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Phrases like "he really needs to get laid" is akin to saying "she must be on her period". It's sexist and demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:11 AM
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They don't want you. They just want your pussy for 20 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:47 AM
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Very Just-World fallacy-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 02:21 PM
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Incels that go the gym are plenty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/17 01:28 AM
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You actually believe incels are angry and misogynistic when they go out into the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 01:00 AM
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Everything equal, men have it harder in the dating scene than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:57 AM
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For most guys, i've found that as soon as they dropped weight and focused on their aesthetic, they were having no trouble roping in women. Not for me, I've never been overweight. Been focused on improving my physique, dress style for years and I've always had good grooming but it wasn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:51 AM
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Yes, men only "feel" unattractive, there's no possible way that women actually see them as unattractive. It's all his fault for feeling that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:49 AM
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Except most incels actually do try asking women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 12:48 AM
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You haven't been around these parts much, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 03:14 PM
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but surely none of us on this subreddit really believe female attraction is as looks-based as its Male equivalent? That's where you're wrong. Men have lower standards than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 03:09 PM
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I played team sports as a kid and was good at it. But what happens is that some kids have better puberty than others, and the physical disparity grows. If you're weaker and smaller, you're not as likely to be good at sports and you wont make it on teams and it wont be as worth it to keep playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 02:59 PM
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Bwahaha and she has a kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/17 05:41 PM
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I can offer everything except Chad genetics. Women aren't willing to take me up on that offer if the cost is sex because what they really want is Chad genetics if there's sex involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:17 PM
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Why does it need saying if you already know what you want? Or are you that unsure that you need to be marketed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:10 PM
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Eh, people will say you are both trying too hard and not trying enough at the same time.
/r/seduction29/11/17 02:51 PM
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It's given that relationships with the opposite sex leads to sex.
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:33 PM
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I think any normal person would be depressed if they found themselves a virgin and alone in late age.
/r/seduction28/11/17 05:16 AM
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Women are creeped out by nice guys because nice guys are not upfront about their sexuality. Creepiness is due to uncertainty about a persons intentions. When unattractive men are upfront about their intentions they are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 03:41 AM
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Its the guys who are 6/10s, not tall, AND not outgoing/masculine that have problems with women. Nah, even if they approach and become outgoing it doesn't work out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 05:37 AM
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Put yourself in settings where it is normal to talk to other people without wanting to ask them out. And where would that be? Talk to women without the necessary goal to get a date. Just do some small talk and find a bit out about their interests. If that happens you ask for her number or ask to meet again at the end of the conversation. Umm, that's exactly what I've been doing. So what you should do instead is to just start out with compliments (you know, the normal niceties you expect from sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 02:01 PM
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Bluepill dating advice is thinking that you need to "just beee confident', "beee yourself", that women aren't visual. Unless you are rediculously hot a woman needs to get to know a man before she really starts finding him attractive. Thus if you want to ask a woman on a date unless she feels particularly charitable you'll need to talk to her and establish some common ground and mutual attraction before you ask her out. But that's what dates are for, so that we could get to know each other. How i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:19 AM
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Women should care if they want to have or have sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 11:07 PM
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I'm saying that as long as I desire casual sex, I of course will want to hook up with guys I am attracted to (hot guys.) It's just so weird how all this just happens to coincide with how attractive you are as you age. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:14 AM
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Everyone would only have sex with hot people if they could, no? So you're basically admitting to me that if somehow you're youth was extended, you would keep the same behavior of a youthful casual-sex seeking girl. That just proves to me that you are using the dual-mating strategy where you settle as you get older. What guy of guy would want that, especially if he missed out on what you had in your youth because you and girls like you were sleeping with hot men while completely ignoring guys lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:01 AM
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She had all the choice because she was the first mover.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 01:41 AM
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At 19, I want casual sex, and I'm looking for a guy who wants that. At 29, I'll probably want a relationship, and I'm looking for a guy who wants that. I dont get what part of this is horrible. This is exactly what causes inceldom. Girls having sex with only the hot guys during their youth leaves the average guys out in the cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 01:39 AM
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A better analogy would be a guy who gave gifts, expensive dinners, vacations to random girls he just met but now that he is getting into a long term relationship he doesn't want to give any of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 01:36 AM
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Women are having sex with men that don't respect them confirmed. Proof that the reason incels aren't getting laid is because they don't "respect women".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 01:33 AM
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Did those. Still incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 02:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 02:29 PM
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Yawn, strawman argument. Incels have tried all of the things you've mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 01:45 PM
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Bullshit. Most guys aren't even sending messages because they aren't getting matched in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 11:10 PM
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Nope. I did all those things except go to Asia. Didn't change shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 12:39 AM
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Imagine if the genders were reversed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/17 02:16 AM
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The douchebags that they swiped right on themselves. What does that say about them?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/17 11:35 PM
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Cut the shit man, I already told you I've tried. A few years trying TRP and putting the effort in isn't a minor setback. I don't know if we're talking about the same thing because I'm talking more about getting the results with women than improving. I improved but the success with women never came. I don't think "trying harder" is the solution here.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 03:29 AM
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I see, you're actually right man. But I do see a lot of the "if you fail it's because you didn't try hard enough" thought here.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 08:06 PM
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Just from what I saw at university. But I said that they are lifting, not that they are ripped. they're either fat or scrawny, I find that a lot of people have an extreme standard for guys to be fit. A lot of guys who get called scrawny are actually pretty fit. They don't have bad bodies. If you held women to the same standard then 98% of women wouldn't live up to that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:38 PM
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It's not that hard and yes, I stand by the fact that most guys are working out these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 05:21 PM
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Most young guys 20-28 these days work out and go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:11 PM
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Yes but it doesn't change their situation either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:50 PM
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I've seen plenty of whiny little bitch men get laid... because they were good looking.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:14 PM
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The red pill works, but only if you're willing to put in the effort. Ever heard of survivorship bias?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:13 PM
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You can push your SMV way up just by putting in the work and stopping the pathetic pity party. The case for a lot of incels is that they have already put the work in. They feel like they've maxxed out but their looks still aren't good enough.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 02:58 PM
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if you go on and on about AWALT, hypergamy, the cock carousel, the wall etc. in real life conversation. Do you really think incels go and talk about these things in real life? They don't.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 02:57 PM
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Yeah they need to stop being so entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 02:45 PM
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Usually the problem with those types of guys is lack of looks. When they read TRP, nothing really changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 02:22 PM
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They would just approach Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 02:09 PM
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That's not what the parent comment was going for. It was talking about self-sabotage in a different way. At least that's how I interpreted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:40 AM
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This will come as no shock to those watching young men sabotage themselves. Seems like you have a hard time admitting that many of these men actually do approach women "outside" but just get rejected every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 03:57 PM
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Because neckbeards do not come off as trustworthy and mentally healthy individuals. Same for men with poor hygiene. Poor style too but not nearly as bad. What I was trying to get at is that someone can be properly groomed but still be physically unattractive. You're talking about something else entirely. Also, neckbeard is based on physical appearance. Yes it's creepy to ask a girl out to coffee in the first message and especially when she hasn't put up anything about herself. Bullshit. The same…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 07:42 PM
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Because? This makes someone not a neckbeard for the most part. I don't exactly see how that's relevant. Why would that be? I mean, go look at /r/creepyPMs. Plenty of examples. See this thread: https://lookism.net/Thread-HOLY-FUCK-CREEPIEST-MESSAGE-EVERR-MISOGYNY-BITTER-NECKBEARD-BETA-FEDORA-OVERLOAD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 04:59 AM
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If it's because of looks then that dude isn't groomed well enough, first and foremost. I disagree. After that it's socially unacceptable or awkward behavior that makes someone come off as creepy. The socially unacceptable behavior could be pursuing women or suggesting that they are sexually attracted to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 04:17 PM
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How? They pursue women and then women say "ewww he's creepy." Usually because of his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:27 PM
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And men who pursue women and act sexual are also inherently creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 05:59 AM
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Old women have had their whole youth to find a partner. They essentially "go first" in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 01:54 PM
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Scientists and sociologists coined the term to describe the phenomena so clearly it is a thing. Furthermore someone can still be an incel even if they don't label themselves that way or don't even know that there is a word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:23 AM
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I think that incels are less than average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:08 AM
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Decent guys, but not flirty at all, did not really pursue women. Maybe they are not flirty or don't pursue women because they get creepshamed and rejected with high probability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:05 AM
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I don't believe we hijacked the term at all. We are still using it with it's original meaning. It's normies that have appended all these extra interpretations to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:57 AM
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If youth doesn't matter, then why do women's preferences change so much when they get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:49 AM
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just more masculine than she is. mmm no. They need to out-masculine other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 02:33 AM
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I've known some and they think it makes them special or something. They would post pictures of their cutting online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 02:37 PM
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below average girls, that are in your league. Even below average girls don't want us, because average men or above-average men can still dip down for a quick lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 07:21 AM
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Also, men living with their mom's don't cost the taxpayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 07:09 AM
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Why would men "step up to the plate" if they can't even get a blowjob from women. It's women that need to step up, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 07:04 AM
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Another thing to add in here is most men take bad pictures of themselves, which obviously hurts them. I wager if guys took better pictures more women would find them attractive. lol bullshit. Have you looked at the pictures women take? Women take shitty pictures too on online dating but it doesn't hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 02:00 PM
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a couple decades before it starts paying dividends. Well I've been trying for 7 years and it hasn't paid any yet.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 06:37 AM
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Cat ladies are old women, incels are young men. It's normal for sex to taper down as you get older. For incels, they are missing out on sex during their youth. I'm sure incels would bang cat-lady-to-be girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 09:43 PM
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But what im saying though is that women often flat out deny this and say that a man's looks is of little importance Yep, they'll say personality or skills matter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 06:52 AM
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Some of these are good. One that I haven't seen mentioned is the excessive consumerism. You'll see this mindless shopaholic mentality where women will buy useless and silly things. All this places more stress on the planet and our resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 10:30 PM
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Did all that and more and I still can't get laid. I don't have social anxiety or autism either.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 05:50 AM
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You can still easily get LJBF after the first line. "I thought you were cute and had to come say hello" "Aww you're sweet, I have a boyfriend though. But we can still be friends!" has happened to me before.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 03:50 PM
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But you don't respect women, OP.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 06:46 AM
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You will fail at either pill if all you do is whine and bitch on the internet. Of course, they'll never stop because procrastination is a hell of a drug. This is a false characterization of incels. A lot of incels do truly put effort in but you guys never listen when they tell you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 08:31 PM
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They say that at a certain point, doing things like haircut and working out wont be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 08:28 PM
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It's different when you have been incel your whole life compared to just a dry spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 08:26 PM
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A women who has been fucked 100 times but had no relationships is worse off than a man who had no sex at all. lolno
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 06:02 PM
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No mentor. And no gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 11:07 PM
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Trust me, I fill my time with many interesting things. It wont make women flock to you.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 04:09 AM
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This shit has been going on before incels. I am also not talking about the way incels complain, I already addressed that I am not talking about them if you were to read my post carefully. I am just talking about NON-CRAZIES complaining about being single in a rational way. Those guys STILL get some blow-back from feminists. Even before incels, I've seen men that didn't identify as incels complain about being single. They got blow-back, too. I am sure this blowback caused the incel movement to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 01:29 AM
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"Women don't sleep with you because you have nothing to offer" "REEEEEEE! Women aren't machines you put something into and sex pops out!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 05:30 PM
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“I never do this, but there’s something very intriguing about you, and I would have regretted it if I didn’t quickly introduce myself.” By saying this, you are suggesting that she has compelled to act in a way you normally wouldn’t, and therefore, she is more than a notch on your belt, she is special, someone you simply must know. No, what you're saying is that you're reactive and not holding frame. You let things from the outside world influence your mental state.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:30 PM
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He didn't call half of the population cunts. His comment is directed towards the hypothetical women saying they need more money.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/17 07:49 PM
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If women don't like that men are looking for sex on Tinder, don't use an app makes specifically for hooking up and one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 06:04 AM
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Pretty much how my life already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 06:03 AM
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did you mean to reply to my other post? Anyway, the guys I see get laid wouldn't be best described as "relaxed". They are usually the pumped up guys who are excited and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:04 AM
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Don't you think weird guys are seen as creepy or weird even if they themselves don't feel insecure? Also, how exactly do you think these masculine men would respond if they got shut down and told they were being creepy? What would he say?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:12 AM
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I'm using this definition of the word: " 1. to give (a person) the right to do or have something; qualify; allow" It was sexy. Why can't he be sexy and entitled? This idea that no one should ever be entitled or aggressive or decisive in case they somehow offend another person is rediculous. Masculine energy is about making things happen not being passive That's exactly how guys get labeled creepy though, which leads to guys like the betas you mentioned not approaching, or leading with "awkward s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:50 AM
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Would you say that he had an air of entitlement, in that he just assumed that you would go with whatever he wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:54 AM
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inb4 "misoghany!!!!" and "dis sub sucks now. Not real PPD"
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 12:12 AM
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It's not the shitty braces. It's the shitty jaw and teeth.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:09 PM
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I've had braces on half my life and still have them on at 26. Fuck me lol.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 04:50 AM
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I have to agree with you. What I find is that charm doesn't have anything to do with this mental masturbation stuff. It mostly has to do with the words and phrases that a person uses to speak and how this meshes with their appearance. It's not so much about being "non-needy" or "strong". You can be these things but still not be charismatic. People might think "well you can learn new words and phrases" but what makes charismatic people so charismatic is that they have developed their unique style…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 04:30 AM
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Most women have nothing much to offer either (besides their pussy) and are too lazy for self improvement as well. But why don't you bring that up. Why is it only noticed in niceguys?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:48 PM
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Study harder, lift heavier, dress better, approach more girls, flirt with everyone, men and women. Be more likeable in general. Tried it, still got rejected every time. And no man (or woman for that matter) could truly be content with themselves if they are in their mid twenties and have still not been in a relationship or had sex and they are continuing to get older. You will still desire a partner and sex and you will witness women with their boyfriends as you go through your day, you will hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:45 PM
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Probably most incels at some point have tried improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:35 PM
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but the only positive thing you can say is that they are nice because they aren't much else. most women are the same way but they still get relationships and sex. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:22 PM
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Your attitude stinks dude. You are really negative and you like to put people down. No wonder you were a 32 year old virgin lol. I said your advice wasn't helpful to me and you got all pissed off lol. The search for good advice continues...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:59 PM
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I do lift. I hate idiots like you that just like to assume things like that I don't excercise. Gtfo of here with your wooey psych bullshit. Just because you had mental problems and that was keeping you sexless doesn't mean I do. Conquer my thoughts and emotions? What does that even mean? It's not like I'm lacking "integrity" and "mental strength" in my interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 11:35 PM
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Don't understand which part of this you are getting downvotes for.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 11:31 PM
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I don't think this advice is helpful tbh. I'm not going to do yoga and meditation always seemed kind of stupid to me lol. You don't need to do mediation to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:43 AM
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How can I turn it around in a year if I have already tried for 4 hers and not turned it around. Just tell me on here so others can see too. Also don't know what you're taking about. I don't have an illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 10:11 PM
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it's fucking too late dude. This has to be the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:29 PM
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I can relate a lot to you. I'm 26 and missed out on my youth. I didn't party that much and I didn't get to have sex with young girl. I am still sexless and trying to figure out how I can bang college aged chicks. I think a lot of posters here are underestimating the importance of sex during your youth and getting to experience young women as a man. In the past, I have also gotten the vibe on reddit that you aren't justified being an older guy trying to see younger women, even if you missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:32 AM
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Easy to say if you experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:23 AM
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Nope, incels spend a lot of time trying to improve their looks. Incels also work out and approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:42 AM
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They don't have to live with them. Just some fun for one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:41 AM
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When you blame those things and make everything about genetics it feeds your insecurities and inferiority complex while also making you into a powerless victim. Some people just love that feeling, like they're helpless and completely without any blame or responsibility. No, it's actually empowering. It let's you know why things aren't working right. You learn that it's not that you did or said something wrong and not to beat yourself up over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:40 AM
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Have you ever considered incels are abrasive as fuck to you online because you are also abrasive as fuck to them? We don't act the same to people in real life. We just get mad at people who use stupid arguments and make false assumptions about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:35 AM
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cool strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:33 AM
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No, because that's bullshit and you know it. How did he even get to that place in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:30 AM
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Most incels can do these things. It's not social skills holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:25 AM
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Well with online dating nowadays guys can get at least a first date too, No, they fucking can't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:12 PM
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Most guys have a hard time getting any online dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:05 PM
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No, if you were a guy it would be even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:04 PM
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This is a silly argument. You're obviously right bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 01:42 PM
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Lol so now you admit looks matter? I'm looking for anything. Why do I need to do look edgy and get tattoos just to meet women? Or ripped. This is exactly what I mean when I say that standards are ridiculous. Like I've said, I work out but I'm not super ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:49 PM
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Fitness is a spectrum and people have different definitions. What you probably mean by for is highly muscular. No, I'm not very muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 02:35 PM
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I find that women will hamster into thinking their partners are so much like them when in reality they are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:49 AM
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People on this sub still assume that incels don't try, that incels don't make attempts to improve themselves. This is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:32 AM
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That subreddit only perpetuates the notion that being rejected by women is some kind of disease that makes one defective in all other ways. No, society perpetuates that notion. /r/Incels just acknowledges that society does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:15 AM
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Everything is changeable given some time and effort. So therefore, no one is celibate against their will. Everyone could change their circumstances. What part do you not understand that we've tried that and it doesn't fucking work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:14 AM
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Your mentality is made up of beliefs. My belief is that your full of shit. You can't specify what these beliefs are. And again, all of this is unfalsifiable. How can you tell if someone isn't "acting masculine when he isn't in terms of mentality". Wtf does that even mean? As long as someone is unsuccessful with women, you could always claim that it's because he's not in the right mental state or whatever without actually proving it. It's not even about beliefs. It's about looks. Looks is what ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:05 AM
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Its when the man tries to act masculine when he isn't in terms of mentality that he gets put in his place. Okay so a guy can only act masculine if he is the right term of mentality. So how is he ever supposed to change? His masculinity has to change in perfect lock step with his mentality, nor is it acceptable if they agree but he is not masculine. Not to mention that all of this is completely unfalsifiable. Wtf does masculine even mean to you? Also, cool that you can only provide example of sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 01:54 AM
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Stereotypes exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:12 PM
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Yes, until they get old and want a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:07 PM
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Some guys can only grow patchy beards that look like shit. When small ugly guys try to be masculine it's just cringey and they will be put in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:00 PM
1

