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Maybe. I've come to enjoy working with folks from askseddit one on one but if I see threads that intrigue me, I'll start sharing my 2 cents again kind stranger.
/r/seduction07/04/15 02:34 AM
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The spirit was willing, but the flesh was spongy and bruised.
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:16 PM
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Thank you for posting that. I stopped posting here largely for the reason you're saying. OP has some great points in there, especially in his "ASK!" section though I'd take it farther. The guy being downvoted in response to you now is exactly the type that is wrong with this sub
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:15 PM
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with that attitude you better believe it will!
/r/seduction27/09/14 12:28 AM
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I agree 100% and to be honest I'm surprised that you're getting positive feedback here. I've been downvoted into oblivion for saying things like this before but perhaps people are starting to come around
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:45 PM
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The major point though is that people on this sub and on askseddit put a large emphasis on reading every book and watching every video. People spend so much time reading and watching sources that, in my opinion, generally just rewords the same information. Knowledge is great, but everything someone needs to know are in the sidebars of seddit and askseddit and reading beyond that takes away from time that someone should be out developing their social skills. The one big parallel in ops story to g…
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:16 PM
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It depends on the situation. If you have a specific one you're thinking of, share the details and I'll help you out. Here is a mini FR from yesterday though: The other day i went to get food off base (I'm air force) and in front of me on line, this group of people were joking around so I joined in. Turned out that i just became friends with my county mayor and some of his staffers. I was by myself so he invited me to sit with them. After a few minutes of chatting one of the women asks if I'm sin…
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:54 PM
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This will vary heavily from guy to guy so you shouldn't expect one straight answer. Personally, I value intelligence and independence. A girl who can take care of herself will be a beterrible sexual and life partner imo. I also like for them to have a little bit of a dorky side. A girl who is willing to marathon star wars or game of thrones with me is a must Good luck on your quest for info!
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:21 PM
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It's probably that you've matured and need to find one woman to settle down with. Everyone hits that point in their lives but most don't recognize what it is because it's biological
/r/seduction14/07/14 10:45 PM
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Well I'm in tennessee so there's a huge stigma against pre-marital anything even though they all do it. This means that in public places it's harder to close quickly because her friends will judge her since it's frowned upon. With that, you kind of have to play the longer game and work into it but it's still doable Back in Jersey girls would go out with the intent to get laid that night. Quick hookups and one night stands were as easy as building a connection, dancing for 5 minutes, and then jus…
/r/seduction02/07/14 06:05 PM
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So my opinions aren't always the most popular on this sub but here's my 2 cents. Pickup is not static. Moving from the north to the south taught me that very quickly. Differences in culture can and should influence your approach. On top of that, being mysterious and teasing works when you're younger but not as well after college where girls are less about hookups and more about settling down (to a degree). Ultimately, everything comes down to the individual though and each person who successfull…
/r/seduction02/07/14 04:10 PM
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I haven't been into pickup for about a year now but am still subscribed to several of the seddit subs because it's nice to pass advice and lessons I've learned to those having trouble or needing help. If he's cheated on you be wary of that, but being subscribed to seddit subs isn't a reason to worry in and of itself.
/r/seduction20/06/14 02:54 PM
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I read some story on here where a dude answered 'how about you suck my dick' to a girl asking something along the lines of 'what do we do now?'. That's not playful... that's just him being bold as hell. Playful is throwing innuendos and such into your conversation and escalating your kino to match those. I do agree that being playful is the best way to be more sexual though. Also a big thing, in my opinion, for being sexual is if you're making great progress with a girl you opened, skip a level …
/r/seduction30/03/14 01:52 PM
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Can you share some of the pre-scripted responses?
/r/seduction07/01/14 02:07 AM
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I have lots of verification lol. Between our two posts, even the worst kisser will get significantly better I think
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:50 PM
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I never knew about the lip bite until a lady friend did it to me. It was mind blowing lol. And how did I forget the ear nibbles?! You don't even have to nibble because it's one of the more sensitive erogenous zones. Breathing lightly or whispering into her ear will also do the trick but a nibble on the ear lobe will get her horny faster than you can say "pants off"
/r/seduction05/01/14 06:19 PM
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Good simple guide! Two more notes: 1)An occasional light bite on her lower lip is also something good to add in. 2)Some girls also like a little tongue action for the exact reasons you mentioned so don't be afraid to throw that in there and gauge her reaction to it.
/r/seduction18/12/13 05:03 PM
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Truth be told, we can't really teach you that on this sub. We teach guys how to have the upper hand in conversations/interactions but many of the things we teach won't work well coming from the female side. The reason for this is that a lot of the seduction theories discussed here are based around the concept of the alpha leading the interaction. If the female were to try to do that, many guys would be put off because it goes against what society is taught are normal gender roles. Your best bet …
/r/seduction13/12/13 02:39 PM
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To turn things sexual and get flirty just look for double entendres and inuendos. Short, sweet, and playful is the way to be but obviously follow up to the attraction you build this way by setting up a hangout/date because text game is useless if you don't convert it to real life. I wrote a guide way back which I got a lot of positive messages about from people that found the tips helpful.
/r/seduction10/12/13 04:30 PM
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I'm so glad your comment has more points than the original post. I think OP doesn't understand the mindset of those who come here for help the most. So next time when you go to seduce a girl, stop thinking about the sex, ...think about how much you want her. For me it was this line that had me face palming the most. A virgin doesn't know how to seduce which is why they're a virgin. It's like telling someone who just picked up a guitar for the first time to forget they've never played the guitar …
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:54 PM
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good luck :)
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:27 AM
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Delivery would also matter a lot. Deliver these questions with as close to Will Smith levels of charisma as you can get. If you trip over your words while asking them or don't have an open body language to back up what you're asking, it won't go over great
/r/seduction04/12/13 07:09 PM
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The real euphoria though, the only true treasure in this hunt, is believing in your heart that you are the fucking MAN, yo. Bingo. Welcome back bro. Keep that confidence going and enjoy life (and the girls it will hand you) :D
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:26 PM
