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That statement isn't just incredibly sexist, in that it emphasizes "women and children" as being more important, but it is also very misleading in regards to general casualties as well. If you have 100 women dying and all of them are considered civilians but you have 200 men dying, 50 of which are considered civilians and 150 is considered militant, then you still have more men dying than women. In addition any boys older than thirteen are deemed to be combatants. The moment they turn fourteen t…
/r/MensRights08/05/15 12:35 AM
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Except... India - Activists join chorus against gender neutral rape laws Israel - Women’s groups: Cancel law charging women with rape! Feminists also tried to prevent similar amendments in my country of Australia and if successful would have left it legal for women to rape males - including little boys - as it was up to the late nineties.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 09:42 AM
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It's already happening. I've seen domestic violence literature stating that refusing a wife's request for sex is domestic abuse. It's considered a "denial of affection". Apparently it is already a crime in Mexico and, I believe, India. A Frenchman was successfully sued a number of years ago for the same thing.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 07:54 AM
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In my part of the world the only things that result in a female child sex abuser going to prison are where they abused a girl OR go before a female judge. I've been advocating that male judges be barred from cases involving female perpetrators for several years now.
/r/MensRights22/04/15 02:55 AM
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There is always Aussie Rules. They do play that in Tasmania.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 06:23 AM
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Inadequate analogy. In your bowl of M&Ms 92% are OK. In the bowl of child sexual abusers ALL are poison.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 03:16 AM
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What makes you think it's an "argument"?
/r/MensRights12/04/15 08:11 PM
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Only 8% of female perpetrators are teachers.
/r/MensRights12/04/15 10:16 AM
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Mr King, who is representing himself, denied claims from Abbey National's staff that he 'joined in and enjoyed' sexual banter. I'd like to see the context of Abbey National's claim but at face value it seems they are admitting that the sexual stuff IS happening.
/r/MensRights11/04/15 10:24 PM
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Actually they went further. A significant proportion of those classed as victims didn't consider it rape at all.
/r/MensRights11/04/15 07:53 AM
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In Australia we get exactly the same rhetoric as the US almost verbatim. It’s almost as though it’s simply copied. As a consequence I just don’t trust or believe any of it. I’m a tax consultant so my specialty is income. I do regular analyses of income data from our Bureau of Statistics and my employer’s database of over sixty thousand clients because of the sorts of questions clients frequently ask. In Australia in 2012 the average incomes for full time workers – more than thirty two hours per …
/r/MensRights10/04/15 01:23 AM
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I'll need to devote a bit more time to this but the following bit caught my eye... First, we find that women are more likely to choose the flat wage scheme than men. We interpret this finding in terms of women i) being more egalitarian, ii) less overconfident and iii) having less competitive preferences than men. "Less overconfident" strikes me as a strange framing when "less confident" would be entirely adequate. It certainly has me wondering about the authors' motivations and biases. I'll rese…
/r/MensRights10/04/15 01:06 AM
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...and wrinkly.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 10:26 AM
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look they wanted women to get into it easiest way to do it Thus enshrining their inferiority.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 11:05 PM
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Whatever happened to HeForShe?
/r/MensRights08/04/15 10:51 PM
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Surely the way to get better is to compete with those who are better.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 10:38 PM
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Men are more likely to take risks. Greatness almost always requires risk.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 10:37 PM
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Legs and back are more important for carrying equipment and moving more efficiently on the field. Women are far more likely to suffer knee and ankle injuries. This is true even among highly trained, very fit sportswomen.
/r/MensRights07/04/15 08:51 PM
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And that is a lie, we are taught about consent , as a college student I have been taught at ever level after elementary school about consent and that men are rapist. As a matter of interest were you ever taught that YOU have a right to consent? If so was it presented in a manner that made it appear to always be secondary to that of others? It's actually rather ironic that this stuff is being shoved down the throats of boys in schools. Nearly one in ten female perpetrators of child sexual abuse i…
/r/MensRights07/04/15 05:16 AM
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Who said it was a debate? I'm not in the habit of "debating" with perverts.
/r/MensRights07/04/15 01:41 AM
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female exhibitionists being "very rare" Obviously hasn't been looking at what women are "wearing" these days.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 09:28 PM
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"It's cleaner, looks better, and 99% of women prefer it (most importantly)" That's a lot of people concerned about what a baby's penis looks like. Sounds like there's a great number of paedophiles among the female population. Plus yourself of course.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 09:23 PM
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Now I know what psychotherapists really do for a living. High price, high drama hookers.
/r/MensRights02/04/15 06:13 AM
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The article was actually published on February 18, 2013.
/r/MensRights02/04/15 05:46 AM
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Probably money differences when it's all said and done. She was far more ambitious, even mercenary, than I in that regard. An age gap of nearly a decade probably didn't help much either.
/r/MensRights27/03/15 08:36 PM
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There's no strip clubs or shows in my town at all. The female strip venues disappeared back in the nineties because of virulent protest by local feminist politicians and womens groups. Up until half a dozen years ago touring male strip shows visited a few times a year. Not any more. No venue in the city will host them now because the patrons tended to abuse - sometimes sexually - the staff and virtually destroy the venue. It was potentially a legal and financial nightmare for them.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 04:42 AM
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I spent sixteen years with a lady from Finnish parents and learned very quickly that the Finns are a very practical and no-nonsense people. I'm impressed but not at all surprised. You tell 'em Varusteleka.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 04:35 AM
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Free range kangaroo.
/r/MensRights25/03/15 02:11 AM
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meanwhile in India... http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms
/r/MensRights24/03/15 10:05 PM
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I've never had a problem with programs designed to get more women involved in physical activity or sports.
/r/MensRights23/03/15 09:59 PM
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Virtually all the male survivors who connected to GMP originally have given up in disgust. It's a womens' magazine anyway.
/r/MensRights22/03/15 11:21 PM
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In any act of sexual impropriety any woman involved is a victim by default even where they are the perpetrator.
/r/MensRights22/03/15 12:54 AM
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You're talking bullshit actually... http://www.loc.gov/lawweb/servlet/lloc_news?disp3_l205403383_text
/r/MensRights21/03/15 10:24 PM
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http://www.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/americas/01/31/haiti.food.aid/
/r/MensRights21/03/15 10:46 AM
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They don't care about all victims because maintaining the tenets of a particular political ideology is far more important.
/r/MensRights21/03/15 08:37 AM
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If global agencies hadn't refused food aid to boys and men in the aftermath of the Haiti tsunami I might agree with you. Unfortunately it seems it's becoming the norm to deny aid to males altogether.
/r/MensRights21/03/15 08:27 AM
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No, it just needed to be narrowed down from "violence". Why? You asserted a significant falsehood to begin with... I mean, statistically women are FAR more likely to be attacked/assaulted/mugged than men. This was followed up by... the majority of violence is male on male Can you reassure me that your "narrowing" is intended for reasons other than marginalising victims of violence based on their sex or, indeed, the sex of the perpetrator?
/r/MensRights20/03/15 02:00 AM
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Lets just put it like this. According to the CDC around 1 in 20 women had been raped at least once by age 16. Women are also far more likely to be kidnapped. In comparison about 1 in 70 men had reported being raped by age 16. Male rape victims were separated into another category - "made to penetrate" - in order to hide them. In actual fact the CDC reported as many men being forced into sex as women and women as perpetrators 80% of the time where those male victims were concerned. "Thats too bro…
/r/MensRights19/03/15 08:56 PM
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According to the World Health Organisation 80% of the victims of violence globally are male.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 08:19 PM
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"Pressed hot hair tongs to his genitals and a cigarette lighter to his neck" So why were they not charged with sexual assault?
/r/MensRights17/03/15 08:47 PM
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An example was the refusal of food to males in the aftermath of the Haiti earthquake... http://www.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/americas/01/31/haiti.food.aid/
/r/MensRights14/03/15 10:11 PM
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The true rape culture exists in prisons where it is expected that you will be raped if you do something wrong or cross the wrong person. Society in general uses the concept as a joke and a deterrent from crime. "Don't do the crime if you didn't want to get raped"-kind-of-thing. Indeed. Rape Culture was originally a 1975 movie about prison rape made in collaboration between prisoners and a rape crisis service. The expression was subsequently hijacked by feminists and completely reframed.
/r/MensRights13/03/15 10:49 PM
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But child rape? Raping another family's children was not considered rape? That is the case for myself. Molested by an aunt as a seven year old. It was legal until my state amended it's sexual assault laws in the late nineties. The statutes contained physiologically descriptive language which made it impossible to charge or convict a female perpetrator. Notably feminist politicians and community groups argued against those changes.
/r/MensRights13/03/15 10:40 PM
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The typical genocide involves killing all the males and colonising the females. However anybody who thinks that the sexual torture of males hasn't been an element of warfare throughout human history is living in cloud cuckoo land. Even so-called enlightened nations such as the US have engaged in the practice.
/r/MensRights13/03/15 10:26 PM
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The event is used as a framework to expand guilt by association beyond the scope of the individual responsible. I'm uncomfortable with that being applied to any class of people.
/r/MensRights12/03/15 01:38 PM
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Additionally they'd be of both sexes and target both, or either, of the sexes. It's driven by the psychology as you say. Where a single killing occurs the mere notion that the victim's sex in isolation is the motive is absurd. As long as the violence men and boys experience continues to be un-gendered - "effaced" as per Adam Jones - feminists are going to be able to get away with this bullshit unfortunately. Instances where one sex is targeted for death tend largely towards males but it is obscu…
/r/MensRights12/03/15 12:53 PM
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Officially boys older than thirteen are be deemed to be combatants in conflict zones regardless of their actual status. The US military operates by that standard. Global agencies do likewise.
/r/MensRights12/03/15 12:16 PM
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There's probably a number of serial killers who would fit that description.
/r/MensRights12/03/15 11:50 AM
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Most genocides pretty much target virtually only males for death. Boko Haram, known in the west only for kidnapping girls have been selectively killing boys for years. Even western nations will do this. As an example during the first Iraq conflict the US and allies would surround cities and allow women and children - boys older than thirteen excluded - to leave before they set about vaporising the place. Where one gender is targeted for death it is almost always males.
/r/MensRights12/03/15 11:28 AM
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And just HOW do you distinguish?
/r/MensRights08/03/15 11:33 PM
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I would suggest communicating that with the school.
/r/MensRights08/03/15 10:09 PM
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Slut hysteria is the name I've given to the over the top emotional reactions red pillers have when it comes to women with higher partner counts. Rubbish. I am absolutely equitable on this. I wouldn't want a man with a high count either.
/r/MensRights08/03/15 10:04 PM
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What you are referencing is maths programs in particular. Were there any equivalent "catch up" programs for boys in such areas as literacy? These sorts of programs and more existed in Australia while I was at school in the sixties and onwards. I have no doubt they existed in the US. The change I wrote about involved wholesale overhaul to the entire P-12 curriculum and it's methods of delivery and assessment. It was a little broader than one subject area. It was also the first time large educatio…
/r/MensRights07/03/15 01:27 AM
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Did you notice that the young man she was with was also raped and brutalised? Are you aware that whilst she was able to obtain justice through punishment of the rapists HE cannot afford to officially report the rape he experienced? Were he to do so he could be charged with participating in homosexual acts which is a capital crime and could lead to his execution.
/r/MensRights06/03/15 09:30 PM
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Furthermore making schools more girl friendly has been a goal since at least 1974. Not in the P-12 sector.
/r/MensRights06/03/15 12:14 PM
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So that law only applies to women? No. Only Men! From Article 11 of the first ILO convention on forced labour... Only adult able-bodied males who are of an apparent age of not less than 18 and not more than 45 years may be called upon for forced or compulsory labour.
/r/MensRights06/03/15 12:09 PM
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Norway needs to be careful. Conscripting women puts them in breach of International Labour Organisation treaties relating to forced labour. It would only require one conscripted woman to kick up a fuss and Norway may find itself answering some rather harsh questions in the Hague.
/r/MensRights06/03/15 06:54 AM
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"Here’s a thought: no one “wants” boys to fare worse in math or science – but that’s what is happening, isn’t it? Having more female math teachers and making math grades more influenced by verbal skills (which boys fare poorer on) by including more word problems does tend to reduce boys’ overall engagement and achievement in math. And people are generally fine with that." From a year ago... http://www.smh.com.au/national/education/less-maths-makes-hsc-physics-dumb-20140103-309gh.html Year 12 Phy…
/r/MensRights04/03/15 10:42 PM
