I’m at my wit’s end. Need some of AskTRP’s cold logical input. I’m attracted mostly to women who have a SMV likely twice my own. I’m 28, a little bit overweight (muscular in the extremities, flabby around the pecks, stomach and thighs). I spend so much time worrying that I’m not going to get with the women that I want to sleep with that I often change my priorities, such as getting 8 hours of sleep per night and searching for the next move in my career. I haven’t attracted a beautiful women in god knows how long, and although my sense of style isn’t bad and fits my budget and lifestyle, my confidence is low and my mood tends to get changed when I fail to interact with a beautiful woman. When I do get talking to even an average chick my age (because the younger ones don’t want to talk to me), desperation catches on real fast.

When I say give up, I mean the pursuit of beautiful women, or of anyone in general.

If you’re going to offer advice, I only listen when it’s in the form of a process, like do x, y and z. My ego is much too large and impenetrable to really respond to insults, which came from a lifetime of being shit upon, despite being the biggest guy in the crowd throughout much of it.