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You should be focusing on your life. Not worrying about texts. Get so busy on a goal that she wonders what you’re doing.
/r/newTRP27/09/22 04:35 PM
2

The way to greatness
/r/newTRP20/09/22 10:01 PM
3

You sound like you just prayed and wished and didn’t take a single step to doing it. You’re unemployed. Get a job. If you can’t find one keep looking. No one is here to rub your hand. You’re 28. Almost 30. By the time you’re 31 your life can drastically change if you take the steps.
/r/newTRP20/09/22 09:58 PM
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Whichever you think is worthwhile. Plumbers make great money and they trade is declining but demands is high. Electrician is something that everyone needs and demand is also high. It really depends on what you like The good thing about a trade is it’s always in demand. Even if you go for your degree and get a job you want you can understand a trade buisness when your rich and maybe buy one or fund one or something of that nature. Air craft maitanence technician, plumber, electrician, carpenter, …
/r/newTRP12/07/22 01:06 AM
7

Go to trade school. Look it up. Waaaaay cheaper than college and you can make GREAT money in 4-6 months and dude the money you get is great. Once you do the work on your own it’s easily 6 figures. Then while you’re doing that you can save up and decide to go to college later. Just make sure you don’t major in dumb shit
/r/newTRP12/07/22 12:02 AM
3

You are badass man holy shit. I see no problem in fucking an ex as a plate if you’re not in your feelings and don’t try and date her
/r/newTRP11/07/22 04:47 PM
6

Ignore her and develop yourself. Trust me. You get a hotter girl and bette relationship she’s gonna feel bad
/r/newTRP01/07/22 02:45 AM
4

100% rebound
/r/newTRP01/07/22 02:44 AM
1

You need to work on yourself confidence more and stop caring about others like based Sensei said. When you stop caring ironically people love you more
/r/newTRP26/06/22 01:59 AM
1

Nah. You’re actually a loser lmao. Everyone here is roasting you simply because of that. You’re trying to dissect women so hard because you get none. Read the fucking sidebar and move on
/r/newTRP26/06/22 01:56 AM
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You’re a loser
/r/newTRP25/06/22 03:42 AM
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Before she comes back from her tantrum and you repeat the same thing learn comfort tests. I think that’s your issue. I’m still working on myself in terms of rp but I think that’s your biggest issue Yes ltr is rp on hard mode but who cares. Slanging whores everyday is fun but can easily get boring. Why not have an ltr who is loyal to you and you alone. Learn and reread comfort tests. Remember that you have to simp just a little in ltr’s but never Too much. It should be 85% rp and 15% simp from ho…
/r/newTRP21/06/22 02:17 PM
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No. You’re just gonna have to be a man and ignore them. If you keep getting only fat bitches then you might be fat
/r/newTRP26/03/22 08:21 PM
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Friends are cool but overrated if you’re not happy with your spot in life.
/r/newTRP27/02/22 03:31 PM
1

Who cares?
/r/newTRP13/02/22 03:23 AM
1

Man this is great. I been slacking on my red pill actions and mindset recently. What do you recommend to get back at it? Just read side bar and lift?
/r/newTRP13/02/22 03:20 AM
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Okay then leave them alone
/r/newTRP09/02/22 08:59 PM
1

You’re paranoid. Lets say they are jealous. Nothing they can do really except sleep with your girl
/r/newTRP09/02/22 08:48 PM
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If you don’t trust your guy friends get new guy friends. You think women are trustworthy? I don’t recommend venting to a woman super hard on anything. You’re a man. You’re her rock. You have to be immovable and unfazed. That’s attractive to women. If you’re struggling financially make due and improve it somehow. She’s not gonna solve your problems.
/r/newTRP09/02/22 05:01 PM
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Yeah maybe you’re just not as hot as you think. Make sure you lift and workout more but yeah even 5s can be stubborn. That’s why it’s on you to be a 10. She might’ve thought you were a 7 or 8 (which is far above her as a 4/5) but they are always looking to bang 9s and 10s Be at least a 7/10 in looks then move accordingly up and increase her attraction through game
/r/newTRP06/02/22 12:57 AM
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Times like this I wish the main rp sub was more active But bro just imagine you went and slept at girls house (let’s say the girl is hotter than your girl) drunk. Do you think your girl would be reacting fine? No? Then it’s a problem I’d reread red pill rules and figure out what to do but that is a boundary that’s weird and odd. Why couldn’t they sleep at a girls house?
/r/newTRP06/02/22 12:54 AM
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Lying makes things harder in the long run. That being said if you do decide to lie your plates have to know you’re in a relationship and be down with the program. Otherwise it’s not gonna work. It doesn’t seem like you want to lie so I recommend getting with the 9.5 and making sure you don’t develop oneitis. I would do this by reassuring yourself you can attract more women. Simply by having dating apps on your phone and leaving it there and letting women message you sounds fine. Or you can try a…
/r/newTRP28/01/22 07:40 PM
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Why were you searching posts about dick size?
/r/newTRP14/01/22 06:26 AM
1

