| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 354 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's Weak | greycap7 | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 06:54 AM | |
| 38 | How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game) | greycap7 | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 07:11 AM | |
| 14 | How to transition from FWB's to a single relationship. | greycap7 | /r/seduction | 17/09/14 03:23 PM | |
| 2 | "It's a Yes or No category question." | greycap7 | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 02:55 AM | |
| 0 | How do you prevent girls from perceiving you as too rich. | greycap7 | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 05:30 AM | |
| 0 | Has anyone gotten to the point where they want to fuck with the women and don't care about getting laid? | greycap7 | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 11:15 PM |
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| 7 | [Question] I want to ask a girl out by facebook but I've never talked to her, I only saw her a couple of times a school. Should I go for it? if so what do I do?Nope. Too creepy. There are many more girls out there | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What do I do if she invites a friend to come with her?Practice. Nothing wrong with that imo. Unless OP has the playboy mansion lining up. The encounter if anything will be a teaching mechanism | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Out of curiosity, how many men here still open the car door for their date/significant other?I do it only when we've been on a few dates, hooked up etc... Then again, I have an eclectic personality, so I do things differently. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 04:50 AM |
| 6 | What do I do if she invites a friend to come with her?Two schools of thought to this and others can chime in. One is to tell her no and if she rebukes then like the other poster said, "go find another girl." The other school of thought is that if you're just going for coffee, the other girl can come along too, but now you focus your attention on two personalities. You provide attention to the other girl rather than your focus girl. That way she'll want it more. Her bringing a friend is more of a play by girls because they don't want to go in this a… | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 04:45 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone gotten to the point where they want to fuck with the women and don't care about getting laid?Why? And I'm actually curious. | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 02:17 AM |
| -3 | Has anyone gotten to the point where they want to fuck with the women and don't care about getting laid?This is a legitimate question. Have you ever identified psychopathic behaviors in yourself? I have. To be honest I kinda feel like Mystery. | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually go on "running errands" dates?Yeah I do this all the time. I own a particularly high end car that needs maintenance all the time. I'll take her to the dealership and we hangout for a bit. Also I'll randoml take a girl to a dealership to test drive a car, and we'll role play about how we're a couple looking for a car. Girls love to role play. | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 12:13 PM |
| 2 | other people around is a GIGANTIC problemMaybe I am wrong, but you need to establish the fact that you are important. You are your own man, and you have ideas that contribute to the conversation as much as anyone else. You are there for the girl though, and the rest are there to dick around. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 02:00 PM |
| 2 | In Las Vegas by myself/ 21 yrs old/ best way to get laid?He'll have to spend an ungodly amount of time and money at those clubs for just the privilege to 'hangout'. The dynamic at Hakkasan is geared only for the people that are willing to blow serious amount of cash. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 07:36 PM |
| 2 | In Las Vegas by myself/ 21 yrs old/ best way to get laid?No point in going to Hakkasan alone. Or any club for that matter. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Need a wingman? List your location and search for sedditors in your area.Columbus | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Chopper tried to AMOG meJake Gyllenhaal would like to disagree with you. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Tomorrow is my birthday, and I have concocted the perfect pickup line for the occasionYou don't need a pick up line even if it's your birthday. Just aim to have fun and make it a memorable one. You're already failing yourself if you think that you need a pickup line for the occasion. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Ohio. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How to transition from FWB's to a single relationship.That's tough. Espically when these girls I'm really good friends with. They knew it was inevitable but I guess I have to do it. | /r/seduction | 17/09/14 08:36 PM |
| 0 | How do you prevent girls from perceiving you as too rich.I just felt like I needed to give all relevant info in the OP. Didn't mean to come off as a douche. Sorry. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 04:16 PM |
| 0 | How do you prevent girls from perceiving you as too rich.But those girls suck. Trust me I know. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 04:03 PM |
| 8 | Guys who went from bad, to good with holding conversations, tell us how you did it.This. And also what helps is reading. Read until you are blue in the face, and then find some more reading. While it might not help you have more topics to talk about, but it will certainly help you build vocab and rhetoric. | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some small tricks or things that you do when with a girl that she won't expect?Get a CD of nsync or backstreet boys from goodwill. They're like a dollar a piece. Just get something from her childhood and she'll love it. | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up Girls In A Lamborghini Without Talking!I've actually noticed this. Girls don't care about money to an extent. But for some odd reason, a car still attracts girls like moths to a lightbulb. It's actually a really weird phenomena. As someone with access to everything from Maseratis to BMW's, I have a lot of experience with cars and women. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl unmatches you on Tinder after a date that you both agreed went well?Dude it could be that she deleted her tinder. I know multiple women that have deleted theirs. | /r/seduction | 29/06/14 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game)This is some high level stuff, you're getting in to the very fine and ultrasophisticated breakdown of social interaction. What's your background? | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game)To be honest I'm just a hard worker and I really like working. I'm making opportunities for myself. I actually don't like finance too much, but I'm good at it and I stick with it and it pays well. I've always wanted to be a doctor. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game)Engineers are nice people too. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 04:39 AM |
