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Field Reportikeepon/r/seduction19/07/21 01:14 AM
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Fundamentalsikeepon/r/seduction21/02/22 02:01 PM
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Resourcesikeepon/r/seduction06/11/22 05:51 PM
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Logisticsikeepon/r/seduction24/09/21 03:42 AM
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Field Reportikeepon/r/seduction31/07/21 07:13 PM
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Fundamentals ikeepon/r/seduction30/09/22 09:49 PM
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3

This.
/r/seduction30/04/24 12:51 AM
1

💯
/r/seduction12/04/23 02:37 AM
10

Don’t take this as an insult, but you need to learn dick control. 9 times out of ten, let her cum first. She will instinctively respect you more and be more appreciative, and more eager to please you (want to make you cum). Also, learn to like going down on her. Most women love that and will get annoyed if you don’t.
/r/askMRP13/02/23 01:26 AM
1

Who cares? You’re going to spend money anyway so might as well have a good meal.
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:44 PM
1

I think the key is to be open to waiting while still escalating. I’m fine with no sex (intercourse) by the third date so long as I’m rounding the bases. This means we make out, touch, etc., and that there’s progression - with each date there’s more intimacy than the previous one, in general. If this happens you won’t get friendzoned, in my experience. Now, if there’s zero intimacy by the third date, I’m gone. I don’t mind waiting but if there’s no intimacy then she’s looking for a friend or is w…
/r/seduction23/10/22 02:42 PM
3

I accept it as a fact. It doesn’t bother me for two reasons: 1) I know she’s hot so of course everyone gonna talk to her, 2) if our connection ain’t strong and she decides to accept these pursuits she weeds herself out and I can stop wasting my time. I don’t worry about things I can’t control.
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:31 PM
1

Dancing. Period.
/r/seduction08/10/22 03:08 AM
1

Who cares?! 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction07/10/22 03:51 PM
1

Yes, all the time. 24/7.
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:23 PM
1

I don’t look at their stories. I mute them. If she asks why I don’t comment on them I say I don’t have time for Instagram. I’m too busy for that, which is generally true. I mute them so I don’t get tempted - out of sight, out of mind.
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:44 AM
1

Don’t sweat it and instead invite her on another date.
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:29 PM
2

Don’t be serious. Have fun, laugh, and smile. Keep it light and flirty. It’s good that you’re tall, I am too. That gives us an edge. Women always comment on my height. If you’re not already doing so, hit the gym and get jacked. Height + jacked = panties flying off 👌🏽
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:16 PM
1

No. Be flirty.
/r/seduction02/10/22 12:45 PM
0

Ok, sure you’re right 👌🏽
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:42 PM
0

Found it. Poon’s 2nd commandment. Thank you, Reddit.
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:38 PM
-3

Who said, and who cares, about weapons. I care about seduction and invoking jealousy in others - and controlling one’s own jealousy - as just another tool. Don’t make this post into something it’s not. Seriously.
/r/seduction30/09/22 10:35 PM
1

Last I checked I’m on Earth-616 😅. Ugly is a relative term. I see plenty of dudes who look like chumps (out of shape, disheveled, etc.) with good looking women 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:45 PM
2

So not true. I see it all the time.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:07 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:06 PM
1

This. Works every time.
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:28 PM
28

If she doesn’t go out with you when you ask her out she ain’t interested. That’s the test.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:43 AM
6

Right. Should also say community made me aware of shit tests, never knew about them before. Now can recognize them and apply this. Works every time!
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:25 AM
10

Agree and amplify. Pure gold.
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:56 AM
2

I mean, shit. It sucks but is it really that serious?! Who the fuck cares if she ghosted you, her loss. Hit the gym, get a hobby, and move on to the next one. This is the way.
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:58 AM
2

This. No f*cks to give!
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:56 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:55 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:44 PM
-3

This.
/r/seduction18/09/22 11:36 AM
2

Work on your appearance. Hit the gym, bro! Then the ladies will be more receptive and more likely to ‘invite’ you to approach or will approach you.
/r/seduction07/09/22 12:29 AM
3

Yes, 💯. Without self love you can’t love anyone else. First love yourself, then the panties will fly off.
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:36 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:06 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:54 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:54 AM
1

She’ll let you know she’s interested. Then you approach.
/r/seduction07/08/22 12:32 PM
2

Awesome!
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:08 PM
2

I only cold approach when I know I will be successful.
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:07 PM
1

Yes. Do the opposite. Better to be bold and brave.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:40 PM
0

No. This isn’t a court case. Shouldn’t be discussing over text, anyway. Keep it light and fluffy next time, and next her.
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:46 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:39 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:37 AM
26

This too shall pass.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:10 PM
-3

Who cares what them hoes say? On to the next one, my brother. Keep your focus inward and no hoe can’t throw you off.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:16 AM
0

