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Wow why so serious? Haha. If you have a good enough memory that you never need to write anything like that down then great! Peronsally, adding emojis is a really good trigger for me to remember stuff that we talked about. If I see the wine glass it's not like "oh yeah, she works in a bar", it's more like "oh yeah she works in bar, she said how hard the job was and there was that one customer...", etc. The emojis are just a trigger to help me remember the rest of the conversation. If you can reme…
/r/seduction23/07/15 12:34 PM
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Jumping into your arms and hugging you / interlocking arms still sounds like friend territory to me. Have you noticed any other signs she might be attracted? http://menslifedaily.com/does-she-like-me/
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:46 PM
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Ah I get you. Are there clubs / classes for English people wherever you are now? Might be worth trying them out. Or learn enough of the language to have some basic conversations. That could be fun! Learn "Hi" and "how are you?" and some common responses and have a little conversation with the checkout person! Don't go into it expecting to be a master and have a fluent conversation, go in there knowing a little bit and expecting NOTHING! Just enjoy it. Whoever's on the checkout will understand th…
/r/seduction17/03/15 10:21 AM
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Totally the opposite - because everyone goes direct at night, she has her shield up. Indirect in the day and she might not think you're interested.
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:38 PM
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Be direct. Run over to them and say "Hey, I literally just saw you from over there and I thought you looked nice and I had to say hi".
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:36 PM
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Have you been using online sites? OKCupid, Tinder, POF, etc? I'm sure you'll be able to find someone understanding that you can explain it to before you go on a date.
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:32 PM
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Forget about girls and seduction and go to sports clubs, meetups, and socialise with new people. Develop and get over the fear of speaking to strangers before trying to get over the fear of speaking to a beautiful girl who's also a stranger. Speak to everyone you meet. Start slowly. Ask the checkout lady / man how they are when you pay for your shopping. Speak to the old lady at the bus stop. If you have to, ask a stranger for directions and try to turn it into a mini conversation. Just start ta…
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:29 PM
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You have a PM kind sir, hope you enjoy.
/r/seduction26/02/15 11:38 AM
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Awesome, messaged you.
/r/seduction26/02/15 11:37 AM
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Cheers! Messaged you.
/r/seduction26/02/15 11:37 AM
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If you think you need lines then you don't have the right mindset. Advanced guys or "naturals" don't use lines.
/r/seduction16/10/14 08:22 PM
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If you learn lines then you'll be stuck when a girl says something that you don't have a "line" for. Focus on learning techniques and mindsets instead.
/r/seduction16/10/14 01:01 PM
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My method is here: http://menslifedaily.com/how-to-beat-approach-anxiety/ It's kinda long but works really well in building you up slowly. Let me know what you think!
/r/seduction16/10/14 01:00 PM
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Why would you approach her if she's not hot? You shouldn't be saying she looks "nice" if you don't think that she does. If you're lying then it generally won't work because she can tell. If you give her a honest, genuine compliment, then it will work so much better. If she's hot and has heard "OMG you're gorgeous" all the time then just saying she looks nice will make her think about you differently. Everyone else is saying she is "gorgeous" why are you just saying she's "nice"? Because you're n…
/r/seduction27/05/14 08:42 AM
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Hmmm I do see your point and see what you mean, but I still feel like she doesn't have to make a snap decision with a direct approach. Girls don't see attraction as black and white like us remember, so unless she's decided that she's completely NOT interested from your approach (if it was poor) then you'll still have time to build attraction. You say she looks nice, then immediately switch into a normal conversation. You then build attraction and she can learn a bit about you. If you're still in…
/r/seduction27/05/14 08:34 AM
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I'd say doing it at a gym would be OK. It's a pretty safe environment with a lot of people around. Same with something like a coffee shop / library. Giving them a scare in those situations could actually go in your favour and be funny. But I wouldn't do something like that on the street, she might think she was getting mugged or something. I think most of us here are thinking about the street which is why people are disagreeing with you.