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It's all about projection. Most feminist ideas come from among those women with the least capacity for empathy with the male condition. Thus they project their own flaws and nastiness onto men.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 10:40 PM
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The Shi’ite Muslim woman had initially been sentenced to 90 lashes after being convicted of violating Saudi Arabia’s rigid Islamic Sharia law on segregation of the sexes. She committed this crime prior to the rape. Is it your position that being a victim of one crime should exonerate you for your own commission of a different crime? The additional punishment is for the equivalent of "contempt of court".
/r/MensRights04/03/15 08:37 PM
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In their refuge..."Refuge accommodation supports women and children, however we are unable to provide accommodation to young males over 16 years of age." So no refuge facilities for men and teenage boys end up on the streets. What they actually offer is... http://www.fcwa.co.uk/male-idva/ It appears to be the equivalent of being assigned a social worker. Personally I wouldn't trust them or any of the "advice" from somebody paid by them.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 05:26 AM
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Or this one... http://australian-news.net/articles/view.php?id=142
/r/MensRights04/03/15 05:11 AM
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With time and patience one can always find a reason to have less compassion for boys and men. The pattern is consistent whether it be a industrial disaster, natural event, war or full on genocide. Doesn't matter where or when... http://adamjones.freeservers.com/effacing.htm
/r/MensRights03/03/15 10:56 PM
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There IS a difference. However what they are arguing is that something running at a rate of 40% for decades suddenly changed in that one particular year. Futrelle wants you to think that it dropped away to virtually nothing.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 09:59 PM
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http://toysoldier.wordpress.com/2014/08/19/boko-haram-kidnaps-97-boys-and-the-world-remains-silent/
/r/MensRights01/03/15 09:41 PM
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Some of us are already on that march. I've been inside rape crisis services in board and representative roles for several years and was partly responsible for causing the early retirement of the local centre's radical feminist CEO. We replaced her with a man who is the first male CEO the statewide network has seen in it's thirty year history.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 09:31 PM
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There is a massive inquiry into religious sexual abuse here in Australia and not a single nun or woman has been made to front the commission, it's all been men. Interesting that you should mention these Australian inquiries. Victoria ran it's own royal commission into cover-ups in the Catholic church a couple of years ago. I know quite a few of the witnesses through survivor activities and services. Apparently about ninety five percent of the victims brought to light in the inquiry were male. Mo…
/r/MensRights28/02/15 04:20 AM
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I think I need to go back to bed. After reading that Guardian piece and the attached comments it seems I've woken up in a kindergarten.
/r/MensRights24/02/15 08:42 PM
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Anybody who thinks that putting adolescent boys together with pervert women will have good outcomes is seriously deluded.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 01:09 AM
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Australia actually has a bad track record in this regard. Regardless of circumstances the Australian government has always sided with the mother.
/r/MensRights16/02/15 10:03 PM
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Might interest you to know that I've gained some traction within rape crisis services for the notion that feminism is actually locking us in the past. Folk are waking up to how intransigent and dogmatic feminism can be.
/r/MensRights16/02/15 06:07 AM
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Male incomes have been falling against inflation since the seventies which, coincidentally, was when women began moving into the workforce in large numbers.
/r/MensRights15/02/15 02:36 AM
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"she appeared to be barely, if at all, conscious" I've had sex with sober women who would have given this appearance.
/r/MensRights15/02/15 02:05 AM
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He got a text from another woman! It should carry the death penalty or, at least, castration.
/r/MensRights14/02/15 10:13 PM
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Be it aggressive young girls or boys. Except that is never the form it takes. It's inevitably unilateral. We're talking about twelve year old boys and you're introducing "murdering psychopaths" into it? Have a look at how many words you need to use to justify what amounts to gender profiling. If the same message is being delivered to boys and girls I'm OK with it. Unfortunately it tends not to be the case.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 03:40 AM
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"'"And this was a consensual relationship," she added.'" It's bizarre isn't it. The boy cannot legally consent to sex with an adult but CAN be considered to be consenting to any consequences of that illegal activity.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 10:43 PM
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Wait wait lol did you just say that reverse discrimination isnt a thing? It's true actually. There can ONLY be discrimination. Of course that isn't quite what the poster meant.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 10:35 PM
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Exactly the same sort of arguments used to justify apartheid.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 10:31 PM
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That works very well actually. Years ago the "menarebetterthanwomen" blog experimented with this. It was made quite clear that women should stay away because they may find the content upsetting or not to their interest. It was actually a laboratory with women as the mice. I came away with an understanding that if you want women to come in the door the most effective way is to put up a sign saying "no women allowed".
/r/MensRights11/02/15 09:58 PM
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The implication is that twelve year old boys need to be deprogrammed away from a natural tendency. It's actually quite bigoted and, if it was up to me, those making such assertions would be kept well away from boys.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 02:00 AM
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If they are jobs that can be dropped on that basis then they are unnecessary jobs. Maybe they shouldn't exist in the first place.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 05:22 PM
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I've had this debate in board rooms at rape crisis services. Even gender neutral messaging is inadequate where the accepted narrative has excluded victims for decades. It can only serve the status qo. A responsible presentation will be overtly inclusive. My issue with the highlighted meme is not really gender but more the targeting of twelve year old boys.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 02:49 AM
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Feminist whine of the day:- The primary character in a movie called "Boyhood" is not a girl.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 01:47 AM
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Yeah, that's right, be a man and take it. Until the next time when she comes at you with a knife.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 11:03 PM
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I've been running a facebook series called "Who cares. It's only boys" for a while now. It includes articles about Boko Haram, Bacha Bazi, the mistreatment of boys in education and so on. It's recently started to gain some traction.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 09:26 PM
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Silliness. If a bloke had pushed himself into an official womens' event in the same way he would be forcibly removed.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 09:02 PM
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Don't bother with the disingenuous bullshit. You know exactly what I mean. The real question is who the hell are you and what do you have to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights07/02/15 08:40 PM
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I'm a little cynical about attempted suicides. There are a million and one ways to kill yourself. Almost without exception failure means you weren't really serious about it.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 05:00 AM
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AKA blaming the victim.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 04:46 AM
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I would suggest that you already have grounds for a sexual harassment claim. In addition the comments include threats of violence. There are clearly a number of people who are intent on making the environment uncomfortable and, possibly, unsafe for you. They need to learn that they are not allowed to do this.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 04:43 AM
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Sorry, it's a field which has become so saturated by class politics that it has become distorted beyond redemption.
/r/MensRights05/02/15 10:39 PM
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Then I suggest you look up the Agent Orange Files.
/r/MensRights05/02/15 10:35 PM
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Among female perpetrators of child sexual abuse nearly one in ten are teachers. Among male perps it's less than one percent. The likelihood is that there are at least three times as many female teachers sexually abusing students as there are male. The most likely victim of a teacher abuser is a boy by a greater margin. I would add that this is not new information. It's been known for decades.
/r/MensRights05/02/15 03:20 AM
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I mean, this isnt a mensright issue as much as a issue of teachers thinking they can do anything. Except that it's really only ever boys who are treated this way. More broadly the treatment of boys in schools is an absolute disgrace.
/r/MensRights05/02/15 03:05 AM
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In the instance I was citing "running like a man" was being directed at her as an insult. She and her training partner were actually doing something unusual for women in that time in working to build up their musculature. Both would tell you that men tended to be quite supportive of what they were doing. It was other women who constantly targeted them with derision and hatred.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 11:32 PM
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My sense of who I was lacked the normal range of experience. It means she hadn't fucked around enough and wanted to catch up.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 10:07 PM
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Advertisers put a lot of money and effort into finding out what their target audience wants. They don't "hate" men. It's a reflection of what their primary target demographic likes to hear.
/r/MensRights02/02/15 09:17 PM
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It costs absolutely nothing to be gender neutral in your messaging.
/r/MensRights02/02/15 08:54 PM
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Treating twelve year old boys as though they are vicious brutes by default who need to be deprogrammed of it looks a bit bigoted to me.
/r/MensRights02/02/15 08:47 PM
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There is actually a huge difference between men and woman when it comes to throwing. In track and field mens' sprint times are about ten percent better than those of the woman. In jumping events it's approaching twenty percent. In the throwing events, with the exception of the javelin, the mens' implements are twice the weight of those used by the women but the men still throw further.
/r/MensRights02/02/15 08:36 PM
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A woman I trained with when I was younger often used to say that being told she ran like a man was the finest compliment possible because "men run perfectly". She was one of the best throwers in the world at the time and was also the first woman to ever bench press 300lbs.
/r/MensRights02/02/15 08:22 PM
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The "patriarchy" and "misogyny"? Tell that to men in India. There is frequent discussion about "rape culture". I am proposing that rape culture genuinely exists in India. My understanding of current circumstances is that the male victims of another male dare not report. They are only able to allege a victimless, morals based crime and in doing so run the risk of being charged with the same crime as the perpetrator. They can be deemed to have participated in an immoral act. If raped by a woman th…
/r/MensRights31/01/15 02:31 AM
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Indeed... Sexual abuse by females in the backgrounds of rapists, sex offenders and sexually aggressive men... 59% (Petrovich and Templer, 1984) 66% (Groth, 1979) 80% (Briere and Smiljanich, 1993) Counselors I know who have worked in prisons have told me it's three quarters.
/r/MensRights29/01/15 09:46 PM
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This is actually a situation where I could justify victims taking justice into their own hands.
/r/MensRights29/01/15 09:40 PM
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But this woman is obviously very mentally ill. Not that that is an excuse, just a reason. It's an excuse rarely posited for males however. Note that in your response you did exactly what I was pointing to. It's the absolute norm with female perpetrators for everybody to seek out the thing that made them do it. They are never responsible.
/r/MensRights29/01/15 09:33 PM
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It provides an example of the excuse making that always occurs for violent women and which causes gross injustices for their victims.
/r/MensRights29/01/15 06:38 AM
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I'll see what I can track down. The blokes I mentioned are dual citizens but are based in Melbourne. They may be able to get some of the material.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 11:02 PM
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It wasn't from a formal study. It's from information compiled by survivor groups during a period when massive numbers of victims came out of the woodwork in the aftermath of a particular UK court case. I had connections to some of the people involved in compiling it. It was a survey that they were able to get out to many folk because of the circumstances of the time. I've no reason to distrust any of this. I'm in Australia and have lengthy involvement with male survivor groups. Anecdotally I'm h…
/r/MensRights27/01/15 09:26 AM
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I don't really care what this guy writes on his blog. I don't even know who it is. Are we supposed to ? Unless he allows comments on there so I can tell him he is a twat for being so blind and ignorant I can't really do anything with this article other than file it under feminist propaganda... I had a bit of a look around. He's a legend in his own one man echo chamber.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 02:49 AM
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A survey among victims in the UK a couple of years ago indicated that 89% of the victims of female perpetrators were not taken seriously when they reported to responsible entities such as schools, hospitals and police.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 02:43 AM
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Feminists have been agitating for late term abortions for quite a while.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 11:15 PM
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The woman concerned WILL be doing the same thing to others.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 10:26 PM
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They're still looking for a man to pin it on. In the meantime any sympathy for the fathers is premature. One, or all, of them may need to be designated scapegoat.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 09:43 PM
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I find it difficult to blame in that way. I've been around for over fifty years and during that time feminism really has become the establishment. It IS the zeitgeist. The vast majority of folk are fairly shallow politically and rarely see the actual animal. Sometimes we need to see the demon close up to understand how dangerous it truly is.
/r/MensRights23/01/15 02:58 AM
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Not yet anyway. If you have kids in P-12 schools I highly recommend keeping a very close eye on what they're being taught.
/r/MensRights23/01/15 02:15 AM
2

