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Not just you. I'm an ESFJ and I struggle to befriend women in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:18 AM
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Another thing I just LOVE is how they alternate between the narrative of "men dont care about your career, hobbies, education" then try to accuse women of choosing hobbies and making career choices for male approval/attention lmao. Pick a narrative and fucking stick with it. Those two are not mutually compatible. I *always* get asked about my hobbies if I'm seeing a dude, and always they seem to get annoyed when I know nothing about their hobbies/list my very feminine hobbies. Never understood w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:17 AM
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seconded! Reading through TRP and PPD triggers me so much as I'm extremely sensitive :( Last time I tried to read those places to gain "facts" I became extremely upset and had to stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:02 AM
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I went from anxious to fearful/avoidant depending on the day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:34 PM
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Catcher in the rye is actually my favorite book, though, mostly because I'm a huge sucker for "coming of age" stories. I liked how the main character was relatable, yet the author allowed us to see a lot of his flaws, irrationality, and hypocrisy pretty easily. It actually made me question myself even more if anything. The ending was also great imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:31 PM
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simply put: women are letting them get away with it. Otherwise this wouldn't have happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:18 PM
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Initially I was thinking of mentioning “in the healthcare field” rather than “in medical school” when I start dating again, but now I’m thinking to hell with that. Let them be intimidated, it’ll weed them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:27 PM
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I gave these guys one chance too many... good for you and thanks for showing us this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 02:23 PM
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Not gonna lie, his username is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:13 PM
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Is this satire or a 13-year-old boy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:34 PM
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I agree, you can be perfectly healthy minded and follow a therapist. But the fact that she goes to therapy in the first place means that she thinks otherwise! As if she’s a ticking time bomb. Which is a bit of a red flag for someone trying to convince that kink involves no prior trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:26 PM
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They do. And they probably sent it to other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:19 PM
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When I was young, depressed, and stupid, I had some with my face in it. As I rise up in my career, the shadow of fear that it’ll come back to bite me in the ass is growing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:14 PM
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I remember that article. It was really well written. Explains why the more I lose weight and engage in healthy behaviors, the less desire I have for men. I mean it’s damned if you do, damned if you don’t with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:03 PM
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And then they dump you for a “new model” even if you’ve given up years of your life to support his career! At that point, a woman had given up prime reproductive or career years, and is screwed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:51 PM
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And I don’t understand why enough women aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:46 PM
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Correct!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:42 PM
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What sorts of constructive things do you do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:41 PM
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Not a bad idea. And if you do date, just think “would I have sex with this guy and risk a pregnancy?” And you’ll weed out LVM like mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:40 PM
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I have no history of abuse, and this lady likes to be choked a bit. Also I go to therapy, and I have no hidden traumas Why do you go to a therapist if you think there’s nothing wrong with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:34 PM
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Yeah, what a smart 6-month old!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:24 AM
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Why did i used to give these guys chances in the past? I was never really all that attracted to them either lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:19 AM
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very good point in the end. The pool of women available for other women to date is much smaller than men for gay/bi men, the nature of the game unfortunately... however, i suspect that as time goes on, and the number of eligible bachelors dwindles further AND society is more open to LGBTQ couples, things might change, particularly for white collar woman wanting a companion who fits their lifestyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:17 AM
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Note that your dating pool is SIGNIFICANTLY smaller. If you had as many women to date as straight men, maybe you’d be chiming different bells. Also, I believe that women are slowly opening up to the idea of dating other women, but most ladies are still scared of what their parents/community will think so they end up being terrible dating partners for other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:28 AM
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I refuse to date a STEM lord. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:09 PM
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for Guys: “Women aren’t worth it. Fuck bitches and get $$” For gals: “Give that guy a chance. Women can’t live alone”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:20 PM
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I showed this picture to my brother and he just sheepishly shrugged. Says a lot. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:04 PM
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On the flip side, we gotta watch out for “love-bombing.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:02 PM
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OP, YTA. You failed to communicate, you care too much about the opinions of strangers, and frankly sound stuck up. And another: She should talk to him but damn if the guy's comfortable let him be. Yet, if a male redditor complains of loss of physical attraction to his gf due to style, or weight gain, etc, he is encouraged to dump her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:30 PM
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Probably watched “trap” hentai lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:22 PM
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Men without siblings are the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:20 PM
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Honestly my friends give me a lot of shit for it Why do they do this to us?? My friends tell me I’m “such a savage” to the guys who I’m not interested in but pursue me relentlessly, and I’m like “what? You’d rather I lead him on? I’m not savage; just honest that he should look elsewhere”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:34 PM
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This made me realize something crazy! You know how the bulk of fandoms and “shippers” are oftentimes women and girls? And male fanbases is get annoyed “why you girls gotta ship everyone together?” Well I realize it’s because the most popular shows/movies/whatever are created by men for men with lame ass female characters. The best way for ladies to get connected to their favorite male character in the shows is my shipping him with another female character (or with a male character lol). On the o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:06 PM
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Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:30 PM
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I think it’s because women form more intimate friendships with each other, so we are more likely to be cliquey. Whereas guys are okay with playing Xbox games with any dude in the universe. My brother in fact told me he’s jealous that I can talk about really deep topics with my pals, while he “can’t” with his friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:22 PM
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For real! The school that I’m starting apparently has a knitting club, and I am SO stoked to join it 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:48 PM
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Don’t drop the soap! Don’t drop the soap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:00 PM
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Hell, to them it doesn’t even matter if you weren’t originally a biological woman lmao. As long as you look attractive after all the changes, you’re good to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:53 PM
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I’ve considered it. However, I care way too much for my family’s public image and community for my own good. It wouldn’t look good for my parents if I was still single. I also am very community oriented, and unfortunately the best way to make and keep friends is to have a man. My girlfriends bring their men everywhere they go, and it’d be convenient to have a guy in my life to keep those guys company so I get my friends to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:19 PM
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Lmao. That’s how these “intellectual” fuckbois are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:11 PM
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Give a “meh” dude a chance, and watch him literally trip over himself trying to get to you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:48 PM
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Haha I used to feel that way too! Now I’m just focusing on myself and trying to develop friendships :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:56 PM
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Reddit surprises me sometimes. I still enter with low expectations though 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:56 AM
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That’s not love at all, that’s lust!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:36 PM
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And they’re desperate pick-mes... I used to “laugh” at this type of guy 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:12 PM
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They have Testosterone. They should be driven to take risks for the sake of a woman they’re interested in. If not, then “He’s just not that into you” or low-T weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:05 PM
