I give up

Lionheart27778 · 2022-11-22T08:36:13+00:00

Their reasons for doing so have nothing to do with Amber herself.

It's likely they don't care if she is innocent or not.

It's all about damage control to their own interests. The outcome of the case directly damages "believe all women" and "me too" ext.

Feminism has shown it's true colours.

EvidencePlz · 2022-11-22T08:49:45+00:00

I give up on romance entirely.

The sooner you give up on that, the better and safer.

society has made it perfectly fine to be relegated to just being sentient sex toys/ATMs and workhorses.

True, and it's great that you realized it now. Give yourself a pat on the back. Physicist Stephen Hawking declared in 2010 that philosophy is dead. Similarly, romance, or true, unconditional love, monogamy, commitment, tolerance, acceptance, family unity etc as we knew it and as has been described and prescribed in the Bible (and other religions) have been killed and is therefore dead. Accept it and move on.

I admittedly laughed at the MGTOW crowd (and still do sometimes)

Sure, keep laughing. We are not incels. We are an entirely different breed and do not get offended easily. We are not unhappy or angry being MGTOW, whereas incels are. Big difference.

misogyny is stupid

True, and so is misandry (and several other things).

if all the circumstances are correct...I'll get married

Yes people will tell you about the NAWALT theory, that there are still good traditional women out there for you to marry, but the law doesn't care. That NAWALT unicorn can turn itself into a communal fleshlight at the flick of a switch for reason or no reason (look up no-fault divorce) and the modern law and society will encourage her and facilitate it at your own financial expense. Marriage and relationship today is a game that's rigged by the state from the bottom up in a way so that you as a man are already considered a loser even before you start playing it. It's a very stupid and dangerous game that only stupid people would want to play: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_roulette

I don't need sex either because I am already fcking stupid and fcking worthless

This is a very dangerous chain of thought. Don't overthink it. Don't label yourself as something you are not. There are incredibly talented and highly successful men in mankind's history who wanted nothing to do with sexual intercourse with women (for example: Nikola Tesla, Sir Isaac Newton and there's many more). Still, if you wanna release your sexual tension, modern science and technology is your friend, and there are great ways to relieve this tension. Don't lose hope cause there's simply no need to. High-definition VR devices, ultra-realistic sex-dolls, AI chatbots...the possibilities are endless. You don't need a woman. A woman needs you for several reasons. The future belongs to you, my MAN!

werehound19 · 2022-11-22T08:22:45+00:00

our world has been poisoned lol

dwitchagi · 2022-11-22T13:07:28+00:00

There are women out there that hate feminism. It’s a lot of work to find one that is also single and into you, but like you implied, don’t stress or force it.

rippierippo · 2022-11-22T10:06:44+00:00

Feminism is all about power, privilege, entitlement, control, misinformation and manipulation.

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-11-22T07:58:21+00:00

Great decision.

Over_Ad_7654 · 2022-11-22T09:30:41+00:00

Don't let the loud minority of crazy women prevent you from meeting a good partner. My bf almost gave up too until we met and we've never been happier. I'm sure there are a number of women out there who are quite decent. But it is still important to exercise caution when it comes to meeting them.

trsam · 2022-11-22T12:39:20+00:00

Zero regrets. Enjoy your life! :) I am so proud of you. You are smarter than I ever was. I am honestly ready to die. The main thing that keeps me alive is my kids and my best friends. I kid you not.

VisionarySeagull · 2022-11-22T10:56:44+00:00

You seem like a reasonable man making a reasonable decision to me.

It's clear that you don't hate women. You hate how society will always take the side of women. You hate how any negative interaction you have with a woman will be interpreted as entirely your fault, no matter how much you plea your case. Johnny Depp had everything going into his fight against Amber Heard. He was one of the most beloved men in America. He had audio evidence of her claiming that nobody would ever believe him. Yet still, feminist organizations took her side.

You hate the social climate of dating right now. I'm likely older than you, and I can't blame you. I learned to navigate the dating world and romance through trial and error, but until you're practiced in it, and until you learn what you're doing, you're going to make a few mistakes. In my day, a woman being shitty about a man voicing his feelings to her was considered a bad woman. Now, she's considered a champion of social justice. Now she can just say she fears for her safety and no matter how you went about it, you will be branded a creep.

If any of the feminist lurkers are inclined to call me an incel for the above, just keep in mind that Henry Cavill agrees. In a post-#MeToo world, men wanting to drop out of the dating market because they've weighed the risks and found them to be not worth it is a logical decision.

Thats-bk · 2022-11-22T19:04:48+00:00

Welcome to the club

aerial_coitus · 2022-11-22T20:46:52+00:00

welcome to the light

and_another_username · 2022-11-23T01:51:35+00:00

130 feminists ain’t shit. There’s about a million others who would co-sign that AH is a lying c*nt who set women DV victims back years.

Head up my guy. And put the screen down for a while. Life really isn’t as fucked up as your timeline wants you to believe it is.

Drakethepirate · 2022-11-22T13:31:37+00:00

Feminists don't care if a woman is innocent or guilty, they believe all women to be victims because they are born with a V. That's why men give up on dating, because the situation has become unbearable. We have to stop laughing at other men and smash feminism!

Standard-Broccoli107 · 2022-11-22T08:50:34+00:00

The problem is that the vocal women are a minority. I have dated many great women, but they rarely get heard. Most women stand with Depp.

