone can convey how much of a pain in the ass they'll be in such a short paragraph? Let's see ... Insecurity, deluded sense of ego, porn addict, and likely a pinch of internalized homophobia. That's a no from me, dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:30 PM
8

I'm sure he has one. A deathgrip from jerking it to gay porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:28 PM
39

Another grown man who can't fry himself a couple of eggs and expects mommy er wifey to do it. They're multiplying, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:45 PM
45

Sadly that shit worked back in the day. It didn't matter if they were gross, slovenly, abusive, whatever because OMG God forbid you end up an old maid! The horror! Just pick one of the numerous chuckleheads available and hope he's at least not one of the ones that gets violent when he's drunk. But then we got smarter. We took over the workplace. We fought for our rights. Women aren't just jumping into marriage at 19 any more. We know better. This is why they think FDS is so toxic. Because it has…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:41 PM
155

I'd rather get high on Xanax and hang out with my cat until my last breath than have to mother some grown-ass manchild who also expects me to bang him when the mood strikes. Note to male lurkers: "you're going to die single" doesn't scare us any more. Level up, we have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:27 PM
3

Love when the trash takes itself out like that. Although we all know "you deserve better" doesn't actually mean they believe that. It's just a cop out so they don't have to put in the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:40 PM
9

Same. In my old age and wisdom I have come to realize that's code for "I'm highly emotionally damaged and as such unable to maintain relationships with women and don't like being asked to change or address my issues." Basically. Implying that "other girls" hold him to a basic standard of decency and he's hoping you're Cool Girl™ PickMe enough to put up with his incessant flood of nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:46 PM
31

I'd known about this sub for a while but didn't actively participate and obviously didn't take the wisdom to heart when I got into a relationship with an obvious LVM. That mistake aside, I do think the sub helped me come to my senses in record time, and made it a lot easier for me to cut things off. I remember skimming threads literally while I was on the phone with the guy thinking oh my God, he's textbook LVM, what the hell am I doing?! I made the mistake of letting a powerful emotional connec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:35 PM
25

Angry scrote level across Reddit up by 487% at this news
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:10 PM
8

Eww. I would have responded "Yep. Out of patience for this nonsense" and blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:07 PM
47

I guarantee you the guy also wants her around so he can get some on the side when the other roommate is not available/willing. Hence why he suggested she not date right away. These people are deplorable and deserve each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:23 PM
17

Meanwhile women somehow manage work, cooking, cleaning, hobbies, taking care of ourselves, friendships, playing therapist to these sad ass men, and still are expected to have something leftover for porn-worthy performance in bed. Yet these guys can't even send a few texts and make a dinner reservation once a week? The weaker sex my ass. These men are pathetic 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:12 PM
4

"no drama good vibes only" sounds good on the surface (I mean, who wants bad vibes?) especially because I made a promise to myself to remove toxic people from my life a long time ago but you're so right. He's basically warning everyone he's an obnoxious piece of shit but you're not allowed to criticize him for it or even bring it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:58 PM
11

OMG yes. Or literally every other thing on his mind i.e. his extensive collection of issues that he should be paying a therapist to listen to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:53 PM
35

Because Reddit is majority male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 10:07 PM
29

Do your own damn laundry you dirty manchild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:26 PM
58

Wasn't there literally a post about this just the other day? A user went out with a guy and ended up spending like half the day with him hitting up all these different spots. I specifically remember advice along the lines of "he's trying to multiply the 'bonding' effect without putting in the effort for multiple dates, get out of there."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:52 PM
7

That sounds insanely complicated. Are you able to establish a boundary and tell him to keep communication work-only?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:43 PM
7

And they act like you should be flattered by their attention or something! Like, sir, you're the 50th scrote to awkwardly try and make a move on me today alone, kindly GFY and let me do my job. Men seem to get extra audacity when it comes to service/retail workers. I'm guessing it's because they know you're obligated to be nice to them because it's your job. I see it all the time at my neighborhood bar, I so badly want to lean over to the guy and whisper psssssst she's not into you, she's just d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:41 PM
9

Why is he still texting you? Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:24 PM
14

I used to work at an adult book store (yeah yeah, it was a long time ago), the kind with bins full of weird porn and jerkoff booths in the back. I'm an outgoing, friendly person, so even though this wasn't a "serious" job to me at the time (I had a real job, this was just a temp side thing), I treated it just like retail jobs I had when I was younger. Smile, thank you, have a good night, etc. It didn't take long to realize my mistake. These degenerate fools would go from totally ashamed to be in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:42 PM
23