Doesn’t seem like she wants a relationship with you if she’s acting like a sugar mom and paying shìt. She probably just wants dick. If you want maybe broach the subject one day half heartedly. But I’ve never done it so idk
/r/newTRP08/01/22 03:39 AM
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clearly you “need” it if you’re worried man. Just focus on having fun and read the sidebar
/r/newTRP08/01/22 01:01 AM
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If you get girls why do you need ways to bring her to a hotel? I’m confused lol
/r/newTRP07/01/22 07:21 PM
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Just let it go and work on your oneitis. Maybe go out and flirt with other girls. Not saying cheat but get it in your head that you’re desired by hot women and that what she does is irrelevant. The power to walk away/the power to not care is the ultimate thing. If you can’t get any other women then having that abundance mindset will be hard so focus on improving yourself. Even at the cost of ignoring your girl. (Ironically it will make her want you more) I wouldn’t take this too seriously but I …
/r/newTRP06/01/22 06:18 AM
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Ah okay the other context makes sense if she’s telling you this. But just be aware women can lie. You want her head over heels do NOT get complacent
/r/newTRP05/01/22 06:52 AM
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Yeah you gave shit advice. Talking to her will most likely make her double down if she sees it’s bothering him. That will not raise her attraction. Best response as a man is to change the routine
/r/newTRP04/01/22 08:35 PM
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He gave you awful advice dude. Telling her to text back faster is telling her you want her attention more and it puts you at a position of being weak. No one is saying play games but appear more busy in your daily life (actually find some important shit to do) and let it go. That’s not playing games
/r/newTRP04/01/22 08:35 PM
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That’s exactly what you want. You want her on eggshells rather than you. You want her chasing your time.
/r/newTRP04/01/22 08:33 PM
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Ask yourself this. If she was dating some famous celeb would she be waiting hours to respond? Probably not. At the worst if she was super busy she’d sneak a way to message back on her phone. She clearly always has her phone. Start responding later. This situation is in response to you responding super fast. If it isn’t about something important (emergency) then wait awhile. It’ll get her wondering about what you’re doing. You’re also gonna have to accept that she may not be as interested in you …
/r/newTRP04/01/22 08:32 PM
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I’m looking at YouTube videos to prevent this. I’m sure there’s stuff that can help. But yeah go bald and accept what you can right now
/r/newTRP02/01/22 07:48 AM
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A decent page will boost your status. Make sure the pics are great though
/r/newTRP27/12/21 11:23 AM
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Huh? It’s not his business and she wants him sexually. Who cares
/r/newTRP26/12/21 02:31 AM
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Just don’t fall in love and have fun.
/r/newTRP25/12/21 01:28 AM
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You maintained frame. Most important. You didn’t get bothered or act bitchy. Feminine behavior. Makes you look weak. Good job
/r/newTRP20/12/21 02:39 AM
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All my mistakes and questions can be answered through TRP
/r/newTRP20/12/21 02:38 AM
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You’re a loser
/r/newTRP05/12/21 10:21 PM
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Seriously we need a mod to ban him. He’s fucking annoying. None of this is red pill related in terms of seeking actual help
/r/newTRP04/12/21 07:19 AM
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I don’t care. No one cares. Seriously. No one.
/r/newTRP04/12/21 06:31 AM
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You don’t NEED to do anything in a relationship. You choose do those things. You’re putting the pussy on a pedastal and bending over backwards for her. Instead of focusing on what you want you’re bending to what she wants. Next thing you know she’s gonna look up and say “you’ve changed” Honestly just start focusing on you more and doing what you want/need more. That’s what I would do. I’m sure other guys can answer better relationship advice but I would not hinder my goals and plans for a relati…
/r/newTRP04/12/21 03:38 AM
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I’m not reading this. Get some bitches
/r/newTRP04/12/21 03:35 AM
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Next date plan for sex. Do it at her place OR when your dad isn’t there. If she rejects sex or even the idea of it I would next
/r/newTRP04/12/21 02:18 AM
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Personally don’t care about it but wish her the best
/r/newTRP04/12/21 02:16 AM
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Ok. Read the sidebar
/r/newTRP03/12/21 02:15 AM
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You’re pathetic dude. Read the side bar
/r/newTRP03/12/21 01:49 AM
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Nope. If your dick isn’t eager to fuck her why be with her. You’ll end up wanting to cheat
/r/newTRP01/12/21 11:50 PM
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Great post great info. Please put more info you seem to be smart
/r/RPChristians30/11/21 06:48 AM
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Holy fuck dude read the side bar and stop being an insecure bitch
/r/newTRP30/11/21 03:46 AM
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Everyone has success when they aren’t fat and are in better shape. Your confidence is better.
/r/newTRP30/11/21 03:19 AM
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Bro you gotta change your mindset thinking you won’t get laid a lot if your status and body changes. And no not all women cheat. It’s just easier for a low quality women to cheat vs a lower quality man therefore it’s easy for women to obtain sex and harder for the average man. Make yourself above average. I’m doing this myself
/r/newTRP30/11/21 03:03 AM
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If you want to go ahead. I just know that’s a big no no in red pill mindset. If you want to spice up the sex for a threesome I’m pretty sure sidebar talks about that or someone else did in the main red pill sub that you can search up. I just don’t see the point in risking it if you’re having fun and fucking already. It doesn’t really benefit you in any way if she knows. She’s already fucking you
/r/newTRP30/11/21 12:47 AM
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Depends on what you want
/r/newTRP29/11/21 07:21 PM
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Did you read what I said? Literally read the last sentence. Status doesn’t really do as much shit for the average guy working cooperate or a even at a decent high paying job. Status will only matter if you have friends and even then having a lot of friends/social circle does not trump looks.
/r/newTRP28/11/21 09:10 PM
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It’s important to have all 3 to be a high value male man. If I were to say most important personally I think it’s looks. I say that because if you’re in shape and working out consistently your confidence will increase and you’ll have a natural aspect to game (even if you don’t know about shit tests) Status can trump anything and make women want to be with you but that’s more so fame status
/r/newTRP28/11/21 06:20 PM
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Looks matter but they aren’t the end all be all. Those guys who are 5’10 and not fat are STILL in decent shape and ahead of most guys who are fat. You can be 5’10 and not fat or 5’10 and jacked and get more women. So yeah it matters a lot but none of it happens without game. Luckily the better in shape you are the more your game increases and confidence increases
/r/newTRP28/11/21 05:40 PM
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I think you’re doing it right. It’s a shit test. You’ve spun the plate long for 11 months so keep it going if she’s good for it. Never tell her or show her the women you’re talking too. Let her always wonder. That’s how I see it someone else can comment how they think Letting women know all the women you’re talking to either invites her to judge you or invites her to feel slutty. Just let her assume
/r/newTRP28/11/21 04:19 AM
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This has to be a troll lmao you not fucking shit
/r/newTRP22/11/21 09:48 AM
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I wouldn’t try to hard in helping her. Just be general with it. Also never talk about the red pill man.
/r/newTRP21/11/21 07:09 PM
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Dude what the fuck is your problem. Seek some fucking help
/r/newTRP20/11/21 11:04 PM
4

Get a new girl man.
/r/newTRP16/11/21 08:15 AM
10

Hate that the old sub stopped
/r/newTRP16/11/21 08:15 AM
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I mean my count is like 13 I’m just not a bragger
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 11:07 AM
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7 is pretty low dude. Not trying to say I’m better or nothing but compared to what a true red pill/alpha would do that’s extremely low
/r/TheRedPill31/07/21 11:38 PM
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This thread motivating me
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:10 PM
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He really ignored everyone’s solid advice and made himself look worse. Could’ve handled it way better
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:36 PM
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Jesus Christ. Perfect example of what not to do
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:35 PM
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That’s how you know some of these guys are fake as hell. I’m honest bout my shit and my struggles
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:40 AM
1

I’m curious what went wrong. You said it was cause you didn’t say I love you back but there must’ve been something else Was that a comfort test?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:47 PM
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I would like context sir. Couldn’t have been random
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:16 AM
1

This is great read man. I personally want to achieve this. I’m not obese but I could easily lose 30-40 lbs and look way different. I remember being 15-20 lbs lighter and noticing how some girls flirted with me. And I wasn’t even lifting hard then. I’m also a pretty tall guy at 6’2. It’s a shame I let myself get to this point but I know if I’m committed life will turn around for me.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:35 AM
1

Interesting. Any examples?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:04 AM
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Feel like there’s a difference if you were overweight no offense. Girls like skinny guys to an extent
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:32 AM
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Damn this makes sense. I’ve seen women act bitchy towards me but in a jovial way. You’re making things much clearer for me. In the end though I gotta focus on this muscle and weight loss progress for now
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:31 AM
1

I see that makes sense. But with the muscle you build the confiidence and therefore are able to naturally handle shit tests so in reality more women are attracted to you.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:57 AM
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That’s what I desire. That sounds like a whole different life
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:55 AM
2