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Do you continue the escalation while moving from the date location to her place? That sounds more like the escalation fizzled for a few minutes while moving location. I always try to keep their mind on the task at hand so playful teasing and kino the whole way to her place. If you did that and she still had LMR, then it'd be hard to say exactly what the issue is. But hey, if bringing her back to your place is working for you then I say keep doing that. I've had slightly better success with her p…
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:16 PM
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Yup, next day. If you sleep with a girl and she has the energy to go home afterwards, you're doing something wrong XD
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:09 PM
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Let me ask this. When you get to her place, how exactly does it go down? Do you continue escalating? Does she go to her room and ask you to wait a few minutes? Do you make out on her couch when she spontaneously stops and goes "oh shit I forgot to do something" and then runs out?
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:39 PM
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I've done both and both have pros and cons but when a girl doesn't have to worry about the walk of shame the next day (as she sees it), she'll worry less about it
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:36 PM
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Interesting, I've never had that issue. How often have you had that happen to you?
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:29 PM
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Great tips for those looking to date. Something I've found over the years, if you're trying to just sleep with her, suggest going back to her place rather than yours. Girls generally feel more comfortable in their own bed and it'll be less likely for them to get any last minute thoughts.
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:56 PM
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An alternative that I've used quite a bit is to say, "usually a girl has to buy me a drink before I let her do that" and work it from there. I'd say a little more than half the time she'll buy me a drink that way. That or a grab for a grab both work great. I also love your "mine's better" line though. I usually just give her a wink when she turns around but the line does so much more so I'm gonna be stealing that from you haha
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:20 PM
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Keep that in your back pocket. That line or a variation of it could be just the witty response you're looking for one day lol. I've used it successfully a couple of times XD
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:11 PM
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What's an inch between friends? lol
/r/seduction26/11/13 01:07 AM
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That's about 5'6 so you're average height for girls here in the states. Idk how tall your guys are :3 And np. A lot of the guys on here will come across that way because we're on here to help people. Unfortunately, me trying to tell you how to pick up a guy would be like a fish teaching a baby bird to fly. What I CAN tell you that we teach which works is inner game. This is the concept of making yourself the best you that you can be. If you do that, you'd be surprised how well everything else fa…
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:44 PM
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When you say tall, how tall? The sad truth is all of my friends above 5'8 have a hard time hooking up with guys because most guys are intimidated hitting on girls taller than they are in heels so it limits the options a bit. As for joking and having a fun personality, if THAT is their reason for not wanting you, then good riddance. I can't really tell you how to be sexy/seductive because it's so subjective but the ladies at fpua can help you with that part
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:20 PM
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Ah ok I thought it was in reference to the post itself. Good explanation though, that's definitely what I was going for as far as the take aways. Glad people seemed to like the FR, I'll start putting out more of these :)
/r/seduction18/11/13 04:38 PM
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Did you mean this as positive feedback or constructive criticism? Like I said, it was my first FR so I'm more than happy to receive any kind of feedback
/r/seduction18/11/13 01:43 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1qv32l/nashville_meetup_this_week/
/r/seduction18/11/13 02:14 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1qv32l/nashville_meetup_this_week/ If you have any interest in joining us
/r/seduction18/11/13 02:14 AM
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Which school are you at? And I have a feeling this is going to turn into a seddit meetup in Nashville :D What kind of stuff would you recommend?
/r/seduction15/11/13 06:06 PM
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if me and /u/YetzirahToAhssiah meet up next week while I'm down there, join us
/r/seduction15/11/13 05:16 PM
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You're the man! I'll shoot you a PM in a few minutes. Gotta take my puppy for a jog
/r/seduction15/11/13 03:14 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/GothamSeddit/ sidebar has a few other cities too
/r/seduction15/11/13 03:13 PM
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You just convinced me that I'm either blind or illiterate. I'll let you know when I figure out which lol
/r/seduction14/11/13 02:32 PM
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Sadly I graduated and don't have a place to bring girls back to when I go out with my buddies but I'm gonna try some variant of this for sure when I go out this weekend
/r/seduction14/11/13 05:16 AM
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Is it? I've never seen a post on this sub about it and I've been active in this sub for a year and lurking for 2 lol Thanks for confirmation that it works tho :D
/r/seduction14/11/13 05:16 AM
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Same. I facepalm so much because so often I find myself answering the same exact question I answered for someone else a day or two prior. This should get put in the sidebar for askseddit as a "before you post"
/r/seduction13/11/13 05:01 PM
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If you're here to argue for the sake of arguing you won't get anything from me. I said for my last point that a creepy guy doesn't leave when a girl says no so either you didn't read what I said or you're nitpicking in an attempt to argue. Either way good night
/r/seduction12/11/13 05:42 AM
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Take her by the hands and pull her in real close to you. If you had been talking to her for a bit and you feel real good about it, it's also a great opportunity to go straight to the k-close
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:35 AM
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If a girl says no and you don't respect that then you don't have abundance mentality and are clearly not doing it right. The only reason to keep pushing a girl that's not interested is that you feel you don't have other options
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:33 AM
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Creepers generally go in without IOIs, say all the wrong things, and worst of all don't leave when the girl makes it clear that she isn't interested.
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:36 AM
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Honestly, it's one of those things that you and a buddy do more for fun than anything haha If she gets the reference she probably won't even care if you crash and burn
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:25 PM
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Honestly most of the time girls don't even remember your opener. Depending on setting it can be as simple as walking up and introducing yourself and telling a girl that she caught your eye. The trick is not to overthink it though because simple is always better With that said, I love lines. Here's a few that I've used with success: 1) "Hey I noticed you noticing me and I wanted to put you on notice that I noticed you too" -Fresh Prince This is best used after making eye contact with a girl and g…
/r/seduction11/11/13 03:59 PM
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Definitely keeping this one in my back pocket. I really like it :D
/r/seduction07/11/13 04:20 PM
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As a young person, what's a business card? :P
/r/seduction07/11/13 04:19 PM
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I think it makes more sense that way. Inner game being the base and holding up the rest.... it's farm more intuitive. Good work!
/r/seduction24/10/13 02:45 AM
