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CultureNatural_Singer/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 10:41 PM
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Red Pill TheoryNatural_Singer/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 06:19 AM
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Red Pill TheoryNatural_Singer/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 10:41 PM
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Natural_Singer/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:34 PM
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There's so many HUMAN truths in this one post that many people will never even truly understand. Especially about being a source of energy and putting the focus on bring up others.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/22 09:51 AM
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I appreciate that fam and thanks for letting me know. I've gone through a lot in my 20's with that sort of passion and this post was more of me coming from a perspective that's a bit older and a bit more controlled. I hope my post didn't come off as feeling defeated cause that in no way was my purpose or my feelings towards the subject. But thanks again for the encouragement. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 05:52 PM
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hahah idk how it ended up that way but it just did. Can't complain though
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 07:14 PM
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Im sorry that this post was not helpful for you personally. I hope you can set aside your dissatisfaction because it might help others. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:17 PM
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Very true in instances where the girls already view you under a certain light. When girls saw me doing things I excelled at, I just had to be conversational. Otherwise, it wasn't enough and having/knowing game mattered.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:15 PM
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Was that all you gained from what I wrote?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:08 PM
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I'm not sure what your point is or how it disagrees with what I've posted. To clarify, my point was simply: If you feel you've gotten a less than fair hand in life, then judge yourself by your merits and do what it takes to get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:04 PM
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Ive met maybe 3 out of allll the women ive ever met in my entire life at 35. Statistically, no
/r/askTRP08/07/21 06:19 AM
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it's not even that tbh. Most people (guys included) are pretty conflict averse. They just want to avoid awkwardness and potential bullshit that comes with someone blowing up at them. it's not some diabolical big brained scheme.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 02:38 AM
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wtf.. lol.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:53 PM
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I'd be really cautious about who u get info from here cause u never know if it's some young 20 year old who's giving u advice about marriage. Believe it or not, i'd say probably 1/3 to 1/4 of marriages in the US actually work out fine in the long term. What's that mean for you? It means go find those couples - of all age groups and marriage lengths and get a really good idea of what they're doing right and what others are doing wrong and find out for yourself how you have a long lasting solid ma…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:34 PM
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Are you asking do men report women in bikini's on tinder? From my hunch - no. Low level men are probably far more likely to repot for being "race traitors" or having a height requirement I feel
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 06:18 PM
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I checked his website and his pdf was free lol.. he does do upsells on his fitness but that's w/e you're still getting free content And maybe its cause i'm older and have more disposable income but I don't consider it a loss if I do the research before making a purchase for knowledge/skills and it turns out to be shitty. It's part of the process.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 05:11 PM
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Great stuff. I don't have an issue wit this but I'm genuinely curious how those pics haven't gotten u banned from tinder multiple times yet. Pre selection works to a degree, but the girls at the way bottom - due to huge amounts of insecurity - will report you because they know deep down they can't get with you. Have you run into this issue before
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 04:59 PM
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I used to think bankruptcy was a sign of failed businessmen but having met many successful businessmen with large networths, I've definitely changed my mind. Most successful businessmen have either gone close to or have had businesses file for bankruptcy. For them it's part of the learning process - like fucking up on cold approaching. You're gonna bomb before you get better. As long as the next company succeeds from the previous mistakes, it's part of the process
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 04:13 PM
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I agree. I've had a chance to talk with a lot of geriatric seniors - many of whom were successful financially when they were younger. You can tell who the assholes were and who were the alphas - hint: the alphas didn't die alone and bitter. You can have every honest justification in the world to be angry but ultimately it's you who dies alone and angry. Don't be on your death bed wondering what life would or could've been like if despite being red pilled - you were still kind to others
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 04:09 PM
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she caught onto the fact that u only wanna fuck her. she might be an idiot but not that much of an idiot
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:22 PM
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most guys either naturally fall into the fratty type or the stoic type. You obviously seem more of the stoic type and that's not a bad thing. Both diff types have their pros and cons. For example, i'm fratty. In party environments i do really well. In work place environments, charity events, w/e, I do less well than the stoic/reserved types. My advice - don't force yourself to be someone ure not, find people who resemble your personality type but are succeeding and then learn from them. There gu…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:20 PM
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thats a really good point. I should lead with that from now on.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:57 PM
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Why do you assume the possibilities are either risk everything or risk nothing?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:50 PM
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i dont think u bothered to read any of what I wrote and made assumptions based off the title alone. Or judging by ur username, i'm being trolled.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:45 PM
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I get what ur point but I'd say there's a diff between someone who's content with life and someone who isn't and I'm saying my friends want more but are too afraid to make changes
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:38 PM
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Then u misread, cause the issue was people giving up before they even tried. Not a matter of ability.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 05:35 AM
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bro wut? if that stuff wouldnt work in the states its not gonna work elsewhere...
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:48 AM
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i think u just read the title and not my post
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:43 AM
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uhh in that situation i'd have no idea. I'd just have to do the best research I could and ask other people in said obscure position to compare notes.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:34 AM
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nahh i dont consider them worthless and never will. They supported me a ton and im just frustrated that i can't seem to support them back.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:33 AM
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damn, so it definitely is a phenomenon huh. That's depressing because my friends have all been very supportive of me so I hope nothing ever turns to resentment
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:26 AM
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i agree, I was just venting my frustrations but yeah that would be dope
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:25 AM
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I can attest to keto working. But it works in so far as you can keep up not eating carbs, which in most countries in the world - good luck.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:24 AM
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I didn't get the indication that they didnt want to help themselves until I tried helping them
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:21 AM
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well that was the point of this post. I feel like any and all help I attempt to provide is completely unwanted and all most people really want is just to kind of complain while staying comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:21 AM
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I think we might have a misunderstanding of what "being that guy" means. I tell my friends very directly and bluntly that they're either being taken advantage of or that they can clearly do better. And I tell them things like I could help them out with the job hunt But I don't go as far as to just give them advice they didn't ask for. That does nothing for either of us except strain our friendship when they're not even likely to do anything with that advice. And since my friends and I are in our…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:19 AM
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I dont personally recall any sentiments of the middle class being worshipped by everyone but I do see your point with the min wage workers thing. I'm pointing out middle class because I still have friends there who are still massively underpaid and undervalued by their companies and taken advantage of. But it's late and now I'm starting to think I need to reevaluate what i'm saying lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:16 AM
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primarily through income, it has a very high ceiling depending on the niche sub fields
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:14 AM
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without revealing too much, it's a field known for its high income. A simple google search for high income fields and it will be among the top for sure. Here's two things I've learned that are part of my bread and butter to climbing just about any new skill: will power is overrated. It's necessary but hardly sufficient by itself. Surrounding yourself in an environment/ a group of people who have the same goals as you will get you further in a shorter amount of time than you can ever do on your o…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:13 AM
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Right, so I don't give advice. After they complain I ask if they thought about improving it or if they wanna take some time and work together on a way out. But the answer is always no.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:06 AM
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I don't disagree with any of that. What I'm saying is that I've been at that bottom. Like living on the floor of a 1 bed room apartment with multiple family members if living in an apt at all sort of bottom. And I'm saying that once you figure out upward mobility, you try to show it others but no one wants to risk anything. Even if they themselves are middle class
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:05 AM
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yeah I shouldve been clearer. My trajectory was pretty much a line since elementary school. My parents were 1st gen immigrants and they continue to live in poverty to this day. I was poor most of my teens and 20's and didn't turn things around until my early to mid 30's
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:02 AM
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basically a case of a single mom not allowing him to do anything on his own. Does the dishes, cooking, laundry for him and when he tries to do it on his own, she gets angry at him for "doing it wrong" without teaching him how to do it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:00 AM
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I'm also afraid of being that guy, and that's why I've always led with "heyy well did u want to change ur situation?" instead of just ranting, but the responses were always "no because of reasons". I'll be more weary not to be that guy
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 12:26 AM
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sadly this is what i found to be true
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 12:13 AM
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I should've been clearer: the fact that I'm starting to agree with the tired cliche of rich people claiming most people just aren't trying hard enough I know deep down that's not completely true. I know so many people in poverty and above who aren't getting free funding or aid from the government and are in fact juggling multiple jobs. But what I'm saying is, those even in middle class won't even try to help themselves move up. They really do just want to complain and not risk failure - even if …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:35 PM
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Oh i've been in the poverty hole and I can attest to how expensive being poor is. And I should've clarified, most of these people who complain are themselves not even in poverty. They are smack dab in middle class. Fundamentally, you'd think it'd be easier for them to have upward mobility, but their aversion to risk keeps them from even trying.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:33 PM
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thanks fam, and nope just switched careers to one thats more lucrative
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:31 PM
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U cant change mental disorders. Gtfo
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:48 AM
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This subs over zealous about mate guarding and its hurting yall more than helping, If a dude can see u and ur girl r a thing and he keeps tryna make moves, its not about her. Its about disrespecting u. U can give 2 fucks if she decides to leave u with him, but u dont let a guy disrespect u like that
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:45 AM
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It sucks u got cheated on but dissin her ex without evening knowing if he knew is some weak shit
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:18 AM
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This is the only real answer here. It sucks but it depends.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:09 AM
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At 33, whenever someone says a weird ass offhand remark like that, i just give a slight weirded out look- like “ok? Y even bring this up”. Almost like the look David Wallace would give Michael whenever hed say something stupid. 9/10 the girl gives a “wait why did I just say that, im an idiot” look on her face before changing the subject. Its never affected me negatively, and if anything its helped build more attraction
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:47 AM
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Im not surprised at all that the shitty try hard comments are getting upvoted and the ones that actually work r getting downvoted. Its like the blind leading the blind. Honestly, self disqualifying offhand remarks like, “im gay” have worked in the past. The subtext being: she obviously knows im not gay but im saying that to show how much i dont give a shit about needing to get numbers and i dont have to justify my actions Yes, its worked more timed than i can count in getting the girl interested…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:42 AM
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Same as the other comment, after 30 girls, it just becomes kind of embarrassing that ure still trying to keep track. That shit made more sense when u were between 0-5. After 30, uve pretty much internalized how to talk to girls and it stops mattering as much
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:59 AM
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Yeah u did fine. She was already into u, now she knows other girls r into u (aka her competition) and u chose her. Couldnt have asked for better circumstances
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:03 AM
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over compensation, much like men who get overlooked as well
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:41 AM
