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hamfraigaar/r/seduction28/12/15 02:32 AM
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In that case, 0 would obviously be female, and 1 would be male But it's not true that it represents the same values. We're talking about a scale in the base of the number system. In a decimal number system, you have 10 characters to rate with. If you rate her an HB128, or an HB1000, you're still rating her on a decimal scale. Just expressing it in binary, which would be stupid. So on a binary scale, there are 2 options: talk to her, or don't.
/r/seduction09/03/17 08:54 PM
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It definitely falls into a binary system. Either you swipe left or you swipe right. Two states, binary. Are you thinking of base 2?
/r/seduction09/03/17 05:22 PM
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That's why you have to work on yourself first. Without confidence, the outward of the two, the belief in what you can do and say, your skills and the quality of your actions, if you can't convince yourself that you can do this, how are you going to convince anyone else? With low self-esteem, the inward one, your belief in your value and your values, your own friendship with yourself, and your amount of acknowledgement and your treatment of yourself, if you can't convince yourself that you're goo…
/r/seduction23/01/17 06:47 AM
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Or plan your own adventure and ask her if she wants to go along.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:56 AM
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That's what I meant by that I can see the userbase itself doesn't buy into it. It isn't one or two mods who ban this shit, you can clearly see that it's the average user here who goes in and says: "Hey wait a minute, that's not right"
/r/MensRights10/08/16 08:19 PM
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I'm just a lurker in this sub mostly, but it makes me happy to see that the userbase itself here doesn't buy into this kind of crap, just downvotes it and distances itself from it.
/r/MensRights10/08/16 06:05 PM
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Fuck man this is overthinking on a different level
/r/seduction02/07/16 09:52 PM
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Definitely The largest misconception is that introverts prefer to spend time alone and that extroverts prefer to spend time with others. This isn't necessarily true. The only thing that matters is when you recharge your (mental and physical) energies and when you spend it. Most people are in a grey area and feel drained after being both with people for too long, and after being alone for too long. However, most people also have a "dominant" tendency, eg you get exhausted faster after being alone…
/r/seduction30/05/16 09:28 PM
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Not sure if thats what you meant but your descriptions of introverts vs extroverts is definitely not right in the original sense of the concepts, even though it is a common misconception. But actually, it is the idea that some people recharge their energy alone, and some recharge their energy with others. If you are an introvert, you probably know the feeling of joy when returning to a quiet home after spending a lot of time with other people, and vice versa for extroverts. Most people are somew…
/r/seduction30/05/16 07:01 PM
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Well I can only speak for people in my area that I socialize with. It's a good list, but the title is way sensationalist. This is not unconventional, this is not a secret, this is not an exclusive, these concepts are as old as time itself. Many of them are described in How To Win Friends, which is an 80 year old book that has sold over 30 million copies, been named the 19th most influential book of all time and is still printed today...
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:46 PM
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Only if you stopped reading at the title. The body text explains that he means "don't mindlessly agree with everything for no reason and contribute to the conversation"
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:38 PM
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AKA the big list of things everybody does and those who don't already know they should. It's a good reminder but the Buzzfeed way of attempting to sell this like it's a secret is just sad.
/r/seduction26/04/16 02:28 PM
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That's a wordy reply considering how little it matters what you say. I think I would just shrug and smile.
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:17 PM
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And just in comparison, what are your normal first date questions?
/r/seduction05/04/16 02:44 PM
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People who get judgmental aren't in to music, they're in to genres. If you're going to ask her about this you've gotta know enough about music that you can expand on that topic regardless of whether she's a casual listener or a German composer from the 1600's, and if she mentions jazz fusion or top 40, just saying. Unless you're going to weed out people who don't listen to the same bands as you of course lol
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:40 PM
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Please teach me
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:35 PM
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While that's sort of true, what's really going on here is more that he opened up and showed a bit of personality. Which is sometimes the same thing, but in this case he was probably thinking: "Why the hell doesn't she say anything?" But decided to talk about something funny and interesting in his life instead.
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:35 PM
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That would also be their bad habit if they didn't go to jail. Ask them why they'd be behind bars haha, or just ask them what their bad habit is, no need to mix the two lol
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:33 PM
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The US is one of the few countries that allow abortions after 20 weeks because of that I read it for a second like you were saying there were certain countries that allowed abortions specifically because fetuses can feel pain lol
/r/MensRights03/04/16 12:24 PM
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I understand what you mean, I really do, I've been there myself. Learning pickup like this comes in phases that for some reason is fairly consistent for everyone. Which is actually insanely interesting because when you've been through a few of these mindsets, you'll start to see how everyone is just someplace along the map that you either know, or maybe somewhere you know you're going now. When I read your comment yesterday I think something possessed me to treat you with a little more tough lov…
/r/seduction27/03/16 01:16 PM
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Lol what are you basing that off of? Hours in the field? Actually, the human mind works exactly opposite of what you describe; there is nothing a human being can do while being consciously aware that they are doing it. It goes for everything from learning to walk to learning to talk. If you think about how to walk, you'll start moving awkwardly even though you've been walking your entire life. You can't say "don't put the pussy on a pedestal" while simultaneously thinking about all these things …
/r/seduction27/03/16 06:52 AM
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Bullshit. I just moved home this Christmas because it's just temporarily the best option for what I'm doing at the moment. I'm literally a grown man taking women to my parents basement. Do what you have to do, but don't give me your bullshit excuses ;)
/r/seduction30/01/16 12:29 AM
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You post this topic, all of a sudden everyone goes out on a regular basis and are highly successful while reposting the same stuff posted in every thread #KeepJocking
/r/seduction21/01/16 01:56 PM
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Why are you telling me that, when you are the one who comes to me for advice? It's really not. It's not the 80's, Mystery Method stopped working towards the end of the book, times have changed. Have you actually tried? That's my advice for you, take it or leave it. And don't fuck it up because you're nervous that their profession is sexy.
/r/seduction31/12/15 11:31 AM
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These words seem to encompass roughly half of all human behavior depending on need. No it doesn't? You don't get clingy with the cashier at the grocery store because you need food... Or so I hope, at least. From divorce statistics and the way women date men, it appears they don't care about the men either. Love isn't real. What the fuck. That's not how the world works. :/
/r/seduction31/12/15 03:32 AM
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I think it's because you want to get laid, but I can't see why you want to date a profession.
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:34 PM
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Well... So what do you do? How do you interact with these people who call you sketchy? But for what it's worth - honesty can never come off as sketchy, and similarly, owning your awkwardness (which we all feel) will always make it genuine. There are guys out there that are being paid millions a year to be that one awkward guy (Michael Cera, plenty of rock stars). It's not necessarily a bad thing... Michael Cera fucking owns it. But if you're an awkward guy pretending to be a Tom Cruise role, the…
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:31 PM
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Why did she say she hates you? If she's joking I would probably just write back "haha :-D" or whatever. Girls jokingly telling me "I hate you" sounds like the payoff for some dumb, teasing joke I've been making. If I'm not sure if she's joking, and I don't know why she would hate me, I'll just say: "Why?" (Because I don't know why) And if she's joking, follow up with: "Haha, I don't get it" (because I obviously don't). Or maybe I'll get it when she explains it, and I'll be like: "Oooooh, yadda y…
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:24 PM
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There's so much bullshit out there. Of course you should date girls you care about. Otherwise, why do it? The myth of not giving a fuck is based on oversimplifications of complicated topics. If you're giving up your whole life for a stranger, then you should care less about them. That often translates to: "Don't give a fuck about women." If you're desperate, clingy and creepy, then you should back off a little. That often translates to: "Don't give a fuck about women." The point of not giving a …
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:13 PM
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What does that mean? You don't apply game, you become game. If you are just applying something to a certain situation, then you are just an actor. You might get laid, but then you're just an unsatisfied person who gets laid... Even worse if you're an actor imitating another actor. Unless you mean if she discovers you flirt with her... Which should be pretty inevitable. And obvious from the moment you approach her.
/r/seduction30/12/15 10:58 PM