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I think it's an old old wooden ship from the civil war era
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:04 PM
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Small grammar note from your resident grammar nazi. It should be "ensuring decent look". Beyond that I agree that inner game should be inside and outer game outside because this sub is all about working from the inside out. Good start to it though :)
/r/seduction21/10/13 01:16 PM
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You forgot Game of Thrones lol
/r/seduction17/10/13 02:07 PM
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Oh they're absolutely 100% corny but girls eat that shit up. Plus they have their use in making sure that what you're saying doesn't come across the wrong way
/r/seduction14/10/13 02:03 PM
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I touched on this in the section about smilies unless you're referring to the crazy ones like the flipping tables emoji and others. If that is what you're referring to then it needs to be catered to your audience. If they'd laugh at your pikachu emoji, then go for it but if not then lay off until they get to know you better.
/r/seduction14/10/13 01:54 PM
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I think your best bet is to touch base today, have a random and fun conversation. Text her again Monday and make plans for later in the week. Don't be too seldom in your texts because she'll know exactly what you're doing. For what to do, meeting up for a drink is a safe one and works well so long as you're confident in your ability to kino. Plus if wherever you're going has a dance floor you can really make things easy for yourself that way
/r/seduction12/10/13 05:19 PM
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It can apply to either. Texting and facebook and other forms of electronic communication overlap into what I think of as "social media game" and all follow the rules I posted. In hindsight, that's what I should have named the post XD
/r/seduction12/10/13 12:40 PM
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Your first mistake was texting only standard stuff. Your second was assuming you'd get a response while she was out with her friends. If she was at the bar and asking what you were up to, she was looking to meet up and when you said no, that was that. This doesn't really mean much as far as whether or not there's attraction, so just wait until after lunch today and text her and work towards arranging something
/r/seduction12/10/13 12:37 PM
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Not at all. That may be how you build attraction but believe me when I say that you can do it without focusing on your next meetup
/r/seduction11/10/13 08:35 PM
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22 (23 in a few weeks) New Jersey (USA) Varies but 10-15ish I'm currently waiting for military orders and will be moving across the country to my first duty station so I don't let myself open as many girls as I usually would because if I see them as "datable" instead of "fuckable" I don't want to get into something only to be leaving in the near future before I can develop that relationship
/r/seduction11/10/13 07:03 PM
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I think you've got the idea. Good FR, I laughed at the "how long is it going to last?" question. Shit texts are the same as shit tests... just in a text. Generally I don't back off at all once I start down the flirty road but that's a personal style. If you have a way that you handle it in person and that works, then apply it to your text game as well.
/r/seduction11/10/13 07:00 PM
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Exactly. You don't want to initiate every day, but if she does then all the better for you because that's a HUGE IOI. It's all about symmetry like I said in another point but you have the idea
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:57 PM
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Do you mean random facebook adds or a friend gives you a phone number or that type of deal?
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:55 PM
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Good follow up and I agree that if people keep up with the "no social media" philosophy it means more girls for us! Lots of HBs have online dating profiles for various reasons and being able to utilize that just adds another component to our game :) And great line in the edit. I think my favorite I've done is a girl started talking about her favorite tv show and I said, "I feel like I'd have to watch it to get it" and she responded with "I'll get you into it" so I said "great, lets say Thursday …
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:53 PM
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I disagree. I have built attraction without meeting her at all. A friend gave me her friends number and said to text her and that weekend I F-closed
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:48 PM
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put a > at the beginning of the sentence to quote it :) That's an alternate way of looking at it but the way I see it is that if she was bitchy, I would have caught that in my first interaction and not have gotten her number in the first place. To the second point, she won't be attracted to you give her a reason to. Girls generally don't like chasing so if you try that early on, you're gonna have a bad time. What you're saying is fine after the second date or so, but between getting her number a…
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:01 AM
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This is a great question that I'm a little mad at myself for forgetting. Up until the second date, I never start a conversation with "hi", "how are you", or any variants. I generally send a joke, picture, or question. If it's a joke or a picture, I try to relate it to previous conversations. If it's a question, it may be something I thought of that I'm wondering or I may open right up with a proposition for a date. As a simple example, the girl I'm currently seeing had never had jaeger before wh…
/r/seduction11/10/13 02:07 AM
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You can absolutely try to set the pace but if you text her back instantly and she doesn't do the same, slow it down. To elaborate on something that I only mentioned, it's all about symmetry. When you open a girl at the bar, your body language should mirror hers for best results. If she's facing the bar, you should be too. If she's turned halfway between you and the bar, you should be as well. If her hands are folded together on the bar.... well you get the idea. The point to this is that this sy…
/r/seduction10/10/13 10:15 PM
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Yeah I edited that particular bullet to address this because there are girls who aren't big texters like you and I overlooked handling that :)
/r/seduction10/10/13 05:59 PM
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My personal rule is if I ask a question and she doesn't answer, I don't text her again for a day. So for instance, one of the girls I'm talking to didn't answer a question I asked her on Tuesday so I didn't text her yesterday and will at some point today. My reasoning for that is that I want to see if she just forgot and texts me the next day (it happens more than you'd think) I'm not sure about the cultural differences there though because that can make a huge difference in how you approach it.…
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:44 PM
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Nothing to be done about that. Just try to get a date set up with her sooner rather than later since your conversations are probably rather short meaning the impact of that conversation will be more limited than if she were more responsive. Still follow the guidelines I set forth but understand that your text game shouldn't be drawn out because she takes so long to answer. I should probably add a note into the original post about this :)
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:30 PM
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As I said in one of my do points, it's about symmetry. If she texts you right back, do the same. If she waits a few minutes, do that. If you're legitimately busy, then text her when you're free but waiting just to "not look needy" is dumb because girls know what you're doing, especially if you wait 5 minutes each time.
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:24 PM
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I was in a 2.5 year LDR myself from senior year of high school into college. Believe me when I say I feel ya there At the same time, plan a conversation but make the dirty part spontaneous. LDRs are hard though so good luck :)
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:18 PM
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I'm happy to help, but I'd like you to elaborate on the sticking point. Is that a point that would turn me off or a point that would make me want to open the girl?