That’s why you have to learn lol
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:47 PM
4

Not sure why this is getting downvoted. Crypto is the wave
/r/askTRP11/04/21 10:46 PM
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Minoxidil (it works trust me) eat more protein [.7 grams times body weight for amount to eat per day] and lift more. You got a good build man trust me. You can do this. The social stuff I say just find one friend and hang out with him if you can or try and just talk to everyone. It’s gonna suck at first you’re gonna feel shy but keep it going.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:31 AM
1

This is why you need to upgrade yourself as men. Majority of men are salivating for a 6/10 chick at best when they themselves aren’t shit. More bitches for us bro And what’s crazy is she just turned 18. Imo that’s creepy to be thirsty For someone like that
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:28 AM
1

Chemicals to prevent muscle loss? Bad side effects?
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:20 AM
1

Sounds good. Just need to learn how to cook steak
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:14 AM
1

Yeah I’ve been going hard heavy lifts. I actually think I’ve gotten bigger muscle wise.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:14 AM
1

Understood. What kinds of foods should I aim for then
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:03 AM
1

Why do you care? Most live like losers. Sure. But if they’re a loser then just fuck them and use them for what they are.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:21 PM
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Try it out man. If there’s no glaring major flaws there’s nothing wrong with an LTR. Just be the same guy you’ve always been. Don’t let her try and dictate things.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:38 PM
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I can kinda see that. I just view HIIT as football type training cause that’s essentially how football was when I was in it. It’s not long distance And in my opinion football Athletes are in some of the best shape. Now long term sure I can see cause the wear and tear could be bad but so far I’m enjoying it and I’m losing weight
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 11:08 PM
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But she was fine with her being shared with other dudes when you didn’t know about it? Hypocritical I wouldn’t press or beg for a 3some or nothing. It’s not a big deal. But I would literally say “3some or I’m out” if she says no you dip and get away from an evil girl. She says yes you get a 3some and you can still walk away.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 08:51 AM
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Basketball for me. A good hoop session fully of sprints and constant running and competitiveness. Also easier to set up
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 07:29 AM
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Why is HIIT bad? I enjoy it
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 07:29 AM
2

Try to sneak in a 3some with her then leave
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:15 AM
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Fornication isn’t sex before “marriage”. But hey if you think I’m wrong that’s fine. Just know that many great men in the Bible had sex before marriage and were righteous under gods eyes.
/r/RPChristians28/02/21 05:38 PM
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A lot of men in the Bible had sex before marriage. Righteous men. Even David. David’s issue was he killed a man to have sex with his wife. But he not only had multiple women but had multiple wives. I don’t understand why people think sex before marriage is a sin. However if it is and you wish to abide by the rule just repent and do better.
/r/RPChristians28/02/21 04:45 AM
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Also i think daddy government will be less of a factor in bachelors still if you play it right. Don’t live with her. At very worst you’ll have to pay money if she gets pregnant
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:30 AM
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That guy is so delusional. Cant be mad at him though. That’s what he was taught
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:29 AM
1

Gotcha. Just trying to see the best plan for me to do. I been fucking up my weight loss since I lost 40 lbs
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:33 AM
1

a 6 mile walk a day helped you lose weight? Interesting
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:25 PM
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On the brightside you basically proved the red pill right in that if you have a great body and confidence girls will fuck you. Rest of this shit don’t matter. She just wants to fuck
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:56 PM
2

Cringe but alright
/r/askTRP27/10/20 05:09 PM
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To an extent sure but I’m pretty sure most of them still get pussy. You’re way more likely to get pussy if you’re jacked with self esteem issues than if you’re fat with self esteem issues
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:15 AM
0

Honestly I think majority of men are just out of shape. If you’re in shape there’s no way you’re not at least getting some pussy. It may not be hot chicks but a fit body will get you somewhere I’m not even in my best shape and i have options. It’s just options I don’t want
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:44 AM
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Might depend on the guy. But if you’re seriously at your best and approaching it should help
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:26 PM
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You think it’s confidence? Maybe he’s aiming too high and not used to 7s but going for 10s all nervous
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:56 AM
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I think if you’re fully developed and looks maxing and are honest with yourself you should try and find a friend that gets girls and make get togethers where you can all hangout. Increase your social circle
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:54 AM
1

Do it. It’s a worthwhile goal. I’m studying to be an engineer and I’m almost done (1-2 years left) I’m 23. I feel the exact same cause I slacked off compared to most people. Just finish it man and get your life right
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:39 AM
2

I’ve seen people say “habit” for everything and honestly dude that’s literally what everything is. I found it hard to stick to a diet. At a certain point I’d quit. But once I finally just did it regardless of how I felt it became easier. That’s really what it takes for something to stick. I’m in the same boat as you honestly. I’ve been messing up studying for my classes and not going as hard and sleeping improperly. If I just change it once and stick to it it’ll become natural. Seriously good lu…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:20 AM
0

Is the main sub even active?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:48 AM
-1

I agree but technically you can be wealthy as fuck and play women but that rarely happens. Men these days simps with no confidence if they aren’t in shape
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:48 AM
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Jesus Christ. Why is he not cleaning up a mess he messed up? That’s just a weirdo. It’s not beta to clean something you messed up. Either way I think he’s just lost and delusional. Trying to fit in and is blue pill but doesn’t know it. If he was your bro I’d give him game but since he’s not just ignore.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:50 AM
1

She may be monkey branching, she may want to be a slut, she may just be stupid. Regardless don’t let it get to you.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:07 PM
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Whatever you do just break up with her first. I don’t recommend cheating as that’ll just cause more problems
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:04 PM
1

If you’re happy then I don’t see an issue. If you’re smashing more women and having fun then also no issue. Maybe find more hobbies and try experimenting
/r/askTRP05/10/20 10:43 AM
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Are you taking other guys’ girls? Are you talking too much about the girls you’re getting? Women are there for you to be fucked while you chase your passion and enjoy your life. I don’t see how smashing more women loses your friends
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:47 AM
3

Changing this mentality can be so difficult. can’t even blame the guy
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:45 AM
1

I’m trying to lose weight and get situated body wise too. Lotta cute girls in LA so I’d aim to use tinder mainly since COVID. COVID tinder is easy cause you can excuse not going out as an excuse to meet inside
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:34 PM
1

Nah bruh she really defended her hoeing and hid the extra stuff she did that you didn’t know about. She should be for you telling her man the truth.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:59 PM
2

Fair then. Still dump your girl she’s weird
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:59 AM
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lol. I dont get these guys. live your life however but it aint alpha to cheat and then get mad at cheating. Rather just be honest and tell her to fuck off if she dont want me having side hoes. And yea. Super hypocritical
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:27 AM
1

You need to dump your girl. The fact that she’s defending her friends cheating and making light of it is very telling. Both of you guys sound like you could do way better
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:48 AM
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There’s level of blue pill. He might be a simp but still dump her. He should tell
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:19 PM
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Betas don’t get play. They are probably good looking simps and their girls think about leaving them all the time. Ignore the alpha and beta shit for a sec and just improve your looks status and money. Don’t worry what other dudes are fucking
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:31 PM
1

