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I know, thats why I have been doing my best not to run into her, havent texted her, deleted all pics and videos. Just saw her walking today when I was leaving work and it brings back everything. So what do you suggest? I already slept with a girl since her and it made me feel shitty/sad
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:32 AM
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yes they know about that. it's a good company yeah and she's making more money than she ever has thanks to me. and yes my friends girlfriend saw her and her ex kissing in his car in front of work the other day, makes me sad/pissed
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:23 AM
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Definitely couldn't have her baxk in my life that way.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:17 AM
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I already deleted everything. Sucks thinking that what you're saying is true.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:16 AM
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This is how I've been trying to handle it. But seeing her at work still brings back emotions
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:32 AM
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Deleted everything. I have no social media either.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:25 AM
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What do you mean she's not far wrong? Because she's used to her exes coming back? Shouldn't that lower his value in her eyes for going back to her? and I've been still busy at work, lifting, and reading but I still think about her and the situation often.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:22 AM
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This is exactly my thoughts on it summed up.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:53 PM
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Everyone in my department knows, they all ghost her as well. As for her department, they all knew she was dating me and that she's now with her ex. We both know she didn't tell any of them the truth though.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:28 PM
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Pretty dumb of her to expect me to accept her back given the circumstances, no?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:26 PM
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Yeah I learned a lot from this but it's still hard for me to get over. I wish I did end things when I noticed they were going south. Another lesson to take with me for the future.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:40 PM
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Yeah but I shouldn't.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:39 PM
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She doesn't deserve that
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:38 PM
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It makes things a lot harder for me now that we're in the same place.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:53 PM
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How can she possibly see herself as good in this situation? And yeah I haven't responded.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:49 PM
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Just made a new post. No contact or seeing her for a month, she reached out "Hi, how are you" then an hour later "??" Didnt respond then saw her a few days later in lunch room and she made eye contact with me and looked sad and I ignored her and sat alone, then she texted me after a thumbs up emoji. Don't know why.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:45 PM
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Yes. I never responded but curious as to why she reached out.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:34 PM
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So Mode One is worth the read? I love reading about this type of stuff.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:46 AM
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You're right man, I've done so much self-reflection. Should have just let her deal with her problems alone. But she kept throwing the "I can't count on you" and "You're not there for me like the man I need" shit in face.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:45 PM
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Not at all.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:36 PM
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Thanks man for the encouragement.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:35 PM
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If it was a close friend, whose house burned, or was living off food stamps? I'd help him.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:33 PM
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Just finished. Learned a lot.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:31 PM
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I just finished the book. Learned a lot. Not that it matters, but do you think that by not even helping, we'd still be together? I feel that by helping her instead of leaving her to deal with it, she lost respect, took advantage, and in the process it pushed her away from me.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:31 PM
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This is one of the many things I learned.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:42 PM
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You're not wrong.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:42 PM
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I met her when they were broken up then she got back together with him, then they broke up and we started dating. Just reading what I typed it all was so predictable. If she tries to come back, I'll laugh in her face
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:21 PM
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Of course I realize that, that was my suspicion since the first time I couldn't go to her apartment. Now I know it to be true.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:20 PM
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They were broken up when we met and then she flaked again which led me to finding out she got back together with him.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:19 PM
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I already know of things she's done that could possibly get her fired, but don't know if that's what I want to do.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:17 PM
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I could easily.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:16 PM
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Agreed. Except I'd make her cum so many times during sex, so I don't believe it was the sex, I believe it was everything else you said.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:16 PM
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Will reread TRM and will start NMMNG tomorrow
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:47 AM
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I'll never forget what I have learned from this so maybe it was a blessing. Lessons that could have been avoided, but lessons nonetheless.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:27 AM
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Lmao for sure, her ex doesn't have papers and she's just a resident. But I'm good. Wiping my hands from her for forever.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:26 AM
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Thanks for the chuckle and insight.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:22 AM
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All the girls I tend to date have some type of damage or a need it seems. It's my choice in that sense.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:20 AM
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100% agreed with. One of the many lessons I learned. And it was 4-5 months, not that that makes it any better.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:17 AM
