Check post history for my post last week.
TL;DR Dated a 22 year old Cuban girl, house burned down, helped her get a job at my company making more than she ever would had she never met me, she tells me she's falling in love, she pulls back, pushes me away, gets a new apartment, won't let me see it, tells me that she needs to be alone with all that's going on and that I can't see her at her apartment because it's not furnished, hides her phone, etc.
You guys all told me, and I knew in my gut, she's probably cheating.
I'd see her in passing at work since my last post, don't talk much, haven't texted her since the day she got those 3 calls on her phone and she wouldn't tell me who called her. Went ghost, never reached out to her, in person, keep talk small, etc. In my gut I still felt there was another guy.
Last night she comes to see me to talk because I want to clear the air, she tells me the same thing that she doesn't have time for a boyfriend as she works too much and I can't see her apartment because it's not done and she's embarrassed. Same bullshit story she tells me before. So I tell her "Okay" it's over. Low and behold social media posts my friend finds. She's kissing her ex in her apartment that I'm not allowed to go to. He drops her off at work now. (the job I fucking got her). Those 3 calls, when I asked her is that your ex calling? was her ex. He was waiting outside to pick her up.
Her ex is a short, unattractive, lowlife Cuban guy, makes 14k a year cutting lawns, loser guy. She used me and then cheated on me with this guy.
Just goes to show you, you can bend over backwards for someone, help them in ways no one else ever has, and that she will not appreciate it one bit. No honesty, no integrity, no guilt. I wouldn't be surprised if she burned her house down.
AWALT. You guys were 100% right.
She doesn't know I know any of this. But she's blocked on my phone now, and now I gotta see her stupid cheating lying ass at my fucking job. Fuck her.
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Stop giving these bitches shit man. Let me explain to you how much of a cardinal sin this is.
A lot of motherfuckers are so idiotic that they give all these undeserved opportunities to females that haven’t done much of shit for them.
That opportunity could have gone to some kid you were mentoring, or a friend that needed a break. That would have definitely been paid back to you. You probably would have made a life long friend/solider for that gesture. Instead you have an awkward situation at work and a humiliating memory that won’t get out of your face. You gave a better life to someone who doesn’t give two shits about you. How the fuck does that feel?
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This is why you don't go out of your way to do lots of nice things for a woman. They never appreciate it, and ultimately they find it unattractive anyway. They'll always go back to the dude that doesn't give a shit.
You got burned once, but you won't (hopefully) make the same mistake again. Onwards and upwards!
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You should read No More Mr Nice Guy. You've made a bunch of covert contracts with this woman. Learn from this and move on.
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