Why would anyone want to live there? No smelly men.
/r/MensRights22/01/15 11:41 PM
3

I'm an athiest and make no bones about it. However I have no difficulty at all distinguishing between the humans and the demons in that event. Had I been in the vicinity I know who I would be standing with. Regardless of one's beliefs whether religious or not... Those men are demonstrating incredible patience and tolerance shoulder to shoulder to protect a place that matters a great deal to them and many others. I really dislike the expression "real men" primarily because of the contexts in whic…
/r/MensRights21/01/15 03:52 AM
1

It has been suggested that police were instructed to not intervene and that the protesters were aware of this.
/r/MensRights21/01/15 03:48 AM
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In Victoria court officers are are instructed to disbelieve male victims by default... http://www.judicialcollege.vic.edu.au/eManuals/FVBB/index.htm#34578.htm
/r/MensRights21/01/15 02:05 AM
4

"When a woman politician's appearance, hair, outfit, make-up or lack thereof is given as much recognition and media attention as a man's is." Always found this hilarious. I remember Gough Whitlam being asked about his attire in trivial TV interviews during the early seventies. Bob Hawke's clothing was often mentioned in news coverage. References to Paul Keating's expensive suits were frequently used as criticisms of him. The simple truth is that most men couldn't care less about pollies' clothin…
/r/MensRights20/01/15 01:07 AM
1

Watkins, 37, is currently serving a 35-year prison sentence for sex offences including the attempted rape of a fan's baby. Two women were jailed alongside him for assisting his crimes. The women were granted anonymity by the courts and are known only as "woman A" and "woman B". No double standards here of course.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 09:53 PM
2

Well, just the men. They honestly don't believe women can be rapists. I'm closely related to two women who engaged in sex with passed out young men with the specific purpose of becoming pregnant. The goal of both was to force marriage upon their targets. Both were successful.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 06:52 AM
1

The direction we are heading is that any act of sexual intercourse will be considered a rape - only of the woman of course - unless it can be proven otherwise.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 06:46 AM
3

The groups who advocated for these laws have already convinced those who make the laws that there are no female perpetrators. The possibility of a woman sexually assaulting a man never occurs to any of them.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 06:42 AM
3

They can flip that script at light speed when it suits them.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 06:29 AM
3

Our communities are being trained that way after all. Domestic violence advocacy almost always asserts that women only hit men in self defence. In other words he did something to deserve it.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 06:21 AM
2

You are not Robinson Crusoe. I'm 185cm tall and the bloody things are right at my eye level. There's a spot above my right eye where I've had stitches three times after umbrella incidents.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 06:05 AM
2

Says 'he' in the page I've only just seen the DM article and returned to correct myself. When it was unclear I must admit that I was finding it difficult to imagine any man actually doing what is reported. I'm referring here to the threats to the kids' penises more than the removal of clothing. Contrarily, given current cultural settings, I could imagine it of some women. The fact that it is a bloke is seriously bizarring me out at this very moment.
/r/MensRights11/01/15 04:03 AM
3

Notable that the sex of the teacher was not mentioned.
/r/MensRights11/01/15 03:18 AM
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It aint men who consider eighty percent of the opposite sex to be below their standards.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 04:07 AM
1

It's just really sad that it always get couched in terms of man hate. They are catering to the target audiences' whims.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 11:34 PM
3

Why would he be bad for rejecting your advances, but the woman in the equation would not be bad for rejecting his? It doesn't make logical sense, I'm afraid. It would seem that Mister Right would always accept your advances, then, if one of the points against Mr. Wrong is that he rejects them. So why, in your theorized world of rights and wrongs, does the woman alone get to make the decision about sex? It's very much a double standard to tell people that it's wrong for men to deny their partners…
/r/MensRights09/01/15 01:29 AM
3

A study among male survivors of CHILD sexual abuse in the UK a couple of years ago found that where the perpetrator is female nearly ninety percent were NOT believed when they tried to report to responsible entities.
/r/MensRights08/01/15 05:22 AM
2

That would be self flagellation.
/r/MensRights06/01/15 10:38 PM
7

And you sound like a bit of a pervert.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 09:40 PM
3

http://www.cotwa.info/
/r/MensRights04/01/15 09:21 PM
1

https://toysoldier.wordpress.com/2014/08/19/boko-haram-kidnaps-97-boys-and-the-world-remains-silent/
/r/MensRights04/01/15 09:17 PM
5

I've heard it argued by feminists as far back as the seventies that, as with standing to pee, men sitting with their legs spread is oppressing women. During the past twelve months a well known Australian feminist who is a facebook "friend" (I like to keep an eye on them) posted a photo of US Supreme Court judges whilst commenting ONLY on the mens' spread legs in exactly those terms. There are good physiological reasons why men tend to sit with their knees apart. Male and female pelvic bones are …
/r/MensRights26/12/14 11:50 PM
2

