How to improve inner game?

AloofusMaximus · 2021-10-18T20:09:39+00:00

It might sound simple, but honestly it's about living. You need to put yourself into situations, and then trust yourself to get out of them.

What area you don't feel comfortable with, is probably the area you need to dive into the most.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-18T20:20:11+00:00

You have a deep seated need to be approved of which is why you are posting about how tall and handsome you are. But since you don't have a car and are broke at the same time, you just don't have enough approval to allow yourself to feel confident. But don't worry, just work real hard and one day, boy, one day, you will show all these assholes and bitches whose the boss.

You really want to know how to become confident. Take your broke ass to a night club. Go there at midnight, buy only water or soda and resolve to stay all night until the club closes and they kick you out. Your brain will be screaming "but everyone will see I am here by myself and will think I'm such a loser and what if my friends see me or my neighbor who is secretly spying on me and then even my parents will know I am a lonely loser who goes to the club by himself and nobody wants to talk to him. Inwill be so embarrassed that I won't be able to show my face in this town ever again".

Well if you can survive the onslaught of this social programming telling you you need to conform to everyone else's expectations of you and that you need everyone else's approval, you will walk away with such superpowers that it doesn't matter what car you drive or how tall you are.

MyUsername0_0 · 2021-10-19T08:04:59+00:00

It's not easy. It depends what you are insecure about. You have to face your fears. If you are scared to talk to women because you don't feel like you are enough you just have to tell yourself you are enough and approach anyways.

Title	How to improve inner game?
Author	hairykitty123
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	October 18, 2021 7:17 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qatsy4/how_to_improve_inner_game/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-to-improve-inner-game.1274060 https://theredarchive.com/post/1274060

Comments