I'll be delving a bit into the importance of qualifying women and what I've learned about it using recent examples from the past couple weeks.

To start this hit me hard last week when I had taken 5 sales calls and realized that the clients weren't properly qualified. If I had taken it upon myself to ask the right questions and look into it a bit more, I would've learned that they weren't a good fit. Acknowledging that would enable me to spend more time with qualified leads, and therefore, get more sales.

Basic shit, but I had to realize it first-hand.

Now, in relation to women and what exactly qualification is, or more importantly what I'm realizing a big part of "game" is, is having the ability to quickly filter out women who aren't qualified to be with you. And what's one of the biggest factors?

If they're fucking attracted to you or not. If a girl isn't into you, she's isn't into you, and isn't going to fuck you.

For example, I used to double-text women, and thought it was okay since there was a small chance they may suddenly decide to miraculously have a change of heart and come out and get fucked by me, that it wasn't a waste of my time. My wing would say "Do you think if she was attracted to you she'd text you back?"

It's obvious isn't it? The answer is yes, she would text you back. And if the above sounded fucking ridiculous as Hell, it's because it is, just like it's ridiculous wasting time with someone who won't even message you back!

This is even more so important when you're speaking to a girl face to face. Now I'm not telling you to dip out when they show disinterest, because it's good to try and "game" girls who aren't interested. Why? Because it is for self-amusement. You are having fun, enjoying the interactions, and learning how women are, and how to communicate with them. And from this, what begins to occur?

You'll start to be able to differentiate which women are actually disinterested and interested. As Kenny Rogers once said "You've gotta know when to hold 'em, and know when to fold 'em." It's a process, and it can be a frustrating one because you may fool yourself into getting numbers from a lot of disinterested girls, getting your hopes up, and then wasting your time & mental energy. The key is to continue to push through it, and start to see the patterns & learn what the appropriate response is.

An approach I did today was a hot Filipino girl with a fatty. Opened her about her Hawaiin shirt and she was lukewarm, feet facing away from me. I managed to open her up a bit more, and I tried to be more engaged. This delves into some things I've been working on with women, primarily building sexual tension and learning to create a framework of familiarity, although that's not what this conversation is about.

Suddenly during the conversation she had to go, asked for my name, and then went to leave. When she began to leave she quickly turned back"Oh, I'm Zoe." then quickly turned again to leave, making it hard to even ask for her number. Part of me wanted to desperately go "Zoe, wait - give me your number!" which in the past, in a less dramatic but just as needy way, I'd ask girls who weren't interested for their number right as they were about to leave and they'd hand it out to me begrudgingly. It's a waste of time to pursue these women who are blatantly not into you.

It isn't a shit test if a girl is trying to bolt without giving you her number. If she likes you, she'd make it easy.

5 minutes after this approach I saw a Latina walking slowly with a backpack on, she was probably around 5'9. I Approached her in front of the Maserati dealership and went "Excuse me, do you want to help me steal a Maserati?" She smiles to me and says"I'm down." I asked her if she was the daring type, and she lit up "Of course!" From there I "dared her to do it" and the conversation flowed effortlessly. The entire time, her body faced towards me, smiling, and biting her lip countless times. She told me her friend was coming (pointed at her down the road), so I invited her out the next day to celebrate her getting her new job. She said she can't , but she can Thursday and offered to put her number in my phone.

I tell these stories to illustrate scenarios I haven't seen once, but numerous times over the weeks. The hot girls that I snagged made it easy. Now don't get me wrong, some are more shy than others. A Persian girl I was out with the other evening was very much into me, but it took me working at her and being relatable to her for her to open up. You know what the dead give-away tends to be? When they literally walk away from you, or are half-ass engaged in the conversation and look bored out of their mind.

I don't think I've ever had the internal abundance until here recently to really walk away from these kind of women instead of wasting more time than necessary on them.