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I’m in my mid 20s in DC, where tons of “young highly educated professional men” reside. Their egos are so big they don’t have space in their pea brains to respect woman. Dates to them are just ways to brag about their jobs and get laid. DC is notoriously horrendous place for anyone who dates men (gay scene here is vibrant but extremely toxic). It’s bc DC is the seat of political power, and any White House intern with a Twitter thinks they’re vital to the functioning of our democracy. It’s exhaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:03 PM
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Saw that video too and made me turn my phone off and think about all the times I was used as a flesh light ….. 😑
/r/askFDS01/05/21 02:10 PM
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I was prepping for a guest lecture at a prestigious university on the topic of my career. A man I very briefly dated told me he wanted to check my slides because he was “worried” I wasn’t going to be able to present my area of expertise well, and he’s more qualified bc the VC firm he works for “builds teams” in companies so he knows more about my career than I do🙄 Honey I was personally asked to be a guest lecturer at a graduate level course while in my early 20s. I don’t need your mansplaining …
/r/askFDS19/04/21 05:15 PM
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I understand that “sex work is empowering” is rooted in the desire to destigmatize sex, and to normalize women enjoying sex. But the likes of Bella Thorne and other semi-celebrities going on onlyfans bc they’re “empowered”?! Most people who fall in to sex work do it for SURVIVAL and are extremely vulnerable and destitute. Onlyfans girls and libfems who push sex empowerment are normalizing sex work for already wealthy and mostly white social media stars are erasing the survival sex workers who ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:44 PM
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I had an Uber driver years ago who picked me up from my college campus to take me to the airport. He spent the whole ride telling me not to drink/do drugs and to respect my body. Why did he feel compelled to tell me that? Because he used to never drink , but then his wife wanted to celebrate something with a glass of wine, and when he got a lil buzzed he admitted to cheating on her. As a result she divorced him and he didn’t blame himself, he blamed his WIFE for giving him A GLASS OF WINE. I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:18 PM
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I’ve managed to learn how to reject a guy’s sexual advantages if I’m not feeling it, but literally every single time i end up crying when I’m alone afterwards because it takes so much emotional labor if they prod you with “why not” and “cmon” and “that’s unfair”
/r/askFDS05/04/21 01:00 PM
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I know it distracts from the point but not only men in “high income western countries” watch porn. India, Morocco, and Iraq are some of the highest consumers of porn. Conservative patriarchal standards make it so women tend to be more modest and celibate , they are also heinously objectified. They shoot themselves in the foot by pushing traditional values but then not actually having any culturally acceptable sexual avenues - so men turn to porn and sex workers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:50 AM
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Same thing has happened to me - woke up with him inside me. When he finished with my half asleep limp body (I was too tired to push him off me) I said “you know I was sleeping right “ and he said “haha me too”. My response was “how could I have possibly agreed to that if I was sleeping ?!” And he thought it was a joke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:58 PM
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I told a man who kept touching me inappropriately that continuing to touch me without my consent was going the direction of sexual assault. He got all huffy and retorted “ how dare you say that, my ex was r*ped!” . Like …. Ok so you’re just gonna steal this traumatic experience your ex had just so you can “prove” to me you’re not capable of sexual assault ? That’s not empathy that’s manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:13 PM
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Im sorry … in what world would a $10k salary cover the costs of pregnancy and child birth, rent, and food, and other personal costs ?! Does this man care at all the well-being of his child ?! Just because he isn’t the one with the womb, doesn’t mean he isn’t responsible for what’s growing inside of it ! A woman’s body goes through incredible trauma to bear a child - that is payment enough for her. He could give up his whole salary to her and still wouldn’t be sufficient compensation for the work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:46 PM
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The Saturday Night Live episode from a couple weeks ago had a skit on how weird the concept of bachelor parties are: https://youtu.be/iNeJ6jyo4hk It’s just …. Getting weird boners with your dude friends ? That’s the tradition?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:14 PM
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My first reaction was that this has to be a troll. Or an 11 year old boy who’s never talked to a girl. This is REAL?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:55 PM
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Agreed - I’m breaking things off with him tomorrow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:00 AM
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My younger step brother was given a college counselor to write his college apps, only got in to college because mother had a connection on the board of said university, and got a 1.7 GPA his first semester (he claimed he failed intro to art bc the professor was subjective - no honey, you just didn’t do the work). His mother literally called his English professor to request an extension on an essay. A COLLEGE PROFESSOR. Despite this behavior , he refused to drive my Honda that I drove all through…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:02 PM
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Last night I was with the man I've been dating for the past few months. He asks me "have you ever been with a woman" and I said "never, and I don't have a desire to, why do you ask?". He responded with something along the lines of "well you always talk about how women are better than men and how awful men are, you are a big feminist activist, you talk about how beautiful women are..." Honey if I had any ounce of gay in me I would not be anywhere near a man. My biology failed me and therefore I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:02 PM
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Sometimes when I broach the subject of my experience being catcalled, some men AND WOMEN respond with "They're complimenting you! What are you so worked up about?". I'm worked up because when I get cat called, I feel like i'm doing something wrong. I feel embarrassed to be in public and that I shouldn't be there. I've been cat called at 7am going to work, or in the afternoon heading to the gym, or enjoying an evening walk with my sister. It happens all the time, in all conditions, no matter what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:45 PM
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My gold standard for how my partner should treat me was my very first boyfriend, who explicitly did not want blow jobs and always asked for consent before we had sex (even after over a year of dating, he always asked if it was ok to take his clothes off). When I first started dating after him, I was struck by the men who’d treat BJs as mandatory, and never ask permission for sex (to them, consent is “implied”. Slippery slope if you ask me). Anyways, I love giving oral but only on my terms. If th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:22 PM
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