This girl from my gym added me on Instagram because she saw me in one of the gym posts.

I talk to her and schedule a meeting, a short car drive to a remote location. When a girl accepts this date, it leads to sex 90% of the time. This would happen the next day in the evening.

In the morning I talk to her briefly, say goodmorning, make a couple jokes and tell her that I am busy, we'll talk later.

9 P.M I send her a text saying "Should I come pick you up at 10?"

She says: Let me talk to one of my friends because I had scheduled with her too and I don't know what I will do.

I immediately say goodnight, which in my language is pretty rude saying it that abruptly and it usually means you're a bit pissed.

I didn't do this because of game, even though it is game. I did it just because I am at a point which I do not tolerate any of this behaviour.

Immediately she writes a barrage of messages saying she was "joking" and just wanted to see my reaction and that she liked it.

We proceed to the short trip & have sex.

One possible idea that I have been evolving lately which got reinforced by this:

Sometimes it is better to be a bit more direct when getting shit tested like this. Before I would act like it didn't bother me at all, or I would maybe play stupid. Or maybe I would say something similar but wait a bit and think about it before writing it. Even though it works sometimes, it is manipulation, and battle heardened girls may pick it up.

It is fighting on their terms.

The response should be direct and not hesitant. It can also be rude, because you have no time to play low energy games. Immediately, you show her that you have no time for this shit. The "Goodbye" should be almost instant. You wait for nobody, you are ready to leave at the hundredth of a second.

And you should be ready to do it for real.