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ChatGPT. It’s super easy, you can give it context, tell it to utilize a certain persona, then hit send and let it work. I work with ChatGPT daily, for life and work. This is 100% AI content. Even ran it by my buddy who works heavily in ML. As for why, why not? It speeds up content creation. What’s funny is this guy almost zero prompted it. Those hyphens you see in excess are hardly used, especially in such a crazy amount, in normal writing. Also they’re extra long. I’m a mod on the red pill disc…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 04:33 PM
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AI slop, all the hyphens give it away.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 09:12 AM
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Good channel, and I hear ya. I found TRP through Seddit back over 10yrs ago. Then dived into reading tons of books about psyche, and also just became a d-bag to women. Overall I think this kid got a TON of good advice here haha. You can just tell how eager everyone in this community is to help out.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 02:38 AM
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Guys get too caught up overthinking it. If seeing her again and taking a shot is minimal investment, it fails, and you learn "oh she wasn't into me" then they'll gradually start to learn how to figure these situations out on their own and develop their emotional intelligence. Sometimes guys who are new misread the situation as well and go "fuck her she's not into me!" yet due to poor EQ lose out. Taking a "shot" isn't a drawn out process. It's you see her again, you say "hey let's go out" and if…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 12:44 AM
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The problem with the "there's this one girl" posts, even when posted by the author under the guise of "not giving a fuck" is that you do, indeed, give a fuck. Which is alright. Here's the short end of it - next time you see her in person again, chat her up, read her body language, and if she seems receptive - shoot. That's all there is to it. You can have some guy here write you a long response trying to decipher all the minutiae over the internet through your short post, but it will lead nowher…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/23 01:07 AM
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You say this yet have written an entire novella about this topic on this very post. You’re the one who is overthinking it my friend. Your last sentence says it all. You don’t have experience in these areas, which is fine, but you shouldn’t be giving advice on the topic.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 06:29 PM
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Playing hard to get doesn’t work like this in the club. I’ve lost out many a time by not being pushy/assertive enough. This passive approach seldom works in those environments due to a multitude of factors. Your SMV is all that carries weight, and if you’re going to a decent spot there’s likely to be another guy just as good looking as you are that’s willing to actually go the limit to get laid. Walking away saying “Oh she’ll come back” is exactly how you lose out in most cases.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 07:21 AM
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I actually like this response. I will consider it. I've already moved and live in a large city in the US making a large sum of cash, away from family. (Money is irrelevant.) This year and the next couple I will be traveling a lot. I have a month long trip to the Balkans next month, then end of year a 1-2 mo. trip to Mexico or Colombia (in plans). Bali is next on my tentative list of places. Another issue is I do own many firearms and enjoy having them. It's hard to give that up. But we're slowly…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 02:43 PM
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Curious to hear more. Spending next month visiting Balkans
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 07:33 PM
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Let's start by addressing why some of us, despite knowing first-hand the truth in your post, choose to live in the US. For many our families are here. I will not leave them and forego my relations with them. There are some who choose to run from the problem, but as the US falls into decline lashing out against the 2nd and 3rd most powerful nations in the world (hint: it won't go well for us in the long run), we will swing back in the coming years to a conservative nation. Why? Because times will…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 04:23 PM
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Limited pool of women. Even the most extensive circles tend to have only a handful of hot single girls to sleep with. You can meet far more in a night out at a busy club or through a stacked OLD profile with relative ease. Doesn't hurt to have a great social circle, and I'm sure many guys here would benefit tremendously in numerous ways outside of women if they worked on cultivating good relationships in their lives.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 11:55 PM
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That, or the title. Went for a click-bait approach, and that could incentivize scrolling and then instantly down-voting. May repost to TRP.Red. But as long as this lands with a few people, I'm content. The golden days of 2012 TRP are long past.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 05:30 PM
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Appreciate it. I've been a part of the community over 10 yrs and tend to use other mediums to share my knowledge. Considering making this more common, your comment serves as an excellent beacon of encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 05:15 PM
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I agree with gaming everyone. I'd say I also agree with the notion of cold approaching guys... If you are very socially awkward and get anxiety talking to anyone. If you're a man looking to make male friends, the easiest way is common interests. Gym is a great place to start by asking a guy for a spot. BJJ has also been a solid place for me to make friends, talking after class then taking initiative to invite people out. While you're out, chatting up those around, be it at a bar or a concert. On…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 05:13 PM
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Always text for logistics. This rule is in place because most guys (especially early on) will blow it by texting dumb uncouthed jokes. Then once they get better with women, argue that you can’t text for anything outside of logistics. Not opening up emotionally with women. Men often treat women like their mothers, hence why the above is good early. This isn’t necessarily a TRP rule, but many men will assume they can’t open up at all to women. Once you know what you should and shouldn’t share, bei…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 01:30 AM
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If a woman is outright insulting you, she's not shit testing you. It's not something you overcome, you get over it and move on.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/23 07:23 PM
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The issue is that many men here are so fixated on SMV that it causes body dysmorphia. I have been coaching a guy who is an absolute Chad (looks wise), yet is so mentally fucked by Instagram/TRP/other bullshit that he thinks he has to be the perfect Chad meme to slay. This is something I've noticed about multitudes of men I've helped from this community. The verdict? Obviously looks fucking matter, but attraction is more than looks alone. Many things contribute to your SMV. Status is a HUGE one. …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 02:38 AM
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Written is very much still here. Join us on the Discord.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 12:17 AM
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Gonna step in, as all of 2020 was a trainwreck for me regarding ego and self-image. 2018 and 2019, at the time, were the times when I was at peak SMV. My thoughts when I found out I was balding were similar "I'll never get laid" yada yada. It wasn't until February of this year that I said "Fuck it." I stopped taking finasteride, minoxidil, and RU58841. Stopped thinking that Kevin Mann was right and that'd I'd be a bald loser if I "gave up" and ultimately, I quit reading self-deprecating posts on…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 02:42 AM
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As someone who has lived in Seattle for only 7 months, during a pandemic mind you, I've managed to make a shit ton of friends. Get out more. Talk to strangers. Get rejected. I've had guys here stand me up, I get over it. Shit happens. Plus there are a lot of transplants to the area. The Seattle freeze is only for the autistic natives that are too afraid to make basic eye contact with another human being .
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:47 AM
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DHT does stabilize fast, but as someone on finasteride I question it daily. Plus being bald isn't so bad. I can grow a bad ass beard, style it, and have other shit going. Really it's all in your head. I wouldn't deter anyone from finasteride, but fact is, it will lower your libido. Period. People need to look up what DHT does post-puberty. Literally affects your sex drive.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 05:31 AM
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Still slaying at day game by approaching in open markets, mask down. Getting great responses. Living in a very liberal city in the US. You get scorned and odd looks , but ultimately day game still is a thing. Run it. Women are hungry for it, I've literally been told this first hand.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 09:02 PM
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Ironically I ended a relationship like this early summer. Girl I met at a show, started as a fling, evolved into well, a relationship. My advice? Sounds like you weren't with her long. Also sounds like you began as a fling . Odds are high she was fucking other guys during that phase. I wouldn't sweat it. Life is on the upswing, with 2021 looking more promising. I'd also advise not to date girls you have flings with, without properly vetting them. Doesn't matter how stable the family is, you coul…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 07:42 PM
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I've dabbled in the idea of running marketing campaigns for upcoming OF girls. Idea was basically using TrafficJunkie to promote their OF through in-stream ads. Pretty simple, would work quite effectively. Could toss this in with using Snapchat for adverting. I stopped looking into it after I pulled a lawyer and cosmetic surgeon as clients, so the bar has raised. Still think it is an untapped niche (marketing for OF girls) and the only competitors I've seen in the area were very novice marketing…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 04:33 AM
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+1 to OP for creativity, boofing pizzas never even crossed my mind!
