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bestCallEver/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:17 PM
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bestCallEver/r/askTRP28/12/15 04:43 PM
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Your "problem" is literally what this entire sub is "about". How have you been enjoying the side bar material?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 10:35 AM
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The funny thing is there are some racist ass comments in this thread, but the one you're replying to isn't even one of them imo.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:41 PM
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Agree completely. She's not necessarily disinterested, she's just waiting for op to make an actual move and lead the conversation directly.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:21 PM
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Same. And the visuals are on point.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:31 AM
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One thing to consider which I've not seen mentioned is the psychological aspect of you seemingly being much more invested in this relationship than she is. You're quarantined and haven't seen her in weeks, but you're stalking her profiles and making up scenarios based on her "likes"... This is a different kind of red flag. A red flag that maybe you're not in the right headspace to make this (or any) relationship work at the moment. It's not a judgement call on my part, but I've been there, and g…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:47 PM
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This guy interrogates.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:41 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:49 PM
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What's with the fixation on keeping an LTR at all cost? Have the fucking fun and live life. If it implodes over this then, well, it was going to anyway. What fucking sub am I on
/r/askTRP30/12/19 12:46 PM
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The day it culls the human genome of the weakest men. Right, time to start knocking up all the plates so my genes can survive the great culling. Got it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 04:30 AM
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Damn dude. People are so fucked up, what a bitch she is. I tend to agree with the others, that you should stay out of it, however if you do decide to expose them this is not really the best sub for getting revenge advice, and it'd probably be better for your sake not to have this in writing. The sister's husband is such an immoral fuck boy he just might be a redpiller himself lol
/r/askTRP16/11/19 01:06 PM
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We have this thing called the "side bar" that is just chalk full of info that you're going to hate. If you're on mobile it's under .. like .. the "about this sub" section or something. Regarding your current situation, there's almost nothing there to judge by, except that one cringey "did I do something wrong" text it's all pretty benign. It's highly likely that she has other guys she dates/fucks, or she's just busy with her own life, or she's not that into you but enjoys your time and dick occa…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:58 PM
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You repeatedly trying to convince us that you did everything right betrays some serious insecurity and need for outside validation. I've read this whole thread, and most of your replies are defensive, which is just your bruised ego. Trying to save face with a bunch of internet strangers after pouring your guts out isn't doing yourself any good. You may or may not have "done everything right" in this relationship, but your obvious need to defend your ego makes me think you probably have some huge…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:29 PM
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Fuck thank you for the solid advice. I won't rekindle shit from my end. The problem is when she figures out her lesbi friend didn't work out and comes looking to get back. I guess it will be hard as hell to tell her to gtfo. Man look how you're giving her 100% of the power in this situation. This is quite likely an indicator of the underlying broken power dynamic that led to her running to fat Sally for dominance and comfort. It's near impossible to "fix" this kind of broken dynamic, and you nee…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:19 PM
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That's nice, but you also came here making this verrrrry butt hurt sounding thread, so don't delude yourself. You were rejected through her actions (and then you gave her a few days to decide if she wants to come back? Wtf dude) On a different note, this almost made me spit my coffee out: Yet mentions how her manly arms and voice is attractive. Lol omfg
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:12 PM
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This is some of the most pathetic shit I've ever heard. "Mommy some girl called me a faaaaaagggg"
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:02 AM
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Were you eating like shit during your bulk phase? Weird about the acne, seems diet related for sure.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:56 PM
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Getting "fit" means being strong and not fat. Fat but strong guys are not fit.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:34 PM
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Uhm. I agree with not shitting where you eat, but re read your first sentence. That's the most pathetic incel garbage I think I've ever read.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:00 PM
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Doesn't mean she's cheating, but might be that she felt attraction for another guy and her subconscious guilt is causing her to over compensate. Clearly you're in a phase of the relationship where you're insecure about the future with her (and she may be picking up on this, which is more cause for her to reassure you) ... And this is what I'd be more concerned about.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:14 PM
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You didn't need to. Also bullying as a strategy works to show dominance over an individual and power, would you call someone a loser for sticking to his best strategy? (You are moralising) No one else sees this as power or dominance, all they think is: man that guy must be insecure, better to treat him like a fragile woman or else he might try to "show his dominance" again which is cringey for all involved. And since everyone else sees it as the sign of mental weakness that it is, the only payof…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:29 PM
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Also bullying as a strategy works to show dominance over an individual and power, would you call someone a loser for sticking to his best strategy? (You are moralising) I pity the man for whom reliance on outside validation is his "best strategy" at life.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:20 PM
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Man ive watched these dozens of times and consider this guy an icon, but it always surprises the hell out of me when I see someone else mention him in casual conversation.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:24 PM
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Keep in mind he only "ghosted" her for a few days, he might have had every intention of hitting her up in a week or two if she hadn't gotten all butt hurt.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:02 PM
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thanks for this. I really like what I've watched so far.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 06:25 AM
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She may not look like a "teenager" but you're mentally retarded if you think there aren't some hot 30-something babes out there.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 02:14 PM
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What's your mission? What are you passionate about?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:09 AM
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In some way I would like to have my revenge on this girl, but mainly I would like to change myself. Revenge for what? Because she was seeing another guy when you guys were very casually hanging out without any semblance of a commitment? Dude get right the fuck over that pathetic attitude. Focus on that other part: changing yourself, and drop this anger as soon as possible because it's not doing you a stitch of good.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:06 AM
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The modern woman is just not feminine enough for me to be turned on. When we get to the bedroom I have limp dick due to the fact that I feel like I'm fucking an attractive half-man with a vagina. I do enjoy getting my dick sucked though, as it makes me feel mascuiline. But this can't be everytime. If I do not feel 100% Alpha/Masculine in the bedroom, I will be soft. This isn't meant as an insult, but I've known a handful of guys throughout my life who "could only get hard from blow jobs" and 100…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:30 PM
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Going on about her beauty, and then all of those trailing ellipses ... "I wanted to invite you out but..." Dude. Maybe vagueness and projecting insecurity work for you (they legit seem to be working with this girl amazingly) but personally that shit made my skin crawl reading it. You can be nice and a little complimentary, but stop kissing her ass, and stop trying to be coy or whatever you're going for. It's like you're going for the most timid pickup ever, almost forcing her to be the man and a…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:09 PM
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Despite the absolute cringiness of every word from your mouth through this whole conversation, she still seems willing to meet up, so if you can just play it even 10% cool I'd say you can easily turn this into a date.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:51 PM
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For real, this post is pure garbage.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 02:47 PM
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You're not "supposed" to do anything.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:51 AM
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Good luck on your journey dog. Tons of hard work (mental and physical) ahead but I do think you'll find the answers you're looking for, they just won't be what you expected.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:28 AM
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is 28 too late to start caring about fixing over a decade of fuck ups and ineptitude? No. But honestly, your attitude as portrayed in this thread / comments is just garbage. On the one hand you have a "big ego" and act like your shit doesn't stink, on the other hand you've been an "inept Fuck up for a decade". Clearly the "inept Fuck up" is the truth so drop the b.s. bravado because it's cringey af (talking about the one time you stood up to some mentor ten years ago, Jesus Christ dude is that t…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:51 PM
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This is a tough dilemma, but people who think they're clean cant empathize and this needs to be understood. Most people are shitty at empathizing. I like your usage of "people who think they're clean. The fact is the majority of people who have herpes do not know that they have it, so many of those condemning op have herpes and are absolutely having sex without telling their partner because they don't know they have it, and they don't know they have it because for most people even hsv2 is such a…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:39 PM
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Yes. Being a dick to everyone all the time is a blatant sign of insecurity. That's why it's called push/pull.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 02:21 PM
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You're her plate. If you were fucking one or two other girls, I think you could have a fwb thing, but the length and tone of this post suggests a higher level of investment on your part.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 02:13 PM
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Bruh have you heard of sarcasm? I think we need to get the ex in here to give some advice guy sounds like his game is on point
/r/askTRP22/05/19 02:11 PM
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My first thought as well, though I know it's not "that simple" for some people with serious psychological disorders. Lifting and serious cardio (mostly running) really help me unfuck my head.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:19 PM
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One last thing, it's fine if you still want to be friends or support her or whatever, but don't bring thAt up in this conversation. That's just you hamstering away and trying to preempt the rejection and stay on her good side. A confident man doesn't become a mean baby when he's rejected, of course you'll still treat her decently, your attraction to her has nothing to do with the kind of friend you want to be and her judgement of you should not be a consideration in this case.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:45 PM
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Hey brother, glad my words helped, but let me give one more piece of advice (which I can tell you already know, but still worth mentioning). Not only do you need to make that shorter, you definitely should not explain all those times you almost told her and blah blah... she doesn't need to hear that stuff. You don't need to explain yourself, and we both know all that stuff isn't even 100% true (you said your self you're not THAT into her). Try this: If you meet up, after a few platitudes when th…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:40 PM
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My friend I truly feel your pain, and I appreciate this honesty. The fact is, it sounds like you're "doing the right stuff" in regards to attracting some girls, so at least pat yourself on the back for that. The fact is that the next step (that you're just beating yourself up over) requires something you're going to have to find within yourself: BALLS! And I know you've got em in there somewhere. I know you're so fuckin horny it's probably making you insane, and being a 21 yr old virgin feels li…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 02:50 PM
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PS: Yes I am gaming other women, yes I had oneitis for her for a few weeks at least, yes I can kick her ass to the curb if I want to Omfg just stop, dude. I can't believe I just read all that. The mix of "I literally can't even get up the nerve to kiss a girl" combined with this absolute garbage, b.s. bravado (that NO ONE is buying) is some of the cringiest shit I've ever read on here. I truly do sympathize with your plight, I was an extremely insecure young dude at one point myself. But drop th…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:54 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this, man. One thing I think you need to come to terms with is that although your wife had all those "good qualities", clearly there was a whole side to the woman that you weren't even aware of, as proven by her now taking these actions that you never thought she was capable of. Even though it's painful, it's important to realize that the woman you're pining over isn't just "gone from your life", she literally never existed in the way that you are idealizing her. I…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:13 PM
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Sean Stephenson is the fucking man. I can't ever watch one of his videos without feeling better about life after.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:35 AM
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Hah, some of those titles .. oh man. Anyway, cheers to admitting we don't know the full story.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:43 PM
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Realized I was speaking from my own casual watching of ted talks without investigating your claim, so I took a look. I just browsed the first fifty or so ted talks here, looking for female names: https://www.ted.com/talks/quick-list Literally not a single one of them is about sex or relationships. Of course if you looked comprehensively at the list I'm sure many over the years are, but the idea that the "vast majority" of female ted talks are about those subjects is just straight up wrong.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:56 PM
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My last three multi-year relationships started with sex on the first date, so who knows ...
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:12 PM
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Whatever you say champ.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:07 PM
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Gotta sort through quite a bit of garbage around here but it's worth it for the gems.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:52 PM
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Yup
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:49 PM
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I gotta say, by far the most annoying people I talk to on a regular basis in my life happen to be men. My favorite people to talk to also happen to be men... Pretending that being annoying is exclusive to women misses the boat completely. There are men I interact with near daily who I'd like to slap and shake by the shoulders and tell them to just fucking stop talking. But they're nice guys, so I got about my business and ignore their blather.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:44 PM
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No one's talking about "gender equality", the other commenter is simply pointing out that you greatly exaggerated your "point" in an attempt at relevance.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:39 PM
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When I was an 18 year old virgin (too many years ago) I had a "crush" on this girl I worked with who was super , suuuuuper into Jesus. We fooled around a bit, but she said she couldn't bring herself to take my v card because she had slept with over 30 men. She was 22.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:12 PM
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So I read a bit about dread game yesterday And I apperantly did it correctly ... Bruh you got this figured out, why are you asking us for advice?
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:08 PM
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Fantastic comment.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:07 PM
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I think you need more of an extended monk mode. Saying "I'm mgtow" is not going to get rid of your sex drive. I understand your frustrations and your instinct to focus on other aspects of life is the right one, but you don't need to make some gay ass declaration that you're never going to Fuck a girl again or something. Work on yourself, never compromise your own mission for a woman, and try not to let it take you over if you do fall for a babe.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:58 PM
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Whatever you say champ.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:39 PM
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Oooh edgy. Check my other comment. This is base level rp/game 101, first day at school type shit. If you'd read the side bar it would literally be impossible to not know the answer to your "question". Way to have even a shred of frame though. ("Frame" is something else you'll read about if you choose to check out the side bar)
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:26 PM
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OP Not sure why you deleted your reply comment ... But here's my reply anyway; Oh good. Then you know that women like feels. Doesn't always have to be "nice feels", if there's physical attraction it's much better to make her feel something (even mild anger) than nothing. If she feels nothing but boredom then she stops thinking about you the second you walk away. If she's physically attracted AND you you get her a little riled up, it can increase the attraction. The basis of "push pull".
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:14 PM
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Have you read a single anything from the side bar?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:01 PM
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You should fight them right there on the dance floor for also dancing with some girl whose name you don't even know. Do that super gay choke hold thing you felt the need to mention.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:42 AM
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Sounds messy. Plenty of single girls out there. But if you're bored and need some drama in your life by all means.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:05 PM
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Bro. If the only reason you do ____ is to get laid (or even worse, to get "love" from a girl), you will always, always be disappointed. Of course getting laid is part of the motivation, but bitches come and go (if only there was a whole fucking lexicon of catch phrases and acronyms describing this phenomenon), so if you're not doing that work for yourself you're just fucked before you even start.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:00 PM
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This is obviously the number one most important thing. The other thing that I'd wager money on is that op masturbates a LOT. While the benefits of Nofap can be debated, I think most guys around here will agree that chronic masturbation, especially if it's your main form of dopamine release, is incredibly detrimental to some guys. Op: if you're masturbating daily, I strongly urge you to cut it to once or twice a week, as little as you can manage. I used to suffer from the "not being able to look …
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:40 PM
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The word you're looking for is rapport.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:57 PM
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You didn't do anything "wrong", definitely do not apologize or bring it up in any way. Own that shit, you said it, you meant it. Treat her 100% normal.. there's a chance she comes back For the d at some unexpected point on the future, since you're now "that type of guy" in her head.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:35 PM
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Totally understand. Unfortunately, as you probably know, there's no magic bullet. You're following the most important tenets of rp. You're making yourself into the man you want to be, so when you do talk to babes it comes from a place of confidence and not giving a Fuck about the outcome. The other side if rp is game. Read the side bar, yes, but also for your specific situation I'd change your goals in regards to women. For the next month, I want you to shamelessly flirt with women you're attrac…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:42 PM
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Sounds to me like what you're really saying is ... (and correct me if I'm wrong)... "I'm doing all the stuff! I have a mission, a full life, I lift, but I know I still suck at talking to girls and I'm not getting laid much. Without disrupting this stuff that gives my life meaning, how do I get better at it?" Which is such a good place to be.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:30 PM
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This low quality blather is because he mentioned the national guard?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:24 PM
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You've got a mission, great. "Approaching" isn't something you should go out and do on the weekends, it's something you should work into your daily life. You work on a college campus and bartend, you're surrounded by babes. If you choose to spend some of your precious time with one, great. If you're too busy, fine, your priorities are straight. What are actually asking here?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:22 PM
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Seriously great fucking article and just what I needed to read this morning.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 02:17 PM
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Lol. maybe she was taking some pics for her spank bank? Or texting her cuckd boyfriend?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:46 PM
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Without knowing much about your life, I'd suggest you also start thinking further outside the box. You're a plumber, you can find decent work ANYWHERE. It sounds like your friends are busy with their own lives or on drugs, so what's keeping you in NYC? I'd at least suggest letting yourself contemplate moving, if it appeals to you at all. Imagine saving every penny for six months and then hitting the road to go live in that ski town you love, or by the beach in Hawaii, or in some other city acros…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 03:01 PM
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Work this week and pocket the vacation moneys. I also spent most of my adult life (in my 30's now) in one ltr or another and now find myself single again. Each relationship taught me a lot, I too have made the same "mistakes" over and over (generally the slow loss of frame in every relationship) ... but you know what? There's two options: sit around feeling bad for yourself, re engage with cigarettes so you have another problem to deal with, or.... commit to unfucking yourself. Sure you can't sn…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:25 PM
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You're not retarded you're just a massive pussy. You can fix this. Stop jerking off so much and next time you're about to puss out, tell yourself "I'm dead tomorrow, there is nothing to lose by going for it "
/r/askTRP27/01/19 02:43 PM
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You've gotten some good advice, but the fact you're even considering sharing their "dirt" to embarrass them is pathetic behavior. Telling "secrets" only reflects poorly on you, so put that idea out of your mind.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 02:30 PM
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Your new found inkling of self respect is awesome (though clearly it feels alien to you), keep building on it with zero fucks for anyone else's opinion.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:57 PM
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Keep in mind that outward expression of anger, especially over petty things, is a sign of weakness. You're showing the world that you're so easy to break, even a small thing can upset you. I know when I go through a "low" spell, then return to higher energy, I sometimes get frustrated that things aren't moving quickly enough in my life. Take some deep breaths, keep doing the hard work, but tell yourself: I'm not going to rush through anything today. Things will happen at their own pace. Head dow…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:15 PM
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Whenever the feelings of loneliness crept up, I would think: there absolutely nothing wrong with this moment. Then I would continue to stay focused. I like this.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 02:52 PM
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Sucks right now, I know, but I promise you'll feel differently in your thirties when you've still got that baby face and can easily hit on girls ten years younger than you. Take a deep breath and trust me when I say it will get better, you will have plenty of sex, you're NOT fucked.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:22 PM
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Ok, bye bye, good luck with everything.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:49 PM
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another second of my precious time on something so pathetic and useless as women. Oh, good, glad you're not angry. /s I stand 100% by my previous post. Your pain and thinly veiled loathing is palpable regardless of your attempted self delusion. Also fyi trp is at its core a sexual strategy, Why are you here asking about jerking off if you are committed to being celibate for the rest of your life?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:33 PM
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Stop. Fucking. Deluding yourself. Or you are going go be a permanently bitter incel for the rest of your life. Who are you trying to impress with your lies? A bunch of internet strangers? Anyone reading your post can see through your bullshit man. How are you ever going to have anything you want in life if you're too scared to say the truth out loud. Let me help you: "I, makemoneyfuck33, have had a life of frustration and dissatisfaction. I see beautiful women and they don't even notice me and i…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:00 PM
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This is called the "anger" phase. For your sake I hope you get over it. There's boat loads of fun to be had dating and fucking women. Sure, they're not what you "thought" they were, but that doesn't make them a "shit product". Dating and fucking women can be one of the most fun parts of life if you can get your feefees under control and enjoy them for what they are. Also please don't be one of those guys who reads trp and then assumes that you have any great value. Sure we talk about the "negati…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:27 PM
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I don't have any advice for you, but your story is not that unique around here (as I'm sure you know). Take my informal low confidence survey for science: How much do you masturbate? How much marijuana do you smoke? Do you live in your own decent place? I know you said you're a struggling musician, but do you have any goals (aKa a mission) that you're relentlessly pursuing? Why the Fuck did you stop working out? Don't beat yourself up buddy. Life is hard, and you've clearly got a Fuck ton of wor…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:24 PM
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Meh, we've all heard this a million times, and while it's a better "default mode" to be in (vs being overly talkative and showing too much investment, etc) it's not always feasible. For example, there's this Legit HB9© who lives 700 miles away from me. We have great rapport in person, and we do ok over the phone, but we barely know each Other and in order to keep the spark alive until our next rendezvous some playful texting is required. And I suck at it. Or maybe SHE sucks at it. The point is, …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:25 PM
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"Cold approaching" works because it gives you opportunities for a "spark" to exist with many more women. I don't like the term though, makes it seem so formal, like your whole day is about trying to talk to girls, which it shouldn't be. The best cold approaching happens off the cuff when you're doing what you'd already be doing that day and find your self in the vicinity of an attractive woman. You should be able to tell within 30seconds if the conversation is worth pursuing (iois or at least sh…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:19 PM
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The book "The Easy Way to Stop Smoking" by Allen Carr. Silly title, but it's a six hour read that will save your life. At least it did for me and millions of other smokers. Ten years and haven't touched a cig and I swear to god the book makes it more or less easy.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:04 PM
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To each their own. On the one hand, I get monthly cuts so I look more "clean cut" than many of my bros, on the other hand, I have little patience for acts of pure vanity and a "quick cut" is about all the time I'm willing to spend on my hair.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:18 PM
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I think you'd look better with a semblance of side burns, but that's personal preference.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:48 PM
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I know the "male barber" thing gets talked about a lot around here, but if you're reasonably "normal" looking the chicks (and few guys) at Great Clips will probably do ya just fine. The absolute worst hair cut I ever had was from a male barber who tried too hard. Nah guy, I don't use product, it should just look good when I get out of the shower and dry it with a towel..
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:46 PM
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Then when my gf was out of the room one of them shoved me and they all gang banged me and started tickling me. And I give a bit physical back playfully. So you already fucked them all, or based on the wording THEY fucked you with a strapon (or you have no idea what "gang bang" means) ... what are you asking?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:28 PM
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Give it a try and find out. Report back.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:16 AM
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You fuckin guys making posts and comments about whether to like a chick on tinder.... oh my god. She's on tinder, meaning she wants to date guys. If you like her ... what is the worst that happens? She fake likes you just so she can make fun of you about it? How fucking stupid and petty would that be? Jesus Christ if you can't tell a chick you're attracted to her on TINDER I can only imagine how your irl interactions are ....
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:37 AM
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And search this sub for "suicidal", there's tons of posts about leaving a girl who says she'll kill herself. And that wall of text is 99% useless details Jesus fuckin Christ.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:37 PM
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He was giving you advice to pass on to your friend. That wasn't aimed at you.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:35 PM
2

