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| 3 | How would you handle my Relationship situation?She said to me that it is difficult to find a job given her status as she come under student visa and to get enough money to contribute for our relationship as well. Plenty of side gigs and Hustle stuff she can do. Dog sitting, baby sitting, etc... She said the other reason why she did this is because she didn’t want me to view her as a financial burden, which is the main reason why I divorced my ex wife as she didn’t work and just want more and more and more. But She is and she lacks any sort o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Or just get a passport and travel | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed. Get a passport and it will cure your depression | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 06:13 AM |
| 17 | Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women?Other countries. Get your passport and go to a music festival in Europe | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?If you aren't a guy, you can't understand the male experience | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 11:51 PM |
| 0 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Lol, you have no frame of reference. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | I get approached in the club and get told I’m very good looking by women but then don’t secure the bagSex is mutual enjoyment and pre negotiated in advance. No covert contracts or leading anyone on | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I get approached in the club and get told I’m very good looking by women but then don’t secure the bagIt's what they do. They use guys for entertainment | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 07:00 PM |
| -4 | I get approached in the club and get told I’m very good looking by women but then don’t secure the bagMost girls just want to dance with a hot guy to feel good. I'd cut to the chase real quick and tell them you are there to meet sex partners and discern if they are serious or just want to waste your time | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 0 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Muscles and money mean basically nothing Lol says the broke guy who won't workout...I'm 6-3 and height doesn't matter | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:32 PM |
| 2 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women Women lie and they do have sex with hundreds of people, as long as they are attractive or the women needs to get over an old date, or whatever. Women don't need an emotional connection, don't believe the hype | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:03 PM |
| 8 | 3rd date going bowling and dinner any tips3rd date going bowling and dinner any tips If you haven't had sex, she's just using you for entertainment When we first met it was a handshake but now we are hugging. That's awful. Handshake is what you do at work, not for love. I'm hoping to progress to more physical touch. Dude go physically touch some barbells at the gym, drop this chick and quit wasting your time. Any tips on how to escalate and get more touchy Find another girl. You are in the friend zone | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:12 AM |
| -1 | why do women string guys along until they find someone better and then tell guys not to do the same?And this is probably why you shouldn't care too much about breaking their hearts. Absolutely this! Gotta give em a taste of their own medicine so they realize what it's like. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:09 AM |
| 2 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?I think a majority of men will give it up if an attractive lady they don't know ask for sex. Some desperate chumps will, but I'd be super suspicious if something like that happened....I'd think it was a robbery setup or something like that | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 08:59 AM |
| 12 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?None of this bull. Just have muscles, money, and decent conversation | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 08:57 AM |
| 0 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Most women don't love sex. Period. At least in the USA. Europe is a different story, but I'd they loved sex and knew where to find quality partners, they would be fucking early and often. Instead most women in the USA try to monetize sex in one way or another because they don't enjoy sex for pleasure. was listening to Destiny who’s a twitch streamer and he said women love to fuck and to not be confused about it . She's lying and stats don't s… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 08:55 AM |
| -1 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?For those who do know guys who do that, what’s their reasoning? It's probably the same reasoning that women go apeshit if you reject them. You want to see bad behavior in humans, reject a women from something. It goes back to our tribal roots where being socially ostracized is equivalent to death, especially for women. Ever hear the phrase hell hath no fury like a women scorned? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Central America-What I learnedOnline on swinger websites, although I've heard some guys have success on tinder in Europe. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 0 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, or have serious suspicion of, but would get you down voted to all hellLol, no..just got to a strip club or regular club dude. Beautiful women are everywhere. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 01:54 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, or have serious suspicion of, but would get you down voted to all hell3) Some men don't purposely lie to women pretending to be interested just to get sex. I think what actually happens is they lose interest after they have sex. In other words, they weren't trying to mislead or deceive you originally, just authentically just lost attraction after hooking up is all. Post nut clarity. Most guys don't just lie to get sex. The girl could be hot but you quickly find out she has the personality of a 5 year old and is literally "just hot", but you are already time or mon… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 01:50 AM |
| 19 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?Just delete the number and cut her off. Too many of y'all here think you can negotiate attraction and it's just a waste of time. More emphasis needed here. Cut off the attention, stay on your mission, you do you and keep it pushing. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 0 | I need advice on a girl who's constantly shit/compliance testing me...I don't see a girl asking you to feel her abs is a shit test....I would have said yes | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE? Because of tv and mass media pushes this silly concept | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 0 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youYou can see a crazy transformation in 6 months, insane in 1 year. Literally 50 pounds of muscle | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:18 AM |
| 3 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youI tell people muscles and money. It's really so simple....but if all else fails....muscles. It's biology. Just lift, don't skip leg day, eat protein and sleep | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:16 AM |
| 30 | Is there a sub like this from women?This post has been deleted for derailing.... I just couldn't resist | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Developing muscles and money require and develop the proper mindset | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?How do some guys make girls obsessed with them? Money and muscles, plus personality | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl plays hard to get?Yes sir! I pay homage to the man | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:23 AM |
| 83 | What to do when a girl plays hard to get?Only way to win is to not play. Block, delete and move on | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionI am female, 29, and I have heard more than once that men should not be vulnerable in front of women This is correct. I have always found it hot when guys are vulnerable with me so when I hear this I do t believe it. A sample size of 1 proves nothing. And the information seems to be that women get turned off when men show the vulnerable side That's because the majority do. Is this true? Of course, why do you think everyone keeps saying it? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Want to get laid fast? The easiest way to attract your local ladiesGet a 6 pack. Seriously. It's pretty much this. Go to the gym, do your cardio, mind your diet. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.This is as outdated as “women go for the top 20% of men” Lol how is this outdated if it's a new dynamic based on dating apps over the past 10 years? If you actually want a woman, maybe you shouldn’t have such a negative perception of them that drips out as you speak with them. Lol I have sex with plenty of women, thanks. I'm a swinger and have been for over 10 years. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.MY basis for it would be... that I'm a woman who loves sex. All Sample size of 1 and anecdotal at best. Every women says she loves sex. If they told the truth they'd never go on dates and be able to leverage their sexuality. Why do you think so many millions of sex toys for women exist? Because there's a market for lonely 35+ women. Younger women aren't the target market. Because women want to have orgasms, we desire sex. Faulty conclusion. If this were the case male virginity and sexlessness wo… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 12 | What I came to realize about datingDating is EQUAL difficulty for both genders. On a womans pov , men have it easier, on a guys pov women have it easier. You had me till this bullshit. Dating has never been easier for women I'm the history of humanity or more difficult for the majority of men. Stats prove this out. Dating apps killed it. The issue is women have an inflated sense of worth and absolute abundance mentality well beyond reality | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2009/sep/28/sex-women-relationships-tanya-gold They wrote an entire book on it. 237 reasons why women have sex, almost none relate to romance or pleasure. From their own words. Start with psychologytoday.com as well. Tons of articles and stuff on there written by professionals... Or you could just look at the number of male strip clubs vs female strip clubs in any given large city... | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:09 AM |
| 0 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.Da fuq? The most incel thing I’ve ever read and that’s saying something It's called facts and it's in many, many psychology journals and studies on this. Maybe do a little research rather than just ad hominems to new information you dont know and haven't studied. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 09:39 PM |
| 8 | Charlie Harper from Two and a half Men once said: ''The hotter the girl, the lonelier she is, because most guys are scared to talk to her.'' how true is this statement in your opinion?They are definitely not alone at all and receive way more attention than they would like. So much this. Online dating fucked all of us. Hot girls get tons of attention, they just all think they should be dating NFL athletes | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 08:14 PM |
| -1 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.Women love sex. Lol what's your basis for this? Multiple studies have refuted this. The vast majority of women don't have sex for orgasms, it's to manipulate men. All studies on the subject have found women don't like sex nearly as much as men do. And to be clear, I've been to multiple sex parties, swing clubs, etc all over the world and seen a variety of women and men in a variety of situations. Even with the guarantee of hot, hung, men who are sexually skilled, women don't come out and aren't … | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected…? After a lot of green flags, this feels offI kinda “can’t get over” this rejection since EVERYTHING around it was so good Women go to clubs for free drinks, drugs, and attention from men. She just wanted to dance with a cute guy and feel good about herself. That's it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 5 | I (m28) bumped into a 1st date (f26) that friendzoned meDoes she just perceive me as some beta chump or something? Yup. Exactly this...she's running around friend zoning people. Don't waste your time or energy. Hell I'd block and delete her number I don’t really understand why she sent that last text with heavy detail on this new guy To make you jealous/keep you interested...besides you ARE her male girlfriend now. Some have said she’s probably wanting me to chase and others have said I’m firmly in the friendzone. This. Just tell her you don't believ… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 10 | How do I (f/15) flirt with a boy in a way that isn’t over the top but enough to be obvious flirting ?How do I (f/15) flirt with a boy in a way that isn’t over the top but enough to be obvious flirting You gotta be obvious. Doing that childish stuff like winking or whatever is going to get ignored. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex? Come on man, it's rule #1 and rule #2 all day long. Be attractive, don't be unattractive From what I’ve seen it’s pretty discouraged to openly talk about things like that Women aren't on dating apps for sex. I’m kind of tired of going through the whole “dating game” type of thing through the apps Quit. using. apps. Stop wasting your time But I feel like to say that is “wrong” and offensive in a sense. It's just bullshit soci… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:56 PM |
| 15 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version."Just do what feels natural, bro" isn't a guide It's horrendous, dangerous advice | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.We get bombarded with images where women reject men's advances. In reality this rarely ever happens Lol, can I have what some of you are smoking? Men get rejected all the time. Women love to be touched by men and have sex with men. Again, complete lunacy. Men like sex way more than women and most women don't like sex and only do it because men want to. Replace it with the truth - women love to be touched by men and have sex with men. Only if the dude is in the top 20% in looks and even then it's… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itShe is hot but she was always mocking me for being a virgin and dont know how to pleasure a girl If it's any consolation, most hot girls just ride on their looks and are awful in bed. It's not like she's really developed any skills. She's just hot and apparently just wants to fuck virgins because she can. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?Ftfy. I've never once actually met someone who's had major social ramifications from simply complimenting a girl and trying to start a conversation with her You just haven't lived. I know a guy who almost got kicked out of a military academy for propositioning a girl. It happens all the time. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 07:54 AM |
| 15 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?Rejection didn't bother me that much before but now, being humiliated by an average girl just because I expressed I wanted to dance with her made me really apathetic to make an effort to pick up girls lol. And there ya go. Just one single bad rejection is enough for most guys to say "fuck it, I'm done " and rightfully so. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?I hardly ever get approached by a guy when I am with my girl friend Guys tend to not approach women in packs. , no matter how hard I try to give him signals. Nobody can read your mind. Stop being a child. This is real life, not a Disney fantasy. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidThe gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laid Most people don't look at the gym as a reason to get laid. Most people like to lift for health, aesthetics, performance, and so forth. Must get in the gym, “work on myself” for 20 years and then maybe by the time I’m 40 a single mom with 5 kids will notice me. You can significantly improve your fitness in 6-18 months. Like crazy, crazy improve regardless losing weight or gaining muscle. Personally, I love the gym but I haven’t been there… | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?What can we learn from Pete Davidson? Having a big dick matters regardless of your looks, mental health, and so forth. Don't believe the hype they tell you I keep on wondering what does Pete Davidson do differently? Monster Johnson. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 05:32 PM |
| 3 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?To clarify he’s probably also referring to fashion models as well He specifically said IG models....I think fashion models is a completely different thing as you indicate. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 03:07 AM |
| 5 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?Fuck and have fun with anyone of sufficient hotness. What does IG have to really do with it? | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?This also depends on the city. In NYC, lots of young girls who aren’t afraid to date guys in their 30s This has not been my experience | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 5 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?I remember action dropping after I turned 26, and it was pretty stark. Once again and even more pronounced when I hit 31 The action picks up exponentially in real life. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?Besides being attractive, what can you do to increase match rate? Drive a Lambo. It's really about having visible abs, muscles and money. It's all about pics and perceived attraction | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:52 AM |
| -4 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?Lol...folks who want to learn about business go to business school | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 6 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?How else could you break into circles like these? Why would you want to? Anyone with a camera can be an "IG model" most of them are broke, it doesn't mean they are nice people or they have anything going for them. Pro athletes only use these women as target practice. Being a musician or even halfway decent DJ comes with its own perks and groupies. No need to meet IG models | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?It's helpful to understand the league that you've placed yourself in. Not sure what you are trying to say here | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?I think we're getting to the heart of your problem. Lol it's not a problem for me, but nice trying to slide in the personal attack! I also love how you don't even try to refute any of the facts, data, or statistics or provide any evidence to support your claims | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?People do have sex like crazy. Not in the USA. 30% of males had zero sex in 2018 up 300% from 10 years earlier. Millennials are having less sex than ever, the marriage rate is at all time lows, so what stats are you looking at to draw this conclusion? Birth rates are declining as well. Most of the population growth is in the middle east, Africa, and other parts of the world. Women just have more at stake because they can't just walk away from the unsurprising potential outcome of a pregnancy Aga… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Never had this problem before but suddenly giving "friend vibes at 35"I would say 80-20 as far as reject to accept | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Love that you can only do as hominem attacks :) no facts or data...does white knighting work for you? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Online dating - The simple reasons guys don’t get matches.Be the outlier and take it seriously to get all the matches the non caring fools let slip by.... Lol nah. I'll pass. Just prefer to meet people in reality | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Never had this problem before but suddenly giving "friend vibes at 35"do u do this? Yeah, all the time. I tell women I'm non monogamous, into freaky sex and sex comes first, then dates. I usually meet them at clubs, music festivals, etc...I tell them what I'm into and just move on. The people in my circles are usually pretty frisky and I'd they are down, cool, if not I move on. If we aren't having sex, I'm not doing the date thing. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Online dating - The simple reasons guys don’t get matches.The majority of women don’t take online dating seriously, it’s a joke to them. So why should men take it seriously? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:47 PM |
| -3 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Modern women are strong AF. Most of them who have been on the planet a while have seen and been through some shit. They like sex as much as men. They masturbate to porn that might shock others Cue the nonsense....what does strong AF mean? They have the most privileged lives ever of humans and I doubt they are stronger than women living through the great depression. Women don't like sex as much as men, if they did everyone would be having sex like crazy. People are having less sex than ever. Mast… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women? Think you need some therapy bud. These are normal human emotions | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Never had this problem before but suddenly giving "friend vibes at 35"Of course, why not? What's the worst that can happen? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Never had this problem before but suddenly giving "friend vibes at 35"Ask them directly what are they into sexually? What are they doing later tonight? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Never had this problem before but suddenly giving "friend vibes at 35"Fast forward to today, and 2 years out of the toxic relationship, I am suddenly struggling big time. I went on 4 different dates in the past year (just simple dates like coffee, drinks, etc.) in which the lady later texted me saying she felt "a friend vibe" and its crazy because 4 different women used that exact phrase Probably because you aren't pushing for sex or escalating or making it know you have a romantic interest. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | I trying to seduce someone but I don’t know how to get her attention?Not sure why this is down voted... | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 13 | I trying to seduce someone but I don’t know how to get her attention?Just another day at Reddit :) | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? Went to college... | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 05:36 AM |
| 6 | Offended a girl and apologized, we already had plans. Go through with it?Offended a girl and apologized, we already had plans. Go through with it? She's offended because you wanted to have sex with her??? What's the point of freaking dating other wise? "Well id fuck her obviously" she left and cried because she said I didnt respect her. She's a child mentally. Pass. she accepted it but wanted to be friends. Don't be friends with women. Just drop her. Move on | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl taking days to reply and now not respondingGirl taking days to reply and now not responding I don't need to read any more. She's not interested and is just using you for validation. Block, delete, and move on with your life. Don't waste your time or energy and she said 100% definitely, she was once again flirty and we danced and kissed again If she were interested, she'd be having sex w you. she did apologize saying she forgot to reply Lol, ok...if Brad Pitt messaged her, she'd be johnny on the spot... but why would she kiss me and be fl… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that only some men can handle casual sex with lots of women?Do you think that only some men can handle casual sex with lots of women? I'm confused by the question....I think almost all guys could "handle it" what's the worst that could happen? They fall down in the fetal position crying because they had too much sex? At worst I've seen a few guys get tired...that's about it.. seem to never get emotionally attached to any of these women Why should they get overly emotionally attached? Guys with limited options are the ones to go all in on the first girl t… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Need as many opinions as possible, I think this girl friend zone me with no chance of being a coupleDude leave her. She's not your friend and isn't treating you as such | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 06:28 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Are kind, nice, good men a turn off for women? In shorts yes when they are younger, but not when women get older. When women get beat up by life a bit and experience some of the negatives of bad boys, usually around 27-35 or so they see the benefits of nice guys... Problem is most nice guys have quit playing the game, gotten married, or went overseas by that point | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]there’s plenty of women on there, There's like 300% more women... how do you figure that equates to plenty of women? who cares about lack of quality People who value their time ? i say that’s a great place to start and test the waters It's terrible ...it's just going to be abject silence and a waste of time....you must be a women saying this shit | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sure...it has nothing to do with the algorithm, ratio of men to women, or the general lack of quality people on it? | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Central America-What I learnedField Report: Central America-What I learned I already knew this was going to be good... more I realize the dating/pick up scene in the US is total fucking garbage, the quality of women is total shit and the attitude of most American females is total shit too. Yes, yes, and more yes. Only when American women realize they have competition will this change....but they won't. I am 44, Black/Hispanic mixed, I am fluent in Spanish and Portuguese, literally here, you can walk to any female and start a… | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 11:54 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]get tinder Epic fail. Do not donwload tinder or any other apps. Go meet women in real life. Hit the gym, lift, and workout | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Did people have an “abundance mentality” 20 years ago?Did people have an “abundance mentality” 20 years ago? In short, yes...but do understand nothing in the history of humanity has been this bad for men... especially happening so quickly other than mass drafts during war or something like that online dating apps are super popular With women....they are designed for men to fail I’m sure I have way more options than guys who started dating before social media/dating apps Eh, kinda....options yes. Good options? No. go on 3-4 dates per week I can buy … | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 10:38 PM |
| 4 | Why all the games and shit tests? (M17)Why all the games and shit tests? (M17) Because you allow it...and because you are young tbh...girls are testing the limits of their sexual prowess right now. Biggest thing you can do is ignore them and seems interested especially when I’m texting her, but always seems VERY gamey Most just are excited about the attention from a. Good looking guy but she doesn’t seem interested So fuck her...don't take her, never talk to her and ignore her completely....value your time and energy Why are there so… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 08:07 PM |
| -5 | How to become more physically attractive?How to become more physically attractive? Life weights, get lean, cut carbs and do your cardio I try to take care of myself, No you don't. I eat healthy No you don't. If you did you would have visible abs I use expensive colognes and fragrances, use a lot of skincare products given to me by a dermatologist. Waste of money, go lift. What do I do to deal with this? Laser hair removal or shave What can I do about this Make yourself attractive. Money and muscles have never failed anyone. I can't rea… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | The monetisation of dating apps and why is doesn’t work for most of usDude I'm 6-3, former NCAA football player, business owner, and I get zero response from all dating apps... I gotta try the dog park thing... I agree if you are a dude on a dating app you are stupid | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 07:45 AM |