| 2 | How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game)Financial Analyst, triple major college student, med school next year. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Entering a career now that I've graduated college, what are good ways to maintain relationships with college girls?Everyone likes telling you that your college years are the best of your life. That thinking is inherently false, the best years of your life start after college, when you are unbound by responsibilities and limitations in college. If you think you're not gonna have fun after college then you're doing it wrong. Meet other grads. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:52 PM |
| 0 | What do you wear for a first date?The last thing that a girl said to me when had the break up convo was this, "You dress well, just so you, know it's appreciated by girls." | /r/seduction | 19/06/14 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Need alcohol before you head out to be confident? Here's my tip.It's alpha as fuck tho... | /r/seduction | 19/06/14 03:16 AM |
| 13 | Need alcohol before you head out to be confident? Here's my tip."I have a knife and a penis and one of them is going inside you tonight" | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 08:30 PM |
| 5 | The only 2 things you need to have to get any woman you want"Hey does this smell like chloroform to you?" | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Introvert vs. ExtrovertYes but an athlete doesn't fake it. He puts in the hours to improve himself for years to come. He improves to become a better person with no going back. Point here is that inner game is important. Defining people as introvert or extrovert is useless. Inner game cannot be measured but once a person reaches his threshold where he acquires everything he could want. That is when true happiness is achieved. Again defining people as introverts or extroverts is hard and stupid because it's so easy to f… | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Introvert vs. ExtrovertSo most people here are introverts, but faking extrovert qualities to pick up women? Serious question. | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 05:45 AM |
| 12 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...I do have a bone to pick with seddit about this, realistically if you take her to Starbucks and get her a drink, I ask her what she wants and I order for her so I get a tall (small) all the time, it's only what like 3 bucks? I honestly think it doesn't matter whether you buy her one or not. But I personally thank you should. | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 01:39 AM |
| 10 | Tall brown guy here, how do I come off as less intimidating to women?I can't really judge how well you dress based on that. Check out /r/malefashionadvice. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 04:50 AM |
| 7 | Tall brown guy here, how do I come off as less intimidating to women?Dress well. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 04:05 AM |
| -1 | It's time. I'm going out every night until it finally happens.I'm mulatto. It's always been hard for me. Here you are saying Mulatto has made it hard for you. Look I'm not trying to shit on you, but forget about color and improve your inner game. People aren't blowing hot air when they say that, "What matters is what is on the inside". People have conditioned themselves into thinking that skin color is a limiting factor when picking up girls. I know I did for the longest time. I'm sure there was a time in your life when you didn't know what race was. Maybe… | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | What is the most F closes you ever had in a week?Ahh...putting the F-close on the pedestal is worse than putting the girl on the pedestal. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 03:53 AM |
| 0 | It's time. I'm going out every night until it finally happens.I know in the beginning skin color is somewhat of a handicap. But please don't think it is. I'm South Asian, granted I'm light skinned but I get mistaken for Hispanic or Iranian all the time. I use to think that I couldn't get women, but if you work on it enough skin color doesn't make a difference in the world. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakRemember you're having a discussion, not an argument. Everyone isn't going to agree with you, but blindly nodding your head to everything that they are saying isn't right either. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Text Game Example at it's finest. Don't give a fuckMost guys would apologize or say something kind. That's not the way to go. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakNo problem. :) | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 04:47 AM |
| 3 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakGotta wear those pink shorts. | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakYep like /r/irwin1003 said, if you screwed up, just own up to it. It's a lot better to face the facts now than later. | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 04:54 PM |
| 3 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakIn what aspect? Do you feel that if you approach the girl and it backfires, it'll look bad on you? | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 04:53 PM |
| 3 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakThat's no excuse. Working out can be done at home with little to no equipment. Cooking your food is a lot cheaper than eating out and is much healthier. You can even cook for a week at a time. Goodwill and other thrift stores have great clothes if you know what you are looking for, I cannot stress /r/malefashionadvice enough for this. | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 04:52 PM |
| 3 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakAnytime. PM me if you need more help. | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 04:50 PM |