You're wrong. That is what porn producers have turned it into, but historically it just means someone whose wife is cheating on them.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:18 PM
15

Childish people are way funnier to be friends with, tho I did cut contact with most of my friends a couple of days ago It's funny how you can read two or three innocuous sentences by someone and know they're just a mess.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:55 PM
6

Based on the broken English of your post and comment replies, I'm not surprised she "misinterpreted" your message. And if you're leaving soon, why do you care about getting in trouble there?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:48 PM
56

Awful stuff man, glad you made it through and were able to prove your innocence.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/18 03:10 AM
6

"No zero days" is another common quip around reddit that's helpful when you're in the verrrrry early stages of unfucking yourself. Going to sleep knowing you made a step, no matter how small, is so much better than going to bed defeated. Good luck with everything, man. Self discipline is such an important habit and it starts with small but consistent steps, and leads to one of the only true forms of fulfillment available to a man.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:22 PM
3

You're over thinking this.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:07 PM
8

You let a "beta scum" dictate your whole evening, and even got your friends involved. He OWNED you. Edit: I just read op's original post, and I get why he was pissed off. Doesn't change the faggotry of this charade.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:31 PM
2

It's ok man, and you might be right. But with ldr there is no way (well less) to follow the very true rule: believe what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:29 PM
4

Cool, you're probably right. But the fact that you are SO SURE based solely on her word shows extreme naivety.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:08 PM
1

Unless she's found someone else locally that she's as / more into. In which case you are paying to fly around the world and sleep on her couch.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:55 PM
1

I find internal to be both healthier and sustainable. This.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:52 PM
14

"Can't be dealing with uncertainty"...
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:48 PM
4

No, but you're letting your insecurity dictate what you do with your life. Women can smell that shit like a festering wound. You're gonna have that dick for the rest of your life. I recommend you use this fun, loose girl to learn how to enjoy it.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:30 PM
1

try to forget this voice and IF/WHEN something happens, then I cut my losses and move on. Would love some advice and have a good weekend y'all. This is the whole point of AWALT.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:27 PM
3

Bruh you're right around average and this insecurity is a way bigger turn off than a rumor about your dick size.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:24 PM
10

You're pathetic, bud. Imagine letting someone else get so far under your skin that you have to put all this effort into a gay little revenge plan and then "brag" about it to internet strangers. You hAve no frame. You may have gotten your revenge, but he "won" by bringing out the petty little faggot in your heart.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:21 PM
2

Nah dude, that's not something you mention all casually when it has NOTHING to do with the post. Either you need attention (a sideways "cry for help"? Lol ) or you truly are off your rocker, which could be why everyone wants your girlfriend to leave you.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:31 PM
2

What are you really asking? Why did you bring up the "psychotic breakdown" twice when it has nothing to do with the story / "question"?
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:12 PM
6

Hey man, the good news is ALL that shit is in your head. Sounds like you've had a tough start (I can relate) but luckily no one else knows or cares about that. Objectively, I'm telling you, you are young enough no one else will care. Sure, 17 year olds fresh outta hs might see you as older, but there will be PLENTY of opportunities to make friends and get laid while you study your ass off. The only thing better than a self made man, is one who did it against all odds. Your old struggles are only…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:28 PM
7

Bruh. You'll be a few years older. If you're ostracized it will be due to this apparently crippling insecurity you suffer from not anything "real".
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:16 PM
25

Dude you'll be five years older than most freshmen and 1-2 years older than the seniors, that's hardly any difference at all. You will have plenty of opportunities to enjoy your classmates, if your age is an issue it's because you let it be. Why are you really asking this? To get validation for your life plan? Just curious, don't mean to attack your post but ... You're talking about a hypothetical situation a few years out ... asking "how it will be" .... What are you really asking ?
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:03 PM
4

That's fine embrace the rp truths and the mindset, great actually!... But the commenter is saying that you shouldn't be spending any significant amount of time on reddit, but instead should be focused on LIVING with your basic understanding of rp as a guide. If you're truly following rp, you should know that spending your days on a forum is counter productive and 95% of what you should be doing with your life does NOT involve sitting at a computer reading forum posts.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:32 PM
2

This. Coupled with trying to remember the past cringe moments of anyone else and realizing I can't, because no one else gives a Fuck about some stupid shit someone else said five years ago.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:20 PM
1

Bro. I've had some sex, some of it which I regret, but I too am now focused almost completely on my career and know all about 80 hour work weeks.. I run my own business and I may fail or I may succeed but I am giving it everything I've got. And yes I could tell you stories of wasting time in the past on women that would absolutely validate your point. I'm not saying you shouldn't give everything towards your mission and success, you definitely should ... I guess I just hate hearing someone give …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:39 PM
1

some stupid used up two cent bitch
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:11 PM
1

Props for taking the introspective route. Isn't it fuckin pathetic that as grown men we still have to deal with shit like this? Honestly wish I had some better advice for you man... some of the other comments might be more actionable. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:08 PM
1

Bruh. You don't say "they can rot in hell" about people you legitimately don't care about. You care, because you've been burned by them your whole life, you're furious at the part of yourself that you KNOW wants to Fuck them, and you're using this "not caring" b.s. as a veil to hide that fact. And at least in some corner of your mind your desire for success is fueled by your anger and desire for power over the women who rejected you. And it's absolutely transparent to every one reading this. It'…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:47 PM
2

