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Shoving is abuse. Defining what abuse is/isn't is also a common sign of abuse. "I just shoved you, it's not like I hit you! Yeah I hit you, but it's not like I left bruises!" And on and on. Glad you got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:05 AM
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I'm sorry he violated you like this. I'm sorry the world is so broken and you haven't gotten the protection and justice you deserve. You don't deserve ANY shame or embarrassment. He is a disgusting sack of shit, and he and he alone should feel ashamed. People date, hookup and seek someone's company when they're lonely every day, and they're not treated like this. He's a predator who has no human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 10:40 PM
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He wants sweet and nice, meaning he actually wants naive and easy to manipulative. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 10:32 PM
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I would adjust your expectations according to how long he'll be in the area. Don't make an emotional investment in someone who's doomed to be temporary. What I'd suggest: Schedule dates with other men and go out with your girlfriends. Don't interpret anything he says or does over texting as a sign of interest. Men can text when they're bored, want an ego boost, and so on. Giving him space is giving him an opportunity to reciprocate your attention. If he's as into you as you are into him, he'll s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 10:28 PM
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When you combine LinkedIn with OLD...? This man is a damn multitasker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 10:06 PM
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The fact that he volunteered this so quickly shows that he has no remorse. Why hide something if you aren't ashamed of it? If anything, he probably feels wronged that it's hurting his future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:30 AM
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There are plenty of women who want no strings attached fuck buddies. So why lie? Why manipulate? It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:27 AM
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You're so right. I don't think most people are masters of deception. There were so many small, "unimportant" words and gestures that made me uneasy, and they only got worse over time, not better. I think the comment itself was bad, but that it made me FEEL uncomfortable is the real red flag. I didn't interpret it as social awkwardness or something else. I only dated him for 6 weeks, and very casually, but imagine if it had gone further?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:29 PM
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Yeah, exactly. It can sometimes be hard to tell if someone is lovebombing me or showing genuine interest. The last guy I dated was attracted to me because he thought I'd be easily to manipulate. (I wasn't and ended things quickly, but it still creeps me out.) He even said on our first date, "You're an angel, and people will take advantage of you. But even when people do, you should never regret a kindness." I remember that statement really, really creeped me out at the time, and after knowing hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:36 AM
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Red flag. The one acquaintance I know who does this is in his late 30s. Finance douchebag who's always in the club, always taking selfies with hot girls who are 10+ years younger than him. Apparently there are NO GoOd LoYAl WoMeN AnYwHeRE!!! My dude, if you want a good, loyal woman, start by being a good, loyal man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:08 AM
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All careers have pros and cons. He's obviously brilliant and hardworking if he's a surgeon. But... another way of seeing his job is that he's going to be working long hours and handling high levels of stress. People who are very successful make sacrifices in other areas of their lives, and many men at good at their jobs and bad at relationships. Don't be dazzled by his career, but listen to how you feel when you're around him. He has to prove that he's worth the time he will be physically and em…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:54 AM
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Yep. Sometimes the trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:01 PM
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Giving you loads of compliments when they barely know you (lovebombing). Complimenting you lot on your appearance or superficial things. Giving you "undeserved compliments" on pretty normal things. (IE: I work in a developing country, and to these idiots, I'm not just a teacher, I'm an ANGEL who is SAVING LIVES(!!!!).) Giving you compliments that seem too good to be true ("That was the best sex I've EVER had!!!!" after your first time). Any words that don't match up with his actions. (Like sayin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 01:28 PM
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You're going to attract all kinds of people. Some men will great, some will be okay, and some, like the ones you wrote about, will be very bad. Don't take their mental health problems as your personal problem. Honestly, I see this more as a reflection of bad luck rather than bad judgment. But in a way it's very lucky this is happening when you're young because you'll pick up on these signs faster and leave sooner. It's better that you'll have stories about weirdos you meet in high school than we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:53 AM
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