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 02:23 AM
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What a low quality post, it looks like absolute trash. Even the grammar looks like total bullshit, at least add more value to the community than some garbage where you ramble on. Is this about TRP or women? Is it about not caring about anything at all? There's just no solid takeaway here that I see other than an angry post saying don't give a fuck about what other people think. Not that I disagree, but your presentation and style really makes this content come off as low-value. Put some more eff…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 02:08 AM
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I had a feeling. It's been hard to find. If you noticed, it's an archived link.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 06:22 AM
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Mr V's Guide to Texting
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 04:25 AM
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Perspective is key. I personally shoot to approach one hot girl a day with no desired outcome. Pickup isn't my main focus, and it shouldn't be the main focus for really anyone. The key takeaway is that as biological beings, our imperative is to seek to reproduce. You cannot ignore that necessary aspect of your essence. Being good/bad isn't the point of the post. The point is it's all a numbers game. This concept has not helped me just with women, but with my career as well. If men reading this w…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 11:35 PM
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It depends on your intentions. If you're not leading girls on, if you're up front with them about what you want, then it's all a part of the process. It's better men spend more time deliberately practicing game then saying "I'll just not try-hard and do it when I do it." Because like any skill, that equates to you tending to be bad at it, and not jump when you should, say at the grocer or during those errands you mentioned. Plus during this process, who's to say you don't meet someone you find s…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 08:43 AM
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My club/bar/night game has been shit recently since that's been banned where I live basically all damn year!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 08:23 PM
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If you go about life expecting things from people you'll always be disappointed. Let go of the ego. The day I stopped expecting shit from anyone was the day things got better. You do shit because you want to do it, if you want to sit on your ass on Reddit during this then be my guest.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 02:59 AM
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Would you like me to edit it and provide some links to places people across the states can volunteer? I was trying not to virtue signal too much, but I personally found out about the Medical Reserve Corps today and signed up. There are others like the Red Cross, Local Food Banks, etc. Emotions aren't necessarily a weak thing, unless they control you. People talk tough, then this comes around and what? They go into hiding. They close down. They refuse to help. The generations before us were calle…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 02:53 AM
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Sales skills transfer to many things. To me sales isn't about being your stereotypical used car dealer trying to pawn off something worthless for your own gain, but being empathetic and really trying to provide value. When you seek to provide value, it changes things. It took me so long due to lack of discipline. I've been disciplined in consistency in some areas of life (the gym for instance), but lacked the discipline to go work all day in the OR learning new things, then come back and do cold…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 03:24 AM
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I didn't until after posting.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 03:21 AM
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Commenting in regards to the title that is a bit misleading. Sure, you may "get rich quick" but I'll say, I've been selling SEO services on the side and spent the first 2 years making absolutely nothing. Cold calls, meetings, failed demos. If you think getting flaked on for a date is annoying, imagine having that happen when money is on the line and "you swore!!" they were ready to buy. Now my "side-hustle" grosses me $850/mo. I am in charge of marketing for a cbd company and a law marketing co …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 02:30 AM
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Thanks for the reply, I'd say I agree. Why put yourself into a relationship if you're not going to remain faithful? Just keep spinning plates and stay single. It is most definitely a lack of abundance that drives men to cheat, because they "sucker" a woman into staying with them while attempting to reel in new puss on the regular. That's my two-cents as well.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 12:56 AM
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What are the consequences if you fuck a random girl at the club and your SO doesn't ever find out and it doesn't phase you? Genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 12:42 AM
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A quote from Doors of Perception by Aldous Huxley "By its very nature every embodied spirit is doomed to suffer and enjoy in solitude. Sensations, feelings, insights, fancies—all these are private and, except through symbols and at second hand, incommunicable. We can pool information about experiences, but never the experiences themselves. From family to nation, every human group is a society of island universes.” Loneliness is what we all must endure, every moment shared with another; always fl…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 03:58 AM
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Some of us simply lose the gusto. I reached similar numbers as OP over the course of 10 years of lifting. My main goal now is simply to get bigger, but I've no desire to hit 500 squat, 600 deadlift, or 315 bench (I was tantalizingly close to all 3 goals). Being real, my biggest gym goals are in the kitchen. Now my time is occupied by my career, and I've began to take up scuba diving and snowboarding. Lifting will always be an integral part of my life, especially since it allows me to embark on n…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 02:30 AM
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You are. haha Feel free to PM if you need help in the future. I was at the same place you were, and still struggle with loneliness at times (alongside every other human).
/r/askTRP30/08/19 08:05 PM
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Let's clarify first what "being alone" entails. First and foremost, when I'm alone my mind is rarely focused on my loneliness. If I drift that way, I begin to pre-occupy my mind with productive things. Being alone is viewed as my time of growth, not my time of pain. Also, in a philosophical sense, loneliness is an ever present fear for all human beings. There's no sense in running from the inevitable. Next, my term of "being alone" refers more to going out alone. I'm comfortable going anywhere b…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:49 PM
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No prob, and don't shy away from beer! I used to work out with a guy named Dennis Cornelius. If you look him up, he's won the USAPL and is a BEAST. Dude always has a couple Coors Lights after tearing it up at the gym.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:42 PM
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It will effect you. I'm getting old though at 25, and I did have my fun. If you're going to do it, space out those drinks with plenty of water (like you appear to be doing), get some Gatorade, and be sure to eat plenty. You could also try calling it quits around 2 or 3am. If I'm not mistaken, for our bodies, around ~4am is the time where most muscle is synthesized. Plus, depending on your age & where you live, I've used marijuana as a great way to "feel good" without having severe side-effects. …
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:23 PM
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As the top comment says, you're overthinking this. I have no IG, and my FB is literally the same profile pic I use for my LinkedIn. The only social media I use effectively is SnapChat. Which is my favorite because there's no parameters any who follow me can use to judge my "social status" other than what I choose to allow them to see. This has increased to the point where once I get a girl's SnapChat, I've been able to turn them from kind of interested, into fuck buddies. How do I do this? Well …
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:16 PM
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It negatively effects protein synthesis.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:11 PM
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Try not to fall into the category of people who stick to their old high school cliques. First and foremost, I highly suggest getting comfortable being alone. This is how I've made a lot of solid friendships. When seeing me about, I'm typically alone. It was like this for a long time, until I started to develop frame. Once you have frame, you will interact with people as you see fit. Regularly do I have conversations with people at the gas station, gym, market, concerts, on the street, etc with n…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:03 PM
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I've personally stopped getting drunk on a regular basis. There's no magical number I place on when I choose to get fucked up, but it isn't often. Now does this mean I don't do it ever? No. But not once a week. But, if by "going out once a week" you're referring to casually having a few beers, not getting trashed, and being responsible - it won't hurt you.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:56 PM
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As men, our strongest moves are to opt out of the game or play the game & win at it. The first is MGTOW, which I'm not too experienced with. Correct me if I'm wrong, but by opting out of the game & not getting laid, it sounds like a loser mentality. Now if that's not the case, then I get it. I'll also state that if you're a guy who isn't spinning plates, you may have to take this stance while trying to improve your SMV and fill your pipeline with fuckable females. This isn't wrong to do, but do …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 05:00 PM
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This is how I begin undertaking a project. Chaos is self-organizing, and by doing something without knowing anything about it, you will slowly start to learn. This process isn't entirely mindless, because as you spend time doing whatever task it is you embark on, with time you'll naturally devise your own systems of doing it that work for you, along with methods for preparing for more difficult challenges along the way. The exception is in preparing for certain things that can be rather dangerou…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 05:42 AM
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In Bang! by Roosh he doesn't discourage buying women drinks. This is typically done as a way to lead them across the venue and build compliance. You don't have to buy drinks, but personally it hasn't hurt me. I never open with a drink offer, and I only do it now if they seem interested and comply to come with me. I've gotten laid quite doing this. It's all about where you come from. If you are giving off a beta provider vibe, then yes, they'll think that. If you're just a guy wanting to have fun…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 03:13 AM
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In Bang! by Roosh he doesn't discourage buying women drinks. This is typically done as a way to lead them across the venue and build compliance. You don't have to buy drinks, but personally it hasn't hurt me. I never open with a drink offer, and I only do it now if they seem interested and comply to come with me. I've gotten laid quite doing this. It's all about where you come from. If you are giving off a beta provider vibe, then yes, they'll think that. If you're just a guy wanting to have fun…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 03:11 AM
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I'm an independent sales contractor. The US tax system actually favors you if you file and form an LLC. I happen to be native American, so I have healthcare in most states. I lose out on a 401k but I can open up my own investment portfolio. Currently I'm selling for 2 Medical companies, and can continue to pick up auxillary lines as long as they don't compete. I'm also working on a website development & online marketing company. Currently I have only 2 clients, but it's something. You won't know…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 10:18 PM