Ask her for coffee, or a protein smoothie.
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:52 PM
0

No plausible deniability. Your intention should match your action. That being said, invite her over confident she wants to and will come over, otherwise don’t. Or wait until she suggests it.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:32 AM
5

This is so bad. Very bad.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:17 PM
14

This is bad advice, imho. Friendship, shm-endship! If my intention is to be romantically inclined from the outset then that’s how I proceed. There’s no need to define anything upfront. All the attraction happens because of the pressure and/or anxiety of not knowing where things will lead. And if she doesn’t reciprocate, so be it. There’s no seduction in friendship. Sorry.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:16 PM
1

Sounds like oneitis. You need to fix that, ASAP. Also, you put too much focus on her and let her actions dictate how you feel. Fix the oneitis and this goes away too. Good luck!
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:26 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:40 PM
6

Don’t ask. Assume she doesn’t until she volunteers that she does.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:11 PM
60

She’s probably DTF as long as you don’t f*ck it up.
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:33 PM
2

If you were not crashing at her place then yes. But if you’re going to crash and smash then no. I think the crashing part is key, for me anyway. I’m down to fly for a nice weekend at a hottie’s and smash any day. No crash pad - not so much. So go smash, my dude 👌🏽
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:54 AM
52

Nah, who cares. If she’s attracted enough she won’t care. Just make sure she doesn’t live at home. Or has a car. Then you can smash.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:10 AM
1

This question makes me cringe, and it should make everyone cringe too. It’s cool that you do these things, but ONLY if you like them and do them for YOU. If you do these things to impress chics, stop immediately, do not pass GO, and head to jail for 20 turns. I hope you are rehabilitated when you get out. If chics dig these things and you smash more, great. But it doesn’t matter if they dig them or not. To hell what they think. It only matters if you dig these things.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:06 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:45 AM
3

Nay, months or years 😅
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:43 AM
1

Two strikes already: didn’t smash on first night and awful text. It’s two strikes you’re out in this game, but I would not text her for a week. If she doesn’t text you, ask her for drinks one last time. You never know.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:42 AM
1

I mean, obviously you gotta meet the women. No woman is gonna think ‘gee, that guy over there sure looks like he’s having fun. I just wanna take my panties off.’ Makes sense?
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:40 PM
4

Logically.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:51 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:42 PM
1

Don’t apologize and let her know you’re only interested in an intimate relationship. No friendship. If she’s not interested then next her.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:52 PM
1

I wouldn’t ‘tell’ her. I would flirt with her like with any other chic and escalate. Try to build attraction if it ain’t already there. Confessing your feelings won’t work.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:34 PM
1

Not a fan of read receipts. Turn it off.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:52 AM
1

She wants to bed you. Do it.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:10 PM
46

Make statements instead of asking questions
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:59 AM
1

Next them.
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:53 PM
2

I like it. My mindset though is always the same whether I go out alone or with friends: just chill and have a good time. With that frame I’m bound to meet some hotties and I often do.
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:46 PM
2

Get new friends or stop asking them to fill with you
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:50 PM
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You’re dumb.
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:00 AM
1

Simple. Never enter it.
/r/seduction19/06/22 10:11 PM
1

Any and all sexual innuendo is. Slight meaning you’re not using graphic, overt language. Instead, you suggest and let her interpret. Suppose she says or texts ‘it’s so hot in my apartment.’ You can say ‘I get hot and bothered around you too 😊’, or similar, then see how she reacts and follow along. Basically, the game is to use her words and put a sexual spin on them using suggestion.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:08 AM
1

Flirting is just teasing and using (slight) sexual innuendo. You have to be vulnerable and do it, both in person and over text, otherwise things will never progress.
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:21 PM
4

This. Keep it vague, flirty, and funny. The goal is always to meet up and date. Rarely discuss anything serious over text, especially if you’re not already banging.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:04 AM
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Agree and amplify 🙌🏼
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:51 PM
7

Height is a big factor. That’s just the way it is.
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:09 PM
1

It’s very common in my experience. Maybe due to age or experience of the women.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:54 PM
4

Just to add, never talk about sex and let the girls bring it up first. They will wonder why you don’t talk about it like all the other guys and then they will initiate - assuming they’re into you.
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:45 PM
1

I say both. Depends on my mood
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:04 PM
1

No. It’s fine. Now set up the next date, if you want.
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:44 PM
4

Who cares. Ask again. Two strikes and she’s out.
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:52 PM
1

Dale Carnegie says that everyone loves to talk about themselves. So do what Dale suggests: open up your listening ears and listen to what she says (with genuine interest in what she says). Then you don’t have to think about what to say, just discuss what she says and interject with common interests/experiences. That’s how conversations flow naturally.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:20 PM
5

