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Inner Game greatlifeahead/r/seduction17/05/21 05:25 PM
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Field Reportgreatlifeahead/r/seduction31/07/20 07:33 AM
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Lifestylegreatlifeahead/r/seduction11/05/22 05:22 AM
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greatlifeahead/r/seduction02/11/19 08:23 PM
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greatlifeahead/r/seduction12/01/20 10:36 AM
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Inner Game greatlifeahead/r/seduction30/05/20 08:05 AM
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My take on your guide. First habit: build rapport. You are really just meaning being active and non-needy. Going to events you like and meeting new people works. Most of the people just aren't approaching and are failing because of that. Second habit: be patient. You have to read her signals and let her come to you. You should not go the friendzone route. Instead use push/pull. If there is interest she will come to you but if not then you should be spending your time finding and developing new p…
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:05 AM
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High flaking rate means that you haven't hooked them enough. You have to focus on raising their interest.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:54 AM
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You are right and then you can lightly touch their hand. If they are too shy to even let you touch them you should not try to kiss them. Girl might be so shy that she doesn't let you kiss even if she wants to.
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:07 AM
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Look her in the eyes and then her lips and see her reaction. If she looks you back and holds eye contact then go for the kiss. If she doesn't want to kiss she will not look you back. Also you can touch her face with your hand. If she lets you touch you can kiss. You can also lightly touch her hand and look for her reaction.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:46 AM
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It is a sign of interest. You should say hi to them.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:43 AM
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I would not put much thought into this. Drunk girls look for attention and they come and go.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:41 AM
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Start a hobby that is social and where you meet girls. Like yoga or volunteer work. Also learn how to go out alone. Even if you go out with friends you have to talk to girls by yourself. Your friends aren't going to pick up girls for you.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:37 AM
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Use the Brad Pitt analogy. If Brad Pitt asked her out how would she react? Would the plans fail and you would need to reschedule again and again? There is a clear lack of interest and you are probably a backup plan.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:34 AM
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I was thinking bigger than just getting laid. I want to be more social and thought about what would be a good new social hobby that has women too. I wanted to see if I would get good new ideas here. I have no ulterior motive to meet women. People go to ie. salsa dancing classes to meet new people and have fun learning dancing.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:28 AM
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Good point. Maybe cold approaching is better.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:23 AM
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Volunteering work should be something I enjoy and I would meet women too. I would like to learn Salsa. It could be fun and I have tried it once.
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:52 AM
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Projecting much?
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:50 AM
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By having options. If you have two choices you don't feel like you have to choose one no matter what.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:16 AM
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Tell me more about yourself. Use logic. Is there any factual things you are lacking to get a girlfriend? You talk a lot about how you feel and these are all inner game. I think therapy would be good for you. Also meditating and mindfulness. Learn how to distance yourself from those negative thoughts and start to build habits that bring you close to other people. Go out more.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:13 AM
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PUA lifestyle is poison but you should learn the skills.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:50 PM
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There was a study done that said that even 90% of Tinder users are men.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:50 AM
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If you have eye contact then just say hi and comment their training. I got a number from a girl who was squatting heavy and I said to her that I am impressed by her squatting and that girls usually don't squat so heavy weight. That turned into a longer chat and me asking her number. It is very important to read the room though and you should leave her alone if she doesn't send you IOI while talking. Don't be that guy who doesn't get the hint and who keeps on talking to women who don't care.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:50 AM
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I think the problem is that men cold approach badly. If the interaction is ankward then it is not fun for anyone. If you cold approach correctly you get the number and arrange a date afterwards. Women probably don't even think about it as a cold approach then. They just met someone and they clicked.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:46 AM
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It's neediness only if you aren't smooth. You should dance with girls and not just enjoy yourself. You go to the club to meet girls so you should be meeting them and you meet them by approaching in the dance floor.
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:59 PM
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It is a numbers game. You approached a lot of girls when you danced. A lot of guys might go into a nightclub and spend all night drinking with friends and not approaching anyone. You should instead focus on approaching and approach dozens of girls. Club is a meat market and you go there to sample the wares not to drink with your friends.
/r/seduction04/07/21 03:47 AM
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Try to do things that make you feel good about yourself. If for instance you are overweight then getting in shape will make you feel good about yourself.