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I noticed a few jabs at money. The poor man and the rich man can be equally the slave to money. Let me be real, I came from poverty. Literally grew up in rural Oklahoma in a trailer. Recently I've started to make money. $40k/yr increase in a few months, and it looks to keep going. What will I tell you? Well first off, it took having everything lined up. I lifted. I wasn't afraid to go after what I desired. I wasn't a bitch. Now don't get me wrong, at one point I was, but I had to overcome it. Ye…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 01:30 PM
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Excellent point. I agree with you wholeheartedly on that one.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 07:21 PM
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Kind of curious how long you used Tinder. I deleted the app, but in a little over a month's worth of use I had around ~80 matches. OP here may be a bit more well-versed on this subject if he's utilized it for a longer duration. While Tinder isn't optimal, it doesn't hurt as a passive way to get women. As long as you're using it as a low-investment app and aren't checking it incessantly throughout the day, I don't see any issue. The only "up-front" cost is essentially setting up a good profile. W…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 07:07 PM
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What is the real value here? Taking your two examples we see: (1) Wealth (2) Limited Reproductive Capabilities What are the deeper meanings of such? Is a rich man truly valuable if that wealth doesn't in turn serve to create? Is a woman truly valuable if she does not serve to take care and nurture that child? There's more to this puzzle. We're spitting half-truths here in a time when many men are lost and struggle to find a purpose in their lives. Men are the ones who construct these societies, …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 06:05 PM
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Who's saving those women and children from the sinking boat? Men. A man must work to become valuable, but once a man attains value he is indispensable.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 05:29 AM
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This post really helped to firmly cement a feeling I've had. Recently I've began to view my encounters with women as merely an encounter with female energy. At first I'd meet a girl, maybe we'd fuck, maybe we'd make out all night at a show. Then it'd end. Everything seemed amazing, and I'd keep focusing on why she did what she did. Change it up, and view the interaction with the collective that is human female energy and you find yourself appreciating it more. You become thankful for all the sex…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 01:36 AM
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Recommended reading for this sub should be The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson. Keying in on the portion of your post relating to "practice", the slight edge relates to how a seemingly small thing can have tremendous effect over the course of one's life. I've applied the slight edge to game, lifting, eating, business, etc. Over time systems will begin to self organize, but you have to begin by making those small incremental "steps" towards the goals you desire. Trust me on this, ingrain a small but po…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 08:18 PM
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I feel you, I think the opposite. Then again I'm at the point where I can talk to girls throughout my day. I also live in a place with a high concentration of hot ass girls (college campus). Plus my career is also time consuming, so being proactive spontaneously and going for it seems to work for me. To each his own, whatever works for you, well, works for you. Personally just got back from a Tinder date and while the chick wasn't half-bad, it was another one of those "hmm, you looked better in …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 05:00 AM
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I'm not opposed to it. I prefer cold approach as it pushes me more in terms of personal growth. You can use Tinder passively, but if that's your main method of approach, then that's you. As for myself, I find more to gain by having to face to face interactions. Why can't a person use both? It's not a this vs that argument.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 12:30 AM
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Intermediate actually comes pretty quick. After about 6 months of consistent lifting, you begin to taper out. The best way to really gauge it, for me, is based on strength. Once you stop getting huge gains and hit a plateau, you can either reset your beginner's routine or move onto something else. If you reset 1-2x and see little/no gains, then you're for sure at that range.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 01:10 AM
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Depending on your level, here are some suggestions. Starting off, obviously 5/3/1 or Starting Strength. Intermediate I ran the Texas Method. Didn't enjoy that, then found Jonnie Candito and used his programs. Recently I've gone over to Mike Israetel and purchased his 22-wk program. Have yet to follow it through, life and shit came up. So I'm re-doing a 6 week cycle of Candito's program before going back into it. Both programs offer a lot of flexibility, and I can't say I follow them verbatim. I'…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 04:19 AM
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Thanks brotha. I recently moved to a college town (~30k students), so I'm sure I could find one easily. Again, much appreciated. May have saved my back.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 04:04 AM
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Any routines or videos you'd recommend? I did powerlifting for a long time. Luckily didn't fuck up my body too much despite pushing some serious numbers. I still lift heavy now, but put more emphasis on volume. For mobility I use a foam roller, do a few dynamic movements, then warm up with the bar & lower weight until I hit my working sets.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 02:09 AM
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Where are you meeting these women? If it's online, that makes complete sense and should be disregarded. I check my Tinder once a day to do my 5 daily "super-likes" then move on. No point wasting more time on it than necessary. As for matches, arrange for a meet-up somewhere public, if they ignore you then no biggie. They may have been a troll account for all you fuckin' know. As many have laid out, the dating market online is trash. Even if you are in the top 20% of men. Why? Because compared to…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 10:15 PM
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25 different women I've slept with.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 10:12 PM
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As a 25 year old, I've recently ramped up my game. Biggest thing I remember was way back before my n-count was even at 10, I read a rule here that you should fuck around 25 girls before you consider settling. I've lost count now, I'm not slaying as much as I'd like, but being at 25+ lays now, I see why. What having sex with a lot of women does it really free up any potential oneitis. I don't get stuck up on girls near as much as I used too. Trust me here, I still get rejected plenty. But the thi…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 09:20 PM
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I don't remember much of what exactly was said. Context was key. We met at a concert, literally just me and her there alone (I had lost my friends). She chilled with me, told me about breaking up with her bf, how he's a loser, grinded on me, grabbed my dick and would compliment it, and so on, so forth. I knew she was DTF. Hell we were going to her hotel room (it was her last night in town, she moved from across the country to where I'm at, didn't work with her bf, so her bf's dad bought her the …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 09:55 PM
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Probably once I feel I've gotten to where I want to be with women. I've recently moved to a college town with a large university. I can walk out of my apartment and be guaranteed to see hot chicks in about 5 minutes time. Once I start cold approaching more in places that are tough for me, you'll see one. Gaming at bars, clubs, concerts, festivals, etc has always been easy because I feel there's a fair amount of social impetus, so it's much easier for both parties involved.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 09:53 PM
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I feel as I've learned to be more masculine with women, I've grown closer to the them. There's something about really making love to a woman and evoking those inner, primal feelings. If a women shit tests you, it's exciting as hell. I had some girl a week ago I took to a hotel room from a concert look me in the eyes and go "All you want to do is fuck me, it turns me off." Then had her taking it and loving every minute of it 20 minutes later. It's all about dominant frame and becoming the man the…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 05:41 AM
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I've had moderate success with Tinder, but here's the catch: Don't give a fuck about Tinder. It's a dating app. I'd say I have a high SMV (fit, good looks, high paying job) and I get ignored by most of my matches with my first message. Again, it's the internet. You have to completely detach from it. I do my 5 super likes every other day then forget about it. If you're a guy looking to get laid. Go lift. Then focus on improving weak aspects of your life, and most importantly - approach. It never …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 07:36 PM
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Just a fair warning: I've lost a handful of girls I really liked by having the "fuck first date" mentality. Keep things in context. Pull her from the bar to your place? Fuck. Met her on tinder and netflix at your place? Fuck. Grabbing your dick? Fuck. But aside from that, keep it chill. I've had my best dates with women when I'm relaxed and have no goal in mind. Those are the ones that usually wind up turning out the best...
/r/seduction02/12/18 01:38 AM
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This post is good for guys who are new to game and need to be constantly hitting up new girls to get used to interacting with women and getting their dicks wet. Hell I was very black & white drop a bitch in an instant to begin. Glad I was. I'm far less emotionally invested now... But that being said... For me, I'll message bitches quite a bit. I used to not do text game, and you can always be a guy goin for "fuck ya" girls, but you'll miss out on a lot of pussy. Call it Beta, but fact is, it's t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 07:28 AM
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I've met some of my best friends at the gym over the years, and the vast majority I had to engage first. Small talk is key. Curious about a lift someone is performing? Ask them about it. Wondering if someone is using a piece of equipment? Ask a nearby person. Need to get your squats in but they're all taken? Ask to work in with someone (this one is great). Interesting game on the TV? Make a comment to someone you see who is equally interested. It's all about small talk. I could go on, but those …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 03:37 PM
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For me it was based on who i knew. I only did a few shows: Ludacris. Zeds Dead, Desiigner... But i worked out regularly with a group of guys in their 40s who invited me to join them. If i hadnt of moved 2k miles away I'm sure id still be doing it as a side job. Life is about who you know. Im now in an apprenticeship for a $100k/yr career all because i met one dude who liked me. Back to bouncing, context is Im 5'11 170lbs. I did deadlift well over 500 at the time, and they knew it, so that helped…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 05:56 AM
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I'm with you here. I do have a Facebook I never post on that I use to contact old highschool friends (I'm 24 & moved far away). Barely use snapchat, it's a more "fun" way of texting for me, & no instagram. Honestly I ask the girl for their number, if they offer me Instagram/FB I don't budge & go inform them that I don't use social media often, but that we should totally hang. Tends to work, just have to stand your ground.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:12 PM
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Yes, but in very few circumstances do I see it to be beneficial for men to heavily isolate themselves. Everything is contextual in life. Trust me, I've had psuedo-monk modes where I only lifted weights, studied for my classes, and played video games. No social life at all. In the end it really took me back in not only gaming women, but social interactions with men. Unless you are someone who has some serious work that needs to be addressed, you need to be regularly speaking with and building rel…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 05:27 AM
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I won't really partake in a monk mode due to LAW 18: Do not build fortresses to protect yourself, isolation is dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 08:36 AM