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Appears that way
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:13 AM
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This is the same guy that texted her mom that losing her was the worst things that's happened to him. But look where he's at with her. FUCK
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:10 AM
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The something else was her ex was still in the picture
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:36 PM
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Uh when did I ever say that? She was a girlfriend
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:36 PM
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How does briffaults law apply here?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:52 PM
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Lesson learned. But what would you do if a tragedy such as a fire left your girlfriend with nothing?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:51 PM
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What would you do if your girlfriend lost everything in a fire and had no money saved and had food stamps and had a shit job? I am genuinely asking what you guys would do.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:51 PM
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This is what hurts the most for me. That I knew all about this AF/BB but because I have a good heart and didn't want her to struggle I ended up how I did.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:50 PM
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Have it, have not read it. I will though.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:47 PM
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I dont even know if she exploited. I helped her, it was my choice, and maybe secretly I felt she would appreciate it or me more. Idk I'm fucked in the head with the girls I choose.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:46 PM
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I got her the job thinking to myself that even if things don't work out, at least she'll be finanically more stable than she was, and I honestly thought it would make things better. How wrong I was.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:45 PM
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There will never be a second chance for her.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:43 PM
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Never again
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:43 PM
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So many. Wish I could go back in time.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:43 PM
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For sure, I deserve most if not all of the blame here.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:42 PM
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I don't know where I did, but I guess it no longer matters
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:04 PM
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yes I fucked her. She'd cum so many times during sex, could barely take my dick. But it's been too long now sincd we've had sex for a "relationship"
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:23 PM
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They were broke up when we went out the one time and then they got back together
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:21 PM
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100%
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:29 AM
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Met her dad, mom, brothers, and sisters. I'm the first boyfriend of hers that her father approves of. The mom told her not to get pregnant with me because I'm American and she's Cuban and I'm not right for her.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:18 AM
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i feel like its going to have be done over text and i'd rather it be in person
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:13 PM
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Literally what I think, cause she didn't say "with you" just that she's falling in love.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:00 PM
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fuck, youre absolutely right
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:48 PM
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if i call her to meet me she will just ignore my call or text
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:46 PM
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obviously I want to do this in person and not over text. do i just wait for her to find me so I can have this conversation because I feel like she's going to avoid seeing me in person now
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:31 PM
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Honestly, I think it'll be a while now for us to see each other in person. And after last night, I feel like she's ready to end it too if we do have a talk in person. But if I get the chance, I will say what you said.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:40 PM
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She was my girlfriend when I did this for her. I don't do this for girl's I'm not in a relationship with.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:38 PM
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Did so much to help her. She's poor as fuck from Cuba, lived in a shithole before it burned. Worked long hours to make shit money. I helped with her application, interview, resume, spoke with the hiring managers. And she never once appreciated it the effort.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:26 PM
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Agreed. So what's the best way to end it? Just ghost with no explanation?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:19 PM
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Is this the best way to end it with her?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:11 PM
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I do. I think I'm just not going to reach out to her again, and if she comes to see me at my work, just tell her that I don't wish to continue this.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:10 PM
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You're right.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:09 PM
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I haven't had sex with her in 4 weeks as that's the last time we spent any quality time together and the day she told me she's falling in love and I didn't reciprocate it.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:09 PM
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She lost all of her clothes, furniture, money, everything in a fire and was left with nothing. She was working two shitty jobs (immigrant). I wanted to help her get her life back.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:23 PM
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She certainly does. So the solution is not to play into it, focus on myself, and don't care either way. Correct?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:51 PM
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Scared to lose her, scared she'll be with someone else, comfort with her, attachment issues, oneitis, etc. Been there before in my last relationship, she cheated, took me a while to get over that then I met her and I felt better. Now I'm back to the same shit. I just want to get to the point where I am unfazed by what a girl does. I'm good looking, good height, good body, but have very little time to meet new women with my current job/position in life.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:02 PM
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I never had this anxiety until recently when I felt her pull away and change. I've never tried journaling.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:57 PM