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:03 PM
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Well first, don't plan a dirty chat. That's a little counterproductive because it should all be spontaneous. Second, this might be better in /r/relationship_advice. Last, pictures followed up by the things you'd do to him (since he likes to be dominated) would be a great start. That's why they made snapchat, right?
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:01 PM
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Nope, I'm an Air Force officer. We're not allowed to be immature XD Let me know how it goes. I want to hear all about it!
/r/seduction08/10/13 10:34 PM
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Nope, that's the part where you ask her to coffee/dinner/movie or for her number. Specifically, I said "While I'm trying to work that out, throw your number in my phone. I'd love to take you to a movie later in the week" and I handed her my phone with a new contact open and ready to go.
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:13 PM
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Luckily for you, it's her job so she'll have to give you your money whether she likes it or not! Try to think positively about it though and picture it all going right :) And as a 22 year old kid, I agree! Go get her :P
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:11 PM
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I'm gonna give you the same advice I was given when learning to drive stick: Fuck the people behind you. They can wait an extra 30 seconds. People get nervous when they ask girls out in public because they don't want to be judged but when it comes down to it, if the guy behind hears what you're doing, he'll probably think to himself "good for you" so just forget them and do what you've gotta do :) And even if she rejects you, ya know what the guy behind you will say? "You tried." That's what I w…
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:02 PM
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Then start small. Hold the eye contact, count to 2 in your head, then say what you were going to say. It doesn't need to be long eye contact, just long enough to make sure she knows that you're paying attention to her and only her. With this girl at the bank, if there's a long line behind you I wouldn't do it but if she's not busy, strike up a conversation and ask her how she likes working there and make small talk. At the end of small talk, just keep it simple. "It's been nice chatting with you…
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:33 PM
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As with most things, absolutely. You can have the best one-liner ever created but if you deliver it like shit then it won't have the effect that it should.
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:25 PM
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Now it puts the lotion in the basket....
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:22 PM
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Haha I've had these types of discussions with VMikeL before. We're both here to help people, not prove right and wrong so they're always quite positive :)
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:49 PM
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It's all about delivery my friend. I was at the dog park the other day with my puppy and started talking to this girl who was there with hers. In the middle of the conversation, I stopped for a second and just held eye contact and she asked what was on my mind. I said "I'm trying to figure out whether your puppy or smile is cuter." It's memorable, came from my personality, and she absolutely melted
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:13 PM
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Absolutely. I think we can also agree that it's very stylistic. If I've learned anything from this sub, it's that there are LOTS of variations of PUA and different things work for different people for a multitude of reasons.
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:00 PM
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Instead of "sexy as fuck" try "pretty" or "beautiful". You'd be surprised how big she'll smile because that will mean more to her (unless you're at a club going for f-closes of course)
/r/seduction08/10/13 01:58 PM
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Perhaps it was unclear but I meant that you can give a compliment at any time in a conversation with a girl and the when doesn't matter too much as long as it's delivered well. We'll have to agree to disagree though. My experience has been that girls generally don't receive as many compliments from men as you would think they do and the ones they do get from men generally are more along the lines of how sexy they are and not how beautiful they are. I've had this conversation with a number of gir…
/r/seduction08/10/13 01:52 PM
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Agreed with this, but for the beginners you can also compliment her smile/eyes/whatever else you notice. This won't set you apart as much as Vmike's suggestion but it still sets you apart because most guys that open a girl will use a pickup line or tell her she's hot/sexy/cute/etc without saying HOW. This can be done at the beginning or in the middle of a conversation but girls put a lot of effort into their appearance and complimenting the things they can't control as much makes them feel just …
/r/seduction08/10/13 01:07 PM
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Yeah pretty much lol That's how every guy does it so for a girl it's the norm and has a bit of a stigma since 90% of guys just want one thing (in her mind)
/r/seduction26/09/13 10:40 PM
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Try asking for it sooner and spend an extra 5 minutes with her after getting the number. You'll see the difference for yourself Girls overthink things and getting the number and leaving is one of the things they've over thought way too much. The article nailed #3 imo
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:06 PM
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Except the grammar errors, this was a great article. Fantastic points
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:04 PM
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The role reversal can work depending whether or not you stay flirty with her and act like boyfriend material. If you sleep with a different girl every time you go out with her, she won't waste her time because she's likely getting approached on the reg. On the other hand, if you act gentleman as fuck around her while maintaining kino after you've FZd her, then she may very well chase. Source: I've done this approach twice. I think your overarching point, which is that having beautiful women in y…
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:36 PM
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"Hot Babe" see the glossary in the sidebar
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:33 PM
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Add "let's work on that" before going back in. I love playful teasing like this too... drives them nuts
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:45 PM
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It's also way too long. My golden rules for text game are that they should be short, flirty, and to the point. The first part was great and had you cut it off at "I think you're being a bit hasty" you would have done well for yourself. As to the last part being needy, yes and no. Complimenting her eyes is great as is complimenting her personality but it was just a bit much for one text is all. That should have been it's own text later in the conversation. Saying "I want to see you because I'm wo…
/r/seduction16/09/13 03:29 PM
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Even if you fucked it up, it's something to learn from and build on. You lose nothing by trying. What was the text you did send?
/r/seduction16/09/13 01:45 PM
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You could do what lenaxia said, or the other option is what is commonly known as the "balls deep" option (and by commonly I mean by me haha) Tell her you don't want a relationship either and lay out your intentions. In the past, the line I've used was "Who said anything about a relationship? I was just hoping to take you out, get to know you a little better, and if you play your cards right maybe make out a bit at the end ;)" When I use this, I generally use it after the girl has shown plenty of…
/r/seduction16/09/13 01:23 PM
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well lucky canadian engineers then :P
/r/seduction14/09/13 01:02 AM
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hm maybe it's a difference between our countries then. The running joke here is that every engineering school is 97% men
/r/seduction13/09/13 11:54 PM
2