| 0 | (Need as many opinions as possible) Asked a girl if she ever sees us being more than friends(Need as many opinions as possible) Asked a girl if she ever sees us being more than friends Mission fail right out of the gate....never nice guy it and try to be friends...don't do that shit... If she isn't romantically interested in you, bounce! I never really thought about that, That's a convenient white lie....she has thought about it...you don't want to know the answer What do you y’all take from this? Anything other than an unqualified yes is a hell no. She's not into you bud, but she's ha… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?I think coastal college towns would be your best bet ...or going of raves and edm type music festival | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?How do I meet quality women in the US It's extremely difficult, so much that most guys are checking out and just not playing the game. I don't see partying a lot as being a problem, but not having goals is. basically i just want a kind loyal and independent woman with values Yeah that's going to be tough and independent women are generally headaches to deal with. Even in college you still want some recreational stuff to do. Just don't take anything or anyone too seriously | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:49 PM |
| 13 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. RollercoasterIf you are tired of it, go date someone else. Do you not have any self respect? What's the point of going through this shit show? | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money?Good fucking answer! | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys agree that women in dating apps average 2-3 points lower in real life compared to their pics?Yup....your time is valuable...don't waste it | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 09:54 AM |
| 6 | What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money?Who is the 20% that are not? | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 18 | Do you guys agree that women in dating apps average 2-3 points lower in real life compared to their pics?Better yet don't use apps and just meet women in reality | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?Man I don’t wanna face this bullshit when i grow uo bro Just date foreign women. I plan to study in the US for college next year. College shouldnt be so bad, but you need to work out with weights and build muscle and you should do fine as far as meeting women...that said I wouldn't marry anyone or take anything too seriously Right now i’ve been hitting on Americans But why? Maybe less of this... compared to my French, Italian, and Ukrainian And more of this? | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?of guys who just want to fuck them. Every single guy wants to have sex. The main reason why guys don't come back is because the sex is trash. There’s a lot of women who are not conventionally attractive who are brushed over That's on them...don't be fat. abundance” of matches for attractive women are largely fuckbois. You know those women swiped on those dudes, right? | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?Have fun continuing to fail… We can just go to other countries...can you? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?There’s a illusion of abundance but if you’re actually trying to find a quality relationship as a woman It's only difficult because most women are lazy and don't want to or know how to put any sort of effort or work into finding a decent partner. They can't sort and soft through the variety of options they have, but it's easy if they understand men. This is also why the adult male in the family was historically the one to make this decision or help them with this decision... | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?Being a woman must be tough. Lol please stop it | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating? They neither know nor care. If anything, they think dating is as easy for them as it is for men. The "I have to cancel because I have covid, and I have work, and I have to leave the state for a few weeks, and my sister is visiting, and something came up." They know they are giving mixed signals and just don't be care about male emotions It really could take a tremendous toll on self esteem. Why play the game if it is having this l… | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 11:27 PM |
| 3 | I just asked a tinder girl out.Why would you be on tinder if you don't have the time to date? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | I just asked a tinder girl out.I just asked a tinder girl out. Bigger question is why waste your time with an app that you know is designed for males to fail? Good job on valuing your time, but what you are doing is a recipie to get used and taken advantage of | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?Not sure what county you are from... But many American women are delusional with their expectations of men. Literally average women expect to be dating billionaires or athletes/entertainers and the top 10% of men. 30% of women admit to just using men for dinner dates and never had any actual interest in the guy. Large numbers don't care about their weight or looks and will weigh well in excess of a man at their height. The risk of divorce and losing your kids/half your shit is ever present if sh… | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’?Meant to say Asian...but the women I've met from Asian and European countries are sexual, good looking, nice to be around and are generally more feminine. I've met women from Poland, Ukraine, Philippines, Thailand, etc...they are all great and marriage material | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?By making a Tinder profile Dude it's literally by breathing...just exist in the presence of men and women can bring home a different guy every night | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Why would a women want to take it slow with a guy she genuinely likes? | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Again, generally receptive. Never said I speak for all wonen | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?You’ve literally already cited examples of women adopting male-leaning communication styles Only because they had to in a work environment.... Why are men not expected to adapt to women’s communication? Because doing so results in poor results as the article stated by the communication expert.... If women are so bad at communicating and men are so great, why do men not adapt to compensate Women are complaining men don't understand them or push boundaries or whatever....so if they want better out… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’?What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’? Move to Thailand, any Aidan country or eastern Europe for a few weeks | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:35 PM |
| -1 | Worth moving to Asia for more success?Tinder matches don't mean shit. They mean greater opportunities with women. Why not instead of moving just to get women, work on yourself, work on social skills and get women where you are, on your own terms, in real life not these "dating" apps? Because moving is so much easier and more effective than trying to play a rigged game with super entitled women? | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:34 PM |
| -3 | Worth moving to Asia for more success?Imagine dating in the west being this awful...this desperation is only reflective of the dating options most men have...pretty awful state of commentary of the situation | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?This isn't the place for truths Lol, you got that right...I just can't be an echo chamber | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?women are terrible communicators” is sexist If they are not communicating well with men and are sending mixed signals, which is a common complaint, they are bad at communicating. I agree that different settings call for different styles, and what I'm saying is most women can't switch or adapt to different settings. They talk to men as if the men were women and it doesn't work well for anyone Knowing your audience and being able to speak their language is a requirement of good communication. No d… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Come on dude this is too easy... https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/he-speaks-she-speaks/201712/men-power-and-nonverbal-cues https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/high-octane-women/201104/are-we-talking-the-same-language-how-communication-styles-can-affect Much of Tannen's work on conversational styles focuses on "typical" styles of men and women and how these gender differences can lead to conflict, misunderstandings, and stress. However, in my work with high-achieving women, I've found … | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Man this is sexist as hell and just plain wrong. Men and women communicate in different ways. It's well documented. Men are direct, women are indirect. Do you disagree with the communication styles of the genders being different? It's super well documented For dating, business, politics, government, the law, etc...direct communication works and is a requirement. That's why you see men in direct positions of leadership often. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?but then suddenly wants to “dial it back” or otherwise cuts that physicality off or cools or just plain ghosts with things going very well. She found someone with more money or better looking...and it's usually better looking. Shiny object syndrome | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?If a pretty girl is going to sleep with each physically attractive guy who hits on her then her number of partners is going Nah, women find 80% or more of men as unattractive...so how does she get into the triple digits? Which rarely happens. Eh, I wouldnt be so sure about that.... | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Same goes for guys. Nobody wants to catch a false accusation because a women is jilted about why a guy doesn't want to be with her. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:06 PM |
| -2 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?The reality is that if a women is really into you, she's generally receptive to physical stuff | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:04 PM |
| -1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?So to you, "don't go overboard" = "do nothing" That's now it goes with most guys and is why dating, marriage, and social interactions are declining as a whole. This is not crazy talk. Actually it is. Women generally are terrible communicators and give mixed and confusing signals. If a women says no, just ghost her and walk away right then and there. She's not interested | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:03 PM |
| 0 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year? 20-30+ but I'm a very active swinger. I go to multi day sex parties where I average 3-5 a day I think the most I've done in a day is around 10, but it's way different than dealing with vanilla women. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lol nah dude, not Mormon....I'm a swinger and have lots of casual sex without marriage. I just don't say "hey what's your eye color..." Before meeting with anyone. And I do no have one play partner who has blue eyes, but I don't really care | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'd focus on more sustainable things that lead to relationships regardless than date someone based on their eye color...otherwise just go see an escort | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 05:13 PM |
| -1 | This guy's take on dating. Agree/disagree?I'm just stunned by it, Go look at the stats on online dating especially for men....there's nothing stunning about any of this. As a guy, you are a fool and deserve all the misfortune you get it you are still using online dating at this point I need help processing this. What is there to process? Online dating was designed for men to fail and only for female success. I can't speak for others, but [when I first tried online dating] personally I wasn't getting any good matches. Super common and st… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I didn't say that. I'm just not going to be focused on something like her hair color or eye color as a major factor. It has nothing to do with how a relationship lasts or important things like mental stability, sexual compatibility, financial security, etc | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Exactly this. Never be a secondary plan for anyone | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 8 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?then you come back to the US and have to prove yourself to some fat chick that barely made it through high school. Oh damn...savage but unfortunately true....you left out the part about half of them having kids.... | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Blue eyes is a rare recessive trait, so not many but a few. It's the last thing I really care or look at. There's a ton of way more important stuff that actually matters in relationships | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:35 AM |
| 5 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?All I can tell ya is I have a passport and I travel. I've seen the differences worldwide. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:26 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Dude he's boiling down dating and women to just their eye color and what he thinks they are attracted to. It's silly. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:26 AM |
| -9 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?They aren't and I play with couples more than single women. Often these are cuckold couples or situations where the husband wants to watch. I almost never meet single women in the lifestyle | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?Women are absolutely into sex & relationships Why is the marriage rate at an all time low and people are having less sex than ever? You claim to be a swinger & get sex all the time but you think women don't like sex? Swingers are less than 1% of the population and that correlates well with the number of women that are hyper sexual. Additionally there are almost no single women in the lifestyle, hence the term unicorn being used to describe them. In a party with over 2000 people there might be 30… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:56 AM |
| 15 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?How has anything I've said been an attack on anyone? | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:53 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Dude what is your deal with blue eyes? There's more to dating than what someone's eyes look like. Go to the gym and lift until you look like bolo young or Bruce Lee and quit complaining It seems more difficult or near impossible to attract a pretty woman with blue eyes, especially on dating apps and tinder. You deserve all the misfortune you get using dating apps as a man. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:32 AM |
| -13 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?Lol I'm a swinger and fuck more women at a play party than you ever will in life. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The vast majority of men on trt or not aren't lifting. Almost no men lift and the vast majority reject lifting. Go look in this thread. Everyone is talking about muy Thai, BJJ, low intensity cardio, yoga, pretty much anything other than touching iron | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Go look at the other posts in this thread | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:13 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Lol nah, I have never been accused of lacking confidence...I just know my shit and don't tolerate abject stupidity and bad science | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:55 PM |
| -1 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?There is so much evidence to prove the opposite of this Please produce said evidence. Women statistically find 80% of men below average and the height thing is a real issue and I say this as a 6-3 dude. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:52 PM |
| -10 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?Lol this is terrible advice. Most women aren't into sex or relationships | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:51 PM |
| 32 | Where to meet girls outside of clubs & online dating ?Which hobbies or activities should I take up ? Lifting weights and doing cardio Where do I meet high value quality girls ? Anywhere not the USA | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.This was from a discussion which originated from us talking about how good her BJ was that night, and I felt uncomfortable with why would she bring that up so casually. It's a shit test to see how much she can say without you getting upset. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:45 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Absolutely correct! All these guys think testosterone without doing more is going to change their lives. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:43 PM |
| -8 | [deleted by user]Both will increase T. No basis in science for this conclusion. The T increase from resistance training is very temporal and short and only comes from incredibly intense workouts like deadlifting and squats which bodyweight exercises don't event come close to. Show me a single study that suggests muy Thai or punching the air increases T. I would wager Muay Thai, in theory, would be better because it’s also competitive and you’re fighting other men, which should boost testosterone even more Fighti… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]Gotta lift. You can take all the hormones you want but I'd you don't lift it doesn't matter | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:06 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You don't get testosterone from low intensity cardio bud | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:06 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Imagine what would happen if you actually lifted weights and didn't just do easy shit like low intensity cardio | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lol funny that the one actual suggestion for increasing T gets down voted | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:05 PM |
| -7 | Any older female virgins (>25)? How do you get over it?Any older female virgins (>25)? How do you get over it? Go have sex with someone? This is entirely my fault…maybe Of course it's your fault. Cant go blaming anyone else after you are 25. You make 100% of the decisions in life as an adult I’m socially anxious to the point where it’s crippling me Therapy, therapy, therapy and maybe medication . I didn’t prioritize dating because I wanted to focus on education This would be the part where it's your fault. But how the heck do I do it? Go to clubs, p… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | 7 things that changed my dating life...Ad hominem, thats cute. I learned that personal attack years ago bud. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 0 | 7 things that changed my dating life...You got any data to back up your point that 80% of women hate sex? Then stfu. There have been books written on it Mr white knight. You're making excuses for your life. Overcome them and see what happens. I think you are making shit up. I haven't made any excuses for anything. My life is great. If women love you, then you not making moves and capitalizing is your own fault. No need to get snippy with me. Handle your shit I'm handling it quite well. Women love me and I have sex with them. What's t… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Polite way?What’s a polite way to say no to a woman you just met or knew for a couple days that asks you for money for whatever reason even if it sounds serious I'd just tell them that something you ask family members for Or you could just say you don't give money to strangers | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 07:58 PM |
| -3 | 7 things that changed my dating life...Your toxicity is nauseating It couldn't possibly be my lived experiences or backed up by statistical data, right? and explains why women wouldn't want to be around you Nobody said this was a thing. Women love me and are drawn to me. Plenty women just like to hook up with no strings attached Yeah, not really. Maybe in Canada....please feel free to present any facts, data, and stats to back this up | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 02:07 AM |
| -13 | 7 things that changed my dating life...A lot of people forget that women love sex too, This is complete bullshit. Most women and I mean 80% absolutely hate sex. If they wanted to have sex, everyone would be fucking. Ya'll canadians may have a skewed mindset because you have good sex education, healthcare and not much else to do during those long winter months, but down here women are absolute prudes and generally don't like sex. I agree with that last line though. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?Go to the gym and travel overseas | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:24 AM |
| 9 | I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any wayIt's not that guys are oblivious morons...women and men communicate in different ways | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 04:59 AM |
| 67 | I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any wayI’m trying to be patient and get to know him and i like him but I just wish he was more comfortable being flirty and complimentary and touchy Blame metoo. Guys are seriously apprehensive about doing a bad approach and getting accused of rape or harassment so I’m trying to be patient…, Throw your panties in his face. Don't be patient. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You should have done it in real life | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | How to stop thinking that Women are better than Men?how can a man unlearn this? Just look objectively at women and what value they bring to the table. Take sex away from the equation and ask what value do they provide to anyone. Alternatively you could always do the net worth test. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Single guys, if you were set financially, what would you do with your life?Single guys, if you were set financially, what would you do with your life? Reduce human suffering, focus on fitness, health, and managing my investments and personal relationships | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 12:46 AM |
| 17 | I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through textingLol...some folks miss the default settings in life. Go meet people in reality | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you do if you’re having sex with a girl and her pupils start dilating?It's good in Europe, but fair point | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps: what am I doing wrong?Dating apps: what am I doing wrong? The wrong part is that you are on dating apps. You are stupid if you use them. Just look at the stats and numbers for men So my question is what the hell am I doing wrong Dating apps don't work for men. Go meet people in reality | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 07:40 AM |
| 0 | Girls never check me out..?I’ve always believed I was attractive Why? Who told you this? I have a good physique, good sense of fashion, You probably don't have as good a physique as you think you do. If you did, women would stop and look I even go on Tinder and only ever get around 10 likes. You are stupid for going on tinder as a guy. It's a waste of time. But back to objective reality: if you were attractive and have a good physique you would get the outcomes you seek. Am I really just an ugly human being who is delusio… | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 07:37 AM |
| 5 | What do you do if you’re having sex with a girl and her pupils start dilating?Wow sex education is that bad nowadays? | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 02:06 AM |
| 13 | What would you do if you’re at a bar and a girl approaches you and asks if she can buy you a drink?I've seen how this movie ends...it's a fucking trap! | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Struggling with girls in collegeJust go lift. Build muscle and get lean. That's the #1 thing women in college want especially | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 01:12 PM |
| 32 | She lost interest out of nowhereShe lost interest out of nowhere She was never really interested in you. She was interested in the chase. She's hanging out with multiple other guys and probably had a slow week and gave you some time. Playing hard to get only means she's not really interested | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Asking a girl to get coffee over DMs?Asking a girl to get coffee over DMs? No. Meet women in real life then go out | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad.What you describe hasn't been my experience. I get invited regularly to private events and clubs. Most clubs it's 2x at most | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad.Being a single male is not frowned upon if you are good looking or have a big dick | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 11:24 PM |
| -8 | Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad.Nah, I'm over 6-3, slay in person, but do horribly online | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 6 | Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad.Tinder is dumb for guys | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad.Struggling with girls who keep getting attached or wanting relationships when you just want casual sex? Consider becoming a digital nomad. Look into swinging | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you make friends with girlsHow do you make friends with girls This is the wrong approach. Don't approach girls to be friends. It's romance or nothing | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I become a man who can seduce women without the influence of alcohol?How do I become a man who can seduce women without the influence of alcohol? Lift weights. girls. I’ve had debilitating self esteem and social anxiety issues that made it so I literally never talked to a girl in a friendly/sensual way before this year Therapy Not to mention after I get the number I always end up getting ghosted anyway, usually pretty fast Learn game | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]But we haven’t talked yet about being more serious and being boyfriend girlfriend. 2 months is nothing. You wait until he decides to elevate you to gf status. You can't get to know anyone that fast and a proper vetting is no less than 6 months and more likely 12-18 Should I say I want to be bf/gf or wait for him to ask?? Say nothing and enjoy the process | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Turn-ons for menTurn-ons for men Dont be fat, be nice to be around and have something interesting to talk about | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Best dating apps?Best dating apps? It's a joke. There are no good dating apps. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.I say always leave the door open and be welcoming to a stranger regardless of circumstances. You'll know pretty quickly whatever she's calling for | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Why is that nowadays I don’t having any concern for women.Why is that nowadays I don’t having any concern for women. You are valuing your time. Simple as that | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone LevelsDon't worry, there are plenty of women who like manly, fit men | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out? "Cool, thanks!" | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:09 PM |
| 11 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.I’m 57. I slept with exactly 7 women over a lifetime That's the statistical average for men...congrats! You are average A friend of mine who is 20 laughed at me Sounds like your friend is kinda an immature jackass He now has genital warts and genital herpes. And is apparently an idiot and doesn't play safe. It all works out. This isn't always true either.... | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Something I learned about ChemistryWell we can all agree on that. Thanks for the insightful info. Any good links to read up on this stuff? | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Something I learned about ChemistryThe concept of "the perfect 10" was originally derivative from the 1976 Olympics, when Nadia Comaneci scored a 10 in her gymnastics uneven bar routine which had never happened before and created a shockwave around the world. Then a few years later in 1979, Bo Derek starred in a movie called "10 Thank you for the pop culture and history reference. I had no idea. because we are largely a species dependent on the sense of smell. And smell is what makes us ultimately sexually attracted to people. Yo… | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 16 yoAdvice for a 16 yo Go lift. Do your cardio. Eat more protein and less carbs. Learn about money and stay away from any drugs or stupid shit like trying to be YouTube famous or pranking people. My friend group is all boys and I find myself struggling to get a girlfriend That's because it's hard for most guys at this age. Go lift and the women will come. Am I too young to try the pua shit or hit on chicks in public? You should build some social skills, not necessary pua type stuff. Don't make this … | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:58 PM |