small skulls, weak chins, small bones, small wrists, short, wide hips, no brow ridge, tall midface, tall forehead. All of these things will reduce looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 07:19 PM
1

Tell that to all the guys who have tried doing just that and still struggle. I'm talking ugly in terms of bone structure, not in terms of unhygienic or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 07:07 PM
1

How can I tell you're not just world fallacying and assuming what these people's personalities are like from their appearance. Did they tell you they have low self esteem themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:04 PM
1

Exactly dude, you get it. Being passionate about your hobbies doesn't matter if you aren't attractive and masculine. Girls wont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 05:00 PM
1

If you don't look masculine, women won't ever see you as masculine. Personality doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:40 PM
1

Looks get you through the door, which many ugly guys can't break through with personality. Your good looking friend is doing better at getting dates, something which ugly guys have a hard time getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:34 PM
0

...says the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:26 PM
1

What's wrong with guys just wanting sex? What's wrong if a niceguy tries to be friends with a woman to get in her pants? There's a lot of things women don't like it when men do them but aren't really "wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:07 PM
2

"Why yes, honey. I'd love for you to become a lard and lose that hot body that I used to yearn for while you become more boring to me simultaneously." This sounds very cringey, contrived and aspie, tbh.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:33 AM
4

Whenever incels try to break in to other social groups, they are cast back out. Why do you think incels stay in those subcultures in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:16 AM
1

Sometimes girls will ask about previous girlfriends or similar questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:14 AM
4

A lot of girls just go on Tinder for attention. Once you push for number or meetup they'll unmatch or ghost. I send the exact type of messages other guys send. I've taken advice from TRP and elsewhere. Still, I don't get many matches in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:09 AM
1

It goes back to the late 90s, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 04:58 AM
2

Seeing as how sex is intrinsically linked to reproduction, it's possible but not very likely, unless money is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 04:58 AM
1

Yeah, sure. It's called reading between the lines, buddy boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:11 AM
1

Get your motorcycle license: Boom, you're a bad boy. :-) Cope. I tried doing all those things to make me interesting. I did this and got a motorcycle license. Girls never saw me as a "bad boy" or anything like that. Nothing changed. Girls don't pay any more attention to me. They are still not interested enough in me enough in the first place to get to know me more.
/r/seduction18/03/17 07:08 AM
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Every time a woman says "I'm not that kind of girl" she participates in the devaluing of women who have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 03:02 PM
4

Mnnooo. I worked on this stuff for much longer than 6-12 months. Sure maybe I changed as a person but I still didn't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 06:43 AM
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You do 2-3 approaches, no luck and then someone will tell you that you need to do 5 approaches a day. It never ends. I did the most approaching in college but some days you are busy and just don't have time for stuff like that. Most guys never have to be approach machines just to get their first girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:33 AM
1

I find both to be mostly unfunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:58 PM
2

A lot of people in this sub that you can follow all the advice on self-improvement such as dressing better, working out, approaching women and still have a very difficult time finding a partner or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 07:55 PM
1

Good for you dude. Just ignore those losers. Don't give them internships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 06:41 PM
1

Good points. But you need to offer the losers in society just enough that they don't decide to say "fuck it all" and try to destroy and take whatever they can for themselves. You say there's no point in whining. But you probably wouldn't like it if people took actions to correct their situations that you wouldn't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 12:45 AM
1

Once you admit that life isn't fair, who decides when unfair is too unfair? Women can't get STEM jobs, well life isn't fair. I could just go kill chads and say, "woops, life isn't fair". When Elliot Rodger killed those people "oh well life isn't fair, better luck next time".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 11:52 PM
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Ok, but under your analysis it shouldn't be so ridiculous for a thin guy to want a thin girl. Yet in our current dating market, thin women have much more SMV than thin men, all else being equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 05:33 AM
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P.S. Before I forget. If you don't already, save yourself a lot of time by asking the four logistical questions, 1, who are you here with, 2, what part of town do you live in, 3, what are you doing later, 4, what are you doing tomorrow. This will weed out all the designated drivers/girl who want to fuck but literally CAN'T. This is also ultimately a fundamental because it will save you so much effort. Well that's good advice. Much better than I usually get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 06:29 PM
1

Because they are saying no. At very large parties or at clubs I can barely last in a set. I'm barely introducing myself and the girls are trying to get away. If I go with a bolder approach like touching them it's the same. For a guy who is so far ahead and in the top 1% I sure don't get laid a lot. (Never).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 07:04 AM
1

So tell me where you'd normally get to. How long could you stay in conversation? It varied, at best I could get a number and talk for about 15 minutes. Could you break the touch barrier? Not past a handshake or hug in a daytime cold approach. Were you pulling all the way back to your place and they would just say no then? No, not really. But that did happen one time but I was in her dorm room.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:58 AM
1

Well, I'm still incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:49 AM
2

Try to bang her ASAP before she changes her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:46 AM
1

You're at college? That's like asking where to find salt water in the ocean. You're are either doing something wrong or ignoring them. The college I went to was mostly male. Like OP, it seemed like most girls had boyfriends. I wasn't ignoring them either and was doing cold approaches. Even if a girl has a boyfriend, make friends with her and she can introduce you to her friends. I tried doing that, didn't really help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:45 AM
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I think OP's statement is kind of extreme. Even the best puss get rejected much more than good looking guys do. Also, what I find is that "game" is sort of unfalsifiable and immeasurable. It can never be defined before hand, only after the fact when it has worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:03 AM
1

I can't beat a 10/10 Chad just by being myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:01 AM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:27 AM
1

Lol all bullshit. Especially the tinder part. I'be been trying tinder for years, haven't gotten shit out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:26 AM
1

Yes, did both those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:22 AM
1

The videoing of this clip is really quite excellent. Very cinematographic.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/17 04:55 PM
1

You do 50 approaches every day? I call bullshit. If each approach took 3 minutes, that's 150 minutes. Almost 2 hours. Unless you're taking no action how can you make no progress. Because the only objective way of measuring progress would be if I was having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:57 AM
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And then they didn't get a chance with the 20 year old, 22 year old, 24 year old either. Because those girls were still busy with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:53 AM
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It's just a kind of inherent disgust. Kind of how women are disgusted by the idea of having sex with short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 07:44 AM
1

you forgot weed hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:40 AM
1

Idk, maybe you are tall and have a good physical frame and face. I know some heavier guys that are physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:37 AM
1