Someone came and she wants to be serious with her. You were an alpha fuck for her. Not a boyfriend type fuck. Which is cool either way
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:41 AM
1

Congrats on the job hoping I can get that type of pay soon. My advice would be standard just don’t mess with anyone at work. You have a high paying job that gives you great status and raises your SMV. Don’t risk it for a female at the office and don’t slack either. Show up on time do a good job and invest like the others are saying. Congrats once again man!
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:32 PM
6

Hair style doesn’t make you beta or alpha. Just do what works
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:12 AM
2

If you’re just fucking why the hell does it matter. Tell her what she wants to hear smash then dip.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 10:21 PM
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Most people don’t even adhere to the Bible to be honest. This is why I don’t even like modern churches. It’s fully of people acting like because they’re Christian they can’t get mad or have to always be friendly. It’s weird. They definitely teach men to Simp
/r/RPChristians16/09/20 07:40 AM
8

What the fuck
/r/askTRP16/09/20 07:28 AM
6

What the fuck
/r/askTRP16/09/20 07:28 AM
8

I don’t know your situation but if it’s someone in your house look to moving out. If it’s a job look to switching jobs. If people don’t treat you how you want or deserve cut Em off. Sometimes they continually do that knowing your dependent on them. Example: an abusive parent toward a kid. They know the kid can’t leave and they can get away with it. You deserve better. Red pill can help you. Call a suicide hotline if you need more help. Don’t waste your life man
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:39 PM
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You’re not wrong but abusive people do exist. Even if she’s telling the truth or she’s lying just keep your guard up cause she might be batshit crazy either way
/r/askTRP13/09/20 06:40 PM
3

Used to be way better. People don’t ask any worthwhile questions
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:25 AM
3

I wouldn’t say never works just doesn’t work monogamously. If you aren’t exclusive it’s not bad. But yeah
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:24 AM
1

This is funny because had you not acted beta she might have not cheated. The chicken or the egg scenario for who’s at fault really. But seriously move on. It’s the best thing
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:50 PM
3

I’m not perfect myself but in my eyes the best response is either ignore, laugh it off, or this (not sure what to call it) “come on girl you know you my main focus” or “you’re being silly you know how I feel about you” then proceed to get intimate. You’re not lying and you’re not telling the truth but she feels some reassurance. This is what I would mainly do with my last girl. Worked easy. But if I’m being 100% honest, it’s best to be honest with women and avoid bullshit. If you’re truly an alp…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:46 PM
11

First one sounds like it wouldn’t work at all to be honest. I’ve definitely switched topics on women asking retarded shit don’t get me wrong but women have a tendency to be insecure and press. Second option sounds light hearted and could make her second guess herself.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 07:19 PM
2

Yep. But Only thing I disagree with us self improvement being common. Average man isn’t really improving themselves Also you can change yourself to become a high value natural alpha once you live on your terms
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:46 PM
0

Who cares
/r/askTRP04/09/20 02:48 AM
1

What would Kobe do
/r/askTRP04/09/20 02:07 AM
8

I would start with what do you like to do? Then go from there and see how you can monetize it. Just don’t be dumb and quit your job
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:57 AM
2

If I’m lying why does she stay? It’s literally full honesty. I could potentially date her and get serious if it’s right but I don’t know if it will be right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:11 AM
1

Morally yes. Even from an alpha sense makes no sense to lie to women saying “I’m only seeing you” and see other people. Just admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:43 AM
3

If I’m not having sex with you or getting intimate I’m not spending time with you Why should I spend time with women if I can’t get the enjoyment I want? Has to be her way? Lol. Great logic man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:59 AM
3

If I’m having sex with you the presumption is you enjoy their presence enough to go out and date. It’s not different at all and you’re missing the points
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:24 AM
2

“I’m not looking for anything serious right now but I’m open to dating in the future”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:21 AM
8

Arent all relationships a matter of “use”? If she’s enjoying my presence and all I care about is sex but we have fun then I don’t see the problem Long as you’re honest about your intentions whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:17 AM
11

if a good women loves a good man then there likely will be no cheating What evidence does that come from? A woman can flip flop what she defines as good and then cheat. “Good” is subjective Also. A young virgin should not be the ideal partner. An ideal partner is one you can relate too. If you are willing to sacrifice a good person for a virgin (not that virgins are bad). Then you gotta expect that some women have high standards. There are no virgins out here in this society anymore anyways. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:13 AM
1

Not homophobic if you don’t want to sleep with a certain human. It’s only if you hate and despise them for said reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:03 AM
2

Respectfully decline or ignore if you think you can’t plate her without getting emotional. I know there are guys out there who could plate their ex but tbh that’s not for everyone. Just steer clear tbh and be happy with new women
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:55 AM
2

It’s funny cause if the reverse happened it would be asked to be accepted. Good y’all broke up. Find a hotter girl and learn to hide your files better
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:08 AM
1

Why are you so focused on height? Are you short? Height is just a preference they have cause they want men to look up to. Also people have mentioned women want taller kids so if potentially they get pregnant by you that’s better genes.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:05 AM
2

Yeah in a sense but not sexually. That’s more of wanting a man they can look up to. Height isn’t as blatant as muscles. Muscles provide no use to women other than potentially being a protector against enemies or sexually. And we don’t live in the caveman era so muscles are 9/10 for sex
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:56 PM
26

The way she’s saying she likes muscles it means she wants to dominated. Maybe she’s a submissive in the bed. This is contrary to what most modern women try to portray so they don’t want to be seen as that Men should learn not to take women’s views too seriously. They are flexible depending on the situation
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:57 AM
3

And that’s fine. You don’t have to. Long as you don’t knock someone for it that’s cool. Disagreeing on lifestyle is fine. And you’re not always going to spend time and resources with a girl. If you’re that high value she’ll be wanting to do what you want. That’s basically the goal men should have in terms of dating. And if she doesn’t abide by your standards or is too demanding leave her. This is also why plating works so well. You have an abundance mindset. So yeah relationships ain’t bad they …
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:42 PM
1

You said Sex is enjoyable. Alright then. Why can’t a relationship be enjoyable too? Doesn’t mean you love a girl or expect anything serious but you appreciate the fun that comes out of it.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:01 PM
1

Indeed
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:18 AM
-1

Who cares
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:16 PM
2

Why do people need to specifically ask for consent in normal scenarios? If you’re on a date and making out and she/he starts to Initiate sex someone can simply say “no” and that be the end of it. The whole “let me get a formal agreement of consent” logic makes no sense unless it’s in doing non normalized sexual stuff.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:51 AM
1

Yeah. Definitely am.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:47 AM
1

