How to Tinder

kotdfmo · 2013-07-10T13:38:21+00:00

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proexploit · 2013-07-28T20:34:13+00:00

One really easy way to communicate that you're not desperate is just to wait several days after a match. Most girls won't start a conversation with you, so after 3 days when you finally say something, you're communicating that your life is not about this app, you're probably off doing something amazing. Esp. considering most people get notifications, it starts you off with the two of you both having liked each other, but due to your delay, puts you on the higher ground again where she needs to prove herself.

banegame · 2013-07-10T05:44:39+00:00

Spot on! With the way tinder works keeping a girls interest is #1, other wise your just dust in the wind. I definitely think that standing out from the rest is important but mystery is also key. In tinder you don't know jack shit about each other. You could be a fucking astronaut or ditch-digger for all she knows. This is where the mystery lies. Take advantage of that and use it to create interest. (Ex. If she asks what you do, don't reply "I'm a bus boy at x restaurant". Say something more goofy that's obviously not what you do so you can joke about it and keep her guessing "I lick stamps for a living, it can get really tough some days" (not the best but you get the idea)). Just like you said don't joke about this too often b/c it's odd, but also, if you let that subject (ex your job) die off in the convo. then it adds to the mystery and generates more interest. There certainly is a fine line between creating interest and closing quickly, which can be done, but I feel is quit difficult through this app. Another comment, like the mystery method, don't be needy. Always portray that outcome independent mentality. If a girl seems jaded, say something ridiculous to get her attention. Questions: 1) how do you know she isn't the catfish? 2) how intermittently do you text, over how many days per person? 3) other ways to stand out? (Picture choices, tagline, ect.)

Good post, hope I conveyed my point understandably. Let me know what you think about the mystery aspect.

1vibe · 2013-08-01T17:28:46+00:00

Oops, I got 4/4 responses on OKC from that first text!!! 2 girls I texted your watermelon/pancakes - no response. 3rd girl I asked what song describes her most romantic evening - texted back and forth a bit. 4th girl I changed watermelon to guava jelly and pancakes to flapjacks - she just texted "orgasm LOL"

Good stuff!

Chris_Baratheon · 2013-08-13T13:27:59+00:00

I know I'm late but thanks for this post. Just tried this app out and I'm already having success with your method. FYI, the first girl to answer, chose watermelons (I changed it to grapefruit in mine). Thought it was funny since you were so sure they all choose the orgasm lol

PookeyBear13 · 2013-08-11T21:20:58+00:00

Awesome

admirals_go_nuts · 2013-11-18T10:06:01+00:00

Didn't work the first time I tried it

readonlyuser · 2013-07-15T16:33:21+00:00

Is Tinder available for Android?

bman5252 · 2013-07-31T20:30:43+00:00

Have any of yall had any issues with fake profiles or anything? I'm thinking about trying this app out...

legionmd82 · 2013-09-04T14:41:14+00:00

you are a genius, I had a lot of doubts about that openeer as just casual conversation seemed to work with me but I tried it out of curiosity and it worked everytime...

forbin1992 · 2013-12-25T01:15:49+00:00

Yeah, this always certainly gets there attention. After they answer the question, I usually say exactly what you wrote "Ok good, just had to check to make sure we would get along. You passed the first test".

After doing that 3 times, no one responded to that text, so I guess that'll have to change. Also, I've gotten 9 watermelons and 0 pancake orgasms.

Don't worry, I'm changing the questions now but originally I wanted to stick to the formula

black-swan · 2013-08-07T05:02:14+00:00

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thekick886 · 2013-08-01T07:03:07+00:00

A girl just responded with "lol". How should i respond?

mohawk906 · 2013-09-11T17:14:13+00:00

Just tried this for the first time. Got blocked on my first attempt. I'm going back to my old methods.

DukeHyde · 2013-10-24T18:18:05+00:00

How about this one, I want your opinion

When I get a match, It goes like this:

Me: Hi! This is really tough, but I must confess something

Tinder Match: tell me! (almost every time, or something like this)

Me: I like you! hahaha

TM: lol (Since it's obvious that I like her to begin with)

And I take it from there

Title	How to Tinder
Author	kotdfmo
Upvotes	109
Comments	30
Date	July 10, 2013 3:39 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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