Hah well it was worth throwing it out there. I didn't come to any real conclusions when digging into the issue myself, but it was still helpful to put it on paper. Reliance on external validation... I had to say it to see it. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:32 PM
1

As I admitted in the edit, my numbers were off. But the average is certainly higher than 2.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:25 PM
1

I'm not trying to attack here man, the only reason I'm picking on your answers is because I think you're deeply angry at women and are in denial of that fact. And I think it's more healthy to just fucking admit it (at least to yourself) and move forward with an honest knowledge of what's going on inside your brain. It's ok to be pissed ( and super common) but don't come on here using every degrading term you can to describe women (who you "Won't waste your time on") and then tell me you're not b…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:23 PM
1

Then why are you on trp?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:14 PM
1

Maybe this is true to some extent, but my bros are some pretty average mofos. And it's not all about quantity, man. One good girl that you can Fuck for years might keep your number of partners low, but could be the most satisfying sex ever so who cares. I believe in most of The "western world" (really just meaning not overly religiously conservative in this sense) these numbers are fairly average. Maybe the range is wider but ... I bet it overlaps with my observation. I guess I could Google it .…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:07 PM
4

You have an extreme need for external validation. The roots likely lay in your upbringing. Were you raised by a single mother? Just guessing. I have a similar but less severe case of this, and I really dug into the roots of it through some journaling and realiZed that my own ideas of what "abundance" means were limiting me and keeping me in this mentality / dependence on external validation mindset. Take a good hard look at your past and I bet you'll find the root of the issue.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:01 PM
1

Bruh.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:03 PM
9

I wish I had some good advice for you regarding the guy, but I don't. Complain to management? Now you look like the shit disturber. Ignore him? Clearly it's getting under your skin. The only last thing I want to say is that you should definitely take a look at how this is affecting your own frame and the role your ego plays here. The fact you even mentioned your height and the idea of physical violence ("if this weren't the work place") suggests an over reaction and very defensive position. He's…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 02:26 PM
5

Sounds annoying af for sure. Impossible to know without seeing it first hand, but I wonder if in his mind he can say this shit because he knows you're a valued / well liked employee so no one will take it seriously. I can't picture it being said in front of you without sarcasm .. "great morning until MIKE got here" to me could almost be his way of self deprecating and pointing out that you're always upbeat / whatever ... almost his autistic way of saying he likes / admires you? I'm just spitting…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 02:09 PM
6

If he's such a ween do you really think anyone else is taking his bullshit seriously? Does be really have the power to emo you into a bad reputation?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:45 PM
16

No advice, but I bet she's embarrassed / pissed that you didn't Fuck her that night.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:36 PM
1

Let's be clear: You've got a sore throat, which you assume must be mono (lol) and you're asking us how to spin it into a second date?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:17 AM
2

Jordan has the right of it. Continue on your path and Fuck the haters bro, just another test of your spirit and your will. You're doing better today than you were yesterday; onward.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:00 AM
2

Have you read the side bar? What you're looking for is Monk Mode, not this mgtow b.s.. It's clear that some particular girl (or girls) "hurt you" and now you're trying to get the manosphere to approve your "I don't need or want sex because jerking off is just as good" mentality... But most of us have been there and recognize that you are in a deeply butt hurt state and trying to justify a lifestyle that to most of us looks like a cop out. I won't try to convince you that it's "worth it", even th…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:51 AM
1

Pathetic or not, TRP is about sexual strategy, so if this is how you really feel you're on the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:40 AM
2

2 or 3? I'm in my thirties, and I'd say my LEAST sexually successful bro is at 3, but the average at this age is 15 - 20+ and I know a few guys with well over 50. By the way, the guy with "only three" is currently enjoying a ton of great sex with a hot ltr and making up for "lost time". Your views of "average" are waaaaaay off.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:37 AM
30

Bruh she has already dumped you. There will be no downgrade option on your part.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:45 PM
6

Guy. The cool thing is you're fairly self aware, but you clearly harbor some misunderstandings about trp teachings. The biggest thing obviously lacking from your world is an IDGAF attitude. You care so much and analyze so deeply every single interaction that you have, no wonder you are self conscious. Take for example a girl asking you about your day. You paint it like: you either lie and only tell the "good" parts, or tell her every single silly* thing you did to fill your time. Why do you thin…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 03:12 PM
2

Www.trp.red
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:10 PM
1

I actually completely disagree. I think most guys would prefer a "nice" hot chick who is low drama to some "hoe" with an attitude who thinks she's something special. Beauty is key.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:37 PM
2

I get high and write code. That one track weed mind really helps the ADD. Socializing on weed? Meh, I'd rather have a beer. To each their own though.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:29 PM
2

Yup, you've gotten the advice you need: sleeping with an ex is just not worth it. Too many fish in the sea to put yourself in a situation with guaranteed drama.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:28 PM
3

You're truly, deeply pathetic, if this is the pinnacle of your ambitions.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:18 AM
3

You're basically saying you want to get back with her so you can give up and just leech off her indefinitely. Pathetic in every way and I hope she sees through your gay little "plan".
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:13 AM
1

"Bitch, awalt. Don't pretend to be sweet, we both know you'd be my dirty whore if I had a job like Chad. You're about to hit the wall anyway. I've read some stuff... trust me, you're getting the tingles right now. You just don't know what women really want. I'm fine wine, you're a crumpled napkin." The idea of an unemployed guy reading trp and still coming away with the idea that he should even be speaking to women without fixing his own fucking pathetic life first is the biggest problem with th…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:04 PM
1

Maybe you just need to change your language. "Hating" your competitors is not normal or healthy. How do you hate your friends? Sure they piss you off, and there's the occasional jealousy over a biatch, but "hate"? Last comment since I'm being Mr helpful: If you're really not gay, let me show you how to "prove" that in future situations without making yourself look like a closet homo: "You gay." "Nah, not into the peen. Next." End of conversation because who fucking cares if someone "thinks you'r…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:15 PM
1

Such cringe. Many eyeroll. Either you're 15 or you've been a victim of really bad bullying your whole life. Or both. Plus still leaning towards repressed homosexuality but let's forget about that for now. If I had to guess, you hate men because you grew up without a good male role model, and the men you did interact with as a child were just a mirror for what was lacking in your own life. Plus they were big and loud and scary. What little boy wouldn't hate that if he's not used to it? Additional…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:00 PM
1

and I told her I see that as being homo and told her I can't do it. No, stupid. I don't want to taste my cum, because it made me gag. If I was gay obviously I would have no issues with it. As soon as she kissed me with mouthful of my sperm it made me visibly gag and almost throw up and I told her no way I'm doing that shit. Make up your mind.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:23 PM
1

Next time she's sucking your dick, close your eyes and imagine it's a dude. You might discover you are actually gay. Probably not, but being disgusted by eating pussy and not wanting to taste your cum "because that's gay" screams of closet homosexuality (or just being extremely young). Btw I'm not saying you should want to taste your cum, it's fine to think that's gross, but to not want to do it because you think it's gay ... lol. I'm mostly trolling, but realize that being overly concerned with…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:04 PM
6

Go to sleep everything is fine.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:25 AM
1

Monk mode. Forget about your current peers, your future is all that matters. Current you is fucked, and that's ok. Do the hard work to become the man you want to be. It will not be immediately rewarding, but it's extremely important.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:41 PM
3

You should feel bad that you lashed out like a little angry kid and showed your weakness, not that you insulted her. Move on and learn from your own mistakes. Whatever you do don't apologize or contact her again in any way, you're not doing anyone any favors.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:34 PM
1

I'm self employed and my schedule is all over the place, so I probably sound a lot like your friend. I don't want to be pinned down because I'm not positive what my work load is going to look like in three days. That being said, if it's something that requires a commitment and I'm not sure I can make it, I'll just say yes or no.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:24 PM
2

Op has no friends or social circle and is basically a kissless virgin, ltr'n ANY babe would be a fucking disaster for him.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:33 AM
3

While I'd normally agree with this advice (and I learned the don't shit where you eat lesson the hard way), in this particular comment thread we're talking about him getting a restaurant job just to meet girls, and you're suggesting that he avoids fucking other staff so that he can move up in the industry, protect his reputation, blah blah blah... That's good advice if he was looking to get into the restaurant industry for other reasons, but in this case ... lol this whole comment thread is full…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 10:31 AM
24

I then blocked her and all her friends from social media as well as blocked her number from calling/texting. Bro if you're taking such drastic actions, as well as posting about it on reddit, i think you should probably write it off as a learning experience and reevaluate life. Maybe it's not traditional "oneitis" but things are clearly out of balance between you and this woman and I think it would be difficult, and probably unwise, to pursue anything further.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:55 PM
56

Well you set a kind of gay "boundary" due to hyper insecurity, and now you're dealing with the emotional fall out. Yes, yes, you have to stick to your guns, but also choose your fucking battles guy. On the one hand, I guess it would irritate me if my girl was liking shirtless inmate photos, on the other hand I'm pretty fucking busy can't really be bothered to give a Fuck. Mate guarding on this level is a bit cringe inducing. But you've now lost all frame with her, so move on and try not to be so…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:02 PM
2

If you don't recognize the sarcasm... may God have mercy on your soul. My point was that she has absolutely zero interest in you, and here you are asking for advice about her on the internet. There is no grey area here, move on and don't spend another second on her because she is not into you. Jesus fucking Christ man.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:26 AM
2

Just to give you some background on this, she's always treated me as her gay friend, bla bla, and she's stated multiple times she's not attracted to me. Sure fire sign that she's really playing hard to get and wants your D!! Spoil her, pay for her train ticket, and make sure to compliment her even when she Doesn't deserve it. When she stands you up and doesn't use the ticket you bought her, double down and drive to HER country without telling her. Show up at her work or school with flowers. You …
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:12 AM
7

You didn't Fuck up because she's not your ltr anymore, so there's nothing do "break". You DID finally give her a tiny bit of the power back with your little fit, but who cares, she's no longer part of your life .
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:03 AM
22

You look fine. Whatever issues you're having that are prompting you to be this insecure are clearly internal.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:03 PM
10

I'm not going to give you specific advice, but I do want to say you are sooooooooooo normal for your age. 18, testosterone just fucking raging from your balls, desire to Fuck is SO strong but regardless of reading , improving, and "30 approaches" it still hasn't "happened". You couldn't be more normal. There's going to be a lot of pussy in your future, but you need to take some deep breaths and realize you can't force it, and trying too hard is #1 game killer. Keep on working on yourself and try…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:04 PM
2

Dude are you not aware of the idea of shared custody? Yes, if the kid is yours and she insists on having it, you should take responsibility, but obviously you should not BE with this woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 01:27 PM
27

Where in this post does it say that op lost his composure, or approached the girl in any way?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 05:08 PM
2

Like under age? Stop responding you fucking idiot she's crazy, her mom knows it, and the cops will be knocking when they find your texts
/r/askTRP16/01/18 06:32 PM
3

I couldn't even bring myself to quote the "realize I'm an alpha badass" part because I felt like my penis might fall off. Edit: Fuck, there it goes. I'm going to take a long, cold shower right now and pretend this never happened.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:03 PM
4

<3
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:19 PM
1

I know a dude who can't be taller than 5'4" and you know what? He fucking intimidates me because his frame is SO FUCKING SOLID. I'm 6' + and it's not like I'm scared of the dude, but I respect the shit out of him and I'm positive he slays pussy. He has worked hard go get where he is, and it may be harder for him to open a girl, but he owns his fucking life.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:16 PM
7

Either she agrees and services my cock or she doesn’t and I drop her? Oh my god this is cringey. If you're really that prepared to "drop her" then you wouldn't be here asking other people on the internet for details on how you should treat her, what you should say, blah blah blah What do YOU want? Realize there's no right answer here. It honestly feels like you are just desperate for validation, if not from this girl then from a bunch of strangers on the internet. Ugh.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:11 PM
2

Dude. You need to stop caring so fucking much about what happens with HER. Every time you post a follow up question asking for clarification on how EXACTLY you should treat her, you're showing how invested you are and you come off as needy right here in this very thread. I can only imagine how you act in "real life". The idea is to genuinely give less fucks! The point of a&a is that you don't take the shit she says seriously and you're not worried about her opinion of your maturity level because…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:04 PM
1

Besides getting laid, what is your mission?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:58 AM
10

Small town, they're probably bored af, aggression gets em wet, yadda yadda what's the question ?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:56 PM
5

She's cocky and over weight and you are asking for tips to "get her back"? Wtf sub do you think you are on?
/r/askTRP26/12/17 04:05 PM
1

Dude she's blacked out she's not learning any lessons that night. Quietly and calmly being told it's over, in the morning when she's all hung over, will be "punishment" enough. Getting her off the street safely is about the man's integrity, not her privilege or some such garbage.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:24 PM
2

Of course she's portraying her current life that way to you, but yeah you have NO IDEA how she treats her man in private or what their lives are really like. She might be "content" because she always gets her way and has finally given up on the idea of an exciting sex life. Wonder how content her man is? Poor bastard probably has blue balls as we speak.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 12:26 PM
2

Find out and let us know fucker! she's still not a special snowflake, don't go treating her like one just because she doesn't have hands.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 12:01 PM
6

Dump her ass in the morning, but I agree it's a bad move to leave anyone you are with (guy or girl) on the side of the road blacked out drunk at night. Call me a white knight, idgaf, but I have to maintain some level of integrity to be able to sleep at night.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:58 AM
11