There's a cap to how confident someone can be. Anything over that and it comes off as crass and arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:25 AM
2

bullshit or all those nerds in engineering school would be considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:18 AM
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A young chad. Non-chads were also once 18 but like the OP pointed out, girls want to sleep with Chads during their youth. So yeah, part of the reason why young girls are appealing is 1) because they are hot 2) guys missed out on that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 10:48 PM
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What's so bad about a guy not wanting to marry a woman who does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 10:26 PM
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Well someone gets to fuck the virginal 18 year old. All sluts were once virgins. And that person is Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 10:26 PM
1

Yes dude, I've been reading resources for years, doing those things you have said. But I've never been able to get sex or relationships out of it, which is the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 04:54 PM
1

All it means is you have to get the fuck out of your comfort zone and do things so that you won't be afraid of how people react to you. This is why you see these videos of guys doing "social freedom exercises" where they scream on a crowded train or other obnoxious shit. I tried all that shit and it could never change my situation around. At some point, what else can you do? It's like I'm stuck. No matter what I try changing my behavior, I can't get results.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 06:07 AM
1

average man wearing a sad, dejected look on his face? Are you thinking that incels go around looking sad? That's not really the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 06:05 AM
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No, I didn't miss what you were saying. I have tried making changes my whole life and it never changed my situation. The fact that you changed your situation so quickly at the age of 18 just shows you weren't an incel. You were just a late bloomer, and not even that late. When you get older and older, it also gets increasingly more difficult because now you are in the marketplace where everybody has more experience than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 05:44 AM
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99% of the Red Pill techniques do not work on girls who screen their partners thoroughly, demand commitment before sex (after lots of dates), expect him to pay the first few times etc. And 99% of women aren't like that so who cares? Or they think they are but they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:10 PM
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What I see in real life is women complaining all the time about how men are 'jerks' and being totally unafraid of dumping said jerks, divorcing them, and calling them out for said behaviour. I see their friends encouraging them to do so. I see absolutely zero tolerance for 'jerk' behaviour from women, especially in our current culture. Lol. Because women are nowadays so used to men being 'jerks' and accustomed to the 'the world is full of players and childmen who are afraid to commit' narrative,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:08 PM
1

18 is still within a standard deviation. You can't be an incel at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:52 PM
1

you weren't a "teenage incel", don't be ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:03 AM
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Why is it that redditors love to talk about income inequality is bad for society yet are blind to the ways in which other types of inequality are bad? Social status inequality, looks inequality, height inequality, and yes, sexual inequality. All of these things can be bad for society in extremes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 02:48 AM
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"What is an incel? An incel, short for involuntary celibate, is someone who tries to find romantic relationships without success and is very pessimistic about his chances. The most common definition to be considered incel is that you are at least 20 and have to go at least six months without a romantic partner. Many incels are late 20s and 30s men (and older) who have never had a partner. If you go to a prostitute, you can still be incel because you are unable to obtain a romantic relationship o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 03:41 AM
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It doesn't have to be plate spinning. Chad could provide full-commitment to short relationships. plate spinning by definition means having multiple "plates" at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:41 AM
1

But at the end of the day they're still unable to get laid despite wanting to and trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:32 AM
1

That's just your made-up definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:22 AM
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Idk why people have a hard time understanding this, it's easily explainable. 3 girls, 3 guys. 1 guy dates all three girls but for the first 4 months of the year, he dates girl 1, second 4 months girl 2, last 4 months, girl three.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 02:09 AM
2

Seems like the implication behind a lot of these comments is that women are inherently more valuable than men because they are women. That even if a guy does things that have value, he can still easily be lower value than a woman who doesn't do these things because the woman has higher value due to her youth and having a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:39 PM
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Then watch as I laugh as these women have incel sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:51 PM
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both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 08:01 PM
1

My bones are not realistically going to get any larger with weight lifting. Let's say even if it does, it's "real slow". If it takes 5 years, I'm still fucked.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:43 PM
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My bones are small, that's the problem. My hands and feet are smaller than the hands and feet of most girls I meet. Same with my wrists. At 26, I won't be able to realistically change that.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 02:11 PM
1

Low fat wont give you a chiseled jaw if your jaw is retruded.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 08:26 AM
1

There's a lot that can be done if you're doing the mannerisms like supplicating. If you're not doing those things and your voice sucks, you're kind of fucked in the voice department.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 08:26 AM
1

What to do if you're that ugly? Stop whining. Get off the internet. Fix your diet to lose the fat. Lift to build muscle. Go to the dentist to fix your teeth and a skin specialist to fix your skin. Get contact lenses, or glasses with trendy frames. Get a haircut. Save for a surgery to fix your ears. And if you're still "ugly" when all that is done, at least you maximized your looks and you will get better than what you get by doing nothing and whining. And if you were smart, while you were doing …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 08:23 AM
1

Tell the same to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 06:16 AM
2

So this Stanford Professor's explanation is just terrible? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0Oa4Lp5fLE
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 04:20 AM
1

Yes, yes it is. It's controversial because people don't like to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 04:12 AM
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50 year old men who marry 25 year old women do not give a fuck about compatibility, they want somebody young and hot. As if the Chad that she would be dating is really any different. They'll just dump her sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 04:53 AM
1

But it's equally absurd to think that his situation is so different from every single self proclaimed incel. Not really. Incels come from vastly different circumstances. It's kind of strange how so many people here making so many assumptions about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 06:23 AM
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I just lol @ how TRP is all for "men being focused on their mission" but then shits on MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 06:20 AM
1

That one person you know represents and speaks for all incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 12:47 AM
1

while constantly approaching girls has a 99.99% chance of getting laid. How constantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 05:01 AM
1

Main reason why most men here struggle is because they have bad social skills, are terrible at flirting, rarely leave their bedroom, make no effort to actually approach women and upon rejection, they immediately run to their cave and cry rather than brush it off. But these things are fixable, and if one were to admit they were a problem, then they would be tasked with having to put in effort and change their habits rather than hide. cool assumptions bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 04:27 AM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 03:35 PM
1

lol 0.1% being incel isn't anywhere close to being realistic. That's one in 1000 for early 20s, one in 10,000 for late 20s. There are definitely more incels than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 04:05 AM
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lol these numbers are so out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:55 AM
1

Wow, never thought about that before /s. It's always the same result when you're an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 07:10 AM
1

The whole "basing their whole self worth" is a mischaracterization and basically a meme at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 07:06 AM
1

Yes and that's why you ask her to hang out. And then you hang out but she still only sees you as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 08:46 AM
1

Some guys don't get cues from women. They are just completely ignored. So they have to try to go and break in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 08:35 AM
1

It's different if you've had nothing but rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 08:16 AM
1

"I could tell he was a misogynist from his body posture".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 08:06 AM
2

And what if someone decides to change the world in a way you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 07:53 AM
1

Wait women have special mind-reading powers now and the ability to forsee the future super acturatly? Where was I when these powers were dished out? Usually isn't it women claiming that they have these powers when rejecting incels and "nice guys"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:05 PM
1

Are you implying women go for bad boys, you fucking misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:03 PM
1

If you're an ugly balding guy with a mustache you'd be quick to be categorized in the "pedo" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 08:01 AM
1

Logically it follows that average guys have some success in dating. Doesn't necessarily logically follow. Girls could be serially monogamous with a few ONS on the side. But if those relationships are all with Chads, then the average guys wouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 07:58 AM
1

Touching is different that having a relationship and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 08:23 AM
1

Most rational and balanced post I've seen in subreddits like this in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 08:18 AM
1

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/09/02/11/2BE5AE7200000578-3219489-image-a-33_1441190604619.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 03:18 AM
1

And what would you do if you were one of those males that couldn't grow a beard without it looking like shit, due to your genetics. You would be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 03:17 AM
1

Example of a fat person losing weight. We're not discussing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 03:12 AM
1

and shit that can vastly improve their attractiveness. As long as they aren't fat, everything else can be improved/hidden in an hour or so. Men, on the other hand, dont have that option. Exactly. On the purely physical level, women just have to worry about not being fat. So they don't understand the pressures men face in our physicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 03:12 AM
1

Maybe in the past but it doesn't work like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 02:49 AM
1

but you can always improve your attractiveness. What do you mean by this? That someone could perpetually keep increasing their physical attractiveness? Unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 02:47 AM
0

It's hard to have a nerdy, weak-looking face when you're groomed, well-styled, and fit. bullshit I'm one of those people. says the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 02:42 AM
1

Dude, it wasn't a joke. SipsSparkling was completely serious. Read their post history. out of shape What would the criteria be for not being out of shape? Then, if you applied that same criteria to women, how many would also be out of shape? Then, what percentage of these out of shape women have no problems dating? and would articulate their wishes and desires instead of hoping that she makes the first move. Who says incels aren't making moves?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 07:02 AM
4

These guys have followed that advice for years and it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 06:22 AM
1

What if you don't even have 3 vices.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 03:00 PM
1

Guy who fits that description and I do have that experience...soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 03:50 AM
1

Same way a rich man can buy groceries from a poor farmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 03:45 AM
1

the life of a sub 5 fa-male is the same if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 03:40 AM
1

Nice strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:41 AM
1

Does the guy who fulfills the criteria for a top 50% have a reasonable chance of having sex/relationships from women who are young, have good hygiene, not fat or ugly, and don't dress like slobs? Doesn't seem like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 03:49 AM
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If that's the criteria for achieving top 20%, then I can only think that you need to be more than in the top 20% to have success in dating. For evidence, being relatively fit and having good grooming alone wouldn't do shit in the realm of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 03:36 AM
4

Hypatia Marie Curie Margaret Hamilton Lori Greiner Margaret Thatcher Easy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 07:36 AM
7

Tried it and didn't change anything. I think it goes back to what MisgenderedCactus said. Depression is caused from being alone for so long and having never experienced intimate relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 12:09 PM
2

Missing the point. I'd rather not be forced into paying high tax rates and having to support others while receiving nothing in return if I also have to live in a society where I don't get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 03:38 AM
2

A guy who is making a conscious effort to get laid is most likely using deorderant + cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 05:12 AM
1

What age did you start at?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 03:47 AM
2

True. Girls could do it to make room for their lovers to consume shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 03:28 AM
3

You can put on muscle without animal products, but you'll be at an advantage compared to other men if you do eat them. Also, you don't need that much muscle. How much would you think you be enough. Show me with a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 03:27 AM
1

It is bullshit. I use your phrasings and it has the same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 03:24 AM
2

How does that help game though? I do those things but it's not like it's going to change my results with women.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:59 AM
-1

Why would I need to be handsome? That's implying I need to change myself for women, which is a beta mindset IMO.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:58 AM
3

how do you build game or confidence if women don't really want to interact with you because of your looks.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:46 AM
2

She's getting commitment during the time frame at which she's dating the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 04:19 AM
3

And yet, even if an incel wanted to pay for a dinner and get dates which then lead to sex, he still wouldn't even be able to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 05:18 PM
1

Because its always the people who never have to deal with the situations judging people dealing with them. Of course, this is usually the part where people tell us all about how they grew up in an orphanage without a penny to their name and pulled themselves up by their own bootstraps by hard work and pure gumption. So because you had a life where the biggest factor to your relative success or failure was your own ambition, you assume it must be that way for everybody. Therefore, everyone who is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:33 AM
1

Because we all have limited time in the world and sometimes it's more productive spending that time doing other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 12:35 AM
1

The thing is what do you do when you already are well groomed, have a healthy body, try being assertive and confident, dress reasonably well and then still fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 12:23 AM
-1

You shouldn't lift just to get girls. I always lol at this. "Lift if you want to get girls but don't to it to get girls". Just admit you guys do it to get girls.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:11 PM
1

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 01:07 AM
2

Firstly, if you're a guy who sits at home and plays video games all day, fapping to porn every night, and kissing your waifu pillow before you sleep, then you're obviously not putting 100% of all your focus into breaking your celibate status. That's voluntary celibacy. Agreed but I really don't think that's the case with most incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 09:50 PM
12

It's absolutely ridiculous to claim that someone isn't incel because they're not putting 100% of all their focus in life into trying to break their incel status. You know what happens to incels that try hard? They get told that they are incel BECAUSE they are trying too hard. Also, most incels would not identify with the husband or the Chad because it's presumed that they had some amount of sex in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:38 AM
2