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so why would anyone get into a relationship with that type of man? What’s the point? All you do is feed the guy, have sex, and then leave him alone. What does she get out of it/her motivation to keep doing that when there’s no real bond or connection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:54 PM
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Happened in “That 70s Show” when one of the main characters’ mom left out of no where, and then she literally jumps her ex-fb to use sex to cope. I was like wtf i don’t know how many women and girls actually do that when they’re really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:20 PM
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It’s not normal. It’s the way women deal with trauma and anger, and cope with our lack of power in this world. Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:14 PM
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it’s cuz women see other women doing it so they don’t want to be the last one standing. Otherwise they lose their social circle and community. Funny because if you’re married to a terrible mood, life takes over and that basically happens anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:47 PM
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Or start talking about Other hot men around him lol. See how he reacts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:45 PM
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Usually the pornsickness comes from trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:39 PM
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They want a girl smart enough that she can admire his intelligence and skills, but not actually more talented than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:36 PM
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Gotcha. Still shouldn’t prevent you from doing at-home exercises to keep in shape. Or cardio where you can stay in place such as jump-rope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:09 AM
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Good god. If/when this thing is over, I refuse to date anyone for at least two months for my safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:24 AM
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Home exercises from YouTube without weights! I’ve been doing those. And running on my treadmill, but the quarantine shouldn’t prevent running outside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:37 AM
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Interesting. So you've never had crushes without their input first? I actually can have strong attraction/lust for a person without them showing romantic interest in me. I also look at women a lot too, but still not as attracted to them overall. I wonder if it's a libido thing? Mine I've always suspected might be on the higher side...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:57 PM
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As a giver, I feel personally attacked by this post lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:44 PM
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Probably both. Brainwashed pick-mes can be pretty terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:31 PM
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Idk internet addicted gamer dudes don't seem happy lmao. It's said that gaming is "helpful" for stress management when you're actually playing with your friends and it's more recommended to engage in social physical activity like a sport. I'm betting these guys don't have any friends irl to game with, nor can they go up more than two flights of stairs without running out of breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:56 PM
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While I'm happy for you, not gonna lie I'd be a little weirded out if a guy my age or older used the word "queen" unironically lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:49 PM
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Agreed. Much of this place really affected my mental health. Taking breaks and doing things I enjoy in pure solitude brings back my grace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:38 PM
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My issue is that I have a naturally "flirty" personality even if I have 0 sexual interest in the person. :O Luckily I work with mostly gay men, but definitely need to keep that on the lid when around straight guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:34 PM
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Whether it's true or not isn't the issue. It's the comments claiming that women have no right to snoop even if they feel something is off, or should be okay with their husband's porn addiction/getting nudes from randos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:18 PM
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Or have fun on the side. Nowadays, with porn and sidechicks, what's keeping women loyal? I'm pretty sure ladies can easily find guys 10x hotter than their hubs to screw in one second. And I mean... he doesn't have to know. Cuz, y'know, we are morally obligated to "not snoop into his phone" as well under the stupid guise of "trust."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:26 PM
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traditionally masculine men Lol shots fired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:36 PM
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Do we have the same dad or something? The worst is when they flip out at someone in public. I just felt like melting to the floor when that happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:23 PM
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True, OP could be Indian Catholic as she mentioned the religions and not the ethnicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:04 PM
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Goodness... I miss the 90s and early 2000s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:47 PM
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Isn't it possible that... he wants to marry the new girl and not his gf? Maybe he wants the new indian wife to be his bangmaid at home while, on the side, he continues to sleep with the "gf?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:30 PM
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(just an important note : feminism ≠ liberal feminism) Exactly. I know guys who claimed to hate feminism, but then on further inquiry it's just the lib-fem BS they can't stand. They oftentimes agree with a lot of my FDS talking points. Someone who actively hates FDS is a POS though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:37 PM
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I'm like that too. The way I see it, I only give to people I think "deserve it." I imagine myself in a relationship where I'm working my ass off for a guy who doesn't appreciate me at all and takes advantage. Since I am horrified by that thought, I've raised my standards tremendously to make sure that someone truly deserves me. Also, as others have said, put your love into something other than men, i.e. a pet, plants, your work, art, the homeless, family, friends, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:30 PM
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The problem, imo, is that women fall for "exclusive" FWBs. Dating multiple guys at once solves lots of issues. This gal is giving OP way too much attention during the week, leading him to think that he's her one and only. Watch the LV-FWB scramble to give you more than benefits and/or flip out at you when they find out that there's competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:21 PM
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The more I take care of myself and my body, the more I am disgusted by men. Wonder how that happened...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:31 PM
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Yup. Like black guys chasing hispanic women, as the OP discussed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:18 AM
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Agreed. Just like how HVW are beginning to scorn pick-mes. Thank goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:03 AM
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I think lots of women who post on those places are trying to go into modeling. Which is why they ask for other people's insight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:57 AM
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Yes I meant her portrayal obviously I have NO clue who she sleeps with lol. I'm just saying men like him claim to want apparent chastity but chase after women who don't act that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:35 AM
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But also some guys are genuinely "boring" i.e. there's little emotional or intellectual connection between the two of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:43 PM
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Oh yeah didn't mean those guys. Especially under the age of ~30, most men and women are like that, myself included. The issue is as one gets older and your friends are getting married/having kids and aren't as available for you to spend time with...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:03 PM
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I don't really know any guys I would call HVM who aren't in a relationship (and I'm not talking about marriage necessarily)... I don't know how hobbies and the like can replace genuine social connection with a loved one. Men who are single and aren't engaging in destructive behaviors always seemed somewhat empty to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:55 PM
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I actually see a lot of overlaps. I think people want to be able to be liked for who they are, be around people they can trust, be intimate but not necessarily in a sexual way, etc. It's obviously difficult to get this at work where you put on a "mask" or with family once you've moved out, and it can be tough at one point to find girlfriends who aren't already weathered down by husbands or children to find time to spend with you. Thus we try to establish this with a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:48 PM
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I would say psychoanalyst yourself... determine why you want that so much, what's the root. For me, it's because I realized I have so much passion and love to give to others and naturally it makes sense to give it to a man. I also like being appreciated... so I decided to dedicate my life to helping others without expecting much in return so that I can give myself the appreciation. It's odd but it's been working. I work a job in healthcare where I'm always considering others needs and so I come …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:28 PM
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Men who choose to stay single because they have high standards, they don't really think about loneliness in the same sense as women do. I work in a clinic where majority of our patients are middle aged and above lonely men... This ain't true. Their loneliness just causes many of them to engage in destructive behaviors, e.g drugs and alcohol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:23 PM
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Well, umans are social creatures bioligically. Depending on someone for your happiness is different than wanting the occasional human connection which is what Op Is talking about. Also some people are more extroverted than others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:20 PM