/r/seduction22/05/21 06:32 AM
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There are some things you should lie or omit though like inexperience and game. You should never tell a woman that you browse a seduction subreddit to learn better to pickup women or how you don't have success with women. Also a little bit of mystery is a great thing. You let her imagination fill the blanks.
/r/seduction21/05/21 04:40 AM
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You need more confidence. Also do you lift weights or do any other physical activities?
/r/seduction21/05/21 04:33 AM
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In a sense you do have your life together. You don't have self esteem issues and you are confident that you can get any girl. Many guys are not like that and they think can't be loved. But what happens when the girl you like has another guy interested in her too and the other guy has a job? Let's say he is a doctor and you are unemployed. If you only focus on masculine energy and the other guy has confidence AND a great job, fit body etc. you will always loose. You can't compete with a man who h…
/r/seduction19/05/21 05:18 AM
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You have to read her body language. Does she seem interested and happy to talk to you? Does she seem bored? You don't have to look badass. You can say that you are going to have a drink or something and leave.
/r/seduction19/05/21 05:07 AM
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Haha I have actually read Models some years ago but didn't think about it at all when writing my post. I have to read it again now.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:58 AM
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Good to hear that things are better. And yeah nobody is perfect and everyone has issues. Those issues can be so big that they make it impossible to attract anyone.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:57 AM
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Thats why you shouldn't try to think so much into it. You are just being nice and saying hello to people. When you are outcome dependant you make every approach matter too much and that gives you pressure.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:48 AM
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What is moderation? I used to drink 2-3 cups of coffee per day (mostly in the morning) and when I quit it my sleep got way better. As I get older alcohol makes my tired the next morning. Just a little bit of wine or whisky and I won't be up 6 am and going for a jog anymore. Porn also makes me lazy. If I bust a nut I am not as motivated to go out and socialize.
/r/seduction17/05/21 05:30 PM
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Don't try so hard. Try to relax and have fun. Consider approaching as just a practice. You have to learn how to like the process of going out and meeting new people. Also learn how to eject if the woman you approached isn't interested. When you approach someone who likes you it will be fun and you will feel great.
/r/seduction17/05/21 05:00 PM
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Do things that make you respect and like yourself.
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:24 PM
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People might think that you are hiding something.
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:18 PM
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You should be the one qualifying her and not be that guy who thinks about what he brings to the table and wishes that she would choose him. You will always loose with the inferior frame. You have to take away her power of being able to choose. She will have to submit to you. If there is competition express interest and then pullback. She will start to see you as a high value male because you aren't simping around her like the other guys and she will have to pursue you to get you. She might genui…
/r/seduction28/11/20 09:21 PM
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You can build a social circle from people at work place. People you work with might not be hot girls but they might know hot girls. If you become friends with people at work maybe you go out together or they invite you to a party and you meet hot girls there.
/r/seduction12/11/20 06:08 AM
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Work/school and hobbies.
/r/seduction11/11/20 07:50 PM
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I disagree. You can be confident by demand. Sports psychology is a field where you prime your mind and make yourself confident. You can learn thought techniques to make you confident. IE. listen some music or watch some clips from movies that pump you up. Look yourself in the mirror and say that "I am the fucking man" and think about all those times that you succeeded and acted like the fucking man. These things will get you pumped up. If you doubt me watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/wa…
/r/seduction11/11/20 07:36 PM
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You have to be interesting. If you are mature and interesting you are showing more value than someone who has to joke all the time. You do have to tease her and have that James Bond smirk.
/r/seduction11/11/20 07:30 PM
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If you don't have a good social circle then you have to cold approach.
/r/seduction11/11/20 07:26 PM
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No. It is your reaction to not getting laid that causes depression.
/r/seduction01/11/20 07:16 AM
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You have to change your beliefs. Try those thought experiments I posted.
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:12 AM
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Yes of course you should work on yourself and improve. It is tragic when you see someone who is the same as he was 5 years ago. I have a female friend who is married to this guy who just plays videogames and works as a security guard. Well this guy is almost 40 now and he still does the same things. He looks sad now. He just sits in the coach and plays games all day and he does the same job he has had since he was 20 and he is getting old now. What a life. But even with his faults he still has a…
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:11 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction28/10/20 05:44 AM
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Most of the single guys are in mental prison they have locked themself in. You think that you aren't good enough and there is something wrong with you and women pick that up in your behaviour and they reject you. You get stuck in crying after women that rejected you instead of moving on. You think that you will never find someone and things will never be different so you create feelings for women who don't want you and you don't do the work and approach women and try to meet new people. So you w…
/r/seduction27/10/20 07:42 PM
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Problem is that scarcity creates value and if you have little experiences with women then you put them on a pedestal. It is just natural human behaviour. When you get more experience in dating then you don't have that scarcity mentality anymore.