How the fuck is asking where someone went for the holidays intrusive? Seems like the most common and benign form of office banter to me. What a bitch! Unless maybe they're secret lesbian lovers?
/r/askTRP10/12/17 03:21 PM
1

Man I'm pretty good about brevity with babes, but I run a small business and do many of my sales online via email / Facebook messenger, and I'm often disgusted looking at the walls of text I have to send to potential clients. I try to trim them down but it's all necessary information ... just makes me feel like I'm trying too hard to make a sale / look desperate. It has to do with the fact that I'm making expensive custom pieces for people and there are a lot of fucking options. Still makes me c…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:29 PM
1

Just goofing on you bud.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 06:56 PM
2

I studied HR in school recently hired a resume writer to tailor my resume Wut.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 06:39 PM
3

It will be hard to follow his rules if you don't have good male friends, indeed. I think it's more important that you start putting yourself out there in other ways, consistently. As I said in my other post, I'd recommend you find a weekly pickup game and make it fucking un-negotiable that you play basketball with other guys every single fucking week. This is as important as lifting, for someone in your shoes. You need consistent social interaction more than anything right now, especially in a f…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:33 PM
4

This is just an excuse you're telling yourself to justify being a pussy.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:21 PM
1

You read it twice, but we both KNOW you didn't follow his instructions. What's the one thing he says over and over and over again? What does almost every single "breaking free activity" require that we both KNOW YOU DIDN'T DO?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:21 PM
1

There are pick-up games in just about every town. Stop being a pussy and put yourself out there, at least on the basketball court. Your mentality can not be fixed JUST from reading and lifting. You need to force yourself into social situations, and you also definitely need to reduce the amount of masturbation and porn your are consuming. What are you scare of? You're going to get pwned on the court? GOOD. That's how you'll actually become a better b-ball player. And the same rule applies for app…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:19 PM
2

Guy, I know the rejection part sucks, but it's part of the game. Yes, you should keep approaching the girls, but if you don't get laid while in school it really does not matter. Keep working on yourself, keep hitting on the girls, and in a couple years what happened in high school won't matter EXCEPT that you willl have used that time giving yourself the basis for a great life as a man. Work on yourself relentlessly. Read the side bar. And take a couple deep breaths... You have tools at your dis…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 02:54 PM
2

He's being sarcastic. Go read the side bar.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 02:33 PM
9

So in other words, you have no point at all. Your big realisation is just common sense and even most men who have never heard of trp understand it intrinsically. Around here we'd categorize this under "watch what she does not what she says"
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:00 PM
3

This. If it is a "red flag" then it's already too late. Enjoy the fun, and see what happens. Worst case you break up but oh well, got to fuck two girls together which is loads of fun.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:59 PM
2

You're not wrong on paper, but it has NO connection with the reality of experience. You might look at a failed startup and think "poor schmuck, what a loser" ... But you have no idea what lessons that entrepreneur learned while attempting to achieve his dream. His failure might be just what he needed to set him on the right path, and most importantly, he learned something about his own resilience. You're looking at life as if it can be quantified on paper, and that is complete bullshit. It's not…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:49 PM
14

You're on the right track. Cutting masturbation to once a week will change your life and definitely change your bedroom performance.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:53 PM
21

If you've been jerking off daily, number one alone is going to make a HUGE difference.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:40 PM
6

Re: altruistic love; haven't you ever been "in love" with a babe, and when you think about her sweet little laugh, or the poignant vulnerability of her slender wrists, you just feel a warm, protective love in your heart? In that moment you want to protect her from the pain of the world (as much or more) as you want to fuck her silly, and I think that's the altruistic love op is talking about, and which ladies don't inherently feel for men.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:28 PM
6

Two posts about the same girl? You're fucked, dude .
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:05 PM
3

What the fuck are you talking about? Oneitis is an attraction killing, soul-sucking imbalance that is never "fine".
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:03 PM
1

Step 1: Lighten the fuck up man! This guy was being "funny", so you got defensive and deleted your post? Smh. Laugh at yourself dude. This shit is retarded, all of it, and that's ok! The cool thing is you already KNOW how you think you should treat women, but you're all "broken" so you "can't" do it except with mom. Nah guy, that's such bs, you're just being a pussy and you know it. But that's not something you can instantly "fix" by thinking about it, which is why we have tools around here. The…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:52 PM
2

Guy. Have you read the side bar at all? I know high school is tough, but you're a senior and that part is almost over. "Is there a point to trying ..." Fuck yes. You might get laid, and if not you'll gain experience. And you'll probably never have another chance with most of these girls once high school is over.... And many of them you'll never even SEE again after school, so you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Your current popularity is going to mean nothing in a year. Use this tim…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:00 PM
2

I think you might benefit from the book No More Mr Nice Guy. Whether you relate to most of it or not, he has some interesting ideas / observations about how mother / son relationships affect us as men, and overall it's just a good read.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 02:46 PM
11

She went on vacation. He's telling you to soft next her.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 01:15 PM
2

I will. And I should point out I slogged through more of that article and it does actually have some decent (if very basic) points, even if it's a little long-winded and could use a good edit. Have a great day op.
/r/becomeaman19/10/17 02:44 PM
3

This is an awesome, motivating article for me. Not because the content, but because someone with very little talent, no real concept for an article, and only a basic level understanding of English, made that website, wrote all that drivel, then had the balls to put it out there on the Internet. It's a great reminder that execution of an idea is so much more important than perfection. I am one of those that lets perfectionism hold me back from finalizing and launching projects. It is a major prob…
/r/becomeaman19/10/17 02:36 PM
7

I understand what you're saying, and it's a nice idea, but its not reality. The way you're painting it, doing just about anything to gain or maintain attraction with women is "bluepill" or a "harmful or cheap tactic". I know that "dread" might sound nasty, but it's the same basic thing as dressing nice, working out, having good skin care ... anything that you do at least in part to attract or maintain attraction with a woman. And here's the important part: It's only necessary to talk about this …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:50 AM
14

This thread is about maintaining tingles because that's what keeps the relationship fun for both partners. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:18 PM
2

Yeah blowing stuff up for fun is not childish at all ... Even though it's what we all did when we were 12. My bros and I like to mountain bike. While we're on the trail getting exercise and testing our endurance, you're wasting your money on explosives and trying to recapture the same pointless "fun" you had as an adolescent. Real manly. I do agree with the "building Shit" part though. That's probably the thing I spend the most time doing with the bros. Edit: I should point out I'm totally fine …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:18 PM
1

Hey bud, how are things progressing? Hope you're building some good momentum.... And if not start tomorrow fuckeR!!!
/r/askTRP15/10/17 07:10 AM
2

You already know the basic answer here, the problem is you don't REALLY believe in it yet because it's all just theory at this point. The thing with lifting is not just that getting in good shape helps you look better and thus get laid. Long before your physical looks start to change, the disciplined actions of working out will start changing your actual brain chemistry and the way that you feel about yourself. And although guys have differing opinions about nofap, reducing how much you fap Will…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 12:46 PM
4

THis is so reminiscent of every fucking political argument on Reddit. I mostly agree with you on the basics that Trump lies as easily as most people breathe, BrownTRP... but then you go and shoot yourself in the foot by repeating "Most Mexicans are rapists" which .. sorry dude but we all know those were not his word, and you've now lost any credibility you had by showing your extreme bias against him. sigh
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 03:14 PM
2

Ok, I understand what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 03:05 PM
1

I think we mostly agree here. The thing I take exception to is "until you're sure". If you're ever sure, then you're fooling yourself. Look at your example about gun data... You basically said "so I go right to the raw data, but I don't trust that data so I look for patterns in it that confirm my world view". I'm not saying your world view is wrong, but your idea of what makes something a fact leaves a lot to be desired.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 02:48 PM
1

Right and what I'm saying is it's not (just) laziness. If you listen to the "fact checkers", so much of what comes out of trumps mouth is 100% provable lies. But maybe those fact checkers are actually the liars, so you find an article stating the opposite "facts". You can spend all kinds of time and energy seeking the truth, but you'll still probably just end up settling on the version of it that most closely fits your existing world view. It's a worm hole, and the ones (apparently like you) who…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 02:29 PM
2

Not gonna take sides here, but you repeat "look at the facts" as if that were some easy thing to do. Sure, for every negative thing said about the Donald I can find an article stating the opposite is true, but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm any closer to "knowing the facts". It's a fucked age we live in, and know the truth about anything is damn near impossible regardless of how much internet research you do.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 01:53 PM
2

Yeah ... don't beat yourself up over it. You're clearly starting to internalize the right ideas, but there's just no hope with this particular girl, and if that bothers you to hear then your first problem is oneitis. You are going to be fine, man, you have found the necessary path / info, now you just have a lot of work and a lot of reading to do. Good luck my friend. It's the walk that matters, not the destination. Embrace the hardships, and then Fuck them in the ass.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 08:59 PM
2

I guess i hate myself for liking nerdy things Are you 7? One of the awesome parts about growing up is realizing that "nerdy things" are actually "interesting things" that make you interesting to fucking talk to. Jesus guy you sound so fucking mopey I want to slap you and shake you by the shoulders. Sounds like everything is fine but you are looking for something to be sad about because ... maybe you're bored? Self sabotaging? Just kind of a douche? If you enjoy your hobbies, be fucking proud of …
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:14 PM
6

So do everything you can to raise your smv and increase that abundance, which will serve you whether it works out with her or not. When you hear that bitch voice in your head telling you you should be worried about your ltr, do everything you would if you were single. Lift harder. Re- focus on your passions. Flirt with girls. And raise that fucking smv until you create a twinkle of abundance in your soul.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:52 PM
2

posting about your little "idgaf plan" already shows that you are in the wrong mindset and you will never be able to make it work. Nor should you even try. Work on yourself, pursue other girls, delete her number.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:47 PM
1

It depends if she deserves to be with me Ugggh cringed so hard. When trp goes terribly wrong. Your "relationship" is over, as you well know. What was this post about again?
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:45 PM
2

Dude. Sounds like a fine plan. Assuming you get that far with a woman and ghost her, her hamster is probably going to go into overdrive and she may be way more into you because you left her high and dry (er wet). On the flip side, if you ever feel the pull too strongly and start considering going for the "real thing", please do us all a favor and put a gun in your mouth.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:41 PM
1

Your story is not unique at all, similar events lead many men to the red pill. But it's time to start reading the side bar. No advice that anyone gives you will even make sense unless you know the fundamental principles of trp. So get reading man you have a ton of material to cover.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:27 PM
2

sigh
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:00 PM
2

You're on the wrong sub duder. Check out the relationships sub lots of good info for you there.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:50 PM
4

You're writing fucking novels about her online and she is off living her life NOT thinking about you. You are never going to plate her. She doesn't hate you, but she's also not into you AT ALL. Get over it Jesus fucking Christ man.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:48 PM
1

MOST 6's, like the VAST majority, are NOT approaching the women they want. The approach itself, opening as many babes as possible, gives you the access to so much more pussy than your average 6. I'm just saying that numbers wise, idgaf approaching is almost a guaranteed path to increased pussy, simply because so many guys ARE pussies and will not do it. Not complicated.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 07:58 PM
1

Of course. My point was more that approaching, in itself, DOES set you apart from other sixes.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 07:18 PM
1

Approaching with zero fucks about outcome instantly gives you more opportunities than your average 6. Unlimited opportunities, really.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 07:09 PM
2

Not putting women on a pedestal is not the same as having a mission ...
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:28 PM
1

I completely stand by my statement, but I also realize that I'm not adding anything constructive, so I'll leave you guys to your conversation... regardless of what I think of its true merits.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:55 PM
2

Ouch. Burned.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:37 PM
1

The point of your post is that you're excited you got two girls numbers, and had to find a way to post about it so you turned it into a question. This is not a "tricky situation", and you know it. Congrats on getting your first digits.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:34 PM
1

Look at the replies you're getting.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:31 PM
1

Jesus Christ. This is where we're at, eh? This sub has gone to shit.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:29 PM
3

What Kenny is arguing is that gut instinct is trash and you should base everything on empirical evidence. You then go on to counter with "gut instinct has some legitimacy, trust me" ... Asking him to take your word on it and believe something based on "trust"... Which clearly he is loathe to do. It made me laugh, how perfectly (and unwittingly) you illuminated the differences in your opinions / personalities.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:19 PM
2

I'm not taking sides in this gay little argument, but the irony of your last post is perfect.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:12 PM
1

I disagree. While it does appear that he had mgtow tendencies, it sounds to me like he placed "soft, feminine" women on a pedestal... And when that didn't work out for him, he eventually gave up on chasing skirts all together and put the blame on the de-feminization of "modern" women. I think his mgtow stance was generated by his bp worship of, and lack of success with, women. And yeah I'm basing that off a few third hand quotes.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 12:13 PM
11

Plenty of men are shitty people too. Choose wisely who you associate with / spend your time on, regardless of their sex.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 12:22 AM
2

Ok got ya. That makes a big difference if you're planning to let him keep his financial stake in the business. Let us know how it all plays out.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:03 PM
13

Keep in mind that if your plan does work, you may make an enemy for life. Even if the owner seems to be over it, if he started that business from scratch it will be like you are fucking his wife and taking his kids if you force him out of "his" business. People have been killed over shit like this. Then again, it happens every day. Any chance you could start your own competing business instead of raping this poor schmuck so directly and likely creating huge amounts of drama?
/r/askTRP12/08/17 01:36 PM
0

