5 Reasons Why She Flakes

HappyJerk · 2013-09-26T19:49:08+00:00

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Chris_Baratheon · 2013-09-26T20:04:44+00:00

Except the grammar errors, this was a great article. Fantastic points

Jessie_James · 2013-09-26T23:35:32+00:00

There's only one reason why she flakes - because she is not interested in you.

Why not all depends on what you did or failed to do. If she flakes, she's doing you a favor. Delete her number and move on.

albertyuthepianist · 2013-09-26T17:41:33+00:00

Not sure I agree with number 3. I usually get her number right before parting ways anyway, so...

HasALeatherJacket · 2013-09-26T21:35:12+00:00

There are also a million other reasons why she flaked, so don't worry about it and try again or move on.

jagumienny · 2013-09-26T22:41:02+00:00

I didn't see 5 or 6. 5: She Googled you 6: She met your wife

citizenc · 2013-09-27T02:05:30+00:00

The author lost all credibility at "give out there number".

DieFear · 2013-09-27T02:47:26+00:00

I think the 5th point is one that carries over into pretty much every aspect of life... Its all a number on a line, a stat, if at first you dont succeed...

themoor · 2013-10-01T00:56:03+00:00

Critics here are missing a huge point in my estimation, backed up by my experiences...

The point is not to have you ponder "why she flaked" but to give you a bit of insight on how to lower your flake rate.

And several points in the article are right on...

Women have to reach a level of attract, trust and comfort when they meet you the first time to decide whether they want to meet you again.

These sort of articles use the word "connection" to get that across.

Now, this can be done in short order (you intrigued her and turned her on quickly with your charisma and boldness) or it make take a bit longer (you displayed intellect, savvy, sexuality in an interaction that extended for 15-30-60 minutes). But if you just ran "charming" game without connecting and her believe you have "real" interest (unless it's just a let's go fuck now/soon situation), then she's more likely to flake.

Show enough personality to pique interesting without showing too much to destroy mystery.

Not leaving right after getting the digits is great advance, in my opinion (one I've failed at and will work on). It shows (1) are not just there to collect numbers, (2) don't bold nervously after showing your cards, and (3) are interested in getting to actually know her. I can think of a few cases in the last year that would have turned out better if I had not waited until leaving before getting digits.

Anyway, if you've done all that and she flakes, yes, move on. But, the goal is to reduce flakes and this advice in the article should help.

Title	5 Reasons Why She Flakes
Author	h2opete
Upvotes	50
Comments	13
Date	September 26, 2013 3:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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