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Lift. I was bullied a lot as a kid. Up until 23 as well. Then i took time away from that environment, lifted like crazy, got some tatts, happened to go back to the same environment almost looking for a fight and u know wat i realized? The guys who seemed like big bad bullies were those types of losers u see on fb who have no friends, only their family members like their posts, and their profile pics r their own selfies with their face 6 inches away from their camera. I was like...jesus. THESE we…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:17 AM
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What kind of low self esteem idiot asks the girl hes with if shed pick a celebrity or him...
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:12 AM
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Im older so i agree with u. No reasonable sane person does this shit unless theyre a massive fucking douchebag with no friends. It happens more among young guys than it does with grown men. What u need to learn to do is act superior to these kinda weak bitches. Treat them like they’re disrespectful little shits. If u have to, fuck them up physically too
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:10 AM
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Lets be honest tho, a vast majority of trp consists of mid 20’s and younger
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 04:04 AM
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Which works till theyre in their late 20’s or early 30’s and none of the men their age care about passing shit tests anymore. And its not even cause shes hit the wall, its cause men that age just don’t tolerate bullshit anymore and would rather be with someone that makes their lives easier Then women like her wonder why shes single
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 07:37 AM
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Maybe its just cause im order now and have less patience for unnecessary bullshit but fuck that. Id rather have coworkers and employers who are just easy to get along with than constantly needing to test everyone and stress them out just to check.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 07:33 AM
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this is a big reason why Patrice ONiel said the best relationship is one where the girls in love with the guy and the guy just kinda likes her
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:31 PM
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Men feel shitty about it too actually, theyre just not allowed to bitch as openly about it
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:56 AM
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Welcome to dating the average moron (aka 90% of available ppl to date). Its rough out there, gl
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:40 AM
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it's the latter. A homeless guy can't go up to a supermodel, neg her, and then expect to get laid.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:43 AM
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1000% true. Girls that want to be with u will make that conversation 50/50. You're both contributing equal amounts. You're both initializing equal amounts. You're both coming up with witty and fun things to talk about.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:41 AM
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I've seen good leaders of all different types. Some are team players. Some are disconnected. Some are like drill sergeants while some are like empathetic teachers. The only common denominator is that their leadership attitude is appropriate for the situation. You don't bring a drill sergeant in to yell at a classroom full of rape victims and you don't bring an elementary school teacher to lead a platoon into war.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:05 PM
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If you asked me this 10 years ago, I would've been lying to myself if I said that it didnt matter and that's just their opinion. 10 years ago, I was a skinny, short, ethnic awkward nobody who would've killed to have a gf and 0 social skills to do so. I also did piss poorly in school so I didn't even have a good job or good grades to fall back on. 10 years later, I'm still a short dude but I've gone through more shit than any of my peers in terms of dating, work, and life in general that I actual…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:01 PM
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i did a PT for 6 months. Very much worth my time cause I learned far more than i ever did on reddit or online
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:56 AM
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what was ur salary? Assumed being a lawyer u were doing well
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:55 AM
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thats a no. When a girl actually wants to reschedule she'll specify "hey im really sorry but i had x planned today before you asked but im def free next weekend cause i'd love to go"
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:46 AM
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i assume this pertains to people you hang out with regularly. Take some space away with them. With people (ESPECIALLY young people), status matters far more than being a decent human. As people get older, their insecurities about listening to the guy no one else listens to loosens up a lot and people care far more about being a decent person. Young people don't have that level of empathy yet, so it's better to start fresh with a new group and be the sort of person that you'd love to chill with
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:07 AM
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Anyone else have a far easier time handling karens/girls being bitchy/rude than with guys amogging?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:43 PM
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Ill never understand asktrps obsession with shitty retorts like these. You could have ppl who are legit doing very well with their lives who are less inclined to share their observations cause half the comments are just trying to be as edgy as possible. This is how asktrp gets diluted down to noobies just circle jerking noobies all the time
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:06 AM
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The bar is set so low that being in the top 10% seems hard for most ppl here lolol. Ure absolutely right tho. Top 10% isnt even a significant six figures either and most men can achieve top 10% bodies within a year or 2
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:01 AM
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The real answer
/r/askTRP17/02/21 05:59 AM
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No, he’s right. Even on this subreddit, its more often than not noobs giving advice to other noobs.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 05:58 AM
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When ure looking at these statistics, ull find that most of the couples who do these things have typically massive emotional and psychological issues. Those who are well adjusted typically dont solely chase after a single race but are down to date any
/r/askTRP14/02/21 06:46 PM
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5’6 asian dude who does well. imagine that u were a nobel prize winner, u volunteer regularly at the local soup kitchen, and u help super models get over drug addiction. No one is allowed to know u do this. now think about how girls will judge u by ur race Do they treat u shitty? Do they kinda wish ud leave? Imagine if 10 seconds after u got rejected, they realized how accomplished u were. Would u even still want them at that point? Hope the answers a fuck no besides for just bangin them and lea…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:18 AM
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Unpopular opinion but no. At least not without something to remind u of who u were. An old saved conversation or talking to somone who had and still has the hots for u. When it comes back, it comes back quickly, but u gotta remember that feeling first
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:08 AM
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maybe i'm just fucked up but as a 5'6 asian guy, at some point in my life, i just found the whole situation fucking hilarious. my self esteem was so fucking low that it was high cause since I shouldnt be able to get with literally anyone, nothing about dating mattered. and because of that energy, i ironically started doing well. I mean REALLY well. And that made this shit even MORE HILARIOUS. It was a positive feedback loop of butthurt racists trying to amog me while i slept with girls I had abs…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 06:57 AM
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I hate those terms and I wish I could move past them but every time I interact with people irl it's like they keep bouncing back. "Beta" guys, at their core, make most of their life decisions based off their perceived limitations rather than the things that could be. Very real examples I've heard include: "nah I can't get a girl like her, I'll just stick to what I can get" "nah that job seems too intimidating, I don't think I should go for it" "nah studying that much seems too overwhelming" "nah…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 06:50 AM
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As in, instead of thinking I had to do everything myself, I set aside my ego and let others who know better than me teach me
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:18 PM
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I was u to a T. Things turned around when instead of putting to onus entirely on myself, I paid someone to guide me. Tutors, personal trainers, etc. would pay them to a point where I was self sufficient
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:27 AM
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In my experience, its the girls with mental issues who has no girl friends and only hangs out with other guys who do this.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:09 AM
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If that dude came over, hit on ur friend and didnt put u down in the process, thats fine. If that dude disrespected u in order to flirt with ur friend and ur friend shut that shit down out of respect for u, thats fucking dope. But neither of those things happened. Instead he embarrassed u and ur friend gladly laughed along. That aint a friend. Thats a trash. Calmly explain to her over text that a friend doesnt do that shit, and then cut her the fuck out. As for the dude, this happens to nearly e…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:51 AM
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By 35, most ppl are tired and over it. They already had 35 years to know they can do well, it stopped mattering a while ago
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:37 AM
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Most attractive people both men and women are probably married by 35.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:51 AM
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Every time my social skills improved, it was when i happened to be in an environment where i had to socialize for prolonged periods of time. Sports teams, hobby clubs, or whatever
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:33 AM
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Seein a lotta young ppl responses on here so ill give my take. There absolutely is meaning in life, and it’s basically you setting goals to overcome your own weaknesses. For ppl who grew up dirt poor, theyll find meaning in overcoming poverty. For those who were good in school and are very comfortable financially but cant ever date the girl that they liked, itll be becoming more social. Be honest about what u suck at or what ure afraid of and ull find meaning when u do ur best to get passed it
/r/askTRP28/01/21 07:11 AM
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Ha, i was basically your friend. Im 5’6 but without the gym progress and just normal. Guys who are 5’11 care more cause yall r almost 6ft or taller, so suddenly all this shit matters. Im so far away from the ideal 6ft3 jacked white guy that im free from being burdened by all that bullshit. I know im not supposed to get the girl so i dont have to care about impressing anyone. I can just be a fun dude who cracks jokes and has good energy
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:33 AM
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If ur friends r asking u these questions privately and genuinely concerned, then tell them ure good but just not feeling chatty. If ur friends r asking u these questions intentionally in front of girls to put u down, then u can either find new friends or just roast them. For ex, i saw a quiet friend of mine get asked this question by a guy whos known to talk out his ass too much. Everyone knew he was annoying and tried to amog, so at one party my friend just replied, “no dude, u just never shut …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:26 AM
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No what i mean is, stoicism is a natural consequence for overcoming your personal struggles and continuing to grow. The opposite of consciously trying to apply it to ur life
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:11 AM
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Personally i think its a huge cope. Stoicism for me didnt come from a book, it came from years of overcoming personal hurdles and becoming more and more sure of myself and my abilities. To read a book and try to force the symptoms of a stoic person without any of the hard learning is objectively the wrong way to go about it
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:17 AM
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Wym by unordinary
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:14 AM
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Funny enough, more of my guy friends are gay the older i get for this exact reason. Gay dudes will party well into their 30’s without feelinrg the need to settle down. And they also make very good wingmen Otherwise, gl finding straight dudes who are successful socially, physically, and sexually. Its a rare fucking combination
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:11 AM
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I dont think we need a whole new "pill" subreddit but honestly it's not a terrible idea. iv'e been on trp since its beginning and like it or not, there are tons of anger on the subreddit (justified or not). White pill is just when ppl move on from that phase and learn that there's nuances from both sides worth considering
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:57 PM
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Most girls are actually decent, meaning that if she likes you, she isnt' thinking "damn im just gonna let him pay for me all the time". She's thinking, "yeah its a cultural norm for the guy to pay but I won't let this be a pattern and I'm definitely going to cover him on the next date", which they actually do Or hell if you live in NYC, most girls are thinking "no i dont want to be in a position where the guy feels like he has to, I'm actually gonna try pretty hard to split it 50/50 and show him…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:55 PM
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Situationally it's not really the worst idea. If you offer to pay, you get to see how they react. Are they just using you? Do they actually feel bad and want to go 50/50 cause they're decent people? the short term cost of 2 dates is worth the x number of weeks or months in terms of getting laid and even (i know trp is gonna hate this) emotional intimacy as others have said, unless you're consistently broke or intentionally tryna go out to the most expensive places (in which case youre an idiot),…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:48 PM
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I mean.. needing ur own personal space is just normal in a relationship. Im good with seeing my gf 1-2 days per week
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:01 AM
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Its completely normal to desire intimacy and affection, and trps idea that u have to throw that all away is really just newbies echoing other newbies. U should absolutely find someone who u want to be intimate with but the crux of it is, never forget ur own responsibilities in a relationship of staying a person who’s attractive both physically, mentally and emotionally
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:33 AM
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then the answer is no, no amount of exercises will physically cause your jaw bones to increase in length and size
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:59 PM
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I'm in my 30's and I had a history of being bullied when I was younger. At my age, I don't give a shit anymore. I document it, go to HR and let them know this person is causing a toxic workplace and she needs to be deal with. if it doesn't stop after that, go the lawsuit route or anything you can.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:57 PM
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this is the equivalent to "will doing squats increase my test levels". Short answer is: probably but nowhere near to the degree where it'd actually be noticeable. Either learn to get over it or save up money and get surgery. Cause here's the real truth: Life is short and it won't matter, so do what need to do in order to bring satisfaction w/ your life.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:55 PM
1