But numbers that don't serve them ...First they deny, then they claim bias, then they ignore it. Look for the quick shift to move the goalposts and redirect to another issue altogether. I've spent nearly twenty years in activities relating to sexual abuse. Something I've noticed with the feminist mouthpieces is that where the matter at hand is female victims they will always reach for the highest number they can find. However, when referencing male victims or female perpetration the very same mo…
/r/MensRights24/12/14 08:25 AM
3

Stuff like this... http://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/education-news/female-teachers-accused-of-giving-boys-lower-marks-6943937.html ...doesn't help.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 09:35 PM
8

The slaughter of little boys is actually indicative of the oppression of women. Who knew?
/r/MensRights17/12/14 07:26 AM
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I wonder how much attention you've been paying. http://toysoldier.wordpress.com/2014/06/07/boko-haram-kills-hundred-of-men-and-boys-in-village-raids-and-theworldremainssilent/
/r/MensRights16/12/14 09:35 PM
2

Not seeing much in the way of sources for your original claim either.
/r/MensRights14/12/14 10:56 PM
2

So the US Centre for Disease Control and the US Department of Justice are less reliable sources than YOU?
/r/MensRights13/12/14 11:43 PM
2

"The prison rape problem is virtually all male perpetrators" In youth prisons in the US 95% of the sexual abusers of male inmates are women. "just like in outside society" Not according to the CDC's NISVS study which suggests women are 40% of all rapists.
/r/MensRights12/12/14 10:41 PM
2

Without many of those "idiots" we'd still be living in grass huts.
/r/MensRights12/12/14 10:24 PM
2

The wiki article is profoundly bastardised.. http://meddlingrationalarchivist.wordpress.com/rape-culture/
/r/MensRights09/12/14 01:43 AM
2

Not likely. Among my peers the women would be more likely to want the cigars than the men.
/r/MensRights05/12/14 01:27 AM
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Correct. Hyperbolic claims are the norm rather than the exception. The insidious thing about it is that it causes isolation and discrimination for victims who don't fit within the narrative being pushed.
/r/MensRights26/11/14 11:48 PM
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I'm a bit lucky. I live in a part of the world where male victims can access services. That isn't the case throughout much of Australia unfortunately. I know numerous victims who have needed to travel hundreds of kilometers and pay thousands of dollars for counseling that is available for free in their own neighbourhoods. These days I'm a board member and victim representative in a large regional rape crisis service that's part of a statewide network we believe to be the largest inclusive servic…
/r/MensRights23/11/14 08:31 AM
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I was raped by an aunt while I was seven and eight years old. I've frequently been told that I must have wanted it. In fact those were the first words out of my mother's mouth when, years after the fact, I first told her of those experiences. I would add that, in my experience, it's a response more typical of women than of men.
/r/MensRights23/11/14 06:31 AM
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Actually there is a track record of judges mentioning a "double standard" in the treatment of perpetrators and then going ahead and applying exactly that double standard. A number of victim acquaintances have seen this. The judge sucks them into thinking that the perpetrator might actually get punished and then tragically pulls the rug out from under them.
/r/MensRights23/11/14 03:19 AM
2

This is really quite creepy.
/r/MensRights22/11/14 11:53 PM
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Quite normal outcome and media coverage for Australia. Everything and everybody else apart from the actual perpetrator are responsible. In my state - Victoria - the only way a female child sexual abuser goes to jail is when abusing a girl or fronting a female judge.
/r/MensRights22/11/14 11:44 PM
3

There's more to it than the presence of exterior genitalia. Male and female pelvic bones are angled differently. It isn't comfortable or even advisable for men to sit with their knees pressed together. It can lead to lower back problems.
/r/MensRights22/11/14 06:52 AM
1

There are obviously fake feminists out there. Name three.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 08:45 PM
4

However feminism is a major barrier and a primary cause of institutional discrimination experienced by male victims and victims of female perpetrators.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 08:25 PM
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it doesn't bother me any more Same as with "misogynist". It's been used and abused to the point of triviality.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 08:51 AM
4

"You are a man, you shouldn't be speaking about this" The immediate appropriate response is that, by their own standards, they have no right to say anything at all about men.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 08:50 AM
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No. It's denial. Note her reference to "fake" feminists.
/r/MensRights18/11/14 09:51 PM
2

How are feminists the problem? I was raped as a child but it was legal because a woman did it. When my state's government moved to amend our sexual assault laws, partly to rectify this oversight, who do you think it was who furiously objected? A couple of years later when the state's rape crisis network wanted to include male victims in it's services this move was also furiously opposed by...guess who.
/r/MensRights18/11/14 09:42 PM
2

That woman was clearly failed by everyone who had a hand in raising her. Ah, yes. It's everybody's fault apart from the animal who should be caged.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 03:02 AM
2

I've done this analysis for Australia. Average hourly rates of pay for full time working women are 98.8% of those for equivalent men based on 2012 data.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 11:12 PM
2

"I saw some pretty egregious sexism in my program." Worked in the field for twenty years and saw nothing of the kind.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 10:56 PM
4

Back in the seventies I had several rad fem English teachers. I played up to their ideology for marks and more than once scored As for essays demanding the extermination of everything male from the planet. In hindsight I'm a little embarrassed but the teachers probably should have been more so.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 02:54 AM
1

I think I'm suffering from projection overload.
/r/MensRights11/11/14 09:34 PM
2

"It is true that people who make media are disproportionately men" So what even if true? Their content is driven by significant market research and they respond accordingly. Much of what is presented by media today is designed for a primarily female audience because women control most discretionary spending. There's a reason why so much media content is derogatory towards men. Media is giving it's primary audience exactly what the media knows that audience likes to see.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 08:17 AM
2

The kid is quite likely a hell of a lot smarter than you.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 11:38 PM
2

US citizens are bound by the age of consent in their home jurisdiction regardless of where they travel.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 11:30 PM
2

And quite a few of us do not live in the US and, frankly, find it very tedious.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 08:02 AM
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so nobody should try to do anything I said nothing of the kind. The number I mentioned is from a publication by a peak womens' organisation in India and which formed a large part of their advocacy for recent legal change in that country. The male victims were carefully concealed in the back pages. What really perturbs me is the "you are a future rapist because penis DO NOT RAPE" message specifically targeting the group who are actually fifty percent more likely to be victims than those exempted …
/r/MensRights03/11/14 09:50 AM
2

had they been female, there would have been rape Highly recommend Adam Jones' Effacing the Male. Whilst he doesn't deal specifically with the rape of males he does deal quite a bit with the "privileging" of rape of women over death of men in conflict situations.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 08:05 AM
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should this be enforced on both sexes I have no preference where level or type of punishment are concerned but I do expect consistency. One thing that is certain is that sexual abuse committed by women and girls is not taken seriously.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 07:54 AM
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http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/AsSeenOnGMA/story?id=4585388 "Two years ago in Texas, a four-year-old was punished for sexual harassment after a teacher's aide accused the pre-schooler of pressing his face into her breasts during a hug." Boys as young as four being punished for sexual harassment of adults.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 09:48 PM
4

Vogue India? Where sixty percent of rape victims under the age of eighteen are boys.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 06:13 AM
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Anybody who thinks that the sexual torture of boys and men hasn't been an element in conflict situations throughout the entirety of human history is living in cloud cuckoo land.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 11:49 PM
1

Actually if you saw what most of them look like you would be horrified.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 08:38 AM
2

A number of years ago a Californian woman traveled to Perth to hook up with a boy she’d groomed from fourteen(possibly younger given he was in year eight when it started). She originally chatted him up in a web games forum inhabited almost exclusively by adolescent boys. She eventually raced the boy off to a motel room on his sixteenth birthday after stripping her family's bank account - she had a husband and two preschool daughters - to travel to Australia. The local age of consent is sixteen s…
/r/MensRights22/10/14 10:55 PM
1

"Choosing sex is like clicking you accept the terms and conditions" But only if you are male. You're a complete hypocrite.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 01:34 AM
4

I know many victims of sexual assault from various parts of Australia who need to travel hundreds of kilometres and pay thousands of dollars to access counseling services that are provided for free in their own neighbourhoods. They are rejected, often with accusations of dishonesty or mocking laughter, because they are male or were abused by a female. Almost without exception the services who treat those victims in that way are quite proudly feminist and quite overt about running according to fe…
/r/MensRights21/10/14 10:36 AM
1

In my part of the world there have been about ten to twelve stabbings of men by their wives or female partners over the last couple of years. Every few months there seems to be another. Whenever a man assaults his partner the local media surrounds it's coverage with massive amounts of domestic violence advocacy. Not once has the expression "domestic violence" been applied to those instances of stabbed men. In Adam Jones piece "Effacing the Male" he writes about "orders of gendering"... Let us tr…
/r/MensRights21/10/14 10:18 AM
1

I take it you're perfectly OK with young boys being molested by women and then being forced to pay child support to their abuser.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 09:03 AM
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The result tends to be this sexually charged arms race in what you can wear My office is in a busy retail precinct flanked by two large senior secondary schools. At the current rate of increasing exposure I have no doubt that there will be visible genitalia parading past my office all day long in the not too distant future.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 08:58 AM
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A choice to have sex IS NOT consent to parenthood and it's associated responsibilities.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 04:52 AM
1

"I'd love to see how many women saw similar bans and what percentage were overturned" Unlikely to be many at all. Most of the examples cited were decades old. Australian laws didn't recognise the possibility of female perpetration until a little more than a decade ago.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 09:16 AM
2

Norway could be creating a bit of strife for itself here. That country has ratified the first of the International Labour Organisation's conventions on forced labour. Article 11 of this treaty defines who CAN be conscripted for any form of labor including military service. Only adult able-bodied males who are of an apparent age of not less than 18 and not more than 45 years may be called upon for forced or compulsory labour. It only needs one woman to kick up a fuss and some of their politicians…
/r/MensRights15/10/14 04:47 AM
3