What school?
/r/seduction13/09/13 11:29 PM
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Rutgers University in New Jersey. Very large school. All the girls in the engineering school went to chemical or biomed. Every engineer I've ever met has had the same experience lol
/r/seduction13/09/13 10:29 PM
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Just graduated in may lol
/r/seduction13/09/13 10:23 PM
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There were 5 or 6 women in my mechanical engineering graduating class of 500. You didn't just go against beliefs but reality itself.....
/r/seduction13/09/13 08:39 PM
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While I agree with the overall message of this (I've broken out of the friend zone by accepting this same mentality), I was a offput by your usage of "gay boys" and "faggot". I would reconsider your word choice if you really want this to be taken seriously because your overall message is spot on. I'm far from PC but just making an observation
/r/seduction11/09/13 03:07 PM
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I do as well and my experience 90% of the time has been that gay guys can wingman better than anyone else because girls let down their guard around them and a gay guy approving of you holds well with them though I've never figured out the reason. I have many FRs to back this up because I go out with gay guys a lot
/r/seduction09/09/13 08:00 PM
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Thank you! I thought I was the only who saw the benefits of texting more than to say "hey lets go out tuesday" and then not text her again Fact is that girls who are responsive enjoy it and you can flirty and really help your game by setting up the tone for your date.
/r/seduction09/09/13 07:49 PM
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Make friends with the gay guys. They all have hot female friends and are the best wingmen you will ever find
/r/seduction09/09/13 07:42 PM
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Sometimes multiple journeys have the same destination and then you REALLY don't mind
/r/seduction09/09/13 02:49 PM
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I recently reached that point in my life too. Someone told me it means we're growing up or something....... Good luck finding someone :)
/r/seduction05/09/13 01:40 PM
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The last one is my favorite haha
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:19 PM
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At the end of this that's all I found myself wondering too >.>
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:23 PM
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Down to it's core, yes because this statement shows that you value yourself and your positive attributes and let them show. To me that is confidence
/r/seduction19/08/13 01:28 AM
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100% this. If you're super nice to the grandfather, he'll probably help you. I did this during graduation and the girls dad introduced me to his daughter and then left us alone for a bit
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:13 AM
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No social value equates to YOUR confidence. If you're successful you have a lot to offer and that realization should help you see that they lose out by not talking to you more than you lose out by not talking to them. As for getting over it or figuring it out, everyone is different. I figured it out my junior year of college... some people figure it out in high school and others much later. There's no right answer to that
/r/seduction18/08/13 11:52 PM
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well if you've been married for that long, I'm not sure you need this advice but the idea is that your confidence can be translated to social value and your social value is what you offer to women. Knowing that you have high value to offer them allows you to approach them with the understanding that they will see this and therefore, if you get rejected, they're the ones missing out and some other woman will get to enjoy that value that you have to offer. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction18/08/13 03:38 PM
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It's a bold strategy Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for him.
/r/seduction18/08/13 03:59 AM
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Well that's something to work on. Girls are a lot easier than so many other things in life that there's no reason to not be confident with them :)
/r/seduction18/08/13 01:44 AM
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That may largely be due to the attitude behind this post. If you exude confidence, you can get girls out of your league easily
/r/seduction18/08/13 12:29 AM
2