it's a trp buzzword that means your self esteem/outlook/perception are you easily swayed by ppl's arguments or do you hold true to your values? on the flip side to that is just being a stubborn fucking idiot. flat earthers have a very strong frame but no one's running around looking up to them. It's best to hold onto your core principles while being flexible in your beliefs
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:51 PM
5

In the sense that ive stopped thinking in terms of beta or alpha. Im in my 30’s and that thought pattern is just weird to me. Ive also been thru a lot more in my life than most men and so i no longer have much to prove to myself or anyone else.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:56 AM
16

Yep. Very normal. The more shit uve been thru the better u should feel about ur worth tho tbh. How many ppl who havent gone thru that would immediately break down and cry if they switched lives with u. Dont worry about those type of ppl
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:52 AM
5

ya thats pretty fucking stupid. U might wanna do it tho just for her sake
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:28 AM
3

girls have always been receptive to genuine compliments. It's just that the delivery or motivation behind them has usually been hot fucking garbage. If a regular guy who's extremely happy with his gf decides to randomly throw out an off hand compliment to a stranger waiting in line, thats the sort of guy the girl will be into.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:29 AM
1

I want you to take a big gigantic step back and look at this from a bird's eye view. The vast VAAAST majority of people are insecure, mal adjusted, angry about something losers. That includes men and women Online dating is where all those angry bitter insecure losers congregate and complain about why they can't get X person of their dreams while they themselves lack any semblance of introspection about how much they're worth
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:24 AM
0

bruh, wtf
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:44 AM
2

At first I was gonna say she's probably just gas lighting you but if you spoke to anyone that way, they probably would've given you the same response. She could still be crazy but even so you didn't handle it well. How you go about articulating your desires is as important as being confident in yourself. Having said that, it'd probably be more informative if you elaborated on what plans were and how she wanted them changed
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:55 AM
12

I can't tell what's more apparent here: The autism or the insecurity
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:23 AM
1

Something's definitely off. I've been a hard gainer my entire life and after 8 months with a personal trainer who gave me nutrition and a proper program, I shot up from 165 to 205 1rep max at 73kgs (still above 20% bodyfat). since you're naturally at 90kgs, Im gonna assume your caloric intake is fine. It's either going to be your protein intake, your lack of volume, or something medically related
/r/askTRP16/10/20 05:51 AM
0

trp's honestly gone down the shitter with how many sexpats lurk and post here
/r/askTRP16/10/20 05:36 AM
1

i don't get it. Do you as the manager now have the power to let people go if they're disrespecting you?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:25 AM
1

this would be infinitely easier to answer with specific examples
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:24 AM
1

practice/exposure, pattern recognition, and observing other people
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:55 AM
2

this is called the "party high hook up". I can flirt like crazy with girls in a bar/club and they'll be massively attracted even if they're above my league in looks but once outside of that high environment, she starts becoming grounded again. Reality sort of hits and it's a girl's version of post nut clarity. She's thinking "wait, was i really attracted to that guy or was it just me being drunk and in party mode" sometimes, there's nothing u can do about it. Sometimes, you do things correctly s…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:52 AM
2

This was more of an issue back when I was in uni about a decade ago. Back then in the 2010's, literally anyone could get away with the most degrading dehumanizing anti-asian sentiment without ever being called out even by other adults. Nowadays, I'm older and I've no issue taking it as far is it needs to shut that shit down and there's far more leverage with the SJW movement.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:44 PM
3

in theory that's true. In real life, it's me on the chopping block at my job or in school. It's always the same tired excuse too that "Asians are the most racist" as if I had anything to do with what Asians in Asia do.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:30 PM
6

I hope you don't paint all Asian Americans in the same light. Most of us aren't like that
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:24 PM
3

a lot of black people hate asian americans. it goes both ways but the other way's never called out
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:23 PM
6

it's funny as an asian american, finding people who actually admit how easy it is to be racist towards people who look like me.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:22 PM
2

do u actually have any examples? Could it be that you might be misinterpreting what he's saying or means?
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:21 PM
2

why r u going after those types of people?
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:39 PM
2

Guaranteed they couldnt. Ull start to see them as even sort of pathetic and annoying and itll be easier to deal with them
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:47 PM
2

Theres no advice in the world other than “ure gonna have to figure out all the nuances through experience” Its a skill, u can only get better by exposure and time
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:43 PM
3

If ure gonna try to walk away from this with friends, u meed hard evidence she cheated on u and then u need to leak that to ur friends before she suspects anything. Once u get the hard evidence u go to ur friends and get them to console u saying u found out she cheated and u dont know what to do. Bam - uve won them over
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:40 PM
2

absolutely fucking no.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:33 AM
3

Take pride in the fact that if any of them were put into YOUR shoes and asked to go through the journey that YOU had to endure, they'd fucking break down crying. I know someone who lost all his money and had to experience homelessness for the first time in his life and not knowing where to get his next food. I grew up with that shit as a teen. I couldn't believe I ever thought THAT guy was someone who was better than me. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:31 AM
2

u can't really until you just get better than them in a way that matters. it is what it is.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:16 AM
9

almost gave myself a cut with how edgy this post is
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:12 PM
1

yuppp. pathetic
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:20 AM
2

Don't get me wrong. If some dude comes out of nowhere wielding a knife and there's literally no way out of the situation but through him, then that's one thing. But most bar room tools that pull that shit are college kids and as a 30+ year old, its hard to feel threatened or to take him seriously. To me, it's another kid on xbox screaming about someone's mom. It's more annoying than threatening
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:33 AM
6

as someone who's been on trp since the beginning, the number of sexpats, weebs, and losers with yellow fever that infest trp is downright embarrassing
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:43 PM
1

We're discussing two different points. By your words, a Chad is evaluated by his success brought about by his genetics. By that definition you are technically correct - someone who is 5'6 cannot be a "Chad" In which case, I'd say the 5'6 could still be "alpha" - which is not determined by genetics. Alpha's can slay, chad's can slay, but alpha's don't need to measure their own worth relative to the Chad's
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:41 PM
1

u got it the other way around. Think about how a normal, well adjusted, secure person would behave. Does he go around acting like a gigantic douche bag tryna hit on other guys' women? No, cause he doesnt need to cause he's already satisfied in that department. Now think about a normal, well adjusted, and secure human being - why on earth would they lose respect for me shutting that shit down? If they feel like my value dropped cause I'd rather call the bouncer over to get rid of this tool, then …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:39 PM
10

As a 30 yr old, no. Im too old to put up with bullshit from dudes with microscopic dick energy. Get the bouncer, get them out of there. Be done with it
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:18 AM
0

No im saying if shes into u, even if yall rnt in an ltr, ure still responsible to say something to an amog
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:07 AM
-1

Not even. If she's INTO you then do it. If she isnt, then dont
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:15 AM
6

nah dude. It's her job to give him the first two "no's" and "gtfo's" and if he won't stop, then you need to step in cause she's gonna be wondering why she has to do ALL the heavy ass lifting.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:14 AM
3

Come to New Jersey or NYC and I promise you'll run into these types eventually.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:12 AM
6

Once again, I didn't say anything, I was standing there like a rock. I was afraid that everything that I would've said would break my frame. ​I wish this whole "is this mateguarding?!?" thing would die. No, it's not mate guarding when you're being actively disrespected. It's called not standing up for yourself. It's only mate guarding if SHE'S the one hitting on other guys and shes clearly less into you. How would a grown adult have handled it? Since his friend's actually being reasonable, talk …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:10 AM
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What is a Chad besides a guy who sets goals and figures a way to accomplish them? If someone is 6'5, but achieved mediocrity in his life while you at 5'6 smashed every significant goal you set yourself out for, who's the Chad? Are you any less of a Chad because people who don't know you judged you entirely based off your height instead of your accomplishments or character? Is your own self worth so shallow that it ignores all that you have to go through in life just cause of your height?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:59 AM
12

Which made me realize there are to many superior races to compete with for Indian and Asian guys In the States the different white nationalities are way sexier then what you'll get where I live, there are 6'6 black guys which I rarely ever see here and don't forgot the Latino's. White's aren't superior to Asians and Indians. Asians and Indian men got fucked by westernized media and dumb people from both genders grew up eating that shit up.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:56 AM
1

It is weak minded to let anyone push you around and think you are a victim. and sometimes u have to suck it up because there's no golden safety net that guarantees you won't be homeless. I've been homeless before so I can vouche that living in your car or in staircases of random apartments isnt worth telling someone off just so you can be a "super alpha". It's not "weak minded" to hold your tongue and choose your battles, it's being smart about how not to completely fuck up your life cause you'd…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:53 AM
2

