Last year and even in the beginning of this year I was totally lost with women but I have managed change things around and I am very proud of myself.

The biggest change was that I gave up binge drinking and now I might casually drink a few on a date but usually I don't drink at all or go to the nightlife. At first I was worried that you can't meet women any other way but I was wrong. I replaced drinking with lifting at the gym and being more healthy overall. I look way better now and I often go to the gym in the weekend nights.

I learned how to cold approach and now I meet beautiful women everywhere. Just yesterday I met a hot girl on a subway and opened with a comment about a drunk guy who had passed out on a subway bench in the middle of the day and she laughed and we both had to change the subway line so we kept on talking for the whole trip. Before my stop I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me. We chatted a bit later and we are going out next week. I do what Coach Corey Wayne suggests in his book: just check her interest level. I just throw a situational comment every time I see a hot woman and see if she bites. If she doesn't show interest like the girl in the subway then I just let her go. This is incredible powerful technique because I don't feel like I get rejected and I can do this all day. I do use Tinder also but it is nowhere near as good as cold approaching. In Tinder I get rejected by girls who are not as hot as the girls I meet when I cold approach. I feel like in Tinder girls get too much validation and you can't standout.

Another thing is that I used to get friendzoned a lot. Now I always try to escalate and I end up making out on a date if I want to. I used to be unsure about myself but now I have self-confidence. I think that if she goes out with me then she wants to make out with me. She is hoping things lead to making out and having sex. I just have to be cool and build comfort, escalate and not fuck it up. I have a totally new mindset too. I know I am a prize and valuable and I loose interest if women play games with me. I used to think that I was not good enough and that I had to be more than myself to attract women. This made me play games instead of being honest.

I used to have no dating life and just hopeless crushes. My calendar would be empty and I would try to figure out something to do in the weekend. Now I have a calendar full of dates (I have 3 dates this week and 5 girls I am dating right now and several more I am talking to but have not asked out yet). It is incredible now good this feels now. I do want a serious relationship though and I am sure one of the girls I date will be someone perfect for me.