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Hi! You sound like me! I'm also pretty shy, tbh. My friends jokingly call me the Extroverted Introvert - once I get to know people, I have no issue talking and having a good time, but I'm still super introverted at the core. It really helps to have a pleasant face. I don't necessarily mean in terms of attractiveness, but if you're like me, you might want to work on fixing any RBF tendencies and looking a bit more pleasant in public. Have a light smile on your face, it goes a long way in becoming…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 04:30 PM
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Yeah, there are just some people who can't fathom the idea of different beliefs and practices. I totally get your issue though! For me, I'm always so sad that I usually agree with the more liberal ones (in some form) about politics, but never about anything. It's just a mess, lol. Glad to meet other RP witches! Hope you find someone who's right for you ❤
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 01:25 AM
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Oh yeah. Personally, I still find a lot of spiritual value in Christianity, but a lot of very religious folks have a hard time with it. My SO is more agnostic than anything, so I lucked out there. But I found it to be kind of difficult. My man is not really a stereotypical RP man, but he has those positive alpha/beta mix traits without being into RP as a lifestyle, so that was good enough for me. If you want an RP aware and RP positive man (if that makes sense), it might be more difficult. Edit:…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 12:55 AM
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Hey! Thanks for noticing the name - yeah, I actually am! We should totally chat, because I definitely get what you're saying. It's hard to click with other witchy types because of it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 11:35 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 07:58 PM
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Some of them were personal, but others were standard issues that tend to come up in relationships. Wanting to spend more time together is a pretty good example, I think. Before, I would just say "we need to do xyz together because you don't want to spend time with me." And naturally, that wasn't received especially well. But learning to be like, "I feel distant from you, I would love to spend some time together soon" is more honest and allows for us both to figure out what works.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 06:49 PM
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Loving this!! Wishing you and your lil fam all the best ❤ And yeah, the Independent Woman phase was hard on me too. I tried so hard to do it all, and really burnt myself out doing it. I wish I had taken the time to slow down and figure out what I actually wanted from life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 06:35 PM
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I'm going through the new friends stage at the moment. Unfortunately, my old friends just didn't like the changes I was making, even though I am physically and mentally healthier than I ever was, and decided to blame my SO for all of this. Never mind that I started the process a fair amount of time before he came along. Inspiring story, though! It's amazing how implementing some of these ideas can really change your life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 12:44 PM
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Thank you!! And I'm loving this question. Before, I would swing back and forth between being the bossy type and being ultra meek (but naturally, still cranky if a partner didn't magically read my mind). Dumb, right? Now, I give my opinion on topics when it is warranted and/or asked for, but I let my SO know that I trust him to make the best decision. Learning to let go and trust is a big thing for me. I used to have sex in search of commitment. Now I'm honest about needing a certain level of com…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 12:05 PM
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Every suggestion here is absolutely amazing! I'm in a smaller space, so I don't have a designated guest room. We have an office with a couch, and a pull out couch in the living room. So for us, our hospitality is less geared toward the hotel perfect guest room and more toward just making sure people are comfortable. • Fresh, cool bottled waters nearby. • Fresh, clean blankets and pillows. • Some snacks. • Extra phone chargers. • Clean towels, spare toiletries, etc. I am a firm believer in keepin…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 02:33 PM
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Both 25, together 2 years, living together. Depends on the week and how work is treating everyone, but I'd say usually 2-3x a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. I generally initiate more. I have this weird thing about equating the frequency of his initiation and the frequency of sex with how loved I am or how attractive he finds me. We've talked about it, and it honestly just comes down to he's tired from working a lot. It's not a slight against me, even if it feels like it. edit: a typo. Who…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:01 AM
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This just gave me so much peace. I've been struggling with this a lot lately, and this put a smile on my face and makes me happy to see my captain later tonight!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 02:58 AM
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Casual lurker turned poster here. So hi all! This month's goal is to get back into working out. I am definitely overweight and I was making a lot of progress before the past few months messed me up. My SO and I have been cooped up and eating out way more than we should. My steps I'm taking to achieve a healthier lifestyle include cooking at home more frequently, daily walks together, and morning yoga.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 04:50 PM
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