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Hey man - I don't know you or anything about you aside from what I just read in this post. But I hope this resonates with you in some way regardless. There are loads of people out there in the world who can see past a disability like autism. I'm also aware that there are people who absolutely refuse, and sometimes do so in the cruelest ways. Or maybe they just have their own shit to deal with, or maybe it's just some brain chemistry stuff that nobody understands. Either way, there are some thing…
/r/seduction13/12/15 10:05 AM
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Ah I know what she means, though. I've been in that situation a million times. Meet up with her Tuesday and just ignore that guy. He's not a part of your life, neither is she as of right now. Just do your thing. Don't talk about him. If she talks about him, take the topic and let it float away. If she's madly in love with him and decides at some point she wants to pursue that, who cares? Understand, let go, move on. Not like you wouldn't have done the same thing if the girl of your dreams was in…
/r/seduction11/12/15 04:50 PM
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You know, you don't have to change your life for us. Nobody says you have to fuck anyone, or hang out with anyone, if you're satisfied. That's the whole point, satisfaction. Sounds to me like your problem is something completely unrelated. One thing you can't do is perform while you're not in control of your own life. The most important thing starting out is getting your shit together.
/r/seduction11/12/15 04:45 PM
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I was joking, hence the "haha"
/r/seduction28/11/15 11:21 AM
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Haha, shit son, if you catch an STD, the experience might be worthless forever! Depending on which STD. I mean, honestly, it could freaking kill you, slowly and painfully, worst case. You're both sexually active adults with a certain level of trust. It's not too much to ask her to get regular check ups, and of course, do the same yourself! In fact, you should always do regular check ups as long as you are not in a committed relationship and have been for a while. And even then you may still want…
/r/seduction28/11/15 12:26 AM
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Haha, just chill out. Don't hold the hat hostage! It's innocent! Just give it to her. And go hang out with her some time!
/r/seduction27/11/15 10:44 PM
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Let's look at the facts She doesn't want to date you. You don't want to date her. Match level: 100% She wants to fuck you. You want to fuck her. Match level: 100% still She wants to be able to see other people. You want to be able to see other people (in order to find a long term relationship). Match level: 110% Where's the drawback? :)
/r/seduction27/11/15 10:41 PM
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It's no different than picking up other people. You know, that's what they are - people. I mean, why would, it be different? Haha
/r/seduction27/11/15 10:39 PM
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Yup, people aren't the same everywhere. Even within the United States. New York City women tend to like more European-esque approaches. Miami girls like beach bodies and party people. LA people are a bit more like the French, they're used to people acting ballsy and reaching for seemingly impossible opportunities. I've travelled a lot on multiple continents, I see these differences all the time. But it's just subtle differences. It's like the wind - you can feel it, but you can't actually blatan…
/r/seduction27/11/15 10:36 PM
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Yeah well - the only ones who can help correct your mistakes are those who've made them before. Those who've never made mistakes, they wouldn't know what they were looking to correct. As long as you're following a desire to control your own life, and have an idea of where your goals are at the moment (no matter how many times they change along the way), then you're on the right path in my eyes.
/r/seduction27/11/15 10:13 PM
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This is the only way to do it. Even more so because it's finally something that contradicts all that shit people keep overthinking time and time again. "How do I stop being needy? Is my body language good enough? Is this perfume good enough? Am I being creepy? How do I neg more?" The problem is people try to recreate field guides as if they were scripts. They're missing out on so many opportunities and situations that could've been salvaged (talking about guys who've been at it for a few years a…
/r/seduction27/11/15 09:36 PM
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I like your answer, but it is unnecessary. It doesn't feel very playful, just feels a little like you'd do it just to disagree with her, honestly :/. Playful isn't playful if you have to rehearse the line before you say it, it earns that title if it's something you think of in the moment and go: "It'd be funny if I said that" Like if you tell her you'll pick her up halfway, then just before you go, text her: "Where the hell are you? I've been waiting outside your house for 10 minutes, wasn't I s…
/r/seduction27/11/15 09:30 PM
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I don't think the 70% rule will get you anywhere, unless you're talking about 70% of an even more specific demographic (like, fx, 70% of women who think height is the most important think height is the most important - that would probably be closer to the non-black/white truth). That said, cross out height first. It's not important. You can't change it, and if you get turned down because you're not tall enough... Why would you want to be with them? You want to spend the night with a person who i…
/r/seduction27/11/15 09:26 PM
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in a tinder profile, height Haha, truth.
/r/seduction27/11/15 09:21 PM
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At first, I thought "No, you shouldn't change out your entire crowd just because you think it would attract girls, wtf man" Then I read your post Well, I don't think you should find new friends. I just think his parents should raise your wage. You are obviously spending more time than anticipated on this babysitting gig! All joking aside - what the hell man. Who says that? I wasn't part of the cool kids in high school, but this is far beyond that. Wee wee brothers? What? That's not just a turnof…
/r/seduction27/11/15 09:20 PM
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Why would you insist on picking her up??
/r/seduction27/11/15 09:02 PM
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You can't force chemistry. You can have sex without chemistry, but it sounds like that's not what you want. Chemistry is when the conversation just flows and you can speak like old friends because your thought patterns are so similar, you follow where each other are going the entire time, which makes both parties comfortable. It is the opposite of when you're trying to agree and the other party goes: "yeah, that's um... Not what I meant at all." So in essence, chemistry is not really seduction. …
/r/seduction27/11/15 12:51 AM
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Meet up with her in real life and explain your heart is just not in it. Wait for the irrationality, if any, to blow over and watch both of you get a happy ending. It's the only way to "lose her" without being a dick. I've had a few girls dragged home only to realize wow shit, I don't see myself here in a year, let alone tomorrow. Just gotta send them on their way and you go yours. Your other options are: dragging her along, but you've already realized that's healthy for neither of you ;) Or igno…
/r/seduction27/11/15 12:38 AM
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1In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2The same was in the beginning with God. 3All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. 4In him was life; and the life was the light of men. 5And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not. 6There was a man sent from God, whose name was John 7Then, John got banned from /r/feminism. John, 1:1-7
/r/MensRights15/11/15 07:01 PM
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I think it sounds destructive to think everyone on the street is scared or anxious to open up their mouths (without knowing exactly what you mean by it). Lots of people are not expecting it and are constantly "momentarily not used to speaking" (as opposed to when with friends). A group that's already talking will be so much more open to an approach than someone who's been quiet for a while for this very same reason. Just think of the last time a stranger asked for (the time, directions) when you…
/r/seduction23/10/15 09:58 PM
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I'm actually writing an article about this exact problem for my blog. "Speak Now Or Forever Hold Your Peace". We are all social beings. If you feel like you can't be social, it's because you're not speaking. As soon as you start opening up your mouth, it becomes natural, instantly. There can still be a lot to work on, but it starts with opening your mouth. Because as long as you're quiet, you're going to keep being quiet. Like when you're at a movie theater and the movie ends, everyone leaves qu…
/r/seduction23/10/15 08:16 PM
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"Whatever you say has value because it comes from you" That's it, nothing less, nothing more. It doesn't have to be that quote, it just resonates with me. So if I were to make my inner game kit commercially available, it would just be one instruction: to find your one single quote. Less is more. The more books and quotes and material you have, the more time you'll just spend on your ass reflecting on this shit, which is absolutely worthless in the end, because you're not out there doing anything…
/r/seduction23/10/15 11:52 AM
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I think you're on the right path, but I think changing your behavior and changing your personality are polar opposites. What you choose to learn and in which areas you choose to improve are very important parts of your personality, as far as I'm concerned. If you're looking into changing the way you act, it's usually because you have discovered that there is an incongruence between what you do and what you want to do. Most people who regularly say awkward things are not actually hardwired to be …
/r/seduction18/10/15 11:26 PM
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Everyone starts out as the outsider when they join a new group (activity etc.) Advice: Join more groups and keep showing up until you befriend somebody.
/r/seduction18/10/15 11:12 PM
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That you made a post saying everyone accuses you of being a red piller if you refuse to pay for dinner In reality, people are probably accusing you of being a red piller because you made an issue out of a non issue. I've never been expected to pay for anything, save for jokingly. I've never not split a bill, unless I specifically just wanted to do something nice that day, and most importantly, I've never had anything negative happen to me as a result of being helpful. I'm just saying there's a b…
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:37 PM
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Sure! It's been working well, so far, right?
/r/seduction17/10/15 03:35 PM
