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Oh ya I got that covered
/r/seduction25/08/25 10:06 PM
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Can’t I just ask their name?
/r/seduction25/08/25 05:47 AM
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For sure
/r/seduction03/09/24 03:09 PM
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This is going nowhere lol, not a big deal
/r/seduction03/09/24 03:07 PM
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So you want to improve your confidence getting dates/girls right?
/r/seduction03/09/24 03:03 PM
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Talking to more girls is self improvement lol. Don’t really understand why people think self improvement only means lifting weights
/r/seduction03/09/24 02:58 PM
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Self improvement is the number one way to improve confidence, more confidence = more likely to put yourself out there talking to women and getting dates.
/r/seduction03/09/24 02:56 PM
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I just copied this into notes on my phone for one of those times I’m doubting if I should go for it. My last approach went horrible like comically bad but it does feel wayyy better than not even trying. Even though it went bad i felt better after.
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:43 AM
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Ok so I’ll be drunk af next time I’m walking to the grocery store at 10 am lol.
/r/seduction31/08/24 10:11 PM
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I like the slow down a lot part thanks will try that
/r/seduction31/08/24 07:34 PM
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Right and by my looks they assume I’m some player professional PUA. Then I open my mouth lol fml
/r/seduction31/08/24 05:58 PM
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Oh damn that’s pretty good, not sure I’m smooth enough to pull it off, but I could try it and then improve each time right?
/r/seduction31/08/24 04:10 PM
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I don’t really buy all of that alpha male strategy shit, it hasn’t got me anywhere for years
/r/seduction31/08/24 02:45 PM
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Ya I’m not talking about walking past someone in a social setting on the way to the bathroom. I live in a young neighborhood and will walk past girls on my way to grocery store, park etc…. Just saying hi walking past someone on the street will not lead to them just stopping and talking to you.
/r/seduction31/08/24 02:43 PM
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Ya, but would you act on it if you find her attractive too? Is so then how? That’s what I’m asking
/r/seduction31/08/24 08:47 AM
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So turn my ass around and go approach/say hi to her. Even if I have to catch up to her. Makes sense thanks. I overthink shit
/r/seduction31/08/24 04:33 AM
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I feel like I need a script especially if I’m nervous and my game sucks. I’ll ask a girl like two questions and they won’t ask me anything back. Then I just go kinda blank like a regard lol, feels like a long silence and girl will just say “nice to see you” then I walk off like a chump
/r/seduction31/08/24 04:17 AM
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Write down your number on pieces of paper, pass them out to all the guys you find attractive. Profit.
/r/seduction17/08/24 02:35 AM
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Props for doing it, more approached than I’ve done in my life.
/r/seduction09/08/24 04:18 AM
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This is good stuff, I honestly just want to get the number and gtfo because I’m already feeling nervous from my approach.
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:21 AM
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Fake number? Then she was just being polite next time she saw you? I’m not trying to tell you shit you don’t want to hear, but could be the case here.
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:17 AM
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That a girl giving you tons of choosing signals doesn’t mean shit. Half these girls just want validation and attention. Just yesterday I approached this girl that’s been stalking and following/smiling at me at the gym. After chatting for 15 mins, I ask what she’s doing this weekend and she starts talking about her boyfriend lol. Still though any approach for me is a success regardless of outcome. I don’t care if I stutter and say the dumbest shit, it’s better than doing nothing.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:49 AM
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First 20 minutes
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:59 AM
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I’d say just talk to her. Girls do this annoying ass thing where they’ll stare and smile at you from a distance, then you get close and they won’t make eye contact or look at you at all. It’s so weird and annoying to me.
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:51 AM
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Does this book help with anxiety?
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:15 AM
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Man I totally feel ya and honestly it depresses me so much I want to just give up sometimes. I’m in 30s too and just as shy about approaching as when I was 12 years old. I’m good looking and have had girlfriends, but I’ve met literally all of them when drunk and I don’t drink anymore. The other ones I’ve met through online dating. Like just today at gym this cute girl that’s been smiling and making eye contact with me for months start exercising right next to me. I smile at her, but then my hear…
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:09 AM
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Failure, just get rejected a lot and slowly improve
/r/seduction06/03/24 05:36 AM
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Sound so unhinged
/r/seduction05/03/24 07:28 AM
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Talking to a girl at gym and asking for number equals creepy? I’ve been rejected at gym before and would still say hi to the girl when I saw her again no big deal.