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Get off Reddit, Facebook, stop watching TV, I could go on. Politics used to bother me, but since I've decided to make a few changes, I rarely deal with the bs. The people who usually complain about politics are typically the ones who are most engaged in them to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 06:48 AM
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Spot on. I'd say I'm a pretty boy, while it can be nice, it definitely leads exactly to what you're saying. Looks are extremely important, and while I wouldn't advise any cosmetic surgery (unless you're horrendously ugly), it is of the utmost importance to lift, eat well, dress nicely, and have good hygiene. That being said, I feel if a guy reading this has done the above for a solid year, & doesn't look like Quasimodo, then odds are he has weak game. Personally I can pull bitches, get makeouts,…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 12:31 AM
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From the article: Instead of worrying about things outside of your control, start planning for the contingency. Arrange for a plan B – the second pair of shoes – just in case. Always look for things that you can attack in the present moment! It's not saying planning ahead is bad, but that dwelling on things outside our realm of control is bad. That is over-thinking. Having goals, life plans, etc & back-up plans isn't "over-thinking" but merely being realistic. As for hurt, it's fine to feel the …
/r/seduction18/02/18 09:03 AM
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I agree. I think this can be dangerous advice for most men, because by fucking their ex they'll wind up like OP, and merely delay the inevitable. I'd much rather go & try to game a new broad as opposed to risking all the emotional pain that could come by getting attached to my ex once again.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 08:27 AM
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Life is what you want man. I've played both spectrums of the game. I wouldn't say it's inherently beta to desire an LTR after you've fucked some girls and feel you'd like to experience something more intimate and less vapid. Not to downplay being single and fucking bitches, that approach is far more exhilarating to me. The key is to have no needy traits going into an LTR. You do sacrifice a fair amount, and that does kill a bit of the spark. The sex becomes less exciting even if you really learn…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:10 PM
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I tried being open-minded and watching this, but I just can't. TRP to me isn't about hating women, but understanding their nature. From this I can look my girlfriend in the eyes, knowing in this moment I may mean the world to her, but simultaneously knowing that a week from now she could have another man balls deep inside her. Am I angry? No. It's life and I accept it. TRP has allowed me to look further into things such as meditation. Now I no longer fill my head with nonsense, but love my life …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 01:05 AM
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You're over-thinking this big time man. How much of yourself is vested in this? A lot it sounds. I suggest you start lifting, meditating, reading, and look into hobbies of interest. Anything to make your life have more meaning than whether or not this girl agrees. Case-in-point: she's an easy yes. Go and ask her, then find out if she's busy. You can arrange dates with girls at other times than the weekend. You'll even come to realize that girls who really are diggin you will make time to see you…
/r/seduction16/10/17 07:45 PM
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Then that makes it even more easy. They're blatantly wanting you to ask her out, so do it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:16 PM
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Her friends are gonna know regardless. This is a case where you have to pick one and go with it. There's no secret. Ask Jess out. It's that simple. If later down the line you want to hook up with her friends, this won't be a hindrance. If you continue to stall you'll wind up friendzoned by all three. Hell I'm talking to a girl whose sister I fucked and another whose friend I made out with in front of her and many others at a party. Women don't seem to care as much about if a guy has been with th…
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:11 PM
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Guess I dodged the bullet here. Grew up in a highly conservative state, most of my professors were conservatives. Top this with the fact that I was in a STEM field, making it pointless to bring up feminism when we're discussing subject matter such as stereochemistry or kinematics.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 05:48 PM
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Definitely not alone man. Just graduated college 10 months ago myself, focusing heavily on getting my debt paid off and landing a job in a career field I enjoy. Only social time is in the gym. Living with parents also, cheap as hell, and luckily they aren't too demanding. Of course the sacrifice was moving to a retirement town with a population of 40k, so I went from dating frivolously to nearly nothing. It's tough, a bit mundane at times, but getting our shit together will make our lives substa…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:11 AM
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You're being down-voted due to your lack of understanding of mental health. I take that you yourself may be new to weight training and should lift more. This is coming from an individual who has 8 years of training experience, 5 of which have been in powerlifting. To give you a quick understanding, here's a video of myself at my highest strength (in regards to lower body). Shit quality, whatever. Point is I was weighing 160lbs in this video and deadlifting 555lbs.... about 3 1/2 x my bodyweight.…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 04:55 AM
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Pro-tip for guys who are balding too: just shave the shit. See a lot of dudes who would look fine if they just got rid of the huge ass receding hairline that goes to the middle of their head and EMBRACED the baldness. Usually bald guys can rock a nice beard, so make that fucker fresh af.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:57 PM
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I definitely agree. Close male friends are more important than a good fuck, and overall can help increase your social status. Although can you elaborate on what you mean by wolf pack?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 03:29 AM
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The 23 year old me is going through what the 24 year old you went through. I've groomed myself for med school, only to realize when graduating with my med-bio degree at the top of the class that I don't want to be a well-paid slave. Not knocking doctors, but it's not for me. Now my mind is spinning with what to do, but I keep pushing forward. My foundation is strong: excellent body, diet is coming together, overall healthy habits. Fixing my style is my last hurdle. Then from there, what's left? …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:19 PM
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Holy mother of shit this fucking text wall is making my eyes bleed! For fuck's sake man, learn to space things out or nobody is gonna pay attention to what you're saying!
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:03 AM
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I've noticed a bit of what you've said myself. Once you place emphasis on collecting pics and vids of the cool shit you're doing, you begin to focus less on the experience and more on preserving it to show off to people who really won't care much at all about the pics (at least not longer than a minute).
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:56 PM
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Being that 1/3 of the world population is obese ((http://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(14)60460-8/abstract) also was front-page of Reddit), lifting and having a healthy body gives you a HUGE advantage over millions.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:03 AM
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If you base your choice on what you believe everyone thinks is the most "red pill" (coolest) major, then you're definitely not gonna make it. Recognize your own talents and interests, and act from there.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:12 PM
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Well the fact is that most guys on here are dealing with something, probably along the lines of what you are. If everyone began to say "fuck it" and post anyways, this sub would cease to be what it is. Concerning your post, I was there too. I dated a chick for 3 years, gorgeous girl. Second girl I had sex with (left a crazy ex), I was her first, so she was definitely into me. Everything was picture perfect, and we wrote each other regularly (we were unable to see one another often due to some co…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:22 AM
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Not being mean, but this is more oriented for askTRP as opposed to TRP. The goal of posts on this sub is to provide content which can help others. While it sucks that you were dumped, we've all been there, and this sub isn't for people to come and complain about the pitfalls in their life. Again, askTRP is more appropriate, as it gives you a place to voice concerns such as this....
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:59 AM
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I was in a similar situation. Friend's sister totally dug me, had her do shit like eat frosting off my nipples at a party in front of people. Texting me non-stop. Cute asf. Asked my buddy what he thought, he said it wasn't cool since I was moving and that would hurt her. I evaluated the importance of my friendship with this guy, and decided to move on and dropped all contact with his sister. To sum it up: evaluate the importance of the friendship... if it's not important, then whatever, do you. …
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:39 AM
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Don't overthink these things. That sounds simple enough, but it's true. I used to have stupid rules of waiting x amount of time to text, etc. Now I merely don't care. This is best achieved by having numerous women, so try to meet a few girls during this time. To answer your question: confirming the date is no big deal. I like to do it either the day of, or the day before. Why? So I don't waste my time showing up to a venue, only to then learn she isn't coming. That's not called being needy, it's…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:25 AM
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Maybe for most, but for me mediocrity is a nightmare. I literally think of being stuck in limbo. My whole life I've been changing, learning, and growing. The day that stops - I'm dead. If anything, happiness to me is constant improvement to who I am. Definitely not settling.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:27 AM
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A good point you make is concerning your feeling of confidence. While we can't always "be at our best", if you have a good morning routine... Wake up, meditate, eat a healthy breakfast, read a little, then go to the gym... There's NO WAY you won't feel great after that. Plus when all is said and done, by 8AM you've accomplished more than most people do in their entire day.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:54 PM
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Nice seeing another TW player on TRP! I personally only play TW to participate in tournaments, and find it to be a great mental exercise.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 08:13 PM
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Well if he has paid attention to TRP he'd know that it's assumed 99% of women you meet aren't unicorns, so it is possible for them to exist. Personally I'm like you and have found some women who would do anything for me... Many things have to fall in place usually for this to work (their perception of you, upbringing, moral values, how you carry yourself, etc.) but it does indeed occur, yet even if you find one, she can still change quickly. Yes, AWALT is always best as if they are indeed that u…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:08 PM
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Commenting as an observer here, idc who is right/wrong between you two. Plus if you've found a girl you hope to marry, hell ya, power to you and I hope it works. Anyways, protip here ... especially in debate... try not opening your statement with an insult to the opposition. They will immediately discredit what you say even if it was factual. If anything, it is best to open with casual agreement "while yes I've read the sidebar, and I see where you're coming from BUT xyz..." is better than insta…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:36 PM
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No I don't, because your idea is entirely based upon assumption. You are assuming from one comment, where I told someone to be less emotional when discussing points, that I don't tell those who agree with my beliefs the same. Case-in-point: I believe people shouldn't inject emotion into their argument or use it to try and validate a point. Oh and guess what, it doesn't matter to me if they agree with me or not. I've told people in my family to stfu when they get all emotional and claimed Obama w…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 08:53 AM