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Dude, you need to work on your insecurities. And also working on the fact that you need to know there's not a script for life. "What do I say?" Whatever the hell you feel like saying. Probably something like "OUCH MOTHERFUCKER HOLY SHIT I THINK I BROKE MY LEG, FUCK" or "Whoops" or stare hard at the ground and say: "Do you feel lucky? Well, do ya? Punk?" Point is, it doesn't matter. And if you repeat any of these lines the next time you trip because you read them here you're probably doing it wro…
/r/seduction17/10/15 10:22 AM
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There is a service/app called Scribd, which is like the Netflix of books. It has Models and a 30 day free trial! That's the cheapest way :-)
/r/seduction17/10/15 10:08 AM
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couldn't of Relevant typo
/r/seduction17/10/15 03:21 AM
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Sorry bro, but you're not mysterious. Just the fact that you have signed up for tinder means you have a Facebook, so you're not mysterious. Then there's the fact that if this was a viable outcome for your date, then you'd be out there doing it, not checking your tinder profile. I mean I get that you're probably not entirely serious. But it's just a parody without completely getting the job done. And besides, it's tindr. It's not "meet a mysterious strangr". Light hearted and funny works for ever…
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:36 AM
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No, but if you care about who pays for dinner, then you're probably either a feminist or a red piller. You feel like paying, go ahead. Don't feel like paying, don't pay. Nobody cares. Who even goes on dinner dates these days, anyway.
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:29 AM
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Haha I figured so. I didn't mean it in any bad way, either. It's just that some people honestly expect like 10 hour skype seminars for free just because they ask for it. I mean, sure, shoot high and have ambitions and all that. But seriously??? I'm not a puppet! Haha I don't use Facebook, but I'm available almost everywhere else :-D
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:24 AM
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How good is subjective, I guess. I'm not a show off anymore, but social skills are second nature by now (or technically speaking, I feel like they're natural, and awkwardness was a learned behavior). I'm a damned good demonstrator. But most importantly I'm satisfied, which I believe is the only goal any of us should actually strive for. I can be a full time coach the moment anyone is willing to pay me a full time salary, or a part time coach if they're willing to pay me part time. I wish I could…
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:06 AM
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There’s a way to never ever feel awkward ever again. It involves no effort and works instantaneously. All you have to do is simply never speak to any person ever again. Stay in your house, say goodbye to your friends and family, and let everything you’ll ever need simply be delivered to your house. Isn't that more like a way to feel awkward forever as you slowly transform into a neck beard/Dorito hybrid monster?
/r/seduction16/10/15 10:27 PM
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Ha, I know that feeling! Maybe start thinking about why. What is it that happens when you get lazy? There's usually a pattern. For me, it's a lot like when you encounter a word you don't know, the brain instantly goes exhausted for whatever reason. Most people respond by closing the book and saying: "fuck it, I don't understand this shit," and then they quit. In reality, it would've worked much better if they had taken a second to understand that they're getting bored because they don't know the…
/r/seduction16/10/15 07:50 PM
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I know exactly what you're talking about. I've had that happen to me a few times, as well. We should meet up one day and cry on each other's shoulders. For real though, with the way things work today, it's hard to completely lose contact with someone, especially if it's someone you've been having sex with. I've never been brave enough to make the decision, but I've been forced to a few times, and in my experience, it has never been a definitive goodbye. At least, I don't think so. We will see, I…
/r/seduction16/10/15 11:44 AM
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I understand. That's the tough part about this whole thing, when it stops being fun and games and starts becoming the complex real deal type stuff. The question is, do you want to be FWB?
/r/seduction16/10/15 09:12 AM
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Nobody is ever sure how that's going to work out. You can't plan for it, but you can feel it. After all, it's what humans have spent the last 50.000 years doing.
/r/seduction16/10/15 09:09 AM
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Your perceived lack of confidence is just social intelligence. Girls with their power walk and/or bitch face Girls power walking have to be somewhere. Don't interrupt them. Girls with their "bitch face" look like they're deep in thought. They may actually just be relaxed, though. Work on seeing through this one. Girls eating Girls with their mouths full of food can't talk. Besides, if we're taking the biological approach like many on here are fond of, animals are vulnerable when they eat, so the…
/r/seduction16/10/15 08:45 AM
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A girl that you have lost or a girl you haven't gotten with yet? Also, don't be so afraid of oneitis. Falling in love is absolutely great. Most relationships should involve a tad of oneitis, best case. What's the point of a relationship if she's not different from your one night stands after hitting the club? But also don't get hindered by it. The chance that you're going to get rejected is about the same as with any other girl, depending on your relationship with her (maybe there's already mutu…
/r/seduction16/10/15 08:24 AM
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On a first date? Somewhere between light touching and hardcore BDSM sex, depending on the situation. Seriously! :) A first kiss is not too far fetched, and neither is sex (or hardcore BDSM if you're into that kind of stuff). On the other hand, you might not get that far and it might not mean a damn thing. Questions like these are meaningless because they assume there is a guide. It's not like there's a recipe for a healthy relationship that goes: "on the first date, add a teaspoon of holding han…
/r/seduction16/10/15 08:14 AM
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Jesus that's a deep question. How do we make connections with people? If there was a guide on that, it would be selling better than the bible. Which might be why there is no guide, because then everybody would be trying to make connections with everybody, and then the previously smart people would be average and the average of us would be completely lost for the next few decades until someone else comes along with something smart to say about it nobody else has thought of before. But fortunately…
/r/seduction16/10/15 08:06 AM
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Can't tell you if she's a lost cause until you've spoken to her again, but you've already made a few mistakes that are pretty crucial. In particular, misreading the situation, and storing all your confidence in one "stock". First of all, you became insecure as she started calling you bola bola (which is an amazing word, by the way, that we should all use all the time). You've built up a lot of confidence in this area, telling yourself that you're good with women, that you're a hot, rich foreigne…
/r/seduction16/10/15 07:52 AM
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How old are you both? Are you being an actual dick to her (i.e. she's actually hurting), or is it more like a game (from her point of view)? Sounds to me like she's a bit immature and has just learned the thrill of the chase. She's at that stage where she's convincing herself that every man is head over heels in love with her, and that it's her choice that she doesn't want them, which means she'll fight with every tool imaginable to keep the challenge there. Sort of like an exaggerated Mystery M…
/r/seduction16/10/15 07:19 AM
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I don't think you'd need tattoos or whatever to get a foot in the door with these girls. But you should definitely get into their scene. I mean, what you're describing is just pure lust. If you have nothing in common you'd be bored with them after a week anyway. So is there anything about the subculture that attracts you or is it just the people? I'm so confused. Also you're not going to get anyone by getting tattoos and dressing differently :-P you can dress however the shit you like if you act…
/r/seduction01/09/15 03:48 PM
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Why in the world would John want to hang out with 20 year old party girls anyway? Just to get a quick fuck? If you're in game to just get a quick fuck with girls you don't care about, just skip all the boring stuff and go for shot gun tactic instead.
/r/seduction01/09/15 03:44 PM
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Why are you in game? I started out a long time ago, back when I'd actually say I was way too young for game, and I've made every mistake I see people post here. I'm satisfied with my results, and I feel like I can do whatever I put my mind to. I'm still here because I always have been, and because the majority of people subscribed here are in a sort of learning process where they don't fully grasp what game is. Basically, that means that whenever somebody posts a question, they assume the answer…
/r/seduction30/08/15 09:29 PM
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Many people fuck up around where you are now because instead of working on being who they want to be, they work on mimicking and being exact copies of other people. They take other people's openers and all that jazz and never once do they stop to think that the shit only works because the other people are being their best selves while they are just being key jockeys who think the key to success is scripted and hardwired into our brains. They have no substance, they are not interesting, they just…
/r/seduction28/08/15 10:07 AM
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Sounds like you're not making any progress. Where is it that you get stuck? Is it in similar situations or are you inconsistent? A guitarist isn't going to learn anything if he picks up the guitar and goes from playing a single note on a single string to attempting to play advanced metal solos at 200bpm within the first 30 min of playing, no matter for how many years he practices. He might do something right in some of his sessions some of the time, but he's never going to be consistent. If he i…
/r/seduction28/08/15 10:01 AM
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A lot of people are presenting their view on life and love as if it was a universal truth. That's like saying "the cure to cancer is happy thoughts. Worked for me." I just want people to think about that. There's nothing wrong with being yourself and having your own views on life. Everybody does. It becomes problematic when you act as if that's the only way to feel about it. To me, pick up is a lot about appreciating many different women with many different views which should directly translate …
/r/seduction06/08/15 12:16 AM
2