If you dont want to date thats a valid choice, but only make it if it makes you happier!

GF1386 · 2022-11-22T10:47:16+00:00

Safe sex? Your computer.

grahamcookiefart · 2022-11-22T16:43:24+00:00

I'm sorry for everything that happened to you and for what the world is doing to you. Totally get your standpoint. I don't know how you all do it... :( I hope we can turn things around for men.

0R0V0H0 · 2022-11-22T07:59:18+00:00

Hey, is there a way to flag posts when it’s an obvious cry for help? Can someone give this guy a hug or something?

Asstronauts93 · 2022-11-22T12:43:21+00:00

One of us. One of us.

biccat · 2022-11-22T12:44:09+00:00

No one advertises it. Many men find it on their own.

Balages · 2022-11-22T12:56:25+00:00

BuT those ArE nOt ReAl FeMiNiSts

RealButterchu · 2022-11-22T15:40:37+00:00

Don’t give up on women entirely, that’s what they want. They’re miserable so they want you to be miserable too, don’t let them win. Find yourself an actually decent woman who cares about men’s issues

0R0V0H0 · 2022-11-22T08:04:49+00:00

Do you have friends or family you can safely talk about your feelings with? Feelings of intense hopelessness and worthlessness are a sign to reach out to your support network, or therapist if you have one. I mean yeah Amber Heard sucks ass, but that doesn’t mean your whole life is over.

pappo4ever · 2022-11-22T14:52:35+00:00

I saw that 130 feminists

Why would you do that? those old, lonely women just do things to get men's attention and you fall for it.

dont-believe-me- · 2022-11-23T02:06:47+00:00

This sounds like a you problem

nyarlathotep999 · 2022-11-22T08:33:04+00:00

Lucky stupid and worthless. ;) Lucky you too- all i can ever do is fuck myself.

onearmedmonkey · 2022-11-22T19:16:41+00:00

Welcome to "MiG-Tau". (It's not really spelled that way, but it's usually pronounced that way.)

Jack_N_Morty · 2022-11-22T23:18:50+00:00

Never understood the hate for the MGTOW community. Browsed the sub before it got shut down and most of the posts were about wilderness, their animals, how much money they've obtained, just by focusing on themselves instead of the opposite sex chase that so many guys get caught up in.

2022-11-23T00:09:00+00:00

Sometimes you guys give ladys to much power even without noticing ...

If you WANT nothing to do with females, that's a legit choice. But if you are doing it as reaction, you are changing your nature BECAUSE of them. That's no help for you.

Maybe a solution is stop giving a fuck about what women think. I do just wenn it directly impacts me in a legal or professional sense.

Other than that, women are humans... a lot suck big time, some are nice and few are good friends and ally (as men and other gender do).

Brandwein · 2022-11-23T01:16:55+00:00

I don't believe feminism inherently means "man-hating" since there are many who just innocently want to be 'for equality' and claim the label of feminism not knowing what insane things those you mentioned support. But i can't support the direction that this modern 'womans movement' is going in general and think it is inherently detrimental to healthy socialisation of both men and women. And because most women are influenced by it in less or more extremes, often without actively meaning harm, it is best for men to be very careful in these times. So you made a sane decision.

At the same time i would like to chip in the reminder that neither being a 'mgtow' NOR being an 'incel' inherently means that you hate ALL women, just like feminism doesn't inherently mean you hate ALL men, or just in general. One can just consciously pick the instances from those ideas that are healthy for oneself and all is good. I like many individual women for different things. Some are great friends, coworkers, etc., i also love my mother and have no problems helping grannies. But i still dislike the base culture that the vast majority of young western women adhere to today.

BosBuano · 2022-11-23T01:18:14+00:00

Focus on self and career buddy. All the BS is out of our control. Let the brainwashed young female masses realize when they are 30+ “wait…. Body count really matters?” Or “I’m so lonely” or “why are all the good men out of the dating pool”

Patience. Focus on yourself. Realization will flash like a light bulb soon.

SteamyWolf · 2022-11-23T06:43:28+00:00

I’m lucky I married a morally good Christian girl who loves God and is conservative with traditional values. She’s cute and doesn’t have any social media. Life is good. Go find a young gal at your church my dude.

MRAModsAreMisandrist · 2022-11-23T10:09:05+00:00

You do agree. You just currently believe in misinformation which makes you think you don’t.

pappo4ever · 2022-11-23T12:20:04+00:00

We have to understand that in nature, women and children have a parasitic relationship with men, and the only way that men tolerate this is via our brains drugging ourselves into loving them (called romance). Nothing more.

Of course, children are not parasites, and children need mothers, but nowadays women don't really have children anymore, they have become 100% parasites, they really don't contribute anything to society, and are desperate to keep parasiting (dating) men and society with laws and rules.

Obviously they will support Amber Heard, the ultimate parasite.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2022-11-25T21:19:31+00:00

I decided to give up on dating and just fuck sugar babies. Makes everything so much easier and stressfree.

Glass-Dimension-8827 · 2022-11-28T15:24:42+00:00

Swear off relationships, fine. But, nobody is stupid and worthless (stupid is questionable though lol). Please talk to someone, a male figure you trust preferably.

Title	I give up
Author	VoliminalVerse5000
Upvotes	210
Comments	91
Date	November 22, 2022 7:55 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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