/r/seduction05/03/24 07:22 AM
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This chick works out next to me and smiles at me, but always has headphones in. I tried talking to her today but she couldn’t hear me or intentionally ignored me lol. Should I tap her shoulder next time or move on.
/r/seduction05/03/24 07:18 AM
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lol I’m new to sales too and getting good at handling sales rejection now I need to apply it to dating.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:16 AM
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Maybe you could try it lol.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:16 PM
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I’ve got other girls numbers from my gym so don’t give up hope I go there all the time though and honestly this girl is way hotter makes me more nervous
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:19 AM
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I say hi or nod at people I recognize everywhere lol apartment, work etc… don’t go have conversations with all of them, but just be friendly. I dunno I was kind of raised that way maybe. But ya not everyone is like that I get it
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:10 AM
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Ya that’s fine, to me it’s just weird not to acknowledge someone you’ve seen multiple times a week for over 6 months. Saying hi just feels normal even if it’s not romantic or whatever.
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:58 AM
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I’m a gym rat and it’s my main social spot. Don’t know how to talk to girl there… quite a few guys I’ll talk to say hi to there. My gym crush there I finally ask how she’s doing, get here name etc… then I see her there another day…..she won’t even look at me?!? She obviously sees me but won’t make eye contact say hi or anything? Not to hijack thread, but is she just shy? Or am I a creep that she obviously doesn’t want talking to her? She doesn’t seem that shy but maybe she is idk
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:05 AM
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Virgin neckbeard I bet. Never share emotions with a woman just lmao only a virgin would say something that retarded. You’re tough on the internet though.
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:21 AM
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Lol I don’t believe you, probably been with more girls than you. Lots of women would appreciate a guy that is nervous to ask them out. Shows they give a shit. Have you ever been in a long term relationship? Lol at never share emotions with a girl you’ve been with for years
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:42 AM
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Solid I’ll do that thanks!
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:09 AM
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So a guy can never seem insecure? I’m in trouble then, I just have to 100% of the time pretend to be some extremely confident guy in every situation? Just ask her out on Instagram?
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:01 AM
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Shouldn’t be a big deal if you can handle rejection well. This bartender on Saturday was chatting with me and I thought about asking her out. She was probably just being friendly, but who cares if she says no
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:15 PM
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awkward, but you did it is 1000x better than not doing it at all. each time it will get a bit less awkward. It also depends on the girl you approach too. some women are just awkward to talk to in general, where some you just click and feel comfortable with. so dont put that awkwardness all on you
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:54 PM
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Huh?
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:26 AM
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Just sat across from her at table in the break room. Can’t really remember everything we talked about. Think I asked her how she likes job etc.. Then asked her what she likes to do after work? She said “nothing” and I just blurted out “wanna go out sometime” lol. In my head it felt awkward but it probably wasn’t. Did it in front of other co-workers too haha. She said “I need to think about it”, then we briefly talked about something else and that’s it. I didn’t keep asking or anything.
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:21 PM
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You might be right I asked for her number later and she just said “why?” And didn’t give it to me
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:45 AM
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Hell ya got a lot of work to do on myself still, but I want to get comfortable with rejection. Before I’d be upset for weeks over getting turned down
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:21 AM
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Lol you have a bad experience? I think showing the interest then backing off a lot and have them come to you or if not just move onto the next
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:07 AM
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I would never ask twice or even try to ask her out again though, could turn into harassment. Just casually asking a girl out once would be flattering for them I would imagine
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:02 AM
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And she said no, I would just act the same towards her , but probably give her less attention.
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:00 AM
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I just act like i never asked her
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:55 AM
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I’ve done this before, you just act normal around her it’s not that bad, unless you’re super awkward in general
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:48 AM
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That’s what I was thinking, now she knows I’m interested at least, maybe down the line we could hook up or something, til then onto the next I guess
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:47 AM
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True I thought that after, but I just had to get the question out. If i take awhile to ask her out I will overthink the hell out of it and never ask. At least that’s the way I have been, trying to improve
/r/seduction31/12/21 01:30 AM
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It was only like our second time talking and I just said “wanna go out sometime?” She said “I gotta think about it.” Lol she’s a new girl at my job.