| 12 | 21m - had first kiss on Tinder date but can't decide if I should see her againhad first kiss on Tinder date but can't decide if I should see her again This is why you are a virgin. The girl likes you and seems cool and you can't decide if you want to see her despite having no other options... I ended up spilling the beans and telling her I was a kissless-virgin at 21 years old. And she said 'I never would have guessed She was just being polite. There is some stuff you just keep to yourself, being a virgin isn't first date conversation But I acted like a teenager At least … | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How do I get girls to stop wasting my time?I mean that’s literally worked twice out of maybe 100 dates If your closing ratio is that low, you aren't doing enough screening up front | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I get girls to stop wasting my time?How do I get girls to stop wasting my time? Stop giving it freely to them and allowing women to do that. was fairly certain before the date that I would get laid How were you certain? Did you talk about it? anyone has a bit of a bitch shield or shit test What are you, 12? Use your words. Verbalize your thoughts. I'd you don't want your time wasted the #1 thing to do is to have sex early and you can say it is to establish sexual compatibility, which it should be. If she likes you, she will happil… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Something I learned about ChemistryDude it's not even bronze. This is all terrible advice. Rusted steel | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Something I learned about ChemistryThis is why you don't listen to dating advice from women... like those sad men who go to clubs and thinks he's picking up on 8s and 10s. Are you saying men don't go to the club and pick up hot women? I'm confused by this..also men don't refer to women this way because of romcoms assessing himself from the point of view of a 2 dimensional photo on Instagram Not sure what this even means when he's forgetting things like charisma and sex appeal So sex appeal isn't visual? A guy on the shorter side … | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I hooked up with a girl who has a boyfriend, he wants to fightexplain to me what you have to gain by fighting this dude? Negative reinforcement hopefully of getting some sense knocked into him so he doesn't repeat this course of action | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 08:54 AM |
| 3 | I hooked up with a girl who has a boyfriend, he wants to fightI met this girl at my job You are an idiot. You knew this was wrong going in and you did it anyway. Level 1 stupid here We originally were just friends Men and women can't be friends. You wanted to fuck her, just be honest. You were hoping for an opening and found one. Level 2 stupid. so I decided to dm and tell him about how his girlfriend has been cheating on him with me and that I didn’t know she had a boyfriend You just skipped to level 99 idiot. You deserve an ass kicking for this sort of b… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 4 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?how society makes it seem like its so rare for a girl to fuck on the first date It's not society...it's for real for the vast Majority of men. If you aren't too 10% and even then, most guys aren't having sex on the first date. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental? Yup. Not only that, it's necessary to make sure she isn't just using you for dates. If she won't fuck you, it's an easy pass. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 01:02 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Lol who told you this nonsense? Friendships with women are the best way to get friendzoned and no nudes sent to you | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you are approaching them with the intent to have sex or just trying to be their friend. If you approach them like anyone else it's more of a friend apprpach | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)?Sit and think hard about why women don't have sex on the first date You presume the way you think is how all women think. I meet women for sex all the time. And women on a "man's program" are retards and sluts. Go and find one. I have plenty. women will date you if you throw cash up in the air? But they will... | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)?If you think that any woman on this entire planet can be tricked into thinking that a hook-up will lead to marriage, you're mistaken. There's no trick. Meeting for sex qualifies that you are sexually compatible and if the sex is good, I'd be interested in meeting again and progressing from there. Right, and there are plenty of men on a "woman's program." Yes, they are called simps and betas and women generally hate them. Plenty of simps are out there for ya, go have fun and find one. Your mistak… | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)?These are instructions for a hook-up. Gotta start somewhere. Guys aren't proposing marriage to total strangers, especially fat, disagreeable women who don't like sex. These are applicable for relationships and marriage. I'm not dating older men, nice try. Also, you just said it was easy. It's easier if you do the things listed above which you apparently refuse to do. You don't have to date older men either. It's not a guarantee that you will get married or have a life partner. Your choices your … | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)?Well, I wouldn't date a guy who's scared of marriage, so that makes two of us They aren't scared of marriage...they are scared of crazy girls who would suggest that from a random stranger. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)?How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)? It's pretty easy. Don't be fat, be sexually available, be pleasant to be around, and go where men are. Getting a spouse at that age range is going to be really hard, tbh and most guys looking to settle down are going to be older. Some guys are just starting to have sex at that age. More to the point, it's not what you want, its all about what your potential spouse wants in a life partner at that age. I don't understand why you would even want a spouse at this… | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Imagine being in your late 40's, your fat husband can't stay hard for more than a few minutes, and a fit 20 year old with a big dick that can stay rock hard indefinably is into you? Seems like any females dream You wrongly presume that the average women is into sex. They aren't. A third of women have have never even had an orgasm and most like 80% view sex as a chore. Get into kink or swinger groups for what you seek | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Why would they need something like that when they have their job and their friends for validation Lol nobody gives a shit about a women's job...least of all the women performing it. You can't compliment women at work anyway without risking getting fired. By now you’d think women would learn to live without the approval of men You clearly don't understand women. The approval of men is ALL many women have. man’s compliment is as common as a dirty penny today, Not from high status men that these wo… | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:51 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Too much risk on their part. Dude you are white knighting yourself.... There hardly any to zero gain from doing that It's called male interest. Women know MOST men are sexually and visually driven I would assume no woman would actually want to do that We're you home schooled or did you grow up in a religious household or something? I understand sex work today is a good source from nudes Lol no. Most nudes are free like porn on the internet. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I just come here to get this off my chest and say I have never received nude photos from anyone I’ve talked to and I have talked to many girls before. Obvious question here, but did you ask them for nudes or are you talking about the last episode of he bachelor and trying to be their friend? I had no clue this was something people GENUINELY did I'm confused on how you approach and talk to women... | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to give up (threesome game)Lol what's so bad about swinging? It sounds like you are lazy tbh. There are porn stars, fitness models, bodybuilders etc on these sites. Just have to look and put forth effort, which seems to be the main limiting factor for you and your current approach obviously isn't working. Hot girls wanting a 3 sum just because you want one aren't going to fall in your lap | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 02:58 PM |
| 4 | I'm starting to give up (threesome game)I'm starting to give up (threesome game) You can't look in vanilla circles for this. Go in swinger and kink circles | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 6 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women? Muscles, money, height and social dominance | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Are bars and clubs REALLY the only place to meet women?I’d say the apps are probably the best way. Horrible advice. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Are bars and clubs REALLY the only place to meet women?Are bars and clubs REALLY the only place to meet women? Those are my top places, but more happy places like edm clubs and music festivals. Why would I want to go to a place where all of the women are just twerking? That's not what all the women are doing and it really depends on the club/scene and so forth. The music tends to dictate the crowd, so a place playing house/techno is going to bring in way more fun, open minded and friendly people than say a jazz bar or club playing regular top 40 mus… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:35 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]27 yo AFC - need serious support/guidance I got some tough love for ya. I'm a 6'4", 190 lb dude who cried himself to sleep. Dude. No. We all handle stress in different ways, but it sounds like you might need therapy. I suggest you start lifting. Helps with stress and you look better. I am shadowbanned from tinder (where it purposely does not show you to people as punishment for deleting/remaking your account too much), and other dating apps banned me for the same reason You deserve all the pain,… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How does this Sub apply to people with autism?Wait, what happened? What advice did you follow and who broke your arms ? | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How tf do you DM girls whithout being left on seen?matter where I go, there are no dateable women What makes a women dateable to you? I cannot seem to find places where women are in real life other than waitresses What's wrong with being a waitress? What are you looking for? | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Never get second dates. They are using you for free time, meals, attention, etc... Today I went on my 6th date from Tinder You deserve all the misfortune you are going to get from using tinder. It went well. This sounds pretty far from "going well" when it was over she hugged me Ewww...just a hug? Don't do this to yourself don't know if it is my looks or personality Definitely looks, but you are also putting yourself in the role of a simp. How can I compete with 20 guys? Be better looking, more … | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 7 | How tf do you DM girls whithout being left on seen?Go meet women in real life | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:03 PM |
| -5 | My roommates style of game pisses me offJust an adult living in reality who believes in treating adults like adults | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:52 PM |
| -2 | My roommates style of game pisses me offMy roommates style of game pisses me off Not your problem... Every time he brings a girl over, alcohol is always involved. This may surprise you, but women live for free drinks, alcohol or other drugs from men. Nobody is forcing them to get drunk or come over. “your friend has no boundaries when it comes to married women And why is a married women going out without her husband? Surely it isn't to seek attention from men? She should be able to handle that by herself, she's not a child. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl likes your texts on Instagram,but doesn't response?What does it mean when a girl likes your texts on Instagram,but doesn't response? Literally nothing. Instagram isn't reality. If anything she's fishing for attention. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What's A Good Goal To Have For Sex?Sex is there initially, during the honeymoon phase but trails off as life gets more serious...every single time | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What's A Good Goal To Have For Sex?I would add that I hit similar numbers, but I'm a swinger and got certain demographic and physical stereotypes and attributes that help | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What's A Good Goal To Have For Sex?Get a girlfriend and you can do it every night. Lies, lies, lies! Get a GF and you'll have less sex than if you were single. Don't peddle false hope | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Do girls even try for guys?had a good amount of women approach me How many did you wind up fucking vs how many wanted free drinks, movies, time, attention, etc | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I listened to Patrice o Neal and stopped giving a fuck about the outcome | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Am I just making excuses or do I need better logistics?I'm 27 M (South Asian) 6'1 200 (fairly jacked How much do you bench and deadlift? have a specific kind of archetype they're all looking for in a guy (popular jock/thug types Typical for this age range Everytime I try interacting with girls they're usually put off by what I do (software eng) and that i'm much older It's not because you are older. It's probably not your job either. May be because you are south Indian tbh or a lack of game or excitement It seems like the population is farily cliquy… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Finding new circles/cliques is hard here, It depends on the Group. Edm clubs would be my first thought | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | For the people here who have realised that the pick up artist industry as a whole is a scam, where do you go from here? What is the key to finding a gf or getting success meeting women?You sound like you're single and never take anyone on a date Personal attacks will get you nowhere. I'm a swinger and married, so you might want to sharpen your intuition skills a bit | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 04:45 PM |
| 28 | [deleted by user]Virgins shouldn't be giving dating advice... | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 11:39 AM |
| -1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Those dudes are taking shit just like everyone else Incorrect. These were other NCAA athletes like myself whose progress was measured and tracked literally day by day. Don't project your gym bro bullshit on me and the guys i work out with. You bragging about your putting on probably mostly fat when you were in high school is just you having a growth spurt during puberty. I maybe grew an inch. I was over 6 feet at like 12. Was all that fat I put on helping my bench increase from 225 to 300 pounds… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 06:07 AM |
| -1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Lmao putting 30 pounds when you are in high school is different to putting on muscle in your 20s and already past puberty Dude, it isn't like you are 40. I've seen plenty of dudes absolutely explode when I played college football in one summer of lifting. Many folks are still hitting their athletic potential at that age. Maybe less excuse making and more lifting? If you can put on 30 pounds easily why don't you just go and become an olympia champion Because it's way, way more complex than that e… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 05:46 AM |
| 16 | How do I quit wasting my youth?No offence dude but approaching anyone in the street in big cities within the U.K I can confirm. Folks in the UK are generally a bit stuck up if they don't know you, so I can only imagine how fun dating would be or cold approaching. Sure other things may be excuses, but this is a fact - U.K. is fucking shit in comparison to other countries Can confirm here as well. . I really do wish it was like in the states where you can approach anywhere any time and have a chance of succeeding, but here it j… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 05:36 AM |
| -2 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Naturally right? No biggie just put on 30 pounds of muscle in 6 months. Ideally naturally. At your age it shouldn't be hard, like at all if you are eating right, sleeping right, and training with intensity. I did it two years in a row playing American football in high school, bench went from 225 pounds to be 360 in two off seasons and I think I really only had about 4-5 months, so yeah 6 months is pretty generous if you are actually training hard. Most people train like garbage and get garbage r… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I’m 21, already graduated so it’s already more difficult to meet new people and girls, on top of all that, I’m in the U.K. (if you know, you know). Go to mainland Europe. 9% body fat, muscles are on the lower end but they’re developing Put on 30 pounds of muscle over the winter and be amazed next spring. I just can’t and don’t know how to put myself out there in this culture where you need to have friends who are extroverted you get you to meet their friends and the cycle moves on. Nah, you just… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 04:47 AM |
| 2 | How to reply to this shit testSimp?? Hahaha one of my boys does this on the regular and the girls reply him and I’ve literally seen them come to his job to meet him…. Simping is as simping does. Just because girls come to his job doesn't mean for most of us that it wouldn't be an improper and wasteful use of our time. If you are good looking enough, you could be a serial killer (Ted Bundy) or leader of a murderous cult (Charles Manson) and women would chase you. Contrary to most of the bullshit peddled here, looks for men ma… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Would you continue to seduce and go on dates with a girl that’s somewhat physically attractive but you’re not into at all mentally just for the sex?Would you continue to seduce and go on dates with a girl that’s somewhat physically attractive but you’re not into at all mentally just for the sex? Men go on dates for sex. That's kinda the point of this exercise. What else are you hoping to get out of this 9 Was shy the whole night and stuck by her mummy’s side; Easy no here. This isn't high school. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | For the people here who have realised that the pick up artist industry as a whole is a scam, where do you go from here? What is the key to finding a gf or getting success meeting women?You wouldn't believe how many women 20-30 have never even been on a real date cause guys nowadays are all about Netflix-and chill. That's their own fault for chasing the top 20% of men. Those guys have no reason to do anything but Netflix and chill and men must guard their time and resources, lest the be wasted by a tinderella looking for a foodie call. Absolutely never do dinner on a first date. Just find a woman to be nice to. Women hate nice guys. Horrible advice. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What to do if women don't even seem interested to begin with? [25M virgin Go lift and learn game. But mostly lift. I observe next to none of this in real life. Then you aren't attractive, go build muscle. I have a roommate who's conventionally attractive This has been the key since the dawn of civilization What do I do? Something about me is obviously off, and I can't figure out what Problem is no muscles. doing literally everything in my favor to get laid - I I didn't see lifting weights and in… | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to this shit testI assume you meant to say "isn't actually into you". If so, then yeah 100%. Essentially yes. You could be seeking a women who may like you vs one who absolutely does not | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 8 | How to reply to this shit testYeah I think it's a lost cause, but you do have nothing to lose if you do want to keep trying Except time, self respect, mental energy, opportunity cost of seeking a women who is actually into you. Value your time gents, it's the most important thing you have | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 24 | How to reply to this shit testMeeting people in real life. Not being a lazyass and exploring other social circles | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Slept with a girl, and invited her out but she flaked in the week - should I pursue or leave it to her? Any girl that flakes on you isn't interested, pure and simple. Delete, block and move on . Don't waste your time chasing but found out she’s never had a boyfriend so I’m starting to presume she was just nervous as she was mega keen She's never had a BF because she's too busy hooking up and playing the field. She's not keen, she's just a party girl | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 2 | General Advice for a 19M?Everything in my life is going great, except for the females It's tough for almost all guys at that age. I was a NCAA football player going to a tier 1 university and struggled like hell with women at that age. I live at home and commute to college twice a week so getting girls on campus is harder for me given my lack of time there. Living at home is the impediment here. My friends do not have girlfriends either for the most part but at 19 Again, hence the struggle for most males around your age… | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:55 PM |
| -1 | Looking for a Dating/PUA coach in Kuala Lumpur MalaysiaLooking for a Dating/PUA coach in Kuala Lumpur Malaysia They are all at the gym lifting weights | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 13 | How to reply to this shit testSimping ain't easy | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 26 | How to reply to this shit testDMing women on IG is just stupid. It's worse than cold approaching, it's worse than dating apps....it's borderline spam. You are chasing lottery type outcomes and it isn't a productive use of your time and women get loads of random men hitting them up on IG all the time, so why would she bother with you? It puts you in a simp/beta role | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?What did I do wrong? Approaching random people will lead to random outcomes. She was never into you, she just enjoyed the new toy she got to play with and moved on | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:12 PM |
| 65 | How to reply to this shit testI DMed a girl on IG and this is what she replied to my pickup line This is a fail from jumpstreet Whats the best reply to her message ? Dude she's not into you. Stop being a simp and DMing rand girls on IG. Go live life and meet people in reality | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:34 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I explicitly tell folks I'm going to have a sex party before they come back. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 02:19 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]and occasionally slipping off to the bathroom for other Hollywood things He's the guy with the Hollywood things.... I’m still entertaining the damn friend. Sounds like you pulled wingman duty. I always tell folks coming back the deal and that I have sex parties after the club. There's no surprises and girls know they aren't just going to get free intoxicating stuff by hanging around me. Maybe I’m too respectful? Probably. I’ve literally heard my friends score by just saying exactly what they wan… | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Do girls even try for guys?I’ve raised that point many times and she’s completely ok with it. Lol she's "ok" with is now because she has hope for the future...many women seem to hear these warnings, but they just don't believe it because it hasn't happened to them yet. The delusion is strong with your friend unfortunately. Women get baby rabies at a certain point, but whatever, some folks just have to serve as a warning to others ... | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Go into monk mode, hit the gym, and focus on yourself | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Do girls even try for guys?know a girl that has a 6’5 minimum height and she’s not joking Lol she's going to be single for a while and I mean like age 40 if not forever and she deserves it. Gotta ask, how tall is she chasing the top 1% of men in height | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Do girls even try for guys?This. Unless it's Chad thundercock, the women are pretty ambivalent about the whole thing. A too 20% guy? Maybe | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???If she is actually interested, but she's not showing interest, and puts her friends up to it's that's confusing, immature, and just not good human behavior | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelIf it was that black and white So you have 8% bodyfat and weigh over 200 pounds? | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 08:28 PM |
| -1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelThere isn't one size fits all solution in dating Yes there is. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. While doing sports and putting efforts into the gym is definitely worth trying out It is a necessary and required element. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.They are asking for advice, that's why | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.I should probably check those out then if women there are easier to crack. No. If it's not your scene, don't go. I can go, enjoy the environment and all without chasing women . I love the music and the people, women are just a bonus. My hottest lays were from cold approach Just because it works sometimes doesn't mean it's a reliable thing. Out of how many approaches do you actually fuck? It sounds like you have your way and your thing. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.Oh so through social circles. You probably know a lot of people already which is why it would work for you Not really. I'm not that outgoing either. Some social circles work better for me than others though, and I know what those are. Plus people that go to these events are generally more open-minded and fun people. Cold approaching isn't going to increase your social circle and is like trying to hit the lottery. Why did you only go to one sex party? | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.It's not a purely cold approach...we already know we have similar interests and I can tell which crowd they run in. These people aren't total strangers, we have friends in common, or at sex parties it's usually afterwards when I get the call back | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:22 PM |
| -7 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI think it's less about the gym not working at all and more about the gym having different effects depending on the people From what I've seen, most people don't even try and just poo poo the gym from jump street to say "steroids" and assumes everyone is juicing. Great effect for some, a bit less or others The effects are relative to the effort expended. Most people train like shit, aren't consistent and therefore get inconsistent and shitty results. It's when the gym is sold as the solution tha… | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.Sex parties, edm clubs, music festivals, | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelYes | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.You are obviously better than me. Nah man I struggled with women before...I just am more experienced, value my time and learned from my bad experiences. what do you suggest I do to get attractive women? Get your money right, go lift fucking weights....like your life depends on it. Do cardio, cut carbs. Also learn some game and social skills 1 thing is lifting | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:09 PM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]Just go fuck a fat girl | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelYou probably won't get to that level of low bodyfat or muscle development but yeah that should be a good guide | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 18 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelFine don't go. More women for me | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelA muscular one. Go lift. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelThere's always gotta be that guy...steroids aren't a magic muscle pill. You still gotta lift the weights, train with intensity, eat, sleep, and progressive overload. Stop giving bad advice | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Nah guys could legit be worried about losing their jobs, getting kicked out of school or something like that for a singular bad approach. Women can be raging assholes and suffer zero consequences | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Yes. Can't have two CEOs or two chefs in the kitchen. Someone has to lead and someone has to follow | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???so what i’m hearing is, it don’t matter what i’m like, there’s a man out there for everyone lmao Lol, no. Incorrect. If this were true, there wouldn't be legions of middle aged cat women lamenting on YouTube "where have the good men gone?" | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???honestly thought men liked confident, forward women tho?? Forward as in throw your panties in my face? Yes Confident as in you aren't going to demand all the lights in the house be turned off? Yes. Acting like a dude or better than a guy? No | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 12 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Frankly the issue with many of them is they seem to think is men find accomplished women as attractive as women find accomplished men This. They don't know how to be women. They lead with education and career and act like it matters. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Frankly all a woman needs to do is make it obvious they want us to approach and let us take it from there They gotta do a bit more than that in the metoo era... | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:24 PM |