I would have said the same thing, if I didn't know better. I have been experimenting with semen retention / nofap for over two years. I still occasionally fap as I don't see it as a purely negative thing, but I will tell you for me the effects are absolutely real and measurable. The only benefit I find from fapping comes when I have a heavy amount of computer work to do and am too horny to concentrate. When I cum under those circumstances, I know I am trading lower energy for the next day (or tw…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 07:24 PM
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Yeah, you should just give up, settle, and be miserable. Smh. Fuck, guy. It's not all about looks, but if you're not attracted to her then don't even consider it. Better to be alone. Keep improving, your mission is about YOU. Yeah you need to be realistic, but don't fucking settle and throw in the towel just because it would be easy. Goddamnit man. Fuck.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:19 PM
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While I agree with you on a very generic level, I don't see how you're offering a single new thought here. I think most guys here intrinsically understand the relationship between "being alpha" and having confidence. So the only real advice you're giving is ... stop playing video games, eating shit food, and jacking off so much, and replace it with lifting, gaining interesting hobbies, and cold approaching women. Which is the most basic and fundamental principle of Redpill. Your advice is solid,…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:30 PM
1

As long as he's still taking care of the kids, then leaving the shit relationship is the right thing to do
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:48 PM
6

Good thing you censored uhm... I'm guessing ..."slutty" and "fuck". Might have offended someone.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 01:43 PM
2

One of the better summaries of the benefits of nofap that I've ever read. I've experienced about the same myself.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 03:36 PM
3

Could also have to do with the weirdly specific nature of your question. Do women like abs when giving a bj? Just sounds like a trigger-ing-ly specific thing to ask. Why not just "do women find visible abs on men sexy?"
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:57 PM
1

I find op's post interesting, because he is illustrating what I've seen many friends do irl. I have one friend in particular who will boast about the harsh things he said to someone he was pissed at (for some reason this happens too often with him), and my reply is always along the lines of "by getting that mad, and then showing how mad you are, you have given up all your power. You are acting like a woman. " but he just does. Not. Get. It. Smh
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 02:55 PM
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We don't. If you choose to have an SO, you do right by her. If you want to sleep with many different women then you should not have an SO.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 12:07 PM
1

Until you have fucked five other girls.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:56 PM
1

Your only move is to pretend she doesn't exist, permanently, while you go monk mode ... Man, it's going to take a while to unfuck yourself, you are just a mess. But your main take away should be that it is NEVER going to happen with this girl, and your obsession with her goes against everything we believe in here, so we can't (and won't) help you try to "get" her.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 01:54 PM
1

I have about 10k ig followers for my art. Just checked out the last twenty or so chicks who have liked my posts and although some of them are very sexy, there's almost none of what you're describing. Who knows.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 12:59 PM
4

Why the fuck would your family just up and tell her about it? Smh
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:46 PM
4

Wrap it up and have some fun. Shit, what's the problem here? You know her reputation so just dont get feels for her ffs but otherwise I say enjoy
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:03 AM
2

I like the answers in this thread, good way to start the morning. Love you all longtime
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:13 PM
5

It's not about her "career" or what she does outside the house, it's about her childish squeels of delight and willingness to let her guard down, reserved only for you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:58 PM
12

Says a guy who has never witnessed the transformation that op is talking about. Your woman can still be an ambitious go getter in some ways, but when she's with you, if your relationship is properly balanced and you keep her tingles high, she will turn into a little girl in some ways. If you've never seen it first hand I feel bad for you. It's a wonderful thing.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:51 PM
2

I was in the business for many years (10+). Mostly as an affilate, although I did the pay site thing as well with some success. My recommendation would be to ... not. Just not. It's such an opportunistic industry and it couldn't possibly be more saturated. And at the end of the day, it involves countless hours sitting at your computer trying to turn clicks into gold ... which makes me want to put a gun in my mouth just thinking about it. I wish I could get those ten years back. It wasn't worth t…
/r/askTRP23/03/17 04:54 PM
12

Uhm, so she was small, but was she ugly like op is talking about?
/r/askTRP18/03/17 03:30 PM
7

What kind of stupid shit do you post that mods are always looking through your post history?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 11:04 PM
1

Don't listen to the other guys. Do your gay little plan and make her hit you over the head with a "real" rejection. /s Dude. ANY "reason" a girl says "no" means the same thing: she's not interested in you. She was just trying to be nice about it. But maybe you need to hit some kind of social rock bottom so I say go full-pathetic on her as planned.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 04:23 PM
1

Bro. It IS the nicotine , at least in part, whether you know it or not. The book "the easy way to stop smoking" can help 're program your mind so that you realize all of the joy you thought you got from it was a lie and ultimately stemmed from other sources (as you obviously already understand to some extent).
/r/askTRP15/02/17 01:25 AM
1

Just out of curiosity, you still pretty out of shape / over weight?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 01:22 AM
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That is a rough one and I think pretty common on this board to feel that way. The only thing I can say, and it might sound cliche, but the shit you're putting effort into needs to have more potential payback than getting laid... Aka, it should already be satisfying, and therefore you're not waiting around for some outside result but already enjoying / benefiting from the action.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 01:21 AM
5

How old is she?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:58 PM
4

Nah, you're right that this sub is overrun by superficial bs a lot of the time. I feel bad for the new guys coming here and thinking that's what it's all about, they are missing out on the value. Guess those who really want it will dig for all the gold that does exist here too.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 02:27 PM
5

Well those superficial wannabe alpha traits you think this sub is about are really just a small part of it. The underlying message to me has always been "make your life full and interesting as fuck, value yourself, and keep your body in shape"... Not everyone is meant to be "alpha", but that is how you maximize your potential.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 02:17 PM
1

Sounds like you've wasted enough time trying to convince him, id say "cool bro agree to disagree on some things. peace." Why would you want to waste more time trying to change his mind or standing up for your beliefs, who cares what he thinks.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:41 PM
2

"Dang New plans already you so popular. My bad, next time."
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:36 PM
3

"Cool have fun"
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:34 PM
2

How hard is it to say to the person in front of you "hang on, I'm on the phone"... Then say to the person on the phone, your ltr... "babe I want to chat with my old friend, let me call you right back" ? You don't just hang up like a social retard ..
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:28 PM
1

And if she deleted it how did you read it on her phone. And what did it fucking say? Did she delete it after you had your gay little talk with her about it or before? We can't give you real advice when you give us such a half assed version of events .
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:22 PM
2

You need to really make it clear to her that your decision is final and you're NEVER getting back together with her. You'll probably need to use that word to really crush any last hope she has: never. And you have to be ok with her "hating" you, as she might need to do in order to protect her own ego / reality.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 01:19 PM
3

So you've actually had the "I'm ok with cheating" conversation, then had a girl cheat and tell you honestly because you said it was fine... And then felt better about the whole situation? Honestly not trying to talk shit I just can't imagine this.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:20 PM
2

The "dirty trick" of telling her you can forgive cheating ... So much lols
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 12:56 PM
1

Did you even read the post?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 03:54 PM
2

Half way through reading this I had to scroll up and make sure I wasn't accidentally on 2x. Not a judgement, but this reads like one of those "a guy grabbed my butt on the subway, and for the first time I stood up for myself" threads... Except you're standing up for yourself against a girl who friend-zoned you and another girl who won't give up the brown eye. Fuck. How the fuck is it not Friday?
/r/askTRP29/12/16 03:50 PM
10

Run and lift. No girl is that special.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 09:38 PM
14

We are going to need more details about this anus touching.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 12:33 PM
1

Right, which is something we don't do around here: evangelism.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 07:58 PM
5

Look up the word "commitment" ... Wasting my time on the occasional comment is not one. I could put down the phone now and no one else would care. You're planning a circle jerk for at least 112 other people... It's a bit different.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:17 PM
3

That's fine, you're the kind of guy who "sort of randomly and without really thinking" signs up to "host" a "redpill movie night" and is now going to waste countless hours making it happen. You, ma'am, are a woman. Men of value don't commit their time to stupid causes "without really thinking" ... That's just pathetic. Ffs
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:33 PM
5

Down vote all you like, but the fact is throwing a movie night for "rp bros" is just wrong and pathetic on so many levels. Rp knowledge is a tool, it can be used to improve yourself and maximize personal growth, but it shouldn't be the center of your life and there's certainly no benefit to planning your precious weekend nights around it. Nor is there any value in spreading the ideology to the uninitiated masses.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:33 PM
6

You have way too much free time.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:52 PM
1

Hosting a red pill movie night?? AaaaHahahahahaha That's one of the funnier, and stupider, ideas I've ever heard. And how the fuck do you have free time to waste on something like this? Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:01 PM
8

"Is it beta?"... sigh
/r/askTRP19/12/16 12:50 PM
6

What's bothering me about your posts is that you seem to see the male desire for pussy as some kind of weakness. All of your words scream ,"I'm a victim", and it's off-putting. Yes we're naturally wired this way, yes we do sometimes do things just for the sake of increasing our sexual options.... But who cares! You're not a victim. You're a human. Wanting Pussy is in your blood, and it can be one of the most fun parts of life if you don't take it too seriously.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:00 PM
4

Dude. Wasn't there some rule about walls of text written by people who just like to hear their own voice? Are the mgtow guys getting their feefees hurt by guys who can't relate? Who. Fucking. Cares. You didn't need to write a novel about it lol...
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 01:18 PM
2

There's some truth in what you say, but you're ignoring huge parts of the equation and idealizing the alternative. Sure society is restrictive, but it also sets up a framework that allows so many people to live together in relative peace. When order breaks down, when people aren't bound by the (sometimes bullshit) niceties of civilization, you get fucking Aleppo.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:44 AM
1

And I should elaborate and point out that "Valuing her" and "sensitivity", when not coupled with extreme amounts of Mental Strength, are not attractive to any woman. That's what turns guys "pathetic" and we all know it.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:41 PM
1

See now we're getting somewhere! The problem is, MOST guys, before they come to this sub, have the second two "Valuing her + Sensitivity" in HIGH RESERVE. They have so much of that, but NONE of the first one, Mental Strength, which we call "Frame" and "Discipline" ... and that is the main thing that is taught around here. "Mental Strength". Well stated.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:40 PM
1

By the way, the fact you are in love with a beautiful, smart, sexual woman on some ways proves my point. Red pill isn't about men vs women. You are attracted to your mate in large part because she is beautiful, smart, sexual... Probably confident. All things ( more or less) that red pill recommends being. Lol this has been fun though, got to say glad you posted!
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:21 PM
1

Because none of us have the option of becoming a lesbians and acquiring traits that other lesbians find attractive. We are men, so our "theories" are based on attracting women as MEN. The fact that some women are attracted to other women doesn't prove anything about what straight women are attracted to IN GENERAL. See that last part, in caps? That's me acknowledging that there are exceptions, but GENERAlly speaking women are attracted to confident men who have their shit together. Which is what …
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:18 PM
1

I don't think anyone here would deny that there are exceptions to the "rules", such as they are. The basis of "red pill" is this: if you are having problems with women, here are some reasons why she probably doesn't respect / desire you... Now go become better.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:08 PM
2

Darlin', if you came here stating that you are a beautiful, smart, sexual woman who is madly in love with a weak, spineless, un confident fat guy simply because he is so "nice", THEN you'd be "proving us wrong".
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:03 PM
1

I don't think the red pill , such as it is, has anything remotely resembling an official stance on lesbians. You seem to imply that we all share some negative feeling towards gay women when that couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 08:41 PM
1

It's funny that you're attacking his soft spoken and rational comment with such vitriol and rage, and yet you accuse him of being the angry one. The truth is there are a lot of angry guys who turn to this sub because they've been burned by a woman (or many women) but one of the most common pieces of advice you'll hear is : move past the anger phase as quickly as you can. It's not productive and can cause harm. And I'd recommend that to you. You are clearly enraged about something that probably h…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 08:38 PM
3

Guy you're twenty. You're doing fine, and feeling insecure about your life choices is normal. Keep on and try to give less fucks.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 01:21 PM
2

Great post, thank you for it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 08:26 PM
2

I do feel you brother. It's not always fun but it's the way of the world.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:09 AM
1

I don't think it's a matter of her feeling too old, I just think it's uncomfortable for her to think about 46 year old pops banging someone that young. The answer is obvious and already stated: don't bring your 18 year old Fuck toy to a family dinner. Why would you even want to?? As for salvaging stuff with the daughter... Give it time. Nothing anyone here can tell you to make it better.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:48 AM
2

Fantastic post. I couldn't agree more.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 03:33 AM
1

Yeah dude you've gotten some particularly "off" replies in this thread. This is not the behavior of someone looking for an orbiter at all in my opinion.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:04 PM
1

Hah. Well yes there is THAT, although op said she's been hitting him up sober as well now.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:39 PM
3

I'm going to disagree with the others. Girls don't tell orbiters that they want to fuck, even if they then flake on them. I think she's horny but her anti slut defense is making her be forward with a little pretend coy at the end. She wants you to get more sexual than she herself is being so she can justify coming over just for some cock. I think a message like "k get over here and sit on my dick now" could help turn her into a plate, if that's what you want.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:02 PM
4

Good luck buddy, you know what you need to do. Now how about some fucking capitalization and apostrophes next time? God that was painful to read.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:33 AM
3

This. That's all. Not every girl is going to be attracted and receptive, move on.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:47 AM
1

DUDE. At the end of the day ... it just doesn't matter. You have to work with the cards you are dealt. If you aren't super book smart, so be it. It doesn't mean you can't be great at other shit. Maybe you are super creative. Or wicked good with tools and a natural mechanic. CARING WHAT YOUR FRIEND THINKS IS LAME, it's ANTI RED-PILL, and it's not doing you any good. And the fact that your friend's got such a fragile little ego that he needs to belittle you on this stuff means that he is a fake an…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:52 PM
5