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God the cringe is real. I remember back when I was super-beta and would hamster reasons for justifying why I pussed out to fuck a woman --- usually by implications of being "larger than life" and above "sex" with a woman due to some unknown virtue that my stupid ass idea was supposed to posses. Reality is people like this are still insecure and afraid of rejection. They cling to the bull shit we hear, such as how wrong it is to sexually objectify women, and trumpet their "victory" to the beta ma…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 02:38 AM
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Both sides have fools that like to argue whatever their red/blue overlords are preaching with little insight. If anything, I merely abstain from talk with people who I know will be in full agreement with me (or fanatical disagreement). My last discussion over politics was a couple days ago with my cousin's husband who is from Seattle and highly-opposes Trump. A big issue of concern he had was Trump shooting down TPP, which I thought was brilliant. Instead of listening to myself talk and trying t…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 12:25 AM
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Not even subbed to the_donald. Very vague and weak post. What point are you trying to make? It seems more like an attempt at minor ad hominem that is created by making a large generalization as to who I am as a person to fit your agenda.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 12:33 AM
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Agreed. Summing it up as Menelaus had oneitis trivializes things. What would a king look like to his people for one if he allowed his wife to be taken in such a manner to begin with? Oh yeah, a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 10:06 AM
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Then we agree. I don't know why you're being so angry. Triggered much? I read up on both sides, identify with ideals from both, etc. Of course currently I do primarily align with our president and I am against what the left is feeding those morons who blatantly cry "fascism!" whilst prohibiting free speech themselves. Learn to discuss your points with less emotion. My original reply was to another who dismissed the entire right and labeled them as superstitious and the likes. He generalized an e…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 08:07 AM
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Your previous statement is doing exactly what mainstream media has done. This heavy amount of polarization does indeed retard actual discussion as people such as yourself believe that everyone must identify red/blue and take all that the entire party represents as their political identity. This is not true in the slightest.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 12:02 AM
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superstition-based morality Care to elaborate? I'm only curious as to how strong borders, refusal of letting in Islamic immigrants, and eliminating the PC culture are superstition-based. Those are a few things that Milo represents, as well as many who are siding against the hard-left which has emerged here recently. Indeed some among us may be religious, but I personally am not. Also I do not see wrong in being religious in the slightest unless your religion seeks to take action and infringe upo…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 10:27 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJBtRTrmV20 This is the foam rolling routine I use, and throw in some basic band stretches. Also I always slowly warm-up into my weight no matter how light/heavy I'm going. Truth be told, I'm not 100% comfortable giving you advice on this, as your issue sounds more serious than mine. If anything I advise regularly seeing a chiropractor, which I will be doing now that I've recently graduated and have some money to spare, better to take preventive measures before in…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 11:28 PM
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You have to be realistic about your injuries. I've lifted since I was 15 (seriously since 18, now 23), and there has been a course of minor injuries, with the most recent being tweaking my lower-back on DL. The old me would get injured, then take 2 wks off. This time around, I was making tremendous progress and took a new approach. Instead of dropping the weights and quitting, I went in and decreased how heavy I was going. There was still pain when squatting, so I tried leg press, and bam! No ba…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 09:18 PM
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I think the election of Trump proves otherwise, hence the mass hysteria among many. You can believe memes are irrelevant, but that does not make it untrue that they are another tool of propaganda. As for pure apathy - not all men are the same. Many accept their fate and try to work around it, some say otherwise and work towards bringing about change. Posts like this don't detract from the overall message of TRP. I've personally grown tired of seeing day in, day out, posts about basics (lift, app…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 07:03 AM
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Are you seriously citing a website name memeunity? Also, who the fuck cares? What websites should he cite? There are no peer reviewed scientific papers about this. Memes are also becoming a powerful source of propaganda. In our information age, instead of breeding knowledgeable individuals, the internet has caused many to absorb information at face-value... Memes excel at this as they give a catchy slogan backed by a memorable picture. When subjected to this over & over many may actually believe…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 06:45 AM
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Do note over 50 of the groups which helped fund this movement were funded by George Soros. It is amazing how out of touch these individuals are. If they read the Koran they would know that Islam and feminism do not mix - at all! We are truly living in an information war, and TRP was probably the first eye opener for most of us. Not to say Trump's administration is full of saints; as morals and fairplay do not exist in real politik.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 06:19 AM
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A friendly reminder that this is more for asktrp than the main TRP subreddit. Anyways, to quickly answer your question - if you choose not to drop this, merely provide another time and place to meet. A statement saying: "Nah it's nbd, I'm free Wed at 8pm if you want to meet at xyz." works. If she agrees, cool shit. If not, no worries. Flaking is a huge part of the process, and really something you'll learn to shrug off with due time. If she does agree to a new date&location, be sure to text her …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 01:49 AM
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Nice read, and something I've been thinking about a lot. I graduated this semester with a high-GPA with a degree in Medical Biology. Right now I'm more excited than I've ever been; looking into numerous opportunities for medical school, with plans to move to the Pacific Northwest. With that being said, I never had the traditional college life. My college was a commuter college with 2 smaller campuses splintered off from our main campus. During the first 2 years of college I attended one of these…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:37 AM
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I like your spin about taking the compliment. Without a doubt, glad that helped. Continuing a bit, I don't buy into the talk that if fatties like you then you're ugly. How else do you think they stand a chance at fucking high-quality men? Plus if you're clubbing, odds are they're sippin' just like most others (liquid courage). I once had this chubby girl (not the cutest, but not really ugly... nice tits and face) come up and say she wanted to sit on my face. At that point I was half-way tempted …
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:04 AM
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Really mundane problem here. Personally I have girls of all sorts hit on me. Hell since I like to hit-up gay bars to pick-up girls, I usually deal with men hitting on me too. What do I do? I dealt with a fat chick trying to make out with me after I had danced on stage shirtless a few days ago. Grabbing my ass, saying she'd take me home, etc, etc. I merely smiled, said thanks, then walked across the club and made out with a cute redhead with a hot little body I had been speaking to that night. Re…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:51 AM
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Piggy-backing off of /u/drew967 here, but I'm an avid lifter. Lifting to me is of high importance, and in regards to powerlifting I'm nearing numbers that are capable of placing me in national meets. With that being said, I've also recently graduated and been granted an opportunity to train in MMA. My question to you is how negatively could this affect me in the gym? Powerlifting is a passion of mine, second only to studying and increasing my knowledge. I did fight in TKD, Kickboxing, Judo, and …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:10 AM
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It's a WIP. Things have gotten easier in some regards, but harder in others. Approaching and getting the girl is only step 1. Overall I'd say this is a transitional period of my life. No longer am I caught up as much on my failures or on one girl, now I try to move fast and think about what matters most to me. In the end we are all alone, take that as you please, but happiness can only come from within. Seeking external sources to bring about your Nirvana will always end in disappointment. PM me…
/r/seduction07/12/16 05:38 AM
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Attraction is extremely subjective, as opposed to being objective e.g. "If I have x I always receive y in return." The cold, hard reality, is that it isn't so simple. Men who don't deserve high-quality women will receive them, and vice-versa. Trying to argue what kind of woman a man deserves is ludicrous. A man deserves the woman that he wants, and there is nothing else to it except that he try. If anything, I would side most with your 2nd concept. It is more open to interpretation - more situat…
/r/seduction06/12/16 09:22 PM
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I'm not trying to be hateful here. First off, OP never said he had a disorder so let's not act as if I'm hating on people who have actual issues that inhibit them from socializing. I understand you relate to him on some level, hence why you are defending him, but do note that from what he's given us, this post him being negative and justifying why he will never change. This mentality isn't healthy for anyone seeking positive change, and honestly, if you also desire to be intimate with women, the…
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:53 PM
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Oh without a doubt, I used to live in a small town and had little luck with women. Once I moved to a bigger city (~400k pop) I began to expand who I was more and take bigger risks socially.
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:35 PM
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This post is full of excuses. I'm 22 and feel as if I have far greater knowledge of life than you do. Then again I don't make excuses and say "I can't do it!" I mean where do you live man? The middle of bumfuck nowhere? If so then ya, maybe this post makes sense and there literally are no girls nearby for you to fuck. Anyways, keep up your mentality and you can enjoy another 30 years of self pity and ineptitude. You need to fucking take action. You don't need anymore advice, you're 30 years old.…
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:30 AM
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but I am sure If I keep trying ill be good eventually You know your answer, there's no get out of jail free card. It's painful at first, but this is part of the process. The journey is of greater importance than the end, and there will come a day when you'll long to be where you are right now.
/r/seduction30/11/16 09:26 AM
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While I'll willingly admit OP made a humble brag post, there is more to this than many are grasping. FRs are also meant to be learning experiences for newbie readers. Let's look at what good things OP did that many can learn from and put into practice: something happened in me and I decided: "Fuck it, at least I'll try". 1st point to notice. Daily you see people posting topics concerning minute encounters, all of which can be answered by reframing their mindset to this. This is literally the way…
/r/seduction30/11/16 12:18 AM
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No need to overthink this scenario. Apply Occam's razor and go talk to her. I've had nothing but good experiences in the past when opening with a simple "how are you?" to beautiful, smiling women.