| -14 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Fearing rejection doesn't explain why she's not showing any interest and is acting like a jackass | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.No. Clearly you've never really chased excellence or been among the best in any endeavors. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:22 PM |
| -1 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.You are engaging in low success actions which likely will lead to failure, positions yourself below her, and primarily serves to feed her ego | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the cold approach in college, especially during the day?Can you help me find one? I was in EDM nightclubs in Berlin and never even got approached there. There are music festivals all over the USA every month. Go check out edm train. I have no idea where you live or what you look like when you go out. Do you speak German? | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 46 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelGym and fitness really take things up to next level Cue all the lame dudes complaining that the gym doesn't work. Congratulations on doing the work and getting the predictable results. the difference in results with girls SKYROCKETED. Funny thing is, so many dudes will argue and debate this. I wonder if anyone else experienced something similar... I have. It's hard because most folks don't go from skinny to ripped or fat to muscular, but I've been on both sides and can confirm | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the cold approach in college, especially during the day?You probably don't dress up...and it depends on the types of party. It happens at raves all the time and edm yup parties | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the cold approach in college, especially during the day?Ok, I'm at the party. Then what If you've been lifting and doing cardio the women often come up to you. I usually just make small talk and then feel out if I want to take it further and move for meeting up later that night or maybe contact info. If she doesn't want to fuck you that night, you are wasting your time. If we aren't banging, we aren't hanging | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 04:38 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Is dating as a black guy easier? Depends on who you are dating and what part of the country you are in and YOU as a whole. Given you are on Reddit and writing in complete sentences, you are probably educated, which means black women are going to fucking hate you, so skip them entirely. Like is it easier for a black guy to get laid and get matches on dating apps and to pull in clubs This is just way too generic of a question, but rarely are women coming on to me because I'm black, and I'm a tall,… | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Is my coworker interested in me? or just being nice?Is my coworker interested in me? or just being nice? Don't fuck around at work for a job you want to keep. All that said, she's probably just using you for free attention and validation | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the cold approach in college, especially during the day?Thoughts on the cold approach in college, especially during the day? Don't waste your time. Go to the gym and lift. I’m a junior in college and rarely get girls It's because you don't lift. How is the best way to go about this? Any suggested lines or approach situations? Go to parties and social events | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:30 PM |
| -4 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.I've never gotten the whole cold approach thing This guy gets it. Cold approaching random women is a huge waste of time and energy. It just blows up women's already inflated egos and doesn't result in actual dating success for 99% of guys. I'd rather focus on chasing excellence and increasing my socio economic status, that's a much better use of my time. Do this. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing.Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing. Actual bodybuilder/NCAA football player. Wtf are you talking about? Lifting weights shouldn't be scary. If approaching the girl doesn’t scare me then I don’t approach because that means she’s someone I could easily get. Why do all these mental gymnastics and games. It's just a girl. But then she was pretty bland through text which means it would take more work to get her out on a date. No, it means she d… | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:21 PM |
| 3 | In last two years, I spent more than $25000 on hookers.Not to mention the mental health trauma, therapy etc. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I subconsciously feel like I need women Therapy, therapy, therapy. You are chasing external validation for some reason. Work is 8:30 hours of getting tortured serving dumb ass customers, it feels like hell. That's why they call it work and not partying. There is no validation, no one gives a fuck about a young man. No compliments, no one to listen, no one who cares, just be a man. This is true, but that's life in America. Nobody cares about men. Just make your money and go somewhere we are value… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 05:42 AM |
| 1 | I do not understand this girlDude she already strapped c4 to the bridge and blew it up... | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Real means forever You realize this is real life and not a simulation, fairy tale or fantasy novel, right? lot of what I’m finding right now just want to fuck around (literally) and I’m not here for that. So you are planning to have a sexless relationship forever? What guys are going to sign up for that? You do realize sex is part of a relationship, right? I’m done dating I’m here for commitment so real being forever. Commitment comes with sex and the obligation/duty to your partner sexually amo… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?What's wrong with average guys? What does "looking for real" even mean? | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How do you guys who were "late bloomers" overcome your shame about starting seduction late? I didn't feel shamed at all, but I got over whatever I was feeling by laying a lot of pipe I just feel a little ashamed that I waited so long to start having sex compared to everyone else and it affects my confidence. Who cares, go fuck enough women till you forget about it | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:50 AM |
| 28 | In last two years, I spent more than $25000 on hookers.In last two years, I spent more than $25000 on hookers. Way cheaper than divorce. Sounds like you are way ahead. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?26 female having issues getting a date when I didn’t have a problem before You just aren't trying or are chasing nba players It’s probably my own fault though Correct. So we swipe swipe swipe and don’t settle. Also correct. Typical game plan for women. They just keep chasing the seemingly infinite supply of hot guys then turn around and they are 35 with few prospects and no family. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?best sex isn't transactional, either she finds you attractive or doesn't. Don't spend money So don't buy women drinks, take them on dates or shower them with gifts? | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So if she’s interested and the guy doesn’t make any moves, like OP, she’s not interested? Side hugs and no kissing and sitting far away from someone are pretty obvious indications that she's not interested in physical contact bud | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What the fuck are you even talking about? Reality. Women waste guys time, money, and resources going out on dates just for food. Some 30% of women admitted to going on "foodie calls". Going on a date with a guy is a sign of interest. Yeah bud you keep telling yourself that. If she were interested you'd be having sex. Inviting a guy over is a sign of interest. Not if no sex occurs. Going over to the guys place is a sign of interest Not if no sex occurs | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?I agree with most of what you said other than sex being a turn on for most prostitutes No, no you misread that or I wasn't clear. They could care less about the sex, they are turned on by the money or getting paid for sex. This is why I reject the idea that making them cum has any relevancy to the transaction. The guy doesn't really need or want to do that, nor does she care about it | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?It's not because of women in the work force, it's because the average worker has no power over his own life It absolutely is. The more women work, the fewer get married, since they don't have to rely on men for income. It's played out continually all over the world in every country. Pay has stalled too, but that's for mostly entry level jobs | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 8 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?How could the sex be better when the person is being paid to pretend to enjoy it? The same way as it is with porn stars, they are skilled professionals. If you want to see someone pretending, just get a regular girl who is a starfish in bed. For these guys, just having sex with a hot girl is a starter and for many of the women getting paid for sex is a turn on. It validates them and their perceived worth. Fucking for free to them is a problem. Do you just not enjoy having to make a woman cum? I … | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?But why is that shameful? It's true. So it's shameful when you see dudes below you in money, status, height, or whatever doing very well with women and you can't get a single one to give you the time of day. As a personal example, when I saw women flocking towards loser dudes that had no future and were selling drugs in HS, I couldn't really figure it out. I didn't have the money to pay for sex back then, so my only option was to try harder with women. Throw in some nuclear rejections by women, … | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Need help, don’t know what to doNeed help, don’t know what to do Maybe you should block her and move on with people who don't play stupid games? I just want her to be friends with me again Dude get a puppy or find another girl. Don't be a simp like this | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Roommate doesn’t like when I approach womenRoommate doesn’t like when I approach women Unless he's lining pussy up for you, I'd tell him to fuck off or just not go out with him anymore. Dude has been watching too many Gillette commercials Should I be waiting for signals or keep doing me? Do you and find someone new to hang out with | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Texting is for logistics only...give it a break to she gets back | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Internet, video games, Russification of men because of the media and feminism, endless list.. There was the internet before 2018...same for video games...feminism has been around before 2018, like more than 100 years prior. The only major social trend that changed was online dating. Online dating has made it easier for men.. they no longer have to meet girls in real life. The match rate for men on tinder is less than 1% and that doesn't seem "easier' to me. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?There's posts on here almost every single day about guys that are good looking, work out, have muscles, and still struggle with girls and are virgins I haven't seen that or see that borne out in reality. Even OP of this thread says he's been going to the gym for years.. He's probably not lifting and eating correctly then. Going to the gym makes you look better, doesn't get girls into your bed. Again, that's not been my experience... | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:16 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Lol I didn't buy her anything, she invited me over cause her neighbours were being sketch. I was her security Again, she's using you for security, time, resources, and entertainment. She asked you to invest your time and you didn't fuck her. . But I got to get her up and cuddle her. She put my hand on her tit! What are you, 12? I can feel a tit at the strip club. And she has a kid.. So she's fucking other guys, just not you. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Disagree, it's actually made it a lot easier.. It made it easier for attractive men who didn't need help and women only. Can you explain why male sexlessness is up 300% from 2008 to 2018 otherwise? Now men also have online dating.. Except online dating is made for the success of women, not men. It makes it easier for the average guy to get girls.. What are you drinking and can I have some? If this is true, why is male sexlessness up 300%? | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/ University study comparing 2008 vs 2018... | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?And still be a virgin.. this crap advice What's crap about it? Do you deny women like fit men? Have you tried it, benched 400+ and women still don't like you? The only way to get girls, is to go talk to girls. Silly rabbit, with abs and veins the women come talk to you. hour at the gym, 1 hour commuting and getting ready, that's 2 hours a day, 5 days a week, that's 10 hours a week.. Find a closer gym and you are leaving out cardio and me prep, so it's probably closer to 2 hours a day min. Nobody… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Canadian women should be better | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Why is the “height requirement” such a common/widespread preference?I agree with all that but there are sooooo many fat women now, it's absurd. A women with a normal weight is considered exceotional | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 08:01 PM |
| 13 | Why is the “height requirement” such a common/widespread preference?Why is the “height requirement” such a common/widespread preference? Because online dating. Women had to previously focus on the men in their immediate city, school, or whatever. With online dating and social media they have access to men they never would have been able to even talk to...plus women think they are all entitled to date all the top tier men I can’t seem to think of a similar ubiquitous preference on the guy’s side Don't be fat. It's just not talked about because men with a preferen… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Watch Kevin Samuels content, you'll RUN | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?My hangup on that is the fact that sex workers give you the best odds of contracting a sexually Transmitted Disease in comparison to Jane Doe. Lol, not really. Most sex workers get tested regularly and if you play safe it's really not a concern. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Black, nerdy, women are mostly unreceptive to me on dating apps and IRL In guessing you are fielding most requests from black women. I'm a 6-3 black guy and dude you have to cut black women out completely. Go date women of all other races and you'll find a more receptive crowd. Never waste your time with black women. still live with my parents unfortunately This is completely unacceptable. You gotta get your money right and get out of the house. You aren't focused and are trying to do too much w… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | If she keeps cancelling plans but reassuring in ft and text she wants to hang what time do?This. If she were interested she would find a way to meet | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]even if the girl is considerably younger, it feels like she's had way more experience than me in basically almost all fields that involve social interaction That's because they probably do. Most women have been getting hit on since they were like 14, so easily a decade of social experience | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?What makes you say regarding the UK sucking ass? In general the women seemed way too rigid, stuck up, formal, etc...by comparison in Germany I regularly fuck women I can't even talk to at swingers club as no common language. In Barcelona I was fingering a Spanish only girl on marbella Beach like 5 minutes after meeting her and they waived us down. Having traveled to many places around the world I would t want to return to the UK, ever. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Stating the truth isn't an attack | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 13 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Why is hiring an escort (WHERE LEGAL) a shame at all It's unshakable confirmation that you can't get a women's interest in the traditional ways in regular circles. Some guys feel better about paying $200 for dinner, drinks and a movie for the hopes of having sex with an average women as opposed to a straight $200 fee for service for a hot, talented women. I would add legal or not I don't see any shame in it. It's just sex | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Haha with a mindset like this I’m sure you’re not in the top 20% Personal attacks will get you nowhere. I'm just acknowledging reality. I'm actually in the top 1% in multiple areas. Quality men do pass lazy women over hence the high levels of disappointment they face now | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Missed opportunity to get a gfDude you are in HS none of this shit matters | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I do not understand this girlHave you ever had sex with her? If not marrying isn't even a consideration | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | I do not understand this girlMy question is she interested in me Obviously not. I know 1 things she love my company You are her male girlfriend. Girls love beta males and guys who waste their time entertaining women. Nothing new here. If you aren't having sex, she's not interested. Do i continue or just next her ? Absolutely not. Value your time. Block, delete, and move on. Never talk to her again in any capacity | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:56 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]How to change mindset? Go to Belize or the Dominican republic and experience abundance I feel like everyone else seems to understand sex and dating, except for me This isn't true at all. Men arent having sex at record numbers. A third of guys had zero sex in 2018. I find hard to see anything changing for me, or seeing myself having sex or being in a relationship. Go to the gym and lift like your sex life depends on it, because it does. I'd also read books and watch videos on dating | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She wouldn’t keep meeting you and prolonging the dates if she didn’t like you in some way. Yes she absolutely would. It's called the friend zone | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]she was clearly enjoying herself Bad assumption. She was just enjoying the free drinks and attention. She never had any intention of sleeping with you or taking it further. When I walked her to her car, she quickly said bye and did a side hug, making it virtually impossible to have any sort of intimacy/kiss to end the night. Exhibit A for why she wasn't actually enjoying herself and you should have completely cut her off there. She was just leading you on and you fell for it I wanted to do somet… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Bro women put in the work and read books too Women need to literally do nothing except not be morbidly obese. . Dating isn’t easy for women as most men who message us aren’t looking for something serious No guys are going to just marry a stranger. If men are constantly leaving you, it's a you problem, not them. Finding your forever person is just as hard for women as it is for men. No, this is complete bullshit. It's hard for women because they make it hard and are all competing for the top 20% … | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?This is not about baseball though. It's called a metaphor.... | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I went on a date with the hottest girl I've gotten a date with from Tinder a week ago Translation...she used you for free food and entertainment. That's no accomplishment | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Most good advice is well known and simple, but it may not be easy or what people want to hear and so many people are seeking to justify their own laziness or bad behavior | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 38 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?I’d imagine hiring a prostitute is much cheaper for the same end goal. Way cheaper, 100% chance of success, better sex, and overall better experience | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:40 PM |
| 14 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Think baseball. The more you swing the bat the better Clearly you never played baseball. It's about waiting for the right pitch and managing the count in real life that would be managing your time and energy. Putting yourself in the right situation. If you swing at everything you just strike out or get behind on the count | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:38 PM |
| -12 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?This is horrible advice. Approaching everything just means you are a desperate low value male. I understand over coming approach anxiety but this shit just inflates women's egos especially in Vegas. You can make human connections without being a simp | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?How does one get into the swinger scene? Asking for friends It's ok to ask for yourself. One thing about swingers is they are super genuine and honest generally. Nobody gives a shit about your job, what car you drive, what zip code you live in or who your friends are. It's all about are you a cool person and can you fuck. I'd check out fetlife for parties in your area. Having a big dick and being fit are helpful as well so see point #1 about weights | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 14 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?This isn't a US thing only I am literally the Swedish version Absolutely correct. marriage and birth rates are declining in most western countries with the growth of certain egalitarian ideals and women in the work force among other cultural/political shifts. Mix in online dating and all sexual activity shifts to the top 10% of men. I wouldn't knock an escort experience so quickly. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Again, I'm not masculine You can't make that determination objectively...same for determining you have a great personality, especially by your career. I do know many women in successful ENM relationships. They just aren't masculine women. The masculine women struggle like hell. If you aren't succeeding, you might want to objectively seek to figure that out | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If it wasn't a prize, then why do I have men chasing me? Because that's the social convention and you are attractive....but there are tons of attractive women out there. You aren't special. Every women has a vagina and many are willing to use it. It's not a relationship if I'm meeting them for a first time. That's a one night stand. It's only a one night stand if they don't come back. I already have a husband and we fuck regularly. This is for a secondary partner. We are ethically non monogamous… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Ah the UK sucks ass as far as dating. I'd try mainland Europe. You said to lose your virginity, not get to know a women...but the traditional approach is dead | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:38 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You are a fool if you are a male using dating apps. It's a trap and you should have learned to stop using them given the abject failure most men have. You deserve all the misfortune you get until you figure this out. It's called negative reinforcement | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:36 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]How do you guys not get bitter towards women? I go to other countries, states, or social circles. I also got into swinging when I was like 23 and never looked back to the traditional dating scene....fuck that...actually I did look back and laughed my ass off... I also worked hard at my career, made money, and worked hard at my fitness and I'm attractive to a wide selection of women. How the fuck do any of you enjoy dating? Are you in it just for the sex? I don't enjoy dating unless it's with com… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 35 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?This is reflective of the increasing sexlessness for men. Online dating ruined dating in the USA along with a few other social factors. 30% of men didn't have sex in 2018 and male virginity is on the rise. You aren't alone | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:31 PM |