Having good looks helps you develop your personality, especially during your formative years because people are more willing to hang out with you, socialize with you. When you're ugly you can't even get chances to become better socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 04:55 AM
1

survivorship fallacy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 06:35 PM
1

If anything it seems like women are entitled to men's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 02:42 AM
1

Yeah of course it's going to seem like dating sites work if you are coming at it from a woman's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 02:36 AM
1

"Join a dating site" Just lol every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 02:34 AM
5

That your fate in life is largely dictated by your genetics/physiology and situation during your youth and breaking out can be nearly impossible, depending on your situation. For example, even in lifting (something TRP likes to trumpet a lot), your success is highly dependent on your genetics and your physical frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:42 PM
1

The question is how much pissing on men is too much. Or when it is denied that men are pissed on unless they succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:30 PM
6

Male incels can't get relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 07:05 AM
2

The idea is analyzing that women essentially get to go first in making choices. When they are young they can choose both to date or have sex with much easier than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 06:18 AM
2

Yes, and TRP theory makes that distinction but the point still remains that women have easier access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 06:10 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 06:02 AM
4

The reason for a) is not that we don't want to go to parties or that we try not to socialize. It's that we are never included in social activities even when we "try to get out there". Nobody wants to hang out with someone with low social status. b) Nope. I ask girls out, they just don't want to go out. The whole body language thing is bullshit. I think only a small minority of FA guys actually appear to be physically uncomfortable when talking to girls. Also, we never get hit on either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 04:59 PM
1

learn "game" ha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 04:45 PM
11

"good game" aka "good looks"
/r/MGTOW14/02/16 09:31 PM
2

Even following these tips, you're still not likely to get matches if you're not good looking enough.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:52 AM
5

you can pull 3-6 numbers per day if you work at it spending only 10-15 minutes a day. Bullshit. Maybe if you're good looking.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 08:25 AM
-1

Yeah this stuff mostly happens online. I've only seen the kind of behavior mentioned by the OP by a handful of women and I'm pretty sure a couple of them were hardcore tumblrinas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 07:26 AM
2

You would be right not to share your contributions today.
/r/MGTOW03/12/15 05:55 PM
1

http://www.bustle.com/articles/74720-women-are-attracted-to-narcissistic-men-even-when-they-want-to-get-married-says-depressing-study The study out of Hartpury College in England found that no matter a woman’s age or history with narcissists, she will go for the cocky man almost every time. When presented with a narcissistic male personality versus a man with an actual desire to tie the knot and commit, the majority of the 146 women in the study said that they were attracted to the narcissist. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 07:31 PM
-1

You have one arm. You know who needs custom programs and tailored advice? ... The guy who ... broke his collarbone ten years ago and it wasn't set right and so he's always been a little weaker right on the bottom on that side. Self contradicting post.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 09:56 AM
1

For current mood, like angry or sad, yes. Not for something like bitterness though. For example, you couldn't tell if someone was rascist just by posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 08:27 AM
1

If he's constantly whining that's one thing but I consistently see bluepillers/women say that they can just "sense" bitterness even if the guy doesn't say anything. When I've pressed them they just say bullshit like they can tell if a guy is bitter from his posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 12:28 AM
5

Well, men tend to be taller than women, so actually males already have already been selected for height.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 06:16 AM
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The other thing to understand is that women are pickier. women enjoy sex and casual sex far more than is often suggested. Sure, but they will want casual sex with a man who is very high attractiveness whereas a man will be willing to have sex with a woman of lower attractiveness than what a woman would require.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 12:20 PM
1

You don't understand why incels exist if you think that stuff would make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:22 PM
5

I've seen you posting for a while. You are legit low iq.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 03:19 PM
1

You were probably really lame at 18. Perhaps not though. Young women are incredibly hypergamous.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:21 AM
2

For you anger phase guys, try not to be too vindictive. Sorry, but no. When women ease up on the vindictiveness TODAY, maybe I'll do it in the future when they're older.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:58 AM
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Yeah I can't be mad at women like that when they have been lied to their entire life by feminism. No dude, I guarantee you they saw the signs. Maybe they were a Bluepiller arguing with a redpiller, calling the RPer a misogynist and all the nasty names out there.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:55 AM
2

For that reason we should empathize with anyone who is misled and fundamentally denied happiness (women do need a man to be happy). No, fuck that. Women never had empathy for the men with the same problems but during their youth. Every day we are reminded how horrible we are.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:45 AM
1

Well at the least it's a fun experience and help ease sexual urges. Incel guys don't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 06:17 AM
1

So under your model there are actually more male incels than female due to females having higher standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 06:08 AM
1

I didn't assume that. I'm just pointing out that it must be because of displeasure, not a lack of pleasure. Didn't see your other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 08:04 PM
1

brah, watcha talkin about? "But I can't used physicality and intent from men to women as an excuse." Makes perfect sense. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 07:24 PM
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so basically they only consider sex to be sex when they themselves get any pleasure from it - yet when a woman says she wouldn't get any pleasure from sex with a man she's not attracted to, it suddenly doesn't count I think the issue here is that for a straight FA male to have sex with another man would bring great displeasure, not just a lack of pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 06:51 PM
2

Do you believe prostitution should be legalized in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 06:39 PM
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A lot of them are broke. Here in the US, escorts aren't cheap either. They are about $500, but that's not even the bad part. Most require you to have references which puts you in a catch 22 where you can't see escorts because you don't have references and you can't get references because no escort will see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 06:21 PM
3

FA men are more vocal about it Interesting point they think their plight of being FA is more urgent and horrible Why may this be that they think their situation is more urgent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 12:40 PM
0

That doesn't seem like a very BP answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 12:36 PM
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On the other hand, I've seen people (especially bluepillers) state that incels aren't truly incels because of the exact same reason, being that they could just lower their standards more until they get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 12:33 PM
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since the ability to get casual sex apparently disqualifies you from being FA What do you think about the term "incel"? Under the incel definition, these FA males would be considered incel but the FA women wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 12:27 PM
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Dude, I did all of those things and online dating, just like you. And nothing. You just got lucky. Or you are better looking than you let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 11:31 AM
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May I ask what age you are? How did you meet your current girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 11:28 AM
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Wtf? The post made no sense. But I can't used physicality and intent from men to women as an excuse. That's not correct grammar and the sentence is illegible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 09:06 AM
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Women ridicule these men too, let's not pretend they don't. I'd say everyone ridicules these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 08:46 AM
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You guys put out a lot of garbage sometimes but this video was really well done.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 05:39 AM
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I don't think it's so much that beta guys are taught wrong. It's that they are lower genetic material i.e., short, non-dimorphic, bad hormonal profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 09:16 AM
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That's you reading a lot into a "can I go shopping without wolf whistles". Dude, the article isn't about cat-calling for the last time. No woman is mad and going "FUCK PEOPLE APPROACHED ME IN A BAR". She's not going to go "ZOMG that man was so polite and asked me if I wanted to go get a drink! That's terrible!" Except it does happen. "Ughh that creepy man asked me if I wanted to grab a drink". "Ughh that creepy guy from the bar approached me and made me feel uncomfortable." (even though he was p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:41 PM
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The problem with a "nice guy" is that they foolishly fall in love with a girl that's obviously not into them. That's your definition of what a nice guys is. But for others, especially girls have a definition that is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:30 PM
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Just not receiving any attention from the opposite sex will fuck your mind. You don't need to bring love into the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:27 PM
1

What he lacks is the confidence to just go in and take what he wants. No, what the average dude is lacking is looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:18 PM
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Women simply are horny and want to fuck, you understand that, don't you? Yes, but with good looking guys. You can easily get into a relationship with a hot girl if you have any personality at all, and if you have the balls to approach a girl and risk making a fool of yourself, you are already seen with better eyes than the majority of the other guys, who might be hotter than you but are too intimidated by the girl. As a guy who has done cold approaching, just no. Women don't demonise, nor shame …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:08 PM
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Women simply are horny and want to fuck, you understand that, don't you? Yes, but with good looking guys. You can easily get into a relationship with a hot girl if you have any personality at all, and if you have the balls to approach a girl and risk making a fool of yourself, you are already seen with better eyes than the majority of the other guys, who might be hotter than you but are too intimidated by the girl. As a guy who has done cold approaching, just no. Women don't demonise, nor shame …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:08 PM
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Chockful of detailed instructions? Hmm, let's see: Confessions of a reformed Incel - not instructions Michael's story - not instructions Misandry Bubble - not instructions All of the Theory Reading is not instructions Finally you get to Everything you need to know about Shit Tests Shit Tests 101 Goals - A beginners guide on how to attain them One Key Step to Not Giving a Fuck So yeah there are 4 things that actually have instructions out of the whole sidebar. Nothing in there about how to dress …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:03 PM
1

Then it's not confidence that's doing the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:56 PM
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You have to read between the lines. She's complaining about unattractive men approaching. The one who's half-smiling at you from across the bar while trying to make adorably conspicuous sex eyes at you? Go and say hi. The FA/incel type doesn't get those kind of openings. Women are always closed off, so he just has to approach anyway. Did you read it, fucking idiot? You're being purposefully obtuse. She doesn't want men approaching her in public, except for bars and clubs where she only wants Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:55 PM
1

Confidence doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:54 AM
1

All those things never worked for me. Not the TRP works either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:49 AM
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If that's the case, fine. But don't shame us and tell us all sorts of garbage. Be honest about what's going on. Finally, don't expect us to contribute anything to this society that never did anything for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:35 AM
1

Another thing that we need to look at is what point in their lives are they pairing. In late teens and early twenties or in their 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:27 AM
1

What does the average guy look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:26 AM
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Did you read the same article. It's not just talking about street harassment, but men approaching women in general. I have never asked any woman out in public that wasn't an area you can socialise or converse. Such as? The article states that the acceptable places to approach are bars, clubs and online and other "public approaches need to be phased out, and fast." You are hitting on women at the wrong place and time. And how would you know? And what would these wrong places and times be? Keep in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:03 AM
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focus on the occasional girls who do. Except what if there are no occasional girls who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:41 AM
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http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/picking-up-women.html Boom. This article lambastes men for asking women out too much in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:39 AM
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Stop calling yourself Incel. That's like calling yourself a Klansman and then wondering why people dislike you. Literally nobody goes of in real life and tells people "oh I'm incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:36 AM
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And no woman has ever gone "I hate that you asked me out on a date without knowing my personality". It's true that we don't see women saying stuff like this in real life. But then you come here on reddit or go on tumblr and it's full of stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:28 AM
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There's creep-shaming, there's being humiliated, there's being accused of being an harasser, and if you ask out too many women, they eventually accuse you of being a perv and not giving a shit about their personality, just because you failed and kept asking. legit. Also, doesn't even matter if you're that awkward or nerdy. If you just have a bad face/are short/small then you won't have a lot of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:26 AM
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I just find that confidence really doesn't change much. All the times I've tried to exude confidence hasn't helped me at all in the dating game. Looks are more important. There are even studies where people rate other people's confidence from a series of pictures. The good looking people always had the highest confidence ratings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:23 AM
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1) settle for someone on his level of attractiveness Well, we would do that except for the part where women want to date up and they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:13 AM
1

legit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:08 AM
1

Become physically attractive. Easier said than done when I'm already lean and work out. Face matters a lot and it's difficult when women have such high standards these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:06 AM
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Yes, because being an engineer = automatic loser.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:05 AM
1

just lol, the number of times self help material says this exact thing over and over. dat irony though.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 05:09 AM
2

Where the fuck do you live where you can buy a "smokin" prostitute for $150?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:43 PM
1

you just need to go out more and you'll end up with a girl in no time. Define "no time". Because there are FA guys out there that do exactly this yet remain FA for years and years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:38 AM
1

If you mind asking, what would you rate yourself and your partner based purely on looks on a 1-10 scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:34 AM
1

There are actually more males in the age groups relevant to dating. The reason why there are more females is because men die younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:23 AM
1

this. If it was socially awkwardness stopping guys, they'd still be getting matches on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 06:35 AM
1

It's not their lack of social skills that's making them single. It's a lack in genetic quality (read: looks).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 06:29 AM
1

We don't know because there could be a lot of fake accounts. See this documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_OI7f3j41k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 05:36 AM
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Male height over 5'11" Erectile penis length over 5.6" Not that hard. wat
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:24 AM
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I'm angry that even when we find the truth and can back it up with evidence and logic, we are STILL told we're wrong and then we're demonized on top of that.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:53 AM
1

