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The only reason you think this is that you have some kind of a twisted idea that sex is inherently a degrading act to women, but it's not true at all. Sure, there are guys who see it like this, there are also guys who have a lot of sex who see it like this, but it's far from a universal truth. Sex can be about connecting with another human, also when it's casual. It can also be a purely physical act for mutual pleasure of both parties. It's really not always necessery to connect on some kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:29 PM
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Counts for what? Who's counting? Why does it even need to count?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:59 AM
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For some reason a lot of men seem to believe that it has become some kind of a social consensus that women must not be approached when a man is interested. Which is a complete misinterpretation of very basic decency
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:48 PM
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This is so hysterical it's actually quite amusing. What do you think the women that won't be able to partner up with the chadest of chads do? TRP is spewing all the bullshit about instincts dictating bullshit like body count being the ultimate criterion for partner selection and such, but you don't take into account the greatest instict of them all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:39 PM
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31m/32f, in a relationship for 2 years. No kids yet. Started out having like 3-4 rounds everytime we met which was 2-3 times a week. Then we went through a period of 1-2 times durning a day, while seeing each other every day. We moved in together a year ago and are now on a stable every 2nd day, sometimes 3rd. We're both very satisfied with the frequency. I'd say we're 60:40, the female partner intiates slightly more often
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:18 PM
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Do you cuddle or share physical intimacy in any other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:11 PM
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This is not incel talk It literally is incel talk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:04 AM
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You can't be serious. it does make sense for goodness to be rewarded, therefore if you're a super good guy you must be swimming in p*ssy, right? No, it doesn't make sense at all. That's a simplification of enormous magnitudes. YOU are the one simplfying it, while also saying that it's laughable to think we can make sense of it using logic. It's the Red Pill (or what it morphed into...) that try to overrationalise something irrational and make all those ridiculous assumptions that this sub is swa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:51 AM
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It amazes me how people on the internet just not represent the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:24 AM
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Why do you associate feminism with asexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:30 PM
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For the most part, yes. So what? What is that supposed to prove? Does that mean that it's okay to shame women for having sex outside of relationship? Most people will NEVER be in a situation where they are placed in a room and forced to read and watch everything their partner had done with other men. Why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:41 AM
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Nobody in real life cares about your body count after your early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:44 PM
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I appreciate your lengthy reply, but it represents the state of affairs in the middle ages, not in 2023. And it's full of illogically large leaps. Men control the world. Men made the world. Society is built by men and dominated by men no matter how much women squeal, scream and dream, and will continue to be so until the dusk of humankind. This is perhaps the only part of your post that is has some truth in it, the majority of people in this sub will tell you so that it is not as black and white…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:15 PM
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How tf is any of this, except for dead bedrooms, objectively bad for men? How does it affect them in any way that isn't just endangering their fragile ego or against culture norms that the RP itself had established?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:01 PM
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Yea, no, quite the opposite actually. It comes from the outdated outlook on women they get from their fathers. I grew up as a child of single mother and I always did well at dating, pretty much best in my friends circle. I've also always had female friends. Men's cluelessness in dating stems from them having no idea how to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:58 PM
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Thank you for this great question. It blows my mind people in this sub really believe the gap in being single is because of women sharing the same men. It's obviously absurd. I'm curious what explanation they'll find on this one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:35 AM
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Fuck MRA, I don't want to have anything in common with them, I don't care what they think. As for feminists, have a look yourself I guess? https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/6n9g4n/what_do_you_think_of_the_idea_of_paper_abortion/ ​ If taxpayers will gladly foot the bill for supporting children, great. I'm all for Universal Basic Income, and if starting with a limited form given to children would be fine, I guess. My worry is that entirely tax-funded child support would be very suscep…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:22 PM
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Because they're your life companion who you trust and can rely on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:08 PM
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Looks are important for initial sexual attraction yes, but are absolutely not enough for "deep genuine attraction". Yea, see girls pursue your cousin because he's hot, but they will never build a stable relationship with him, because he's an idiot. All your talking points are about superficial attraction, not choosing a partner. You majorly underestimate how important looks just are. This is not just women, but men as well. But women to a larger extent. Mostly men, though. Female attraction does…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:18 AM