I am struggling with my diet as well. Want my body better so I’m more confident. I’m exactly like you. Lifting is so second nature to me. I enjoy it. I almost hate missing the gym. This is just my opinion but I’ll just say it. Try running more. I find it easier to excercise when I’m playing basketball. I can play all day and enjoy it. Find a sport you can play that way if you eat bad you can still be in an overall deficit. If you don’t have a sport or time for that run sprints. 20 minutes of HII…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 07:36 PM
-3

Can you explain why porn is bad. I get it gives unrealistic expectations of things and overall leads to unpleasant stuff but I’ve seen people say it helps you not be so horny/thirsty for pussy around women which is essentially a good thing
/r/askTRP26/08/20 07:18 PM
1

Just leave if she’s hiding how fat she is for men. Women should know we care about looks as we should know women care about looks money and status. If she can’t keep the 1 thing she needs in order. Leave
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:31 AM
1

This was me but the process to cutting the gaming and bad food is still going on. I’m more focused now over the past two months
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:15 AM
5

The mgtows are so weird. If they’re going their own way why do they even come to this sub if they’re worried about women
/r/askTRP10/08/20 03:05 AM
2

Where the fuck do we manipulate or abuse women? It’s mainly a “put yourself first. Lift. Goals and don’t cater to women shit” sub No one really advocates abuse
/r/askTRP10/08/20 03:04 AM
2

Interesting. Sounds decently fun. Either way I think you gotta handle yourself with more tact. It’s better in the long run in my opinion. If you disagree then cool. But your choices in terms of leaving an annoying Bitch? No problem
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:29 AM
1

I don’t think it matters wether people know you tried to holler at girls. If you get rejected a lot at least people know you have balls and didn’t do it in a creepy way
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:26 AM
21

Banning me for simply thinking he was too emotional? Lol.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:20 AM
19

No i have a 3 digit IQ and can assess a paragraph. You know you lost an argument when your first response is to call people gay lol
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:16 AM
14

This sub got a decent amount of autistic racists who clearly get no pussy. It’s weird
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:12 AM
1

Look man. Rollo is married. Not saying I agree with marriage but an LTR has benefitdn
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:01 AM
2

You have to accept that women have multiple options in today’s dating. If she’s rescheduling assume it’s another guy. If you have an abundance of women (or at least a good amount) then I think it’s fine if you next her if she doesn’t fit your time and doesn’t want to prioritize you. But if you have none and she wants to reschedule it doesn’t hurt just to build your roster up and give you confidence
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:00 AM
12

I agree to some extent but this guy sounds like he’s got emotional issues.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 12:57 AM
17

This reeks of autism as someone said. Should’ve just said “I don’t feel like taking you out anymore cause of the attitude you’re giving.” And just left. And “left her at the club with Mexicans” what does this imply? You go to Mexican clubs or was she talking or some there
/r/askTRP10/08/20 12:56 AM
16

These stories are hilarious. Gives me hope I can achieve this level soon if I focus on myself more
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:18 AM
11

I think it’s partially true. Alpha men in my view talk when necessary. They aren’t always out bragging about fucking loads of women. Maybe at first but it gets normal to them so naturally you feel no need. Almost second nature. This is what I am aiming to be. That doesn’t mean be a soft beta bitch who acts tough but is shy but command attention when necessary
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:15 AM
1

I know for a fact this is a troll
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:14 PM
2

Who says the family won’t be nuclear? Just don’t have a binding contract with the government and be an alpha male and one of the females best options and she’ll stay. If she walks she walks. Your son will see a man who stuck to his morals and stayed grounded through it and emulate that.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:45 AM
9

You dont need to marry a girl to have children. If you divorce you gotta pay child support+Alimony. Just be together and have kids. Less loss. There is no modern purpose of signing a marriage contract through the state. They just get access to your money.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:37 AM
1

Be happy you’re a catch and happy she wants to lock you down. But as you said in the comments that marriage contract is no joke. You basically limit yourself Why can’t she be happy just being with you long term? There is no issue with that at all. Nothing changes. She just wants the title and the option to control and leave you by threatening divorce. Don’t. Submit. Let her walk.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:38 PM
4

If you have a twitter you can just search up will Smith and see a buncha memes people put out
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:36 PM
0

Don’t stress. Logically speaking to hate someone for no reason is weird. I view it on the same level as feminism. Just gotta ignore and move on. Ironically you being happy hurts other people.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:44 PM
3

I understand but personally I haven’t had my period of banging lots of women yet. Cant even say I’ve smashed a 10. Maybe only one 9. I’m still trying to improve myself. You sound like you’ve had a decent amount of sex. Might be older than me. That’s probably why you feel that way. But i still see the sentiment.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 05:32 PM
2

You think the feeling would be the same if she was an 8.5? Serious question I’ve definitely had that feeling with uglier women. This just means you need to improve yourself more and get hotter chicks
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 05:20 PM
3

There’s an extreme to everything. I want to be treated like a guy she knows she’s lucky to have. I don’t want her acting extremely needy and desperate too much but definitely someone rare
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:40 PM
1

You’re right. Was just hoping those books would provide a basis of a game plan on what to do
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:10 AM
1

I do enjoy talking to people. I’m not autistic at all. I have friends and am great with convo. Just wish to improve game which is needed in red pill
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:09 AM
3

Gotcha. I’ve been back on keto for a bit and plan on doing full body 5 days a week for optimal results. I feel once my body is right then my self confidence will go up which will make approaching much easier. I’m not obese or anything but I’m definitely overweight
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:10 AM
1

Perfect. Did it help you pick up women easier?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:55 PM
1

Is that in the sidebar?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:54 PM
1

How is easy approaching for you now? Second nature? Easier to get laid?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:17 PM
2

No game, no morals, no looks, no status will make someone fuck. Gives her an ego boost cause she’ll be fucking a young guy and makes her think she hasn’t hit the wall. Sad thing is she’s in decent shape compared to most older women. So she probably views herself as real competition with younger girls. But as soon as a younger girl gives the Simp more attention she’s out
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:21 PM
1

Trust me. Just focus on it. As long as you’re not being a dick and never hanging out with her then you’re fine. Your purpose comes first
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:32 AM
3

Did I say they haven’t? Lol
/r/askTRP12/06/20 12:27 AM
5

I’m saying while some of it is valid majority of people just joining to follow the trend. If the trend in society was pissing your pants promise a good amount of people would do it. Sounds extreme but that’s really how it works
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:36 AM
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I’m a black man. While I understand the outrage and agree about elements on how the cops there is 0 reason to go out and protest. Most of these white girls are joining this shit for clout. This one white girl told me she’d stand in front of a cop and me if I went to a protest. I told her no fuck that. Consider moving on.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:04 PM
1

A please.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:54 PM
1

Lmao I feel you. Those guys usually aren’t red pilled anyways. Just frontin for the sub
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:45 PM
1

Lol it’s humorous. Whatever
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:42 PM
1

Exactly. That’s the main issue people have and usually come to the red pill for
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:50 PM
2

What’s wrong with asking this? You’re not gonna get good advice from relationships subs and trp discusses interactions with women
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:40 PM
6