I'm not disagreeing with the concept of "be the best you can be", I'm disagreeing with the concept that anyone can attract high quality women through self improvement. Like you said, "It doesn't promise an absolute endpoint."
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:14 PM
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Sure you can maximize, but that may never be enough. I already am at the limits of how good I can look. But I am small, most women have larger hands and feet than me because I was born premature. On top of this my face isn't very good. I do interesting and cool things, but women aren't going to give a fuck if you aren't passing their looks threshold. "Game" is a lie. This redpill optimism is really just bluepillism. You've replaced one bluepill for another.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:54 PM
5

Be in shape and look your best ignores the important of the non-changeable physical attributes, like face, height, bone structure.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:16 PM
1

Do you really think his beliefs are so unfounded? This is what our lives are really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:45 AM
3

Nothing has to change for it to happen. TRP theory will slowly spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:28 AM
6

How the hell does someone go into a long term relationship without learning about your partner's past relationships? Because people lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:22 AM
2

When this sub was new, BP was the dominant force. Over time, slowly but surely, RP was able to grow and continued the debate strongly. They finally gained the upper hand in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:20 AM
1

Ah yes, another retard who thinks a movie is real life.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 10:03 AM
2

just lol. Cortana is a hologram. She shouldn't have to be realistic.
/r/MGTOW25/07/15 07:11 AM
2

This is the simplest and most clearly put explanation for what's going on I have ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 03:10 PM
1

Your view is actually aligned with what RP is saying. The thing is though, is that women consistently say that being "nice" is a good quality and that it basically overcomes other qualities. The other thing is that guys see that real jerks do get laid. It's not uncommon to hear a woman whining about her abusive boyfriend or ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 02:49 PM
1

And when the guy decides that he won't helplessly orbit, the girl takes it as he only wanted her for sex. In reality, he wanted a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 02:43 AM
0

What would the psychological assessment have to test for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 08:09 AM
1

Would depression count?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 08:08 AM
1

also healthcare.
/r/MGTOW02/07/15 08:29 AM
2

No point in black knighting. It's just a waste of time.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 09:52 PM
1

Just ignore it as must as possible. Try to avoid sites where you are likely to see it. We are living in times of a lot of misandry. Those writing don't have basis in rational thought, so don't let it get to you. And maybe in the end, all this will come back to haunt them.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 07:05 AM
0

legit. Both RP and BP are fucking retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 06:47 AM
0

While I agree, I think weight is a good heuristic. It set's a more measurable goal rather than a subjective one.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:30 AM
2

For a guy who is 5'9", how much do you think he should weigh until he looks good, assuming he's putting on muscle and not fat?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 10:25 PM
2

Most BPers are women so of course they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:32 PM
1

One reason why TBP and TRP can't understand each other on equal terms is because TRP is mostly consisted of men whereas TBP is mostly consisting of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:16 PM
2

This. I never see these so called fat guys with awesome game laying 8s, 9s, and 10s. It's a complete myth. Sure, PUAs like Tyler from RSD try to seem like they do, but in reality they overstate their success to con desperate virgins and what success they do get comes from their wealth. Don't believe me? Look at pictures of "Master PUA" Owen Cook's girlfriends and wives.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:47 AM
1

Kill yourself. If you don't radically change your mentality you will continue to be a self-pity party inferiority complex loser, that will drive away women far more than your ethnicity ever could. Lol, and what if he decides to kill you first?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:40 AM
1

That doesnt mean the indian guy shouldnt still do everything he can to improve himself, because he should. Why should he bother when no amount of effort will ever bring him the results he wants? Instead of being a pussy beggar, the Indian guy should just go his own way and do what makes him happy even if that's playing video games in his basement all day. And there will always be some women who prefer him over the other guy. Sure, but is the juice worth the squeeze?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:39 AM
1

You are definitely wrong about it being mostly mental. If it worked for you, fine, but that means you were already above a certain SMV.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:36 AM
1

There is no form of modern media that tells men that looks don't matter. Umm yes there is. I feel like men are constantly bombarded with that message. women don't care about how interesting/funny you are The whole "women are interested in funny guys who are confident and good conversationalists blah blah" is wayyyy overstated. These two things are one of the biggest mainstream bluepill points that I take issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 01:03 AM
1

In Dataclysm, Christian Rudder shows the same effect still exists when using random facebook photos so the argument that the effect is due to unattractive men on dating sites is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 09:13 AM
7

It just shows you how "blue pillers" really don't understand what TRP is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 12:31 AM
0

Getting women is easy. Read up on attraction. Get fit. Or just enter a dating app. lol, stupid
/r/MGTOW08/06/15 06:58 PM
1

Then you aren't paying attention enough.
/r/MGTOW02/06/15 06:07 AM
0

Sure, how does this prove me wrong? Hell, probably older men too would like to have sex with a lot of different women if they could. But the trend is even even higher with young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 08:33 PM
-2

Did I say "all men"? No, I said "pretty much" meaning most. And I'm referring to young men obviously. This is a stupid tactic you guys pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 02:02 PM
2

this. If anything, OPs post gives merit to the idea that men and women should pair bond while still young so the guy doesn't feel like he missed out.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:00 AM
2

The stickied post on BP is definitely not satire: http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/2nj2ed/my_compilation_of_posts_on_why_trp_is_sexist_and/ other current examples: http://np.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/364cbo/on_rforeveralone_op_says_he_wants_to_kill_himself/cras490 http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/361630/what_is_it_with_lifting/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 09:47 AM
3

this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 09:35 AM
1

The point is that most RPillers and PUAs only want to "spin plates" that's why I'd prefer to stay away from them. Just lol. You realize that pretty much all guys want to "spin plates". The frat guys and highschool jocks aren't the ones reading PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 09:34 AM
3

The thing is when we try to alert women about the lies, we get called misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:32 AM
1

or learning to be more confident. Lol, you were going good until you got there. The whole "confidence" thing is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:27 AM
11

Yeah, these guys don't understand what learned helplessness actually is. It is not some kind of irrational thing like they are making it out to be.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:19 AM
3

Why is it that feminists spend so much time hating on the harmless stereotypical "nice guy" rather than alpha frat guys who actually do rape and treat women like shit, but are still sexually successful with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 03:34 AM
-1

Maybe because "Game" doesn't really work...
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 06:29 AM
4

I'd also be curious to see how they would respond if the hot guy sent needy, supplicating and pathetic messages. That is the type of stuff that really turns women off. I've tried it before and girls would still give away number like it was easy mode. I was even writing m'lady and stuff. I'd write 3 messages in a row of things like "pls respond :(" and they would still respond happily.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:02 AM
3

I have yet to seen anyone post "below average looking pictures" and use "great game" to have success online. Show me a single instance of where that's possible.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:01 AM
1

Can you give concrete examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:40 AM
1

What hobbies have your past or current sexual partners participated in that you have found attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 04:30 AM
1

Questions for RPs and BPers on here. How many hours would you say you spend on your hobbies a week, on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 02:58 AM
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1). They could start by getting rid of the beta/gamma/sigma labels, they'll only breed feelings of failure. Irrelevant. Like AFormidableContender noted, the person might not even be giving themselves a label. Get your mind off of sex because you'll end up looking like a thirsty loser, and nobody likes that. Impossible. If you want sex and you're working to improve yourself to get sex, you're going to think about sex. So it's just silly to write this. Take all that pent-up frustration and testost…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 10:22 AM
2

I do Machine Learning/AI work. It's really hard to tell how society will change in response to these new technologies. It's difficult also to tell how far we can advance within our lifetimes. What's for sure is that AI will have some effect. Whether it's better for men or better for women is really speculation right now. Whether it's better for society in the long run or in the short run is also important to ask. What I personally think is that there are some jobs that men do that are too diffic…
/r/MGTOW16/12/14 04:58 AM
1

and will hurt men more than women. It's probably one of the worst ideas ever, and despite it being impossible to implement already, it would destroy society completely if were were implemented too early.
/r/MGTOW16/12/14 04:48 AM
1

Hey OP, what if this strategy doesn't work for me? I do everything exactly like you've said here for months. I rarely get matches. My pics aren't terrible, but they're the best I can do. So what's up?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:54 AM
1

It's a negative feedback loop which won't end until all women are completely miserable, and yeah, boys are getting dragged down with it. Sorry to be pedantic, but that's actually a positive feedback loop. Positive feedback is where an effect keeps increasing out of control (upright pencil falling down). Negative feedback is where an effect is diminished (pendulum). I hope you learn the difference because you seem like a smart guy. I see this mistake made a lot. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Posit…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:13 PM
-1

It's so obvious that it's unnecessary. OP has an addiction, that's his issue. And instead of following his own advice, he just went and spent more time on TRP by making a post about his "epiphany". That's some real hamstering if you ask me.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:53 PM
9

You missed my point entirely. It has nothing to do with tone of language. What I'm saying is that OP's post is really meant more for himself than anything. These kinds of posts are becoming increasingly common on TRP and what I'm saying has even been observed before.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 07:51 PM
2

The funniest thing about this is that she's the one picking the men from Tinder.
/r/MGTOW06/12/14 07:32 PM
36

Tired of these posts that are just OP projecting onto everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 07:09 PM
1

Men don't owe it to women to not slut shame on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 08:24 PM
2

TBP tries to paint themselves as moderates to the outside reddit, but if anything they are much closer to Feminism than your average young person is. Normal people hold at least some RP beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:16 PM
8

Totally, it's not something that is done consciously. It's not even done to put men down. It's just so that society doesn't fall apart. For the whole of society, it's a good thing that BP ideas are maintained.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 08:34 PM
2

No, it's not deliberate. It's innately coded by many years of evolution and some societal conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 08:25 PM
4

I agree that there are certain traits that most women/men find attractive in men/women. I have theory as to why people deny it. First, I'd like to point out that in general, it's women denying that there's no such thing as a man who is "attractive to a majority of women" (your words). Generally, it's pretty well known that men prefer specific traits in women (small waists, larger breasts, low body fat, youth, watev). It's done to enforce a BP mentality. We know that eggs are precious and sperm i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 07:19 PM
15

It doesn't really mean anything. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 12:31 AM
4

Most TRPers don't have an issue with 1st and 2nd wave feminism. It's 3rd wave and what came after that we don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/14 09:30 AM
1

Looks definitely matter the most for younger guys (see tinder). As you get older status and money gradually become more important.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:49 PM
2

Yep, I've met feminists who are for it. Isn't that rare.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:26 AM
6

Eh, who cares. Let them try their silly project if they want. Not even mad.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:01 AM
4

I don't think so. Me and every guy I know who uses Tinder almost never gets matches. But I love how Tinder pretty much proves BPers wrong about hypergamy not existing. They know that is hypergamy is real, then the rest of Redpill truths follow accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:46 AM
2

Well at least I learned that I'm never doing a fat chick again. Fat girls make me shudder.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:43 PM
1

you sound older or something. I'm talking about young 20ish guys. Having a "great sex partner" or girlfriend (who isn't fat) is really hard to get nowadays if you are ugly. Doesn't matter if you have a bunch of other things going on in your life. Girls don't care about "Personal excellence"; looks come first.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:42 PM
1

some guys can never get hot chicks, they need to fix that. Maybe in the good old days, but it's simply not an option in modern America with unchecked hypergamy and the cock carousel the way it is now. I'm not talking about 20 year old models. Just 20 year olds with a nice body in general.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:18 AM
1

I generally agree with you. some guys can never get hot chicks, they need to fix that. Despite what TRP says, I don't think it's possible for every guy out there to improve himself so that it's possible to fuck hot 20 year olds. TRP downplays this a lot, but genetics really matter a lot. For those men who can't become alpha, it's better to fuck prostitutes than to marry some fat post-wall CC rider.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 10:00 PM
0

Yeah man, TRP is changing. This place sucks now.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:55 PM
1

"alpha" and "beta" are determined by women (gynospeech as Stardusk put it). I once made this point on TRP, and they would not hear it. Bunch of guys in denial over there.
/r/MGTOW11/11/14 09:53 PM
1

I agree with you and I think the old school redpillers would have too. Sure is a lot of rationalization in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:01 PM
1

Eh, might as well be for 70 year old men as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:58 PM
3

Yeah pretty much. You can't even pay for pussy if you wanted to. It's like this for pretty much every in the US, and not just for black guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:57 PM
-1

