I've been seeing a girl for around 6-7 months now. I'm 26, work 5-6 days a week, usually nights. She's 23, in school for 4 days of the week in an intensive nursing program and works the other 3. She's incredibly hot, and a single mom to a 3 year old. I don't have the time to game a lot of girls due to how busy my work is and the hours I work. I also drive 20 hours a week for work.

We only get to see each other maybe 2-3 times a month. She has her daughter every other week, and I don't see her that week. We usually try to plan something on the week she doesn't have the daughter. Usually that involves her coming over and hooking up but we've done plenty of dates too.

About 2 months ago, one of her mutual friends told me that she really likes me, but she thinks I'm too nice. This pissed me off and confused me, because I don't know why she thought that. I'd playfully tease her, don't text her all the time, and like I said we barely see each other. Her friend also told me, trust me, you gotta be an asshole to her. Which makes sense because her ex is an asshole and they dated for 4 years. He's covered in tattoos and sells drugs. He'd cheat on her, lie to her, treat her like shit. Exact opposite of how I was raised. Yet they still talk, understandably because of the kid, but I notice he calls and texts her a lot when I'm with her, but I have no idea what they talk about. I've even read one of his texts that said, "You don't give me the booty anymore" but this months ago. I already know that I fuck her better than he does, as she's told me this, and my dick is much bigger. Our sex is amazing.

We have never had a conversation about being exclusive (I want her to bring it up,not me) so maybe I shouldn't be mad, but for the longest time I thought she wasn't seeing anyone else because of her work and school schedule and how she'd make time for me, but recently I started suspecting that she's seeing her ex again or other people. She'll go out to bars out of town with work friends and won't invite me or any of that.

Two weeks ago, we made plans for Friday and she didnt come over so I texted her asking what time she was gonna be over. She didn't respond and posted a snapchat with her ex and her daughter at a graduation, then texted me 3 hours later saying she wasn't coming over. I ignored her for a while until she said she missed me. She came over the next day and we fucked.

I left for a cruise a couple days later, and we made plans to see each other the day I got back. She said was coming over later and never showed up. Three days later, same thing, said she was coming over, then texted me at 11 pm that she fell asleep. Saturday at 4:30 am, she calls drunk saying she wants to see me and is on her way, never shows up.

Just curious what I should do. I've since ghosted her, haven't replied to any of her snapchats or texts in 4 days and she just texted me saying "I wanna see you ;("

I kind of want to fuck her one or a couple more times then just end it myself. Or maybe I'm just reading too much into something. I don't want to call her out for seeing other guys or her ex as that sounds insecure, so idk. Just want your advice. I also feel bad ghosting and would like to just say I'm sure you can figure why we haven't see each other.