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:02 PM
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Maybe you are trying too hard? Try to relax and just have fun for a while and not worry about girls.
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:27 PM
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Practice your body language and keeping good posture. Also learn how to market yourself in social media. I post pics from my travels, the gym and about healthy foods I cook (I started cooking as a new hobby). Women check them out all the time and even slide into my dm's from time to time. Remember that no-one will know what you are up to if you don't show them that. I am sure they rise my value and make me more interesting person.
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:17 PM
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Try to find out something you both like and then seed something you can do together later. Then you can send her a message and ask her to do it together. Two examples. I met a girl in the subway and we were both going for a date. I asked her number and told her that I hope she has a bad date. Later I texted her and asked how her date went and asked her to go for a date with me. Second girl I knew from work and we both go to a gym so we talked about training. Later I asked her to come train with …
/r/seduction10/10/20 10:23 AM
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Try to get eye contact. Girls do see you and if they don't give you eye contact they aren't interested.
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:39 PM
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You say you have only one friend left. Friends come and go. Why don't you try to make new friends? Also a lot of UFC fighters turn their careers around. For example Jan Blachowicz was totally dominated by Corey Anderson and lost to Pat Cummins and had lost 4 out of his last 5 fights. He was close to being cut from UFC. However he bounced back and won a bunch of fights, knocked out Corey Anderson in a rematch and became a light heavyweight champion. You too can bounce back. Keep doing the right t…
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:17 AM
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It can be that you pressure her to give you her number. Also maybe there isn't enough comfort and attraction. Try to seed something fun and cool to do together. She has to feel excited about you.
/r/seduction21/09/20 06:39 AM
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Yes it is possible. If girls who think you as low value see you with hotter girls they will change their perception of you.
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:06 PM
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It doesn't matter why they are in the bookstore. You go and say hi and if you click then the girl will want to see you later again. Also if you click and you ask them for a cup of coffee next door they might say yes. Then you bond in the coffeeshop and then you ask them to come visit your place and see some cool books you have.
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:04 PM
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Work on yourself. Start one new hobby that makes you fit, another to fuel your creative side, third to build your social skills and social network and fourth to make you money. Then start a project to meet 100 new women. Don't ask them all out. Only ask the ones out that seem to like you and you like them. It's a numbers game and eventually you will find someone who likes you and who you like too. Think of it as a search. You don't force anything and you let them go if they isn't mutual interest…
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:47 AM
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Try to think it the other way. In what ways you are better than most other guys? How could you make her life better?
/r/seduction09/08/20 07:25 PM
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I disagree they are similar in my mind. Corey Wayne says you should be open about your intentions and open emotionally when she opens up. He talks against oversharing your emotions.
/r/seduction04/08/20 06:00 PM
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There are no masks used in where I am living in.
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:28 AM
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I am sorry to say this but you should forget her. She is with her boyfriend for a reason and not with you and you are robbing yourself of a chance to find someone who wants you.
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:27 AM
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It was a combination of both. I tried to do the work even if it felt pointless and I also worked on my inner self. I read a bunch of books about cognitional therapy and schema therapy. I can recommend Stephen Hayes: Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life. Also "lighter" books like Robert Glover: No More Mr. Niceguy and Corey Wayne: 3% Men were helpful. I would recommend you start to socialize more and try to meet and talk to strangers. It sucks at first but you will get better fast. At the same…
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:00 PM
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Things will change if you keep at it. I have found that the change is not incremental but there is a sudden jump.
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:48 PM
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I agree. Let's face it. Everyone who has been single for a long time has issues they have to solve. They are usually mental issues. People have low self-esteem and they don't think they deserve love so they half-ass everything. They should focus on improving themselves and finding self-worth. You can't use pickup technique to get women. You have to standup as a man and become a better person. PUA tricks are just you acting like a better person. Do the work instead and be that better person.
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:45 AM
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Don't treat girls like just friends but always try to escalate. I just had a date and I stopped literally in the middle of the street when walking with her and I grabbed her hand and looked her right in the eye and kissed her. She wouldnt let go of my hand afterwards and she was smiling ear to ear and blushing after that. Of course you have to be cool and smart about escalating and you should keep her comfortable and not creep her out. Try to really look for her body language and what she is say…
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:25 AM
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Looks are subjective and attitude makes everything different.