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That's when you don't obey the "no teeth" rule
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:13 PM
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And risk the guy getying violent? She should first have protection in her purse at hand, and I don't mean the sexual kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:11 PM
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To me, unattractiveness, i.e. not taking care of your face and body, matters more than bone structure things like how large your nose is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:45 PM
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That's the type of gal these guys chase after... and she's the opposite of chaste 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:01 PM
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Because if they did, then female dating strategy would become "transwomen dating strategy and ignore everyone else."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:37 PM
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Along with what you wrote, I'd also be all for it if most women were actually guaranteed orgasms or a good time and not entirely devalued by Mr. 20-second pump-and-dump without any foreplay. Or if men didn't demand women comply with unsafe sex practices. Or if there wasn't a threat of rape and violence if things didn't go the woman's way during the encounter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:06 PM
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I work at an LGBTQ clinic... lots of gay men don't care either. It's a biological thing for men it seems lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:31 PM
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It still boggles my mind why they want the gf/wife to stick around if they hate her so much lol. Idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:54 PM
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<--- This gal went to college to get a husband. Ended up finding an amazing career that I am excited for. 🙇🏻‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:28 PM
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Honestly stranger drunk girls in bathrooms are my favorite group of people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:35 AM
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Another is to call him out for his immature behavior. Tell him what he said was rude and it was completely unnecessary. But say it in a dead-panned way, like it did not effect you personally but you are surprised by how a grown man could act like that, and you're concerned by his behavior towards other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:58 PM
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Because it does unfortunately. I had a guy neg me at a school dance waayyyyy back in the day, and I became desperate to sleep with him afterwards just so he'd take it back/compliment me. And he was ugly af lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:54 PM
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Why not just go MGTOW, stick with the porn, and leave us alone?? I mean they don't want to have sex with "real" women anyways, so I don't understand the big deal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:13 AM
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Yeah they make sex sooo un-fun. They take the stuff too seriously, like it's a competition or some shit instead of go with the flow. Yet we are the "uptight" ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:34 AM
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The list depicts women who get male attention wayyyy more than pick-meishas/RPW and it hurts them so much to hear that. Case in point: he wrote an entire post about the women he supposedly hates rather than give a lonely pick-meisha attention lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:45 PM
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The guy's avi is a cartoon fat, neckbeardy uggo too lol. I'm gonna guess that's actually him... It's people like him who are mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:12 PM
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Former Chads who peaked in highschool are pathetic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:22 PM
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The years I was following RPW, some dudebro on that place made this same duggestion...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:17 PM
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Also her ex... Lyndall, who is now a 36-years old, a dad to his 2-year old son, cheated on Beyoncé two times during their relationship. He says he is not bitter at all and accepts that Beyoncé outgrew him. How tf did she keep choosing ugly dudes who would cheat on her???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:11 PM
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Yep lol. Maybe it's better for her. She can keep finding new people to leach off of emotionally (she has BPD... we are "friends" but more so I stick around cuz I feel bad for her than anything else).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:06 PM
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Aww now I feel bad for her. Poor pick-me is going down a dark path with this current bf :( My friend who also attempted suicide over previous break-ups is now poly because of her current main guy. She keeps lecturing me about how it's soooo much better. Shit's gonna hit the fan soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 07:35 PM
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I resonated with your post completely! Maybe you're similar to me. Doing things for myself by myself makes me feel empty inside... unless I feel like I deserve it, and am grateful for the opportunity to be by myself. What I realized is that I feel truly good when I instead do things for others, i.e. volunteering, being service oriented, etc. By doing things for others, I obsess over finding opportunities to "treat myself" in return so I don't become resentful or go crazy. Like, getting to the po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:52 AM
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You don't need to. If a guy really wants you, he will pursue you with the intent to settle with you 5ever. Contrary to popular belief, men, if they *really* like a woman, cannot handle a casual relationship AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:02 PM
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I think it's because men are praised for picking up multiple women, so they are opportunists. Whereas, for women, there's so much "economic" (i.e. our ability to enjoy the exchange, and our reputation) and safety risks involved that we want a connection of trust established first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:02 PM
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Women who act like they wanna go back to The Olden Days when "women were women" and "men were allowed to be men" (lol) are the worst. They don't though. They want other women to act that way, while they live a rather HVW lifestyle and get the kudos from men for speaking on their behalf. See: Lauren Southern and Anne Coulter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:23 PM
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"Boyfriend's parents" "In laws" Choose one bbg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:17 PM
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Idk man. Maybe you're right, but I'm not sure if their motives are always innocent. I've had some gay and bi friends try to convince me to date women instead of men, and also in the process act really creepy towards me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:34 PM
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I live in a liberal hub, and it sucks here lol. I actually theorize a somewhat more conservative city (but a place not TOO conservative that you'll be harassed nonstop for your color) might be better. I've noticed that liberal guys of all races try to spend time around WOC to seem moral and open minded, but not necessarily are they interested in marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:48 PM
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He was dumped over text so it was a different situation than yours. I also don't really remember too much of the conversation as it was 2 years ago :/ all I remember is arguing, and him eventually getting me to feel bad and apologize (???), and we just sorta ended it there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:51 AM
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Not gonna lie, I experience some glee that former "Chads" (i.e. physically attractive LVM) now have to deal with getting no interest from young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:33 PM
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He was also charismatic. And it's possible Eva Braun was rather ignorant to the atrocities commited or didn't care herself because of her privileged lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:53 PM
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Same here! I dumped a guy after 3 months for the same reason and he pulled the whole "I don't understand why you feel we weren't connecting" bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:39 PM
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My gut says that he's lying about the 6s and 7s lol. He's literally just asking how he can get hot girls while being broke and ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:35 PM
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Same reason my abusive parents think that I'm the problem in our terrible relationship...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:13 PM
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Going along with that, I don't really know why women want to take beauty, fashion, and makeup advice from gay men... It's the reason why so many current make-up trends are along the lines of drag-makeup, and it ain't flattering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:02 PM
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I loved him and only wanted him. I don't mean to demean your experience but... this seems more like Stockholm Syndrome than true love to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:59 PM
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I kinda agree with u/kandiirene. I don't think OP is being emotionally unavailable, but I suspect that when she's with a guy she wants, she becomes too available. And that can be a turn off for anyone. When a woman places boundaries without fear of the guy leaving (or mentally prepared for the guy to leave), she is more attractive in their eyes as she's a "catch" who knows her worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:54 PM
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Scorpios are into deep commitment, so those guys are dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:44 PM
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Black guys are just more honest than other men. Most guys think like this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 09:55 PM
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Minimalism still is an aesthetic and is carefully cultivated. This photo, on the other hand, depicts brokenlazy pretty well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 09:42 PM
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Tbh I decorate for myself and for others. It's amazing how much your surrounding can impact your mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 09:41 PM
16

