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Hypocrisygrahamcookiefart/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 07:22 AM
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Generalgrahamcookiefart/r/MensRights25/10/22 02:48 PM
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grahamcookiefart/r/AntiFeminists10/09/21 06:20 AM
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DISCUSSIONgrahamcookiefart/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:18 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTgrahamcookiefart/r/RedPillWomen22/02/26 05:45 AM
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grahamcookiefart/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 05:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONgrahamcookiefart/r/RedPillWives09/09/21 11:59 AM
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grahamcookiefart/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 07:24 AM
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grahamcookiefart/r/AntiFeminists14/09/21 03:09 PM
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ADVICEgrahamcookiefart/r/RedPillWives14/03/21 09:27 PM
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ADVICEgrahamcookiefart/r/RedPillWives20/06/21 02:57 PM
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Question For Womengrahamcookiefart/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:42 PM
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Questiongrahamcookiefart/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:00 PM
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Debategrahamcookiefart/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:51 PM
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Haha :D that's lovely I'm not sure if there's a tried & true 5 faces of the perfect husband - I'm not seasoned enough in the literature. Interested to see if anyone has an answer
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/26 08:59 PM
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26F, Not a fan of Andrew Tate or fresh & fit. They are not what attracts a good woman, in my opinion. I don't think a self respecting woman would associate with people so openly decadent & promiscuous. But that's just my opinion 🤝
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 02:22 PM
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Why not? It really depends on the type of man you want. If you don't care for a man who's comfortable with "aggressive pursuit" (which I feel like in this climate a man who cold approaches would be) then by all means why not just make the first move. I did and it was the best decision I ever made
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 03:34 PM
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Yes! u/SouthernAthena cooked with this one
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 12:59 PM
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What other female archetypes come to mind for you?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 12:58 PM
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I think the roles theoretically correspond well Only a Father, someone who is a positive role model & creates the frameworks of the home, will need a wife who is a Mother. But at the same time a Son, who is willing to be vulnerable with his wife and confess that he needs her from time to time. Only a Leader needs a Confidante, because otherwise what decisions would there be to confide with? A husband only needs a waitress if he knows what he wants. He is decisive, he knows what he likes or at le…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 12:57 PM
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You can't say the wrong thing to the right person. This is such a freeing realization. If he is the right person, the truth will not be harmful to your relationship. I don't think it's about bad families being a red flag but rather how you deal with your family. Think "what does how I treat my family say about me" rather than "what does my bad family say about me". If you had a son, and he brought back a girlfriend with no contact to her family, what would be your concerns about her character? P…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/26 07:37 AM
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You're not wrong to assume that, women haven't given men reason to believe any of us act in good faith anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:26 AM
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It's alright, I didn't mean it was objectifying, I was saying that women are malleable by their choices and environments. Just like you cannot be seen as an "absolute". We are what we make of our body, mind and soul. That's what we love about each other. Anyway. I don't wish to lecture, I pray you encounter what could challenge this, even if it is simply love for your use of analogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:23 AM
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This, absolutely. The sub is unfortunately hosting more of these "where can I find a provider" type posts that are really about "where can I find a rich man" Providing is a mindset, not a tax bracket! Men who work lower paying but essential jobs keeping our society functioning can be just as captain and also deserve partners who want to improve their lives.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/26 06:09 AM
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At the risk of sounding patronising, unlike earth and stone, women aren't inanimate and have varying attitudes. While I appreciate your disillusionment, I wouldn't see it as an absolute or as a reflection of your lovable-ness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:03 AM
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He's also rich and famous. Come on, you're being intentionally dense Jack Nicholson definitely got laid plenty after aging.. Jonah Hill.. The reason they're getting laid is not the way they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:35 AM
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This is very, very true. Brava
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:09 AM
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That is actually heart breaking to read. I'm sorry for the experiences that shaped this view for you, and so many more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:08 AM
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He clearly said never sleeping with men who dress or act like Harry Styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:05 AM
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Women's media claims to empower but is actually victimizing. It points out "systemic problems", acceptance, manifestation, basically just coping. Whether it's body positivity, or MeToo, ProChoice, or dating spaces. It's focused around "this is the issue, this is how you should feel about it, this is how you cope with it" It doesn't focus on solutions & action. "Women in STEM are underrepresented here's why it's not our fault and we should be angry". It takes away accountability and agency from w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/26 10:52 PM
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Not denying it. I was trying to see if someone relates and why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:53 PM
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Not sure what hurt you, but I was not disrespectful towards you, so your negativity is confusing and irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:42 PM
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Also the fact that the left-leaning women in the comments who said they could relate expressly put their agreement in a sexual context
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:38 PM
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Could be a good explanation for my anecdotal observation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:37 PM
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What does that have to do with my question? I specifically directed it at women in the flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:35 PM
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That's a great example, thank you! Makes sense, also directing energy towards spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:28 PM
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Alright follow up question - political preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:26 PM
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Not sure why you made so many extra assumptions. I asked my group of friends of varying political affiliation, "does anyone love spoiling men not for any reason except wanting to see them happy?" And that started a discussion. I made the observation that the more conservative leaning ones (not even all) related. I didn't say anything about compassion, but no I don't have the same feeling towards women, possibly because I'm not sexually attracted to women. But I also don't have that feeling just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:21 PM
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Hmm my question was more focused on wanting to spoil men in general, limiting it to your partner for obvious reasons. I also wonder what the male equivalent of that would be. If there's men who just want to spoil women simply because, not to get in their pants or get anything back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:13 PM
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That is the core point of the post. Wanting to spoil men in general. If you don't like men in general except your spouse, this was not the question... I appreciate my original post wasnt very clear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:10 PM
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It's quite easy to follow non-white food recipes 😃 would you like some advice or is cooking not your thing? And if no massage, how about a nice foot bath? 😌 you gotta give some more details on what you two are like. Do you travel together? Are you outdoors people? Do you have a budget aka can buy him a gift or are you more on the frugal DIY side?
/r/RedPillWives11/01/25 09:42 AM
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What kinda guy is he? Really depends. If he's not a romantic kinda person, then just try be useful for him. Learn some better recipes, if he works out count the macros of your meals. Give him a back or foot rub.. spoil him a bit 😃 If he's not the "tell me how much you adore me" type then he'd probably appreciate gestures more.
/r/RedPillWives10/01/25 06:12 PM
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I'm very sorry and I feel for your struggle. For what it's worth I see some tide towards a positive direction. Men going for better working conditions, not accepting shit partners and going for other cultures or going their own way entirely. I also see a positive progress for women, red pill wives, female MRAs - I see more content from women who have a genuine desire to make men's lives better. Nothing compared to the past, but it's something...
/r/MensRights01/12/24 04:56 AM
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"When will men unite against this issue" unfortunately, there's little rising up coming from the male sphere. That's why during the time that women got the right to vote, to abort, to certain assets in marriage, to affirmative action - nothing happened to really improve men's lives. No social action against the draft, circumsision, SA against boys... not even awareness. Total silence. Even at the time when breast cancer got its whole ribbon campaign (I'm not by any means belittling breast cancer…
/r/MensRights28/11/24 08:20 AM
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That sounds terrible, I'm really sorry you're going through this.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 08:11 AM
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This analysis is perfect in so few words. Just one look at pop culture says it all. Women are awesome, just for existing and deserve everything. All pop culture is gynocentric narcissistic manifestation. Movies, tv shows even socials in the West (and starting to happen where I'm from too) are so unbearable to watch. I feel so sorry for the children of millenial+ mothers, and moreso their partners.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 08:38 PM
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But a note is not invasive at all :) they can read it when they have a free minute. Just imagine it was the other way around and you were sitting there reading and someone left you a note. That'd be an indicator for appropriate behavior.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 06:58 AM
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This. OP sounds exactly like the type I always had since puberty. When I tell my husband (the nerd I approached) that no one ever made a move on me, he doesn't believe me. Yes, the 'type' OP is describing, who don't go to clubs and don't like to be 'out there' don't feel that popular either. :') Tell you what, OP, speak to the girl who looks 'plain'. Possibly in bookstore reading corner, Gamestop or similar. Try leaving notes, instead of approaching verbally, which can take off some of the awkwa…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/24 07:39 PM
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I really believe in this day and age, the actual indicator of "SMV" is whether you can get a decent human being to be loyal to you and love you, care for you. Having hookups is facilitated with apps etc, you have more access than ever before to sex. I don't understand why it's sold to men as an indicator of value - you can literally bring nothing to the table and find someone to sleep with (depends how low you're willing to set your standard). What you won't find easily, and have to work for, is…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/24 08:05 AM
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Goated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:20 PM
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I like doing that! But don't see it as a must. I see the face of guys when the waitress/waiter eyes them down for letting their gf/wife pay. It's not about the "guy's insecurities" just knowing that there's a lot of dipshit people in this world.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 09:07 AM
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Off the point comment but this whole "muh break the stigma that women can't be mothers at 35". Feminists are a new breed of selfish. It's not just about fertility. The older you are when you conceive, the significantly higher the probability of genetic abnormalities developing for the child Watch here starting min 7:00 Not everything is about THEM dammit.
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/23 07:56 AM
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My body my choice should also mean my wallet my choice
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:18 PM
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Thank you so much! :)
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:55 PM
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Nope! Great and super informative response, thank you for that! :)
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:37 PM
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Neeever heard of them! This is awesome thank you :)!! I have a very hard time finding RP youtubers. Even when I search specific title keywords from videos I remember, I can't find them. Woke youtube doing its best.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:06 PM
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Jeez, the assumptions you made make me suspect that you're the misogynist here. Let's see, just because I'm an immigrant woman, you assumed that I had a sham marriage to gain citizenship that I was forced to stay celibate before marriage, not that it was my choice that I'm a stay at home work slave / unemployed when I said I am employed, you assumed I have a "low wage job" and "barely scrape by". I have a very well paying job in MarTech. You sure I'm the one with the messed-up view about women? …
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:04 PM
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Sorry, what? When have men not pulled their weight? Weren't fixing things at home and even opening a jar stereotypically male roles since the dreaded 60s? The reason we both work is because of a crap economy and a one income household cannot survive anymore, not because I want to leave whenever I want. I do it with the intention of alleviating stress from my husband, not to realize my own "career" path. You must misunderstand what a traditional relationship is. --> The relationship is defined by…
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 07:22 AM
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Couldn't have said it better!
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 07:05 AM
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Ohhh they engage... but a bit too late and a bit too salty. You must have heard of the subreddit r/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen (I linked the red pill forum link of the same subreddit because the sub keeps getting banned on reddit) Thank you very much for the compliment! :)
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 07:04 AM
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It's not about equally He has no hands in the household chores, and I wouldn't want him to because it doesn't come naturally to him. He's amazing at other things: maintenance of the home, caring for all our paperwork / legal stuff, and all around managing our life structure. That is immeasurable - It's not a point system. We both do what we can do best to make each other's lives comfortable. Traditional relationships really don't deserve their opportunistic reputation.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 10:48 PM
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Can't tell if this is a troll comment - but okay. We didn't get married for a citizenship, I had already applied for it before meeting him since I had already studied & worked in the country where we met. No where did I say I was an 'at home wife-slave'; I work, I'm not financially dependent on anyone. 2nd, it is culturally ingrained what gender and marriage roles are. To me, fulfillment isn't making a boss happy or lining a company's pockets with money. It's bringing joy to the man I love. How …
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 10:04 PM
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Maybe a war in the sense that men are looking to marry more traditional wives, even from non-Western countries (?) Cooking, cleaning, pampering, being sexually available... they're still wife-roles that are adhered to outside of the west. Source: I'm a non-Western wife to my European husband (Anecdotal evidence, i know, but it's just an assumption based on the term dating 'wars')
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 09:15 PM
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It depends, did they stick around or did they cause the circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:11 AM
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Not just that, it is a crime to have sex outside of marriage. I come from a Middle Eastern country, until you're married you generally stay at home with your family. Sharing a hotel room is not possible with someone from the opposite sex, even going to someone's apartment if it's not a family home is not allowed. (If you are a national of this country, not if you're a foreigner) Not criticizing this, but describing the status quo. On the other hand, we don't have this lose-half-your-stuff princi…
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/23 10:56 AM
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Not all of them are. Having a french residence permit e.g. does not make you french.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 02:41 PM
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Funny enough french feminists are the ones who support this clothing ban. As it only affects women who are not French (immigrants from 3rd world countries)
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:45 AM
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There's more and more posts of this sort. Women are finally seeing the reality, I think. I also see more women commenting on RP youtube videos. Hope we can finally make a change for men
/r/MensRights24/11/22 09:31 AM
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I'm sorry for everything that happened to you and for what the world is doing to you. Totally get your standpoint. I don't know how you all do it... :( I hope we can turn things around for men.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:43 PM
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This hurts to read... dude I'm so sorry. I really hope you're compensated for the things you went through
/r/MensRights22/11/22 04:38 PM
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Look at her hating men when they have literally built our societies, fought wars and carry our burdens. Screw this. Please PLEASE whoever needs to read this, this shit is abusive and you should remove yourself from any person coming even remotely close to what they're saying. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/AntiFeminists22/11/22 04:24 PM
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Feminism is not about equality for all. It simply is not. The original movement was not and the current movement is not. It is about getting premium benefits for a specific group of people - whether this is good or bad is a different discussion. But feminism is definitely not about equality for all. The original movement wanted to get women out of the kitchen and into the workforce. If it were equality for all, they would have wanted men to be homemakers, they would have accepted access to jobs …
/r/AntiFeminists22/11/22 04:18 PM
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Whoever needs to hear this, you guys go through enough ! You fight in silence, you take on the weight of the world on your shoulders. You don't deserve what's happening in the world right now. I'm sorry, I wish you would get more credit for everything you do. You rock.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 02:25 PM
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Holy shit .... I'm so sorry guys
/r/AntiFeminists22/11/22 07:45 AM
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This topic is so difficult to talk about. I was explaining to a coworker how awful it is that in my culture men by default have to get circumsized (due to religious reasons) and she didn't even flinch before saying "WELL WHAT ABOUT WOMEN" What about them? FGM is illegal and extreeemely stigmatized for all the right reasons in underdeveloped countries. Circumcision is not just legal, it's prescribed.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 12:26 AM
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Who told you they are seen as less? They aren't. We're seen to have different duties/roles.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 05:18 PM
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Posted a link to my Movember page on LinkedIn, met with rage of my female coworkers :) screw this. Happy international men's day guys!
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 03:54 PM
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Absolutely hate this narrative of female oppression in Muslim fascist regimes. I was 1000% grateful to be a woman in the fascist Middle Eastern country I grew up in because the dictators there oppress humans altogether. Men have it worse, objectively. I'm grateful I don't have to be drafted, I don't get beaten up brutally by the police, I'm not incarcerated longer, I'm not expected to carry the burdens of my entire family tree on my shoulder. I would definitely prefer to be a woman in a country …
/r/MensRights19/11/22 03:51 PM
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Love it!
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 07:04 PM
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Yes! That's true, historically and currently. Always been the silent fighters. Thanks for everything you do guys!
/r/MensRights12/11/22 01:15 PM