/r/seduction28/11/16 10:33 PM
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Had a big realization of this awhile back. There was a hot ass blonde girl I had been dating, but not fucking due to my inability to act when the situation was right. Fast-forward to her nexting me, and then me running into her at a bar that weekend. She's with her two gay friends and this other guy. Well I considered the other guy a non-threat and a beta immediately (poor charisma, flabby, ugly face... compared to myself who is ripped, taller, and more rugged face). Turns out I was wrong, girl …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 09:22 PM
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You're not alone brother! I've been on 4 dates with hotties the past month and a half, got em home, and played Mr. Nice Guy instead of fucking them. Wish I had read something like this before and internalized it! On the bright-side, now the two of us have, so no excuses next time!! It can only get better from here on out.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:07 PM
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You can always do her place. 2 weeks ago I was out with a girl, did the cookie-cutter method I gave you, and mid-way through she brought up a show she always watched. At this point I replied "Do you have plans after this?" to which she told me no, so I merely asked "Why don't we go to your place and check it out?" We were in her town, worked nicely. Really there's no need to elaborate much further. If anything, ACT - better to try and fail then keep sitting here overthinking an honestly mundane …
/r/seduction14/11/16 03:56 AM
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First off I don't advocate going for your bro's girl. That goes against my morals, as I see far too many other options out there... Nonetheless, I'll play devil's advocate and answer your question. I've had about 5 dates in the past 2 weeks, all of which have ended at my place. To get a girl over isn't really that difficult. If you feel she totally digs you, I'd straight up invite her over to watch a movie. If you're skeptical, invite her somewhere relaxing. My go-to date is grabbing a drink at …
/r/seduction14/11/16 03:21 AM
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I second this. It's annoying at first, as we have a lot of social conditioning to override: "She's not here too fuck." "It's too soon..." "She hasn't made a move..." The thing is, plausible deniability is a woman's best friend. If you're looking for her to make a move, it won't happen. I guarantee you though that when Chad brings a 8+/10 girl home - it's on. I've been there. In this past month I've upped my game and went from grabbing dates consistently with girls that range from 6-7/10 to 8-9/1…
/r/seduction09/11/16 06:44 AM
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I see where you may have me mistaken, but my point was when it comes right down to it, it's better to sacrifice sleep from time-to-time than neglect your priorities.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:08 PM
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Many are adding to your topic and suggesting things such as working out in the AM (which is great, mind you), but another alternative can be less strenuous (physically). For example, I personally work out between 5-7pm daily (time I can meet up with my lifting group and it's habitual), and during one of my daily meet ups I had a similar discussion with an older lifter in my group who is very grounded and powerful. Our discussion ranged from many things, but pertaining to this topic in specific, …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 05:27 PM
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Okay I read your post this morning before class in a daze, sad to see you deleted it, but I understand considering the white knight brigade came and down-voted you. Needless to say, my advice isn't going to be what you want to hear either. See I was in a similar situation about 2 months ago. Met a girl at a party, made out/fingered her, then got cock blocked that night by her gay friend. We chatted, would hang out and make out, but once I brought up sex she'd start "having deep conversation" wit…
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:43 PM
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I've read a bit of what you've said in this thread, and there is a lot of negative self-talk. That is the problem. Lifting, meditating, succeeding in life. What purpose is it if it does not bring you intrinsic value? Happiness? I've struggled with the same. Of course we are different. Why? I do not call myself such words, I know I am better than the negative that tries to consume me. I know when I fail I can and WILL do better. You are failing. You are stuck in a rut. You're pursuing an arduous …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 01:18 AM
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I have this problem at times myself, it's called over-thinking. Either speak to her in person again (preferred) or call/text. No need to bring up the flake, make small talk and mention hanging out again. If she skirts around the idea (won't give a set date) or does agree, but flakes once more, move on. My biggest suggestion is to truly not worry about it. It's a minor issue in your life, and if you can focus on yourself more (getting that A in calc), than a girl flaking on you won't even be a se…
/r/seduction30/08/16 02:57 AM
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That's implying he becomes a general physician, which while important, is pretty shitty. If he specializes and goes into his own personal practice it won't be nearly as bad.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:28 AM
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It's funny you say this, as looking at the thread's top rated comment it advocates not using snapchat and "nexting" the girl if she gives you a social media alias instead of a number. I personally didn't downvote you, but I will say, your circle-jerking is pretty feminine in itself and shows that your ego is easily hurt (ala bitching over a few downvotes).
/r/seduction04/08/16 03:51 AM
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I don't know what greyskull is, but SS works. The key is to not over-think your routine and just do it. Paraphrasing Arnold here, but he said at one point that if you were to walk into a gym on a busy day and ask the 3 biggest guys in there what program they use, odds are they'd all be different. Who's right in this scenario? All of them. Whatever they're doing is working. The biggest part about lifting is getting in there and doing your shit. That, stacked with proper eating and sleeping is ext…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 09:11 PM
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Not hard if you have basic conversation skills... I bagged a girl once over a convo that initiated by discussing a staph infection.
/r/seduction12/07/16 10:50 AM
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This exactly. I went out to play one night at 12am and met 20 new people with ease. The game itself is an easy-in to meet anyone. See a girl on her phone? "Hey, are you playing Pokemon GO?" Even if she says no, bam... You've just initiated conversation.
/r/seduction12/07/16 06:54 AM
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Exactly this. I didn't sub to TRP and think "Ok, well now TRP is my new religion, and I must accept every damn bit of information that is posted on it!" Actually, no. I don't take everything in this subreddit as God's given word. But truth be told, there are a lot of values here that I do stand for. If anything, TRP has allowed me to be more realistic. I am less judgmental of women for instance. Before TRP I used to hate sluts, now I just accept the fact women tend to be more sexually promiscuou…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 02:57 PM
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Even in isolation I find myself with a handful of close friends. I've never gone full monk mode, but there are times in life where all I do is focus on my school and lifting. We are products of our environment and what we take in. While individuality does exist (obviously), we need to realize that with others we are more powerful. Essentially what I am saying is that sure, being in isolation you are more like yourself, but unless you have absolutely zero outside influences, odds are that you are…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 01:48 AM
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Depending on where you are at, conversation may be difficult. I have managed to pick-up women from concerts (I frequent those over conventions), and my methods were a bit different. First example I will use may or may not apply to you. It depends on your looks and the energy you put out. One woman I hooked up with at a concert came to me. There was literally nothing said on my part, she noticed me enjoying the show in the crowd, and before I knew it I was being followed by a cute girl. We manage…
/r/seduction18/05/16 08:00 AM
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I've hooked up with a fair amount of women through work. Bear in mind, I'm a server, and anyone who has worked in the restaurant biz knows that it's a fuckfest. Generally what happens is every few months a handful of new girls cycle in, and I'll chat up the ones I find attractive. From there I'll nonchalantly get their number, arrange a date, and treat them as any other woman. Here's the catch: keeping your mouth shut. Early on in this I messed up in that field. I won't delve into it, but it was…
/r/seduction17/05/16 06:37 AM
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Props for approaching a girl, good on you. Looking at this FR, if all you did was introduce yourself then immediately ask her to lunch, it's honestly not surprising she rejected you. Even if you're a great looking guy, if you don't build any rapport with her, odds are she's going to say no. I mean, think of how nerve wracking it'd be for her to go out on a date with a guy she literally doesn't know. She has no idea if he can be funny, charming, witty, interesting, what he likes, etc. My advice t…
/r/seduction11/04/16 05:09 PM
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If we're speaking your first date with a girl... Unless you were very sexual the first time you met, it's best to invite her out to a public setting. From there, if things escalate you can be blunt. I tend to escalate in a similar fashion with each of my dates, usually ending when the kino is high. If we're kissing, touching, etc, etc... I'm blunt "Hey, let's take this to my place." That rarely fails me. No need to beat around the bush, we all like sex and you have to gauge each situation proper…
/r/seduction11/04/16 05:07 PM
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My favorite reply thus far. I'll remember not to shit where I eat! Cheers man.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:38 PM
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Good to hear you did not fall into a similar trap. I'm glad I lack social media though for that aspect, I enjoy going 100% cold to people I wish to have out of my life. Sadly, this girl lives directly beneath me!! haha Anyways, while I don't believe we can place all women into those 2 black/white categories, I do feel that you have a fairly good summation of the rationale behind most women. Riding the CC early on for women is almost a cultural trend now. They need to "be young" and experience "l…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 05:52 PM
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I hope this serves to help you someday. The key thing is realizing that we are not outliers, and if it has happened to someone else, it most definitely can happen to you. Experience is the best teacher of this knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 05:46 PM
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Thank you for that, and I am well aware. As asinine as it may sound I actually opted to have sex with her without the use of condoms. I had done research on it, and found that it did not fully stop the potential spread. I felt the use of anti-virals and abstinence during viral shedding was best. I intend to get a blood test soon. Currently I am displaying no signs at all, and during our relationship she had only one outbreak. To my understanding, the virus is transmissible during three stages: p…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 05:37 PM
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Yes and yes. Reading TRP and applying it are different. I applied it selectively. I lift, I read, I study, etc, etc. I improve my self quite often. I'm not the best womanizer, but I generally have at least 1 fuck buddy within reach. I am NOT saying that selective application is good. If anything, I'm specifically stating that how I did this was wrong, and it has left some damage. Damage I feel was needed (psychological), but hopefully not physical (an incurable STD). Thing is, fucking a differen…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 06:00 AM
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I wish I had an answer concerning family structure. Abundance mentality is easy to demonstrate I feel when you are just fucking the chick, but when children are involved you really can't replace the wife of your kids... This FR is mildly depressing, but it is a part of life. I became very comfortable with my relaitonship. It's a nice feeling to come home and fuck a girl, have her do girly shit for you, then go to bed knowing you can do it all over again. But here's the catch - we don't know shit…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 04:32 AM
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Haha. Ok that is true. I should have said follow. Fuck me though, it's already too late!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 04:01 AM
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While he may be wrong about the orbiter instance, this obviously wasn't nothing to OP. OP invested 20 minutes or more formatting/writing this, as well as a few hours discussing how wrong the woman is. Yes, she was obviously seeking to use jealousy against him. Yes, she hamstered it in her mind as being good. Yes, this is all basic side-bar material. How does this teach us more than the basics? I thought this sub was going for a more in-depth approach to living your life. Low-quality posts like t…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:40 PM
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agree with you despite the downvotes you're receiving. Very basic post teaching little-to-nothing. I think it's largely agreed upon that women don't "accidentally" have sex. I find this to post resemble something of a woman bitching to her friends about how bad her husband is just to receive the emotional response... This is only useful to people who don't frequent TRP or are extremely new to the pill.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:22 PM
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Glad I read this. I've been this way with all women who typically reject my advances. I don't harbor anger towards them, but I always stop initiating conversation. I've had some people tell me I'm too black/white, yet I've always felt it's best to not stimulate a fake interest in them any further if I know that sex isn't on the table.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:16 AM
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I feel you're over-thinking this. One reschedule a day (or two) before the actual date itself isn't bad. In my opinion it's positive, as it shows she is clearly thinking about the event and trying to ensure she can meet up with you. I've personally scheduled meetings with individuals, then an hour or so later realized "Oh shit, I can't do that time." If this was the day of, and she was making quick changes, it could possibly be a shit test. Regardless, keep your texts concise and purely along th…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:11 PM
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If this guy has access to the internet, he can look up local community events that are occurring. These events may be either free or very cheap. I've personally taken girls to parks to go on a walk or even have a picnic. During those times I knew about on-going, small music festivals and I'd take them there as well. Plus, you can tell this guy that it's okay to let the girl pay for her drink, food, etc. It's all about being creative with what you do.