What’s there to feel weird about or why feel like a loser? It’s a preconceived notion that if you’re alone at a club/bar/etc. then you’re a loser cuz it implies you have no friends. But it can also imply you don’t need others to have a good time. You know how to have a good time by yourself. So take that attitude. If someone asks where my friends are I just say I came solo to chill. If they think it’s weird they can f*ck off. Learn to be alone and you will never be alone.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:03 AM
1

I mean, I go to the bars/clubs alone all the time and have a lot of success. It’s fun. If that doesn’t work for you try joining a social scene. A dance school/club would do nicely. They usually also have ‘social’ dances - it don’t get more social than that, lol.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:33 AM
3

If I get rejected like this it’s usually by young or insecure women. If I approach, a decent person would not be so rude as to run away. They do me a favor by weeding themselves out and not wasting my time. I feel sorry for them. I’m a great guy and they miss out. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction22/05/22 01:40 AM
1

You got enough friends, no need for another!
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:01 AM
9

I think 2nd or 3rd date is cool. Not so much first.
/r/seduction15/05/22 03:58 PM
3

You’ll be teased and ignored. Accept it and move on.
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:02 PM
16

On to the next one. No time for teases.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:10 PM
8

If you’re boring it’s because you lack adventure and experiences. Go enjoy the world, take risks, and you won’t be such a bore!
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:36 PM
18

You should not care if people like you, but they must respect you. If they don’t like you they can f*ck off. Stop trying, period, and just do you.
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:29 PM
1

Ask her to dance. Then chat her up afterward.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:10 PM
5

You’re on the right track. Keep working on yourself. Hitting the gym is the best thing you can do. About your accent I suggest either A) owning it, meaning just accepting it and embracing it or B) take voice lessons with a coach to lose it - this is what actors do.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:14 AM
-1

Just out of a 7 year relationship! Why didn’t you hit it?
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:13 PM
3

This 🙌🏼
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:09 PM
4

Pregnancy and STDs are overrated. F*ck that, always bag it up out there. Only way to get a peaceful sleep at night.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:08 PM
1

This is an interesting question. I had always kept my hair short (fades, tapers) but grew it out during the pandemic - wasn’t going to the barber. When I finally did make it to the barber I left it long. I style it with putty (I have curly/wavy hair). A lot of women dig it, a lot don’t. The interesting thing is that some women (whom I know were previously attracted to me) I know didn’t like it… at first. They were off-put by my new look. But I noticed after a very short time (about an hour) they…
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:36 AM
2

Yes. Girls who are attracted may initiate physical contact. It’s a big sign. That’s an invitation to talk to her.
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:28 PM
4

Holy hell! I got exhausted just reading all that. She’s probably exhausted too. Lol. It’s always tempting to fall for a chic especially when it’s smooth sailing. But she’s got to know you have other options. Let her chase and let her keep chasing. It’s like you two had a whole relationship crammed in to one date. So what’s left for her to chase? I wouldn’t text her and would let her text first. If she doesn’t then be happy you had a whole relationship in one date. If she does, slow it down and s…
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:07 AM
1

Who cares?! If you don’t drink then that’s that. If the hottie asks say why. Done. If she doesn’t like it on to the next one.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:03 PM
1

‘Hang out again soon’ is wonky. You need to be more firm and direct. It’s your job to set up the courtship. Ask her out again on a specific day/time. She’s into you so just ask her out again
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:17 AM
0

Then they should work on their music too.
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:13 AM
0

You’re a musician and don’t have any groupies? Even the musicians at the local dive bar do. Open up and come out of your shell. Talking to women does wonders.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:40 PM
7

I try to change that anxiety into excitement. How often do you get to feel like a jumble of nerves, after all. As others have said it’s not a big deal and it’s all in your head. So use your head to change those feelings to excitement. Worst case is that I’ll get shot down badly (probably not). If I do I’ll have a great story to tell the guys and we’ll have a great laugh about it. Or I bag a hot chick and the guys will give me props. Either way it’s win-win.
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:34 PM
2

Nah. If it does who cares?! Lean into the awkwardness (internally acknowledge it, not externally, and enjoy it - turn it into excitement. This is how to deal with awkwardness inwardly.) She’ll feel awkward too, everyone does. Just go for it, nothing to lose and everything to gain.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:55 PM
2

Just text her again and, after a few playful texts, ask to meet up to study together. If she doesn’t text back or declines to study again, next her. Two strikes and she’s out.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:50 PM
1

Stop asking questions. Make more comments and suggestions.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:06 AM
19

You’re dumb. No girls for you!
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:30 PM
2