There ya go. If you're in a position that's in high enough demand, you have the power to tell your own boss that your project manager's attitude is unprofessional and unacceptable and it's causing hard working employees to not want to do their jobs. Leverage the fact that she's pushing talent out of the company and if they reply with indifference or lack of any real change then fuck them and leave
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:51 AM
1

lose fat.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:29 PM
9

This really boils down to: how replaceable are you? If your boss can find someone to fill your position in 2-4 weeks, then there's nothing you can do except look elsewhere and if you so choose, burn bridges with her on the way out. If you're a decade into the field as the senior lead and you're extremely hard to replace, then you have tons of leverage. Be realistic about where you are and act accordingly
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:26 PM
1

if you're young, yes. When you're older, no. It just reassures you that you're doing better than most.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:24 PM
4

he's getting harassed by a person who has power over him in a part of his life that affects his livelihood. Especially in this economy, if he can't make rent he's fucked so let's do a bit more than say "hurr duur bullied by a girl"
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:22 PM
2

what a useless, unhelpful bit of advice. Jobs aren't like relationships, they don't work in the same dynamic
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:21 PM
1

This is the end all be all for "does lifting affect dating life": - it gives girls the benefit of the doubt that you aren't autistic until you open your mouth and either prove them wrong or prove them right.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:57 PM
1

I don’t really have a clear way of defining what is a shit test a shit test is what insecure women do to test their men. If you ever come across a woman who's just head over heels for u and doesnt shit test you and is sane, keep her. for the 90% of the remaining women who do shit test you, just roll your eyes and ask her if she can be normal. If she can't, move on.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:07 PM
1

Can ya be more specific???? There's normal jealousy which everyone has and can get over and there's the type where you're just gonna be abusive
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:06 PM
2

I think at this point you're aware then that it's time to cut ties. NPD people can't really be "Saved". They just double down on their own bullshit. State your case, state your through and just move on with your life. Trust me, you won't look back.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:03 PM
1

If noFap really "worked", that whole subreddit would be a case study for slaying and getting rich af. The thing that actually works is tackling your problems head on
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:02 PM
1

Your brain needs to get accustomed to viewing non ripped guys win over attractive women.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:00 PM
2

If I were you, I'd bring it up to her straight. "You honestly would rather take the side of another woman than your own son. That speaks volumes about how you feel about me." I had an emotionally abusive mother as well and I cut ties with her 5 years ago. Zero regret. Though your relationship with her might be much better, don't ever think cutting ties isnt an option.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:59 PM
1

Def not alone. You're right, it IS basic human things that a person raised by a normal, well adjusted parents would never need to be taught. Unfortunately, there are many people who were vastly ill equipped to be parents who spat out a child and because of that, those children grew up never learning the stuff others take for granted. Conversely though, those who do manage to meet the bar for normal human interaction still aren't necessarily good people themselves. You have Stacey's and Brads who…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:55 PM
3

bro. sometimes, you gotta take a giant fucking step back and think "this isnt a shit test. she's just fucking crazy."
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:44 PM
4

biggest life lesson wit bpd ppl is recording them. They will gas light you, bend the truth, and use every advantage of being a woman in their favor to get ppl on their side. Their biggest downfall are facts. Legit, cold, hard facts. Have previous texts that run contrary to their story and expose them as liars? Bring it up. Have recordings, chat logs, etc showing that they're full of shit? Bring it up. Have a stack of bullshit call outs on hand and then reframe it as if they're the crazy ones cau…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:43 PM
1

nicee
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:38 PM
1

mind giving a more concrete example? There's instances of actually bitching and being annoying and being passionate.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:02 PM
13

the real answer: more than you realize but less than you'd expect
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:57 PM
3

ah, another trp sexpat..
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:57 PM
1

Either: the conversation really didnt go the way you thought it went because you dont' have enough experience yet. or you dodged a bullet with someone mentally unhinged.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:56 PM
2

I work for a (field that company specializes in) company
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:53 PM
1

Correcto. Just live and get better and discerning which is which and you'll get better at it over time
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:10 PM
1

Here's a better analogy: You are a car. Up until you actually post ur pics on tinder, your habits and mentality determine which car you are and that determines who your buyers are. Did you do fuck all and you're just obese and shitty? You're a used 93 Saturn that's been in multiple wreckages. You're born to a great upper middle to upper class sane, well adjusted family who support you and you have amazing genetics? You're a Ferrari. Everyone wants you, but not anyone can afford you except for th…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:08 PM
6

There are the types of people who just want to be right and the type of people who are open to discussion (they're more rare). The more you live, the better you get at discerning which is which most of the time. The ones who just want to be right for their own ego - just shut them down. The ones who actually want to learn and have a difference of opinion, don't do that. Give them the explanation and be open minded because if you use the same tactics, you're just going to make someone with good p…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:57 PM
2

2 things: nothing beats conscious effort except conscious effort combined with an environment that fosters it. find your environment and stay conscious
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:06 PM
3

There is no balance. She either perceives u as high value enough or she doesn’t. U couldve literally saved 100 kittens from a burning barn but if she doesnt know that and only goes off ur tinder pics, then shes gonna treat u like a regular chump (if she thinks she cant get better looking dudes). A girl whos actually interested in u will make the convo 1000x easier so u dont even have to put in effort into it. Even from the beginning
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:13 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:19 AM
4

no.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:01 AM
12

typically, when u come across anyone like that, they just never been checked in their lives. No one of authority's really told them no.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:56 PM
15

sometimes its that simple. sometimes its not. most of my over 6ft foot friends are doing worse than i am with girls. They haven't been height and race shamed to death as much as i have since the early 2000's so they never built up the mental callouses of years of rejection and humiliation. To them, what the girl thinks of them matters. To me, i'm like that cashier whos been working in retail near an upper middle class karen suburban neighborhood for too long. on paper, they should be doing subst…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:54 PM
2

Ure discovering ur reaL smv. Ure not in ur own little small town in the world but in one of the biggest and most renowned cities in the world
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:36 PM
1

they just want power and attention over you. juice aint worth the squeeze
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:26 PM
3

do u mean in terms of women, finances, fitness, and friendship?
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:38 PM
6

good stuff but this wasn't what i was referring to when i stated "underrated" or not very obvious. This advice is on the side bar and spammed everywhere
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:37 PM
2

her: hmm...I’ll have to see. Sorry I’ve kinda got a waitlist of people to see, I know it sounds really up myself but like I don’t know how else to say it how i'd respond: whoaa didnt know i was talking to (insert celebrity look alike) ;) no worries tho, have a great weekend and then if she has my social media i'd just continue doing fun shit and living my life. If she has guys who does even more fun shit than i do then why would i complain than she chooses them over me? And if she chooses guys w…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:34 PM
1

id bet money that out of a 100 girls saying this as opposed to 100 girls replying with "sorry i've got a wait list", a considerable number from the former group would actually follow up on the date
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:31 PM
1

Let's say for the moment she was truly 100% that fucking busy and there was nothing she could do to move around her schedule. It happens, especially with higher quality women. But its the way she expresses it to you that matters. If in her eyes u were THE guy she wanted to hang with, she would've phrased it better. She would've said " :( im so sorry but these next 2 weeks i'm completely booked. I have relatives and friends visting from out of town but if u have time after id' love to hang out" T…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:04 PM
1

treat him like you would as if he was Michael Scott
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:19 PM
3

because even in 2020, there are parts of the world where if a woman said what she really felt directly she'd be beaten or executed. Now imagine this even a 100 or 1000's of years ago. They developed it as a way to get what they want without risking death
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:15 PM
1

as much as it's painful to admit, TRP is essentially geared towards men who aren't successful but are trying to be. And of those who aren't successful at life, a vast majority of those are concerned with sexual success. And thus, 95% of trp content revolves around mating strategies.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:11 PM
1

"Having TRP relationships is about being in a relationship where the man has more power over the woman. " I dont think you have any idea what trp's about. It's about having power over yourself and your own inner urges to be complacent. It's also not letting other people have power over you. You're in control of yourself and you set boundaries for yourself. The people who make it seem like it's power over women are the ones on TRP who either date fucked up bottom of the barrel women or are just g…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:09 PM
2

Normal. Going on a calorie deficit fucks with ur test lvls. Im on trt and would used to get my blood work done after fasting to make the test lvls seem lower so id qualify
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:56 PM
2

Damn good insight
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:54 PM
13

Literally nothing that you read on trp or anywhere else is gonna substitute experience. Go invite her over see where it goes and learn from there.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:37 PM
5

imma stop you before you do anything further. you said, "She has lots of insecurity and anger". On top of this you're also going to therapy. Like just take a big step the fuck back and think: "damn we're both mentally not in a good place. maybe its really not the brightest idea when two mentally off people are dating each other". Like cmon dude. Get yourself better and get yourself a girl who's also good. Like what are you doing?
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:35 PM
2

I'll preface this by saying - the ultimate trp "alpha" guy is someone who's just fucking sane, normal, and reasonable. He doesn't try to be a bad ass, he doesnt try to pass shit tests. He just is and he just does by virtue of being normal, sane, and reasonable. So if u were to ask yourself how a sane, normal, and reasonable wouldve responded, then u already fucked up. your response should've been simply: "oh wow, r u ok??" her: "yeah i think ill be fine, i just have to rest up. you: "yeah def, g…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:28 PM
1

100%. Mostly cause i became far more active and wearing glasses that slip off as soon as u sweat is a pain.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:23 PM
1

I usually really don't give a shit when ugly girls are sluts, but seeing a very attractive girl that still goes to fucking school not just getting a handsome boyfriend and going out of her way to do this type of shit kinda breaks my heart. is this a real thought? You're gonna tell me you can look at a 10/10 model and legitimately tell yourself, "hmm yeah shes probably hasnt gotten laid much". here's the think champ, both ok/cute girls and really hot girls are gonna get a lotta dick. What's the d…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:22 PM
2

just use ur brain. is she gonna leave the company soon and ure 99% sure? do it. are you gonna leave the company soon and ure 99% sure? do it. are you gonna completely switch careers and its a retail job and u dont give a fuck? do it. use. ur. brain.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:19 PM
7

the ultimate trp archetype is a well adjusted secure man. He knows his worth, acts like a normal human being, and doesn't think about things in alpha or beta.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:16 AM
52

yep, did it once. she was an absolute 10/10. realized at the end she's just a girl. gave me a lot of perspective
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:35 PM
1

i knew an "alpha male" who got roasted cause he was from england. He knew how to roast back but this one guy was just relentless and it just got annoying. One day the dude just plainly (not aggressively) asked "do u have something against england?". The other guy said nah he was just joking and backed off. some times ppl legit r just joking and r stupid about it. some times ppl r doing it cause they're deep down jealous and resentful. just use ur wits
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:13 PM
2

young adults who excel at academics develop a huge ego about how much they think they know about the real world based off all the theory they've been taught in uni. And then the first few years of working in the real world teaches them how fucking wrong they were. So yes, to a point you're very right
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:09 PM
16

get rid of it with a hooker. You'll either hate urself or learn that ur sacred oh so special virginity was never a big deal. If u do hate urself, ull stop caring about it in a few years anyways, cause again, u'll realize ur virginity never really mattered
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:08 PM
2