Yeah. I hate this "if he's a good guy, then you should give love a chance! Forget about what he looks like" nonsense. Love and sexual attraction aren't necessarily the same thing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:29 PM
2

She might be a prostitute/cam girl, and he's the pimp... maybe he helps her sell nudes/videos on reddit. Definitely seems dead to the world in one of the pictures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:51 AM
2

I creeped on the profile. There's one picture of his body next to hers, and he's wayyyy fatter. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:47 AM
4

​ Face hidden? Clearly this uggo has a pick-meisha wife/gf at home he's cheating on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:35 PM
1

Honestly, Steve Harrington and Sheriff Hopper from Stranger Things are good role models for boys imo. They started off pretty LVM-like and thus "relatable," but then eventually became some of the best characters on that show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:26 PM
9

I also hate how they say that we have to show non-binary folks "respect" (i.e. act like a complete doormat around) even if they act like complete twats. Like, I have every right to dislike someone no matter what their gender identity is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:36 PM
6

The only issue I have with this is that it gives the idea that lesbians exist because they "couldn't find a man" and not because they are sexually attracted to women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:32 PM
3

Seriously. I keep reminding myself that reddit is being taken over by those below the age of 16, and imagine some stick-thin baby-faced squirt writing these nonsense posts about "getting a man" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:10 PM
5

This seems like the opposite extreme of what lots of women on here experience. On one hand is the uncaring, emotionally unavailable types and the other is ya boi you're mentioning. I've dealt with both in my love life and I definitely prefer being single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:03 PM
26

Ugh. I fucking hate frat boys. I feel your pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:00 PM
19

Technically, that's probably why lots of these guys want an "exclusive FWB" as opposed to a relationship or a fuck-buddy situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:42 PM
2

"Us gay men" ??? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:03 AM
3

I'm gonna add to this a bit... I also think the issue is the availability of porn. Lots of current LVM can't really get casual sex that easily... in the past, they had to court a woman and provide for her. Today, they can see their dream girl on screen, or pay tons of money to their favorite cam girl, and don't have to go through the difficult process of actually dating. Less competition from porn addicts means the average or above average guy can forever girlfriend as many desperate ladies as h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:57 AM
3

Actually... There was a girl who was shamed for wanting her bf, with a micro-peen, to use a strap on or something. It was a post on here at some point 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:31 AM
1

Dying it a normal color, i.e. gray or brown or whatever, is different than dying it orange or blue or anything "startling" as I clearly stated. The first is overlooked by most people, the second isn't. Also, aesthetically pleasing or cool looking makeup is different than anything edgy or startling. Edit: and I went after the look, not her womanhood. Men who do the same thing also give off a similar vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:35 PM
3

I mean, it's kinda difficult to say that anything unusual or startling i.e. getting strange piercings, tattoos, dying your hair orange or blue, and acting "edgy" isn't attention seeking on some level...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:26 PM
24

And they're always pretty but not Stacy-tier, so they gotta resort to this nonsense to get breadcums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:22 PM
38

This terrifies me because I'm in a field which is slowly becoming female dominated. Guaranteed our salaries will begin to drop soon 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:18 PM
13

It also makes you think whether most gay guys are, well, 100% gay. There was a thread were a bunch of women said hat they were frequently groped by their gay male friends, who would tell them that it's okay because it's "platonic" or some shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:13 PM
15

Men aren't "gay", they're just... Not attracted to vaginas. They're attracted to power differentials and anything resembling a butt. It's why they like breasts so much- resembles a butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:10 PM
5

Honestly, I'd love to just live in separate housing units if I ever get married 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:42 AM
13

I would have agreed with you initially... however, after FDS, i think my idea of a HVW has changed tbh. I personally see wisdom as HV. Someone who has a good head on their shoulders, is street smart, and knows how to get what she wants in her life without letting people take advantage of her. Maybe I've seen way too many pretty, intelligent, good career, and splendid hobby types relentless defend their LVM's behavior that it's altered my view...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:36 AM
8

LOL seriously. The irony is that my love for a clean house makes my desire to live with a man diminish significantly. He'll just constantly mess up my hard work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:33 AM
3

I actually like cleaning the house though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:18 AM
2

And yet those are the gals who get pumped and dumped, while the princesses get a trail of men after them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:18 AM
4

I'll be blunt... that's not a HVW to me. Someone who understands the male psyche is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:07 AM
6

Oh trust me, I would not recommend my field for most people, but I chose it because it suits me very well. I'm starting medical school in the summer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:28 AM
13

This is why I am pursuing a career where I will love what I do most of the days if I have to work so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:29 PM
2

Because they seek of their existence validation from women while women are slowly learning to love themselves so we can authentically love others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:25 PM
6

Scorpios are supposed to be commitment oriented "all or nothing" types, so it's strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:19 PM
13

Yep... I've seen gorgeous who were pick-mes lol. I couldn't help but think that if they hated themselves so much, what did they think of the less attractive gals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:15 PM
28

Don't be a pick-me-ish for male OR female friends. I've had so many girlfriends who were completely unreliable or took advantage of me, and I constantly went out of my way for them. I learned that my passive nature attracts narcissists like mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:13 PM
5

What's funny is they're secretly more interested in sleeping with "bitches" than the trashy gals or pick-me orbiters lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:10 PM
7

Also mental illness. One charismatic, mentally ill scrote can easily indoctrinate thousands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:00 PM
5

Had this issue. He doesn't want to make the first move maybe to potentially blow his chances, or simply to keep you on his radar if something magical happens. While these guys are opportunists, social media has made them extremely lazy and insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:50 PM
3

Beautifully written! Thank you. To me, HVW has qualities which cannot be degraded by time, as you've listed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 03:45 PM
23

I'm sorry... but it's a well known fact that women who put down other women for "being too dramatic" may be drama queens themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:26 PM
3

Huh. So it's not just the Iranian women I know who have ridiculously posh style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:33 AM
10