I must admit to finding the poster kinderdemon to be quite disturbing. He/she is skating very close to a position in which males have no right to consent in any heterosexual interaction.
/r/MensRights14/10/14 09:02 AM
1

Because I understand that many elderly women outlive their husbands and lack much in the way of male attention I've always tried to be be more helpful and gentle and caring towards them. I won't be doing that any more.
/r/MensRights13/10/14 09:37 PM
1

Helping men too? It's a variant of trickle down theory which ultimately devolves to being pissed on from a very great height.
/r/MensRights11/10/14 08:41 AM
1

There is on average a difference in wages. Define "wage". In my country there is a gap of about 12% between men and women in terms of average total work income. However the gap in average hourly rates of pay is virtually non existent. If the hourly rates of pay are virtually the same there is no gap in wages.
/r/MensRights11/10/14 08:37 AM
1

“She’s in need of help,” sheriff’s Lt. Fred Asteasuainzarra told the Tampa Tribune." Um, no. She's in need of imprisonment.
/r/MensRights11/10/14 08:26 AM
1

It seems to me by anecdotal evidence that there is a rise in female educators accused of sexual assault Teachers constitute only about 8% of female perpetrators. The reason it seems to be almost all teachers is that the social dynamic in schools makes it much harder to cover it up.
/r/MensRights11/10/14 08:15 AM
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You see, there is "victim blaming" and there is "victim blaming." Some "victim blaming" is not only acceptable but proper. Understand that when the victim is male, particularly of a female perpetrator, it is absolutely acceptable to blame the victim and, at times, seems compulsory.
/r/MensRights11/10/14 08:10 AM
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Many schools didn't even accept women Name them.
/r/MensRights11/10/14 08:04 AM
2

A lot of male suicides aren't recognised as suicide. eg when they take the form of vehicular or industrial "accidents".
/r/MensRights11/10/14 07:12 AM
1

Somebody is always the "source". This is something I've monitored for fifteen years. There's a reason why counselors in the state's rape crisis network come to me to learn about female perpetration. For some silly reason they seem to believe I know a bit about it.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 06:13 AM
1

One must do what one must do. I have quite a bit of support for this position within the rape crisis network. At some point we will be making representations to the Judicial College.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 05:59 AM
2

I have already commenced communication with the Judicial College. They will be getting some lengthy correspondence from me later this year.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 05:55 AM
2

I live in Victoria in Australia. Source is the Victorian Judicial College's "Family Violence Bench Book".
/r/MensRights10/10/14 12:50 AM
1

And why would that be?
/r/MensRights10/10/14 12:43 AM
1

Male judge. The only time any female perpetrator has been imprisoned in Victoria was when facing a female judge. I've been advocating in the state's rape crisis network that male judges should be barred from cases involving female perpetrators.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 12:42 AM
1

Nearly a hundred women have been charged and convicted but only two have been imprisoned. I'm involved with that state's rape crisis network in representative roles and AM the source.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 12:39 AM
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It actually accounts for almost the entire "gap" in Australia although the average hours worked here are similar for women and about 44/wk for men. When adjusted for the hours worked to ascertain the average hourly rates of pay the "gap" shrinks to just over one percent.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 12:17 AM
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This is in my state. Female committed child sexual abuse was entirely legal until about the year 2000. Since that time it's become clear that the likelihood of a convicted female sexual abuser of a boy going to prison is about 2%.
/r/MensRights09/10/14 09:21 AM
4

Money for girls. Genital mutilation for boys. Why am I not surprised?
/r/MensRights09/10/14 02:11 AM
1

Indeed. Advertisers and companies do it because it works.
/r/MensRights09/10/14 01:36 AM
1

In my part of the world the equivalent is the "Mens Referral Service". In my state court officers are trained to disbelieve male victims as a default but in instances where they actually believe the man concerned they are instructed to send them to the MRS. I know numerous sexual assault counselors of whom none would send a male victim to that service because MRS deals only with males as perpetrators.
/r/MensRights09/10/14 12:37 AM
1

Nonsense.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 09:44 AM
1

We are humans and we all start out as female in the womb. Not true. The sex of any conceived baby is determined by information carried on the sperm cell involved.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 12:02 AM
4

Take a look at India for example.. women and girls there are raped because they are walking down the street. In India sixty percent of victims under the age of eighteen are boys and women are allowed to rape with impunity. Male victims of male rapists dare not report to authorities because they run the risk of being charged for participating in immoral activities. Male victims of female rapists are not victims at all. It isn't a crime. The Indian government DID propose gender neutral laws less t…
/r/MensRights04/10/14 04:48 AM
0

no feminist has seriously ever said "women cant rape." women can very much rape. does it happen as often as men raping women: no. does it happen: absolutely. i dont know what your problem is. Actually that is exactly what they were saying in the mid nineties. The only concession they would grant is that a woman might do it but only if a man forced her. When my state's government moved to amend sexual assault laws in ways which acknowledged female perpetration that element was opposed by feminist…
/r/MensRights01/10/14 11:24 AM
3

This is merely the UN imitating the "walk a mile" in high heels circuses. Ladies you are about to be hoisted up on pedestals before every living male. Please dress appropriately.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 10:56 AM
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I've been aware of this for at least a decade. Apparently the rates of sexual abuse are significant also. One thing to consider. Women are vastly more likely to report abuse - regardless of how it's defined - than are men. The effect of this disparity is doubled in lesbian relationships.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 10:38 AM
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If I was a man, or if I was much bigger than her, I wouldn't have done it. I knew that I wasn't going to accidentally break her arm or nose or anything. However, were you a man, that would probably not be the fundamental cause for your restraint. The most likely source would be the incessant indoctrination that "boys must not hit girls" drummed into one since one could first walk.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 10:26 AM
1

average woman will struggle to leave marks using her bare hands Except for the sharp ends.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 05:37 AM
1

If one's actions are deliberately designed to provoke an impassioned response from another then you most definitely are responsible.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 05:14 AM
2

http://www.canberratimes.com.au/act-news/long-road-to-recovery-for-victim-of-alleged-queanbeyan-assault-20140829-108y2d.html
/r/MensRights29/08/14 07:37 PM
1

I'm pretty sure it's a male also. Style says male to me. I might go after you like crazy about your approach to things but not like that. The underscore thing IS relevant. Seems to be quite a few of them scattered around this page. MB do you even know the name of that character or ever use it? I thought it was only old hacks like me who did.
/r/MensRights08/02/12 09:02 AM
1

Summers is a libertarian first and foremost.
/r/MensRights18/01/12 01:07 AM
1

Her words not mine. And, yes, I do find jokes about killing babies offensive.
/r/MensRights17/01/12 05:35 AM
2

If you think they're a problem then they are clearly doing something right.
/r/MensRights06/12/11 09:56 AM
0

Good. They lose nothing and gain immeasurably.
/r/MensRights06/12/11 06:22 AM
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Heigl is NOT raging psychopath. She is absolutely typical of most women.
/r/MensRights06/12/11 06:18 AM
2

So when I take a machete to the aunt who raped me when I was seven that will be fine with you?
/r/MensRights06/12/11 06:04 AM
0

Wrong. They are busily ensuring that arseholes like Heigl get exactly the attention THEY deserve.
/r/MensRights06/12/11 06:03 AM
1

Domestic violence? It's a sexual assault and should be charged as such.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 01:09 PM
1

My apologies. The first couple were yours. The others were from ElDiablo666. I shall address my displeasure to the actual culprit. My point remains that referencing gender specific sources to draw comparisons between the genders is dishonest. It's been going on for way too long and has marginalised far too many victims of both genders. Abuse has a significantly cyclical nature. If we are not willing to address all victims fairly we stand little chance of acting preventatively. I do not disagree …
/r/MensRights05/06/11 08:17 AM
2

"My shirt was around my neck. I felt the moment that my bra tore. ... And I felt them tear out, they literally just tore my pants to shreds" - Lara Logan So Logan wasn't necessarily "stripped naked". "Their hands raping me over and over and over again" - Lara Logan Could mean anything at all. The use of the word "hands" is very telling. Every victim of digital rape, female and male, I've known refers to "fingers" in that situation. "...She wasn't digitally penetrated?" Are you sure the eleven ye…
/r/MensRights05/06/11 07:16 AM
1

"So the women should be asked how many times they have raped men?" Why not? Give me one reason other than a belief that women don't do it. I note you don't suggest asking men and boys if they are victims of abuse. It begs the question. If you don't even look then how would you know? "I said women are hurt by men more than men are hurt by women." No you did not. You said this... "I think it's fairly obvious that the majority of abuse is perpetrated by men against women" Your words. You are wrong.…
/r/MensRights05/06/11 06:08 AM
1