Stop forcing yourself to always interact. Allow yourself a break. If I tell a newbie at the gym to go 10 workouts at the gym full of dropsets and supersets every day, he's gonna die. He has to build to that gradually. He starts at 6 workouts for a few months until his body is used to it, then we add in another extra compound movement or isolation exercise. Then another. Then another. Ull get to the point where you can comfortably interaction longer but u need to structure urself
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:17 PM
1

sorry but if ure not getting the results u want, u either rnt good looking enough or ur pics suck or both.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:26 PM
3

prob cause yall see each other way too much. Take a week or even more than week break from each other
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:26 PM
1

Still had oneitis for the top top girls and that’s something that took a while to get over. Porn just lost is appeal all together since there was no need for it. Ego was huge
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:09 PM
1

I mixed this post up with another where someone was dealing with an overbearing and insane boss. My apologies
/r/askTRP03/08/20 04:23 AM
2

This is a really good teaching moment for u and something I had personally realized once I "made it". At the top level, the most "trp" man is ultimately a normal, well adjusted, non needy person who is secure with himself and knows his worth. Because he understands his value as a man and a human being and because he is just a sane, he has ultimately no desire to be anything other than pleasant and confident. This is almost unfathomable to newbies, but once you make it out the other side you unde…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:38 AM
6

depends where u started
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:43 AM
1

i had this situation not once but twice in my life. 2 separate friends. both just had girls throwing themselves at them. Never blamed them for it tho, cause they had my back and always supported me. But ultimately i had to diverge and do my own thing for a while and not live under their shadows. made some new friends for a year or two, learned to just be an absolute party animal and great with girls. Came back and i didnt feel that shadow anymore
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:36 AM
2

literally a nice walk at a nearby park
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:21 AM
3

if u have to ask, then u care more about girls than ud like to admit. having said that, u can not give a shit but u still wont get girls if ure not in a good place mentally, and thats obvious if u think ure coming across as a dick. if ure truly at a good place in ur life, ure just content while not giving a shit. That doesnt come across as a dick. Actually the opposite, u come across as really friendly but ure just too fucking busy to respond all the time. If u truly deep down dont care and have…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:18 AM
2

I thought I'd feel that way too forever but at 32, nah I def feel like an adult now. Outside of still doing fun stupid stuff with the boys i def feel like im mentally 30+
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:09 AM
4

it seems like ure gonna do w/e it is ure gonna do regardless of any of the answers here
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:29 PM
1

idk what women u've been dating but i've certainly dated women who asked about my day. Or if i was stressed they always asked whats wrong. awalt is awalt but damn son, u gotta be dating some bottom of the barrel type if they cant ask u how ure doing even as a courtesy
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:24 PM
1

Company is small, they are not looking to fire her. The boss however is extremelly blue pill and hates any woman that doesn’t try to be friendly with her, so she allows those who are to complain. they might not be, but her boss certainly is. Even if she doesnt mean it intentionally and she's just bpd, she wouldnt miss ur gf not working there for a minute so dont think any differently. if your gf gets fired, she gets unemployment, so im not sure how that will negatively affect your life.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:21 PM
1

that too but i was referring to times when i woke up before her in the morning, already had the coffee and breakfast out while sitting outside in the living room studying or doing a project
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:13 PM
11

someone who doesn't understand what "me-time" means and will try to force a conversation or interaction to happen every. single. god. damn. day. also someone who wont fucking leave my apartment.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:37 PM
3

ur instincts are right: Say, "ty i appreciate it" and move on with ur life. Any follow up questions either keep the answers cordial and curt or just ghost her with the excuse that you've been extremely busy if she makes a fuss of it.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:34 PM
1

yeah, cause i know she wont keep it
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:38 PM
9

ask yourself if you were to put urself in ur gf's shoes, are you honestly someone who she'd lust over or are you someone she sees as her comfortable bf who doesnt do shit most weekends except sits on the couch watching netflix and playing video games all day. I had LTRs where i was honest to god just fucking pulled in 5 different directions. Work, alone time, friends, family, lifting, traveling, mma, music lessons, gigging, etc. i got to see my gf maybe 1-2 times a week because i was just so foc…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:33 PM
20

I want u to take a step back and look at wat u just wrote. You're a guy in his late 20's and you're worried about what some 20 year old thinks about you. to put that in perspective. if you were 18 years old, you're giving a whole lot of fucks about what an 8 year old thinks about you..
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:45 PM
1

Im sorry to hear that and as an older guy who's gone through a she bitch manager like this I understand the frustration your gf is going through. Keep in mind that this is a tactic ur gf's boss is doing in order to push her out of the company instead of firing her so that the company doesn't have to pay for severance. The bottom line is, your gf needs to start applying to other jobs today. However, while she is job hunting there are 2 ways she can ride out the rest of her days at her current com…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:04 PM
2

yes. Generally, its the men who aren't as good with women who hold onto these sorts of value judgments. Men who generally have no issues getting with girls of all ranges dont care what the girl's history is cause in the end they're getting laid anyways and not trying to find the next LTR. And high value men also understand that by nature of being a girl who's a 9 or a 10, her numbers will automatically be higher just because the demand for her will be higher
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:46 PM
2

The fact that ur friends rnt stepping up to defend u says a lot about them. Talk to ur friends and if they defend u, u have free reign to talk back to defend urself since ure being so disrespected. They do it cause so far uve let them get away with it. They sense that youre not the type of person who expresses himself and says whats right and so far theyve been correct in their assessment of you. Best way to deal with them? Like how a disapproving parent would to a spoiled child. Not angrily or …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:37 PM
1

I just go with ice cream and a walk in the park. Cheap, fresh air, and im good at chatting. Wont work if ure too shy or introverted tho
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:42 AM
2

ur only responsibility is being friendly, non needy, and sane. Thats it. You have no control over the results of ur efforts and thats not ur problem. If someone doesnt like u despite u meeting all those criteria then they're the problem, not u
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:31 PM
2

you're only responsible for ur effort, not the results
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:29 PM
14

imagine what life would be like if u actually didnt give a flying fuck what other ppl thought about u, so long as u were being friendly and non needy and normal.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:07 PM
3

its weird. i and some of my friends agree and some other friends have said their tinder success has gone down.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:40 PM
1

Do you ever look back at the past video of urself from years ago and think "jesus, i cant believe i used to act like that. if i only i knew then what i knew now". thats like virginity - adults who are either virgins or have very little sexual experience have a different vibe about them. They're far more uptight and spazzy and just... off. for most people who've had sex, its actually really easy to spot who hasnt yet or who's had only 1 or 2 partners at most. Even the most psychotic bpd bitch in …
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:24 PM
2

my alone time, my friends, family, money, body, hobbies
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:12 PM
2

no offense dude but i think u gotta be more honest with urself. even if ur reply was 100% true (which it isnt), an experienced guy wouldnt wonder why. He'd shrug and say "thats just how it is sometimes"
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:10 PM
1

cause u wanted her to like u. every guy goes through this till the reach the point where they feel like they no longer have to prove themselves to anyone.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:04 PM
3

ure entire post sounds like u tried realllly reallly hardd and did alllll the techniques and this and that and 100 other things and she smelled that shit from a mile away. had u not "applied the techniques" and instead "was just a normal well adjusted friendly guy who was really busy with his life", u wouldve gotten her to go out with u by the first week of texting. newbies think: "okay she texted me at 1pm, i better not txt her till at least 4!" experienced guys think: "oh cool, she just txted …
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:53 PM
2

go fucking do something. ure not good looking enough to immediately fuck without knowing.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:49 PM
1

"... wut..." or "???"
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:48 PM
11

social media is either a bucket of water or a bucket of kerosene depending on how popular u are. If you IG is clearly not gonna impress the girl you're with, just say u dont have ig atm and get her number.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:46 PM
7

95/100 times, if u did the date correctly, she'll text you. 5/100 times she's actually the really really shy type whos afraid of coming off as needy towards u, but thats something u'd know right off the bat on the date and wouldnt need to ask this question
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:43 PM
4

im gonna take a big fat guess that at some point in ur relationship, u got too comfortable and u put her priorities ahead of urs. U can deny it, u can rationalize it, but by evidence of her lack of desire to fuck u, its pretty evident that thats the case. How would I know? Because in all my ltr's that attraction never suffered - i was constantly way too fucking busy to see her that often. Maybe once or twice a week every other week. my gfs always knew what was up - if i wasnt working, spending v…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:40 PM
1

The type of women who do this are internally mentally unhinged. No sane, well adjusted person feels the need to hammer in their own internal views on to another human being - especially if it becomes clear that that person is miserable in having to follow that ideal. A truly normal and mentally well human being would just be content to let that person live, guide them a bit, and let them figure stuff on their own. Unfortunately, the crazy type of women make up the vast majority of the population
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:30 PM
7

reddit's full of theory elitists. If u were to go on the fitness subreddit about a decade ago, it was literally an echo chamber of how nothing could ever top starting strength. And the people who kept it echoing it were of course noobies who've either never stepped in the gym or have only been working out for 6 months or less. this subreddit, along with a lot of others, has the same issue. The most dogmatic people are the ones who either never really tested the theory themselves or just barely s…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:23 PM
1

If she told u about that shit within 5 mins of happening, she isnt tryna branch swing. She thought the other guy was low value and looked to u for protection. Meaning it was ur job to set boundaries with that guy. This isnt mate guarding. If a girl is clearly into another guy and u jump in - THATs mate guarding This is u establishing that u shouldnt be disrespected. Know the difference
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:43 AM
2

Setting aside alllll the trp terminology and theory - its because theyre just really fucking retarded. No. Really. Think about the bare minimum of what it takes to be half way decent well adjusted and normal human being - and then compare that how women treat u. U dont have to be knowledgeable in trp to realize that that behavior is just ridiculous and fucked up. U dont have to see urself as a great person, but it takes a really shitty annoying and down right trash human to treat another person …
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:38 AM
1

live, but i wont preach being grateful for adversity
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 04:10 PM
6