I'm all for natural game, but "natural game" is so over used nowadays, by wanna be dudes on the Internet with no real success (or success and no understanding) that want a quick cash grab, by dressing up 30 year old canned material as new. Just like neg is so overused by creeps who slimed up to a woman, called her a bitch and then laugh-cried to sleep with their dick in their hands.
/r/seduction01/08/15 11:12 PM
3

That's not what I meant, hahaha, I'm talking about congruence. You can get away with pretty much anything as long as you have congruency. Which again can be anything, totally depending on your personality. Of course you can't just match a girl on Tinder and open with "k" but if she actually gives you shit (which happens every once in a while, even with nice girls), it's as good a response as anything. I've never felt like I had to dig or get into deep conversations with women about their interes…
/r/seduction29/07/15 02:06 AM
2

Why do people keep reposting this stuff from the game? Did all of you skip the part at the end of the book you're quoting, where everything goes to shit and he spends several chapters explaining that GAME DOES NOT WORK ANYMORE. The entire ending of the book was literally: "everyone has figured us out, our techniques don't work, we're doomed, we're being called out on our shit, this is all going the wrong way, Mystery gets suicidal and depressed, we all fight, we lose the house" etc etc? Why does…
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:28 PM
6

I do something similar. I read stories out loud, as a voice actor would, in order to keep my voice entertaining and interesting. But then after a certain point, I'll stop relying on the book and just make stuff up until I reach a satisfying ending. The goal is to tell a story that is not only interesting to the audience (no matter whether the audience is imagined or real) but also still in a voice that will capture and inspire strong emotions in them. It's a lot of fun but it requires a ton of c…
/r/seduction01/07/15 02:26 PM
1

Also, let there be some mystery to her...
/r/seduction21/05/15 11:06 AM
1

Right? On a daily basis, I'm more concerned with taking out the trash than I am with my family getting brutally murdered. That's mostly because there's a slightly bigger statistical chance that I'll have to take out the trash today, than there is that I have to prevent my family from getting murdered today...
/r/MensRights20/05/15 12:34 PM
3

This, but not just "stop jerking off" - work on your libido. Unhealthy diets, not working out etc. also lowers your libido, and energy in general. It takes energy to become who you want to be, and in most cases, it takes energy to be that person as well. So do future you a favor and start feeding him some energy. Then you can do whatever you want (because you have the physical energy) and you'll know what you want (because you have the mental energy).
/r/seduction04/05/15 01:40 PM
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Definitely agree. Just tell them to put it on your Male PrivilegeTM card. Then laugh at all the weak, poor women while thinking about sex.
/r/MensRights25/04/15 03:29 PM
4

Dominance, per definition, means "to have power and influence over others". So that's what it means to be dominant; to exercise power and influence over others. Think about that. Are you exercising power and influence over others? If not, then no, you're not dominant in any given situation. Saying you should be dominant is a shallow and vague statement. How about switching "dominant" out with "charismatic"? Besides, not everyone who is good at PU is necessarily dominant. The two are definitely n…
/r/seduction13/04/15 09:24 AM
9

"My girlfriend uploaded my secret dickpics on Facebook So, naturally, I did the only reasonable thing and cut her vagina open with a kitchen knife, lol"
/r/MensRights22/03/15 01:22 AM
4