/r/seduction19/11/15 05:54 AM
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It is true we live in a generation where everyone is offended and talking to most individuals leaves you walking on thin ice. While I see no way to combat this issue as a whole, I do try my best to advocate against it in my own lifestyle. I befriend individuals whom have differing beliefs and find myself speaking more with people who will disagree with my actions, thoughts, etc. more than those whom agree with me wholeheartedly. A good example being a great friend of mine who is a die-hard Chris…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 03:39 AM
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A fun-fact before I begin: most people can't dance. With that in mind, the biggest key to dancing is to lighten up and enjoy the music. Close your eyes, feel the beat, bop your head - try that tonight. Feel the energy it gives to you. I'm not a good dancer, or least I've never thought I was, but oddly enough I've always enjoyed the idea of dancing. It's self-expression that can physically bring people together in an intimate way. I'd go to clubs, parties, etc... I'd dance, and I'd forget people …
/r/seduction09/11/15 07:25 AM
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As cliche as it sounds, trial and error is the best way to learn. I'm no expert now, but looking back at where I used to be with women, and where I am now is rather crazy. No amount of reading up on psyche, techniques, etc can out-play getting in-field experience.
/r/seduction28/10/15 10:15 PM
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...I head to the bar where I see my date talking to some dude. She doesn't know this guy but apparently he's hitting on her. I walk over and grab her ass and laugh while she shouts "Stop!". I walk away and find our friends. When I find them their outside on the patio and one of them is handing out shots. Half the group doesn't want shots so I get handed 2. I do both It seems you lost your frame a bit here, the shots seem a bit indicative of that. I've been in similar situations. I'll start with …
/r/seduction28/10/15 05:35 AM
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Bro, I'm pretty fucking ripped but hairy as hell. Should I embrace the Chuck side or shave?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 07:09 AM
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It's not an argument that anonymity brings out social misbehavior, but more so that a large amount of men whom use dating websites have issues socializing with women. Which you did state. It felt as if you took this idea and ran with it, generalizing this poor reality of online dating for women. The claim even went a step further: "Hey, look at what I found out! Women are objectified by men!" Yes, that is true, but on both sides. Men use women for sex, women use men for validation. It's reality,…
/r/seduction04/09/15 07:56 PM
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In the state I live in, the case is looked at twice. Giving the government two attempts to convict you. The first is a criminal trial, which refusal of the test would benefit. The law has not defined the amount of THC required for detection in order to prove the individual was high during the traffic stop. It's hard to say what could've happened if they had detected small amounts, but my refusal gave them no foundation in a criminal trial. The second is a trial with the Dept. of Public Safety. M…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:00 PM
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I had a similar incident occur a few months back. I was driving late at night downtown in my city and was pulled over for the light over my license plate being out. The officer approached my vehicle, and as he made a brief statement about the light, he immediately began yelling. He gets in my face as I remain seated, flashlight pointed in my eyes, furiously screaming "I smell marijuana, are you high? Are you high!? Your eyes are red, tongue is green, and your pupils are dilated! You are high!" N…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:20 PM
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I needed this today. I had a plate of 3 months. She tried to turn our FWB relationship into a serious one. Part of me wanted to, but my gut instinct told me to get the fuck out. Luckily I did. Come to find out a few days later she was already fucking a friend of mine. Moved on quick. I'm glad I didn't invest anymore of myself into this. Part of me feels bad for the ex-husband, as she's currently fighting for custody of the kids and it's almost certain she'll win due solely to being a woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 12:30 AM
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The goal is to choose something you enjoy and invite her to tag-along. Recently I took a girl to the gym. This gave us activities to kill the awkward moments, and in-between sets we'd find time to chat. When all was said and done, we scheduled another date at my place which turned out well. I agree with your friends that you are over-analyzing the situation. Keep it simple. A basic rule of thumb is to establish a 1st date in a public location that's an activity (e.g. badminton, bowling). If this…
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:23 AM
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First work on eye contact. Make eye contact with everyone. At first it will be awkward, it may even seem rude. Who cares, do it. Once you've established that, you've gotten past the initial barrier. I'll assume that you shy away from human interaction. Your next step is to make yourself seem approachable. The easiest way is to smile at everyone. Practice this. Little old lady? Give her a smile. Guy walking into the gas station? Hold the door open, ask him how his day is, smile. This is preached …
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:06 AM
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Keep your conversations face-to-face. I've utilized the side-bar to help with my text game. It is entirely based on logistics. I'm very blunt and to the point when I text a girl. It comes down entirely to when and where we will be hanging out. Period. I save all the jokes and insightfulness for when she is with me. Also, don't dwell on how long it takes for her to respond. A girl I've been speaking too, and whom I've had over at my place for an enjoyable night, took a solid 10 hours to reply tod…
/r/seduction25/06/15 06:54 AM
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Arrange an exact time and place with her today. Once that's done, I'd go radio silent until then and enjoy yourself. You may even consider going out and meeting more girls during that time. The day before your scheduled date, just send a confirmation text: "Still up for 'blablabla?"
/r/seduction23/06/15 07:29 PM
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Move on. Here's some constructive criticism in regards to your post as well. When arranging a date, don't do this: "Hey, want to hangout later today? I can pick you up :)". First it's very vague. What do you even plan on doing? This will only work if she's madly into you. I doubt she is. Try to rephrase it in more specific terms. I'll use an example of a girl I've been actively dating. "Since you're free Thursday, we should hang out. I figured we could either go rollerskating or jogging along th…
/r/seduction23/06/15 10:01 AM
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Being an alpha doesn't make you a polygamist. A man can be in a committed relationship and still display alpha qualities. In short, an alpha male is someone who is confident and true to themselves. This helps in all aspects of life, not just fucking girls.
/r/seduction15/04/15 06:44 PM
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You seem highly outcome dependent based on this post. Going into a conversation with this mindset already defeats you. Over time I've learned that people are a lot alike in many facets. If you really push your social boundaries and attempt to be friends with various groups, you will see this. Everyone makes lame jokes, everyone wants to be happy, and everyone wants that guy/girl of their dreams. Moving on, as cliché as it may sound, you have to learn to be yourself in all scenarios. Now this doe…
/r/seduction08/04/15 07:02 AM
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Nope. Unless she's a close friend, which judging by your statement she isn't. If a girl likes you, she will respond. Now if it's not immediate, that's nbd. If she hasn't replied in a day, yea, probably should move on. A few tips for texting... Don't use emoticons, take your time when replying (I'm never hasty or in a rush), and send messages of equal or shorter length. Of course these aren't commandments, and depending on the person you can switch it up. I typically like to stick to the rule-set…
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:48 AM
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I usually gauge who she is more interested in. The best way to tell is by paying attention to who she focuses on most when speaking. It's honestly quite easy to detect. Once you figure that out, be a bro if she's not into you and wing-man it. Probably give them some space, whatever. If she is into you, then just do your thing.