I learned something interesting today: You know the signs for "woman" and "man?" The circle and then the two lines? Venus and mars? Well apparently, the sign for "woman" is actually a mirror, while the sign for "man" is a bow and arrow. Reflect on that symbolism for a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:18 AM
23

White men suck, yes, but men of color are really not better. I mean they created r/justbewhite 🤢 they have the same terrible attitude as white guys. They are also huge hypocrites- cry racism when it suits them, but then treat WOC poorly and chase after lighter skinned women crazily. However, I'm just more physically, spiritually, and emotionally attracted to men of my race which is where the preference comes into play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:32 AM
8

Dude apparently has a model girlfriend, but still is concerned about the dating habits of random women online who he can't even see, and took the time to passionately write a freaking novel. He also isn't worried about his plan going terribly wrong, and some "red-pilled" white Chad stealing his girl lol. What a mess. He makes my head hurt. 😯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:01 AM
10

Or at least he talks about his own pleasure thinking you'd be interested in that. What poor understanding of economic systems lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:51 AM
11

Is this the same guy as the one from your previous post? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:35 AM
53

Honestly, overall I pity pick-meishas but... after watching them bully rad-fems over the years, I can't help but feel somewhat smug when life slaps them in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:10 AM
62

Eww he groomed her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:07 AM
13

I'll be honest, I'm not the best texter myself, and not necessarily is it because of my level of interest. But this was like... sends a snap every two days of his dog (and it was a "red" snap, so this could've been sent to anyone on his contacts), and most of the time ignores me whenever I tries to start a conversation. Very rarely would he start a conversation with me first, and of course those were the most exciting times of my week lmfao. But then he would stop the conversation after a little…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:22 PM
9

I really don't care what the guys think tbh, but it hurts when my friends are on their side. They all have some pick-me opinions. Thankfully, I'm slowly cutting toxic people out of my life before I start a new chapter at grad school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:21 PM
9

Honestly I assume all guys are attracted to me, and act accordingly. See.. I do the same because, y'know, guys constantly complain about the friendzone. So, whenever a guy- a boyfriend or not- is tagging along with one of my female friends, I act cordial. I don't flirt or give them more attention than I do for the girlfriends- the people who I actually choose to hang out with and let into my life. I never asked for the guys to tag along in the first place...I don't care about them. However, I co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:34 PM
5

It IS a problem because of the opportunity cost. You could've been focusing on bettering your career, engaging in new hobbies, forming strong friendships with women... instead you are playing "Build a Bear" workshop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:28 PM
6

JFC. I was reading your previous posts for a bit, and it made me realize how abusive my parents were to me. No wonder I end up with girlfriends and guys who treat me like shit; I assumed all relationships were like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:21 PM
12

It's because the online girl is a fantasy. Her personality exists to please men; she has no other identity. So they can project whatever they want onto her... unlike with "real" women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:57 PM
4

Yet they still harass me online and irl. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:52 PM
18

SAME. I had a guy I was texting pretend he didn't want to date me- just wanting to "make some friends," and of course I ignored any red flags indicating he was clearly lying to me. I told him I was at the stage of my life where I could not take the time out of my schedule to meet with someone/have any obligations towards them (I was studying for the MCAT, working 40 hours, and applying to med school ffs!). He initially said he was cool with that and wasn't looking to date me... However, he kept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:46 PM
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His "crazy hours" amazingly don't seem to interfere in his 7-9pm Tinder swiping session that he is never late for. Stop bending over backwards for "workaholics". Brilliant, thanks for this post! I was, previously, frequently guilt-tripped by a guy after I told him I was upset that he did not text me enough to build a connection. He kept saying how I "knew" that he was busy in school and should "know" better than to ask him to text me more... after 1 month of indecisiveness, I finally decided to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:20 PM
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lol most of us here already knew this though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:27 AM
5

Dating and job interviews are frighteningly similar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:52 PM
0

Both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:41 AM
3

It's another way of saying "White women are bigger pick-meishas than indian women" I mean makes sense, right? We are probably the luckiest ethnic group in terms of dating as our family and community is constantly breathing down our backs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:53 AM
1

I'm starting med school next year, and THIS is why OB/GYN is currently my top choice of specialty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:39 AM
3

That's possible. Indian American guys nowadays seem to prefer white/asian girls for a serious relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:27 AM
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Because that's the point. Attractive women give them the chance in the hope of having a good guy to date, so this inflates the idea of their own attractiveness. They think they're good enough to screw casually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:23 AM
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Honestly, I met a woman recently who told me that she loves coparenting with her ex, but not being with him. I wonder if this'll be the new normal... especially if the guy gets remarried, and his new woman helps you take care of the kids. It's like a weird form of a harem, but it somehow seems to work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:04 AM
1

Exactly why women should never get upset when a guy doesnt want us and instead gives another gal attention. He's her problem now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 11:18 PM
1

Probably why since my youth I've always adored Veronica and hated Betty. Riverdale made Veronica pathetic though :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 09:47 PM
2

And now our salaries will drop off as the female to male ratio grows 😑 ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 09:09 PM
1

I loved Rachel but Chandler was my favorite! Which is why MP's demise really saddens me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:16 PM
3

Which is why it's weird that he's hunting for women outside of classmates or coworkers. I dated a nurse for a bit and he was a serious creep. I realized why he struggled to find a date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:10 PM
2

Lol she dreadgamed him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:08 PM
1

its possible that the "dream girl" makes him have monogamous tendencies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:35 AM
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he might be seeing another girl This reason is still weird. What man wouldn't take the opportunity to be with multiple women? The broke or taken-but-looking-for-online attention makes more sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:27 AM
3

either girls really want to be your friend or they hate you Out of curiosity... did you notice any interesting differences between these two types of women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:58 AM
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That’s how the world works. It’s unfortunate for some and a benefit for others I guess I understand that and can accept it. However, seeing more beautiful women still does make me resentful and jealous even if I don't want to feel that way. How did you manage to get over those feelings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:56 AM
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Your self awareness makes you more HV than you think imo. People with aspergers can be challenging to communicate with at times, yes, but also some of the most considerate and kindest people I've met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:47 AM
8

Lol people are cool with a guy dumping a girl when she changes her hair color or gets a lol chubby. Hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:38 AM
8

The only men who are going to find a much younger woman like that, are men in their 40s who have really good jobs, high social status, the ones who made some effort to take care of themselves. Eh. Unless the guy was a millionaire, I doubt many 23 year olds would be into that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:35 AM
3

Fake profile by an incel I bet ​ lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:02 AM
2