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Believe me man I see young beautiful girls all day at my work (these girls aren't from here as it's a vacation destination) and when I see them showing signs they want me I feel better. It's when I'm alone at home that I get anxious/insecure about my girlfriend and what she's doing. When we see each other in person, she's great, makes out with me, likes being with me. It's when we are apart that she acts this way. And I feel bad about spinning plates if that entails sex because I do not want to …
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:45 PM
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I gym, work 6 days a week, long hours, and make good money doing so. I have very little time in my week for social aspects.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:31 PM
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So by her applying dread, she wants me to chase her and show her how much I want to be with her? Which I know that by doing so will show weak/needy behavior which will turn her off. So then how do I flip the script on this and get it back to how it was?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:30 PM
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So what do you suggest?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:26 PM
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"Removing you from social media is a very big bad. This tells me she's cheating, or at least "emotionally cheating". No way for me to know but I thought this too when I saw that.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:25 PM
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"The fuck? So you have no abundance but at the same time you play this tough RP guy role? Girls can smell that easily. She already instinctively knows you have little frame and she's testing whether you'll completely break with the dread." Why is she trying to dread me after telling me she's falling in love with me? "Prognosis is negative here: I'll give that relationship a few more weeks until she monkey branches. The only thing you can do is to work on your frame and have alternatives. As long…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:17 PM
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I dont have any social media so she can't ever see what I'm doing, I just know of hers and my friends follow her. It's weird too because she started off as this cute innocent Cuban raised girl. For some reason I believed that because she wasn't American raised she'd be different.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:26 PM
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Thanks dude, if she never reaches out it aint ever gonna happen. I'm not gonna pursue it until then
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:41 PM
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very, so if she hits me again do i just dont reply or say come over
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:04 PM
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truth. i'll know next time. i still feel like she would just read and not reply, and if that's the case. hard next forever
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:11 AM
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thats what i was going to do, she didnt reply so i left alone. had she replied, my next words would have been "come over"
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:09 AM
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I agree, thats why I didnt hit her up for 3 weeks and wasnt gonna hit her up again, then she hits me and has me thinkin of her again, fuck it
/r/askTRP28/07/20 11:46 PM
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So if a girl flakes on you, tells you she'll let you know when she's free, never does, and she hits you up weeks later, you're just okay with it? Act like it didnt bother you? I feel like at a certain point doing that lets her know she can continue to do that and get away with it
/r/askTRP28/07/20 11:25 PM
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how quickly would you have responded? people like AMS and MJ get right, redpillers in youtube literally would say to wait a while, even days to hit her back, so I'd like to know
/r/askTRP28/07/20 11:15 PM
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so what do you mean? wait til she hits up and tell her to come over? that's literally what i was gonna do yesterday had she responded
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:53 PM
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It's my favorite movie. Looks like I'm gonna have to rewatch it. So you would have replied quickly?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:33 PM
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So what are you saying? There shouldn't be a "pinishment" for her flaking/ghosting and I should just be readily available to text her when I see her message? I'm genuinely asking
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:53 PM
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Probably true, if you were to know my dating history it's always latinas that are bad news, ao maybe it's a good thing this one ain't happenin
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:47 PM
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very true
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:37 PM
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True that, she doesnt even know that I know she has a bf
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:36 PM
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I'd like to smash, Im not worried about the bf
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:35 PM
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Yeah
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:58 PM
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So what's the play? If I want to fuck her how do I go about this.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:36 PM
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I'm not gonna be an orbiter though
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:31 PM
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I'd put money that I am, and I am way better looking than the bf. She sent my pics to her best friend, sister, etc.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:26 PM
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It's true, but if she's already been on a date, made out with me, sent me sexy vids, why stop there when that's cheating, unless she hamsters that it's not. I mean she legit already told her mom and aubt about me when we went on a date
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:23 PM
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she has a boyfriend
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:49 PM
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every time in the past after our first date se ignored my attempt so i just left her alone. if she hits me again i'm gonna say hey come over abd if nothing that's it
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:29 PM
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true
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:52 PM
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This is true, fuck man this is like the fine line or being too available and looking low value and being too aloof and missing out
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:02 PM
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She doesn't drink, and it's happened a few times times I just tell a girl to come to my house for the first time and they come over.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 04:01 PM
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literally waht i did and said, except i waited 5 hours instead of 2
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:52 PM
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literally what i did, except i waited 5 hours instead of 2
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:51 PM