I tend to save comments and read them so I feel where he’s coming from
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:45 PM
5

Holy fuck I asked this question literally yesterday. Ever since I realized red pill is more about focusing on passions and not women I’ve been busy focusing on my goals. Girl I’m talking to ends up seeing this. Is probably even more attracted to me and now is mad I don’t care as much. You can probably find some gems in my post but I think this is a sign you’re doing the right thing. Idk what to do about leaving her or not but you’re on your purpose
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:44 PM
1

I feel you and understand. Your ability to leave is the ultimate power. Men who don’t exercise that right actually push the woman away. But doesn’t that seem extreme for THIS situation? I can see if she was nagging constantly and trying to start fights from it but it seems evil? And the only parts of the red pill I deem evil are dread and I don’t even mind dread lol
/r/askTRP27/05/20 03:12 AM
2

Gotcha man that makes perfect sense. I tend to respond that way in terms of the “I acknowledge how you feel” aspect. I’ve learned to understand women don’t even want you to change most the time they just wanna vent. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:02 PM
1

Noted. Thanks. But how would you respond
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:43 PM
2

In my opinion don’t think about marriage now. A year and half is too little. Marriage shouldn’t even be on your mind at all. I think she’s just another AWALT chick. She’s probably better than most but in the end she’s still a woman. If you remeber that then it doesn’t matter what decision you make as long as you protect yourself
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:35 PM
0

I understand what you mean. It’s just since I’ve been truly diving into trp I’ve been more focused on my goals and passions. How do you propose I act like it then? This probably sounds stupid but I wanna show her that I enjoy her without acting Beta
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:32 PM
1

So like “yeah totally. I ignore you all the time and never listen to you” ? Still working on my shit test response game so bare with me
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:30 PM
2

I mean there’s a lotta book smart/buisness smart women that fuck retarded alphas/typical jock guys. Don’t really know a specific case though
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:24 PM
0

Why
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:23 PM
1

That might be the case and I hear you. I go for walks but I can’t interact with people cause they are all pussies. Can’t develop myself hard like I can in the gym Just feels like I’m stuck
/r/askTRP17/05/20 01:42 AM
1

I'm not going to act like I'm some perfect guy on the redpill. Im still working through it. But trust me shes not worth your time. And although AWALT exists there are girls out there that will show more care than this bitch. Bitches are heartless but some less than others.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:40 AM
1

I think 6 months if you train properly and depending on where you start. If youre a skinny guy or a fat guy it could wane differently.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:15 PM
1

Good test run. Enjoy
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:02 PM
7

Minoxidil for the beard. Look it up
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:55 AM
1

Yep. If you have a hot 10/10 looking chick you’ll be more likely to deal with her shit cause she’s rare (unless you’re a famous guy and see chicks like her all the time or are that high value) with women it’s even worse for them. If you’re a high value man who’s stable and acts in a red pill alpha nature she’s gonna want to stick with you for the long haul. She may meet another good looking guy or a better looking one but his overall SMV may not be as good and he might be a simp (as many guys ar…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:03 PM
2

Some it’s due to childhood, some due to female nature. Overall you need to be a better man. She’s less likely to cheat on a top 20% man
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:32 PM
2

That shows a lack of frame tbh. They need to have someone to focus on because they can’t focus on themselves.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:04 PM
1

That’s crazy. It might be best to do home workouts then
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:59 PM
2

I have no idea. Not gonna lie I’ve been off the gym but have been on keto. Wanted to start going again but this virus came up.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:58 PM
1

True
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:57 PM
7

Heard the virus may be easily spread through gyms. Still will probably go but any precautions.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:50 AM
5

Lift, AWALT. But serious question. Would that have prevented anything?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:09 AM
3

This post makes me dissapointed rather than mad. Not even at the girl but at the man. You should be willing to walk away. If she doesn’t respect you enough walk away. I’ve been learning that recently. Divert your attention away from her and focus on other things. He could truly use red pill material. However, I don’t know the answer to his question. I don’t think there’s truly a way to force a woman to be loyal or encourage true loyalty unless you have super high SMV
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:04 AM
2

A lot of people are mentioning insecurities and I think that may stem (based on personal experience) from a lack of personal life drive and focus on girls. Dudes who don’t care about girls at all and get loads of women are always focused on their purpose and mission and goals. If I were you I’d get busy. Sit down and think what you want to improve. Focus on getting A’s in your classes and improving your body to the max and you’ll eliminate a deep care for women cause you’ll be happy with yoursel…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:30 AM
1

I’m not trying to bring you down either cause I don’t know you but I will be honest and say I have no idea what a hospitality degree can do for you. You may need to do thorough research with it. Also you can travel with almost any degree I’m sure. So really you just need to make sure you’re not wasting your time or money
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:27 AM
2

Red pill needs an actual YouTube channel. I like listening to content and it’s hard to find proper content on the topics I want. If there was a way to get an audio versioned side bar that’d be cool too. I support this
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 09:03 PM
5

Dear lord you responded great as fuck. That’s true red pill shit right there. In my eyes you basically told her you’re not dealing with that shit and moved on. Love it. Need that
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:41 AM
0

I’m in college for engineering but I can say that I’m already thinking of ways to get out of that 9 to 5 shit as soon as I can.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:15 AM
10

That’s what I thought too. At the very least why not plate her? Too many people suggesting hard next and I get it but that’s only if he’s way too in his feels over her. If he just wants pussy meet ups then why not
/r/askTRP11/02/20 10:26 PM
1

What is OP wanted to keep her as a plate though? If she’s willing to come back then she should give all benefits and obtain little reward if she wants him I’m asking cause I’ve more or less had a similar situation.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 10:24 PM
43

Girl is a complement to your life, not the center. Feel like 75% of asktrp problems could be answered with just this
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:29 PM
1

Gotcha. I’m starting to realize this shit more and more as I’m adding new hobbies in my life to stay busy.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:22 AM
10

Bro every time I show a girl I care too deeply I get fucked over. When I treat women like I don’t care at all they get excited. It’s retarded as fuck. But I feel like in an LTR you gotta show minimal amounts of care otherwise she’ll look for affection elsewhere be it from an orbiter or whatnot. Not that it matters
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:17 AM
2

What does consistently gaming an LTR look like? I’ve seen people say this and I understand why but once you get comfortable with someone it can be hard to focus on all that
/r/askTRP10/02/20 11:14 AM
5

Why 5-7 ONS in a year? That’s a lot compared to most men but if you’re consistently at the weekly plate spinning level that’ll help. Need to game more women man. Me personally I get over a onitis or an ex by meeting other women that are more pleasing to be around. I don’t even have to sleep with them yet to feel like I’m over them
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:10 AM
1

I need to master this personally. I feel like I forget about shit tests and all it’s different types and just say what’s on my mind.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 11:33 PM
1

What helped you change her view of you and ultimately stop that bullshit?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:25 PM
1

I don’t know man. Just be smooth with it. Women know men wanna fuck. So you just gotta invite but don’t just straight up ask for sex or she may get put off
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:18 AM
2