Very high probability that you have latent homosexual feelings you need to resolve if you think it's that "gross". Or you're twelve.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:17 PM
5

Haha ahhh... That image is going to be with me all morning.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 12:44 PM
3

Oh man this made me lol.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 08:28 PM
3

yep, sounds like a low sex drive to me then. Although I really, really love having sex, there is part of me that envies you as well. So much more time to be productive without worrying about sex.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:35 PM
5

Haha... Read your post, those are the symptoms. Any chance you're gay?
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:56 PM
2

TRP isn't about "Not getting dumped". Man,especially in this case, she knows what a mess she is and she almost let you off the hook. Instead you're doubling down. That is only "anti-TRP" because it's "anti-happiness". Your mentality about "getting dumped" being such a bad thing is the real problem here.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:47 PM
2

TRP is about your life, it's not a recipe for maintaining any and all romantic relationships. Especially because many times maintaining the relationship is so counter productive to the man's happiness. The fact is, this girl might be a unicorn in some ways, but you also talked about how hard her past was and how ... pretty much emotionally broken she is ... which are huge red flags as far as your future happiness is concerned. I know that it feels great to be "needed" and I think that's what you…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:43 PM
2

The issue here is that my dick size obession is preventing me from fully dedicating my time to studying. This is an honest statement. Your dick size OBSESSION, NOT YOUR ACTUAL DICK SIZE, is your problem here. Get. The. Fuck. OVer. It.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:12 PM
3

First off dude, 5" IS BARELY BELOW AVERAGE. Unless you are like 3" or less, your dick size is not the problem at all. You are a whiny bitch who thinks this kind of thing is important, THAT is your problem. Your view of the world is shallow and superficial, and you are probably boring as fuck to talk to. The girls who put out probably do it because you are decently good looking, in good shape, and have some game ... but after the one night stand they want a man who is interesting and knows his ow…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:11 PM
1

Top comment.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 12:51 PM
2

I really love this post. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 11:36 PM
12

Has anyone else been betrayed like this and came out better? Yes, MANY of us have. For me personally it ended up being one of the best things that's ever happened to me.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:31 PM
1

I understand that this is ... loosely ... trp-related, but I bet you'll find a higher concentration of folks experienced in this type of endeavor in a focused sub. Good luck though, I think there's a huge need for the kind of organization you're proposing.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:09 PM
7

None. They take it too far ;)
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 03:22 PM
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The (bro-)science might be off, but anecdotally I think we can all see the truth of his post in our own lives. At least I know I can.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 03:15 PM
2

It's not parental validation, it's that you haven't yet proven to yourself that you are a man. Are you doing daily work to make your life better? Are you pushing yourself out of your comfort zone? You're about to have the chance to re define your life in a real way, you need to create new daily habits to build the life you want to live, and as you do the hard work your self image WILL change.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 08:32 PM
1

Our of curiosity, how did the other two respond when she said that?
/r/askTRP15/08/16 08:35 PM
2

I've had the opposite results, personally. Harder erections, better sex overall. Sounds like a bit of a flat line for sure.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:49 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:59 AM
11

"Former oneitis"... "Went on a date and it went really well".... No bro, it didn't. She keeps saying she's busy and then trying to make it a group hang... She's not interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 01:55 PM
7

Also to Fuck her so so right on the weekends, like a hungry fucking animal that hasn't eaten all week...
/r/askTRP21/07/16 01:12 PM
1

It's not feelings that are stupid, it's believing that any woman is the key to your happiness. Not being self sufficient in your happiness. Feel your feelings and enjoy them in the moment, but build your life such that your contentment and overall happiness comes from self-directed action... and while it's great to enjoy a woman, never assume that it will last forever, and don't let it "ruin your life" if it doesn't. There's a reason people around here attribute so much to "AWALT", and that's be…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:56 PM
5

Am I really supposed to forget this girl ruined my life and broke my heart? This right here is the bullshit. NO GIRL CAN RUIN YOUR LIFE (short of divorce rape or taking your kids). This girl wasn't even your fucking girl friend, and you gave her the power to "ruin your life". That is the most anti-TRP, bluepill shit in the world. Edit: Fuck, I just keep coming off like a judgemental prick. I apologize, but man, you're killing me here with this shit. Please, read the side bar there is a lot of gr…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:29 PM
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God I can't believe how fucking nice everyone in this thread is being to you, when you yourself are clearly such a whiney, miserable little cunt. The idea of plotting this pathetic revenge goes against everything TRP teaches. You are OBSESSING over her, making threads on the internet about her, she is the center of your world, you are completely bitch-whipped and still stuck in oneitis even though she burned you. Get THE FUCK OVER IT SHE'S ONLY ONE WOMAN AND SHE WAS NEVER YOURS. SHE'S NOT THAT S…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:24 PM
3

It's funny as fuck that you get all this advice, then post your "Update" which goes against every piece of advice given by the bros ... and is honestly one of the most cringe-worthy things I can imagine. The threatened man needs to force either an awkward situation or a confrontation in order to "see whether he's truly a friend" ... oh god, if they weren't fucking before, they WILL after this little "meeting". You are spiraling out of control with jealousy. END THIS NOW while you still have a sh…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:03 PM
1

You've gotten some good responses but I want to add - the Tuna smell is not actually super common from my experience, and might signify some bv or other female problem. Which isn't a big deal, but when it's a girl who you're already not THAT into it can kill the mood. Maybe I've just had good luck, but of all the girls I've slept with I've only smelled bad fish smell once.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 03:32 PM
2

Just Fuck off man. You're a lazy Fuck, there's nothing genuinely interesting in your life, which means you're boring as Fuck to talk to. You got laid for a while based on good looks and un-earned confidence... And now the reality is setting in: it's not about getting laid, it's about being a man and living a life that you're proud of, regardless of pussy. You embraced all the "easy" parts of trp without doing any of the work. You're "thinking" of working out again? Goddamnit wtf is this shit. Ge…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:10 PM
2

Seems you already know what to do mate. Stop reading, start taking action. In fact why are you even here writing about it? Go out and live it! Daily positive action is the key, lots of baby steps with out the expectation of immediate results ... That's how you get where you want to be. You've got the knowledge, but that's honestly the easy part
/r/becomeaman12/05/16 11:29 AM
1

Listen to your defeatist attitude. You've convinced yourself that this is your reality, and so it is.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:41 PM
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Most people in the world don't genuinely care about you, no. But not because you're a social pariah... Because you're a stranger and there are 7 billion people in the world and everyone is caught up in their own lives. I don't genuinely care about most people, but I have empathy when I see someone suffering. I may or may not actually offer to "help", it depends on the circumstances. How about you? How much do you "care" about every stranger on the street? I think you're butt hurt because some sp…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 02:15 PM
5

It sucks that this has been your experience of women so far. Red pill truths aside, there are good, caring women out there just like there are good, caring men. I have had one night stands with women who I consider to be exemplary human beings. Maybe they are sluts, but they posses some level of genuine empathy that influences how they treat people around them. They are just working within the context of their own lives and the cards they were dealt. I have also had an ltr with a woman who I "lo…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 02:04 PM
1

My point was it won't play out the way he thinks it will if he snoops and confronts her... But you are correct that this is part of some bp narrative here and has nothing to do with rp philosophy. I'll recant my statement.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 01:13 PM
3

Definitely true for me. 34 and this is the best time of my life and pussy has never been so plentiful.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:00 PM
2

Man eating pizza makes me feel like I am a failure the next day, if it makes me feel anything at all. Unless I've been absolutely crushing the long runs or something and can "justify" it.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 06:05 PM
5

Eating papa johns makes you feel confident and energetic the next day? ... I ... What?!
/r/askTRP02/03/16 11:49 AM
2

You're asking if a woman "could" reject you because of your hand even though (if) you're confident about it? Of course. Some will, just like some will reject a guy because he has red hair, or he's bald, or short, or whatever. But you already know the answer. Being confident about it and giving no fucks increases the number of women who will look past that a hundred fold! Go get em man. If a woman rejects you over your hand or anything else, fuck em, there's three billion more... Next!
/r/askTRP22/02/16 03:02 AM
4

You always, always, ALWAYS have a decision about how you deal with life. You're right that some people have the odds stacked against them, they get beaten up by health issues, money issues, family issues, etc ... but for every guy born into that situation who lets it be the deciding factor in his life and make him miserable, there's someone else who had similar circumstances but decided that he was still going to live the BEST life possible. There are people in wheel chairs who are happier than …
/r/askTRP05/02/16 12:33 AM
1

Why deleted?! What was the speech?
/r/becomeaman04/02/16 11:54 PM
1

This was my first thought too. How much do you wank, /u/FarOrAMess ?
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:07 PM
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Yes. At least a good example of the results and basic principles behind dread. She saw something that made her 1) realize she DOESN'T know EVERYTHING about you and 2) implied that at the least another woman was casually flirting with you, even if it was just to get a bigger tip.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 09:11 PM
3

This. Couldn't possibly care less about anyone else's sexual "orientation" or "gender identity". It's literally at the bottom of the list of "Things in the entire universe I give a shit about". The only feeling I have about it one way or another is mild irritation at hearing about something so boring and non important all the time. But I feel the same way about a lot of boring topics.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 04:11 PM
2

This post hits the nail on the head in every way (and good on you for turning your life around brother). Op do you have any marketable skills? As /u/LeeHarveyOswole said there are good careers that don't require a degree... The web development industry is populated by many, many developers who are self taught / have minimal education but have strong portfolios. And there are other similar fields.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 03:48 PM
1

So you created two new Reddit accounts to ask two similar questions on asktrp? Why? What is this shit? https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/42b78f/why_people_sometimes_amog_those_who_are_not/ https://www.reddit.com/user/Naxium5 https://www.reddit.com/user/Genix5 Edit: Hope this doesn't count as "concern trolling", just seems like weird behavior.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 03:37 PM
2

You probably need to relax a bit and learn to ride the ebb and flow that should be there with great sex. Dominate her, take her, own her and fuck her properly ... but also hold her wrists down and neck her passionately, lick her ear, smell her hair, and not just for a minute ... for five minutes ... breathe together, enjoy being connected to another person briefly in that moment, even if it's a plate or a ons, enjoy the warmth of her body and the feel of her skin and the look in her eyes. How fu…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:49 PM
2

How do you find out if she's interested? Ask her the fuck out man! It literally cannot be more simple. She says no: not interested. She says yes: interested. That's ... ya know ... how it works.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:24 PM
3

It happened after the second time having sex of the night Fucking christ dude. Are you saying it happened on the THIRD fuck of the night? I agree with the other poster that there's no real need to say anything about it, and dude ... if you'd already busted twice that night, that's really, really nothing to worry or be ashamed about. If you do feel like you're lacking in stamina or ever have a real ED issue, check out /r/nofap, but in this case I'd say you were just spent and need not give it ano…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 06:35 PM
6

Good man, I'd tell you to keep it up but I already know you're going to! I like seeing stories like this on trp, this is what it's all about.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 06:26 PM
2

Alright fucker, you've already gotten plenty of good advice in this thread, but I'm going to give you a little bit more. Regarding the food / weight gain, read the rest of the replies, especially redasblood's comment. And realize that you are dead wrong about tall skinny guys being the equivalent of short fat chicks. As abdada said tall skinny guys can "clean up". Yes you need to build muscle, but it's mostly for your mental well being and confidence. You also need to take DAILY fucking action t…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:50 PM
1

I already gave you all the good advice you need: You can't fix your dick, so fix everything else. It's not that fucking complicated. Yes, it's HARD, but it's not complicated. You're either willing to do the work or you're not. Your comments seems to imply that you are not.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:01 PM
1

Ok, and how do you conquer that fear? By knowing you've done everything you can to be the best man you can be, so you can say with full confidence "this is me take it or leave it"... And if she's not down, walk out with no fucks given. Yes it may be harder than it sounds, but it gives you something to work towards and it's how you will gain true confidence.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:25 PM
1

Are you the man you want to be in every other way? Everyone is self conscious about something. You have to just own it as part of who you are. If you are confident and fun and unashamed ... I can't imagine many chicks are going to get to the point of seeing your cock and then reject you. And if one does, then fuck her it was just a lay it's not the pinnacle of your life. I know rejection sucks, but are you really going to let a few Bitches dictate how you feel about yourself and what you do with…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:12 PM
1

Well I definitely don't have a big dick, it's just a bit shorter than average but luckily I have decent girth. My advice remains the same though: relentlessly work on what you can change, and learn to live with what you can't. If you were 100% the "alpha" man you want to be, but with your same dick, you probably wouldn't get rejected over it. Do what you need to do to become the man you want to be and stop letting your dick or anything else be an excuse. There is no other answer, man.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:40 PM
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Man there have been at least two other posts this week with guys bitching about their "tiny dicks". Search the sub. I'll summarize the responses: 1) how small is small. If we're talking four+ inches with decent girth you're still in the normal range. 2) you have to fucking work with what you got. You're never going to be "alpha" because you have a defeatist, bitch attitude. Your "small dick" is nothing but an excuse. 3) if your life is on point in other ways, you can still get laid. Bitches don'…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:27 PM
2

Thanks for giving us the update, man. I read the first thread when it was up, and I continue to be very impressed by your level-headed-ness through this. Someone suggested taking up programming as an alternative career. While it's true that you can make a lot of money writing code and it requires little mobility, I think your current choice to continue pursuing law is going to lead to a more fulfilling lifestyle. Once your mobility is reduced it'd just be too easy to become a recluse if you didn…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:07 PM
2