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Do you know that feminism is not a monolith? It won't be a number one issue in the mainstream debate, especially when there are many places women don't get access to abortion. It's first when we make sure that social systems can provide adequate support for single parents and prioritise things like affordable childcare, parental leaves are not sufficiently prioritised that we can begin to seriously talk about it and I absolutely agree about that. But there is no unified feminist opinion on this …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:11 AM
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Idk man I'm also a declared socialist but let's not make it into a contest of who's a better leftie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:40 PM
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The idea is simple: stop harassing women, stop being obsessed with sex, clean the home, take care of kids, don't repeat the machismo attitudes of your father These are very good points, but I don't think it necesarily means you should never approach a woman. There's a fine line between approaching and harassment. I think what you were exposed to is probably a little rabid. The building blocks of all feminism is fight for political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes and even th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:21 PM
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Eventually it's very likely you don't do all the things I listed and have a very mild and washed out idea of feminism and what it entails. That may very well be, cause in my eyes, your opinion of feminism is very doomsday-ish. For example ​ Feminism wants gender roles and "toxic" masculinity to stop, that means not approaching women, not escalating relationships yourself, "waiting them to come to you", which is a passive stance. You can also put in there that feminism wants me to step back from …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:42 PM
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I'm sorry you have had such experience with women. I don't see why you're trying to synonymise not having a transactional attitude towards sex and treating women like human beings with neglecting oneself and taking a "passive stance"? That's quite a leap. Is having social, political og ideological views on anything that doesn't directly apply to you synonymous with neglecting yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:55 AM
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First of all: Yea, we know you don't do it for sex. You got it. I know it's hard to believe that a man would do something out of any other motivation than sex. I was brought up in a feminist spirit, my circles were always mainly women and it is only natural for me to believe in what I believe in. I have difficulties understanding the perspective of having the transactional attitude towards this. But then again, if you really want to frame it in this certain way, sure, yea, I've always enjoyed in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:26 AM
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Yea idk man, I might've fucked a lot, but I'm pretty sure no woman that I wasn't in a serious committed relationship would say she was in a stable committed relationship with me... I think this sub has a problem with the concept of women having any emotional intelligence, or any intelligence for that matter. Maybe that's why you don't have luck with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:45 PM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:47 AM
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This is a prime example of how incredibly flawed trp thinking is. Nobody in their right mind chooses their partner based solely on looks. Not women, not even men. Do you really not see a problem in thinking that a hot rando would be someone's first choice just because they're hot? And that a person to settle with is second? You guys are so incredibly fixated on sex that you are not realising how ridiculous this reasoning is. Nobody would want to spend their life with someone just because they lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:59 PM
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Wtf, if she settles for him that literally mean she chose him. How is that sad? What's wrong with having fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:54 PM
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Very well explained
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:02 AM
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wtf this sub drifts more and more into insanity 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:00 AM
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Well I don't see such women. Also what is "expecting submissiveness"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:37 AM
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This is absolute and utter bullshit. Very few women find the perspective of being at home and not doing anything interesting. I would also argue that very few women in the 21st century outside of very conservative societies is drawn to the idea of being financially dependent on the man. It's one thing to look for a partner that can provide you with safety but still be a partner and another to look for a sponsor. Sure, there are some women who want that but it can by no means be generalised to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:09 AM
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No. It's not ad hominem Have you ever encountered anyone who would define themselves as bluepill? I don't think they exist, blue pill originated as the opposite of redpill and only exists as such. ​ It's not like all people live only to impress and get attention from the opposite sex lol. I don't disagree and I see how it's the exact opposite of RP theory, but this sub is ALL. ABOUT. FEMALE. VALIDATION.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:18 AM
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I've never done anything else than 50/50 & I've always been fine. It depends where you are, what the culture is, who you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:04 AM
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Sad but not really true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:46 PM
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It's really about the way you design your life. If you don't obsess over finding a relationship, you're more likely to surround yourself with healthy friendships, focus on your career and thrive in who you are. And as such, you're more likely to meet someone through common friends and be attractive to other people. This is of course very theoretical and it can be very difficult for a lot of people to sort yourself out and stay straight if your sole motivator is sex or romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:44 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:49 AM