These guys don't know what they're talking about. What I see when I go on backpage or craiglist is a bunch of disgusting black, fat whores, cops and fake pictures. P411 has better escorts, but they usually require "references". It costs a ton of money to get in that. It is by no means cheap. So there are no real options to do this.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:51 PM
3

What about the profile text? Also what are your pictures like? I'm using Flamer right now. It's great for swiping right quickly, but I ran out of girls and I didn't get any matches above a 4.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:57 PM
1

There's not really a lot you can do. I've looked into this a lot myself. The only thing you can do different if you're not already doing it already is to speak from your chest and make sure you have full lungs before you begin speaking. If you're voice is still high, you're pretty much stuck with it.
/r/askTRP08/11/14 03:40 AM
5

Asking for permission is the quickest way to dry up a girl's pussy. Unfortunately, I know this from experience. Asked a girl if she was comfortable, if I could kiss her. Don't do this shit bros. Shoot first, ask questions later.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:35 PM
2

You got to be more confident brah! All these girls are sensing your insecurity through your profile text! Don't you know your game has to be God mode to get matches? In all serious though, pictures are everything in Tinder, where Pareto Principle reigns supreme. You need to at least be in top 10% of looks, including facial aesthetic. The profile text hardly matters at all. Once you get good match % and then are still failing, then come back for more advice. There are only two rules for Tinder: 1…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:33 PM
1

Dude, they deny basic shit like that all the time. They deny so many simple truths. Because if redpill can knock down one illusion, it becomes a domino effect and we can destroy every other lie.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 10:02 PM
3

It truly is a fucking disgusting statue. Just look at it. Makes me want to eruct.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 03:10 AM
1

Call me crazy, but I actually believe my LTR equivalent would be a 7/10 girl by looks who has a decent personality and is a virgin around 19 or so. I don't think it's ridiculous to ask for. I'm 23. Here are my reasonings: I'm ok looking. (but not by hypergamy standards) I guess I have a babyface too. Smart, academically driven, have a lot of potential for future earnings. Come from well-off family. Well groomed and hygienic. Dress well. I work out. Willing to commit long-term. Other skills (not …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:57 AM
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And still bluepillers will deny that it's harder for men to get sex than it is for women. That thread has so much RP truth that it's fucking ridiculous. Do you truly believe what you've written? "Don't sleep with them too soon, but don't make him wait too long, because then he won't be interested!" I say that because this sounds like the textbook answer that I've gotten from my mother, and forgive me, but it seems archaic...and quite honestly, horrifying. Is that truly how men in this day and ag…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 09:33 PM
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I'm not so sure. The truth is Elliot Rodger was living in a highly competitive area and he was very small sized, as well as having a beta feminine face. At best women would have only seen him as a provider. I don't see how his car could have helped. What's he supposed to do, walk up to a random girl and say "Hey, I have a BMW."
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:17 PM
5

PUAHate is a site that is anti-PUA because the truth is a lot of fucking PUAs are scam artists. They actually do real exposure of how PUAs scam and provide evidence. The whole PUA scene is a scam meant to screw over customers. All their advice comes down to is "approach a lot of women".
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:13 PM
1

So what are your opinions on cold approaching?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 08:58 PM
1

Reality will kill her sooner than later.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 10:20 PM
1

Lol, I've actually known this girl for about 5 years now. Used to have a huge crush on her. An old friend of mine is currently dating her. It's funny seeing her all over the internet like this.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 06:19 AM
1

It's not. GLL Rooster is a lot younger than 49.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:58 PM
4

Sorry man, but you can't lump Elliot Rodger with these guys. He didn't have the balls to talk to women, not to mention following them around.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:37 PM
2

It's a surefire way to destroy an effective society.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 09:31 PM
3

I think a guy who had maybe one or two girlfriends between hs and college would be fine. But a guy who never had a relationship or sex at all will be a little messed in the head forever. He can recover in the sense that he can bang chicks or get relationships, but the past will likely always bother him unless he can get very young girls.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:33 PM
3

Lol, how about peeps just stop browsing the rest of reddit? It fucking sucks anyway, and I just post in another subs when I want to argue something against some BP shit someone says. Of course, don't be posting personal info. This is my only account and I love seeing other names with a TRP reference within the name.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 02:02 AM
1

How do you suggest he makes friends?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:36 AM
3

Don't know what to tell you man, I'm in the same boat, except 23. I've been working on myself for quite a while and I lift. People will say "just focus on yourself and forget women", but I fail to see how that will bring success. All it leads is to more years alone and it does eventually fuck your mind up a bit. Sometimes you do have to chase. The reason all of us are here is because we want to do better with women.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 02:00 AM
1

I don't care if betas and omegas use it, but personally, I will never subject myself to an Oculus Matrix. I live in the real world and the real world only. I have been very interested in Robotics, AI, Machine Learning and Graphics Rendering over the past few years and have been studying them in University. I don't mind creating the matrix, because I know there is big money in it and the more betas I can capture in a trap, the better it will me for me. I already have some of my own conceptual pro…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:49 AM
1

I will agree that luck is a huge part of it. From what you're saying, it's almost implied that these women are in their late twenties. In that case I will argue that the dynamics are already changing in favor for men by then because women's SMV has gone down relative to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 12:45 PM
3

So why is it that only men can be the problem, never women? There are plenty of clean, well kept, intelligent and kind guys who have a ridiculous time finding romantic partners. How do you explain that? Whereas the female equivalent would have no trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 05:17 PM
6

When there actually are women in my engineering classes, they tend to be foreign.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 03:36 PM
38

Reminds me of my high school English teacher who on the day after her fiance died went to a party and met a guy who would become her husband.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 03:30 PM
1

I actually think "The Art of Seduction" is not a great book at all.
/r/RedPillBooks19/10/14 04:43 AM
6

At the core of gynocentric thought is the "Women Are Wonderful" Effect. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E2%80%9CWomen_are_wonderful%E2%80%9D_effect Likewise, men are seen as bad. A man who is lonely and alone is deemed as worthless by society and is shunned. To acknowledge there is a widespread problem would be to admit that there is something wrong with modern women in general. So instead, lonely men have to be villainized or turned into caricatures of unwashed fedora-wearing neckbeards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 11:13 PM
0

It's easy to say you have great game when the girl already liked you. My critique of game on CH is that is assumes that you have already developed your relationship with the girl past the introduction stage. I think guys need the most improvement to their "game" on the initial stages of attraction. I would love to see some game guides from initial approach to f-close that don't take place in a single day. The only place I've seen such a thing really is on GLL, but even he leaves out a lot of the…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 12:56 AM
1

You're right, but I don't think I'm at the level yet to do hardcore screening like Chris does. All in steps.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 04:23 AM
5

While I agree with most of your post... I still don't believe "Game" actually exists or that if it did, it would actually increase your success significantly. That is unless you really couldn't talk to women at all. I see on TRP and other sites, people talk about the importance of Game, but very little about Game itself. It's always "Go get Game brah", but never any good resources that go in depth. Note that I really don't care about any "Inner Game" pseudoscience woo bullshit. Yeah, I've checke…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 03:21 AM
1

I only get phone numbers around 40% of the time. Of those usually they might reply a couple of times, but they don't want to meet. Almost never pick up if I call. Of the replies, only 10% will meet. So 100 approaches tends to be 100 x.4 x .1 = 4 meet ups, which seems about right. From there zero lays, lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:12 AM
1

No, I don't have disdain for a woman like that as long as she isn't stringing guys along.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 04:42 PM
7

Yeah, don't tell him to get a hobby. Tell him to get a sexy hobby. (hint: a motorcycle is a good place to start)
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:46 PM
1

I'm in the same boat as OP, but 23. Been doing Nervous Guy Game and Basic Guy Game from GLL. It's not hard if you warm up with the Approach Anxiety Program first. Hasn't really worked out so far, but if OP is better looking than me (no jaw, bad overbite), it could work.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:40 PM
1

Exactly. As if women didn't have their own list of preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:16 PM
8

BPers will never admit this simple truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:06 PM
14

Try being a 5'5" guy for a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 08:54 PM
18

I don't understand why BPers don't understand that TRP works in generalities. Of course there are going to be exceptions every now and thenn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 08:52 PM
1

Maybe there could be a compromise? There are sites out there that will rate your looks. Hotornot is one of them. If the field report could include a number, that would be better than nothing.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 05:55 PM
2

Can you describe your profile/pics? I almost never get matches, so I've pretty much given up on it.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 05:22 PM
2

Just a little bit happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 03:28 AM
4

Exactly this. How does having a skillset improve my cold approach?
/r/askTRP12/10/14 12:35 AM
1

Exactly, MGTOW men are the would-be programmers, engineers, scientists, etc. Without them fulfilling their role, society falls apart.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:19 PM
2

A man with low SMV can be able to increase his SMV, but that doesn't mean he'll be able to rise above the threshold that actually gets him sex with the women he desires.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 11:55 PM
3

The thing is online you wont even get a chance to run game if she doesn't find you attractive enough. She has to reply to your message first. Keep in mind we're talking online dating here. There are plenty of short dudes getting plenty of top notch pussy. Sure there are, but not on online dating sites. I've seen some pretty ugly dudes (not rich either, mind you) that could reel em in... with words, gentlemen. Have you seen ugly dudes on Tinder have success? Probably not. The odds are stacked aga…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:03 PM
1

You mean like you actually send them pictures of your dick?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:58 AM
55

Eh, I don't recommend online dating if you're not tall and don't have good facial aesthetics. Good looking guys can send almost anything and will still get positive responses (hint: it's not about the profile text or the messages).
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:49 AM
0

Pictures are everything online. No message or profile will save you if you're trying to go for 6s and above. Get professional photos taken if you need that extra boost.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 11:27 PM
1

So how old are you now and what is the timeline of your improvement like?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:57 AM
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I think the risk involved in fucking a 3/10 is more than the sex is worth.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:08 PM
1

I guess you're right. I can count on one hand how many women I know are like that.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:08 AM
125

Personally, I don't have a problem that it's harder for us. I have a problem with women not being able to recognize or admit that it is.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 01:52 AM
6

Just get on tinder or any app/site of his choice, and ask 5 -10 different girls a week for coffee or drinks. You say that like it's easy to get messages on online dating sites, but it's definitely not. EDIT: Fat girls don't count lol
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 06:06 PM
2

Sure is platitudes up in here.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 07:11 AM
3

I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. TRP is the only place you can be a man these days.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:06 PM
2

For some incels it is a waste of time though to put in all that effort when there's such a low return of investment. I don't understand why incel MGTOWs get so much hate. They are not doing anybody harm.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:40 PM
0

What's stopping them from putting a feature where the client can view the driver's profile and then accept or deny? I think this story is more about promoting the app than anything.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:37 AM
11

Why is it so hard for women to admit that they don't like sensitive and emotionally available men when it is so obvious in nature? Why is it you never see the same type of shaming of alpha guys for being manipulative that beta guys receive?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:53 PM
3

I think if things continue the way they are now, in 1000 years or so human reproduction will adapt to create more women than men, because a daughter is more likely to produce offspring. Right now it's the opposite because our coding is for a time when men died in large numbers while young. Part of the reason why shit is so difficult for men these days is because there are more men than ever. Everywhere you looks now is hypergamy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IaYhG11ckA&list=UUeiYXex_fwgYDona…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:17 AM
3

I'm a computer programmer who does work in Machine Learning and AI. Honestly, I just can't wait to see how adding AI into our current mix of dysfunction will add to the chaos. What will happen, lol? Some men just want to watch the world burn.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 05:28 PM
6

Ugh, my dad does this all the time with my mom. Makes me cringe.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 05:36 AM
5

I'm 23, and the women around my age groups are more interested in physical attractiveness more than anything. I'm not that good looking (somewhere around a 5) and all the effort I've put in reading game, going out, cold approaching, dressing better, fixing my terrible acne, working out, making money is not getting me the results I would like. It's been like this for years now. I've been reading TRP since close to it's inception. I know there are others out there like this, even here on RP. It do…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 04:23 AM
0

I don't see what's retarded about it. It's a rhetorical question. Let's assume that a hambeast is just barely a step up from having sex with a man. If a guy had only the choice of having sex with men (like in jail) but he didn't want to, he would be an incel. If he were in the same predicament but with hambeasts, he's still incel in my opinion. Especially considering if he can't get it up. If this is incorrect, you could say that incels don't exist because they could all choose to have sex with …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 01:08 AM
-4