Yeah but like... I'm just a normal looking indian-american gal who notices wide-eyed stares from FOBs in particular wherever I go. This is despite the fact that there are also a decent number of veryyy beautiful white and Asian girls here too. I get this behavior in India where things are heavily segregated, but like... I still don't get why they'd stare at me here in the States lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:30 AM
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Quite frankly, as someone American born with immigrant parents, I still cannot quite understand why I get pursued by FOBs. We have very little in common culturally, and I only speak English fluently. There's no way in hell id be a good lil indian waifu for them. I walk anywhete and its always FOB men who stare at me so openly like they've never seen a woman before. It's so odd. It's not like they're back home in India where the sexes are heavily segregated. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:33 PM
8

I no longer look for chemistry or physical appeal. That loses its appeal after the honey moon phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:59 PM
5

Unlike TRP, we don't need 500 other "field reports" to believe what you wrote and that FDS works. The advice written on here are simply common sense. Too many women are giving LVM chances to help them think they can pull this BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:55 PM
5

True. I guess the only caveat is if you live in a city and didn't bring a car, you'll have to pretend to know a close-by parking place (he might ask you where you parked casually to see how long you'll take to come back). Or, avoid being in a group setting on a date which has happened to me before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:17 PM
5

When asked why women should bother marrying men still, male redditors often times site "protection." Protection from who??? We can't even get drunk around our husbands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 01:07 PM
2

What if he offers to walk you to your car though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 12:51 PM
3

My age didn't really start showing until I was like 32 and it's just some smile lines under my eyes. I had those since age 18 😭 im trying to apply retin-a there to see if it improves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:34 PM
6

The worst is when I have a seat and a guy is standing in front of me, and literally puts his junk in my face. I'm like wtf you doingggg. I always think it's an innocent mistake, but like I would never do that in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:31 PM
21

Can we have FDS for professional life? Maybe FES? ( E for employment)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:24 PM
41

Yeah... I showed some folks a pic of me when I was 19, and they say I haven't changed much at age 26. Some people age better than others due to genetics, lifestyle, etc. There's no concrete "wall"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:28 PM
6

Lol dude I dumped ~3 months ago recently posted on my Facebook feed to say happy birthday. I thanked all the other FB feed posts and ignored his 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:05 PM
6

Yeah those chicks are taken no later than age ~23 and will still taken lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:01 PM
2

That's... terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:35 PM
39

It's why they give a woman more attention when she's an outspoken feminist 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:31 PM
29

Same. I'm naturally a very bubbly person and I love being witty and charming. Now I gotta be the opposite in dating, and it makes me less interested in guys when I censor myself. Ah well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:29 PM
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I'd agree, but I definitely notice I put wayyy less effort into texting on a routine basis when I'm not really into the guy. When I am, I have to force myself not to text so much. I suspect it may be the same for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:16 PM
13

As a future doc, i know where ill avoid practicing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 03:40 PM
13

Id say it doesnt hurt to start a conversation with someone and flirt a bit, show openness as someone else said. But not really take things too seriously and keep the interaction brief. Its up to him to make the effort to take the relationship to the next step. If he doesnt, its time to move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:58 PM
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Eh. I agree but there are guys like that who are desperate and controlling. They're the "nice guys" who showed you with affection and pedestalize you, but then guilt trip you when you don't completely fit the fantasy they have of you. This happened to me with a guy. He put in effort in the conversation and I was enjoying the ride. Until he showed moments of being rather judgemental and lying about his feelings. Pretending he didn't care about certain things I did when it was obvious he did. It w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:54 PM
5

Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:42 PM
12

Why tf is pepper spray illegal??? Are you kidding me. I understand guns because i doubt many women use those, but how do they expect women to protect themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:33 PM
26

I'm starting medical school next year. I want this asshole to try me on my measly contribution to society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:36 PM
20

Yeah. I'm confused by how we "fucked up society" when things are much better in modern day than it was before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:34 PM
20

That sounds awesome. Honestly... I would ideally love to have that arrangement, but I'd prefer it be with a woman. I'm not a lesbian, but I have a lower than average libido anyways. I get along with women better than men, and think that being platonically partnered to a woman the rest of my life would be cool. Unfortunately it would make my rather conservatively minded parents freak out lol. Like they would think I was a lesbian and get all upset. Or anything that's not a traditional marriage si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:33 PM
5

I think the rest of the article is great, but I agree. I did cringe at that... It just seems very victim-blamey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:28 PM
3

Interesting. The complete opposite of Titanic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:36 PM
4

He's spending her money on these other women. And he could be giving her an STD. No-one cares about that because the male peepee takes importance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:29 PM
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Same. I'd like someone who I can occasionally visit and hang out with, especially if they lived near by. The idea of sharing my space with someone 24/7 worries me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:54 PM
15

Or his employer. I mean guys commit revenge porn, so why can't we do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:50 PM
1

Women can gaslight too. My mother for example -___-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:32 PM
1

I'm not a professional astrology by any means so I'm not the best person to ask. I just told you what I know. I listed some links in a previous post that might show you an astrologers response to the twin question. Like I said, I look at it for fun; not something I take that seriously lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:19 AM
1

Yeah I think they go by minutes. That's what the natal chart is based on. The day just gives you the sun sign, and year gives you the placement of all the planets in the various signs. But you don't learn about the placement of the houses or important info like the ascendant or midheaven
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:15 PM
1

No you wrote: They all go by days at the smallest unit. And I corrected you saying they go by minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:43 AM
3

Good post. I agree. I don't necessarily think women should write off marriage for the reasons you mentioned, but good men are tough to find. So in this current climate, is it so bad if a woman just shrugs and goes through life alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:26 AM
1

Imo I actually wouldn't mind the scenario of dating and never marrying or moving in together, ideally. I prefer having my own space, but occasional companionship is nice. (The problem is that my parents are gonna pressure me like maaaad to marry some chum 😂 ah well)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:19 AM
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But she's not wrong when she says HVM are far and few in between. For lots of women, marriage might not be worth it. And some people can work well with someone who has aspergers, but I guess not all of us are that patient. I certainly could not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:16 AM
1

Read self help books Do something mentally or physically stimulating. Take up a new hobby or challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:11 AM
4

I have depression, but it's my job to control it and make sure that I take care of myself. Not my partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:09 AM
5

You're awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:58 PM
29

Sexual frustration is a bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:53 PM
9

YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:50 PM
2

Saved your response because this is 150% it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:09 PM
5