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For the first time to hang out, I invited her over my place. She said that she didn't feel that it was appropriate for the first time. She told me she's "a good girl Cuba, not like the other ones who show their body for money", so we went mini golfing another day, made out, etc and she had to go pick up her younger brother from day care. Then she says can't wait to see me again. Flakes, ghosts, blah blah. By me responding hey, I was hoping she'd reply and I was going to ask her to come over. So …
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:47 PM
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I can agree with that, but at the same time even if I wasn't doing anything, she flaked and ghosted for 3 weeks, I don't feel like that warrants a quick response. If I'm wrong let me know.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:32 PM
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She's a 9/10 cuban with an amazing ass, I'd like to fuck her.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:31 PM
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I was busy. Was playing golf with friends and chilling at their house, and like everyone else I have my phone on me and saw her text, just didn't reply right away. Let's be real here.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:20 PM
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So you think replying instantly would have been better? I feel like I would have been better off waiting 2 days to hit her back. I'm genuinely asking.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:20 PM
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I was busy. Was playing golf with friends and chilling at their house, and like everyone else I have my phone on me and saw her text, just didn't reply right away. Let's be real here.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 03:19 PM
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So you reply to everything immediately? Common advice is that you're busy so don't reply right away, I was with my friends all night when I saw the text and texted her when we were done hanging out.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:59 PM
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So dumb, I'm better looking than her bf by a long shot, if she wants it just fucking do it already.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:38 PM
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Which is why I moved on, once I found out she had a bf, I wasn't going to pursue her anymore, then she texts me just to get a response...
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:33 PM
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So better to have just opened her message and not responded? Even if I want to fuck her?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:32 PM
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It was on snap, otherwise I thought of doing this.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:32 PM
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Meaning?
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:25 PM
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Why would I respond immediately when she doesn't text me for 3 weeks? I haven't forgiven a flake which is why I didn't talk to her for 3 weeks, if she reached out, and was actually conversational, I'd tell her to come over, impossible with her when she starts a bs conversation just not to respond.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:24 PM
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Impossible to have a convo with her as she always read and doesn't reply, which is why I dont the point of her bothering me
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:22 PM
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I've given her 0 attention for 3 weeks now and a "hey" as a response.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:21 PM
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thats pretty gay
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:03 PM
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Makes me feel misled. She was legit on the phone with her family during our date telling them where we met and sent a pic of us together. Meanwhile she has a boyfriend? That's pretty fucked up. She was leading me to believe she was a "good girl from Cuba" not like other girls, but AWALT. If she ever hits me up again, I'll definitely see her cause I wanna smash but she just permanently disqualified herself from anything more.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:11 PM
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Makes me feel misled. She was legit on the phone with her family during our date telling them where we met and sent a pic of us together. Meanwhile she has a boyfriend? That's pretty fucked up. She was leading me to believe she was a "good girl from Cuba" not like other girls, but AWALT. If she ever hits me up again, I'll definitely see her cause I wanna smash but she just permanently disqualified herself from anything more.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:11 PM
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Poor guy
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:21 PM
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He's a skinny ugly cuban guy, I don't know him so I'm just gonna leave it alone
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:03 PM
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Meaning what
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:07 PM
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Yes I'm in Florida. what part are you in?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:57 PM
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Idk man the interest was so high on the date, she was supposed to pick up her younger brothers from day care and she called her dad to do it so she could have more time with me. If her interest was that high and it dropped in three days when nothing's happened that's pretty fucked. But I am aware that the rescheduling part was missing from her text which does make me go along with you here.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:09 PM
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It's hard not to be influenced by all that shit, but let's hope you're right in this case.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:06 PM
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Flip the script
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:38 PM
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Good attitude
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:36 PM
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The only reason I'd care is emotions. So you're right.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:34 PM
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You still think that if a girl's actions were the cause of you ending things, her ego would still suffer because she didn't "end" it? Sure she might not have said "We're done" but if her actions were the cause of you ending it, she in a way ended it.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:31 PM
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Nah you're absolutely right.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:28 PM
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Well what if you did want her but her actions resulted in you dumping her?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:26 PM
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Sure they don't get rejected as often, but let's say a guy finally nexts her after he was tired of her actions. So she's the cause of it ending, she can comprehend why any guy would end it.. in that case would her ego still be weak?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:23 PM
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You still believe that even if she was the cause of you ending things?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:21 PM
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"Don’t be confused about a woman’s ability to get a dick in her with her ability to get a guy she actually wants to be with." Yeah I guess that's true.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:58 AM
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I'm not trolling
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:50 PM
-5