This whole thing about opening is overrated. When you think like this you get stuck on what to say. Change your mindset from having to open on specific types of people - hotties - to being a social person to everyone and anyone. When granny is walking down the street and gives me eye contact I ‘open’ with “Hi, how are you?” When I see the 4 at the cashier and she looks at me I say “Hi, good to see you”. When I see dudes at the gym I say “what’s up, bro?” When I see the hottie anywhere and she gi…
/r/seduction15/04/22 10:54 PM
1

Practice talking with people, in general. Once you work on your social skills approaching girls will come naturally.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:11 PM
1

Think and believe the opposite!
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:09 PM
2

Join the NFGL: No F*cks Given League. We approach whomever we like, whenever we like! Lol.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:43 PM
1

If you don’t feel comfortable with it how can anyone else? Learn to accept your height and so will everyone else. You got this!
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:56 PM
27

You jizzed on her back - that’s great and sounds like ‘finishing’ to me! Seriously, who cares?! You both had fun and enjoyed it. Now go enjoy some more!
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:12 PM
1

Depends on what you mean by vulnerable. For me it means being my authentic self without concern for others’ opinion. This is who I am - take it or leave it. No shame in that, just freedom.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:27 PM
9

Go out to have a good time and focus on relaxing. Have a drink, chill, and enjoy the hotties.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:20 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:28 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:24 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:13 PM
2

Just respond that you enjoyed yourself and thank her for a good time. She’ll text you in a few weeks when she’s hot and bothered. If she doesn’t, then at least you didn’t waste anymore time.
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:34 PM
1

Just go dancing then grab drinks. Movies are usually bad for a first date. Maybe movies on another date.
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:27 PM
3

None of it matters unless you don’t have inner game. Inner game trumps all of them.
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:25 PM
1

Being flirty means doing it without hiding you’re doing it. If you try to be flirty while concealing your intentions then it comes across as creepy. Don’t be a creep, be a flirt.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:37 PM
1

There ya go! I’m glad you see the light! The idea is always the same: put yourself in situations that are conducive to meeting women and where you will share commonalities with them. So if you’ve got 5 weeks left I’m thinking final exams. Find or join a study group. Find a study buddy or several study buddies. Better if they are chics but ok if they are dudes. Other dudes also want to get laid so good to have a support system. Maybe too late to join a club or group but I’m sure there are events …
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:06 PM
0

Wow, I wish I was back in college. So many young women with wet panties. You are in a goldmine. You have a great opportunity to meet girls. But instead you are moping about being a kissless virgin and don’t see what’s all around you (And… how many college chics you think are also kissless virgins?! Plenty! So you’re right where you need to be). Wake up! So easy to meet girls in college: go to the school gym (guaranteed wet panties there), join a club (book club, dancing, drama,… ), go to local b…
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:29 PM
-1

If you’re just friends with a bunch of girls that’s not pre-selection. If you happen to be friends with women then fine. But looking to be friends with women because you think it will give you an ‘in’ is lame. Besides, if women see you friends with women they will think of you as ‘friend’ material, not f*ck material. Pre-selection is when you’re around women who are attracted to you. Start small and pre-selection will automatically happen in time. You’re young so start now and reap the benefits.…
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:17 PM
-1

Actually you’re better than average. Having female friends is a no-no, in general. So all you gotta do is start meeting women. The kicker is that women are… wait for it… people! So if you know how to meet people you can meet women. If you don’t know how to meet people, start there and work your way up.
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:01 PM
3

That’s usually every guy’s struggle, virgin or not. So you’re where everyone else is.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:50 PM
5

Start where every kissless virgin starts… meet women.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:35 PM
1

Whatever reason you had for missing out while you were younger is fine. Start now and you won’t be a virgin forever.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:14 PM
14

Everyone starts as a kissless virgin and deals with the awkwardness associated with that. You will have to do it too, just like everyone else did. So what if you are starting out later than others?! If you are comfortable in your own skin then you will be fine.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:54 AM
7

Not late at all.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:47 AM
2

Eat healthy, lift weights, and inner game.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:13 PM
1

Yes. But then two strikes and she’s out!
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:03 PM
3

I never liked the word ‘dating’. In my mind, I meet a woman and if I’m attracted to her I simply want to spend a little time with her and get intimate (not necessarily physically), to have fun. I don’t have expectations, I’m there trying to enjoy her company and let things progress, however they may. Confidence is a little overrated, imho. The only confidence needed is in oneself, in whom you are, and your intentions. Do I want to smash? Sure, but I’m not looking for it. By not looking for it I’…
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:30 PM
1

This. Nothing more obvious than when a woman is all smiles and touchy-feely.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:45 PM
3

Sure, why not? But if she doesn’t reply again I would next her. Two strikes and you’re out!
/r/seduction13/03/22 02:12 PM
7

Yes.
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:43 PM
1

Me: It was nice meeting you yesterday Her: same here Me: Do you always give your number to strangers? 😅 … Try not to double text. Good luck!
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:54 AM
1