Yeah exactly, it's terrible. But shit tests, in the original definition of the term, is all about not giving a fuck about rejection (fx). That said, shit tests are a myth.
/r/seduction15/02/15 11:26 PM
2

but I didn't realize or can't handle that That's exactly how you fail a shit test though.
/r/seduction15/02/15 10:06 PM
2

It doesn't matter if he kissed a girl with a boyfriend. If he honestly didn't know, it's her fault. With the basketball game girl, he probably should have made his intentions more clear. Sounds like she thought it was a friendly date.
/r/seduction04/02/15 10:18 AM
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Progressively harder, so beginners will have a chance to catch up. Make them move out of their comfort zone. Sure, it will be hard, that's why it's a challenge. Going out and talking to someone for 30 days in a row is not a challenge, it's a task. Anyone can do that. For some, it might be scary the first 14 days in a row, but by the end of 30 days there's no way you'll give a fuck.
/r/seduction12/01/15 02:20 PM
1

It depends on what kind of man you are, and what kind of woman you're dating. Without knowing you at all, your post kind of implies you're an active guy. Assuming your woman is attracted to that, you should take her to do active guys stuff.
/r/seduction08/01/15 09:30 PM
2

Core inner values vary greatly from person to person. So does your definition of the successful man. For example, let's take the value of monogamy/polyamory. Hugh Hefner is a successful man with many sexual partners. Many other successful people stick to one partner. Some date around. Some cheat. Some feel bad about cheating. Some don't give a shit. How about alcohol and drugs? Some successful people are essentially junkies that are just charismatic and good at life. They get girls and money. Ot…
/r/seduction05/01/15 10:27 PM
2

I spent a hell of a lot of time practicing game on my friends because I was too anxious to talk to strangers. I'm usually not one to discourage people from doing something risky, because if you succeed you succeed, and if you don't it's experience. Flirting with your friends is a different ball-game. There are several reasons why, but of the most obvious: If it goes wrong, it goes to absolute shit. Do you care about your friends at all? Do you wish to keep them for the long term? Don't flirt wit…
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:18 PM
3

Depends on how you are going to go about it. Generally speaking: no. In the beginning, it might stand out to people that you're acting differently, but why would they not think that it's good that you've become more social? Don't practice on your friends though. I learned that the hard way.
/r/seduction04/01/15 09:08 PM
2

I had something slightly similar happen to me. Basically, this girl I met in the park and later texted a bunch set me up. At first she was really shy so it took her some time to warm up to me, but I was patient and just let her take her time, played some vidya, etc. Well eventually we start hitting it off. An exponentially increasing amount of flirting mixed with a bunch of shooting the shit. It all culminated one night when she starts texting dirty to me. At first I'm not really into it, text i…
/r/seduction26/11/14 07:36 AM
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Exactly. Leading the conversation is not the same as talking all the time. If the statements you make dictate the path of the interaction, it doesn't matter if you speak 90% of the time or 10%.
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:07 PM
1

Yeah it's always good to perfect the basics :)
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:21 PM
1

Read his post again. Sorry, but you're encouraging him to overthink waaaaay too hard. He didn't approach them, it was a polite "hi" because of eye contact.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:25 PM
2

Just elaborating a little bro!
/r/seduction10/09/14 03:31 PM
3

They weren't interested in you physically They were probably busy They might've thought you were weird The list of possibilities goes on and on and on. Not everyone is going to act the same way and pick up artistry is not the "key" to every woman's heart. You're going to get rejected a ton but just the fact that you chose to say hi will give you a greater success rate than average in the long run, so good on you!
/r/seduction10/09/14 02:41 PM
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It's really not that hard. If she pushes you or slaps you lightly while laughing or smiling (or making an angry face as a joke), that's obviously playful. If she's not smiling and she's being serious about it, it's not a fucking "test", it means find someone else who appreciates your humor more.
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:49 AM
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Of course it will be awkward as fuck! And yes, other people will judge you! It's not like they care, though. They have their own life to worry about. But they will momentarily think you're crazy. And if they're insecure, they might even call you out on it. But that's the tough part, you just gotta push through it. Why do you give a fuck what these people think? And if you get the number, you will be their new hero. Good luck!
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:41 AM
1

You may be unhappy with your love life, which you also totally should be, because the Roman Empire was a fucking orgie lol.
/r/seduction03/09/14 01:31 PM
1

What
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:24 PM
2

Assuming you actually text girls in real life, you could've taken examples from your phone, just saying
/r/seduction25/08/14 04:03 PM
2

I like your post, but your text examples where really bad. Where was the banter? Where was your personality?
/r/seduction25/08/14 03:20 PM
17

You don't really have to think if you can just make it a habit to implement your name when people speak to you in stories. "And then he said to me, Hey Hamfraigaar! Yadda yadda..."
/r/seduction24/08/14 02:39 PM
1

There is a duck hiding in the shadows somewhere
/r/seduction16/08/14 08:44 AM
1

I'm not sure you posted this in the right sub either, and while I have no experience I have a theory. You want these girls to open up, so you should encourage them in 2 ways: Opening up yourself Encouraging them to open up, indirectly First of all, you open up yourself by relaxing, showing off your personality, joke around, have fun. Then encourage them to do the same, but not as in saying: loosen up, rather tell them how good they're doing, how beautiful/sexy they are (depending on what kind of…
/r/seduction09/07/14 01:16 PM
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Honestly, your problem is nothing but lack of experience. You have a lot of reference experience in feeling inadequate, but little experience being around beautiful women. You simply have not had those "maybe I am actually good enough" moments enough. To get to the point where men who are good with women are, you shouldn't copy their techniques. Sure you can practice walking around more confident and talking more confident and cracking jokes and applying a positive mindset - those are good and i…
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:28 PM
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"Do you find me boring?" Why are you so hard on yourself all the time man? Come on. Just say you're out alone. Say they're at home. It really doesn't matter. Who asks that question anyway? I could be out clubbing all night solo for a week in a row without being asked this question. By the time you're "in" at your first set, they're your friends, anyway. By the end of the night, everyone is your friend! But really, you're not the only one out solo. You're not weird. You felt like being there toni…
/r/seduction05/07/14 09:41 PM
2

That's why you're out, you're making friends!
/r/seduction05/07/14 09:36 PM
2

My apologies. When I wrote it, I did not intend it to be hostile, but looking back at it now, that was a failed attempt. I hear what you say, and it may be a language barrier, but the fact that you say "specifically" makes it sound funny to me. Either way, I hope op gets something out of it.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:54 PM
2

Classic tenor here as well! The number one breathing exercise that I've used the most is simply inhaling and exhaling for an increased amount of time, eg I'll inhale as long as I can and then exhale as comfortably as I can, increasing the time whenever it feels comfortable.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:09 PM
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bass and baritone What the fuck. How do you know his voice type??? You don't get to hit lower notes by warming up out of your range. All that will do is make your throat hurt a lot (and fast). At best you could combine it with whiskey and cigarettes and get a cool raspy sound, then die when you're 27. What he should do, if he wants to go this route, is to find his actual voice range and do vocal warm ups in that range, everyday. He should focus a lot on vocal technique, such as position and brea…
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:20 PM
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It could be a few different things. First of all, as the other guy said, you're dressed to impress (probably). Second of all, you're meeting up with a woman, you may be in more of a "fuck yeah, I'm the man"-mindset than usually, there may be some testosterone thing going, you may be feeling horny, manly and all those things that are invisible but noticeable. I think you should still open the beautiful girls. Especially if you are the super social meeting people anywhere-type. Just strike her up …
/r/seduction22/06/14 07:01 PM
1