She's with her friend in the video, gets off work at 2 am, then pulls this shit. Why cant I just say what the fuck you doing with black guys at 5 am then just end it?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:49 PM
2

Read reply to the other guy. I agree
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:33 PM
2

Even when they dated, he wouldn't let her work at certain places because he was scared she'd cheat on him. When she wasn't with him, he'd want her to send him his location etc. But on the other hand, he wouldn't fuck her when she wanted, told her he was worried that he'd cheat on her, constantly argued with her and made her cry. He was good at controlling her emotions, something I can't do. We always just have a good time.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:32 PM
10

Stick with no contact. She'll never give you the real reason why she cheated. All that matters is that she did and you can't look back. My first love cheated on me for months and left me for this person, moved in with them, and never once apologized or gave me a reason. She reached out after 13 months of no contact saying I should visit her at work. No apology, no guilt, just selfish. When she cheats, that relationship is over. You'll never forget, you'll never know why, just work on yourself, k…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:32 PM
1

Exactly, he'd want more too. All we do is laugh and always have a great time. I can't create the drama that she craves like her ex did.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:43 PM
1

So what's the solution then
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:42 PM
1

Seems like the only solution. Just wish the attachment wasn't there or I could get rid of it easily.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:39 PM
2

Lying about what? Can you elaborate
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:38 PM
1

Can you elaborate or share a link
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:53 PM
-2

Her ex has tattoos, deal drugs, has the bad boy vibe, but he's probably realistically like a 6/10. Skinny, short, ugly face. I'm 9/10 compared to this dude but the way he was with her definitely leaves a bigger imprint on her.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:51 PM
1

so how do you suggest i end this. no reason given or what
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:17 PM
-2

not for her to be fucking him
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:17 PM
1

will keep my options open
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:16 PM
0

after this one, never again
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:16 PM
1

they do it so they dont go a week without seeing the kid so they don't miss her too much, and i dont think they stay overnight, usually they get her for a few hours and do something with the daughter then return to their lives. i've been kn dates with her while he picked her up for a few hours.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:15 PM
-1

Elaborate, idk what you mean by this. He has a kid because of a poor decision when he was 19
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:13 PM
1

I know I shouldn't, it's too bad she's in a single mom but that's the way it is. I gotta work on ceasing my feelings for her. Thanks for your insight,
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:36 PM
-2

In my 27 years of life, she has been the best sex and has the best feeling pussy I've been with, that doesn't mean better isn't out here. and no she's not too great of a mother from what I imagine. I want to find a way to clamp my feelings for her, continue the amazing sex, and go from there. But I know realistic I need to end this sooner or later, just don't want to because I enjoy it so much. I walked away from her from a month when she pulled some bs on me, never planned on contacting her aga…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:34 PM
-5

her words, her friends words, and i've heard him on the phone with her she calls me an asshole too but this dude's a straight dick
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:13 PM
1

she only sees her ex when the daughter is involved, which makes sense. but maybe she sleeps over then texts me the next morning, no way of me knowing. should i call her out on it or ask her?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:13 PM
0

i fucked a few different girls when we first start whatever relationship this is. but i've never felt this way about anyone before, not even my first love ex gf that i dated for 3 years. this girl is the best sex, has the best pussy, great personality, oneitis i know. and she's full of red flags so fuck
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:02 PM
1

can you explain why I'm not worth more in her eyes? Not sure what you mean. And the mistake you're talking about is the kid?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:58 PM
0

We've never truly discussed what we are, probably fuck buddies, but I'm emotionally invested with her unfortunately and I truly believe she isn't seeing anyone else, I can explain why if need be, but I'm sure her ex is still in the picture. Just my suspicion. If we were more than that this would never fly with me, I would have set expectations. I just don't know if it's too late to bring it up or if I should even bother
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:56 PM
-1

We've never truly discussed being exclusive as I always want the girl to bring it up but I'm truly under the belief that it's just me and now maybe her ex. But I've caught feelings for this girl and don't want her fucking anyone else
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:51 PM
-5

I'm aware, yes. Still, I caught feelings for her a while ago and can't rid them.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:50 PM
2

The cons about why she isn't good for me would vastly outweigh the pros, but yet here I am. But I'll give it a shot.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:36 PM
1

I'm aware of this, just hard to swallow.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:36 PM
5

Yeah I'll have to cut out the cuddling, gonna suck
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:35 PM
11

I see her twice-three, maybe four times months a maybe, don't text too often, we'll go days without texting and when we do it's minimal. But every time we spend time together and she comes over, it just pulls me back in. Seeing another girl next week so hopefully that helps me.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:34 PM
-1

Hahaha
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:43 PM
1

She's an amazing lay, still trying to figure out if I'd be able just to fuck. Hanging out with a new girl this weekend that I think will be a way better option so I'm starting to care less about this mom.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:39 PM
1

Your point being what? If you had abundance mindset you'd leave this girl or if you had abundance mindset you wouldn't worry about her seeing ex/other people?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:33 PM
1

As for LDR, it's not really a long distance relationship, we're 30 minutes away, but if you're saying that because of how rarely we see each other, you're right. I've met her best friends and all that, but never her parents which I'm fine with. She goes out with her waitress friends and haven't met them. I agree that it should end, it would be nice if we could still fuck once in a while but idk if that's a good idea. I feel bad ghosting and ignoring her, but she didn't feel bad flaking on me. Th…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:18 PM
2

I met a good one on the cruise and I'm seeing her this weekend.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:46 PM
-2

Word for word from her ex's mouth to her. "So you're into big dicks now?" Alright dude. thanks
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:42 PM
0

You mind expanding on anything?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:37 PM
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