How to take things forward?

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-29T03:10:23+00:00

I don't like kissing in cars so I'd go to a cool spot, say I want to show you something, get out of the car then grab her and kiss her when she's thinking "I wonder what he wants to show me?"

SnooShortcuts8381 · 2022-05-29T05:51:14+00:00

Listen, don't pussy out this time. Your 'thing' with her is on life support as it is.

greatlifeahead · 2022-05-29T08:46:14+00:00

Look her in the eyes and then her lips and see her reaction. If she looks you back and holds eye contact then go for the kiss. If she doesn't want to kiss she will not look you back. Also you can touch her face with your hand. If she lets you touch you can kiss.

You can also lightly touch her hand and look for her reaction.

Current-Weather-9561 · 2022-05-29T09:15:23+00:00

Im surprised that she’s stuck around this long without you kissing her or making some type of sexual move.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-29T13:04:15+00:00

The problem is that you have to sexualize and you are doing it.

Sexualising a conversation refers to making the conversation vibe go from a platonic energy into a sexual energy. The goal of sexualising is to create sexual tension with the girl.

Sexual tension is an emotional state that women experience when they are attracted to a guy.

Sexual tension in the point of view of a guy for example would be when a hot girl starts touching your thigh dangerously close to your private parts, and tells you that you are kinda cute while she bites her lips suggestively and looks into your mouth.

She would not be touching your balls, but the fact that she says you are cute like that, combined with the suggestive gestures and the dangerous touch in your thigh, you would probably get a boner cuz she is creating sexual tension by sexualising, which is turning you on.

That’s what’s sexual tension feels like, and her highly suggestive behaviour is what sexualising is, which is expressing your desire for her both with body language gestures, touch and words.

Now this requires skills and social intelligence, because doing this with a girl at the wrong time or in the moment can make things too uncomfortable.

You first need to create comfort with the girl,she needs to feel comfortable around you.

Then you need to qualify her, qualifying her means that you show her that you are seeing positive traits in her that justify your interest in her other than just her looks. Doing this sets you apart and makes sexualising far easier because she will feel good enough to let you do it.

Then comes sexual flirting or sexualisation, that is talking and behaving like a guy who wants to turn her on and is turn on by her, so you start telling her things like:

You are the kind of girl i would invite over to watch a movie, and not watch the movie
“That smile of yours is so cute is making me crazy girl”
“Can you repeat that again? I was distracted with your eyes 😏”

You say things like this while also, using gestures such as the ones I mentioned above with the hot woman, like:

“biting your lips suggestively”
“looking into her eyes, and mouth while you bite your lips, as if hinting that you want to kiss her”
“Caressing the pm of her hands, her fingers, her fore arms and her wrists, while you look into her eyes with smile”

This all requires you to do it smoothly, and it’s easier said than done if you don’t have experience doing it.

Like i said: Doing it wrong and anti-smooth can backfire at any moment. But to learn you just gotta practice with different girls until you get good at it.

Doing this stuff makes the girl feel the sexual tension without having to talk about sex positions.

The correct order would be: Talking about batman, to getting into personal territory personal topics of conversation, to qualifying the girl so she feels wanted for who she is, to flirting sexually so there is sexual tension, to kissing her…

Note that i’m not saying you need to talk about sex, that’s not what i’m referring to. Talking about sex doesn’t necessarily create sexual tension, in fact girls talk about sex with their female friends or male gay friends all the time and they don’t feel that sexual tension at all while doing it because the vibe is still platonic between them even if they talk about sex. So don’t talk about sex.

Title	How to take things forward?
Author	Glittering-Board9067
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	May 28, 2022 9:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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