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Hey OP, I wouldn't dwell too much on what "could" have been done at the time. I'm very sorry you were emotionally and socially abused this way and I really hope you get compensated for this in another aspect of life. Having said that - you could look at remote job options, much less interaction. What is your field of work if I may ask? You said you were a key worker in Covid (thank you for your support during that time!!) So I suppose something more hands-on?
/r/MensRights11/11/22 11:23 PM
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This reminds me of Matt Walsh's video on liberal women going on a "sex strike" to punish men for the overruling of Roe v Wade. Cracks me up
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:32 AM
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I'm so sorry OP :( this is a symptom of a bigger issue.. I highly doubt that breaking plates is the only instance where she will make you feel this way. I sincerely hope she finds the resources to work on that, r/RedPillWives for example is a philosophy around being a good wife and homemaker. If this is a marriage worth salvaging, it would be worthwhile to point out to her how this made you feel. I hope fear of losing you could incite some inspiration to self help
/r/MensRights31/10/22 12:12 AM
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Idk i feel like some men look soooo much better completely bald than when they had a full head of hair. And other bald men will look tenfold better than men with full heads of hair. It really depends. I think it is just the stage where it's between the two that is a biiit less attractive but otherwise, you're all beautiful!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:01 PM
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I PMed you!
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:53 PM
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Ho Ly Shit That gives me a stomach ache
/r/AntiFeminists27/10/22 03:30 PM
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They're completely ignoring that the woman is literally benefiting from that very setup..
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:05 AM
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It was my first PSN username, I was 12 and dumb :D
/r/MensRights26/10/22 09:39 PM
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I've turned against feminism because I saw the Red Pill documentary and it made me cry more than Lion King. This world is becoming a hellhole for men and I cannot unsee it.
/r/AntiFeminists26/10/22 08:56 PM
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Here I am!
/r/AntiFeminists26/10/22 08:55 PM
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I agree :( It gets turned against you most of the time "pickme", "internalized misogyny" they will have some sort of label to weaken your argument. Thank you for being part of the change though, I hope the environment for men will be better with time...
/r/MensRights26/10/22 12:25 PM
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I'm so sorry, and yes, I observe this too with men. I think it's testimony enough that you had to carry the responsibilities of the world on your shoulders and never complained, no sewage worker said "I need equal rights", no soldier said "we need a movement". You have built the world and never complained about it. I feel very bad for the men who feel like their struggles are not respected - I will try to be a better comfort place for the men in my proximity.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 12:23 PM
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That's so kind of you :') thanks. I'm quite interested in the legislative side of it, the fact that the laws in the so-called pAtRiArChY are misandrist. And also historical bits about men that debunk the feminist narratives. There was a comment from a redditor that shared how exactly women got the right to vote, and that it wasn't feminism, things like why exactly women had to ask permission to have a bank account etc. I will link it here. And yes I'd absolutely love to share the situation in ar…
/r/MensRights26/10/22 05:07 AM
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:( I feel this. Thank you. That's something I'd love to do, and I think especially now there's so many things a man would want to vent about (without being pushy...)
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:27 PM
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That is SUCH a good tip and you put that into words so well. Okay, thank you, I was not aware of this but I can see it now that you mention it. I took note of that, that's very practical
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:24 PM
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Can and will do that! Thank you so much for the to-the-point advice :)
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:14 PM
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Yes! That's doable, unfortunately where I am located, there's enough of those.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:11 PM
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oooh I think I might have an underwhelming answer to this :') I got into men's rights because of the Red Pill documentary and that got me through a bit of a rabbit hole. I followed the RP content on reddit, watched a few more documentaries (Dicorce Corp for example... the tears... oh the tears) more and more subs were recommended for me that were antifeminist. After reddit started closing down the RP channels, I switched over to their online Forums.Red I grew up in a third world country that is …
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:06 PM
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Thank you for this comprehensive advice :) i think this is very doable and realistic, very much appreciated
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:14 PM
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Thank you so much
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:40 PM
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Hey el_jefe thank you! Could you share the details? :)
/r/MensRights25/10/22 02:54 PM
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Ditto ! Thank you for everything you do :) y'all don't hear this enough.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 04:29 PM
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Let's humor them and pretend like it is dangerous as a woman to walk in the street alone at night. BOO HOO cry me a freakin river how about being drafted for the military Like who came along one day, looked at a woman hoovering the floor of her house and a man who was breaking his back in a shit office job to make a living and went all "oh.. SUCH OPPRESSION look at her doing household chores"? Why is one more oppressive than the other? Now we're both f-cked, thanks feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/22 10:19 PM
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I'm an antifeminist and I always try to pay. Also after getting married, gotta treat the king to a fancy meal every now and then. Feminist or not; understanding that in a tough economy, the burden is too much on one person and having the decency to pay for your own consumption at least is a green flag in my book. Funny enough, among my female acquaintances / colleagues, it's the feminists that expect men to cover the tab...
/r/AntiFeminists11/10/22 09:09 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 11:58 AM
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I'd be really interested to read a man's perspective on this..
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 11:17 AM
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Are you kidding me, this shit had retweets? Feminism needs to get a grip, wasn't sex work "eMpOweRiNg" like two mins ago? Now it's rape?
/r/AntiFeminists08/10/22 06:58 AM
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Isn't it interesting how our "logo" crosses the feminism symbol and theirs just crosses out men.
/r/AntiFeminists30/09/22 08:23 AM
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Preach!!
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 05:19 PM
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You a good dude! Keep rocking
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 01:30 PM
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Why doesn't this have more upvotes!!
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 05:13 AM
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Don't say wholesome and tech, don't make me think of Big Hero 6 I will cry right here
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 04:58 AM
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Meh.. I have to disagree and that's coming from someone who was a virgin till marrying her husband. I agree that it's different for men and women, but hard pass on "the key that can open any lock is invaluable". A high bodycount is bad for both genders. The fact that promiscuity poses a higher risk of contracting STDs, having unwanted pregnancies and losing your bonding ability. Anyone who carelessly engages in this shows a major character flaw. Women who engage in meaningless sex are putting th…
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 04:45 AM
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Since we were apart due to a business trip, I chose the "make it a point to tell your husband what you appreciate about him" He was also driving back very late and said on the phone that he hadn't eaten, so I ordered food to where he was staying. I texted him after saying goodnight on the phone some things that I truly appreciate about him, that I could not live without. He answered "you make my life, everything else in it is not necessary" :') <3
/r/RedPillWives27/09/22 11:58 AM
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:') aaaawww that's so sweet!
/r/RedPillWives24/09/22 08:51 PM
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For the northern hemisphere it's pretty cold outside. So my challenge is: Prepare a "cozy cove" night with hubby. Blankets, fuzzy socks, a movie, candles and hot chocolate. Prepare it to look really cool. Our husbands were boys once, the concept of pillow forts and blanket coves are really nostalgic for most men. Bonus points if you make fingerfood!
/r/RedPillWives23/09/22 07:25 PM
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For fitness reasons, my husband and I are doing intermittent fasting. GIRL how this has changed my life for the better. Better fitness, better body, SO MUCH more time and less groceries. If you can make one of these 3 meals that you're talking about to either nothing or something that needs no prep/pans (like no-cut fruits or muesli) then do it. For the other stuff.. I have a schedule on my phone for the chores that I follow and I try to do maintenance while using the amenities. Meaning, while s…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 06:24 PM
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I get so mad about this. In German we call it "Männerschnupfen" (men's flu) which basically means it's nothing serious, the guy's just being a baby about it. It's frustrating because if men were such crybabies, why are they pulling all the pain involved labor? I'll admit it is individual and some people whether men or women make their sicknesses out to be more than what they are but how is this gender related.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 06:19 AM
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I LOVE wfh. Starting september I need to go back 50% and I am already dreading it. My husband is also at home the majority of the time. I get my housework done, I get the cooking done, homemade meals are infinite times better than whatever we used to eat at work, I get to sleep more, we get to cuddle, have unexpected intercourse that we mark as "coffee break"... Wfh has done wonders for our bonding and thinking of going back is so heartbreaking. Maybe a tiny lowlight is the slobbyness, the pajam…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 08:55 AM
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There's still light. Antifeminist women, redpill women, all exist. You were all burnt by psycho women, so I understand the sentiment though. I'm very sorry if you had to deal with that too.
/r/AntiFeminists11/07/22 06:47 AM
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I was just gonna say I saw the video on mute and thought it was aimed at women and had a sigh of relief like "oh phew I'm doing most of this stuff". Then the realization came that this person was not a black man but a woman
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 07:39 AM
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Yeaaah that's totally just as bad if not worse than being drafted for wars, losing custody of children and getting baby trapped. /s
/r/AntiFeminists05/07/22 03:13 AM
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Same here sister. Also working fulltime, finishing my masters degree, cooking meals from scratch, cleaning, and just burning out. This economy is back breaking and it's quite depressing to think that all this work may not amount to even affording a home. :'( I have to say, what helps is, I suppose making serious choices. I switched jobs to something fully remote and it has helped tremendously to get the housework done. My husband (after some persuasion) is helping around the house the ways he ca…
/r/RedPillWives03/07/22 10:25 AM
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Being virginshamed as a woman is also quite interesting. I grew up in a conservative third world country where it is expected to stay a virgin until marriage. I study in Europe though and during an ice breaker event in the very first semester when I started they were playing "never have I ever" (and funny enough, I was basically harassed for not drinking. 'The game can only be played if you're drunk, that's the point!!' ?? What line in the invitation said 'drinking mandatory'??) Anyway one of th…
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/22 08:40 PM
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Because this post is just trying to highlight the misandry (see post flair), you are free to view the original post here
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/22 02:45 PM
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Ooooh my warmest congratulations to you!! ❤
/r/RedPillWives29/06/22 07:54 AM
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😊 that's so cool, thank you for your openness!! Maybe everyone has individual time to make an update post until the next Monday comes in with new challenges?
/r/RedPillWives29/06/22 07:53 AM
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Oh yeah that would be way too much work! I say this with reserve because I have no experience moderating reddit but it could be an automated post where the text asks for a challenge to be proposed.. And either we go by upvotes or who commented first to take that challenge? Or everyone gets to choose their own challenge and report back So like Mod: "it's time for the weekly challenge, post your challenges in the comments" u/madeupreddituser: "I challenge RPWs to set up candles and restaurant-y fe…
/r/RedPillWives28/06/22 10:03 PM
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I also think it's awfully quiet.. I was thinking of getting mods to do maybe some sort of weekly challenge maybe instead of the Tea time? :) Something like hubby day, where we challenge each other to do something specific. It'd be fun thinking that a bunch of RPWs around the world are all doing x for their husbands today. "Challenge: wake him up with sexy time today" I don't know I think it would be fun :D As for your questions... I'm a young wife, married two years to a wonderful man. I'm here …
/r/RedPillWives28/06/22 07:47 AM
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"My body my choice" yeah your choice to have sex and your choice to take contraceptives that are 99% effective. A man gets to choose not to have sex with crazies, and as you rightfully portrayed, feminists are making it very easy to identify them.
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 07:19 AM
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Oh my GOD would you stop it already with the god damn "walking down the street" argument??? WHO CARES. No one is excempt from being mugged or harassed on the street, men or women. And there are literally solutions for it: pepperspray, other self defense weapons, walking with someone else, taking a cab ??? For crying out loud, I, a woman, who has even lived in a third world country where you will probably be trafficked not just mugged, will take walking down the streets as a woman a MILLION times…
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 07:12 AM
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This ! I urge you to look up Anthony Levatino, a former abortion doctor who now educates about the cruelty of the process. I live in Germany and I'm a (conservative, traditional) college student. I cannot explain the amount of cognitive dissonance that I'm experiencing everyday just talking to female classmates. I of course don't get to voice any opinion no matter how well argued on matters that concern women's "rights". Between the 13 women in my masters program, 2 had had an abortion and they …
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 07:01 AM
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I genuinely think some don't even know that. I gloss over social media outrage posts about how "abortion is illegalized in the US" - it's... not. It's just up to the individual states now. I suppose when you're a radical feminist you wouldn't live in Texas, so what's with the outrage.
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 06:44 AM
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They still can, it's just up to every state to have its own ruling on abortion - which is kinda the point of a federal system. I don't understand why they're pretending like this is the Handmaid's Tale. I suppose some don't even know what Roe v Wade was about.
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/22 06:38 AM
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Agreed!
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 04:27 PM
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Oh my God that's so sweet!! Thank you! :') that's incredibly flattering
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 01:43 PM
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haha :D thank you, I'm proud to be a holder of the coveted Bois PassTM
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 09:54 AM
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Not a friend, just someone I work with :)
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 09:20 AM
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She's a hard-on feminist and we butt heads sometimes over these topics. She said something along the lines of "executive assistants sit on a pile of money since they can either have a luxurious affair with their bosses or they can wait for one flirty comment from their bosses that could win them a load of money" I told her that would be a false accusation and make a mockery out of real rape cases. She argued this is "women taking back power" bla bla. Anyway, she sent me this four days after we h…
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 09:12 AM
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For the feminists trolling the subreddit. No one on here supports rape! This post isn't about promoting "rape culture". It's about how men and their human rights movement is portrayed in a misandristic way. It also fails to argue against the MRA criticism that false accusations do not incriminate the accuser, instead, the post tries to make a point by saying the number of actual false accusations is smaller in reality. That doesn't prove sh*t with all due respect.
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 09:02 AM
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Hahaha :D nice!
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 08:58 AM
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Thank you for the concern and tip. Though, I'm a woman so I doubt she'd ever accuse me of rape. Since women can't rape duh /s
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 08:58 AM
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Didn't matter at all, since, as I specified in the subtitle, this isn't even the point of contention. The crux is that false reports that are outright lies are not punished. The slides didn't address this at all, they broke down how "false accusations" can mean anything from an outright lie to a report being dismissed due to missing evidence. Even if it means that the number of false reports may be smaller in reality, it doesn't address how the outright-lie-reports go unpunished. Second, the rea…
/r/AntiFeminists24/06/22 08:57 AM
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Depends on your priorities. If someone wants to be a SAHM in this day and age they will need to make more sacrifices than they would have before, like not living in a big popular city, being very crafty, frugal with food and food waste etc. For me personally, I've already given up on the thought of being a SAHM and have accepted that I will have to work at least part time. Due to family strains, we can't rely on an inheritance so in order to do better for our future kids (God willing), we'll nee…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 08:34 PM
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Kind reminder that the chores, cooking and cleaning would be done even if the woman were to live alone. So no, it's not 24/7 she doesn't just work there, she lives there too.
/r/AntiFeminists21/06/22 03:43 AM
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WOW spot on! Thank you for this valuable contribution :) I hope everyone gets to see this as this is the best explanation as to why "good men" and "wealthy men" are in no way synonymous.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 03:56 PM
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I recently read a feminist article titled "Women are choosing lower paying jobs? No. Jobs frequently chosen by women pay lower wages" These people will turn the world upside down before admitting reality. No sh*t - cushy, no-risk jobs with fixed vacations and work-life balance don't pay well??? Who would have thought???
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 06:00 PM
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He (and you) can have however much/hr for this sort of bravery. Society would collapse without people like you and him stepping in. Less for the ceos, more for the brave men that keep our every day lives going
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 02:34 PM
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Yes you are!
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 02:32 PM
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Meanwhile Jane Doe finally got promoted in her marketing department. So brave, so inspiring, the future is female. There would be NO future without this man right there! And all men that built our bridges, our houses, mended our roads and opened our jam jars. Lots of love to you all.
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 02:31 PM
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Or dying in war then?
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 02:28 PM
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Also Feminists: "We want access to male dominated fields!" This guy: "sure" Feminists: "uh, no not that one"
/r/AntiFeminists07/06/22 07:23 AM
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What an explosion of sweetness and sincerity in one post! Thank you for brightening the day OP :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 09:59 AM
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"People with uteruses" in the case of pregnancy not only choose their fate and the fate of the fetus but also the fate of the man - that's 3 lives, less autonomy for the man. Not only did the woman have (in the vast majority of cases) FULL choice in the matter of whether to become pregnant or not in the form of abstinence and 99% effective birth control pre and post coitus, but she also has the choice to keep or not keep the baby regardless of what the man in the scenario thinks. On one hand, if…
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 08:11 AM
5