Also a fantastic line
/r/seduction15/08/13 12:33 AM
2

Kinoing is the easiest way to do it. Other ways include going in for the kiss but pulling back at the last second, eye contact that's prolonged, and complimenting certain features (eyes, curves, or anything else that makes her sexy)
/r/seduction14/08/13 10:00 PM
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Ultimately, it's not your image that would suffer. You tried sleeping with a girl at a bar... big whoop, so has every guy in college ever. I'm in a situation now where the girl is unsure about her relationship and I'm most likely going to sleep with her because like puntingbaxter (great reference btw) said, she's not married and the relationship is almost done. The big thing to remember though is some guys get possessive, territorial, and violent when someone alphas them or "intrudes" on their t…
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:05 PM
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That goes without saying on this sub! lol
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:23 PM
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The fastest way to find out (in my opinion) is to create a little sexual tension and gauge her response. I'm sure others will have different inputs but looking for the queues she'll be forced to give (lip bite, playing with her hair, a change in her posture to become more open) will give you a pretty clear indication
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:15 PM
1

It would probably be the greatest invention next to the lightbulb
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:29 PM
1

My goal in life is to make a computer screen that, when punched, will punch the other guy right in the face....
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:20 PM
2

Yeah, your response was an understatement then....
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:03 PM
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which bugs my dominance driven monkey brain! I agree with CurveBall. You may not see it as an inner game issue but I think it stands out in that line right there. The fact that you feel the need to be dominant typically stems from some sort of insecurity (not that there's anything wrong with that). If you had perfect inner game (which NO ONE does) you wouldn't care that he thought he won because you would know that ultimately he was just being a try hard and it had absolutely no impact on your l…
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:45 PM
3

what did he say?
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:34 PM
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Ok that's what I figured. I reported it and moved on haha
/r/seduction13/08/13 04:40 PM
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I know I'm late but thanks for this post. Just tried this app out and I'm already having success with your method. FYI, the first girl to answer, chose watermelons (I changed it to grapefruit in mine). Thought it was funny since you were so sure they all choose the orgasm lol
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:27 PM
1