I would suggest you look further than Bancroft. She studies only circumstances involving male abusers and female victims. Cross gender comparisons are not possible based on her work.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 02:45 AM
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I work with victims of abuse. It's nowhere near as unusual as you suggest. Further reading on this story leaves me believing this mother IS trying to get some action but confronting authorities who simply aren't interested. Of course the gender mix has absolutely nothing to do with this.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 01:59 AM
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Excuse me but Lara Logan was not "stipped naked" nor "digitally penetrated". Thankyou for proving my point. You dilute the meaning of rape thus trivialising the experiences of real victims. Neither Logan nor the young lad were raped. Both, however, are victims of sexual assault. You do as feminists always do. Overstate the case where the victim is female and understate it when the reverse occurs. It is dishonest and hypocritical.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 01:19 AM
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You question MY sources and then cite one sided statistics from the worst hell hole on earth? When you cite non gendered studies - studies asking the same questions of BOTH genders so comparison is possible - THEN I will respond. Otherwise your blinkers are plain for all to see. By the way I do not live in the US and I said nothing about men as victims of women. Please respond to what posters actually say and do not put words in their mouths.
/r/MensRights05/06/11 01:09 AM
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"I think it's fairly obvious that the majority of abuse is perpetrated by men against women" You would be wrong. The majority of abuse is committed by men against men. Women abuse children more than men abuse women. You really have been sucked in by feminists and their lackeys haven't you.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 08:03 AM
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For goodness sake the "distinction" is the bloody reason we're not making any progress.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 06:35 AM
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"Not true, but it's also not usually abuse. There is a difference between violence and abuse." Ah, that's right, it's different when women do it. As the Vagina Monologs puts it there can be such a thing as a "good rape" - providing it's committed by a woman.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 01:42 AM
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Male survivors of sexual assault have surveyed services in my country, Australia. Only one state - Victoria - allows male victims and victims of female perpetrators to access services. Across the rest of the country male victims who seek help from these services are routinely mocked and called liars. They also found that only one in fifteen private psychologists is prepared to take in male victims as clients.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 12:58 AM
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Take your complaint to those who diluted the definition of rape to the point of meaninglessness. Clue...it wasn't mens rights activists. If Lara Logan was "raped" then so was the boy in this story. And then some.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 12:33 AM
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Rubbish. The son's identity is protected by simply not using his name. Furthermore the girls had no problems advertising their act on youtube. Remember that female brutalising male is always cause for applause and celebration. Guarantee they're getting plenty of cheers and high fives from their girlfriends.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 12:31 AM
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It wouldn't be the first time a mother has sided with other women over her own son.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 12:11 AM
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A lot of possibilities? No evidence however.
/r/MensRights03/06/11 03:19 PM
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This tome is the giddy, proud publication of prestigious Random House. Random House Children's Books, that is. Crazy publisher too?
/r/MensRights27/02/11 04:51 AM
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So, then you now have the opportunity to explain your ad hominem. Please do so.
/r/MensRights27/02/11 04:45 AM
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"It's like something's missing with them," said Yoko Yatsu, a 34-year-old housewife, in an interview. "If they were more normal, they'd be more interested in women. They'd at least want to talk to women." LOL Diddums. Seems Japanese women are as incapable of self reflection as their western sisters. I say again...diddums.
/r/MensRights14/02/11 11:47 AM
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What has feminism got to do with equality? Since when has being a non, or even anti, feminist precluded one from representing, advocating or seeking equality?
/r/MensRights14/02/11 07:45 AM
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No, it doesn't say that at all. Try again. It may help your comprehension if you recognise that, notwithstanding it's poor punctuation, the second sentence on that poster is a question. Aside from stating Curie's achievements the poster asserts nothing. So once again how does it unfairly condemn women?
/r/MensRights14/02/11 07:39 AM
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"Unfairly condemns"? How does it do that?
/r/MensRights13/02/11 10:31 PM
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Every child has the right to know who their father is. Women who lie about paternity defraud their own children.
/r/MensRights13/02/11 05:12 AM
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The only person here who has used the words in your quote is yourself.
/r/MensRights13/02/11 04:52 AM
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I was confronted with an age factor in my sporting career. Right from the outset I understood that I could only stay at the top level for so long. There was NO point to putting it off. Do THAT and the opportunity is gone. We age. In almost any physical activity we lose capacity as we do that aging. Child bearing is no different. Deal with it.
/r/MensRights13/02/11 04:45 AM
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It doesn't need to be. We just like a good laugh sometimes. Karma is a wonderful thing.
/r/MensRights13/02/11 04:24 AM
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What makes the poster sexist?
/r/MensRights13/02/11 04:15 AM
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Please provide an example of a victim of rape being imprisoned by their rapist. An accuser imprisoned for a false claim is NOT a rape victim. The person they accused is NOT a rapist. You need to be more careful who you label "victim".
/r/MensRights31/01/11 12:45 AM
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Women do not live longer. You need to take into account mortality rates, which are higher for men. Because of gender inequality (today, and historically), women tend to be in less dangerous jobs, as a majority. Also, in many third world countries, longevity is the same for both sexes. Women have greater life expectancies in EVERY country on the planet, a fact which was celebrated by the World Health Organisation and Amnesty some four years ago. Additionally men lead in nineteen out of twenty of …
/r/MensRights30/01/11 01:51 PM
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I think being the victim of a crime put in jail instead of the rapist might be slightly more unjust than an innocent man put behind bars. But neither of them is right, they're both atrocious. Sorry. Back to front logic here. The victim of a crime put in jail is the criminal by definition. The one you casually refer to as the rapist is the victim in that instance. The innocent man put behind bars IS a victim of a false accuser.
/r/MensRights30/01/11 01:17 PM
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It's another manifestation of a culture that will do anything to advantage women specifically but will go batshit insane at anything done specifically for men.
/r/MensRights29/01/11 01:31 AM
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Correct. Just as nobody can hate a woman as much as another woman nobody can demean women like a feminist can.
/r/MensRights26/01/11 10:10 AM
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Their mothers tell them to "man up"? Certainly not. That is what fathers do, try to make their sons masculine. Bullshit. Growing up, throughout school, if a boy is not seen as masculine, or weak in any way, they are picked on. They are taught to bottle their emotions: "men don't cry". Who in the education system is teaching this to boys? Let me give you a hint. Many kids now go through their entire schooling without ever seeing an adult male. I believe it is things like this that lead to an incr…
/r/MensRights26/01/11 10:04 AM
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Stands to reason considering they get custody so frequently. Be careful with this argument. It's actually an implication that child abuse is a function of how much time one spends with children. In essence it suggests that child abuse is inevitable. I see it differently. An individual will or will not abuse regardless of how much opportunity they have to do so.
/r/MensRights26/01/11 01:08 AM
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In the years since nothing has changed in Australia. I do quite a bit of work with and for victims of sexual assault. Through most of Australia those victims who are male or were abused by women are rejected outright by services funded by the taxpayer to help victims. They are frequently laughed at and called liars by those same services if they dare to seek help. In fact in my state of Victoria future welfare workers are being taught that they should disbelieve male victims outright. That margi…
/r/MensRights26/01/11 12:37 AM
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My circumcision was botched. I was left with scarring from over-cutting and stitching and an odd curve when erect. Erection causes significant discomfort because of the tightness created by too much tissue removal. My parents were not told of this. It wasn't until I was an adult that the cause was diagnosed. Apparently between five and ten percent of hospital circumcisions have this type of outcome. Not a few are worse including complete amputation of the glans. Barbaric practice. Parents who ar…
/r/MensRights25/01/11 11:50 PM
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The researchers found the men recalled “significantly more information watching the unsexualized anchor deliver news than her sexualized version.” For women, the opposite was true, but the effect was far less pronounced. ... It also confirms something women have long suspected: A sexually charged image can flood the male brain, stimulating its visual processing component “to levels that demand close to full cognitive capacity.” I would suggest an alternative cause. The young dolly birds have abs…
/r/MensRights25/01/11 10:59 PM
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Simple solution. Ask the woman concerned what she actually knows about being a man. Tell her in no uncertain terms that she is not qualified to define anything about it and would undoubtedly be outraged at any attempt to define what she should be. I've frequently been berated to "be a man" - most recently in an attempt to coerce my participation in white ribbon events - and found this strategy shuts it down totally.
/r/MensRights25/01/11 10:13 PM
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quality and reputation Reddit? LOL
/r/MensRights25/01/11 10:04 PM
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Then your challenge is to identify what the mens' rights issues happen to be. I'm willing to bet you couldn't identify even ten percent of them in reality. You will, however, and without fail, be able to identify each and every one of what you've been indoctrinated to believe are womens' issues.
/r/MensRights25/01/11 09:25 AM
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What ARE these rights that women lack and men enjoy? I'll give you a head start. Under international law you have the right to be sent somewhere against your will whereupon others will actively try to kill you. Women are denied this right. YOU have the right to NO SAY whatsoever in your reproductive destiny. All control is given over to somebody else - who will always be female. If you should be the victim of a sexual assault in my country you have the right to be laughed at and called a liar by…
/r/MensRights25/01/11 08:59 AM
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Those figures aren't invisible to me, but just because they are like that does not mean it is women's fault alone. But they are invisible to women. I live in Victoria in Australia. Have a look at my state's Health and Community web resource. Notice anything missing? No men were involved in the production of this resource. Apparently mens' health doesn't matter nor are they viewed as being part of the community. By women in power in what is supposedly a modern western democracy. Only a couple of …
/r/MensRights25/01/11 08:39 AM
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Typical. View the world through MTV. 95% of the homeless, five out of six suicides, 75% of the victims of all violence, leaders in nineteen out of twenty major causes of death, pariahs in our education systems and much, much more. All invisible to you. Beneath your dignity to even see them, let alone care. Poor, poor women oppressed by their looks. What a shallow individual you are.
/r/MensRights25/01/11 01:40 AM
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Some additional reading for those who are interested... Gendercide Read the "case studies". Effacing the Male Both by Canadian Professor Adam Jones, one of the world's leading analysts of genocides past and present. When the shit hits the fan it is male bodies and blood which are used to stem the shit and clog up the fan. This has always been so. That expectation still remains. The absence of compassion for men stems from the knowledge of how we use them. It protects us from caring too much else…
/r/MensRights25/01/11 01:06 AM