Holy cringe, glad you got outta there OP!
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 07:32 PM
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OP your comments are spot on, thank you for all the insight and putting up with the trolls!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 10:20 PM
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I treated my husband on our first date, granted it was my suggestion so it would have been really improper to choose a place and then even not pay for it. I still love to make him happy by inviting him to dinners or vacations to celebrate occasions and personal milestones. Men deserve to be treated like royalty too!
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/22 02:48 PM
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Let me have a go... Nice women like nice guys. The way a lot of kind men I know describe the women they were dealing with just makes me think they were not dealing with nice women. Douche women like douche guys, both archetypes are usually the loudest and most noticeable, hence why many women think "all men are trash" and why many men think "all women love bad boys" or "AWALT". I''d just reallllyy urge men to vet women for the love of God.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:40 PM
3

Why double standard? Same goes both ways. I don't think f*ckboys are marriage material either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:26 AM
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I'm not sure if you are familiar with the law, but we get state support whether my husband is married to me or not. We get it when we're working also. It's a premium that you get for each child. I have also been paying taxes for that "shit" since I was 18, and will continue to pay taxes for that. I don't see why this offends you? If my husband and I get divorced it would have to be something grave, infidelity or major dishonesty. In that case no I don't want any of his money to even touch my exp…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 01:28 PM
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I don't have kids but I work remote and do the cooking / chores. It's just not feasible in our age and economy to have 1 income yet. (I'm 23, he's 26). If God wills and we have a baby, there's state support, support from my job and we worked out a sort of "pocket money" that we would give me. Turning that and my savings into passive income, that would be basically a salary. I'm pretty low-maintenance as well so I don't even know if God forbid I got divorced what I would do with the excess money …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 08:54 AM
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I'm for it, live in a country where prenups are not so easily thrown out like in the US but at the same time we don't just get poor just because we get divorced. My husband never wanted it, I just told him getting into the marriage I don't want it to ever cross his mind that I'm marrying him for money, and a prenup should, in case later on he has this thought, prove that to him. I don't want him to stay unhappily married to me just because he is afraid of losing half his things. Also if it ever …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 06:34 AM
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That's the whole crux really. At this point in time it's so hard to make ends meet with just one salary, but still you can manage to be traditional. I work a full time remote job and cook / clean / do the laundry, while my husband takes care of maintenance things and handles our legal stuff. We both make each others lives either and don't have to split chores 50/50 for that, he does what comes naturally to him, I do what comes naturally to me. But in this economy, and I'm saying this as someone …
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 11:00 AM
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I find women often falling back into this argument because of their delusion of "I do just as much". Even in wife-husband situations, they expect men to clean and cook because "I work too, I'm doing just as much". No hun, I bet he's the one who organized your internet, cable, built/maintains the furniture, carries heavy stuff, fixed stuff you broke etc. We need each other and this is what makes a relationship function. I work too and can financially sustain myself, but my life without my husband…
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/22 06:42 AM
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Wish I could give you gold.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 07:54 AM
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The top comment on this post is "never stick your d--- in crazy" ... that's holding the man accountable in fewer words (?)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 08:54 AM
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Women have been working these jobs before 3rd wave feminism. Marie Curie won the Nobel prize in 1903. In the early 1900s women made up 20% of the workforce. It's not like they couldn't work. We never needed this idiotic new wave of feminism, all it did was make us all miserable.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 09:54 PM
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Everyone is getting murdered and abused screw that. Seriously screw that. Screw whoever said that standing in the kitchen and making a goddamn sandwich is oppression when men are in factories, in construction, or literally dying on the battlefield. Even in the office where they're exploited and milked dry, doing all the work while earning .000001 of what the big fish make. Screw these modern day feminist idiots who doubled the workforce and made it impossible for average income people to own a r…
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 09:46 PM
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It's.. literally a fix for something women chose so how is that healthcare? I can choose to want a better nose, that means I have to pay out of my pocket for it. What goes under in this never ending debate of abortion is that it hands women ALL the rails and takes away all responsibility that falls on just them. Want to have sex? You can (accessibile casual sex)! Don't want to deal with the consequences? You don't have to (free access to abortion)! When it comes to men though? You want to have s…
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 06:17 PM
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We're also women over here who are just sick and tired of a movement that started representing all of us without ever taking permission. Especially when it went batsh*t crazy, a lot of us want nothing to do with it.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 11:42 PM
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Why does it matter?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 09:03 PM
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I completely agree with you. I work from home fulltime and manage everything around the house (no kids though). My husband and I still find time to work out together 4x/week, watch our favorite shows and tend to our hobbies. Modern appliances have in my opinion taken away our right to whine about how difficult homemaking is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 06:59 PM
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That's why I had 0 friends in college. The few girls I used to hang out with would drop pickme any time I'd say something I perceived as reasonable like I was even sugarcoating to protect their feelings. I realized that they think the world of themselves and will harrass anyone who will make them think for even a second that they're doing or supporting the wrong thing.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/22 07:33 PM
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Aww no thanks needed! I'm very sorry about this situation OP and wish you the best of luck!
/r/MensRights03/01/22 08:45 PM
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Child of divorce here; don't let anything be done without legal steps - if she has clear and genuine intentions she will not be offended that you want to document your agreement in a binding way. In my case the custodian made us absolutely hate the coparent by smearing their reputation and making us miserable, it was too late when we realized that the custodian was abusive, but coparent didn't have any documents to claim us. Have aaaall your ducks in a row, and respectful people will cooperate.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 06:10 PM
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You're not a deformed man, before I got married I was looking for someone like you who I could share the first experience with because I was chaste (for religious reasons tho) Maybe for people who live for meaningless vagina you're an easy target for banter, but nothing about having no experience with sex makes you less than, less valuable or less of a great human being. You do you OP and sincerely screw everyone who tried to put you down
/r/MensRights23/12/21 12:10 PM
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I don't like the Adonis body either, but actually yes eating less is effective. It's literally calories in v calories out, if people eat less than what they burn they will lose weight. And since women's sex appeal is just fat in our boobs and butts there is no muscle building attached to that body ideal, so working out is actually optional for us to achieve our societal body standard (assuming there are no anomalies)
/r/MensRights18/12/21 07:31 PM
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"Eating less" would have been the right way to say it, sorry
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:05 PM
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I completely agree that it's frustrating, and sometimes you just want to give up and quit. But on a brighter note when my work switched to remote it took the weight of the WORLD off my shoulders. Lunch break meant preparing dinner, idle time meant doing laundry, meetings where I didn't have to say anything meant mise en place or folding or vacuuming etc. It helped a lot and honestly with the economic situation we have at our hands, while my husband WANTS to be the main breadwinner it still won't…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/21 11:31 AM
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Not necessarily. Unfortunately no matter how the majority of men work out they cannot attain the male beauty standard in media unless they dope. Which is why we need to A) have a drug-free policy for male models B) clarify to women once and for all that steroid users are not Big Ramy, they're literally Chris Evans, Dawny Jr and less "hulk looking" celebrities. C) y'all gotta HARD PASS women who expect or lust after this body type just like women go on about nexting all men who want literally hea…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:24 AM
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It's the blatant double standard that is rightfully upsetting. Men in magazines, men in movies and men in commercials are roided. No way around it. You cannot achieve this sort of muscle compartmentalization without steroids. And it feeds men an ACTUAL unhealthy body image "either take drugs or you can NEVER look like this" whereas women's bodies in magazines, movies etc are very much attainable by just not eating and optionally working out. Then you have women going on and on about the pink tax…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:19 AM
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Agreed! :)
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/21 09:04 AM
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I think you misunderstood my comment :D my fault, it's tough to relay tone in written words. I genuinely meant that I have the feeling becoming a feminist is linked with having less humor. Or any SJW for that matter. It just doesn't work.
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/21 08:01 AM
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Can't imagine someone laughing at this... does becoming a feminist automatically result in humor loss?
/r/AntiFeminists16/12/21 08:22 PM
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I read that and wanted to cross post it immediately
/r/AntiFeminists16/12/21 08:13 PM
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Oh don't say that!! You're just 17 and yet you write so eloquently and seem so intelligent and bright, don't beat yourself up. Still so young, you'll have a bright future and don't diminish your looks so much, I'm sure you're fine. :) hope you find the best possible partner who will add value to your life.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 11:15 AM
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How disgusting.........
/r/MensRights13/12/21 10:37 AM
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That sounds horrible mate. In the Arab world there is still this belief that you worship your husband after God, but this belief is also slowly being deteriorated by all the movies and shows and whatever. And it sort of worked because a respected man is a happy man, and he would put everything into his family. Now it's sort of, everyone is working, everyone is tired and fed up, everyone's depressed and out for themselves. Beta simps are making the whole situation worse because they're encouragin…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 10:36 AM
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Wow thank you for all this detailed insight into India - I had no idea. I used to have a Keralan roommate (very nice one, not a feminist) who explained a little bit on gender inequality in India for men but definitely not as much as you just did. So I truly appreciate all this new information. I'm very sorry that you have to experience this hardship, for what it's worth I wish you all the strength to pull through nonetheless and hope you find someone to make life easier. My husband is from Germa…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 08:38 AM
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:(( can you imagine how horrible and oppressive it is to be a multi millionaire Meryl Streep for sleeping with a producer on a black couch? Muh! Seriously though - if anything, the tradeoff was women got free passes for their sexuality for ages. Men have privileges, women have privileges. Women used these privileges, so did men. Creating a worldwide état d'urgence of rape is not something to be happy about. They're acting like rape wasn't already a crime before Metoo. It was, women just became s…
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/21 12:22 AM
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Thank you <3 stay strong kings!
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/21 12:14 AM
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I feel like this "women in the Arab country have it much worse" argument is so far from reality and Europe gazing down at us with a crocodile tears. I'm a woman originally from an arab country (but not living there anymore) and we have it worse because these countries are ruled by dictators who oppress EVERYBODY not just women. Men have military obligation and have to undergo a homosexuality test before they get drafted which consists of getting a metal rod stuck up their an*s to measure the wid…
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/21 12:09 AM
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ALL women benefit from psycho women. They keep men in check. Make their lives miserable, so they feel forced to stay in a mundane relationship from fear of what the car-burning, divorce-raping alternative. The existence of psycho women grants "good women" awards for minimum decency. Edit: added sentence
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/21 12:00 AM
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It's true even for developing countries. Feminists like to make it out that the west is going down the right path but there's still sooOOo much inequality in LEDCs and how women are being forced into marriages etc etc I now live in Europe but grew up in an Arab country and am biracial - it was evident to me that yes women are oppressed there, but not any more than the men. Men have to work ridiculous hours, are forcibly drafted for the military, are subjected to torture if imprisoned, are given …
/r/MensRights12/12/21 11:43 PM
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I think it's a red flag even private. What's the point really to post revealing/"slutty" pictures to people you know? Other than seeking attention or validation for your looks and body. I feel like this is the main crux of modern women. They get dolled up when they go out and then come back home to put on the trousers, put hair up in an ugly bun and half-heartedly remove makeup. You shouldn't look like a troll for your significant other at home and put in more effort for those who don't share yo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 11:21 PM
1