It’s text, lol. Don’t you text people?! Just relax and be fun.
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:49 AM
1

Just google flirty text. Point is to not be boring or reveal too much as others said.
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:42 AM
1

She bringing a date and a friend? Thank her for the foursome but you only down for threesome’s with her friend 😅
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:41 AM
1

Just be flirty over text. That’ll be enough
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:39 AM
2

You have the right approach, I’d keep it a bit more subtle. How about: “hey I feel like i see you here all the time, I’m ____” get her name. “I have to finish my workout now but we should hang out sometime. Let’s exchange numbers.
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:02 AM
1

Say ‘Hi’
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:01 PM
1

It’s cool that you want ‘more’ from a chic, but not every chic is ‘more’ material. She was obviously attracted to you from the get and probably wanted to smash but you put on the brakes because you were looking for more. “You can’t turn a Hoe into a housewife, fool.” Take the opportunity to smash when you can, save the ‘I wanna get to know you first’ for other girls. My two cents.
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:05 AM
1

This.
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:09 AM
1

It’s not. Looks peak the interest. The rest is about connecting.
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:16 PM
2

Social settings, in general. Especially after hour places.
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:38 PM
1

First learn to be witty/funny/sociable, in general. Then being so around women will come naturally.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:50 PM
1

Just ask her out for drinks.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:51 PM
5

This. Save the confession for the priest.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:50 PM
2

Having no expectations is big. The more you can be unattached to outcomes the better.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:26 PM
1

Meh. Bad title. Thanks.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:10 PM
2

Who said anything about me chasing? Lol. Read the post, please.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:03 PM
0

I’m desperate because I replied to a text? Hardly. I think you misunderstand the post.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:02 PM
1

I mean, I literally responded with one text in reply. Lol. That enough for chicks to think I’m a simp? If so, not the kind of chics I want to spend time on anyway.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:41 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:33 PM
13

Ask her out now. Wait any longer and you risk her losing interest.
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:48 AM
1

Like I said, sketchy. But better do it sooner rather than later.
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:48 PM
10

It’s kinda sketchy, frankly. You got her number under false pretenses. She will be turned off, unless she really, really likes you. I would tell her just that: “I discussed the position with my manager and gave him your CV. Good luck! How about coffee sometime?” and escalate from there.
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:43 PM
4

Don’t put the hotties on a pedestal. Surely there is or you will find something average about them. So they’re just like the average broads. Treat them as such.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:39 AM
1

Really?! The best revenge is to live a good life. Move on.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:33 AM
0

They all catch feelings eventually, usually, even if you’re up front about your intentions. Them’s just the breaks. Once you hear the ‘L’ word or they tell you they want more and/or have feelings you must cut it off. Good that you do even though it ain’t easy.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:27 AM
1

Just text her a few times then ask her for coffee. You got this!
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:23 AM
12

If you can’t talk to the bros how you gonna talk to the hoes?! Ask them for advice and to show you the ropes.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:17 AM
6

Talk to your roommates and get some pointers. This is a golden opportunity for you and you are instead sulking. Bro code, bro, ya know?!
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:15 AM
3

You probably don’t flirt, miss obvious signals, and/or don’t try to progress things along. If you’re just chitchatting and never try to ‘seal the deal’ then I could see someone saying that. You also mentioned being ‘too nice’. Nice guys finish last and don’t get laid. Being kind is good, being nice is bad. Don’t be nice.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:43 AM
7

Sex doesn’t just happen but one-night-stands do. How easily it happens depends. Doesn’t have to be all about attraction, can just be about how horny the woman is because, let’s face it, any decently looking woman can find a willing partner.
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:53 AM
0

You don’t know what you’re missing. Two idiots is complete lunacy 🤣. Not many women can handle it.
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:20 PM
0

My experience is exactly the opposite. The statement was from a certain point of view and is relative, obviously. Only an idiot would think otherwise. At least we agree that we should shag with protection. Hit me with a DM and we’ll get this party started 🤝
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:05 PM
2

Now you’re just being mean. 😅
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:24 PM
1

Who cares about double standards? I don’t and neither should the OP.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:57 PM
0

It’s sound advice. You’re entitled to your opinion as am I. Who goes raw on some broad they just met?! That’s idiocy.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:53 PM
1

Hear, hear! Lol.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:20 AM
2

Just chill. Make eye contact. Once you do, say ‘hi’ and introduce yourself. Doesn’t matter what you say, really. After awhile it will become second nature.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:52 AM
0

Always wear a condom. Always. Women never/rarely want you to wear one. Just think: unless you’re Brad Pitt there ain’t nothing special about you and they say that to every guy.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:45 AM
0