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:56 AM
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I’m in 30s and best shape ever, stopped drinking a year ago. I get more attention than ever before age 21-50 but damn my confidence isn’t where it should be as far as approaching but I’m working on it. Before I would always pull while drinking now sober it’s like learning all over again.
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:35 AM
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I’m working on this myself hard to say hi when everyone has headphones in, I’ll get there though I’m not in a big rush
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:09 PM
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think that's the wrong mindset, that like saying grocery stores, people are there to shop, work people are there to work. I mean you can talk to a cute girl anywhere really, i just need to work up the courage. ill get there
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:20 PM
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bruh im pretty chatty with people i know, but i can't talk to this cutie at my gym for the life of me........its so frustrating
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:09 PM
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im fine at conversing with randoms etc... hardest part for me is just having the courage to start that conversation and breaking the ice...
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:15 PM
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I’m fine on dates, it’s just breaking the ice with girls that I get anxious.
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:04 AM
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Lol I feel ya, I have a crush on two gym girls, a couple co workers talking to a girl on bumble and have a crush on my neighbor a bit too. Unfortunately haven’t gotten past the flirting stages with any of them, but I’m really not in a big rush. Working on myself a lot.
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:06 PM
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Ya good idea start with hi, next time ask what’s she did that weekend etc… I’ve moved too fast before and been rejected
/r/seduction20/10/21 10:54 PM
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That’s good! I would introduce myself first of course. It’s funny I’m perfectly capable of small talk, but I just overthink and psyche myself out. When I know if I just said hi it would go fine
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:56 PM
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Lol at the Netflix reference, she’s a regular at my gym just not sure if when I talk to her I should ask her a bunch I’d get to know you questions or not? Was planning on just being like “hey I wanted to meet you in Ryan” want to go for a hike sometime?
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:26 PM
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Interesting didn’t get anything out of it but interesting No that’s actually good idea I’m working on not caring what others think and slowly making progress
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:31 PM
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I’ve been trying to do things outside my comfort zone instead of avoiding them entirely
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:11 PM
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Man you’re doing better than me, my 30/10 gym girl I can’t even get a chance to say hi to her or break the ice. We both have headphones in and I don’t even know how to go about it. I think she’s into me because she will always work out next to me, but all I’ve done is make creepy eye contact lol. I’m just being patient and maybe I’ll bump into her leaving the gym one day. It’s weird because outside of the gym I don’t really have a problem saying hi and chatting with a 10/10, but at gym with head…
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:19 PM
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You’re right! Need to stop being a beta pussy
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:29 PM
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I have been. This girl wayyy hotter though , but I’ll work on it thanks. My whole life I date below my potential though, which is annoying.
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:38 AM
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I’ll update soon….. It’s just with the headphone on and wearing masks…. Blah just more excuses
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:23 AM
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Ya I’ll keep pushing myself fuk though
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:48 AM
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Not sheriff cereal
/r/seduction26/09/21 12:07 AM
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Great advice and I’ve been doing this. So much of it is overthinking if I can just say hi I’m actually pretty decent at getting a conversation going. I’ll just start saying hi to this girl and others. Being good looking and fit people seem to assume that I’m some player that can just go up to any woman and bring them home
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:23 PM
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Well guess I blew that chance
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:21 PM
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Very true
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:30 PM
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I feel ya, but for me I would never even try because I feared rejection so much. Lately I’ve been putting myself out there a lot more and getting denied a good amount. Girls ghosting me, saying no etc…, but I just move on
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:23 PM
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I’m just going to try approaching the next 10/10 and expect to get rejected. Maybe not this one at the gym though to save the awkwardness
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:13 PM
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I’ll keep working at it! Thanks for all the tips guys
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:34 AM
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No maybe gf? But start with just a chat I guess see how it feels
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:40 AM
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Wife
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:38 AM
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I should just talk to her like a friend or something, worst case she could just be someone to chat with at the gym or whatever
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:31 AM
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I’m trying to get used to being rejected and not falling apart because of it, just move onto the next not the end of the world
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:51 AM
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This is solid I’ve been outta the game, I need to just practice more with any females really thanks!
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:50 AM
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