Men need so little and yet they still get disappointed or screwed over. I remember the look on my husband's face when I first gave him a footrub. F*n killed me dude.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 08:15 PM
2

What is a beta in your eyes?? When did height become an alpha thing?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 08:43 AM
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People always bring up how in developing countries women have it so hard (which sure.. it's true) but it's not sexism, it's more like everyone gets sh*t on in these countries. Where I am originally from, men have to be drafted in the military and until then they have to always get a permission from their state to be allowed to travel, if they haven't finished their service yet. The military service is gruesome and disgusting. Just the fact that because you're a man means we get to choose whether…
/r/MensRights23/11/21 11:28 PM
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100% ^
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 01:47 PM
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Happy international men's day! :) stay strong
/r/MensRights19/11/21 10:08 PM
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You put it so well! Even from the societal environment aspect, I didn't know until I moved to Europe that kids were having sex from 13 yo onwards (from where I come from it was unheard of to even have a relationship before you were out of school). I was gobsmacked, if my daughter goes to a school where all the 7th graders around her encourage her to have sex when she's a literal child I wouldn't be able to sleep at night. That and obviously underpaid, overworked teachers aren't always trustworth…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/21 04:24 PM
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That is so sweet of you, thank you! Good luck yourself and hope you're always appreciated for the lovely food you create :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:24 PM
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That's a good point and thank you for pointing out that I basically fell into the same trap :D I was meaning to point out that women overstate the importance of the more commonly known chores (cleaning, cooking, washing) and rarely do I see maintenance work and such addressed - as if these were somehow less important. You always see wives crucifying their husbands on relationship_advice for dishes and socks on the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:32 PM
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I think many women overestimate what a "fair share" is leading to this widespread belief that men don't pull their weight in the household which is just utterly not true. Just because I clean and cook doesn't mean he's not doing anything, for all the light bulbs he changed, car he fixed, piece of furniture he built or random insect he managed to exile I would not be living a decent life. Sure, they're not aaas aware of messes as women are, but we're also not as savvy or built as they are. We all…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:34 PM
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Woman: goes to a place that is primarily for sexual contact, intoxication and external validation for leisure RP man: Huzzah! I have found her! She will fulfill my deep desire for a conservative, submissive yet attractive and sex crazy mate! Woman: proceeds with this same lifestyle, getting validation from the vast pool of men she sees regularly RP man: Have I been cheated? How can my fair maiden still engage in these activities now that she has found me? What would compel her to still visit thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:29 PM
5

Exactly. I always criticized how RP men say aaaalll the women I've dated are sluts, when they've only pick up women from places like clubs and their entire game is based on being kinda narcissistic (obviously a turn off for sensible women). Well okay you have a skewed sample. I can also sample just McDonald's menu and come to the conclusion that all potatoes cause heartdisease.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:51 AM
2

I never drank alcohol and it did basically two things: in college I almost never went out, but got to save a ton of money, it helped me to excel in my studies and obviously it's part of the reason I could "hold out" on having sex before getting married. I have to say I am extremely grateful that I never went near alcohol and that this was part of my upbringing. It significantly improved my dating prospects because I wasn't in the hookup-environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:45 PM
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Yes but the same applies for him, no? :D Consultant, lawyer, bodyguard, mechanic, technician, constructor, also therapist, financial advisor... he fills all these positions and more!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 04:17 PM
25

He supports me through everything and is incredibly patient with me (I can be emotional and irrational as any woman), when we moved for example it was mid covid lockdown and the government didn't allow furniture stores to send people to build the stuff, he did it all by himself although he was so busy. I can always count on him to fix things, get us out of trouble or complicated situations. He knows his way around everything, I can count on him to protect me and us. He enriches me with knowledge…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 03:44 PM
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I'm his private chef who cooks him meals daily exactly to his taste and nutritional/fitness needs, I'm his therapist listening to all his problems/worries/concern and offering solutions where I can, I'm his stylist, his housekeeper, his masseuse and safe sex partner. One day maybe we can add mother to that list, if we're lucky :) As someone else said in this thread, he brings a lot more to the table and I hope that I can do enough things to show him I'm thankful that he's making my life wonderfu…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 03:22 PM
8

Woman, was a virgin and expected a virgin. Though it was for religious reasons, and for myself avoiding STDs and unwanted pregnancy seemed like the logical addition to my religious intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:26 PM
2

Sure
/r/RedPillWives09/11/21 10:06 PM
106

How do I avoid coming off like a gold digger while being a gold digger?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 11:25 AM
33

Ding ding ding
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 11:24 AM
6

:D that's true, but a good butt is quite an ass-et badum tss ! Anyway, you don't really need the program. Just low reps, high weight, focus on quads since they're your biggest muscle and generate all that good calorie burn. If you have access to a gym of course.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 12:27 PM
12

Just from a scientific perspective, the way to keep your bones dense and your metabolism running is high resistance workouts. More muscle = higher resting metabolism meaning more food without getting fat. Then there's the health benefits.. preventing osteoporosis and such. I train with heavy weights 4x week, check r/StrongCurves to get an idea. Getting "big" if you workout with heavy weights as a woman is a myth, unless you're taking steroids. Edit: I workout with my husband. Great bonding time!
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 11:07 AM
1

Of course, so you can do your part by penalizing it and discouraging it! :) You are free to go your own way, I'm just trying to explain that hope isn't all lost. I hope you're otherwise well!
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/21 06:48 AM
1

Well yes that's true; but there are legal options. My husband and I had a prenup - just to give him the reassurance that wherever he is in life I will not be after his money. I don't mean to dismiss your personal experiences, but I've rarely ever seen people change 180, women who wrecked their relationships were usually horrible behind the scenes (when interacting with them as coworkers), maybe they just hid it well from their partners. Excluding exogenous factors like a sudden mental health dis…
/r/AntiFeminists05/11/21 05:49 AM
3

Lotta women would tell you: sorry this 10yo kid that you've been raising as your own is actually not yours and call you toxic/fragile for punching the wall.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/21 06:09 AM
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Although I sympathize with the fact that this poor guy is not having the greatest marriage of his life and will get divorce raped, I gotta agree with you :/ no one forced him to marry this particular person and it's not like red flags only come up after marriage. The societal incentive is missing too. If you tell a woman you can marry, don't have to be a housewife, and also no matter who's fault it is, if you divorce you get half his stuff... that's a free pass for awful women to treat their hus…
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/21 05:57 AM
1

i don't appreciate that you took some words out of context :/ "They're a lousy, superficial investments" was specifically attributed to diamonds. They depreciate in value as opposed to gold, yet they bump up the price ridiculously. I sold inherited rings before and they knock out all the stones, just weigh the gold of the ring that holds them and offer you a separate price for the stones that doesn't come close to what they originally cost. So yes, diamonds are an unsmart investment I'm sorry 😅 …
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/21 09:23 AM
1

😅 alrighty, 22 and married for a year and 3 months actually.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/21 08:02 AM
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You read my mind... thank you for the comment!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 11:53 PM
1

Didn't mean to condescend, just tried to lighten the mood because I felt I may have offended you
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 11:38 PM
2

You're an angel! Thank you for this comment, this is what I'm talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 11:00 PM
1

Girl 😅 they were examples and not meant to be taken literally. What your relationship needs is subjective, what your man likes is individual. Lets say your man does only derive value from your looks, then still it's important to be reasonable. There are overly expensive and moderate clothes too, it's just about not sucking your partner dry no matter for what item. Why are you so hung up on the muffin 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 10:45 PM
2

Dang I wish I could be as poised in writing. Thanks a lot for your time!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 10:29 PM
0

And this community is also just a summary of random people's opinions. This way of managing money mostly aligns with our goals.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 09:19 PM
0

here you go
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 08:57 PM
1

Check the sidebar for ideal woman
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 08:54 PM
2

I'm not deciding anything, I'm clarifying that in the current circumstances one of the ways to ensure a sustainable future with your SO (as per our goals as this community) would be frugality.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 08:54 PM
1

Here you go Check sidebar for the ideal woman
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 08:49 PM
0

Good for you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 08:34 PM
5

This is the answer
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 04:37 PM
2

What triggered this is posters on her attributing HVM to just money, making me believe that the mainstream materialism is seeping into this community. Wanted to reinforce to especially younger redditors on here that may be new to the sub that this is not what we're aiming for.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 03:17 PM
3

😊
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 05:37 AM
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I don't either. The reality is that we're going into a relationship and sacrificing what could be a full blown career for our house, this is part of the investment we make in our relationship and men already value that, they already have this providing "instinct". Because of that, sure it's reasonable for a guy to financially support his SAHW - in this case, appreciate the support and don't expect too much from a man who earns vread alone. but many of us are not in this situation, many of us are…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 05:35 AM
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Yes but part of that responsibility falls on you to keep your well earning man a well earning man ;) trust me they don't get wealthy by splurging on women's needs all the time. We're supposed to be our man's backbone no matter where he is in his life. If he is a HVM he will be smart with money, ipso facto you have to be too. Many of us are high earners, that's right. I'm not living on 5$ :D I buy myself nice things (reasonably of course), I buy them myself. I dont expect my husband to get me thi…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 05:30 AM
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You hit the nail on the head completely. Lucky husband btw! ❤
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 05:24 AM
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I totally agree and that's why I thought a reminder was due. Young women have no one who displays any sort of reasonable behavior. Therefore the standard is skewed, "I want a wealthy man who meets my needs because I'm a woman". Your comment was really a breath of fresh air. I'm in my early 20s now and have noticed how much easier marriage goes if we let go of our own interests a bit. Thankfully we are able to save and live a generous life although we're both very young (with no parental support)…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 10:33 PM
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They can have that, but again it shouldn't be overboard and they shouldn't be sucking their husbands dry for their needs because he's not getting anything from it
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 10:29 PM
2