Kinda glad I read this. I was under the impression that any form of romance is bad. But then again women do like that 50 shades of grey bullshit so why not
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:42 AM
12

Bruh. Kobe just died. What would he do? Shoot man. Shoot the damn ball
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:40 AM
2

If you’re seriously contemplating suicide I recommend seeking therapy. In regards to everything else I’m just going to give my opinion. Being 5’4 sucks. I can’t relate to it at all. I’m 6’2. But I’ll tell you this I know dudes who are your height getting more pussy than both of us. The height is only a factor if you let it. But you have to put in the work. Realize the end goal and keep pushing. You might be short but are you overweight and how often do you lift? Do you lift heavy and keep your p…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:39 AM
3

Oof... bad... abort! Every girl when she’s pregnant
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:33 AM
4

Fuck off I’m gonna do keto
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:30 AM
8

They’re bad but it’s sometimes understandable. They want proof the red pill works in their specific situation.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:37 AM
1

Security might be a good job
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:34 AM
3

Well look man. Rubbing one out just starts seeming beta after awhile. You think Dan blizerian or Hugh Hefner ever rubbed one out once they got their bitches? It’s a habit for dudes who stay in their moms basement eating Cheetos all day and don’t wanna change. It’s hard to stop but once you do you feel better
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:32 AM
3

Saw your stats. I’m not sure about the skin issues but tumeric mixed with coconut oil and black pepper is what I make and take which aids the skin and cleans the gut which is where a good chunk of skin issues come from. In terms of your weight I recommend keto. I’m around your height. Weight a little more than you currently but I was around 288 lbs this time last year. Did keto for 3 months then stopped. Back on it right now and I’ve lost 10-12 lbs in about a week or so eating just straight dry …
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:28 AM
2

Yup. OP should keto. I did keto last year for a month and lost a shit ton of weight. I’m back on it now and I’ve lost like 10 lbs already in a little less than 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:26 AM
9

Joe Rogan. Different topics has guests on that tell amazing stories etc
/r/askTRP06/02/20 09:35 AM
1

I know you asked this a while ago but I searched boxing in this sub. And I want to do it. Currently looking for a gym cause all the ones I’m looking at are just older people doing small circuits and stuff. I want the real thing to compete in.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:30 AM
1

If you already get women then what’s the purpose?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:22 PM
1

Ok well lightening your skin isn’t gonna make you not black lol. You have a defeatist mindset anyways so women won’t want you. The Tyrone vs chad thing is dumb anyways cause there are so few tyrones and chads anyways if you turn yourself into a Tyrone and actually go out and talk to women you’ll get laid. And no. Lots of women love Trey songs. But you’re comparing men of status anyways.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:33 PM
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Nah man you’re wrong. I’m black and although I’m still working on myself I know plenty of black men just slaying all types of women. Is it the most desired? Probably not according to statistics but if you’re a well in shape black man with good hair and healthy skin they won’t care. I recommend not switching it up and trying to be white. I also don’t think the statistics tell the full story. And fruit contains sugars. If you’re healing the skin less sugar is better so keto diet is a go to. This i…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:11 PM
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If it was your fault, you apologize and move on. If she brings up old shit, she gets demoted. Been told on this sub and constantly by men to not apologize for shit. Don’t ever say “I’m sorry” but say something less than that like “I see how you feel”
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:04 PM
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When you’re about to bust eat her pussy. Jacking off before hand also helps but I’m pretty sure this sub doesn’t recommend that. There are also techniques to last longer in bed. Other than that. Not. I’ve never had this problem.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:03 PM
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Yeah. Could be for various reasons. Maybe they have someone above your own league. Maybe they’re scared or don’t feel worthy. Maybe you’re below her league. Move on and focus on your life.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:01 PM
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Don’t lighten your skin. Embrace it. Plenty of darkskin niggas getting pussy especially in today’s age. Your best bet is getting a better body. Aim for healthy skin that pops though with good diet particularly less fruits more greens.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:00 PM
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Depends on other factors man. It’s not just alpha personality. Depends on wealth, looks, height, etc. Also depends on the girl. I can see either winning if all other factors are the same. Girls like the playful guy who’s always fun but they also like stoic men.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:58 PM
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Flirted too much over text and snap. Should’ve set something up sooner
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:24 PM
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If you always give effort she’s not into you. Girls love talking. Hit the gym and just keep it chill with her
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:21 PM
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“Yeah just hit me up whenever you’re free” then plate other women and keep your door open.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:19 PM
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No. Unless your Instagram has a decent amount of followers (and you’re not following too many either) and you have awesome shirtless pics and an overall great profile don’t bother. Move on
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:18 PM
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You cheated. Showed your high abundance in attracting other women. This makes her mad because her morals say leave you but she knows you’re a rarity and she probably can’t get better. If she comes back plate her or try and get 2 girlfriends like Lou Williams had where they know about each other and are cool with it.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:17 PM
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In my eyes she sounds like one of the best you’ll get (in terms of making children) Not sure best age to get a girl pregnant and whatnot but I would prefer being 100% sure there are no red flags and there’s no way to know that 1 year in. Give it another year maybe even 2 before trying if you can.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:14 PM
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Fitness really is 80% of what makes you better looking.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:11 PM
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I’ve talked to some women who see modern feminists as a male hate group and they view mgtow the same. Essentially it is. How you can go your own way but worry about women nonstop is nonsense
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:09 PM
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Try playing basketball. I’m overweight right now still but lost a shit ton of weight playing basketball again and running a couple games. If you’re competitive and try to win you’ll lose weight on the spot. That’s if you like the sport though. Any cardio should do. Just my suggestion
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:35 PM
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I assume you didn’t eat junk food either. That’s my issue right now trying to drop weight. Did keto but holy shit getting back on keto can be hard as fuck
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:33 PM
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Not your job to help them. Focus on maintaining your position and your money. That’s what I would do
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:32 PM
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Personally needed this. I feel I’ve been reading but not fully dove into myself and taking control of my life and habits. The beta behavior was me at one point too. Hella cringe and weird but I’m changing that too. I want to make bitches faint and more than that I want to achieve my life goals. Appreciate this
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 06:29 AM
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Wow man you should write more. This spoke to me
/r/askTRP20/01/20 02:10 AM
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In my opinion should try to work so you can meet people. Worst comes to worst you hate your job and quit no big deal since you’re handling your money well. Try to have a business idea in mind too. Basically surrounding yourself In work will help you meet people and make friends. Although you don’t need to work more money never hurts and you can keep your mind occupied.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:43 PM
1