If you refuse to fuck men does that make you involuntary celibate as well?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 09:33 PM
-1

Eh, most women in America aren't worth it. Most incels have standards that don't allow them to have frequent sex, which is fine. It would be bad if every landwhale got even more attention.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:37 PM
7

There are people in this community who mock incels even if they're going their own way.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:10 PM
12

The majority of men are always going to lose. It's a losing game, so why play?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:25 PM
2

It allows them to fine tune their theory for every occasion.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:11 PM
1

so, by your logic, women should marry men who they don't find physically attractive because they're not entitled to attractive men. The problem is women find only a minority of men physically attractive whereas most men find women physically attractive with the exception of fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 03:56 PM
2

I'd argue that it's easier for women to find relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 03:46 PM
5

This post is spot on but most TRPers wont acknowledge that it's 100% truth.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:39 AM
6

Even if your dressed well and have good hygiene, if you're short and still have a pretty weird face, you're still going to have a bad time, even with decent game. Also, it's going to be much harder to improve your game as a fugly dude, because you wont be able to get experiences as quickly.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:29 PM
2

Fiat, you know the truth already. The "nice guy" argument is just a shaming tactic for guys who aren't attractive. Nothing more. It's not an argument based on logic in the first place. Usually these guys have a mixture of bad looks, little experience with women and as a result poor self esteem because of the way they've been treated. Then it gets into a self strengthening cycle which is hard to break out of. At that point being nice or faking niceness has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 06:57 AM
15

I do blame women for riding the carousel when they are young. When they've decided they've had their fill and want to get married, I'm not going to be interested at that point.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 04:32 PM
1

As if all your dating problems could be solved in 3 words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 12:24 AM
1

BP advice that women give works well for women. For men, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 12:22 AM
1

You can't develop more fashion sense when you already have some. There's a limit to how good clothes can make you look. Confidence cannot be faked, by definition. Confidence is bred through success and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 12:17 AM
2

There is no 'trick', other than looking good, and anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is lying and trying to sell you something. Holy fuck, someone just saying the simple truth for once? No way!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 12:15 AM
11

Tbh I don't see many ugly dudes with beautiful women, especially in the younger generation. Also, studies show that height and physical attractiveness are highly correlated with ratings of perceived confidence.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 11:44 PM
1

It doesn't fix anything. Also, even if he did decide to do that it might be illegal depending where he lives. Then there's the issue of prostitutes requiring references. So you're stuck in the same exact Catch 22 as you were before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 12:30 AM
6

lol exactly. On several occasions I've said something along the lines of "I want to get a girlfriend" and then I am met with criticism berating me because "women aren't something to own! You have to respect women!". As if that's the way I was using the word "get". But nobody blinks and eye when some girl mocks a guy by saying "you will never get a girlfriend". It is perfectly normal to say you "have" a boyfriend or a girlfriend. It doesn't mean they are your slave. But if a beta incel says he wa…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:57 PM
-2

Tyler is full of shit. Women aren't mind readers. The reason why the girls were avoiding him at the beginning was because he was making physically awkward approaches and then not talking. Not because of some negative head space.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:18 PM
17

Self betterment is still only 50% of the equation. You can't control the other 50% which is a fucked up society. A man can't go from being a kissless virgin to a player overnight. There needs to be a smooth transition, but in the modern westernized world that transition is too high for a young adult male and the problem is compounded by real loneliness and a lack of sexual fulfillment. It's not always 100% fault on the male.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:02 AM
4

I truly believe Elliot is the perfect example of why common advice such as, "dress better", "just be yourself", "be confident", and "fake it till you make it" is bullshit and does not work at all. He probably tried doing all that and it clearly drove him crazy when it didn't work.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 09:31 PM
2

Hmm, people who find online seduction communities have probably struggled in the past, no doubt. But that doesn't necessarily mean they are lazy.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:25 PM
7

Backpage and Craigslist are full of scammers and girls with fake pictures, and sometimes cops. Everyone knows this. You can tell easily by doing a reverse image search. I've never used them, but eccie.net and p411 are probably better bets. Real pictures, but I think it costs a lot more. There are also reviews.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 10:14 PM
3

That was pretty funny.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:18 AM
1

He got the fuck. It's really impossible to know what would have happened had he sent different messages.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 04:56 AM
7

I wouldn't blame him. People have probably been shitting on him for a long time, just look at the bodybuilding thread. It's not like they're actually giving him useful advice in there. They're just making it worse for him.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 03:29 AM
5

guy is 5 ft 9' and 135 lbs Is that really that bad? Those are pretty much my stats as well, but I'd say this guy has a better face than I do. He just probably comes off as weird to people. I've had the similar feeling in the past, but I don't go voicing them off to people.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 02:48 AM
58

Why would I respect them when they haven't respected me?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 06:58 AM
2

They wont tell you the real reason why.
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:06 AM
12

Yeah, the law has no consistency at all.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:36 AM
1

lol yeah and sure this guy is a virgin. As if he doesn't know how to play the game.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 03:49 AM
3

I didn't want to be accused of assaulting her, but yeah it was dumb.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 09:19 PM
1

Right now in a /bestof post, someone wrote this: "It's hard because it's not what's modeled for men. In most of the romantic movies/books there's the stereotype of men focusing on a woman, pursuing her, convincing her, winning her over, changing her mind. What a lot of men realize is that this makes good fiction because it's not the way things normally go in real life. In real life, it's much more like an audition: a guy puts himself on stage, and he sees who's interested in him, and then of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 03:13 PM
9

What? I wasn't necessarily disagreeing with you, but then you just went full retard. i bet if all u twerps just dropped your act and talked to girls at the pub about your favourite halo game or whatever actually interests you then you'd be 100x more likely to wind up with a girlfriend you actually enjoy being around. No, not really.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 05:14 AM
3

Damn. Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 02:43 AM
3

That is some great frame. Thanks for the video.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 01:35 PM
2

I've made a graph describing this very phenomena. http://i.imgur.com/UCc0Nec.png
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:38 AM
1

So fucking stark.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:34 AM
6

They can be the same thing, there isn't necessarily a border. People will use whatever words they want to describe anything and these words can twist and distort reality.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 09:59 PM
1

Yeah it doesn't make any sense.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:10 PM
1

This. I'm in the same boat as OP. College is basically your best chance at fucking young hot girls. It sucks if you let that pass you by.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:07 PM
1

It has nothing to do with why there dressing but with what they are dressing.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:45 PM
2

The best thing to remember is that confidence comes from within, from things youve accomplished, things youve earned for yourself. The single best way to improve your confidence is to improve yourself Girls don't actually care about that kind of confidence, and why would they? It's not something that can be seen with the eye. If you look at studies in which women rate confidence of men, the men's level on confidence is correlated with facial attractiveness, dress, posture and height. You can hav…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 05:43 AM
3

I love these kinds of posts that use EVIDENCE to make a point. Keep them coming.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 03:46 AM
1

You can be as confident and funny as you want. It ain't going to get you matches.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 09:31 PM
1

I don't have money to throw away like that right now.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:28 PM
1

I think you've hit the nail on the head. That's interesting what you said about using gear to fix this though. I've never heard about that.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:08 PM
5

just do whatever the fuck YOU want to do right now What if all you want to do is fuck.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:00 PM
7

My school has 60% males 40% females. My personal experiences have been the complete opposite of this.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 02:16 AM
20

This needs to be said. Also, it's not just about sex, but feeling like the other sex has at least some interest in you.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:58 AM
1

As expected, typical bullshit answers from TPP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 07:34 PM
2

Do you have more like this? How would you respond if one of these guys insults you in front of the girl?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 05:46 AM
4

To be fair, a lot of those guys are weird. Not really creepy, but just stupid. What's not fair is pointing them out as white, as if it's correlated to creepiness. Wtf does that have to do with anything?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:58 AM
4

http://www.questia.com/library/journal/1G1-15622157/height-as-a-basis-for-interpersonal-attraction Only one in 720 couples has a shorter male than female. If you don't think height matters, you're delusional. It's most likely one of the largest factors in attractiveness to males.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 07:47 PM
1

I've seen this a lot as well and it's happened to me. Even with girls I wasn't talking directly to.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 04:23 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 04:14 AM
1

These mishaps will let you know what's wrong with your game. Actually, you don't learn what's wrong with this method. Start a face washing regimen. How do you that he doesn't? I wash my face, only drink water, yada yada and I still have bad acne. Even if you get rid of acne, you'll still have scars left. If all you want to do is stay home and jerk it to porn, why are you in this subreddit? Lol are you projecting? He clearly didn't say that at all.
/r/askTRP06/04/14 03:51 AM
1

For real tough acne problems sometimes only Accutane will work. I know because I tried EVERYTHING, even other prescription medicines. In the end, Accutane was the only thing that really made a noticeable difference. Other people wont be able to offer you good advice for taking care of your acne, because they don't have the same genetics as you do.
/r/askTRP06/04/14 03:47 AM
18

The difference is that men tend to be more compromising where women are not.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 03:43 AM
5

I agree. The whole "inner-game" that seddit types like to preach is a ton of bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 08:36 PM
6

Massive respect for the bro. He sounds like a cool guy.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 02:35 AM
60

How about you just let men make their own decisions?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 10:42 PM
38

Take home point: If you marry a girl who is in her late 20s or 30s, her best years are already behind her. She's already had wonderful relationships and cherished memories. She'll constantly pine about the one who got away, and will force a smile when she's in your presence just so you will keep the cash flowing. In reality, she'll think of you nothing more than an ATM. THIS SO MUCH
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:08 PM
1

Damn, I've failed this one before for sure.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 03:05 AM
1

It doesn't take a lot of effort to send a text message. Even if your chances are lowered, you should still take it. It's not like you can really know all the reasons why she didn't answer. So kick that horse. Just don't look desperate.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:02 AM
1

I don't think he "messed up" in that case. The situation wasn't winnable in the first place. Sucks that pretty much all girls are like this.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:54 AM
1

And when did women ever treat me as a person?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:47 AM
3

I don't really have much for you. I'm not going to say, "man up" because that doesn't mean anything nor does it help. But since I know people here will prolly give you a ton of BS, I'll just leave this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGp25fn25Cs Start off small. Keep continually improving in small increments. Also 23 year old "virgin" here.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 06:13 AM
0

Thanks. This is perfect.
/r/askTRP09/03/14 04:17 AM
5

dude.... no.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 09:40 AM
16

I see a certain irony in this. These girls are always complaining how they are being pedastalized, when in reality they are doing most of the pedastilizing themselves. They treat men as if they are beneath them and act like they are all superior and always right.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 08:49 AM
12

The video paints it like it's men's fault. But as we know, only a small minority of men is getting most of the casual sex, whereas most guys lose out. It's basically white-knighting for women's poor choices.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 12:23 AM
19

It's not the same. These women had their chance to marry good men while they were young but they chose not to. It's their own damn fault.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 03:16 AM
3

Even in subreddits like /r/okcupid, anyone who dares acknowledge that women have it easier on the site get immediately downvoted and is called bitter. These people just cannot accept reality.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 07:40 PM
19

To me it mean, aggressive masculine presence. Deep voice, tall, built, posturing and aloofness. So much of what women call confidence is based on physical attributes, but they can't admit it to themselves so they just say "confident".
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 09:05 PM
25

Answers that just say "confidence" are a cop out.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 06:19 PM
3

I'm not bitter at women, or even at society for "teaching me wrong." I'm just pissed off in general that I wasted so much of my life. THIS. OH GOD. Yes, it the missed opportunities that hurts the most. That, and I'm mad that people still continue to lie about it. Just admit that you fucked me over.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:38 AM
2

You are just so out of touch of what the experience of young males is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/14 03:27 AM
2

Lol, what else would you expect?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:22 AM
3

As fucked up as this sounds, I thought it was super cute when the Czech girl was sitting on the couch crying.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:21 AM
1

A male birth control pill doesn't solve the problem. If it works only 99.9999% of the time, it still does not legally protect the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/14 03:45 AM
1

Hell, we can pay for the whole abortion. We just want the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/14 03:29 AM
2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxQdLhOQf5c
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 07:29 AM
5

I doesn't make sense. From what I've seen guys on TRP are empathetic to guys of other races. But we are not color-blind. We know that race matters in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 05:05 AM
3

lucid explanation.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 04:58 AM
3

Right, it's like telling a starving child to have a better attitude about their situation, to hell with actually figuring out what's for dinner. I love you.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 04:55 AM
6