😅 maybe you should have moderated this post, you're doing a better job at it than me!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 10:00 PM
2

😂 no I sure hope it's not that bad! I don't have one so I actually have no idea but I just guessed what would be a really expensive kitchen appliance that could compete with jewelry. Good to know it's just 200$
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:59 PM
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I didn't say that in my post at all. The appliance example was literally just to make the point to a commenter that the exact same money can be differently used depending on intent. Our intent should be a bit more altruistic, nurturing, agreeable (according to the feminine nature). Not just flashy and self-serving. A vacation doesn't have to be expensive. It can literally be a road trip. But it's quality time, bonding time. Not some metal you wear on your little finger.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:53 PM
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I like you. A lot. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:49 PM
6

Go get em girl 👏
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:47 PM
4

.. it was just an example to answer the commenter.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:46 PM
2

Definitely and I hope you can but that wasn't my point at all
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:44 PM
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It was just an example to show that the same amount spent could be perceived differently. I personally would judge a man as shallow who spends 500k on a sports car while I would find it smart to buy a 500k home. It's the same 500k but the perception differs because of the intent. Flashy vs practical
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:44 PM
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I'm glad someone understood :D I know it's difficult and it comes off as offensive but I'm truly just pointing out that it's a reminder because we know better, but our society pits us against these RPW/religious values. Also, I'm glad that you are at this step with your SO and wish you two all the best, he's a lucky man from what I can tell!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:24 PM
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You can look great without draining his bank account. You can look feminine and dazzling and elegant without diamonds. The point is not to be in it for the money, rather in it to build a sustainable future for both. If you're in the comfortable situation of not having to plan for a home and its finances and have that much surplus money that expensive jewelry/clothes would not put a dent in his finances, good for you, but that's not the case for the majority of people.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 09:18 PM
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That's totally fair girl :D i think people got the wrong impression of this post. I'm not saying stop spending money on everything. Just invest more in your relationship than just yourself. That's all!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:50 PM
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If you can truly say this is what brings your life value, then that's what it is. What you enjoy is subjective. The point I am trying to make is, we should never go down the trail of trying to suck our SO/s dry for our own pleasure. Essentially putting him in a hamster wheel. If you're looking for an already rich man, how do you plan on adding value to his life? Certainly not by asking him to buy random things. It's just my opinion, I don't want to offend you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:45 PM
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The difference is these are things that your SO gets to enjoy too. For example; a woman asking for a 1000$ bracelet is not the same as a woman asking for a 1000$ kitchenaid. It's the same 1000$ but one implies "me, me, me" and the other implies "I want to make things we all enjoy". Surely both women will be perceived differently.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:36 PM
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I've seen some statements on here that irked me and I thought of this as a reminder for what we actually value and cherish. I guess the majority of this sub should not feel addressed by this post
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:32 PM
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Neither :( getting a boy would mean subjecting him to all that's going on in this world and making him systematically discriminated against. Getting a girl I would have to live with the risk of her turning into one of these feminists or just being morally corrupt because there is no societal incentive anymore for women to behave. I adore children and always wanted to be a mother but the ethical question of child bearing has been difficult to answer for me and my husband. (I'm an anti-feminist bt…
/r/AntiFeminists31/10/21 08:52 AM
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I'm glad you think so! But It's reality for many men who choose good women :D I made a comment on someone's RPW post before, this is basically the RPW ideology. We all want this "blue pill fantasy" to be reality for our husbands. Fully aware that we are the difficult gender, we have hormones that make us crazy and technically men really don't need us, we want to work on ourselves to add value to their lives. I hope you find/already have someone who wants to do the same for you because she is out…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/21 08:30 AM
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Yay! I'm happy I could help :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:22 AM
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Hahaha no far from it :D I'm mixed race. European-Middle Eastern. The butter and rice thing I learned from lebanese seafood rice. We sauté some garlic and half an onion in butter with a tbsp of sugar and then add the rice to this until the rice becomes a bit brown and very fragrant, then cook it as usual. Also if you ever make risotto you will see that the traditional recipe calls for pan frying the rice together with the shallots before proceeding with the rice cooking. It really puts your rice…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:14 AM
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Stick to the basics. Always heat your oil well. The longer you sear beef/chicken, the tougher it gets. Want it super tender then you do a quick sear on the beef, remove it, fry off aromatics and spices, put your beef back in the pan and pour stock in to barely cover the beef - cook for 3 to 4 hours and then leave the lid on for 15 mins. Cook pasta al dente and generously salt your pasta water. It should taste like the Mediterranean. spices in the beginning (pan fry in oil) herbs at the end. Citr…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 10:25 PM
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Oh sweet!! Best of luck and have fun on your date. I suppose the situation has put a lot of stress on the both of you, but I commend you for being a good partner to her nonetheless. Take care out there, don't support toxic/narcissitic behavior and never sell yourself too cheap. It's always okay to reassess a budding relationship at any point of the process - women are difficult and at this day and age, falling for the wrong person has detrimental consequences. :/ good luck, or I'll go as far wea…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 10:00 PM
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Thank you for reflecting and for sharing your opinion!! :) I think it's really important what environment you're picking the girl from. For example if you went into a manga store instead of picking up a girl who might have just gone to a con to getting likes on her instagram page for wearing a slutty Rangiku Matsumoto cosplay (real life experience. A girl in my college who never watched an anime in her life and even pronounced it as an-eye-m just cosplayed for likes from what she called "neckbea…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 08:12 PM
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100%. They don't understand that them saying women go for Chads ipso facto means men go for Staceys. I was a nerd throughout highschool and although I didn't look worse than the girls in my school I was never chased, they were b*tchy and mean. When I was 19 I met my now husband who was sick of dating mean girls but his ex fit the exact description of a monkey branching, CC riding Stacey, but he said he missed the attraction that manipulation and mistreatment caused. We're in a traditional relati…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 05:06 PM
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I don't agree with you but live your life sister
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 05:27 AM
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Thank you for every time you opened the door and I'm sorry that you had to deal with this!
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/21 10:29 PM
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How can I unread this.
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/21 10:24 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you at all here. And from being friends with women and hearing what they say in private I can assure you that you are right when you say that the behavior of the majority of women is awful. And you are completely right in worrying about her social circle. That being said, I'm in my early twenties and have focused mainly on befriending women from places that match my values. For example women who I meet volunteering or in my sports union (hope this is understandable, I'm …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 01:49 PM
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Unfortunately the dumbest and most narcissistic are the loudest in the room. And I mean if you're going to take a woman's statement who was dumb enough to get knocked up by someone who would drop her before her 30's as a representative for all women then you have a skewed perspective. My late partner was shorter than me and no one ever commented nor did anyone say anything about it (no he was not wealthy either, I had no hidden hypergamy alibi) I guess it's important for women who you'd see on s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 09:05 AM
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I agree with this post 100% and I'm enjoying how much it offends people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:54 PM
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That she lifts a lot although we only saw one rep
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/21 08:51 AM
2

Oh Gosh I'm halfway through and it's giving me the red pill epiphany all over again :( so much for American Dream. Suddenly I'm valuing my country, its legal and healthcare system so much more. I'm very sorry, you seem to be familiar with this and I hope it's not through personal experience!
/r/AntiFeminists03/10/21 05:12 AM
2

No unfortunately not :( my husband and I got married in Germany, and we got the prenup the way I described. It didn't cost much either, just the fee for the notary contract.
/r/AntiFeminists02/10/21 03:21 AM
2

You are too sweet! Thank you, I'm flattered :)
/r/AntiFeminists01/10/21 04:59 PM
1

Because most prenups are written on a napkin. You need to get a lawyer and go to the notary (I'm sorry, I'm not from an english speaking country but I hope this word is understood) and fill out a state approved contract. The process is lengthy and deliberate so there is no way a judge would say this was aaaall done under pressure.
/r/AntiFeminists01/10/21 04:52 AM
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Prenups ladies and gentlemen 👏 get you some Marriage Insurance
/r/AntiFeminists30/09/21 10:09 AM
2

I'm very sorry about your past experience ruining marriage. I'm also a child of divorce, have a big hug! Personally, what I've understood from all the female friends that I had, it's less about drive and more about their own character. Usually the ones who were more narcissistic and a tad superficial were those who loved it when guys treated them bad (it was, and thats just my own observation) kind of like a prick to their huge ego and they were hooked on the guy because they needed his validati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:51 AM
2

I agree
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 12:20 PM
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It's far more easy for us to get diseases because we have more "tissue" down there. Also, pregnancies. If you're gonna get knocked up, it should be with someone you can tolerate for at least 20 years until your child reaches the age where you don't traumatize him/her with divorce. Within my marriage I have a high libido, but before that I was really irked at why anyone woman would want to have casual sex. It's like the first time kind of opened the faucet. And even now I'm very disturbed at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:06 AM
1

Interesting point of view, thank you for sharing and for the insight I didn't have! :) I've only lived in Europe for a handful of years, so I can't say much about the causes of poverty in the West. I was mererly trying to point out that the classic feminist arguments about oppression have actually nothing to do with women being targeted, and more about oppression of social classes. Like women love to point out education chasms in 3rd world countries, while rich women actually enjoy the best educ…
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 08:11 AM
0

Accurate
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/21 01:14 PM
1

You're missing the point. The more sexual partners you have, the higher the risk. And the point is that someone immature enough to repeatedly put themselves at this risk is not spouse material. Whether male or female. It's a red flag.
/r/AntiFeminists25/09/21 11:50 AM
1

Nope, just a girl with higher standards who doesn't display the emotional immaturity of risking the contraction of STDs or unwanted pregnancy by sleeping with multiple men. Hold the potential mother of your children to a higher standard than someone who cannot display proper emotional bonding because of her sexual desensitization. Second, she can build experience in marriage or at least a committed relationship if she's bad in bed. Doesn't have to sleep around with multiple men to build sexual e…
/r/AntiFeminists25/09/21 07:49 AM
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real life experience confirms this! Thanks for your input!
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 01:04 PM
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Best thing about this is, slut-shaming wasn't really a thing, it was just men saying they wouldn't bring promiscuous women back home to meet their moms. It was exactly as you said "enforcing a standard" not shaming! Then women turned it around and called that slut shaming. And to ensure that misery has company, they started shaming chastity. I remember the judgmental looks and snarky comments when I mentioned being a virgin till marriage in college. And them assuming I was some sort of religious…
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 11:27 AM
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Or that high body counts are eMpOwERinG Promiscuous women are not facing the same societal pressure as they used to. But you can change this, men, stop wife-ing women with high body counts. Stop confirming the feminist belief that past is the past and hold your potential spouses to higher standards.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 07:01 AM
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Let me try an explanation here.. I think red pill men pursue really awful women, and it's not really a surprise, what kind of woman do you expect to find at bars or clubs? Well.. not the decent kind who will want to settle down with a good guy. I'm just saying, women who also say all men are trash usually meet men on tinder or in clubs. What I'm trying to get to is, your sample is skewed. I'm not trying to sh*t all over people who go to bars/clubs, but this sample probably isn't the type that wa…
/r/AntiFeminists14/09/21 07:46 PM
3

I know it's a long shot but it is observable that kids are very ill behaved and I'd guess this would have something to do with feminism tearing down gender roles for women. I wrote a comment as elaboration :)
/r/AntiFeminists14/09/21 07:20 PM
4

I'm a woman, heterosexual, so don't have a wife, married to a man. Women are notorious for not wanting to take overtime; caring more about vacations and paid leave, thus their wages usually cannot cover the entire household expenses. Moreover, women have to take maternity leave anyway, since they carry the child, so it would just make the most economic and rational sense for the woman to be the one who cares for the child. Lastly; SOMEONE has to do it for God's sake. The entirety of TikTok is pr…
/r/AntiFeminists14/09/21 06:01 PM
5

.. i don't have a daughter. I'm 21...
/r/AntiFeminists14/09/21 05:55 PM
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I know this isn't the usual content on here, but consequences of childhood neglect are coming up more and more in the media. The kids who are getting seduced by their teachers, videos of predators (the entire channel of Dads Against Predators on YouTube), and this ... For God's sake, we don't need feminism. We need someone to take care of our future generation. I hate that feminism has labeled motherhood dirty work and left it to abusive teachers (not all teachers, but sadly many of them)/daycar…
/r/AntiFeminists14/09/21 03:16 PM
1

:D never lose sight of hope!! Just gotta look in the right places
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/21 08:28 PM
1