First of all, there are some definite inner game problems here. Second of all, could you describe a typical date situation?
/r/seduction22/06/14 06:54 PM
2

Brilliant.
/r/seduction22/06/14 06:47 PM
1

I think the best way to deal with it, would be to let him find out himself when he is ready. At least then it doesn't have to end in cheating and he will feel a sense of "I figured that out myself" so his ego isn't hurt, lol.
/r/seduction22/06/14 06:47 PM
1

So you wanna tell him? Nah, that'll probably just piss him off
/r/seduction22/06/14 04:49 PM
1

That doesn't make it okay in my book. It's not a pick up rule, it's a bro rule. Listen, there are 7 billion people out there and approximately half of them are girls. And you still think this girl is important enough that you must make her cheat on her boyfriend, and make him feel like shit, too? Shake your head and move on, be the bigger man.
/r/seduction22/06/14 04:15 PM
1

I think shotgun tactic would be right for you right now. Because the more girls you talk to, the faster you will learn (you know, as long as you learn from your mistakes).
/r/seduction22/06/14 10:28 AM
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1) it's not what you say, but how you say it. Be expressive in your language and find the situation hilarious. I have a great video I'll find in a second. 2) Compliment whatever you like about her. Compliment her when she makes you feel good. That's when she deserves it. 3) At the end of the conversation, as one of the last things before you leave, unless of course an opportunity comes up along the way, then don't let it pass. Edit: here is the article: http://www.rsdnation.com/julien/blog/2-new…
/r/seduction22/06/14 10:16 AM
1

I usually get a few drinks when I'm out, just enough to get tipsy, so I might not know exactly what I'm talking about, but it shouldn't matter whether you drink or not. Just make sure you're being honest about it, then you can easily say: "I'm just trying to improve my health" and people will find that cool.
/r/seduction22/06/14 09:46 AM
1

Yeah, that's like the most unearthly douchebag move. Are you a super awesome pimp because you ruin peoples relationships? Not in my book.
/r/seduction22/06/14 09:39 AM
1

You're what people would call a hard case noobie. Lucky for you, it is possible to improve your game 100% nearly no matter what background you're coming from. The bad news is that it's going to be tough as shit. But the additional good news from that is, that you are going to learn so much from it that you can use in all aspects of your life (if you follow through with it, that is). I offer personalized coaching, normally only locally and mostly dealing with people who aren't so-called hard case…
/r/seduction22/06/14 09:36 AM
1

Cold reading is an amazing tool, and it's surprisingly easy. I often catch myself doing it without thinking (which should be the goal for anything you do in pick up). Actually it's a lot like a compliment, but goes a little beyond being that. Most people are not used to it at all, and will feel flattered in the very least.
/r/seduction22/06/14 08:33 AM
12

Girl: Are you gay? You: Oh yeah, I'm so gay. I love sucking cock. And nothing beats a good ass pounding after a long, hard days work! The trick is, once again, not what you say, but how you say it. Can you deliver this in a way that it sounds funny and people know you're clearly joking? You're good to go. If you're going to make it sound like you're actually the gayest man on earth giving the most disgusting description of gay sex, then you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction22/06/14 08:27 AM
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Exactly. It's not just about girls, it's about having an expressive and interesting way of communicating. Would you prefer a book with boring descriptions over a book that you can immerse in completely? It's the reason expressions exist in the first place, anyway.
/r/seduction02/06/14 10:56 AM
2

Yeah, just go do what you were doing anyway and invite her along
/r/seduction23/05/14 03:18 PM
1

Getting down after a really tragic event like death is perfectly natural. You would be weird if that didn't get you down and would most likely be met with a very negative response. Remember through all of this that you may visualize your life as your personal cartoon but you are not Tom Cruise in some action flick. You're not perfect, you will never be perfect, you are still normal. You may have worked on yourself and set yourself apart in certain areas, you may have become a man that has a visi…
/r/seduction07/04/14 11:33 AM
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Umm okay, so I can't be insecure and not put pussy on a pedestal? That makes absolutely zero sense. You can be confident in your insecurity by taking control of it. There is more than one type of attractive male - the typical under 30 CEO you're describing there is one of them but there's also the creative type, who might be ambitious but broke, insecure but cute, hot but unkempt and have their entire life in one big mess of mental diseases and drugs and still be attractive - just ask any movie …
/r/seduction06/04/14 11:07 PM
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You sure sound successful yourself. This guy is a Key jockey.
/r/seduction05/04/14 07:59 PM
7

TL;DR poor people don't have girlfriends, people who don't look like abercrombie and fitch models don't have girlfriends and people who haven't finished uni don't have girlfriends
/r/seduction05/04/14 02:32 PM
2

You kiss her. The kiss is good. What more do you need to know?
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:24 AM
1

Also, what would happen if you had to think that while walking? "Right leg, left leg, right leg..." There's a much bigger chance you'd miss the girls house because you were too caught up in your thoughts. Don't miss the girls hosue because you're too caught up in your thoughts, fellas!
/r/seduction19/01/14 08:30 PM
1

That's bullshit. His problem is nothing "technical", he's just way overthinking. Nobody thinks less of him because he said that or because his buddy called him out on it. So, stop thinking about it.
/r/seduction16/01/14 04:26 PM
1

.!
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:54 PM
-1

You should probably just stop caring and start having fun instead.
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:52 PM
1

Awesome! Well, most girls just don't care for the routines anymore in my experience. The same way they'll treat you if you ask them what their sign is.
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:49 PM
1

I guess that's partly because you'd pull it off differently, too. I've done this a bunch of times. Of course, it also depends on whether he comes in interrupting the conversation the annoying way, or comes in and joins the conversation the casual way. But then again, if he's massively killing the interaction, I'd tell him to leave. If he's an alright dude all three of us can talk. Seriously though, I'd rather pull her away and escalate the interaction than having to deal with him, no matter what…
/r/seduction14/01/14 01:40 PM
1

That's a negative mindset my friend. Rejection is nothing to be afraid of.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:46 AM
1

Why the hell did you even engage in that conversation long enough for her to walk away. I would probably just tell him like: "Look, dude, I'm in the middle of a conversation. We can discuss video games later." and if that doesn't work, just go a little harsher each time: "Listen, you're an alright dude, but I'm in the middle of a conversation, could you please leave?" - "Dude, I tried being nice, now, I don't give a fuck about your videogames. I'm trying to talk to my girlfriend (if you can pull…
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:38 AM
2

Cool! I often see people on here complaining that "my routines won't work, what routine should I try" and I hate that I have to explain people for the umpteenth time that Mystery Method works for MYSTERY and is very out-dated... And right when I was about to give up on people, you came along and showed us all that some people actually still can pull Mystery Method off. You're making me very confused and my first reaction was (sorry!) BULLSHIT, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. Congratu…
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:31 AM
1

