Help me build a little understanding because it feels like I am not getting anywhere.

I am 20yo. NEW BIG CITY - i dont know anyone where I live

I didnt go university but I am currently obtaining PT qualification. I work a 1-9 Job and on the side, I am running a dating coaching business which is a startup.

Since Ive moved from my home town a month ago, Ive lost all of my contacts, relationships and all the other connection Ive felt like i had with people.

Now, I dont really have any friends or associates as such - I have no idea where to meet them since all my time goes towards gym, work and side hustle.

I am trying to meet girls here but it almost seems like nothing is working.

People don’t really want to meet up like it was in my home town, girls the same.

Is it that my reputation isn’t known? Status low? Idk...

But being alone for such a while, and being only surrounded by people who are trying to AMOG me - it feels like I lost all sense of hope for meeting new people. I miss a connection with people and it feels lonely as hell.

I dont care If half of the guys think ‘I shouldnt be a bitch and get up and change my lifestyle’

Great, but I need a practical and realistic perspective.. a genuine feedback that can actually help..

Thoughts?