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Yes. In fact while the expectation remains that men must act to defend and protect women - ie white ribbon/feather - violence in our communities will never cease. It serves as a demand that men retain the capacity for violence and risk taking.
/r/MensRights25/01/11 12:49 AM
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Unfortunately it happens. There are recorded instances in the US, the UK and Australia that I'm aware of.
/r/MensRights24/01/11 12:32 PM
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In Australia a comparison of hourly rates of pay for full time workers shows a gap of a little over one percent. Any claim that women are paid less than men for the same work is a deceit. In addition government sources two thirds of individual tax receipts from men whilst two thirds of it's largesse to individuals goes to women. Meanwhile women control eighty percent of discretionary spending. I wonder how those asserting that women earn so much less can reconcile their claimed income disparitie…
/r/MensRights24/01/11 12:23 AM
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Oh, dear. we have teenagers here.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 09:36 PM
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My original statement and my follow up are quite accurate. Your ignorance endangers children. That's far worse than "silly".
/r/MensRights18/01/11 12:09 PM
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Sorry doesn't tally with anything I've seen nor is it something I engage in. You're clearly not here for anything positive so take the hint and piss off. I'm not interested in playing tit-for-tat kiddie games.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 11:58 AM
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You're welcome. The thought experiment in that meeting I described is far more useful to you though.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 09:21 AM
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The real test for those claiming the label "feminist" lies in much more than rhetoric. That test requires that they act with as much compassion towards men and boys as they so easily can for women. Mere words are not sufficient. This is their event horizon. It is only beyond that point that any true gender equality can ever be realised.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 08:39 AM
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I'm aware of the definition of paedophilia. I would add that not every paedophile will abuse nor is every act of abuse committed by a paedophile. Nowhere near it in fact. Who or what is a paedophile has little to do with what actually happens to victims. Women as paedophiles OR non-paedophile abusers is something not well understood to begin with. Studies of abusers tend to rely on those caught and convicted. But in many jurisdictions female perpetrated sexual abuse has only been effectively cri…
/r/MensRights18/01/11 08:25 AM
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I'm not sure you have a point. Your reversal is significantly less accurate in your formation.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 07:39 AM
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Among female perps about nine percent are teachers whilst for males it's fewer than one percent. In a school setting the teacher who molests a student is more than three times as likely to be female than male. Are you happy that children are left vulnerable by those stereotypes?
/r/MensRights18/01/11 01:01 AM
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Unfortunately, males are associated more with pedophilia because pedophilia is a predominantly male problem. Are you sure? Women commit about a quarter of the offences and - due to male perps being more inclined to commit multiple offences - are a larger proportion of the perpetrators than that quarter would suggest. Most probably they are about a third of them. You did mention stereotypes I guess.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 12:16 AM
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And that is referred to as projection.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 12:07 AM
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Could you possibly explain that to the feminists who constantly dredge this up then.
/r/MensRights18/01/11 12:06 AM
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What's up with the comments blaming "feminists" for this phenomenon? You need this spelled out?
/r/MensRights17/01/11 11:51 PM
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The subject of FGM came up in a political party meeting. I asked for a show of hands among the group. Who has undergone circumcision or genital mutilation? EVERY hand that went up was male and it was more than three quarters of the group. For many males virtually their first experience of life is of having bits of their dick cut off. It prepares them well for what is to come.
/r/MensRights17/01/11 10:27 PM
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I'm normally pretty gung-ho about child sexual abuse and very defensive of vitims. Not this time. This woman was forced into this act.
/r/MensRights12/01/11 11:55 PM
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Victims of female perps have higher rates of suicide. Furthermore, among imprisoned male rapists of women and girls more than half were molested by women when younger. Male victims are more inclined to act out in ways that involve and hurt others than are females who are more likely to engage in self neglect or harm. Among victims themselves the females are almost exclusively abused by males. Male victims are as likely to be abused by either gender. I'm based in Victoria in Australia. We have a …
/r/MensRights10/01/11 04:58 PM
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I work with and for victims and can assure you that your "nuanced view" is totally at odds with reality. Within the field most will tell you that female perpetrators - who abuse boys ninety to ninety five percent of the time - actually do more harm. Boys are also a third of the victims of male perps and are just as likely to be abused by either gender. Outside the home setting your sons are actually more likely victims than your daughters. By the way, while all your attention goes into protectin…
/r/MensRights10/01/11 04:15 PM
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Let's go for quadruple... If the victim was a girl the sentence also would have been much worse.
/r/MensRights10/01/11 04:00 PM
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True. Often referred to as "Romeo & Juliet" clauses.
/r/MensRights10/01/11 03:58 PM
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Might interest you to know that the eagerness you suggest can actually be a source of significant difficulty and confusion later on. There have been quite a few women who have experienced orgasms during particularly unwelcome and violent rapes. Erection is analogous for males. It occurs as a physiological response often beyond the individual's control. The sense of one's body betraying one's self in those circumstances can be very problematic. It's a similar situation long term with that eagerne…
/r/MensRights10/01/11 03:26 PM
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Actually, I agree with your hundred year comment. The early rape activism and advocacy of the eighties and beyond relied far too much on generating emotive responses and outrage. This, unfortunately, continues to this day. The sometimes rediculous sentencing is one of the consequences. I'm involved with a network of crisis and counselling services at an official level. I'm now gaining traction for the notion that the generalised outrage is actually counter productive. If anything it prevents us …
/r/MensRights10/01/11 02:52 PM
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Female perps are responsible for about a quarter of all offences. If you were to look at a group of one thousand victims/offences you would likely find nearly twenty three abused by female teachers - ie 1000x25%x9% - and about five abused by male teachers. The victims of the female teachers will likely be one or two girls and the rest boys. The victims of male teachers will include one or two boys and the rest girls. Out of nearly thirty victims of teachers about twenty three will probably be bo…
/r/MensRights10/01/11 01:58 PM
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Twenty years ago there were two countries where men lived longer, one Nepal and the other possibly Japan. If, as you suggest, it was only a matter of longer lifespans among women and the improved health it implies that would not be of concern. The relativity between the genders would be irrelevant and would not even require mention. This was not what happened however. The measures cited as being good news were effectively the relative data. NOT the raw life expectancies for women. So yes, I do f…
/r/MensRights10/01/11 12:44 PM
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And in ten years time when your life is a fucking mess you won't have a clue as to why.
/r/MensRights08/01/11 12:40 PM
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I've worked with victims of rape for a decade. Female perpetrators do greater long term harm. I understand that your assertion conforms to the standard prejudices but the reality is something completely different.
/r/MensRights08/01/11 12:35 PM
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I'm astonished that this comment was marked down by more than one person let alone anybody. This has happened to rape victims I know. To the obviously feminist inclined downvoters all I can say is that you are fucking pigs.
/r/MensRights08/01/11 12:22 PM
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I've spent the past decade working with male victims. We are very sensitive to the depictions and portrayals existing in our communities. Even the rape of little boys evokes mirth.
/r/MensRights08/01/11 12:11 PM
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See if you can find anything about a joint announcement between Amnesty and WHO relating to life expectancies. This was about four years ago. All links I had are defunct. The gist was that women now had longer lives than men in every single country and that it was good news.
/r/MensRights08/01/11 12:07 PM
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Meanwhile among actual child sexual abusers female perps are teachers 9% of the time whereas for male perps it's below 1%. The teacher who molests a student is much more likely to be female than male. The reality is vastly different to our beliefs.
/r/MensRights04/01/11 11:34 AM
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They are to the victims of child abuse.
/r/MensRights04/01/11 11:12 AM
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Honestly, have you EVER seen any portrayal of a woman abusing a man which WASN'T designed to mock that man? Seriously.
/r/MensRights04/01/11 11:11 AM
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Typically it's the orgs responsible for the ads which are misandrous. In my country it's not unusual for male victims to be laughed at and called liars by services their tax dollars fund to help victims. The same services run the same sorts of PR as that highlighted here.
/r/MensRights04/01/11 11:08 AM
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Poorly named indeed. Male homosexual relationships have the same rate of abuse as those of heterosexuals. It is female homosexual relationships that figure very highly.
/r/MensRights04/01/11 11:05 AM
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You think so? In my state of Victoria we have only ever imprisoned one female perpetrator. When I was raped by an aunt as a seven year old it was legal.
/r/MensRights22/12/10 07:36 AM
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Gender is key. Female perp must be viewed as a victim and protected. Not so for male perps. A great deal of effort is put into "humanising" female perpetrators. We will hear about all the trials and tribulations, no matter how petty or minor, previously experienced by the female perp. They're never deemed responsible for their acts. There's always some other force making them do it. Poor things. On the other hand male perps are merely animals. This article followed the typical pattern. Tell us h…
/r/MensRights22/12/10 12:49 AM
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Who's copying feminist definitions? The work we're doing with male victims is groundbreaking and is being led by the victims themselves. We are very conscious of the intrusions of feminist ideology into treatment regimes - particularly in the area of domestic abuse - and have been lobbying against that very thing. I'm a tax consultant by profession. I'm not paid for what I do in this field. I gain nothing from it and probably lose income because of the time it takes up. It might interest you to …
/r/MensRights22/12/10 12:20 AM
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I'd love to see that one. Sounds like a lot of hooey to me too. Bet it was really "scientific".
/r/MensRights21/12/10 11:46 PM
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The current trend in Australia is to withhold the names of female perps. Male perps are still being named most of the time.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 11:43 PM
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Spot on. As adults we lose the connection to the child we were. We tend to look back on our childhood experiences from an adult perspective. It's also why most adults really can't comprehend the dangers associated with child sexual abuse. For adults in treatment for child sexual abuse it is imperative to refind the perspectives we held as a kid. It is, after all, that kid who was abused.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 11:40 PM
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The current trend in Australia is to withhold the names of female perps. Male perps are still being named most of the time.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 11:31 PM
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Consider that it may be good fortune that it didn't happen.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 11:27 PM
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yeah i think its cool to fuck young girls my age Ah, but that's not the case in point is it. We are not talking about activity between peers. Again, if you think the teacher fucking their students is OK then parents need to keep their daughters away from you.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 11:19 PM