Why isn't it that hot shorts sexualize children? Children have to walk around the area of the school, and wouldn't it be logical that child predators would lurk around these areas? Why put children in display like this? Nothing is empowering about children's bare underbutt in school. This is repulsive.
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/21 11:32 AM
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High value? Focus on getting a man who is kind and has a big heart. Focus on being a person of value yourself. Why give yourself anxiety over missing out on some superman? Who says this will bring you joy? Be the best woman you can be to someone who deserves it and who wants to give you himself completely, who's values align with yours, who is loyal and kind. That is all - value is subjective
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 08:13 PM
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Women have the freedom of variety at work; pants, skirts, pencil skirts, dresses, trousers, pantsuits, blouses, pullovers, jumpsuits, rompers and the list goes on. Men pretty much have to wear business shirts and or suits. In many non-office jobs, women's work clothing can even give her an advantage. Such as revealing clothes leading to a higher tip for waitresses. Dress codes in schools are honestly just in place for deadbeat parents who can't tell their kids what is appropriate to wear. If I h…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 08:08 PM
2

There is no on and off switch for the development of an embryo to a baby, it is a continuous process. The synapses are developing from start to finish, it's not like day 1 brain is made, day 10 there comes the heart. No it's ongoing and nuanced. The pain doesn't just come in at a certain day and before that the baby was completely numb. Actual animals that have emotions, form attachments, and have personalities. And we're hung up on something that hasn't even developed the organs it needs to sur…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 07:08 PM
1

The 99% statistic is if birth control is used as directed but doctors have admitted that people don't always use it correctly Yep. Consequences of their actions. It's not hard to use birth control correctly. You should also regularly see your gyn when you have your IUD, every 6 months. Would be difficult to gain a considerable amount of weight in 6 months before your gyn could tell you that your weight may affect your IUD's efficacy. be forced to see and hear an ultrasound, wait anywhere from 1-…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 02:58 PM
1

The childbirth mortality rate in the US in 2018 was 658 women. The population of the US is 328 Million. Of course it's the highest mortality rate for childbirth in the developed world, it's almost an entire continent, compared to small European countries. It is statistically unlikely to have such a highly populated world if pregnancies were so "painful and dangerous". It would also then be statistically unlikely for any women to desire a 2nd pregnancy. Lastly, we should rather seriously make wom…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 10:35 AM
1

Which is why I asked you, what defines personhood for you? Babies can feel pain in utero, they move, they breathe, they are very much alive. So what constitutes a person? The point I was trying to make is, that revoking the status of person from a fetus would also not acknowledge personhood of a 6 year old child, seeing as they are not fully internally developed. a woman can abandon a child at a fire station or CPS with no repercussions There would be major repercussions... for the child. But go…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 10:26 AM
2

Also, get this, birth control fails Check out how likely it is for birth control to fail. You want to tell me that the 1% who get pregnant despite birth control are responsible for all the unwanted pregnancies? That statistically doesn't add up. It cost me 200$ to get a copper IUD with a 99% safety rate, without insurance (in Europe). That's 200$ for 5 years of no condoms, pills and no hormonal side effects. That is what women are ready to pay for a pair of shoes. I'm a college student, so no 20…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 10:14 AM
2

Good point
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 06:15 AM
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Oh my God Look up the side effects of pregnancy? You know how many pregnancies existed? Literal cave women could give birth. Otherwise you and I wouldn't be here. Does the feminist argument lack so much that you are seriously resorting to this as an excuse? Yeah, women get pregnant when they have sex, but this wasn't some secret. If you don't want to get pregnant, take the precautions and stop making everyone around you adapt to your preferences. And before you take out the big old "no uterus no…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 06:13 AM
4