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I'm a guy with mainly female friends and I have one friend in particular who is very sexually liberated l. Sex & hookups used to be #1 topics with her before she had kids and back when i was single, she would actively seek out girls and wingwoman me when we were out as a group, even if I wasn't specifically looking for a hookup that night. Otherwise, it doesn't happen much, but it has happened a couple of times. I'd say in order for it to happen randomly, girls need to sense some kind of a mutua…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:38 AM
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Men in general are repulsed by women with a past, that's not insecurity (wtf), but biology That doesn't make any sense. Do you even know the definition of biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:45 AM
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The vast majority of anonymous men online, yes. Maybe the vast majority of men talking about women inside their circles. The vast majority of people in the world know the rhetoric that a woman who sleeps around is a whore or a slut, sure, but do people REALLY care? In real life, it doesn't matter. If you hook up with someone, you don't ask about your body count before doing the deed. If you want to start a serious relationship with someone, it's one of many minor factors you weigh in when you de…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:46 PM
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You could have had one night stands, fwb, threesomes in the past, but that doesn't have anything to do with being in a commited relationship. It's a different set of rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:48 PM
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I mean, I understand the dynamics of societal pressure and can sympathise with the sentiment of being critical of it. I don't want to give away my personal data in order to get social media for free, but that's what we do. It's just, like, what is OP trying to say? What does anything have anything to do with men paying for babysitters? This example is so specific and so weird that you don't know what it exemplifies anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:14 PM
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Your post is filled with assumptions that strike me as completely misinformed and you're making some irrational jumps in your reasoning. And I'm really not sure what your point is? ​ I don’t believe any man actually likes super experienced women. The reality is, it doesn't matter. If it's a hookup, nobody cares, you don't even get to talking about it. If you're mature enough to be ready for a serious relationship, it's only important if you have religious background or insecurity issues. ​ Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:24 PM
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Have a look at my earlier post: what do you love about your partner Actually the majority of succesful relationships, even within this weird community name emotional openness and vulnerability as an important thing. Also, I am a very emotional guy, i cry in front of my girlfriend all the time and we've been doing great for a long time. She accepted from the get go that it's how I cleanse my emotions and so this is how we do. As long as I'm there for her, she's there for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:47 AM
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In the post-college world, RP theories make no sense at all anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:50 AM
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Okay, but why? What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:10 PM
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This is very anecdotal. There are attractive men who are abusive, dismissive of their partners' needs or just plain assholes. This cannot be generalised
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:36 AM
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I'm not saying it doesnt happen, I'm saying it would be better for everyone if they stop expecting it to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:43 AM
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But after the age of 25 you're more likely to be able to say what you're looking for in a partner and hence find better partners. It's not a coincidence that people who marry young are more likely to divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:38 PM
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That might be a good point with where you live. I live in a big city where there is a bunch of people who never married, have been in relationships that didn't last or never dated seriously. There is a general tendency that these people acquire agency over their baggage, tend to figure themselves out in most spheres (Therapy is generally not taboo). There are of course examples of it going wrong. People who married young have either become parents and seem to be living a moderately happy life a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:35 PM
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What do you mean by 'worse'?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:25 PM
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ctrl+c ctrl+v is my good friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:38 PM
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That's also hysterical. Most women won't be ravaged by 3959393 men. Most will have sexual experiences with maybe 10. Some 5, some 25. And in 10 years, you will not care about it at all. Not in a bitter way - like it really does not matter one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:28 PM
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I completely disagree. Like you couldn't be further from the truth. One of the problems I have with this sub is seeing everything in such absolute terms, despite people here being like, what 16-21 on average? As you get older, you will start noticing that all that anxiety-inducing bullshit that people talk about here stops mattering. People generally become better at understanding who they are and what they want. And suddenly girls will no longer always choose an alpha badboy over a nice guy. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:13 PM
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I'm really not sure how to understand my upvotes, so yea, I feel ya
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:57 AM
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Of course it's women's fault and a sign that the feminist narrative has taken over the world that she tricks a guy into not seeing sex as a way to humiliate women. Every time she orgasms, the feminist agenda wins a little bit. Each time you cuddle and are gentle with a woman, you lose a part of your masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:53 AM