Great post. I had never used tinder before yesterday... already have 6 matches and 3 girls that I'm messaging :) Random question though. Are there bots on the app? I had a girl send me a ";)" this morning and when I responded the responses didn't seem based to what I was saying. It was like generic "Have we talked before?" and "Oh I can be forgetful, how are you?" This would seem normal except that I tried the would you rather game with her.....
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:27 PM
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blue moon is always solid
/r/seduction11/08/13 04:46 PM
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uncalled for bro
/r/seduction08/08/13 12:40 PM
1

I see what you did there lol
/r/seduction07/08/13 02:47 AM
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Replace yes with other words like true or absolutely. The idea is that you agree and then build on what they said
/r/seduction06/08/13 03:25 PM
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I do a lot of text game and can see why this would work. I'm going to start playing with it... good post :)
/r/seduction06/08/13 03:18 PM
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Gotta watch out for the small ones lol
/r/seduction05/08/13 07:12 PM
1

Yeah I hate scumbags like that. Hopefully you've got a mean right hook cause that'll stop them from doing that again lol
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:56 PM
1

Unfortunately there's no way to filter out older guys from guys your age. Once you say you're 17 though, that'll probably do the trick :P
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:05 PM
1

Ah well do the high five game or any variant of it. My way of breaking out of that phase was to smile at every girl I found attractive. From there I made a point to make small talk at times where it's not normal (in the elevator/on the subway/waiting in line at the coffee shop). Now I have no issues with shyness at all.
/r/seduction05/08/13 05:29 PM
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Np. Like I said, feel free to ask more specific questions. Your original post was very broad
/r/seduction05/08/13 04:40 PM
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I tell my female friends this all the time and I'll tell it to you now... the key to confidence is realizing that you're attractive, fun, and desired. Most guys that want you probably won't have the balls to talk to you but keep an eye out and you'll probably notice the looks you get. Take those for what they're worth As for getting out there, I LOVE women that have the confidence to approach me. If you see a guy you find attractive, go say "hi my name is InvaderGaz" and let him take the rest fr…
/r/seduction05/08/13 04:01 PM
1

This. Being an asshole does NOT make you an 'alpha'. Some girls dig the asshole thing but that's because they have their own issues that cause them to gravitate towards that type of guy. A true 'alpha' doesn't need validation as the doctor here said, but that's because they're confident in themselves and assume they're validated just by the nature of their social value. If you can only attain this state while drunk or high then work on your inner game until you reach that state sober. Based on O…
/r/seduction05/08/13 02:57 PM
2

Yes, these are meant to explain HOW you escalated so that people can read and learn. Congrats though buddy
/r/seduction04/08/13 08:06 PM
2

Sounds like you're getting more social. Don't worry about whether or not you k-close. Just go have fun and in time, the k-close will happen :) Keep it up buddy
/r/seduction03/08/13 05:04 PM
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It's a report on day game that occured. That makes it an FR bro
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:55 PM
1

http://www.extremetech.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/obamanotbad.jpg
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:54 PM
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I like this. Good stuff buddy :)
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:52 PM
1

I think you misunderstood the point of the post lol Leaders are grown, not born. If you buy into the 'alpha, beta' paradigm than you would assume the same is true of alphas. The way they are grown though isn't by teaching them how to be a leader but rather giving them the tools to grow and mature. As an Air Force officer, my leadership training wasn't "here is what to do" but rather "here is what a bunch of people do. Try some of these things out and see what you like." The concept behind it is …
/r/seduction31/07/13 07:30 PM
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Very well thought out response. For the record, I did mean the "being an asshole" approach and not just playfully calling girls on stuff. Just yesterday, I saw someone on /r/askseddit tell a guy to ignore this girl for a week to make her text him because that would make her wonder why she wasn't good enough. That (and other similar posts) are what I was referring to with that first line you quoted
/r/seduction31/07/13 12:40 PM
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oh... it was late :3
/r/seduction31/07/13 12:34 PM
1

True enough. I guess it is mostly contained to this community
/r/seduction31/07/13 03:06 AM
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30 upvotes to 17 downvotes.... not everyone has figured it out yet XD
/r/seduction31/07/13 02:52 AM
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I thoroughly enjoyed the banter with yourself early in the post lol edit: Great post. And that spot on the neck is great for foreplay because it's a sensitive spot for everyone. I use it as a lead in to k-closes
/r/seduction30/07/13 07:59 PM
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That's fair. Too many people think others will judge if they ask questions but the best kind of confidence in my opinion is confidence in your ability to learn and adapt. I consider the new person at work... I would rather they have the confidence to ask questions than try to figure things out because they're scared to ask.
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:35 PM
0

