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Unless you are just as serious as she is about a LTR, you won't get really far with her and don't lead her on by pretending you do.
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:13 PM
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Any kind of social media can be treated like a dating app nowadays. A lot of people meet through FB and IG so it's still meeting online.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:14 PM
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It's the same steps as getting a girl back to your place while on a date except skipping the date. A lot of joking and flirting on both ends and she should have high interest and would want to come over but she needs that reason too. You have to make it sound like a fun and good time if she were to come over and that's pretty much it.
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:45 PM
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It would help if you know what her past sexual experiences were like. She could have a very low libido and doesn't crave sex that much or she could have a very high libido and loves sex but just not with you. You have to communicate with her about it.
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:10 PM
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You did the first step which is admitting you have a problem. Now you need to set specific goals to get to where you want to be. You say you are obese so you are going to have to lose weight. If you don't like being a janitor and the pay sucks, try to find another job. You have moderate autism and that's ok only if you don't see that as a setback. And if you don't have experience with women you are going to have to put yourself out there to get some. Your hobbies are ok as long as you aren't mak…
/r/seduction23/09/24 05:39 PM
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I know a guy like that can get most women easily and he seems to have the same problems as most attractive women. He's a single dad with high standards and even if he does find someone that's genuinely nice he just can't stop talking and flirting with other women. He's an asshole too but hides it really well in the beginning until he gets frustrated in a situation and then his true emotions come out. He always blames them and it's never him and makes himself to be the victim in every relationshi…
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:16 PM
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What would be the best way and time frame to bring up they only want something casual?
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:43 PM
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It's really not worth it. She will break you in the process and even when you get the point that you do "fix her" she will probably leave you without a second thought and not even acknowledge all that you have done for her.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:22 PM
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If that's your picture then you seriously don't need any kind of plastic surgery. The fact that you don't like your body and how you feel about it is probably giving off the vibe that guys should reject you. Insecurity is never attractive and you can't expect a guy to like you if you don't even like yourself. It's ok to self improve but it's not healthy to obsess over it.
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:06 PM
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I don't know you personally so it's hard to give something specific and like I said it could be many things. Keep in mind that plastic surgery is a bit extreme and it doesn't automatically mean it will fix your problems.
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:58 PM
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I guess you would have to find out what it is about your appearance that is making guys reject you. Guys get mostly rejected for their height and not being cute or handsome enough. Maybe ask some people you know if there could be some things you could improve on or next time a guy does reject just ask him directly what the reason is. And if it's not your appearance, it could be your personality or vibe.
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:39 PM
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How unattractive are we talking? 😅
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:32 PM
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She won't care if you look good and if she finds you attractive. I think I'm going to start taking action with younger women because they seem to be the only ones that have been giving me attention lately.
/r/seduction15/09/24 07:23 PM
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You seem to already be doing well for yourself. I can understand if you're struggling with what to do with the attention you're getting but you're hooking up and having success. I don't know what more you would need to accept it.
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:10 PM
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You keep looking at other girls and you're going to keep looking at other girls until you get resentful for staying with her. And that will lead to other things like cheating. It's a tough choice you have to make but remember that you can't negotiate attraction.
/r/seduction10/09/24 01:55 PM
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Of course but that doesn't mean they don't exist.
/r/seduction06/09/24 02:38 AM
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You are right and it is key regardless of height. But we have to be real and agree short guys have a disadvantage in dating and in these times there is so much animosity towards them from men and women. Tall and more attractive guys are able to make more mistakes so he doesn't have to put in more effort than the shorter guy. I'm 5'6 and I can't tell you how many times I have heard from women that I would be the perfect guy for her if I was taller. There's no point in being hateful and bitter abo…
/r/seduction06/09/24 02:04 AM
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Yes short guys can get women but they have to be really really good at everything else like looks, body shape, charisma, social skills and status, and money helps too but it's not necessary. A tall good looking guy that sucks with women is most likely bad at talking to women and probably has no game at all. A short guy that is good with women and has everything going for him will be rejected for his height or he could just not be her type and that's ok. It's just how it is and to say it has lite…
/r/seduction06/09/24 01:09 AM
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I'm not trying to be an ass but if everything else is going for him and he could talk to women and he doesn't mention it, it could possibly be the reason.
/r/seduction06/09/24 12:58 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:15 PM
1

Great advice! Thanks!
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:06 PM
1

This and we all including myself tend to forget this.
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:14 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? Where did I say that I'm misleading anyone? I'm asking for advice and not venting if you even cared to read what I wrote.
/r/seduction05/09/24 04:41 PM
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I don't want to be misleading. What's a good way to say or convey I'm looking for something casual?
/r/seduction05/09/24 02:26 AM
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It's not really creating a moment persé but you should learn to observe and use your surroundings to make a moment feel more natural. Like saying how you don't like the spot you're in so you would feel better and more comfortable if you moved closer to her etc. A way you can touch her during a story is telling a story where something happened to you that involved you being touched or hit and then demonstrating it to her by doing some light touching. Also if you're sitting next to her you can rea…
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:33 PM
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Take it as a lesson and not a failure. And also when there isn't a perfect time to make a move, you have to create one. Create an opportunity out of a circumstance and lead the way. You could have done something after she made the gay comment. You could have said something like it's impossible because I wouldn't be able to do this then made a move on her or something along the lines of that. Don't be hard or down on yourself because getting to a third date is still great progress.
/r/seduction02/09/24 11:27 PM
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This can't be a real post. You have to be totally socially inept that it's just plain pathetic because women will let a tall guy with model looks get away with just about anything.
/r/seduction02/09/24 09:56 PM
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I mean what else are we supposed to do? 🤷
/r/seduction01/09/24 02:42 AM
10

Just curious, is there anything that would make you instantly reject a guy when he first approaches you?
/r/seduction01/09/24 02:38 AM
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Lots of alcohol and lowered standards.
/r/seduction01/09/24 02:18 AM
1

It's true. Being better looking helps you get away with being more sexual fast but it isn't the only way.
/r/seduction26/08/24 05:52 PM
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I think the guys that say looks are the most important thing are guys that can actually talk to women and get second dates but they don't get much chances because they get rejected because of their looks.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:49 PM
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It's mostly a numbers game for average guys. You're just going to have to keep meeting women and going on dates until you find one that also wants that and is open to it. And it's best to let them know some time early on what you want. And it will help your chances if you lower your standards a little.
/r/seduction25/08/24 10:52 PM
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Make a fake profile and wear a disguise 😂
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:55 AM
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This is what my thoughts are exactly. It's possible but just a little harder.
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:28 PM
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What you want is what players want. You're going to have to learn how to be one.
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:23 PM
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You would have better chances with women in their 20s. Not all but most women in their 30s already had their fun and wild phase and are looking for something more stable and serious.
/r/seduction21/08/24 09:23 PM
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I don't understand why you feel the need to do better at night game when you're doing well at everything else. Just don't focus on gaming girls when you're out at night and be outcome independent. Is there anything noticeable that your friends are doing when you're out with them?
/r/seduction21/08/24 02:12 AM
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If it's easy to get then I don't want it lol
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:48 PM
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How do you exactly show it in your behavior? A woman will pick a hot guy almost every time if has the choice so does it matter much?
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:59 PM
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I'm not saying you can't be successful but it is much harder to pull and most of the time it's not with the girls you actually want.
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:23 PM
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