Why does focus TRP focus so much on self-improvement by lifting rather than building a skillset?

Modified_Hackware · 2014-10-11T15:00:25+00:00

Because being lean and muscled is a universal attraction.

Fishing is not.

Skillsets that you describe stem from his hobbies, which are folded into the tenet of having a mission and doing what he wants. It just so happens you really like those. Had he other masculine skills that you don't like you'd not be here talking about them since you'd not be with him and so the question is really one of solipsism.

Red_King_Rising · 2014-10-11T15:32:26+00:00

She can't see your skillset from across the room.

alreadyredschool · 2014-10-11T15:40:00+00:00

Lifting is an immediate improvement. Go to the gym for 3 months and you will never go back to being sloppy.

cheeky--kunt · 2014-10-11T14:16:36+00:00

Lifting heavy weight increases testosterone levels which not only builds muscle mass but has a huge effect on energy levels, libido, confidence, immune function, etc. These benefits carry over into literally every other aspect of a man's life.

The type of man who has the discipline to lift heavy consistently will be the type of man who excels in other areas of his life.

In short, the same testosterone-fueled drive drive for intercourse also drives a man to compete and improve himself.

Gold_Leaf_Initiative · 2014-10-11T18:56:50+00:00

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momomotorboat · 2014-10-11T18:39:30+00:00

Lifting is a universal fundamental for all men, kind of like makeup and such is to women. Regardless if she's Paula Deen, Cindy Crawford, Suze Orman, Jenna Jameson, etc. They ALL make sure their makeup is done right, regardless of what avenue they pursue. It's a universal fundamental for women.

Since it's a thing we share most in common, it comes up the most in our dialogue. But look deeper and you'll find plenty of TRP'ers discussing other interests.

Abreseyes · 2014-10-11T20:20:32+00:00

Is lifting that quick a process? I see people on here who lift for 3 months and are saying how everyone is commenting on their new physiques?

My experience has been that it's a slow process that requires patience to add a decent amount of muscle.

CptDefB · 2014-10-11T23:26:15+00:00

To chime in on this question, lifting weights has also been backed by studies to alleviate signs of depression which, understandably, affects many before/during RP transformation.

Lots of people come to TRP looking for answers, and there are many answers to the many questions. Lifting is the best general answer for most questions, aside from nexting/talking to more women.

ProjectShamrock · 2014-10-11T15:02:08+00:00

I think lifting weights is the most accessible way for people to get in shape but it isn't the only option. What is important is to improve yourself physically. Skills and hobbies are important but you have to have a solid physical foundation first.

Overzealous_BlackGuy · 2014-10-11T15:06:36+00:00

Majority of the time someone mentions lifting its followed by them speaking about leaving a girl etc...a skillset isn't a quick fix to looking nore attractive.Youre supposed to focus on both, but lift first so that you get the passive boost of looking good while practicing your hobbies/skill sets.

Adolf_ghandi · 2014-10-11T16:59:34+00:00

Its not about the wights it is about maintain a decent physic shape that you are comfortable with.

If you want the best mate possible you work on yourself to get in the best shape.

You can do this by either playing usual sports, bodyweight workouts or lifting. Were lifting is the way that gives you the fasted success. And you also have a measurement of improvement.

Ralt · 2014-10-11T17:44:00+00:00

Everything you list is a hobby, not exercise. You go to the gym every day for gains, discipline, and testosterone. Through the week as you can, you fit in other things. I like bouldering and rock climbing, but I look at it as a hobby. It's not the same as squatting or running a 5k. Especially while trying to build value, I don't have the time to go hunting for an hour each day, nor would it even be practical.

Chaohinon · 2014-10-11T18:42:10+00:00

Lifting is the skillset. There's just so much information to nerd out on and put into practice.

throwaway-aa2 · 2014-10-11T16:03:31+00:00

Personally, I've never been attracted to guys who go to the gym, my husband and I are athletic in other ways.

This is your problem. Women tend to think of things in a very solipsistic manner. What makes more sense, catering to you specifically, or lifting and catering to every woman. I can't go up to a girl in any club and be like "hey baby I hunt deer and I fish" and get a good response, let ALONE be skinny and do it.

Here's the important question: is your husband skinny? I bet he isn't.

oldredder · 2014-10-12T18:52:46+00:00

Even stupid guys can lift & get healthier. Not all guys are smart enough and/or in the best shape for certain kinds of skills like carpentry (I probably can't), welding (I probably can) or computer skills (I already did), or perhaps automechanics (who knows if I could, probably) or finance (self-taught, but I did).

Also hunting, fishing, etc., can be great hobbies but to do it right you probably need to have proximity to the land, not the concrete jungle, and some extra time. I have no such time or a vehicle for transportation, for example. I learn what I can from youtube videos and hopefully at some future time I'll have the income for vehicle, guns/crossbow & time to do it. I refuse to be some dumb-ass being "manly" to kill things for the sake of killing. If you kill it, eat it, don't waste it. So for me a big part of that will be learning everything to maximize use of the meat if I kill a deer, moose, whatever.

Also my goal for hunting/fishing is the ability to live off the land, not do it as a hobby for fun, long-term. For that reason I'm also looking at everything I can about trapping (beaver, turtle, whatever). I have my reasons. Being attractive to women isn't one of those reasons.

Title	Why does focus TRP focus so much on self-improvement by lifting rather than building a skillset?
Author	tradmarriageftw
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Date	October 11, 2014 1:59 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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