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This is a badass post to start 2025 with. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/24 11:37 PM
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In my opinion, there is nothing Red Pill about dating apps. It is another excuse to ease the burden of face to face rejection. It is like dating on crutches for the people that lack the social skills to do it in person.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/24 01:36 PM
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Okay G.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 09:46 PM
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Getting rejected is an important part of the whole hookup/dating process. If you go out there, you will face rejection. If you fear it and think there is such a thing as "too many times", you will only be rewarded with the cheapest, easiest girls. The hotter the girl, or the more traditional she is, the more she will resist, reject and shit-test your approaches. You have to be able to tell when a girl is just not interested or if there may be other factors why she is resisting your approach. For…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 08:52 PM
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No problem, thank you I appreciate it. Yes, I enjoy writing these posts because I also enjoy reading them. Sometimes the field reports give you clear examples on what works and what not. Many of these things I have learned from other posters here.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 08:22 PM
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At that moment I started to think she was having a breakdown, that is how incongruent her words were. What I have described is what I could hear or remember but she mumbled more than that. She is a Western woman. I am a Balkans guy. As for the going out to hook up and have fun: The main reason young people go in loud places is for hooking up. But I have noticed that when I go out just to have fun, without the clear intention to hook up, girls seem to spawn around me.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 08:06 PM
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I meant that in the beginning of the interaction, I didn't start asking for anything, I didn't need anything from her.. How are you supposed to get anything done later if you do not try to kiss or hug or escalate? What are you saying? Getting rejected or having last moment resistances happens a lot. If you are having girls which show no resistance at all then you are looking at the wrong girls my friend. Learn seduction and stop drinking beer? How is this relevant to what I am saying?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 01:46 PM
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English is not my native language so the choice of words may not be the best. Was there something in my actions that you didn't like or was it only my choice of words?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 01:34 PM
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Well, if we get a little philosophical for a second, aren't we all kind of language models, only more advanced ones? Aren't we also trained on how to behave by seeing what feedback people give to us? I wouldn't say this is the same as fiction, and I think it could be a great tool for improving small talk. Many people lack the skills for small talk and creep people out. However, I agree with you on the fact that it is not a real woman, because it is trained on mostly conscious thought, and lacks …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 10:23 AM
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I understand what you mean how ever I have something to add. I read the story, and the guy in the story, emasculated himself. If it was me in the choke, I would have slept and not said I am sorry. After he released me, I would have gone to the nearest hard object and aimed at him. He could beat me up again, but he would know that I am a crazy mf and he wouldn't go unscathed from all of this. I am pretty sure, the wifes reaction would be different. Eons of programming surely do not get wiped. How…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 04:46 PM
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I have no hard evidence that it does not at all, but in my experience and from what I have seen from my friends, rarely seen this phenomenon. Maybe it can have a slight effect, just like everything else, but is not "the worst thing that can happen to you" that the OP claims. I would say being a coward and avoiding the fight loses you a lot more points.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 04:28 PM
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Man the whole thing reads like erotica. "Noa has a body that’s almost as nice as mine, so, as you’d expect, he was more than willing to take his shirt off when I suggested we do so in case my college aged female neighbors came outside. As he was elevating my car with his hydraulic jack" Just the fact of asking a hot woman to record you and your friend fighting shirtless, a martial art that is very touchy feely, might have turned them off.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 04:24 PM
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1 That is wrong. It encourages cowardice and choosing your fights. When the other guy is in your face, it is better fighting and losing the fight than trying to find an excuse to prevent it. "Only fight in front of your girl if you know you can win" - This is another advice that encourages cowardice. I do not fight to show my girl I can fight or that I won. I fight because the other guy challenged me, and I cannot sleep that night if I run away. I do not care if my girl leaves me at that moment.…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 04:16 PM
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This post has the writing style of erotica, I thought you and Noa had something special. Jokes aside brother, let me get to the point I want to emphasize. I do not agree that losing a fight in front of your girlfriend or any girl will make her lose attraction to you. In my experience, what makes a girl lose attraction for you in terms of fighting, is you not standing up to the challenge. You are not expected to win every confrontation in life. The most important part is to stand up to the guy wh…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 03:32 PM
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Man GLO posts were hilarious. Where can I find some?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/24 06:14 AM
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It is not humanly possible to not sin, even Pope has sinned. Paul also said, all have sinned. This doesn't mean you cannot call yourself a Christian. Devout or not, that is not a term that our religion recognizes. Jesus died for our sins. You can repent and ask for forgiveness at anytime. It is a long discussion but I am just giving you the main thought process.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/24 08:48 PM
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About growing up in a religion setting, I do not think that is a bad thing. I am a Christian myself but also a Red Piller and have some posts here myself. I would say keep yourself clean as much as you can, there is not that much to gain from sexual debauchery. I try to do this even though I sin a lot, because after all we are sinners. But I use my game so I can find the right girl for me and when I find her, have the right mindset to keep her invested and loyal. Do not feel pressured to fish ev…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/24 09:34 AM
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This is a popular take, and I have used it before, however it is not strong enough. And it is only usable when you invite her to an event or something similar. For me personally the best action would be to say something short like, "K, have fun". More advanced techniques involve saying something a bit more rude like "Ok bye" or leaving her on read. You have to give her the impression that you immeditaly moved on, and she may or may not be welcome later. If you tell her, that if she wants she can…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 03:09 PM