/r/seduction27/05/14 08:11 AM
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You can do what you want and if it works for you then great. But grabbing a stranger from behind is obviously something that could get you into trouble when it's completely not necessary and has no advantage over getting in front of her. I wouldn't advise it to anyone. In fact, running in front of her is a much more attractive way to approach. Many girls comment on how much they actually liked the approach when approaching in that way. How many of those 200 girls have actually said to you, "I lo…
/r/seduction27/05/14 08:06 AM
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No one's saying to just say she's attractive then ask for her number immediately after - that's silly and this community wouldn't be needed if that was the best thing to do. I think you're misunderstanding what a direct approach is. The only difference between direct and indirect is the reason you give her for talking to her. You make it clear that you're talking to her because you like her. In an indirect or direct approach you still have normal conversation after that to build attraction. You …
/r/seduction26/05/14 09:47 PM
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Not at all - approaching from behind should be a last resort. Most of the time you should be running in front of them then turning round. I've approached successfully from behind before, but only because it was necessary (narrow path). I just said "Excuse me" and she turned around. Never grab them from behind. Recipe for disaster. You should always get in front when possible.
/r/seduction26/05/14 08:01 PM
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With a direct approach you interview her too. A direct approach isn't going up to her and saying "Hey you're cute, wanna go out with me?" or "Hey you're cute, what's your number?". It's all about the reason you tell her that you're approaching her. It's about the start of the conversation. "I thought you were cute and had to come and say hi" is direct and obviously you have normal conversation after that to make your decision about her (and for her to make one about you). From there you can buil…
/r/seduction26/05/14 06:09 PM
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Not really, you have to tell her why you've just gone over to her. E.g. "I had to come and say that I thought you looked really nice", then have a normal conversation.
/r/seduction26/05/14 06:03 PM
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Don't just run up and say "you're cute". Something like "Excuse me, I know this is really random but I just saw you and I thought you looked really nice" is better as it gives her time like you say. From there you can transition to normal conversation. I've heard of people having success with the whole "Oh actually I as lying, I just wanted to say hi" kind of thing but personally I think it's a bit dishonest when you can just be genuine. You don't get all the points for directly approaching beca…
/r/seduction26/05/14 06:02 PM
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Was kinda aimed at people who approach indirect with stuff like asking for directions, asking for the time, etc. Guess that wasn't too clear. I think something like "I saw you and had to meet you" is kind of on the lines between direct and indirect... if I'm thinking about it... it's actually quite direct. Even though there's no compliment. I think it'd be pretty unusual if she couldn't tell that you liked her from that. If you open with something like asking for directions, asking for advice, o…
/r/seduction26/05/14 05:57 PM
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Messaged!
/r/seduction29/03/14 06:02 PM
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1 left!
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:52 PM
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2 left.
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:09 PM
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Messaged.
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:05 PM
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Messaged.
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:04 PM
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Messaged you.
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:04 PM
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Messaged.
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:04 PM
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Messaged.
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:04 PM
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Messaged you.
/r/seduction29/03/14 10:31 AM
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Are you the same guy that did this? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ovn0w/life_hackspro_tipsbro_tips/
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:02 PM
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There's a few books that might be useful to read.. try "The Power of Now" and "Radical Honesty". Highly recommend both of them but probably start with "The Power of Now". Also I run a men's dating website that's just starting out so don't know what your dating life's like, but I would be happy for you to test out some of my early products. Drop me a PM on here if you're interested.
/r/seduction04/03/14 01:57 PM
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What do you mean by "I closed"? What did you do?
/r/seduction03/03/14 09:24 AM
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What makes you think that you've been rejected?
/r/seduction28/02/14 01:17 PM
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http://menslifedaily.com/what-if-shes-the-one/
/r/seduction28/02/14 10:59 AM
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Mostly the same as any other type of game in that you should look for attraction, then comfort / qualification. To open, look at her photos / bio and make a comment on something. Look for something that you can tease her about. After a bit of teasing, try and build a bit of comfort with her. After that you can try and get her number. Try and get her off the dating site and texting you on your phone instead. The sooner she can stop thinking of you as "the guy from that dating site" the better.