Basically, yes. Good.
/r/seduction02/01/14 12:22 PM
1

Awesome! Music bro high five!
/r/seduction04/12/13 04:33 PM
1

Excuses, excuses. Surely you can fit in half an hour of working out in there somewhere.
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:29 AM
1

Now I'm just curious, but with the "Music back in my head" thing, do you mean that literally? Because whenever I'm happy I literally have songs "playing" in my head all the time, when I'm down the music literally "stops" but I always assumed that's because I'm a musician. Maybe you're a musician, too? It'd be funny if I wasn't the only one, anyway, haha.
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:28 AM
1

Fuck what those guys say. There is no perfect time. Action comes before feelings, I've said this before and I'll say it again. You feel good AFTER you work out, you feel full AFTER you eat and you feel happy AFTER you get the number. If you want to feel better over-all before you go after the girls, go work-out, eat healthy, work on your hobbies, spend time with your bros and do all those things that will make you happier in the long-term. For me it's the other way around. I go talk to the girls…
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:24 AM
1

Cat-string theory is a stupid theory because it was written to sound like it applies to all, or at least most of girls, which is completely not true. It can work in some cases such as a girl who is interested but for whatever reason doesn't show it (insecurity?!) but like 99% of the time it is completely unnecessary and the last 0,9% of the time you don't have to use it anyway to accomplish anything. A much more applicable, useful concept in the same category is the simple rule of thumb to not i…
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:16 AM
1

That's the way life is sometimes. There are two fights you can pick now: fighting your way to the top or fighting to make yourself comfortable knowing you never had the willpower to get out and become the awesome man you know you could've been. Do you want to feel the sweet pain of regret? Also people who make you feel uncomfortable or insecure are probably not someone you want to be around. If it's any help you know you're not worth less than you were before you dated your ex so obviously losin…
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:37 PM
1

The skill of being social is a skill much like many other skills. Chances are you haven't been using that skill like you used to when you were in a relationship, unless you are a cheating scumbag. If a football player was injured for a year, he won't be at the top of his game; same goes with a singer or simply if you stop running 6 miles a day when you used to - after a year it'll be much harder. Also, you change over the course of a year, but only for the better. Your new experiences will prove…
/r/seduction03/12/13 01:01 PM
1

Also you can show her what awesome things you are doing
/r/seduction03/12/13 12:01 PM
1

That's exactly my point. The rule "don't buy women drinks"just means stop seeking validation! But for most afcs and especially to the poor of them buying drinks is something they go out of their way to do while seeking validation. That's why the rule exists, why it shouldn't be interpreted literally and why Mick could get away with it while your average afc would come across as needy.
/r/seduction19/11/13 05:33 PM
2

5. There are plenty of women, and they are all the same different, so do not get hung up on one. FTFY
/r/seduction19/11/13 01:02 PM
2

You don't have to buy them drinks like that. You can just be like: "Hey guys, are you having a good time? Awesome!" then go into something else. Making sure they have a good time. Drinks =/= having a good time necessarily. If you play in a rock n roll band and your accountant would hardly even notice if you bought the entire bar, then of course you can buy everyone drinks (remember, he was definitely NOT seeking validation when he did it). If you're in the mindset of: "Let's all not give a fuck,…
/r/seduction19/11/13 12:59 PM
1

This piece of advice is simple, cool and the closest you'll come to a magic pill - you can literally not run out of things to say. The universe is made up of however many atoms that make however many items. Everything we know, everything we've ever talked about, discussed, loved and hated is inside this universe. Looking out the window for 5 minutes, will probably give you enough to "talk" about for a few years! Now combined with all the shit you do in daily life, you'll have lifetimes of talk-w…
/r/seduction12/11/13 07:33 AM
4

*Edit: Allow me to clarify since people seem to get upset that I just tell them to be themselves: There are two types of extremes that will come off as incongruent/inconsistent: The dickbot - The guy that thinks with his dick, and The "in my head" guy - The guy that overthinks everything The dickbot is incongruent because he listens to his dick instead of his brain. He will desperately try to fetch the attention of any girl at any price. But on the other hand you have the guy who is not at all p…
/r/seduction11/11/13 12:15 PM
6

Okay so your advice is "If you don't know who you are, just be somebody else based on what you read on the internet", because that's not super helpful either since you'll be incongruent. This dude explains EXACTLY what it means to be yourself - HONESTY!!! It's not really hard. If you thought she was cute, say: "I just thought you were cute and wanted to come say hi" - if you feel that it's awkward you say: "I feel so awkward talking to you, but you're really cute", WHATEVER YOU FEEL - if you exp…
/r/seduction08/11/13 09:32 AM
7

Yes... at least most people left the analog friend requests in kindergarden. If at any other situation somebody said: "Hey can we be friends?" they would look like idiots lol.
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:29 AM
1

Little comment about the psychology behind the title of this post: "Probably a dumb post" - why would it be a dumb post? And if you really, really felt that it was a dumb post, you wouldn't have posted it, anyway. Just remember, anything you have to say has value purely because it comes from you. Take that principle to heart and use it to never run out of things to say ;-)
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:17 AM
2

That's good, yo. The important part is that it doesn't matter. You can only control your present from this standpoint.
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:14 AM
3

You're thinking way too much about that
/r/seduction07/11/13 09:00 AM
3

If it's okay? What, are you afraid of having a body? You wish you was just consciousness floating around when you're with her or what? Damn dude, why do you ask??? Of course it's okay. If she wants you to stop, she'll let you know. I can't tell you from your shallow description whether the opportunity has passed or not. Sometimes it has, sometimes it hasn't. But why the hell should that stop you from touching her? It's really a heck of a lot weirder to only touch girls you're interested than it …
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:33 AM
1