| 8 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity? Go hit the gym and build muscle...should have good results in 6-9 months or find a gangbang event on a swinger site. I would also consider traveling to Belize or the Dominican republic. It's super easy to get sex in most places not the USA | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexJust reaching for the bare minimum shouldn’t be the goal. Clearly you have no concept how crappy dating is for men right now | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexMost guys aren't having regular sex, thanks to online dating so how would they ever learn any of this? A third of men didn't have sex in 2018 | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:24 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Why do they need to power over me? Human nature. That's not what I want. Believe it or not, everything isn't about you... especially in a relationship. You aren't a queen or any form of royalty and queens are MADE when a king selects them. She is elevated by the king choosing her. There's no ruling together, either. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]My personality is fine, I'm very successful at work thank you. Your work isn't reflective of your personality. Nobody wants to date you because you nailed a project at work or hit a sales goal. Have you ever considered that If your personality were as good as you thought it was, men wouldn't be avoiding you and you would have some success with dating? | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Because my pussy is to be earned and one conversation doesn't warrant that. Oh dear god, not this "my vagina is a prize" shit. Your pussy isn't special and sex is a necessary and required element of a relationship. There are literally tons of hot girls out there who are willing to be feminine and have sex, especially with attractive and socially dominant men. You guys are having sex together. Your pussy isn't something you are giving him. This attitude is going to lead to a horrible sex life, as… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:16 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]It's your personality...all the makeup in the world can't cover up the masculine frame | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:12 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]accept the submissive beta males who will appreciate what you have. Or buy a dog and die alone. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:11 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Dominant men know, for a fact, you couldn’t over power them It's not just a physical thing. It's also social dominance, career, money, etc...these guys KNOW they are in a dominant position in life, they have their choice of women, so as you state, these men aren't about to have an argument every time or essentially submit to her when they don't have to. Only submissive men would | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:07 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]but in order to take his advice you need to throw away your ego I agree....but OP is getting a cold dose of reality that what she's doing isn't working and that's the first step to living in reality and losing her ego | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't sleep with them if I plan on following up. Why not? This makes no sense to me | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It's getting the date in afterwards that I struggle with. I'll reach out, start texting, and then it dies. It's simple. The sex wasn't that good and the guys have other, better options available so they move on. Dominant men are universally attractive | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 12:41 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]men ask girls on dates to show interest Incorrect. men ask women on dates with the hopes it ends with sex. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]and was going to a concert later with this guy so needed to get home She definitely friend zoned you. Cut bait and move on. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]So much truth here! | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I'm looking for a co-dominant in an egalitarian relationship, not a D/s power exchange. This shit doesn't exist. Go watch some Kevin Samuels videos before you waste your youth | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | In bed seductionWhat are sure ways to please a man sexually ? Like to totally drive him crazy . It depends on the guy and what he's into. This is way too vague. Generally speaking be sexually available, do whatever he wants, don't be fat, and watch porn | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I think that a great rule of thumb is "is the guy willing/ready to spend time/and or money on you? If yes, he's interested. Terrible advice. I'm not interested unless I know we are sexually compatible. I'm not spending too much time or money on anyone who wants to hold back on sex as a prize. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Guides for women are so easy....be sexually available, don't be fat, be kind and have a nice attitude. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexSo this post isnt inherently wrong, but it puts all the responsibility for sex and sexual pleasure on the guy. It's hilarious when women give dating advice to men, as well. The advice give is way too generic and women vary greatly I'm what they respond to. Some like oral, some don't. Some like fingers, some don't. Instead of giving men advice, maybe offer something to women on how they can be better at sex, be more sexual and be willing participants in the action. Nothing is mentioned about how … | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Understanding Infinite Abundance Of WomenFor some reason, I have trouble internalizing the fact that there is always another girl out there. It's not a concept to understand, it's observable reality you need to see/experience. Go to Thailand, Belize, Brazil, or somewhere like that and you understand. Currently simping for a girl and could use some perspective. 1 thing to do is stop doing this. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?She shot her shot first So what? She's a train wreck and you knew it going in...what's wrong with you? Are you so desperate that you are going to toss all logic and reason aside because ONE hot girl said something nice to you? shes hot, what guy in my position would say no to that? Smart guys on mission in life who aren't desperate and sex deprived and have some level of discipline. I'm just tryna tap and pass Again, have some discipline and standards for yourself. Find other avenues to have sex… | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?She is a known flaker as us coworkers have made plans with sometimes her being the one who came up with the idea only to flake Two things here. Why would YOU engage with a known flaker and especially someone you work with? It only invites hard feelings at work and maybe a trip to HR for you. Don't date coworkers and don't be so desperate to date known flakers. But i told her i was taking her out Saturday (today) and she agreed to it Next time setup a meeting at a social event so if someone flake… | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 05:53 PM |
| 6 | How To Become More Physically AttractiveWorking Out Working out isn't necessary but it never hurts to be in decent shape Fail. This is the #1 most important and controllable thing you can do. LIFT WEIGHTS. There's no way around it, no excuse, nothing. Go lift and quit complaining. You can shave your head, walk around in a speedo and if you are muscular and lean women will be lining up | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I seduce a man if I am too shyHow do I seduce a man? I am so shy that I am "selectively mute". Since when did seduction have anything to do with talking? I've had some of the best sex ever with women I can't say a word to as we don't share a common language in swinger clubs overseas. If you think you have autism you can work on that with therapy, but your best bet would be to throw your panties in his face. I'm sure most men will get the idea. So suggestions for smiling at them or winking or twirling my hair or things that g… | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]She sent me a really sexy pic today even tho she got a bf. It's called a thirst trap. Don't fall into it. She just wants to use you for attention I think she wants me to be her boyfriend Nah, she wants you to be her male girlfriend | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 02:17 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]How should I approach it? I would nope the hell out of that. Sounds like she just wants to score some free drugs | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?Because women have advantages from say 16-29 or so as they can date older men with ease and this is the hottest most women will be. As women get older the pool of available men shrinks as men get married, get established in life and a career and gain more resources while there's also increasing competition from younger women. Men from like 18-70 all prefer women around age 22-24 or so. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it even worth it to try to get a girlfriend as a 30+ year old virgin!?Why assume that I'm a lazy ass? I've been in shape since 2011. I seriously doubt what you think "in shape" is on par with my definition of it. I played NCAA football and almost made it to the NFL. How visible are your abs? Can you run a mile under 7 minutes? Bench press over 150 kilos? Here's the thing, if you were actually in shape with decent muscles and low body fat you wouldn't have any trouble meeting women. You have trouble and therefore are by definition not in shape. And the van scrubbin… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Is it even worth it to try to get a girlfriend as a 30+ year old virgin!?Is it even worth it to try to get a girlfriend as a 30+ year old virgin!? Sure. Most men's dating options open up at 30+. Your issues aren't your age or your virginity status. was at work for a vehicle valeting service, scrubbing the floor of a van and thought "holy crap, all my life I've never so much as held hands with a member of the female gender" and yet, I'm attracted to them The scrubbing the floor of a van at a valet service is your problem, not your age, not your day game abilities. I d… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?Hence why by 30, men start getting an influx of older and younger women Boom! At this age you can play both sides of the coin | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 0 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?Yeah in college and not having any success That's the way it goes for most guys unfortunately... especially now with online dating. Younger girls have a nearly unlimited supply of guys given online dating, social media, sugar baby sites, etc and they are all trying to explore all their options... In the past folks were generally limited to the people at their school so they had to make a decision earlier in life...don't worry when you get 30-40 or so it will permanently flip in your favor | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 11 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?Total rubbish. Why? Do you believe that crap about SMV? Why is SMV a crap idea? Do you think 300 pound women are going to get the same level of attention as 110 pound fitness models? You think some 21 year old girl is gonna fancy a 40 year old man As a 40 year old guy I can testify it's working quite well for me and I'm not the only one. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 07:22 AM |
| 12 | What are the peak dating/HU years for a man?But to answer the question, approx 30-50 | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:00 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Exactly this. She wanted to use the guy for some temporary fun, got that and moved on | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important!I think the top 15-20% of men are having crazy sex. Not the top 1% of men. I do run with a lot of swingers and such so that may be clouding my view of what is normal | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important!I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! I seriously doubt this in any way. I don't see anything here about being a 1%er As of two days ago, catalysed by a sexual experience, I think I'm finally able to class myself well into "top 1%" of men What quantifiable metrics put you in the top 5% of anything 9 But I do train pretty hard, and I'm about 85kg right now at an honest 16-20% bodyfat. ( This right here tells me you have no self awareness abili… | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Bottom line, what's the difference between Girls vs Guys on Tinder? Tinder is designed for women to have options, not so for men. If he's a very attractive man, he can do well on tinder, but if and only if he's extremely attractive, as in like a model. The "secret" is looking good. guys are looking for beautiful faces That's not what guys are looking for on tinder. That's what women are looking for... Stop complaining about how OLD is BS I agree on not complaining, but OLD is BS. that you never … | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 09:20 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a partner that rejects my advances?How to deal with a partner that rejects my advances? I think part of the issue is that you don't communicate well. Words have meanings and it's important to use words correctly When my significant other rejects my sexual advances If your SO is rejecting you sexually, they probably don't find you attractive and it's time to move on and find someone who does. or shows any sign of disinterest (not laughing at my jokes, not making time for me), This is a different story. Not laughing at a joke isn't… | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or do women evaluate what you are now, not so much your potentialIt doesn't seem like women are either good at evaluating potential or rather don't care to do so. Correct. It's all about what you have now. Forward planning isn't a common trait. Given you have some level of seduction skill. Not everyone has this skill or has developed it A dude can get exhausted mining the ore with his mediocre equipment, but have better time-reward ratio with his more efficient equipment If you don't know how to drill using basic equipment, why would it be better using indust… | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women?Do you mean like social events and stuff? | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 12:52 AM |
| 6 | How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward?Why do people assume everything is transactional Because she's asking him to take her out and not paying. It's not transactional, it's completely 1 sided. If she's broke, she needs to go get a job and not spend other guys money going out constantly. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward?We haven’t had sex since March and she doesn’t want a relationship because she is busy with school even though we do kiss and touch each other and she facetimes me everyday. Why would you even take someone like this out? I don’t know if she is taking advantage of especially since she never wants to come over my apartment or go over her apartment She is absolutely taking advantage of you and wasting your time. No sex for 6+ months and you pay for all the dates? Hell no. Google the "friend zone" S… | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Do small women even like small guys?Why would you want to date someone who considers height in who they date? That's a consideration for most women dude | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you not feel a lack of self-worth when it comes to women?That's 3-400% more than the average guy, which is less than 1% according to stats | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this behaviour?She just wants to be taken out on a date but she isn't into this guy | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 02:26 AM |
| 61 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.I'd bet dollars to donuts she's lying her rear end off. She was just never approached by the guys she wanted to approach her. She's just seeking validation and attention with these sorts of statements | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 11:34 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Social conditioning has led to men not approaching women as much fyi | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This. Lee priest is only 5-4 but had women | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 08:00 PM |
| -1 | How do you not feel a lack of self-worth when it comes to women?Online dating only works for men that are extremely good looking or don't value their time. Average guy gets one like a day | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:41 PM |
| 4 | How do you not feel a lack of self-worth when it comes to women?Horrible advice. Online dating isn't made for male success | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Guys: what are keys to a great first date for you?I agree with this. Dating comes after you know she's actually into you and isn't using you for free food, validation, or whatever. Coffee meetup, walk in the park, never, ever dinner. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This. If you are attractive to get, you can say literally anything...it just doesn't matter...you could say "hi, I'm a child molester and she would go home with you"....do recall Charles Manson and Ted Bundy hand MANY female followers | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Help me respond to this textIf you haven't had sex with her, she's just weighing her better options. Don't waste your time. Just find been someone else | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a crowd?How to approach a girl in a crowd? Don't. If anything walk past the girl you like, say hey whateverhernameis and keep moving | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Seduction vs Escorts?A few of the peoples’ goal on this sub is to sleep with as many girls as they can Not sure there's a competition out there, but I would be happy with good, regular sex... Isn’t it better, cheaper and more time efficient to go with escorts over seducing random girls? Of course it is, especially in other countries Considering the amount of time spent in a nightclub, I could easily hire easily two escorts I like clubs for the music and the people, the women are just a nice bonus...but you do you Wh… | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 04:24 AM |
| -2 | How I get guys to approach me and stay interestedHow I get guys to approach me and stay interested I love how you don't actually do anything... Yes it’s uncomfortable, but that’s how you project interest Smiling isn't uncomfortable and it isn't how you project interest. You walk up to them and say hi. What you describe is what 12 year olds do. but that would scare guys off Lol no guys are ever scared of you. touch their back when letting them know, to create arousal That's not the part of men to create arousal... I don’t kiss or do anything se… | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 4 | For guys, what's one dating advice that never worked for you?Patrice o Neal! | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 7 | For guys, what's one dating advice that never worked for you?Following on to this..."just be yourself" | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Trust issues from being a playerBe a swinger, screw monogamy | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?Edit: I already go to the fucking gym so stop it with that pointless platitude. It's not pointless, and it's not a platitude. How much do you bench? Do realize the point isn't just going but actually doing something while you are there. For anyone who isn’t aware, statistically Asian men in America have to make $250,000 more annually to be seen as equally attractive as their white counterparts. I don't know of any country where asian men are desired outside of Asian countries....maybe somewhere … | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 05:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys get over the fear of getting a hookup pregnant?I always wear a condom no exceptions, and I’ll probably pull out as well as a second line of defence Condoms work. You should look at the stats and relax. Beyond that it's an anxiety issue. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 0 | The jealousy syndromeGo to the gym and get your money right | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionYou are a fool if you are using tinder. Stop being lazy and go out and live life. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 03:23 PM |
| 11 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionI've had boatloads of fun in Europe. I'm sure it can depend on what part....I'd take Spain or Germany over the UK personally, but generally the women are in shape, sexy and open sexually vs the USA | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I quitAfter 3 months of near-daily and consistent work over the summer, I have come back with very few results. That's because you wasted your time chasing girls vs working out. Should have spent 1-3 hours lifting and doing cardio and the women come to you So after that last date, I decided that I “quit”, and that maybe there really was something fundamentally flawed with me. It's all about muscles, money, and game although not in that order. Where and what kind of women you seek matter as well | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 10:04 AM |
| 35 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionYou are experiencing abundance that most American men experience in countries other than the USA....there's a lesson here my friend | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 09:58 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You can't decide for him if it was good or not and most guys won't give you an honest answer to that. Judge people based on their actions. If it was so awesome he would be back. Both you guys sound inexperienced | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Field report first time approach 10 women.Unsuccessful with only two dates on dating apps for the past two years. Don't use dating apps. Was out today in Detroit MI at a jazz bar and saw a group of girls. Double fail. Detroit native here. I would never approach Detroit women, not would I approach women in a jazz bar of all places. That's the absolute worst place to meet women. I thought it would be only three or four but it was ten girls. Almost decided to walk back You should have turned around and walked away. Never approach a group o… | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Fast forward a few weeks and he wants to meet up for a hot “quickie” Well...he did say it was a quickie....:) Although he would entertain my sexts after that, he became more passive and muchhh less obsessed w seeing me and seemingly excited as he was before. Hard truth most likely is he thought the fantasy of sex was better than the actual sex. Having to wait a year plus and then finding out the sex is mediocre would cause most guys to lose interest. It made me feel a little insecure as we were … | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Ignored by every girl, ever, on every platform, and in real life. It's making me depressed.I'm a muscular guy, look good and succeed as a swinger. I'm not unattractive | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Ignored by every girl, ever, on every platform, and in real life. It's making me depressed.I'm 6-3, I struggle like hell on dating apps as well. I meet like 1women a year....thankfully I have other avenues | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Ignored by every girl, ever, on every platform, and in real life. It's making me depressed.Ignored by every girl, ever, on every platform, and in real life. It's making me depressed. You deserve every bit of misfortune you experience for using dating apps. Stop using them. If you aren't winning in real life, explore other social circles. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you date girls who date girls?This hasn't been my experience | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you date girls who date girls?Do TRP guys date or fuck bisexual girls? I sure do I'm not into the idea. That's fine, feel free to send them all my way. Personal choice for you and all. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:02 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best city for a red pill man entrepreneur?Dallas is pretty good. I question the business/concept of you are having issues | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Steroid users, was it worth it?It wasn't so remarkable that I needed to take video and when I played we didn't have cell phones with cameras in 2000-2003. It's not remarkable at all for high school football players | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Steroid users, was it worth it?It was 60 pounds in 2 years and I was 17, but I have a bunch of college recruiting letters and my jerseys from college. The only guy stronger than me played fullback at Michigan state | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Steroid users, was it worth it?Contemplating doing a cycle myself Height, weight and big 3 lifts right now? I was benching nearly 400 at 16 in high school but I was 275 or so. I question if you are doing the basics and what training program you are on right now. If your training, Diet, and sleep are shit right now, steroids won't fix that. All I took was a weight gainer shake, on and j 5 sandwiches a day plus creatine to get up to 400 and put 60+ pounds on of gold weight in a year. That said while cutting 60 pounds of mostly … | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | How can I get my doc to prescribe trt?How can I get my doc to prescribe trt? How about you stop chasing shortcuts and go lift? Gotta have a blood test before getting prescribed T anyway | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Girl flaked, cited nervousness??Made a date with her for Friday (or today) but she cancelled the day before but said that she’s definitely down for another day She's not that into you. Save your time, money, and mental energy. Block, delete, and move on. No biggie So my issue is, like do I keep texting her and building rapport or like what Nope. Don't be that guy. This one got away, let her swim. I don’t want to keep texting No need to explain yourself. Just don't do it. Let it go son | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Is the wall a myth?But what I notice time and time again is that those women who have hit the wall don't act like it Women live in an altered state of reality from like 15 on....there's no great notice or declaration that you have hit the wall or whatever at a certain age... You'd expect them to know they're in dire straits and to give massive IOIs every time they meet a quality man like yours truly It's called entitlement, bud and they have had at least a solid decade of it before they met you They're like pullin… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Anyone ever get sick of every reasonably attractive chick being taken?LoL yeah, ok. People just want to wallow in sadness vs fixing the #1 thing they have control over | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Anyone ever get sick of every reasonably attractive chick being taken?I'm talking about the entire aesthetic package. Muscles matter a lot. Face is nice to have, I guess, and dick size matters | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Is the wall a myth?This might be a big part of it. It's a huge unspoken part of it....women may view younger guys as a fun option, but not a serious partner....it's usually older guys they are chasing and maybe 1-2 years younger. I think of it this way, a girl at 18 can date men 18 to say 40, while her 18 year old brother can only date women 17 or so to maybe 19.. At that point, especially if she is hot, she has something like 10x the dating options her brother has....BUT At 30, his can now date 18-30 AND play the… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Is height really that important?Is height really that important? No. I'm 6-3 and it has never been a panacea or really helped my dating life online or otherwise | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s fucked up how these dating apps work...What can we (men) do about this? Don't play rigged games aka get off online dating. Increase your smv | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Is the wall a myth?It's undeniable that women become less attractive once they hit 30, and specially once they hit 35. It isn't just looks... Women also don't like to date younger guys, so their dating options get cut significantly, while mens open up around 30-35 the entire dating game flips. Add in the need for women to get resources, kids, secure a dude, etc....and at the same time guys are starting to get their money and career right around the same time... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Anyone ever get sick of every reasonably attractive chick being taken?I disagree with this...women do care about looks. They absolutely come on to hung or muscular guys | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days?How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days? Easy! You go overseas or as tom lykis said, you hire a surrogate overseas, have her sign the kid over to you and then you are good. No child support, your kids can't be taken from you, and you don't have to get married and risk half your shit. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] I think my gf is cheating on meYou forgot about the call to HR because she felt uncomfortable or whatever and he gets fired...no contact is the best move | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | [UPDATE] I think my gf is cheating on meJust goes to show you, you can bend over backwards for someone, help them in ways no one else ever has, and that she will not appreciate it one bit Good, I hope you learned your lesson. Nice guys finish last. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeAll men have the desire to punch the shit out of someone sometimes, does that mean we jump into all the fights we can? Men regularly face consequences for their actions, not so much with women... If she can't control her sexuality that indicates impulsiveness, egoism, naivety, and a bunch of other qualities which, at least I consider, as low value in a woman (especially LTR She did control her sexuality and do what she wanted to do. Women say same things about men with options and abundance who … | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women can’t expect loyalty from a man they refuse to have sex withWomen can't expect loyalty from a man they refuse to have sex with Agreed. But I'd she isn't fucking you, she doesn't like you, period. For the second time in my life, I have been in a LTR that the bitch uses sex as a negotiation tactic How old are you? This is basic girl game 101. They find out men love sex, but think their vagina is special. It's my fault for allowing it to happen Correct But anyway, these bitches want commitment and as soon as I give it to them all the power is in their hands… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeShit, they don't event have to be cute...I've been to sex parties where bbws and I mean really, really large women were getting gangbanged | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 01:51 PM |
| 15 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeGirls like this dont have mmf threesomes Clearly you didn't read the rational male...all women are like that. For the right guys that give them the tingles, they will do anything | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?But then.... she says some dumb shit like “ALL COPS ARE BAD” “BLACK LIVES MATTER” or my favorite “I so so so sorry that you have to live in a world fearing for your life daily I wouldn't get hung up on it, they are probably pandering to you because they like you. Or do you call stupid shit out like this? I wouldn't. The people are trying to be nice in the only way they know how. I would just say as a badass you don't worry about such stuff, smile and talk about something else. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:46 AM |