Who cares. Imo normal nose rings are fine but them septum rings scream feminism and bipolar issues.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 10:28 PM
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Not a father but I like this response. Your son likes you because of how you act. If he continually sees you act in upright true manner he’ll respect you and love you forever. A boy will always love his mom too but he can lose respect for her. Keep doing you.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:40 AM
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I found THE chad guys
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:18 AM
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Can you not read?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:51 PM
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Cool
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:50 PM
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Should’ve probably. And yeah I thought that too. Too much for one day
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:24 PM
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I’m trying to lift and lose some weight though. Gonna watch diet and lift and run
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:23 PM
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Thanks. Trying to get back into my groove so I wanted make sure it’s optimal.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:22 PM
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That’s literally what I do lmao. Thanks man
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:22 PM
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I meant 6 days my fault. The reason I ask is because when I got into lifting about 3 years ago this guy basically gave me a 6 day split where I hit each body part twice a week. I just want to get bigger since I’ve been lifting on and off the past few months. I like the split but I see different on here
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:16 PM
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You should know this subs stance on fucking coworkers.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:04 PM
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Yeah so I can 545 lbs and be attractive?
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:49 AM
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Ha thanks man
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:40 AM
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Wow. Can you go into more detail about the accountability sheet? Did you just mark if you did a bad habit or not?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:17 PM
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Think my issue is I’m still losing weight. I’m about 6’2 238 lbs which is a supreme improvement since I was about 288 lbs in late February. So I’m not sure what fits right. I’m fine in some nice Nikes, jeans, and a nice jacket. But I see your point
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:06 PM
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Yeah I’ve read through it once maybe twice personally not gonna lie. I definitely should read more. My journey so far has simply been losing weight and reading. This question really made me see I need to go even harder though. So I guess I will
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:01 PM
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I want to do this. Was the transition hard? I want to cut gaming first and foremost. Maybe watching an nba game here and there since I love basketball.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:57 PM
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Do you veteran long time red pillers read the entire sidebar daily? Or do you break it into chunks?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:53 PM
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Any wardrobe tips for guys my age (I’m 22) and want to change my drip.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:52 PM
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Understood. I’ll try to find something I can provide of value. Thanks
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:31 AM
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Thanks. Great logic. If they ignore me and don’t want me then I just gotta move on.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:30 AM
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I’ll look into clubs. Anyway to be friends with fat boys without joining? Really not trying to join one. Thanks though
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:29 PM
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Didn’t read all this. If you want to get a better social media presence get in great shape. Make friends. Post pics of you look nice and put your Instagram in your tinder. That’s what I would do.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:10 AM
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Can you describe how valuable you think you are? You gotta be a damn near perfect guy or something because I don’t know or any girl who’s attractive as hell that doesn’t use social media. I see what you are saying though. I’m gonna try and get off all social media besides this reddit account and focus on my goals more.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:42 PM
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Almost all women have an attention seeking personality to a degree. If she posts a semi decent pic on Instagram with her fully clothed and she’s decently attractive she’s gonna get validation. So unless you’re telling your girl not to use social media I find it hard to believe you’re stopping her from having orbiters.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:33 AM
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My thoughts exactly. She texted first. Wanted to reschedule. Waited for him to pick a day and time. He’s just leaving pussy on the table if he nexted.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:23 AM
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Great advice. On the process of losing more weight right now. I’ve lost like 50+ lbs already and need about a good 10-15 left before I’m satisfied. Having a good body is really a huge difference in how women treat you. I’ve seen fat dudes get girls with ultra confidence but if they were in shape they’d be slaying even more. I will be using this advice regardless. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 05:37 PM
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Thanks will do
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:05 AM
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Can you link them by any chance?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:21 PM
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Yeah. I wish the side bar had an audio version.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:52 PM
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Just a question. Do you read the side bar daily?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:08 AM
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Then don't. The core idea of RP theory is that you should always be doing what YOU want. If you're feeling pressure to do something else, its because of scarcity mentality. Fix this. Dealing with this right now. I’m talking to a hot ass chick after improving myself for the past few months (not still where I want to be) and that scarcity mentality creeps in sometimes when I’m talking to her. I try to just act distant instead and focus on myself.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:20 PM
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Hold frame and don’t let her walk over you. At the end of the day AWALT. Don’t be her orbiter either. Don’t text her back so often and don’t be afraid to be distant for a bit.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:16 PM
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I should. Thanks. Gotta get out the comfort zone I guess
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:46 PM
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Will start right now. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:45 PM
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Lol. How does that help specifically? It’s kinda funny but also gross
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:45 PM
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This was an amazing post man. Thank you
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:42 AM
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Get a hotter chick and post it on social media. Make sure she follows you
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:57 AM
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I think that might be changing slowly though. I’ve been seeing a lot more Asian women become more open to dating other races of men.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:54 AM
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I think all this is correct speaking as a black guy. However I think it depends how and when you approach a girl. If you go to a party with some friends and there’s a group of girls and guys all talking together and you introduce yourself, then that’s normal and doesn’t ring alarms. However, if you approach a random Asian women on the street or at a subway then that’s gonna ring alarms for a black guy more than it would even a white guy general speaking. To me. I try to meet women in good settti…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:52 AM
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Not to get religious but I think it’s crazy how the Bible talks about this. And I’m assuming other religions do as well.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:14 PM
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If asktrp was a club of men meeting and asking questions they would do the same. It’s to toughen you up in a way. At least that’s how I see it. I grew up around dudes like this so it’s not a big deal
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:00 PM
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Agree on this. If she’s shit testing you doesn’t mean you shut it down and move on especially if you want to fuck her. The point is to fuck those girls too. Seen too many comments of people saying “next” to shit tests that could be solved easy or at least give practice for the next chick down the line
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:26 PM
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Oh yeah take her back. Women don’t lie
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:27 PM
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I’m young. Probably less experienced than you and I wouldn’t pay for pickup practice even if I made twice as much as you. I think it’s better to take your losses and try it on your own which is what I’m planning on doing once I get my body to where I want. Also pickup is different from game in my opinion. I could be wrong but game in my eyes is trying to show her your high value and you don’t need her. Subconsciously that makes women want you. Game never stops even in relationships. Pickup only …
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:15 PM
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I’ve seen a recent alpha male strategies video on YouTube where he talked about how a short guy got more girls than everyone in his school. I’ve also seen it in my school. Height seems to be a factor but not the end all be all. If your game is right and you have good status then you can get plenty of women. Obviously lift too
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:02 PM
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4 dates a year is not a chad. I’ve gotten more than that and I’m not even at my best yet. You need to look at yourself to see what you should be improving.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:58 PM
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No followers? Unless you’re running a business that needs a following I don’t see why that’s a huge deal anyways. That being said I do have social media but I’m not on it daily like most people.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:24 PM
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To be honest you make me want to give it up. Personally I’ve been on it less and less. And I’m general I never like a girls posts because that’s in itself orbiting. Don’t get social media if you don’t need it. If you do get instagram I see nothing wrong with posting photos of you and your friends or family once every 3-4 weeks. But some people post every 2 days. It’s sad.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:23 PM
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Not gonna lie it does scare the fuck out of me and it pisses me off. I dont know why. I can talk and make great conversation with people but if it's a girl I want to fuck I overthink things and eventually blow it. I want to get rid of this badly
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:17 PM
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Understood. Thanks
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:13 PM
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