| 3 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's WeakThe rest of the replies are right, just have an opinion. But what is even more important is what this builds into. Read, read, and do some more reading. There are so many issues to talk about these days. Read the newspaper, or read books. Recently a very hot girl from Europe asked me what she thought about the whole Ukrainian crisis. I held a conversation very well because I knew what was going on. She was impressed. | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.Thanks. I'll write more soon! | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 02:44 AM |
| 27 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.But to be fair, for people that are starting out seduction or have AA it is something that actually hurts them. Tinder takes out the single most important thing about seduction and that is confidence. I'll be honest I've been at seduction for a while, I am confident and that's why I use tinder, because I know I can approach girls in a park or in a coffee shop. Fellas if you're just starting out with seddit, or have trouble approaching women. Delete the app ASAP. It does more harm than help. You … | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.No problem chief. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.And sex is 3 letters :P | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 11:54 PM |
| 10 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.Because I'm a lazy fuck and I don't want to type it out. Just kidding, I was just following the trend. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.Hmm. If you want send me a pm of your profile and I can review it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 03:45 PM |
| 12 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.And you're right. Look at the other replies I've made. Tinder is basically a sex app for those that have displayed mastery in seduction already or if you're already good looking. I don't know what type of town you live in either, but that could make a difference. My honest to God opinion to you is that you should delete that app ASAP, seeing how you've had it for 6 months. Go out and approach, it's a beautiful day. Tinder ruins a lot of things for guys. Me included. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 03:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.Have an upvote. I wouldn't call it that bucolic, but yeah go out and approach, let your balls drop. There's fucking 8 billion people on earth, 4 billion women, if one doesn't work out you have a lot more to approach. The guys that benefit from Tinder the most are those that have displayed somewhat mastery of seduction already. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 03:05 PM |
| 2 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.I have one of me in surgeon scrubs, one of me on a motorcycle, and one in a suit (I'm not James Bond or some evil villain, I promise). My tag line is something about my profession, and where I'm from. Realize most girls don't open profiles, they just swipe left or right. Write something honest and unique. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 03:01 PM |
| 6 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.You're right. Tinder takes out the most important piece in seduction. Confidence. There is no approach element in Tinder. You'll still be the same person you were before, even if you do get laid. I'm doing a social experiment and seeing what works and what doesn't. Riding the wave I guess, probably will tell my future wife about it one day. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 02:57 PM |
| 16 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.So I will be honest with you, I was in that position as well. I was down and out. What I found to be the biggest help was making guy friends, here's how: Pump your self up. I think there was an episode of 30 Rock where Jack says while looking into the mirror, “You’re a tiger. Take what’s yours.” That's what you need to be. Engage Engage Engage. Go to social gatherings and introduce yourself right away to the nearest person. It will be easier if you do it right away and the more that you second g… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 02:52 PM |
| 30 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.Absolutely not. The whole point of seduction (or at least in my opinion) is to live a fantastic life, and the girls will come naturally. The life that I choose to live happens to be attractive in our society. To put on a mask and show her one thing and turn out to be another is the opposite of /r/seduction, in fact it's what people on the outside think what seddit is. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 02:15 PM |
| 36 | I'm back with another Tinder video, even more proof that not giving a fuck works wonders.I beg to differ. I am South Asian, and I've had Tinder for 2 weeks. 80 matches, 30 numbers, 12 k-closes, and 3 f-closes. I wouldn't consider myself good looking. I have a funny name too. It's all about the pictures you put up, try to display an attractive lifestyle. Maybe I'm an anomaly. The only thing is that I have bought a lot of Starbucks and the barista looks at me funny whenever I bring in a different girl everyday. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to respond to "Will you still love me when I'm fat?", "What would you do if I get chubby?", etc"More cushion for the pushin is always good." | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Hot teacher in College, has sent topless pics to a guy I know in the same class. Haven't seen pics but has been confirmed. How do I approach her? (Long post, need advice).Do it once you get out of her class then do whatever you want. Most schools have a policy for relationships with professors. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 06:45 AM |
| 1 | "It's a Yes or No category question."When you sense a girl is about to flake, you repeat the above line. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 12:44 PM |
| 4 | Is it good to have no expectations when going out?Pass the bong man. | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How to be upfront/forward in college?OSU. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 06:09 PM |
| 3 | How to be upfront/forward in college?I go to a Midwest state school with 60k people. The female population is about 51% of it. Even though we live in a large metropolitan city with things to do. Girls are here to have a good time. Though it should be noted that college girls aren't naive, they do want a guy that would make perfect hubby material. But at the end of the day a good time is what they want. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 03:54 PM |
| 21 | How to be upfront/forward in college?College girls just wanna fuck and have fun. Source: I'm in college. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Problem with the acner/skincareaddiction | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 02:53 AM |
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