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Unfortunately many folk don't get how predatory is the adult who takes advantage of those teenage yearnings.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 10:56 PM
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How much contact do you have with victims that you can make these assertions about their behaviour and it's causes?
/r/MensRights21/12/10 12:39 PM
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I grew out of it. What's your problem? You must also think it's OK for you to "bang" young girls too if we're to be consistent.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 12:37 PM
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A FEMALE physical education teacher broke down in tears when a Perth judge sentenced her to more than two years in prison for having sex with two teenage boys in her care. Typical media. Male perp it's rape, female perp it's having sex. The 25-year-old woman from New South Wales, whose name has been suppressed Who is this to protect? The woman faced nine charges relating to sexual acts Notice the actual charges are not detailed by the writer. Judge Eaton noted that the woman had a troubled past,…
/r/MensRights21/12/10 12:12 PM
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Well off you go then little boy. You're certainly no adult. Time to grow out of your adolescent sexual fantasies I reckon. Parents of daughters might be well advised to keep their daughters away from boxmandude. He seems to think this sort of thing is OK.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 11:54 AM
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Sorry. I'll reframe that... IF you hurt them - I will hurt you. I am very protective. It's a general "you" rather than meant for you personally. I've spent a good part of the past decade analysing and learning about the cultural flaws and ignorances that drive these prejudices. For a long time I tried to ask politely, as carlottavaldez would expect or even demand, but I gave up on that notion a long time ago. I am pleased to see that the last year or so has seen less tolerance of those ignorant …
/r/MensRights21/12/10 10:27 AM
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"they'll hear the charge that this is suddenly new knowledge that can only be considered very cautiously" I can vouch for that. I've also made the point elsewhere that most male victims don't come out of the woodwork until their forties. What we hear about today often happened decades ago. There have always been female perpetrators.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 08:01 AM
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I see the pain and damage to the victims. Looks like a war to me. Throughout my country male victims are not only refused help they are laughed at and called liars - because of their gender. By services their tax dollars pay for. Future welfare and social workers are being taught that male victims must be disbelieved. Looks like war to me. How can anybody assert it isn't a mens issue when it is the very fact of their gender that causes the denial of help and acknowledgement and the cruelty they …
/r/MensRights21/12/10 06:37 AM
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I honestly don't care. I work with male and female victims and have done so for more than a decade. My entire focus is on their concerns. I will not tolerate those who harm those concerns or attempt to divert and I will be as aggressive as is neccessary. Furthermore it is not for you to determine what is or isn't a mens' issue nor is it your prerogative to question those who work on behalf of men and boys within those issues. By the way, I see the pain and suffering of victims close up. It will …
/r/MensRights21/12/10 06:14 AM
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Unfortunately the references are very old. I would recommend looking up "The Invisible Boy".
/r/MensRights21/12/10 05:55 AM
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Emphasis on the "being caught". Most of the victims don't come out of the woodwork until approximately forty and it's often too late. We learn about much of it decades after it actually occurs. There have always been female pepetrators.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 05:49 AM
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Trust me it's not a recent trend.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 05:38 AM
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Love your moronic repetition of stupid, diversionary questions. You have nothing to contribute.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 05:23 AM
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Can you not read? Furthermore it's not for you to determine what is or isn't a mens' issue. Now piss off.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 04:55 AM
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Paedophilia is an attraction to pre-pubescent children. I actually consider sixteen to be a reasonable age of consent. You are wrong to assume that "teens and adults can be sexual without it being abuse". The kids who come from these experiences almost always end up not being able to maintain any sort of effective relationships as adults, and not just romantic or sexual relationships either. My own experience was of being molested as a seven year old. However I also got involved with a much olde…
/r/MensRights21/12/10 04:14 AM
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They stayed well away. They recognised you to be a greater pervert than they could ever be. Isn't it time you grew out of your adolescent fantasies?
/r/MensRights21/12/10 03:57 AM
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They are NOT biologically adults. The human brain continues it's development well into the twenties. There are certainly differences between pre and post pubescent kids in the distortions created by sexual abuse but they exist for both groups none-the-less. If you ask those who work with victims many of them will tell you that the most damaging is that of women molesting boys in their early teens.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 03:42 AM
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"Somebody should fucking kill every single person involved with putting this lady in prison." Presumably that would include assassinating her victims? Maybe somebody should kill you.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 03:03 AM
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It's a mens rights issue because male victims are marginalised into oblivion. Nine out of ten youth suicides are boys and a significant proportion of them are victims. Male victims who try to get help are routinely laughed at and called liars by services funded to help victims. Not an equality issue? You are unbelievable.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 02:41 AM
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There is no question that women commit at least a quarter of the sexual abuse of children. Studies throughout the western world and beyond have been indicating such for decades. It is also a fact that male perps are more inclined to commit multiple offences. The upshot is that the perpetrators themselves will be closer to gender parity than that quarter of offences would suggest. I am quite comfortable with the notion that women are a third of the perpetrators and quite possible more.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 01:32 AM
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You are absolutely correct. I have been speaking out for male victims of abuse for years and for my trouble am regularly accused of misogyny. I need say nothing about women at all and still the denigration comes.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 01:22 AM
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And I work with the victims. I see the harm that is done very, very close up. You are wrong.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 12:41 AM
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Actually you are not part of "10%" at all. Women are responsible for at least a quarter of all child sexual abuse and are probably a third of all the perpetrators. You are not alone. Other victims of female perpetrators are starting to speak up in the face of these organisations. They are starting to question the motivations and actions of those who seek to marginalise. They need to be held accountable for the harm they do to you and I and all the other victims of female rapists. Well done for s…
/r/MensRights21/12/10 12:38 AM
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And you are a fucking idiot
/r/MensRights20/12/10 11:21 PM
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Boys who are raped by adult women are forced to pay child support to their rapists in EVERY English speaking country. Given this I doubt there is any likelihood of adult men getting any consideration.
/r/MensRights18/12/10 06:48 AM
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Judge bashes Probation Department for gender bias in favor of leniency for girls Judical bias, better be a woman.
/r/MensRights13/12/10 11:44 AM
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Absolute must read... Postmodernism disrobed by Richard Dawkins
/r/MensRights13/12/10 11:26 AM
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Apologies for operating from memory and getting the years mixed up. Couple of years ago I worked over these treaties with a US lawyer. I'll track down the record of that analysis ASAP.
/r/MensRights22/03/10 03:04 AM
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Oops. Apologies for lumbering you with more reading. I'm always a year or so behind on that myself. Look up Christina Hoff Summers. There's no shortage of web material relating to that book.
/r/MensRights22/03/10 12:05 AM
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International Labour Organisation treaties on forced labour. These are the controlling instruments where conscription and any other form of forced labour are concerned. The US ratified the second(1959) ILO treaty in the early nineties. It permits the conscription of women but forbids them being forced into combat. My country, Australia, ratified both the 1959 treaty and the earlier 1937 version. Where there is conflict between the two treaties the earlier provisions take priority. Consequently A…
/r/MensRights21/03/10 11:41 PM
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They are not draftees.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 11:33 PM
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"Well then lets ape feminism and put male sexual victimhood at the forefront of our cause." By all means then lets continue to marginalise child victims of rape based on their gender because you dislike feminists. Very logical. I, too, have no love for feminism. It is a continuing impediment to what I am trying to achieve. But I will not allow a distrust of modern feminism to prevent me from doing what is right for rape victims. "Let's try to convince young people that all women are paedophiles …
/r/MensRights21/03/10 11:08 PM
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The double standard is mainstream, not just some individual blog. Oprah Winfrey has, on numerous occasions, presented women on her show whose only claim to fame is sexually abusing a young boy. They are treated like celebrities. They are given a forum to put only their side of the story with no input from their victims and no hint of the serious harm that could result. The thousands strong audiences stand and cheer after which the entire thing is beamed to hundreds of millions of other women for…
/r/MensRights21/03/10 12:13 PM
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It is controlling behaviour and unacceptable.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 11:57 AM
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I think he means domestic violence rather than partner violence.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 11:55 AM
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You seriously need to read "The War Against Boys".
/r/MensRights21/03/10 11:43 AM
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You think so? My experience is that plot lines and stories are the things men talk about rather than the personalities of the characters.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 11:04 AM
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For goodness sake this is fictional characters being deconstructed here. By definition the characterizations MUST be quite shallow. They are not real people. Too many people these days live their lives vicariously through the lives of characters in TV shows and other visual media.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 09:21 AM
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If you were a male victim you might understand. They are one of the most marginalised groups in our culture particularly if abused by a woman. My first contact with any mens' rights groups came about because of my own research and advocacy for male victims of rape.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 09:11 AM
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"According to this criticism, women would be required to register for the draft and would have to serve in combat, just as men must." If the US drafted women it's obligations under ILO treaties forbid their use in combat.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 09:07 AM
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Certain statistics were provided in the linked article which are misleading. They relate only to known or reported cases. Other demographic data indicates that eight to ten percent of female perpetrators are in teaching roles in the commission of the abuse. For male perps it is less than one percent. More broadly women are responsible for a quarter of child sexual abuse. It is quite likely that female teachers are the majority of the perpetrators in school situations.
/r/MensRights21/03/10 07:59 AM
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Among female perps teachers are between eight and ten percent. For males it's fewer than one percent. Given that women are responsible for about a quarter of the abuse over all it's quite likely that among teachers female perpetrators outnumber males significantly.
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