"No uterus no opinion" really disgusts me, but nothing does more than "her body her choice". Her uterus merely carries the baby, her body is merely the external vessel of the baby. It is not a part of her, not a limb or an organ. It's not her property, it's not her decision. If it is her property, then she shouldn't ask for child support then.
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 06:07 AM
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Well, I mean it is unlawful in many places, even in countries like Germany. Personhood depends on how you define it - we are all clumps of cells actually, all of us, you too, just a bigger one than a fetus. A baby has pain receptors in the womb too. The development of a baby is a process, the synapses of a baby are continually developing up until term. But a baby is not fully developed even when they're born. They still have to develop organs like the lung, until they're 7. With that logic, we c…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 06:05 AM
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Yeah if the guy so much as forgot an anniversary - omg dump him that's abusive
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 05:58 AM
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We are able, and some of us care about you. There are women on this sub, and I hope we are able to perpetuate our thoughts within the women in our proximity. But I will agree with you that it's the vast majority that is messed up. Society gives us no real incentive to behave, to be chaste or to add value. Why? Because no matter how we behave, we get 50% of our husbands' networth Because no matter how much we sleep around, someone will still marry us Because firms and universities have female quo…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 05:57 AM
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Yes, she indicated they had one before marriage.
/r/AntiFeminists10/09/21 02:34 PM
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Oh totally. It's about what it says about your partner. What kind of person can crawl into bed every night, knowing they're carrying someone else's child up until the delivery room? And do you want that person as your partner? The answer is no, all the way. The only sensible thing this man did, is get a prenup.
/r/AntiFeminists10/09/21 07:23 AM
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Exactly! But I find WFH to be beneficial for employers too. All companies keep preaching how green they are and how inclusive, well this is the actual chance - no commute reduces emissions. WFH enables not able-bodied people to work as well, because they don't have to worry about things like for example the office not being wheelchair friendly. Not to mention improved employee morale, less sick days, and so on. But unfortunately, many companies don't want to be green/inclusive or have a great co…
/r/RedPillWives10/09/21 06:16 AM
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We still haven't gotten a clear headsup whether we will be going to the office or not.. my employer is a big name consultancy so the pay is too good to quit now.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/21 07:54 PM
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Then you realize damn they never take any money with them because guys buy them drinks at the bar... killed her for nothing dude.
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/21 04:51 PM
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Yes, we spoke about this and he'd support that 100%, but until we have kids (If God wills) I would like to contribute as much as I can to our savings. Economy is a b----
/r/RedPillWives09/09/21 04:50 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that... :( good luck with your new job girl.
/r/RedPillWives09/09/21 12:33 PM
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"Do you know how scary it is to walk alone at night for women?" Do you know how scary it is to walk alone at night for anyone? Criminals are criminals, they don't care whether you're a guy or a girl. Here's a kicker, stop getting drunk at 2am in neighborhoods you don't know without a viable way to get home NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE. Just had to get rid of this.
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/21 11:44 AM
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Exactly. And even worse, they're encouraged to do absolutely nothing to have value or bring anything to the table in a relationship. Have fun getting married in a 3rd world country when you can't cook, clean and sew and aren't available for marital sex.
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/21 11:29 AM
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What is this world becoming?? Western women are the most privileged chaste in the world - feminism is so out of touch with real problems. When I think of my home country, there was a delegation from the German embassy who wanted to raise awareness on how inheritance should be equal (it is by default the sons get 2x what the daughters get, unless the inheritance was specified by the deceased). And the women there were so vehemently against it, they explained how their husbands take care of the wh…
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/21 06:07 AM
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I'm in my early twenties and N count of 1 (husband). But I noticed that the standard of men has also changed. Like my husband didn't expect me to have an N count of 0 before him - this also made me think, that modern day men are perpetuating woman's bad choices by lowering their standards. It's sad really.
/r/RedPillWives08/09/21 09:36 PM
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You're 100% right. Couldnt have said it better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 12:37 PM
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Congratulations wifey!! 🥳🥳🥳 to years and decades of joy and mutual respect
/r/RedPillWives02/09/21 05:14 PM
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I love how the abortion debate is also "her body her choice" - not like that fetus is part father? Everything about the feminist movement is utter trash.
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/21 08:37 AM
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They're pretty good if you want to attract trashy/abusive women. But on any sane women they wouldn't work
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:31 AM
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Hahaha :D happy I could share my vivid perceptions! And à propos men, some men do lurk and comment on here! They give some much needed opinions - but as a woman, you're correct, you can't post on men's TRP subs.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/21 03:34 PM
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Congratulations!! :) I'm very happy for you, internet stranger and I wish you a wonderful marriage. Kudos to wanting to be a great wife - you can do it! I think a man would be more able to give a definitive answer on this :D but I'll give it a try from what I observed with my husband. I'm not calling myself great - I am still working on myself! - but I am listing things that my husband thinks are great traits 1) and I cannot emphasize this enough, being a great cook. You want his friends to come…
/r/RedPillWives29/08/21 08:45 AM
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You need to train your empathy, whenever you have this lingering thought of how he may have changed, just put yourself in his shoes and really draw out the scenario to match reality. Love means that the presence of your partner is bliss. People lose attraction to their overweight partners because of the cause of the weight gain: gluttonous, lazy people are not attractive. This guy is not lazy. He's hardworking and went through an injury. Men are generally aware of their own bodies, which is why …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 05:23 AM
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Shows to me that this guy has standards and self control. 100% good thing to me. Dealbreaker otherwise
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 07:08 AM
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Those are very valid points, and I am going to address them in that order and it will be lengthy, sorry in advance :) but you know women love to blather! 1: Seeing as this is, as previously mentioned, the RPW sub we are speaking out of the perspective of our collective ideology. This ideology is based in being a good wife and homemaker. One of the principles we share is being sexual and sexually available. You can view my comment on a thread about "sex on demand" here and feel free to scroll thr…
/r/RedPillWives05/08/21 06:56 AM
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I'm sorry I seem to have offended you by what I said, I just wanted to clarify to you that this is the RPW sub, we already recognize that we have to respect and care for our men and in that, we also expect them to be exclusive to us. By all means, if my husband feels that I am not attractive anymore then he should pursue other women - I'm not here to torture him. But I will not be forced to have sex with him and put myself through the danger of catching diseases from other women.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 07:15 PM
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I'm very sorry to read about your relationship and the trauma that came along with this experience. I really hope that you find happiness within whoever respects and treats you well, be it man or woman. Just make sure to keep yourself in the right places. You seem to get drained by seeing all these nasty things on social media, and judging by the fact that you read people well, I'd say that analyzing this sort of behavior leads to resentment toward people altogether, because trust me conventiona…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 07:05 PM
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We are not expecting them to commit to us just because we want monogomy, we completely realize that there is a price attached to their commitment to us: we must look our best, stay fit, stay sexual, be great homemakers and make sure he feels comfortable and pampered. This is... well our mantra. You can view the post history of this sub, we are exchanging on how to make our husbands feel good. To summarize the deal; you get: loyalty, sex on demand (+ guaranteed STD free), great food & clean home,…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 12:22 PM
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yes unfortunately it's looking grim. I go to college in Europe and.. I'll say I'm very happy that I wasn't born a man, or at least if I were, I'd wish I was gay. Societal pressure on women to behave is completely gone. Nevertheless, I know women who are the opposite. Volunteering on weekends, I met these amazing women who give me hope, and it makes me sad that there is this narrative that all women are evil CC riders. These women truly do not deserve this reputation. If you are looking for a mat…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 12:14 PM
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Narcissists don't usually pair together. Psychologically speaking they would need a partner who would continuously be their narcissistic supply, so they go for codepentends, empaths, people pleasers.. those types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:58 AM
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OP specifically asked about sharing - not letting men pursue their need for diversity but actually engaging in it. The honest opinion is sharing seems out of the question because it comes with risks for women for virtually no advantage. It is not mutually beneficial. Dropping diversity and compromising by being monogamous comes with an advantage for men: having sex on demand, being certain about paternity, founding a family and lasting companionship. Of course men sacrifice by limiting themselve…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 09:47 AM
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I can tell you for sure that if Jason Mamoa and Henry Cavil both serenaded in front of my door I'd slam it and call the police. Social media has really scewed men's understanding of NORMAL women's standards and desires. Just because men tend to chase the kind of women who would drop them for a "chad" they form this narrative that paints women as these closeted whores who would ALL hop on the better tree branch if it is offered. Ignoring wives who stick by their men putting them to law/med school…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 09:35 AM
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A) handsome, lifts and 6ft, 6 inches does not make him high value B) no thank you I don't want STDs from his flings C) if he is looking outside of his role as a father and head of household then that instantly makes him low value In a practical sense, how would I react if my husband wants to pursue other women: he is an adult, he can and he should if he wants to, but then our relationship would turn into that of strictly roommates and we'll raise the kids. I don't sleep with men who sleep with o…
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 09:18 AM
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Hey there! There is no intrusion whatsoever, you have a such a noble intention and it's great to see that men are interested in our opinions. I hope you always feel free to share your thoughts! :) As for your sister; it's quite difficult to push someone into being more feminine. I was a tomboy (because I was raised by a single dad and only had a brother). Though I loved cooking/cleaning and was an anti-feminist I just looked like a slob. I stayed that way until I noticed my husband's eyes when I…
/r/RedPillWives02/08/21 10:03 PM
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Take it this way, what would be more impactful to YOU if it was the other way around: A) your wife tells you she hates the fact that you slept with other women and only missionary with her (comes off naggy/insecure) Or B) your wife tells you that she craves more action in the bedroom and the vanilla stuff just won't do (comes off as asserting a standard) I think B is way more assertive and impactful.. that's why I said make it less about "i resent her for having other partners" and more about "w…
/r/RedPillWives30/07/21 08:48 PM
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Thank you for contributing the much needed male perspective! :D i'm always happy to see men commenting on the sub. And thank you for the tip too!
/r/RedPillWives30/07/21 08:31 PM
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I'm very sorry that you are feeling stuck in such a way. It's a difficult situation to handle I'll tell you that. Do share with your wife that you feel unsatisfied in the bedroom - I wouldn't make it about you being 'jealous' if i can call it that, about her past encounters, but because that is the matter at hand. Sorry OP! I wish you luck
/r/RedPillWives30/07/21 08:30 PM
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Sorry for being so self-centered and only telling my story. I wish you the best of luck in finding a mate! Most important thing is I guess search where you think your values are met. Are you extroverted? Do you wish for a partner who is fun and going-out-type? Then a pub would do it. Are you into helping others? Be open to chatting up women at a charity you frequent. Are you nerdy? Chat up someone at Gamestop.. You can't be conservative and looking for someone to do the cooking and cleaning but …
/r/RedPillWives29/07/21 08:20 PM
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I met my husband at the gym! I always went at the very late hours because there'd be less people (and I didn't have to worry about doing inappropiate movements in front of men) he happened to be there too. I found him handsome and wrote him a compliment on a handkerchief. He waited for me next time to chat and he was single. We got married (me 22 and him 25) a few months ago!
/r/RedPillWives29/07/21 08:13 PM
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most rape victims also pose perfectly and have intact matching underwear. Am I the only one who thinks that this is disingenious? It's like going to the Holocaust and posing in underwear saying "well yeah they were burned naked. Duh."
/r/MensRights28/07/21 06:13 PM
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Why is she in underwear? How does that emphasize her message in any way.
/r/MensRights28/07/21 06:06 PM
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You have to find a like minded partner. I looked for a religious partner because I too wanted to wait for marriage. Values are everything, don't compromise that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 10:34 AM
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Thank YOU for asking :) lots of love to you and blessings for your relationship
/r/RedPillWives20/07/21 03:34 PM
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I don't think that having a career and wanting to contribute to the household income is anti-RPW, its a tough economy after all!! I also work 40hrs a week while my husband is currently in a non paid training. Still I consider myself an RPW. I'd say its a sexual strategy too, next to being an ideology. You are employing your feminine qualities to maintain your relationship, I don't see why that's so different. As for undermining - and I am by no means a saint, I make my mistakes but I recognize t…
/r/RedPillWives20/07/21 01:16 PM
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I don't think any red pill woman wants a red pill man as a husband.. going on the rp subreddit would leave any woman repulsed. What the red pill from a woman's perspective to me is embracing feminine nature (submission, care, agreeableness, tenderness and such) to build a sustainable and happy life. Also, empowering your husband to be the captain of the household without undermining him; encouraging his masculine nature. It's just another philosophy to pursue happiness by making biological/socia…
/r/RedPillWives20/07/21 10:17 AM
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It is mutual, I receive my sexual gratification by pleasing him, so does he. If I were into receiving head I'm sure he would oblige, but I much prefer doing it.
/r/RedPillWives20/07/21 09:46 AM
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I don't want it reciprocated - he provides things that I need, not things that I do for him. It's a fallacy to think that everything in a relationship must be reciprocated or else it's unfair...
/r/RedPillWives20/07/21 07:51 AM
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I don't personally know you or the size of your wrists so I can't tell you my opinion on this, but I wish you lots of luck to find the girl who matches your standards and values :)
/r/RedPillWives20/07/21 07:50 AM
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Alrighty for assuming my husband is a chad. He was sexually very conservative when we met, we are both religious. I was particularly attracted to him because he does not drink, smoke or sleep around and had 1 relationship prior to me. He is moderate and dignified - if he were a "Chad" he would most definitely not "get it" and I would not have married him.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/21 10:30 AM
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On command is a pretty negatively connotated word - I'll put it this way, if my husband asks for a blowjob he gets it just like if he asks for a glass of water, he gets it. If something is seriously inhibiting me from doing so (such as illness) I understandably don't. I love him and I love it even more when I get to do things that make him happy.
/r/RedPillWives18/07/21 03:57 PM
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You are asking for personal opinions; yes I think it is unreasonable for you to think he is overreacting. This may push you to find cheaper options. If no one shows consequences we will never be crafty. Eg. Instead of buying premade passata, making our own, homemade things in general and other stuff that decreases spending. He didn't take away your budget, he gave it to you in cash. I don't see where he has done anything wrong Edit: clarification
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 08:19 PM
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Almost all female friends I have are waiting till marriage (early 20s, oldest is 23) but these are from my home country which is developing. The few friends I have in college (Europe) have an N count of 1 or 2 and they are in committed relationships. Then again, i think people tend to befriend people with similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:27 PM
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My now husband had a similar mentality when we started off and overstated his BC to "impress", later on when I confided in him that I wasn't confident in the relationship because I was a virgin and he had slept with so many people it would make me feel sexually inadequate. He told me the truth then and I didn't find it bad at all that he lied, I understood and found it a little endearing even. It wasn't even 0.5% of a conflict. This is anecdotal evidence of course but just to share with you the …
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 05:23 PM
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I think that might contribute to my end goal of fresh clothes - thank you very much. I have a fine list of things to buy today :)
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 11:28 AM
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Username and picture tell me you're and SNK fan, lots of love to you internet stranger! :)
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 05:37 AM
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Never thought of that - thank you!!
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 03:00 AM
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It does sound strange :D but I would have never googled it otherwise. Thank you so much for the direction!
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 03:00 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 02:59 AM
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Sure :D, I would like to stay a little vague though, my husband is mixed (Germany and Southeastern Europe) and I'm Arab. We met in Germany at a gym, funny enough I approached him and thank God for that! The issue is that she is Indonesian and I've tried finding her on facebook to no avail, my father also didn't know her directly, he found her through an agency. After her contract ended with us she returned to Indonesia and I was too dumb at 16 to watch her do things to learn from her.. God bless…
/r/RedPillWives21/06/21 02:59 AM
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Thank you for your advice!! :)
/r/RedPillWives20/06/21 08:16 PM
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You're an angel, thank you so much :)
/r/RedPillWives20/06/21 08:16 PM
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Thank you so much. Yes we have these pearls! Put it on my list :) And.. "dryer sheet".. slightly panicking, was I supposed to use these from the start? 😅
/r/RedPillWives20/06/21 08:15 PM
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You've written so much as an answer this is so sweet!! :') thank you I will take your helpful advice to heart and I am so ready to change, this doesn't sound overwhelming at all. Thankfully we have a balcony so we can air-dry and i usually do airdry, but I have to admit sometimes I forget the laundry in the washing machine.. and then i know it 100% smells bad, but even when I air dry it, it smells better but not perfect.
/r/RedPillWives20/06/21 08:13 PM
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Oh my.... how ironic. I think that really could be it. Thank you very much. I was also always wondering it says 100 washes on the bottle but it doesn't last for half as much. I thought the more detergent the better the smell. I love well-smelling clothes :( if this is the trick then you have tremendously increased our quality of life. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives20/06/21 08:09 PM
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Oh thank you so much!!! Newspaper... who would have thought. And thank you very very much for the other tips as well :) i am a culprit of kitchen counter clutter.. I'm sorry just a small question, how does one soften water? I usually just put this sort of tab in the washmachine and dishwasher.
/r/RedPillWives20/06/21 08:06 PM
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Well OP is not gonna change her mind because of some internet strangers - I totally agree with you though. I am the victim of everything, my cheating ex justifies my being jealous and/or controlling of you but also i'm a nice guy i'm holding the door open for you and buying you gifts because i had a job ever since you were 4. Little covert narcissistic droplets here and there... especially him being the victim in every story. For OP's sake though I hope that we're wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 09:32 AM
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What is up with all these young, super-sweet posters dating older guys with baggage the size of France? Are younger guys in your proximity not marriage oriented? Also, you'd expect a 40 y/o to possess the maturity to control his feelings ("very jealous"). Anyway, it's normal to obsess a little about the ex. Have a long talk about it, discuss your boundaries and unpack what's left of her within him. Is this jealousy coming from her cheating? Is he projecting what he experienced with her for almos…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 09:29 AM
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Then don't eat outside if you cannot afford it. When he says to go eat out, say no I can't afford it at the moment. The problem is not how to bring up whether he can accomodate your meals. Also regarding your comments, you can have traditional values all you want, he's your bf not your husband. Are you at his home cleaning and preparing him nice meals? Or is he supposed to just pay for that service in advance? Also It's not like he's out there taking his friends out and leaving you out to dry - …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 06:36 PM
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That's so sweet!! Congratulations on your marriage first and foremost - the setting also seems a bit telling for me, I assume you two are religious? It was a similar circumstance for me and my husband, and I guess that would be the first point to mention, I was 21 and a virgin when we got married and the very first strain was basically I had no idea what I was doing sexually, so be sure to TELL your new wife whenever you like something she's doing, please please tell her I like that / this is go…
/r/RedPillWives08/06/21 04:37 AM
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If you two are 30+, have you considered HRT?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 06:47 AM
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Yoo... no. My dad told me if a dude is 30 and a catch, then his peers would be interested in him and he'd be dating someone in that ballpark, the only reason he'd be dating a younger woman is to groom her into whatever he wants her to be because she's still impressionable. That or he's a rich Hefner type using her as a sex doll or trophy. Both a 100% no-no.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 05:48 PM
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Thank YOU!
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 06:28 PM
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Thank you for this historical info! :)
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 01:18 PM
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Right, but then "sex is for women too!! We want to enjoy ourselves!" - "ugh hookup culture is so objectifying and disgusting" ? Wak.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 09:27 AM
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Just as a post script to the title. I'm aware that these trends may historically have been created to please men. Nowadays, no one, actually virtually no one will expect or force you into doing all this. I'm in my twenties, and I have never worn makeup, not to weddings, not to ceremonies, never. No one ever came up to me and said "how dare you? Go be oppressed by our beauty standards!!" Same thing goes for uncomfortable shoes, corsets and whatever other thing women choose to torture themselves w…
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 05:09 AM
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Yes, I can't argue with that, inexperiece is a given. I think from an "importance" perspective, it's also beneficial for society. Women have a much higher risk of contracting diseases, they're also the ones who can get pregnant from 'meaningless' sex. From a rational perspective, society shouldn't be enabling women to have that much casual sex, because it's a health hazard and it slightly increases the chances of men in society fathering children that aren't theirs. At least, you can gain experi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 04:52 AM
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precisely! Thank you for clarifying!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 04:33 AM
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I genuinely think these women have never experienced love. I don't know if that's because they have daddy issues or just no ability to feel anything for men other than utility, but 30 min blowjobs wouldn't feel like a 30 min blowjob with someone you love and you're bonding with. Roll your eyes yeah it's tacky but you know what I'm saying (I hope), while it's infuriating to see such posts, it's actually quite pitiful. These women obviously have no bonding ability whatsoever, without that feeling …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 08:37 PM
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I was like that with my fiancé, I was bending over backwards trying to be perfect knowing that I can't be because AWALT. I even asked at the time if I hit the wall he can sleep with 1 other person provided that she has no STDs. I was (and still am a little bit) so subdued by the content of those pages. Nothing helped except my husband making me feel like I was loved and valued, by helping me even if I didn't let him, by buying things I didn't ask for and felt guilty about.. With time it becomes …
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 06:15 AM
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The lack of self-awareness, it's palpable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 07:54 PM
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This has got to be a troll, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 09:48 AM
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Seems pretty anecdotal to me. If you're seeking having a family then there's no sense in looking for a serious relationship starting 30, fertility doesn't last a lifetime. I'm in my early twenties and getting married, fiancé is mid twenties. Our friend / colleagues group is similar and we live in Europe. Again, I think the public image is shaped by people using social media. You'll see the 30+ women who've had their promiscuous years behind them looking for a serious relationship, you'll think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:07 PM
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This reminds me of a statement that Gavin Mcinnes made: why are you hating men? We're the ones who make love to you!! And although I can't personally relate to the statement, it is true, I always find acquaintances hating on men when they're .. not conventionally attractive, or obese. And I mean, the women they're calling queens and hailing they're not the ones who are sleeping with them despite their bad looks, it's men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 05:20 PM
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Do... do these profiles actually get matches? Seriously
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 12:12 AM
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I don't think toxic masculinity is even existent in the West. I come from a third world country with very strong, conservative ideologies. I've grown up there and I've moved to Europe 3 years ago - I have to say, feminism is a joke and all the feminists creating the stupid jargon like toxic masculinity who apply it to creating some legroomspace when men are seated in the subway, are clowns. Masculinity is all about the traits you have just mentioned. What makes a man toxic (not masculinity toxic…
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:32 AM
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Reading things like this is aggravating. So you're saying "she's fatter and uglier, has become loose over years of promiscuity, b*tchier due to work, has money she won't spend on you and even HIGHER standards". Many women in the west are so full of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 07:25 PM
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The unrealistic body/beauty standards that women feel so oppressed by also come mostly from women. I don't think any man cares about thigh gaps or defined collarbones; contoured facial lines or specifically shaped lips (cupid... something?). These constraints are all from women to women.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/04/21 12:13 AM
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Do I need to? they literally have jargon for rejecting women "hard next", "soft next, "nexting"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:52 AM
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RPers say women are never rejected, yet boast about how they reject women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:17 AM
3

