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Having negative or self limiting thoughts / beliefs can really let you down.

It's the difference between being a failure and an overwhelming success.

We are all the result of our previous thoughts.

How you feel today is because of how you thought in the past...

... so change your thoughts today and you will change how you feel in the future.

Learning lines and techniques to attract women are secondary to your mindset.

The thoughts in your head are more important than anything else.

I'm gonna go over some common "limiting beliefs" and tell you the real truth about them.

LIMITING BELIEF #1 - I can't get any girls because I'm ugly.

Let's get this one out of the way straight away. Looks are extremely important... for guys. We look at a girl and straight away we decide if we'd sleep with them or not. We see attraction as black and white. We'll sleep with them or we won't. With women it's more like shades of grey. They can like you a bit, but be a bit unsure about you. A LOT of other things help her make up her mind either way. Looks really aren't that important. The most important things are the things that you can change. Looks aren't THAT important, but your appearance is. So get a decent haircut, decent clothes, decent shoes and you're well on your way.

LIMITING BELIEF #2 - I can't talk to her she looks like a b*tch.

When you see a girl and you decide to avoid her just because she looks like she's not very nice then you're limiting yourself. You're judging her based purely on the expression that she currently has on her face. And the expression is exactly that. Her face is giving an expression of how she's currently feeling and nothing more. I guarantee that she won't look like that when you're lying on top of her in her bed. She might be having the worst day ever, but if you go up to her and give her a compliment then you might just change that. Tell her what you think and watch her face light up. Make her day!

LIMITING BELIEF #3 - She wouldn't want to talk to me.

This goes hand in hand with everything I just said. Let's be totally honest here. It's true that SOME girls will just be in totally the wrong mood and won't want to talk to ANYONE. But don't take that personally. It's not your fault if they're just in that kind of mood. But remember that humans are social creatures! We love conversation and we love talking about ourselves. So if you go and tell her that you like how she looks... of course she's going to want to talk to you.

LIMITING BELIEF #4 - She's waaaaay to beautiful for me. I'll start with less-pretty girls.

WHY? WHYYYYYYYYYYY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO YOURSELF??!!! If you want girls that aren't beautiful then do yourself a favour and click the "x" button at the top of this page and leave this subreddit. Because you don't need help from anyone. Carry on with what you were doing before and wait until your female friend that you also have a crush on sets you up with that fat chick that has a great personality.

Still here? OK good. I knew that you weren't like that ;)

Truth is that the better looking girls are actually EASIER to talk to. When you start talking they know what's up and due to their beauty they usually have quite a decent social circle and are used to interacting with all kinds of people.

The not so good looking girls can often be more socially awkward and are more likely to suspect something wrong when a stranger tries to talk to them.

Have a good think about what you've just read and understand that the thoughts in your head are the only thing that is limiting you.

Having these kind of beliefs can CRUSH you before you even speak to the girl.

Change the way you think and realise that nothing should limit you - especially before you've even spoken to the girl.

Go out there with your new thought process and next time you see that girl that makes your heart skip a beat... give her a cheeky smile and tell her what you think about her.

You won't regret it.