We as women need to trust our intuition. You know that sinking feeling you get when you're walking alone at night that alerts you to someone nearby? We have developed a strong sense of "something ain't right here" out of necessity to keep ourselves safe. That applies not just to dark alleys, but to everything in life. Trust it. We are also taught to doubt ourselves. "You're a woman, what would you know?" Thankfully that kind of misogyny is not as blatant as the Mad Men days, but the inner tape t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:12 PM
35

Translation: I am a one pump chump and will never last longer than 8 seconds. Then I'll roll off of you and ask if it was as good for you as it was for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:53 AM
14

Don't confuse anxiety for your inner warning system. I live with anxiety so I get it, it can make you doubt yourself and overthink the legitimacy of your reactions to things. So can society, as we're conditioned to forgive and excuse men for all manner of bad behavior. Don't listen to that! You said: "I didn't feel good." There it is. His behavior was not appropriate and it did not make you feel good. No need to overthink it from there, no justifications or explanations required. You have bodily…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:39 PM
91

Not common law, I forget exactly what the issue was. I believe it had to do with her contributions to the household, I'd have to ask her. He went broke because he ended up having to buy her out of the condo (cost him $$$), lost her second income to help with the bills as new gf didn't work, then promptly got fired from his job. He might have been able to pull it off if he'd socked away some savings and thought the whole thing through but he let his dick guide the way and thought he could just sw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:54 PM
42

There are tenancy laws in place, you can't just randomly throw someone out of your home if they've lived there for a period of time. Make the guy do the legwork if he wants her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:50 PM
141

A friend of mine was in a forever GF situation years ago. Split finances (each contributed to certain bills), living together in a condo for a long time. The BF met someone and thought "well, we're not married so I'll just throw her out." She lawyered up and let's just say it didn't end well for him. He ended up broke, lost his job, obviously lost the new younger girlfriend he wanted to live happily ever after with, and moved back home to his mom at 45. Karma. Forever girlfriend needs to forget …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:34 PM
27

I personally view myself as an outsider from most men. I view myself as different. I do not feel comfortable around men at first. I get along with women way better and honestly prefer to be around them more. I find them to be more caring, loving, sensitive, and understanding. They usually have more empathy Because men will tell you to STFU and women are conditioned essentially from birth to coddle and center men. Basically you like mooching emotional labor from women, just like 99.9% of your fel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:11 PM
7

Yep that was my immediate thought. They both have codependency issues, hers is needing someone other than herself to focus on and his is needing someone to do everything for him while he takes zero responsibility and actively screws up. Match made in Heaven! /s As usual, the whole thing is above Reddit's pay grade. Get thee to the therapist, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:43 PM
38

For me and my recent experience with an LVM, I don't believe that feeling he felt was genuine love at all. It was codependency and feeling comfort in being "attached," which is not the same as love. He loved the idea of me and that I could somehow improve his life, though he lacked the self-love to have aspirations of his own which is what gave away that what he felt wasn't actually love. Someone who genuinely loves me will want to enhance my life, not take away from it. I hear what you're sayin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:26 PM
38

I mean my God, he has gone out of his way to demonstrate in all capital letters that he is an immature couch creature unworthy of your love and labor, why are you wasting time on Reddit when you need to be supervising him packing his shit and getting the fuck out of your place, OP? I'm gonna go out on a limb here and assuming he contributes little to nothing financially to the household bills. Kick. Him. Out. Toss his iPod and Xbox in a trash bag, open the door, and be free of this nuisance. I'v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:57 AM
216

Deadbedrooms is jam-packed with these guys who don't understand why their wife, after a long day of caring for his children and his home and scrubbing skidmarks out of his draws isn't eager for a 2 minute jackhammer with zero foreplay. "I approached her from behind while she was doing dishes and smacked her ass, only for her to reject me! Poor me." I think men take for granted that we're expected to be nurturing and forgiving, especially to them. Prior generations put up with that crap but it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:27 PM
14

In my experience guys who say they're into oral will never ever go down on you. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:49 AM
43

Just went through an oddly similar situation. Romantic getaway and a lot of disappointment. He got dumped as soon as I got home. No thanks. He said he doesn't watch porn but I know a pornsick dick when I see one. We could save ourselves a lot of time and trouble if someone came up with a Yelp for dicks. One star, gave me food poisoning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:47 AM
4

Look, I guarantee he isn't spending all this energy thinking about what went wrong and how he could have been better. He's off to the next woman he can fool into caring for him in literally every way possible. So don't waste your time. I just dodged a bullet myself with a LVM I thought I could get what I need from (mistake #1) and reading your post made me glad it didn't get any further than it did or else I'd be having to figure out how to expel a couch creature from my house and probably feeli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:52 PM
1

This guy's profile is so greasy I had to wipe my thumb off after scrolling past it.
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