Not drinking on dates

2014-06-22T07:13:35+00:00

I don't drink. Quit 3 years ago... never caused an issue. I go to bars with girls on dates often (well not often but...) and it has never been an issue. I get a coca cola and she might get a beer, its whatever, most of them seemed to actually like that quality about me; 'self-control' or whatever you want to call it. It's only awkward if you make it seem awkward. I couldn't give two fuckin flying fucks about who's drinking beer and who's not...

hamfraigaar · 2014-06-22T09:46:32+00:00

I usually get a few drinks when I'm out, just enough to get tipsy, so I might not know exactly what I'm talking about, but it shouldn't matter whether you drink or not. Just make sure you're being honest about it, then you can easily say: "I'm just trying to improve my health" and people will find that cool.

rangamatchstick · 2014-06-22T12:13:49+00:00

I go out clubbing sober solo, I go on dates and I never have more than a beer, I actively avoid alchol due to it being expensive and not getting any worthy sensation being drunk. You dont need it as you shouldnt need a substance to allow you to enjoy yourself or get in state, that should all come from yourself. It can be ok in small quantities with new guys or if you have alot of AA but ONLY a small amount.

DaygameCoach · 2014-06-22T17:29:52+00:00

Tea and Coffee dates can work, especially if there is something amazing or unique about the place. :) DC area examples: Teaism and Northside Social. Too bad La Colombe is just too small.

joshsway · 2014-06-22T15:42:35+00:00

It doesn't matter that much. I wrote about this exact point in more detail here: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/dont-drink-no-problem

Title	Not drinking on dates
Author	throwaway_puad
Upvotes	9
Comments	5
Date	June 22, 2014 7:07 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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