Actually, I suppose you can prepare in a sense. Don't let stupid grudges come between you and the people who really matter. Set your boundaries, be your own person — for sure — but be generous and tolerant. Make sure they know you love and respect them, and appreciate what they have done for you. Then when it happens, you at least won't feel the regret of the unsaid and the forever-lost opportunity. This is good.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 05:54 PM
2

The feeling might linger but keep pushing forward man, sounds like you're on a pretty solid path. Trust in the process, even if you cry yourself to sleep at night like a bitch, keep taking the daily steps you know you need to become the man you want to be. And also man, in regards to the oneitis... Realize that she is / was not that fucking special. She started dating a guy the week you broke up, you dodged a huge bullet man. Imagine marrying her as your bp former self, imagine what hell both of…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:23 PM
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I asked a few women about it - they didn't understand why either. So maybe her uterus was in control, even when it physically wasn't needed or possible any longer. Really? They didn't understand? I know many girls who LOVE the feeling of a man cumming inside them. Your dick swells up, your rhythm changes, plus "something something feel-good chemicals in semen".
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:19 PM
6

I think It's the stigma that "black dudes have huge dicks" that makes knowing she got fucked by black guys even worse. The mental imagery of his sweet little flower getting pounded by monster cock.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 12:24 PM
2

Man... Practically speaking this might be good advice, but you just gave me flashbacks to my ex girlfriend binge watching Netflix and it made me sad and a little sick.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:12 AM
2

How much do you jerk off? If it's often, that could be a big part of your problem.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:45 PM
2

If you've already had hot sex with a babe, especially if you know you left her wanting more, you can get away with saying just about anything. That being said, I know a guy who starts tinder conversations with something like "I'm going to die if I don't taste your pussy juice" to great success. I'm sure a lot of them unmatch instantly, but plenty reply.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:43 PM
2

Sex is wonderful, sex is great, but it's not the only reason to work on yourself. I like being in shape so I can climb further, ski better, run faster, and yeah fuck harder. I do art because it fulfills my fucking soul. Sure, art (and other hobbies) and being in shape have also gotten me laid, but they'd be worthy on their own as well, and life would be a lot more hollow without them. I work on ME because I LIKE me. Making money is part of it.... But all the money in the world can't buy the kind…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:36 PM
3

Via /r/nofap
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:36 AM
5

Answer this question. Sounds like classic over-flogging.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:51 PM
2

Give them both attention, but with the hb8 err on the side of sexual and with the friend err on the side of brotherly. That's what my instincts say about this situation anyway. Best of luck, let us know how it goes.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:11 PM
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It's also good to remember that you are way, way less important to other people than you are to yourself. How many times do you find yourself thinking about other people's social fuck ups? Like never, right? That's how much others care about you saying something dumb, tripping over your words, or whatever it is. Laugh at yourself, commit to doing "better" when appropriate, and move on with life man.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 01:13 PM
3

Nah, I never really went through an anger phase with trp either, it's not a "rule". I had my testes crushed by a few exes long before I found trp and was already pretty much past that point. My only anger was at myself, because trp opened my eyes to all the ways I failed with babes and squandered otherwise fun situations / relationships. And I always kind of knew I was a beta bitch ... Just not how to fix myself. I can't be mad at them just because they're not what I thought they were. It's me w…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:03 AM
3

Lol that part got me too. Unless "punched my dick" is some kind of Euro slang or something?
/r/askTRP10/01/16 05:41 PM
1

You've already gotten some great replies, but I'm going to throw one more perspective into the ring. As has been said there's no right or wrong way to "feel" about his cheating , but it could be that seeing him constantly lie to others makes it impossible for you to be friends with him because you just straight up don't trust him.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 05:39 PM
7

Did you really basically just say "I'm so nice and good why am I not happy?" That's the whole point of this sub brother! Being nice and good means nothing if you're not looking out for yourself. Go pick up a copy of "No more Mr nice guy" NOW.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 04:58 PM
3

Let time go by without replying to her
/r/askTRP10/01/16 04:53 PM
4

Lolz. You're adorable.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 04:41 PM
1

Huh. Interesting to hear this opinion. As someone without glasses I'm surprised to hear that there's a noticeable difference.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:41 PM
2

I get your logic but disagree with this post. I dont think there is any conscious or subconscious perception of genetic weakness from glasses in this day and age. And for god's sake read the horror stories about lasik before ever considering it. For many people it's not as safe and easy as they make it sound. Interesting perspective though, it does make logical sense. Edit: for the record I don't wear glasses, not trying to defend my own kind or anything, just my opinion. ;)
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:38 PM
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Dude. You come on here posting a transcript of a conversation ... People are going to tell you what they really think. Your original question is moot because the way that you "handle" yourself (according to your texts) is... Yes, childish and makes you seem defensive and butt hurt. I'm not invested in your situation, I couldn't care less about your broken relationship, but don't you see that the overall tone of your conversation with her suggests a bigger problem than just "not wanting to text"?…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:17 PM
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It has everything to do with your post. You asked if you sounded childish, the answer is yes, you sound like a butt hurt baby in those texts.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 02:26 PM
9

There's nothing intrinsically wrong with glasses at all. As long as you're looking good, strong, and confident the glasses mean nothing and I like to think might even help you open a certain type of girl. Obviously you want to get a pair that looks good on you, that you're comfortable with, and don't let them be an excuse!
/r/askTRP10/01/16 05:36 AM
2

Haha I may have over reacted ... But I stand by the general message. Next time play it cool and make plans to see her in person lol!
/r/askTRP09/01/16 05:47 PM
1

Good man.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:36 PM
1

I've fucked a married woman, and it was indeed some of the hottest sex I've ever had. That being said, it wasn't worth it. It didn't even get too ugly with us, but the fact is you're sharing a secret, a secret that could greatly affect both of your lives, with a WOMAN. It's the secret that makes it so hot, but it's also a knife to your throat. Especially when you eventually break it off with her. She might get some "feeling" down the road and tell the cuck about you. Which probably won't lead to…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:30 PM
1

Well regardless bud, the answer is the same: gym, work on yourself, build abundance by dating other goals. approach. Tinder. Do what you need to do but nothing good can come from banging this girl again. Assuming it happened, the likely outcome would be a delay in your actual progress as a man. You might have some nice orgasms, but it would be much better to have them with a new girl(s).
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:14 PM
3

Dude after the kisses you probably had a chance, but you asked her to send you a selfie instead of (before) trying to make plans to meet in person?! What in the actual fuck? Have you read anything on this sub? You had an in and you blew it guy. Next time, instead of the first "non work" text you send her being about selfies (mind numbingly terrible call, I think you broke my brain with that shit) the text should be about getting together, or something to give her tingles. Asking for fucking self…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:09 PM
2

And also .. your use of "if she was really disgusted and unattracted to me" really screams of low self esteem. Just because you broke up, why would she be "disgusted"? And why do you CARE?
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:00 PM
2

The amount of time and effort you're putting into worrying about some dumb little thing that a girl did is the opposite of abundance mentality. It seems like you're fishing for someone to tell you "she wants your d, go for it!". But in reality she just wanted a second of attention and to make sure you're still orbiting. Which you are. Find other babes to fuck and date, man, she is not worth the trouble!
/r/askTRP09/01/16 02:58 PM
2

How many other girls are you seeing? None right? That's what it sounds like. Then it's impossible to "plate" her. Whether or not you have oneitis you are trying to bang her because she's your only good option, which is a recipe for disaster. Move on.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 02:54 PM
10

She's not a virgin.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 02:51 PM
5

First and foremost, never jack off. Save all loads for the big show.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:59 PM
8

Ok this might not be the normal response you'd expect on this sub, but for me: nature and art. That's how I cope with reality. Two things I can appreciate and do for myself that make life worth living are to get out into nature, get fucking lost in it, experience natural beauty and let it take you over. And do something creative to express yourself TO yourself, fuck if anyone else ever sees it. This is what gives me a sense of ok-Ness with the world. It's the framework that life, sex, relationsh…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:25 PM
2

I definitely understand. I've Been doing it for a long time and the hours at the desk do get really old after a while .
/r/askTRP03/01/16 04:25 PM
1

You have two years to prepare? Are you generally smart and good with computers? If so, start now teaching yourself front end web development. You can do it from anywhere and there is always a demand for developers.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:14 PM
1

Alright, that's reasonable. Do you feel like you're getting a bit of oneitis for this girl?
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:03 PM
4

Dude. Guy. Bro. You're asking a bunch of internet strangers to tell you what to do with your life based on two very isolated stories. The full moon thing seems like speculation on your part more than fact. You could be adding two and two and getting twenty two. And the fact that you're basing this decision off of some shit from her social media is just lame. Regarding the abortion, I don't get why that's even an issue. If it's true that the boyfriend left when he found out she was knocked up, th…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:37 PM
3

Good post, but one more note: early thirties is the BEST time ever to be a single man. You can date and fuck babes from 21 on up, and with rp mentality and some self improvement you are going to find it much easier and more fun to be single than it was last time you were single six years ago. Op, I'm excited for you. Life is about to get awesome.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:17 PM
2

You haven't told us anything about your "game" leading up to these dates. Are the plans all made via text message? Are these tinder girls you've never met before or girls you actually know? Also what kinds of plans have you made that they keep bailing on. Flaking happens, but if you see it happening over and over there might be a flaw in your approach.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 01:36 PM
2

Although you might not have given the best reply, at least you didn't completely puss out and agree to see her indefinitely without sex because "you're willing to wait for something special" or some shit like that. Don't stress over it.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 11:51 PM
2

Well emotional connection is one thing and being "in love" with a girl is another thing. Sounds to me like you're wanting to be "in love" before you sleep with someone, which might truly limit your options and make you miss out on some great sex. I spent last night with a girl I've only known a short time, who lives quite far away and therefore there's no real relationship potential with her. But guess what? It was fucking emotional and sexy and even "loving", we fucked each other like the world…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:11 PM
1

20 and she was a solid 8.5. Man I had less than no game back then, it's amazing I was fucking such a hottie. And of course I had the worst oneitis known to man.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 09:25 AM
1

Cool. Good stuff. Do you go to your regular doctor for a complete physical + std check then?
/r/askTRP30/12/15 04:11 PM
3

Well fucking said my man
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:50 PM
2

You're right about the emotional scars man, but I will tell you that it gets much better. I only get the occasional zit these days and I don't really think about it, I do my daily skin routine regardless and go about my life. And I've had some very hot girlfriends and fuck buddies! Some when I was in college and my acne was still worse, and many more through my mid to late twenties / early thirties. And now at 33 is the best time of all in regards to sex and women, thanks in no small part to trp…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:20 AM
4

Alright man first off, I know from experience how bad acne sucks. I am 33 and still have some, although it's nothing like when I was your age. Few things can fuck up your confidence worse than a giant fucking pustule on your face, and even if it's on your back or chest YOU know it's there and its still a mind fucker. So I feel your pain. It sounds like you've already tried most of the common solutions, so I'm just going to throw out a few alternatives / modifications you might try. 1) allergies …
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:34 PM
1

Lolz
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:44 PM
3

Didn't think it was worthy of the main sub so I put it here, my bad if that's not allowed.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:35 PM
1

Ok cool, was just a theory :)
/r/askTRP28/12/15 04:51 PM
1

Fucking commit right now to NEVER miss another opportunity mother fucker. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, swallow your fucking pain, and start taking daily steps to better your life No Matter What. If it hurts and it's hard, GOOD. You didn't fight hard enough last time, this shit SHOULD hurt, self improvement isn't easy. Get fucking moving now to prevent this feeling in the future. No more zero days EVER . Fuck.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:25 PM
1

If you haven't read it, no more Mr nice guy is a great read. May or May not apply to you but it helped me in more ways than one.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:20 PM
1

Even if you get to that "top 10%" level, the majority of women you are interested in are probably still not going to approach you randomly. You know the answer, to get cold approached by women you must be extremely good looking especially in the face, and your awesome personality should be obvious from a mile away to make you approachable. I'm making that shit up, but it seems like common sense. But fuck all that anyway, who cares, get used to doing the approaching yourself and stop with the pip…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:15 PM
1

Wow you just described my last ex so perfectly. But God bless her, she's the type that if I had been a real man with strong frame, I believe she would have submitted and been happy about it. But since I wasn't, it created innumerable problems for both of us and played a part in me swallowing the pill. I owe her a debt of gratitude really. Life is so much better now. And yes, yay for feminine women. They still do exist.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:02 PM
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There are always more options man. If you are in the financial position to do so, what about finding a nice duplex or a place with a detached "mother in law" unit so you can still help them out while maintaining (building) your life as a man?
/r/askTRP26/12/15 06:01 PM
1

Game is masculine love of women... women like this because it's natural. This is such gold right here.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 03:54 PM
24

Dude let me preface this by saying I'm not some alpha grand master who has slayed all the pussies I've ever encountered, just a guy who has read a lot of trp and who's life is much better for it. First, you are over thinking this shit. Making it a goal to be able to sleep with girls who are "taken" is just dumb, man. If the right girl throws herself at you and you find out she has an SO, make the call whether it's worth the potential drama to get that pussy, but I wouldn't seek out attached babe…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 02:39 PM
1

Yeah pretty much bud. Un even text message ratios, trying too hard to get together too often, not keeping things sexual enough (besides some really nice sex early on) etc etc. Nothing special or toooo horrible just standard slightly cringy bp shit.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:02 AM
1