| 13 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeDP can be a lot to handle...she wanted to feel used and got what she wanted. Don't believe the hype... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:38 AM |
| 19 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeShe claims to regret it and have no enjoy it. That's a lie she is saying to make you feel better Shes very submissive, cooks and cleans, sex whenever I want, very loyal and honest, basically everything I've ever wanted in a girl. All these are good traits...I wouldn't dump someone over a 3 sum if she's treating you right | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Dick ruining sex life.Not a joke post, my dick has been consistently too big for me to have sex with girls I'm calling shenanigans...I'm a hung swinger and rarely have been declined by women... although I primarily go to women who want bbc, so there's that. I am 7" x 5.7" and it is seriously depressing that I cannot have anything resembling a normal sex life. Find women who like above average dicks...size queens are out there | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:36 AM |
| 0 | I have no desire to date/marry a woman and want to smash escorts for the rest of my life. Is there anything wrong with that?Good luck not having a non-curable disease by 50. Let's not fear monger here...if you wear condoms you should be fine. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Protecting yourselfI would add to audio record first encounters and always send a thank you text or something nice the next day... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:32 AM |
| 0 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWGood to know, I'll go get paid | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOW10+ is rare but very possible, just like 7 foot tall men. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 12:31 PM |
| 0 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWI suspect the fact woman love you for you size and you do porn and swinging shows you probably don't have much else to offer beyond physicality I fail to see how you connect the two? Porn and swinging = nothing else to offer? Quite a leap in logic there, but please elaborate I can't be a good guy and good at sex? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:08 AM |
| 0 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWYou sure you don't have a micro? LoL yeah I'm sure I don't have a micro. I'm 10+, have done porn and I'm a swinger...many women love me because of my size. What I'm saying is size matters and the bigger the better. Nobody wants to acknowledge that because egos are involved, but it is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?they have no drive or desire to get with or be with women. The juice isn't worth the squeeze or they have tried and failed because women their age aren't responding... They literally act asexual and make no moves towards women and just act beta and friendly it's so wierd their like robots. Social conditioning makes people do strange stuff...plus nobody wants to get accused of some shit | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | First ever sexual Red pill real life experience messed me up, need help.Need some advice on how to cope. :( I'm confused by the question...cope with what? Good job on passing the shit test | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWLooks are a depreciating asset and I’d argue that over 75% of women gain 20 pounds and become unattractive by the time they hit 30 while the 25% that actually took proper care of themselves maintain their looks into their 30s. Surely you jest? Most women gain way more than a mere 20 pounds, it's more like 50-75 pounds and I don't think 25% are taking care of themselves...this varies regionally, but outside of maybe Miami and LA, it's probably like 10-15% | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWI still find it hard to comprehend (but I do believe it) how badly overinflated the average woman's self image is these days too. Everyone lying to them because they are trying to fuck them...bill burrs joke is spot on...imagine if everyone around constantly lied to you about everything...you'd have a pretty bad perception of reality and wouldn't respond well to people telling you the truth | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWAs long as it's not a micro most girls don't really care anyway. LoL, not true at all | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 08:07 PM |
| 4 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWAverage is 5-5.5 inches so 6 is slightly above average...I've heard it phrased as at least 6 inches | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Stuck in a rut in life because of gynecomastia. Advice plzDude, don't take this the wrong way, but you are weak AF and I'm not sure how you think you are fit while being not strong at the same time....when I was 16, I was benching 360+ Do you mean just not fat? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | No Mr. Bond, I expect you to ignore all of the red flags and commit.Bond fires.....she typed bond fires.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/02/20 03:36 AM |
| -1 | Not sexually attracted to wife that gained 30lbs?“you should love me for who I am no matter my weight.” You gotta explain to her that's not how attraction works. I think you need to amp up the dread and that should get her motivated. You can't be in that good shape working out only twice a week. That's barely enough to even maintain yourself, assuming you are doing full body workouts each day | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/20 04:59 PM |
| 17 | Thoty2 thinks that she is a reward now being a hairdresser and a single mom, but once upon a time she was Chad and Tyrone’s fuck trophy. Now that both of those gentlemen have ran away into the sunset, and she is post wall, she wants a good man to pay for her shitty investments.That jumped out at me as well... I know you are trying to make lemonade from those lemons life gave you, but that isn't working... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/12/19 06:53 PM |
| 14 | Is it right to marry your first if she's a great partner? Please advise!Im 26 years old, had been in a LTR for 4 years. We moved in together after the first year. She is my first and only woman, meaning I've only had sex with this woman I don't need to read past this. You simply lack enough life experience to even be considering marriage. Way more options out there from South of the border to Asia to eastern europe. Travel, live life, keep your waist line tight and your wallet fat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 5 | This must work real well for women since it's becoming comical at this point.Have you seen th movie Idiocracy? There is a downside to letting stupid people breed without limits | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 4 | This must work real well for women since it's becoming comical at this point.I guess they think guys are just so dumb and horny that they can literally say and do anything and still pull quality guys...nah sister, it doesn't work that way anymore | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/12/19 04:33 AM |
| 16 | It’s gonna end badly for one (un)lucky man.How dare a man expect sex in a relationship... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/12/19 04:56 AM |
| 5 | 22 years old and she's already "tired of playing games." 2 kids. This one got started early.Friends...on a hookup app? GTFO. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/12/19 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Drake like his girls BBW, but this 2 ton cement mixer wants you to believe that she fits in that category. She is large and in charge - of your life and your wallet! She is not here for sex, she has Tyrone on the side for that. Looking for beta bux only to fund her glutton habits.What bothers me is that most of the girls on here put sex on the outside of the relationship. Sex becomes a reward. Do all the things I ask and you will get sex in a Pavlov-type arraignment I'm not bothered, per se by this, I mean prostitution is what it is and that's just fine by me, but you don't turn a hooker into a house wife. I can find a hooker, if I want to. We fuck, I pay her, I leave. I agree that women who try to separate sex and relationships are are out of their mind. Sex is one of t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/19 09:12 PM |
| 30 | Drake like his girls BBW, but this 2 ton cement mixer wants you to believe that she fits in that category. She is large and in charge - of your life and your wallet! She is not here for sex, she has Tyrone on the side for that. Looking for beta bux only to fund her glutton habits.Literally nothing triggers BW faster than a black man stepping out with a slim white chick. They lose their flipping minds | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/19 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Good man laundry listAlways interesting how these laundry lists never contain the correlating information for them... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 4 | A [31F] psychopath slut finds it ironic to blaspheme God, but we find it ironic when single mothers say "No games or bullshit, not about that life". Like bitch beast, you only have your games and bullshit left!I guess "dating" is a euphemism for time, attention, gifts, etc...from men now... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 94 | A [31F] psychopath slut finds it ironic to blaspheme God, but we find it ironic when single mothers say "No games or bullshit, not about that life". Like bitch beast, you only have your games and bullshit left!I don't understand women who declare their lack of intention to have sex with you...in a dating ad...like what's the point of dating? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/12/19 06:41 AM |
| 52 | Overweight, unattractive, racist post wall single mum wonders why none of her “400”(lmao) matches don’t reply, looking for a good old fashioned simp. Form an orderly line below, oh and no sex(lmao)I don't think guys prefer it...these are low tier men and are horny so they are willing to tolerate/overlook it | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/19 02:05 PM |
| 40 | Overweight, unattractive, racist post wall single mum wonders why none of her “400”(lmao) matches don’t reply, looking for a good old fashioned simp. Form an orderly line below, oh and no sex(lmao)82% of black women are overweight or obese...psychologists say the the women don't consider themselves fat.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/19 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Overweight, unattractive, racist post wall single mum wonders why none of her “400”(lmao) matches don’t reply, looking for a good old fashioned simp. Form an orderly line below, oh and no sex(lmao)What's the point if she says no hookups and not looking for a father....what is she really expecting? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/19 04:49 AM |
| 86 | Overweight, unattractive, racist post wall single mum wonders why none of her “400”(lmao) matches don’t reply, looking for a good old fashioned simp. Form an orderly line below, oh and no sex(lmao)Unfortunately 82% of them are fat snd refuse to acknowledge it... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/19 04:49 AM |
| 2 | 4 kids at the age of 22. Not interested into hookups. She’s a keeper, fellas!hang on.,..what happened to her face... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/19 11:51 PM |
| 37 | God forbid an incel gets laid by behaving like the manipulative jerk that women reward with sex.This. Social media causes brain cancer | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Your reward for a super-healthy lifestyle? Bailing out this winner from her "business." Looking for good women too!Tinder is broken because nobody messages you...right... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Woman discovers hypergamyI wouldn't call this hypergamy...she isn't trying g to date up...she's just become aware of the male lived experience and is displaying solipsism | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/12/19 05:46 AM |
| 18 | Something tells me that she is not done with giving guys a chance.This isn't even zero effort, this is like negative effort...like let me list all the horrible decisions I've made and get all the bad stuff out first... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Pregnant, already has twins, and BOTH fathers are non-existent. Who's ready to play stepdaddy?Want to settle down....don't want to talk about how 3 human beings were brought into the world...you are right, I'm not your therapist and don't get paid enough to deal with that bullshit | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/12/19 04:42 PM |
| 65 | Post-wall clam for the first time ever is not hooking up with Chad. Now it's time to be treated like a human being. Now it's time to string along a beta male.Ah yes, dating over thirty...providing continual reinforcement of red pill concepts on a near constant basis, despite raging against it and banning me from there :) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/12/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | The Reason I follow this subIt's pretty much the vast majority of BW that get triggered by this. An exception to the norm doesn't invalidate the norm | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/19 10:44 PM |
| 63 | Redditor can’t understand why she has no boyfriend and is alone in a friday night despite being pretty...It sounds like she's holding back on sex hoping to leverage something more...can't have a serious relationship without sex | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/19 06:35 PM |
| 22 | Lonely prostitute would make a great wifePretty Savage observation...valuing the relationship she says she wants so badly below her work | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/19 02:35 AM |
| 34 | Lonely prostitute would make a great wifeI've known multiple sex workers and almost all are broke. I know one who does it as a sex thrill and definitely doesn't need the money, but the vast majority younger ones are always broke and yet can summon a grand to their fingers in a few hours....but it's gone just as fast...drugs, partying, generally bad life choices...(gotta rent a more expensive hotel or weekly place vs getting a proper apartment because they don't report shit and don't have any income documents or tax returns...have an ex… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/19 02:34 AM |
| 33 | Lonely prostitute would make a great wifeI guess saving money and getting out of the game never occured....one thing i can say about most sex workers I know except like 2: they all make tons of money but are always broke. It's crazy...money seems to lose its regular value and is just a chit you exchange for stuff...rents due? Better put out some discounted specials...need a car payment before they repo? Book a few appointments... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/19 02:31 AM |
| 8 | I thought this would give you guys a chuckle. Raise your glasses to him! Found in another sub, where the comments were as whiny as you would expect.DAMN! That's savage AF...totally true...surprised Tinder allowed that to stay up for so long | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/12/19 08:20 PM |
| 26 | She's looking for that "vintage love" in a hook up society. They always try and get a provider after riding the carousel.The MLM comment shook me too...seen that several times in the field...girls use the dates as a lure to try to sign you up for something | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/12/19 02:26 PM |
| 11 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"I think its her definitely trying to signal that, but most 25 year olds don't know how to be freaky | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/12/19 01:57 PM |
| 47 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"I really don't get the tongue thing everyone is doing today... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/12/19 06:02 AM |
| 6 | Poor 'Supergirl' actress Melissa Benoist tried to tame the dark triad beast and became a punching bag instead. The good news is she didn't date a nice guy. He would have done far worse like be supportive of her career.She's rich and famous, just leave | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/12/19 12:19 PM |
| 8 | How about Demanding 5k and a background check just to 'book a date" with this Entitled Princess, Single MotherHookers are cheaper. Just get a straight up hooker, 2 hours, $400. Done. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/12/19 12:41 AM |
| 35 | Never thought I would find one in the wild!Despite standing at 5-6 themselves... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 21 | Never thought I would find one in the wild!And I thought she was going to come back to a logical point | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 12 | I’m surprise the pier can hold herMy 600 pound life... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 02:36 PM |
| 3 | I’m surprise the pier can hold herOh dear God...ain't nobody marrying that | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 02:35 PM |
| 3 | 😂 Good luck with that attitude...Yup, she's issuing a challenge to men... literally where have all the good men gone | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 02:33 PM |
| 24 | Single mother looking for a slave. Any takers?I appreciate the honesty at least...that said, you can open your own pickle jars and lift your own heavy shit thank you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/11/19 03:27 PM |
| 10 | Fuckboys don't want dates and good men don't use hookup apps to date good women. No one tell these 50,000 sluts though, I have some... experiments to run first.Prostition IS exponentially increasing right now. All kinds of girls being escorts, sugar babies, or whatever euphamism they are using for a it...it's becoming way more socially acceptable and still fits in the AF/BB strategy except they try to get some beta bucks who they are still hot. Wages aren't plummeting, they just are stagnant and have been for like 30 years and with the impact of inflation it has the effect of reducing wages. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/11/19 08:56 PM |
| 20 | Single mommy needs rent paid. Any takers?With prostitutes you get guaranteed sex for money...with regular dating sex is elusive at best | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/11/19 04:05 PM |
| 4 | "Looking for a relationship. You must be over 6'2" and bigger than 9 inches"... Lady, you have a cavernous problem and lack of available men that meat your impossible requirements is only a small hunk of it.Your numbers are off...9inches in length is well into the 99th percentile. By reference 5.7 inches is in the 75th percentile. The average standard deviation is .68 inches and average penis is like 5.5 inches...for a normal distribution, 3 standard deviations includes 99.7% of the population or about 7.5 inches long. She is seeking like the top .1% in penis size...and those dudes aren't giving a single fuck about her... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/11/19 01:14 AM |
| 8 | Women struggles with dating because she is "too attractive, too accomplished and too ambitious" for you lowly men who can't meet her standardsThe guy friends are probably her gay male friends... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/11/19 03:13 PM |
| 21 | Women struggles with dating because she is "too attractive, too accomplished and too ambitious" for you lowly men who can't meet her standardsI'm a high achiever and I still don't want to be around some lady who is trying to compete with me (she cant') and thinks the world revolves around her (it doesn't). I have this crazy idea of women appreciating me for more than just my money. I can get a hooker if I wanted one, so I don't need a high maintenance type in my life. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/11/19 03:12 PM |
| 5 | This 20 year old open book wants someone to step up. I almost forgot to mention, she's pregnant. Come on guys, be a role model.You totally can go be a role model...nothing wrong with that: coach little league, volunteer at the boys and girls club, be a big brother/big sister, work with the boy scouts or whatever they are calling themselves....etc. None of that shit has anything to do with seriously dating a single mother... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/19 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Tyrone strikes again! 27 year old bartender is pregnant, just so u know. Watch where you drink, this one may try to serve you something extra.The cognative dissonance is strong with this one... I know this is going to be hard because I'm undesirable...here's my list of terrorist demands...by the way I offer nothing in return for the massive liabilities I bring...don't expect sex... I want a platonic friend to talk to ... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/19 05:58 PM |
| 7 | The Reason I follow this subI'm pretty sure that isn't right | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Men say I’m “too good” for them, and I’m confused....What's the point of this exercise? Just ego validation? How are you making money off them anyway? If you are "giving up" sex, it sounds like you probably aren't into it and are pretty bad at it. If you want to be a hooker, just go be a hooker | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/19 05:03 PM |
| 5 | The Reason I follow this subWhy should they | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/19 02:40 PM |
| 7 | The Reason I follow this subThe only thing I've heard is some are mad because he's dating a white lady. What else are they obsessed about? Can you expound on that a bit? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 11:51 PM |
| 12 | Well well aren't you just a barrel full of honey bunches and joy. Good thing those perky tits can make all those demands on your behalf. But for how long though...I don't understand what she thinks she has to offer if not sex.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 10:06 PM |
| 5 | If you’re over 30 and on here, examine yourselfNah, buddy the #1 thing you can do if you want women is to sell drugs. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Men say I’m “too good” for them, and I’m confused....An average or in shape women is an extreme outlier, most of them get hoards of male attention and try to parlay that into some sort of way to make money | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Men say I’m “too good” for them, and I’m confused....That is insane that women are weighing that much on average...the fat acceptance movement is growing for sure. Heaven help you though if you suggest women need to lose weight to keep a man's attention... also, that means half of all women weigh MORE than that. I would say men get a bit more of a pass as men on average are taller and can and should carry more muscle mass...the average NFL defensive back is like 5-9, 180, so 197 isn't a crazy high weight for a dude in reasonable shape. The average… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 09:28 PM |
| 17 | Not sure if right sub, but made me chuckle.<I don't think she's signaling to BetaBucks at all... not for a few more years, anyway.> I think you are probably right...she's probably not ready to settle down for a beta and is still exploring the limits of her sexuality....trying to hook an alpha bucks...etc.. as I was typing it out, I was thinking to myself what would Chad thundercock do...and it was clear that Chad isn't going to ask her to pay half because he's not even going to take her on a date... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 09:25 PM |
| 132 | The Reason I follow this subThe only thing is that this is particularly relevant to the black community. Young black women HATE a young black guy working hard, going to the gym, taking care of school, and not getting in trouble... Black women lust after the dual mating strategy and legit expect a beta to be standing there when she is done with the carousel or the carousel is done with her... Nothing triggers them more than seeing s successful black man with a non black women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 08:30 PM |
| 106 | Not sure if right sub, but made me chuckle.I disagree. I think she can get the attention of a Chad or Tyrone, but those dudes have a stable of women and aren't about to prioritize her. She's signaling to beta bucks about what she hopes they are going to do. Truth be told, Chad probably isn't taking her on a date, at all... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 08:26 PM |
| 33 | Men say I’m “too good” for them, and I’m confused....Somewhat attractive...decent shape... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 27 | Dating a single mom? Read this ASAP! They can’t surprise you if you already know the tricks.Nah, man you are far from alone. Just imagine private snuffy 18-20 years old, first time out of the country, halfway around the world and there's some 5 foot tall 105 pound filipino telling you how much she loves you and wants to fuck you...baby you don't need a condom, etc... Leadership sees this cycle repeat time and again and soldiers getting caught up...then they find out she has a kid back in the Philippines and so forth... At least the women are hot...can't say the same for the entitled ti… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/11/19 10:04 PM |
| 37 | Dating a single mom? Read this ASAP! They can’t surprise you if you already know the tricks.Dude...you have no idea... those fuckers in the 80's and 90's killed it for everyone. They used to have dancing girls ON POST. Drinking age was 18...and I don't even drink...it was unreal, but they had too many issues that crept up...rapes, dead korean women, etc... that caused leadership over the years to get Edit: Leadership got more and more strict with curfews, limits on staying off post overnight, off limits establishments, and essentially treating you like you were 14 years old. There were… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 82 | Dating a single mom? Read this ASAP! They can’t surprise you if you already know the tricks.Former Army officer here. Can confirm all of the above is correct. One addendum: In S. Korea leadership was trying to put regulations in place to prevent soldiers (thinking of jr enlisted) from getting married to the Filipino bar girls that worked the clubs off base. Private snuffy from east bumfuck arkansas would see some tiny 100 pound Filipino, he'd be in lust, and 9 months into a 12 month tour a baby arrives. They get married, she gets a green card and all sorts of issues would occur. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Immigrant mother of tween needs a bailout but you must pass her google background check first.Why so serious? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/19 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Tinder is a joke, but you need to have money, not work, and never be tired since all your time is hers. She does what she wants so don't judge her past.They have money, except it's in the wrong accounting column. They have debt often and have used that to buy a bunch of stuff that looks cool on Instagram | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/19 06:27 AM |
| 9 | Any men want the relationship part without the sex part??? If so, send me a short paragraph proving you are willing to try hard without getting hard. May the most attractive player win!Simple market behavior suggests beta bux bailouts are not uncommon. Women wouldn't aggressively pursue bailouts if they didn't happen with some level of regularity. I know a guy, tall NCAA defensive lineman, so in good shape physically, infantry officer, tier 1 University educated, gets married to some chick with 1 or 2 kids, I cant remember which... I know both myself and one of my team mates did a side eye kinda look when we heard about it and ultimately just shrugged. I felt like he kinda hav… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/19 04:01 AM |
| 14 | 🤣 Fit and really good looking?This has to be a joke... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/11/19 01:44 AM |