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It is though. Sex is supposed to be a degrading act for a woman and introducing an element of pleasure for a woman is a sign of societal degradation, the crisis of masculinity, the civilisation is about end. Or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:24 PM
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I'm in fact in a closed relationship with someone who used to be in an open relationship. I knew very soon after meeting her, it didn't change anything at all. We have a compatibility beyond anything I've had with anyone before and are both open minded when it comes to sex, but not interested in pursuing sexual relations with others for the time being. We also agreed that this topic will never be a taboo, so we are open for talking about this in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:31 PM
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I've seen this mentioned here so many times, but where does this stat come from? Do you have the source?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:17 PM
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I agree 100%. Guys in this sub tend to be pathetic whiny crybabies who just look for ways to blame everything and everyone else for their misfortunes instead doing anything to change their situations. It's actually ironic, this segment is very resistant to the basic truth about who they are and understanding that the actual first step to do something about their sad lives is to stop overfocusing on small irrelevant details of the interactions between genders and getting all worked up on how unfa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:36 PM
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Low quality XDD as opposed to those who run away when your voice cracks which would be what? High quality? XD Iol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:22 AM
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This is not the first post like this that I am reading here and my thought is that I have no idea where you get those women and why you think you can generalise it for the whole women population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:19 AM
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"~30% of women are single while ~60% of men are." How does the math of this add up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:45 AM
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Again that's just your extremely watered down (pun intended lol) idea of what they're thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:42 PM
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This is the very central point of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:00 PM
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90+% of toxic masculinity is driven by MEN'S IDEA ABOUT women's preferences for dating and sex*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:58 PM
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Bro, there is a BIG difference between being vulnerable, emotional and being able cry in front of the other sex and being "soft and mentally weak". That you mix those things together is absurd and shows that you are not in a mindset to date seriously, cause to be serious with someone is to show vulnerability and everyone in a decent serious relationship will agree with that. Also, I'm that guy. I'm emotional, vulnerable, I cry in front of women, I'm not afraid to show my feelings and I've always…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:27 PM
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What? Where does that come from? What scientific data? This is the first time I'm hearding about women hating sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:56 AM
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Could you elaborate on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:46 AM
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You went to clubs and bars 4 times a week? While having a wife??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:57 PM
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I'm definitely not an incel and I am embracing my sensitiveness and have no problem showing weakness to my partner. And I know other men like me, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:25 AM
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This would be the single reply that I agree with most of all the comments. ​ Overarching point being here that I personally don't believe crying in front of a partner has ever ended any relationship that wasn't already doomed anyway. On point!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:24 AM
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I really don't think so, but I guess that depends on how you look at it. I am just myself, fully embracing my sensitiveness, I have my issues and sometimes I can be a mess and I am happy to share with my partner. It's easy to have one person to look after and who looks after me than to fight for female attention all the time, so it's really doesn't feel like a "high price". I am pretty sure that people in my position, having a partner they can rely on are generally happier and have significantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:23 AM
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Where did video games come from? I didnt write a single word about video games
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:58 AM
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The thing is that I don't and I even believe most of the people don't either. And I'm only beginning to understand now that I'm reading the comments that this is the key point in thinking about this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:54 PM
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I think the title I wrote might be a little misleading. I'm referring to the following paragraph in my post: It seems to be a very popular view that as a man you should not show your sensitive side to your point of romantic interest, that you can be sure to kill her libido, if you aren't a machine of self-confidence, and the one that shocks me the most is the amount of people suggesting you should never cry in front of your girlfriend; the overwhelming agreement that this will kill the spark in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:14 PM
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My post is not about improving oneself, but dulling down one's feeling to accommodate the assummed attractiveness of people who aren't emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:49 PM
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In regards to my own situation? Nothing. I'm just astonished by the direction in the debate about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:37 PM
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It means that it's never been easy for me to have sex on 1st date or pull girls on parties, but people in my circles, who know me a little better, are likely to be interested in having a relationship with me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:46 AM
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