I think everyone has a different way of dealing with anxiety in a relationship. For me, I've noticed that I never felt better talking to other guys because I would always fixate on one. I realized, instead, what helps me is to focus on self care and my other hobbies and limiting how often I interact with the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:06 PM
8

I usually start off avoidant, then become anxious attached when he starts playing hotncold games, then lose interest after a week or two and become fearful again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:59 PM
1

idk the original story seems kinda fake tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:50 PM
3

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:37 PM
1

Smallest unit is minutes you mean, right? I found this: https://www.quora.com/If-astrology-is-real-why-do-twins-have-different-personalities https://www.astro.com/faq/fq_gen_twins_e.htm As a skeptic, I leave it up to you to determine whether you are intrigued or want to write it off as BS. Anyways, astrology is more like a religion than anything else. Those fellas who associate it with being just a "woman" thing are short-sighted. Astrology was created by men and is still used by men. Why do (po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:02 PM
2

Well for twins, it depends on birth time too, and that can make a difference however large. Twins, I've noticed, have futures more closely connected with each other than not. Is it likely BS? Probably, but it's fun. I don't take it seriously but I find some interesting/relevant things to my life (could be self fulfilling bias but idk). It has made me a more spiritual person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:40 AM
5

I'm kinda into it because it's fun and I love the community. Also did help me learn a bit more about myself, whether true or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:28 AM
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You mean how do nurses/physicians do that or how I learned those tricks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 03:33 PM
94

Brilliant post. I learned these tricks naturally while working in healthcare. Nurses and physicians constantly have to be polite and agreeable but secretly observant and judgemental to be able to cover their ass and do their job properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 07:07 PM
16

You mean just like penore. Because we are talking about good appliances 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 07:05 PM
2

Girls aren’t shamed for crying I was my entire life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 06:54 PM
1

Is this true btw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 06:53 PM
6

You can communicate, but do they listen? No. Do they engage in active listening rather than bullying you into faking it every time just to help their ego? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 06:48 PM
42

And they mad that we expect them to pay for dinner. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:09 PM
19

Plus, the free dinner doesn't even cover a fourth of what we spend over the court of our lives on beauty products, treatment, etc, just to please his crusty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:05 PM
27

It's possible. I've met a socially retarded surgeon before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:59 PM
17

she make 1 dolla he make 8 dolla
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 09:25 PM
39

They're threatened that women might not want to fuck porn-addicts anymore lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:53 PM
2

Interesting. Good to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:50 PM
-7

If prostitution were legalized in order to decrease sex trafficking and also encourage safer practices, then maybe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 04:27 PM
23

Yeah probably. Which is why I think we need to be cautious and remember what this sub is about. Lib-fems are probably attracted to this sub for the "female empowerment vibes" and are now trying to infiltrate to turn it into something they prefer. Male lurkers will upvote them like crazy to give them visibility. This is dangerous, as actual new users will be swayed to become more pick-me like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 04:18 PM
28

Feminism isn't only about politics. It can be about idealogy, lifestyle, etc. Which is what this post is talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:50 PM
43

Why are you on this sub? I mean the auto-bot clearly states that "This sub does NOT support the commercial porn industry." I also bet most of your upvotes are from male lurkers and other pick-mes lol Edit: Also krizzzombies claims to "agree" with this sub, yet shows her internalized misogyny V clearly: lol, no one downvote-brigades shit like women on reddit do as a woman, it's my #1 Reddit pet peeve. it never has anything to do with the logic/merit of the post itself; if it vaguely implies a lad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:23 PM
2

Some guys will lie just to string you along though. Imo I'm not sure if the "what're you looking for" question really helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 05:25 AM
11

I dont think thats true. Women are the first ones to lower looks standards if it means meeting "good guy jim" who won't abuse her and the kids in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 05:22 AM
4

No clue if it's even possible. I think women, like Ruby, needed to give a stronger ultimatum instead of trying to set up couples therapy visits for him, etc. But maybe that wouldnt have worked. Even then, my father relies on me as well as my mother for emotional support and he laughs at the idea of seeking therapy. He's almost 70 years old, and is experiencing grumpy old man syndrome. I always tell him that if he continues to act so pathetic, I might not visit him anymore once I reach grad schoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:52 PM
1

Yep the insecurity about height is fucking annoying. I've had crushes on two guys shorter than me thus far. Just like some guys like small boobs, they gotta accept that some chicks like small dudes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:34 PM
6

It actually encourages women to be emotionally independent from their man. Meaning treat your man perfectly however do not ever demand he act in a way that can make you happier. "You can only control yourself and not him." True, but why should women go out of their way to put up with shitty behavior if he provides no benefit In return? What's the incentive to stay In a relationship? Crickets! In other words, RPW want women to become Mother Teresa to some lame chum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:47 AM
1

Honestly I used to be ashamed of not liking black men because I thought I was racist/shallow, but I realized it was cuz I felt like the black guys who approached me were treating me like a fetish. They're so fascinated by my race/ethnicity than by who I am, and it's fucking annoying. I certainly am cool with black guys who do not objectify women, but sadly those guys are rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:20 AM
2

Same here sis. It's not fun and I refuse to live like that. Especially since I'm going into healthcare; I need someone who can engage in a mutual relationship when I get home after a long day of considering other people's feelings and needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:05 AM
2

Some folks who post on r/trufemcels are here, but makes sense no? They'd rather learn from the best, i.e. women who are in successful and happy relationships and who are aware of men's true nature, than some politically correct drivel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:01 AM
6

"I did for years" sounds like you went to prison 😂 close enough though, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 01:54 AM
4

You know, I wonder if there's a correlation between OCPs and pick-me behavior...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 01:45 AM
3

Tis true! Women were told our entire lives that men have preference which we cannot really attain through hard work, i.e. big boobs, butts, youthfulness for life, and a pretty face. Sure maybe plastic surgery can help a tad, but not a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 08:02 PM
3

Well I agree I don't personally relate to the height thing. I don't blame women for having height preferences, but yeah thats not me (although I have other superficial preferences lol). However everything else he said was wrong. Everytime I paid for half or even more, and everytime I chased a guy who showed even a bit of interest in me, he LOST interest. Also "love" imo develops overtime, but you need the initial attraction. Also I learned that you should never chase after a job. Always apply to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:56 PM
2

Yeah. My mom bitches about my dad non-stop but then back paddles like MAD when I say I'm reconsidering marriage after seeing what her and dad go through. It's so confusing, but I suspect it's for this reason. I think their daughter going through a different route might make them realize that they probably made a large mistake in their life, and they want to avoid that regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:48 PM
3