Long term ongoing pain that isnt curable doesnt stop being miserable just cause you’ve accepted it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 08:37 AM
5

Cool, but what about multiple unending bodily pain from an accident years ago
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 07:37 AM
3

it completely depends on whatever tolerance is more limited for you: finding another job where you won't have this sort of employer or lying to have ur current job.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:43 PM
2

glad you appreciated it bro
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 05:38 PM
8

Not quite the point I was making. You can think "oh there's a million girls out there so i dont have to worry" and yet still consistently make the same mistakes because you dont have a buyer's mentality
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 10:48 PM
8

ur girl will stick to u 90% of the time if she thinks other hotter girls than her wanna fuck u. be attractive enough where those girls eye you. u dont have to flirt or even notice them, but they gotta notice u
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:49 AM
22

logic stuff: A: not all girls who color their hair wild colors are nuts B: but loads of girls who are wacky af will color their hair wild colors
/r/askTRP06/07/20 01:37 AM
1

he's been a PT for several years and trained a lot of people. I paid a lot for a good trainer and he's one that was meticulous with keeping track of macros, weight progress, etc for all his clients i dont think its bro science at all. Smaller wrist size + smaller hands means you're gonna have a weaker overall grip strength which effects your lifts considerably. Im not here to whine about being a hopeless incel who can't gain muscles, but you honestly gotta be keeping your head in the sand if you…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:33 PM
1

if me and 100 guys were the same height and untrained, i'd be at the bottom 25% of the progress after a year if we all followed our routines, diets, and rest to a T. Maybe thats only 15-20lbs less weight on the bench. Maybe that means overall 3-5lbs less muscle gains. But I'd essentially wouldnt be close to median figures
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:20 PM
5

https://strengthlevel.com/strength-standards this is an alright indicator. Keep in mind "average" doesnt reflect the huge range of body types in men. Just cause two men are 5'10, does not mean they're built equally. Some men just have larger hands, larger wrists, and far stronger grip thus their rate of progress will be significantly better than another 5'10 guy with thing wrists and smaller hands. I'm def on the smaller side bones wise and even with a PT for a year, he told me i'm at the bottom…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:58 PM
5

as a life long "life of the party guy" - stoic guys can almost never reach the level of "life of the party" like people like i can. Our brains are just wired differently and we get huge dopamine rushes in anticipation to talking to people. Our brains can't wait cause we're constantly in talking mode. having said that - there are tons of naturally stoic guys i know who socialize just enough to be seen as charismatic, so there's absolutely a level of "life of the party" u can achieve. Just not the…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:16 AM
1

dude, as a guy who went from being friend zoned and being assumed to be gay the first 20 some what years of my life to gaining massive status and being on the other end, i fucking get it. i get turned the fuck off
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:52 AM
1

pop a cialis. Even Dan Bilzerian (love him or hate him, he gets laid) talks about how he'll pop one if he expects to be fucking the whole night. if you're especially retarded, you'll use it as a crutch. but if you're somewhat well adjusted, u'll use it as training wheels to get ur brain to realize u CAN and deserve to fuck these models u werent used to fucking before
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:10 PM
14

it doesnt. you should be able to tell just from looking at a girl if she's at least somewhat well adjusted or carries a bag full of red flags
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:07 PM
2

performance anxiety
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:06 PM
2

yes
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:47 AM
-2

its reasonable to wish it wasnt the norm but to demand it is unreasonable. excess texting just means that the activity either you (or even she) chose was not stimulating enough for her. Either know that its gonna be an understimulating activity where she needs her dopamine hit, choose an activity u know will have her attention, or find a girl who has better control over it.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 03:38 AM
1

they just have better options. period. a woman who thinks ure the best she'll get is gonna most of the time make that very clear
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:55 AM
3

u fucked up cause despite what trp thinks, most actual virgins give a shit about being comforted and u didnt comfort her enough
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:48 AM
15

best blue: i had an ex who stuck with me thick and thin. she was obviously raised really well and i was the fuck up. She didnt leave at the first sign of trouble and she even tried to help when i was at my lowest. Quality women are rare af but they exist worst red: i got jaded af after going on a hook up streak
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:47 AM
1

u and everyone who exist has this problem (besides for literal actual incels with unfortunate physical deformities who are at the bottom). welcome to the climb
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:44 AM
4

Its hard unless uve seen her do some devious/ruthless shit previously but most women hide that very well. My ex cheated on her ex with me, so it was easy for me to realize it was just my turn. Another ex before that put up the wholesome genuine good person act really well and i got fucked.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:14 AM
1

Born. 100%
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:51 AM
3

Theyre quicker than u cause they’re surrounded by other kids who r quick so theyre forced to adapt or end up a bottom bitch. U need more rough around the edges sorta friends
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:49 AM
1

vibe of non threatening is really good if youre already physically intimidating because it counter acts that. if you're short and skinny, it makes you asexual
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:15 PM
1

because TRP also has a lot of cringey autists mixed in who fuck up every interaction with women while trying to be red pill.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:58 PM
21

she sees u as a friend she can confide in. Whether thats the vibe u give off, ur looks as someone whos not a threat, or some combination in between, ur presence signals to her mind: okay i can let my guard down around this guy and treat him like a friend who will console and validate me. Women who just meet a guy who they think is attractive will do what they can to hide their past. They dont want to risk letting slip out that they're nuts or damaged. In attraction, u have to be a little bit int…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:20 PM
0

status/Height, face, race, muscularity, personality
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:43 PM
2

Probably because she stands out relative to 99.9999% of her age group and the age group 40 years below her.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:22 PM
8

literally all the best male role models i've met grew up with extreme privilege. Not a knock on them because they were all wonderful people but they clearly turned out that way because they came from an extremely well off and mentally stable family and they themselves had great genetics. Its easy to be an alpha man when life gives you sane parents, upper class wealth, and genetics of being over 6'3
/r/askTRP21/06/20 11:43 PM
2

trp hates to admit this but there are honestly women who's n counts are under 10. It took me a while to accept it but there are some hideous women walking around. Not only due to body fat but just unfortunate amounts of pre natal testosterone. Square heads and jaws, unfrotunate amount of body hair, etc. now having said that, the average women - and i mean median - by the time they're 30 is probably near 30-40 range. after a while, sex is meaningless to them because they can fuck so easily, but s…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:29 PM
2

the kinds of white women who are exclusively looking for black men fall into either 1 of 2 categories (i mean exclusively, as in doesnt date all races but happens to be with a black guy atm): obese girls who other high value white guys wont fuck hot girls with mental issues that other white guys they're supposed to be get won't get near cause of their mental issues keep in mind the whole mental issues is true of anyone who only exclusively dates people of a certain race, including men as well. (…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:25 PM
0

what the fuck are these posts
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:19 PM
1

i can forgive 1 time flakiness if something honestly came up. It happens to me to. Especially if they sincerely apologize and wish to make it up. A pattern is a whole different thing. I used to just use plausible deniability to just ghost them but lately ive been getting more satisfaction just calmly and politely telling them outright that we probably shouldnt hang out due to flakiness and i wish them the best
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:18 PM
1

depends. Did u rape and murder her friend? what r we talking about here.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:16 PM
3

stop forcing yourself to have to come up with witty convos cause that shit will be transparent af. people who "naturally" pass shit tests, pass them because they have very reasonable boundaries of what they think are acceptable and what aren't, and if one particular girl cant agree to those terms, he just goes for someone who will. Meaning that even the guys who do it naturally are bound to lose girls even if they pass their shit tests because some girls are just too entitled.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:15 PM
4

bruh, LMAO.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:12 PM
1

I am not the confrontational type, I never had to be. this is a cop out. You don't have to be a confrontational person to know how to handle confrontation if someone shoves it in front of your face. A non confrontational person has the power to win the confrontation but chooses not to (and ur gf needs to know this in order to stay attracted to you) - like if ur gf knows that you used to box for 10 years and could easily fuck them up at the flip of a switch. If she thinks you're just gonna take i…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:11 PM
22

i would honestly LMAO cause she's fucking them to spite you, meaning that you're winning. Because after she fucks them, she cries alone wishing those guys were you. If she truly moved on, she would 100% be indifferent or even annoyed and bothered to be talking to you. but to answer your question, i'd reply: Hey, i'm really happy to hear you're able to move on. I wish you the best. this will drive her insane.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:06 PM
14

i did a lot of clubbing as a younger guy. it was before trp blew up, but their sentiment about "hurr dont go clubbing" was completely off. Im assuming the people who said that were mostly awkward shy introverts who never tried to loosen up and never attempted to get outside their comfort zones, so they told other men to not go clubbing just cause they sucked at it
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:04 PM
3

imo, EU. Asia gets a reputation of "not like western women" but having lived and dated there, it's the same shit but different. Same in Aus. Eu tends to be the lightest on the inflated egos by far
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:02 PM
1

i used to just fuck them with the pretense of a relationship and then leave. im less bitter now but cant say it wasnt funny
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:59 PM
1

they live in a whole other world. Thats not an exaggeration and it sucks that inceldom has caused a really bad image of reality, but the truth is that unless you're particularly stupid or mentally ill, you're gonna have a very hard time living life as a chad
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:13 AM
3

wtf r these responses? u wouldnt respond the same way if she's obviously joking than if she was serious. jesus trp..
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:04 AM
2

truth
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:03 AM
2

define success
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:48 PM
1

it literally did not matter. sometimes i did and got laid, sometimes i didnt and got laid. sometimes i did and didnt get laid, and vice versa.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:44 PM
6