Dang. How can someone be this positive and dandy. You know in writing you come off as someone who smells like flowers and never had morning breath. (This is a compliment, I guess) :D
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 06:05 PM
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From your story and especially your comments responding to critical people, I can deduct that you're agreeable and sweet in nature. Your husband must be over the moon and I wish you both the best <3
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 06:00 PM
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Who said "inexperience" in men is unattractive? Chastity or at least being somewhat prude is also attractive in men if you have that standard. Chaste women will find chaste men attractive. Promiscuous women probably not. (At least for myself and my family/friends)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:07 PM
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1) he can't just "stop" it, never go cold turkey with that kinda stuff. There is a specific way to come off substances i.e. a particular dosage reduction that gradually leads to no use 2) try to guide the conversation into you being worried, not you being controlling of his choices. As women, we don't necessarily experience the same societal constraints as men. Have an open conversation with him about why he feels the need to use steroids. (Btw, many.. maaany men do. And it's partly because the …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 02:45 AM
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Thank you, likewise! :D
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/21 11:39 AM
3

I wish I could do more when it comes to this area, but I think rugs make a huge difference! And very lush modern bedding
/r/RedPillWives25/03/21 07:27 PM
2

To answer your questions.. Q1) is it just a Western thing? Maybe. I'm Muslim, men are allowed to marry up to 4 wives whereas the norm is still to have just 1 official wife. However it's often the case that men (most of the time when they're going through a mid life crisis) will marry a second wife for a short term to have sex with her. It's not prostitution really, but technically they paid (her dowry and proposal gift) for sex. And the first wives are often okay with this, because it's better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:16 AM
4

I think the crux in the RP mindset is the AWALT mindset. Because they truly think all women deep down are promiscuous, hypergamous, materialistic succubi and even a traditional woman has these traits within her. How could you value someone when you think that they embody these traits, even if they lay dormant? The answer is, you don't. So unless they accept that their traditional wife is not "like all women" because there is no such thing as "all women", they will never value or respect her, but…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 09:37 AM
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Ah yes, sorry about that. I was aiming at conveying that it's her husband's salary basically. It helps me a lot to be frugal, I think of getting anything dumb at the store or I'm snacky then I think "come on you won't spend your husband's work on some sub-par sushi" :D of course it's shared money but reminding myself that I didn't bring it in helps me a bit to be more aware of what I buy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 03:55 AM
3

A slow-cooker is great - there really are not many appliances that one needs to make great food. Something I would recommend is a pizza stone, what a game changer! I totally relate to the eating a lot bit :D
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 03:51 AM
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Congratulations thats huuuge!! :D Cooking for more than two people was a huge adjustment for me, but doable - my husband is also very picky and he does not eat any frozen protein. We also lift so 160g protein is a must for this guy. Here's some tips that I hope can come in handy: 1) Don't buy too much, your fridge should be filled with dairy products, deli meat and veggies, not with leftovers. It all gets thrown away anyway. If you live closeby a grocery store, try to increase your trips and dec…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/21 09:31 PM
1

Thanks a ton this is very insightful. I must say i'm a horrible receiver I get absolutely fidgety so maybe that's the issue :D
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 01:05 PM
4

Oh and happy 20 year anniversary this year!! Congratulations! :)
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 06:41 AM
3

Wow that's so interesting! And you're totally right I haven't been self-focused at all, especially when I feel inadequate. thank you!
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 06:40 AM
1

Oh man :D I keep asking what he wants but he always says "whatever you want" or "we're doing fine".. i'm scared because i feel like he has years of experience over me and i'm just over here pressing buttons. How did you get suggestions out of your partner?
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 06:38 AM
3

Thank you! I will subscribe to the statement of improvement over time. When you say "be adventurous" do you mean being open to new things or trying risqué stuff?
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 06:35 AM
10

Thank you very much for your reply and sweet words, as cheesy as it sounds it really made me smile!! :)
/r/RedPillWives14/03/21 10:28 PM
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Me too. And i'm a woman.... Where am I going to get my high-quality kween approved dating advice now :(
/r/AntiFeminists14/03/21 09:13 PM
2

Yeah check out a woman at 30% bodyfat and a man at 30% bf, women carry fat so much better so we literally have to do so little to achieve an attractive body
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 01:59 PM
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Why is there no pressure for women to behave? Bar the religious communities that allow polygamy for men. There is pressure for women to behave - the fact that they ignore this pressure does not remove its existence. Scenario: woman marries man, gets a child, loses her figure, loses her youth, stops her career aka makes less money due to maternity. Man on the other hand continues to gain SMV due to net worth - the guns are in his hands now. Because basically, why wouldn't SHE fight to keep the ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 01:58 PM
2

I understand your point and I by no means want to belittle the fact that western men receive little to no support. I would like to politely point out that in fact, not all women are benefitting from feminism. For example, culturally traditionalist women. Feminism has halved the pay for the workforce when they introduced women especially now when women are employed favorably. This has caused for example the women in my cultural circle to balance all household duties plus jobs because the wages of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 01:50 PM
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"Peel my face off"? Ffs just eat less calories than you burn off, get off the stupid peloton and hit the gym
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 10:18 AM
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This is pretty much feminist rhetoric "all men are trash". It's never that simple. There are enough traditionalist, self-respecting, modest women in the world and I think the members of this sub are better than the rhetoric that feminists use
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 10:15 AM
1

Yep sorry about the typo. "Tren"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 08:31 AM
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Not talking about bodyfat i'm talking about the level of shred where men's abs are showing and perfectly defined. Gotta rip that bandaid off, that's juice. Nothing wrong with taking roids, I'm just pointing out that it's an ideal with no basis in reality. Edit: added the sentence at the end
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:20 AM
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:( I'm sorry!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:02 AM
2

For men? Just someone who looks strong enough to defend me. I don't prefer the shredded muscular type, it's quite offputting because I know what goes into its creation. But just a strong guy, be it thicker, fatter whatever as long as he's not obese. Hairstyle doesn't matter - I know hairloss is a big ouch for many men so I really don't mean to offend anyone here, but the ideal would be either men with hair or without any at all, this half-balding head (again I'm really sorry and I don't mean to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:18 AM
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Lmao the people you are referring to as your ideal are most definitely on steroids. No genes and 2hrs of training make you look like this - it's all about the trem. (No i'm not an incel, i'm actually a woman, this is not a butthurt comment)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:14 AM
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Seven is 100% not the real number. A) there is SO much social appeasement going on from women in studies because they don't want to seem like sluts B) i've heard a LOT of women say things like "yah we didn't have sex or anything it was just oral" ?? Uh. This counts as sex, anal is also sex. And i'm gonna assume that this isn't an isolated opinion in the West. So if the women in the study aren't counting their casual BJs in the club then yeah that number is skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:58 AM
1

Upvote this to oblivion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:52 AM
2

You're so young and taking on such a controversial matter, I hope society is less hypocritical and misandrist by the time you're an adult :) I think when it comes to being pro Men's rights it is often perceived as being anti women's rights (completely idiotic, imagine having a dog shelter then someone calls you out for being anti-cat). Just keep emphasizing that you're not against women's rights, but are concerned with major men's rights issues that haven't gotten exposure yet. Suicides, men's t…
/r/MensRights09/03/21 05:04 AM
1

Idk about these women but I can't even open a jar. Shoutout to my husband...
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/21 04:52 AM
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For me, yes definitely -partly for religious reasons- but otherwise, because high N counts on both sides reveal some character flaws. I don't want a partner who casually hauls himself at strangers, it shows no restraint, no carefulness (towards STDs for example), no self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:58 AM
2

Daaaaaamn this was so cohesive and well-written! Thanks a lot!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 09:28 PM
3

Thank you for the response! :) Of course I agree to an extent with you; but there are always exceptions, if you go on RPW subs it's all about keeping the relationship alive, swapping housemaking advice, recipes, appearance advice etc. It is way more logical for women to do their absolute best to keep up a committed relationship because they hit the wall, and then it's on the man to choose whether he wants to stay or look for a 19 y/o. And I think there is some hope left because traditional women…
/r/MensRights07/03/21 09:03 AM
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Can i upvote this multiple times?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:44 AM
1

This puts things into perspective, thank you for taking the time to respond! :) I cannot entirely relate to the consolation prize part - because again I really think a portion of it is based in culture.. (I'm sorry to be redundant) virginity is a basic requirement for marriage where I'm from, and since divorce is possible, women are forced to try their best in the marriage since a divorced woman will highly unlikely find a new partner, due to her not being a virgin anymore. So in a way, being ap…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:11 AM
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Standard advice for male OPs: WORK HARDER. Just .. like communicate, she's probably depressed, she's probably struggling, you don't know what she's going through. Standard advice for female OPs: leave him / he's not worth your time/ he doesn't deserve you. Ffs, it's instilled in their tiny brains that working on a relationship is basically the man's job.
/r/MensRights07/03/21 05:17 AM
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Thank you very much! I will try to uphold this quality :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 04:04 PM
2

Thank you for providing these stats - first time I heard of this, but it makes sense! I too think about if I hypothetically were a guy, it would be offputting (?) if my wife had other sexual partners, whereas when I think of my husband knowing that he has had different partners, I just think I'm happy he chose me out of the bunch. This is a long shot but maybe it has to do with procreation, sex should mean a lot to women since it results in pregnancy and child bearing so it's naturally coupled w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 04:02 PM
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Is it a problem for you? Well let's phrase it this way, are these options that you would want for yourself? I respect the RP mindset, but at some point MGTOW and the AWALT principles are not part of any logical man's makeup. There are plenty of women who stay virgins till marriage for religious reasons for example, there are plenty of women who are attractive and non-hypergamous. Painting a gender with one brush even if the majority seems to match the color (which it doesn't, these people are ju…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 01:39 PM
2

I'll cheers to that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 08:03 AM
3

Thank you! :D but I think there really are no unicorns, I notice I tend to be irrational and my husband is not. so even if you find the conservative women who are faithful homemakers, it's the estrogen, we're all difficult emotionally - but not AWALT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 09:46 PM
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That's why the man in this story is so disturbed by his wife's unwillingness to kiss. Sure, she's giving him all the sex, but she's utterly shutting him out of intimacy. Men are so much more wholesome than everyone gives you credit for... I'm sorry I misunderstood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 09:40 PM
3

Ah yes you're totally right I think that came out wrong. I meant when the partners are plentiful. Imagine there's just one burger joint in town then you'd be ready to pay four times the amount for a burger than if there were 5 burger places in one district. Like if sex is readily available just by going to a club then why would you hold sex at such a high regard? Whereas on the contrary, having sex frequently builds the relationship.. kind of like being the regular customer at that one burger jo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 02:52 PM
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Idk how she in particular would view sex if her husband was her one and only partner, but I come from a place where it is normal to wait till marriage as a woman, my husband was my first in all regards and I think it is overall way more healthy in terms of keeping an LTR alive. It shifts from quantifiable validation (one of many) to meaningful connection (the one and only), especially when you know in a few years when you hit the wall, he will be the one settling for you. You don't spend your ea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 08:31 AM
1

Because you mentioned it, i will too... I am a woman and my unpopular beliefs are 1) gender roles are quite effective in long term relationship success 2) (due to hygiene and health reasons) i think it is best to stay celibate and completely non-physical outside of LTRs 3) no matter how strong the relationship is, dead bedrooms and letting yourself go are a killer 4) always get a prenup, if anyone disagrees then thats shady, if you're too uncomfortable to talk about finances openly then you're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:59 PM
3

Ah yes, I have a committed partner who by moving in helps me pay my rent, has doubled the household income, improved my quality of living by having me work less since we have enough money as is and pampers me to oblivion because I cook some food on the stove and suck his dick. Oh the sacrifices that i make. And the thing is, he is grateful for that and i do 1/4 of what he does. Literally. Screw. You. Women's jobs have become so much easier. Our grandmothers had to probably memorize a dozen dishe…
/r/MensRights23/02/21 11:44 AM
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Even biological factors translate into behavioral factors. Put a woman on roids and see how she acts, put a guy on estrogen and see how he acts. The moodiness, whininess, hot-and-cold persona of women, the sprinkle of being a bit "psycho" it's hormonal. I know how I am when I'm PMSing, like an amplified version of womanness. Sure the way we act and carry ourselves has a lot to do with society but it so happens that most cultures overlap in certain areas and that is just because women and men are…
/r/MensRights21/02/21 02:49 PM
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