Seriously, why do a bunch of weirdo men who align themselves with MGTOW need to penetrate all female subreddits and online groups???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:46 PM
2

Maybe he should be looking into a reversible vasectomy instead of bitching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:38 PM
3

Then they blame you for not wanting to sleep with them. RPW even advocates for women to stop using contraceptives if it messes with your libido. It's damned if you do and damned if you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:37 PM
10

This comment ONLY GOT 17 UPVOTES: Right? This guy is advocating in a comment to break up with people who can't be on hormonal BC. He is incredibly entitled and bordering on misogynistic in his pushing of reproductive responsibility on women. He is also fighting with women who say X BC doesn't work for them because of X really severe reason. His response was "sorry that happened but my statement stands correct". An absolute ass This guy is disgusting. And this got only 28: Wow, I hope you make su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:36 PM
2

Female friends also ditch you once they get a bf. I Hate that 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:26 PM
5

Also, why are women worthless after a certain age when men die earlier? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:25 PM
5

I agree with others that this isn't just a man thing; seems more of a narcissist and/or poor social skills thing. I've met women who acted like that. IMO "good listener" and submissive personalities often times attract these people like flies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:17 PM
6

Agreed. My father helped me become extremely shameful of my sexuality to the point where I've developed sex aversion syndrome. At the same time, he wants me to get married and laughs in my face when I say I'm reconsidering it. Bitch, you want me to end up with a terrible guy who will rape me the rest of my life??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:38 PM
3

And this is why RPW fails miserably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:15 PM
2

Also his logic doesn't make sense. If a woman is alone for the 20+ years of her life, after leaving the family home, then why would her life be an different after that?? And why is she suddenly alone? Coworkers and friends don't count? Pets?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 04:56 PM
1

What an odd thing to claim that an adult woman wouldn’t know an orgasm when she has one. Really insulting, too. Age doesn't matter for ignorance. If a woman has never been encouraged to understand her sexuality, then she may never know. Yes and this is partly because even when we are brought to an orgasm by a man (something that’s already not guaranteed) he won’t have the will to give you as many orgasms as you need. I can't comment on the existence of multiple orgasms things, but from my experi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 01:31 AM
1

I can understand that sentiment tbh. I believe I've developed sex aversion syndrome after my previous terrible experiences. Looking back, I think things would've gone much better if I was with guys I sincerely trusted, guys who allowed me to make mistakes during the process and not judge me harshly for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 01:27 AM
1

It's because the women here are actually being honest with themselves and are exposing some uncomfortable truths. I also think women naturally question our own rationality more. We assume all prior knowledge regarding female sexuality, even if it directly contradicts our own experience, is true. It shows just how much society has gaslighted us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 01:24 AM
1

THANK YOU. God... I Hate the oxytocin crap. Everytime I pawned after a guy, it was because I didn't want to be another "pump and dump" who didn't even enjoy the sexual encounter. I was desperate to level the interaction and ensure I got something out of it. I was horrified that I got played by a guy and used as a live blow up doll only to he discarded. It's humiliating, and is the reason, I suspect, many women are desperate for post-coital intimacy. I always assumed I would feel the same way-lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 01:11 AM
5

I work in a doctors clinic and have seen female patients complain about their man child boyfriend while getting painful IUD insertions. I'm always like "Gurl, watchu doing to yourself?" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:41 AM
3

You can be single and fear being alone. She means accept that you cant always control destiny. I am only now starting to feel comfortable with being alone, even for life. I used to feel as you did right when things didn't work out with a guy I liked. Working on my self had been brutal at times, but I can say that I am at a much healthier mindset than before. (My only issue is that now I'm the complete opposite. I don't want to be in a relationship at this poiny, and have been avoiding guys right…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:34 AM
8

I'm 25 and only this year I learned about radical/pink pill feminism!! I remember being so upset at your age because I disliked liberal feminism and yet everyone around me supported it! I felt so alone that no one else had similar views as I did. There was a while I was leaning towards becoming a social/trad-con, but thankfully I found like-minded groups
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:22 AM
3

It's said multiple times on reddit that the only reason most men marry is to have a consistent, reliable source of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:31 PM
2

Good thing she upgraded to Ant-man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:24 PM
2

10/10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:05 PM
2

I had this issue too with a guy a few months ago. I felt SO guilty after telling him I wasn't interested because of some red flags. But I made sure to tell him A) exactly what turned me off from him and B) encourage him to find someone more compatible. The way I see it, some pick-me out there will reach out to the guy and be the girl of his dreams, but that won't be me. And that definitely helped me work through the major negative feelings. He reached out to me again a few months later (disrespe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:51 PM
7

Peak white feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 05:24 PM
1

I see your point. I'm glad that your relationships have improved. What have you learned from working in a people field? I guess the problem is that I don't really "need" certain people in my life, i.e. my parents and toxic female friends. However, they seem to need me, and I'd feel guilty just ditching them. They are extremely draining to be around, but I do plan to frequently check up on them sometimes and show that I (am pretending to) care. I just absolutely need breaks from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:59 PM
7

Because they are telling us - loud and clear- that they are trying to do the absolute least possible amount of work for the maximum amount of fun and pleasure. Who wants to go out, earn a living, and then come home to an underemployed man who won't go back to school because he's worried he might fail? Goddammit, I feel personally attacked right now. I am the female version of these chums lol. The main difference is that I am actively trying to work out my insecurity and self esteem issues in ord…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:07 PM
2

Is Pirate Bay the best for torrenting? Asking because I'm starting grad school next year and I will certainly be destroyed by loans. Would be nice if I could lessen the load from my lecture books lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 03:17 PM
7

It benefits no one besides people who actually care about nothing besides having sex. They don't care though. Otherwise they would put in the effort. These actions are due to entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 03:15 PM
9

I've also come to the painful conclusion that my parents and closest female friends also fall into this category. Unfortunately, I suspect that women (and men perhaps) with low self esteem attract this toxic energy towards us. I think it is important to focus on self-compassion at this point, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 02:55 PM
7

Don't take this the wrong way, but are you currently seeing a therapist? While your fear is very understandable, I think it wouldn't hurt to get some help working through the troubling emotions. Especially when you say you're afraid to apply to jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 10:17 PM
17

I don't think there's anything wrong with playing video games per-say. It's just that, certain men who are already prone to addictive behaviors replace drugs/alcohol with video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:36 PM
8

Why should we call them out? Isn't it better to let them think they're right so that they don't procreate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:31 PM
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