Maybe this will help clear things up. Your ex isnt' evil. Unless she's mentally unhinged, she isnt out there swallowing a dozen cocks, and if she is, its more to spite you and to prove to herself that she's worth something to men. But that isnt the point. The point is, that she as a woman is capable of completely forgetting you as a person. You can wish her a happy birthday and it will for all intents and purposes seems like the reasonable thing to do. But would you wish it to her knowing that i…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:42 PM
2

this is like asking a guy if he'd rather fuck the girl who's a cute girl next door or an ig thott. in reality, most guys would gladly fuck both - so long as either girl meets the prerequisite of good looking
/r/askTRP12/06/20 08:43 AM
6

wym? even before the black pill, it was pretty commonly accepted that physical size and muscularity lent itself to a more stoic demeanor. Far more than a fat or a super skinny one.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 08:42 AM
4

a simple "aww i do" is fine. not everything needs to be quick witted and she'll think ure try hard if u do
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:33 PM
3

how would i personally respond? "i am but i suck at it so you'll be fine"
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:21 PM
2

u asked her back to ur place twice. she said no. then after ur date u asked her with ZERO plausible deniability to go back to ur place. You're putting her anti slut defense to 100. unless you're either 4 solid points above her on the attractive scale, you can't pull off straight talk
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:02 PM
2

i can tell u rn that u came off as too pushy. she feels like u NEED the lay or you NEED to see her. you should've absolutely held off on asking her out again and just vibed/memed with her. if the first date really went that well, either she'll suggest hanging out again or u only need a nudge - aka not asking her directly back up, give it some room and either wait for her to message u and jsut vibe or if she doesnt message u in a few days/week, send her a meme stop going too hard on asking for th…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:30 PM
8

TRP and PUA typically teaches "hunting" - which is going up to girls at a bar, talking to them, not being afraid of rejection, etc. Hunting is great for if ure just tryna get ur dick wet that night or within the week I prefer "farming". TRP'ers might think this is "gay" because most trper's hate the idea of talking to a girl for too long without sex. But where the benefits of hunting is front loaded, farming gets benefits down the line. Take a handful of tinder dates you never really hung out w/…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:51 AM
1

this could in all honesty be several diff things. she could be using u for attention she could want u but ure fucking it up by asking too quickly and too stupidly or something else link convos or dm
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:38 AM
2

listen mate. Maybe you're just an extremely good looking guy and you can legit say "friday my place for movies" and theyll come over. And i'll give u the benefit of the doubt that they arent fucking uggos too. if you can pull that shit off. congratz. im happy for you. i'm 5'6 and ethnic, and despite lifting for 2 years, the return rate on saying that is not great. Most girls on tinder are stupid af and will consistently believe that due to my height and my race that i will end up being the roman…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:30 AM
1

guess what friend, turns out sexual strategy is amoral and there's more than one way to skin a cat. if you can't put on a mask for literally 4 texts (soo much efforttt) and u got something working for u, then go for it.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:18 AM
9

90% of the time, it doesnt matter anyways. its pretty much already determined by how good looking u r relative to her other options and thats based on her looks. just dont be retarded
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:15 AM
1

are you so concerned with how you appear in less than 100 words that you'd willingly give up a free lay? if thats the hill u wanna die on then by all means
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:05 AM
2

because newbies would rather die on a hill of not looking soft than exchange 4 text message thatd get their dicks wet.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:03 AM
3

son, the faster you accept flaking and showing up is the norm here and you set up your life around it, the easier itll be.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:00 PM
7

nope but how would it even matter if i was
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:52 PM
2

not really tho. tattoos boost u if ure decent looking and normal. they make u look extra retarded if ure lame
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:19 PM
16

ive got female friends who show me some of the thirst texts dudes send. decent looking dudes too, mind you who would absolutely be killing it if they werent coming off so desperate. i also know plenty of women who are bat shit insane. mix the two together and you get a whole lotta sexual assault charges
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:16 PM
2

ive seen it work and ive seen it backfire. It's like shirtless pics - if you can pull it off well it doubles your results. if you can't, it halves it. so you need to be really fucking honest with yourself if the girl posing with you is hot and she has the vibe that she actually wants to fuck you and isnt giving off "just a friend" vibes
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:15 PM
1

women fiends for guys wit tattoos, men fiend for women on ig and snap. even most of us here including you fiend for something we're not even aware of. thats how it is.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:13 PM
-4

thats why i was hesitant posting it. People here have such a hard on for being "not gay" that they'd rather sacrifice results for their egos. Imagine not getting laid 2 or 3 times as much as you could be cause you can't get over a 4 message text exchange (not you specificially)
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:12 PM
1

i had your problem for 2 years. kept being hard headed about trying to figure it out myself. Finally at year 3 with minimal progress i said fuck it, paid for a pt for 6 months and the change was insane. Get someone whos at a level you want to be at and either pay them or ask them for help if they're willing. You dont have to commit to a year. hell even within 3 months they could probably teach you enough so that youre self sufficient for the rest of ur life. a PT for 3-6 months is a hell of a go…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:10 PM
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if she already declined your first offer, it means your not good looking enough to get away with that level of plausible deniability. Your plausible deniability needs to be more convincing. i send a few funny memes followed by a cuddly meme with a caption "this could be us". typically the exchanges go me: (kittens cuddling meme) this could be us her: omggg i wish :( me: :( fr how nice would it be if we were spooning and watching 90 day fiance rn her: that would be amazingg, i really want that me…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:01 PM
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its cause black girls are the least desired in the dating game while white guys are the most. you are a status boost for her. k im ready for the downvotes.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:52 PM
0

when you get into the real world, you're gonna learn very quickly that learning to tell half truths and bending words to not reveal your hand is an invaluable tool.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:27 AM
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this might be one of the wisest comments here
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:24 AM
3

sometimes you have to test the master. Sometimes you get people who will just hound on you in an effort to force you to quit, in which case you're fucked anyways. Might as well learn how to bite back if you're going down
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:16 PM
1

this makes sense, ty
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:40 PM
2

You misunderstood my post entirely. I'm not seeking to lie in order to gain benefits. Im seeking to correct my compulsive truth speaking which often is to my determent.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:38 PM
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LOL. thats noble, but unfortunately not how the real world works
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:15 PM
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no but you need to make up for it in one way or another. You can't be mad that you don't have what you want while contributing absolutely nothing. You don't have the height or the face? You better meet the bare minimum of finances + you better be really popular among friends who themselves are good looking. You better know important people. I was a 5'6 nothing broke guy in my mid 20's. The only thing i had going for me was that i was a party nut and i knew bar owners. That was enough for me to l…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:57 PM
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No. It doesn't have to be if you're surrounded by men of similar status. It gets very lonely for men who make the climb alone. Once they reach the top, it might be hard to find others in their position who weren't already established because they had their community already since birth.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:54 PM
0

truth
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:00 PM
2

we require more minerals
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:09 PM
1

this.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:19 AM
22

u mean ammoral?
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:32 AM
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because you pass as gay. thats not a joke or a diss at you. whether its the vibe u pull off subconsciously or something about how you dress or ur looks - it just announces to people "hi i might be bi".
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:21 AM
14

how would i get my ass handed to me by redditors?
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:20 AM
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dont burn bridges. ESPECIALLY if theyd have your back if shit gets tough. some day, literally everything might go wrong and even your family won't take you back and those friends you casted out as "beta" might be the only friends who'd let you crash on their couch without a second thought. in 5-10 years if any of those friends turn shit around and make a great career, theyre the ones who could teach you something. Thing is, dont needlessly cut people off unless they're actively causing your life…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:03 AM
1

the best advice on fitness i ever received on reddit was: dont ever fucking listen to any redditor. You literally have no clue who's on the other end of the keyboard giving you advice. Go to someone in person you think you can trust whos already been on gear and get guidance from them. They're far more likely to be cautious and give you nuanced answers because unlike internet retards, they at least to some degree can be faulted if something goes wrong. redditors LOVE to give advice and then fall…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:58 AM
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it's the same the other way around. There are girls out there who LOVE you for your hobbies, actually enjoys them too, has insightful ideas and knowledge about your favorite bands, interests. But if she has a busted ass face and is 50lbs over weight then you wont wanna fuck her. Where as a 9 who thinks all ur hobbies are shit but wants to fuck you, you'll have no issue with
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:46 AM
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most 23 year olds have no idea how to be a man. hell, even plenty of 30 year olds still dont know how to be men. You don't turn on a switch in your head and become a man. You don't read some philosophical quote that you love and become a man. Just cause TRP tells you to be a man, doesnt mean you turn your life around and start becoming a man. You "become" a man when you see the scary af adversity that's road blocking you from reaching the other side and consciously making an effort to go through…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 08:07 PM
14

if she's actually an hb9 (most trp'ers tend to over inflate), then she has a million better plans than just you and she knows it. Sorry, you're not high enough value for her
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:33 AM
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wow... yeah no dude i wouldve yeeted tf away from that wayy earlier. fuck those kinds of people
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:54 AM
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a chump in what way?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:46 AM
2

u ok bud?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:40 AM
1

flakiness is a sign that when you asked her to make plans with you, you did it prematurely or your plans werent that enticing. every girl that agreed to meet me were definitely either super excited to meet me and/or excited for the plans we made it even helped to make them kinda wait and they'd ask ME "omg where are we finally meetingggg??". if they dont have this sort of energy with you, then your flake rate will go up
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:38 AM
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sounds like she came over and u didnt make her feel at ease enough and u were just gunning for a hook up.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:32 AM
2

I'm not the most attractive man in the world, but I think I'm not in a bad spot - I'm 5'6", with a decent body and decent face, I workout and have a successful career. I have girls hitting me up from time to time and showing interest before you go start playing the blame game on low sex drive, take a solid objective look at yourself and be like "yeah im a pretty masculine guy in the way i act and behave. I don't act like a beta to her, i dont make her dry." if even after all that you discover yo…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:56 PM
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i disagree that it's "totally entering her frame". I gave OP a clear out if she takes what he offers for granted. You can't' be committed to someone, offer nothing but the bare minimum and wonder why everyone gets bored and leaves.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:29 PM
2

there's literally not a better catharsis in this world than closing the tabs, closing your red pill books, taking a deep breath and just taking massive action literally every time my brain was overwhelmed with anxiety and thoughts, i closed everything, took a deep breath and just went head first. Getting my first tattoo, talking to the first girl at a bar in my life (that was 5 years and ago and we'er still casual fwb), going for a kiss w/ a girl who iw asnt sure liked me (we ended up dating for…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:01 PM
3

girls r just a common way to relate and bro bond w/ other guys like sports, cars, etc. most of the time they're sort of also expecting you to contribute so yall can talk about common experiences, etc
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:57 PM
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i used to be like ur friends, then one day my friend just roasted me by saying "WOMEN WOMEN? LOOK WOMEN? DAE WOMEN? OMFG I GOT LAID LAST NIGHT GUYSS LOL IM SO COOL" or something like that. def shut me up
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:54 PM
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most of the time it's not that you asked, it's how you asked it. if you're kind of hesitant about it asking, "so you guys don't have any brown rice at all?" then they're gonna sense youre kind of being picky about it whereas say you went in there, saw it was yellow rice and said "hey you guys got brown rice?" "no we only have yellow or white rice?" "really? cause i asked for brown rice over the phone and someone said you guys had it. You sure there isn't some in the back?" "no we're sorry about …
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:28 PM
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she's bored essentially is what she's saying. sure, making dinner, helping w/ her studies - all good stuff. But in an LTR - she misses that "oh shit im fucking dating a rock star" feeling that she first got with you when yall used to do a lot of fun shit together. remember when you guys used to go on interesting dates? Whens the last time you took her out to an amusement park (obv its covid but u get what i mean) or even cooked her up something special just for her (even if secretly it was reall…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:15 PM
3

this isnt just with women. literally take any person and poke on the part of the ego they're trying to protect and most times they're gonna react erradically. try explaining to a democrat that their media is just as susceptible to manipulation as the republicans' try explaining to an american that they have 0 right to complain about other dictatorships while they casually overthrow governments for cheaper bananas and kill millions of muslims over the span of a decade try telling a TRP'er that 99…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:06 PM
1