This.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:41 AM
1

15… takes me back. Lol. Kudos to you for the approach. Sounds like she’s playing high school games. Ignore her. She’ll either approach you or she won’t. Either way you should chat up the other chics.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:40 AM
3

This.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:09 PM
1

Who cares?! What’s said was said and that’s that. Done. If you’re in her city again just hit her up and let the cards fall where they may. Otherwise, forget about her, completely, and instead focus on yourself and pick up some hotties in your city.
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:50 PM
3

Read the book Models by Mark Manson. That’s all you really need. Good luck!
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:16 PM
1

Be happy you got to share a nice time together. Maybe you two can hook up every now and then when y’all are in the same city together. But I would forget about her and look for women in your own city. Seriously, she dumped you and dated your friend?! I know that’s in the past… and you should leave it there. Clearly you’re not over that hurt. Anyone that would do that just ain’t worth it. Move on.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:11 PM
11

You already know the answer: “… just completely move on and keep focusing on my self…” You want a romantic relationship and you’ve expressed this, so don’t settle for a friendship. If she doesn’t want what you want then say ‘adios’ and move on. No time for friendships. Kudos to you for losing weight and hitting the gym! Focusing on yourself makes you more attractive and is healthy. Keep up the good work. This is the way.
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:54 PM
2

You should be calm and express yourself, calmly. After that, each of you will choose to continue or not. But it should be mutual. If it’s just you that wants to continue and chases it will be all downhill. If she doesn’t want to continue and keeps acting flaky get rid of her permanently. Too many fish to be stuck on one that plays games.
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:58 AM
180

Keep approaching. Practice makes perfect. Doesn’t matter if she texts back or not. Way to go!
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:31 AM
2

Leave her alone and focus on yourself. You’ve already left the door open. She can walk through it or pass by. It’s her choice and you can’t make it for her. Accept whatever she chooses but you must always choose you.
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:25 AM
1

Maybe a bit too non-chalant? Girls you’re shagging don’t like when dudes are aloof, even if it’s not an LTR. Her ‘stupid’ comment was a term of endearment and you turned it around on her. If you followed it up and continued the conversation then it woulda been ok, but you left her flat on that note and it annoyed her. If you don’t care then who cares, but if you want to keep shagging you should reach out. But she may want/ push for an LTR. Girls usually do at some point.
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:17 AM
1

Tough to say without specifics, but your friends’ descriptions make you sound like a Boy Scout or a Nice Guy. If that’s the case then no wonder. Again, no clue without specifics. Good luck!
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:32 AM
2

Simple: make a pass at her and ask her out. If she says no or says “we’re just friends” get rid of her and don’t be her friend. Either way, you’re out of the friend zone.
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:47 AM
5

This.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:37 PM
2

At some point, you’re right, it’s spilt milk and time to walk away. But up until that point - when they begin to be intimate - a guy should not let it go so easily. If this is a recurring theme, as the OP stated, then he’s giving up too easily and he should assert himself.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:37 PM
6

Maybe she was thinking ‘that hot dude I was with just let some other dude pick me up and didn’t bother to stand up for me.’ Again, no one knows because the OP didn’t stand his ground. And, to hell about their thoughts or anyone else’s on being weird. Since when do others’ opinions of us matter? Only our own about ourself matters.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:17 PM
11

What is there to do? You can’t force people to act the way you want them to. Having said that, you should’ve introduced yourself to him and hung around. From his point of view she was just some single broad and he picked her up. Or maybe they knew each other (people don’t usually introduce themselves via a hug). Point is you don’t know because you reduced yourself to a bystander and allowed someone to move in unscathed. Next time join the group, disarm the other guy by befriending him and her an…
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:47 PM
0

This is the way.
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:08 PM
6

Who cares. Just message her and see what’s up. If she thinks it’s creepy at least you gave it a shot.
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:18 AM
2

This is why you must approach. Especially at a club where everyone is dancing and having a good time. Look for a good time too and dance. Then escalate.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:47 PM
1

Just dance and grind with them. Not the time to be mysterious if she wants to rub all over you. If you overstep boundaries she will let you know, but you will never know the boundary if you don’t go for it.
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:12 PM
2

Approach from the front and just start dancing with them. Obviously you should look at them. Easier to dance with the girls who are giving you eye contact. Once they do get your dance on!
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:44 PM
2

Dance with them then afterward start talking with them. Be wary of girls who ask you to buy them a drink. Rarely you should unless you know it will progress into something.
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:34 PM
1

You’re 17, she’s 17 ( I assume, or thereabouts). I don’t see an issue with a 4 month breakup. Seems reasonable to me at your age. If you want to get to know her then dating is how it’s done, just don’t make it exclusive or be her steady boyfriend.
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:11 AM
1