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Exactly, the only game after a girl pulls a last moment bluff like this is to walk away. Negotiating will just waste your time.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 02:33 PM
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Bro he is model/rockstar level attractive.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/24 02:34 AM
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Is this copypasta?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 03:34 PM
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I am curious, how does a man allow himself to get at this stage?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 08:15 AM
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Man, I'm not American, I come from a third world country in Balcans which is quite violent. And still, when we were in school we couldn't do whatever we wanted to do. Sometimes, the teacher would hit us if we didn't obey. Yes, we did fight each other, and we had fights. But never went as far as to being abused. And I am not saying there isn't abuse. It just feels like the OP is the agressor, the initiator, by being an atrocious kid. You do not climb the tables when the teacher is in class. You w…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/24 08:59 AM
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I am not insulting him, just giving him my opinion that I can see even from his style of writing that he is a person of conflict. Abuse is fked up, I would never say it is okay. However, from the way he talks he seems more like the one of those people looking for it. I would even hesitate saying what I said in his comment to his face because he would probably punch me in the face for it. Just reread his opening paragraph. When teacher came into class, he randomly climbed things. If someone took …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/24 07:19 AM
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To me, you sound like an agent of chaos. I am pretty sure you kind of provoked most of the conflicts in your life. And the cause for this was the lack of the father figure. You lacked discipline and wanted to do whatever you wanted when it doesn't work like that. If your teacher says, stop drawing you stop and that is disciplined kid behaviour. But you continued anyway. I understand that some of the problems may have been caused by your family. But when I read that you went to the occultist chur…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 11:28 PM
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The only problem is, that usually the best looking girls usually have a male figure around, even if he is not directly visible. Even if its not someone she knows, the club owner may confront you for hitting on her, or the coffee shop owner or whatever. Approaching in isolation puts an awkward vibe to everything you say. So the anxiety comes from a valid standpoint, it is not only the rejection, it is the fear of physical violence and/or embarresment and loss of integrity/dignity by getting sent …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 08:10 AM
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Funny because this also reminded me of another funny detail about Gaston. You can see his whole facade of being well dressed and sharp but at one moment he takes off his shoes to reveal a torn, smelly sock. And he is also stupid. That facade will maybe help you get the drunk average looking girl at the club but nothing more. And she will probably never call you again when she noticed you didn't wash your face in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/24 04:24 PM
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The Disney film is written by a mastermind and directed and produced by another. It is based on age old archetypes about the human nature and its psyche. Its not your usual TV show. It contains Red Pill info not only on the shallow "Let's manipulate the 6 we meet at the club so we can have sex with her". It is enriching in a much deeper level. Masters of psychology when they want to illustrate, in addition to their case studies include fiction stories, usually from the classics. If you think tha…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/24 04:19 PM
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Rule number 6 is there to stop idiots from referring to banal TV shows for examples. Disney narratives on the other hand are written by masters of the craft and make use of age old ancestral archetypes, which forms the basis of our psyche. I am not rdferring to Bella of Twilight that fucked a vampire, and that we should dress like him. I am referring to the deep psychological messages behind these age old stories which are part of our collective unconscious. You can also check another example of…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/24 04:05 PM
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It is not actually. If you check enough biographies you will notice that the prerequisite to success is actually extreme hard work in the area of expertise, sometimes even neglecting health completely. Maintaining it though and having longevity, requires at least minimum fitness. I will take a banal example: Check current corporate CEO that we know today when they blew up: Mark Zuckerberg, Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs. Today some of them have started being fit but when they blew up they had…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/24 10:57 AM
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One that comes to mind is "The power of now" by Eckhart Tolle Another one is "No more Mr. Nice Guy"
/r/TheRedPill08/05/24 10:37 AM
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Thank you for your work. I guess it must be hard right now that Red-Pill has gone mainstream, or whatever shit version of it is going around.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/24 11:37 PM
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Thank you, I am a long time member from another account, with 7+ posts that have gone top/hot before the sub got quarantined. I cannot link them here because I do not want to be identified in this new account. About more anecdotal evidence, nothing comes in my mind right now, I gave some in another comment but my reason of this post was more to get the point across to be careful of snake oil motivation, rather than make it an entertaining one. However, I will keep that in mind in the future.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/24 11:33 PM
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I am sure that fitness is attributed to higher success, I never meant to dispute that. And it certainly helps. If it would be about my opinion, it helps a lot more maintaining success than creating it. However, I see many guys who want to turn their life around go all in in the physical aspect with new training programs, protein shakes, watch Youtube videos about that etc. like that is going to make them successful. The causality of fit people being more successful can be also because successful…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/24 11:29 PM
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I totally agree with this, started martial arts training lately and one of the mai reasons was exactly this line of thought.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/24 11:25 AM
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These are all valid options, but this is common knowledge that almost every kid in the world gets taught early in life. Become a doctor, become a lawer and you will have a good life. This was the advice that everyone has had from his parents and close ones during all his childhood. Maybe the difference is that the software dev was replaced by the engineer, which in part he is. I would add engineers and also architects in there, as they make quite comfortable money. However, lets come to the main…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/24 01:39 PM
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