Tough situation. I dont care what anyone says, it Always sucks hurting someone you care about. But don't let that stop you, realize that you're doing BOTH of you a favor by ending it if it's a relationship you're not into. I would recommend going blue as fuck during the breakup though if it's that important to keep her from hating you. Make her feel bad for poor little insecure you maybe? Good luck with all that
/r/askTRP20/12/15 04:03 PM
4

This. There's nothing to gain and much to lose from admitting it, and you don't owe anyone any answers. Sounds like soon it will be a non issue for you. Have fun and don't stress about it bud!
/r/askTRP20/12/15 03:55 PM
1

Well fucking said
/r/askTRP20/12/15 01:16 AM
5

If you're over it you're over it. You're not doing her any favors by keeping her around. Let her go find a guy who really likes her and give yourself the freedom that you obviously really want. Right now you're being a pussy and wasting both of your time.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:44 PM
2

This is a great fucking post.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 01:45 PM
1

Even though you dip not smoke, I can't recommend enough the book The Easy Way to Stop Smoking by Allen Carr. I'm positive that it saved my life. It is basically a hefty dose of self hypnosis that truly works in changing how you think about tobacco and showing you the truth about your addiction, and in the end it removes all cravings and actually makes it easy to stop. Get it used off Amazon and Give it a try.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 01:17 PM
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For guys with truly low self esteem, it's going to take more than getting in shape to build the self respect you crave. You need to really become the man you want to be and that's going to mean setting long term goals and following through on them, not compromising yourself for others. You know your own bullshit better than anyone. you can put on some muscle and others will notice, but you still know how weak you feel inside, and that's only going to go away by persevering and continuing to figh…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 12:53 PM
2

Holy fuck. Guy. What a summary. Thanks for the flash back
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:33 PM
1

Dude there Ya go. Weed effects everyone differently. I have literally no game when I'm high. Nothing to "figure out" here. She was (too) high and a little bored.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:30 PM
1

I hear ya bud, it's hard to turn off the knee jerk reaction after you've been burned in the past. But you have to... Abundance mentality is your shield!
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:27 PM
1

Stop worrying about it and focus on being the guy she is "in love with" already, and if this is a deal breaker and the relationship ends then so be it. If you keep worrying about it you WILL tank the relationship.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:25 PM
1

This. Because nothing that actually matters did happen. She wasn't your ltr and she's still not. Oneitis is a bitch I know, but with a clear head you'll realize you have no reason to treat her differently.... Unless you want to really burn the bridge. Treat her the same, flirt playfully, and move on with life .
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:21 PM
2

Great refresher, just what I needed this morning. Thank you.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:15 PM
2

Maybe I'm off base. Just calling it like I see it. Even if op is ignoring her to her face, she clearly knows that she's getting under his skin.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 03:14 PM
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Right, but his desperate need to be seen a certain way is working against him here. It's the opposite of an idgaf attitude and it's giving the troll all the power.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:51 PM
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Read the fucking side bar guy. Yeah half of it is about raising smv, but the other half is the answer to your question. Jesus.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 01:00 PM
3

This book has been on my list for at least six months. Finally just ordered it thanks to this post.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:29 PM
3

One other point that I don't see mentioned: it's true that women don't care directly about the improvements you've made to your life, nor much about your dreams and passions. BUT focusing on those things makes you stronger, more confident, and generally happier and more fulfilled, which are traits that chicks do recognize on an almost biological level. Additionally having a strong sense of self and purpose should help you to cultivate an idgaf attitude in regards to things that aren't really tha…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:32 PM
7

Hah, I thought this thread was going to go in the opposite direction. Most people I know, myself included, are slightly less sociable on the weed.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 07:24 PM
2

That's fine. If you don't want to be a man, don't. No one is forcing you to. Keep fucking up both of your lives
/r/askTRP04/12/15 03:53 PM
2

You are consciously being a chump and the longer you stay with her 1) the less she respects you 2) the less you respect you 3) the less the world respects you. Not only that but you're not doing her any favors either. You've given her such a trusty emotional tampon to lean on that she can't even get away from you with cheating. Do both of yourselves a favor and be the fucking man for once by walking away TODAY. Fuck.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 02:00 PM
7

Yeah this made me laugh too. Man I would love to meet a science and politics hottie. Later we can read Vonnegut to each other after we fuck.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:56 PM
1

This is really great. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 04:16 AM
2

This. The fact that the gf wants him to work out is perfect bait to subtly start to help him onto a better path. All that being said, what's wrong with Queen motherfucker? Freddy had some of the best pipes in the history of rock. ;)
/r/askTRP02/12/15 01:34 PM
10

You may be right about that part, but home boy has some good insights in that twenty page ramble.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 04:28 AM
2

Dude. You're wondering how to potentially "spin" an (already good) story in some hypothetical conversation with some future babe who doesn't exist yet. This is seriously the dumbest shit I've ever seen on asktrp. And to answer your dumb ass "question": bitches love a well travelled man. There is nothing to do here but stop worrying about stupid shit like this and fucking enjoy your life.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 01:34 PM
7

Seems like you "don't want to leave" Islam because you are afraid that it might be "right" and you will burn in some hell fires or something. In other words, you are totally "over it" and intellectually know it is a waste of your time, but you're too much of a pussy to admit it and just walk away.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:59 PM
1

Dude. That last part... Right in the feelz.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:48 PM
2

Known her twenty years. We dated seriously for 5+
/r/askTRP22/11/15 02:54 AM
1

I know I know how fucking backwards that sounds. She literally wore me down one fuck at a time. At first I insisted that we were both still single and could fuck whoever we want, and she relented and agreed. But over the months she'd use lmr to get more and more concessions out of me if I wanted pussy and the balance of power ripped back her direction. Pathetic I know!!!!
/r/askTRP22/11/15 02:53 AM
2

Dude. I love you. Such a great and true response. Thanks for the reminders!
/r/askTRP22/11/15 02:51 AM
2

Wish the parent comment wasn't deleted.. care to give us a rehash?
/r/askTRP21/11/15 03:55 PM
4

Yeah you might be right. At the very least its obvious that I "care" way too much. The reason things were awesome 9 months ago is that I was fucking other girls and she was chasing ME. The second I agreed to be "exclusive" with her things started to go down hill . Fucking truthy red pill . Edit: to clarify I still call her a plate because things have been on and off and we don't have a real commitment to each other besides "not fucking other people" ... Oh man don't even bother replying, when I …
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:40 PM
2

How is that insulting? He's offering to give you advice if you provide more details.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:34 PM
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First off, take a deep breath. You are twenty years old. You are looking for answers. You are not fucked. The fact is change is going to take a long time, but the positive results will start to come more quickly once you stop with all this worrying and take action. It is going to require daily action on your part with no expectation of immediate results. I'd personally recommend starting with daily exercise / lifting, and taking DAILY (can't emphasize this enough) small steps towards learning a …
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:22 PM
3

Good suggestion. not sure why you got down voted. Disc is Low impact, gets you outdoors, is usually free, and it's a skill that can be refined.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:48 PM
1

This is so right. And Op honestly it seems like your biggest problem is being over sensitive. Don't take yourself, or these other clowns (your roommate, etc) so fucking seriously. You sound so butt hurt! Work tirelessly on improving yourself, seek NO outside validation and expect nothing from anyone. The respect will follow eventually... But it won't stop Jack asses from being Jack asses, part of being a man is not being affected by that shit.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:17 PM
1

Agreed. How'd you get such a bad reputation with these ladies? Flirt with them and win them over to your side.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:44 PM
2

I can't comment on the "escort" issue as I have no experience with that, but the rest of this post is absolute gold. Truly top notch advice here, good of you to type this up /u/siralphafuxalot
/r/askTRP26/10/15 11:14 AM
2

I think this is part of the reason lifting / working out is so important. It's a physical habit that you can eventually have an effect on your psychological state as well. It's not enough, on its own, but it's a great start in regards to building self discipline and slowly creating the life you want. Start there, and then add additional daily habits... Such as approaching just one girl a day with no fucks given regarding outcome. Daily, incremental, change is the KEY.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 10:28 PM
2

Lot of good advice in this thread, and I know the efficacy of nofap is debated around here, but from personal experience I'd say try this first. Op, how often do you wank? If it's every day, try cutting back to once a week or even refrain for several weeks as a test and see what happens. I pretty much guarantee you if you are more than a week without cumming, you will not have a problem and will be as hard as a rock when you are getting with a girl. Or not, but that's what worked for me.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 12:10 PM
1

Just out of curiosity, what kind of drugs are you talking about here?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 01:53 PM
2

Wow, well said. Great description of a work dynamic that has always been a little confusing to me.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:08 PM
8

Op, pleAse, explain this "dance move" to us. I also cannot picture this for the life of me. How do you even ... It just does not compute. I think I need a diagram.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 12:24 PM
2

Same where I live. I'm relatively fit and getting stronger, but most of my bros and the guys I see out in general are as fit or better than myself. I guess it depends where you live.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 12:31 PM
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You make a point of saying you took her virginity three years ago, implying she has never been with another man. She's probably getting the cc itch hard right now. Heads up mate, but this might be a sign of other troubles brewing. I'm sure her friends are filling her head with "adventures in cc riding" ... And here she's been with the same guy since 16?! I can just hear the hamster spinning in its wheel.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 07:01 PM
5

I like you, man. I don't have any advice for you, but I like you. It really does suck hurting someone, even if she's just a second tier plate. No easy way to do it, just rip the bandaid off.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 01:32 AM
4

She wasn't into it and she made that clear. That's not lmr, that's just genuinely not being horny in that situation. Telling her to bend over (three times) at that point is not being dominant, or strong... It's not going to make her panties wet. I agree with the guy who said agree and amplify playfully... Might have worked to at least have more fun with her. To me what you did was to be too aggressive (which made her nervous), disregard her discomfort, and then be a baby about not getting your w…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 04:44 PM
4

This is either a troll or a horrible mis interpretation of rp theory.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 01:40 PM
5

I feel the same way only I'm 6 years older, but also have managed to avoid marriage and kids, so better late than never. It's been the best couple years of life and only getting better, can't complain, but every once in a while I think about how different things would be if I'd started down this path sooner! So congrats to you young guys, enjoy!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 09:39 PM
2

I'd just like to point out a red pill truth (in reverse) from your post. Desperation, neediness, and trying too hard ... There's nothing that makes a person less attractive. Male or female. Sounds like she is desperately trying to hold onto the relationship, and in doing so is drying up any attraction you have left for her. Something any bb (or post bb) guy knows all too well. It works both ways.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 11:26 AM
1

Little head likes this guy. Big head thinks everyone else is probably right. Hahaha
/r/askTRP19/11/14 09:33 PM
2

Dude nineteen is a tough age. Your hormones are still fluctuating pretty hard, and it's fairly normal to be highly emotional. Enjoy the feelz... They will never be this intense again. But if you are really not able to keep from crying every time you think of your childhood, do what men do... Swallow hard and make a choice to change. Acknowledge what sucked about your childhood, as well as the fact that many people have it MUCH worse than you did, and then choose to move on. You aren't a kid anym…
/r/askTRP16/10/14 11:58 AM
5

Dude, you're just wrong on this. I am 33 and have had some of the best sex of my life in the last few years. Sure, it's not this brand new amazing sparkly thing like it was when I was younger, but it's still pretty fucking special when you first slide your dick into a beautiful woman's warm, wet love box... I don't think that will ever not be awesome. And you're wrong about the attraction thing too. You don't have to be rich to slay hot younger chicks. RP principles apply, and chicks are attract…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:17 PM
3

You're right that calling your statement idiotic was un-productive. I was just shocked to see someone say "match what she does" on TRP, seeing as it goes against everything we know to be true. It's like giving up frame the second you walk in the door. And as for it "really makes no difference" ... I have to disagree again. First impressions mean everything. You need to walk in their confidently and create the mood that YOU want the date to have. Example: Maybe she's had a kind of crappy day. She…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:33 AM
2

I was in the EXACT same boat. Nofap fixed me. I still don't Cum from oral but normal sex is do much better and I can Cum in much less time and no longer just doggy. You are a perfect candidate for nofap, do it!
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:47 PM
7

This is idiotic. YOU set the stage.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:35 PM
1

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/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:16 AM
1

Good post! Your grammar lesson of the day: advice = noun, i.e. "That's some good advice.." advise = verb, i.e. "I advise against doing that..."
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:40 PM
0

Dude. I NEEDED this right now. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 09:30 PM
6

"If i wasn't at work i absolutely would have hit him on the spot." guy, I think you need to work on this. Getting that upset for being interrupted / goofed on ... It comes off as extreme insecurity from an outsiders point of view. If you had decked him over something like that, it wouldn't make you seem tough/alpha, it would make you seem extremely touchy and emotionally unstable.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:16 PM
1

Dude, awesome read, thank you for posting this. Some of their responses are priceless.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 10:28 PM
1

Classic clip. Thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:24 PM
54

As a guy who is still pretty new to trp, I almost want some of this to be false. But as a guy who has been in three ltrs, I know it all to be true. Spot on post.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:43 PM
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As a guy who is constantly battling oneitis but thought he was finally defeating that demon, threads like this are a great reminder. I recently pursued a woman with alpha-style ease, progressed from being super casual acquaintances to some mild foreplay / heavy making out really quickly and completely under my own volition. Everything was going great until... she started getting all distant, completely out of the blue. At first I was like "wtf?!". But then it hit me. I was starting to think of h…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 10:00 PM
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Thanks for the reality check man. I truly appreciate it.
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