| 14 | Sliding in on weekend rules. From an invitation only singles Facebook group. She does sex very well thank you but now she's ready to explore her non-sexual traits. Where's Billy Beta to fulfill her platonic and commitment needs while she still gets railed by Chad on the side?My question is who the fuck is taking women up on these dates?? What I the state of male self respect the anyone would even entertain this shit. I wish someone would tell me up front...not monogomous (not a huge problem for me as a swinger, but...) willing to meet for dates... (I don't buy women drinks or do dates up front. I might buy/make breakfast if I like you after the fact.) No sex offered or expected....(wtf are we doing together if we aren't fucking?) Huge issue with this is she doesn't … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/11/19 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Sliding in on weekend rules. From an invitation only singles Facebook group. She does sex very well thank you but now she's ready to explore her non-sexual traits. Where's Billy Beta to fulfill her platonic and commitment needs while she still gets railed by Chad on the side?Gotta earn that like everyone else... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/11/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | 29 year old skank of 4 kids already. Doesn’t have time for BS and height of 5’10” is the only thing going on in her life. Is looking for a FRIEND to her child parade, goes school full time, doesn’t work and won’t message you first. Don’t miss out on this one guys.So many Freudian slips with this one...if she isn't up for BS WTF was she doing from say 19-23 when most folks were in college? How is she still in college unless she's going for a phd | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/11/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Only good WHITE menI've fucked a few. Regretted most. I play in swinger and kink circles and there are almost no black women there, thankfully | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Only good WHITE menThat's from all the twerking videos, tight clothing, and throwing sex out as a lure at every opportunity....but the reality doesn't bear this out...most black women don't do anal, don't do oral, and aren't that good, in my experience...I think it was black Chyna that got exposed giving HORRIBLE oral sex and her thot girlfriends were coming out in droves trying to defend her and say she had an off day, she knows how to give head, etc...because she got exposed and they knew the fantasy was ruined | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/19 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Only good WHITE men<The other things that hit the black community hard were the Pill,> I thought of the pill as well, but black women don't seem to use birth control or certainly don't seem to be the most consistent user give the #s of out of wedlock births. I wasn't alive back then, so I can't really comment on it... At the time it may have been less accessible to poor blacks as well at the time in the 70s. Tommy Sotomayor talks to black women about why don't you use birth control or you have 5 kids, after kid #1… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/19 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Only good WHITE menI seem to recall a thread on adultdvd talk where the facial abuse/ghettogagger guys were talking about their sites and that amount was mentioned. I'm sure it depends a bit on what the women are willing to do, anal and DP are going to run a bit higher...straight boy girl is probably going to be a bit lower.. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Only good WHITE menLife expectancy, sexual options, wealth, happiness, pretty much doubled up in life overall | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/19 04:58 AM |
| 6 | Only good WHITE menWhat happened to black families? I heard something about welfare. Couple of things externally and internally. I'm going to generally and broadly compare live in the 50's vs live in the 80's the world RAPIDLY changed. Biggest changes in those years were Welfare certainly didn't help and incentivized having kids out of wedlock. As I understand it, there were household inspections and if a man was found living there benefits were cut. Same goes for no fault divorce and child support. Add in the war… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Only good WHITE menI wonder that's how they wanted to be treated? For $3000 it is. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/19 03:56 AM |
| 7 | Only good WHITE menNay, sir! The white delegation must bear their fair share of the THOT burden. I demand a recount! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/19 10:10 PM |
| 17 | Only good WHITE menYeah man, we have issues. Much of this comes from the black families and the lack of a father figure in many people's lives, but also the absolutely horrible selection BW have in men in general | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/19 05:43 PM |
| 21 | Only good WHITE menI'm black. Thanks for reminding me why I don't date black women. Ya'll white guys have fun with this one! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/19 04:44 PM |
| 6 | "Where Are All The Good Men?"It's just the same pile of shit repackaged. We use coded language, because women don't want to just look like hookers or gold diggers so they use euphemisms such as "Successful" or "ambitious" or " goal oriented" or "career" and so forth. Now they are just trying to sound sophisticated...undergrad in economics and MBA in finance.. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Single mom is tired of games and being used and is looking for a nice guy.Dude, I know guys who play that game with staggering success, as long as you are good fucking a bunch of single mothers...You get a lot of 35-50 year old divorcees too | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/19 02:23 AM |
| 11 | Welcome the upcoming item for auction, a 42 year old single momma of 6 kids with one on the way. Poor midgets under 6 ft need not apply. Has had her fun and won’t settle for anything less. Looking someone with enough cash to take care of her parade of 7 kids.YOU got banned? Am I reading this right? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/19 12:11 AM |
| 19 | Welcome the upcoming item for auction, a 42 year old single momma of 6 kids with one on the way. Poor midgets under 6 ft need not apply. Has had her fun and won’t settle for anything less. Looking someone with enough cash to take care of her parade of 7 kids.A women makes a complaint whatever and the guy gets banned, pretty much how most sex assault, harassment, and title IX cases work | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 12 | Sad, lonely woman hates men and thinks becoming a single mother via IVF will fill the void in her lifeDatingover30....the sub that rages out at anything redpill and yet provides on a near daily basis, 100% confirmation for all redpill concepts and ideas | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/11/19 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Single mom is tired of games and being used and is looking for a nice guy.Need a ready made family I can be a father for... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/11/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | "Plump" bartender meets the wall. Of course, the usual demands. Who is ready for this?It could be more aggressive than that depending on lifestyle choices....I'm just saying you have older, formerly hot women acting like they are smoking hot 22 year olds because they never got the notice that their smv is declining | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/11/19 05:08 PM |
| 11 | "Plump" bartender meets the wall. Of course, the usual demands. Who is ready for this?It works that way until the wall inverts male and female values around 30....but they don't exactly pass out a memo that your smv has declined by 10% | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/11/19 12:45 AM |
| 6 | Single mom is tired of games and being used and is looking for a nice guy.How in the fuck does she have 3 kids at 26 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/11/19 05:16 PM |
| 30 | Why is it so difficult for an average fat chick to find her Mr. Chad Perfect Thundercock? Now you know and knowing is half the battle. Too bad women don't listen to logic and common sense. Feelz > RealzThe vast majority of people, especially women, don't understand economics. I majored in economics, and I think we had like 3 women total in my cohort. Economics/finance are like 90% male. A basic course in statistics would help this snowflake as well...assuming she could pass. Signed Undergrad in Economics, MBA | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/11/19 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Right niw because im young i'm ganna ride alphamale cock. But later on in life ill want the safe guy. Once im used and abused and an alpha widow.You forgot to add the /s... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/11/19 02:57 PM |
| 13 | Right niw because im young i'm ganna ride alphamale cock. But later on in life ill want the safe guy. Once im used and abused and an alpha widow.It happens, but often a a bit after 30, smashing the wall takes a few years for women to realize...31-33 kinda is the transition point for me | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/11/19 02:56 PM |
| 15 | Who would have guess your actions have consequencesIts not just that, she knows that if he accepts her racy last, he is going to expect similar all out sexual acts from her, but she wants to control his sexuality and has probably been making him wait for sex or slowly dishing out sex here and there | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/11/19 10:53 PM |
| 7 | "It's okay to whore out, because you'll be blessed with prince charming when you're ready to settle down" First post, so not sure about flairsExceptions to the rule don't invalidate the rule... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/11/19 05:51 PM |
| 45 | "Why do guys always unmatch with me almost immidately after our hookup?"Women never seem to comprehend that the sex could be bad. They think they are all pornstars in the making... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/19 02:07 PM |
| 22 | Welcome the 34 year old single mom of 6 kids. Hobbies include wrestling, getting tattooed. Has had bad about experiences in past relationships. Now looking for a “2” share his life with her no matter what.Punchline is that she wants that one true equal person... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/10/19 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Hi Boys, read my profile first. What I won't say is that I am an entitled chunk with many demands. Come get me.That's an insult to NFL linebackers. NFL lineman have better arms than that...maybe a kickers arms.. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/10/19 10:24 AM |
| 18 | 38, pregnant, looking for someone to eat with, also no sex.I doubt it was IVF, just a random dude who agreed to get her pregnant. I've seen this several times with obese women I know who can't get a dude and wasted their lottery ticket by not looking good and taking advantage of their youth. It is a total vanity play, and they are going to be a mother goddamnit no matter what, tick, rock goes the biological clock like the tell take heart. But they figure out too late that pregnancy is a man repellent and are lonely and still want male attention... The n… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/10/19 02:29 PM |
| 5 | 29 year old strong independent Cinderella, divorced 3 times already, 5 kids, weak men need to stay away. Who’s up for this complete package deal ?She's a horse girl....I've heard legendary bad things about them | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/10/19 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Straight from the horse's mouth: Fuck Chad while you string along Beta Billy for months on end. Another WAATGM in the making.Perfect response sir! No dates and I won't call you just blew up her spot | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Straight from the horse's mouth: Fuck Chad while you string along Beta Billy for months on end. Another WAATGM in the making.They want to start with a sexless relationship and try to make it sexual somehow and then complain about bad sex....makes no sense. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Damaged 24 year old with 3 and 1 on the way wants someone long term to love her babies. Be serious. Why is she on the market?She looks like she was hot...like 3 years ago. Call it former hot girl syndrome | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/10/19 07:01 AM |
| 26 | I'm strong independ woman and I cant find a successful man to take me.Funny thing is Datingover30 hates the red pill and yet provides daily examples of red pill concepts in action | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/10/19 01:24 AM |
| 2 | She's looking for a "real man" that wants her mind, body, and soul. I guess she is looking for Lucifer. I have no interest in either of those 3 things.Obese + overweight totals to 82% | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone meet the requirements? 😂Stabled??? I don't think she understands what that word means | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Apparently she has been too busy with 12K insta photos to find a man. With that inviting face and list of bitchy demands, she should just stick with IG.I went to college 29 years ago, and this stuff was at best talked about in hushed terms. Now with movies, YouTube, Reddit it is out there way more for guys to learn | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/19 04:43 PM |
| 6 | No Time For Hook Ups...Here's My AssSeriously this. Women are embracing the fat acceptance movement and men are getting conditioned to not even recognize what a fit vs not fat women is even more. Just not being obese or even skinny fat is acceptable | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/19 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Feel like giving up boys...Dont know what to do or say with my girlfriend anymore. she has no respect for me. She is bossy and demanding.. I feel like im a piece of furniture around her....not sure what to do anymore..Ive tried dread, ignoring, focusing on me..Nothing..Need adviseDread if she is worth keeping around and just punt and try again if not. She takes care of me. How? .She cooks, clean, if im sick, she ll take care of me, can be very playful, and she invites me to fun places That is basic stuff. Communication, disrespect, and Grudges...Power struggle..other things i notice Those are REALLY bad signs especially as a GF She has to be in charge or nothing gets done..Once we re on our way to a friends house and I turn on the A/C...We re driving in her car she gets … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/19 09:11 PM |
| 9 | Girlfriend called me on skype to break up after 4 years together. Says she still loves me as a best friend but not attracted to me anymore.Dude get a puppy. She isn't into you, and likely already has a new dude or certainly will find one ok vacation. She loves you as a best friend? Ouch. So worst thing you can hear. She demoted you to the friend zone. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 12:41 PM |
| 13 | When a women settles for a "beta" provider.Yes, kinda the reverse of a friend with benefits in the benefits being your time, money, and attention. Most guys like this struggle with women and are happy to get whatever female attention/obligated sex that they can get | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 04:04 PM |
| 14 | When a women settles for a "beta" provider.She isn't physically attracted to him and isn't getting the alpha tingles. She may like him as a "nice guy" girlfriend, but she really likes his utility, not HIM. She doesn't get the rip my clothes off and fuck me, I am ready to submit to you feels | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 04:01 PM |
| 6 | What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?-brb, trying out Tinder, almost every girl has her Instagram linked 'Not on Tinder much, follow me on IG'- This is just a straight up ploy to gain IG followers, again for validation and such | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Rich girl?Good dick | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I Next ?Crazy in the head, crazy in bed...kinda goes together. You can try to manage through this but the good sex is always going to challenge your rational mind | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Help a brother outYou just have a weak frame. I'm sure everyone has their reasons and for guys it's usually related to sex. Just be real with what you want but do it in a righteous way, not this bullshit | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 06:52 PM |
| 16 | Help a brother outWhy are you using a fake tinder profile? That's the #1 issue you need to fix | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 05:58 PM |
| 11 | Std questionYou have enough time and money to fuck a chick bareback apparently. Go to a public health clinic. You only have one dick. Most also have free condoms, but they can't inject you with anything to not make you stupid enough to fuck a chick bareback | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Is she dtf?This. She's getting tons of attention and doesn't have to do anything. Her "asking you out" is her essentially like you asking to Netflix and chill. You don't actually want to watch Netflix. She's just using you for attention. Put sex on the table and see what her intentions really are | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 03:56 PM |
| 10 | Question about the 9th Iron rule of TomassiThat's how women communicate, the medium is the message | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 03:49 PM |
| 4 | When a girl ignores your text messages?I'd set it up for sex. No dinner, no dancing, no movies. Come to my place and we are going to fuck. If not hard next. She's pursuing you, let's get it on | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 09:12 PM |
| 3 | 18 years old and ready to fuck, read post.-I’ve actually been unconsciously using with this girl, so that kinda shook me as far as the validity of this community and how these strategies do in fact actually work- You are still a virgin. Draw no conclusions till you put sex on the table and see what happens. Do it now. Don't even talk about the summer if you aren't fucking her pussy and ass. You are essentially a beta male for her and you question if red pill concepts work? -I’ve went on 4 dates with this girl and we’ve made out every ti… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 09:09 PM |
| 7 | When a girl ignores your text messages?The medium is the message. If she ignores it, she isn't into you at all. Do you think she'd ignore Brad Pitt or Chad thundercock? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Confidence blow after girl called my penis "really small" Advice, tips?You can't do anything about it. Look for tight, shallow internally women. I'm hung and I can tell you not all women like monster dicks. I've been with several where we had to stop after basic insertion and minimal thrusting because they just couldn't adjust to it. Those are the women you need to be with. I'm not sure tinder is going to give you the focused results you are hoping for | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 05:49 AM |
| 6 | Conflicted about game advice. Getting mixed inputI'm 6-3....never had any of those experiences at a vanilla club...never met a women on tinder...it isn't changing much for me. I will concede that some short guys mention it as an issue, but being tall isn't just an "I win at pussy" button | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:11 PM |
| 6 | What are some red pill hobbies I could easily get into without breaking the bank in the process ? I already work out 5 times a week so that’s covered .I think most self improvement. Travel, meal prepping, cooking, making money, learning a new language, etc... | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Would you demote/next LTR if she lied about her whereabouts?All the more reason to not like about it if it was short notice. "hey I got invited to this thing with my cousin..." | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 04:10 PM |
| 3 | What do the guys with triple digit body counts actually do so much differently to other guys?Got into swinging, I have a big dick and I'm a nice guy, can hold a conversation, not thirsty or aggressive, I am 6-3, but never had visible abs. I have a better than average face, former college football player and I look like it I just put myself in places where high sex drive people are and I can actually perform in those spaces. A shockingly high number of people can't fuck in public, get stage fright, cum in under 5 minutes, etc... So the sex isn't very good for the women. Women talk, and i… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Should we even eat food on the first date?Minigolf is great. Set it up to eat after lunch or dinner with a friend or something | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 03:55 PM |
| 3 | When is it okay to physically defend myselfGoogle Emily Rand or NYC subway slap soul. In both those situations the women were the physical aggressors as in hitting first and were hit back and it was deemed self defense. You generally can't punch anyone for just verbal harassment | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | When is it okay to physically defend myselfLook at your state laws, but generally serious injury or death type situations are where I'll mostly go there. Wounded pride doesn't count, so I'll walk away from verbal harassment. Physical confrontation depends on how physical, but if ANYONE swings at me, I'm not opposed to taking action to stop the threat. Women can be dangerous too and don't get a pass from self defense. I don't live in NYC and live in Texas and pack heat regularly, so I'm generally not interested in explaining why there is … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Servicing the backyard-A friend of mine has a sort of a ferish - he bangs every bitch he can get in the rear entrance bareback (his wife also).- I hope these aren't a bunch of random chicks, because a UTI would be the LEAST of my fucking worries. #1 way to get an STD is anal, especially HIV. I've also never gotten a UTI from anal, but I can count on 1 hand the number of chicks I've done bareback anal with | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 03:38 PM |
| 66 | Conflicted about game advice. Getting mixed input-I have a friend that is 6'6" and does very well with women. He says his notch count is close to 250. - This guy isn't slaying just because he is tall. Im 6-3 and the shit isn't that fucking easy. He could have a super fit body, tight game, or look like a model. Too much being left out. He is giving bad advice especially with that friend zone shit and trying to "nice" your way into her pants. The difference is because HE is friend zoning THEM, not the other way around. Just because he fucks a lo… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Economics?Vanguard total stock market Fund and all it a day | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Would you demote/next LTR if she lied about her whereabouts?Why lie about something as simple as going to the bar with a cousin for their birthday? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Dear Red pilled dudes with a below 5 inch dickBy learning what STDs can or can't be transmitted by oral sex. Herpes is the most likely risk. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Man why the fuck i cant cum?!?!That's not particularly unusual. It is on the upper end of the bell curve but not crazy long. Try prone bone with her on her stomach and legs together | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:45 AM |
| 2 | What to do now with my free timeWeights, cardio, meal prep, and sleep. Should take more than enough time | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore?It's a trap! | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Man why the fuck i cant cum?!?!How long are you fucking without an orgasm? It depends on your partner as well | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:38 AM |
| 21 | Dear Red pilled dudes with a below 5 inch dickDude not all women are looking for monster dicks. I've had multiple women nope out of sex with me. If you have a fit chick and she isn't too deep, you should be able to make her happy, plus she isn't going to be scared to do anal. Get your abs and physical fitness right and they won't care | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:37 AM |
| 58 | Asian Men in White CountriesThis. I'm sure Bruce Lee and bolo yeung were not suffering from a lack of female attention. Hit the weights and don't be a sterotype | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Women not being able to take rejection without turning extremely malicious?Ayesha curry | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 01:01 AM |
| 2 | What are your LTR deal-breaking red flags?You do get to choose who you associate with and how you speak. Show me your friends and I'll show you your future. YOU may not view talking like a moron as a negative, but the rest of the world does and honestly you are better than that and can communicate with some eloquence. I grew up in Detroit in the 80s when it was the murder capital of the USA and knew of people that would say dumb stuff like that as well. I chose to rise above it. Just one observation from one young black male to anothrr | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:07 PM |
| 6 | What are your LTR deal-breaking red flags?-she finna do that with.- Dude, do yourself a favor and delete that ghetto speak from your vocabulary. It's the most idiotic made up word I've ever heard | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Being Guilt Tripped After Hook UpsStop caring. She cut you off, fine. bye Felecia! Who cares what her ex did. That's not you and if she is treating you like him, she can fuck right off. Sh was using you for attention/validation that she is still attractive | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 11:28 PM |
| 109 | I’m the Runt of my group and I hate it-I try and work out 1-2 times a week, but work always gets in the way.- Gotta work out more than that, 5-6 times a week, 1-2 hours a day. Never skip leg day. You never are going to want to do it. It is going to hurt, you should be sore the next day. Obviously, diet matters, a lot. Eat more protein. Keep your carbs in check. The only thing stopping you are the bullshit excuses you keep telling yourself. Wake up earlier and just get it done. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a Girl look at you from head to toe?Reminds me of that song....standing on the corner in Winslow Arizona and such a fine sight to see, it's a girl my Lord in a flat bed ford slowing down to take a look at me | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | How to stay in and be happy?Figured out what you want to do, be, look like, live, etc...and focus on those things. I figure an ass kicking 2+ hour workout with weights and cardio is sufficient motivation to lay the fuck down on the weekends and rest up. No excuse to not hit legs and do an hour of cardio on the weekends or to focus on a side hustle, manage investments, review business ventures, etc... | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Tinder chick confusing meNext. She is seeking attention/validation | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 04:40 PM |
| 43 | Bartender or ex-bartender opinions on meeting girls at bars and restaurants.Holy shit....full backflip in a suit....I think you met the most interesting man in the world | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | No sex after 4 date.Next. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 02:02 AM |
| 5 | No sex after 4 date.That's because she is using you for validation while evaluating guys that she considers better options. If she's into you, she will fuck you. It's that simple | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Guys I’m in big trouble and need adviceDon't date girls at the school you go to. Don't go to social events at school. Stop fucking drinking as stated. Maybe work out, do some cardio and....study? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Why do women blame man for not keep trying after they reject them?She doesn't like you and is trying to beta you up. Rejecting me for sex is an easy next unless she is on her period. Trying 3 times suggests you need a few more red pills in your diet. If you are really doing everything right, it could be that she just isn't into you. Next her hard and move on. They don't regret not fucking you. They regret losing you as a male girlfriend. They regret losing your time, money, and attention, which you are giving too much of too freely | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Is this gym routine good?I would do legs over 2 days, 1 day all hamstrings, 1 day all quads and calves like 4 days a week as an accessory. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Is this gym routine good?10x 10 is German volume training. Just bang out 10 sets on one body part and then finish with accessory work. Maybe 5 sets flat bench, 5 sets incline, followed by fly's and triceps. 5 sets chin ups, 5 sets lat pull down and then move to biceps and forearms | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Is this gym routine good?I dont deadlift because my Back hurts Try sumo style. Overall, not enough volume here. I'm more of a 10 sets of 10 guy. You are only hitting 6 sets of total volume, which is barely enough to maintain muscle. Generally 10-15-20 sets is where you need to be to progress | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 07:58 PM |
| -3 | Can we not fuck this time?She accepts but texts "Can we not fuck this time? Just chill and watch a movie?". I prefer the direct approach: No. I'm going to fuck the shit out of you every time I see you. I'd be sure to be very dominant and aggressive the next time as well. Hair pulling, choking, ass slapping, etc... | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 07:48 PM |