Just let it happen! It will just happen! I promise.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 04:52 AM
1

It's always, "Durr they're bitter cuz they're 20 year olds who have never been loved. It's their own fault." Yeah no shit we're bitter. Our whole lives women have treated us like shit and told us bullshit. No, it's not completely our own fault. This society is fucked up. My youth has been stolen from me. They're kidding themselves if they think they wouldn't be bitter too. The only other explanation I can come up with is that these guys are happy being with tubbies.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 04:52 AM
1

I got banned from OKC. The mods there are super beta whiteknights. All I did was send about 15 copy & paste messages that I got from a RP style guide and I was banned in 48 hours. Fucking stupid site.
/r/AlreadyRed12/02/14 05:09 AM
18

It's true. I used to look exactly like those pics. Extremely low T since childhood that I still struggle with. Things started getting better when I took up lifting. Women will almost never find low T attractive. Just the same as how girls with high T and moustaches usually aren't attractive to guys. I wish as a society we could be more aware of men who are suffering due to low T and help them. These guys barely ever stood a chance.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 03:46 AM
1

I have. Not a lot. Usually engineering courses will have 4 girls tops. But yes, I have met girls who know how to code, even somewhat decently.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 06:04 PM
7

The only thing worse than the guy is the stupid amount of white-knighting in that thread.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:45 PM
8

I really think this is just women trying to rationalize why they hate unattractive men.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 03:10 AM
9

The truth is that a lot of what women perceive as confidence and funniness has a lot to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/14 04:31 AM
2

I think you're spot on. Good points being made here.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 06:44 AM
4

Tinder is so looks based, which is why I don't get much luck on it. You can't send messages unless someone liked you first. In this way, it's also racked up against men.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:55 PM
5

Lol yeah. Massive cunt is mad. Guess what? Getting married and having kids IS a big life milestone.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 08:54 PM
66

Here's the thing though. If you text and she doesn't answer back in a reasonable time frame you're still fucked whether you message again or don't. Even if you wait two weeks, you're still going to have two or three texts in a row. The only way you're going to win with this is if you're the guy she wants to text in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 08:32 AM
3

If I ever wanted proof that these people are crazy, I finally got it from this post.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 06:50 AM
2

Interesting. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:48 AM
1

It's pretty much impossible to meet a billion people in your lifetime. And do you really think that all of them are good looking?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:28 PM
3

Thank you. This is perfect.
/r/askTRP14/01/14 06:54 AM
1

I just got to say that from experience, this strategy has never worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 03:48 PM
1

I would skip it. I was in a similar case to you, but when things didn't change, I kept seeing more and more. Just saw the 9th girl recently, and yes it is expensive. So I don't recommend it. Tyler from RSD would say the same.
/r/askTRP11/01/14 03:20 PM
2

You'd have to ask someone else. I don't know.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:18 AM
1

I live in Texas and that pretty much sums up my experiences as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:11 AM
1

Tick Tick Tick...Tock
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:08 AM
2

That's why 3rd date is pretty reasonable for sex. After that and she's really making the guy work for it. If she's 21 and hot, that's a decent strategy though.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:03 AM
3

Congrats on the wife.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:00 AM
8

Nobody cares about "Nice older women". I want them young when I'm still young. You know what's worse than being a slut in you're 20s and then having a hard time finding a husband in your 30s? Being an incel male is your 20s and then in your 30s all the washed up women are suddenly into you. No, I have to look out for me first. I cannot control how society works, nor should I concern myself about the larger picture or how fair it is or isn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 05:59 AM
2

Couldn't even post it with his TRP account?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:08 AM
2

metaphysicalrape: The abstract idea of a man.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:23 AM
2

get minin'
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:22 AM
1

Thanks, I saved it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 03:09 AM
2

I don't know if that's the answer. Personally, I rarely get visitors for messages that I send out. Does my profile pic really suck that much?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 02:33 AM
1

I want to know what your profile looked like.
/r/seduction07/01/14 06:06 PM
1

That's weird. I don't even get profile views unless I send out messages.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 05:56 PM
2

Would be nice to know what his profile said.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 04:01 PM
6

That's pretty much how to treat children as well.
/r/askTRP07/01/14 06:12 AM
41

Women don't need dating advice in the same way that men do.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 02:53 AM
2

Waahh, but he doesn't treat her like a person!
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 01:56 AM
107

This cannot be repeated enough. I believe it to be lesson #1 to TRP. If I would have had just this one piece of advice and followed it through during my younger years, my life would have been a whole lot better. As a male, you just cannot talk about these topics to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 01:17 AM
1

Damn... that makes a lot of sense now.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 03:48 AM
7

Goddamn.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 04:18 PM
1

It's simple. Validation.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:19 PM
1

You're lucky man. For some reason, there are literally 0 tinder users in my area.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 08:17 PM
29

It's not even the same thing. Guys don't really find the women in porn attractive and they are very aware that porn is unrealistic. The reason for men not interacting with women well has almost nothing to do with pornography.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 07:15 PM
32

Lesson to be learned: Don't wife a girl till you've fucked her in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 07:31 PM
7

And what ethnicity are you?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 03:48 PM
1

Thank you bro. This is about what I was looking for.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:23 AM
13

Yeah, I'm so entitled to having a young woman that I'm willing to work my ass off.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:25 AM
8

I'd like to see some posts on how to dress and style.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:13 AM
6

Not to mention that all the government bullshit decreases male value.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:06 PM
12

This is so fucking perfect.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:02 PM
13

Most women in general. As long as they're not fat, which most American women are.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 05:27 PM
9

you can't change how sexual dynamics work between heterosexual humans I don't think he's necessarily whining about that. I know, personally, that I'm upset that women cannot REALIZE that the dynamic is shifted in favor of women.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 05:25 PM
3

Here's you answer bro. At the same time don't go over board and write "Let me take you to". Still have to leave her some way to decline otherwise it scares them off.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 01:19 AM
-9

DAE think stuff like this would be ok as long as women held up their end of the deal?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 08:32 AM
1

I agree. People will downvote me for this, but the book sucks in general. There are some good things, but I don't recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 08:11 AM
16

Seriously. Future hoarder.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 05:35 PM
2

It's a balancing act and a very tough one.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:37 AM
4

6 hours a day might be too much reading. Just sayin'
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 06:24 PM
63

Women don't like the idea of sex being cheap.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 03:55 PM
29

The way I see it, TRP can't kill oneitis once contracted, but it can prevent it from being caught in the future.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:46 PM
3

He really believes...
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 04:56 PM
3

lol me too. The email wasn't even cruel, though, just honest.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 04:48 PM
3

Take this to mensrights. Also, the guy was dumb for falling for such a common ebay dupe.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 11:15 PM
30

Wtf, he sent messages to his contacts. That's so fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 05:27 PM
1

I'll be lolling my ass off when I reach 30 in 2020 and a third of 30-34 year olds will be unmarried.
/r/askTRP03/12/13 04:13 AM
2

It doesn't necessarily have to work on a conscious level.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 05:54 PM
1

I know, I got a headache too.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 03:47 AM
3

This is kind of ironic, but older women having children is attributed to being a factor to higher rates of autism.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 03:27 AM
27

It's nowhere near the same for shorter guys.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 04:44 PM
10

Haha, the whole reason the girlfriend liked the guy in the first place was because he was the kind of guy capable of doing such a thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 06:03 AM
5

This is literally the stupidest article I've ever read on the Internet.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 08:37 PM
1

I agree. This whole thread and topic is just getting too analytical and confusing. Chill brahs. Talking like this will bring you down the wrong road. I know, I've been there before.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 05:34 AM
3

lol @ the ridiculous sound effects to try to make it look worse than it actually was.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 05:29 AM
1

She should have learned after the first fall.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 05:26 AM
2

It's way worse than this if you check out the sub more. They often make up some hypothetical story of themselves as a redpillers that are misrepresentations and straw-men.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 04:59 AM
5

Bask in glory, Gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 04:43 AM
5

Not even worth it, really.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 05:11 PM
19

First of all, never take advice from a woman. Yes, this has been the greatest mistake in my life.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 03:18 AM
8

Anything more than 10 is too much.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 03:14 AM
17

Why would this get deleted? It's gold advice. I just don't get it. Why delete?!
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 12:50 AM
3

It know. It's so pathetic what it's become.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 12:47 AM
8

This has been my method of choice for killing the beta within.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 09:03 PM
1

17 isn't a bad age to lose your virginity.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 02:55 AM
1

I guess there is no way to win this one.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 02:35 AM
-2

Fuck that dude. Maybe if you find the wife abroad and bring her to the states. Or just find foreign women here. There's plenty of Hispanics.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 10:14 PM
10

Fuck yeah.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 10:36 PM
6

Yep. A man's value in a woman's eyes is still relative to other men.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 10:04 PM
4

yeah no. Even betas are tired. These women are just fucked when they get older.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 06:25 PM
-1

Depends on the movie, obviously.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 05:53 PM
1

Ha, thanks for this one.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 05:27 PM
-10

Vote me down, but there are really better things to do than read comic books and play vidya.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 03:53 PM
2

Good point.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:12 AM
11

Fucking sucks man. I had a similar experience. Once you use red-pill tactics, you can't really put the breaks on until after sex. Wait for sex before letting your guard down. Hard shit, I know. Lol, if only women could just let men love them.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:07 AM
1

I had a bottle of Blue Label with me and shared some with her but I made her go get me some coke to mix it with first. wat
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 03:32 AM
5

Except finding a needle in a haystack would be relatively easy in comparison...
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 12:02 AM
6

At least you had gfs, dude. I don't understand how I was never as beta as some of you guys, but I still never got any action. Even with all the TRP knowledge, I haven't been able to get over that hurdle.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 04:53 AM
3

Pretty much all it is.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 09:12 PM
1

Well, lets just say then that I would like sexbots to exist, but I wouldn't use one, personally.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 09:11 PM
2

Even then, it wouldn't be the same.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 01:58 AM
3

"Picking a lock is not some kind of goal to obtain", said the lock.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 06:05 AM
16

If you don't love this bitch, try finding a replacement soon.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 07:39 PM
9

Haha, just delete your facebook. What's the problem? You'll feel so much better after you do. I promise. Do a real deletion, not that fake ass deactivation bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 07:27 PM
10

This is just so rich. All my chuckles.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 07:17 PM
4

Empiricism over idealism.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 03:17 AM
1

I like the way you slice through bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 03:15 AM
2

If a woman tells you what will make her happy, you're going to get some verbal diarrhea that will illustrate how to be a beta and how to turn her off. She'll describe every guy she doesn't want to fuck. Exactly this.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 07:30 PM
33

Still, this isn't what confidence really is. This is what women PERCEIVE confidence to be. It really has nothing to do with what men know confidence to be. I think it's important to make the distinction. Basically, confidence as perceived from women is purely behavioral, not cognitive. This should be obvious, but often guys (including myself) completely miss this. Knowing what women actually mean when they say "confidence" will serve one well rather than just trying to "be confident".
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 06:50 PM
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Don't try to be anything you're not or don't want to be. If you like Ed Hardy and tribal tattoos, go ahead and do it. Don't do it because you want to get laid. That's pathetic. You can obviously be an alpha without all the stuff. Wear what you like, what you think looks good. Become the person you always wanted to be.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 04:32 PM
14

You are a hero.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/13 10:21 PM
3

Story of my life. I've stopped letting her tactics work on me. I am my own person first.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/13 04:35 AM
4

The urge for virgins to lose their virginity comes from both. Older male virgins are seen as "losers" and it becomes harder and harder for them to find a mate the longer they wait due to preselection. The biological urge for men to have sex can become a living hell if they have gone many years without sex. It might sound ridiculous to you, but it's the truth.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/13 04:02 AM
2

As a 22 year old guy who lost his virginity at 21 to a prostitute, I highly don't recommend it. Trust me and wait. Doing that just made me more bitter. The prostitutes in my area aren't that great so I kept trying new ones over and over again. In the end it was just a waste of money and it hurts your confidence. Stick to lifting and talking to girls on campus. Don't make my mistake.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 11:46 PM
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Lol, stop watching this shitty show - it sucks. Come watch Mr Robot instead :P
/r/askTRP
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Remember don't just do it, but truly believe this is the right way.... because it is.
/r/askTRP
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You don't know him therefore you don't need to explain anything to him. Maybe if it was a friend, things would be different.
/r/askTRP
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Nobody has to know. You could still say you're a virgin if you want to.
/r/askTRP
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