Oh, so true!
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:52 AM
1

No such thing as a soulmate. Stop selling dreams. lol
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:13 AM
3

Who the f*ck cares? He’s trying to make himself feel important by trying to look down on you. Whatever. Walk that way, dude! The chics got me on blast and they’re into me, not you. Walk on by!
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:04 AM
1

Kidding, right? lol.
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:52 AM
3

It’s only a problem because you say so. Stop thinking it’s one and it disappears. Problem solved. The truth is you only get experience by doing and being awkward, making mistakes. That’s fine. You’re human, she’s human. If she lambasts you for being a little awkward then shame on her and move on. Either way you win: if you lose you win because you gain experience; if you win you win. Either way you win. With this way of thinking you always win. Start winning!
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:04 AM
3

What’s there to happen over IG/text?! You’re the guy - it’s your job to escalate. Otherwise nothing, usually, will happen. So if you like her escalate and ask her out. Otherwise add her to your list of IG groupies. Seriously, all/ most chics wait for the guy to escalate. They follow our lead. So escalate already!
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:56 AM
4

Your description sounds like she is interested. But why waste time on that. Just assume she is and ask her to catch a quick coffee or something.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:53 AM
4

All’s fair in love and war.
/r/seduction24/10/21 07:00 PM
25

She has a boyfriend not a husband. Admirable that you respect her relationship but it’s her job to respect it, not your’s. It could mean she wants to explore something on the side with you. If you’re comfortable with that then pursue. If you would want something more meaningful then tread carefully. If you don’t want to lose the friendship then don’t pursue. Just don’t have any regrets and respect yourself so that you don’t get hurt.
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:59 PM
3

Hi. My name is… works every time! Lol. Good luck!
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:40 AM
4

It’s expected. If you feel you are driving too much you probably are. Let her drive - pull back, don’t initiate text as much, let her feel like you have other options. You can’t make her feel like you’re committed to her after 1 month. Ultimately you gain by letting go. Either way, you win.
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:03 AM
1

She was into him.
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:22 AM
2

True. Being natural, authentic, and in the moment always wins!
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:17 AM
2

Who cares what they value. Just value yourself and the chics will dig you.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:39 PM
7

Girls like hard dicks. Sounds like a win-win.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:12 AM
1

Meh, who cares?! She paid without making a fuss. That’s what’s up!
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:16 AM
1

If she says that to you who else has she said that to? I mean, do you really think you’re that special? Lol. Always buckle up, you’ll sleep better at night.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:47 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:41 PM
2

Go for it bro! Nothing to lose.
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:55 AM
1

It’s all good, bro. Don’t be too hard on yourself. We’ve all been there. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself. It’s just lunch/coffee/walk her to her next class/hang out/etc. In the grand scheme of things, it doesn’t matter. More importantly, the outcome doesn’t matter. What matters is staying true to yourself. There’s dignity in that and that’s what it’s all about. You’ll get another opportunity and I’m sure you’ll go for it. We’re all behind you!
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:15 AM
1

So, what’s the update?
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:32 AM
0

Ask her out outside of work.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:50 AM
4

She’s waiting for you to talk to her. Don’t let her wait too long or you’ll get next’d.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:43 AM
3

Hey, how are you?
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:55 AM
17

Up to you. Since she didn’t suggest an alternative date when she said she was busy, and didn’t message you all week, 90% she’s not interested. If you want to test that 10% chance ask her out again. If she flakes again she’s out - it’s two strikes you’re out in the dating game, not three. Frankly, I wouldn’t bother. If she wasn’t excited to be asked out by you and let the opportunity to hang out with a cool guy like you pass, next her. Her loss.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:48 AM
0

RemindMe! Tomorrow “Get update on lunch date”
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:31 AM
0

Go for it! You got this! 👍🏽
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:13 AM
0

Ask her to grab a coffee/lunch/hangout without the group, after class or another time. If she agrees don’t discuss group/class stuff, get to know her instead and have fun. If she doesn’t agree then you know where you stand. If you wait too long you risk her losing attraction for you and being friend zoned. F*ck that. Better a semester of a little awkwardness than the alternative. And you would have nothing to feel awkward about - you asked her to chill not to marry her. Do it. Today!
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:54 AM
18

Exactly. If a woman invites me to smoke/drink them panties are coming off. lol. Seriously, go and have fun, keep the flirty vibe. Good things will happen.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:41 AM
68

She’s 27, she probably wants to f*ck. Go have a smoke session with her. Flirt with her and maintain your intention - you’re interested in her romantically/sexually but not as a friend. Try touching and escalating. If you get nowhere then I wouldn’t see her again.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:26 AM
6

Yes. The best game. Inner game.
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:17 PM
4