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:57 AM
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Most of the PUA coaches are just amateur therapists. Your point about therapy is right and most of the guys in PUA scene hold limiting beliefs they should get rid off. When you think that you are not good enough then you have to play games and manipulate to get women.
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:49 AM
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In other words status matters and you should focus on leveling up.
/r/seduction30/06/20 09:24 PM
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3% men by Corey Wayne and No More Mr. Niceguy.
/r/seduction22/06/20 07:36 AM
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I think the best thing to do right now is self improvement and rising your social status. I am training harder than ever, reading and saving money. I hope that I have leveled up after this is over and world is back to normal.
/r/seduction21/06/20 06:35 AM
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You should learn to hide and control your real emotions. You should never let a woman see your weaknesses. You should also control yourself and test women and walk away if she doesn't qualify. Fake abundance. Think about sales. You have to fake that you have other offers and act like you are negotiating from a position of power. You should also learn how to look happy and smile and fake confidence. Think about it like customer service. You cannot have a bad day in your job. Same should apply to …
/r/seduction20/06/20 01:38 PM
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I read it and I didn't find it useful. It was full of wishy washy emotional pandering. I also don't think you should take advice from the fish on how to be a good fisher.
/r/seduction20/06/20 01:13 PM
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Women also often rather jump from a relationship to relationship and they don't want to be single. So she might be having problems with her boyfriend and she wants to leave. Women are insecure about finding someone else so they might stick around and be unhappy.
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:12 AM
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Actions matter not words. She is with her husband for a reason. I would go for it and look if she wants to be with you instead of speculating and fantasizing about it. If she says no then you can go on but if she starts to sleep with you then you can help her to leave her husband.
/r/seduction15/06/20 05:23 AM
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Buy some stylish clothing that is slim fit. Learn about colors and how to mix them. Find out what works for you. Don't wear just a t-shirt and jeans with sneakers. Wear a polo shirt and chinos with desert boots. Also try a collared shirt, trousers and smart shoes.
/r/seduction03/06/20 08:12 AM
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Gym and grocery store. In gym it is easy to approach and ask them to spot you, ask about their training or if you can use the machine or something. You get familiar fast and then you can ask for contact information and maybe train together or something. In grocery store I might ask them something about what they have in their shopping basket.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:59 AM
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You are motivating me to go out there. Keep up the good work. Do you have any plan to get numbers or anything like that?
/r/seduction01/06/20 02:43 PM
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That is ok. Attraction is subjective. Not everyone will like you. Just accept it and go meet someone else.
/r/seduction29/05/20 08:40 AM
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I just go to say hi and throw out a comment see what happens. If she looks disinterested then I walk away but if she shows interest then I talk a little bit more and then ask her number. You shouldn't be talking to her until she leaves. Learn how to read people better.
/r/seduction27/05/20 07:38 PM
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Yes. It is very low status and needy if you talk about a relationship when you don't really know each other. It is also boring when the other person knows she can have you and she doesn't have to try. She has to wonder and feel excitement on if you like her or not. Just tell her you want to see her and have fun. Be that guy that she knows she will always have a good time with and who won't judge her.
/r/seduction27/05/20 07:35 PM
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Walking away works also because you make room for something new. You can't get attracted to anyone new if you have your eye on someone, you can't have a better job if you stay in the old job and if you spend your time with toxic friends you can't spend it making new friends.
/r/seduction27/05/20 07:30 PM
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Confidence and having your own values. Also don't speak what YOU want to talk about but what SHE wants to talk about.
/r/seduction23/05/20 06:28 AM
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For me it goes like this. I live to my own values and do things that are according to them. This makes me happy and give me confidence and self worth. Being fit is a value and when I noticed that I actually wanted to eat salmon, blueberries and avocado on a cheat day or when I noticed my abs are showing up in the gym locker room I got a huge boost in my confidence and self worth. I try to have only positive self talk. I always say to myself that I am a good person, that I am valuable and that I …
/r/seduction23/05/20 06:27 AM
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You are also qualifying them and it is not just them rejecting you. You are nice to someone and then they don't even bother to reply? They aren't obviously someone you want to know. This means you reject them too. Not all people are good people and you don't want to be friends with everyone but you have to see what kind of persons they are so you can weed them out and focus on the good ones.