..why r u people going out during quarantine when there's 100k deaths in the states.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:22 AM
2

not ask stupid questions like these and move on to the next girl if theres an issue
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:23 PM
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U care too much. Instead of “omg could it mean this??? But what if its this??”, think “it could be this. O turns i was wrong.o well, ill remember for next time. Simply put, ure not experienced enough to see the forrest yet. Ure looking at 20-30 trees to see whats the answer is when in reality it takes significantly more Ppl who start bjj, coding, musical instrument, etc, after enough time it clicks and theyll get it. Kino is the same.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:31 PM
3

imagine putting energy into paying attention to that instead of just shooting ur shot and seeing where it goes
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:11 PM
1

i mean if ure one of those guys who believes in brute forcing it, it could def be over 100 before landing someone desperate. if you're one of those guys who approaches 5, reflects, thinks about how they can improve and then tries the next 5 then you'll do a lot better. also obviously looks and status matter a lot
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:10 PM
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you don't have to explain anything to anyone. if they ask why, just say that's just how it is.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:39 PM
1

the default is that rejection rate's pretty high for the average guy. so knowing that that's usually just how it is, it's better that you just go for it.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:38 PM
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i dont think it's true atl all that you're "weak" with emotions. Even how you responded to my comment, there was a definite weight of emotion behind it, especially with the "?!". you're issue is that you're afraid of looking stupid if you try to let loose, which is what most new guys have at clubs. want a logical answer? the only way you get better at the club scene is by continuing to go to them until you get it. whether it's bjj, boxing, music, coding, etc, - anything that a person puts enough…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:02 PM
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Your issue goes beyond clubbing, which is that youre trying to figure out a way to force a logical answer into a problem that requires an emotional one. People go to clubs to let loose and vibe. You know that feeling when youre with ur friend and ure both just listening to a song u love and bobbing ur head to it That’s what ppl do at clubs but turned up to 11 + sexuality You wouldnt bring ur feelings into a math test, so stop trying to bring thinking into a club
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:43 AM
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its hard to break down kino, cause like 99% of being with a girl it's not based off logic, it's based off EQ and vibes. I can give u a list of signs a girls into u, but it wont help u one bit if its in ur head instead of internalized into ur body and subconscious. having said that, two really good signs a girls ready to kiss u r that shes COMFORTABLE sitting side by side next to u andd she rests her head on ur shoulder. but honestly this isnt something that can be explained logically, u literall…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:53 AM
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so this is sort of really out there but it worked for me, as someone who was in your shoes so maybe it'll help: i always imagined that I was sort of cursed. Kind of like when the universe decided to make my shitty body and brain, it made it with the purposes of getting a laugh at my misery (dramatic i know, but this has a point). Short limbs, short stature, social anxiety, congential and mental health issues, blah blah blah. it's like the universe got pleasure from watching me struggle with my l…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:43 AM
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Over a decade of online dating, i can tell u that 80% of her willingness to actually talk and date u is out of ur hands. Either ure one of her top choices or u rnt and her willingness to make the conversation flow with u will be a big sign on which side ure on Having said that, I honestly wont respond if my minds not in the right place. If im stressed, feeling down, feeling needy, or anything thats not conducive to a fun and flowing convo, i simply wont write anything. When i am in the right hea…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:07 AM
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always have at least 1-2 other options
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:07 PM
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nah, u did fine. if anything u couldve even made a joke about it as well. by getting angry, ure just showing u give a shit. Which is different from lets say a guy forces a kiss onto ur girl in front of you. that's no longer about her, thats about disrespect to you. In that case, i'd say go confront the guy and thats not mate guarding. that's telling the other guy to fuck off what's yours - your girl
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:06 PM
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i just put a winky emoji and nothing else. most times they move on. i know trp has this weird rule about emojis but in this case, its always shown that i dont really care and can move on from it "how old are you?" "i'm X" "you're so young!" ";)" "so i was thinking... blah blah blah" if they're persistent about focusing on my age, i just give them some generic statement like: "wow but no really, you're young lol" "yeah but i care more that we vibe, u know?" "thats a good point...anyways..."
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:59 PM
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dude, figure ur shit out. I've met guys like you who went onto be dads (god knows how they got a wife), but its the same story with them. They wont do shit to the coworkers or boss that clown on them and they rain all hell down on their own defenseless kids at home. go fucking lift, go learn to fight, go take lessons on managing confrontation. Figure it out before you put the people who actually give a shit about you in a position where they despise you
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:55 PM
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sometimes.... the questions on these subs...
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:52 PM
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finished a gig at a bar and was gettin ready to get fucked up with the bois. Really cute slim thicc white girl a few shots in comes up to me saying she loves drummers. We flirt a bit and post few more shots we start making out in the bathroom. i undress her and she's got a phaaatt ass with a tiny waist. She starts going down on me and eventually i fuck her from behind. door starts knocking so we get the fuck out. My friends, aware that im about to take someone home so they do a solid and pack my…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:56 AM
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so the reality is: somewhere in between recognizing you have to change and finding people who appreciate you for who you are. find all the shitty things about you that you know people hate and get rid of it - whether it's being needy, flaking too much, hygiene problems, etc.. take all the good parts of you that people like and keep it and maybe expand on it. After that, realize not everyone is meant to get along with everyone else. Things that are a neutral quirk that you have can be something s…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:37 AM
1

whats your routine? i had the same problem as u for about 2+ years before i finally got a personal trainer to help me readjust my routine and protein intake
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:31 AM
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i gotcha. This ones really hard because you really do need to be on the other side of being successful with women to stop pedestalizing them on an internal and emotional level. And it sucks but honestly the way to get there is through pain and frustration and embarrassment and then eventually acceptance and realization that most people walking this earth aren't shit.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:17 AM
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I would advocate either cutting that person off or confronting them directly. and what i'm saying is, that's not always entirely possible. Sometimes you're gonna have negotiations that took months almost worked out with another business and some back stabbing dick is gonna be around the corner waiting to fuck it all up or take the credits. You can't just leave all your hard work.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:23 AM
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OOHH i see. Okay, well that's a bit different. I thought she flat out ignored you on your bday while requesting u do something for her. If it's her birthday, did she at least invite you over to the family thing? To be honest, i don't think i could really fault her on this. Seems like she didn't like your plans but didn't want to piss you off. You can't force someone to go with the plans you've decided for their own bday, know what im saying?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:23 AM
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Can you explain why learning to talk bad about people behind their backs is useful? Like in the 48 laws of power, you don't learn the laws of power for offense. you learn them so you can use them for defense. You'd have to be genuinely the luckiest person alive if you went your entire life networking, creating a business, making friends, and working without ever coming into contact with a single person who might not be a snake trying to make you look bad. The type of person who's amazing in fron…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:41 AM
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good, i hope you do meet some genuinely good people. They're hard to find but they exist. I dont really want to look at your previous post but if i'm guessing what you're getting at, you seem to just be having anxiety talking to girls?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:39 AM
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so let me get this straight. You set up bday plans for ur own bday and she bailed even though she could've technically fit them in with her family plans. She didn't give a very convincing reason or excuse and she's now asking you to plan her bday. I'm not questioning you, im just wondering if I have all the facts right. If i am right, i'd ask why you'd even date someone as shitty and selfish as that.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:38 AM
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i could understand if she had something important w/ her family that came up that couldn't be avoided. But the requesting roses thing seems odd. Could you get some context?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:49 AM
1

I've met famous and semi famous people, yes. They might not be tom brady but they certainly received more fame than the average person would in their life time. A lot of younger people have a very hard time conceptualizing that once the cameras are all off and they're not busy with work and all they wanna do is shoot the shit with they're friends, they're absolutely no different from most other people. Granted, theyre mentally far more secure than the average 9-5 worker, but you'd be surprised h…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:43 AM
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coping with loneliness isnt a good thing and it certainly isnt something you should strive for. Learning to be non-needy on the other hand is important. in your situation, having a best friend who you can count on to be there for you will take care of the loneliness problem a lot. Once quarantines over, you're going to have to expend some energy and time to meet new people until someone clicks with you In terms of romantic loneliness, as someone who was in your shoes a decade ago, the emptiness …
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:40 AM
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i think you'd have to be pretty naive to believe anyone is capable of dating anyone else. In no world can someone born with horrific genetic abnormalities get Ariana Grande to willingly fuck him. Having said that, within the range of average men, the potential is certainly theoretically capped very high
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:35 AM
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truth is, even the most masculine you guy you know have done it before. Possibly even recently. You as a man are not infallible. Given the right amount of things going wrong, even the strongest guy can succumb to that. The point is though to recognize it and figure a way out asap. So don't feel like you have to shame yourself too harshly.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:31 AM
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In real life, men do it all the time as well. Im not talking just about losers, I mean men even in high level corporate positions, athletes, the guy making several million a year, etc. The propensity to talk shit isnt just a woman thing and the idea that the best men only talk about philosophy is pretty naive. Having said that, it's important you learn it even if you despise it because you need to be able to play defense when that situation gets flipped on you. No one climbed up the corporate la…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:29 AM
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