Yes, you might as well improve your looks, yes, it's wort the trouble, no, it's not shallow or empty. Looking good is a lot of fucking fun. Get a hair-cut, dress up, focus on your body language. It's a hobby, and a good one at that. But no, it's not going to make girls give you their number in the bus, simply because it's unnatural, however, and this has nothing to do with looks, you can walk up to any girl in any bus and get her number. If you want it, you go get it ;-)
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:29 AM
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I beg to differ. I've never had a girl finish as fast while focusing on her as when I completely focused on fulfilling my own needs. Focusing on completely fucking the shit out of her for my own pleasure will usually get her to cum 24 times in a night. Good luck mate ;-)
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:20 AM
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I'm just fucking around. Works everytime. I think maybe it's because I really just don't give a fuck. I'm not even an asshole, either. I mean, while she's in the middle of a long story, if I get bored, I'll just start talking about something else. Straight up interrupt her speech. She will most often just adapt to the new situation I've created. If I want to hear the end of the story I'll just ask her to get back to it. I'll joke about everything. I'll always have fun. I'm in control of having f…
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:04 AM
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I'm going to give you 5 actual bullet points Her head Get out of your head and inside hers. Put the social pressure on her. Fuck with her. Have fun with her! Her right hand Befriend the friends. If her friends already think you're cool, of course she is going to think so, too! Her heart If you're going to focus on one thing, focus on staying out of your head. That way you'll always work instinctively, instincts are masculine, masculine is ATTRACTIVE. Her legs Kino. Touching. It's important. Touc…
/r/seduction07/11/13 07:49 AM
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I know right! I haven't read Models and The Book of Pook, but anyone talking about "IOI" or "DHV" they're too freaking much in their head. They will never be able to be relaxed, they will never be able to be themselves. Honestly, they'll never get laid. They'll forever be on the brink of getting laid: "Guys, I got so many IOIs today!!" or get laid every once in a while, but being able to walk into any set and have people like you comes from NOT TRYING and NOT being in your head. When I say you n…
/r/seduction07/11/13 07:42 AM
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For 8 years?! Without getting laid?! Bro... Are you still alive... -knocks on forehead- :D Wow. I thought you were like: "I was in a wonderful, healthy relationship for 8 years, but man I wish I had just fucked a bunch of random hookers instead." Glad you're here now then. Haha.
/r/seduction07/11/13 07:35 AM
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It's very natural. Does she respond well to your hugging? Let's see if she wants to stay entangled. Does she like staying entangled? Look at her - does she look ready for the kiss? Fuck that, go for it! Bam! You kiss closed. Is she ready for some further touching? Don't waste your time though. No need in rubbing her ass outside her pants. It might get awkward. Just put your hands down there. Hot as fuck. Don't wear boxers, either. Put her hands on your dick, let her feel it. Put her hand down yo…
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:57 AM
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Yes, bro, the line "ayy guurl wan sum fakk" works every single time. No, but it's okay to try and escalate with your female friends if you feel like it. Start touching her. High fives and shit. Gib huggles to her. Escalate slowly as she's getting ready for it. Explain to her before sex that you're not looking for a relationship so there is no misunderstanding.
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:41 AM
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Committed relationship = Oneitis now? Besides, if you had broken up with her you would just miss her now and wish you had stayed with her. A smart man once said, either you marry and regret it or you don't marry... and regret it ;-)
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:36 AM
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Okay, here's the real guide to kissing. I've used it ever since I was 8 years old and it works every single time. You stand there with a girl you like. You're pretty sure she likes you too. You close your eyes and kiss her. Then both of you feel good. Sounds good? Good. Now stop over-thinking so much.
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:33 AM
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If it matches your personality, then why the fuck did you not come up with it? Seriously, using lines you read on the internet... Just go with the flow. I see a bunch of people here that like over-complicating things. A kiss is a fucking kiss. You press your lips against hers, then it's over. Done. Why would somebody ever be convinced that it's better to stay in your head thinking about what to say than to just be in the moment, enjoying the kiss?
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:29 AM
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No.. no, please don't do that. Mystery Method and The Game is good to read for fun, but don't try and steal Mystery's style. First of all, it works for Mystery only (and sometimes it doesn't even work for Mystery) and second of all, it's horribly, horribly out-dated, makes you a weirdo in the bad way and there are high chances you'll end up as a social robot ("Oh no! She give me an IOD! Better tell a few DHV stories in order to raise her attraction!") - Life is not a roleplaying game. I'm going …
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:25 AM
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Well the "game" or what you may call it is the same as anywhere else in the world, be it clubs, libraries or concerts. But you have some advantages that will make it easier, and I'm going to put my top 3 things that you can do to make college life easier: 1). Join social groups There are at least two groups you should join no matter what kind of person you are - one group that's super social (like the party arrangement commitee) and one group that interests you (music club if you're a musician, …
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:19 AM
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Oops! But obviously my intention was never to shoot down the articles. Just the use of the word "trick" - that's what you get for choosing a shitty title! Jk. But you seem like an alright dude, I'll make sure to check out the articles later!
/r/seduction05/11/13 07:15 PM
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Pft, haven't read the books but are they rarely ever worth it! EDIT: If you want advice about dating sites, PM me! But here's something for Facebook: I used to just poke friends of friends for fun. Usually they'd poke back and I'd just be like: "Heeeey... didn't your parents tell you it's dangerous to poke strangers!" But other than that I might just add them. They may ask "Who are you" to which I'll reply something along the lines of (this is an actual message I sent that got insta friend reque…
/r/seduction05/11/13 07:11 PM
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Do it at their place? Do it in a public restroom, do it in the forest, do it at the beach, who the fuck cares... I don't see what the problem is. Also, move out ;-)
/r/seduction05/11/13 07:06 PM
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If you don't know where to meet women, you don't go out enough. Women and girls make up approximately half of Earths population. What you need to figure out isn't where they are or where the "easiest" women are - what you need to find out is where your type of woman would hang out. Obviously it's counterproductive to go to the library and look for rock chicks. They'd be at concerts or in music stores. But if you are looking for bookworms, go to the library. This is also a matter of interests. Ob…
/r/seduction05/11/13 07:01 PM
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Now I haven't actually read those articles but "tricks" sound like you're tricking her to come home with you. Honestly, closing is very situational. The best thing you can do is just go out and have fun and if you're not doing very well, come back and ask for advice. The best over-all advice is: fucking go for it man. At the very least you'll learn from experience.
/r/seduction05/11/13 06:56 PM
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Are you guys a couple or "just" dating? If you want to be exclusive, I don't know why those guys below tell you to go out with other women, that's retarded if you want a relationship. Instead, you need to fill out your life while she's gone. If she IS your life you're going to get needy because once she's gone, you have nothing left. Keep your ambitions high, work on your hobbies, go out with your friends, do a lot of fun fucking shit. Then you'll also have a lot of great stories to tell your pa…
/r/seduction05/11/13 06:51 PM
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Honestly, the best thing a wingman can do is push you into any set, force you to talk to any girl, have good energy, be positive, fuck around and not care about anything in the world. Laugh at all your jokes, always make you look good and always frame it so that if things go stale the problem lies with them (assuming your wingman already has at least as high status as you - imagine if Robbie Williams and Tom Cruise were in a club, and Tom Cruise just delivered the lamest joke ever, if Robbie Wil…
/r/seduction05/11/13 06:17 PM
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In the middle of a wild foursome, my wingman whispered in my ear: "I think you can make her cum harder" SWITCHINGTM - It's never too Late
/r/seduction05/11/13 06:14 PM
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This was not a shit-test. You're over-complicating. Just be yourself, man. Chill out, have fun in her presence. What to do? Just tell her to shut up if you don't wanna listen to her ;-) Or change the subject. Or make a joke about it. I would've probably just said (making it clear I was joking): "Sh, sh, sh, I don't care, I just wanna bang you." then I would've leaned back, putting all the social pressure on her and then went from there.
/r/seduction05/11/13 02:24 PM
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Dude, I'm not sure I follow your post. YOU are responsible for your actions and your happiness, not some silly girl? You can't just quit on every person that does something you don't like, because eventually you will have conflicts with everyone you meet in life. It's up to you to make sure they don't hurt you - and if that means getting away from them, then that's what you do, but in many situations it can be as simple as just saying: "Hey! Don't do that!"
/r/seduction05/11/13 12:38 PM
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