| 14 | Why do women lie about not liking a fit man?I think the biggest issue is "I don't think I'm hot enough to manipulate him" along with she KNOWS that if she dates this dude, she is signing up for a lifetime of weightlifting and fitness classes and a lot of women are too lazy and want to get fat at the first opportunity. Have you ever SEEN the girlfriends of even amateur level bodybuilders or fitness guys? They are SMOKING hot, visible abs, an ass you can bounce a quarter off of, and they work out 5-6 days a week. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How to stay light skinnedYou would get more benefits from life weights and being muscular. Besides, sun is good for D3 and testosterone | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Intermitten Fasting for cutting?There are a lot of ways to do IF, but I prefer the warrior diet aka 5-2 diet. 2 non consecutive days of low calories at 600 cal or so for a guy with 5 maintenance calorie days. It makes it easy to do 1 meal a day. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys think I am right to say noHow to i word it to my gf and her perants without sounding selfish? Its ok to be selfish. You don't exist for her financial benefit. You could go with the hard "No" route or just say you aren't interested in real estate as you think the market is overheated if you want to be more diplomatic | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 04:49 PM |
| 3 | How do people get laid in college scenarios?It's not fear, I just don't have time for their bullshit. Not knowing their nationality, just looking women to women, Brazilians blow American women out of the water, unless you think tom Brady is slumming as well | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 12:22 AM |
| -2 | How do people get laid in college scenarios?An American guy in Brazil is an alpha. It introduces abundance and you can easily not give a shit with American women | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Where can I get generic cialis online?All day chemist.com | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 11:36 PM |
| 18 | Real life examples of red pilled men?Not just this, the average age of the women he dates is 22 and has been like for 20 years | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How do people get laid in college scenarios?Foreign exchange trip man. Study a language and do a trip overseas to try it out. My buddy went to Brazil, met like 5 women, ALL smoking hot and he ultimately married one | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Condom slipped off during sex with a hooker, I'm paranoid.OP you need to learn about STD s most have incubation periods of at least 10-14 days so getting tested today won't give you any indication from your previous experience. Get better fitting condoms | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl seems uninterested then asks why I told her it won’t work outDo you think there's any chance she was playing hard to get and it blew up in her face? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Why do marriages fail although women SMV declines?Many women overvalue themselves and have never had to work to get a guy. Women THINK their SMV is like it was when they were in their 20s, but they get back on the dating market and get hit with a rude awakening | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 12:05 AM |
| 16 | Reminder: it's just your turnAre all you idiots fucking these women off tinder bareback???? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Met a 29-year-old girl who has never kissed...She's genuinely a very good girl, and in my cultural background, it's considered immoral to take a virgin or innocent girl and taint them. You're supposed to keep clean girls clean, and fuck around with hoes on the side. Clean girls raise your kids, and whores are there for fun. This isn't a thing about your culture. It is not new or specific to your culture. It's called the Madonna/whore complex that many guys are conflicted with especially in the west. Guys want whores to have fun with, but do… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Respecting womenHow are you " treating them poorly" is it because you expect sex from romantic partners or don't prioritize their needs above yours or because you beat them with a mop handle if they get our of line to quote bill burr? Nowadays it seems expecting sex is seen as "disrespectful" | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Just understand your body will almost certainly not grow in proportion. I had 19 inch arms and like 14-15 inch forearms because I didn't train them directly and I probably didn't do enough pulling work | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 5 | How to fix a cranky jealous LTR?I say treat her like a slut and fuck the shit out her | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Why is TRP perceived negatively from the outside?Our decision to go RP is challenging their base assumptions in life, so they react negatively to it, especially if you have success with it | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth breaking up with my live in LTR for only having sex a few times a week?Understand this is as good as it is going to get and the most sex you are going to get out of her. It is all downhill from here | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Where do I find Escorts?Eccie.net | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Is this a good routine?What are your big 3 lift numbers? It's never too much as long as you are eating and sleeping appropriately | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Multiple girlfriendsGet into swinging/poly and have tight game. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:24 AM |
| 6 | How the hell do you guys balance drinking and staying fit?You cant outrun a bad diet | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:22 AM |
| 4 | How the hell do you guys balance drinking and staying fit?Don't go to bars and find your fun elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:22 AM |
| 8 | Ltr sex life going downhill need adviceThis. Dread. Pull back and stop seeing her so regularly. Cut her off from sex and affection and watch the hamster spin | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Sounds like reverse curls. You should be shooting for at least 100 reps and train your forearms frequently like 3-5 times a week unless they are getting out of proportion. Some folks grow forearms without too much direct training. I'm of the Frank McGrath school of thought that you need direct forearm work frequently, just like calves. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | How to achieve / hope for something you've never had?Abundance is often related to your smv or money you spend or game. Just saying you can bang some hotties without too much trouble. Most of the issue is in your head. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?That's not enough volume to really stimulate the legs | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Not enough volume or intensity. 10 sets of 10 minimum for large muscles. Forearms need higher reps and volume. Not enough for lower body, calves, hamstrings, quads or glutes | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 11:34 PM |
| 3 | How to achieve / hope for something you've never had?To get something you've never had, you need to do someone you've never done. I recommend go to Thailand for 2 weeks to experience abundance and get your confidence up a bit | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 11:29 PM |
| 22 | My LTR of 2 years admitted she doesn’t want me to be in better shape than her.Not just that but if you step your game up, she knows she has to step her game up to to keep you around and doesn't want to do that | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Why are white Guys called white boys and black guys are called men?They call black guys black boys in Europe at interracial swing parties. Apparently it was a bit of a thing and some people viewed it as racist. None of those people were black males... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Losing fat while liftingProtein builds muscle, not calories | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 12:46 PM |
| 5 | Losing fat while liftingYeah calling bullshit on the higher reps stuff. You can build muscle at 30-40% of your 1rm. It's all about volume, progressive overload, and intensity, period. Tom platz proved that squatting 315x50 for a guy who could squat 7-800+ | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Losing fat while liftingYou were probably losing a lot of muscle and not all fat. Fast food just isn't dense enough with protein to support much muscle mass | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Butt stuff irlNope, silicone is just fine with condoms. It can damage some silicone based toys so be careful with that. You have to go slow regardless getting in and for the first few minutes while they adjust | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Got laid for the first time. Very 'meh' experience.Sex is not a ubiquitous experience. Your partner may have sucked in bed. You may not know what you want or enjoy or what you are really doing. I've had super compatible partners and others less so. Compatibility is everything. Fuck communication. I don't have to say shit if we are compatible. I've fucked women I can't even speak to and we were compatible, so it was great | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Butt stuff irlRules for anal that I learned from a pornstar: prep is paramount- always warm up with an enema first, followed by lube and toys Get a lube injector- they are like 10 bucks on Amazon. You want to shoot lube IN her ass, not just rub it on the outside Get REAL lube. Definitely not KY and nothing water based. Silicone is your friend or a silicone/water blend. Don't rush anything. It takes at least a week or so of consistent training. The butt will relax and let you in. You have to just apply consist… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 4 | How can I fix gamer neck?This is a muscle imbalance thing. Athleanx has corrective measures on their YouTube channel, but essentially strengthen your neck and upper back/rear delt muscles. Do face pulls every day | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:26 PM |
| 9 | LTR won't let me bang her in her home.She isn't willing to do with you what she did with other guys as a slut. If anything, she needs to be your slut and you need to reinforce that with your behavior. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time tonight... steps from here?I disagree with this. I need my legs when I'm fucking. I get the transient test Spike and all that, but if you get a good night's rest you should be ready for action. It isn't a testosterone issue, sounds like nerves more than anything. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | For experienced lifters: How long should I continue doing 5x5 stronglifts?This. Weights 3x a week isn't nearly enough volume to make gains. Drop kickboxing and lift | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Should i fuck a slut?Nobody cares, slay those sluts | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Relationship game: My girlfriend is getting too comfortable and I don't like itNo girl belongs to you, it's just your turn | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | What does she want?Put sex on the table in an overt way. Tell her to come fuck tonight or hard next. Tbh this all seems like an attention ploy and she is trying to beta you up into an orbiter | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 09:55 PM |
| -1 | How to start from rock bottom socially?You don't want female friends per se, why put yourself in the friend zone? Aren't there some fitness buddy websites or something? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 09:52 PM |
| -9 | On dick sizeNot in 15 seconds | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | 23M career advice needed, highest ROI path to pursue?You don't have to be productive, but I wouldn't be lazy and work 4 days a week because you got a 25% raise to use your example. I'm working towards a goal. Research businesses or ideally work in then for 3 months even part time to see how it works and if it is suitable for you | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | If you set up a date and she flakes with no explanation or followup should you try once more or ghost?Dude just ghost. Delete her number, don't give her any more attention or time. Never talk to her again | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Is there such thing as “being too high SMV” for someone?This. Women realize that you are in fact unattainable to them and want to spare themselves the walk of shame and no call back. They don't want to get their hopes up | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:07 PM |
| -1 | On dick size8+ will definitely fit in a vagina | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:04 PM |
| -10 | On dick sizePSA: No women has ever cum in 15 seconds. Now back to your regularly scheduled programming | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who can't get dates on Tinder?Dude, I'm a former div 1 football player, still workout, well over 6 feet, never met a single person on tinder. By contrast as a swinger I get new interest every week. Go figure. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | 23M career advice needed, highest ROI path to pursue?Working your ass off may be 12 hours a day or more efficiency or both. -why would you advice this over doing it dually? getting to test things, taking feedback whilst still being able to sustain yourself?- I've seen it and it rarely works well. Businesses need management unless it is something automated like vending machine routes. Doing it dually means you aren't really focused on your job or building your business. It sounds like you really need to research the right business up front I did op… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I just realized I depend on my parents too much? How do I fix this?You should have a LOT of money stacked up, like nearly 6 figures | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Do slim young girls go to the gym only to pick up?Nah, it's a Dallas area gym. There are several very, very good ones here. Lots of top tier fitness folks are in the area such as branch Warren, Johnnie Jackson, Ronnie Coleman, etc | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 05:30 AM |
| 2 | 23M career advice needed, highest ROI path to pursue?For me this means get the biggest wage possible for as little working hours as possible. Eh, sorta. Most people focus on the working as few hours as possible. I think you need to focus on doing things that are worth it or worth the payoff and WORKING YOUR ASS OFF for the reward. I know this might rub some people wrong and give me the advice to stop being such a lazy cunt and just work my ass off. Yes, it sounds like you are coming around to this although you want to avoid the truth. Work your as… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Need quick advice.I say prioritize the fuck date. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:21 AM |
| 5 | Do slim young girls go to the gym only to pick up?They are young (16-25), perfect slim bodies, and still they get to the gym. They don't need to workout at all. You go to the gym to be slim or muscular, you don't stop when you are slim or muscular or whatever. Everyone needs to work out. Most probably go to pose, take pics, or whatever, but if this is a serious gym, the meat heads are banging weights with headphones on and pay them zero attention. At my Gym there are NFL players, ACTUAL fitness models, top 10 Mr. Olympia competitors and so fort… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:18 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubexcept she can't fuck any guy on earth...she just thinks she can and wants to see how far she can take it. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubMy ltr is 18 and a fresher so when she started wanting to clubbing with her friends I didnt want to be a controlling douchebag and stop her. Its called setting boundaries, not being a controlling Dbag. Are you in her frame or is she in yours? What is this making deals shit? Why are you negotiating with terrorists? You are telling me she WILLINGLY goes to the club and KNOWS she is going to get groped and she claims she doesn't like it and yet still goes out again to get groped? Its fucking with y… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Pursued and closed oneitis, she doesn't want us to get serious, need help with exit strategy to get my sanity back.I've got a sure fire cure for oneitis: Go to thailand, the Phillppines, or Vietnam for 2 weeks, experience abundance, and you won't even remember her name when you go back. They've done studies, and 60% of the time, it works everytime! | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Dumbbell CurlingUsing momentum is a form of cheating, which develops other muscles and isn't focusing on the biceps. Take the momentum out by using machines, strict curl with your back against the wall, or do seated incline curls. Zero momentum and cheating | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do women want orbiters?Just because she isn't fucking her betas doesn't mean she isn't getting sex. She just doesn't want sex from THEM. She is getting railed by chad or a couple Chad's on tinder whenever she wants. She just can't get Chad to spend the night and this the great dilemma begins. She has tons of attention from guys she doesn't want, but gets dick and minimal attention from the guy she does want. They may think the beta will leave based on their experiences with Chad, but mostly it is a lack of to goes tha… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 10:02 AM |
| 3 | I caught herpes. What do I do now?Hsv1 or hsv2?? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 09:58 AM |
| 1 | I caught herpes. What do I do now?This is irresponsible bullshit | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I lift?I am a fan of 10 sets of 10 and focusing on one body part and then accessory muscles. Chest and triceps and maybe front delt in a workout. Cardio follows. Gotta have your diet on point, increase protein to about 1 g per pound of bw. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:45 AM |
| 2 | why has religion and society been more controlling on women than men?Depends on the society and timeframe. Used to be able to beat your wife with a stick no wider than your thumb and in many places in the Africa/middle East to Asia, life is pretty Savage to women that step out of line. Everywhere isn't the USA | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth banging a fatty?Fat women give the best head generally, so there's that | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Fwb called me a psychopath and manipulative?Should have corrected her that she probably means sociopath. Psychopaths are detached from reality | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | My plate might be a sugar baby... how to screen?She probably is a SB but as long as you aren't paying for it, who cares. Lots of girls are whorish especially in college and they hear about someone doing it and making 3-10k a month. Beats working at hooters | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Doesn't matter, as long as you are over 30-40% of 1rm. Go to failure and train with intensity | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Yeah, but Tom platz. Heavy loads aren't needed and you grow about the same as long as you go to failure/train with intensity | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 05:46 PM |
| 0 | What’s your n-count?Nope, not a navy seal, was an army grunt, hate running, awful at swimming. Got a bit over half a mil if that counts. Just saying my experiencd | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | What’s your n-count?Dude I'm a swinger and get invited to play parties and multi day events where I fuck 3-5 women a night. 20-25 is fine for a normal person | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How can one covertly imply non-exclusivity with a plate?Why be covert about shit? Just say it. I'm not into monogamy. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:08 AM |
| 3 | How to approach; "Virgin" girl allowed me to eat her out but not finger or fuck herMy gut feeling is to ghost now. Unless she is giving you blowjobs and taking it up the ass, why should she get cuddling, intimacy and she "let's" you eat her out (fucking bothers the shit out of me even typing that shit, as if she is doing you a fucking favor by allowing you to give her pleasure...) | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Small town woesThis. And I vote for move, asap | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Got LTR excited about trying a threesome, but before we could she thinks she wants to try lesbian sex first.Both of these are trash websites for finding unicorns | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Got LTR excited about trying a threesome, but before we could she thinks she wants to try lesbian sex first.First issue is using stupid online dating apps. Get into the swinger environment. Rules #1 and 2 are absolutely in effect here, especially for you. Finding a unicorn aka single bi female is extremely hard in the USA. People search for years and don't find one | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:56 AM |
| 8 | At what point do you become too muscular for most girls?Even if you are on gear, you have to be 100% dialed in on sleep, food, workouts, etc... It just isn't in the cards for most people Most people don't understand that bodybuilding is a 24/7 thing you literally eat, sleep, and breathe. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What’s your n-count?38 and we'll over 200. I stopped counting. I got into swinging, discovered my alphaness and found an arena where I can do quite well. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Not getting hard when neededMasturbation has nothing to do with this. If you are nervous and going into fight/flight that shuts down all other bodily functions like digestion and erections. Just need to get used to performing physically while doing scary shit. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:24 PM |
| 5 | is it better to train each muscle once or twice per week?Twice a week for larger muscles, once a week for accessory/smaller ones unless you are lagging | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Body HelpSounds like you might want to skip breakfast | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Body HelpI personally cut out breakfast and went with lunch and a small dinner, all eating before 6. I'd you want, you could try breakfast and lunch instead and cut out dinner. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Body HelpCut carbs to zero, go hard with lean meats and veggies and perhaps half an avacado and a protein shake. Alternatively, egg whites and veggie: egg whites and spinach, egg whites and shredded cauliflower, egg whites and collard greens, etc. Do intermittent fasting as well. I like the warrior diet aka 5-2 | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | advise on businessNeed a whole lot more context here | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in my situation?First of all there s no evidence that Keto causes weight loss by any other mechanism other than being in a calorie deficit Do you think shifting to a much higher % of fat burned vs a mix of fat/carbs matters? CICO, yes, but you do concede that burning 3000 calories of fat vs 1500 calories of fat + 1500 calories of carbs is not going to result in the same amount of fat loss over an extended period, right? Second of all elite bodybuilders are on massive amounts of peds PEDs will get you big and st… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in my situation?The point of Keto is to switch your body over to burn fat primarily vs carbs plus fat. Yes, you will drop some water weight initially, but more importantly, you are flushing out your glycogen stores so your body can just burn mostly fat. There’s no other way around cico, and carbs are necessary for performance both in the gym and in sports in general CICO matters, but hormones/macronutrients profiles as well, and eating 200 grams of protein isn't going to have the same effect as eating 200 grams… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in my situation?Keto+ the warrior diet and obviously lifting and 1-2 hours a day of cardio. If it sounds like a total lifestyle change, that's because it is | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 06:44 PM |
| 27 | Anyone else notice it's the losers within your circle who hate seeing you succeed? I.e. crab bucket mentalityGreg Plitt said it best: “The road to success is a very lonely road. You’re not gonna see too many friends. It’s only you with your shadow. Once you get there, many people will love you, also many people will hate you. Because your success is a huge spotlight, shining on their failures.” – Greg Plitt | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Coworker (who I met with 3x) ignoring my question whether she likes me againDude she is just using you for attention /validation. Keep banging it out at the gym, block her number and move on, especially with a women that you work with. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | When do you guys recommend giving a second chanceAt most ask one more time with a specific time/date. If she likes you, she will make time or be available. If it is some bullshit excuse, delete her number and GHOST | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 04:58 AM |
| 8 | Does anybody actually fuck HIGH smv women off tender?I have fucked several High SMV women. I've never had a single match or meeting off of Tinder. Yeah there are a lot of attention whores on Tinder, but many of them are VERY frustrated as well that they can't get a Chad or can't keep his interest more than a night or two. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 07:34 PM |
| 19 | Ex LTR wants to know why I nexted her"I'm just not that into you" Women have no problem not justifying when they turn a guy down. I don't think you owe her any reasoning beyond that. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?People realize they are being lied to and hate the cognitive dissonance. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Have you no shame, mam?Just a note, but you are a moron if you are having unprotected sex. Keep that shit up and you'll have the in pregnant talk... | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue a business, school or the military?Whatever you do, don't become a personal trainer. National guard isn't bad, but you still need to have a day job track. I would go to school and potentially look at becoming an officer in ROTC | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Cannot implement abundanceGo to Thailand for 2 weeks and report back | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.There are hoards of women there that are selling pussy or that are happy to be your girlfriend for a week. Unless you are looking for a lady boy, you probably won't find one. There are go go bars that have girls numbered and you just pick one out.If you like her, take her to the hotel | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:22 AM |
| 3 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Not just that but you are optimizing hypergamy with a comparatively hot and poor girl meeting a man head and shoulders above her in status and wealth. Race doesn't matter over there as much but a white guy will be swimming in pussy | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | That study that said men under 30 aren’t having sex what’s your take?That study was done in the USA. European women are quite a bit more open sexually | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 05:40 PM |
| 13 | It infuriates me knowing women just go around get dick whenever they feel like itMost girls can't get the hawt fun guy and even if they do, there's no guarantee of good sex. Most guys experience scarcity while women experience an abundance of false positives. Go to Thailand for two weeks and come back with a new perspective | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 04:32 PM |
| 5 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.I haven't yet, been to Philippines twice, s. Korea, and I'm in Mexico City as I write this. I know many guys who have been and they have about thailand | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 03:46 PM |
| 7 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Dude it sucks, but take a 2 week trip to thailand, experience some.abundance, and I promise you won't be able to remember her name when you get back | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Anyone seen this - 27% of men 30 yrs or under have never had sexWriting this from Mexico right now... | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 06:09 AM |
| 6 | "Creep" Phenomenon on University CampusIf you date women at your University, you open yourself up to complaints, title ix type stuff, and so forth. If you date girls from other colleges that isn't an issue. I had "the talk" about not dating women at the school I attended because guys regularly get in trouble from a bad approach and stuff like that. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 05:39 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck is she doing?You just need to put sex on he table and if she says anything other than an unqualified yes, ghost | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | "Creep" Phenomenon on University CampusDudes shouldn't really be talking to women they attend the same school with anyway | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 04:53 AM |
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