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LoveMyChoppa · 2021-09-30T01:26:12+00:00

Depends if you want her as a friend or not.

Depends what you’re going for. If you’re trying to maximize the amount of ass you can get, go on the date and try to progress things. If you’d rather put energy elsewhere, do so.

My .02

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-09-30T01:03:09+00:00

I personally won’t see her again if you don’t want to be friends.

Johndope6969 · 2021-09-30T05:31:26+00:00

Sounds like u are the back up

ikeepon · 2021-09-30T01:26:14+00:00

She’s 27, she probably wants to f*ck. Go have a smoke session with her. Flirt with her and maintain your intention - you’re interested in her romantically/sexually but not as a friend. Try touching and escalating. If you get nowhere then I wouldn’t see her again.

EbonyProgrammer · 2021-09-30T02:24:46+00:00

Go ahead and meet up with her, see how far you can progress things, if it doesn't work out, don't do it again. Also when she says she's talking to her ex she means she's fucking him(which doesn't mean she's off the table, he's her ex for a reason😏), so she prolly isn't gonna be as thirsty for sex as you are. Keep that in mind.

I personally think she's keeping you on the back burner for when her ex screws up again. But I don't know this girl, go on the play date.

chamberlain323 · 2021-09-30T04:58:36+00:00

I’m not quite as ruthless as some of the other commenters here in that I will allow a longer timeline to pass before rendering a verdict on whether to continue on with a woman who has friendzoned me. Since you guys haven’t known each other long and she is inviting you to meet up, there may be an opportunity here. It’s your job to try and find out.

I say go to this meetup and feel things out. Keep the flirtation going and ask some questions. See if you can gauge what her relationship status and level of interest is. If she is not receptive to the flirting and indicating that she is not potentially interested in anything romantic, then I would politely finish the study date and then withdraw my attention. It is much better for your emotional health to only pursue women who are interested in you romantically, take it from me.

CrabBucketSecurity · 2021-09-30T06:31:54+00:00

Go and get high and have some giggles, if it leads somewhere it does, if it doesnt it doesnt. No outcome dependency bro, always be going with the flow. Be Zen like Buddha and you can never go wrong.

truthbomb999 · 2021-09-30T03:21:52+00:00

How should I approach it?

I would nope the hell out of that. Sounds like she just wants to score some free drugs

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-09-30T01:36:56+00:00

Short answer - no

Long answer - nope

Ps: next time reject a gal telling u any sentence with “friend” & “ex” bs. Then cut ur attention & contacts.

And dude, after a week of texting.. what kinda signals were u expecting when ur the one taking that long?

spicy_simba · 2021-09-30T07:47:12+00:00

Don't overthink it, don't make any assumptions.

Take the offer as it is, do you want to go ? Then go

Don't decide what is on the other person's mind, just go there and see it. You are fully equipped to understand what is happening when it happens.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-30T05:15:01+00:00

If you want her to actually start obsessing over you, make the appointment but totally blow her off/ghost her. Then don't fucking spend a week texting back and forth killing all attraction.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-09-30T08:14:28+00:00

She's older than you. A woman older than you is on a communicative level far more advanced than you are and she has the ability to manipulate you, without you knowing it. If it's going into a relationship it will be an amazing experience to you, but you'll never know you'll be manipulated. In order to protect yourself I'd recommend time framing it to half a year max to experience it and then terminate the relationship. Not doing that, is putting you're mental healthy at risk, because you risk getting dependent on her, because of the happiness rush that comes with the manipulation.

Unitedtendies · 2021-09-30T01:25:34+00:00

Don’t!

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-09-30T13:11:34+00:00

I think she wants free weed, but go ahead and shoot your shot.

diegggs94 · 2021-09-30T14:06:19+00:00

I made a rule a long time ago. Ex baggage is a no for me. Obviously there are levels, but generally if they come up fast I’m not about it

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