This is a good goal but you don’t need to follow it exactly. It puts undue pressure on you. I find it easier to approach in social settings, for example, but I’m not always in a social setting. Maybe lower the goal: approach a girl (attractive or not) when/if the opportunity presents itself (meaning if you happen to be around a girl wherever you happen to be, then approach. But don’t be hunting for girls to approach. Lol)
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:17 PM
21

Go solo. You already met her through friends at the party and hung out in that setting. No sense in repeating that scene again, yet.
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:17 AM
4

I go out alone fairly often. Did it just this Friday night actually. Friends went home but I stayed out. Met new friends and had fun. Wash, rinse, repeat.
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:47 AM
3

I might text her once every several days, if that. Or maybe when the vacation is winding down. I generally don’t text new chics when I’m on vacation. If I just met a girl she’s not that important; if I’m on vacation I’m on vacation - I’m too busy for texting new girls. Most girls understand this and shouldn’t be bothered by the non texts. If not, screw them. Sending texts to new girls gives the wrong vibe, tells them I give them value/importance when I shouldn’t (I don’t know her so why would sh…
/r/seduction19/09/21 12:33 PM
6

You bring up a good point. The pandemic has given me a lot of anxiety, especially if chics ain’t vaxxed. Just have to be careful out there.
/r/seduction19/09/21 12:38 AM
57

Yes, you’re overthinking it. The fact that you touched her at all is good. I would aim to touch her arms and hands first.
/r/seduction19/09/21 12:33 AM
3

I would drop the whole “moves” thing. Maybe take a step back and get comfortable talking to strangers first - anywhere, anytime, anyone. Once you are comfortable doing that you’ll realize that girls are just people too. At a frat party everyone is there to have fun and socialize, so have fun and socialize. If you decide you like a girl after talking with her for a bit, escalate. Get her number, ask her to meet up sometime.
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:15 AM
3

Wait until she hits you up first. I mean, maybe she’s just busy. If a week goes by drop her a few texts then ask her if she’s free Thursday night or Saturday. If she declines or doesn’t suggest another time, move on. The Doc’s got other patients to see.
/r/seduction15/09/21 01:24 PM
65

Keep getting to know her and dating her. A serious relationship will blossom over time. It doesn’t happen by discussing it after a few dates.
/r/seduction15/09/21 11:54 AM
4

This 🙌🏼
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:24 AM
6

You’re already putting her on a pedestal which ain’t good. Treat her like any other date and you’ll be fine. I wouldn’t mention that you googled her and know about the tv stuff - kinda creepy. You should be genuinely interested in her and try to get to know her, make her feel comfortable. She’s already attracted to you so just be cool. And wear something a little nicer than shorts and a t-shirt, please. Good luck!
/r/seduction13/09/21 09:21 PM
3

Nah, no big deal. If his game was tight you wouldn’t have been able to cockblock. Hopefully he realizes you did, intentionally or not, and learns something from it. If not, too bad.
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:41 PM
37

Just leave it. Who cares? Her loss.
/r/seduction04/09/21 11:06 PM
1

Nah. I got the digits. Started texting. Will see how it goes.
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:30 PM
1

It’s not always about metrics. Frankly I don’t have those in mind these days due to the pandemic.
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:04 PM
3

It’s a skill, like anything else. First few times I felt a little awkward and self-conscious. Now it’s almost second nature, though wasn’t doing it during the pandemic, obviously. Doing it because you want to meet people is a good reason. I started doing it because I got tired of waiting for people to have a good time. Now, if I wanna chill and nobody’s around, I just go solo. That’s a kind of freedom. I’ve also travelled alone. That is also very enjoyable. Give it a go and see if you like it. J…
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:31 PM
3

I go to the bar alone often. Usually don’t wind up alone, always meet folks. Matter of fact, was bar hopping alone just last night! I really enjoy it. I like hanging with my friends too, of course, but sometimes I just wanna chill solo, meet people, take in the sights, sounds, and relax, without giving a f*ck. It’s fun.
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:59 PM
2

Word.
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:53 PM
1

Just assume it’s an invitation an proceed.
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:17 PM
1

🙌🏼
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:17 PM
1

Right on! I had forgotten this, but the point is to engage the group as a whole as you point out. I will remember this next time! Thanks!
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:32 PM
1

It helped me by making me feel good about myself. Girls’ reaction was secondary, meaning the benefit is/was for me first. Any secondary reaction by others was a side effect
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:25 AM
1

I’ve realized most people are lonely. If you think about it, no one can really know you, only you can know yourself. Start there but at the same time, get out there and keep socializing. You’re doing the right thing by going out and don’t stop there. Put yourself in situations where it’s easy and even expected of you to socialize. Then everyone is there for the same reason and takes off any pressure you may feel. I like some of the above suggestions of dancing and volunteering. Meditating is coo…
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:55 PM
1

Live long and prosper!
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:09 PM
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