/r/seduction31/01/14 02:19 PM
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So you admit that she can't know him properly in 5 minutes? So how can she reject HIM in 5 minutes? If I go up to a girl and stumble over my words and come across a weirdo and she walks off - has she rejected ME? Or just that awful interaction?
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:46 AM
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I would be honest and direct with her. Say "Excuse me I'm in a really big rush but I had to come over and say hello to you because I thought you looked really nice. I'd love to stop and have a chat with you but I really have gotta go... I would love to invite you out sometime though". Wait for response and either take her number or move on and wish her a nice day.. success rate is obviously reduced when you do it this way but I've been successful with it before.
/r/seduction30/01/14 03:35 PM
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He wasn't rejected, she probably genuinely had a boyfriend. Even if she made it up, even if she screamed "FUCK YOU, I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU" she can't really reject him. She doesn't know him well enough to reject him, she's spoken to him for what like 5 minutes? If she got to know him for a while, THEN she can reject him. All she can do in that initial phase is reject the INTERACTION. But it sounds like she was just being honest really.
/r/seduction30/01/14 03:31 PM
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Pretty much. If she's hot then that's what she'll be getting off of the majority of guys in the clubs. So she'll have her guard up. Being indirect allows you to slip under it. In the day she's not used to it so doesn't have her guard up so it benefits you to be direct.
/r/seduction20/01/14 02:27 PM
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I'd say (as a general rule, obviously there's exceptions) indirect in clubs, direct everywhere else.
/r/seduction17/01/14 08:12 PM
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Absolutely great report but I have no respect for somebody who fucks a girl who he knows is taken. I'm assuming you only want a casual fuck? Because if you start a relationship she'll obviously do the same to you - don't assume your incredible "game" was the only reason that she was willing. I know I wouldn't want someone in my life if they had morals like that. You did a good job though man, just... integrity.
/r/seduction17/01/14 08:01 PM
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That's your opinion though. If I found it useful then most likely other people will too. Why not just let the votes decide? Would it be better if I were to post just the direct youtube video in the future rather than the blog post (so there's no advertising on the page)?
/r/seduction08/11/13 10:41 PM
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Well I found it useful, I don't see how it's "fluff" content!
/r/seduction08/11/13 10:27 PM
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That's exactly what reason 5 talks about man, don't think you read the article so won't blame you. A lot of things are out of your control but there's definitely things you can do to reduce the chances of her having "second thoughts" about you, numbers 1-4 are easy fixes to common mistakes.
/r/seduction28/10/13 10:29 AM
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Have a read of the full article, you just need to go out there and do some approaches. Even if you're starting with asking for directions. Don't make the mistake of thinking that asking for directions is stupid and not worth your time. It is. Because you're training yourself to approach these girls instinctively. You can easily build up your bravery from there. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/10/13 10:49 AM
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Yeah I actually agree. A lot of beginners find it useful to know the signs either way though. But assuming that she is attracted and that pretty much everything is an IOI is definitely a sound mindset to have ;)
/r/seduction09/10/13 08:38 AM
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Oh buddy. If a girl has ever told you "Oh I wish I could find someone like you!" then you've definitely been "friend-zoned" pretty badly. "Why not me?" is the classic response. Have a read of this: http://menslifedaily.com/3-steps-to-avoid-the-friend-zone/
/r/seduction09/10/13 08:34 AM
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I think the stuff I've read here is a bit much. If she's saying that she's got a boyfriend then she's usually either got a boyfriend or she's not into you. I'd ask her what her boyfriend's name is and see if she stutters. If she answers quickly and confidently then ask her if she's happy. If she is then I'll leave. Why would any of you want to ruin something if she's happy? If she stumbles or is like "ermmm we're going through some things at the moment" then it's on.
/r/seduction16/08/13 02:30 PM
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