/r/seduction23/05/20 06:12 AM
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Great job! I have been doing this too but no success so far. I like it that all the girls are very nice and look genuinely happy that I approach them.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:18 PM
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You seem like a great guy. Don't worry about it. Girls will like you. You just need confidence. I would suggest you develop your inner speech. Tell yourself how great guy you are and how much you have to offer. Also it is a numbers game so keep on dating and meeting new people and eventually you will find someone who you really like and who really likes you back.
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:40 PM
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Confidence is even bigger. If you stand up tall and look genuinely happy women will flirt with you and check out out all the time.
/r/seduction16/05/20 04:54 AM
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Instagram account can be a good thing if you have cool pictures and have a lot of followers. It gives you social proof and makes you look more valuable.
/r/seduction06/05/20 07:27 AM
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Tell her she is just a friend for you and then let her see you with other beautiful women and see what happens.
/r/seduction01/05/20 11:44 PM
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Let go of the past. It is meaningless and not true. It is real only in your mind. You have limiting beliefs and when you let go of them you will feel good enough.
/r/seduction01/05/20 05:25 PM
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I once made a fake account in Tinder as a girl for testing (I wanted to see what kind of competition I have and how other guys talk to women) and I was flooded with messages and I got bored answering over 20 times to the basic "hi how are you" posts. The only ones I talked more where guys who were creative and different and hit my emotions. It was pretty eye opening to see how many guys were super needy and were begging and almost asked to be rejected.
/r/seduction28/04/20 09:27 PM
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Thanks for posting. It was a good read.
/r/seduction26/04/20 08:07 PM
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You need to learn how to relax more. Tell her that you want to take it slow and spend more time naked and have moret foreplay. I had a similar problem as a teen and the girl I dated told me to masturbate infront of her. This seems kinky and weird but it worked and after that I had no more problems.
/r/seduction26/04/20 03:58 PM
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It is not easy for anyone. You just learn how to do it. Some people are just more social so they learn this stuff earlier.
/r/seduction25/04/20 06:48 PM
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Dating is just spending time with someone. Have fun and try to have sex. Learn how to learn body language and listen to what she says. Girls are humans too and they want to have sex and find love too. She will help you if she likes you. Try to relax and make her relax too. Everything should be easy and effortless.
/r/seduction25/04/20 06:32 PM
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Looks are subjective. How you present yourself in the world is a huge part of it too. Don't handicap yourself.
/r/seduction25/04/20 12:59 PM
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No more mr nice guy by Robert A. Glover and Coach Corey Wayne 3% men.
/r/seduction25/04/20 12:29 PM
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You have to do everything for yourself. In the end you are the only thing that matters. Women come and go and you just take them for a ride. They don't drive the car or say where the car goes.
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:30 PM
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Being calm, relaxed and taking up physical space. Chest up and shoulders back. Watch people in the eyes. See Gladiator and watch how Russell Crowe talks and moves.
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:15 PM
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Empathy, healthy lifestyle and being clean.
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:11 PM
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This. One female once told me that she was impressed and started to see me as a attractive person when I admitted my mistake and told that I was wrong on something.
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:09 PM
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Maybe you are coming in too strong. If there is not enough comfort or she is not attracted then escalation will drive her away fast. Can you give an example?
/r/seduction19/04/20 09:14 PM
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She opens up to you when she trusts you. I would tell her something personal about yourself to build trust.
/r/seduction15/04/20 05:34 PM
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Your attention is one way to show value. Don't entertain her or try to get her approval and don't give her validation. Don't always be available. Always be approachable, nice and charming when you see her though. This shows abundance and shows that she is not on the pedestal. You should also have your life in order. Be fit, healthy, well groomed and have a nice lifestyle. Smile and look happy. You should look like perfect husband material.
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:36 AM
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I am sorry to hear that. I didn't mean to make you fear going to work. You seem to care too much about what people think and should try to relax and just let things be. Try to just focus on your job and leave the flirting and joking to rest for now. If you feel like several girls are avoiding you you must know that you are trying too much.
/r/seduction08/04/20 02:19 PM
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You should progress slower at work. People try to be friendly to co-workers and that can make things harder because you don't get a rejection. I would just banter with her and try to see if the attraction grows. Also try to let things progress more naturally and try not to seek her our. Also you sound needy. You just met her and you are already worrying if you could see her and even asking her where did she go. That sounds almost like a stalker.