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:35 AM
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Making a girl laugh boils down to two things: your confidence and your ability to read people. Confidence applies to the fact that if you don't have the guts to say something, especially if it's funny, then you blew it. I remember the first time in college I finally spoke up and made a joke in class. I half-hesitated, but the teacher happened to hear me. Thinking I was asking a question, he asked what it was I said. I told him, and as I had hoped (but was too afraid to commit too) the class erup…
/r/seduction01/04/15 06:41 AM
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A few months ago I would've read this in disbelief. Albeit life has shown me that I was wrong. The thing to note is how easily a woman will cheat on her spouse for another man she deems superior. I bedded a woman in her mid-20s that had been in a LTR of 9 years. I of course didn't know of this until we had reached the point of no return, by which I had no remorse, seeing as it wasn't my problem. Essentially what this taught me is how women themselves seek it. All I did was engage this woman in t…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:30 AM
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it's about eliciting emotion. Exactly. I don't know what your pictures are like, but that essentially is what I am trying to convey to you. People are visual creatures. Best of luck.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:29 AM
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First and foremost, I want you to look at it from this perspective. I'm a female, one of which you're attracted too. It's late, I have gotten many messages, read through many bios to the point where now I'm simply skimming through things as quick as possible. I come up to your monologue here... What would I do? More than likely, I'd skip it entirely. As sad as it is, the majority of people are too busy and want fast information. Look at what is typically trending. Quick videos, quick topics, qui…
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:41 AM
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Fellow tutor here! I take my job very seriously and have numerous women who come in daily I am interested in. I do not suggest that you hit on her during your tutoring sessions, but, I do not think it would be unwise to ask her to meet up casually outside of school. Ensure that when you ask her she knows that it's not for anything related to tutoring. Simply tell her you find her interesting and would like to get to know her more. Once you're there, I'd say go about it as you would with anyone e…
/r/seduction31/01/15 08:51 AM
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Man, every damn post involving cheating, there's always that white knight redditor who has to take the higher ground as if he's some bad ass. Who gives a fuck what OP did. He slept with her, big deal. It happens. Get over it bud. edit: Down-voting me won't make any of you right. This "needy" mentality many of you have adopted is why you aren't getting laid and are here in the first place. Women aren't your objects, and humans are by nature, promiscuous. Learn not to be a pussy about life and tak…
/r/seduction30/01/15 12:14 AM
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How would he be a home wrecker? That term is a little over-dramatic regarding this situation if you ask me. The girl isn't married. If OP wants to go about it the right way, he'd convince her to leave her boyfriend to be with him. And even if he did just fuck the shit out of her, who cares.
/r/seduction27/01/15 05:23 AM
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You're over-thinking it. You cannot sit here and debate every single situation and outcome that may or may not arise. All you say when approaching a girl is hi. Nothing more, nothing less. Conversations tend to flow and you need to relax and let it happen. I spent 20 minutes last night conversing with a woman about when my birthday was. It wasn't anything special, but due to how I presented it, she loved every moment. Approach her the next time you see her, no second guessing yourself! Say hi, s…
/r/seduction25/01/15 09:51 AM
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I'd move on. While you've been enduring this, I've had a flakey girl on my hands, but instead of persisting, I moved on, and already have two other girls who are interested and ready to see me. As I said, put your time and energy elsewhere. I know how you're feeling, but if you really want to progress and be a proactive individual, you have to be able to quickly let go of those who aren't capable of valuing you as much as you value them.
/r/seduction24/01/15 08:09 PM
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This is entirely situational. First off, you need to know how to gauge the situation. I myself have a sarcastic sense of humor, but I also have a more playful, non-threatening one as well. If I sense that they are a bit more abrasive, then I toss out a few jokes here and there, but I don't try to treat my interactions as if I'm doing a comedy skit. If anything, interaction more so comes down to body language and tonality. How is your posture? How fast are you speaking? How are you sounding? This…
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:55 AM
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So I say, "listen, if you keep bailing, I'm going to stop asking you out. You get 3 chances, and thats it". I wouldn't suggest those kinds of threats. It's largely unattractive and controlling. You're not looking to exude those qualities. Typically, I'll set-up a date with a woman, and let her do the work. Based on what you've written, she was trying - at least at first, but continually flaked. Who knows why, more than likely she simply got nervous. Personally, it's best to move on. I've met man…
/r/seduction22/01/15 11:28 PM
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I don't think you should look at it like that. Instead, I'd take a step back and think of some things you can do with your life now, and start doing them. I personally have no idea what those things may be, but I know somewhere in the back of your mind you do. Set aside some time tonight to write down a list of things you can start doing that you feel you'd enjoy. I've met girls walking the dog, getting a haircut, or while taking martial arts classes. They've been great encounters which have led…
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:46 AM
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I am a university student, so I have that on my side. Of course, I also find girls doing things I enjoy. I recently went snowboarding, and when I was at the resort I saw two cute girls on the bunny slope. It was their first time, and mine as well, so I hit up a conversation with them about just that. Before I knew it, I had gotten a kiss as well as a date set up. It's really about being proactive in all you do. Making eye contact with girls you're interested in is also a nice step. You just have…
/r/seduction22/01/15 02:29 AM
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I'm not quite finished, but I can see the finish line. My journey started 6 years ago when I was a nerdy high school kid who was bullied often. I managed to omit many things from my life that held me back and focused on self-improvement, versus having a victim's mentality. At that time, it was lifting. I quickly found myself in 2 LTRs, but after my last one came to an end a year ago, it was back to square one. Despite being a confident, nice looking and intelligent man, I had absolutely no way t…
/r/seduction21/01/15 06:52 AM
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I have only recently started to improve my text game. I personally would reschedule. "Hey no worries, I'm free on 'x' day, let me know if you're down!" Then if she replies, go from there. Let her put forth some effort, as it's not a one way street. The biggest thing is to move on as soon as you feel it's going nowhere. I tend to delete girls from my phone who are flakey and show little interest. I'd rather direct more of my energy into meeting new women and having people in my life who are activ…
/r/seduction09/01/15 08:26 AM
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This summarizes one of my exes perfectly. Everything was spot-on. It goes to show that women aren't these mysterious enigmas that some may try to perceive them as, but painstakingly predictable and easy to understand. Great list. Hopefully it helps anyone out there who is suspicious of their relationship and just needs that final push to gtfo.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:24 PM
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You're oblivious to my point, and much like your sexual preferences, your advice is horrendous. Here's a tip for you: learn how to discuss a point which refutes your original idea with logic instead of anger. It shows a lack of confidence and insecurity, as you immediately lash out in anger/frustration versus trying to logically discuss the situation at hand. Good luck to you in life, I hope you can find help with managing your insecurities and lack of self-confidence.
/r/seduction28/11/14 08:44 AM
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Lol. I work part-time. Why? Because I choose too. Sorry I'm attending college full-time and can't work 40hrs a week at McDonalds. The issue isn't 'charity', do you know what a job is? Being a server is a job, and guess what? I'm not your maid. Fuck off you cynical cunt.
/r/seduction28/11/14 08:29 AM
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full-time college student
/r/seduction28/11/14 08:28 AM
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Yeah, no. I work in the service industry. It's not about being nice to tip someone, the 15% equates to if the person did their job, that's what you pay them. It was only recent my job changed its policy not to include a 15% tip in the check. How would you like it if your boss halved your paycheck just to 'see how he felt'? Take your mental games elsewhere, I'm sure people can do this experiment in another environment versus misleading a server to waste their time. If you absolutely must do this,…
/r/seduction28/11/14 07:42 AM
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It really seems as if you're over-thinking a very minor issue. I've done the same myself, and it's definitely not worth it. If anything, do what you feel is best in the moment. If you want to see her Tuesday, go for it. If she turns you down, who cares. It happens to the best of us. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/11/14 02:52 AM
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White Knighting is fun, isn't it? /s
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:58 PM
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Good point. Plus it'd be annoying trying to regain myself when I can simply start fresh and acknowledge where I goofed my last attempt. Thanks again.
/r/seduction14/04/14 02:12 AM
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Haha, I love this comment, this was the kind of advice I was hoping for! I will keep that in mind. I guess I may have came off as self-centered to her, thus turning her off. Plus I have an innate fear of silence when I go on a date, so that's something I should work on fixing. My question to you though, is should I even attempt to re-engage? Or have I hurt this one enough that it's a safer bet to simply move on?
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:57 AM
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Thanks for the solid advice man. I was with a friend and his girlfriend when I received the initial text. I was swayed into texting her despite not wanting too. It was crazy how I felt the situation lean into my control at that very moment, then I gave it up by messaging back. I'll speak to her as usual come Tuesday. Shoot the shit, and make no attempt to seem as if I am planning to reschedule. I'll even be sure to mention having other plans and having to cram my workload so that I can achieve t…
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:54 AM
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