Ah, I misunderstood what you said then. I perceived it as 'DGAF about this girl'. As far as what I understand you saying now, that's all part of being self confident and is definitely the hardest part for many people (myself included way back when). Sorry for not understanding what you meant the first time!
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:30 PM
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Buddy, I agree with most of this. The thing to remember though is that there is a hierarchical scale in nature. Look at a local community and consider who the leaders and followers in it are. Leaders in communities generally are type A personalities (as is much of the military). It's just how things are.... With that being said, I agree 100% that it doesn't matter if you're alpha or beta which is the point I made at the end of my post. If you're comfortable and secure and the furthest thing from…
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:26 PM
1

I agree completely with that part of it. What me and the others above me are saying is that there are times where buying a girl a drink is a good thing so a rule of NEVER buying a drink is bad. There are a lot of girls who fall into neither of OPs two categories and this philosophy will lead casual readers down a bad path if they buy into it too much. /u/wanked_in_space agreed that women feel too entitled these days and I agree with that but that's not what we're debating......
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:09 PM
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I agree with all points except the DGAF attitude but they are certainly attainable. The DGAF attitude though isn't reflective of that type-A personality though in my opinion because an alpha is a leader meaning they DO care about those around them. Outcome independence doesn't necessarily mean you don't care, just that you recognize that you can't influence every little thing and things will work out as they will. Leaders want their peers to succeed nonetheless (and for themselves to succeed as …
/r/seduction30/07/13 05:37 PM
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Well said sir! If I could address the country with one sentence, I would turn your last paragraph into a very long run on and hope to god that people listened XD
/r/seduction30/07/13 05:30 PM
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I think the reason we're not is that it attempts to categorize women in a way that will mislead people who read and buy into it. I took it with a grain of salt until he got into his theory of "golddiggers and statusquohoes"
/r/seduction30/07/13 04:14 PM
1

Great response. Let me ask you this: You say no one can feel like they're the shit all the time, but can someone have self confidence all the time? What I mean is they don't have to be so completely high on life as DeAngelo but at least self confident to some degree (never really down on themselves)
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:44 PM
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Well I never said everyone at all times makes those statements. I said I see them very frequently (very nearly every time I browse this sub but not in every post). I'd be a little worried if everybody made those comments at all times haha Also believe me when I say that I don't believe in masking sexuality and interest in a girl but there's a difference between forcing it and doing it naturally I wasn't here a year or two ago because I learned this stuff on my own. Generally, I only browse seddi…
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:33 PM
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If that's the case, he did a bad job of conveying that but even then I would disagree with his classification.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:06 PM
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It's one of the things that really concerns me about this sub but I've seen a good response to him from other users so it doesn't concern me as much as it would otherwise
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:16 PM
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I'm surprised this didn't get more comments... I assumed it would so I left it alone yesterday. I suggest facebook if it's been more than 6 months since you last spoke otherwise a text would suffice. Don't call right off the bat. Facebook is best though because when they start talking to you they will start creeping on your facebook which can be hugely beneficial When I broke my foot a few months back, I used it as an excuse to be "getting in touch with people to fill my time." I ended up bangin…
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:47 PM
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I want to high five both of you. There are so many types of girls that those two categories are unfair. While there is some truth to the benefits of not buying girls drinks all the time, it's a dumb rule to NEVER buy them because as WeinMe said, you can make a girl who is down feel awesome just with the offer and you as a value giver should feel good about helping her feel good even if it gets you nothing more in some instances. tl;dr: Blanket rules are dumb and you should be a good person
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:12 PM
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In my group of high school friends, I'm one of two guys with like 8 girls (it's great for creating social value). Last time I was in Atlantic City with them, we made a system similar to yours that goes something like "My drinks empty" and the responses are basically the same ie "I'll join you in a second" or "Let's go get another drink". Obviously "I'll join you" means, I'll find you once I get what I need from this person so you guys definitely aren't weird :D
/r/seduction25/07/13 01:32 PM
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My favorite line of this post was "to be alpha is to not care if you look alpha" This is the key that so many people who come here are misled about. If you're trying to be alpha, you're not alpha. Thanks for the awesome post!
/r/seduction23/07/13 02:44 PM
1

I did this over winter break. The advice points at the bottom of this post are great and it feels awesome when it works out and you finally get with that girl you really wanted in high school. Good job buddy!
/r/seduction26/06/13 02:14 PM
1

Just used this. Thanks!
/r/seduction12/05/13 02:50 PM
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My dad always told me that "If something seems too good to be true, it probably is." I wish I could have been a fly on the wall to see her reaction though haha
/r/seduction01/04/13 06:22 PM
3

Can you tell us what was said? Don't hold out on us now!
/r/seduction05/03/13 04:05 AM
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As a 22 year old, memes are a great way to start conversations as long as they relate to some kind of inside joke or something you referenced. Thanks for this post OP. It's about time that someone say this because I disagree with the whole idea that you shouldn't be texting her much because it makes you seem more needy.
/r/seduction05/03/13 04:04 AM
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This post. I had a girl the other night who came over and said hi to me after I gave her the smile back... a little smile works wonders. Once you both give each other the look and smile, it's game on. Don't think about it any further than that
/r/seduction04/03/13 12:42 AM
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