/r/seduction08/04/20 09:07 AM
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I think it is more about mentality. If you get all those positive changes in your life you will have a lot of confidence and self worth and people will see it. I have gotten all those things but because of depression I don't have confidence or self worth and can't attract women. In the past there have been times when I have felt good about myself and then quality girls have been attracted. It is pretty interesting when I have a good day women will flock around me but when I am doing bad they wil…
/r/seduction07/04/20 05:40 AM
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Not being always available and being a mystery.
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:30 PM
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I think you aren't the only one she is texting with and there are guys who she likes more and who she rather spends her weekends with.
/r/seduction25/03/20 07:51 PM
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I am doing very bad. I am really suffering. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder and things were looking up but then this happened and things went south again. I feel extremely lonely and it feels like it is impossible to meet anyone now and there is no hope. I work from home now so I just sit in front of the computer all day and spend rest of the day reading or moping. Everyday is just suffering and I was wait until it is time to go to sleep again and when I wake up in the morni…
/r/seduction22/03/20 06:47 AM
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I get friendzoned. I have several very good female friends and have a deep mental connection with them but there is no romance. I wish to have romance with women I get a deep mental connection with. No I have no real mental connection with girls I sleep with.
/r/seduction16/02/20 01:12 PM
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I would never have sex with a girl I don't find attractive and I don't approach them.
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:41 PM
1

I got rejected when I messaged her so things didn't workout in the end. I should have closed it earlier.
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:34 PM
1

Small talk and get involved with people. Worst thing to happen is that you sit alone drinking beer in a corner. Be active.
/r/seduction14/01/20 07:33 PM
1

Right on. I have read 3% man several times and watch those youtube videos often and they have changed my attitude and made me a lot more successful with women.
/r/seduction12/01/20 10:49 AM
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I totally agree. One of the biggest redpills for me has been in this year when I almost got into a fight two times. First time was when I was walking on the street on a saturday night with some friends from work and a middle-eastern immigrant slapped married co-workers ass. I went between the immigrant and the co-worker and confronted the immigrant and told him to go away. I was ready fight and the immigrant lost his nerve and ran away. After that the married co-worker has been all over me. She …
/r/seduction06/12/19 08:44 AM
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Treat all the girls the same. Even shy girls act like "normal" girls when they are attracted.
/r/seduction16/11/19 02:34 PM
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What are you talking to them about? You have to get them to feel something when you talk to them.
/r/seduction16/11/19 01:57 PM
1

Women want nice men but people often confuse being nice with not being a challenge. If you act like she can do anything she wants and you will take it she will not respect you and she will not be interested anymore. Those alpha men often have something women want so they just ignore the asshole behavior. It is similar to how men might ignore a woman being a huge bitch if she is very hot and the man thinks that he might get laid.
/r/seduction09/11/19 07:46 AM
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I listen to upbeat music and watch some motivational Youtube videos from Coach Corey Wayne or AMS.
/r/seduction09/11/19 07:14 AM
1

You should be interested but there should be pushing and pulling. Women should feel unsure about you.
/r/seduction03/11/19 06:10 AM
1

Are you giving girls eye contact? It should be natural.
/r/seduction29/10/19 06:49 PM
1

Nightclub works but you have to be active. Talk with people at the bar while waiting for your drink. I like to look for eye contact and if I get some I lift my drink and if the girl does the same I go and say hello. Also try to look for people who look bored or are alone. Once I saw a girl sitting alone and went to say hi to her and we ended up hooking up. She was new in town and didn't know anyone and was feeling lonely so she went to the club. You should avoid just standing in the corner and s…
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:20 PM
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She is not interested enough if she doesn't want to go out on a date. Think about it. If a guy of her dreams would meet her what would happen? She would go out with him on a heartbeat. Try to focus on creating more interest for now and try asking her out later.
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:22 AM
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They just want attention. Are you doing any pushing? If you give the vibe that they can't get you their interest will rise.
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:19 AM
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You shouldn't be asking woman for permission but instead read her body language and listen to what she is saying. Asking for permission can easily look needy and insecure.
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:12 AM
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Your co-workers ask you about your sex life and you just say I don't talk about this with people I work with.
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:52 AM
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Do you set boundaries? You counter being vulnerable by setting boundaries.
/r/seduction24/10/19 06:31 AM
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